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| 1 | Any books to recommendFundamentals of Female Dynamics by Michael Knight | /r/seduction | 18/04/25 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Apart from Models, what single dating book most positively affected you?Fundamentals of Female Dynamics by Michael Knight | /r/seduction | 03/04/25 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Books I can read to improve my confidence and seduction game especially with women...Fundamentals of Female Dynamics by Michael Knight | /r/seduction | 29/03/25 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Books on SeductionFundamentals of Female Dynamics by Michael Knight | /r/seduction | 29/03/25 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Advice on dating books?Fundamentals of Female Dynamics by Michael Knight | /r/seduction | 21/06/24 09:39 AM |
| 1 | How to compliment and flirt properly?Fundamentals of Flirting (How to Flirt in a Fun and Comfortable Way) | /r/seduction | 18/02/24 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Seduction book adviceFundamentals of Female Dynamics by Michael Knight | /r/seduction | 12/02/24 07:17 AM |
| 1 | What are some cheap/ free resources you used to improve your dating life ?Fundamentals of Female Dynamics by Michael Knight | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Why I struggled with women as an engineerTop reasons why technical and analytically intelligent people often fail at attracting women. Believing that social interactions can be approached logically and deterministically. There is no magic formulas or pickup lines that work every time. It's not just what you say, but how you say it. It's not just how you act, but from where your actions come. Suffering from analysis paralysis. Stop continuously acquiring knowledge without putting any of it into practice. Knowing only how to communicate … | /r/seduction | 01/02/24 03:39 PM |
| 272 | Most of the female attention you get happens when you are talking to people.Exactly, by displaying attractive traits indirectly in front of a person, it's easier to be free from feeling like you are trying to achieve a specific outcome. It also prevents you from looking like you are chasing the other person. And it makes your actions seem more honest, and that you are not just acting a certain way in order to win a specific person over. | /r/seduction | 02/04/23 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Are women overly picky from all the options they have with modern dating?Is Online Dating Worth It!?!? Breakdown of Tinder Statistics | /r/seduction | 18/10/22 11:56 PM |
| 1 | What is confidence and how do I actually use it?Confidence is a trust in one’s faculties that allows them to successfully overcome an obstacle or succeed at a given task. - How to Become More Confident | /r/seduction | 30/09/22 02:06 PM |
| 6 | How to take the conversation in a flirting directionFundamentals of Flirting (How to Flirt in a Fun and Comfortable Way) | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 08:05 AM |
| 2 | Once I realize a girl doesn’t find me attractive, she will no longer get my attention.This is the correct answer. Of course it will be buried by people here who love to upvote anything that confirms that there is no reason that they should even leave their house and try. | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Might be going out alone for the first time ..any tips?How to Go Out Alone | /r/seduction | 18/09/22 01:27 PM |
| 2 | If I try going for a girl I push her away, but if I don't try, I could literally ignore herWhy Results Come When You Stop Caring | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 05:38 PM |
| 1 | How to be a more interesting personThe most basic feedback is that the person stays in the interaction with you. After that you can look if the girl gets big bambi eyes, starts speaking excitedly or starts physically touching you. | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 01:43 PM |
| 19 | How do I get rid of this bottled up frustration from being unable to attract women as a 26year old male? I’m always alone and have no one to talk to and it makes me so mad because I can’t figure it out.this, and as well as try to harness your frustration constructively as motivation to work for improvement. The truth is that without some initial frustration, most people would never be motivated to work to improve at all. | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 01:30 PM |
| 1 | How do I even talk to girls without coming off as a friend?Transitioning from "Just Friends" to Boyfriend/Girlfriend | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Girls are so comfortable and easily open up to guys with gay energy. And some girls are scared or cautious around guys with masculine energy. Is this true?What they like about 'gay energy' is that they don't feel that the guy wants/needs something from them. Simply be a masculine guy that also does not need something from them. | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 11:14 AM |
| 1 | Best sources (books or YT channels) for non-bullshit game, social skills and seduction?YT Channel on Social Skills and Seduction: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCXL9vENkNxtpbul-r0p4hjQ/videos | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 11:12 AM |
| 2 | It's not that 'nice guys' finish last, it's men who only act nice as a result of them being too weak to stand up for themselves or their beliefs that will lack success.Worry less about perception but simply ask yourself the questions 'I am only doing this because I want something in return.' If you yourself are not connected to receiving a specific outcome from performing the action, then the other person will also most likely perceive it being done for the right reason. | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 09:18 AM |
| 1 | It's not that 'nice guys' finish last, it's men who only act nice as a result of them being too weak to stand up for themselves or their beliefs that will lack success.Why are you being a people pleaser? Normally its because you want positive emotions back from the other person. While its subtle, this is still a motive to your actions. Thus you may be acting less honest in an attempt for the other person to be more 'pleased' with you. | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 09:11 AM |
| 57 | How to stay away from logical conversation?Here are the top reasons technical people often fail at casual conversation: Believing that social interactions can be approached logically and deterministically. There is no magic formulas or pickup lines that work every time. It's not just what you say, but how you say it. It's not just how you act, but from where your actions come. Suffering from analysis paralysis. Stop continuously acquiring knowledge without putting any of it into practice. Knowing only how to communicate information and n… | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 03:34 PM |
| 0 | Feeling awkward talking with girls from "my league" but pretty confident with 9-10'sHow to Attract Someone out of my League | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 10:53 AM |
| 1 | Twelve Behaviors and Communication Traits of Attractive MenYou must be willing to fully walk away from those who repeatedly disrespect you. And eventually you need to develop into someone that on average people respect more. | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 05:54 PM |
| 2 | Twelve Behaviors and Communication Traits of Attractive MenOften when a person is nervous or seeking the approval of another person, they speak faster and in a higher pitched voice. They also have an upward inflection tone where they are subconsciously checking if the other person accepts what they are saying. Check out the video at 2:00 timestamp mark, to see me demonstrate and give examples. | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 09:35 AM |
| 4 | Twelve Behaviors and Communication Traits of Attractive MenThe main thing is to simply be comfortable with the existence silence. If you are talking quickly and randomly just to fill a silence out of a sense of awkwardness/discomfort, or you are verbally almost involuntarily reacting to a person who is trying to get a rise out of you, then it is often better to say nothing at all. | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Dating for 30+ men who want to get married and have a family.You are over thinking things and too worried about statistics and "market value," etc. If you socialize more and especially if you learn cold approach your chances of meeting women are endless. Putting yourself in area or as you call it "dating market" with more available women will of course be to your advantage. You might need to move if you live in the middle of no where. Or if you are already in a big city, you may need to visit new venues. Women will be more turned off by your insecurity of… | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 09:54 AM |
| 1 | What is the alternative less direct for “are you single?”You make an assumption she does in a statement and wait for her to correct you. "Does your boyfriend let you talk to him like that?" "Did your boyfriend buy you that?" Answers are Yes, No, and I don't have boyfriend. | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 07:43 AM |
| 2 | If I cut off every woman who didn't reciprocate my effort I would only have about one date every year or twoExactly, the key is to be persistent while simultaneously not being needy. Persistence often works with an available woman when you act with honest intent and are outcome independent. Women admire persistence when it illustrates the healthy sense of entitlement of a man who is confident of what he wants, but who also does not become emotionally distraught upon not getting it. This fulfills a woman’s wish to feel desired, but not in a needy value seeking sort of way. Any type of persistence which… | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 07:11 AM |
| 6 | How to standout to women who have options besides just being very handsomeDo not try to buy or barter for a person’s attention or affection. Speak honestly and be willing to disagree. Do not be desperate for another person’s approval or for them to like you. Do not be ashamed about your genuine interest in a person or opportunity. Don’t act like there is a reason why you may not be good enough for them. Do not actively chase a person. Do not react involuntarily to other people's actions, but respond comprehensively. Do not act jealous. Do not try to actively impress, … | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 07:06 AM |
| 2 | How can I learn to talk to women?How to Start Conversations with Strangers. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls do this?Why Acting Disinterested or even Disqualifying Yourself can Create Attraction. This is the inversion of your question, but the answer is the same. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 01:13 PM |
| 17 | How do I tell my best friend, I don't want to take him with me when approaching/ meeting women?Exactly. It's way way worse to have a wingman that is terrible at interacting with people and sinks every interaction. | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 07:23 AM |
| 1 | what can I do to develop an abundance mindset?Achieving ABUNDANCE in Dating and Life | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 07:51 PM |
| 1 | How to ask if she has a BF without being weird?You make an assumption she does in a statement and wait for her to correct you. "Does your boyfriend let you talk to him like that?" "Did your boyfriend buy you that?" Answers are Yes, No, and I don't have boyfriend. | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 05:11 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone have any suggestions on flirting with someone you’re already friends with? Would really appreciate some adviceTransitioning from "Just Friends" to Boyfriend/Girlfriend | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 08:29 AM |
| 1 | Top reasons why technical and analytically intelligent people often fail at attracting womenThis is why you need to go out and practice socializing with new people more often so that you can become more comfortable around people faster. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 10:15 AM |
| 3 | How do I build my confidence man?How to become more confident. | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 11:05 AM |
| 1 | Top reasons why technical and analytically intelligent people often fail at attracting womenFundamentals of Flirting | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 11:03 AM |
| 5 | Competing with other men (AMOG), what to do?This is the correct answer. In many other environments (bus stop probably not one of them), you can also physically move your interaction away from the other guy by saying to the girl: "hey let's go over here, it's quieter/nicer/etc." Then if the guy physically follows you it often makes him look like an orbiter or someone who is chasing. | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 12:23 PM |
| 0 | Seeking dating advice from 35+ menThe actions to take when you are 35 are no different than the actions that you should take if you are 20. There are actually a lot of advantages to being 35, in that your dating age range was the last generation before social media completely wiped the attention span of the following generations. You need to learn which behaviors that you are communicating which are unattractive and stop them. If interested, DM me and I will send you some links to some free resources. | /r/seduction | 09/07/22 12:18 PM |
| 5 | What's wrong with me? Missed 3 opportunities yesterday!You need to get over your fear of escalation and take action to make your honest intentions known and lead an interaction further. | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 10:03 AM |
| 0 | It's completely normal and OK to suck at first when learning anything new. Social skills are no different.https://enhancedeq.com/ | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 07:22 AM |
| 4 | It's completely normal and OK to suck at first when learning anything new. Social skills are no different.Yeah, learning to enjoy the process as well as not comparing yourself to others but only to who you were yesterday is key. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 06:38 PM |
| 3 | Need dating advice for Indians in USAWill My Race Hold Me Back in Dating? | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 05:53 PM |
| 1 | how many of you go to bars/clubs alone?How to go out alone to socialize | /r/seduction | 26/06/22 04:11 PM |
| 8 | Apart from Physical appearance how do you Mentally seduce a Man?Step 1: Ask him to help you solve a problem (even if you can do it yourself). Step 2: Show him a large amount of appreciation for solving the problem for you. Bonus points if the thank you involves a tasty edible component such as cookies. | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 10:39 AM |
| 1 | I have no idea what to talk about when I meet a girl at a party/pubHow to be interesting and not run out of things to say | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 10:33 AM |
| 1 | No idea how to flirt.Fundamentals of Flirting (How to Flirt in a Fun and Comfortable Way) | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 11:56 AM |
| 1 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?Don't do it to specifically get women... Do it to have an awesome life which women are a byproduct of. | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 06:48 PM |
| 1 | "People are dating all wrong, according to data science"Check out book the Fundamentals of Female Dynamics by Michael Knight. It goes over all the behaviors to change to come off more attractive. You can practice interactions everywhere. The more you socialize with new people in general, the better. | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 09:25 AM |
| 1 | Is hiring a coach worth it?If you don't plan to continue working on your own after the initial coaching experience, then I would not recommend it. If you are tight on cash, then save your money and start going out alone and applying knowledge from free sources. Here is a free source. | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 02:04 PM |
