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I absolutely agree with this, but I'd like to expand it a little and say that most people, regardless of their gender, aren't worthy of respect and deference/submission. Not sure about commitment. I'd argue that most people end up committing to someone who's around their own overall value, so in their eyes the other person is worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 09:42 PM
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No worries :)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 09:24 PM
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Don't forget to mention that by selecting women who put out on the first date a man is pretty much actively selecting for sluts. Which generally aren't relationship material, and then they somehow still wonder what went wrong...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 09:23 PM
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I agree. I just didn't mention this in my comment because it doesn't happen often enough that their presence in the dating market would make a difference for the average person.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 09:19 PM
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being married during your early 20s Where did I mention being married? If I recall correctly I didn't use the word married. When I said "lock down" I meant a relationship, not marriage. It's pretty much the norm for people to meet in their early 20s, be together for a while, live together during their mid 20s then marry late 20s. That's the time line of pretty much every high quality woman/person in a successful marriage that I've ever met. So no need to marry in your early 20s, but if you're no…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 09:05 PM
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It's "she", actually. And yeah, that was exactly what I meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 08:47 PM
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I guess it all depends on WHAT she was doing with her time in her 20s. Fair enough. kind of a red flag that you werent able to find a high quality guy in your 20s, not so much for a guy though I personally disagree, but a lot of people feel the same way you do. To me it's the same thing as with the woman. Either he's single because no one wanted him, which is a huge red flag by itself, or he's single by choice, which would make one wonder why he chose to settle down all of a sudden, and what he …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 08:46 PM
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And most of those women probably met their (future) husband in their early 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 12:43 PM
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You're getting "backup in case all else fails" (high beta traits, no alpha ones) and marriage material (high alpha traits, high beta traits) mixed up. Marriage material men are wanted, regardless of whether they're 20, 30, or 50, and will have women competing over them. Every woman's first choice is to lock down someone who is actual marriage material (second choice is having sex with alphas, third is settling down with her backup). You don't want to be duped by a tradthot who claims she's not l…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 08:08 AM
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Why is mobile reddit so shit that it deletes comments when you obviously clicked edit??? Anyway, as I was saying before I accidentally deleted my post. Yes, her breasts are saggy, so are all big natural breasts out there. The perkiness and fullness at the top of her breasts is only created by the bras/bikinis she's wearing. They won't look anywhere close to those pictures if she's not wearing a bra. Natural big breasts can be full and firm, but they will never be perky unless they are fake. The …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 07:11 PM
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Something that is beyond passive consumption or mere stimulus-response. That's a pretty neat definition, I might use that in the future. Going by this definition I absolutely agree that a lot of people don't have any real hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 06:40 PM
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It has very little to do with what most men are missing, and much more that women's attraction just doesn't work that way. Something about testosterone, I guess, and evolutionary biology, or something like that. Also even if men were more picky when it comes to physical standards (and I really doubt they are) women are much more picky in just about a gazillion other fields that men don't care about. So while it might be harder to meet a man's physical standard (but again, I doubt it is), it's si…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 06:32 PM
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What are the things that cause you to bond to a man? Love and sex, as in both of those things combined. Just one of the two won't do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 07:30 PM
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No, of course not why would I? Some men, specifically the ones who have or will sexually victimize people? I'd do that. All men, which would include my SO? Not even if my life depended on it. Why? Because I'm selfish enough to not want to give up my personal pleasures for the potential safety of people I don't even know.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 07:27 PM
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Just out of curiosity: what does it take for something to qualify as a proper hobby in your opinion?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 07:04 PM
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Women who have amazing sex lives with their husband don't go around talking about it to everyone they meet, so you won't really notice they're out there And there's some territory between "bad boy" and "nice guy". A guy can be hot and husband material. They're not mutually exclusive, like many people here seem to think.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 01:31 PM
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That'snot because it appeals to the "fuck/fling bucket" of the women that you didn't stand a chance with when they thought of you as potential LTR material. It's because that different image appeals to a different group of women, specifically ones who aren't LTR minded and therefore aren't as picky as the LTR minded women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 01:26 PM
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She will be faithful, loyal, supportive partner who will make money of her own and give you sex 3 times a week (where in she is not as excited as she was with the bad boys.) This question is pretty stupid, cause this is just not how it works. A man can be marriage material and be the kind of guy a woman enthusiastically has sex with whenever she gets the chance. As a matter of fact I'd argue that's the sort of man any woman would pick as a husband over some guy where in she is not as excited as …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 01:18 PM
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As a woman, I know many women won't hesitate to back stab you if it's convenient for them. So no, I don't automatically trust women. Sure if I'd be stranded in the middle of nowhere I'd be more likely to hitch a ride with a woman than with a man, but that's about the only time I'd trust a woman more than a man. I generally start off feeling neutral about people I don't know, regardless of their gender. If they don't display any signs of being untrustworthy, I'll trust the average person with sma…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 01:10 PM
