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What's the British stereotype? I assume you don't have guns.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 09:58 AM
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Open "situations"?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:27 PM
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They do have meaning. You can't argue that introducing other people into your relationship wouldn't weaken it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 01:07 PM
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Plenty of hot girls definitely get drunk to meet guys
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:23 AM
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I have to disagree. The hoeflation on apps is insane, the quality you can get on the apps will almost always be lower than irl. And the app girls will always be thinking of the next potential match, this doesn't happen irl. It's you vs all her previous and potential future matches. Irl it's you and her. Second is the the apps are just pictures and words. To potential dates you're nothing more than a Pokemon card with a certain amount of stars. Irl you're an actual person. Third is dating apps te…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:01 AM
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I'm not anti religion. But it's always something else when people preach about god and good vs evil. While there's videos of hyenas and bears tearing apart prey while it's still alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 04:52 AM
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Lol please embarrass yourself more little one
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 04:50 AM
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Open relationships are basically you being fuck buddies. Not a real relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 04:49 AM
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We ain't there yet, ask again in 2100 when we stop rewarding players for faking injuries and wasting time (Arsenal)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 04:47 AM
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Victim mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 04:46 AM
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This is what a child would say, not an adult
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 08:06 PM
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The us is basically a full blown idiocracy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 07:31 PM
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Red pill does not equal conservatism. You're trying to shoehorn one into the other when it don't work like that. People can be predictable which is what it's about, no different than automatically yanking your hand away when you touch something hot. Most women would choose an attractive man who can satisfy her sexually over a vibrating toy. Just because YOU would choose the toy doesn't mean you speak for all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 12:04 AM
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I drink sometimes but I think my real addiction is rotisserie chicken. The breast is dry sometimes but everything else is super juicy. Been thinking about buying a rotisserie cooker, I could eat this almost every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 02:38 AM
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"There is a reason bi men are viewed as less masculine, while bi women aren't viewed as less feminine though." No fucking shit. A feminine woman who talks to other women isn't the same as a dude who wants to feel feminine with another man. A man who wants to get bent over with another man is no different than a woman. So of course he will be seen as less masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 02:03 PM
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What is "it"?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:43 AM
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The conversation is about knowing the red flags but staying in the relationship. And somehow equating that to paternity or prenups. Abusive, misogynistic, and lazy men are still the man she comes home to after work. It's not a one time thing. These are things that happen constantly and build resentment. But it's still rewarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:41 AM
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What doesn't exist? And you say i'm stamping my feet but your post is literally you stamping your feet
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:36 AM
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The conversation is about red flags which is what I'm talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:35 AM
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What are you even talking about. A person that hits you is a red flag. That's different from getting cheated on or someone stealing your money
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:54 PM
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The criticism comes from the on and off behavior from these relationships. This is the "choose" part when people tell them to "choose better".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:48 PM
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This is such a blue pill child level take. It's not about spotting red flags. It's about being abused and sticking to the person that abuses you. This is nothing like dealing with paternity or prenups.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 11:40 PM
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I know more than you, don't be rude
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:49 AM
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I'm kinda retarded. What's smp
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 02:24 AM
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I'm a grown ass man
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 12:21 AM
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Man i hate to say it but france pre revolution literally is America today. The parallels are insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 11:30 PM
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Never seen someone so excited that their boyfriend got killed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 10:03 PM
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It's crazy what you can get for cheap these days Got a backup $100 phone and it has a headphone jack, expandable storage, glass screen. The back is plastic but it still has good cameras. It's not that far from my s23u, a phone that was near $1k
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:11 AM
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I wanted to start some shit but I assume they realized before i even said anything. I was in the discord for 30s before being removed. I don't even have the same username.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:58 AM
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I joined the ppd discord. Things weren't loading. Then I immediately got removed. 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:55 AM
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Hiit can help. If you're getting fat you're eating too much or not lifting enough
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:47 AM
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You just need to eat more and progressive overload. If you don't have a gym you can do bodyweight stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:11 AM
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Let's not talk about how college can be a scam. Random fees, mandatory textbooks but It's just paper wrapped in plastic so you also gotta get a binder.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:07 AM
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You need muscle especially in the arms
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 12:06 AM
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Military? It won't last
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:21 AM
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Being called a virgin but having sex is better than being a virgin but people think you're having sex. Option b is torture. No one wants a sexless relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:11 AM
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She wants attention
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:55 PM
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Women get a lot of attention on social media and irl. Those are their dating apps. Which means an actual dating app is unnecessary. Like you said, if they do use the apps, it's usually for boredom or attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 11:51 PM
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While this post is extreme, a woman's attire does say a lot. "Feeling confident" or "feeling hot" is simple deflection.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 08:50 AM
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I still don't understand the uproar about hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:11 AM
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It's very crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:01 AM
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Idk why but it feels like I need to go to the gym more
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 09:37 PM
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I notice a lot of female relationships are super intimate but yall stab and attack each other at the slightest inconvenience. Male relationships are super hands off but we just get along so much more. It seems like men are more willing to get along and women are more willing to fight. Like..if I talk to a girl who is part of a girl group, I already know other girls are gonna come forward. But usually guys are hands off with other guys girlfriends. It's like lions. You see successful male coaliti…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 01:32 AM
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Put the drink down
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 11:26 PM
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I think redpill is like your dad talking to you about dating. How successful you are will be based on how smart you are and how you look. And if you understand human psychology. You can have 2 red pill men that are very different
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 04:43 AM
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I've done fast food. Honestly the big thing is being confident. Ppl will lie and say they didn't get their food. You gotta call them out. Most customers will back down if the worker refuses to. They get scared when you step up to them. You simply can't be afraid of anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 10:49 PM
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Common sense isn't common
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 10:21 PM
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Be attractive Don't be unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 09:47 PM
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Dick you look forward to
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 07:04 AM
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For the promiscuous women out there, how common is good dick? Give a percentage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 06:08 AM
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Your whole premise is that the red piller you're talking to can't be an asshole and can't be that guy. I'm telling you I am that guy. I'm the dude you don't bring your girlfriend around. I've now countered your main argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 07:44 PM
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I think the expectation that every red pill is an incel is super strong here. Yet some here are red pill because they had to teach themselves. They had to learn success. That is me. And that is some of my brothers here. I'm an asshole. I'm undatable. And yet I still feel as if i live a life that most men would be jealous of. I've been with married women, women with boyfriends. And I'm still young, I have many more relationships to ruin. Being funny charming and pleasant to be around sounds a lot…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 07:33 PM
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Why wouldn't I
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 09:11 AM
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Yes it is. You're just a picture
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 02:46 AM
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Tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 02:45 AM
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He survived after the scene and still wants answers to his questions
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 10:20 PM
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Never heard of her
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 09:16 PM
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So did I. Bf6 is almost it but it ain't it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 09:15 PM
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What shit? What was your first battlefield game
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:54 PM
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I always felt like my ideal relationship was me and two women. They're dating each other but also have a boyfriend. Has anyone tried a 3 way relationship? I'm sure the amount of maintenance and bullshit stomping is pretty high.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:39 PM
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It's often less about how you look and more about mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:18 PM
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Imagine playing bf6 and being happy. You never played bfbc2 bf3 or bf4 and it shows.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 08:17 PM
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You actively dating is different from "settling down"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 03:05 AM
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If I see a woman or man on here talking about dating dynamics, but not single, i'm gonna automatically assume they aren't satisfied with their partner. Yes I know ppl get bored but there's always a reason. So it's amusing when the counter argument is that they're in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 09:22 PM
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Can't help but feel like talking with women here is them complaining about men, then saying they are happily married. Their man is the ONE© who isn't like other men. It feels cheap in a way. You're talking to people who wake up eager to argue. About the other gender. Then they say they have the perfect opposite gender partner who is exempt. So what are you even complaining about. You're just bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 08:43 PM
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If the unattractive women are with the unattractive men, then who's settling?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:48 AM
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Your standards. Less attractive people get in relationships. And it's also about if you're actually unattractive or is just your behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:31 AM
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Red or blue pill. Biggest issue is men thinking women want in a man what he wants in a woman. Chasing gains. And women chasing money and status for the guy she wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 07:41 AM
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Relationship? It'll be difficult but possible. Sex? You'll get suitors. What do you actually want and how would you want the guy to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 07:37 AM
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Never heard of him
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 06:01 AM
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They believe the defense makes them look better and they will get laid. They don't realize the women see him as one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:44 PM
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You're right
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:43 PM
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I notice that we men tend to be hard on each other. Calling each other a bitch or virgin. You're lame or broke. I see it as keeping each other honest. Yet with women, i always hear about how their friends are perfect and they deserve the best. Every man isn't good enough and is afraid to meet her standards. If you think about child raising, this matters a lot. Dad will be hard on you and not show too much emotion. Mom will blow smoke up your ass to make you feel good. The ideal is somewhere in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:18 PM
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I honestly agree that younger women are easier and have less experience. But this is only part of the problem. They simply are more attractive and have less baggage. Older women assume being like the man they desire will yield results. Something something good job and nice car. Even though they're less attractive than before while having higher standards. The fem narrative is right but it's also wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 07:45 PM
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I always wonder about dating life in countries like Korea Japan and China. It can't be good. They're living in 2056 so a good way to see the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 10:13 PM
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Not even formula 1?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 10:09 PM
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The hoeflation on online dating doesn't even compare in the real world. This woman using that metric is stroking her ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:50 PM
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You're a woman. I'm a man. There's a difference. You don't want kids so you say no. Most men just want to donate sperm anyways. But it's different when the woman wants kids, rubbing her belly and other silly shit. Women wanting babies is different than men wanting babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 02:32 PM
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People are surprised by a lot. We stereotype very often if you think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 02:24 PM
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Most women i talk to are college aged
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 02:21 PM
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Red pill or blue pill it's always nice talking to you ppl. It's like talking to strangers. They have a specific idea and are surprised when you're friendly. People are really easy to talk to if you think about it. They just have their stereotypes. If you know anything about human psychology you know what I'm talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:36 PM
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Talented people listen to themselves all the time. Listen more.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:31 PM
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This is random but you really got me thinking that this pill stuff is based on location. I've never lived in a place where the majority of women had a similar mindset. 🤔🤔🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:24 PM
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I actually do think your first paragraph is correct. I've only been in southern states. I'm not trying to knock anyone up so I need the link of the group your gals r n.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 01:02 PM
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I'm 30 but live in a college town. Most women range from 19- about 28
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 12:25 PM
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I've literally never met a childfree woman. I've talked to many of women platonically and otherwise. I've met 0. I could add that I live in Florida.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 11:55 AM
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Honestly. Dudes talk about wanting sex. But it's never the other side. No one talks about pregnancy or std scares. I understand the baseline of being wanted. But your solutions create new problems. I don't want kids. No woman I've talked to has felt the same. And I'm already aware I can't afford a child. Now imagine your sex life is women convincing you to change your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 10:50 AM
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Your first paragraph said red pill was bullshit but said you're naturally submissive. Well me being alive is bullshit but there's blood pumping and my heart is beating.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 02:40 PM
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Ask yourself and other women. A baseline of respect is required of course. But when so many people call them special and sexy, you not saying so is a different thing. I mean have you ever been rude to a woman and she left you? Odds are she didn't. Ever cheated and she left you? Odds are she didn't. It doesn't make sense but dating doesn't make sense. And you claim to be red pill so I figured you'd understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 02:24 PM
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I mean you prove my point. You're gonna get better results putting in the least effort. If you're spending money she's a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 02:20 PM
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I meant to say that issue isn't men not liking women. Now you understand
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 02:19 PM
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Issue isn't liking women. It's having an expectation of planning and spending money. While she sits and does nothing. It's not about not liking women. Men like women more than vice versa. But men get rewarded and punished for the things they do. Acting like she's nothing to you is what gets the biggest rewards. Men liking women is actually the biggest issue because that's why we have simps, betas, and manipulative women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 01:30 PM
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I disagree. Most men want an attractive partner that isn't promiscuous. I literally just posted about my boss giving me hints. No fear here. As I said before you operate assuming the world works the way you want it to. I won't respond because clearly what I'm saying is flying over your head. Feminine men exist but that doesn't mean that all men are feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 08:51 AM
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I'm not afraid of successful women. I just see it as odd that you're arguing that women preferring higher earning men as false. And you say you liking higher women specifically somehow refutes that statement. I don't even know how to respond. You're looking to debate but not actually have a conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 08:05 AM
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I feel like I'm typing out the rules of hypergamy and you assume "I like my women taller and stronger. Richer. So checkmate." You liking higher earning women does not make me wrong. I still don't understand your argument. Feminine men existing doesn't mean that all women are masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 07:51 AM
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I don't know how to respond because you're trying to argue while agreeing with what I say. Women prefer a higher earning men. They want a higher earning partner. The higher earning partner is always in a worse situation. This isn't gender insecurities. It's like saying I'm insecure for saying women want a taller and stronger partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 07:35 AM
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I think dismissing women going for resources in 2026 is a bad look. Sure not all women or even a majority of women. But you can't argue with the fact that Women prefer higher earning men Marriage without prenup means free money for the poorer partner (her) This stuff is common today. It's not 1950s stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 06:12 AM
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Women like being chased. Not approaching makes sense especially because they don't have to. I think you fail to realize that so many women want a very popular guy. And if she can't have him she's fine being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 06:07 AM
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Maybe go for older women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 09:34 AM
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Your best bet is someone who's second generation or something. You need good looks, enough for her to date another race. And probably be somewhere where girls like this are more common.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 09:33 AM
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This me fr
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 09:31 AM
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It's something I always thought about. I was always happy to give away advice. Now my mindset is "you didn't figure it out so more for me".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:20 AM
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It's actually crazy when you see so many dudes make mistakes and act needy. Truly knowing what women want is so rare it's sad. You'd be surprised to know just how many guys don't even respect themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:05 AM
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Women will always have more options. They will always have high standards. It's very easy for a girl to meet YOUR standards. But it's more difficult for you to meet hers. Sucessful dating is about not doing what all the other dudes do. You should carry the mindset that any woman you talk to can be replaced. Trust me, the things you complain about what women do will get you very far when you adopt the same mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:27 AM
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If you got 2 women in higher positions at work, and they both really like you but hate each other, would you take the risk messing around with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 07:49 AM
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It's crazy that you're constantly being preached about equality and 50/50 but most women just want you to figure out and do everything. It's more like parenting than being a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 07:46 AM
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Being an asshole is attractive. Antisocial is not. You can't stick the two together and say it's unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 11:23 AM
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The worse you treat a woman the more she likes you. To an extent. Being a criminal is more attractive than being nice or caring. Personality does matter. You just have to be a dick or asshole. And don't get me started on cheating, nothing makes a woman like you more than you being with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:52 AM
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I hate that you joke but you're right. A cruel world we live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:26 AM
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Yes it actually is because vagina is valued more. In addition to women being more likely to be part of a group. Looks matter more than anything else. You can be autistic and get laid. Ghosting and flaking is the norm these days unfortunately. You're gonna do better ghosting a chick because at least she'll respect you. And the guy that does this has standards or options, both are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:55 AM
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It's probably an ego thing. Also being unattractive before then being attractive later helps you empathize (is that a word). If I have a woman friend, she literally has to be unattractive in all aspects. You literally have to "friend zone" her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 02:08 AM
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It's less like that. It's more about someone being unattractive and you learn about them. Then you find them more attractive. Even if you don't want to wife them. I only believe friendships with women i wouldn't want would be successful. But she would really need to have nothing going for her. It's mindset and experience. I know i wouldn't want my girl to be friends with a guy like me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 01:54 AM
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You're not even the guy that had the original comment. He has female friends. I'm saying there's guys who friend women and want something more. But a strictly platonic relationship... that's just hard for me to imagine. I've had female friends and there's always that tension that comes with it. It's not truly platonic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 01:19 AM
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I've always had female friends that either really wanted me or really didn't. It's difficult to have a platonic relationship with women unless you don't find them attractive and are friendzoning them. Anything else is cope that you want to sleep with them but youre so afraid of looking bad that you're friendly. While being afraid of asking for sex so you act friendly. You're also throwing out free attention when she feels bad about herself. While complaining to you about the man she's having sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 01:09 AM
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No one said anything about porn. You really gotta talk to people and observe them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 08:56 PM
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Do you want to befriend these women or do you want something more. Be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 08:51 PM
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Im not talking about my preferences. I'm talking about what i observe with strangers and men i used to know. And the men i work with. As well as what is said online. Some men are delusional and think they need a 10 before they lose their virginity. But many of them desperately just want anything. I mean, female incels cant really exist on reddit without having their dms blowing up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 08:49 PM
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Looks are nice but the real stuff is understanding social dynamics and body language if you really want to rack up women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 08:46 PM
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She can uber
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 08:39 PM
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Straight women are very rare
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 08:33 PM
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This whole thing assumes that men have standards when so many do not. Attracting women as a man is so hard, and so many women have rosters. You're judged on many things. Look around. A lot of men don't have ANY of these things. These men are actually MORE common than you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 08:21 PM
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You having female friends is not good. Honestly you sound like me in school. You have the look but she gags at everything else. It's almost certainly based on your behavior. Needy, desperate, overly nice are not attractive qualities
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 08:16 PM
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I'm a man and I've been approached so ik you have. I'm going to assume the guys who do come are much less attractive than the ideal
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 07:58 PM
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Go out in public and you will see dudes look at you, act nervous. How they talk to you. You sound like someone who's either quite young or you live in a small town.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 07:42 PM
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I'm not smart enough to know what you're asking exactly. You get a lot of attention, you just don't find any of the men that want you attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 07:36 PM
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You're a woman, u almost certainly get a lot of attention regardless of your looks
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 07:24 PM
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I definitely know what I'm talking about. Coming here to police grammar on a looks thread about me talking about looks ain't making sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 06:40 PM
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"Rags to riches when it comes to looks" You're nitpicking about it not being specifically about money. How i say it doesn't make it any more or less wrong, the statement on its own makes sense. You're pretty much doing grammar correction.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 06:22 PM
3

When it comes to looks
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 02:50 PM
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Looks matter in everything. Anyone with a rags to riches story when it comes to looks will tell you. People want to be your friend, they're intimidated by you, everyone is insanely nice. Even if those same people didn't act that way before.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 10:52 AM
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It's all of the above. Of course you'd want your woman to be attractive in addition to those other things
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:39 AM
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You can want sex and want a relationship that you take seriously. You can't generalize based on what you read here. Some men just want sex but not all
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 07:57 AM
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They have be attractive. Going out with the female friend can work if it's not an obvious mismatch. Biggest thing is location tho
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 06:33 PM
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You were "chosen" so you clearly have something to offer. This is their mindset
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 06:32 PM
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when you're with a woman, it's more common and more overt. That "plausible deniablility" from before in other women when you were single is more of a yes now. No they're not dying to get with you. But they're smiling, holding doors for you, waving at you You probably think I'm delusional and that's fine
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 06:31 PM
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Are your friends attractive? Have YOU specifically been out with a woman in an area with other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 06:04 PM
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Go in public with any girl and see how women react. This is common
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 05:58 PM
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Especially when you get a girl and every woman in the world is looking at you. But different energy when youre single. Cats basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 05:38 PM
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I did singles event once. Never again. It's pretty much tinder irl where average girls give no attention. Until 1 girl likes you then they all want your number. Women get unlimited attention, nearly all who attend are already lost causes. Looking to compete with the women who aren't, just to say they've "won". I've met very few women there who were "normal", most were average to quite attractive with very poor social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:13 AM
1