| 2 | Would approaching women with a female friend alongside you really make other women more comfortable and increase your chances of getting a number or even more?Whenever I went out dancing with an extremely attractive female friend, other woman could not take their eyes off me. Starting random conversation with any of these women was incredibly easy, since they would be immediately open and warm towards me. On nights when I would visit the same venue alone, much more effort was required on my part to successfully engage the women present. On one occasion, I approached a woman there and asked her to dance with me. Her immediate response was to decline. A… | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 08:24 AM |
| 1 | The easiest way to prevent neediness is to actually have enough of a full and interesting life that you are not making another person your sole focus.By creating abundance in this area of your life. Done by needing less or having more. Explained here. | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 08:03 AM |
| 5 | How does vulnerability lead to non-neediness?You can be surrounded by other people and still feel completely alone. Loneliness has less to do with the presence of other people, and more to do with the ability to form connections. The more connected you are to your true self, the easier it will become to connect with other people. Some forms of loneliness result when we abandon and hide from our true selves. We feel some embarrassment or shame about our life and try to disconnect from it via mindlessly scrolling through social media, bingei… | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 12:25 PM |
| 13 | How does vulnerability lead to non-neediness?Vulnerability is not being weak or soft, but rather being strong enough to deal with the consequences of exposing your true self, thoughts or feelings. Forming connections with others is only possible through honest communication. People rarely fully communicate their honest selves, instead hiding their true thoughts, beliefs and intentions out of fear of making themselves vulnerable. Extending trust is a manifestation of personal courage. You show that are willing to deal with any ramifications… | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Todd V’s bootcamp is $4500I didn't say he went into interactions with the purpose of failing. I'm saying he released footage of approaches that went poorly for educational purposes. | /r/seduction | 05/06/22 03:09 PM |
| 0 | Where does one go to find a Coach for Life/Dating?I provide both online and live coaching. You can check out the free resources here: https://enhancedeq.com/ , and if you find them valuable then feel free to apply or DM me any questions. | /r/seduction | 05/06/22 02:36 PM |
| 2 | Todd V’s bootcamp is $4500Yeah, usually there is a stipulation that you need to complete the entire bootcamp and ask in person at the end that you want the money back. You get refunded but also banned from taking any future programs. | /r/seduction | 05/06/22 09:28 AM |
| 1 | Todd V’s bootcamp is $4500I think he actually made that video himself to show students his worst approaches when he was completely out of state and just going through the motions without actually authentically wanting to interact with people. It was to show that even him as a professional has terrible days and motivate the students. | /r/seduction | 05/06/22 09:09 AM |
| 1 | Todd V’s bootcamp is $4500If a coach offers a money back guarantee to clients, then I don't get how they can be a scam artist. As a client you either like the results you are getting and continue the business relationship, or you terminate it and get your money back. You just need to find a coach that offers that. | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 09:12 AM |
| 0 | Todd V’s bootcamp is $4500It started that way, and then over the years evolved much more into "natural" game and completely away from doing any type or routines or lines. They don't even mention the MM basic framework of Attraction -> Comfort -> Seduction now. | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 09:00 AM |
| 1 | Todd V’s bootcamp is $4500I have met Todd and he for sure is one of the more legit guys out there. Definitely knows what he is talking about. If it's 1-on-1 and in NYC, $4500 is a somewhat reasonable price depending on the number of hours you spend together. There are coaches in the UK and Germany that charge 7000 GBP and 15,000 Euro respectively for only a 3 day bootcamp. The only way I can keep my own coaching prices low is by running them in Eastern Europe where living costs are much lower, but the girls are also way … | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 08:56 AM |
| 14 | How to get over oneitis?Most young males operating in a scarcity mindset catch the disease Oneitis at some point in their young adult lives. If not promptly caught and cured, Oneitis can take years away from one’s life. You can pour all your time and energy into a lost cause instead of using it to improve yourself. Having suffered myself from a very dire case of the disease, I am accustomed to the symptoms. The symptoms of Oneitis can include: Spending an abnormal amount of time thinking and obsessing over one girl. Be… | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 04:05 PM |
| 4 | If A Woman Rejects You In Any Way, There’s No Solution. You Just Walk The F* Away.Can we all please up vote this to the top? | /r/seduction | 01/06/22 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Tips on how to find stuff to talk about?How to be interesting and not run out of things to say. | /r/seduction | 01/06/22 08:34 AM |
| 6 | If A Woman Rejects You In Any Way, There’s No Solution. You Just Walk The F* Away.This is the worst advice that I have ever seen get so many up votes in this subreddit. It's sad to think of all the guys who will never achieve results due to not knowing the truth about confidence and persistence. Yes you should be totally cool with walking away at all times, which can actually create attraction. But you should not expect there to even be attraction prior to interacting enough to create it. | /r/seduction | 01/06/22 06:50 AM |
| 1 | How do you initiate touching on a date?The key to successful escalation is combining it with calibration and empathy. This allows you to comfortably move forward with another person. Avoid Social Awkwardness via Calibration and Empathy | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 10:12 AM |
| 1 | I feel like no matter what I do, I'm self critical and don't really feel "confidence"Like this: How To Never Face Rejection Again | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 09:22 AM |
| 1 | How to focus on the process and not the result of finding a relationship? (20F)Initially define "success" as nothing more than taking action and being willing to start a conversation with someone. Even if that interaction only lasts 5 seconds, pat yourself on the back. | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Tell me suggestions about which books to referModels, Fundamentals of Female Dynamics, and if you are a people pleaser: No More Mr. Nice Guy. | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 05:03 PM |
| 1 | How To Practice Emotion in ConversationHow to improve your social skills, emotional intelligence and charisma | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 05:00 PM |
| 30 | Is Money Worth the Wait?Came here to write this, will upvote instead. It's great to have your finances in order. But without social skills they can mean almost nothing when it comes to creating attraction. | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 04:56 PM |
| 1 | "People are dating all wrong, according to data science"I completely agree. The ROI of getting good at in-person interactions is a thousand times better than online dating. And guess what, even if you get a date from Tinder, you still need to have in-person social skills for it to go anywhere. Is Online Dating Worth It!?!? Breakdown of Tinder Statistics | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 04:53 PM |
| 1 | I feel like no matter what I do, I'm self critical and don't really feel "confidence"It comes from not attaching your self-worth solely to external metrics. Although its great to have the motivation to work to improve. | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 04:43 PM |
| 0 | Approaching White women as an India MaleWill My Race Hold Me Back in Dating? | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 04:36 PM |
| 1 | How to stop caring about girls ghosting/leaving on read and stop double textingHow to deal with flaking | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 04:24 PM |
| 1 | 10 Things I Hate About Cold ApproachMost of these are actually decent points to recognize, and should be a bit freeing. Not sure what what there is to hate about most of them. | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Clubbing alone for the first time tonight. Any tips?How to Go Out Alone to Socialize | /r/seduction | 14/05/22 01:25 PM |
| 1 | How do you talk to girls without being boring?How To Be Interesting | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 07:43 AM |
| 1 | I can’t flirtFundamentals of Flirting (How to Flirt in a Fun and Comfortable Way) | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 10:50 AM |
| 2 | How do you personally word it when you are asking a girl on a date?How to Ask a Girl Out | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 11:14 AM |
| 1 | How can I compliment a girl without being a simp or being a douchebag?When it comes to giving a compliment, make it as sincere and non-transactional as possible. That is, it should seem that you are not just flattering a person in order to get what you want in return. You should complement something that a person has control over. If you are to compliment someone’s appearance, make it based on a specific choice that they made, such as you like how they matched their outfit, or styled their hair. Even better are compliments that relate to their mind, such as liking… | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 09:22 AM |
| 2 | Do I have to play the game to win?You attract what you are. By playing validation games you will attract women who also play games. The goal is to become an actual attractive person, and not just simulate the behaviors of an attractive person. You don't need to try to make a person jealous, but its attractive if other people also enjoy your company. Your primarily issue is likely you are needy and want to barter or buy a woman's affection by simply being nice. Vulnerability is not being weak or soft, but rather being strong enou… | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 01:58 PM |
| 6 | “Your Brother Is Very Different And Handsome…”Either testing your confidence, or wanting you to signal to your brother that she is interested in him. | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 01:28 PM |
| 8 | “Your Brother Is Very Different And Handsome…”Sounds like she was testing your self-confidence. You should not fear or become aggravated when a woman tests you in an initial interaction. Being tested is a sign that a woman has some interest in you. If she was not interested in you at all, she would simply just dismiss you or make polite conversation. Instead, she is trying to verify in an accelerated manner that the person she just met is the cool, confident and congruent person that he appears to be. To pass these tests, you only need to r… | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 01:12 PM |
| 1 | recommendations for hobbies that can be done from home and make you a more attractive well-rounded person for dating?Best answer. | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 07:54 AM |
| 1 | What kind of bars should you go to and at what times to meet women?Busy is good, but so jammed pack you can't move is bad. The time I go really depends on the country and city. In Europe people might not even start showing up to a bar or club until 11pm and stay till 6 am. In college town USA, the bars may be closing at 2am and thus people are already there by 9pm. For leaving with someone, staying until the end of the night makes a big difference in the probability of it happening. | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 08:23 PM |
| 1 | How do I discern between "not giving a shit" but also "not being a pushover"How to Not Give a F*ck (the right way!) | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 08:17 PM |
| 25 | For those men who think they are "losers" life begins much later than you thinkI think Lincoln's life is a better example. | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 08:04 PM |
| -1 | No idea how to flirt and how to flirt correctly, never was a skill I had, what’s some things you do or ways I can be better at it?Fundamentals of Flirting (How to Flirt in a Fun and Comfortable Way) | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 03:50 PM |
| -1 | Why do some guys (like me) think that girls will like them if they are NICE?Some men are afraid to be even slightly disagreeable with women out of fear that they may like them less because of it. The truth is that a little bit of friction in a conversation is a good thing that can lead to attraction. It proves that the man is not simply trying to tell a woman what he thinks she wants to hear. A woman can detected when a man is just being 'nice' as a way of bartering for her attention, affection, love, approval or sex. In these cases, the man is often hiding his true int… | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Any advice (with examples ideally) when it comes to being charming/flirty and just what I should consider adopting?Fundamentals of Flirting (How to Flirt in a Fun and Comfortable Way) | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 11:03 AM |
| 2 | 1st Time Night Out AloneGood for you for going out and initiating interactions! Not chasing the girls around the venue was the right choice. Next steps to work on would be escalation and calibration. The primary key to going out alone is to not be self-conscious about it. As long as you do not think that its weird, neither will the other person. It's only when you try to cover up the fact that you are alone and come off as being embarrassed about it, that it hurts the interaction. Simply tell the truth, but with a stro… | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 10:36 AM |
| 3 | What kind of bars should you go to and at what times to meet women?I prefer bars which Have the type of people I want to meet. Are not so loud that its impossible to have a conversation. Are structured in such a may that its easy to mix and mingle. Long bar, dance floor, etc. A less restauranty a place where people are all stuck at individual tables. | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 08:18 AM |
| 3 | Getting #s at bars but struggling beyond that. How to improve night game follow-through?Top Reasons: You do not establish a significant connection during your initial meeting. You did not make your honest intentions clear in a congruent manner. You never gave the other person a specific reason why they should exchange contact information with you, and what to expect in the future. You put too much pressure on the other person such that they sense that you have an agenda. They fear that you may not respect their future decisions on the path that your relationship takes, so they avoi… | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 08:15 AM |
| 2 | Having never done Daygame before what should my expectations be set at?When initially starting out, you should redefine in your mind what you consider a successful outcome. It is quiet unrealistic to expect that you will become a natural Casanova within a week. If that's the sole metric for success against which you measure yourself, then its almost inevitable that you will become disappointed and discouraged. Your initial definition of success should not be dependent on external factors such as other people’s actions, but be solely dependent on your own actions. D… | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 08:11 AM |
