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Agreed, I think key right now is not to try to bang women out the gate but just get used to talking to women in a sexual manner. For 10 years women have probably been off-limits to you, just get to know them as sexual creatures again. You might not be ready for it, but I think the key to being single after a relationship is just to accept rejection as rapidly as possible. It's going to be a new feeling after 10 years of having sex anytime you want, so just get out there and TRY to get rejected.
/r/seduction14/01/15 09:02 AM
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This is all gold. Hats off to the OP for writing a pragmatic "guide." I think I share both of your philosophies on three dimensions almost exactly: Be sexual. "Holy shit you look hot." Sit next to her. Booth > bar > table. Make it a drink, preferably (maybe exclusively) alcoholic. Please for the love of god don't do food on date 1. Great stuff. I think there's a real dichotomy on this sub between guys who want to be pure natural inner-game and folks who need to see the answer first before they u…
/r/seduction30/12/14 10:04 AM
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Shanghai
/r/seduction14/11/14 08:49 AM
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Makes sense to me--I think the difficulty is bridging the gap from training wheels ("say hi to the girl at the cash register") to the real deal ("say hi to the girl at the bar"). If you can unlock that then you've solved a lot of people's anxieties.
/r/seduction20/03/14 01:21 PM
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Most guys want to just be able to "do it" but end up not being able to. It's like telling a depressed person, "JUST STOP BEING DEPRESSED." There's no way to just stop an instinct you've developed over time unless you realize that it's fundamentally irrational.
/r/seduction20/03/14 01:04 PM
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That is awesome--keep me in the loop. I started reading "Feeling Good" and practicing CBT as a way to resolve a bout of severe depression I was having, so it's great to hear that the total zen state of CBT practice (like meditation) is dismissing negativity without consciously thinking about it.
/r/seduction20/03/14 01:38 AM
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This is awesome. I think we underutilize visualization techniques in all aspects of life. One thing that keeps me going on a run is imagining a chain attached to my chest that's being pulled by a race car--I can't not go fast when I visualize that image.
/r/seduction19/03/14 10:07 PM
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Why does it matter? Sometimes the "community" disdains naturals as well for having an unscientific / unstructured approach. Why?
/r/seduction18/02/14 07:49 PM
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Everyone needs to sub this guy. Just easy conversation, good confidence, non-threatening, playful, witty. I could say "things get different when you talk to 25+ year olds vs. 19 year olds who listen to One Direction" but honestly it's all the same principles. It's a pretty simple formula you're applying as far as I can tell: "Hi. I saw you and had to come over and say hi." "How old are you / how old do you think I am?" Make small talk "Do you remember my name?" Make small talk "You're cute, give…
/r/seduction17/02/14 07:21 PM
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Great post. There's the whole "change your mental state" element of the rejection game, but I think there are really only two reasons to play it: It inures you to rejection It teaches you that most people won't reject you That's it.
/r/seduction17/02/14 04:18 PM
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It's easier, man. Think about your mindset when you saw that fat girl from high school turn into that hottie you saw over spring break. You were probably like, holy shit what happened?? You probably didn't even remember that awkward girl from high school.
/r/seduction17/02/14 03:41 PM
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Think you got cut off there
/r/seduction17/02/14 03:35 PM
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Ah yeah, Boston is a different scene. Would say people in general here (Boston proper, not Cambridge/Allston/Brookline) are far from geniuses.
/r/seduction16/02/14 11:14 PM
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Agreed; my point is regardless of whether it means anything, it's proactive interaction from them--how do you move on that?
/r/seduction13/02/14 05:25 AM
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Easy ones: bullshit palm reading; who gives the better massage; secret handshake
/r/seduction31/01/14 01:57 AM
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Suggest a discrete event not just time: "I'm going to First Friday at the art museum on Friday--come with"
/r/seduction31/01/14 01:46 AM
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If you're with friends (as you should be, most of the time), have a conversation. Seriously, just talk to your friends and have fun. Who's the awkward guy at the party? The dude talking to his friends laughing and smiling, or the dude standing by himself drink in hand looking around? If it's too loud and it's a club, then dance! Fist pump, see who can do the "running man" most effectively, try to moonwalk, line dance. Get ridiculous.
/r/seduction30/01/14 10:39 PM
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WOOOOOO!!!!!
/r/seduction19/12/13 06:20 PM
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Definitely said something along the lines of "I think the results speak for themselves."
/r/seduction11/07/12 12:13 PM
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Definitely. Agreed. 100%. That was a bitchy girlfriend move on her part. On the other hand, I'm willing to forgive a little myopia. I could easily see myself asking her to get a drink from a guy and give it to me and then seeing rage build as he started hitting on her. I won't defend her actions here but it's easy to forgive as well.
/r/seduction11/07/12 04:58 AM
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Very solid, good game dynamic that isn't scripted but kind of flows out of being playful. Great push-pull.
/r/seduction02/06/11 06:55 PM
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I was entertained by this post.
/r/seduction31/05/11 09:21 PM
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Staying at a friend's apt a few blocks away. She was with friends and I was just not in the right mind to meet them all and win them over (bar was closing by the time we exchanged #'s).