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How about dating their future husband/wife? The average timeline of a college educated person who marries in their mid to late 20s is something like this: Meet their partner in college, probably around age 20-22. Earlier for some, later for others, but this is a pretty good average. Date each other for a year or 2 before moving in together, at this point they're 22-24. Live together for a while. If you're in a serious relationship and living together marriage isn't much of a concern because it d…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 03:23 PM
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I'll explain to them that, in order to be as successful as possible in attracting a partner, men and women should act differently. Of course I'll include more specifics than that. Beyond that I'll raise them fairly similar. In today's society, where most people spend some time living on their own before selling down with a partner, I believe everyone should know all basic domestic skills, regardless of which gender does them more in a relationship. I'll also encourage my children to explore any …
/r/RedPillWives25/06/18 12:10 PM
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So you're using locals as a source? I assume you do realize that there's gonna be a lot of confirmation bias there, as they only meet the very small minority of European women who do go there for the service. Oh and btw you've just switched from "European women" to "white women". Which one of the two are you arguing for? Because they have very different implications. There's plenty of white women in the US too. And US women are probably much more likely to travel to the Caribbean than European w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/18 01:08 AM
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Don’t white women from Europe go to all of these carrebean countries to rent male prostitutes to “take them around” and “play house?” No, they don't. Where on earth did you even get that idea from? If there's people interested in this at all it's a niche thing, and it's an extremely small minority. Urban dictionary as a source to back up your claim? Really? UD does not prove anything. That site reads like it is written by early teenage boys, and it has tons of terms to describe things that never…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 12:48 AM
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If people have a problem with people killing and mutilating other people, why do they watch horror? If people have a problem with pedophilia, why have so many people read (and enjoyed) Nabokov's book "Lolita"? If people are so against bullying and (domestic) abuse, why does it keep occurring in everything from movies, to literature, to plays? Your argument is incredibly flawed. A musical piece consists of a lot of things, the lyrics only being a small part of it. People could easily like every o…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 06:57 PM
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The MGTOWs online who just love to bitch about how awful all women are, are pathetic good-for-nothings and should get a life away from the internet. The one man I've met who decided not to play the game was a pretty great guy. Didn't want to date anymore cause he had some pretty bad experiences with women. He does have a couple of female friends though, and he readily acknowledges that his past relationships are in no way a reflection on women as a whole. Like I said, he is pretty great, has a l…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/18 08:05 AM
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I don't care about his social value, I care about the way he goes about it. He should at least try to be subtle about it, if he does that I don't care. If he's gonna stare without caring if I notice, or even with the purpose of making me uncomfortable that's just disgusting. If a guy is staring at me in any way that's not considered socially acceptable then yes, it's a deal breaker. I don't want to be associated with anyone who doesn't understand basic social dynamics.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 11:01 AM
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Neither option is particularly appealing, but the idea of someone who has had 20+ partners disgusts me, so I'd go with the virgin if I absolutely had to choose. Above what number does a guy's n-count become a red flag? An n of 10 or above is a deal breaker to me. Is there any number that is too low? When I broke up with my ex I told myself I wouldn't date a virgin again, but lo and behold, I did. So no, if the guy is attractive, has good social skills, and knows how to act around women I (appare…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 10:49 AM
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I'm not a big fan, so just for the rhetoric Debate for the heck of debate... I like your attitude
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 09:43 PM
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For me it's touch and quality time, for my SO it's touch and acts of service. But in out relationship there's a lot of all five.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 09:29 AM
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Society will treat her differently, and all her prospects will change. And why should she care? Not every man she meets wants to bone her anymore, how horrible... "The wall" is a thing for lifelong party sluts and women who think they'll look for a husband at some undefined point in the future. Those are a minority of women. Most women have a husband and a family by the time their "wall" comes around. She'll lose value in sexual appeal, but gain value as a the mother of her husband's children. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 09:57 PM
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I love those threads of men rating women. I always assume I'm around a 6, but those threads remind me that I'm (apparently) well above average attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 01:22 PM
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I was gonna say that none of them would be considered a 7 without makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 01:21 PM
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Yea you don't know any rich men And you do? I grew up around bottom of the UC and top of the UMC people of my country, and I've only ever met 1 person (my dad) who dated and married a college aged woman after like age 30. And that wasn't a trophy wife situation, everyone, including my mother's parents, my dad's children from his first marriage, and both their social circles, weren't at all accepting about it. In general men in high social circles marry a woman that's close to their own age to ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 01:13 PM
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If you can't find men in the places you're currently looking, look in different places. Expanding my social circle worked miracles for me. Are there any places near you where people would go to just hang out and meet others? Specifically something that's not geared towards a certain hobby, but rather just towards being social. If there is something like that near you try going there. In my experience it tends to attract a much wider range of people than hobby groups, and you'll also meet other k…