| 9 | What's the best way to practice banter/responding to shit tests?You should not fear or become aggravated when a woman tests you in an initial interaction. Being tested is a sign that a woman has some interest in you. If she was not interested in you at all, she would simply just dismiss you or make polite conversation. Instead, she is trying to verify in an accelerated manner that the person she just met is the cool, confident and congruent person that he appears to be. To pass these tests, you only need to recognize that you are being tested and not have it… | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 08:04 AM |
| 2 | Proximity is one of the best signs that a girl likes youIt certainly means more when other options are available. But I would choose no company over horrible company. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 08:35 PM |
| 5 | Proximity is one of the best signs that a girl likes youNo one ever said anyone was entitled to anything. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Proximity is one of the best signs that a girl likes youI agree that proximity does not necessarily mean anything more than neutral. And normally the context I'm referring to is at a nightclub, bar, party, etc. And as you just stated yourself, if the other person was a nuisance or made you feel uncomfortable then you would likely be trying to increase distance. Thus by not doing so, the guy is likely not screwing up bad enough to be creating a negative impression. For a lot of guys, this is a good first step. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 08:09 PM |
| 34 | Proximity is one of the best signs that a girl likes youLiking a person does not mean you want to kiss a person. Turning down a kiss can be the result of many things. Including not knowing you enough yet. Not wanting to seem to easy. Being in a public place with friends who could judge, etc. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Any tips on not getting a blank head when talking to women?Speak with no filters and offer your honest opinions. Normally when you chat with friends, you probably don’t feel like you ever run out of things to talk about. This is because you are not constantly filtering your thoughts, being worried that they are good enough to say. Being stuck in your head is what leads to awkward pauses in a conversation. Some disagreement and debate in a conversation is engaging. Ask a person’s opinion and be willing to disagree with it. This shows that you are not jus… | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 01:29 PM |
| 7 | People who got genuinely good at daygame, how many approaches did it take?I often hear people ask the question: "how many people must I talk to before I start getting results?" Like it’s a video game, and they are asking how many little battles must they go through before their character levels up? You should not look an interaction as simple being a means to an end. Apathy and lack of genuine engagement will result in most interactions going nowhere. If you are not fully present and authentic in the interactions, you should not expect to form a connection. If you are… | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 01:19 PM |
| 1 | In your experience what are the things that you did that made girls chase youBy not chasing them. Why Results Come When You Stop Caring | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 07:20 AM |
| 10 | A Guide to Going Out AloneOverall great list. The primary key to going out alone is to not be self-conscious about it. As long as you do not think that its weird, neither will the other person. It's only when you try to cover up the fact that you are alone and come off as being embarrassed about it, that it hurts the interaction. Simply tell the truth, but with a strong confident frame when asked questions such as "Where are your friends?" E.g. "My friends didn't feel like going out tonight, so I came alone." You will be… | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 09:18 AM |
| 2 | So I went to 2 bars (for the first time)I'm glad you find it motivating. :) | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 07:23 PM |
| 1 | So I went to 2 bars (for the first time)How to Approach a Girl in a Group | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 07:19 PM |
| 7 | Which books are essential to read to improve your “seduction skills”?Fundamentals of Female Dynamics, Models, and if you are a people pleaser: No More Mr. Nice Guy. | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 07:02 AM |
| 5 | The Proximity Principle: Unless you are consistently interacting with women, don't expect them to magically show up in your life.I actually work in tech and sometimes write code for finance people. The finance guys (not so much the quants) you will see going out 3 or 4 times a week to high end places with clients that are full of good looking women. They build it into their lifestyle. The tech guys like myself have to actively make an effort. That means scheduling time each week to purposely visit such places and then actively try to meet people. No hot women are going to magically show up to your cubicle farm or thermody… | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 06:30 AM |
| 24 | How to get a girl out of my league?How to Attract Someone out of my League? It essentially boils down to not deciding for others that you are not good enough. Don’t disqualify yourself prior to even trying. Communicating doubt and worry in relation to thinking that another person is out of your league often creates a self fulfilling prophecy. | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 12:16 PM |
| 1 | When to compliment a girl?How to give a compliment | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 08:12 AM |
| 10 | What does not giving a fuck/not giving a shit mean exactly?How to Not Give a F*ck (the right way!) | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 08:52 AM |
| 3 | any of you guys ever go to night clubs or bars by yourself?How to go out alone to socialize The primary key to going out alone is to not be self-conscious about it. As long as you do not think that its weird, neither will the other person. It's only when you try to cover up the fact that you are alone and come off as being embarrassed about it, that it hurts the interaction. Simply tell the truth, but with a strong confident frame when asked questions such as "Where are your friends?" E.g. "My friends didn't feel like going out tonight, so I came alone.… | /r/seduction | 02/04/22 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Stop trying to win women over by being "Nice." Be HONEST instead.An honest asshole is better than a dishonest "nice guy." | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 09:33 AM |
| 1 | Stop trying to win women over by being "Nice." Be HONEST instead.Exactly. It works because he owns it. | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 09:33 AM |
| 6 | Stop trying to win women over by being "Nice." Be HONEST instead.Please send me a link to whatever you think I'm copying. | /r/seduction | 26/03/22 03:08 PM |
| 1 | I approached someone finally!How to start a conversation with strangers | /r/seduction | 26/03/22 09:56 AM |
| 1 | As a nerd how does one go about "Just be yourself" ?What people REALLY mean when they say "just be yourself" | /r/seduction | 25/03/22 09:24 AM |
| 4 | I sometimes feel like dating women is like playing a video game. I have to do certain things in a certain order at the right time to keep them interestedRight. It's this very thinking that there is a special specific combination of steps that makes the person fail. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 07:50 AM |
| 1 | It drives me how wild how society raises men to be soft, but craves men with edge.The plus side is that if you can just get a little bit better yourself, then you will basically have no competition from the rest of society. | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 02:46 PM |
| 2 | Often the last thing that a woman at a bar on a Friday night wants to experience is a complete stranger asking her a list of standard boring interview questions about her life.Good advice. Asking why instead of what. | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 07:14 PM |
| 1 | What can we learn from Pete Davidson?Why Women LOVE Chad (Pete Davidson) It's a combination of his unfiltered honesty and indifference. | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 12:04 PM |
| 33 | Most people play not to lose instead of playing to win. They hold back in conversation out of fear of saying the wrong thing. When in reality a bit of a polarizing personality makes you much more attractive.As stated above, the point is not to purposely say polarizing things but simply not fear being a bit polarizing as a result of speaking honestly. You can actually even be polarizing through silence, i.e. by not falling into the trap of trying to impress or qualify yourself. | /r/seduction | 17/02/22 02:38 PM |
| 3 | Is this pua coach helpful?Exactly. A good coach teaches you the fundamentals so that you can be present in the current moment and do the correct thing instead of stuck in your head wondering what you should do. | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 03:38 PM |
| 1 | How do STOP making female friends and make lovers?Transitioning from "Just Friends" to Boyfriend/Girlfriend | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 02:25 PM |
| 6 | PSA: When haters try to knock you down, discourage or hold you back, remember that “we always condemn most in others, that which we most fear in ourselves.”Same. They usually have an abundance mentality and don't see someone else's win as their loss. | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 02:48 PM |
| 1 | PSA: When haters try to knock you down, discourage or hold you back, remember that “we always condemn most in others, that which we most fear in ourselves.”I think that one of the top indicators that a person will eventually become successful is how they react to the success of others. i.e. Are they inspired or upset by it. | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 01:16 PM |
| 10 | What’s wrong with people on the sub?Well on the plus side, at least these people's genetics are not going to make it to the next generation. | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 04:44 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]It's not that women prefer jerks, it's that they desire the underlying complementary characteristics that often go with being a jerk. Self-centeredness can be a characteristic of a man who is fervently pursuing what he deems as his purpose in life. Arrogance often correlates with a man who has great belief in himself. An obnoxious person typically believes that what he has to say holds value. Appearing indifferent can be a trait of a man who has abundance and is secure in his environment. Thus w… | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 11:27 AM |
| 2 | Rereading "The Game" and think it's horrible. Would like your opinion.I have met Todd. I think that he for sure knows what he is talking about, and is among the best at game. As an engineer, I personally may appreciate more his super analytical breakdown style. He is also proof that you don't need to be some high energy life of the party guy to get really good. You just need to execute the fundamentals well enough. | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 03:28 PM |
| 2 | Rereading "The Game" and think it's horrible. Would like your opinion.Yes, I have met many people featured in the book, however not Neil Strauss or Mystery. Everything has evolved a lot since the book was written. I am in my early 30s, so like 10 years younger than the originally featured crew. The game book was always more of a story than a how-to book. But the mystery method still has some merit. The basic attraction switches are all true, as is the progression from attention to attraction to seduction. It was the canned material, scripts, pickup lines, peacocki… | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 03:04 PM |
| 3 | Rereading "The Game" and think it's horrible. Would like your opinion.Agreed. The fact that you could go out and actually do something was mind opening. | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 02:37 PM |
| 3 | HELP NEEDEDExactly. Don't throw away important things to party all the time. But practicing socializing and becoming better at it is the number one thing that you can do. Just replace the time you spend watching videos of people on youtube who talk about "SMV" and pontificate about the true nature of women from behind their computer screens. | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 01:42 PM |
| 6 | Im The most confident and most awkwrd person. HelpYes, practice is the single most important part of the answer. | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 01:34 PM |
| 2 | Rereading "The Game" and think it's horrible. Would like your opinion.Continued: On the subject of being disrespectful and saying backhanded compliments (negs): I personally do not believe that it is ever necessary to be purposely disrespectful to other people. However, I fully understand why being disrespectful seems to yield positive results with women. An understanding of the deeper fundamental principles regarding attraction reveals the truth behind the popular belief that women love assholes. Most women that have had a half-way decent childhood are not attrac… | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 01:29 PM |
| 4 | Rereading "The Game" and think it's horrible. Would like your opinion.The publication of the book The Game by Neil Strauss, over a decade ago, marked the birth of the modern “pick-up” industry, whose intent is to teach men how to become more successful in meeting and attracting women. Many men started religiously following the advice that they got from such books, lectures and online forums, because when applied, it did indeed appear to lead to better results. However, almost all these men, including the very authors of the advice, often misattributed the reasons … | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 01:29 PM |
| 2 | Are coaches worth the money?Depends on what you are paying for. Working one on one in person with a coach? Working one on one online with a coach. Or being thrown into a 20-200 person group chat with a coach's assistant? Do they offer a money back policy where you can stop at anytime, or make you pay for 5 months ahead of time with no money back if you don't like it? I work as a coach both online and in-person. One hundred percent of my clients come from people who reached out to me first. If a client reaches out to a coac… | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 01:19 PM |
| 5 | Im The most confident and most awkwrd person. HelpYou are correct in that you should work to become a person who at their core is more confident, and not just constantly use techniques as a forever coping mechanism. Let's pick a self-esteem issue as the primary issue. Well how does one develop better self-esteem? It often would be achieved through the accumulation of new and positive reference experiences. To gain these new experiences you must take some sort of action. You don't get better at chess by just staring at and analyzing a chessboard… | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 01:00 PM |
| 3 | Dating coach offered me a deal?Depends on what you are paying for. Working one on one in person with a coach? Working one on one online with a coach. Or being thrown into a 20-200 person group chat with a coach's assistant? Do they offer a money back policy where you can stop at anytime, or make you pay for 8 weeks ahead of time with no money back if you don't like it? I work as a coach both online and in-person. One hundred percent of my clients come from people who reached out to me first. If a client reaches out to a coach… | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 12:52 PM |