/r/seduction31/05/11 06:36 PM
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Gay sex is not attractive to women. Rather, gay romance is attractive to women.
/r/seduction31/05/11 04:14 PM
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*Uninterested And the key is not to come off as uninterested, it's to actually be uninterested. The key to not giving a shit is demonstrating to her that it's a privilege for her to be around you. Show her that you have other options and you really don't care if she's into it because hey you have a stable of other cool people you need to see.
/r/seduction20/05/11 04:22 PM
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I think I live and die by this single rule of dancing.
/r/seduction20/05/11 04:00 PM
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Pretty rare though I'm going out with a very cute girl who messaged me first this Friday. I'd say I get probably 1-2 per week and almost always from girls too unattractive (or racist, or offensive, or any combination of the three) to respond to. I send out between 10-20 messages per week and get maybe 2-4 back, and of those girls who respond to a message probably 50% end up in a date. So total date throughput = 5-10% of total messages sent. I've been on the site since December, so getting close …
/r/seduction19/05/11 03:10 PM
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She wasn't making wtf eyes, more like, "guys, stop looking at me!" I think the advice to isolate is very very well taken.
/r/seduction15/05/11 08:18 PM
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Yeah and not just friends who say, "Just do it, don't be a pussy" because those guys (of which I have many) are typically AFCs themselves who would never approach a girl. I mean actual guys who want to wing for you and build your confidence, etc.
/r/seduction14/05/11 08:00 PM
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I've seen so many of these posts and I honestly think the answer is to find a training partner. Lance had one, Arnold had one, Mystery has one...you need to find someone with the same mindset as you to keep you motivated. Just like when you tell your spotter you're doing a set of 5 and push that much harder to not let him down, you need someone who shares or understands your romantic goals.
/r/seduction14/05/11 07:42 PM
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I generally agree that the majority of FR's on this subreddit (including my own) don't strictly help anyone. But I also think the majority of the value of this subreddit is the supportive community aspect. Merely knowing there were other guys going through the same thing as me and trying to pick up the game along the way has hugely helped my mindset. So feel free to go off on Seddit for being full of proud nerds getting girls' numbers. It sounds like you're already beyond this forum as a source …
/r/seduction01/04/11 02:28 AM
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Fantastic idea and very easy to execute, given that you hopefully have 30 prospects ready to go. More motivation to get #'s on the weekends :)
/r/seduction31/03/11 03:53 PM
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Tell it to the mods!
/r/seduction31/03/11 01:29 AM
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I always thought it was "shnappy bangles"
/r/seduction31/03/11 01:22 AM
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nice hat!
/r/seduction29/03/11 02:27 PM
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Everyone can do it. Start with just your head and nod to the beat. Progress to your neck. Then your shoulders. Then your hands. Then your hips. Then your legs. Just take it step by step. Even my deaf friend can do it because he can feel the bass. In fact, he's a great dancer because he's not distracted by words.
/r/seduction29/03/11 12:43 AM
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Take a class like some of the others here have said. Also, work out more. Dancing is very physically demanding!
/r/seduction29/03/11 12:42 AM
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None. Dancing is just an introduction, and it's hard to have a conversation when you're on the dancefloor. Take her by the hand and step to a quieter part of the club/bar (oftentimes the bar itself). I believe in the lingo this is called a bounce (?).
/r/seduction29/03/11 12:41 AM
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I concur. Went to an open swing dance session a while ago which was amazing, but it's tough learning a structured dance form. There are move "sequences" and a lot of timing involved which I don't really like if you're just starting out dancing, but generally I agree--learning a dance style helps you immensely with rhythm and movement, and learning a set structure does help you improvise later on.
/r/seduction28/03/11 10:53 PM
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I think bachata is the perfect expression of what you should be trying to do at all times on the dancefloor. It's very sexy, but without being too structured.
/r/seduction28/03/11 10:49 PM
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Grab her left hand with your right hand, or her right hand with your left hand.
/r/seduction28/03/11 10:47 PM
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I said, my exact words: "If you're going to come up here and eviscerate me in front of my girls, I'll let them speak on my behalf." And they defended me admirably. He walked away soon after, because--well, what else are you going to say?
/r/seduction28/03/11 06:01 PM
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Valid. I have had (limited) romantic history with them so I think it would have been offputting for me to put them to use as wings. Plus I didn't want to hit on them for fear of making it awkward with their friends right there. Honestly it was a great night. No need to always be on the prowl in my opinion at least. Plus retaining girls as references to more girls in the future is a winning long term strategy.
/r/seduction28/03/11 06:00 PM
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All good points. Here are some tips: Do the DJ. You know when DJs are grabbing their headphones with one hand and spinning the turntables with the other? Just do that, one hand spinning, the other hand kind of up in the air. Or do it with both hands spinning the turntables. Fist pump. Yes, it's Jersey Shore. It doesn't have to be violent, just get your hand in the air. It also doesn't have to be a closed fist, just act like you're petting a dog...in the air. Put your fists in front of you, palm …
/r/seduction28/03/11 05:46 PM
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Awesome terminology. Love it.
/r/seduction28/03/11 04:16 PM
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