/r/RedPillWives12/06/18 08:09 AM
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A RPer in art school now that's something Haha it's not that uncommon for redpill women to have hobbies/work in a creative or otherwise feminine field.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/18 06:26 AM
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What's up with people nowadays getting so butthurt over words? It's absolutely pathetic to care so much about something that matters so little. That being said, slut and whore are simply descriptive terms for women with a certain sexual/romantic history, just like prude, or virgin. If you truly think that there's nothing wrong with acting promiscuous then why do you view those terms as something bad? If I describe a girl as a slut that's not a judgment of her value, it's simply the most straight…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 11:55 PM
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Don't hit on workmates, that's about it. Also if you're directly working with customers don't hit on them either. Getting a customer complaint would be dealt with more harshly than getting a complaint from a coworker, at least where I live.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 11:44 PM
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That you should not put them on a pedestal or shun them any more than you would do if they were male.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 11:40 PM
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Being somewhat considerate of others is a must, but it does not take a feminist to be a good person. In my opinion left wing politics and behaviors associated with it do not boost attractiveness. I may be biased though, because I'm center, leaning right and I think people who are more left than center, leaning left tend to overdo it. Ironically, my SO is a politically active in one of the most left wing parties in the country - though he's more middle of the road in everyday life, he thankfully …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 11:38 PM
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Sure, keep telling yourself that. How many women do you know who actually show clearly masculine traits anyway? I doubt you know very many because they're as uncommon as men who show clearly feminine traits. For the record I'm not talking about about feminine looking women who are a little bossy, or behaviors that skew slightly masculine but are generally accepted for either gender. I mean women who show proper masculine traits. The kind that would make you wonder if it's a feminine man or a mas…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 11:20 PM
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Red, definitely not a feminist, in a LTR. What's your definition of a Chad? Technically MY SO could be described as a Chad because while he wasn't a hyper masculine jock type he always had women approach him when we went out. If he wanted to, he could've literally picked from multiple girls and get laid with virtually zero effort on a regular basis. And he's without a doubt the most attractive man I've ever met. The only thing that makes him technically not a Chad is the fact that he didn't, eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 11:07 PM
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How big a deal is male dancing-ability to you? I literally do not care. How much of an impression/difference does it make? If he's uninteresting in every way except for his exceptional dancing skills, he'd still be as uninteresting to me as he'd be without them. If he's attractive dancing skills are a bonus, but they don't make the guy more attractive than he'd be if he was equally good at something (anything) else. Do talented/skilled dancers tend to be better in bed? Dancing skills come with a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 09:28 PM
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I'm currently in an art academy, I do a lot of stuff there but focus on graphic design. I take freelance jobs as a writer and a (graphic) designer, but also do other art related stuff on request. I have no idea how much money I make in a year, but it's been a steady 1000-1300 euros a month in the past few months.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 08:52 PM
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none of them know their value to men decreases as they age none of them know that's the point of marriage Either your friends lack the ability to think ahead and plan for the future, or you're making assumptions and not giving them the credit they probably deserve. My guess it the latter option. Im around your age, and I have yet to meet one of my peers who does not know the practical implications of marriage. Sure there is an element of love and dreaminess involved in having a huge wedding wher…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 04:54 PM
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1.It shows the man is committed for the long run Lol no it does not, since he could literally walk out any moment without any consequences. 2.It increases social status among friends What world do you live in that your man not wanting to marry you increases your social status among friends? 3.Big wedding , fancy dress, shiny ring ....etc That's the only one I agree with. I think a fake marriage is pathetic, it shows that you most likely want the real thing, but could not get it for one reason or…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 04:34 PM
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No, absolutely not. I don't really mind whether or not I'll have children in the future, so I might move in with a man who explicitly would not marry you and owned the house you lived in that he would not put you on the deed on However, I'm not having kids with a man who won't even marry me, and I'm definitely not sacrificing my education or career for said kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 04:26 PM
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I'd say 65-70% women and the rest of them men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 04:21 PM
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Acquaintances mostly; classmates, people in the same hobby groups, friends of friends, etc. Most of them people who were relatively promiscuous. In late high school that started to include guys whom I turned down because of their reputation. I'm glad to say that nowadays people in my life don't really care anymore. My friends feel the same way as I do on the matter, and it helps that most of the students in my country have a live and let live attitude, if I'm nice to them they're nice to me. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/18 12:09 AM
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If he (almost) always does what she tells him to regardless of how it will affect him. If he goes with whatever she says and does not seem to think for himself. When he does not stand up to her and/or tell her to cut out the bullshit and act like a normal person when it's appropriate to do so. Meeting one of those criteria is enough to qualify.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 11:05 PM
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I am, indeed, a woman. Why are you apologizing in the edit? I wasn't apologizing, I was just making sure that there's no way that someone who reads what I wrote could possibly misunderstand me. It has happened before that people who felt personally offended by that particular statement ("I think sluts, both male and female, are gross") sent me hateful messages, even though my statement about my dating life did not apply to them at all. I'm hoping this will avoid such misunderstandings so I don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 11:01 PM
