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I think fapping is fine, but porn is not. Porn is a drug that poison's your sense of reality in terms of sex, female attractiveness, and the work/reward system your brain uses to make you try to reproduce. I find that without porn I fap solely out of need. It's not excessive or inhibiting in any way.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 11:11 PM
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You make out. You start to feel her up over her clothes. You slip your hand under her clothes. You get more passionate. You finger you. Hell, if you had got her horny enough the cold wouldn't have mattered and you would've fucked.
/r/askTRP11/06/16 10:32 PM
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As long as you fuck her hard fuck her long, you'll have a good sex life. No need to analyze her. Whatever you want in bed, take it. But if you really want to go that route, I'd recommend only discussing sex immediately after it while she's basking in the afterglow and cuddling up next to you.
/r/askTRP28/04/16 08:27 PM
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Hey man, I read your post and honestly the way you described your current lifestyle has been my dream for quite a few years now. I'd be interested in the mentor thing if the spot isn't already taken. I'd still like to pick your brain even if it is. What kind of revenue are you seeing from Wordpress templates? Do they bring in a bit or do you have a few high yield ones and the rest are duds? How much do you expect from Ghost (never heard of it)? Where do you recommend I learn everything I need to…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 06:01 AM
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If a ketogenic diet sounds like what you're after or you just want learn more checkout the keto and ketogains subs.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/16 04:43 PM
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I'm kind of pissed you took the old one down. There was so much good discussion in the comments. I was already pretty familiar with the content in your post, but people went way more in depth in the comments. Talked about things I didn't even know existed. I think I saved five comments from that single post for future reference. Not only that but I usually browse this sub less than once a week. Every one or two months if life is hectic. I usually only look at the top posts when I do. I'm sure th…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/16 06:09 AM
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I'm so glad I took economics 101 in college. Completely unrelated to my major. Had already finished my gen-eds. Didn't need it at all to graduate. But damn I'm so glad I took it. It completely changed the way I think about things in my life and how much value they bring to me. Taking that class was like discovering TRP again. A whole new mindset. Especially the sunk cost idea. Seriously, if you're still in school you need to take an intro to economics course.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 07:58 PM
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I'm just a manager. I just make sure my area runs smoothly and that everyone in my area is working. I've already notified the supervisor that's in charge of scheduling and HR and stuff. She said we'll keep on eye on her. It's a pretty chill job and you're allowed to mess up a few times before things get serious. I was trying to stay positive throughout the shift (smiling when I'm correcting her, having a happy voice, etc) but I get tired and she was getting under my skin. She randomly stopped wh…
/r/askTRP24/11/15 06:27 AM
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I really needed this today. Thanks for sharing.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 03:23 AM
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Yeah. Since she's paying, you really don't have that much to lose.
/r/askTRP29/03/15 05:34 AM
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Haha. I knew my post could be easily misinterpreted. That's why I put in the effort of describing the tone in which I say it. Ah well.
/r/askTRP29/03/15 05:11 AM
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I usually just ignore those. Pretend as if she didn't even say anything. If she does it too often and it annoys me, I'll make it clear she's being annoying. I'll say "shut the fuck up" or something. I say it in an "oh my god, this is exhausting, I don't know how much more of this I can put up with, do you even hear yourself talking right now" kind of tone.
/r/askTRP29/03/15 02:32 AM
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If you need your laptop, go get it, keep the interaction to a minimum, and leave immediately. If you feel like she wronged you, you need to withdraw attention.
/r/askTRP29/03/15 01:32 AM
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I've tried before, nobody is going to give you the concrete answers on game you're looking for, here. Read up on pickup artist stuff. They only focus on game. Knowing TRP will allow you to understand why it works.
/r/askTRP29/03/15 01:16 AM
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My girl initially was planning to hook me up with her roommate. She wanted me and her roommate to bf/gf. Of course she did a terrible job. I had no idea. I interpreted my girl's attention as interest and pursued her instead.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 08:08 PM
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She is. And a virgin. It's a shame because she is way hotter than that. It's kind of funny because if things had gone differently, my girl would be the one currently complaining about me and her roommate being too loud.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 04:37 AM
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Yeah, we've already tried fucking silently. Even with the AC on and the doors closed, you can literally hear a sneeze in the next room. Quiet sex gets stale fast.