| 7 | Im The most confident and most awkwrd person. HelpThis is actually super common. You have conditional situational confidence, but lack a core confidence that transcends all situations. As long as you are doing something where the focus is on your work, your performance, or something else external, then you are fine. But when people's attention or focus is on you as a specific person, then you start to freak out. Try some of these techniques on how to become more confident. | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 12:39 PM |
| 3 | Why girls and people in general don’t like “too polite people” ?It can be interpreted as insincere and only being done because you are either too weak to deal with the repercussions of even the slightest conflict or friction, or as a way of bartering for the other person's attention, affection, love or approval. | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 08:35 AM |
| 4 | What is your advice for someone who is terrible at escalating intimacy?The key is a combination of calibration and empathy. This allows you to best adjust to every unique interaction. | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 08:21 AM |
| 8 | The chase is over, what now?How to act when a girl pulls back or goes cold | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 08:15 AM |
| 8 | Don't be tempted or fooled by cheap substitutes that allow modern society to rob you of the opportunity to form real connectionsI'm not qualified to comment or give advice on a person's medical conditions, and for sure that should be something to be discussed with a professional, as I do mention in the video. My primary point is that one should not expect that if they keep doing the same things over and over that they should expect different results. I think society / technology is changing so quickly nowadays that many people are feeling lost and lonely and that there is nothing inherently "wrong" with them but a lack o… | /r/seduction | 31/01/22 02:21 PM |
| 1 | How introverts flirt?Socializing Tips for Introverts | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 08:20 PM |
| 3 | First approach! How did I do?How to Ask a Girl Out Good job taking action. The main thing to work on is trying to create some type of rapport and connection prior to just straight up asking for her number, as well as give a specific reason why you want her number. Which would be to facilitate organizing some type of date. | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 04:10 PM |
| 1 | I screw it with girls i find interesting and rock with girls i don't care about. Is there some trick to reverse this?Why Results Come When You Stop Caring | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 02:14 PM |
| 1 | What are some books on seduction that work well? is something like the game overrated?Fundamentals of Female Dynamics by Michael Knight | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 11:04 AM |
| 1 | How can one create conversation during a pandemic where nothing is happening?Do new stuff or read new books. | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 05:23 PM |
| 3 | Why I give upAsk yourself the question: Why should she have been interested? Don't think being a doctor or intelligent will completely compensate if you are still communicating with general unattractive behaviors. "And at the end of 6-8 hours of talking on the phone, 3 "going out" dates and three work lunches together, she says that there wasn't a "spark", a.k.a I'm not attractive." The spark didn't necessarily not occur because you are physically unattractive, but likely had more to do with unattractive beh… | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 05:21 PM |
| 1 | What are some good books about Female Psychology? : seductionFundamentals of Female Dynamics by Michael Knight | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 05:12 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Does not matter if they are single or not if all you are offering at first is the chance to meet and talk to someone new. How to start conversations with strangers. | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 05:11 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Ideally you develop to the point that your self-worth and level of entitlement are not tied to external factors such as your last quarterly returns. When you approach and meet a beautiful woman, she knows nothing of your business, and it is simply your confident swagger that is attractive. While this swagger may have been based on the feeling that you are killing it in business, there is no reason that it needs to be. You could be broke yet still communicate with the same swagger and thus create… | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 05:06 PM |
| 1 | To appear more attractive, you must become less reactive. Don't get pulled into the trap of trying to respond logically to illogical comments. Instead try PAUSING prior to responding to other people.Yes I actually do my Italian friend. I remember Vegas for sure, but I think we may have met the second time in Riga, but perhaps you are right and it was Belgrade. | /r/seduction | 11/01/22 07:03 PM |
| 7 | To appear more attractive, you must become less reactive. Don't get pulled into the trap of trying to respond logically to illogical comments. Instead try PAUSING prior to responding to other people.I agree with you. The best thing a person can do to improve their social skills is to go out and interact with new people. Finding another guy to be your wingman with whom you can motivate each other to go out is also ideal. Developing consistent habits of going out is also absolutely necessary for continuous long term improvement. One of the first things that I ask a client is "What does your average week look like?" And we start looking for ways to increase socializing opportunities from there… | /r/seduction | 11/01/22 02:46 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]How to be Interesting Let's first start with the things that you should not do if you want a person to remain interested in talking to you. Don’t be negative. Don’t try to impress. Don’t judge or criticize other people. Don’t be desperate for attention. Don’t initially just jump into interview mode, and start asking the same standard questions a person always asks. A lot of people do not like their jobs. And when they are out in a public place trying to have fun and forget their work lives, havi… | /r/seduction | 11/01/22 11:31 AM |
| 10 | Why does it always seem to go that as soon as you lose interest in someone they become more attracted to you?Why results come when you stop caring. A common behavioral change is to become more nervous around a person that you like. You feel like you now have something to lose, while before you were indifferent. This often results in you starting to actively chase the person. You classify the situation as being an opportunity that does not come around too often, and become scared of blowing it. You feel like you need to make things happen ASAP before the chance disappears. So you start texting the perso… | /r/seduction | 09/01/22 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Best courses for daygame and game?Social Skills Training Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCXL9vENkNxtpbul-r0p4hjQ In general look for channels that teach you actionable information and tips rather than channels that promote some type of ideology. | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Nine tips for improving your conversation and social skillsyep, that's also good. Staying out of your own head so that you can in the present moment actively listen to what the other person is saying, and then continue the conversation via a "chain of association" based on what they say is the natural way. | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 05:01 PM |
| 12 | Groundbreaking Discovery To Do Your First Cold ApproachYeah.... Having the huge need to urinate is not going to help make your first cold approach ever go smoothly. The old recommendation was to give your friend $50 or $100 at the beginning of a night and have him promise you not to return it unless you did X amount of approaches. I would stick with that approach. | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 01:21 PM |
| 1 | The Proximity Principle: Unless you are consistently interacting with women, don't expect them to magically show up in your life.Yes. Here is a video on going out alone to socialize. | /r/seduction | 20/12/21 08:25 AM |
| 1 | How to Properly Employ the PUSH-PULL Method to Create AttractionYes I agree. It should be authentic and not manufactured. | /r/seduction | 17/12/21 11:55 AM |
| 0 | How to Properly Employ the PUSH-PULL Method to Create AttractionYes agreed, and that is the end message of this post that most seem to have missed. | /r/seduction | 17/12/21 11:52 AM |
| -1 | How to Properly Employ the PUSH-PULL Method to Create AttractionExactly. Either people have not read more than a few lines of this post, or have horrible English comprehension skills. Congrats sir for having a functioning brain. | /r/seduction | 17/12/21 11:48 AM |
| -1 | Men who are unsuccessful with women share one characteristic: they make excuses.*Men who are unsuccessful in general make excuses | /r/seduction | 16/12/21 07:15 AM |
| 22 | Is it just my idea or there are plenty of envious and sad people commenting on the sub?Yeah, its steadily got worse over the past 5 years. But its a very vocal minority. I have made posts with 1000k+, 90%+ upvotes but that contain comments which are 90% negative. You got t0 remember there is a group of guys that sit in their basements all day terrified that someone might post something that contradicts with their belief that there is nothing in their power that they could do to make their lives better. Better to simply attack the person to justify their worldview and victim mental… | /r/seduction | 16/12/21 07:13 AM |
| 593 | Is anyone using machine learning to identify fat chicks?I find it more efficient to use the old school neural net located inside my head to decide who to start conversations with in real life. | /r/seduction | 10/12/21 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Why nothing turns a woman on more than radical honesty plus an indifference to needing her validation.For sure being brain dead is not an attractive trait that you should try to emulate. The idea is that his confidence and non-neediness more than compensate for him being a complete idiot. | /r/seduction | 09/12/21 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Why nothing turns a woman on more than radical honesty plus an indifference to needing her validation.Ask yourself the question this way, if you were the head of a team already filled with awesome people and you were looking to hire someone for a new competitive position. Would you want the guy/girl who is calm and sure of themselves and the value that they could bring to the team? A guy who seems like he is highly sought over by other companies and has many other employment options. Or would you hire the guy who seems desperate for the position, is worried that he is not good enough, and can't … | /r/seduction | 09/12/21 12:56 PM |
| 2 | Why nothing turns a woman on more than radical honesty plus an indifference to needing her validation.Yes! This works for everything. Let's you approach every opportunity while maximizing the chances that it will lead to something positive. | /r/seduction | 09/12/21 11:45 AM |
| 0 | Do you recommend any book about seduction for men?Fundamentals of Female Dynamics | /r/seduction | 08/12/21 10:30 AM |
| 6 | Don't try to impress but instead EXPRESS. Express your true self and let the other person get to know the real you.Key is not to second guess yourself in the moment while in a conversation. Try to remove those mental filters that turn on when you worry what you have to say is "not good enough." | /r/seduction | 07/12/21 06:01 PM |
| 9 | Don't try to impress but instead EXPRESS. Express your true self and let the other person get to know the real you.Yeah I agree. I got a ring light since this vid. I need a portable setup given that I travel and change countries a lot. | /r/seduction | 07/12/21 05:50 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck even is flirting? Also how do you do it without looking like or being a creep?Fundamentals of Flirting | /r/seduction | 05/12/21 09:08 PM |
| 3 | Why results come when you stop caringYou are correct that normally just the simple act of approaching communicates some interest, unless its super indirect or situational based. I personally don't assume any attraction at the start of a conversation. I expect any attraction to be primarily created by how I communicate within the interaction. The first thing you need to communicate is a sense that you don't want anything else but a light conversation and that you don't NEED anything from them. It's ok to show some interest as long a… | /r/seduction | 02/12/21 04:04 PM |
| 7 | A woman's actions will often provide you with much more accurate feedback than her words alone.Buddy I'm not looking for a fight. Just letting you know that this sub is for people who want to improve their lives and help each other out. We are trying to keep it a positive place. I just wanted to make sure that you were in the right place for what you are looking for. I wish you the best. | /r/seduction | 29/11/21 05:12 PM |
| 1 | how do you not allow rejection not eat away at your spirit/self esteem?Realize that a person that does not know anything about you at all cannot really reject the actual you. | /r/seduction | 29/11/21 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Looks matter..Become an Attractive High Value Man (w/o Good Looks, Money, or Fame) | /r/seduction | 29/11/21 04:53 PM |
| 8 | A woman's actions will often provide you with much more accurate feedback than her words alone.Why are you here if your comment history is asking people how many inches long their dick pics are? | /r/seduction | 29/11/21 04:40 PM |
| 2 | A woman's actions will often provide you with much more accurate feedback than her words alone.Thanks! It's especially true in recent years with the mainstream narrative and conditioning promoting competitive and combative relationships. | /r/seduction | 29/11/21 02:45 PM |
| 2 | Persistence only works when you openly, honestly and confidently makes your intentions known while simultaneously showing that you will not be upset if the other person turns down your offer.Thanks! I completely agree with your comment. It's key to make the other person feel like they are not responsible for your emotional state. | /r/seduction | 28/11/21 04:12 PM |
| 3 | The reason women love men who appear somewhat disinterested in themThe point is not to play games. The point is to check yourself from coming off way to strong and interested right at the start and scaring the person away or clearly demonstrating that you have not other options. | /r/seduction | 28/11/21 09:23 AM |
| 7 | The reason women love men who appear somewhat disinterested in themCorrect. By being non-needy you communicate that you are living in abundance which communicates pre-selection and social proof. | /r/seduction | 28/11/21 09:15 AM |
| 9 | The reason women love men who appear somewhat disinterested in themYep that's the key. Show your honest intentions and interest while simultaneously communicating that you do not need a specific outcome. | /r/seduction | 28/11/21 09:11 AM |
| 2 | Vulnerability is not being weak or soft, but rather being strong enough to deal with the consequences of exposing your true self, thoughts or feelings.Wow David, did you really not notice that this second reddit account of yours also contains plagiarized posts that you have stolen from me and posted as your own. | /r/seduction | 24/11/21 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Distinguish yourself as an attractive man by adopting the following behaviorsAll gifts are fine in theory (even taking a person on vacation). The thing that's important is the place from where the gift is coming from. Is the gift truly being given altruistically, or does the giver want / expect the person's attention, affection, love or approval in return. | /r/seduction | 23/11/21 08:45 AM |