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Well that depends entirely on what information you want to get from that number. If you're using it as an indication of how desirable someone is to women then of course hookers don't count towards that. If you simply want to know how many people someone has had sex with then of course it counts, why on earth would it not count or "count less"? Since I consider a past of casual sex or a high n count a negative trait in a partner his experiences with hookers will probably even count heavier toward…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 10:42 PM
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Female, college student age, 2. What qualifies as lying? I've always been honest to my partner. I told my ex that I had zero romantic or sexual experience before I met him, and while I've never given my SO the number he knows that I've had 1 relationship before him and I'm not at all interested in sex outside a relationship. My SO never asked, but I'm pretty sure he "knows" my n count (aka guessed it correctly), but if he ever asks I'll give him the honest answer. The only thing I've done that c…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 10:36 PM
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In North America/Europe - yes, it's a bad thing. If you don't bring anything to the table other than "I never had sex before" no one will be interested. The majority of men here would probably pick a girl with a low n count who is skilled in bed over a virgin any day anyways. Where you live? I don't know, and you should not look for that answer here since 99.9% of users probably lives in a western country. If you want an answer that's relevant to you, ask it somewhere where the demographic is th…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 10:27 PM
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Ugh, sometimes I wonder if people here purposely misinterpret what they read or if they truly have trouble thinking like a regular person. What you're talking about is controlling and/or abusive with supposed protectiveness as an excuse, any person with healthy social relationships and interactions will know that. I was talking about what normal people think about when I say protectiveness, you know, healthy dynamics between two people who would not put up with anything that even comes close to …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 01:29 PM
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Only naturally masculine men who naturally enjoy the presence and vibe of feminine women and become protective when faced with femininity in its purest form (no, I'm not talking about "hypergamy", you nitwits) despite knowing its flaws, truly respect women. Redpillers don't respect women, they are bitter about women or, at best, enjoy what women have that they can take.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 01:07 AM
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I'd have to catch them purposely hurting or torturing another human or an animal, or they'd have to be a threat to my safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 12:58 AM
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I've always been grossed out by the thought of someone having sex with some rando, so 1, 2, 5, 8, and 10 would not just mean He loses lots of points, possible deal breaker Rather they are definite deal breakers that will result in a hard next because ew. 3 and 4 would probably still be deal breakers, not because of the low n count, but because in my social circles there is no appropriate way to let on someone's n count soon after meeting. I may have had a different opinion if I did (online) dati…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 12:53 AM
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Well it depends on what exactly it is you want. You want someone you can have kids with, but what makes a person "someone you can have kids with"? Is an an interesting woman who has had a promiscuous past but is now genuinely looking for an attractive guy to start a family with okay for you? Then go right ahead. If you let her know that your end goal is a family and you'll drop your other girls once you've found the right one she might stick around... Or she might pass you by assuming that you'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 12:29 AM
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This is such an idiotic question lol I'd teach my hypothetical son to be kind to people when he can do so without having to sacrifice anything, and to be an asshole when the situation calls for it. Meanwhile I'd keep my fingers crossed that he got my SO's height and dashing good looks, and my relatively well defined, muscular build.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 12:14 AM
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I wasn't saying that doing all of those things makes it impossible to stay a virgin until a much later age, just that by doing those things you meet much more people and thus increase the chance of having sex with someone as opposed to when you don't do those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/18 12:05 AM
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Before my SO and I were a couple his friends loved to joke that I always attract a very specific type of men. I've always attracted guys who had one or two "nerdy" main hobbies, but were physically active, social, and outgoing besides that. They'd be in good shape, but an active lifestyle kind of good shape rather than a gym goer type of good shape. Mostly commitment minded men, with the exception of a few drunk guys who wanted to hook up. Judging from the fact that my SO is exactly that kind of…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 12:08 PM
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European UMC There's no such thing as European UMC, because there's too much diversity between countries in Europe. I'm from the UMC/UC from my country in Europe, and where I'm from your observation hardly holds true. Sure lawyers and doctors are more likely to marry each other here but that's because their job is so time consuming that they barely interact with anyone outside of the office. Non-UMC women barely marry into the UMC unless they themselves have a good college degree and potential t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/18 10:30 AM
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Additionally, people often subscribe when they gain interest, but don't subscribe when they lose it. A lot of subscribers are people who aren't interested anymore and inactive accounts. What I'd really like to see is a comparison of how many people are online on average now as opposed to a few years ago, and how many of those people actively participate in redpill subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 09:34 AM
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If you would ever reach a position of power you'd mysteriously die in your sleep for no apparent reason within the first year or two of your reign. Or you'd get snipes in broad daylight, idk. People wouldn't put up with this bullshit either way
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 10:51 PM
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I was gonna say the same thing. If my country would ever turn into this totalitarian nightmare I'd move away, if I couldn't move away I'd kill myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 10:46 PM