Preselection
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 02:07 PM
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To you. It's not emasculating to you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:22 PM
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I don't get your point
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:55 PM
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I do like women, especially ones that are intelligent and realistic. If you are feeling some type of way, maybe you feel like you don't fit that category, then I'm sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:22 PM
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You don't see it as emasculating because you're not a dude. You're pretty much asking about why men don't think like women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 02:15 PM
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The preselection thing you women have where they find a guy more attractive when he's with another girl, men don't have that. We're built different. Watching your woman get pounded by another dude is not masculine. Cuck is a word to describe a man, you're a woman who will never be insulted in that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 01:58 PM
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They're good enough to fuck but not good enough to date. Why is that so challenging to understand? I can find a girl disgusting and be fine with only having to put my dick in her when I get horny. But I wouldn't have a relationship or invest time in her
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 09:10 PM
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Yes and no. The women who say this mever happens are wrong. The ugliest one in the group is usually the one who tries to prevent a girl going home. But it's not always her and not always jealousy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:50 PM
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I'm red pill and not conservative. A lot of that comes from men who are angry that getting laid takes work. You see many incels that prefer if women didn't have rights because no sex. My bitches are my bitches but that doesn't mean I don't support women's rights.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 10:12 AM
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Pretty decent strategy. I live in the middle of 3 colleges, like 95% of the people are college kids, so I don't need to go to campus for dates, those same people are walking around Publix or at the bar. Idk how it is in a non college town, but close proximity to a university means you'll see those same people off campus instead of needing to go on campus. I don't really go out and game, I meet through tinder, pool parties, or at the bar/nightclub.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 05:57 PM
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You have several better options. Go to activities that the university hosts (that is not students only). Go to a restaurant on campus to meet people. Go to one of several bars and nightclubs that are surely by college campuses. It feels weird if you're camping by a classroom building trying to get numbers. If they ask what you're doing, what do you say?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 05:49 PM
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I understand your argument but I also understand women in this scenario. If all children got tested at birth then it'd be a non issue. But since a paternity test is seen as a "I distrust you" test, people will always be offended over them. Not only that but all women know their children are theirs because they had them. So the idea of not knowing for sure doesn't exist with them like it does with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 02:04 PM
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Both can be true, there are over 7 billion people in the world. I can say I'd only get with women who are specifically 5 feet and a half inch. That's still countless, potentially millions of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 11:46 AM
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Losing hope is not a "wall" compared to gaining weight and searching for a stepdad for some other guy's kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 11:42 AM
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While the surplus of fat men doesn't help, on the other side of the coin, you have fat women in addition to countless single moms with multiple kids that "come first". Just being in shape doesn't make success as a man because you're also judged on charisma, ability to lead, emotional intelligence. And unfortunately location, race, height, language, tattoos, and even your accent all play roles besides just body fat. Dude, success with women is luck and how confident you seem. You can be the hotte…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:57 AM
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Don't be fooled. Standard women don't have insane standards and like the men that have an impact on them. They don't care if you're under 6ft. This is more true for non western women. Women here are a loud minority. They will scream that you're undesirable if you're under 6ft while also saying that women are the good gender and men are shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 01:53 AM
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Stop watching porn doesn't change random insecurities women have.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:21 AM
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This doesn't even talk about porn addictions, this talks about women "not feeling sexy".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:17 AM
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A slut in love is temporary af. The most promiscuous women I've seen went out of their way to brag about their man. Yet they still had tinder profiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:06 PM
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Women sleeping around is like taking a deep breath. You decide to do it and then it happens. No effort involved. Women in this sub are more focused on appearing as good people. You will never hear the truth. You will be told that women have it harder in dating while also being told that their boyfriend/husband is the world's most attractive man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:04 PM
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This is a valid reason to not be comfortable with sex. But most women don't fall under this
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 12:35 PM
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Issue is many attractive women feel this way and outright ignore any guy that does like her. Yall get insecure over porn and reject a guy that likes you that doesn't watch porn. And even if he does, it doesn't matter if he likes you more. Yall get too much into your heads over the smallest shit then shoot down any guy due to your own insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 12:28 PM
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It makes sense to ask her if she already likes you. She'll let you know. Asking a girl about another girl isn't the best though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:48 AM
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Cuz you either can choose a woman who's single or a woman with a baby daddy and a kid she expects you to shell out money for. Unless you have kids yourself, getting with the latter comes across as you being unable to obtain the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 01:26 AM
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Men don't say we want women with 0 history. We say we don't date sluts, then you respond with "oh so you only like virgins".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 10:50 AM
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Online dating is mostly male but women still date up. Even with 100 men and 10 women, less than 5 of those men are getting matches
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 02:11 PM
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Older women will talk about how they're happier while single then get angry when men their age pull a younger, more attractive woman. Then they resort to shaming to make themselves feel better. Men should date the women that like them and ignore the jaded shit flingers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:03 PM
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I would agree but we are told repeatedly that women (by women) are happiest when single. And it's not just in this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 01:46 PM
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The bar to being a good boyfriend is pretty low. The bar to her actually being interested is pretty high. She may like you but low attention spans are more prevalent now. Babies come out of the womb with a smartphone in their hand. The bar is high and if you succeed it gets lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 12:55 PM
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And yet still not single
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:27 PM
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I can't tell if this is a troll. Some of the least attractive women were still popping in and out of relationships. Getting married. And having kids. I've never known a girl that wanted relationships that never got one. These women are all noticed and liked by at least someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:38 AM
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I'm not begging for women to change I'm just being honest
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 10:13 PM
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Women's thought processes are largely based on feelings and emotions instead of logic. And even that changes based on the time of month.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:26 PM
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Women also say preselection is a myth but practice it irl. Difference between hoping people view you in a positive manner vs admitting your faults.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:24 PM
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Women would prefer a top man to herself but she would also prefer sharing him over having an average man to herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 09:53 AM
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Preselection
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 07:55 PM
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All women love attention. Women who say they enjoy no longer getting attention are those that no longer get attention and convince themselves that it's for the best. You don't see younger women making these statements. Male attention is only bad if it's from someone you don't find attractive or if you no longer get it like you used to.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:39 PM
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"I personally don't apply therefore I speak for humanity as a whole"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 04:27 PM
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Multiple reasons. Different libidos One partner (usually the female) has slept around a lot and misses the variety Porn addiction Someone let go of themselves and they're less attractive. Many times after having a baby Boring sex Man grabs at woman when he's horny without buildup. She feels like an object and turned off Lack of communication Someone is cheating and passing it as lack of desire Someone is using sex toys and prefers it over sex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:05 PM
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Agree. Women go about their day and meeting guys just happens. They don't need to actively try to find someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:00 PM
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Women are more intimate together than men. Yall literally sleep together and have dinners together. Doing that with another guy is sus at best and many women don't like men who do stuff like that with other men. Women are more of a herd mentality and do things that they classify as platonic that isn't the same the other way around. "Cuddling with my bestie" is never something a straight man would do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 04:56 PM
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Couple hundred to get used for free food and ghosted?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:29 AM
1

Yes especially woman. I know some men that gtow but women are far more likely to write off relationships. They get their needs from their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:50 AM
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It does work. You are complaining that below average skinny chicks are out of luck. But you are simply saying these girls suffer because they can't compete with the most attractive men. They are still getting plenty of attention from somewhat attractive and average men. The only girls that were skinny that struggle are shutins that don't talk to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 08:25 AM
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You're using extremes to describe trp. Money and looking good absolutely helps. These girls will want to date you and fuck you. Just because it doesn't work on every single individual woman doesn't mean it never works. Trp may not work for everyone. But if you're a dude who was raised by a single mom and her mother, you've probably only ever been raised and taught from a female perspective. Mom probably doesn't know that you need charisma or to lift weights. But dad does. The anger phase literal…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 12:37 PM
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Your best answer yet, you deserve a handshake
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 05:47 PM
4

No, just tell me what kind of man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:14 PM
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You can get those while having a fuckboi reputation
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 04:12 PM
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Is it really. More people are child free now than ever before. Not everyone has baby rabies and as time passes even less people will.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:42 PM
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Because keeping a kid a guy skeeted inside of you is often based on how attractive you find the dude, not how good of a father he'll be. First thing is most women won't get an abortion. Second is many people have a fairytale idea of how life should be. Giving birth is just the next step to living happily ever after. Get with a chick that really likes you and wants you to finish inside her. Odds are she'll get pregnant and not care if you want to be a deadbeat. Happens more than you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:30 PM
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Men are thought highly for sleeping around because preselection. If you don't like it you should talk to all the women who like guys more after they're with another woman. Women like guys that other women like. Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:23 PM
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Who are these men that are afraid of being called a fuckboy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:18 PM
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Sleeping around is nothing special but women will still like you for it. Preselection is very real
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:16 PM
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There's more to life than knocking someone up. You talk as if it's the greatest thing ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 01:13 PM
1

You're responding so you definitely are. You're simply exaggerating for cool points.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 05:20 PM
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Well I appreciate, you're welcome. If it's so impossible you're doing quite well and you're still alive. Research the definition of "impossible".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 07:26 PM
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Everyone has problems, they just exaggerate them. "It's impossible to be a woman" is a heavy exaggeration.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 05:22 PM
1

5 matches with 0 good conversations is easier than 500 (self inflicted) matches with 50 good conversations? With so many good conversations, your standards will rise and you will quickly shear off any of those guys that make a misunderstood joke or text slightly too late or early.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 08:23 AM
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Barely getting matches doesn't mean it's easier to have solid conversations. You are most likely getting no solid congratulations.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 05:06 AM
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They are on top of the dating pyramid The most attractive men are at the top. Hypergamy means the hottest women sees most men as beneath her. Hard to do well when everyone disappoints you. Men can date down and especially fuck down. While all those women are looking up hoping to be with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 12:24 PM
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Disparity happens because sounding morally right is more important online than brutal honesty. Go to a meet up with drunk girls and talk about dating/sex. They will tell you things sober women will never mention. Assuming all the female commenters on that post were drunk, you'd have very different responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 12:17 PM
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Men don't even see really average or ugly women; we're invisible. Wrong, only women who want a man but can't have one are usually morbidly obese or tall women who want a taller man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 12:02 PM
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Not all hot women are bad, just most of them. Only non damaged hot chicks I've known got into ltrs pretty early. Your jort wearing college slut is not going to be happy if she's not in the streets.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 12:00 PM
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Thinking fondly of your past hookups is exactly why men look down on promiscuous women. Id rather not chill in the house with my wife while she's fantasizing about other guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 11:54 AM
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Women folk care about dick size, maybe not as much as some guys say but you're very wrong when you say they don't care at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 11:03 AM
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And women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:08 PM
2

She wrote him off long before he called her a mudblood
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:54 PM
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Issue is women simply say they want nice. They don't want to talk about him being well endowed or having muscles because it looks shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:54 PM
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She had no desire for him, she instead preferred the guy that showed the school his underwear.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:52 PM
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I disagree that she made the whole series to pander. If this was true, the mess majority of Harry Potter fans would be male.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:48 PM
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Just because not all people who were bullied don't do bad things doesn't mean the ones that do were destined to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:44 PM
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then wouldn’t it perhaps be in his best interest to try to be one? I think that it’s mostly the confidence of bad boys and their sense of adventure that attracts women. If you can be a bad guy and have women like your confidence, then would it really be in your best interest to be good? Being bad is not a deterrent to women, if anything, being the guy in school who got arrested will have more attention than the good guy with As that happens to be confident. Because the guy in jail stands out mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:39 PM
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They were still friends before and nothing more
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:34 PM
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If you were a guy would you want to be "friends at least" with some girl or be the person she wants to marry?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:33 PM
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Yeppers? And I'm not denying it, we all know that Rowling is retarded. But it doesn't mean she wrote those insanely popular books just to appeal to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:31 PM
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Big difference is men are shamed for dating sex workers, they see him as settling for a girl that everyone else has seen naked. You obviously don't want people thinking your woman is a piece of meat. Women are not shamed for dating bad boys or criminals. People are either in different or encourage it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:29 PM
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I said women prefer bad boys, I didn't say it was a requirement.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:26 PM
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Phineas Black
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:23 PM
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That doesn't answer my question
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:20 PM
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What's wrong with that? Snape was friendship material, he did nothing for her. James got her excited, she knew she wanted more.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:17 PM
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So this is your argument? That I'm wrong, and Rowling is just a misogynistic female trying to pander to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:11 PM
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If 90% percent of people are bad then why are we having this conversation? The bad boy is 90% of the guys you went to school with. If you got bullied, congratulations, you're in the other 10%.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:10 PM
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So him being the bad guy was almost a guarantee. It wasn't a guarantee, this is just Rowling grouping all of the bad people in one house. Doesn't mean all Slytherins were bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:07 PM
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most people who were bullied and rejected by their childhood crush don't become Nazis Many school shooters are incels who weren't exactly popular in school. You can argue that they were destined to kill people for being weird but I can just as well say that the way people treated them is why they act that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:05 PM
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When a sexually attractive woman behaves badly and men still choose her as a partner, the tendency is to excuse their choice by saying that they "think with their penis". They're fucking her and even dating her for consistent sex but they aren't taking her seriously. But what excuse did his male friends have for choosing him as their friend and overlooking his bad behavior even though they weren't sexually attracted to him? You're trying to argue that a man being friends with someone is the equi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:01 PM
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Snape was the bad guy as an adult because of his disgust in him teaching the child of his bully and the woman he wanted. While said child has the same eyes of that woman. He didn't like Harry and treated him badly but he still protected him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:57 PM
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You mean the guy she rejected for being a bully then decided it wasn't actually something she had an issue with?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:54 PM
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So? Why is that more compelling than what non-fictional characters are doing? The same thing is happening live right now No, I'm talking about him putting a hit on the family because he was jealous. By telling a prophecy? His friendship with Lilly broke Snape was nothing more than a friend to her, definitely not a romantic option. She didn't even become friends with Potter, she skipped straight to the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:53 PM
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He was friends with the boys, it's not like they wanted to fuck him. You can befriend someone that wouldn't be your type in a relationship. The women like Lily wanted more than friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:41 PM
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James embarrassed Snape in front of the school, he wasn't some misunderstood guy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:39 PM
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Except Lilly is a fictional character Written by a woman LOL after he tried to get them all killed. Are you talking about him knowing the prophecy and begging for Lily to be spared? Even though Voldemort would have discovered it anyways? There's no correct option for women. The issue is women are too focused on virtue signaling and trying to look good instead of being honest. A guy will tell you he wants his woman to look good. A woman will tell you she wants her guy to be "nice".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:34 PM
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Or perhaps men have the right to prefer the attractive, successful, socially capable over the socially problematic nerd, but women have the duty to play moral arbiter even at the cost of damaging their own social status and putting themselves at risk of bullying by associating with the weak and bullied, incompetent defend yourself What? Men and women prefer different things in partners. The loud bad girl will get countless sex but men aren't going to want to keep her. The loud bad guy gets count…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 04:23 PM
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The reason dating apps seem so brutal is because of the volume, in reality women have the same standards as they do on dating apps, No. Women have higher standards on dating apps. The quality of women you can pull online will never match the quality of women interested in you irl
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 09:15 PM
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There's no right answer. If she likes you and she's in the mood, your public approach is something she loves. She's having a bad day? You may be cute to her but she's still annoyed. Women usually befriend men they aren't attracted to but want attention from. You're not an option to her. So when you catch feelings it's disgusting. No right answer because it depends on the man and the circumstances. They just usually complain about the negatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 11:49 PM
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Skilled enough has nothing to do with sexual prowess. Perhaps I worded it wrong, I should have said "skilled enough to attract many women".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 02:46 PM
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I didn't
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 02:44 PM
1

No one said anything about virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 02:42 PM
2

No one is talking about virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 02:40 PM
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I find it strange that talking about promiscuous women automatically results in people saying "oh so you want a virgin". A lot of guys just know how to click with women and it's never been a problem for them You don't click with every woman. No guy is attractive to every single woman, sometimes you're just not her cup of tea. Talking to women is a numbers game, you may only get with 10% of women but if you ask out 100 women, that's still ten women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 02:37 PM
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It's much easier because women can literally become famous for being attractive. That woman coming up to you is not a common occurrence. I personally know a girl that gets stared at every time she leaves the house. Even the most promiscuous guys don't get that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 01:19 PM
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My fuck buddy standards and relationship standards are not the same. Women usually fuck guys they'd be willing to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 01:14 PM
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I don't see how this is relevant. Women pretty much do well in everything from sex to relationships. I can not like that my girlfriend sleeps around. But if she's hot and the only girl that showed me attention in a few years, that doesn't change how I feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:54 PM
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You said women would be interested bc they want to be satisfied too Tell me where I said this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:51 PM
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I had sex with her because I'm attractive, charming, and met her at the right time. She had sex with me because of that, while having countless other guys asking for the opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:48 PM
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It has nothing to do with his sexual prowess. It just means that plenty of other women found him attractive, so there must be something special about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:46 PM
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Yet these women still date him
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:45 PM
2

