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| – | [deleted by user]it's good you figured out what your issue is thanks. I have no problem whatsoever recognizing my flaws. I just can't see a way to revert such fucked up life, being so late into it. You need to find some friends, preferably some of whom are female that's exactly the focal point: I'm sexually uncalibrated, but above all things, uncalibrated alltogether in all aspects. I need to find a group. when I do hang out with friends, it's usually max 2 or 3 people, which I've known for ages and there's no… | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 08:57 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]hi, thanks for the response however - are you 'weird' / generally not calibrated enough around girls, OR average? because in your case it sounds like you had an average sex life, not a fully blown weirdo that barely gets laid here and there. these two things are fundamentally different. I've been trying cold approaching but I'm just way too uncalibrated, it's gonna take a long long time. I still can't get past the first stage idk wtf even to say. | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 08:46 PM |
| 2 | How to stop being intimated by hot girls?you won't experience any of these things if you are valuable enough and naturally get her respect girls only do these things as tests, or to men they perceive substantially inferior | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 11:18 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]this is true as well he probably hasn't "got" her yet, but at the same time this could help getting there | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 07:57 PM |
| 12 | Is there a correlation between attractiveness and flaking/enthusiasm from a girl?duhh of course you can be an idiot but if you are attractive you'll get away with anything, even the most retarded personality | /r/seduction | 09/01/22 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Why is she ignoring me after kissingperfectly possible, girls sometimes just lose interest out of nowhere... factors can be many... met somebody else, got back with somebody, saw some red flags in you, whatever move on | /r/seduction | 24/11/21 05:17 AM |
| 4 | Need advice dealing with a single momDo not do it. You don't wanna deal with single moms trust me. Waste of everything | /r/seduction | 16/11/21 09:37 PM |
| 1 | She said give her space over a small issuewith girls most of the times (if not all) it's not down to the reason they pinpoint but the action they take they can say whatever but their action is taking distance = she is not interested you will never get a straight "I'm not interested" or "I don't like you in a sexual way" because that's gonna make them guilty about hurting your feelings or being blunt, rather, they will give you subtle hints about it - their actions and body language however will be futile anything other than "yes" for me… | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 01:34 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]you keep telling yourself that, buddy no such thing as "real woman"... you either make her interested, or you don't | /r/seduction | 29/10/21 06:29 PM |
| 1 | She can’t make up her mindanything other than "yes" for meeting up = NO. she wants you to know it but she doesnt want to be blunt about it. cant make up her mind = NO have to think about it = NO I like you but I'm busy / tired / whatever = NO you're the best thing that happened to me but we cant meet = NO next her. don't invest time or effort into this one. | /r/seduction | 28/10/21 06:37 PM |
| 1 | I have an abundance of options but a scarcity of quality options, how do you reconcile this?Be better quality yourself | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 07:38 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean when a girl likes your texts on Instagram,but doesn't response?She's doing it out of compromise If the girl likes you, she'll find a way to initiate contact... I don't mean multiple times a day... But she'll want to keep the thing going The message is "yes I see your msg, cool" but she's not interested | /r/seduction | 11/10/21 08:08 PM |
| – | [deleted by user]Shitty parenting that puts social skills / game in last order of priority "you need to focus on good grades and ONLY on good grades, spend every second of your life studying like I had to do, the rest will come" | /r/seduction | 02/10/21 12:49 PM |
| – | [deleted by user]A year ago or two, it would have made sense to see a therapist about it, but I think I made that "click" myself. Obviously my parents influenced my personality a lot, aswell as my way to see relationships in general. They have a scarcity mindset, bullied at school, and resentful later in life. Once they had children, they became straight out narcissistic parents, because now they had all the authority and could finally do whatever they wanted... bc you know... they got married. Life goal achieve… | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 03:41 PM |
| 2 | Creating a new friends group as an adultBoth things can be true at the same time. Just because I have a different awareness now, doesn't mean I actually have the experience gathering a new friends circle from scratch. I used to be much more naive than I am now, I had no idea how interaction actually works AT ALL. Obviously I don't have the experience hence why I'm asking. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/21 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Why do high value women date betas?This was a good... wtf almost 4 years ago. Now that I look back, I dodged a massive bullet. Now that girl is 29, looks begin to go down, as spoiled as it gets when it comes to partners. Recently she sent an essay on fb messenger explaining how some things aren't a problem anymore, and how she wants to do this again etcetc. I denied in the most professional way possible. Few months after that, I find out she's actually bi, and living together with a girl who used to be her bff, idk how that works… | /r/askTRP | 22/03/21 05:16 AM |
| 6 | Why do high value women date betas?maybe she wants a change of pace Yea also this Once, I was the "change of pace" for a girl who was more on the fast lane. Suddenly she "knew what she wanted" and all that. Lol sure, the bullshit. Turns out she wanted to cool down a bit because she had sorta built a bad reputation/popularity, and probably no Chads were on the radar. So I became her leverage, her friends could see she also dated the "other" type of guy, etc. After 6 months, the moment another Chad appeared on the radar, that was i… | /r/askTRP | 22/03/21 05:09 AM |
| 3 | Why do high value women date betas?First of all, it's not only a minority of high value women who date betas, it's a very slim minority, so it's not the rule but the exception. As for some reasons why they do it: 1) there are women who enjoy feeling superior to their partner 2) she might be gaining something else, despite not being actually, carnally attracted to that man. validation, money, security, you name it 3) maybe he's just not beta in her eyes? 4) she's on rebound after some bad boy didn't want her long term, now needs t… | /r/askTRP | 22/03/21 05:02 AM |
