When a woman feels like you are actively trying to impress her, she may think that you are overcompensating for something else. It is often insecure people who feel the greatest need to prove themselves.

And if you don’t even think that you are good enough, why should the woman (possibly someone that you just met) think anything different?

By trying to immediately win a new person over, you are instantly communicating that you either want something from them or think that they are above you. Neither of which is attractive.

Imagine what the behaviors of a self-secure, confident, high value man with tons of options would look like. Would he actively be trying to impress a girl he liked? No. He would assume from the start that there is no reason that he is not good enough and thus not feel the need to try to actively sell himself. The attractive traits of confidence and self-worth are implied when a person does not come off as a try-hard.

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