I've never seen or heard of this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:44 PM
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Effort is related to preselection. It's why I mentioned it. No one tries to upset a man by calling him a whore and no one tries to upset a woman by calling her a virgin. But the opposite is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:43 PM
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Being a cheater and having lots of sex is not the same. Men don't like women who sleep around and are more likely to assume she won't be faithful. Women are vice versa. She could assume he'd cheat but she sees a man that's sought after by other women. She can "see the good in him" and assume he won't cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:41 PM
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A woman sleeping around and how much she's satisfied about it doesn't matter. I know a chick I work with. Her roommate told me that she'd bring a guy over. Have sex with him. Kick him out. 30 minutes later another guy comes over. This would happen many times, she'd have sex with up to five men in a night. She could have had disappointing sex with all 5 men but that doesn't matter. The girl that got gangbanged by 4 guys may describe the sexual experience as "meh" but she still got gangbanged by 4…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:39 PM
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Genetics helps a lot. But it's still very important. You can argue that genetically gifted men have it easy but it won't be as easy as your average woman, gifted or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:35 PM
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I never said that and have no idea why you assume that's the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:33 PM
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Promiscuous women are screwing men that are there at the right time and right place. They aren't screwing only hot men. The guy that's "kinda cute" to her can still have his turn in the right circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:32 PM
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Because she knows I'm attractive to other women and that makes me more attractive in her eyes. Women will forgive a promiscuous man and assume he will stand by her. Men look at promiscuity and automatically assume infidelity.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:24 PM
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Satisfied how? Sexually? In a relationshipally?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:22 PM
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If this was true, high n men would be making reddit posts about them being judged on their sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:21 PM
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This is irrelevant to our discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:19 PM
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Women love drama
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:13 PM
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I assume this is you giving up because you have no counter to my argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 06:12 PM
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You can't argue that I'm wrong because of the people "you know"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:34 PM
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For sex, not for relationships. You're also incorrect with assuming that any girl that's not a virgin is promiscuous. It's a spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:32 PM
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For him, that is just existing. No. This requires practice, flunking at a young age, learning what works or not and using that to be successful later. Charming men don't come out of the womb surrounded by pussy, they have to learn that stuff. Your idea of a woman talking about some guy she had sex with or her college gangbang being nothing more than a "funny story" to you says a lot. I've met very few men where a story of guys she slept with is a "funny story".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:31 PM
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I also just don’t think it matters that much. My post said it doesn't matter much to women and they don't understand why men don't feel the same way
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:27 PM
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I said that women don't like it but it's a minor dislike
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:25 PM
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If this was true, only inexperienced men would call women whores to piss them off. And women calling men virgins to piss them off wouldn't be a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:24 PM
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There's no shaming in my post. You literally confirmed it. I don't want to date women who sleep around a lot and they probably don't want to date me With this statement. sleeping around as a man is comparable to women sleeping around. This is untrue
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:22 PM
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You settling for promiscuous men doesn't disprove my argument, people get what they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:20 PM
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You'd be willing to date the promiscuous man if he promises a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:17 PM
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Effort is relevant because it will more easily happen if it takes none. Especially if it's bad. It's more effort being a promiscuous man. Not only that but preselection comes with this. No preselection on the man's side coupled with women not requiring effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:15 PM
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Murder is a crime
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:09 PM
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, it's to stay away from promiscuous men Plenty of high standards women are happy to get with the promiscuous man for the long term
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:07 PM
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You're mistaking men having sex with promiscuous women and men marrying these women. Tell any guy some pornstar wants to be fwb and he'll gladly accept. Say she wants to marry him and it's different
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:05 PM
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Being skilled at sex as a woman is optional, not necessary. A lot of it involves laying on your back with your legs open or bending over. The virgin does it the same way as the skilled pornstar.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:02 PM
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I thought promiscuous women are only screwing really hot men Tell me where I said that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:00 PM
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Women have a disgust but it's not the same. They are happy to forgive it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:59 PM
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I'm talking about dating in general and you're talking about sex with your husband. I have no idea why a married chick has so much to say about the lives of single people
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:58 PM
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You're delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:57 PM
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A different version of what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:56 PM
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Generally speaking, for the kind of man who successfully sleeps around a lot, it's often also easy He still needs to be skilled, charming, and attractive. The woman just exists. As a promiscuous man, I don't care at all about a woman's promiscuity When it comes to sex, of course not. Some promiscuous women are good in bed. But I would never date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:39 PM
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I disagree. I'm a man who prides myself in being very good in bed and I still have no desire to date a promiscuous girl. Sex with her? Sure. But not relationship. It's not a fear of inadequacy. Her sex life says a lot about her standards and if she's willing to have sex with so many people, why would she randomly switch that off when she's in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:29 PM
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This doesn't make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:25 PM
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I'm not justifying male promiscuity, I'm just saying it's not the deal breaker that it would be for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:22 PM
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Being a virgin and being not promiscuous is not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:06 PM
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But that's the issue. A promiscuous man is skilled enough to satisfy many women. So it's easily forgivable because why wouldn't she want to be satisfied as well? It's like the hot chick with a mole on her face. It's forgivable but not ideal. You'll still date her. That's the long version of what you said. Women don't care about n count because preselection, they assume men should feel the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 03:03 PM
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I’d argue that it takes women a lot more effort to have satisfying sex than it does a man. Finding good sex is not the same as high n or not understanding the consequences of it. A man and woman both with 50 partners will both be seen as promiscuous regardless of how good the sex was.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 02:58 PM
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Honestly? 0. It's either been neutral (she likes me the same) or negative (she likes me less). Never been positive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 03:59 PM
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I'd say women measure men on many things so something that stands out will help Money looks status confidence. I don't think any is more important than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 03:57 PM
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This is just hypergamy. Women look for men older than them, taller, more emotionally stable, makes more money, stronger, etc. The issue is the woman wants the man to be better but it's wrong to say that she's worse. Most men struggle because they simp and place her above him. Dark triad is most attractive because these men remind women that they (the men) are better. But that doesn't necessarily mean that they don't treat women as equal. I can see you as my equal while making much more than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 03:55 PM
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These men r rich but you're talking about status more than money. A millionaire nobody or a guy with 7 golden balls or 7x f1 world championships? These men are rich but they're famous for being at the top. I mean Lukaku is rich too. Why don't they all crowd around him? They might but I'm sure they would all prefer messi or Cristiano
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 03:43 PM
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I think showing vulnerability once in a while and only after you've been together for a while is fine. She's reminded that you have emotions and you can resume being stoic. Any more and you're just an emotional bitch in her eyes. Any less and you're a robot. It's like how ideal relationships have a lot of good things but some arguments and disagreements. Relating and acknowledging a womans emotions is most important. But she should by far be the more emotional one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 03:35 PM
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No. The issue is men value looks and so many women let themselves go early. That high metabolism when they were 18 can't keep up when they're 35. Then they're fat and jaded. I saw a 64 year old women, she looked smoking hot. She gave me her tiktok. This woman worked out almost everyday. She was well past menopause but I'd definitely date her. It's not shallow to want an attractive partner. This post reads as someone upset that ugly people don't get the same benefits as attractive people. The fem…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 06:40 AM
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Two x is a bad example, it's a retention pond of women who are upset with men. A circlejerk of unattractive women and pump and dumped victims. I could never date a girl in that sub. But that's another discussion. The issue isn't how wrong the comments are (I feel safe, he's so hot). It's the issue of perspective. A woman can date a murderer (they're quite popular). Since he hasn't killed her she feels safe. Because everyone else is afraid of him chopping their head off. From her perspective he m…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 06:28 AM
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It depends on the environment. I went to high school in a small town. Most chicks settled down, got married and had kids at 18. They probably had 5 partners max by graduation. I went to college in a city (go noles). No girl I went to college with is currently married (I'm almost 30). Most girls were sexually experienced, they have a main guy and some side pieces. A really shy girl I knew told me she had 11 partners at 24. I'm sure this is on the low end. There's more chicks with a partner count …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 01:20 PM
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Some are average some are ugly. But I do know two chubby guys I work with who are married to hot women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 10:51 PM
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No, proximity is the most important metric. Body fat percentage helps but nothing is more effective than the girl having to look at you every day. The familiar guy will beat the stranger almost every time unless the stranger is significantly more attractive. I'm in the military and plenty of pot bellied guys I work with are married. The two most fit guys I can think of are not. They're just unfortunate in starting their adult lives in a sausage fest job. The married guys had lives beforehand and…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 10:05 PM
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*you're
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 01:52 AM
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When I was a virgin in school, it was exclusively dudes that gave me shit for it. I definitely agree it's a dick measuring contest
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:16 PM
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That's because being an asshole in general isn't the same as being an asshole towards someone. Women love criminals. That guy who shot someone probably turns her on. But it won't turn her on being shot at. A guy who's always nice is seen as boring, a "brother". The excitement of being rude on occasion will get you better results. And even always being rude will be forgiven.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 09:54 PM
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Being an asshole is much better for getting women than being nice. Being nice is better for long term stability. Also not all assholes are the same. An asshole can still be nice to the waiter on your date.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 09:00 PM
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You will
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 08:53 PM
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Me not caring about women's problems doesn't mean I hate them. You jumped through a lot of hoops for that conclusion. The fact that calling women out on their lack of responsibility is automatically considered hate is exactly what I'm talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:33 PM
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I don't hate women, stop trying to create an agenda against me. You can agree or disagree with my premise. Anything else is unnecessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 11:52 AM
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No different than what men need to do
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 10:59 AM
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if you write a post about a topic that shows that you care dude That's bad logic. I'm here to spark discussions. I made a post in another sub some time ago about trans people. Does that mean I care about trans people so much that I made a post? I'll answer for you. No it doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:01 AM
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I never suggested that I did. My post has nothing to do with me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:59 AM
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Then is it really all that much easier? Me wanting to be a man doesn't mean it's not easy for women. I prefer to be a man because I have to put in effort to get laid and have relationships. There's a tangible reward for my efforts. And I still walk around with decent muscle under my skin. Women having it easy doesn't irritate me. It's them having it easy and complaining about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:58 AM
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Never heard of her
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:55 AM
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There's no fooling because I'm being honest. Your opinion on it is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:54 AM
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If a woman made a mistake by not getting men in the past Idk what you're trying to say
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:51 AM
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Earth
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:50 AM
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Women take initiative when it comes to ending relationships and potential monkey branching. Not starting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:50 AM
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I don't see any complaints, I was making an affirmative statement
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:49 AM
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Ugly and average women are dirt and worms to men, subhuman at bests. They're approached only to be laughted at or to serve as a butt of the joke to men. Bruh I'm talking about human interactions between the two genders on planet Earth. Not wherever you're talking about. Are you really suggesting ugly and average women are unwanted?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:48 AM
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The trailer park whale knows where her league is and plays on it. Most guys seem to think they deserve better than that and strive for better The trailer park chick ia drowning in dms and ignoring those men because they aren't good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:45 AM
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I'm here to have an honest debate without assumptions about the other person. I suggest you be a mature person and do the same. I like how you think the game has to be played one way I don't The idea that you could find someone in a common hobby or activity is clearly out of the ballpark for you. I've met most women through common activities. You're wrong. Next week you'll be complaining about how women won't give nice guys a chance anymore because their standards are too high. I'm not a nice gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:43 AM
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She could be. There's enough people in the world for outliers to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:39 AM
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I'm gonna be honest, I groaned when I saw your name in my notifications. But to return to the topic, how do women have to work hard to be approachable?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:37 AM
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You're right
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:35 AM
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I lived in a college town for nearly 7 years and observed coffee shop interactions, nightclub interactions, in between classes interactions. I talked to married women, women in relationships, single women. Women with orbiters. Prostitutes. Strippers. Hella religious prudes. I talked to them, I danced with them, I fucked them, I was their wingman when they're trying to get with another guy. I've also talked to many drunk women who spill an answer to any questions I have. I'm not here to make thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:34 AM
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Yes, women date men. News at 11
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:28 AM
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I made a post because I don't care. I'm sparking a discussion. Saying me making a post means I care is redundant. I can say you care about my opinion because you're responding to my comments. But that wouldn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:28 AM
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No. I'm proud to be a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:26 AM
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I don't sympathize because their issues are easily fixable
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:26 AM
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I'm not angry
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:21 AM
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I disagree. Women are less passive than usual but plenty will still not do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:21 AM
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Yeah because she's much more willing to date at or below her own level No she isn't regardless of her attractiveness. Look up hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:20 AM
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Most but not all
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:16 AM
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They are disrespected by attractive men while shunning the men at their level
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 10:39 PM
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treated with scorn. I assume this scorn happens after the relationship has started?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:28 PM
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These fwbs are still dating options that these women have and potentially become relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:23 PM
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I did
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:22 PM
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Ylur American trailer park whale of a female isn't getting paid on onlyfans or dating a billionaire. But she's also not struggling to find a boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:22 PM
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Most women do not have the dating experiences you describe. I disagree. It's why I included hot and ugly women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:20 PM
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I also think you significantly overestimate how much the "average" woman gets approached IRL. Your average American woman is nothing to get excited about and even unattractive compared to your average woman in other countries. But these unimpressive women are still in and out of relationships, hopping from guy to guy. This is assuming they don't settle down with guy #1 or 2
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:20 PM
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It seems that you’re jealous about women’s options, I'm honestly not jealous, I'm irritated that women have those options and still complain. It's like I make 100k a year. I have financial issues but I do my best to stay afloat. I'm happy and have a decent car and house Vacation every year. I go online and talk to millionaires who complain about not being able to have more than one yacht. I'm satisfied with my situation but I listen to more privileged people complain about how things are so diff…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:17 PM
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the majority of single men regardless of age, looks or status go after the top 10ish% of women in the looks department and then get jaded when they fail Idk where you got this from but you're wrong. I've seen hideous women bragging about having multiple fwbs. Men would like the top 10% but they're much more satisfied with settling than women are. No woman in a first world country should have issues with dating if she knows what she's doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:13 PM
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From what I see, men get upset with waiting for sex when everyone before him didn't. She was happy to do things day 1. Now he's the guinea pig where she decides to take things slow and expect more effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:11 PM
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I never said that you said I should care
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:53 PM
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Females don’t care about dating struggles though so that’s the reality. You can’t force someone to care about you. As a man I shouldn't care about female dating struggles either. Doesn't affect me so not my problem
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 01:49 PM
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Why wouldn't I. Where is this discussion going.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:44 AM
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I assume it would be "women who like sex".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:43 AM
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Nightclubs that have poles. I've been to 4 of them. Men aren't allowed on the poles only women. Have you not seen that before?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:42 AM
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If all women collectively came to me and said I was wrong and a loser, I'd believe I was wrong and a loser. I disagree with your statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:40 AM
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I'm not talking about club settings. I believe you should let go of that detail I added about college clubs. I'm talking about in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:29 AM
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Women do love orgasms. I believe you. They also love attention. My argument is that in general women who can only choose one will choose attention. Doesn't mean every individual woman will do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:28 AM
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How so
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:15 AM
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You're bisexual meaning you also talk to men. How can you avoid men like me? You cannot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:53 PM
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I disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:43 PM
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I appreciate the support
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:38 PM
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Women only like GOOD sex. I cannot disagree but women like good sex much less than you think. Sure they really like it and may get obsessed but that feeling always fades, much quicker than from a male perspective. Two x is a default sub with millions of users, why shouldn't I take what they say into account
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:37 PM
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I do
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:35 PM
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It's no different than women saying they should collectively stop having sex with men because abortion got banned. There's always those that don't listen and don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:35 PM
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She's not yours it's just your turn. I know a girl who has probably the highest body count of anyone I've ever met. I'm talking 3some then kick them out and invite two more guys over an hour later. Easily 3 digits. Rinse and repeat. She has a boyfriend now and actively avoids men who try to hit her up. But it's a two month relationship and it's only a matter of time until it crashes because she either gets bored or he finds someone else. She's the same with every boyfriend and for some reason sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:33 PM
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You can continue sailing on that African River
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:54 PM
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The guess was you're more okay with a long term sexual situation ship than a relationship. Women desire sex of course. But they desire being desired. And one is more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:39 PM
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Me calling you a sex addict was a guess. Women tend to prefer relationships, a woman who is chill with sex only is not the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:34 PM
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Youre a longterm fwb, potentially a sex addict. How does your opinion speak for women as a whole where most would prefer a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:27 PM
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You should've replied to that other guy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:25 PM
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Attention isnt just compliments. It's the guy saying he'll happily fuck, date or marry her. It's the certainty that he desires her. Women like sex don't get me wrong. But they just like sex. They really love attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:24 PM
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I disagree. And here's why. If women loved sex so much they wouldn't be convincing each other to stay single. They wouldn't be rejecting countless men. They wouldn't say things as two x puts it "a man just wanting sex with you is literally the worst". Women have sex with men they most desire for the attention involved. The sex itself is optional. If he gave her all the attention in the world, the sex would barely cross her mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:20 PM
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Sex can be a form of attention. But we're talking about attention excluding sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:17 PM
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If you really read my comments then you'd see that there were countless times where there's someone I'm arguing with and I said "you know what, you're right". My longest arguments were people who were obviously wrong but refused to agree. Things either end with me agreeing with your statement or you not having anything else to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:16 PM
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I disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:11 PM
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You want ber specifically to deaire you. You don't care about other women. She wants to feel attractive by you and men in general. If she goes to the store and doesn't get approached, she may not be up for sex tbay night with you. She "doesn't feel sexy".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:10 PM
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I'm very good with human psychology, but go ahead and educate me Mr Einstein
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:08 PM
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I agree, I'm an introvert myself. Attention isnt everyone in a stadium seeing you on a giant screen. It's some guy that you know for certain likes you and you feel good about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:03 PM
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This adds to my orbiter comment. Women keep men around that they know are interested, and sporadically say something flirtatious to keep them interested. But there's no interest, they just want to be sure that the guy likes them so they can feel wanted. Then reject him if he tries to escalate. Feeling wanted is so important that women will keep men around that they're not attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:01 PM
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Yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:58 PM
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There is a moderate preference for sex over attention for men and a moderate preference of attention over sex for women, ON AVERAGE This is literally the exact same thing I said on my first line. "They each have their favorites".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:58 PM
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Untrue. Women love good sex but being desired as a whole is more important
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:56 PM
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Her libido being 0 means the attention is definitely enough for her. She will be happy to have no sex. But many women have libido and complain about men being inadequate. They give up and stay alone willingly. Or tap into their bisexuality and get a girlfriend. Women like sex of course. But if they had to choose between being hollered at and sex all the time (which most women can do) they will choose the attention
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:55 PM
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Thanks for your useless comment, it feels counterproductive
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:51 PM
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Women do like sex. But desired is more important. If a woman had to choose only one she'll take the attention and put up with the sexual frustration
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:50 PM
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Social anxiety is an outlier
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:49 PM
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Women like sex I already did this was the case. But being desired is more important
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:48 PM
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I would argue that this is more of as a woman it's "you're the victim, he's an evil man" and as a man it's "you're a guy, man up and fix it yourself". Women are victims and men should "man up" and figure it out. Women who date down (in age) are cougars. Men who date down are pedophiles.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 12:53 AM
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A ten is subjective. Men can probably agree a woman is attractive but not that she's the hottest. Some prefer white women, some prefer big boobs, some like Asians. Honestly your definition of a ten is maybe an 8 to me and vice versa. This doesn't even account for personality, some want very feminine women while others want them taking charge.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 01:03 AM
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Define ugly because ugly girls who are in shape do better than most men. Ugly girls with countless rolls and hanging skin may struggle (and yet it's not unusual to see one in a relationship)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 12:01 AM
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Pretty sure nobody gets aporoached once a week This is false If you're a bang average girl that has a job and doesn't live in the sticks, you're gonna get approached multiple times or have someone compliment you. Weekly, sometimes once sometimes more. This isn't even me making shit up, this is me hanging around drunk women and asking them about their dating lives. Perhaps take a few shots and we'd no longer be arguing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 06:50 AM
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This is about social media but this is also about irl. Ugly irl women aren't exactly struggling, not getting approached every week to them is hard mode. Yet they're still dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 11:15 PM
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Show me your posts
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 11:14 PM
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Women can only date one guy monogamously The issue is women who play the field and pretend they desire dating a high value man monogamously, this is usually for clout (oh you do like me) or results in failure (he wasn't worth it anyways)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 11:13 PM
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Big difference between ugly women who are fat and ugly women who go to the gym. Which even though their face is ugly, they're not ugly as a whole. It's literally as easy as hitting the gym. Or not getting fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 07:31 AM
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It's definitely common sense
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 06:59 AM
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Aren't most men "easy"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 06:48 AM
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I disagree. The fact that fuck boys are popular with women is enough. Maybe she can "change" him.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 06:34 AM
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Besides you saying that to virtue signal, your experience speaks for women as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 06:29 AM
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I would agree that women have to try but let's not pretend like the effort required is anywhere near the same as a man's. Incel is a label for men for a reason. Almost all women who want relationships are in one
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 06:23 AM
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I follow that sub and never saw that. Absolute gold.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 06:13 AM
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You think women don’t put that effort in to get laid To get laid? She might put makeup on and put on a pushup bra. But she doesn't need to actually do anything except not be ugly. Some effort is used but it doesn't compare to the other side. You think men don't have to look good as well? In addition to actually doing everything?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 06:07 AM
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je ne sais quoi you find so abundantly in this and other pill subs I don't understand what you mean fuckboys suck bags of ducks. Yeah sure but the best way to get with a woman is have another woman. Fuck boys suck but that's what the ladies love. I’m honestly not completely sure of what your gripe is here.. I'm not griping, I made an affirmative statement. You can agree or disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 06:05 AM
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The problem is that y’all won’t date a 125 pound woman This is very wrong, women lighter than that have no issues That you’ll fuck 700 chicks but it’s a problem when a woman does it. People should have similar body count preferences to their own. And even then it's not that hard to control yourself and not be impulsive. If you're a porn star, you're probably better off dating other porn stars.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 09:37 AM
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Your comment is a perfect example
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 09:34 AM
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I get the same reactions saying slut or promiscuous woman
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:54 AM
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Only worrying about labia size and how close/far your boobs are is pretty minor imo
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:20 AM
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Women are expected to be thin but fat in the right places (boobs and hips), flawless skin, shaved bare, perky but large boobs that are perfectly placed, big lips, small labia etc. None of these are required
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 12:19 AM
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I have a extremely hard time imagining that lizzo works out
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 01:36 AM
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I agree but even if you have a hard time with maintaining weight, it's still as easy as not over eating
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 01:27 AM
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They get bloated but they are still skinny While fat women say not being fat is hard. While hanging around skinny women. Are you really arguing that not being fat is hard even though plenty of other women do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 01:19 AM
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If this was true, skinny women wouldn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 01:13 AM
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I got one backwards not two. Being submissive shouldn't be hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 12:40 AM
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No one cares about your preferences If this was true, I wouldn't make this post. Clearly people do, and shame me for it. But I'm very okay with your actual name being Noone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 12:39 AM
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Or you understand that I have a solid argument and you're tapping out. Either way, good day. I said good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 12:26 AM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 12:22 AM
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You had in your post that 10+ bodies was a “slut”. No I didn't
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 12:21 AM
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Not being submissive, not being difficult, not being a loud mouth is hard?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 12:03 AM
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well-educated This is irrelevant so we can throw that in the trash. It heavily depends on the gender make up of your area, if you attempt to be seen as a available (only going to work and going home doesn't count) and what your "bare minimum" criteria is. Literally no reason for you to struggle getting dates, the tutorial is right there in front of you. Just follow it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 12:00 AM
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10+ bodies and young women have no relation in your argument. You said adult men should not date 18-22 women. So who do those women date? Ever been to college? Who do you think those women are dating. MEN in their class and older MEN
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:54 PM
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Surely if you're gaining weight you make changes? It's not that difficult to look and the mirror, see you're getting bigger, and eat differently? Or eat less? Is it really that difficult?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:42 PM
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I literally said even older women do well with relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:40 PM
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I'm not blue pill. I think you got the wrong number
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:39 PM
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I'm not Hitler and I haven't been called that. I've been called hateful, called all sorts of names, and have countless "reddit cares" messages when I say stuff like I just said. I can screenshot them. Fatphobia applies to all women from chubby to fat when shaming men. Post a picture of a fat woman and ask men if they'd date. You better believe women will be waiting on the sidelines to shame. I literally just had a conversation where a woman said grown men shouldn't talk to 18-22 year olds (grown…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:39 PM
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My guy friends have no issues with my female preferences. I can say everything I've said on reddit and they will nod. I've met a few women irl who are confused when I say I don't want a slut for a wife. I agree you're more likely to get extreme opinions online due to lack of consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:33 PM
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My argument doesn't have anything to do with how easy women have it. I pointed that out. My argument was women are cuddling with whoever she decided to date at that moment and are still online shaming men for not liking her or other women. My argument is that women have it easy and still care so much about if others like her or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:31 PM
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I never said anything about being slutty, you're throwing words in my mouth. I'm not even a high libido partner. Try again. Not eating all the time is quite easy and it can be changed. It's much easier than changing your height. But I guess you need something to complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:26 PM
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11 bodies isn't a whore, idk what planet you came from. , I will literally die on the hill that grown ass men need to fucking leave 18-22 year olds the fuck alone. An 18 year old man is grown. A 21 year old is grown. So because of you, he should only date older women? And those 18-22 year olds date... high school teenage boys? Disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:23 PM
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The issue is they aren't on the market, they aren't dating now. Their argument is always "I met my husband 3 years ago, you should find one too". Even though the dating world changes year by year. Hell, tinder when I first started was different from how it is today. I can acknowledge that things have changed
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:21 PM
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The complaint is women can easily live up to mens standards but still complain. I have no idea what English classes you took in school
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:19 PM
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I followed up by saying non youthful women can still get relationships. Idk your height so I can't respond to that. I never met a tall girl who was okay with shorter men. I personally know a 6'2 very obese girl. She's the only chronically single girl ik. And guess what? She refuses to date anyone shorter than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:18 PM
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Big difference between talking about dating in 2022/202 And someone saying "I got married in 2005, I know everything" Odds are if you got divorced today you would be lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 10:43 AM
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Married women who argue about dating, something they aren't doing? Color me shocked.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 10:03 AM
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Honestly not a popular comment in this sub. You have my respect
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 11:25 PM
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As a woman I KNOW it’s easier for us to get hookups and relationships You're a woman saying this. But if I say it I get shamed and called sexist. My experience has been opposite. And I think that's due to being a guy. Finding a dude who wants to be friends is quite simple. Finding a woman who wants a relationship is quite challenging sometimes. I've had a few female friends but they were all "we were friends then started dating". Give me one month and I can easily make more friends than find rel…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 07:43 PM
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This isn't a universal brown girl issue. Your argument isn't any different from mine. But location definitely matters
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 10:39 AM
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The issue with "American" is America is extremely diverse. Your results will vary significantly from different areas. A white woman from Mississippi is gonna be very different from one in Maine, who will be very different from one in Colorado. Southwest is very Hispanic. Detroit has a lot of black people. You can be seen as an incel in Detroit and do extremely well in California. I hear of white men who say people are racist against them in places like Arizona. But you don't hear about that in V…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 02:51 AM
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This is not a "guys, let's get along please" sub. This is pretty much two x chromosomes having a boxing match with pilled men. There are occasional people from the crowd who will jump in, throw a few punches, and leave. This will always be a shit flinging sub, it will always have arguments. It's purplepillDEBATE. Every once in a while someone gives me a good argument and I say "I respect your opinion" or "you're right". I've never ever seen another person do that here. And I'm red pill. How abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 02:10 AM
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Me: brown girl ik who lives in a white area doesn't get approached. You: well I'm brown living in a brown area and I do well, so your friend is just ugly No my friend doesn't live in Texas like you do
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:04 AM
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I haven't seen the ad Okay we're done here
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 01:14 AM
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Actually it was your logic and didn't make sense. No need to run away now
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 09:30 PM