| 1 | Distinguish yourself as an attractive man by adopting the following behaviorsOut of all the behaviors listed here, becoming non-reactive will likely take the largest amount of practice to achieve. Caring greatly about an outcome or having a disproportionate amount of investment early on in an interaction is advertised through the invested person being reactive. In an initial conversation where you barely know a woman, there is no good reason why the outcome should have a strong emotional effect on you. The opinion of a stranger does not shake the core confidence of an at… | /r/seduction | 23/11/21 08:31 AM |
| 6 | Distinguish yourself as an attractive man by adopting the following behaviorsOut of all the behaviors listed here, becoming non-reactive will likely take the largest amount of practice to achieve. Caring greatly about an outcome or having a disproportionate amount of investment early on in an interaction is advertised through the invested person being reactive. In an initial conversation where you barely know a woman, there is no good reason why the outcome should have a strong emotional effect on you. The opinion of a stranger does not shake the core confidence of an at… | /r/seduction | 23/11/21 08:30 AM |
| 1 | Distinguish yourself as an attractive man by adopting the following behaviorsHow to give a compliment. The ideal compliment is one that is honest as well as does not feel like its transactional. That is, the person does not feel like you are giving it only to get something back in return. | /r/seduction | 23/11/21 08:12 AM |
| 2 | Distinguish yourself as an attractive man by adopting the following behaviorsI agree. I heavily discourage memorizing scripts or routines. It comes off unauthentic and forced. Its much better to communicate in the present moment while working to correct unattractive habits. | /r/seduction | 22/11/21 08:16 PM |
| 8 | Distinguish yourself as an attractive man by adopting the following behaviorsTrying to bribe a person to like you by doing things such as buying them unsolicited drinks, giving tons of compliments, doing unrequested favors, only telling them what you think they want to hear, etc. | /r/seduction | 22/11/21 06:33 PM |
| 3 | Distinguish yourself as an attractive man by adopting the following behaviorsYou are right in that you for sure should be willing to initiate interactions and take action to create opportunities. I cover here How to be persistent without appearing needy. | /r/seduction | 22/11/21 06:15 PM |
| 42 | Distinguish yourself as an attractive man by adopting the following behaviorsExactly. More attraction can often be created by doing less rather than more. | /r/seduction | 22/11/21 02:19 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]How to become more confident. | /r/seduction | 22/11/21 12:04 PM |
| 18 | To attract girls how can i seem confident even if i'm insecure?While I don’t recommend “faking it,” since it can make you appear unauthentic and incongruent, it is still catchier than the more accurate phrase: “Accept your current limitations, but do not let them prevent you from putting yourself in new situations which may allow you to acquire through experience the skills required to be successful.” People who are so called “faking it” are still placing themselves in unfamiliar situations and forcing themselves to either sink or swim. Their ability to sur… | /r/seduction | 22/11/21 11:01 AM |
| 1 | How do I pick up girlsHow to start conversations with strangers. | /r/seduction | 22/11/21 09:07 AM |
| 1 | You can't logically convince someone to find you attractive.The attraction is created over time by the guy consistently demonstrating attractive traits, i.e. confidence, congruence, groundedness, etc. These are natural qualities that he has developed, not an act he puts on for the purpose of convincing the other person to like him. | /r/seduction | 20/11/21 12:58 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]How to go out alone to socialize | /r/seduction | 20/11/21 09:35 AM |
| 2 | Seduction is an on-going process.The inspirational side of this is that if you are able to let go of all your prior baggage and change your mentality and behaviors, then there is no reason why you can't instantly become more attractive in the current moment. | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 09:24 AM |
| 3 | When she PULLS BACK or GOES COLD on you, do THIS...Right. But I find its always good to be honest about your intentions from the start. If a girl knows where she stands from the start, she will often accept the situation. In the cases that she wants more than you can give her, then its normal to go your separate ways at that point. | /r/seduction | 05/11/21 02:25 PM |
| 10 | A girls perspective on ‘nice guys’Exactly. If you are simply being nice in order to receive attention, affection, love or approval in return, then you are often also being dishonest. These same guys are often too ashamed, nervous or lacking in confidence to be honest about their honest intentions and interest. Girls don't like men who have no choice but to be nice as a result of them being too weak to stand up to the slightest amount of conflict or discomfort. As fully explained here Do Nice Guys Really Finish Last? | /r/seduction | 05/11/21 01:48 PM |
| 3 | Help, I suck at game. Mid 30's, here.Most modern coaches would now recommend learning the first principles behind attractive communication rather than relying on regurgitating memorized routines or canned lines. Trying to force too strict a structure onto every random interaction can actually hurt you by making the interactions seem less authentic, not in-the-moment, and incongruent. Here are some more general conversation tips that you can use: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ir4y40KJ8Nk | /r/seduction | 27/10/21 01:34 PM |
| 4 | I'm a programmer, no social live , what can I do? Help!I am also a programmer / engineer. The key to success is taking action and purposely putting yourself in other environments where you interact with new people. This video covers your question: https://youtu.be/tz0coJx-LoE | /r/seduction | 24/10/21 06:28 PM |
| 4 | I woke up today and i saw a message from a girl who broke my heart 3 years before.Send her this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dQw4w9WgXcQ | /r/seduction | 22/10/21 11:59 AM |
| 6 | How does Russell Brand flirt so successfully?Flirting Masterclass by Russell Brand | /r/seduction | 12/10/21 03:03 PM |
| 2 | There is nothing more attractive than a person who still has a zest for life."You attract what you are," covers a lot. If you are an outgoing social person, you will meet more outgoing social people. If you are in great physical shape, you will likely meet other people in good physical shape. If you are well educated, you are probably around other well educated people. etc. If you are spending all your time in a small city with other socially reserved people, then those will be the people who tend to be around you. I would encourage exploring new environments. | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 02:12 PM |
| 4 | There is nothing more attractive than a person who still has a zest for life.The advice is not to fake your emotions and pretend to be happy. The advice is to work to build a life where you actually are happy. | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 01:46 PM |
| 2 | There is nothing more attractive than a person who still has a zest for life.I find that you often attract what you are. So if you are living your life in line with your own values and have a zest for life yourself, you will be more likely to attract similar people to you. | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 01:43 PM |
| 11 | One of the best signs that a girl likes you is proximityExactly. You should never make the other person feel like they are getting trapped in an interaction. The more they feel that they can end it at any time without any issues, the more comfortable they will feel to remain in the interaction. This is why showing that you are not emotionally dependent on the outcome of an interaction is so important. When the other person senses that you seem cool with whatever way the interaction ends up going, and that your emotions and actions are not dependent o… | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 06:28 PM |
| 23 | One of the best signs that a girl likes you is proximityCorrect. Many men don't recognize that this is a way of either showing interest, or purposely testing your confidence in an accelerated way because she has some initial interest. | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 04:15 PM |
| 7 | [deleted by user]Good point! The ability to come up with endless rationalizations is also a common factor. | /r/seduction | 02/10/21 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Recommendations on books that are worth investing time and money.Fundamentals of Female Dynamics | /r/seduction | 28/09/21 04:45 PM |
| 1 | My god, this community is toxic as fuck. Thought we were supposed to support each other?Because they are afraid of taking any personal responsibility, or if they are to try and fail, it only confirms their fears. It's easier to just get angry and convince yourself that there is nothing that you can do about it. | /r/seduction | 27/09/21 03:11 PM |
| 5 | My god, this community is toxic as fuck. Thought we were supposed to support each other?Realize that the most negative people are the loudest. Also realize that the very mindset that makes them post shit is the same mindset which will keep them living miserable existences. Don't get frustrated or angry by them, since they are almost 100% destined to live lonely unfulfilled lives. | /r/seduction | 04/09/21 12:48 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]This, as well as don't simply 'hit on them' but how about have an honest conversation and get to know them. | /r/seduction | 04/09/21 12:43 PM |
| 3 | Approaching women at bars in a college townTry "Hello." And then talk about whatever you want with no filters and a vibe that communicates that you don't want or need something from the other person. | /r/seduction | 26/08/21 09:31 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]This advice applies to your situation even though you were never in a official relationship to begin with: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HkBlffjkFuA | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 10:29 AM |
| 1 | How to improve my gameCheck out this youtube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCXL9vENkNxtpbul-r0p4hjQ | /r/seduction | 30/07/21 12:46 PM |
| 1 | If you want to reduce the chance of flaking, give the other person a specific reason why they should exchange contact information with you and let them know what to expect in the future.Of course you can ask anyone anything. | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 06:50 PM |
| 5 | If you want to reduce the chance of flaking, give the other person a specific reason why they should exchange contact information with you and let them know what to expect in the future.yes. Just confidently offer any activity or place as a good idea. | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 06:49 PM |
| 10 | If you want to reduce the chance of flaking, give the other person a specific reason why they should exchange contact information with you and let them know what to expect in the future.It's better to ask in a more confident way than "could i get your number maybe we could plan something?" Try "I enjoy talking to you. Would you like to do xyz with me this weekend? Yes? Cool, then let's exchange contact information." | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 04:07 PM |
| 0 | We often fear the results of our actions, when in reality it is inaction that is the much scarier alternative.True dat | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 04:59 PM |
| 1 | The WORST ADVICE that I have EVER HEARD (and that you are told everyday)Thanks! | /r/seduction | 15/07/21 07:16 AM |
| 30 | [deleted by user]Exactly, that's the secret to learning "seduction." The same traits that make you successful with women often make you successful in life in general. | /r/seduction | 09/07/21 04:52 PM |
| 25 | [deleted by user]Yes, you should not be afraid of showing your honest intentions. Persistence works when it is combined with non-neediness. Also shows your confidence in yourself. | /r/seduction | 09/07/21 03:23 PM |
| 6 | Amazed By The NegativityThere are people who are so terrified of knowing that they could improve if they put in the work that they just sit on this subreddit all day blasting all the advice people give. | /r/seduction | 08/07/21 03:28 PM |
| 2 | I love this subreddit, but i hate most of you.The toxic people just happen to also be the most vocal. I have had many 1k+ up voted submissions where the comment section was 90% negative but the up-vote percentage was 95%+. There are people who are so terrified of knowing that they could improve if they put in the work that they just sit on this subreddit all day blasting all the advice people give. | /r/seduction | 29/06/21 09:44 AM |
| 1 | 10 Tips to Appear as an Attractive High Value Man (w/o Good Looks, Money, or Fame)Thanks for your feedback. I agree that it would be important to recognize from where the jealousy arises. | /r/seduction | 10/06/21 07:32 PM |
| 2 | 10 Tips to Appear as an Attractive High Value Man (w/o Good Looks, Money, or Fame)Imagine a man confidently approaching you and starting a conversation, and then following the above points. Which exact points do you disagree with? Do you like men who try to buy your affection? Do you like men who get jealous? Do you who try hard to impress you? Who speak dishonestly with you? I feel that your main criticism is that men are becoming too soft and not having the confidence to step up and make things happen. And I completely agree with you there. But picture your ideal man, and t… | /r/seduction | 10/06/21 06:46 PM |
| 3 | Where do you draw the line between chasing and persistence?Overall same advice. To help decrease a scarcity mentality, find and optimize a way to meet more of the type of women that you like. 2% of the billions of people that are on the planet is still plenty of options. | /r/seduction | 07/06/21 01:33 PM |
| 2 | Where do you draw the line between chasing and persistence?How To Be Persistent Without Appearing Needy | /r/seduction | 07/06/21 12:35 PM |
| 1 | The most surefire way to botch a new relationship is by becoming too overly invested in it prior to the other person matching your investment.That's not being overly invested. That's being clear and upfront with your honest intentions from the start, which is a good thing. Being overly invested would be thinking that the person is the one and only for you after your first date. | /r/seduction | 06/06/21 10:50 AM |
| 1 | Book recommendationsFundamentals of Female Dynamics by Michael Knight | /r/seduction | 31/05/21 10:35 AM |
| 33 | Often the last thing that a woman at a bar on a Friday night wants to experience is a complete stranger asking her a list of standard boring interview questions about her life.Starting a conversation without introducing yourself and then having the girl later stop and say: "Wait, what's your name?" is a great indicator of initial interest and sign that you have successfully hooked the conversation. You can be sure that by that point where she is the one asking for your name that she actually cares to know it. | /r/seduction | 24/05/21 03:42 PM |
| 22 | Often the last thing that a woman at a bar on a Friday night wants to experience is a complete stranger asking her a list of standard boring interview questions about her life.Yep, exactly. Learning how to communicate emotions and not just information in a conversation was one of the key discoveries that made me much more successful. I cover it in this video: Why Technical People Often Fail at Casual Conversation | /r/seduction | 24/05/21 03:13 PM |