| 6 | Why do high value women date betas?the most "chaddy" guy I ever met, is actually far beyond chubby he wasn't overweigth forever, but he had game, and he got fat as everybody does when nearing the 30s. now, being overweigth is just another layer of his "persona". | /r/askTRP | 22/03/21 05:00 AM |
| 2 | Stop reading TRPYou don't need all of the rationalization and weird glosary you'll see on this sub. While some people here have their feet on the ground, it is basically the garbage dump for people with serious self hatred issues, where they come vent off their frustrations. And now more obviously than ever, a political propaganda place. You only need this: work on your looks: lift. haircut. clothing. posture. work on your persona: don't be autistic. voice. charisma. game. frame. work up the ladder: status. res… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/20 09:06 AM |
| 1 | Men cheat physically. Women cheat physically, emotionally, and mentally. Why a cheating woman is far worse than a cheating manYeah this. Make yourself valuable (looks, frame, game), practice, be a man. The rest will come. All the stories, weird glosary and so on... completely unnecessary and coming from a place of self hatred. Of course with an underlying political message just like everything else these days. Trying to give people a reason to live which also happens to associate to a political movement. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/19 08:02 AM |
| 1 | Reddit Banning all opposing viewpoints - Prepare to Meet at TRP.REDIt's not like reddit died, everything died as it got infected by SJW culture | /r/TheRedPill | 01/10/19 04:23 AM |
| 1 | The problem with women that have tattoos, and why its a major red flagsame reason why I rather avoid tattooed people in general, dudes too. they usually just think about the next one, and the next one, and the next one after that. that's where their money goes. that's what they browse on instagram all the time. yes one small tattoo that has a deep meaning to you, why not.. but I rather not spend my time with people so deep into the whole tattoo craze. I get it it's cool, just not for me | /r/TheRedPill | 20/09/19 01:13 AM |
| 1 | How Men Can Completely Own Reproductive RightsPlain and simple. Use protection. Make your dick valuable. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/09/19 08:08 PM |
| 1 | 10 ways to fail in turning your LTR redI like this comment, "autistic" used in a pedagogic way. Lately, "autistic" became the new "beta"... People will just comment "bwahaha you autistic" to get a lot of validation upvotes while contributing zero to the cause. There are people who don't quite get it so easily with human interactions in general and need actual guiding into it, just like there are people who don't get it with women and need that sort of help (which is the original purpose of this community to begin with). Come on peopl… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/19 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Some red pill perspective would be great in my (26m) relationship with gf (30f)you really think she actually went with her mom? otherwise, you really think they don't go to bars and meet dudes together? girl is 30 (past peak, near wall), was settling for you, then suddenly doesn't know what to do anymore. the only way this happens is she got some alpha validation. and this happened behind your back. stop trying to make yourself feel better. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/19 11:26 AM |
| 1 | Some red pill perspective would be great in my (26m) relationship with gf (30f)" and was single for a few months before she met me. We started out as fwb, but I fell in love quickly" first red flag. the man doesnt fall in love, dont even think about quickly. she is the one who has to beg for a relationship. she is in a position of power right now. "returned to my city from her summer holidays last week while I was working, and blew up at me" yes like somebody else said she fucked someone else in that holiday and now is stirring drama to create excuses to dump you. dump h… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/09/19 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Reverting a negative perception / bad reputationyou can perfectly be a social primate while going your own way. unlike monkeys, we are able to move around beyond our neighborhood, meet new better people and ditch the old ones that didn't do us any good. people are temporary. in that way, we evolved past monkeys - we don't need to stick to the same groups forever. a man should be perfectly able to mean something by himself without a group that defines him. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/19 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Reverting a negative perception / bad reputationI had to move continents because of my job, so I took that opportunity to reinvent/rebrand myself. Of course it not necessary to move in order to do this, but if it's feasible, then why not | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/19 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Reverting a negative perception / bad reputationThat's just you doing that. It's not women. It's a man's ability to satisfy his own needs. A man that smashes gets much more respect than one who doesn't, because both want to do it but only one gets to do it. Facts. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/19 10:29 AM |
| 1 | Reverting a negative perception / bad reputationthen thats just professionally useful, not socially. p.2 : "A man who is useful, socially skilled, attractive, busy, serves a purpose " | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/19 08:27 AM |
| 1 | A woman will do anything to fuck you, even if the logistics are shit - Field ReportOh, alright yes, you don't want to bang your friend's gf. Unlike women, we understand the concept of peer loyalty most of the time. And yes it sucks to be on the other end, but avoiding being the cucker won't make things any better. People will do this forever. You may as well be the one doing it, and doingit well. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/19 11:52 AM |
| 1 | A woman will do anything to fuck you, even if the logistics are shit - Field ReportThe more you play the game, the more you will realize good looking women are never single, they almost always have a bf, and branch swing onto a better one when given the oportunity - but they will only break up with the previous one AFTER testing the new one. You might as well be that next one. Otherwise you limit your scope to a slim % of women. Most of the times you fuck a woman for the first time, it's exactly what is happening. A man should be perfectly able to deal with the "fucked another… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/19 11:30 AM |
| 1 | Don't be a haterAll of this stuff spans from insecurity. A secure man that owns the fuck of whatever he is doing doesn't need to hate anything or anyone. Just walks away. Anger, impotence (not sexual but general), hate, negativity, sadness, it all spans from a deep place where the ego knows that you are not really "owning it". If you have all your shit together there will be no insecurity cutting through. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/19 07:05 PM |
