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lol that's literally the exact strategy I was saying
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 09:02 PM
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Piggy backing off of this and OP's post, there's a mathematical model to select the best option of anything. Say you are given 100 random numbers, ranging from 0 to ? and you are trying to pick the highest number you can. You aren't told what the number range is, and once you pass on one you can't go back to it. The mathematical best outcome is to simply observe the first 40% and don't select anything. Just observe their value. Then, after you've seen 40% of options, you select the next number t…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/16 05:04 AM
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I'd also anecdotally agree with your theory. In my experience simply removing 2-3 dopamine sources has huge boosts in mood. For me it was limiting ejaculation, alcohol, and sugar. Suddenly something like a nice breeze would make me incredibly energized and happy. I will say though it's incredibly hard to stay off dopamine sources and I always eventually find myself back masturbating or drinking.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/16 02:06 PM
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It's the equivilent of a productivity book saying "make lists", "accomplish at least two things every day" etc. etc. while on the surface it's basic...if someone can put it into a format that reminds people and hits them over the head with it, it's still a valuable resource.
/r/seduction17/02/16 12:03 AM
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but, like exercising regularly or resisting the urge to watch TV all day, one mark of a high-value man to be able to over-ride the instincts he views as negative and instead opts to practice discipline.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 07:31 PM
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I believe it's closer to 50% for both genders
/r/TheRedPill17/01/16 03:42 AM
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women aren't inferior intellectually, but they are less likely to be able to to articulate what led to a decision, ability to talk about concepts or trends rather than their own experiences, etc.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 11:33 PM
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You can't say it's wrong for sure. That study you cite was a very small sample size and is the only study known to have looked at masturbation/testosterone correlation. Which makes sense-who would fund such a study. It's not saving lives and doesn't lead to any new products. I know entrepreneur/workout enthusiast Tim Ferris has noted that his own testosterone levels went up when he quit masturbation for 30 days. If I could afford the $200 for blood samples regularly I would test it myself. But y…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 10:58 PM
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Very aware. But means she could buy a good portion of any house we decided to buy, etc.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 05:19 AM
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Conversely, if you give your son a ton of money, you probably would want him to weed out a gold digger, wouldn't you?
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 04:12 AM
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But to have that type of attention from around age 13 for many (not all) early in life helps them develop socially really well.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/15 10:29 PM
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I don't have the link but I remember seeing an article that argued women out-performed men in fortune 500 companies, with the caveat that woman-run companies were relatively stable --with few massive jumps in performance and few massive declines.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 02:57 PM
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My current difficulty is accepting a role as sole provider for understanding, approval, affection, responsibility, etc. in the relationship. She's getting such a fucking good deal. I'm helping her out on all major problems and making her feel good about herself. But she'll never really deeply care about my problems or even attempt to boost my ego.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 12:42 AM
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There's no doubt that being straight is the best option, followed by being gay, and being lesbian in last.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 02:50 AM
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That doesn't have anything to do with emotions or pride though. No society would survive if women went to war or did anything seriously risky. It has been bred out of their genes. A successful society keeps all its women safe for future breeding opportunities. Men must take risks, and thus have developed a knack for strong emotions to take those risks.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 02:47 AM
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I think this is a great post. I'm worried that the girl that I'm seeing who I initially thought was long-term material just talks about herself way too much. She's golden in every other way. Just needs to focus on other people a little more.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 03:57 PM
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While the poster of this is not self-aware enough to see that women do this a ton, I'm sure I'm not the only one that has been mildly stalked by girls who I deem significantly below my league. However... Simply put, a relationship can be a bad deal for men. It is therefore logical that men would only be eager to jump into one if he feels she is hotter or more charismatic than other girls he could easily get. So there probably is some truth to it.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 09:13 PM
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And if this seems harsh, just remember that plenty of women will avoid guys who have a history of being beaten up, drug probem, debt, was fired from worked or pushed out of a big-money deal, was struck by a disease, etc. --it is absolutely anybody's right to avoid partners with negative vibes around them, whether they were at fault or not.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 05:59 PM
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Can relate so much. If it doesn't involve her, or doesn't involve some sort of success, she doesn't care. I keep on expecting her to care about my dilemmas, but every time when she ignores them or gives one word answers I remember. She doesn't care.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 09:07 PM
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Not back in the day when they needed a man to support themselves.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 05:25 PM
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Another (safer) way to boost T is to only ejaculate once per week. It hasn't been proven in a large study (who is going to fund that study?) but it really works for me. By day 4 I've got more energy, aggression, and sex drive through the roof.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 09:43 PM
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But the article states that nose problems are by far the biggest predictor than any other variable.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 01:47 AM
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I was totally guilty of this. I was in charge of hiring an undergrad researcher for our lab, and interviewed 6 candidates. Nobody stood out, nobody had the perfect credentials. It ended up being between a hotter girl that could talk to me well, or this really enthusiastic guy from China who couldn't really talk to me. I picked the girl. And regretted picking the girl when she stopped doing work in April.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 10:55 PM
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This is true 90% of the time. For me there has also been 3 experiences when the girl is just naturally submissive and I start spanking her silly, putting her on my lap, etc. and that is instant hot sex for me without any emotional intimacy. But yes most of the time it's sex during 1 month-1year relationships.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 01:36 AM
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In Boston he's .1%. Sure not every Harvard grad is going to get wet for him, but many girls will.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 12:00 AM
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I'm glad someone pointed out that OP has it sort of wrong. I have set up a fake OKCupid account as a woman before -- it's not only highly entertaining to see the options of guys but I can see why women think that their value as a person is very high (someone should save me, someone should help me, etc.) In the short term men are absolutely the sellers, it's up to you to have a product that you want to sell.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 07:30 PM
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I think another major reminder from this is that women cannot keep secrets.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 05:45 PM
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I'd argue it's significantly the latter as well. The most common way to gain weight is over-eating of carbohydrates and sweets. If you eat mostly carbs and sweets you are throwing off your gut bacteria in a major way, and in the last ~5 years there's been increasing evidence of gut bacteria's influence on our weight and entire bodily function. A child gets a majority of its bacteria both good and bad from its mother, so its bacterial landscape will consist primarily of bacteria that thrive in hi…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 08:15 PM
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I'm too lazy to find a link but it's pre-programmed for women to cheat on their men. They find masculine looking men more attractive on their ovulation period (can get preggers) but then find softer features more attractive for the rest of the month. AKA BB and AF
/r/TheRedPill09/03/15 12:26 AM
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Good point. But you can own her looks. Every guy who has dated a hot girl Knows that simply dating her increases your Smv and social standing by association. Especially if she's hotter than you. That's why it's such a slap in the face if your girl stops taking care of herself.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 04:25 PM
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I believe it. There's a lot of guys out there that are bad at sex, and if her number is less than 10 then odds are good she hasn't done some stuff.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 05:33 PM
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I noted similar things in that songs, and most of the songs on her album, but interpretated the lyrics a bit differently than you. This is a FWB, alpha fucks situation. Therefore she must comment on his physical appearance. It's also a situation where his SMV is likely a little bit higher than hers, this could have been about the One Direction guy, and therefore he fades in and out with her but she's texting with other guys too so it hurts less. She makes this song to feign control and glorify h…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 10:47 PM
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I was trying to explain to my girlfriend that Taylor Swift shoots herself in the foot by dating guys out of her league like the One Direction front-man. My Girlfriend obviously disagreed and felt she was led astray by men, and Taylor was entitled to have fun. Lets see how the "fun" works out for her in the long run.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/15 05:17 PM
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that was literally my first thought when I saw the dad
/r/TheRedPill26/02/15 08:52 AM