| 13 | The reason women love the "Chads" of the world is due to their indifference and radical honesty.In reality it is a cartoon meme that represents and depicts a fictitious archetype of a muscular man that easily attracts women and gets everything he wants in life. It serves to represent the dichotomy between successful men and men who like to complain, make excuses, identify as victims and use the Chad meme as an excuse to why they can never be successful with women since they were not inherently born a chad. Thus it gives them an excuse to never bother even trying to improve themselves. | /r/seduction | 21/05/21 01:43 PM |
| 3 | Got friendzoned but don’t know what I should do next?Transitioning from "Just Friends" to Boyfriend/Girlfriend | /r/seduction | 02/05/21 12:13 PM |
| 1 | Where would you go if you were a 35m who has never been in a relationship, has no close datable friends, and suffers from crippling approach anxiety?Here is a bunch of free content that you can reference. | /r/seduction | 27/04/21 12:25 PM |
| 1 | From a small town and have no relationship skillsHelp! I Live In A Small Town. How Can I Improve My Social Skills? | /r/seduction | 27/04/21 12:20 PM |
| 1 | What are the 3 best pick-up/female nature books you know ?Fundamentals of Female Dynamics | /r/seduction | 25/04/21 10:46 AM |
| -1 | I had a girl walk away from me tonight mid set to talk to another guyCorrect, very often it is a shit test. Best thing you can do is not be reactive, show a fear of loss or chase her. Show abundance by continuing to have a good time and talk to other people, instead of sitting alone butt-hurt. Then later on circle back around into another conversation if you want to. | /r/seduction | 19/04/21 03:13 PM |
| 0 | If you want to get better at socializing with women, the number one thing that you can do is to spend more time socializing with women.You can apply for coaching here: https://enhancedeq.com/ | /r/seduction | 15/04/21 11:58 AM |
| 54 | Unless you are especially handsome, there is no reason for someone to find you attractive prior to you interacting with them. The majority of attraction is created via your actions and behaviors within an interaction. In many cases, the interaction comes prior to attraction, not vice versa.Right. If your appearance stats are low, but you max out your charisma stats, then you can still do better than people who look better than you. | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 05:46 PM |
| 2 | Unless you are especially handsome, there is no reason for someone to find you attractive prior to you interacting with them. The majority of attraction is created via your actions and behaviors within an interaction. In many cases, the interaction comes prior to attraction, not vice versa.Yep. You create a self fulfilling prophecy. | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 05:40 PM |
| 10 | Unless you are especially handsome, there is no reason for someone to find you attractive prior to you interacting with them. The majority of attraction is created via your actions and behaviors within an interaction. In many cases, the interaction comes prior to attraction, not vice versa.Yes, social proof is another important factor. I removed it to streamline the title due to character limits. | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Persistence only works when you openly, honestly and confidently makes your intentions known while simultaneously showing that you will not be upset if the other person turns down your offer.If you don't enjoy talking to her anymore online, and are not interested in a platonic relationship, and she is not interested in a real relationship, then its time to move on and cut contact. If she does not want to meet you in person, then she is not interested in you any more. Telling her that you still have feelings will not change the situation. | /r/seduction | 03/04/21 09:10 AM |
| 1 | Persistence only works when you openly, honestly and confidently makes your intentions known while simultaneously showing that you will not be upset if the other person turns down your offer.Respect the person's decision and do not react negatively to the rejection. But also don't be ashamed about your desire or interest. If its a clear hard rejection then move on. You should always be presenting a girl with an opportunity to spend time with you, and never do anything that is forceful. | /r/seduction | 03/04/21 07:09 AM |
| 10 | Persistence only works when you openly, honestly and confidently makes your intentions known while simultaneously showing that you will not be upset if the other person turns down your offer.I like the democratic nature of reddit. People can literally decide for themselves to upvote an idea or not. I am really fearful that some of this knowledge may be lost with the ongoing cultural revolution that is currently taking place. Learning this stuff from free youtube videos really changed my life, but all those videos that I learned from are now all gone. | /r/seduction | 01/04/21 04:20 PM |
| 22 | Persistence only works when you openly, honestly and confidently makes your intentions known while simultaneously showing that you will not be upset if the other person turns down your offer.I used to run a blog with long posts, but statistically video is by far now globally the dominant way of communicating information. I also analyzed the huge amount of posts that I have made here and concluded that people like the core message short and sweet with an option to learn more if they desire to. But I don't fault people for being skeptical about links. I myself get messaged by multiple guys a week on this subreddit trying to get me on a 'free' phone call to sell me a $2000 coaching les… | /r/seduction | 01/04/21 03:57 PM |
| 5 | Persistence only works when you openly, honestly and confidently makes your intentions known while simultaneously showing that you will not be upset if the other person turns down your offer.Thanks man! I am really trying to follow the rules of the subreddit. I think you guys (moderators) came up with a good compromise for reducing spam. It allows for an incentive for any intermediate or advance guys to contribute to the community, while simultaneously limiting massive spam posting. | /r/seduction | 01/04/21 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Overdosing on vulnerability too early"Vulnerability is not being weak or soft, but rather being strong enough to deal with the consequences of exposing your true self, thoughts or feelings." | /r/seduction | 30/03/21 11:44 AM |
| 5 | When women test you, they are providing you with an opportunity for you to prove yourselfRight, exactly! Hopefully my comment above clarifies that. Eventually when you get very good at communicating in an attractive manner, you will rarely get shit tests anymore. But most guys should be aware that they will likely receive 'shit tests' during their journey and should actually view girls evaluating them as a sign they are making progress. Especially if before girls just made pleasant conversation or completely ignored them, i.e. did not even consider them as a potential mate. | /r/seduction | 29/03/21 04:24 PM |
| 1 | When women test you, they are providing you with an opportunity for you to prove yourselfI agree with you that you should not feel like you have to prove anything. The very act of simply not reacting to any "tests" is often the best response. Many men who start improving themselves will pass through an intermediate phase where women will seem to be evaluating them more. Later once you become super well grounded as a man the tests will again disappear since women will no longer feel the need to double check your confidence. The core point of this post is to highlight the fact that wo… | /r/seduction | 29/03/21 04:19 PM |
| 2 | First night outKeep it up! | /r/seduction | 27/03/21 12:34 PM |
| 6 | There is no reason why you can't shed a past identity and become a new and better version of yourself. You just need to be aware of the following...Thanks! | /r/seduction | 24/03/21 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Queues you pick up on that signal too approach?Top Sign that a Girl Like You | /r/seduction | 24/03/21 11:32 AM |
| 25 | Stop looking for signalsThis is the correct mentality. Posts in this sub that say "10 things to look for to know that a girl likes you" do the best because guys want an easy solution where they don't have to fear rejection. Ironically, the fact that you are too scared to approach and lack confidence are the very personality traits that make you unattractive. Attraction is created by being willing to make yourself a bit vulnerable. Plus unless you are super handsome, there are no reasons that a person should find you at… | /r/seduction | 24/03/21 11:27 AM |
| 1 | Some dating coaches say the best results come from lifestyle game. But you need to do cold approaching first to learn social skills, as it lets you practise on a lot of people. Is the way to succeed at this by doing cold approaching for a few months or years , then switch to building a lifestyle?It's not so much the fact that you are doing 'cold' approaches but more the fact that you are simply interacting with people in general that improves one's social skills. Being good at cold approaching is just a super useful skill for people whose typical daily lives do not naturally present them with the opportunities to interact with certain types of people that they desire to meet. If you work everyday in an engineering cubicle farm, then the opportunity to meet beautiful women may never happ… | /r/seduction | 23/03/21 01:09 PM |
| 4 | Some dating coaches say the best results come from lifestyle game. But you need to do cold approaching first to learn social skills, as it lets you practise on a lot of people. Is the way to succeed at this by doing cold approaching for a few months or years , then switch to building a lifestyle?Going out and cold approaching and thus practicing social skills can become your number 1 hobby but it should not be your life. You should be building a great life simultaneously to working on your social skills. Both aspects should reinforce each other synergistically. | /r/seduction | 23/03/21 10:23 AM |
| 1 | Conversation Tips to Become a More Interesting PersonTips for group dynamics | /r/seduction | 23/03/21 06:11 AM |
| 29 | Conversation Tips to Become a More Interesting PersonVery true | /r/seduction | 22/03/21 05:25 PM |
| 4 | Conversation Tips to Become a More Interesting PersonYou are welcome :) | /r/seduction | 22/03/21 05:25 PM |
| 1 | When you accept a flaw and remain confident despite it, more attraction can be generated than if you lacked the so called flaw altogether.If you are appearing very nervous its fine to acknowledge it. While you will not get points for confidence, you won't lose further points for not appearing congruent. | /r/seduction | 19/03/21 04:24 PM |
| 2 | When you accept a flaw and remain confident despite it, more attraction can be generated than if you lacked the so called flaw altogether.Perhaps, but hopefully its because I am good at explaining these concepts in a clear and logical way. :) | /r/seduction | 19/03/21 02:27 PM |
| 2 | When you accept a flaw and remain confident despite it, more attraction can be generated than if you lacked the so called flaw altogether.How to Become More Confident | /r/seduction | 19/03/21 10:57 AM |
| 4 | When you accept a flaw and remain confident despite it, more attraction can be generated than if you lacked the so called flaw altogether.I have terrible male pattern baldness, and its never held me back. | /r/seduction | 18/03/21 06:19 PM |
| 5 | You can't earn a person’s affection through performing unrequested actions and then getting upset when they don’t give you what you want.It's known as the Benjamin Franklin effect. He would get people who disliked him to lend him a valuable book which he would end up often not even reading. But the other person would have to rationalize why they would trust him with such an object. | /r/seduction | 17/03/21 06:54 PM |
| 1 | The reason why actively trying to impress a woman almost always fails...Yes exactly. Vulnerability defined as being willing to make your honest intentions known, and being strong enough to deal with the outcome of doing so. | /r/seduction | 17/03/21 09:14 AM |
| 1 | The reason why actively trying to impress a woman almost always fails...I actually made a video on the concept of loneliness: How to Deal with Loneliness | /r/seduction | 17/03/21 09:04 AM |
| 2 | The reason why actively trying to impress a woman almost always fails...What I teach my clients is that its a combination of one's reality, their beliefs and their behaviors. It's a feedback loop where all three factors reinforce one another. Normally I start with correcting the person's unattractive behaviors so that they get better results in reality which then makes them believe they are good enough. Only half of it is learning the right inner game belief system, the other half is applying it and actually seeing improvement so that your brain truly believes and a… | /r/seduction | 17/03/21 09:00 AM |
| 79 | The reason why actively trying to impress a woman almost always fails...With a sense that there is no reason why he is not good enough. Thus he does not feel the need to brag, qualify himself, or actively try to impress. Also his own emotions are not dependent on the other person liking or approving of him. He has a low pressure take it or leave it vibe, where he will remain happy either way. | /r/seduction | 16/03/21 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Attraction is not created by what you logically say but instead by what you emotionally convey. You cannot logically convince someone to like you.Fill out the application here: EnhancedEq.com and I will be in touch. | /r/seduction | 14/03/21 04:55 PM |
| 1 | How to become less outcome dependent?How you can become less outcome dependent by overcoming fear of rejection | /r/seduction | 12/03/21 10:57 AM |
| 3 | Attraction is not created by what you logically say but instead by what you emotionally convey. You cannot logically convince someone to like you.It likely means that you will need to put in extra time and effort to improve your social life since your university and work environment will be 95% men. In terms of work, it's a great degree for finding jobs. You can pretty much work anywhere from NASA to hedge funds. | /r/seduction | 10/03/21 01:14 PM |
| 16 | Attraction is not created by what you logically say but instead by what you emotionally convey. You cannot logically convince someone to like you.Yeah, I got really good. You should spend more time practicing than reading. After comprehending the basic fundamentals, every night going out and practicing is worth way more than most books. A lot of progress is just the result of becoming comfortable in social situations. | /r/seduction | 09/03/21 05:17 PM |
| 11 | Attraction is not created by what you logically say but instead by what you emotionally convey. You cannot logically convince someone to like you.Dan just sets up logistics to heavily be in his favor, as he personally stated on JRE. Hopefully he can logically find a way to reimburse his investors, or his logistics may soon become very terrible. | /r/seduction | 09/03/21 04:11 PM |
| 17 | Attraction is not created by what you logically say but instead by what you emotionally convey. You cannot logically convince someone to like you.I'm sure the average Laker player conveys almost only emotions and very little information. Their social status gives them a high level of entitlement and confidence which women sense on an emotional level. I doubt that many deep logical discussions are taking place in their nightclubs. | /r/seduction | 09/03/21 04:08 PM |
| 7 | Attraction is not created by what you logically say but instead by what you emotionally convey. You cannot logically convince someone to like you.There is no age limit to getting better. I have worked with people in their 60s. You just have schedule time to socialize as you would going to the gym or going to work. If you learn the basic theory and put in the practice you will improve. | /r/seduction | 09/03/21 03:43 PM |
| 66 | Attraction is not created by what you logically say but instead by what you emotionally convey. You cannot logically convince someone to like you.I'm also an engineer (electronic), and figuring out how to communicate in the emotional domain was a key epiphany that I had to becoming successful. After spending 5 days a week staring at a compute screen, in the beginning it was a battle for me to go out on a Friday night and be able to transition into social mode. But with practice comes results. Now I help coach other technical people to be able to do the same. | /r/seduction | 09/03/21 03:31 PM |