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Not the person you asked, but in my experience dating from your social circle is a very good way, it allows you to get to know the person before you're romantically or sexually involved with them. You'll have a more realistic image of them because they're probably trying to impress you less than if you were dating. When you're actively dating someone you can wait a while before you have sex, most men who are just looking for sex will lose interest and leave quite quickly. As much as some people …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/18 12:43 PM
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That some of the "big" red pill figures are paired off does not take away the fact that red pill men, in general, are not commitment friendly. Be it due to actual unwillingness to commit, their attitude towards women, or the fact that they're just flat out low tier men, they're generally not worth it and before the influx of RP men into the sub (about 2 years ago now, possibly more) RPW always adviced against it. They aren't talking for the sake of gossip. The point is the proof The proof of wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 10:51 PM
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Inceldom perhaps not limited to the bottom 0.01% as previously thought, what do? I think it has less to do with not being able to get sex, and more to do with not making an effort to go out and meet people. That means that a lot of those "incels" are really just lazy volcels. Here's why I think this happens: nowadays you can do and get everything over the internet. Need groceries? Can order that over the internet. Takeout? Internet. Literally anything else from a store? Most stores have web shop…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 10:17 PM
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On average, men are more oriented towards logic and rules, whereas women are more oriented towards interactions and feelings. Because of that it makes sense that men would choose fields related to logic and rules (like technology and the hard sciences), whereas women choose fields that are more related to social interaction and feelings (like psychology and teaching).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 10:01 PM
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Lol "dread" levels 1-5 are literally just being a well functioning, non-needy person. That does not even deserve the name dread. Should be called basic social and life skills instead. Let's take away all the edgy nonsense and see what's left: Don't let other people's moods affect yours - no shit, Sherlock. Always aim to improve - who would've thought that makes you a more interesting and attractive person? /s Have a life besides your partner - you know, like any normal person. Comes down to don'…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 09:50 PM
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Actually arranged marriages have never really been that common in the western world, as far as I'm aware. If it happened it generally happened between noble families or families with money and/or status, as a means to keep the money and status in the family. So again, unless the village weirdo happened to be the eldest son of a rich and influential family he still didn't stand a chance. And that's just recent history, after monogamy became a thing. It's theorized that the vast majority of human …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 09:13 PM
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Funny thing is: I've been on RPW for a while (before the split) and RPWi since the original few dozen members or so. If there's one thing I've consistently noticed it's that red pill women recommend against going for red pill men, because they're not commitment friendly - basically don't let yourself be a plate, find a masculine but commitment friendly man. From what I've read, at least on RPWi, most women are happily paired off with some lovely masculine (but generally not explicitly red pill) …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 10:41 AM
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This happens? It does if you have a skilled partner who can keep going for a good long while. How? Having a skilled partner who can keep going for a long time. Why? See above comment. Is it a good thing? Yeh, why else would that be her goal?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 09:59 AM
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people lack the talent/skills/stamina to be porn-stars in the bedroom, and it's often quicker (and less satisfying) than you'd hope Have sex with better people. None of these things have ever been a problem for me and my SO. How actually hot are the people you bang, after the deceptions are removed? I actually think my SO is hotter without clothes or anything. That's the thing with lean but toned people, you can't tell they look kinda muscular with their clothes on so they look better without th…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 09:43 AM
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rampages occurring due to their abundance of sexual frustration This is not a good indicator of whether or not prostitution does anything for incels. Sure, countries with legal prostitution don't have any incels going on rampages, but guess what? Neither do the hundreds of other countries that don't have legal prostitution. It happened in the US only, and it just happened once, stop trying to make it a social issue that has anything at all to do with legalized prostitution. If anything all those…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 09:21 AM
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I knew people who were too much of pussies to smoke weed when it was completely illegal, but were willing to go get a card/prescription when it actually became legalized The main thing around weed is the risk of getting caught, there's little to no stigma surrounding it though and as far as I know there has never really been one. Many college kids smoke weed at some point regardless of whether it's legal or not and no one cares. Prostitution is different because of the social stigma around visit…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 08:59 AM
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I think the real question is in countries like Thailand and the Netherlands do as many guys end up as incels? They're both significantly smaller countries than the US so not in absolute numbers. But in relative numbers? Yeah, definitely. One thing for sure when sex is easily available women have to show more value to men I assume you're not from a country with legalized prostitution. This is not how it works, it's just a fantasy that legal prostitution inflates the male value. Most of the custom…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 08:45 AM
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all of these issues are only popping up in countries which don't have prostitution There has literally been only one lunatic mass murderer who claims to have anything to do with incels, you cannot base a conclusion like yours on that one case. And by the way (assuming you're from the US) how would you know no such thing happens in other countries? The world news is very US centric, most country's news is not reported around the world. And on top of that most countries report the news in their ow…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/18 08:32 AM