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I would tell anybody to definitely stop the anti-biotics jesus christ. I'm positive they killed my gut flora and made me smell bad at age 22, and I'm not sure i've recovered my original pheromones that my HS girlfriend loved. As for you, so glad that diet is more public these days --it was basically not talked about back in 2004-ish when I was going through it. Low-carb was not really a thought. Definitely avoid carbs and eat vegetables like they are medicine. If I was you I would buy a Ninja Bl…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 08:50 PM
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For me? .3% But luckily in my environment in academia they are at least 5% of the population.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 06:50 PM
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nice guy means he wants to provide for me and will therefore ask for things in return. asshole means he's self-centered and usually just wants sex, nothing more, meaning she knows what she's getting and prepares herself for it.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 11:57 PM
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Being a man is like taking a class where 15% of students get A's and 15% of students are required to get D's or lower. Being a woman is like taking a class where your only get B- to A-
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 03:49 PM
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Not exactly. It's more like people who don't enjoy eating salads and vegetables. Everyone knows that, long term, it's better to eat a salad with chicken than a brownie. But a lot of people still want the brownie. That is what women do when they go for alpha assholes, they are eating the brownie. It is absolutely in her best interest to pick a man that will provide for her by sharing all his resources down the road. But in the short term she gets no pleasure.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 03:38 PM
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Nah I really have come to believe that women can only truly sympathize with their dads, their brothers, and men who they desperately want to have kids with. All other men are seen as guilty and useless until proven otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/15 01:50 AM
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The key is something that you can't do anything about, like crying over a dead relative because there's nothing more to be done. But crying over a girlfriend where you fucked up or crying during physical pain is unproductive because things were/are in your control.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 08:10 PM
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It also extends to any female. Women are seemingly unable to see the male perspective. Ask any woman for advice with your girlfriend, they will almost certainly side with the girlfriend and say "well maybe she was just thinking x so she did y, because you (the man) were doing z".
/r/TheRedPill01/02/15 08:07 PM
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Think Barrack Obama or George Clooney. The 10/10 popular guys are not dicks, only the 7/10 and 8/10 popular guys are assholes.
/r/askTRP01/02/15 07:25 PM
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We do not live together.
/r/askTRP01/02/15 12:12 AM
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Appreciate the response but it's wide of the mark. She is simply addicted to sugar and carbohydrates, and mimics exactly what her older sisters and mom eat (who are all slightly skinnier than her)
/r/askTRP31/01/15 11:42 PM
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Pretty sure OP is a girl, but maybe girls can go through anger phase as well.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 09:41 PM
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ive met one. She dumped me for a teacher. Not some alpha teacher either but just a nice, slightly handsome middle school teacher. Funny thing is, I get it with her because she genuinely wants a simple life. Feel like I missed out on that one.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 03:00 PM
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The best advice I have is before you spend your time and money masturbate before meeting any girl. If she is still hot enough to go meet up with after masturbation, go do it. Believe it or not, eating or drinking with average girls doesn't make sense financially or egotistically.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 05:46 AM
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I recently got a snapchat from a girl that didn't mean to send it to me. It was a sad face saying she feels bad after a one night stand. She then apologized profusely saying she didn't mean to send it to me and she doesn't usually do one night stands and clearly knew that her value just went down in my book. So some girls are at least aware of how being slutty is a bad trait
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 06:16 PM
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There's a strong statistical bias on OP's picture as well --most people with social lives probably wouldn't prioritize driving far to meetup with redditors. I did a meetup.com group meetup once (not for reddit, for music) - it was pretty awkward I wouldn't go to one again.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/15 05:06 AM
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Yeah there's no genuinely accurate comparison between the two but boobs are the closest. While not directly linked to physical pleasure, a significant portion of guys fantasize about larger breasts, wish their girlfriend had slightly larger breasts, etc.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 09:22 PM
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Because intelligence is highly heritable, and intelligence is a predictor for success, they want their kids to be intelligent. Just because some guy is a construction mogul or owns 25 mechanic shops doesn't necessarily mean he's smart, so I doubt a highly educated woman would see him as an ideal mate despite his wealth.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 07:45 PM
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Personally the last part just felt bitter to me, while the first paragraphs were level-headed and a great unique point. Also I'd add that the majority of girls will not become single divorced mothers, while a slight majority of women will become alpha widows.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 05:07 PM
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I really agree with this post (except for the unnecessary divorce settlement part at the end) and have been saying it for years. This post is why online dating doesn't work as well as it should. Back when I was on Okcupid a couple years ago I would say this exact sentiment over at r/okcupid on a regular basis --okcupid distorts the average girl's perception of what she can get --of course always downvoted and replied to negatively by some girl. And this doesn't just apply to women --guys who man…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 06:53 AM
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I disagree because I think the best girls out there are more likely to keep their name.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 02:57 AM
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Less "fail as a species" but more as a country or a company. If any country stripped diversity requirements I'd wager they would see economic productivity go up.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 05:04 AM
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I think a guy who gets hot girls is seen as slightly more socially attractive than if he didn't get hot girls. Especially having a hot girlfriend, that really ups a man's social value especially in the eyes of women.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 02:17 AM
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typically, even in "good idea" contexts", it's still not a good idea unless you're in the top 10% of size. I've sent one to like at least 8 girls over the years, always after they show boobs, and only 2 liked it. The odds are just not in your favor.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 05:45 AM
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I mis worded that, I've lived in 5 cities, 3 big 2 medium
/r/TheRedPill25/12/14 03:50 AM
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I still think medium sized cities are the way to go. I've lived in 5: New York (2 years) Boston (2 years) Chicago (1 year) Chapel Hill, NC (grew up) (population in metro area around 1,000,000) Portsmouth, NH (2 years) (population 100,000) I'd rather spend time in Chapel Hill or Portsmouth first, then Boston, and then New York or Chicago. Living in those big cities is not worth it after age 25.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 02:25 AM
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I also think it's exaggerated but the sentiment rings true. ID put myself as a barely top 20% guy and I've been fucking multiple women for years, some well below my relationship standards
/r/TheRedPill27/11/14 06:04 AM
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I feel like most of these are actually pretty lame and standard. Some ones I can also think of: Going to a big furniture store just to sit on a huge comfy couch and talk. Plenty of things to talk about when at a furniture store. Don't buy anything. Go to abandoned factory. Walk across train track bridge (scary) Go on a random historic house tour. Go to trade show. My style is more for the memorable aspect rather than "romantic". Both of you are like WTF are we doing at an antique radio trade sho…
/r/seduction12/11/14 09:55 PM
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While this is true, it also underlines the extreme difficulty of starting and growing a successful business. It is why society gives social value to people who "start their own companies" but doesn't give social value to some random accountant. Nobody wants to interview an accountant. For this reason, I don't understand the hate for startup culture. If the entire country was accountants engineers and bankers the economy would go to crap.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/14 09:20 PM
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I'd argue that it's going back up among the middle and upper class women, who want a husband as proof of their desirability and social normalcy. My SMV on a husband level is pretty high, and I definitely feel like I have more power in relationships than either of my last GF's have had. If I break up with them it will crush them over thanksgiving and Christmas when they no longer have a well-educated smart man to take home to mom. However I know that I can find a new GF within a couple months tha…
/r/TheRedPill07/11/14 06:51 PM
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Bro that's like the whole point. An ugly girl getting naked and being sexual as a way to fight the patriarchy. When in reality all she's thinking is "every woman deserves to be a sex object" aka female privilege
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 05:17 AM
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Conversely, he single handedly allowed several of my young friends to quit their horrible jobs because of his health care policy of anyone under 26 can be on their parents health care. Guess what, one of those friends started their own company now and it's gained instant success. It's not all bad
/r/TheRedPill26/10/14 12:57 PM
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25 seems like an odd number to cut the limit at, it should now be 35. Tons of people get married at 30.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 04:47 AM
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honestly this is not Red Pill. Both men and women cheat all the time. Just because a woman cheats doesn't make it red pill news.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 09:17 PM
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Spot on. And are unaware of just how low a majority of men will go for sex. An 8/10 guy will definitely use a 7/10 girl for sex, with no intention of ever committing. It's not "afraid to commit" it's called "she's sleeping with guys out of her league" This is why the smartest girls don't sleep with guys before date 4, and don't go for the generic alphas.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 05:28 PM