| 1 | What’s stopping a person from becoming super fucking confident ?How to Become More Confident | /r/seduction | 09/03/21 10:52 AM |
| 54 | As long as you are not self-conscious about it, then there is nothing weird about going out alone.There are also some benefits to going out alone. I found that being alone and without a friend to talk to motivated me to interact with and meet new people. When I went out with a friend, it was an easy out to just chat with them the entire time. When I was completely alone, meeting new people seemed like a better option than remaining alone. If your goal is to better your social skills and meet new people, and you don't share friends with similar goals, then going out alone is key. | /r/seduction | 07/03/21 03:41 PM |
| 4 | How to be a Happy Attractive PersonMost people find fulfillment through creating something valuable through the actions of their work. It is what makes musicians and other artists attractive. | /r/seduction | 06/03/21 02:27 PM |
| 1 | "Just Be Yourself!?" What is REALLY meant when people say this....I'm a big Bill Burr fan :) | /r/seduction | 05/03/21 01:47 PM |
| 2 | “I don't trust my voice”Trust in yourself that it so no big deal and you won't have to worry about your voice. | /r/seduction | 05/03/21 11:33 AM |
| 2 | Book Summary: The Book of PookGood list! | /r/seduction | 05/03/21 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Postmodern Dating SceneYou attract what you are and only bring into your life what you think you deserve. | /r/seduction | 05/03/21 08:02 AM |
| 1 | Sources for taking the first step and books about communication (request)Fundamentals of Female Dynamics by Michael Knight | /r/seduction | 21/02/21 02:15 PM |
| 0 | What are your honest, unfiltered opinions on the state of seduction coaching?I work as a coach both online and in-person. I have run many weekend bootcamp programs in the past and can say the following about them. The number one thing that a client can take away from a bootcamp is the lesson that improvement is possible. i.e. The client recognized in themselves some level of improvement and has an epiphany that its actually possible for them to get better by putting in the work. When I am teaching, this is the golden moment I hope to achieve. Once the client knows they a… | /r/seduction | 08/02/21 08:05 AM |
| 1 | Looking for books to do research on the subjectFundamentals of Female Dynamics by Michael Knight | /r/seduction | 04/02/21 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Don't know where I am wrongExtrapolating from the limited information that you provided: " I sometimes feel lonely. I wish I could have a female partner to share my life with." - You are acting out of scarcity, and people can detect your neediness. "Friends call me when they need to find a solution." - Do friends call you when they don't need something from you? Do you try to buy friendships or make women interested in you by doing things for them? "I don't want to be a playboy." - You don't have to become a playboy. You … | /r/seduction | 02/02/21 08:56 AM |
| 1 | Always worried about what people think. How can I snap out of it?How to not give a f*ck (The right way!) | /r/seduction | 02/02/21 06:49 AM |
| 5 | When it comes to asking someone out, don't think that tomorrow will be a better time to do it than today.Use a telephone and then schedule a date once you and/or your ruling governing body decides that the risk of two people meeting for either dinner or just an outdoor walk in the park is acceptable. | /r/seduction | 25/01/21 05:00 PM |
| 7 | Don't be a nice guyIt's not that 'nice guys' finish last, it's men forced into acting nice as a result of them being too weak to stand up for themselves or their beliefs that will never prosper. | /r/seduction | 24/01/21 11:03 AM |
| 1 | Twelve Attractive Traits and Behaviors of a High Status ManYep, correct interpretation. I give examples of it in the video. | /r/seduction | 22/01/21 11:05 PM |
| 2 | Twelve Attractive Traits and Behaviors of a High Status ManYep, the list is definitely applicable in all environments. But that's the real secret about game. You start learning it to get better with women, and then you see your entire life improve as a result. | /r/seduction | 22/01/21 11:03 PM |
| 3 | Twelve Attractive Traits and Behaviors of a High Status ManGreat! I appreciate your positive approach and attitude. After 10 years of coaching, the guys that I have met who think like you do are the ones who are most likely to achieve great success in the long run. All the best! | /r/seduction | 22/01/21 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Twelve Attractive Traits and Behaviors of a High Status ManYep, good addition. I wrote a past post about what constitutes the attractive version of vulnerability: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/kjyt0x/vulnerability_is_not_being_weak_or_soft_but/ | /r/seduction | 22/01/21 10:47 PM |
| 31 | How can a Woman be more attractive?Make a man feel super appreciated for something that he has done on your behalf. For example, something you own in broken and is in need of repair. Ask the man to help you fix it, and then be super grateful and give him a plate of cookies as thanks. I know its 2020. I know you can probably repair the thing yourself. The point is that this feeling of being appreciated is now super hard for men to come by in today's society. Couple this with a food reward such as cookies, and you will be amazed by… | /r/seduction | 21/01/21 01:22 PM |
| 3 | I can’t “seduce” women who I perceive to be better looking than me.How to Attract Someone Out of My League | /r/seduction | 19/01/21 09:22 AM |
| 0 | How do you know if a "dating coach" is legit?I have worked as a dating coach for 10 years. The number one thing that I would say to look for is to make sure there is a money back guarantee for any product or service that costs over $500. If you are paying over $1000, then it should be for in-person coaching. Paying thousands of dollars for some online class which you can't refund is insane. Any good and decent coach should offer you your money back if you are unhappy. Here is a link to my coaching in case he decides that he wants to go ano… | /r/seduction | 15/01/21 07:20 AM |
| 4 | How to Become interesting.Here is a video on How to be Interesting | /r/seduction | 15/01/21 07:10 AM |
| 2 | If someone won't date you because of your ethnicity, looks, or any other unalterable externality, it is their problem not yours.They are the standard stereotypical group who make up a large portion of my client base. We get along well though, since I'm also a computer engineer. :) | /r/seduction | 14/01/21 05:10 PM |
| 14 | If someone won't date you because of your ethnicity, looks, or any other unalterable externality, it is their problem not yours.I agree with this. By problem I meant more that its their problem that they carry a prejudice or automatic negative presumption about a person due to some aspect about them. | /r/seduction | 14/01/21 03:36 PM |
| 2 | How effective is it paying and getting along PUAs to setup or improve your game?I agree with this and I work as a coach both online and in-person. For a guy starting out, I found the major benefit of an in person bootcamp are the following: Permission- The client's felt like they were allowed to do approaches because they were with a coach. Awareness- A good coach will point of the blind spots a client has in their social interactions. Accountability- The client's were pushed into interactions because of the coach. Possibility- The coach demonstrated in front of the clients… | /r/seduction | 14/01/21 09:18 AM |
| 4 | The Two Defining Traits of Being a Man: Competence plus StrengthI agree. I was referring more along the lines of not letting other people determine what you think and being strong and brave enough to stand up for your own beliefs. | /r/seduction | 14/01/21 08:43 AM |
| 2 | The Two Defining Traits of Being a Man: Competence plus StrengthYes, a competent man has a broad overview of understanding and is specifically knowledgeable when it comes to what needs to be done in the context of his own life and goals. Yes, adapting to new ideas is a great value to have. Never hold an idea so tight that you are not willing to challenge it. You should challenge and wrestle with your ideas. The ideas you have will either become more polished or you will learn something knew. This is why I used the phase "beliefs and values" above. I was refe… | /r/seduction | 14/01/21 08:36 AM |
| 2 | The Two Defining Traits of Being a Man: Competence plus StrengthA general rich=bad mentality for all people would be an example. I'm glad people like Elon Musk can become super rich and then poor those resources into projects that might help save the planet. However, the growing level of inequality is for sure becoming unsustainable and people are being robbed blind by the system. But I was speaking more along the lines of people who completely disregard the merit and competence of a person in exchange for other factors. Every person is a victim of some bad … | /r/seduction | 14/01/21 08:26 AM |
| 5 | The Two Defining Traits of Being a Man: Competence plus StrengthThis is another good answer. | /r/seduction | 13/01/21 06:19 PM |
| 14 | The Two Defining Traits of Being a Man: Competence plus StrengthIntelligence is somewhat related to competence. I would argue that the stronger a person is, the more truly compassionate and helpful they can be towards others. The benevolent leader can do more for his people than a weak but caring acquaintance. It is too common in today's society to promote weakness as virtuous, and strength as being solely oppressive. Without the means of some type of strength, it is very difficult to do any good in the world. | /r/seduction | 13/01/21 06:18 PM |
| 3 | The Two Defining Traits of Being a Man: Competence plus StrengthWhen it comes to specifically attraction and dating I recommend my own book. When it comes to other areas, I arranged my recommendations by category here: https://trueanomaly.org/books/ | /r/seduction | 13/01/21 05:59 PM |
| 12 | The Two Defining Traits of Being a Man: Competence plus StrengthThanks! | /r/seduction | 13/01/21 03:36 PM |
| 2 | It's not that 'nice guys' finish last, it's men forced into acting nice as a result of them being too weak to stand up for themselves or their beliefs that will never prosper.Yep. I expand on the entitlement concept in the video. | /r/seduction | 07/01/21 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Speaking with unfiltered honesty will get you better results than purposely 'negging' or giving backhanded complements to a person.Yes, exactly. Excellent paraphrasing/summarizing. | /r/seduction | 28/12/20 09:29 PM |
| 2 | What would you recommend to increase charming skills and charisma?Stay away from strictly memorizing routines. Learn and understand the fundamentals at work instead. The primary reason routines worked back in the day was that it gave men confidence and excuses to initiate conversations. The confidence combined with taking action was the thing that primary led to results, not the actual routines. Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCXL9vENkNxtpbul-r0p4hjQ Book: Fundamentals of Female Dynamics | /r/seduction | 27/12/20 10:28 AM |
| 2 | How do you know if a girl is in your leagueHow to attract someone that you think is out of your league. | /r/seduction | 25/12/20 01:14 PM |
| 1 | How to properly give a compliment without coming off as try-hard, insincere or creepyThanks! It's much appreciated! | /r/seduction | 25/12/20 08:13 AM |
| 0 | Just finished reading How to be a 3% man by Corey Wayne.I agree that backing off and giving a person space so not to seem needy is very effective. And as I talk about in the video, I understand why he links such teachings in with telling you to actively monitor how the other person is reacting to your actions. Since for a complete beginner, you need to work at being aware of what you are specifically doing that is causing a women to lose interest. However, sometimes advice or techniques that allows one to improve from being poor to good, can also pre… | /r/seduction | 24/12/20 08:13 PM |
| 3 | Just finished reading How to be a 3% man by Corey Wayne.Overall I liked the book, but there are a couple points that he is a bit off on, including: Advocating the active monitoring of a women’s attraction level and then performing specific actions when you deem it necessary to get that level up. Being willing to play validation games such as putting off calling someone back. Saying that you must be instantly rated a 5 or better on a scale of 1 to 10 in order to have a chance to date her. I made a full critical review of the book and its points that y… | /r/seduction | 24/12/20 01:21 PM |
| 1 | How do I get girls if I live in a rural area.Help! I Live In A Small Town. How Can I Improve My Social Skills? | /r/seduction | 22/12/20 11:58 AM |
| 87 | The number one sign that a girl likes you is proximityGood point. The above advice applies more for a person who you do not already consider a friend. I made a separate video covering how to transition from "Just Friends" to Boyfriend/Girlfriend. | /r/seduction | 10/12/20 03:21 PM |
| 0 | Book recommendation about GameFundamentals of Female Dynamics by Michael Knight | /r/seduction | 09/12/20 03:00 PM |
| 4 | Winner Mindset: Getting your phone number or an agreement to go on a date should be something that the other person feels fortunate to have acquired.It definitely needs to be delivered in the correct playful manner to work. I can see how it can read bad in text. | /r/seduction | 07/12/20 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Maintaining no contact or not?No Contact Rule: When it will and will not work. | /r/seduction | 03/12/20 02:27 PM |
| 7 | Why results come when you stop caringIn many circumstances, just that fact that you approached and started a conversation is enough to communicate your intentions. You are correct that the secret to success is to show your honest intentions while simultaneously not appearing needy, i.e. needing them to like you back. | /r/seduction | 24/11/20 01:34 PM |
| 7 | PSA: Adopting a victim mentality is the single best way to ensure that you never improve.Yep for sure. A lot of people self-sabotage because success leads to change and change can be scary. But you cannot even get to the point of needing to overcome that issue if you first don't shed a victim mentality and start actively working to improve yourself. | /r/seduction | 19/11/20 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Where do you draw the line between annoyance and persistence?How to be persistent without appearing needy | /r/seduction | 14/11/20 11:47 AM |
| 1 | How would you handle someone ghosting you?How to deal with flakes | /r/seduction | 11/11/20 12:28 PM |
| 54 | You can't earn a person’s affection through performing unrequested actions and then getting upset when they don’t give you what you want.Meditations by Marcus Aurelius is one of the best books that I have ever read. I highly recommend. | /r/seduction | 10/11/20 05:02 PM |
| 4 | ANY PUA BOOKS TO RECOMMEND?Fundamentals of Female Dynamics - Michael Knight | /r/seduction | 10/11/20 07:07 AM |
| 1 | What is the difference between indirect game and small talk?Implied intention | /r/seduction | 06/11/20 09:55 AM |
| 3 | If you want to avoid becoming discouraged by initial rejections and failures, shift your mindset the following way.The analogy is to initially define success as simply showing up to the gym. If you quit going to the gym after a week because you didn't drop 20 lbs, then you will never get more fit. | /r/seduction | 03/11/20 07:24 AM |