/r/askTRP11/03/15 03:36 AM
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I've heard multiple times on TRP that day-game is not worth the effort. That the success rate is too low. But I have no way of knowing if they just didn't put enough work in to get good, or that's really the case. Out of the most recent 100 day approaches, how many of them did you fuck? If day cold approaching wasn't fun, would you still do it to get laid?
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 07:20 PM
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How long do your day-time cold approaches usually last? What are your goals to achieve by the end of the interaction?
/r/askTRP26/01/15 03:03 AM
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Good post. I used to be a competitive gamer. So much time and, more importantly, passion spent on my game of choice. I had been reading on TRP for months that I needed to stop. I just kept hating myself more and more every time I played. I "quit" a few times but it was more of an exercise in discipline rather than a fundamental shift. Now, it's been months since I enjoyed playing a video game. I can feel the manufactured-ness of it all. I can't get immersed like I used to. Since then I've been g…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/14 11:57 PM
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I make it a point to never recommend a book I haven't read at least partially. The Game by Neil Strauss is really more of an autobiographical story than a self-help book or game guide. Read it for fun if you want, but don't read it for self-improvement. If I could, I would tell my past self not to waste my time with this one. Sex God Method teaches you how to think about sex in order to be good at it. I'm not done reading it yet, but so far practical advice has been sparse (like sex positions). …
/r/askTRP26/11/14 04:28 AM
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Damn dude, I don't think I'm dark triad enough for that. Plus I think it's too late. During "the talk" where I had no frame she made me confess I don't like her like that. Then the she shut the door in my face. Literally. An attempt for that and she'll know I'm lying. Plus she really is an extreme butter face.
/r/askTRP23/11/14 04:54 AM
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Thanks for the reply. An issue with cutting contact is that she and I also sit next to each other in two classes. And in one, I'm not just sitting with her, but also another friend of mine. I don't want to get my other friend involved in this shit. And the other class is relatively small. If I don't sit next to her, the whole class would know something is up between us. And I can promise you my frame has always been "in the moment" up until this point. I think she was/is close to getting a boyfr…
/r/askTRP23/11/14 03:54 AM
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Yes, this. I wrote a more detailed reply below but basically I'm living a packed life right now. More investment in women would require sacrifice in my school work.
/r/askTRP23/11/14 03:24 AM
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It's basically because I'm a poor college student living with my parents. And I live an hour from campus. Dating isn't worth the commute time investment or the money for gas. It's only worth making this drive if I'm going to class or going to work. And I work all weekend. I pretty much have no social life because of this. And between school and work, I have almost no free time. When she and I fuck, it usually means I'm not going to get enough sleep that night. But that's a trade off I find worth…
/r/askTRP23/11/14 03:21 AM
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Yes, an alpha does whatever he wants, and in this sense by being aggressive and being outspoken about your discomfort with people breaking your weak frame, you are being "alpha". If people can break your frame so easily though, it's obvious you're a beta chump who is just posturing. I've been taking the nonreactive nonconfrontational style for years Someone who is sure of himself and in a true alpha state of mind not only behaves in a nonreactive and nonconfrontational way, they actually feel it…
/r/askTRP23/11/14 03:09 AM
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Going through old threads. This is by far my favorite story here. Thanks for sharing.
/r/askTRP30/10/14 09:40 PM
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I haven't read them. Coincidentally enough, my father was just telling me the other day about how he used to read a lot of Ray Bradbury when he was my age. Have you read them? Are they worth a read?
/r/TheRedPill06/10/14 03:37 AM
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I've started reading sci-fi again. Checked out a pile of books from my local library. I'm working to becoming an author in my spare time. The market is saturated with betas and I'm hoping I can write some good fiction with an actually believable love story.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 03:42 PM
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I saw that movie when I was pre and post-TRP. Loved it both times.
/r/askTRP02/10/14 12:32 AM
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It's not worth this amount of effort, seriously. If you want results, go hit on girls in real life. It's significantly easier to charm a girl in person.
