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| 3 | 25 year old kissless virgin trying to not appear so... advice please1.) use a bodyhair/beard trimmer with no guard. its a clean cut but you aint smooth to the touch which may creep people out, its a happy medium. 2.) the mechanics of a french kiss is GENTLY massaging their tongue with yours.. GENTLY.... also its not all tuck so pull back a bit then massage their lips with yours then BACK IN for the tongue.. GENTLY.. also use your hands to GENTLY caress their neck, back, cheek if your ballsy.. 3.) foreplay varies but for a girl give her a good 10-15 if you can, a… | /r/seduction | 13/06/18 05:40 PM |
| 10 | How to deal with a guy who keeps poking fun at me in front of girls?absolutely do this.. the most embarrassing thing you can do to a guy that acting like this is to put him on blast. So while he's shit talking you in front of these girls just literally say "it's funny how you only act like this when girls are around so you try to act cool and tough by putting me down" and then just go about your business.. it will embarrass the ever living fuck out of him.. guys like this try so hard to be cool and when you point it out it kills them | /r/seduction | 29/05/18 03:02 PM |
| -1 | Advice on “guy friends”have you ever even talked to a woman? you sound retarded | /r/seduction | 18/05/18 05:39 PM |
| 8 | There are 3 fundamentals: Love yourself, have balls, and have an abundance mentality.number 4. love your balls | /r/seduction | 14/05/18 05:27 PM |
| 4 | People overthinking thingswhile you are entirely wrong with your post i do agree with your outlook.. obsessing over what to say will stress you out and ruin it for you and ultimately you're just not being yourself.. so yeah just be you and say what you want and do what you want and find the person that fits the real you.. that being said yeah women will literally read into every single word you said or didnt say and how quickly you replied. Majority of my friends are female and i work in an office of 90% women, they read… | /r/seduction | 12/04/18 05:08 PM |
| 3 | Movie pass subscribtion has gotten me lots of dates and laysso youve been repeatedly taking women to movies over and over and over and over? i guess this works if your 13 | /r/seduction | 12/04/18 04:04 PM |
| 2 | (FR) Shortest “date” of my lifedude you handled it great.. it doesnt have to be super awkward you can genuinely just say oh i thought this was a date my bad and then be on your way.. its only awkward when you make it awkward | /r/seduction | 11/04/18 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Do hot women get rejected ?Yuuuup that’s my jeans | /r/seduction | 10/04/18 03:29 AM |
| 2 | Do hot women get rejected ?im tempted to make another chino and jogger run through town though and i see what i come up with.. i failed miserably last time | /r/seduction | 09/04/18 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Do hot women get rejected ?joggers look like garbage on me, tall and thin. Chinos are hard to find a good fit, i'll buy a pair after having tried them on for an hour and then the next day magically they look like shit somehow and end up thrown in some basket never to be worn again..im destined to be a jeans only man i guess. i mean my jeans dont look bad or anything i go through all the rigorous testing to make sure they fit properly and look good | /r/seduction | 09/04/18 09:08 PM |
| 2 | Do hot women get rejected ?I have to admit i've been pretty simple when it comes to my jeans, i have a few pair but are all VERY similar but i at least put in the time and effort to find well fitting jeans. Because although jeans arent the focus pieces they are the fucking foundation on which everything is built.. if your pants suck your outfit is fucked | /r/seduction | 09/04/18 07:28 PM |
| 10 | Do hot women get rejected ?i cant tell you how many guy friends i have that dont understand fitted or slim fit anything.. their pants are usually the worst offenders though. baggy fucking jeans or baggy sweat pants (or hell even baggy suit pants) and then the shirt might not be baggy but its the right fit but their pants are baggy so it looks fucked up.. a fitted shirt with baggy pants is sloppy as fuck | /r/seduction | 09/04/18 04:32 PM |
| 1 | PSA: Remember, rejection is okay.I generally dont mind rejection, it happens. The one reason it does bother me is because i've lived in my hometown pretty much my entire life so everyone knows eachother so when you date someone the odds are they know half your family and most of your friends and its just awkward to try to ask out people who are friends with people you know or people youve dated.. its really hard to ask out the friend of a girl you once dated. | /r/seduction | 06/04/18 09:47 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]lol snapchat streaks.. thats ridiculous, im glad i missed this fucking fad in my generation not having to use fucking snapchat for dating. (late 20s) .. however facebook is still heavily fucking important but i dont have to use snapchat tumblr instagram and all that other shit so i guess its a good tradeoff | /r/seduction | 02/04/18 04:19 PM |
