Best content I've seen on how to express excitement without coming off as needy

badass_seaotter · 2018-10-16T02:51:44+00:00

tl;dr People / girls aren't afraid of you liking them, they're afraid of you being so needy and desperate for company that you can't live without them (what the video calls "manic dependence"). Prove that you have a colorful life full of opportunity and romance--then you can sincerely and excitedly tell people you hope they join you on your adventures, but you don't need them to.

HedoNNN · 2018-10-16T04:31:09+00:00

For those who want to know how to cultivate strong vulnerability the best recommended book is, for me, still "Models" by Mark Manson.

By applying this principle this is how I got my last 3 girlfriends.

Kye7 · 2018-10-16T02:20:22+00:00

Can I get a TLDW

Futureleak · 2018-10-16T02:26:49+00:00

Ok, but how do you do it now?

piperson · 2018-10-16T05:55:53+00:00

This brings up something that I've been coming up against a lot. Girls who are avoidant types in the attachment theory. Many girls are very uncomfortable with having people like them, so if you show signs of liking them beyond just sex, they get spooked and run for the hills. They ghost you. They ignore you in public. They just make things awkward.

I'm still working on this one. It seems that any expressions of affection are met with being pushed away by the girl. With this type you must never tell them that you like them or how they make you feel. You must always keep your poker face up no matter how much you are enjoying the interaction.

Any suggestions on how to work with girls who are afraid of intimacy?

NoDoughThough · 2018-10-16T04:50:40+00:00

This video was incredible. Straightforward and very informative!

robershow · 2018-10-16T15:54:47+00:00

I think what’s tough is communicating that you have other options. I’ve done that before and girls don’t seem to care.

bugxter · 2018-10-16T03:03:54+00:00

Love The School of Life.

intercitty · 2018-10-16T01:46:26+00:00

Beautiful and straight to the point without any fluff thank you

seller_anon · 2018-10-16T00:56:47+00:00

Science.

Shirotheskyrimnerd · 2018-10-16T06:26:40+00:00

Thank you so much for posting this, The School of Life is my new favorite channel.

molchz · 2018-10-16T15:05:06+00:00

Perfect Timing, thanks alot

Title	Best content I've seen on how to express excitement without coming off as needy
Author	reorient
Upvotes	365
Comments	40
Date	October 15, 2018 8:31 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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