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As a man, in this day and age this is simply not true. This only only true for the men in the top 3%, which most women will not get, and shouldn't expect getting, or should be grateful if they have. I make 90k and it's simply not a luxury for my partner and child to depend on me entirely, and would be insulted if my partner expected me to sell out to soul-sucking finance or consulting to fund her dream.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/14 12:31 AM
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While a majority of men probably did procreate, almost guaranteed to be at least 10% less male reproduction than female reproduction due to death, wars, etc.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 01:54 AM
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My point is that even exceptions ripple violently through generations.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 01:18 AM
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But the crucial part (IMO) is that for entry level positions, a lot of companies would prefer to hire a woman. Because young women are, generally, more pleasant to look at and we assume they're "more fun". This is probably objectively true. But as a result, there's reverse-sexism going on where boys aren't given the legs up into their careers women have.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 01:16 AM
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What is the competing theory? I can only imagine two scenerios: 1)Men without certain genes die. 2) Men without certain genes or positions in society don't have children. (Or conversely, women have children regardless of their genes.)
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 12:46 AM
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This is not necessarily entirely true. Counterpoints: Powerful and successful men have usually been able to take multiple wives. JS Bach had 22 children with two wives. Sultan of Morocco fathered 800 children. Which means in 7 generations, he'll have 25 million descendents. Compared to the King of Switzerland, at 210 children, who odds are over 30% of the Swiss are now related to. Rape. Populations such as vikings, greeks, etc. would routinely "rape and pillage" entire regions. A boat full of vi…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 12:38 AM
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For me the saddest part is the perspective shift it will give these women. They'll be "used" to living the good life as a "wife" of rich men, and will hold all future boyfriends/husbands to that standard either consciously or unconsciously. They'll develop the thought that they are "worth it" to get a huge allowance per month. Of course this is all short term sexual arrangements, and they'll age out of it at 28. But the perspective shit will be permanent.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 11:46 PM
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Has anybody noticed how often nyt writes about gender, especially female victimization such as this one. And then look at the "most popular" section - the gender ones are usually there. Women are just obsessed with reading about their victimhood. Can't stand victimhood, that's why I unsubbed from MensRights
/r/TheRedPill20/09/14 11:52 PM
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as a maybe 7 looks, 8 accomplishments type of guy, I still found NYC tough. The best girls had boyfriends. The 8's were looking for men who were 9's. But I was 23-24 and dating same age, it's probably really easy at age 27.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 05:35 PM
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I have never been a cuckold fetish guy but I've heard an interesting evolutionary argument --if you see a woman have sex with another man, your body reacts and produces more sperm, gets hyper excited, etc. essentially to "beat" that man's sperm and impregnate her first. Your body wants you really badly to fuck that girl, so her baby can be yours. It's the sexual evolution equivalent of an adrenaline rush. Which, coincidentally, also coincides with the cuckold fetish wanting to see cum drip out o…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 04:02 AM
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Once again, I ask if you've tried it for a month. If you haven't, your opinion is somewhat invalid as you have no experience with it's effects
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 01:23 PM
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Have you ever tried it? I've never gone full keto but paleo and low carb have done wonders for my energy levels. There's also a book "your brain on grain" that is pretty convincing that carbs are a hinderance on the brains performance. Further, the latest Parkinson's treatments advocate low carb high fat. If anybody has gone a full month low carb and not seen benefits, maybe you're different than me. But my problem is that I'm skinny and carbs are the only way to maintain non-skinny status
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 04:25 AM
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If it was more like 3 days apart it could mean she was ovulating. Women are programmed to prefer alphas when she's ovulating, aka the 5 days per months she can get pregnant
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 02:43 AM
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Also when you double the workforce population (adding quotas to make sure women are present at every level, frequently regardless of skillset), the power shifts from workers to companies. Companies can demand more working hours because your position could easily be filled, less benefits, less time with the kids, etc.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 07:49 PM
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One of Europe's great queens (I think it was one of the Catherine the Greats?) made a plaster mold of her body at age 21. She apparently kept that plaster mold until the day she died, and showed it to kings as a way to soften them up before deals. I'll never forget that from High School western civ.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 11:53 PM
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Good list --The Art of Charm podcast's early episodes (1-50ish), especially the ones called the "advanced toolbox" where they aren't interviewing anybody but are just giving advice, are really great listens. Recently it seems the podcast is now just interviewing people who have shit to sell and will pay them to be on the podcast, so the more recent ones are less good. I think blogs are a waste of time for me personally, but if anybody else wants to blog I'm not stopping them.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 10:58 PM
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Women just don't get this about male sexuality. Girlfriends all the time ask who's my "hottest celebrities" - truth is I don't really have crushes on celebrities because I'm not attracted to status and there are millions of hot girls in the world. I can't decide who has it better in terms of sexuality. On one hand, it's easier for men to be satisfied with our partners because there are a ton of hot women, but high status men and celebrities are by definition rare, so women will always be unsatis…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/14 05:36 PM
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It's only good for guys in the top 10%, bad for everyone else
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 01:28 PM
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I agree with this sentiment. There was a great post by an evolutionary psychologist I forget his name, kagakaki or something, but it's whole argument was that city dwellers have lower marriage rates because statistically you can't feel good about a choice unless you've seen 40% of possibilities. In a city it's almost impossible to see 40% of possibilities so nobody is ever satisfied
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 03:12 AM
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haha, I take back my statement. This is what I was working with: http://static.squarespace.com/static/53538c3ce4b075ba976390c0/t/53f0392de4b004d08611755b/1408252206138/?format=500w
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 10:23 PM
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While I agree, lately I've been more and more convinced that having standards is a tenant of being the man I want to be. Back when I was single, I would approach and sometimes hang out and bang a girl with nice tits but a horrible personality and a little chubby. These days I'm trying to keep it quality over quantity. I genuinely think having sex with a ton of people is bad for both men and women's ability to connect to another person.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 10:19 PM
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Of course she hamsters her way around it, and provides no real scientific or logical argument for limiting the use of Tinder. But it's interesting to see that a (somewhat attractive) 30 year old woman now understands that trying to find the hottest guy is an uphill battle.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 10:13 PM
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Yeah the big soy milk companies have much more incentive to doctor those studies, they have more to gain and are a small set of companies (silk)
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 07:31 PM
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This is a decent list. I said this in another comment but I'd also add: Avoid Soy Milk and Tofu. and most American sunscreens contain OxyBenzone or a version of OxyBenzone which is also a known estrogenic compound and banned in most of Europe. Oxybenzone is the chemical that makes "clear" spray sunscreen or even easily-absorbed sunscreen possible. Old school Zinc-based sunscreen is much safer but it's hard to rub in, which is why companies stopped using it.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 07:29 PM
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You sound like a forever skeptical dude, this thread might not be for you. Everything he's mentioned has been batted around by people for several years now, except the tap water thing I've never heard that. I'd also avoid Soy Milk and most American sunscreens contain OxyBenzone or a version of OxyBenzone which is also a known estrogenic compound and banned in most of Europe. Oxybenzone is the chemical that makes "clear" spray sunscreen or even easily-absorbed sunscreen possible. Old school Zinc-…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 07:28 PM
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These are all great points. I remember in the book "4 Hour Workweek", written I think in the early 2000's. he advocated starting several hypothetical companies, posting ads in magazines with a phone number for potential customers to call. Whatever company had the most calls, that's the company you should start and actually make a product for. Now magazines are probably a really small market to advertise in, and kickstarter is a better resource.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/14 06:52 PM
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Why do women so frequently use this argumentative tactic. Exaggerate any claim so it seems just sooooo ridiculous, that the woman's point must be right. I'm so glad TRP doesn't use that argumentative tactic. For example: "I'm sure it had nothing at all to do with his history of mental illness" --when OP never said anything close to that.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 04:38 AM
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more like "this is boring to me because I'm not getting attention and gossiping like I did in college" My uncle is an attractive guy and just quit his engineering job for shear boredom. Said he couldn't take it. If a guy can't take the boredom of a job, there's no chance a woman is going to.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 08:53 PM
2