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All men are incapable of impregnating women. Yet there are women and men without children. All women are capable of buying a gun a shooting their husband/boyfriend. But that doesn't happen. Your logic is very flawed and makes little sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 09:05 PM
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This doesn't even make sense
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 06:44 PM
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The difference between men and women is a man can not want to be with you but he likes you enough to have sex. A woman can not want to be with you and doesn't want anything to do with you. Your argument is all your rejections are sex. And your successes are relationships. But it's worse than your rejections being nothing. And successes being relationships or sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:25 PM
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No one is stopping you from waiting either. If a man approaches a woman first she didn't like him because she didn't approach first. And vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:14 PM
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If she liked you she would pursue you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:12 PM
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Street harassment? Really? Approaching women is all about going up to them when they go about their day. Also it wasn't saying that. The guy simply wanted to walk up to a girl he found attractive. That's literally what approaching is
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:11 PM
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Sure but I believe if a man spends a significant amount of time with a woman and she never makes a move, it's pointless to make a move as she would have by now if she was into you. I don't think women have something against men approaching them, I just think they don't consider him an option if they had a chance to make a move and never did, so it's pointless to do so. Agree with the first part of your third paragraph.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 03:20 PM
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What's your definition of sexually forward. I will tell you if it's something that happens often or I've heard of happening
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 03:08 PM
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If she doesn't want to approach me, she doesn't like me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 03:01 PM
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Women don't typically behave in a sexually forward manner. Or option B, your definition of sexually forward isn't sexually forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:04 PM
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You are not the typical woman
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:02 PM
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So what's your point
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:01 PM
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Actually that's not how it works. And I'm not a 4/10 man. Good try though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:01 PM
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Is it really a waste if you got something out of it? Option A she never wanted you in the first place Option B she liked you enough to take you out to dinner 3x
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:43 PM
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Are you saying a situationship is worse than being told to fuck off
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:39 PM
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I looked and I take it back. I cannot say women never approach. But women very rarely approach. Especially compared to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:32 PM
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I never said women "never" ask men out. I said a common dating strategy was them waiting to be asked out and nothing else
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:23 PM
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This isn't about me approaching women out of my league. If anything I've gotten more approaches than I've done. This is strictly about women who sit around waiting for someone to walk up to them. Please stay on topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:20 PM
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You said we both know how it works. I don't understand. Teach me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:18 PM
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Dominican dance
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:16 PM
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And likewise I've seen many men who approached first and consistently failed. You assume women approaching first means men hate it. While it's simply the fact that approaching has a higher rejection rate than waiting for people to walk up to you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:15 PM
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Gillette had an ad where an attractive woman walked by and a man looked at her then went to follow her (to talk to her). Another man beside him held him back and was like "woah, not cool guy. We don't approach here" It caused an uproar, I'm surprised you never heard of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:13 PM
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What's your definition of blatant interest
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:09 PM
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Your comment is useless, do better next time
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:09 PM
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Texas is 40% Hispanic and 39% white. If not majority, you're still very close. Unless you live in El Paso you're probably the majority or very close. I say brown because I'm mixed. People readily assume I'm Hispanic more than they think I'm black or mixed. I do best dating wise with Hispanic women. I don't know many men who would say "Wow, she's hot and I'm into her but I'm not going to approach because she's brown." Everywhere I lived, white women were the most popular by far. Even tinder top p…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:35 AM
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I've experienced guys complaining that women are too passive than vice versa. Perhaps you have a different social group than me though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:13 AM
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I will probably make a post about it. But it's honestly baffling to me that so many women go through life expecting a man to pause and approach and nothing less. And it clearly happens enough for this expectation to exist. It's just extremely surprising. Like women don't even date, they just exist and wait for the next approach. You didn't walk up to them? You're not good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 02:05 AM
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You're a white woman living in a majority white area. I'm brown. I've never lived in a city where more than 30% of people were brown or black.. Meaning most of me talking to people had to be interracial. Most people stuck to who looks like them. The girl in question is also brown. My current city is 80% white 20 % everyone else. I will bet anyone I will always do better in an 80% brown city than an 80% white city. It's the sad reality but it is how it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:56 AM
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That's fair. My main argument focuses on women who sit there not reacting to their environment and expecting approaches
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:42 AM
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What is your race. Where do you live. And how old are you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:41 AM
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So average iq. Some guy will find that cute
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:40 AM
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Do you approach or give IOIs?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:39 AM
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5/10 isn't cute. You got something wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:37 AM
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Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:36 AM
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I can easily say if you don't talk to me you don't desire me. Gender doesn't matter in this circumstance
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 01:24 AM
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This is flawed. I'm more likely to ask out the cute girl over the hot girl because she's more likely to accept. Doesn't mean the hot girl is worse. Just means the cute girl is more attainable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 12:44 AM
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So women (who never approach) are rarely interested. Your logic is flawed and comes from an entitled perspective. If I don't stop myself and risk being fired because I'm running late to work, I'm not interested in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 12:42 AM
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Do as a man I'd want a woman who likes me, it doesn't need to be extreme or anything. But from what I hear, if a man doesn't stop his day to go out of his way to talk to you, it's not enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 12:41 AM
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How common would you say shyness or anxiety in men is? I've met very few men who outright walk up to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 12:39 AM
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That heavily depends on many factors such as how you look, where you live, your race (biggest one). It doesn't mean my friend is unattractive because you personally had success getting approached.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 12:37 AM
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I could just as well say women who don't approach aren't interested enough. Yet when I approach, they're happy to date or have sex that night. So what is it? Men can only be interested if they approach but it doesn't apply to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 12:36 AM
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Not showing interest and not approaching aren't the same. I'm strictly talking about approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 12:34 AM
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Do I? Honestly not really. When I befriend a dude there's no expectation of sex or a relationship. It's t not on the table. You're just platonic friends. Yoj give each other a hard time and that's that. Relationship issues may come up but they aren't common. Women are different. A relationship or sex can happen anytime and many are happy to bring it up. "I had such amazing sex with my boyfriend last night", no man will tell you that. You're more likely to hear relationship issues from women. And…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 12:24 AM
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I'm the first person to say that being "nice" doesn't get women But yes women can be avoidant. To men, to lesbian women, and to bisexual women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:54 PM
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They are. But all men won't beat you. You should be wary of every man you date. You're catching on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:43 PM
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You really shouldn't choose men who beat you. You can do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:41 PM
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Which is good because I can be a dark mind, not be vocal about being a dark mind, and still get dates. Win win. You can call me a pervert if you want. No different than calling a guy a fuck boy. You think it's an insult but it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:40 PM
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End of 2023 all 8 billion people will have read this post. Then no one will be confused about awalt thanks to me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:26 PM
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They will read this reddit post and understand that I'm not wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:18 PM
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I'm not the person who invented awalt
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:16 PM
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I said so several times
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:02 PM
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Women as a whole don't have a hard time getting dates. So it's unfortunate when it means all women. When you see a 300lb girl who wets the bed in her 20s get dates, you find it hard to believe any woman who says she doesn't have anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 06:27 PM
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Old women have no issues getting old men to date them. Ever been to the Villages? I'm 25. Oldest attractive woman I knew was 61. So simply not letting yourself go as a woman is good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 06:23 PM
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Liking sex doesn't make you a pervert And no I'm not a liar. No woman has ever asked me about the red pill
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 06:15 PM
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What groups of women exist that red pillers won't date?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 06:01 PM
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They shouldn't. I streamed ufc without paying. I'm basically a criminal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 06:00 PM
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Many guys on red pill are jaded. They're stuck in the anger phase and hate women. I'm speaking for the normal guys who didn't have dad tell them what red pill tells them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:57 PM
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I always thought if I was an angle I'd be a 90 degree right angle. Obtuse is a bit much.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:49 PM
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The issue is women tend to use arguments like "all men are trash" "men only care about sex" "I hate men". You use all men no differently than us using all women. I'm here to tell you we don't mean all women. No woman is coming to me to say they don't mean all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:44 PM
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I don't know what you're talking about. It's your month, it's January so be more clear. Because when February comes I won't believe anything you say
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:42 PM
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You say you hate trolls but you feed them. You're the grandma that always cooks a big tasty meal when her grandchildren come around. You require everyone to get two plates. The you tell your Facebook grandma community that you hate when people eat food, especially those who get more than 1 plate. Just change your name to grandma fan
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:28 PM
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I didn't expect to be busy, it was a last minute thing. Then I got drunk, came back and went to sleep. You have very strong feelings about me not being on reddit last night.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:13 PM
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Dating and fucking are under the same umbrella. When I'm dating a girl we're fucking If I'm fucking a girl we're dating Dating does not mean committed relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:12 PM
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Ever heard the term that red pill is a toolbox? It is. If you grab a wrench and turn a bolt that fits it, you will say the wrench did a good job. If you grab a wrench and hit yourself in the head with it, you'll say it was terrible. It's about knowing the nuances of what it's saying. If your dad gets cheated on by your mom and says "Son, all women are bitches", you know that he's speaking from being upset and doesn't truly believe that all 4 billion women are bitches
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:11 PM
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I'm not trolling I'm renfsu
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:06 PM
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I was busy yesterday, I came back and responded to the comments. You missed me a lot, I understand. I'm here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 05:05 PM
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All women are capable of that is very true
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:57 PM
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Oh it's you again. Welcome. Appreciate you showing up like I asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:56 PM
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You can use amalt if you want, no one is stopping you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:56 PM
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I disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:55 PM
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I didn't create The Red Pill, you will have to ask those people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:55 PM
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It's not controversial. Saying all men are capable of rape doesn't mean all men WILL rape or have the desire to. I believe every person is capable of killing another person. But that doesn't mean it crosses most people's minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:55 PM
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There are no unicorns though
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:54 PM
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It's n necessarily to make women feel better, it's just a clarification. Their feelings about it are irrelevant to me. If you read the post, it's the reverse of men being told that women are special and can't do wrong. Many men are being raised by single moms (I was) and only hear about men bad women good as they grow into adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:52 PM
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Do you like it when someone says "all men only want women for sex"? I have no issue with it. I'm a man, I like sex. Simple I don't go around telling my dates about awalt
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:50 PM
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I didn't create the term. When Red Pill 2 comes out I'll petition for it to be changed to AWACOT.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:49 PM
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Red Pill is about dating women. So it talks about what women are like. If it says all women poop and pee, it doesn't mean men don't. It's just that men are not the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:48 PM
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I assume you did
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:43 PM
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I guess that makes sense. Why stick to rusty useless pliers when you can get another set and keep all the tools in your toolbox looking shiny
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 09:27 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 09:25 PM
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My question is, why is not wanting a high n count partner so bad? White woman only wants to date white men. I'm not white, I'm not a potential partner to her. Cool, I'll date other people and she'll date other people. Everyone is happy. But I say I don't want a promiscuous partner, and it's not the same. I'm literally Hitler. I'm a virgin, I'm sexist, I'm a slut shamer.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:48 PM
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Username checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:31 PM
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The past is over with This is a common argument promiscuous women use. The past is a judgment of who you are. If you had 20 relationships and they were all abusive, you will tell everyone you were unlucky. But a third party will assume that you seek out abusive people. Your argument is no different than me saying I cheated in all my past relationships but the past is the past, let's live in the moment babe. You'd have the right to be skeptical. The same applies to women who slept with a high num…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:14 PM
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Your definition of old is subjective. I saw 43 year old men who were handsome and charismatic give 19 yr olds the tingles. They're 43 but they're not "old". My post is a cmv, I'm not stating facts, I'm open to having my opinion challenged. People who make good arguments tend to get a "good argument, I respect it and I have no rebuttal" from me. You are not those people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 02:42 PM
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We are smarter than animals but we aren't gods and goddesses. There's still instinct. Enjoy your day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:53 PM
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Your obsession with astrology is getting a bit weird. Please leave it alone. unlike animals they have speech, memories going back all the way to childhood, imaginations, logic... Animals can have these too. They have feelings. They are able to think. They have memories. Ever heard of that really cool bird called the crow? I heard they're very intelligent.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:44 PM
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Technically you're correct. But it's the same category. Onlyfans chicks aren't having sex with their clients. Many strippers aren't. But it's all the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:41 PM
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So prostitution
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:36 PM
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I would say people are animals. People are diverse but they're predictable. Your statement is no different than me saying most African wild dogs like antelope because that's what they mostly eat. And you say I'm wrong because African wild dogs are diverse and you know some that only eat rabbits.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:29 PM
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The difference between 51 and 49 is very small. Let's not try to be overly specific, you've been with around 50 people. e. I know that some people feel that sex is intimate and only meant to be had with people you love, but I don’t feel that way, and many others don’t feel that way either. And that's the difference between us. Don't call me slut shaker just because I don't see sex the way you do. To you it's no different than a random activity. I don't view it that way. We're different. s not ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:25 PM
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Men care about youth and looks, women care about maturity and status. Would you disagree?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:16 PM
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Hence, women now have assets. At the beginning of my statement, I said I was strictly talking about relationships. Dumb broke hot girl who isn't toxic will always beat out smart rich ugly girl. Unless the man needs money. But broke girl will always be in the picture. I remember a girl who struggled with relationships. She said something like "when I get my degree, I'll be even more attractive and I'll do better with men". I just shook my head and smiled. We don't care about the things women care…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:06 PM
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You said your count was over 8 times higher. Over means more than. 8 times higher is 48. So you're saying 49 and up. 49 is very close to 50, only a 1 number difference. It's disgusting because you've had so many different people inside of you. I'm honestly surprised you're able to maintain a relationship. "Slut shaming" is a blanket term used by women who want to get railed by the football team and then find love. Saying these negative things is definitely shaming and I apologize. But saying I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 12:55 PM
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Compete over what? Women want to feel pretty and ideally be the prettiest girl in the room. You haven't seen a woman who doesn't put work into her appearance and you think looks hot. 18 year old college freshmen who don't wear makeup and don't go to the gym?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 12:46 PM
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You had sex with over 50 men. That's honestly disgusting. It's not slut shaming just because I don't want to wife a slut. I just view sex as intimate. It's the main course meal, not a snack like you see it. You're using a typical feminist tactic of shaming men for not liking all women. I'm sexist because I don't want syphilis in my relationship. I'm sexist because I don't want all my friends to know what sex with my wife is like. I don't mean to be rude but your husband's count of only 6 definit…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 12:43 PM
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No, it's because I've seen what women look like without makeup. If a girl wipes makeup off her face and you watch her do it, elegant here will still say she wearing natural makeup. You wear makeup to compete with other women. Men don't care about that stuff nearly as much as you think we do
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 12:21 PM
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. Women who do nothing to make themselves look hot don't look hot I heavily disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:54 AM
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No need to take notes, promiscuous women are for promiscuous men and men who can't do any better. I'll continue with only dating women who see sex as special
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:53 AM
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The rise of stds. Let's be honest, people use condoms to avoid pregnancy. Imagine knowing the odds of getting your date pregnant are near 0. Would you use a condom? It's easy to think you would but I strongly believe people would be less likely to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:35 AM
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I mean going through puberty requires you to eat food so I guess there's some work. If you're talking about makeup, most women do just fine without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:33 AM
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Cool so you being better than one younger woman makes my argument a failure
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:29 AM
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Because you slept around and got with a dude you see as high value. Every woman on this sub that isn't single is "with a high value man" and their partner is the most attractive man they've ever met.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 11:27 AM
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if men will it to This won't happen unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:17 AM
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I don't compare myself to other men. Sure I'm not white but I see myself as high value. How about try again. It's not immaturity. I never said anything about jawlines, mine surely isn't the best. And relationships can be broken down to barebones economic theory. Humans are animals that are not special. If you can predict what makes male chimps attracted to female chimps, you can figure out what makes male humans attracted to female humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:16 AM
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I'd love to have an honest reply but your response is barely English and hard to follow
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:09 AM
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So men these days care about more tangible things too, even if they tend to claim they don’t. I disagree. No man will reject the broke but hot girl both men and women seek partners with positive traits. Positive traits to a woman are different from positive traits to a man. A woman may want a man other women want. A man may want a woman who isn't promiscuous. The woman is okay if her man was promiscuous as long as he doesn't cheat. The man isn't okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 05:08 AM
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My post has nothing to do with throat fucking, I think you need to calm down
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:40 AM
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Some of us just like to debate and shit. Preach
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 12:57 AM
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Odds are and a lot are a far cry from never. Which is your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 07:57 PM
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It's under a man's control a lot of the time. I literally said that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 07:16 PM
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My partners boobs don't need to be as big as my ex. Big is simply the rule. If I'm a man who takes care of my body, I go to the gym, and I try my best to look good, the least I can desire is a woman with big boobs who may or may not go to the gym like I do
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 06:32 PM
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I don't rank the women I date. However I do have a bare minimum I expect. This is physical and personality. All my exes have big boobs and she's flat chested? I'll probably like her a bit less. All my exes were supportive but she's toxic? I'll probably like her a bit less. She doesn't need to be the hottest. But she should be someone I would be dumb to not have an ltr with. Most women I've met had at least one glaring red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 06:23 PM
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Odds are its nothing you did, sometimes it's just because she found someone she likes more
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 06:18 PM
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Girl in my college class kept looking back at me and sticking her butt out. It was the most obvious yet subtle signals, I think it took like 2 weeks for me to figure out what she was doing. I definitely liked her but never noticed the signs. Cute girl. Well I finally approached her after class and she would put on sunglasses and answer me with one word responses. Basically looking disinterested/nonchalant when I approached but went out of her way to get my attention. Best way to describe it was …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 06:08 PM
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Men definitely cockblock themselves a lot. But a lot is also simply dealing with women, one day she likes you, the next day she doesn't. There's a lot of luck that goes into dating them. Before someone says it's because women have to be careful due to men being dangerous, I'd like to add that women who date women say the same stuff I say.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:57 PM
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I completely agree but they are still becoming more and more popular
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:24 PM
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What's a soul? Because in Harry Potter it's that bright orb looking thing but I've never seen anyone have one. You can love and connect with others while also "shopping" for the best deal. Online dating is literally built off of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:20 PM
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Dating isn’t shopping for the best deal. Actually that's exactly what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:19 AM
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If it weren't what
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 10:12 AM
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I wouldn't be red pilled if women were honest and knew what they wanted. Unfortunately women don't know what they want and they virtue signal. It's why red pill exists, regardless of if you're an attractive or unattractive man. Women don't know what they want. Red pill is there to tell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 03:04 AM
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In plenty of comments I told people I accepted their argument and didn't say anything else because they made good points that I couldn't disagree with. Go ahead, look. I don't own any horses, I'm standing on the ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:48 PM
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If you find a source that says women are happiest in relationships, I'll happily admit that I was wrong and you were right
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:47 PM
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Okay then I take it back. We aren't talking about single moms
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:33 PM
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I don't either, I don't have children. My argument is somehow simply say that women as a whole are happiest without relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:28 PM
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Honestly I didn't think of this. The "women are better single" crowd may be post menopausal women with no sex drive
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:21 PM
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Are single moms unhappy? I'm unsure. But they will surely tell you how they're independent and don't need no man
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 08:08 PM
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I respect your answer
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:55 PM
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If I go to a store and I know on average the eggs I buy will be rotten or ill be happier just buying sushi, shouldn't I just buy sushi? Especially if I tell everyone that sushi is much better and makes me happier?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:54 PM
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Not in high enough droves, there's still plenty of single moms and complaining women walking around
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:53 PM
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Feminist subs, mainly the chromosome sub
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:38 PM
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This isn't about staying single until you find your ideal. This is women telling other women that statistically, women are happiest when single. Good or bad relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:33 PM
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But not buying them at all is off the table somehow
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:27 PM
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Men don't tell women that they are happiest single
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:26 PM
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But not buying the goods is somehow confusing?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:22 PM
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Thanks captain obvious
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:10 PM
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A lot of those voids can be filled with a fwb you have sex with occasionally
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:09 PM
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It's not functional ideally but it's still functional. I'm a minority, I know very well how me not being a white man or a white woman hurts me. But at the same time I'm in a better position than many people in the world. I luckily don't live in the poverty capital of the world. Yes, if I speed then odds are ill be gunned down by the cops but I'm still in a better position than billions of people alive today. However my argument had nothing to do with the state of society. You should do your 3 po…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:08 PM
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We can agree to disagree. My hat is made of cotton, not tinfoil
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 06:56 PM
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In the eyes of women, yes, all men are harmful. As a third person in the crowd, no they're not. They built society after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 06:55 PM
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Actually no. The store owner is just selling what he has. You are simply complaining about what you spend your money on. You're told not to buy it but you continue to do so to have something to complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 06:54 PM
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Not a cult and not special. Red pill is for men who were raised with a feminist mindset and don't know any better
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 06:53 PM
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Your argument is akin to men being cigarettes. You know you do better without cigarettes. You and all your sistas agree. But you complain about cigarettes and you still smoke them while saying life is better without them. You complain about how expensive they are and how they affect your lungs. People tell you to stop smoking them and you are confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 06:52 PM
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It definitely makes sense, it's why many men seek it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 06:49 PM
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Appreciate that answer
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 06:42 PM
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That's good I appreciate. Better to wave the white flag than try to argue a point you know doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 06:42 PM
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My question is, how does "willing to stay single" and repeatedly telling people that "the happiest women are single", how do those two go together. One comes across as "I want a good relationship and nothing less". The other comes across as "I'm better off without a relationship".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 06:13 PM
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I disagree, but you are allowed your cool points for the day, Mr cool guy. Take an upvote.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 06:07 PM
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What I hear is that women as a whole are happiest single. Even if they say they want a relationship, the happiest solution for them is being single.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 06:04 PM
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If women have so many bad relationships then why not stay single? I'm a dude who has had bad relationships but I don't give up on women forever. But vice versa, women often have a bad relationship then say that statistically they're happiest single. So ideally my job is to find a fulfilling relationship. Her job is to stay single. In the end we are both happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 06:01 PM
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You do realize that many women want to actually date, right? This isn't what I hear from women online And why is it so hard for men to learn to be happy single instead of raging at the dating market? Men say they don't want to be single. Women say they want to be single Don’t worry, the women who want to be single will stay single without your help. This is the premise of my argument. Women either want to stay single and choose to, or know they're happiest single but still deal with relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:58 PM
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This isn't about good or bad relationships. This is just relationships in general. Women literally say they are happiest "when single". This is regardless of good or bad relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:51 PM
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My argument is you complain about the goods while telling everyone you're happiest when you don't go to the store. But you are confused when people tell you just don't go to the store.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:50 PM
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Just stay single, men being better or not is irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:27 PM
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I enjoy this sub because controversial opinions get challenged. It's not a circle jerk like other subs. I will say this sub isn't for the weak minded. Some people take what they see here seriously and go off the deep end.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 04:09 PM
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Women value things like experience, maturity and money. Stuff that comes with age
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:00 AM
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I believe in empathy in some aspects but not others. A human being run over by a car is no different than a dog being run over. Just one of 8 billion that got killed. Their replacement was born less than a minute later. Difference between physically attractive and functional. What's your definition of functional because I haven't met too many dysfunctional men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 06:16 AM
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You DID say that an attractive man was rare, which isn't true. Common sentiment on ppd is that most men are trash, women have a hard time finding a man they're attracted to, and now all of a sudden we're common? We ARE special Special in terms of having high intelligence. But we eat, sleep, shit, and give birth just like all other animals. Take a stroll on the African savannah and I'm sure the lions won't care about your intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 06:02 AM
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This response has nothing to do with my comment. I never said women don't find men attractive. And humanity is a social construct, we are animals that think we're special. Heaven isn't real.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 05:53 AM
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How old are you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 05:49 AM
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I agree but old tends to attract women who aren't worth it and have short attention spans. You should find activities in your area, maybe go to the park. If you're near a university it should be very easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 04:52 AM
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Old is just hard mode as a man. Trust me, you don't know life until you lived in a city where 60% of people your age are female. Then you move to a place where 70% are male. Online is about 80% male and probably higher than that. Every girl you matched with that you're talking to is talking to at least 10 other men. You have to go out of your way to get her attention while she sits and scoffs at everyone who refuses to kiss her feet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 04:48 AM
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Men attractive to women are uncommon. So women want to lock him down. Attractive women are, in comparison, a dime a dozen. Go to any college town. Big difference when you believe your man is rare vs knowing a carbon copy of your woman lives downstairs. Also men have higher sex drives. Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 04:31 AM
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That's the issue. You can't just look attractive, you also have to go after women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 04:21 PM
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I see this parroted a lot but I don't see average men with attractive women as much as people here claim it happens. If anything I often see a guy with a girl and I think to myself "He could definitely do much better"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 04:20 PM
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Kind of pathetic. I'll always respect someone like Ronaldo for not getting married and taking the risk of losing his money.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 01:31 PM
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What happened to Messi?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 12:59 PM
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Women will always rush to help another woman because of their hive mentality. They don't care about when men are insulted because men aren't part of the hive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 03:44 AM
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My question is, what's the issue when it comes to dating women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:24 PM
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And if I convinced 1000 women that's a tiny minority
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:42 PM
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Sorry if that was incorrect. Majority of women would be over 1.5 billion
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:39 PM
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I don't need the majority. Majority of women would be over 2 billion. That's way too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:33 PM
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Yolo. Heaven and hell aren't real. Bad people die just like good people
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:31 PM
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Do you actually think women fall for this Yes they do. Have you ever dated women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:24 PM
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What city are you doing this in
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 03:04 PM
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What are the age ranges of these girls
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:57 PM
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We're the same age so basically twins. From what I heard, women who like other women have a hard time because being platonic and flirting is hard to differentiate. Is that your issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:55 PM
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Honestly I'm interested. But do you get chicks who demand money before sex? Yk the ones that are skeptical
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:49 PM
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40 out of 100 is kinda high. It's less than half sure. How old are you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:46 PM
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How are you meeting these chicks? This seems possible in a college town but maybe not a typical city
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:43 PM
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Yes. But you didn't manipulate, you just changed your mind as you got to know her but you enjoyed the sex so you didn't end it. Simple excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:42 PM
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I never heard of this but I hope you're serious
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:39 PM
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I'm not even shit posting rn, I want to ask you a serious question. Outside of women being hard to please, how much would you want a wife or a girlfriend? Out of 100.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:36 PM
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That's not okay. Actually it is. I see no reason why manipulation is bad, you get what you want and they got what they wanted. This isn't a "you give me sex and I give you a relationship". I don't understand why so many women think opening their legs means commitment but if they fall for it that's on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:33 PM
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I never insinuated it was. Dating women isn't easy regardless of your gender
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 02:28 PM
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No I'm renfsu. Learn to read
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 06:51 AM
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De Nile
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 06:24 AM
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So you're on that African river. Got it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 06:07 AM
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Sounds like lesbianism
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:20 AM
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Well white women are endangered there. Fine, I'll give you a pass
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:10 AM
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If you feel bad about me talking about your ex then you guys should get back together. I agree we aren't close enough. I think we should start as best friends before discussing marriage. Third is I'm not upset with all women being bisexual. It's much easier having threesomes with bi women than "straight" women. I'm only upset that they refuse to acknowledge it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:07 AM
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I agree, being hot is better with being cool. But I don't care too much about temperature.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:56 AM
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I'm only slightly joking but you clearly feel some type of way about my responses. Chill out. Maybe smoke some weed? Open Netflix and pick a show. Maybe masturbate for the post nut clarity. Then come back to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:52 AM
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I'm getting laid too, I'm not the incel you want me to be
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:49 AM
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You're a woman sailing on a boat on an African River. You're in De Nile
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:42 AM
1