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I grew up around typically masculine men who were genuinely good people, which gave me quite a bit of respect for men in general. I used to think all or at least most men were noble, hard working and willing to protect their family at any cost. Reading TRP/PPD made me realize that most men really aren't like that and aren't worthy of much respect and I should save it for the few people that are. It made me more distrustful and less sympathetic towards men in general and it made me realize that m…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 12:34 PM
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The best way for a man to get casual sex is to maximize SMV and minimize RMV The best way for a man to get regular sex (because, let's be honest, even top tier frat bros aren't getting laid every weekend, or even every other weekend) is to optimize both and lock down the best woman he can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 04:49 PM
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Be the kind of person who's relationship material, compatible with me, and willing to commit to me. I literally don't care how attractive someone is, I will not have meaningless sex with them ever. At all. While I might think about it I can easily convince myself not to when I'm sober, and for some odd reason my desire to have sex decreases as my level of intoxication increases, so I wouldn't do it drunk either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 04:40 PM
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No, why would I? I've been off the market for a while now, but I never used to wait to show interest until I knew a guy enough to care what he thought of me. If I met an attractive dude I'd start flirting right off the bat, if he reacted I'd flirt more, if he didn't I didn't care cause we didn't know each other anyway. I never flirted to get a reaction, I flirted because it was fun. I haven't seen most of the men I flirted with beyond the one time I flirted with them and frankly, I wouldn't want…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 09:40 PM
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All situations where you interfere with her getting things done, and whenever you don't back off if she shows disinterest or even discomfort, but she cannot get away for whatever reason. If a woman is working, you're a customer, you're flirting with her and she's clearly genuinely into it: totally fine. Same situation but she's neutral, polite but distant (typical customer service reaction to people you just want to be done with), or clearly starting to get uncomfortable: inappropriate. You're f…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 09:40 PM
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Refuse if I just met him, if I'm not attracted to him, or if I'm in a relationship. No amount of money is going to change my mind about that. Accept if I've talked to him a couple times and was considering having sex with him anyway - if I'd do it for free I might as well get something out of it if the other person offers it to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 09:24 PM
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Within 2 months of dating my SO and I decided we'd get a prenup if we marry. If you stay married it literally doesn't matter whether you have a prenup or not because you're married and the basic assumption is that you share things within reasonable limit. If you do happen to get divorced - and I think I've said this before - both parties probably have something to gain from an agreement that was made in good faith as opposed to arrangements made in a spiteful court battle. That's not the main re…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 02:05 AM
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This entire article is just a bunch of lame excuses to be lazy. erratic work schedules, making it impossible to have set meal times A home made meal can be done in 15-20 minutes - less time than going to a takeout place, waiting in line for a while and then waiting for your food for another while. And like others have already said you can meal prep if you really cannot manage to cook on time. Low-income women often don't have the money for fresh produce I'm a dirt poor student and I have money t…
/r/RedPillWives11/04/18 09:19 AM
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Ugh. Some people seem to lose the ability to use their brains all of a sudden when the debate turns to sex dolls/bots. No, of course they should not have rights, they're non-sentient objects or machines. If I wanted to kick the crap out of my way too expensive computer I have the right to because it is mine, similarly if some sexual deviant wants to kick the crap out of their way to expensive sex toy they can because they bought it, they own it, and it does not feel pain or humiliation so why wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 10:17 AM
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Because we're not nearly as thirsty/desperate to get laid as men are. Men want the interaction between them and a woman much more than the women do, therefore the man has to approach the woman in order to get what he wants. That being said, I approach plenty of people when I go out. I love to strike up conversations with random people regardless of their gender, because most people have interesting stories to tell. I made the first move once because things I wanted to happen weren't happening. H…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 05:00 PM
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I'm female Guy 1 is definitely the most attractive, not because he has a "bad boy vibe", but because he has the prettiest face and he looks much more friendly than the other guys. Guys 2 and 3 look like they take themselves much too serious. Edit: while guy 1 is the most attractive he still does not appeal to me in an "I'd date him" sort of way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 08:50 AM
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we know that girls will categorize you either as an alpha lover or a beta provider Except, no, we don't. We screen men to finger out how much of each trait they have, and depending on that we determine his attractiveness. There is almost no "exclusively alpha traits" or "exclusively beta traits" men out there, most have a mix of both. The best men don't have all alpha and no beta traits. The best men have a lot of both alpha and beta traits, because guess what? That way we get the best of both w…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 11:05 PM
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pre-human time broad shouldered, huge arms I love when people use evo psych and claim women want muscular gym bros in the same sentence, because using ancient history as a reverence and claiming women like muscular dudes is very much a contradiction. Humans were not originally built for strength, but for endurance. Pre hunter gatherer humans literally hunted their prey by running after it until it dropped dead from exhaustion. Someone who runs after a prey for 3 days straight does not have calor…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 10:48 PM
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Are you a man? Are you straight? If the answer to both is yes then you don't get to decide whether men age better than women do. If men make a consistent effort to be attractive starting in their mid teens like most women they (physically) peak between their mid twenties and 30 and can only go down hill from there. Same as women. It's just that most men don't start until later, so they seem to age better. On top of that women date men for more than just looks, so while a man may be less attracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 09:56 AM
