We have all heard the phrase that actions speak louder than words. When it comes to attraction, it is no different. The most important signals are often communicated non-verbally. It's important to learn to listen for feedback as much with your eyes as you do with your ears.

When it comes to attraction, it's not so much what you logically say, but what you emotionally convey. How something is said is as important as what was said. And this principle applies in both directions. The emotions and vibes a woman is showing you may not exactly mirror her literal words. They may even be the opposite, especially in situations where she may be playfully teasing you. She may be flirtatious and open with a guy that she jokingly calls a jerk, while also speaking super carefully and kindly to the "nice guy" that she wants to let down easy.

Proximity is also a very important indicator. She may not be smiling. She may not be laughing. She may even seem disinterested. However, if she is choosing to physically remain near you, then that is still a good sign. Trust me, if you were screwing up enough, the first thing that she would do is try to put more physical distance between you.

If a girl wants to talk to you, one of the simplest things that she can do is physically move herself closer to you. This is done in order to provide an opportunity to start a conversation. She may even choose to fake bump into you in order to initiate an interaction.

Girls as well as guys often do not know what to say, get nervous, are shy, etc. She may be happy that you are carrying the conversation even if she does not say much herself. If she didn't want to be there, then she would make an excuse to leave.

What a women says is also not always really what she wants. It may even be a test. Tests are not a bad thing. It's just a woman's way of evaluating you in an expedited manner; especially if she has just met you for the first time. If she had already 100% made her mind up about you and was completely not interested, then there would be no need to test.

The same woman, who verbally tells you that she is interested in or prefers one thing, may in reality respond more positively to the exact opposite. It’s better to actually watch how a person acts and observe their results than to simply do what they say. The free drink that a woman asks you to buy her may make her happy for a moment while it simultaneously kills all attraction via revealing your desperation to please and willingness to placate to her demands.

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