| 4 | If you approach a girl at a party and she is into you do you stick with her for a while or do you walk off after like 10 minutes and come back to pull later on?i can see where you feel like you missed out but the second girl was just looking for a fuck and in my experience that sounds cool and all but its fucking awful. stay away from those girls. The first girl was just a missed opportunity i guess but if you were looking for something lasting, that girl surely wasnt it. She asked you back pretty quickly which is ok but then disappeared, sounds like she was just looking for a hookup as well... i suppose its all what youre looking to get.. if youre loo… | /r/seduction | 30/03/18 03:17 PM |
| 1 | What firm has the most girls?in my town if you want to find girls at a workplace its, nursing - literally any office work ever - or salons.. so get a job at one of those three things and you can creep on all the girl coworkers you want | /r/seduction | 30/03/18 03:13 PM |
| 1 | What firm has the most girls?zing | /r/seduction | 30/03/18 03:12 PM |
| 46 | If you approach a girl at a party and she is into you do you stick with her for a while or do you walk off after like 10 minutes and come back to pull later on?im not really an expert but i would say more toward the end.. youre at a party to have fun and so is she. in the middle of the party go have some fun, chat around drink some beers and have a good time. if you focus on this girl from beginning middle and end of a night youre gonna have a bad time. you will be laser focused on her and likely ruin the whole night, its just too much.. make a good impression have a good ass time and have some fun and then reconnect.. if you really feel like it in the… | /r/seduction | 30/03/18 02:59 PM |
| 2 | On what date should I try to kiss a girl?it needs to be an escalation. If you kiss someone and they are surprised by it then you fucking did it wrong.. for example, the last girl i was dating we had an awesome dinner and then went to a bar that had a patio that had a little fire going so we sat by the fire and chatted. we were getting along real well and walked down the street to see a band play and now were having drinks and she starts the touching game, grabbing my hand and pulling me to the bar and touching me as she passes me, lite… | /r/seduction | 30/03/18 02:44 PM |
| 18 | 99% of game is gaming yourselfthis post sounds like a load of bullshit.. you pull that in any bar around here and people are going to think youre a fucknig crazy person and stay away from you. | /r/seduction | 30/03/18 02:20 PM |
| 262 | If you approach a girl at a party and she is into you do you stick with her for a while or do you walk off after like 10 minutes and come back to pull later on?break off at some point and find your way back a little later on. My success in party scenarios have always been to make a good first impression with a girl and then do my own thing and later on in the night reconnect. I honestly do this subconsciously. If you make a really good first impression and connect and then back away a little bit it builds up | /r/seduction | 30/03/18 02:18 PM |
| 5 | Need advice on how fix a text convo that's gotten staleidk if this works for everybody but i started dating this girl and in order to better get to know her i found an article that was like 100 questions to ask someone you just started dating or something and they were super random but sparked some of the best conversations i've ever had while dating someone.. she honestly was an amazing conversationalist so we would barely get through a couple questions. When we discussed our dream house we went off on how we both liked the cabin style of houses th… | /r/seduction | 26/03/18 09:59 PM |
| 3 | College: Inviting girls over.come to think of it i never really planned it out.. my dorm room was the fun room that everyone wanted to hangout in. rockband always going and i would download movies and we would have movie nights. I didnt really have to entice any women over they just came over naturally... make it a place that a woman would want to hangout normally and dont force it | /r/seduction | 26/03/18 09:21 PM |
| 10 | Quickest ways to become more attractive as a manthe real tip to being good at sex is to just give a shit.. its surprising how many people are bad at sex because they dont put forth any effort | /r/seduction | 19/03/18 02:13 PM |
| 1 | How to get over regret of missing out?Don't think so much about sex you didnt miss out on anything. we all have sex and besides positions and whatever its all the fucking same p goes in v and thats it. I slept with one girl in college it was my girlfriend and i dont regret anything. Just live your life and dont harp on having as much sex as possible you will only end up making mistakes. Sex should come naturally not be a 4 year bachelors degree worth of research and experience | /r/seduction | 16/03/18 03:03 PM |
| 9 | A move for my fellow vapers out there.jesus | /r/seduction | 13/03/18 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Had a 10 give me the friend talk....she put her guard up after having used you for sex because she doesnt like being used for sex by people only wanting sex out of her so she uses others???? this girl sounds dumb brah | /r/seduction | 06/03/18 10:45 PM |