| 1 | The problem with Tinder, Incels, and "ChadFish".Well it's not wasted if you get a benefit, and it's just as cheap as the other pussy really. You think any woman is special? Wrong community. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/19 05:17 PM |
| 1 | The problem with Tinder, Incels, and "ChadFish".Time and effort? Come on mate. It takes 10 minutes to set up a good profile and you just do it once. It takes five minutes a week to swipe all the available accounts in your 5-10km ratio. Time and effort is no excuse. If you do this as a complement to real life game/clubbing/etc it can be beneficial. What you and OP are trying to force there, is that you won't be a top 20% men if you use tinder, and this will put you on the bottom 20%. Male hamstering really, polarized views that make you feel b… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/19 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Why oneitis happens and breakups hurtFrom your comment what I implied was, no options at all. What I am suggesting is, indeed, do not settle, and work on having different options all the time regardless. You worked your ass off for one, then keep doing it for all the others. You already have access to an 8 so that's social proof to get more 8s or 7s at least. Do not ditch her if you are obtaining a benefit, but do not stop playing the game just because you are smashing an 8. Smash something else or keep the options open. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/19 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Why oneitis happens and breakups hurtThen you go and bang 3s and 4s. Make money and fix yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/19 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Why oneitis happens and breakups hurtYeah, it's one of the few things that is getting very hard to embrace for me too It's been a few years already. It's not anything about her or the fact that she executed the textbook branch swing. I just hate myself for not realizing all the red flags, clinging, being an emotional crybabe, begging her to take me back. And of course we can go all the way back and hate myself for even getting with her. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/19 10:08 AM |
| 1 | Why oneitis happens and breakups hurtTL;DR: Oneitis happens because you have no options and you know it. The brain response to this panic is to make you cling into your nearest possibility of survival. You don't cry over a crashed Fiesta if you have access to a McLaren, a Koenigsegg and a Porsche. You don't sniff around for scraps when you can just buy a bunch of new stuff instead. You don't need to ask for anything from anyone when you are able to get it all yourself. In fact, something you don't get to see a lot in this community… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/19 01:46 AM |
| 1 | No-Fap and Feminist talks about men's sexuality is actually gaslightingPorn isn't all that toxic, PROVIDED YOU ARE NOT MASTURBATING TO IT. In a way it's like being a musician and listening to new stuff to stay updated and learn new cool things. With porn it's the same, you learn to fuck like the pros. But again it's very important that you don't masturbate to porn or set up that unrealistic expectation for your own sex life. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/19 05:16 PM |
| 9 | Exposing How Women Manipulate MenBeing perceived as a protector in the physical sense is one of the key pillars of getting a woman sexually attracted. this is rooted in the fact that women get pregnant and during a big part of the pregnancy they wont be able to move around too much, defend themselves or handle heavy machinery. The female dictates all the conditions for a relationship with a man - exactly because of this reason. That's why a physically protective man is a keeper for them. even if just having sex for pleasure, it… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/19 10:04 PM |
| 10 | TLC Broadcasts the mutilation of a minor in first recorded and televised "celebrity" sex change.Well this is 2019. A dude who wants girls is wrong. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/19 07:02 PM |
| 1 | They're All PlayersFluency? What they do follows a hard coded logic that newbie RPers don't get. Women want to fuck a successful, protector man that spreads his seed successfully. Nowadays there's contraceptives but it's still valid, the underlying desire is to have his child. Doesn't matter that it's on a dick-to-dick basis, it's still valid and it has worked for all species in history. This is their logic. The way they reword all this is with their "feely" stuff but there is a deep logic underlying all of their … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/18 10:43 AM |
| 1 | My mother keeps doing this shit to meThis is no use with women. It isn't possible to have a mature conversation with them. I've tried to do this, she just turned the blame on me or goes like "Im your mother, I gave you your life blablabla" and somehow finds a way to play the victim. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/18 09:03 PM |
| 1 | As a male, is having a shy/reserved personality pretty much a disaster?Not as much as you may think. Being shy is a result of fear, so yea actually it's very bad and you will have to work on it (just be with people as much as you can, practice and learn), but being introverted or low energy type isn't actually bad at all. It's just that everybody loves an outgoing extroverted social animal, but not exclusively. You would be surprised if you knew how many women are actually attracted by the introverted type as long as you are doing it well. If you embrace the "silen… | /r/askTRP | 11/12/18 07:58 PM |
| 1 | My mother keeps doing this shit to meThen she would probably play the victim card, because she gave me the life and so on. Indeed there's a degree of narcissism in it. It's just harder to deal with because your parents die and you want to have things right with them, its not some bitch you can game or manipulate, or just next her. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/18 07:53 PM |
| 1 | My mother keeps doing this shit to meIt looks like she is. I'm 25, no I am not required to, it's only on visits. I live by myself and don't ever ask for anything from anyone. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/18 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Why do they think I'm gay?Answer the following line, no more, no less: "Is that a question or an offer?" No need to thank me | /r/askTRP | 11/12/18 07:42 PM |
| 50 | Bunch of women describing red pill teachings without realizing when asked how they feel about casual sexFor the same reason why it's bad to be white, or non-muslim, or heterosexual. That's what retarded identity politics have created. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/18 04:29 AM |
