Girls keep flaking

savvyxxl · 2017-11-07T20:29:47+00:00

sometimes you have to just accept that girls are going to do this. Its not necessarily a reflection of you. Alot of girls don't know how to properly reject or end things (usually the immature girls) so ghosting is their go to method instead of talking things out. Sometimes they meet someone else sometimes they just lose interest.. Theres literally nothing you can do to stop this from happening, you just check and ask what happened why they ghosted and if they dont respond fuck them its rude and immature and you wouldnt want to be with someone who pulls that kind of shit anyway.

gregory2112 · 2017-11-08T05:25:42+00:00

Ask yourself, on these first dates how many times did you create emotional spikes?

Obviously kissing is a big one, but there are other ways to charge a girls emotions that inevitably lead to physical intimacy and future dates.

Kino is the first one right from the start of the date, a hug or arm touch as soon as you see her. Then touch her arm or the small of her back whenever she makes you laugh.

Also steer the conversation to intimate emotional topics, about half way through the date if the vibe is right ask her how she lost her virginity, or where is the craziest place she got busy. This is a huge spike because the girl HAS to think about sex and how she responds tells a lot about her sexual attitudes and comfort with you.

Lingering silences with soft, steady eye contact is gold for spiking emotion, many times just this will create a physical response from her; blushing, coy looks, her hand laid upon yours and quite often a move towards a kiss hoping you will take the hint and move in the rest of the way.

So, are you spiking your dates emotions and giving them reason to see you again or just spending "friendly" time with them and having cordial bland conversations?

daygamer0911 · 2017-11-07T21:46:29+00:00

I don't often kiss on 1st date

There you go.

Title	Girls keep flaking
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Date	November 7, 2017 8:19 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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