| 1 | 10 Must-Haves for a Bachelor Pad She'll Lovei supposed you can tie these 2 things into the cleanliness thing but they need a special mention for sure | /r/seduction | 06/03/18 08:31 PM |
| 3 | 10 Must-Haves for a Bachelor Pad She'll LoveDefinitely forgot about a garbage can in the bathroom WITH A LID aaaaand wet wipes... The garbage can with a lid is for tampons obviously and she will feel more comfortable and sanitary and wet wipes are for sexy time before and after.. | /r/seduction | 06/03/18 08:30 PM |
| 1 | 3 dates and hook ups later, she wants to "just be friends"She wants to have her cake and eat it too.. its a very common thing in the dating world that a person will pull this shit. They want you to basically commit to them but they dont have to commit to you or tell anyone youre together so they are technically available should they decide to just up and bail and never talk to you again or available to date and find someone better.. its very selfish but it happens all the time. You have to decide if you want to be her fuck buddy or just be completely o… | /r/seduction | 27/02/18 02:59 PM |
| 4 | Thanks Fam: The cute girl at Starbucksits weird to me that people exchange social media rather than numbers nowadays | /r/seduction | 14/02/18 08:31 PM |
| 5 | I will be with 2 single female friends for Valentines, how should I proceedyeah its likely he doesnt realize hes in the friendzone.. even if he does manage to hook up with one he will remain the friendzone.. intent needs to be laid out early or its a fucking nightmare to convert | /r/seduction | 13/02/18 04:30 PM |
| 1 | What's wrong with "pool and darts" as a first date suggestion?pool is usually fine but despite darts being "popular" there are a shitload of people that just dont enjoy it or get anything out of it. | /r/seduction | 06/02/18 04:45 PM |
| 0 | When is too soon to date exclusively?nope | /r/seduction | 02/02/18 09:16 PM |
| 0 | When is too soon to date exclusively?Dude you are a legit crazy person. I like how hard you try to gaslight people. I have you entire personality pegged. I formed a judgement off the ignorant way you phrased your original comment and then all subsequent comments further clarified exactly what i assumed you to be, an arrogant prick lol.. goodluck further | /r/seduction | 02/02/18 08:20 PM |
| 0 | When is too soon to date exclusively?But at least you, unlike the other people, see that the issue was with the tone and the way he phrased that sentence. Like i said in another comment its fine waiting a few months to get to know somebody but... she has to prove herself? | /r/seduction | 02/02/18 07:49 PM |
| 0 | When is too soon to date exclusively?I have no problem with the idea of dating for a few months getting to know someone thats absolutely fine. Its the tone and the phrase used to convey that message that was fucking stupid. There's two ways to say something, the mature way and the immature way | /r/seduction | 02/02/18 07:47 PM |
| 1 | When is too soon to date exclusively?yeah no | /r/seduction | 02/02/18 07:46 PM |
| -1 | When is too soon to date exclusively?Who is this she you’re referring to? Never been cheated on | /r/seduction | 02/02/18 05:24 PM |
| -1 | When is too soon to date exclusively?I'm triggered, right... look how you phrase all of your comments. How fucking old are you? lol | /r/seduction | 02/02/18 04:56 PM |
| 0 | When is too soon to date exclusively?I mean saying women have to fucking prove themselves to you makes you sound like a piece of shit. And the fact that me being opposed to your misogynistic ignorant comment you think makes me some kind of beta male REALLY screams to your maturity and how small minded you are. Grow up | /r/seduction | 02/02/18 04:40 PM |
| 1 | When is too soon to date exclusively?The first sentence is fine but it's the second sentence that misogynistic | /r/seduction | 02/02/18 04:38 PM |
| 0 | When is too soon to date exclusively?This is the most ignorant thing i've read in a long time. You either date very low self esteem women or you're single. You're attitude toward women screams immaturity. | /r/seduction | 02/02/18 03:56 PM |
| 1 | I used to get hella Tinder matches, now I don’t... did something change?i know exactly what happened.. you used the word hella in a sentence and every female on earth found out and collectively decided you were removed from the dating pool | /r/seduction | 31/01/18 09:13 PM |
| 2 | How to flirt with the cute guy who works at the movie theater?strike up a small conversation each time you see him if you havent already. Say hello and preferably say his name to establish that you know eachother and then start with short stupid small talk to get to know things about him, ask how his weekend was what he did or how whatever recent holiday was and eventually youll get to know him enough you can strike up conversations about specific things. At any time during this you can give him your number casually and said well if you ever wanna chat or … | /r/seduction | 26/12/17 08:55 PM |