Having an attractive girlfriend makes you cool as a man
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:26 AM
1

Sure but it happens
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:24 AM
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You get to hold my hand. It's soft. And you get to explain what you mean so I can understand where you're coming from. It's a win win.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:23 AM
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Basically showing those girls saying "look at her, isn't she pretty? She's my girlfriend, I'm cool right?" It's like if I was dating Selena Gomez and I show everyone I know who my girlfriend is.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:20 AM
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Big difference between being desperate and having a "meh" attitude. No one wants someone who needs them. Desperate people need other people. But it's nice to be desired. It's no different than the wife who feels some type of way because her husband masturbated and doesn't want to have sex with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:16 AM
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I'd say men have an advantage economically, women have an advantage socially. Men are always parading their girlfriends around especially if they're attractive. I hardly ever see the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:12 AM
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I will give you my hand right now. You can hold it. And explain wth you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:09 AM
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I'd argue a big fact is men are okay with lesbians because of a possible threesome. Women make out with other women to "look cool". However women don't tolerate gay men. You think kissing a dude will make the women around like you? It has the opposite effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:08 AM
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If a woman who only dates men occasionally masturbates, do you think that adds to men's dating woes? I mean it could. Post nut clarity could apply to women but I'm not sure tbh. Ever masturbated then went on a date? You don't take shit, you're not overly desiring sex and her bullshit only annoys you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:05 AM
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Big difference between willing to date women and willing to put your face between their legs
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:03 AM
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I know you better than you know yourself. You're bi, sry
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 12:02 AM
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So you refuse to answer my question because you can't. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:37 PM
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It still makes her bi. If I suck dick but only date women, am I straight? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:36 PM
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It's a neg when it comes to getting dates. It's a positive for threesomes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:35 PM
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Are you male or female
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:34 PM
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She definitely lied, she's an ex for a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:32 PM
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They're no different than women as a whole. I mean older women believe that because they have a husband and no friends it means they're straight. But put a girl in front of her and the hormones go flyin
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:29 PM
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This guy gets it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:27 PM
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Actually gay men are a small percentage. While pretty much all women like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:27 PM
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Are you a parent or teacher? Because I'm asking you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:24 PM
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I wish your comment was true
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:23 PM
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They're
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:23 PM
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So some men and all women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:22 PM
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Cool story bro
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:21 PM
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Sorry, you do what I tell you to, not vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:20 PM
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Date and sex aren't the same. I'll give you a perfect example. Many women would love to have sex with a black man because the idea is that he has a big dick and sex with him will be ideal. Many men would love to have sex with a black woman because they're more voluptuous. But most non black people would never date a black person. Same with women. They'll happily kiss their friends, on whichever lips they choose but they probably wouldn't date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:19 PM
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Her name is Sarah not Becky. You sound like a misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 11:13 PM
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Where do you live where you believe this?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:17 PM
1