I'm 26 so date in the 22-26 demographic. A bit easier.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 02:08 PM
1

Really? I think girls in Cambridge/Somerville/Brookline are pretty level headed, just not nearly as hot as other cities.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 10:14 PM
2

I don't know, I think the conclusion that women should marry lawyers and stock brokers is off. Most women I know really don't want to marry a boring person. The dating game is therefore much more complicated.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 10:03 PM
6

Exactly, it is in the woman's best interest to get divorced.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 03:55 AM
35

Side note, but I'd argue that men as a group can't increase their attractiveness. What women find attractive is scalable. The funniest, most charismatic, most powerf guy of the group will get the most attention. These are relative. There can only be one funniest and most powerful. A group full of hot girls will still be hot girls. A room full of hot guys now becomes a challenge for the woman to figure out who's the most alpha/funny/interesting. It's constantly a weeding process.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/14 03:49 AM
3

How is that contempt for women? Genuinely curious
/r/TheRedPill29/06/14 01:24 PM
12

This is an unpopular opinion around here but is partly why I advocate BOTH men and women be selective in hooking up and dating. My number of women is now probably 30, and I fear that it's negatively affecting my ability to connect with women. A truly attractive man will turn down any girl that he doesn't admire.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 02:31 PM
2

Dude come on that's just fuel for their fire
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 01:11 PM
1

As far as I know theres no good source for it. Partly because of the fact that it's hard to get funding for that "sensitive" stuff. Same with things like finding the gEnetic component of homosexuality. There's just no money for it, no matter how interesting. I've heard the 40/80 numbers suggested before for men and women's genetic survival. It does make sense, many mammal species have an alpha male who controls the majority of the females. To say men and women had an even chance of surviving gen…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 03:55 AM
2

Once again try it. Can't argue with anybody that hasn't tried the 7 day challenge. It's like arguing with someone about alcohol who's never drank alcohol. The upsides of the 7 days is that you're more confident and more likely to talk to women.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/14 09:53 PM
2

I think ALL guys should at least try the 7-day approach. Try only fapping on Sundays. Words can't express the difference in energy you feel on day 4-5. Yes it's not all good --I'm more aggressive, snappy, stare at women a ton. But it's at least good to know what options are out there. Just try not fapping for 5-7 days and see what all the fuss is about. It's not just placebo.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/14 03:59 PM
12

IMO women take rejection even worse, because men face rejection almost every day but attractive women don't as much.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 04:30 AM
16

Unrelated but #YesAllWomen is just such a textbook response from women. Argument 1: Women generally want a man wealthier than herself Illogical Response: Yes All Women only want to date rich men. When "all" and "only" were never in the original statement. It's actually a brilliant argumentative tactic, but plain to see for anybody analyzing the arguments.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/14 03:17 PM
13

*that she can also shame into attending things like a baby shower and group dinners to impress her friends
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 01:48 PM
4

It is up to you whether you give gifts or not. The point of the post is that buying food is wasting money either way. But I would treat Brittany Spears (plate) differently than Natalie Portman or Rachel McAdams (unicorn). I would never buy Brittany Spears anything. But with my current relationship, I'm not a regular gift giver but I like to give the occasional gesture. Maybe it's giving her power, but she's terrified I'm going to leave her, so I'm really not on thin ice.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 11:35 PM
3

While valid, if she's a high quality girl, that you want to keep around for a while, the small gift gestures go a long way. It's not always supplicating, beta behavior. Especially if she does nice things in return.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 07:44 PM
1

How does it warp a person?
/r/TheRedPill12/05/14 03:11 AM
7

OPs content is generally true though IMO I remember when I was deciding between two masters programs. They were different but attractive and I couldn't decide. I talked to me girlfriend every night and she never gave solid advice. Her advice was always "do whatever you wanna do". The later she told me it was hell for her having to deal with me then. He didn't understand why I couldn't decide. Meanwhile I'm thinking hey how about offering your perspective? Work through this together? But she wasn…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 06:07 AM
0

Great post. You're exactly what I want in a wife. I cringe so hard at most relationship advice from women to women, especially the "you deserve to always have his everything" sentiments. What I love about this sub is it promotes takin reaponsibility from both genders. Right now it's me who desides to fuck most of the time. Almost no blowjobs though. Yes, I believe if my current girlfriend regularly blew me with enthusiasm, I would put more effort into our relationship. However I know that it's m…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 04:21 PM
2

The difference being that men grow up constantly hearing women openly state their preferences --tall, athletic, or skinny, etc but short guys are disgusting etc - Men quickly learn that they cannot express their true preferences - fit, busty, Etc are all sort of taboo to openly state in front of women who aren't those qualities.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 05:05 AM
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It's upvoted because other people have noticed the same trend. As another singular example --My ex girlfriend always said she "was a talker" and talked "way more than me". But really she just talked a shit ton about her day and her family and her summer camp. I don't have an interest in talking abt myself. As soon as we went to a lecture together (we were in same major) all of a sudden it was me talking way more afterwards about the subject. Point is men and women like to talk abt different thin…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 04:32 AM
12

As a man who's broken my fair share of hearts, it's 100% this. Take some personal responsibility for the relationship and you're so much more attractive to me as a long-term partner.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/14 12:16 AM
2

Id argue that very very rarely is it "ok" to leave a dying or injured spouse. It's one of the biggest taboos you can do. I think it's possible that women would sacrifice for man she loves, but it is strongly not preferable. Just last week a woman in my life said "yeah I fantasize about being saved, not saving a man. I never want to save." She laughed at her blatant selfishness
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 01:38 PM
2

As a grad school student at MIT I'm gonna have to actually agree with her. I went to cornell undergrad which was tough but the undergrad student life at MIT seems awful in comparison. Undergrads are notably more stressed here.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/14 10:58 PM
1

As a guy, I think your intuition actually has merit. Now that I've slept with 15 girls, seen all types of bodies, I fear my capacity for deep connection is lower now.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/14 06:10 PM
1

I personally find it useful. The girl I'm dating has feminist tendencies (in thought, not action) and sometimes it's nice to be able to verbally point out the flaws in what she's saying.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 01:22 PM
2

Same happened to me. If I was a girl fuck I would compliment every guys dick. It would get me so many bonus points. But women don't want to improve a guys ego they just want a guy with a big ego already. Also it is not natural for women to give compliments towards guys who aren't in top 3%.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 09:18 PM
1

I'm 25 (aka not thaaat old) and it was still out of 1600
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 09:13 PM
8

Totally agree. Women are meaner to ugly Guys
/r/TheRedPill05/04/14 03:51 PM
3

I feel like men can be funny to both genders, but I see what you mean. The "funny" women that I know, and that other women think are funny, aren't really funny in terms of comments or jokes, they are just funny characters. They have a funny set of habits. With that being said, for me a "funny" girl is a girl that can riff off of my jokes, continue them, and funds me funny. We laugh together. Not all girls are good that.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 01:05 AM
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Firstly, "pregnant" doesn't equal "successful, healthy birth". I know that rates of Autism go up as a woman ages, for example, which doesn't appear until age 2 or 3 of the child. But I think it's unequivocal that, given the opportunity, a man would rather have sex with a 25 year old woman than a 35 year old.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 01:49 PM
3