| 3 | Why The 9-5 "Rat Race" Stigma Is BullshitI mean whats the real difference. If you have an own business you are a slave of your customers anyway and you will have to work a ton of hours, even if no asshole is actually telling you what to do. Unless at some point you become able to have someone else to do the actual work while you just own the business, truth is you will actually be more of a slave than if you have a boss and fixed timetable/salary. Having an own business, freelancing and being self employed really isn't for anyone. Not … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/18 11:46 AM |
| 12 | Why The 9-5 "Rat Race" Stigma Is Bullshitmate, the only people who really push this kind of shit are these 16 year old new age liberal nutheads who can't start a lawnmower but want to start a revolution. They don't know how real life works because they never tried their hand at it, because their parents are still paying for that "revolution" and probably will do for a few more decades. truth is that power matters, status matters, money matters. in their failure to obtain any of them, they want to make it look like it doesnt matter and … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/18 11:40 AM |
| 0 | Thumb rule: Women are always sleeping with the highest value man they have access to.No she won't be back and that's not even the issue. Think forward, dude. You think too much about a crashed Ford Fiesta when you should be working on a new Mercedes. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/18 10:49 AM |
| 1 | Thumb rule: Women are always sleeping with the highest value man they have access to.Yes. I had a few on my antisocial media as well and the behavior is so blatant. The worst part is that many of them are really good looking and I wouldn't mind doing them just for variety, but once you notice how they act it's a huge turnoff. I mean whats even the point, it's basically a woman hitting the wall. Because indeed, what they do is basically skipping all the way to The Wall ™ , in their way to approach anything. Every move they make is a card they play, with the ONLY goal in mind of h… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/18 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Stop Training to Extreme SorenessYeah its just inefficient. The difference between mildly sore and extremely sore, in terms of gains, isn't very significant. Pain (just like the hearing and other functions) is logarithmic - the difference between not sore at all and midly sore, is much bigger than the one between mild to extreme. You might feel it hurts a lot but its just slightly more. Sure go ahead if it makes you feel the ultimate alpha because TRP says so, you aren't really squeezing that much. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/18 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Thumb rule: Women are always sleeping with the highest value man they have access to.The vast majority of women will fuck the one they perceive the highest value. It's a slim minority that takes other things into account. Also, most of the women who settle with betas have hit the wall, which means they don't really play the sexual market game anymore. They just get what they can get. When a woman is high value, SHE KNOWS IT. She has probably been high value since forever and grew up with the mindset for it. There's no way a girl is high value and doesn't know it (permanent male … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/18 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Closure Is BullshitThe entire sidebar really. Little bit in one article, little bit in others. Just read all of the links. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/18 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Closure Is BullshitYeah my comment isn't just my claim but a fact, theres a lot written about this. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/18 12:32 AM |
| 2 | Closure Is BullshitBecause women only trade up while branch swinging - this means once that she finished trading up, she never fucks lower quality men again (example, the ex she dumped), not in a joyful way at least. Men on the other hand, once we get to bang a 9, we still go for a 8 or 7 from time to time for some variety, including dumped ex'es. Women do not understand that concept. They switch exclusively to the highest they can get. basic animal biology - the female has the function of selecting ONLY the best … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/18 12:15 AM |
| 2 | Closure Is BullshitYeah, they shouldn't even be pointing the 72h thing out. It's useless for the most part. The real focus should go to dealing with the "just got dumped" situation where it becomes harder to obtain new pussy if people in your circle know you got dumped and now are single against your will. I don't know why anyone would even want to focus on getting the crashed Ford Fiesta back when they could just work on getting a new Mercedes. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/18 08:54 PM |
| 3 | Closure Is BullshitThis deserves a dedicated sidebar. People here get shocked about this whole thing being no more than a jungle, a tribe, but with skyscrapers and cell phones. Thats some game for ya. You want to fuck women then you have to do what all males have do in nature to fuck females. To the natural alpha this is effortless. To the rest of us it's work to be done, or you know, just stay home playing fortnite. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/18 08:27 PM |
| 3 | Closure Is BullshitMan I needed to read something like this a few years ago in my first LTR. It's so scary, how everything they do is for social validation. EVERYTHING! | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/18 08:21 PM |
| 10 | Thumb rule: Women are always sleeping with the highest value man they have access to.not my fault she has bad taste thats a bit of a BP statement, sounds like "her loss" - nope maatje she actually traded up, she actually won. she couldnt give two shits about what happened to you. in contrast, you got left wondering, dumped with the shittiest made up excuses ever. But yes overall I agree. they can literally switch in a matter of seconds. the moment they see their new perceived alpha for the first time, they can't ignore the tingles and they WILL do something about it. it's scary. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/18 08:16 PM |
| 6 | Thumb rule: Women are always sleeping with the highest value man they have access to.How many times have you yourself experienced a girl showing interest in you, then she suddenly stops responding to you or ghosts you, and you sit there wondering what you did wrong This is in fact what got me to discover TRP in first place. At that moment, still blue pilled, I got really annoying asking her why she stopped answering and saying the most clingy shit you could imagine (she had a bf at that time but was still sexting with me and about to cheat on him - silly me believing she wouldn'… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/18 03:54 AM |
| 2 | How to be the strong silent type (a realization)Absolutely. Men often oversee that a surprisingly decent % of women are into the introverted type, provided you are doing it well. It's a completely different way to develop game strategies, targets and even places. Many introverted men experience frustration when they fail to smash the stereotypical basic club chick - that is because they are basically trying to install a Tesla engine into a Ford Fiesta. A correct setup for introverts, instead, could be as you said a bar or more intimate places… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/18 06:10 PM |