Wtf is a ricecel
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:15 PM
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What does this have to do about white women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 10:14 PM
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Exactly what a female would say
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:23 PM
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They're a different species
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:21 PM
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My question is why should I care about women's issues when it comes to relationships when it's as easy as staying single (women are happiest single) or having another guy the next day (you can do whatever and you will still have options). Also that porn star Riley Reid (I think that's her name) is married. I'm sure you can sleep with every man in the world and have people proposing. But when you have relationship issues, why should I care? Your husband beat you up? Stay single. You got cheated o…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:19 PM
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Mía Khalifa has had relationships. I don't understand your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 09:04 PM
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Being nice doesn't work. Being confident works. Good people might get laid but they're boring. You should be unpredictable. Not bad unpredictable but good unpredictable. Hard to explain. But I will say the number one thing that comes with getting women is proximity. She's more likely to date the guy she sees every day over the guy who she saw that one time. My biggest tip is don't take dating advice from women. Ever seen a woman try to flirt? They don't know shit. But befriend them. Get to know …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 03:51 AM
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I'm a red pill guy and I don't even know what this Andrew tate guy looks like. But I will say this. He seems to be a role model for men who are frustrated with women. Many men don't know what women want. Hell, women don't even know what they want. I feel like Taint gives men the answers they're looking for. He got arrested so odds are he will have countless women begging to be with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 03:39 AM
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I will comment to make things interesting. Attack me if you want. Height: 5'0 to 5'10 Income:honestly just be independent. No girls living with their parents Race: ideally black, Hispanic, mixed or Indian Body type: big boobs, bigger than her stomach. Basically P shaped Ass not necessary. House: honestly not necessary as long as she isn't at home with mom and dad Kids: no kids is ideal Stats: I'm 25 and mixed. I'm 5'10(178 cm). I've been called pretty, ironically. I'm 185 lbs(79kg) and quite lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 10:43 AM
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Your view has probably been changed but I'll say this. Most women are desired by men outside of extremes. Search on reddit. There's NSFW subs for small boob women, big boob women, skinny women, fat women, black women, white women. Almost anything you can think of it's there. Women go through surgeries and stuff for maximum clout and money. It's not because "men don't like them" it's for maximum likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:31 AM
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Go to an asian/Latin country and get back to me. Dating is more than just trying to get with far left colored hair overweight western women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:21 AM
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I'm just here to add. Women in tinder pretty much date up. It's hypergamy on steroids. Irl women date either equals or up. There's some hypergamy but it's not like tinder. Therefore your "looks match" can see you as unworthy on tinder but find you attractive irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 08:15 AM
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I've been rejected a few times for being "short" and I'm taller than 5'9. Is it all women doing this? No. But it exists in reality. It happens on warped incel fantasy land and it happens on planet earth.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 03:56 PM
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It's random bro. In all honesty logic when it comes to women doesn't apply. I've had women who only dated white men all over me. Women who only date black men ignore me. Short women who say I'm too short. Tall women happy to be with me. I'm mixed with black and white. I'd say talking to people helps a lot. Know how to banter. Much of flirting is eye contact and body language. Be brave when it comes to escalation, at worst you get rejected or you get regret. You can always learn from rejection. L…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:48 AM
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Something something you watched this one guy and he speaks for red pillers everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:56 PM
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I was friends with a dude who was average looking and extremely good with women. Dude absolutely slayed. I'll never forget what he said when I told him I was on tinder. "Why are you on online dating, delete that shit. It doesn't work." I've met some girls online but it's literally like climbing everest while irl is walking on level ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 01:07 AM
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I'm going to stop you right there. Women assume every single man they reject is ugly or a nice guy. This isn't true. That guy who's 5'9 is a solid companion but you rejected him for his height. Yall reject men simply because something better came along and when you get pumped and dumped, "all men are trash". Second is everyone should have high standards that are reasonable. Men are okay with dating the cute girl who isn't hot. Women believe because they had sex with a hot guy, they deserve to da…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 04:35 PM
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Cleanliness and decoration. Both
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 04:12 PM
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Women want a man taller than them, they desire the man every other woman desires. They want a man who makes more. They want someone to look up to.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 03:50 PM
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Housework and sahm are equal. Women tend to have a higher threshold of what's good enough in a house. Ever had a girlfriend? Your TV and one couch isn't enough, you have to have plants, pictures on the wall, all sorts of shit. This is regardless of if she wants kids or not
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 03:49 PM
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It's true
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 03:40 PM
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Who said anything about sahm
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 03:27 PM
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I've been in several cities. "Reality" tends to be quite different. In small areas you're more likely to get someone who is willing to progress things. There are less options so it makes sense. Though finding attractive people is difficult. I'm brown. I do meh in majority white cities because white men are the most desired. Fair In majority black or Hispanic cities I actually do quite well. El Paso gets an honorable mention. Lots of beautiful women. College towns are the best. Lots of beautiful …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 03:00 PM
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You are right but the issue is women's standards increase due to online dating options. She may hop online hoping for a good guy who's decent looking, makes okay money and is taller or same height. Then after so many matches he must be handsome, make much more than her, and at least 6' when she's 5'2 Then he has to be white, blonde, blue eyed, makes 6 figures, and 6'3 or more. And excite her with his first message. Many women are unsuccessful online because what's good enough in the beginning is…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 02:44 PM
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It's hypergamy
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 02:38 PM
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That would mean women would have to be MORE SELECTIVE OF THEIR MEN, which women also get shamed for. I'll repeat what I said. Being selective and being too picky aren't the same. Every girl "wants" a good guy. But it's different when you're looking at specific things that don't matter in the long run. Men don't complain that women are selective. Men complain that women are too picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 03:12 PM
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men and women have different goals? Men want sex women want relationships. The joke is that gay men don't have a first date because they only fuck. While lesbian women move in with each other and are getting engaged on the first date. My issue with women is the complaint of having too many options. Not only that but options that you didn't have to convince you were attractive, they just showed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 03:09 PM
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I actually watched your video to see what you are talking about. Somehow one guy who bought a girl dinner and wanted sex speaks for men as a whole? Not to mention some English guy that somehow speaks for me, an American guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 03:02 PM
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You're 100% correct I didn't click your youtube link
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 02:52 PM
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Being irresistible to women as a whole is pretty much impossible. There's women who like you at first glance and there are others who will want to play hard to get. And there are those who find you disgusting. I don't understand your argument, I'm not an incel and I've been with plenty of women. I simply dislike that most women play on tutorial mode and still complain about the difficulty.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 02:48 PM
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That would mean women would have to be MORE SELECTIVE OF THEIR MEN, which women also get shamed for. There's a difference between being selective and being too picky. You want a good man, sure. Go for it. But rejecting a dude because he's 5'11 not 6'1 will always be frowned upon. Women tend to be selective about shit that doesn't make a man a good man, it's just about having the shiniest toy. This is what men talk shit about.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 02:46 PM
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Women are shamed for satisfying the sexual needs of MANY men. That's the key. There's this idea on ppd that every woman is either a virgin or a whore. Every time I say I don't want a wife who has been with 80 men, the response is always "oh so you want a virgin then". Almost everyone has sex. The thing women can't figure out is the fact that promiscuous men have to be skilled in order to convince women to fuck him. This is why you women are happy to get with him. Promiscuous women don't need ski…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 02:17 PM
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You can say that. Except we have women here to argue against the men that do that. A man here can say something and the top comment is a woman saying he's full of shit. Anything remotely against women in that other sub isn't allowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 01:36 PM
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I follow subs like that to see how women think, what they talk about, and their life experiences. Women irl aren't going to say what they'll say on twox. However at least half of the posts are just women complaining about men and masturbating to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 01:32 PM
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Most subs on reddit are circle jerks. Let's be happy there are subs where people with different opinions exist together. That's what I was pointing out. Non circle jerks are rare
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 12:06 PM
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Yes, thanks for pointing out the obvious. A is a vowel but b isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 12:03 PM
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When I see a post on TwoXChromosomes with 1000 comments I don't even need to click on it because I know it's just 1000 people agreeing with op, saying "yas girl" or whatever. Basically circlejerk. When I see 1000 comments on a ppd post I know it's going to be arguing and shit flinging. That's the beauty of this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 11:33 AM
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and aren't even millionaires. Oh wow high standards here
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 10:41 AM
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Because jobs that require building houses, doing the plumbing, and hooking it up to the power grid are almost exclusively male? I'm not going to sit here and tell you 0 women do these jobs but they're extremely rare
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 04:26 PM
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I mean they did. No woman built the building you're in rn
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 02:59 PM
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Idk your version of beauty of the beast but the one I watched had the underlying moral "what's on the outside doesn't matter, it's what's on the inside".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:08 PM
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Society tells men to be feminist, caring and nice. And the right woman will show up. Yk, beauty and the beast type shit. We aren't told to approach, we're told that it's bad. We aren't told that dark triad is attractive to women, we aren't told that some women want to be abused in the bedroom (to an extent). While girls are raised being told what men like, as well as the negatives and positives of dating them. We don't get taught any of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 05:05 PM
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I'm not making shit up, this is literally what a woman who I personally know told me. I'm not immature. If you want someone to be angry at, be angry with the woman that told me that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 01:42 AM
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Also, women were aroused by the video of chimpanzee intercourse, whereas men were not. Hol up. What but "straight" and bisexual women showed indifference (they were aroused by both men and women I never really believed women who say they are straight. They believe so but I think women do things with other women that they don't consider gay that men will. It's like hearing about women who sleep naked with their best friends while cuddling. But because there was no vagina eating, it's not gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 11:44 PM
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What
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 07:35 PM
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Most men? No. Maybe some. My experience doesn't speak for everyone. But I hear far more often about women giving up on dating. Men: women's standards are too high and they're less attractive, not worth it Women: there are no good men/men who meet my standards, not worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 01:48 PM
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This here. If a woman says something terrible about men on this sub, I'm not going to look down on a female coworker who is a completely different person. Also we're here to debate and fling poop, people shouldn't be molded by the controversial stuff said here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:28 AM
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Men want women so bad, their only choice is to conform to our standards & preferences. I agree with most of your post outside of the obvious anger you have. And this last sentence. High standard low quality woman is a very Europe/American thing. Mainly US. I can say this doesn't even apply to every individual woman. I don't need to conform to anything. I just need to find a good, realistic woman who isn't jaded. Why conform to slutty florida girl when I can get a more conservative, higher qualit…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 02:10 AM
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Finally someone admits it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 12:57 PM
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I think piercings and specific shirts say much more than a woman wearing leggings and a t shirt or a dude wearing jeans and a hoodie. If their clothes are too loose or too tight sure but most of the time you can't tell personality from clothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 01:09 AM
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You can deduce personality from clothes - even general energy. This doesn't make sense to me. "General energy" sounds like a refrigerator company. And I find it hard to deduce personality from jeans and a t shirt. I mean, most women wear leggings. What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 01:03 AM
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What is wrong with some women having personality and emotional compatibility as a foundation for arousal? There's nothing wrong with it. But from what I hear, he either needs to have talked to you for you to consider him attractive or you need to watch him talk to someone else. That handsome guy walking his dog in a park is just another guy. I wanted to add I'm not completely retarded. I understand women can like you at first glance. Stare at you and all that. But these comments seem like the wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 12:55 AM
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Not having instant sexual attraction doesn’t mean a “0” either We aren't even talking about instant. We're talking about the handsome dude in the grocery store you see shopping for vegetables. From these comments, he's just another dude. Just because women’s sexuality in general doesn’t work like men’s doesn’t mean all men are nothing NPCs immediately either. You use the words immediately and instant a lot. So I ask you, describe a dude or a scenario where you find him attractive but he hasn't t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 12:51 AM
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It's not dislike. It's basically just 0. Neither dislike or like.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 12:46 AM
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A man can see a woman he's never talked to and find her attractive. A woman has to have an established connection with a man to find him attractive. If she doesn't know him, there's nothing there for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 12:44 AM
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I respect your answer
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 12:43 AM
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Online dating is only significant because it shows female behavior when there's an excess of males. Ever been on a military base? Ever went to an "institute of technology"? Those places have an excess of men and so the women act exactly as they would online. But most places aren't like that. Most are 50/50. What I've learned is if you aren't sitting in front of a woman, she's eventually going to ghost you. None of that texting stuff that comes with online dating will be successful. As long as yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 12:42 AM
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Every comment here is a no. I'm sure you've met many women who you've seen and were like "alright, I'd definitely want her" From what I'm reading women don't get that feeling
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 12:33 AM
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Honestly reading these comments doesn't feel good. The fact that men are NPCs to women and you have to establish a connection without coming off as creepy sucks. I've definitely met women who liked me but dating a gender that as a whole simply tolerates mine sucks
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 12:30 AM
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But but women here will always tell you that women are happiest when single and men are simply there to drag then down. I've had this hammered into my mind many times, I'm sure most women here will disagree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:08 PM
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Women are interested in sex. Let's not pretend they're all asexual. Op's argument is that women are less interested in sex than men are
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:59 PM
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Why exactly go through all this trouble if women are not that interested in sex It's not because women are so interested in sex. It's because women date by chasing a subset of men. Women date up. Controlling women through history is men trying to ensure that at least most men have a woman instead of a few men having large harems and most men being left alone. If women were so interested in sex then incels would either be gender neutral or mostly women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 11:52 PM
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I only wanted to lurk but this comment is so wrong I had to say something. thin Chubby and fat women have no issues getting men white Same for non white women. Black women have it worst and I've never met one that actually struggled with dating young Older women will happily tell you that they have options. Not as much as when they were 20 but still more than most men feminine Idk why this is surprising. If you are a masculine woman you probably don't like men. And even then you will still have …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 12:27 AM
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My argument is that rejection is the same for men and women. Your argument is men get rejected more so they have an easier time. I disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 05:36 AM
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Congratulations, now you understand my argument
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 05:13 AM
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Men who get rejected a lot are more used to rejection. Plenty of men avoid it same as women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 04:54 AM
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Rejection sucks for everyone regardless of what's in your pants. It's just the fact that women can avoid rejection. Rejection as a man is the norm because it's either get rejected many times for that one girl who says yes or get nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 04:43 AM
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I think what makes that thread funny is every response is some variation of "he became shitty" I've said some harsh things on here and I've read much of the red pill. The idea that red pill=shitty partner is untrue. Even if it was true most of the time it's not 100% There will always be that time where you can't tell. The only clue that I've read trp that my partners see is the fact that I'm dominant
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 10:28 AM
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Every generation thinks it's reinvented the wheel. The same underlying things still never change. But web personals have nothing on tinder. I believe someone who has been off the market for 2 decades has no idea the EXACT way dating has changed in the last 20 years. Things are very different now. People today have many more options. I can swipe on the girl that lives in my apartment building, the one that lives across town, and the one that's 2 hours away. You're competing with many more people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 01:22 PM
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Online, offline it still isn't the same. You've been married for well over half of my life. You have no idea what 2022 dating is like. May I ask, you said you met your husband online. What website?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 08:38 AM
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The point still stands that women’s preferences vary I agree but you lived in a time where your options were people in your vicinity, in your area. Today a woman's options are the men in her area and every man online in a 100 mile radius. Yes their preferences vary but their standards are also much higher. You could just as well have waited for a guy like your husband who was much more physically attractive if you were born 20 years later. Basically you are using your experiences from a differen…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 08:24 AM
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That you both were on the dating market over 20 years ago. While today's debates are about the age of online dating in 2022. Dating before 2002 and dating in 2022 are definitely not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 08:15 AM
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Okay thank you for respecting my autonomy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 12:04 AM
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My question is why am I wrong for wanting someone who is similar to me? If I slept with 10 people then I want relatively similar experience. Same if I was a virgin or if I've been with 100 people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 11:27 PM
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sluts are sluts and they should act like it and open their legs when I want them to until I use them and go marry the chaste virgin. It’s like y’all are angry women have autonomy. I don't marry chaste virgins. That's an extreme. But yes that's the jist of my argument. If you're a slut, then you are a slut to me. We can have sex, we can have a fwb. But I wouldn't want a relationship. I have no issue with women having autonomy. Go have as much sex as you want. I'm not telling you not to. What I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:47 PM
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Cool but I'm not that man, and those men don't speak for all men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:42 PM
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I say men and women most of the time. I say "female" when I know it will upset someone. Your comment proves it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:29 PM
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Both are reasonably solved by getting tested regularly before partners and using protection/birth control/morning after pill. Your big issue is assuming behavior isn't natural. I can tell you about parental uncertainty and you can say "just get a pregnancy test". But it's simply a natural reaction to find a woman less attractive where parental uncertainty is a thing. Lots of issues can be solved with modern technology but natural behaviors remain. It doesn't make me feel anything, it's just the …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 10:28 PM
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That "ick" is insecurity If that makes you feel better to believe that. What's the cost for women to have sex? More likely to get stds due to being the receiving partner. More likely to have to go through a body changing pregnancy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 09:05 PM
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She has the right to go for a relationship. She shouldn't be upset when people don't want her
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 06:45 PM
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Clearly, if you just want a woman to fuck you within two minutes of knowing you, stop getting pissy that she’s fucked over a dozen guys. Sluts are needed, most guys aren't going to be upset with sleeping with a slut. She just shouldn't expect commitment. A slut comes up to you and asks for dick, if she's attractive, you are most likely not going to reject her. f you expect a woman to have a low n count after a certain age, it’s most likely because she’s picky about who she lets fuck her. Good fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 05:03 PM
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I don’t know where you get this notion that pro-life people are incels I never said pro life people are incels. I said incels were more likely to be pro life, or right wing in general
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 12:36 PM
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Not only are you arguing that sex is a need, I never argued that. Do better. You've been here for a while. I never said it was a need. I simply said it was very important which is ironically what this subreddit they dont feel. I see countless comments from men talking about needing sex. Yesterday every guy here is an incel. Today no guy talks about needing sex. Someone literally said sex was a need in this comment chain. But no, it wasn't me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 12:27 PM
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I don't understand your argument. I never said sex was a need. But it will always be more important to men than women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 12:21 PM
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This is pretty much picking an argument. Can't and aren't are similar. The basic argument is the same. I'm not here to argue I'm here to state my point. You randomly joined the conversation for what it seems like to argue. I didn't start my conversation with you but you're already acting aggressive. You could have just read my current conversation and left it alone
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 09:56 PM
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About 4 comments ago. It was the first sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 09:37 PM
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I agree with your second paragraph but I'm just responding to the fact you said women can't be superficial. I heavily disagree. I follow TwoXChromosomes and I have for a long time. I'm aware of the shit women have to go through
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 09:18 PM
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Honestly you haven't lived life until you get ghosted because your dick is only 7 inches not 8 inches or you're 6'1 not 6'2. Women are superficial as fuck, let's get that out the way. It makes sense because they are sifting through countless options but they're definitely superficial. Attractive and sympathy are valid desires but it usually goes much further than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 09:05 PM
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I don't care if you get laid or not. I don't know about rappers and once again, I don't care. You actually do care. You insinuated I was an incel. When I told you I wasn't you simply said you didn't care. But you do. You never responded to any of the points that I made about men voting to take away woman's right due to not getting dates I have nothing to respond to. I simply said men who are repeatedly rejected tend to vote against women. I've already said I was homeless in the comment above, Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 06:55 PM
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I never said men and women are the same, now you're just strawmanning. So assume you never said that. What now? Single? Lesbianism? You can't date monsters. I care about legitimate issues that affect men Honestly I have yet to believe this is true. Maybe I'm wrong but I don't think so. sure how being homeless in a cold city has to do with not getting your dick wet though, I'm sure these things are equally as traumatic to you I get laid fairly frequently, I know you desire masturbating to the ide…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 06:24 PM
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. This doesn't really show that men and women are different, So women are the same. News to me. If you see us as monsters then okay. It is what it is. That would make women monsters too. I don't and I don't care. I could easily say idc about what women go through. Not my struggle. But I understand they are a different side to the same species I need water electricity, clothes and a place to live or I will more than likely freeze to death in my country. Honestly you don't. There is always a way t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 06:07 PM
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You don't "need" running water, electricity, a house, a phone, clothes. You don't need any of that. But you surely won't be happy without those things. I am going to assume you're a woman. Your desire for sex is much lower than a man's. You will never understand what it's like, unless you start taking testosterone. Men literally become more right wing and vote against women's rights when they consistently can't get dates. I assure you there are millions of men who are happy women can't abort in …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 05:39 PM
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I mean 3 wives sounds like a sweet deal. You can pretty much create your own basketball team with people on the bench.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 10:50 AM
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Honestly I believe being raised by a single mom makes men more misogynistic not less. I think this is coming from being raised in a purely female perspective. She will tell you that most men are bad and that you should "be nice". Moms give shitty dating advice. Not dimension she's probably in her 30s or 40s trying to give advice to a boy dating teens or 20 year olds. No guy is gonna be a feminist just because his mom went out of her way to help him survive. It just doesn't work like that. Most m…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 10:48 AM
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Haven't been bench pressing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 10:23 AM
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Honestly it's because I understand men are full of shit. But I live in a society where women are seen as perfect. They can do no wrong, they can never be shallow, they only care about what's inside. When you say anything remotely bad about women you get harshly attacked. Anything bad about men is praised. Men and women are shitty as a whole but I'm tired of being forced to assume only men are bad. Women don't care about looks, they care about character. Shit like that. I've seen the bad side of …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 08:44 PM
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I don't dismiss it but I'm a homebody. I know I do not want my woman being out all the time. I do not see extroverted women as cheaters but I usually think "party girl" when I see an extroverted woman
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 07:36 PM
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What do you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 07:13 PM
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Emotionally supportive. You never realize how important positivity is until you come from work venting about your coworker and she rubs your shoulder, telling you to forget about it and worry about the future. Introvert. Sorry but my experience with extrovert women is very poor. The girl who has to go out all the time will meet way more people who she can potentially replace you with. Agreeable. If we argue, you have to be willing to compromise. There's no "my way or the highway" because I'm ver…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 06:11 PM
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Some people can't handle it and see daddy as the same as dad Others see daddy having a sexual meaning, like "I will make you a daddy" instead of "you are my father". It's basically a man, who is usually dominant talking to a woman who is usually submissive No different than baby girl. If I call my girlfriend baby girl I'm not imagining her being an infant.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 11:56 PM
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because human males are absolutely part of the reproductive process. Yes they are but one gender bears the brunt of reproduction responsibility. Your menstruation, wearing a bra, and having hips significantly outweighs me being able to ejaculate. , I think it’s just you and your weird male-obsessed thoughts, not how intelligent people view a species. I'm not male obsessed, I'm actually very intelligent. I'm simply saying for example if someone were to randomly ask "who would win, a tiger or a go…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:10 PM
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the fact they're designed for reproduction. Your monologue mean I definitely got you feeling some type of way. Yes... Yes. But women are definitely designed around reproduction. Tits, hips, ass, menstruation. You literally release an egg every month. And men? Dick and balls. Big difference. You may not like it but it's the truth. Are women inferior? I'm just saying why many people may think so. Women are different from men. After all, like I said forever ago, when you hear about gorillas you thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 06:48 PM
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Then they should stay single
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:47 PM
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Check your inbox they are there
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:41 PM
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I mean you can be masculine but you will just complain about that man who rejected you. Women will always be looked down on by men. This is a combination of how easy it is women have with social relationships and the fact they're designed for reproduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:31 PM
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I promise you most women do not have “hundreds of options” for romantic relationships. Actually they do. This is fue to a man seeing an "option" as someone attracted to him. Women see an "option" as someone she's attracted to. This is why you get many women saying "no one likes me" but they have 18 unanswered messages. I'm not even talking about hot women at this point. Plain Jane is always texting someone. Being randomly ghosted is a universal experience. Is more of a male experience. Women exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:29 PM
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Your inability to empathise with women is a character flaw My inability stems from countless women saying women are happiest alone. If you disagree you should talk to your sistas about that I would add that I do have platonic female friends. And they do some stupid shit. Based on them women don't use logic when dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:21 PM
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In my personal opinion, and I'm a man who holds misogynistic views, I wouldn't treat feminine women as "lesser". If anything I would challenge masculine women because they try to be something they aren't. But your experience isn't the same as mine
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:11 PM
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Also spent many years living and around military life Living around military ain't the same as being in the military But besides that I agree with what you said. I have to find someone else to argue with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:59 PM
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Having the widest selection doesn't raise the quality of those individual options Actually it does. If both genders only have a 1% hit rate, that guy with 19 matches probably gets nothing. That girl with 1000 matches has ten. More selection means more opportunities. The issue with women is paradox of choice. Finding a relationship is just as hard for women. I feel like I disagree with this. Or if it's just as hard the reasons are self created. Women have an abundance mentality to the extreme whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:14 PM
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t’s an extreme minority of men Actually it isn't. I'm a military man, a very large number of my friends and coworkers are lonely. These aren't guys who are getting divorced. These are guys who aren't even given a chance before she knows about his job I have zero sympathy for able bodied neurotypical men who blame others for fucking around and finding out that being a social recluse kid directly lead to them being a social recluse as an adult Idk where you are getting this from. I'm talking about…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:05 PM
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Women building support networks for each other shouldn't undermine your ability to empathise with their struggles. I think it's more so women having an abundance of options and somehow being unable to find 1 man out of thousands. As well as the safety net of support from other women. I feel like a man seriously has to try to get women, be skilled, charming, charismatic, all that stuff. Women simply exist and the options come. I don't feel bad because I'm jaded. But I also don't feel bad because …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:57 PM
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Honestly I feel like this is why I don't feel bad for women with dating struggles and I disregard any problems they complain about. Women can pretty much get all of the benefits of a relationship through friends, fwb, and orbitors as well as social media. You complain about this one dude why not just stay single?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:25 PM
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I'm honestly not mad. I'm just pointing out that your comments come from a bitter place. I don't know what you look like but I have a hard time believing that you're attractive. That's usually where the bitterness starts.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:02 PM
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I'm not sexless or useless. Throwing that around makes you feel better but I would say you come across as a female incel to me. Not a good thing. Now eat that snickers, you're definitely starving. Also I don't drink sodas, I'll take a water
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:58 PM
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I'm just here to say you come off as very bitter. You use a lot of negative language. I don't know your situation but perhaps have a Snickers? You're not you when you're hungry.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:00 AM
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I don't understand the meaning of more agency. male as default I feel like this is because the bigger and stronger gender is usually seen as default. Gorilla? Silverback. Lion? Mane. Hotel? Trivago. If you have 2 equal people, one is taller and stronger, they will be seen as a more competent leader. This doesn't even get into obvious sexist stuff like a woman yelling at you means she's on her period/messed up hormones or that women's bodies are designed around reproduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:46 AM
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Honestly I disagree with this argument. Masculine women do not get treated "better" for being masculine, many female leaders are seen as someone who's diversity quota or someone who slept their way to the top. Women get treated badly for being women not for being feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:21 AM
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I'm not here to argue for Adam. Women can have whatever standards they want. What I will argue about is women who complain about relationships, getting pumped and dumped and being lonely. That hotter guy also has options and you need to stand out among all the other chicks he's talking to. I am all for women going for the best they can get. But don't get upset if you get cheated on or get dumped. Sometimes you as a man understand that average Jane is a better partner than promiscuous Angela. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:37 PM
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Modern western women don't really offer much as they tend to believe that their masculine traits make them more attractive. They believe their bachelor's in art makes them more attractive than women who only did high school. However this is just a trend, there are still good women out there. But your typical modern 1st world woman is fat, promiscuous, overly judgemental, and cries about patriarchy while telling her boyfriend to punch her during sex. You know, protests with dildos and stuff like …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 11:29 PM
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I say some controversial shit just to piss people off but I do agree women enforce patriarchy Raging feminist with green hair who screams about equality still wants you to boss her around. "Tell me what to do daddy" Guy who's school bully gets all the girls. Dark triad is most attractive to women I won't say women compete for a handful of rich guys. There's so many different types of women out there. But I will say that the feminist we-are-equals-100% persona disappears when she's with the right…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 02:03 PM
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Batshit crazy women who are happy to kill you definitely exist, and are more common than it seems considering women being violating men is seen as a joke by society. It’s more like 99% are a bad choice I would say at most half are bad choices and the rest are quickly discarded because she wasn't feeling it at the moment, he didn't send a paragraph for a first message, she's on her period, she's stuck on someone else, or any other ridiculous thing you can think of. Women disqualify men sometimes …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 06:58 PM
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here are also countless women that were manipulated by a sociopath that put on a facade it is not possible to tell who is going to be sexually aggressive before going on a date with them looking out for any red flags just to prevent your partner from beating you to death is something men don’t have to consider marrying someone who can’t clean up after themselves and is looking for a maid is something men don’t have to consider A lot of these things can't be picked up day 1. The issue is women be…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 06:03 PM
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What change are you expecting
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:38 PM
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Change will never happen. Women like what they like
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:31 PM
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Sexual assault, sexual coercion, pregnancy, cheating, domestic violence, household chores, STIs, emotional neglect. Coercion, violence and assault will depend on the kind of guy you get with. I mean, countless women literally prefer men who are full of red flags, violent, and happily get knocked up with him. I've seen plenty of women in my family walk around with black eyes and still stay with the dude. No woman deserves harm in a relationship but there are also women who go for guys who will ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:06 PM
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You can complain but men will say "go to the gym and lift" and women will say "just be nice". You can complain sure but you already know what responses you'll get.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:54 PM
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I am one small aspect of dating. I agree. But I find it hard to find men who would disagree with my argument. Women do not go through dry spells willingly the same way men do. "Incel" usually describes a man. most average women and no ugly women cannot easily hop on tinder or fb or reddit and find a bf I don't think it'll be the easiest thing in the world. But an average woman will always have a much easier time heterosexual dating than an average man. Ugly women will always do better than ugly …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:47 PM
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It's definitely unpleasant. I've had unattractive women get too attached and do strange creepy shit. It's never comfortable. But at the same time knowing people go out of their way to act like with you is a big ego boost. Many women say they hate the attention they get, but when they get older and it stops, they miss it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 03:03 PM
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I have a female cousin who is one of the most unattractive women I've ever met. She's literally disgusting. But plenty of dudes had crushes on her in school. She's over 300 lbs. Yes of course but let's not forget that men and women's standards are different. You may not like a cute guy because of his shirt being too big or his cologne is the same as your ex. We like the cute girl because she's cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:35 PM
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I see hella women say "females". I literally saw it earlier. Of course you won't see it on two x chromosomes but on typical reddit it's relatively common
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:33 PM
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Get out more then. It even happens on reddit. Just because you haven't seen it doesn't mean it's fake. I'm sure you've never seen the Marianas trench. Is it fake?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:26 PM
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I only really say females when I'm trying to make someone angry but I will say, I see women say it as often as men. Women say it as "I'm a woman but those other girls are females".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 01:22 PM
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Women have it easier due to the sheer amount of options they have. However women read this, see the word "easier" and think we're saying they have it easy. We are not saying that. Imagine you're trying to lift 400lbs. I'm trying to lift 700lbs. You have it easier of course. But lifting 400lbs isn't easy. Women struggle because how thirsty men can be and how easily women are turned off. But I would say women who are overly logical in their dating experience tend to never be single. The ones who h…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:39 PM
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Turn into a man and start dating women. Then get back to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 12:29 PM
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I don't say all issues, just most. Maybe like 60% We are living in a time where pretty much for the first time human females can select their mate based off of what they want. Many animals have all the females select few males. Humans are animals after all. Hypergamy means the lowest tier male will not be enough for the lowest tier female. Preselection means the most popular dudes will have the most women fawning over him. Women do not like men as much as vice versa. Most reddit females will rep…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 10:42 AM
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I'm just here to say preselection is definitely real.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:14 AM
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There are yes girls, no girls, and maybe girls. You can definitely make a maybe girl who has doubts suddenly want to be with you. Doesn't happen with no girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 09:32 PM
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She's someone who did hookups, didn't work out, so now she's trying something different. Jaded is the word I would use. Same as seeing a hot girl holding hands with an average fat dude. She dated attractive men, got dumped/cheated on and is trying something different.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:10 PM
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I will say mostly yes but also no. I've met plenty of women on and offline. There's a subset of women I would call "tinderellas" then there's everyone else. Offline women tend to be more realistic. Are you taller than her? Good. You don't have to be the hottest, tallest, richest guy. They want someone that makes them feel good. If she only likes 6 ft and up, you can still have a shot at 5'11. They care more about how you are in real life. Online "tinderellas" are different. You're a foot taller …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 01:31 PM
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Aren't women like Kim k and Jenner popular with other women? There are plenty of guys that would have sex with them but there are countless women who look up to those chicks and aspire to be like them. I mean, a big component of feminism is sleeping around like what they do. Also in sure most fake looking women can get a guy to put his dick in her mouth but a relationship is a different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 01:15 AM
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The difference between walking in a store alone and walking in a store with a woman is staggering. It's almost like you're a celebrity
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 12:56 PM
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I can answer all of these questions Why is it normal for people to have sex with strangers? Because sometimes you get horny and that stranger looks cute and wants to sleep with you. Why go through a relationship and heartbreak when you can just fuck? Why does nearly everyone catch HPV or some other STD? Why is that even normal? Because people use condoms to prevent pregnancy not stds. There's always "don't get me pregnant" but there's never "don't give me an std". Birth control pills usually mea…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 09:50 AM
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Yes and no. There's no better way to get women than walk in the room with another woman. Massive difference between being single and walking around with a girl. So no surprise when you get more options in a relationship and want to try them out. I would say a lot of people who cheat are simply cheaters. You can meet a woman or man's needs and they will still cheat. Some people are just for the streets. I mean there are many celebrities who can't stay in a marriage for longer than 3 years. Men de…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 09:40 AM
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"I've never experienced this so it must be false"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 09:43 PM
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Give examples of messages that stood out
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 01:15 PM
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I never said anything like that. Women are flaky, skittish, and indecisive when it comes to selecting a man. You need to have good game and look good to make a woman want to sleep with you. This is why promiscuous men are called "players". They "play" the game, by actually having game. If a woman wants to hurt a man's feelings, she's going to call you a virgin. Ask a random dude for sex he's probably gonna say yes. No game involved, he will say yes. You just need to open your legs. If a man want…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:36 PM
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Promiscuous man had to try to get women to sleep with him, it takes skill and attractiveness to be promiscuous as a man. He has to sell himself as attractive enough to sleep with. Any woman can be promiscuous, men are horny and up for sex most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 10:55 AM
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"you're fake data". Learn English I have my personal experience to support that. I say some bad shit about women. They call me misogynist. Yet I still get with them. I still believe they should have the same rights as us. I am not conservative. You sound like the gay best friend who hopes for some action but can't get any. Good for you. I'm not here to complain about women because I can't get any. I complain because I've said and done some bad shit and still had her in my bed that night. Hell, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 04:03 AM
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Red pill doesn't work False. Just because it talks bad about women doesn't mean it's fake. Me and millions of men are living examples. You sound like women who say hypergamy isn't real even though it's a proven behavior of female humans. I've said some horrid shit to women and had sex after. You can throw the feminist card all you want but you don't know the deep dark shit that can turn a woman on. When a girl hits on you by saying she wants you to throw her against the wall and make it hurt, yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 03:55 AM
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Bluepill isn't taught in college either idk what your point is. I'm red pilled because I applied what it talks about irl and it worked. Dark triad men are the most attractive. You may be most comfortable being the feminine best friend that hears her complain about the problems I create but that's not me. Yolo
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 03:18 AM
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Women date up men date down simple as that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 03:10 AM
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I think what most fail to understand is many animals have males competing for females. Large numbers of males die virgins while the attractive males get to mate. Humans are smart but we are still animals. Incel will always be a term associated with dudes. Which boils down to my argument. Women don't approach bc they don't have to. When you get a new dating prospect bare minimum once a week (52 a year) why would you ever make yourself uncomfortable. I believe an ideal dating atmosphere is less ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 03:08 AM
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What makes you say that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 03:04 AM
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I'd always be a guy. Yes women have it much easier socially but I feel like as a woman you're pretty much given everything at the start and you have to not only mature but hurry up and figure out how to best use what you have. As a man you start at 0 and you gain experience as well as become more attractive, your success is more correlated with time. Down vote city but I feel like most women's dating issues are self created. There's very little logic when it comes to it. Whereas as a man I'd be …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 03:02 AM
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Men here tell women to "choose better", yet get offended when women are shown to be more picky on dating apps. We say choose better usually to women who are in shitty relationships. We understand women are picky but most men who were rejected on dating apps were for no reason except she found someone else. Be picky sure but if you have 600 messages in your inbox, don't try to convince me that you couldn't get a relationship with any of them. The men here seem to alternate, between being resentfu…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 07:22 PM
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I'm black and I say in my experience black women are the least feminist and most misogynistic types out there. Black women put up with more bullshit from black men than I've ever seen in other women. I've never seen another group of women get punched in the face and then propose the day after. When I think of feminism black women are the last thing that comes to mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:22 PM
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Say sike rn
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 04:15 PM
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They can be truly single, I think the word you're looking for is truly alone. Many men aren't talking to anyone, aren't fucking anyone, and don't have any female friends. Most women at least have someone she's having sex with or keeps around for attention
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 12:00 PM
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Bring the facts with you or fuck off. I'm simply telling you to Google the definition of preselection. Humans are animals after all with predictable behaviors and preselection is one of them. You are not special. There are millions of female humans who act the same way as you do. Well then no man would be in a relationship at all then I don't understand this. Getting more attention in relationships doesn't mean you avoid relationships altogether. why do you have to inflict suffering on the world…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 03:56 PM
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Preselection isn't subjective, it is fact. Google it. Just stay single for god sake! You only get attention when in a relationship not being single. Have you been reading my comments at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 03:47 PM
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It's less about not being a piece of shit and more about desiring faithfulness in your relationship. But at the end of the day if my wife is cute and Regina the hot girl wants me to pull up at her crib, accepting or denying isn't going to matter later in life when you're on your death bed. At the end of the day if you are poor when single and rich in a relationship, you are gonna enjoy being rich as much as you can. Piece of shit or not, our fates are all the same. This is why you hear "he cheat…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 03:32 PM
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It isn't that hard but there are highs and lows in relationships. Most men aren't with the hottest women. And when those hot women are interested, it's hard to ignore. I wasn't into my ex when he was taken, I was into him when he was single. That's good for you but this doesn't disprove preselection. In my experience, walking side by side with a girl is the best way to get other girls. I've never not gotten attention when I was with a girl. But it's the norm when I'm alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:50 PM
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I'm going to be obvious. I don't think avoiding cheating as a wife is all that possible. I think a big issue is preselection. Imagine you are a dude who doesn't get much female attention. You get a girlfriend and bam, every girl from left and right is begging to be with you, staring at you and shit (this happens all the time). Whwn you get significantly more attention when you're in a relationship, it's difficult to remain faithful.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/22 02:45 PM
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I'm just here to say I enjoy reading the comments in this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:27 AM
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Imo tall girl shorter guy is an issue women are more likely to have than men. You always hear "he must be taller than me" from women. Some men may be insecure with height but I've never seen it at the same rate as women who simply see shorter men as not good enough. Tall women are like rich women. They want men who are taller/richer while those men are happy dating a woman who's much shorter/poorer. Being tall ad a girl sucks but it's because you find a smaller subset of men attractive enough co…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 01:05 AM
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I agree women don't want kids but I don't think this is a leading reason why they aren't interested in relationships. That reason is because women can usually get almost all of the benefits of a relationship without ever being in one. There's usually always someone to have sex with, cuddle with, complain or vent to, do activities with, and pretty much any relationship things you can think of, either through fwb or friends. There's no need for commitment or being cheated on. The more boring answe…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 10:12 AM
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Waiting a year for each guy is not the norm
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 06:15 PM
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I know a girl who likes me for me. She doesn't care that I'm under 6 feet tall. She's okay with the fact that I'm skinny without abs. She's my age and has had sex with less than 5 other guys. She waited less than a month before having sex with me. We have sex at least twice a week. This is a girl who never had a ons. She's not the world's hottest girl but she's very attractive. I met her when "non promiscuous attractive girl" was someone I thought was near impossible to find in the US (yet she w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 02:47 PM
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I've known plenty of high n women. They don't struggle with finding relationships. I believe almost any woman can find a man willing to have a relationship with her. The issue with those high n women is that they can never stay in relationships, they're always ending it after a few months to a year for various reasons. I remember plenty of those women from high school, their issue is that they prefer men with toxic traits and embrace their own (you got suspended so many times and skipped school,…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 02:14 PM
13