To be fair --I'm a guy and I'm the same way. If not worse. I dated a 9/10 girl from age 19-22 --aka the hottest years of her life. She was also incredibly smart and interesting, and we had a passionate relationship. I fear that no girl is going to compare in the future.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 11:52 AM
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Last week I just visited Singapore/southeast asia for the first time as a white guy. Dude ---I feel like I finally understand the female experience. The stares that I got from Asian girls was unreal. My ego was instantly inflated. I signed up for Tinder (never wanting to actually hang out, just curious) and like 60% of girls I selected messaged me first. That never happens in America.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 11:47 AM
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"Nasty habit of dating guys above her attractiveness" In my opinion, this right here is the cause of at least 50% of relationship-woes for women. Guys will want to fuck anything, an 8/10 guy will fuck a 7/10 girl. So plenty of women develop an inflated sense of SMV. I mean I personally have at least 3 women who still act like they think about me frequently when I'm back in town --I feel like they secretly want to marry me. --ALL of them were at least 1/10 below me in SMV, and I just fucked for l…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 11:42 AM
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Beautifully put. That fact is the #1 reason why I never bought into white female oppression in America. For most white American women, at least 30% of guys have little to no value being alive.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 02:48 PM
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Honestly man you sound really young. I thought that way at 22 as well. You can't care like that. You really really care that you didn't fuck her.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 02:43 PM
10

Can we go over basic LMR methods? I don't read pickup often and hate wasting my time with that shit. I have found that an immediate "cool, I really wanted to fuck, but i'm cool with going to sleep." And then turning away from her. Gets a solid return ratio of "wait...pulls me closer."
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 02:41 PM
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I disagree with the power claim, I think it's all about testosterone.
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/14 09:59 AM
10

Also probably why women complain about reddit being sexist all the time. It's actually not sexist, it's just brutally honest and doesn't put women on a pedestal because there is no advantage for putting an internet girl on a pedestal.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 09:06 AM
1

I'm a guy but couple things that are great for hair on the inside: 1) buy a juicer ( breville is $100 in stores, $60 off craigslist) and juice carrots and spinach - vitamin A rich foods. Seriously in about 10 hours you can feel your hair becoming softer. Also gives your skin some color. Store-bought juices do not have this affect, the active stuff dies within 24 hours. 2) flax oil in liquid form, eat about 2 table spoons/day 3) wash your hair less.
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/14 08:45 PM
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A salad with meat is better than a sandwich with meat
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 08:12 PM
2

haha yeah. I'm a 26 year old guy, the notion that you only want to marry 20-25 is ridiculous. 29 and under however makes sense to me.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 04:10 AM
3

As a guy I'm def unattracted to Hannah and attracted to all the others
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/14 12:12 AM
2

Much like the ideal man. Is loyal, makes you feel good, is interesting, and is going somewhere in life. I currently have 3 of the 4 in my gf, she just doesn't make me feel good. We have sex every night but she never compliments me or tries to show warmth. I'm slowly realizing that it's really really important.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 07:32 PM
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This basically sums things up. Women, when they see a desirable man, an "alpha" although I hate that word, want to be seen as an object of desire. Women don't want to be seen as an object of desire for the other 95% of men, unless they're feeling low or having a rough week and then they want the attention of at least 50% of men. And women never, ever want other women to be the object of men's desires. That would make them feel "unsafe". But by "unsafe" they really mean "unattractive" and "jealou…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 02:56 PM
2

Also the critical comments were mysteriously deleted
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 04:28 AM
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while yes nobody likes a mope, and people like successful people, I think there's a difference in the sexes with how they react to their partner's failures. If the same thing happened to my gf and I knew she was super bummed, I would probably make dinner for her or try to cheer her up, let her know that it's all okay. Her reaction, however, was like "I'm so sorry. did anybody else get funding? what are you going to do?" --aka her best interest was not in comforting me, which she did not do anywa…
/r/TheRedPill09/03/14 04:43 PM
6

stop drop and lol
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 10:30 PM
11

Or guys not even in the top 10%, just guys that are out of that specific girl's league. I've turned down girls for sex before that were overt about "coming over", but it was always girls that I wouldn't ever consider dating and were below my league.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 10:29 PM
2

I just turned 26, dated two 9s in college, but now can't seem to get more than a 7.5. Really worried I'll have to settle eventually, most settle on her personality.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 11:31 PM
3

My problem is I get sick of leading 100% of the time in a relationship. I partially broke up with my last girl because I was thinking of all these fun interestin things to do and she never thought of them or planned them. Now I'm realizing I prob just gotta get used to that
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 05:09 AM
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I honestly do not know why girls don't implement game more often. A powerful compliment can make a man adore you. Most girls just think about themselves which backfires unless they're hot
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 03:17 AM
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That's my biggest gripe against OKCupid as a man (well, one of many) It confirmed to me that I will, in fact, fuck anything. Which feels like shit. I'd be on this date and she is clearly stupid, or has annoying mannerisms, or things just don't click well at all, yet at the end of the night I'd still be down to fuck her. I probably went on 15-20 dates and deleted my account a while ago. Now even when I don't get laid, at least I'm not blowing $30 multiple nights a week on girls I don't care about…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/14 06:30 PM
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Women are constantly trying to equate themselves with African Americans in terms of opression and disadvantages. It's a complete joke. Pussy pass is the most valuable pass there is, black pass is non barely existent --I guess black people do get a pass in certain areas, but not nearly as much as women.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 09:40 PM
3

how unfair it is that women carry the full moral burden of sexuality "burden" aka the ultimate get-out-of-jail-free card in all aspects of society.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 08:30 PM
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I feel like in reality he just broke up with her and thought of an elaborate way to tell reddit what he COULD have done. Just seems too perfect. With that said I really enjoyed that story.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 06:00 AM
2

IMO it's about NOT you for an hour. You're NOT in your head when you're working out. You're taking it as it comes, thinking about your breathing, thinking about the heavy weights. You're not thinking about yourself or about anything, which is why it's so relaxing afterwards. It's like coming back from a meditation.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 01:08 AM
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Back in 2008 I took a women's studies course, before I knew about men's rights or theredpill, anything. I was 20 and just knew that women were ruthlessly selfish in relationships, and hated hearing week after week how we need to allocate more money to women. So this was my exact final project. Showing how the number one predictor for divorce was living in a large city, the number two was a woman out earning her husband, number 4 was a man losing his job. Then I interviewed women and asked then a…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/14 04:59 PM
1

I think part of what TRP advocates is that people don't know what they want. Women don't really know what they actually want, same with men, so who knows. However I'll describe the last girl it happened with. I'm going no filter so don't read if you're feeling sensitive. Same situation --we dated for 3-4 months and I lost sexual attraction to her. After I fucked her a good 15-20 times the novelty wore off, her body wasn't amazing so it was difficult to purely lust after her, I had to be turned o…
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/14 10:57 PM
3

Well I'm a guy so take it as a pinch of salt, but definitely a major red flag! I've been that guy! If I was a girl I would be very skeptical moving forward if he's really into me or not. The girls that I lose sexual interest in don't last even if I'm in a LTR with them and like their personality. BUT do understand how to seduce a man. Seducing a man is not about taking charge. That's why he doesn't let you change it. It is about making him feel masculine. And about you being submissive, or desir…
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/14 05:42 PM
2

In my circles, only about 40% of girls lock down a guy at 20-23. I think that's the key. Also if I was a girl, god damn I would be on that elliptical every single day. It's really not that hard and a healthy body goes suuuuch a long way for women.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 11:05 PM
2

I think women genuinely are nervous about sleeping with a high quality guy. A random bartender has nothing to offer her long term, a yale educated climate researcher looks good as a husband so she'll try to withhold sex to gain his investment. Sometimes when a girl pulls this she's just trying to scratch off her lottery number to see if she's won. Guys will fuck more girls than commit to so fucking tells them nothing.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 11:12 PM
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I agree I think women genuinely are nervous about sleeping with a high quality guy. A random bartender has nothing to offer her long term, a yale educated climate researcher looks good as a husband so she'll try to withhold sex to gain his investment.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 11:11 PM
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I really hate a lot of seduction stuff, but this was one of the few lasting lessons I read. The guy goes: never ask her out, always invite her to what you're already doing. "I'm going to the mall tomorrow and could use some advice, I'll pick you up around 2". The one caveat is that I feel "I've been meaning to try this new place" is really lame
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 03:47 AM
1