| 1 | [Update] Girl agreed to go out, but never got back to me. Is there a way to reach out in a classy way?dude wtf are you babbling about you psycho | /r/seduction | 21/12/17 05:51 PM |
| 3 | how to get a girl back to your place?Honestly if you’re having a good time and the night is winding ask if she still wants to hangout and then suggest your place or ask her if she wants to watch a movie. Honestly the movie always works if the girl is interested. We flip through Netflix talking about movies and bullshitting and drink wine | /r/seduction | 17/12/17 02:39 AM |
| 1 | How do you ask a girl out if she’s always around friends?I got a sort of similar issue. I'm in to this girl i've known for a long time and i'm actually coworkers/friends with her mom so when we do stuff as a group from work she will sometimes invite this girl but i never really get the chance to flirt with her or ask her to hangout because shes literally sitting right next to her mom and its just fucking weird to me. Like her mom is all for it and wants us to date but how the fuck do i pull off something so cringey | /r/seduction | 15/12/17 03:22 PM |
| 77 | Approached a girl at the gymdude im glad its not just me that thought this. I RARELY hug even acquaintances its mostly just actual friends that get hugs but someone i literally just met yeaaaah im not gonna hug them. This strikes me as weird as fuck | /r/seduction | 11/12/17 09:16 PM |
| 1 | How should I set Up my Tinder Bio?not a bad idea | /r/seduction | 28/11/17 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Are my standards too high?That's more or less the point I was trying to make but I catered my response to her. She has a type and it seems that she doesnt necessarily like main differences between men and women but she just likes pretty people in general. Same idea as a lesbian who likes the more "butch" (for a lack of a better word) looking women. We like what we like and for some people they like these qualities in both genders like in her case. | /r/seduction | 28/11/17 02:51 PM |
| 2 | Are my standards too high?I personally for the most part like women who take pride in their appearance. Im not saying they have to be dressed up every day or always have makeup on ( i actually prefer the natural look) but taking care of your body and appearance says alot about a person and i respect that. Im just not terribly fond of sloppy people in general i guess lol. I dated a girl who smoked and her clothes always smelled awful and she walked around barefoot all the time and her feet were always dirty and her pant l… | /r/seduction | 27/11/17 08:31 PM |
| 5 | Are my standards too high?i would say you probably more favor women and the only men you tend to like are pretty men. which makes you lean more towards feminine preference. You dont have too high of standards you just only like a certain type of guy...also as a man im gonna tell you right now all of my guy friends not a one of them puts in enough effort into their physical appearance and most women just kind accept it but if you play for both teams you probably enjoy the thing about women where they actually put in the e… | /r/seduction | 27/11/17 07:53 PM |
| 3 | How should I set Up my Tinder Bio?i didnt much stock in it but a girl i work with thats a year younger than me went off on a tangent about how super important the bio is.. so yeah i guess you have to put SOMETHING.. but i dont know exactly what is considered ideal | /r/seduction | 27/11/17 07:47 PM |
| 49 | Why do I always go from getting no girls to being on a roll.dude this sucked for me in highschool. Couldnt decide between 2 awesome girls and eventually ended up with neither one of them | /r/seduction | 14/11/17 03:43 PM |
| 1 | For fucks sake I'm cursedfirst kisses should NEVER be done with a group of people around thats just weird. You should only be going in for a first kiss with someone you've already been hanging out with one on one. I cant imagine a group scenario where i would try to kiss a girl for the first time. If you had fun with her i would tell her and say i would like to hangout with you again or go out on a date etc.. you need to have spent time alone with her prior to kissing her | /r/seduction | 08/11/17 05:01 PM |
| 2 | For fucks sake I'm cursedWell I will use my recent one as an example. We were on the couch watching a movie but just kind of having a deep talk and playfully teasing eachother and giving eachother shit but i could tell she was having fun so that was my go ahead to go for it. If you're on a date and shes having fun and being playful its a pretty good opportunity to try | /r/seduction | 07/11/17 10:02 PM |
| 2 | For fucks sake I'm cursedSometimes you just have to go for it. I hungout with a lady a couple weeks ago that was giving suuuuuper fucking confusing signals that easily i could have read wrong but i went in for a small kiss and gauged her reaction. Nothing bad is going to happen to you theres literally nothing to fear. If youre have a good time with a girl and you get even the slightest romantic moment go for a kiss, a small one and go at a medium speed you dont want to come in too quick but dont want to slow creep in on… | /r/seduction | 07/11/17 08:35 PM |
