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userisauser · 2021-10-02T00:35:50+00:00

Brilliant people use their brilliant minds to create brilliant obstacles and limitations.

BluePsychosisDude2 · 2021-10-02T05:22:31+00:00

Believing that social interactions can be approached logically and deterministically. There is no magic formulas or pickup lines that work every time.

I'm reminded of the guy that went to a girl at a bar and just kept barking at her like a dog, and eventually she went home with him. It also reminds me of when I was at a party as a teen, and the girls there dressed up one of my friends like a girl, then he got laid later that night.

I think girls who like you will give you leeway and allow (some) mistakes and awkwardness, and girls who don't like you won't give you the time of day regardless of what you do. There are plenty of guys who are druggies and unemployed and still somehow find women.

But generally I'd say it's good advice to make yourself as attractive of a man as you can be, which involves losing weight, going to the gym, making yourself interesting, being funnier and more socially dominant, and most importantly putting yourself out there.

If you think about it, being overly logical seems like it would just kill the fun of attraction and sex and relationships anyway. Sex itself is an absurd, kind of pointless thing, attraction is all just evolutionary biology and cultural indicators of benefits to offspring. I agree with Michael that it's more like learning to play an instrument than anything else, you study the theory, practice, but you got to learn to riff, be creative, incorporate what you know, and perform in the moment without hesitation. Maybe similar to analyzing sports vs. actually playing.

TheNerdsQuest · 2021-10-01T23:30:17+00:00

Possessing a timidness that results from living in "safe spaces" and being terrified of offending others. If you are petrified to make your honest interest and intentions known, nothing will ever happen.

It comes from the social conditioning that most young people, particularly young men, receive these days. Young men are conditioned to believe that to pursue a woman is basically an unethical act unless everything happens to line up perfectly.

2021-10-01T23:43:26+00:00

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SDdude81 · 2021-10-01T23:01:11+00:00

Number (0) They probably have some form of autism, which can negatively effect emotional intelligence and social skills.

I've seen literally no dating advice for people who have some form of autism other than "date other autistic people."

2021-10-01T22:59:37+00:00

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CICaesar · 2021-10-01T23:33:52+00:00

This list doesn't seem particularly realistic or even helpful, although number 2 hit home tbh

Nofapdeity · 2021-10-02T03:36:06+00:00

This is somewhat me but also my avoidant attachment style does not let me emotionally attach to anyone.

rosbergsessa420 · 2021-10-02T12:49:19+00:00

Shitty parenting that puts social skills / game in last order of priority

"you need to focus on good grades and ONLY on good grades, spend every second of your life studying like I had to do, the rest will come"

2021-10-02T17:41:02+00:00

We all know some incel is going to see this and use it as an excuse of why he’s sexist and can’t get a girlfriend

recyclablebanthas · 2021-10-02T03:11:07+00:00

If you all want to have a discussion based on the merits and actual content of the post or the video, then that is what this forum is for.

But you have to keep it on topic (see Rule 4).

If you don't have something substantive beyond vague insults, personal attacks, or any other responses which do not concretely relate to something in the video or post, then you're in the wrong place.

LongETH · 2021-10-02T01:43:42+00:00

Bill & bezo lost Billions from divorce , that already say a lot

2021-10-02T07:09:00+00:00

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William_Seriously · 2021-10-06T07:45:54+00:00

Lmfao..... I'm sorry but there is no need for this, just be yourself. If you are attracted to someone ummm oh snap ... rocket science says.... Let that someone know, ?? Duh. Just be yourself 🙂🤣 No need to"attract" you should be looking for your other half, if you're just trying to get in someone's pants then this topic has relevance

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