/r/trpGAME01/10/14 08:04 PM
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I'm guessing this isn't good if I'm interested in building muscle along with losing fat?
/r/TheRedPill10/09/14 05:44 PM
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I've been visiting /r/malefashionadvice long before I found TRP and I always feel the need to defend it. There's a ton of good information on there. There is also a lot of shit. If you only spend a few minutes there, you'll see a bunch of people dressed like fags. As with any "self-help like" sub, you gotta wade through the garbage to find the good stuff. Utilize the search bar. Because of that sub, I dress fucking good.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 12:51 AM
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I think it's absolutely a masculine profession. Being a skilled programmer requires vision and problem solving skills. Both hallmarks of masculinity. Being able to provide for your family is a masculine trait. You might not start any tingles with it, but if you're choosing your career based on what women think, you're doing it wrong.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 12:44 AM
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Anyone have tips for getting this body language without doing it consciously? I don't want to be fucking sitting there, worrying about how other people perceive me, so that I appear alpha.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 11:08 PM
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Lol, I guess you can think of it that way. The fact of the matter is that if he posts that comment as post, instead of just a comment, he'll be banned from the sub for concern trolling.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 05:32 AM
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Maybe your intentions are pure, and I hope they are. But we can't be sure. Got to say, this sort of sex-negative rhetoric is one of the things that it find off-putting in this sub. That, and an assumption that all females are emotional. Leaves sexism and misogyny out of TRP, please. Do you see how similar your comment is to what someone who is trying to water down our message or manipulate what is talked about? This kind of subtle sabotage is why the mods here are so strict. It's called concern …
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 05:31 AM
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Figure out what is noise and filter it out. Controlling what people shouldn't talk about is against the purpose of this sub.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 01:07 AM
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Owen is selling a product though. This is his livelihood. He has good reason to say things like looks don't matter, it's all about game. It'll increase sales. As far as I can tell, redpillschool has no reason to lie.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 01:06 AM
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I stopped coming here regularly months ago because the noise was so bad and I felt I wasn't learning anything new. People said the same thing then. The noise is just as bad now, if not worse.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 04:53 AM
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OP, you spend your time browsing /r/relationships to find TRP juicy posts which you then post to TRP so you can rake in the karma. cancer
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 04:41 AM
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My favorite everyday look is Americana/Dark Americana. The basics are a white t-shirt, dark jeans, and leather workboots. Search around on /r/malefashionadvice for these terms. Like other's have said, there's a lot of noise on that subreddit. Don't let that discourage you though, they know their shit. Search through old threads and read the sidebar. Another good rule of thumb to go by is "if you're grandpa wouldn't have worn it, neither should you".
/r/TheRedPill19/07/14 10:06 PM
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The last three paragraphs of your comment are actually good advice.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/14 09:47 PM
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I've also begun to respect my father a lot more and have stopped talking back to him. TRP has made be appreciate my father so much more.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 03:53 AM
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It's not a matter of being weird. We're to discuss the most effective ways to fuck strangers. Conversations through texting does more harm than good in this regard.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 07:37 PM
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Well said. This is what I come to the comment section for. Specific critiques and advice are much more helpful than vague, "you did it wrong".
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 07:20 PM
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Where did he go wrong? What should he have said instead?
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 07:01 PM
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A winner learns what works and does it. Persuasion has a negative connotation but even the naturals use it, if not consciously. A high-status man still needs game to be successful with women.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/14 01:31 AM
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Did you know that a cat can rotate its ears independently 180 degrees, and can turn in the direction of sound 10 times faster than those of the best watchdog?
