The following tips are on how to become a more GROUNDED person:

  1. Be responsive but not reactive. A response is a purposeful, though-out and coordinated maneuver, while a reaction is often involuntary and emotionally based. Often the best response to situation is simply not to react. Just remain calm, grounded and centered. Do not let others or the environment dictate your emotions.
  2. Don’t let other people pull you into their value frames. Don’t let others define the only metrics upon which you should be judged.
  3. A grounded person is sure of themselves and their beliefs. It’s not about being arrogant, stubborn or reluctant to changing your mind, especially when new evidence is provided to you. It's about not changing your views based on your environment or who you are talking to. Don't be wishy-washy, but possess a sense of self-assuredness which makes others feel secure.
  4. Don't care about being accepted by everyone else and fitting in and instead speak the truth. If you are willing to change your opinion in order to try to make a woman like you, how can she ever trust you? If you can’t stand up for yourself while talking to her, how can she trust you to stand up to the rest of the world and on her behalf.

Link to full video: https://youtu.be/pXkmPwKh-D4