Good call, looks like the marriage rates between women and men are only 3% in Iraq (Women 6% single at age 35, men 9% single at 35) http://marriage-statistics.findthedata.org/d/d/Iraq
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 06:21 PM
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There's a VERY interesting theory for why 98% of suicide bombers come from Muslim countries --it's because they allow men to marry multiple wives. This creates a huge flux of lower-class men with basically no access to women, bigger than what's happening in China, and therefore these men, genetically, have nothing to lose --they are already genetically dying. Plus the promise of 72 virgins isn't bad either. edit: the validity of this claim is questionable, I originally read it from "10 political…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 03:56 PM
1

The thing is, I didn't even know about many of the effects beforehand, they were only corroborated by reading other people's accounts later. That's why I'm so confident that there's biological effects, after doing it 20+ times the suggestion that it's placebo is almost laughable based on my own experiences. Once again it's no big deal if you want to masturbate every night or think your drive is high enough, or believe it's all just a placebo, I'm just giving what has helped me immensely.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/14 12:45 AM
1

And I feel like I'm talking to pedantic people who haven't tried it. I'm saying is that If testosterones effects are defined by increased sex drive, assertiveness, energy, boldness, then those effects absolutely show during nofap. Whether that has to do with baseline testosterone is irrelevant to the conversation IMO because I'm talking abt the effects not the science
/r/TheRedPill16/02/14 06:00 PM
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I somehow doubt you have. You're really hung up on that one metric, once again I don't need scientific evidence. It's like needing scientific evidence that 2 beers make you feel good, once it's happened to you that's all you need.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/14 04:46 AM
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I don't need a study because I've tried it, and you haven't. It absolutely affects your hormone levels and brain chemistry. I'd bed $20 that you change your mind if you tried it.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/14 04:33 AM
1

Let me guess, you haven't tried it that much :) I don't see how anybody who has gone 7 days without masturbation can say that it doesnt affect their drive and testosterone
/r/TheRedPill16/02/14 03:39 AM
3

I think women have no control. Just like we have no control around a busty 21 year old who is interested in us. A large percentage of married 35 year olds will cheat on their wives with that busty 21 year old if given the chance. It actually sucks for both genders. The downside for men is that the most attractive girls don't sleep around typically, so only a few men can have them. The downside for women is that the alphas typically sleep around but they don't settle down, much to the womans dism…
/r/AlreadyRed16/02/14 03:31 AM
1

I'm more worried about herpes than pregnancy, personally.
/r/AlreadyRed16/02/14 03:14 AM
6

Dude we're talking averages here. I know a girl who's 6'0, taller than most guys, that doesn't disprove that guys are taller than girls.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/14 12:29 AM
3

As a white American I feel like it's a massive advantage. Mostly because you don't have an insecurity complex. This is partly why I don't agree with white feminists --If I had to choose I would choose to be white (no matter the gender) every time over being a man of other races. Going no filter here.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/14 11:20 PM
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This is the best advice out there. Plus women are absolute masters at making you seem like a bad guy after a breakup. She will find the one area and exploit it to her advantage, any female mutual friends will know her side of the story. This is why you must be as gentlemanly as possible. My advice would be 1) Breakup in person, absolutely no text or phone calls. 2) Do not say anything mean to her at all. Even if her lack of gym time or boring conversations made you slowly mad, hide that because …
/r/TheRedPill15/02/14 09:18 PM
2

All I gotta say is that your man is incredibly lucky that you understand his perspective like this. Wow I want to find a woman like you.
/r/RedPillWomen06/02/14 05:57 AM
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He was making a point. It was crass and ill-advised but I got his point. Women make it about their own feelings, not what was happening.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 05:32 AM
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I agree with this premise 100% and I've thought about it for a long time. It really crystallized when I was on OKCupid. 7 out of 10 girls regularly dated 8/10 guys, because guys (including myself) would sleep with them for their big tits but would obviously never invite them over to their friends house. Then girls start to complain about guys "avoiding commitment" when in reality, as long as sex is expected within the 1st 5 dates, girls don't have an accurate gauge of their "league"
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 02:52 AM
6

In the end it all has to do with testosterone. There's a great "This American Life" podcast on testosterone. A butch lesbian woman undergoes testosterone therapy to convert to a male, all of a sudden starts objectifying more and more women uncontrollably. Really interesting topic.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 12:12 AM
2

They would be so upset if they saw who some of us are and who some of our girlfriends are (hotter than them probs)
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 12:41 AM
2

I think it has more potential to harm men. Women care more about other people's opinion of their man, and the app is biased for bringing out girls who the guy dumped and want to get back at him. Can't see guys being as spiteful.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 02:00 PM
1

The app doesn't use profile pics it's completely anonymous. That's the downside.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 01:59 PM
3

I think women have a good perspective on life overall, and the most boring people to talk to in life are usually uninteresting men. Just sometimes I just wish a girlfriend would expand my thoughts intellectually, blow my mind with a fact or idea rather than just 100% talking about what we love or what we find funny or people. The girl I'm seeing is was an all-american sailor. I doubt she'll ever offer to teach me about sailing. She wants me to teach her things, not the other way around. /vent
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 12:15 AM
2

I think they remember well, they just have a heavy filter against men.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/14 03:01 AM
6

I feel like, for many women, they derive a great deal of their femininity from being the choosers in relationships. They decided that Bieber was attractive. For a man to have preferences he is taking away a core part of her feminine identity.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 10:30 PM
14

Similarly, when a female singer sings a love song, I know it's not about me. Also girl rappers like Nicki Minaj are so QUICK to insult 99% of guys (I don't want no scrubs, I need a baller, you gotta be rich to be with me, etc.) but it doesn't phase me.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 10:27 PM
3

As someone who works in a field relating to 3D printing, it's really not the gold-mine people think. They are still so far away from getting smooth/durable objects, I just don't see where the money is. Best case scenario is a company becomes the new Xerox, but that is unlikely because not every office needs to print something in 3d Online marketing, mobile technology, and online shopping are probably better investments.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 10:23 PM
1

i mean at the end of the day, having kids is what it's all about. everything.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/14 07:47 AM
1

Not that easy. There's a strong drive in a lot of men to have kids. It's risky but for some worth the risk.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/13 07:54 PM
3

Or alpha provider. Feel like they just want a guy who can provide an interesting, successful life. Key word is provide.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 10:19 PM
1

Pete is not good looking, and is shorter than Don, therefore will not beat out Don at anything. The show objectifies men just as much as women.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 07:16 PM
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/r/whiteknighting
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 04:09 AM
1

instant regret upon posting
/r/MensRights18/07/13 12:34 AM
1

I'm not saying build alien ships. I'm talking about the very insular "academic" architecture, thinking on paper about the world in 20 years, not necessarily directly applicable to the profession today. For example, a teacher will assign a program of classes, lecture hall, etc and the students have to lay it out in a way that works, design the exterior aesthetics, interior materials, etc. --and the girls (mostly, there was one brilliant girl) will frequently do the program EXACTLY as it is stated…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/13 11:34 PM
3

But they do get jobs by having decent grades. A job at a decent company is a huge leg up.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/13 11:28 PM
29