/r/TRPOffTopic03/07/14 11:55 PM
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This makes me wonder if they could have been the greatest ______, if they actually enjoyed their lives and didn't drown their sorrows in alcohol and writing. Or if drinking and writing was the only possible path to greatness for them.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 10:47 PM
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With strangers, you just have let it go. But with someone as close to me as my sister, if I know that her life goal is to get married and start a family, being is a slut is the exact opposite behavior compared to her goals. She's destroying her life without realizing it. When it's someone you care about, you want to help.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 10:19 PM
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Some guys want to lay as many girls as possible. Some guys want to settle down and marry a nice girl. This is a stupid argument.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 06:31 PM
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Perhaps your definition of a unicorn women is more strict and thus, no women can possibly live up to it. I can agree with this. Of course there a plenty of women that are marriage material. For me, a unicorn is an ideal, an archetype. A unicorn is one end of the scale you use to measure what kind of relationship you want to have with a girl.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 05:32 PM
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I'd say this belongs here. /r/asktrp is for questions specific to your situation. This is a general, discussion provoking question and therefore is acceptable in this main subreddit.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 05:19 PM
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It's only "creepy" if the girls not into you. If you're going for subtly, bring up the topic of sex in general. Talk about what you find hot in women, stuff like that. Not necessarily sex between you and her.
/r/trpGAME03/05/14 04:38 PM
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I also understood it as him talking about injecting drugs, not being afraid of needles.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 10:25 PM
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It's too long and too detailed. Shorten it to a few sentences. No one, I repeat, no one is going to read that whole thing. It's too logical. Girls respond to emotion. What you really should focus on is your pictures. Your pictures are the most important thing on your profile. Show off your muscles. Show off your women. Show how exciting your life is.
/r/trpGAME26/04/14 05:49 AM
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Are you saying that TRP theory contradicts modern science?
/r/askTRP14/04/14 07:25 PM
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I've experienced this as well. I find STEM girls are more logical and direct in their thoughts and communication.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 09:27 PM
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There's no need to say anything. Just pretend like it never happened. If she brings it up, tell her you were busy.
/r/askTRP05/04/14 11:32 PM
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You're only beta if you're giving up your true wants and desires in an attempt to ingratiate others. Assuming you're not lying to yourself, it sounds like you have what you want. Just remember if the man is happy, the relationship is happy.
/r/askTRP05/04/14 03:16 AM
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TRP is amoral. And it says right in the sidebar "place to help beginners and those with specific questions about game".
/r/askTRP04/04/14 06:40 AM
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You can browse /r/redpillmedia.
/r/askTRP04/04/14 06:35 AM
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It's so obvious you don't know what this subreddit is about.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 06:30 AM
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Another vote for /r/malefashionadvice. Don't just blindly buy the first thing that they recommend you. Find a look that you like and that you think fits your personality. While I can appreciate a look like this. It's just not something I would personally wear.
/r/askTRP02/04/14 06:30 PM
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Please at least try to reply respectfully faggot We're all in different stages of swallowing the pill. Some of us swallowed the pill months ago and have already 180'd our lives into something better. Some of us only found this subreddit a few weeks ago and everything is just now starting to click. Some of us were huge betas before we found this subreddit. And we know the plight of the beta can be a heavy one. When we see a beta dude, we are reminded of our past, of who we once were. It brings up…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 03:59 PM
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Read the sidebar. Most every acronym or special vocab used here can be found on Urban Dictionary. That's what I did when I was new.
/r/askTRP24/03/14 12:55 AM
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Careful there, buddy. Where I'm from, those are fightin' words.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 06:12 AM
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It's not the fact that all the guys are hitting on her that make her attractive. It's the her nice ass and tits that make her attractive. I'm not going to say guys don't preselect at all, but looks are all I need to feel attracted towards a girl.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 06:10 AM
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cool story bro
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 05:59 AM
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The risk is that a girl who isn't interested in you, will not feel the self-doubt that that move relies on. She rejected you. And you tell her to set things up so you can reject her. She already didn't think you were all that special. And this just proves it. It's petty revenge. It's going out of your way in the small hope that you make her feel bad solely for your mild satisfaction. Nothing is accomplished. You're just stroking your damaged ego. You're now the dweeb who thinks he is hot shit be…
/r/askTRP12/03/14 07:27 AM
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Hmm, perhaps. It seems like a high risk, low reward move to me. I don't support it.
/r/askTRP12/03/14 06:39 AM
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Tell her to pick the date... If she does set a date, stand her up and move on to the next. What is the purpose of this? You just seem like a petty chump looking for revenge.