| 6 | If you want to avoid becoming discouraged by initial rejections and failures, shift your mindset the following way.The message is not that you shouldn't learn from rejections and get better. The message is that instead of getting down on yourself early on and quitting, to instead be motivated by the fact that you are taking action and working to improve. It's the same with learning anything new. If you start playing tennis and decide to quit because you lose your first few games, your guaranteed to never get better. | /r/seduction | 02/11/20 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Does not getting laid cause depression?Sometimes pain is nature's way of incentivizing you to develop and grow into a better person. | /r/seduction | 01/11/20 01:10 PM |
| 60 | What does being vulnerable mean ?"Being vulnerable does not mean being weak or soft, but rather that you are strong enough to deal with the repercussions that may result from exposing your true self." -Showing Vulnerability: Is It An Attractive Trait? | /r/seduction | 29/10/20 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Inexperienced 28-year-old male. Looking for a mentor and/or wingman. Advice WelcomeChannel with free content: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCXL9vENkNxtpbul-r0p4hjQ If you are interested in one-on-one coaching, you can apply here: https://enhancedeq.com/index.php/coaching/ | /r/seduction | 29/10/20 09:10 AM |
| 1 | How to not give a f*ck (The right way!) The reason that you care so much about what other people think of you is because you lack a core purpose that is your own. If you are making other people the complete focus of your life, then its only natural that you fixate on what they think.It can be as simple as working to become a better version of yourself. Continue trying new things and learning new things. Align your personal interests and passions with something that benefits others. | /r/seduction | 23/10/20 09:40 AM |
| 1 | Attraction is not created by what you logically say but instead by what you emotionally convey. This is why intelligent technically minded people often fail at casual conversation.Yep, here you go. | /r/seduction | 21/10/20 12:53 PM |
| 2 | Attraction is not created by what you logically say but instead by what you emotionally convey. This is why intelligent technically minded people often fail at casual conversation.I'm glad that you found the book valuable! | /r/seduction | 19/10/20 05:18 PM |
| 11 | Attraction is not created by what you logically say but instead by what you emotionally convey. This is why intelligent technically minded people often fail at casual conversation.It's also because they spend so much of their time in that environment with other like-minded people that they often have little else to talk about. They try to force a rapport with people by talking about the one thing they are most comfortable and confident about. Definitely have been guilty of doing that myself. Like you said, learning to actively listen to the other person would benefit their conversations greatly. | /r/seduction | 19/10/20 03:15 PM |
| 14 | Attraction is not created by what you logically say but instead by what you emotionally convey. This is why intelligent technically minded people often fail at casual conversation.I'm also an engineer, and most the people that I coach on the side also come from such backgrounds. During university I remember somewhat resenting other engineers around me, until I realized that what you often hate in others is what you fear most about yourself. When you are working your ass off trying to get better at something, and everyone else around you seems complacent and resigned to remain hopeless, it can be demoralizing. I created this YouTube channel with the purpose of specifically… | /r/seduction | 19/10/20 02:27 PM |
| 1 | What’s the difference between being persistent and chasing her around?https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/jdey7f/how_to_be_persistent_without_appearing_needy/ | /r/seduction | 19/10/20 08:06 AM |
| 1 | Don't make another person the primary focus of your life.While you shouldn't make one person the primary focus of your life, its fine to make actively improving your social skills and ability to meet people a major focus. This video basically answers your question. You need to put yourself in new environments and interact with new people. | /r/seduction | 15/10/20 06:46 AM |
| 1 | How do I cope with rejection?Overcoming Fear of Rejection | /r/seduction | 14/10/20 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Don't make another person the primary focus of your life.Correct, when done properly. The post was addressing the situations when people misuse it for the purposes of trying to get someone to like them. | /r/seduction | 14/10/20 06:51 AM |
| 22 | Don't make another person the primary focus of your life.There are definitely times that No Contact is appropriate, such as when ending a relationship or getting over a bad rejection or break up. Also, if someone cancels on me, I often respond by saying that the can get in touch with me if they want to reschedule, and fully leave the ball in their court. Thus effectively applying the no contract rule. I just don't recommend consciously actively using it as a technique in order to win someone over, since it can lead to playing validation games. | /r/seduction | 13/10/20 03:20 PM |
| 7 | There is nothing weird about going out alone, as long as you are not self-conscious about itI think its good to have personal standards and evaluate others against them. You should not demand that others must try to prove themselves to you, but show them that you have standards and give them the optionally opportunity to try to live up to them. | /r/seduction | 01/10/20 07:43 PM |
| 2 | Approaching girls while they are in groups is actually way easier than when they are alone. As long as you understand the following...Don't worry about the factor of being out alone or with a friend. People commonly believe that others will think that they are weird if they tell them that they are out alone. The most important thing is not to be ashamed of the fact of being out alone. When the question comes up: "So where are your friends?" You just confidently respond back: "They are at home, and didn't feel like going out tonight, so I'm here alone." If you think its totally normal and cool to be out alone, the other person … | /r/seduction | 26/09/20 09:05 AM |
| 6 | Approaching girls while they are in groups is actually way easier than when they are alone. As long as you understand the following...Thanks! | /r/seduction | 25/09/20 02:24 PM |
| 1 | How to be a 3% man rules on texting her first?Review and critique of 3% Man | /r/seduction | 17/09/20 10:47 AM |
| 1 | Discouraged about dating in collegePickup Guide for Engineers | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Is there an actually good "guidebook" out there to become good at "the game"?Fundamentals of Female Dynamics | /r/seduction | 07/07/20 07:29 AM |
| 1 | Good books, series or movies about seduction?Fundamentals of Female Dynamics | /r/seduction | 06/07/20 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Any good books on the theories behind attraction?Fundamentals of Female Dynamics | /r/seduction | 30/06/20 08:15 AM |
| 1 | Any book recommendationsFundamentals of Female Dynamics | /r/seduction | 21/06/20 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Small town strugglesHelp! I Live In A Small Town. How Can I Improve My Social Skills? | /r/seduction | 17/06/20 02:10 PM |
| 1 | When women test you, they are providing you with an opportunity for you to prove yourselfThe book focuses on the core fundamental concepts instead of teaching a million "do this" techniques. Amazon provides a one-click 100% money back guarantee, so there is no real risk to getting through 2 chapters and then deciding to return it. | /r/seduction | 03/05/20 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Need Book Suggestions for Extremely Desperate GuyFundamentals of Female Dynamics by Michael Knight | /r/seduction | 25/04/20 07:18 AM |
| 2 | Books to read?Fundamentals of Female Dynamics | /r/seduction | 21/04/20 01:16 PM |
| 1 | What are basics to seduction?Fundamentals of Female Dynamics | /r/seduction | 20/04/20 08:05 AM |
| 8 | Guys what is the best way to offer value?The easiest way is by being an enjoyable, nonjudgmental person who does not want or need anything from them. Covered in depth here: https://youtu.be/mmMGaCUpWPI | /r/seduction | 11/04/20 05:01 PM |
| 1 | What are some good books/YouTube channels for inner game and seduction tips?Book Recommendation | /r/seduction | 10/04/20 09:04 AM |
| 2 | What you need are social skillsDon't forget to actually talk and socialize with people. | /r/seduction | 30/03/20 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Greatest tip you will ever hear.Carl Sagan, Pale Blue Dot | /r/seduction | 11/03/20 07:17 AM |
| 4 | How to be more interestingI would say don't worry about offending people when giving your honest opinions, but also don't purposely try to offend them. By avoid being negative, I more meant avoid being a person with a negative pessimistic nihilistic gloomy attitude towards everything who purposely acts to tear other people down. Not so much a person who may unintentionally instill negative emotions in another person through the act of being honest. | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 08:24 PM |
| 7 | How to be more interesting70 117 99 107 44 119 101 108 108 32 104 101 114 101 32 121 111 117 32 103 111 10 or Decimal. | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 05:50 PM |
| 9 | How to be more interestingAnd for sure ASCII will be better understood than binary. ;) | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 05:09 PM |
| 2 | You have nothing to lose, but everything to gain!Yes! Exactly. Rejection is the result of not being successful at achieving a specific outcome. Normally the desired outcome is for another person to like you. You should redefine in your mind what you consider a successful outcome. This new definition should not be dependent on external factors such as other people’s actions, but be solely dependent on your own actions. Define success as being willing to start a conversation or interaction. Define success as being willing to put yourself out the… | /r/seduction | 21/02/20 08:35 PM |
| 1 | How do you get abundance when you don't live in a large city/near college campus?Help! I Live In A Small Town. How Can I Improve My Social Skills? | /r/seduction | 21/02/20 08:46 AM |
| 1 | Dating is a contact sport.Why People Flake on You | /r/seduction | 21/02/20 08:44 AM |
| 1 | Think about thatMatt Damon's same advice as when going for auditions | /r/seduction | 21/02/20 08:38 AM |
| 1 | To what extent is Models by Mark Manson obsoleted by dating apps and age range 18-30’s excessive texting and social media habits?Yes, the key is to make a significant initial in-person connection. Video on subject: https://youtu.be/Gzic--xSlhg | /r/seduction | 13/02/20 02:25 PM |
| 3 | I've read a lot of books, and most were useless. But these 3 have helped me the most: 'Models' by Mark Manson, 'How To Win Friends And Influence People' by Dale Carnegie, and 'Way Of The Superior Man' by David Deida. If I had to start again, I'd just read and revise these books, and ignore the rest.How the principles of "Never Split the Difference" can be applied to dating. | /r/seduction | 13/02/20 10:57 AM |
| 2 | Pick up booksFundamentals of Female Dynamics | /r/seduction | 10/02/20 07:15 AM |
| 1 | Should you call out a women if they don’t answer your text and or leave you on openCorrect answer. If you want a more in depth answer, check out this video: Why People Flake on You | /r/seduction | 07/02/20 08:26 AM |
| 6 | Stop the negativity!I am most disappointed by the shear number of YouTube channels out there which simply preach a sour grapes / victim mentality ideology to their followers. People seem much more interested in subscribing to people who give hourly lectures on why nothing is their fault and justify them taking no action to improve themselves. I have been working in this space in some capacity for ~10 years now, and recently started my own channel to try to preserve some of the better core ideas: https://youtu.be/Sd… | /r/seduction | 07/02/20 05:43 AM |
| 2 | Small town seductionHere is a video on how to improve your social skills in a small town. | /r/seduction | 02/02/20 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Doesn't approaching people impose costs? What set of guidelines would minimize this?How To Start Conversations with Strangers | /r/seduction | 29/01/20 04:03 PM |
| 3 | Basics/fundamentals of Seduction (Contribute here!)Hold Strong Eye Contact and Smile Do not Barter for Attention or Affection Do not Chase or Force a Rapport Do not Qualify Yourself \ Try to Impress \ Seek Reactions or Approval Be Outcome Independent and Non-Reactive Provide Value Act Honestly / Show Congruence and Consistency Interact as Man to Woman - Taken from Chapter 8 of the book Fundamentals of Female Dynamics | /r/seduction | 02/01/20 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Never Split the DifferenceHere is a video that explains how each of the books concepts (including labelling) apply to seduction. | /r/seduction | 23/12/19 12:09 PM |
| 8 | Secrets of seduction : written by an actual MANSome Expansion on Point 4: Most women that have had a half-way decent childhood are not attracted to men who are mean, self-centered, arrogant, obnoxious or indifferent towards others. Instead, it is the underlying complementary characteristics that often go with being an asshole that account for why women are attracted to them. Fortunately for humanity, these positive and attractive characteristics are not mutually exclusive to being an asshole. One can cultivate these positive attributes separ… | /r/seduction | 10/12/19 11:04 AM |
| 1 | Please recommend me some good Dating DVD's/Books to buyFundamentals of Female Dynamics | /r/seduction | 09/12/19 01:29 PM |
| 325 | Here we go again. Same problem many of us have. Huge oneitis. Again. Why? How do we stop it?Most young males operating in a scarcity mindset catch the disease Oneitis at some point in their young adult lives. If not promptly caught and cured, Oneitis can take years away from one’s life. You can pour all your time and energy into a lost cause instead of using it to improve yourself. Having suffered myself from a very dire case of the disease, I am accustomed to the symptoms. The symptoms of Oneitis can include: Spending an abnormal amount of time thinking and obsessing over one girl. Be… | /r/seduction | 26/11/19 04:58 PM |
| 35 | Ghosted by every approach. Feeling discouragedWhy People Flake On You [Video] Top Reasons: You do not establish a significant connection during your initial meeting. You did not make your honest intentions clear in a congruent manner. You never gave the other person a specific reason why they should exchange contact information with you, and what to expect in the future. You put too much pressure on the other person such that they sense that you have an agenda. They fear that you may not respect their future decisions on the path that your … | /r/seduction | 25/11/19 10:59 AM |
| 2 | I'm a big noob when do you guys become aware asking for a phone numberCovered in this video. Pt. 3. After you give the other person a good reason why they should exchange contact info with you. The number should be to facilitate the execution of a already agreed upon future interaction. | /r/seduction | 25/11/19 10:56 AM |
| 1 | Book recommendations for confidence/dating?Fundamentals of Female Dynamics | /r/seduction | 24/11/19 08:04 PM |
| 3 | Mark MansonHere is a short video that helps explain what type of vulnerability is found attractive. | /r/seduction | 21/11/19 08:26 PM |
| 2 | How to Deal with Flaws and InsecuritiesSummary: Everyone has flaws and imperfections, either physically or personality wise. Don’t get hung up on things about yourself which may be unalterable. Don’t always be trying to overtly hide such flaws. The insecurity shown when trying to hide a fault often comes off as being way less attractive than the actual fault itself. Obsessively trying to hide a fault highlights a person’s insecurity and shows low self-confidence. In the cases where the fault could potentially have an impact on your p… | /r/seduction | 13/11/19 01:27 PM |
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