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Discussing this sort of thing is entirely different from people telling you how they like to masturbates out of the blue. Why are you here? Just to be a dick to people so you can feel good about yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/18 11:17 AM
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instead of expecting it to be handed to you because you waved your pussy around a bit Excuse me? Who said that. I at no point mentioned expecting anyone to hand me anything. I literally only mentioned a man who can provide for himself and have some backup money in case of emergency For himself. Himself, specifically. Not for me, for himself only. Because being able to provide for yourself and having some emergency backup money is the bare minimum for any self-respecting adult. I do it too, I can…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 11:30 PM
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Whatever you say dude. If believing that makes you feel good about yourself who am I to burst your Bubble. Regardless of that it's irrelevant, because women don't go around taping their toys to an ATM and claiming men are going to be obsolete due to this genius invention. its still a double standard unless you react to a girl owning a vibrator with 'ew thats creepy' Did you read what I wrote at all? In case it was hard to understand, I'll rephrase it: I literally do not care about men using sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 11:07 PM
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Yeah, obviously spending 5 bucks on a sex toy signifies the same attitude and problems that someone probably has as buying a 5k sex doll does. Sorry about my ignorance, I tend to forget that men are more aware of how women feel than, you know, actual life women who feel what women feel. Silly me, how could I ever thought I know anything. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 10:54 PM
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Neither, I'd break up with both. A man seeing prostitutes would be a deal breaker because it indicates that we value sex differently (I've never had sex outside a relationship, not have I ever felt the desire to). While I don't expect my man to have never slept with other women I do expect him to not take sex that lightly. The sex doll would be a deal breaker because I think there's something fundamentally wrong with someone who 1) is willing to invest thousands of euros in a sex toy and 2) actu…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 05:09 PM
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Why on earth do men keep comparing high end sex dolls to vibrators? A sex doll isn't the male equivalent of a vibrator, an artificial vagina or cock ring is. While I'd still prefer not to know neither of those would be a deal breaker to me. In before double standard: no, I don't use any sex toys myself, so there's no double standard here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/18 05:02 PM
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I think you're getting caring about a man who can provide for himself and have some backup money in case of emergency (€30k-€40k a year after taxes, minimum), and being a golddigger (expecting $150k a year minimum) mixed up. Caring about a secure future is something entirely different than wanting someone who can provide a lavish lifestyle for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 07:50 AM
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I haven't watched the entire video, but has it occurred to you at all that the people making the video chose to only show the clips that support the message they wanted to send, while omitting everything that contradicted it? They probably shot 20 times more material than they needed and cherry picked the clips that best supported their views. Never trust anything that's made by a biased source (and yes, I'm pretty sure those people are biased).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 01:36 PM
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1) No. 2) I feel like I'm sort of in between. If I don't have a partner I just don't care, I don't miss the sex at all. I may occasionally rub one out, but that's more to relax than because I feel the overwhelming desire to. On the other hand, if I do have a partner just the thought of them is often enough to make me ridiculously horny, so idk. 3) When I'm ovulating I tend to be more physically ready for sex, but again, if there's no partner ring the picture I still don't feel the need to have s…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 01:24 PM
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Because those men know they'd never be chosen by a decent woman to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/18 10:49 AM
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The massive amount of muscle gain, in a short period of time Your source to back that claim up being... what exactly? If you're going around making this sort of claims, be sure to back them up. He had a minor role early in the first movie, didn't go walking around shirtless until way into the second. That means he had at least a year and a half, probably 2+ to get in that shape. And that's assuming he only started after being selected for the first movie, which is probably not the case. Also, ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 07:58 PM
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Haha thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 07:28 PM
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TL;DR just a mini-essay to explain why I think you're wrong and I'm right. Doubt you're gonna read it but it was fun to write this up, so whatever. http://fitnesshacker.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/06/taylor-lautner-workout4x5.jpg And https://goo.gl/images/MShUHr Okay, let's compare. First picture is taken to show off and have him look as good as possible. It's posed, he's probably flexing all his muscles, the light is very flattering, so is the angle. And is this a shit from Twilight? Looks a lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 06:15 PM
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Why is that? I'm guessing that he's on the far side of the attractive spectrum? In my social circle, yes. I'd say he's a solid 7 at least, with minimal effort on his part. If he cared enough to try harder he could easily be an 8 or above. That being said, I'm an art student, so the people I generally surround myself with tend to be... an acquired taste, to most people. Women would probably notice that he has some things going for him (he's spontaneous, adventurous and confident, he's tall, he ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 12:17 PM
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It's hard to explain because it's the combination of a lot of different things, it also depends on who you ask. I'll give it a try. If he wants me to do something or to not do something he tells me, which is great because that way I know for sure that he likes what I end up doing. A lot of people my age (early 20s) suck at communicating what they want in the bedroom. My boyfriend is not one of those people which makes doing just about anything sexual with him more exciting. I guess it's his conf…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 02:45 AM
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Did you find the pics posted of the "average" men to be at all "attractive?" What kind of "attractive" are we talking about? Am I correct to assume you're talking about attraction based solely on their looks and nothing else? Because if by "attractive" you mean that I'd think of them as potential sexual partners and feel a strong desire to get to know them better to see if we're compatible based on their looks alone, then no. Though that might also have to do with the fact that none of the examp…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 01:32 AM