Get drunk together then start asking questions
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/22 04:27 PM
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Have significantly more women than men. Shortage of men means just about all of them will have someone to choose. The leftover women will either be with each other or stay happily single. Something like 75% women 25% men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/22 06:51 PM
3

Look up preselection and come back to me smart guy/woman you'll never be in a position to comment on this subject anyway. What is this supposed to mean. Seems like an insult because I said something you don't like. Pretty mature for an "older brah"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 08:37 AM
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It's not treating them like a normal person, it's preselection. Look up the definition. It is a real thing. "if she finds him attractive then clearly there must be something attractive about him" Your idea of the "magic" assumes relationship men only get hit on after interacting with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 07:45 AM
1

Can I get some of that doodoo cheese you've been huffing?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 10:07 PM
1

I disagree, I wouldn't categorize myself as "hot" just "cute" at most and I met a decent amount of women with terrible pictures. I'm definitely not "very attractive". Most guys issue is only using online and not leaving the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:41 PM
5

Did it end? Are you still together?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:39 PM
2

I would say it didn't cost me much. But I'm definitely much more misogynistic than I should be. Yes women are humans. But most of the time I just see them as robots who are willing to dump you when something slightly better comes along. I am quite confident now but I feel like it's not enough. I never feel like what I do is enough. I feel like what I lost is my trust. Many women I've talked to have a conveyer belt of men. One guy breaks your heart and 20 are waiting for you afterwards. I guess w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 08:58 PM
3

people don't generally call you husband or hookup material if they actually want to do it with you. This was the entire point of my original comment
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:59 PM
3

Do you not think that woman want to marry people they want to fuck? I never said that. I'm telling you what I think when I hear something. "You are husband material" is usually followed by "but" and then an excuse
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:17 PM
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Big issue is when I hear "you are husband material" I don't hear "I want to fuck you many times and spend my life with you". I hear "You are good for when I need emotional support but I would never fuck you".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:43 PM
1

It's a programmed thing. I'd also say most if not just about all western men have been through rejection, being humiliated for asking a woman out, ghosted, and generally watch the girl who said she "wasn't ready for a relationship" get into a relationship the next day with a different guy. Yet most of us know that there are good women out there who don't take you four granite. Not dimension the fact that for every few 6s that laugh and say you aren't worth her time, there's a 9 who is all over y…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 12:43 PM
2

I think it would help because to be honest most men don't know. Advice most people give is "be nice" and "be yourself". You vaguely hear about going to the gym but to what extent?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 09:50 PM
1

It probably would have been better for the conversation if you were single.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 09:59 PM
3

Men are never going to listen to your standards. Childfree is a deal breaker but I believe it's possible to get along with a man that eats meat. You could even meet a guy who gets with you then decides to become vegetarian. It's definitely possible
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 12:11 PM
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A childfree vegetarian man is extremely rare, you're gonna have a difficult time. You may never meet that guy. I've never met a vegetarian man, literally all vegetarians were women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 11:56 AM
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Vagina, not fat and not a ho, mentally stable
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 11:21 PM
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They're less desirable and less likely to be picky than when they were younger. I can't imagine the single mom rate at that age. Also since they are older they probably have the "yolo" mentality and are more likely to be upfront.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 10:52 PM
6

Man looking for woman
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 10:39 PM
4

Online dating
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 10:39 PM
12

"no fatties"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 10:38 PM
0

My bad I was drunk when I made that comment. But I'm sure Selena Gomez would go out with me for less than 10m
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:49 PM
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There will always be betas. Truly attractive men are not as common as attractive women. Yet truly attractive women aren't exactly common either. Betas will never be an endangered species. It takes work to be attractive to many women. Red pill doesn't make men "alpha". You need to take out the good, leave the bad, and improve yourself in reality. Plenty of red pill betas still stuck in the anger phase
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:39 PM
0

10m to Selena Gomez. When I rock her world she will fall in love. No need for anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:31 AM
1

It's an unconscious feeling. It's biological. When a woman has slept around, there will always be uncertainty with whether the child is yours or if she's being faithful. Yes we have modern technology but that doesn't change how people think. You can have two women, perfectly equal in everything. One can have 10 sex partners and one can have 90. Even if they behave exactly the same, the 10 sex partner girl is more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:10 PM
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That good sex and having an orgasm isn't guaranteed. The most likely scenario is pain or it ending prematurely. Doesn't help that most porn is the guy sticking it in and going like a jackhammer. That having children is seen as mandatory. Many childfree women get heckled for not popping out babies. Those women may have a hard time finding a man okay with that. I don't understand the "single lady with cats" insult. Cats are easier to manage than children. Baby crying is one of the worst sounds in …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 03:01 PM
4

I'm not hearing anything
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 04:42 PM
1

It heavily depends on unit. We are starting pt where we basically get smoked every morning. It sucks but it is good. I've always assumed infantry did pt more than once a day
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 04:22 PM
1

I'm not out of touch. I have seen both sides. Yes I am a late bloomer but in school I struggled a lot with women. I hated them because sex was so easy to them. I've seen some ugly as shit guys get women I wish I had. Guys who were clearly less attractive. Guys who were shorter. Yet they got the women I wanted. Why? Because they made themselves as attractive as they possibly could. They were buff while I looked like a twig. They talked to women and I didn't. They had female friends and I didn't. …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 08:18 PM
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I like you calling it "simp energy". It's a bit ironic. Your entire premise is "women can have sex anytime so their lives are easier". Of all the things that occur in life, you seriously believe that sex is everything. Do you talk to women? Do you know what they go through? They are people just like us bro and they go through some serious shit. Men go through shit too and I understand that women get coddled a lot. But outside of sex and having emotional support, they have a smaller pool of attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 07:18 PM
1

Explain
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 01:08 PM
0

I am an above average man. I don't go around telling people I'm hot but I've been approached by plenty of women. I am glad I am a man. Imagine peeing sitting down, never being taken seriously, having less options the better you are, having a dating strategy that hurts your dating chances, having period cramps, being pregnant, and not knowing if the people you talk to only want sex or want a relationship. At least I know every women who has sex with me would quickly say yes to a relationship. I a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:43 AM
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I've been through this stuff and the women who act like this are typically OLD addicted. They get hundreds of matches so they think every guy wants them, not knowing all of those matches are only interested in sex. It was only online dating women who had extremely specific standards, like 5'11 and a half isn't good enough, you must be exactly 6'0. No online dating addicted woman is worth it anyways. They will always end up single because they think they deserve the world. I've met plenty of tind…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 11:06 PM
1

If I had a gf and she saw my reddit account, she would probably see me as a bad person. But probably not horrible enough to break up. I think the most controversial thing I've ever said is my rant about trans people shouldn't be cops. I usually lurk when I'm sober and type when I'm drunk if that means anything. I wouldn't be ashamed of my reddit history, I'm not posting porn or my asshole or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:15 PM
1

Muscles are a combat arms thing. Almost everyone in my unit is average to slightly chubby
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:29 PM
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Because this is one of the few subs where incels and feminists can come together and fling shit at each other. Most subs are just someone saying something and all the comments are "yes you are 100% right". Better to read an opinion and be certain that someone will disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 10:52 PM
0

Because not all women are full of shit, just most of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:02 AM
1

She's attractive but I'm a boob guy so I know I wouldn't date her seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:13 AM
1

I don't think control is something I care about. I am actually in a position in my job where I tell people what to do. I don't care for it; it doesn't do anything for me. I think it's more of knowing that it's easy to piss people off and I don't have to worry about my safety/freedom in the process. If someone accuses me of something that I know isn't true, I simply say "that isn't true but you can believe that". But that isn't a common response. People believe that it's their life's mission to p…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:43 AM
1

No my online persona and offline isn't the same. I like helping people as much as I can, giving them tips, or giving them advice. I care a lot about women's issues and think they should be respected more. Online I'm more likely to say "women ain't shit". Since I'm not sitting in front of the people I'm texting, they are basically not human to me. I think the best way to explain is how people's standards irl are different than online dating since online those people may as well not exist. They ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:09 AM
1

Because women are designed around reproduction. Men are just there. This is why women with big tits and a fat ass are highly desired. Something about being able to have a baby and feed it or whatever. Most men just exist without anything desirable about them. This is why all women are bisexual. This is also why if a man is told he will never have sex again he thinks it's the end of the world. If a woman is told the same she just shrugs her shoulders. When it comes to both genders women are more …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 10:52 PM
2

Red pill tells its members that red pill is a tool box, not a strict guide. You take the tips and use them to your advantage. It's implied that awalt doesn't mean every individual woman, just typical female behavior. I will double down and say typical american/european female behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 10:30 PM
2

Red pill doesn't think all women are cc riders just a lot of them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 04:07 PM
1

A dopamine rush knowing that someone in the world is angry at me to the point of wanting to fight. While I sit here calm and collected just pushing their buttons. Some of us are just evil tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:54 PM
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We are here to argue not talk about sex. It's why the sub is PurplePillDebate not PurplePillSexTalk. I feel like if I talked about sex in any way it would come off as a humble brag so I am better off saying things that will make people upset
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:26 PM
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I think women's struggles with dating are self inflicted. Even if you are an ugly woman you probably have a rotation of guys at any moment. The issue is that these women think they are above the guys in their rotation so they come to reddit and complain about how "no one approaches them". This includes ugly, obese, severely burned women, and probably women who don't have legs. Some guy will still be attracted to her. This comes down to the fact that women have inherent value. Men have to work fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:22 PM
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*millionaire not everyone is a billionaire. Be realistic
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 03:16 PM
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I'm very okay with looking like a jerk. It's why I'm here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:50 PM
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Bisexuality in women is definitely celebrated. It's not all hearts and roses all the time but it doesn't compare to how bisexual men are looked at. Plenty of men dream about having two girls making out in front of them. Women even do that for attention. You think women dream about two guys making out? Someone in a previous comment said it best. Attraction to men is the primary assumption. Bi women are seen as straight women who happen to like women. Bi men are seen as gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 02:28 PM
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You should make a post then, about what you've learned over the years. If I was a male escort I feel like I would more qualified to talk about female behavior than a typical woman. When people talk about themselves and their gender, they want it to sound good. When they're talking about other people/opposite gender it's more unfiltered.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:11 PM
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*affect
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:02 PM
1

Surely it's the opposite. Escorts have the highest body counts. You probably know more about men than men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 12:43 PM
1

I see what you mean but you've been out of the game a long time (I assume). Your advice from the 1970s or whenever you last dated isn't gonna apply to today.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 12:39 PM
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I'm 25 and you are impossibly old to me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 12:35 PM
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Hypergamy is definitely real. Perhaps you don't see it because it doesn't affect you. No different than white people dismissing racism or men dismissing Sexual harassment. It rarely happens to them so you see many people from those groups dismissing it entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 07:34 AM
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Vet him for 2 months
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 01:02 AM
1

It's called PurplePillDebate not purplepillagreement. We're here to argue with each other and assume we are more in the right than the other sex. Women are here to say men ain't shit. Men are here to say women ain't shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 12:46 AM
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I still think below average men have a chance. If you're permanently disabled then maybe not but if you're 5'0 and chubby you can still get laid. You just need to maximize yourself physically and have a lot of confidence. Yes women are typically full of shit but you can always find the girl that accepts you and all your flaws. Tinder chicks are not your average chick. If you know how to be good in bed and aren't selfish you'll do even better. Plenty of women switch dicks every month and struggle…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 04:23 PM
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You need to realize that this sub isn't reality. Your average male or female has probably never heard of this sub. You should realize that most of us are here to argue and piss people off; your average human isn't going out and doing that. No mean to be rude but I find your premise very stupid. It's like watching a pride of lions hunt a giraffe and assuming all lions only hunt giraffes and nothing else. There are billions of people in the world and only an extremely tiny fraction of them are sub…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:10 PM
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You're right, I was wrong and changed the subject. I sincerely apologize.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:49 PM
1

I assume you told me you're married as proof that you're somehow able to retain a relationship? I don't have any awards so here goes. Congratulations on being married! You're such a big girl now, I hardly recognize you. Yesterday you were a thrill seeker and today you're the woman any man could hope for. Unfortunately I work in a profession where marriage crumbles as quickly as it starts but I'm sure you will live happily ever after. Keep up the good work! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 01:06 AM
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Women are more likely to want relationships with the men they sleep with compared to men. That's why the female equivalent of the friend zone is the fuck zone. You basically said that you are a pleasure chaser. That does not sound like someone willing to do something as boring as settle down and have a relationship. You are looking for the next big thing when you get bored with a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 08:28 AM
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Having the pressure to looks max and actually doing it are completely different. People are getting more comfortable over time and will shy away from uncomfortable things more often in the future (like being physically active). Instead of not getting fat, they will instead get fat and say discrimination against fat people should be illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 09:18 PM
1

Okay... Congratulations on figuring that out?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 09:12 PM
3

He's talking about women who want relationships in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 12:03 PM
1

Your first sentence is 100% false
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 12:02 PM
5