Just letting you know, it's sort of frowned upon to talk about "rape culture" as an actual thing. Because when you're a guy, you realize that it's really not a thing.
/r/MensRights17/07/13 12:26 AM
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I don't know why some (maybe even most) women abhor biological explanations for different behaviors, but it's a trend I've never understood. Maybe it's my high testosterone.
/r/MensRights17/07/13 12:08 AM
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I guess the point of the post was not to reveal scientific novelty, of course everyone can guess testosterone affects behavior. It's mostly interesting in the second story, where a woman comes in as a lesbian feminist, becomes a man through testosterone--starts to take on traits herself that she and most of society previously disliked in men, and stops becoming a feminist.
/r/MensRights16/07/13 07:45 PM
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I'm sure it works the same for guys. I've slept with 25+ women, and have also cheated 3-4 times.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/13 01:55 AM
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I like this sub but I often wonder about this. It's sort of like how the people who are able to accurately judge their self worth and pick up on more social nuances, are also more likely to be depressed. Happier people are consistently naive in such areas. I could write a 12 page memoire right now about how all my friends are social climbers who mostly just care about themselves, but it's probably better for me to write the less accurate 'my fiends are amazing and so thoughtful' memoir.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/13 03:43 AM
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I'm fairly certain that I read a study mapping sexual encounters at a college, and the author, a woman if I remember correctly, found the 80% sex for 20% of men ratio. Pretty sure that's where those numbers came from.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/13 04:25 PM
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Yeah right. I have a good looking, slightly overweight friend who has a great jaw and broad shoulders, but dresses in absolutely whatever and has messy hair. Girls still go crazy.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 09:36 PM
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Snapchat, though, is pure gold for building connection. And no not sexting, just little faces or stupid pictures of a dog. They don't have to respond. They disappear after 3 seconds. It's gold.
/r/seduction20/06/13 04:03 AM
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don't know why you're talking about a specific field, I'm talking about two specific girls. and in my experience even my female friends in finance are looking to upgrade on men
/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 04:21 AM
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You really don't know what you're talking about, you sound like an elitist engineer or something. My room mates both make decent money, ones a set designer for film and ones a graphic designer for a well-known company. They seem to really like their job. But are obviously obsessed with successful men in their fields.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/13 04:02 AM
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I wouldn't say that's true. I'd say most people go into design because they're told they're creative or good at drawing in high school.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/13 09:40 PM
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Ha I really wish I knew this when I was younger. I remember being a touch sad turning 23, thinking my 'youth' was gone. But man now at age 25 I realize that 20-21 year olds love me so much. Ive been casually seeing one attractive 21 year off and on and I will say my room mate mentioned her age to me. We're lucky as guys that we don't have to worry about age that much. What's great about 24 year old designers is that they will happily bed 34 year old yuppies. Bed, yes probably. But what's frustra…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/13 07:43 PM
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Is she broken?
/r/TheRedPill06/06/13 03:24 AM
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wtf? personal anecdote: I'm 25, but my super hot girlfriend in college gave me a huge confidence boost that I'm probably still riding a bit off of. The fact that a really hot girlfriend sent me naked pictures and had anal sex with me at age 19-20 is a confidence booster, end of. Confidence is important. She wasn't the type of girl to have 1-night stands, she was too hot. I don't regret dating her long-term, although it was for 2 years and I probably should have made it 1 year, as it didn't work …
/r/TheRedPill28/05/13 06:29 AM
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Actually billionaire. And, crucially, I believe she's a young girl that isn't model-level attractive. She's just a normal, fresh-faced 25 year old. The same in Twilight. Create an exceptional man, saving an above average but 'normal' girl, and you've got a hit.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/13 10:46 PM
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No the example you used to spark this discussion Dont see how the ethics of seduction are any different than self help for how to get Ahead at work or how to make sales
/r/seduction21/05/13 05:48 AM
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I don't. I stay in. I feel like a lot of my female friends look better than my guy friends because when they are tired they stay in and go to bed at 11pm
/r/seduction21/05/13 05:17 AM
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Just yesterday this like 33 year old guy was in my college library at one of those huge tables you see at law schools. There was an attractive (8, athletic) girl who was probably 21, and she glowed. Every guy at that table noticed her whether he admitted it or not. The 33 year old guy simply leered though. He was constantly staring at her. Following her butt when she got up to plug in her laptop. After a while I got protective, and genuinely wanted the guy to just cool it and look at his book. T…
/r/seduction21/05/13 05:13 AM
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From the comments: Exactly, take away the food stamps, take away the medi-caid....you still would not marry a man unless he improved your situation. If he has no job or a low-income job with no benefits, you still would not marry him (whether or not there are public benefits). If he has a great job, with great benefits you still would marry him (whether or not there are public benefits). I don't know why, I'm sure it's partly because I'm not in a high-earning field, but recently the blatant publ…
/r/MensRights19/03/13 04:08 AM
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In my experience they are related. After I've slept with her...she's even more into me. Not saying I'm amazing in bed, it just works that way.
/r/seduction25/02/13 03:52 AM
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I read another study a while back from Germany. It concluded that the #1 predictor for divorce was living in a city (urban people were more likely to divorce) the #2 predictor was if the woman out-earned the man. It's not just this study. Sorry don't have link --believe it was on JStor
/r/MensRights22/02/13 06:34 AM
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Dude are you serious? Washington at Beacon? Inman Sq? It's really safe. Although there's not much foot traffic, so a random man saying hello might be weird but police is way over the top
/r/MensRights07/01/13 05:05 PM
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Well, as much as I hate to say it, sometimes I think people without fathers over-glamorize having a father. It's like that "big" party that you couldn't go to - the stories make the party seem so amazing but really there was a lot of awkward conversation, standing around, and that girl you kinda like didn't even show up. I appreciate my father a lot, and he was always around, but also emotionally distant and I always felt preferred my blonde sister over me the boy. So it's not all amazing.
/r/MensRights17/12/12 06:57 AM
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Not really. You also aren't allowed to critique African Americans. Although that one seems more understandable...with the whole slavery and segregation thing
/r/MensRights05/11/12 06:55 AM
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First of all i forget who said it but the quote goes "war is glorious to anyone who has never experienced it." War is horrendous. it can scar you deeply. Many men say they were never the same after experiencing combat. This image is not about the "privilege" of enlisting. This is about giving an accurate account of history --many feminists believe the 40s and 50s were times when women were oppressed. It's funny how most of those women who watched their husbands get drafted didn't complaining abo…
/r/MensRights18/10/12 06:21 AM
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First of all Why are many women so eager to paint all men with one brush. I relate to the senators and congressman about as much as the average woman relates to a super model or Barbara bush. They are the .1%. Just because we are the same gender does not mean I am the same as congressmen. We men do not have as much of a bond between us simply for being fellow men. when society is constantly separating the good, attractive, or winning men from the losing men, it is difficult to relate to one anot…
/r/MensRights17/10/12 09:13 PM
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I brought this up in my gender class and got mixed reaction... Two of my grandparents were involved in WWII. My grandma volunteered as a nurse, never saw combat, and had stories of being able to pick the cutest between 10 soldiers for who she wanted to dance with that night, bc there weren't many women around. My grandfather has stories of being drafted against his will, having two tanks ambush his troop and witness half his group including his friend get their bodies blown up just 50 feet away …
/r/MensRights17/10/12 02:27 PM
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That's the potency that we are openly discussing and criticizing in the forum. Women have weilded their social power and influence over the rest of society...no man can be openly critical of women and expect to be seen as even remotely normal, attractive, or worthy of their vote. Women have a very strong complex about their victimhood and it bonds them together in remarkable ways. It's hard to fight..
/r/MensRights17/10/12 05:53 AM
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It's certainly an annoying trend. Both me and my sister were both in the sciences in college. Guess who got the big scholarship yet had the exact same grades and worse SAT's than me? Yes of course my sister. It wouldn't make me too upset except she still has a "women are discriminated against in the sciences" attitude. It would also be more acceptable if there were "boys only" poetry or literature readings...or teaching seminars...areas where boys typically have less interest.
/r/MensRights14/10/12 06:00 AM
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That's simply not true. If you're talking about freedoms, sure. If you're talking abt modern gender movements...then absolutely not. There are only two genders and finite resources in the world. If the government or society goes out of its way to give a particular gender resources then the other is losing out. For example, Mandating divorce settlements or women and children absolutely impedes the rights of the divorce father. If a system for default shared custody arose, then that is impeding on…