| 7 | Girls keep flakingsometimes you have to just accept that girls are going to do this. Its not necessarily a reflection of you. Alot of girls don't know how to properly reject or end things (usually the immature girls) so ghosting is their go to method instead of talking things out. Sometimes they meet someone else sometimes they just lose interest.. Theres literally nothing you can do to stop this from happening, you just check and ask what happened why they ghosted and if they dont respond fuck them its rude and … | /r/seduction | 07/11/17 08:29 PM |
| 2 | So was she romantically interested most likely?It's not you. It's very easy to pickup hints in someones mood changes but we ALWAYS think were overanalyzing and being crazy. I've done this countless times thinking i was crazy and i was right literally every single time. Your gut knows... that being said it's likely she was interested and now is just interested in someone else which is why the sudden shift. This happens and its gonna happen alot thats just part of the dating world. My best advice is as soon as you think someone is interested o… | /r/seduction | 07/11/17 03:18 PM |
| 10 | Meeting girl in Starbucks hahacompromise and meet where she asked. Theres alot of things that can make a girl skiddish so you want her to feel comfortable. You make the plans but kind of let her get a little sense of control. It's scary to be a woman nowadays so always make sure she feels safe and comfortable | /r/seduction | 07/11/17 03:13 PM |
| 36 | The Only Phrase You Will Ever Need To Get A Girls Numberplease... phrase it better than that i literally cringed at the thought of those words shoot and swap details.. jesus please dont phrase it like that.. you might as well have said gotta jet can have them digi's... | /r/seduction | 02/11/17 07:15 PM |
| 2 | Messaged a co-worker from internship via IG DM, got number, but not sure if she is playing gamesask her out on a date. get your fucking answer if shes playing games, then depending on her response you either continue on with your life or go out on the date and keep going.. youre only fucking playin yourself if you are not escalating or at least trying to | /r/seduction | 27/10/17 09:34 PM |
| 2 | First kiss attempt rejected, not sure what to make of it.she may just want to take things slow.. for some people (not all people) kissing immediately means to them lets escalate this and bang. I have kissed a girl after a date many times that they instantly took it further and that wasnt my original intention. So maybe to her a kiss isnt just something innocent | /r/seduction | 27/10/17 09:10 PM |
| 2 | She says she likes me but somethimes she ignores my texts and we barely meet.i havent read this whole thing yet but as an adult man you should please never use rly ... you can type out really.. youre not a 13 year old girl | /r/seduction | 24/10/17 04:27 PM |
| 2 | Good video on having fun around women!it was all done as some weird experiment which gave him this false sense of confidence because he had nothing to lose it wasnt genuine. if this camera was not on and nobody was watching him he wouldnt have acted remotely like that and it sure as hell wouldnt have been received very well.. when something is a spectacle or joke its a thousand times easier because there are no stakes.. if my friend said i dare you to go over to that girl and give her a cheesey pickup line i would most likely do it … | /r/seduction | 23/10/17 07:19 PM |
| 10 | Met a Girl at the Gym, Confused and Need Your Helpheres the thing even if she is interested shes not making an effort and seemingly cant carry a conversation or even try... do you really want to date someone like that?.. i know this may sound harsh but my best relationships were with girls who were energetic and outgoing and could carry a conversation and made effort | /r/seduction | 23/10/17 06:44 PM |
| 8 | Good video on having fun around women!That was fucking creepy | /r/seduction | 22/10/17 07:59 PM |
| 20 | How to handle other men coming to hit on a girl I'm *currently* talking with?This answer is correct, i was on a first date with a girl and we ended up at a bar and one of her lame ass guy friends wanted to be cool and came up and stood in between us and ordered a drink and said a few things to her and then eventually walked away and she apologized and kind of laughed it off as it was clearly immature and i replied and said yeah that was kind of fucking rude and then we no longer talked about it and went on with what we were talking about. Youre allowed to get angry and t… | /r/seduction | 20/10/17 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal for a man in his 20’s to not like casual sex/ hookups?its pretty empty to me so i dont really go out looking for them | /r/seduction | 19/10/17 02:08 PM |
| 3 | My journey to finally getting laid. A full break-down.it builds on the mindset that when you go into a date you should remember that youre the prize | /r/seduction | 12/10/17 02:09 PM |
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