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[–]letsgetrandy 50 points51 points52 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
There's nothing to say. She's lost all interest. You've established yourself deeply as a person who doesn't take initiative, doesn't act on attraction, and will never be satisfying to her.
Step 1: Accept that it's done. Let it go. Move on.
Step 2: Stop acting like such a coward. Nobody wants to date for 3 months without some kind of physical romance. Promise yourself to never be so boring with future people you're interested in.
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[–]letsgetrandy 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Oh geez. Why did you text for 2 months before meeting?!
[–]Strive4BetterMyslef8 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I did a similar thing this summer as OP is describing. You are 100% on point my dude. Couldn't agree more
[–]TheCaribbeanRedditor 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
She lost interest. It happens. Stop contacting her and move on
[–]harvey_croat 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
There a alot of women on the field
[–]TheCaribbeanRedditor 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lots. No sense getting caught up on one not paying attention to you
[–]lildudefromXdastreet 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
You dated her for three months and you didn't smash?...tf is wrong with you op? Of course she lost interest, you acted like a scared pussy.
[–]sunsabeaches 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
And treated hers like a sacred pussy.
Edit: OP this is just a joke. Don’t take all these comments to harshly man. Everyone goes through a learning curve. You will get there.
[–]lildudefromXdastreet 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
There's your problem my guy. You're not acting like a guy who gets any play. You're acting like an orbiter.
No guy with options is texting the same girl for 2 months straight and not even meeting up with her, then going on multiple dates with her, then not making a move and not closing on ANY of them.
I doubt there's much you can do to fix this situation. If I were you, I'd talk to more girls and learn how to escalate. Also for the love of God stop texting chicks for months at a time if you're not fucking them. Limit texting to setting up dates and building a little bit of rapport here and there if you need to.
[–]GeeseCTM 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Thank God.. Me neither. See you tonight for Netflix and chill. You bring the wine I'll take care of the noms.
Probably won't work because you set the precedence of non sexual friend dude. Even she started seeming frustrated you needed to make a move.
I remember this one date I was on with this chick, same thing, she started to seem really frustrated and annoyed.
All I did was grab her by the shirt or something, gently and leaned into her a little bit and said, "Come here."
Oh man I went in for the kiss and it was so cute. She was like.. "Oh... Ok." and we started making out right on the street with people around and everything.
After that she was cool as a cucumber and the date ended up with us naked at her house.
[–]ThatGuy_Nick9 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It do be like that
[–]Accomplished_Ad_3418 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Did you kiss her? How physical did you all get?
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[–]Accomplished_Ad_3418 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Hmm, sounds like she wasn’t interested in the first place…
[–]Accomplished_Ad_3418 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sorry you had to go through that. It sounds like she wanted the attention or thought maybe she could like you but realized she wouldn’t.
Don’t take it personally. Shit happens all the time. You went for the kiss and missed. You’ll get it next time.
[–]Accomplished_Ad_3418 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hmm, it’s a lose/lose situation.
If you get the cheek you should not ask her out again.
If she was interested she would have stuck around the other dates for you to try again.
[–]harvey_croat 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
How old are you guys?
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[–]harvey_croat 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
In these ages if she cut you she lost interest, and its outside your control to be honest. On the other hand if she has avoidant attachment style then maybe your neediness is too much for her to handle.
Look, if someone is not interested just send them message and say: Usually when I have situations like this it sounds to me that girls are not interested anymore. Is this the case with you.
You will get your answer 🙂
[–]buttholepoopbutt 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Yeah chicks are like cats. She probably felt overwhelmed with how you may have been acting. It’s possible it wouldn’t have worked out anyway but you kinda gotta let them go, then come back, then show high value slowly.
The girls are acting like this. Real woman are communicating like a mature people.
[–]rosbergsessa420 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
you keep telling yourself that, buddy
no such thing as "real woman"... you either make her interested, or you don't
[–]harvey_croat 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
In some strange way, I agree with you
[–]Neverendinglove1986 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dude you texted her to much, if she didn't respond there's a reason. If you like her she doesn't.
I'm same situation like you. Met girl online, texting now for two weeks due to my covid stuff. But as usual I will know on first date do I like her and does she like me. If I feel it, my chasing it down and finish the job.
[–]UrFavPlayerIsBack 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah..she didn’t value your celibacy👆
What to do, cruel word.. we’ll die virgins
[–]mystylejay 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ask yourself what you will change in the future.
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