/r/MensRights02/10/12 08:48 PM
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Though a nice compliment should always be welcomed. Ya know, like "you're cute". And that's different than "You're cute, I want to screw you." I think you're forcing your personal preferences onto the actions of others. I think most guys would prefer the latter, as we rarely receive any compliments like that. I'm not saying anything is right or should be done
/r/MensRights24/09/12 05:00 AM
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I think just both of your examples aren't really the context of "objectification" that typhonblue is referring to. Objectification would be if a girl posts a photo that happens to have herself in it on reddit, and people express their sexual interest in her in the comments, disregarding the actual topic of the post. And in that context, I think they were saying that a man expressing his sexual interest is seen as 'creepier' than a girl doing the same.
/r/MensRights24/09/12 04:57 AM
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While late, the architect Zaha Hadid spoke at my school (world-renowned female architect, designed some of the London 2012 stadiums, etc.) and was asked the same question. Same response, actually said females have an advantage in architecture if they just stick with it.
/r/MensRights15/09/12 04:12 AM
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It's really ironic how quickly women and society at large point to innate differences that put men at a disadvantage. But of course men can't say that about women in any case.
/r/MensRights15/09/12 04:07 AM
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When I took two gender classes in college, and realized that (The female, feminist teachers) were teaching a large amount of young girls to identify themselves as oppressed victims. I don't like some tones around here where we as men play the victim card, but I do like the part where we logically point out the ways that women aren't exactly innocent victims, and it will hurt everybody if they identify themselves as victims.
/r/MensRights23/08/12 04:48 PM
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I think it's complicated to describe and generalize modern relationships but i'm sure many of us see what you're noticing. It's also annoying how it's rarely brought up that men simply don't get pleasure out of the same domestic tasks that women do. Visit a college apartment with 3 guys, visit one with 3 girls. In my experience the girl's apartment spends more time cleaning, gets greater pleasure out of having a clean apartment, spends way more money, thought, and attention on decorating, etc. S…
/r/MensRights04/08/12 03:56 AM
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When people say that women have gotten the short end of the stick for millennia....it bothers me. are you forgetting that theres evidence that we come from twice as many female ancestors as male ancestors? Are you forgetting just how violent previous time periods were? How many men died for a king they didn't like? How many men were killed by neighboring tribes? How many men were banished from their own village? How for every rich man with three wives, there were two male peasants with no social…
/r/MensRights03/08/12 02:41 PM
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I actually have been asked to split the cost for my first girlfriend's birth control. Also been asked to pay the full $60 for a morning after pill when a condom broke. I did both. But traditionally you're right women do pay for their own birth control themselves. I'm sure many experienced girls have condoms at their place, just in my experience a good 50% of the girls expect you to pay for all condom purchases, including at her place.
/r/MensRights02/08/12 06:40 PM
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I've gotten the vibe from plenty of (young) girls that it's my responsibility to bring condoms to her place. I get the tone that some girls think they shouldn't have to pay for anything about sex, including the 12$ on condoms --it is me who is getting lucky, not them. I should be the one making them comfortable in every way, including supplying condoms at her own apartment. It's really annoying. But of course I pay up for the condoms every time.
/r/MensRights02/08/12 03:28 PM
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Wow it's so crazy that this is getting brought up years later. In 2010 I remember writing an entry for Misandry, it was one of the only ones. I checked it a couple days later: 9 upvotes and 0 downvotes! This will be the top one! of course after 2 more days it was removed mysteriously.
/r/MensRights02/08/12 03:15 AM
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Uh you're just guessing, yet stating it as fact. In my opinion it's more logical to see it as youthful girls are valuable to society. More valuable than older men. She is fertile to society. Society depends on fertile women and children as the gatekeepers to the next generation. Anybody that threatens fertile women or children will be questioned and looked down upon. After all, why do you think women are physically weaker than men in the first place? Because women have so much value, that histor…
/r/MensRights31/07/12 03:28 PM
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Can you elaborate? In what situations are you treated like a child? I hear this said from women so it must be a big deal. Yet I as a man struggle to see it. I couldn't care less if people assume I know what I'm doing with computers, directions, etc., and frequently, in new jobs or academic assignments, I feel like people aren't giving me ENOUGH direction, and aren't eager to help me, or couldn't care less about helping me, mostly because I'm a man. I feel like the options are getting babied as a…
/r/MensRights31/07/12 03:19 PM
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In this particular case, I don't see a huge problem with it. If my sister was being raped, I wouldn't blame her for killing her rapist although it certainly wouldn't be preferable --it would probably mess her up even more. However, I see what you're saying. I remember seeing a really popular post on /r/twox where there were some boys who told a girl that she couldn't help light the fire because it was man's work, and the guys ended up getting 3rd degree burns from an accident, and she thought it…
/r/MensRights30/07/12 05:12 AM
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I have to admit that I have grown to resent many women's gold-digging nature. I understand it is sometimes built into female biology. It was difficult to hear my sisters talking about "maybe it's a good idea to put ourselves in a life situation where we can meet rich men and not middle class men". It's just hard when your own sisters are wishing for an entitled life. True to statistics, my 24 y/o girlfriend makes 48k while I make 40k. Not a huge gap but at our salary levels the extra 8k is huge.…
/r/MensRights30/07/12 04:32 AM
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I also don't believe that they are a true transsexual. The whole post offers no novel insights to the male experience, and the second half comes across as having a large agenda.
/r/MensRights29/07/12 07:50 PM
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I don't view it as insane, it's just highlighting the very specific ways that society uses men to the larger society's benefit, and the man's detriment, questioning the widely-taught narrative of male privilege and female oppression.
/r/MensRights26/07/12 11:06 PM
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I don't know. Complaining and talking to people would be a huge step. But mildly related --as I'm getting my graduate degree next year (in an unrelated field), there is a program where I can get my certificate in Women's, Gender, and Sexuality studies and be certified to be able to teach undergraduate courses on gender. It only requires me to take 3 classes and present a hypothetical syllabus. I think that more men need to do these things so we can actually be heard in gender issues that don't s…
/r/MensRights26/07/12 09:55 PM
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I'm sure I'm not the only one that notices how feminists use this tactic way too much.
/r/MensRights26/07/12 06:02 PM
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Very different. Yes there are negative and positive descriptions of individuals of both genders. But you could never have a public article that said "heroic actions proves that there are still not-crazy women out there".
/r/MensRights26/07/12 05:18 PM
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What bothers me is the constant need to identify and separate "good men" from the average man or men as a group. There is not the same for women. There aren't "good" women and "bad" women. There are just women.
/r/MensRights26/07/12 03:54 PM
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I'd agree however I think that if 4 young girls saved their boyfriend's lives, there would be significantly more questions being asked about the worthiness of the man's life. I think that's the real issue with this.
/r/MensRights26/07/12 12:02 AM
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Oppression is the wrong word. I disagree that men are oppressed. I think that women are nurtured and supported in ways that men aren't. It's easier to have friends and a support group when you're a girl, due to both your biological social programming, and also people treat you in kinder and more inclusive ways when you're a girl, on average. Growing up with two sisters this was apparent to me at an early age --I was discouraged from expressing negative emotions (even my own mom would subtly tell…
/r/MensRights24/07/12 11:18 PM
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From the comments: In all likelihood, the reasons why more men commit acts of violence are psychological, while the reasons why there aren't more women scientists is a cultural and societal problem. Basically sums up my experience with gender classes in college and reading feminist thought.
/r/MensRights24/07/12 11:04 PM
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Even though it's a joke on top of a joke, doesn't belong here. Will only be used against us.
/r/MensRights24/07/12 05:06 PM
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Such a lack of logic. And even if /r/feminism was remotely comparable to hard science subreddits --if you look at the comments people are almost ALWAYS questioning the findings.
/r/MensRights24/07/12 03:29 PM
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I mean look at her other articles. "Rich People Problems" where she details a poor man yelling at her while she's in her boat.
/r/MensRights24/07/12 04:50 AM
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I'm a 22 year old guy, but my mom is a mild version of Marissa Mayer. She's a VP at her pretty big company, has always been both successful and charismatic, tons of friends, made way more money than my dad, was the 1st woman in many areas of her work, is very liberal, --she is the ideal feminist. Yet she has never considered herself a feminist and distances herself from the movement. She has occasionally said off-hand that "I didn't get where I am despite being a woman, I got where I am because …
/r/MensRights24/07/12 04:19 AM
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