/r/askTRP12/03/14 05:25 AM
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Polyamory differs because it is a more involved relationship. From Wikipedia: People who identify as polyamorous typically reject the view that sexual and relational exclusivity are necessary for deep, committed, long-term loving relationships. Plate spinning is strictly casual sex/dates.
/r/askTRP12/03/14 05:11 AM
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It does to a point. But you can achieve power and status without money. And just because you have more money than someone else doesn't mean you have more power or status than them. Look at musicians; poor as shit but they get laid after every gig.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/14 10:18 PM
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power/status > money, looks
/r/TheRedPill09/03/14 09:16 PM
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its not like some kind of law that if you pay for something that there is some unspoken agreement that she owes you sex You're focusing too much on the money. Vacation is like the most perfect time to have sex. You don't have the stress of your day to day life. It's the time to unwind and have fun ie. have sex. Hell, he could've just went on vacation by himself and picked up chicks. Sex in implied when you go on vacation with your S.O. I just don't understand this subreddit's obsession with sex.…
/r/askTRP09/03/14 08:04 PM
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I too would like this explained.
/r/askTRP09/03/14 07:35 PM
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not being in the mood for sex once is 'unacceptable' This is what I was saying about time frame. Of course once is okay, but your comment is implying he should "just chill" indefinitely, implying he should accept not getting sex from his girlfriend indefinitely. taking life too seriously It's called blue balls. This isn't just a random weekday. He planned and paid for this vacation, with everyone understanding that sex is expected. She knows that sex was/is suppose to happen when she's on vacati…
/r/askTRP09/03/14 07:15 PM
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I downvoted you because while "just chill" is valid advice, you're basically telling him to accept his situation without doing anything about it. It's a lazy answer. You provide no time frame or plan of action. And because of this you're implying that he should accept the unacceptable.
/r/askTRP09/03/14 06:58 PM
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I remember when reddit/internet slang was strongly discouraged on this subreddit. I think the mods even made a post about.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 11:09 PM
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I agree. Being able to birth, breast feed, and generally raise a child should be a point of pride for women. Men's support comes through providing for his family. Women shouldn't need to be reminded and encouraged to do what they innately do better than men, just because men don't do it.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 10:52 PM
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It's not riding the cock carousal that's frowned in and of itself. It's that girls are taught to ride the cock carousal without being taught or made aware of the consequences. No self-respecting, quality man will marry a post-wall gal who spent her youth riding the cock carousal. And I think many men agree that a lower number is more desirable in an LTR. Girls who knew they wanted to get married since they were children are missing their window to find a quality husband.
/r/askTRP04/03/14 08:40 PM
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terrible title
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 05:48 AM
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don't hate the player, hate the game Holy shit. I just finally realized the meaning of that phrase. I'd see it used in comedy shows in reference to actual sports and I never understood it. Wow, I feel dumb.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 12:58 AM
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Maybe I should have used a more precise term than know-it-all, but lets dance. people who actually know their shit usually know that they are barely scratching the surface of their field, and are humble about it Maybe the famous ones are. Neil deGrasse Tyson and Bill Nye have made their careers on being incredibly knowledgeable, well-spoken yet humble. It's their thing. But it's not every experts job to be good at or care about public relations. I bet for every Bill Nye there is a House. An expe…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 12:54 AM
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On a similar note, why do betas hate cocky guys or ripped guys or smart know it alls? for them: better than you + showing it = asshole When you're uncomfortable with someone being better than you, you have two options. Either bring them down or bring yourself up. One is easy and so most people choose it. The other requires pain, commitment, and effort. That is just too much for the average chump to handle.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 09:03 PM
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People have asked this before. And I would like it as well. But, basically if this site exists, there is nothing to stop bluepillers with a passionate hate for TRP from using it to discover your real identity and actively try to mess up your life. You can use the TRP IRC channel to chat with RP dudes. Otherwise you might be stuck with having to find RP men in real life on your own.
/r/askTRP03/03/14 06:25 PM
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RooshV's Day Bang coincides with this. In a day approach he continues to only build comfort until she explicitly rejects him (doesn't just imply it) or she gives a strong IOI. Once she gives that strong IOI, only then does he start closing.
/r/AlreadyRed03/03/14 06:12 PM
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