| 1 | How to be the strong silent type (a realization)Of course, no need to take either of them to the extreme. The difference is that the highly extroverted type is more appealing to society, I mean who doesn't want someone that has a lot of people around all the time. That's probably what brings a lot of highly introverted people down, even if they are no more ill than their extroverted counterpart. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/18 10:39 AM |
| 2 | How to be the strong silent type (a realization)Some personality features are dynamic over time, others you just can't change them, ever. Especially the energy type - if someone is an introvert, that person will always be an introvert, no matter how many billions they make and how many plates he begins to spin. Look at pretty much all famous artists or performers. They may be slaying, they may be popular, but they are still introverts in their daily life. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/18 10:09 AM |
| 7 | How to be the strong silent type (a realization)"introvert" is not (always) a label/excuse that people stick to their personalities to justify not scoring a lot, it just means that this person's energy is focused more in their inner world, as opposed to extroverts, who need to be with a lot of people all the time to get energy from it. And their entire behaviour and frame is built around that, so I wouldn't say it's that overblown. If you are an introvert you can't get yourself to be an extrovert, even if you are the really attractive type. O… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/18 10:06 AM |
| 31 | Rape charge dropped against USC student after video surfaces. Thank technology for making data abundant.It's even funnier that feminists/SJWs are also the same people against the evil, oppressive cctv and vouching for "privacy". No wonder why. People are expected to believe whatever they say, because they are victims. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/18 06:37 AM |
| 1 | "Three guys have told me the L-word this year - and I'm tired of it"By nature, it's women the ones who want to "lock in" their man. Usually men who have this treat are absolute betas. Notice how the entire female fantasy (and almost, their life mission) is based on finding themselves a perfect "real man". Ever read books writen by females? Everything is about sex, about the real man, the romance, the fairytale. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/18 01:40 PM |
| 1 | "Three guys have told me the L-word this year - and I'm tired of it"she hesitated a lot to leave. they all do it, all the time. the only reason they stick to one dude is because they havent found a better one yet. the moment they find it = branch swing. female love is never genuine or heartfelt, there is always an underlying intention in all of their moves. She said that with guilt in her voice, she hugged me goodbye twice they are much better actors (BY NATURE) than you think. who even cares what she said or how. what matters is what her pussy does, in this c… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/18 01:32 PM |
| 13 | Whatever you become in Life, Don't be James aka Pastor Beta bux.This shit shouldn't even be a surprise... There should be a sidebar item (right at the beginning) saying that ALL womenwill inexorably switch to their well known instincts as soon as they get the chance no matter how special you think they are. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/11/18 02:47 PM |
| 7 | Are We There Yet?Hits home. I got in a LTR without experience in dealing with anything beyond a night stand, all red flags were up without me noticing. The good thing is that I got redpilled thanks to that LTR. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/18 03:58 PM |
| 7 | Are We There Yet?I don't agree completely. Under the right circumstances a LTR could be beneficial. The thing is that most BPers see a LTR as something that is supposed to last forever. They see it with the light of having won a battle where the price is that they get to keep the girl and lock her in, and never worry again about getting sex (having to do the work) - but that's purely idealistic, fed by disney love stories, it never happens in practice. The only couples that really work long term are the beta guy… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/18 03:21 PM |
| 11 | They're All PlayersWell the short version of the female fantasy is to find themselves a real Chad, and make it their own. Thats how egocentric they are - they care about nothing else but satisfying their own hypergamy. This is actually a paradox because as soon as the Chad becomes loyal and invested into them, they lose interest and "feeeel" completely different about the whole thing. This also explains why they never say what they really want but just cover it up with some sort of patter (I want a real man, I wan… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/18 01:38 PM |
| 15 | They're All PlayersEvery single thing they do or say is a card they're playing. Facts. They play the same game as us, they are much better at it and they have much more experience at it. Most girls start receiving ridiculous amounts of sexual attention from a very young age. They have wide availability of options and they know it. As a result they understand the concept of plates much earlier and they develop the correct strategy to satisfy their needs. Whoever says women have no logic or control is lying to thems… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/18 01:31 PM |
| 15 | The best way to have abundance mentality is to have an abundance of optionsThe goal has to be the wide availability of options (not only in sex but in every field), but UNTIL you get "there" you will have to fake it in a smart way and learn to do it properly - it's a skill you will need anyway. You may be not smashing as much as you want yet, but your frame has to be as if you were, so its never too early to start developing your persona. Girls have evolved to see through that shit? Of course. But we have also evolved to be smart males and thanks to communities like TR… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/18 01:49 AM |
| 5 | Why friendzones have nothing to do with actual friendshipsMost likely she doesn't. Women have a scary ability to forget people they had sex with (because they have access to so many more at any given moment), today you can be the love of her life and tomorrow she just doesnt "feeeel" the same way and switch to hating you entirely. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/18 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Why friendzones have nothing to do with actual friendships99% of man-woman friendships are useless and essentially a waste of time for the man. Women have an underlying, hidden intention in all of their moves. They couldn't care less about the dude they claim to be friends with, they are just waiting for the moment this guy becomes the ultimate alpha (or gets rich) so they can suddenly start to "feel weird" and try to lock him in. They will just use him as yet another validation shortcut. if you want friends, get male friends. you skip the whole gossip… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/18 01:56 PM |