Not every woman has children
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 03:49 AM
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I see this "men dislike overweight women" argument a lot, yet I rarely see overweight women that struggle to find men. Those women aren't with the most attractive men but they still have plenty of options. I've seen some very unattractive belly-hanging-out women and they still have a man, sometimes fat sometimes skinny. Most guys have low standards. Ugly women still have options. Fat women still have options. Vast majority of women who complain about a lack of options are still getting approache…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 03:28 PM
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Scrolling social media, texting one of the men in their rotation, doing their nails, gossip, and playing candy crush. And for some women, knitting all day. Single mom probably spends their time being annoyed and full of regret
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 03:41 PM
3

Gay men aren't angry at women for getting laid
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:25 PM
1

Yes, I never said it was impossible. There's just more risk of injury when the action is going on inside your body (vagina) instead of outside (penis)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 09:23 PM
1

Idk what you're trying to ask
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 09:11 PM
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Man. Easily. I can have a high class life without worrying about menstruation or pregnancy. Not only that but hypergamy is a thing. Rich men will happily get with women who make less than them, especially if she's hot. Rich women want a man who's similar to her or better. She's gonna have a harder time finding a partner compared to the man. Men get jealous of women because the average woman has waaay more options than the average man. They don't think about how sex is different. Sticking your di…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 07:51 PM
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Pretty much all of them are. Even the women I've met that said they were "100% straight" were not straight. I think women call themselves straight if they aren't willing to have a relationship with another woman. They will still happily kiss another woman. Their definition of straight and a man's definition is not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:28 PM
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I'm that same height and was called short but 100% of those women were attention addicted tinder users anyways. Many girls like that don't have the ability to stick to one guy because of all the attention they get. They think anything less than perfect can be easily replaced.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 08:39 PM
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I don't think you should be looking for specific advice from the opposite sex. But you should try to get to know things from their perspective. Instead of asking a girl "how do i get a girlfriend" maybe you can ask "what makes you want to date a guy". The more people you ask and talk to the more you can compare answers and see what's the most common thing. If you're dating women you absolutely need as many perspectives as possible. One girl being nice is another girl's flirting. One girl being s…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 04:29 PM
5

Masculinity doesn't make you a leader. But being a leader is masculine
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:04 PM
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Perhaps you try to be. You talk as if it's impossible, as if the lead man doesn't exist and men are following something that doesn't exist. You just need to make your way up, be more masculine, and understand what taking charge means. I don't know your goal when it comes to this comment. I've been there at the top. Possibly you haven't but it doesn't mean it's impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:04 AM
2

Honestly there's so many hot women out there. You're crushing on a girl at 18 then when you're 19 you're crushing on a different girl. I understand why gengis khan had so many baby mommas. But I don't want to participate in hookup culture. There's a shit load of stds out there and women who are all looks and nothing else. Ideally I would meet a girl that makes me think other women don't measure up to her. I've never met her but in the end relationships still win. That ejaculation only lasts a se…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 02:59 AM
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Sure you can say that but I've met plenty of submissive women who were fine with it. It all depends on who you meet.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 02:48 AM
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The way I look at it is I love submissive women but that doesn't mean they are starfish in bed. You can just tell them what you want them to do and they will listen. You can tell a submissive woman how to dominate you and she's still submissive even if she's on top.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 02:04 AM
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People are built differently. Just like a gay man probably doesn't understand all the fuss when it comes to pussy. I can say I am a very dominant man, I love dominating women and I like when they look at me as a leader. I like when they call me daddy. It's just how I am. It's simply man means masculine so being a leader is the pinnacle of that. You're the lead man among men. It's like when I was in high school I got the most female attention when I was the leader of the entire battalion in jrotc…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 02:01 AM
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Hot dude > hot women > average women > ugly women > average men > ugly men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 04:09 PM
2

I can't be the only one that thinks when a woman says she wants a shy passive inexperienced man, she's not talking about your average Joe or neckbeard that fits the bill. She's talking about the female equivalent of a male preferring the prude shy introvert pretty girl over the promiscuous extrovert pretty girl. It's simply a relationship security thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 01:11 PM
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I'm assuming you're a female incel. Your hate in not getting your prince charming causes you to act in ways that are unattractive. There's also you hating your skin color and thinking it's what's holding you back. What's actually holding you back is the way you act. I've never seen you before but I can't imagine an attractive woman making this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:34 AM
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Well if women didn't walk around constipated all the time, he wouldn't have to say that yall are full of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 07:12 AM
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I've had women tell me that my dick length was wrong and they know better than I do even though I've had to live with my dick since I was born. I urinate out of it multiple times a day. Basically tinder women don't know shit regardless of how many dicks they sat on
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 05:50 PM
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I was just making an example. I've never stated my height unless explicitly asked. But I'm 5'10 and that tends to be a deal breaker online. But irl they don't care as long as I'm taller than them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 03:38 PM
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I think it's both. First I think a lot of people here look at stuff from an online dating pov. Online dating as a dude is hard mode. I'm an attractive guy and getting smiles when I walk into the club isn't uncommon. Yet on online dating when I say I'm only 5'11 and not 6 foot or when I say my dick is 7 inches and not 8 inches, they immediately ghost. The quality of what I can pull irl is significantly higher than online. Not even close. The chicks with unrealistic standards tend to live on tinde…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/22 01:25 PM
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Just because women approach you regularly doesn't mean it happens to every single man that fits that category. You can fit all categories and be 6 foot. You can fit all categories and be 6'7. You can be a guy pulling 100k a year or a guy pulling a million a year. Being an attractive successful introvert encompasses guys from all sorts of backgrounds and races which will all affect how the women in his local area treat him. Not dimension the fact that you can be ignored by most women in one area,…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:29 PM
2

From what I understand blackpill doesn't want dates or sex and red pill does
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:05 PM
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You can be attractive, successful, and an introvert. Women may really like an attractive guy but he still needs to approach and be proactive. Women don't simp over dudes the way guys do to women. Shy attractive girl will have guys approaching her constantly. Shy attractive guy may have girls who ogle him from afar but never do anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:51 PM
1

Not everyone is straight
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 08:18 PM
1

Damn I didn't even know Kevin Samuels died
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 09:58 PM
2

Because it's called PurplePillDebate
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 07:13 AM
4

Women who talk about lack of options are talking about their lack of options compared to other women, not compared to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 07:53 PM
3

Being rich is obviously the quickest way. Just need a lot of lottery tickets and prayer
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 01:00 AM
1

Makes sense because virgins are much better in bed than pornstars
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 05:17 PM
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Tbf it makes sense. If you meet a new girl and she's a pornstar in bed then she's probably very sexually experienced. I don't believe in holding back though. We can tell that a woman is promiscuous by other things besides how she is in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 04:28 AM
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Just dumping and discarding men as if they are worthless. There was an average chubby girl from my high school who fit this description very well. She would date many guys and dump them only to replace them almost immediately. Longest relationship was two months. Funny enough she's a single mom now. Big issue is when a guy makes a small mistake and she's instantly gone. While I understand women have high standards, my school experience has been with women who don't except any mistakes ever. If y…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 06:41 PM
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No you are not average. I've known men who are shorter than me, nowhere near as attractive as I am that get women that I struggle with. It isn't just looks when it comes to women, charisma and social skills go a very long way. If you aren't hideous but know how to talk to women, you will do better than most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 01:37 PM
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Bad because women absolutely need a dude that's better than them. When they're out earning almost all men they will stay single by personal choice. Then they hop on reddit and complain about how they can't get a man. Even though they make 100k a year while rejecting men that make 95k a year..
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 03:05 AM
3

It's just hormones and emotions
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:59 AM
5

Women are single because they want to be. Men are single because they have no choice
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 09:50 PM
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Very little to no benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 02:25 AM
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Didn't have my dad in my life and never did well with women. "just be nice and ultra respectful" never seemed to work. Then asktrp basically answered all of my questions about why I was so unattractive. People gravitate towards the red pill because it's the truth. Yes there's a lot of bitterness and hate. But it makes sense if you feel like you've been lied to your whole life. I no longer follow it and I think it goes too far a lot of the time. But I will say red pill is much closer to the real …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 10:23 PM
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I think a secure attachment may be best long term but avoidant will definitely get you in the door
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 08:06 PM
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Hooking up ≠ not being alone. Op was talking about relationships, you're talking about sex
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 06:20 PM
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Lots of women go to the bar/club to feel pretty for the night and go back home alone. They have less interest in sex than men in addition to significantly more options. She probably gave you her number to get you out of her hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 07:48 PM
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I'm a homebody so I stay inside a lot. I've had few casual partners, less than double digits. I would expect a woman I'm dating to be the same. As a man it makes sense to prefer a woman who has had similar or less partners but never more. Women date up which means men date down. Sex is included in that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 09:42 PM
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While you may call it double standards, remember at the other end virgin men and virgin women are treated differently
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 08:24 PM
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What she did in the past absolutely matters. While I don't agree with asking for body count, her past choices can certainly affect how dateable she is
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 08:20 PM
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I think they are. Women are less likely to throw out compliments or show interest compared to men. And when they do show interest, it's just them being overly nice which makes it hard to tell what their intentions are. Not dimension all the women who would only show interest if you approached them. I've gotten maybe 8 compliments from women in the last ten years. I'm sure that alone is more than most guys will get in their lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 03:13 PM
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Preselection. Idk why but women seem to want men that other women have. The woman in question doesn't even have to be all that hot either, hot women will still give you googoo eyes if you're walking with an average chick
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 03:26 PM
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Yes but surely if you are thick enough or know how to use it then the upward curve isn't necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:53 PM
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Why's the upward curve so important?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/21 07:39 PM
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Idk why you're asking me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 12:19 AM
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I'm quite good with women sexually, I'm well versed with all the sensitive spots and what speed to go. Not actually good at talking with them though, at least not in the beginning. Something that helps is I ask a lot of questions and compare answers I get from other women. I do know women like masculine men and want to feel feminine. But even then they can still be erratic. I think women are way more feelings oriented which is why a lot of the stuff they say is bullshit. Watch what she does not …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 01:06 AM
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Women are almost always gonna make a guy wait to appear high value. If he's very attractive she may wait a day or two though that isn't always the case. If she's indifferent then he's gonna wait for an extended time, potentially weeks. Your premise is opposite of reality. Women don't go having sex with a guy to not appear slutty, that doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 12:59 AM
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Why would a girl who can fuck any dude she wants be so desperate for a relationship? The mass majority of women who are even remotely attractive can have sex with whoever they want. Yet they are still desperate to get in a relationship. Not with just anyone but there's someone she has her eyes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 12:55 AM
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They want a big dick. The guys that don't have it are always complaining and insecure
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 05:24 PM
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Agreed. Not only that but promiscuous women are free to be openly promiscuous, which is much better than them pretending to be a prude and cheating behind your back. A win win
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 08:28 PM
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How old are you? You seem pretty wise
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 04:20 AM
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I have tattoos and I'd say they can help but they aren't cheat codes. Maybe it helps your attractiveness by 5% at the absolute most.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 04:07 AM
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What percentage of approaches you've had were decent? And was there any correlation with the decent guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 09:29 PM
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I did the same thing getting high. I feel like drugs like that allow you to sit and think about your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 12:10 AM
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Loving yourself is having confidence in yourself and self esteem. Women find guys who have confidence in themselves and high self esteem as more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/21 06:05 AM
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He was wrong. But people are gonna support their gender first. Even if you're just fucking that's pretty disrespectful
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 11:55 PM
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In the military as an aviation mechanic
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:34 PM
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My dream partner is Oprah
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:27 PM
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Small boobs. I could date someone like that but I'll always be thinking about it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 09:26 PM
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It's basically a meat market. I've met plenty of women from OLD but I would never ever date one. Nearly all of these women are either attention seeking or incapable of being satisfied with one person. Every woman that was "hot" that I've met had just created their profile. The longer they have their profile, the more it goes to their head. And the higher their standards become. OLD is good for hookups and situationships. Not really much else. I would even be wary about committing to someone that…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/21 11:40 AM
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I’m not a snob Everything you just said points to that being false. Scrotes? Who says that? You sound bitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 04:08 PM
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Just started watching coach Greg, he seems to teach common sense instead of flashy lies
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/21 06:14 PM
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Cheating ain't the way but I imagine good cheating sex is probably way better than good not cheating sex
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/21 09:40 PM
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Of course. I have a friend who isn't particularly attractive, but he has 10x the charisma I have and pulls hot women effortlessly. I only do well where looks matter, like if you bump into a girl in the club and she turns around and sees what you look like. Looks will get you a few here and there but good charisma will make people want to associate with you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 11:14 PM
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I'm not extroverted, that's my Achilles heel. I have been to parties and clubs many many times. I've been approached three times. Of course this doesn't count the times that I did the approaches.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 10:31 PM
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Yes I'm sure. I get IOIs a lot of the time. In areas where people are drunk (like parties) I do really well. But general day to day, it never happens. I imagine I am attractive enough to catch someone's attention but not so attractive that they come up to me. Yes 8% is specific, I just pulled it out of my ass. Someone may see me as top 1%. Another may see me as top 20%. I'm an average height light skinned black dude with tattoos. My best feature is my face, and my body is average sized and somew…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 09:48 PM
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Then their issue isn't just being a virgin, their issue is not being able to attract someone or feel loved. You're either the guy who would pay for the girlfriend experience, or for just the sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 06:57 PM
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If he feels like he HAS to have sex, then do it. Your attitude as a newly non virgin will be different. Just don't tell anyone that you did that, always deny.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 06:40 PM
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If you see yourself as 0.01% then you should make a post about your experience. I see myself as top 8% and I rarely get approached, but I do pretty well online with shitty pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 06:37 PM
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There are plenty of men who are gamers who get women. And plenty of men who can't get anything that don't play video games. Games are definitely not a common denominator. This is a pretty terrible take.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/21 06:33 PM
1

Kinky
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 12:37 PM
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I am pretty good at reading most IOIs. I'm bad at actually turning them into something
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 01:01 PM
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People always talk about finding "the one" in college but I see everyone in a constant state of looking for greener grass. Even the seniors
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 12:29 PM
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Hookers aren't legal and emotionless. I'm not completely disagreeing with you, but most women who offer only sex do just fine. Even if you only offer one thing, if it's valuable, it's valuable. You say that most women are worthless because of that but something tells me that you're frustrated about not having these worthless women as much as you want. you usually need to work hard Yes it takes much more effort to attract a woman than a man. Yet many men put in the effort. The ones that don't get…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 10:47 AM
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I misunderstood, I see you said if she said that "offhandedly". If that happens then she had sex on day one before and it didn't work out. But that's not always the case. Just like girls who say "no hookups" on tinder probably did hookups before and didn't get commitment. The key word is probably. That's not always the case. Then again, I can't imagine a scenario where a girl tells you she doesn't hookup on day one when you're talking about something completely different.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 10:10 PM
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Men like sex. Men like women. Lots of girls only have their bodies to offer and they do just fine. Some get rich off of it. Doesn't sound like a value of zero to me. And not every girl is a whore. You need to get off of tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 09:07 PM
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Just because she says that doesn't mean she's a hoe. She doesn't want you to think she is, doesn't mean she is. If you don't want people to think you're gay, would that mean you're gay? No, doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 09:06 PM
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I don't agree with this. Women may be more relationship oriented but both them and men tend to use lust and confuse it with love. You can be hot with a shit personality and do very well with relationships. most of us want true love and romance I hear this a lot from women but very few actually put any effort in. Times are different now, romance is a two way street. Go buy me cologne and flowers so that I can feel appreciated. The mans looking for extra stimulation and gets bored with the relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 07:53 PM
2

Unfortunately I do
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 05:59 PM
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Dudes marrying down and dudes thinking with their dick is why divorce is high. "She has nothing going for herself, but she has a fat ass, so I'll get married to her." When you don't have options, it's easy to find someone that makes you hard in the moment and think that's the person for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 04:28 PM
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Men are thirsty in a desert, women are drowning in a lake. Most women find a raft or buoy and do just fine, and some men come across an oasis. Oasis men are in a better position than everyone else. Life raft women are better than desert men. Some men don't find water. Some women can't swim and drown.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 04:02 PM
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Physical attractiveness is the least important? What? If this was true, then dating apps (not tinder) would focus mainly on whatever was most important. Which is ensuring that they don't look like a troll and aren't creepy. Everyone is shallow. Love isn't unconditional unless it's coming from your mom or your dog
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 03:57 PM
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Idk ask u/AverageDick3nergy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 12:52 AM
1

Would you be attracted to someone with average dick energy?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 11:47 PM
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That's what makes it interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 08:43 PM
1

Fds women tend to have been hurt by men. Just like red pill men tend to have been hurt by women. I think a lot of us know that. The issue is they take their past experiences and apply them to large swaths of the population. And because they let their bitterness cloud their judgement. That's not healthy. FDS is a good tool to help women not be doormats. But it's a bad tool for actually getting a high value dude if you take it literally. I feel for people who have been manipulated or hurt. I do no…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 11:38 PM
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Because a lot of dudes don't bloom until later in life. Also, there's a very good chance they have more options than in their 20s, so the desire to settle is less. Above 30 is where a lot of women get that baby fever, something you rarely see in 20 something yr old women. Plus women just tend to more likely want to settle down. And have kids. Men want to keep sleeping around. 30s and 40s is where male and female smv starts to look more even (for the people that take care of themselves).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 11:21 PM
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If "giving blowjobs during sleep" was a popular porn genre, it would be a lot more common. A lot of people just do what the actors do and assume that's how sex should be and nothing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 11:11 PM
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jackrabbit, cervix-pounding sex is good sex. That's not good sex. Good sex is starting slow with touching and slowly increasing until you penetrate. Then it's keeping a rhythm that you interrupt once in a while so she can't predict what you're doing. I'm good in bed because I like making women cum and they keep coming back to me. If you need confirmation then maybe you should come watch next time and take notes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 10:52 PM
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While I admire op defending fds, a lot of what she said is plain wrong. As if fds was a calm, thoughtful subreddit about women who just want to find love with a kind and caring man that loves her for her. And not a sub full of screeching. I follow that sub, I know what they post there. You ain't fooling me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 01:03 AM
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Because I'm attractive, because I'm good in bed, and because I don't don't do ons, it's fwb at a minimum. Next question.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/21 12:48 AM
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People who focus on revenge when they get hurt are immature. Revenge is a dangerous game, you play with the wrong person and they will kill you. Op just seems naiive. There's actually no hope for my generation, Gen Z. Funny enough, I am at the head end of gen z (born in 97). A lot of these people were raised on the internet and don't know reality. This reminds me of that guy that tried to tell me that incels can give dating strategies in the same context as someone who has dating experience (bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 01:43 PM
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Yeah this is pretty cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/21 01:22 PM
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No one said they didn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/21 11:30 AM
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Assuming these women go to a nightclub, the below average may not get approached. The average and above average will be approached every single time. In a place like the supermarket, maybe once every month or two for the top two. There are too many variables though. Ugly girl with big tits/butt will probably be approached once in a while. And it depends on location. I do believe that many women get approached at least once in a while, maybe the top half. And it's an uncomfortable topic but race …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 11:13 PM
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You should stop telling people to stop telling people how to think
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 06:31 PM
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These are the same women that will see their ideal guy at a store or something, completely ignore his existence, then go home angry about why he didn't randomly approach her. The only two good excuses for women that "can't find a man" are that they live sparsely populated areas or they're very shy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 03:35 PM
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I went to a big party school. I'm pretty sure her experience isn't abnormal for college chicks. Those girls are absolutely getting around.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/21 01:07 AM
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the general notion that women are more likely to enter relationships faster after a breakup, Isn't it a common stereotype that shortly after a breakup, women are devastated while the men are happy, then six months later the man is devastated and the woman is happy? People who think women constantly rebound tend to look at it from the "women have more options/easier time getting sex" pov.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 11:30 PM
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Got a link? Or at least know what sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 11:21 PM
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Not too many normal people here
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 11:15 PM
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I'm sure there are high smv men and women here. Not everyone is an incel or fds follower
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 11:08 PM
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"The left" is a blanket term for all the people far right wingers hate like minorities, gay people, and women that have casual sex. It's like antifa. We aren't even going to discuss why people who claim they aren't fascist get so worked up over something that means "antifascist". If I was antislavery and you got angry at me for it, wouldn't that make you pro slavery? Lmao the left shits on the right With good reason. I have no love for either party. Both are full of shit. But one is definitely w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 12:37 PM
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then the left Oh you're one of those people
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 02:56 AM
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Watching the left Oh you're one of those people
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 11:13 PM
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Something I've been thinking. Women who give IOIs and expect the man to approach... That makes sense. But only if they are obvious. But there are women who do absolutely nothing and expect men to approach. Why? I feel like these women expect a guy who doesn't even notice her to randomly approach her, someone he's never even talked to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 07:19 PM
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Dating as a woman is not EASY. But it is EASIER. Simple as that. A hundred bad dates will give you information you can use to vet people in the future. A hundred rejections gives you nothing. Everyone wants someone that looks good and I get that. But you can't choose them because they look good and have nothing else. The biggest problem I've seen with women that lament about not finding someone is not understanding that the men they want are likely to have options. Why would he choose you? As a …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 06:58 PM
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I don't agree with op but I think him referring to women traveling was more about the way most Instagram models get their paradise pics, which is from being a prostitute for very wealthy men that live lavish lifestyles.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/21 06:08 PM
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