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Rejection is the result of not being successful at achieving a specific outcome. Normally the desired outcome is for another person to like you.

You should redefine in your mind what you consider a successful outcome.

This new definition should not be dependent on external factors such as other people’s actions, but be solely dependent on your own actions.

Define success as being willing to start a conversation or interaction.

Define success as being willing to put yourself out there.

Define success as not being afraid of making your honest interests and intentions known.

These are metrics for success that you can succeed at 100% of the time as long as you are willing to take action.

You can't be rejected if your desired outcome was to simply start a conversation and give the other person the opportunity to get to know you.

The beauty of this is, when the other person detects that you are self-fulfilled and don’t want or need anything from them, the probability of them being willing to take you up on what you offer skyrockets.