| 9 | Girl Advice and Role ModelsAnd thats just life in general. How many of us wish the current agenda was "you fucked up, this is what you did wrong and this is what you have to do right" instead of "never stop believing, things will happen if they are meant to be" or "the right one will come". SERIOUSLY? I can't believe we've come from hunting mammoths without guns, to these types of feel-good speeches to feel good with ourselves blaming everybody else. Humanity needs a reminder of how good we could be. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/10/18 02:32 AM |
| 3 | Girl Advice and Role ModelsThis is such a hard pill to swallow when I tried to give it to people. Just because your father got into ONE relationship 30 years ago (got her pregnant and she's your mother now) by being nice it doesn't mean you have to be the nice guy. You only want to listen to people that get laid consistently so that you can achieve the same result. Don't "be confident and wait for the right one" because no "right one" will come so you lock her in and never worry about sex again, because it doesnt exist. Y… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/10/18 12:44 AM |
| 37 | The Quarantine is the best thing that has happened to TRPWhat else did you expect from a forum that is filled with college lefties trying to police what everyone else does or says under the "offensive" strawman | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/18 08:14 AM |
| 3 | Letting women misbehaveReply This hit home. I used to be the typical nice guy BP, borderline creepy sometimes, due to extremely BP parenting in the field of sex. Not particulary "ugly" but just not very tall, strong, or any of the features girls buy, and therefore not the best player either. Then my DJ hobby became my job and lifestye due to some smart decisions (and good skills), began to tour and explore the game - I can't say I became the ultimate alpha because I still didn't have it extremely easy, but I started t… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/10/18 07:46 AM |
| 2 | A man must be less prone to being lonelyThat's actually exactly what I did, I moved to a different continent (with far higher standards than mine) and I made it work from scratch. Then I moved to another country within the same continent, twice. But I think it will be a real challenge to do it again in a more "different" continent, the non-western world. That's my next goal. Later in my life I also want to explore the idea of living away from the city and being entirely self sufficient. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/18 07:54 PM |
| 2 | A man must be less prone to being lonelyI know the difference between hamstering the inability to function in society as "not wanting to", and putting special emphasys on working with the goal of needing the others as little as possible. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/18 10:03 PM |
| 1 | A man must be less prone to being lonelyOf course, also the only way to cover our sexual needs is by interaction with other people, and so on. I don't argue with that. What I'm saying is that I find much more value in striving for freedom and getting as close as possible to needing nothing from anyone, than in wanting to be an absolute stereotyped alpha that only finds meaning in being part of social circles. I'm yet to meet someone that is totally alone but I wouldn't call it a problem if it works for them. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/18 05:47 PM |
| 1 | A man must be less prone to being lonelyIt benefits the person that finds an advantage in it, whether you like it or not. Many of the people that changed history were loners. Obviously not the type of loner that watches series and plays fortnite but (for example) someone that is fully invested into his goals outside social life, or isn't interested in having a lot of people around for whatever reason he has. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/18 05:30 PM |
| 1 | A man must be less prone to being lonelyBecause you say so? I don't know what makes anyone stronger or better. I care about what benefits me more by my own standards. If you feel lonely after a week and you think its a good thing, good for you. But don't hamster it off like someone else is the problem because they can be by themselves. And that last part certainly isn't what this community teaches. You should do what you want regardless of how many friends it brings you. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/18 05:16 PM |
| 1 | A man must be less prone to being lonelyIf you are going to do things because someone else says it's good or bad then you shouldn't be browsing this community. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/18 05:10 PM |
| 1 | A man must be less prone to being lonelyYes, but that power becomes a weakness when this person's entire life is built around being popular within a social structure. What's the point on being so cool if you can't survive by yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/18 05:09 PM |
| 1 | A man must be less prone to being lonelyWhy not? Because society says it's bad to be alone? Not saying that you should be comfortable with being alone (or not) - but that you should carry on with your mission whatever it is, even if ending up alone is a part of the price. The idea that being lonely is "bad" is simply a limitation. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/18 04:58 PM |
| 37 | A man must be less prone to being lonelyPretty much. I prefer to call it freedom but you can also stick the TRP terminology to it. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/18 04:52 PM |
| 1 | A man must be less prone to being lonelyA man should be perfectly able to be lonely, and not need anyone else. This includes friends, partners and even family. A lot of the material on this community focuses too much on the entire social structure where everyone wants to be on top. But I believe a solid foundation for these principles begin by knowing how to be by yourself and then starting to add people - because you WANT, not because you need them. The moment you begin to live to be a part of something, your freedom is gone. I'd say… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/18 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Preselection: A Killer Display of Valuebut I believe that A LOT of women get off on feeling inferior, humiliated, or otherwise "small" under the shadow of a confident and dominant man no news. as it's extremely rare to have it confirmed by women, it had always been experimental or hypothetical for me.. UNTIL I got several of them to admit not only this, but also the fact that nearly all women wish to be treated like this in some way although they will never say it, because you know, gotta be a decent lady (on paper at least). If you … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/08/18 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Keep her excited or someone else willThe more you think about it, they are basically ADHD children but way more fucked up. Why can't they just stay single if this is the game they play? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/18 02:00 PM |
| 1 | The Monetization of LonelinessIf your SMV is on fleek you have nothing to worry about. It's all a game of natural selection. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/18 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Why TRP can not stop FeminismFor the same reason feminism can't stop TRP. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/08/18 10:48 PM |
| 1 | From a lifetime as a short insecure Beta to a powerful rule bending Alpha in the making. An experience and advice filled field report for a transformed man thanks to this sub!Yeah I get it. Some days it just happens. However the whole thing is very lengthy. A little too much, it almost seems insecure or screams "too much free time". Don't know you and don't know if it is the case but most of these long posts have that feel. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/18 08:02 AM |
| 1 | From a lifetime as a short insecure Beta to a powerful rule bending Alpha in the making. An experience and advice filled field report for a transformed man thanks to this sub!You ever done coke? This is more like Adderall/Ritalin or speed (amph sulfate) | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/18 03:44 AM |
| 1 | A pick up artists two cents (We can all admit we are having fun)Obviously for the most part we all do it for ourselves but its a huge part of building power. It's got nothing to do with people liking you. And there's nothing wrong with KNOWING (not thinking) you're better than others as long as it's true. We are not all the same. Facts to the table, some men have higher value than others and some types of arrogance are perfectly fine if they achieve the result we want. End justifies the means. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/18 07:11 PM |
| 1 | At the Longwinding End of the Cock CarouselIf your SMV/game/frame is on fleek, it will "just happen" anyway and girls will go for it - in sweden, in bolivia or in f*ckin indochina. Attraction will bypass their feminist "logic". The thing is, because of this very specific swedish mindset, it'll be almost impossible to find anything beyond plates. Which is fine - the whole monogamy/marriage/longterm stuff is made up. But the real issue is the way they play dudes and hamster things off like "it just happened" or "I feeeeel/I don't feeeeel..… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/18 09:05 PM |
| 1 | At the Longwinding End of the Cock CarouselYeah swedish women. See them like a plate and that should be about it. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/18 06:52 PM |
| 4 | The Fake AlphaTL;DR2: alpha arab acted alpha, beta OP downplays it as fake alpha because he failed the hijack situation he initially got involved in. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/18 12:52 PM |
| 12 | The Fake Alphadon't whiteknight anyone ever*.- | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/18 12:50 PM |
| 5 | The Fake AlphaStop hamstering. STOP. Yes it is about dominating people and achieving what you want at any cost. Yes you'll have to be a dick/jerk, people do that all the time and will keep doing it, so please stop downplaying it just because you were the loser. Don't blame the player. So many people on here jerk off to the machiavellian/sociopath type but hamster it off when it's someone else being that guy, and pretend the real alpha is the caring leader whatsoever - NO it's not. You want to be that bad boy … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/18 12:47 PM |
| 1 | The sad realities of modern datingYou forget that a large % of men are also obese, beta, BP, poor or just unattractive. Chances are you're a 5 or 6. By lifting, practicing your game and getting your life together you can probably raise it to 7 or 8. From there it's not that hard to get decent girls. The supermodel/instagram celebrity type will be obviously still out of reach as those will only go for 10's but I see no reason to stop working out and improving. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/18 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Girls often hide their relationship status, even when refusing to comply with a seduction.That's the whole point of flirting. Raising both partie's self steem, confirming SMV and building attraction through game. Her bf probably knows it and he probably does the same thing. This is normal in almost relationships nowadays, in fact it keeps them alive. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/18 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Girls often hide their relationship status, even when refusing to comply with a seduction.This is healthy though. We men are supposed to do the same. Talk to many girls, be flirty, even if it's not necessarily gonna "happen". | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/18 10:23 PM |
| 1 | She is not who you think she is, 6 month LTR field reportThis. A man should be perfectly able to do things by himself, in fact that's the way it should be done. The part where he hamsters it all like "I could be chad if I wanted but..." gives him away. There's no way in hell anyone could be Chad with that view of relationships. Chad would NEVER even consider a long term relationship, and has no need for the whole validation from one. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/18 06:15 AM |
| 6 | “Women have lost the art of making a man special“No one said otherwise. If you're man you have to be a man. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/18 01:03 AM |
| 1 | “Women have lost the art of making a man special“Incorrect. For a LOWER SMV man, to get laid is an achievement. For a man that has it all together, to get laid is just natural. Same thing about women. Difference is that dudes will get out of their way to bang a 5 or 6. Girls won't sleep with anyone they perceive as a lower SMV than them. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/18 09:14 PM |
| 1 | “Women have lost the art of making a man special“That's probably because they rarely actually enjoy it. If it's not with their idealized/perceived alpha, they see it as a transaction because indeed they could do without it (but they use it in exchange of something else). Simple as that. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/18 09:07 PM |
| 16 | “Women have lost the art of making a man special“Facts to the table, no one is special. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/18 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Is MeToo turning into NotYou at small companies?You do realize it's mostly high school lefties who buy into these things right? Whatever it takes, in order to take down the evil egotistic capitalism. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/18 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Don't Get Cucked By ConservativesDon't hate the player hate the game. Identity politics have won and there's no way back. The smartest move is to play their game and win it. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/18 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Cynical ImplementationNot always. If done tactically it can be benefitial. It is important NOT to buy into it, but depending on what you achieve by it, there are scenarios where it can be done. Ofc besides getting you laid. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/06/18 04:26 AM |
| 2 | How is Germany?Lived there. It's so regulated and politically correct that sometimes it does become boring and predictable, at least compared to the Netherlands or Argentina (just naming countries that I know). On the other hand people are efficient and practical at what they do. Strictly related to the "game": in practice, girls are sort of easy going and scoring isn't much of a hassle. datings apps are strongly adviced. just consider that their entire culture is almost as cucked as in countries like Sweden a… | /r/askTRP | 08/06/18 03:57 AM |
| 1 | The Red Pill was right all alongIt literally takes no effort if you have the SMV for it. It's not really much to do but treat her like another plate. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/18 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Uncensored truth about a fake and narcissistic thing known as social media.you dont "get" value out of it but its the main tool to show it off nowadays. and yeah unfortunately for the more conservative users the truth is that social media matters and its almost necessary. not saying its a good or bad thing but thats how it works nowadays. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/17 12:59 AM |
| 0 | Weird friendship with a girldoesnt really look like he wants to fuck her tho? | /r/askTRP | 15/12/17 09:59 PM |
| 1 | AWALT: A 25 year-old Chilean man was redpilled once and for all after meeting a 23 year-old German womanI don't know whats the 'standard' but I for myself almost always went for the french and succeeded. (I say "went" because I'm living in Europe now) | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/17 06:44 PM |
| 1 | AWALT: A 25 year-old Chilean man was redpilled once and for all after meeting a 23 year-old German womanYo creo que tiraba el dato a modo informativo ya en general nadie tiene idea entonces el chabon queria poner a los lectores en contexto, but i could be wrong ofc. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/17 06:34 PM |
| 1 | AWALT: A 25 year-old Chilean man was redpilled once and for all after meeting a 23 year-old German womanJaja que basura. Igual esta bueno joderlos pero particularmente el loco de este thread no parece muy agrandado | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/17 04:02 PM |
| 1 | AWALT: A 25 year-old Chilean man was redpilled once and for all after meeting a 23 year-old German womanThat depends a lot. The "mainstream" culture in Arg and most of LA is still a little behind and still kinda puts girls on a pedestral. If you get lucky to be born/raised in more modern areas like BA, CBA, MZA, Patagonia etc there's a big chance you'll be more RP but otherwise the majority of the country is like our gaucho folklore lyrics, crying over a girl that doesnt like you. But ofc if ur an awkward nerdy, it doesnt matter how your culture is like - just like alphas will be alphas anywhere. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/17 03:56 PM |
| 1 | AWALT: A 25 year-old Chilean man was redpilled once and for all after meeting a 23 year-old German womanAs a fellow south american who swallowed the hardest pill with an Euro girl, this could be the best thing happening to you. Now you are ready for the world. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/17 03:49 PM |
| 2 | LTR told me an ex contacted...is this honesty a green flag?Could be that she is legit just sharing the news so you know; but in case it's a test stay calm | /r/askTRP | 12/12/17 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Is there any Reason Why i Shouldn't Make my Ex a Plate?any reason to do it apart from ease/comfort or remaining oneitis? | /r/askTRP | 12/12/17 02:10 AM |
| 4 | How to stop thinking about a girl?You don't think of a crashed 1999 Renault when you have access to 5 Lambos. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/17 02:06 AM |
| 3 | Clearly letting potential-LTR know I'm always ready to leave?That's what I wanted to know. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 10/12/17 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Clearly letting potential-LTR know I'm always ready to leave?I know that, just wondered whether it could be even better to state it clearly? | /r/askTRP | 10/12/17 06:38 PM |
| 1 | First post, same old story. Was awared but had to experience it myself. AWALT always.Dude I've recognized my mistakes since the beginning, or you need to read the post again? Especially the "lessons learned" part. I get you want to make a point but I never played my mistakes down or pretended its not my fault when I was awared of how things function. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/17 04:44 PM |
| 1 | First post, same old story. Was awared but had to experience it myself. AWALT always.Thank you, can only agree. Relationships (beyond just plates) were something I had been slacking at, and nothing better than transitioning into the bitter truth with experiences like this, even though it could indeed have been much worse. Contrary to being hurt/disappointed, makes me want to improve myself and keep playing the game. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/17 02:37 PM |
| 1 | First post, same old story. Was awared but had to experience it myself. AWALT always.Correct. Perhaps not really an "ex", more of an unserious fling that failed before. But yes, in the practice it's the same. It's someone that knew my flaws and knew exactly what to do. Completely my fault since I should have plated her at best. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/17 02:18 PM |
| 1 | First post, same old story. Was awared but had to experience it myself. AWALT always.You hit it on the head, this is exactly the case. It almost felt too easy at one point, found it suspicious but completely ignored the red flag (own mistake). "Havent connected like this before" or "Never been able to be myself with anyone else", that kind of stuff I kept hearing, but now I realize all the others also hear it. And also true the very last part. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/17 02:10 PM |
| 1 | First post, same old story. Was awared but had to experience it myself. AWALT always.The complains were not totally clear; more generic cliche like "this doesnt work anymore" or "I dont feel an understanding" or "I feel so distant from you, there's no connection anymore". In combination with the Chad outcome, it means this is just the female way to say she just wanted to upgrade. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/17 12:29 AM |
| 1 | First post, same old story. Was awared but had to experience it myself. AWALT always.Well I actually was clear with my mistakes, I didn't stay interesting, I relaxed as soon as I entered the LTR. I became too devoted to it, stopped seeing friends and actively displaying I'm wanted. That makes anyone lose interest. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/17 04:33 PM |
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