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I'm female. I was pretty indifferent about going down on my first boyfriend initially. That eventually turned into dreading it, because if he wanted a blowjob and I didn't want to give one he'd neg me about it until I just went with it to shut him up. He also didn't return the favor at all, ever, and he didn't know how to receive a blowjob. With my current boyfriend I'm absolutely loving it! Ironically the fact that he has never asked me for a blowjob, and he most definitely would never insist, …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 12:04 AM
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Of course it's possible. It just doesn't happen because no one cares about seeing/reading about some fat, mediocre dude with a boring, mediocre 9-5 job living his mediocre life with nothing interesting happening throughout the entire book/movie. People like fiction because it offers them the chance to indirectly experience things that they otherwise wouldn't. It's a means to escape a boring life, not a means to move from an already boring life to an even more unsatisfying one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 11:38 PM
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Upon viewing both posts, did you find the pictures posted were more attractive than what you would consider to be "average" for either side? Men seemed about right to me, I thought most of the women were quite a bit below average, but maybe I'm just surrounded by beautiful women. How did both posts affect your views of what people consider to be "average" for either side? The average men post didn't affect my views very much. The average woman post on the other hand... I always thought I was abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 11:29 PM
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that the "ideal" image (think Henry Cavill as Superman or Hugh Jackman as Wolverine) Ideal image according to whom? Your examples are movies that are mostly geared towards a male audience. In my observation movies and series with an overwhelmingly male audience (especially action movies/series, violent/action videogames, and typically "nerdy" things) are the ones that feature the most handsome, suave, muscular/juiced up men. Movies and series that are aimed at a female or mixed audience often fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 11:12 PM
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It will probably take a turn similar to feminism. More men will claim to be part of the manosphere, because it's "cool" amongst their peers, while in reality they don't care about the issues addressed and have no (strong) opinions on anything manosphere related. It will become overrun by bitter, bottom of the barrel men and/or extremists. Those people will become the very vocal minority (this is currently already in progress, the quality of the content of the manosphere has significantly deterio…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 11:53 AM
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F, early 20s, LTR, red-ish Either 8 or 9. I have the man of my dreams, the education of my dreams, and a small but adorable place to live. For now the only thing that could make my life even better is having more time to spend with my SO or living with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 06:50 AM
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the actual study used nearly 6,000 people Which are probably 6000 users of match.com, which would mean there's still a selection bias. After all, who's most likely to have sex 2 or more times a week? My guess is people in a relationship. And who has absolutely no need for dating or hookup sites? That's right, people in a relationship. By using active users of a dating site the study is actively selecting against the group of people that's most likely to have sex regularly, no matter how many peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 10:26 AM
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I don't do casual flings and I'd rather die single than marry someone I'm not attracted to. I basically just have a relationship material (attractive to me, capable of taking care of themselves, someone I respect, etc.) and people I don't want to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 11:54 AM
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I moved about a month ago, and was pretty short on money because of some unexpected additional expenses. I didn't really mention it to my SO, but apparently he noticed anyway because he offered to cook dinner at my place and showed up with a week's worth of groceries. I know that won't be a big deal to most people, but our relationship is quite new and most men probably shouldn't have done the same. He has also casually mentioned "...if/when we're living together..." a few times recently. I know…
/r/RedPillWives05/03/18 11:53 PM
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I am pretty sure it is normal for fertility to start declining quickly through your 30s. True, but this generally won't become a problem until late 30s rather than early 30s. So unless the family in your example waits until 5ish years after marriage to have children (which is very atypical) fertility really shouldn't be a problem. The only couples I know who waited that long after getting married are people who got married while they were in college, so they still ended up having kids in their l…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 10:59 PM
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Naturally getting a sexy "thick" look is about a gazillion times harder for women than achieving a nice muscular build is for a man, because the "thick" look is 90% genetics and 10% diet and exercise (muscular is more like 10% genetics, 90% diet and exercise). Most women do not gain fat in a desirable way like the pictures you linked in the other thread. Especially the slim waist is something you won't see on any woman who isn't exceptionally blessed with her genes. Edit: and take it from me whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/18 01:15 AM
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No, if anything I'd insist on it because it's the smart thing to do. In the event of a divorce both parties probably gain more from an agreement made in good faith than from a spiteful fight over possessions. And if the marriage does last the prenup doesn't matter because you share your things (within reasonable limit) anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 03:49 PM
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Women bitch about the manosphere because the manosphere bitches about and generalizes women. And you can't really blame people for dismissing RoK articles because they're RoK articles. They do have some articles that make a fair point, but there's also a lot of articles that are total nonsense. Any blog that addresses science, psychology, or sociology would be dismissed as a non-reliable source when they have lots of bollocks articles based on nothing but the author's feelings. And I don't see w…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 09:33 AM
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never went to trial because of lack of evidence did go to trial but he was found not guilty This contradicts you have no particular reason to believe the woman is lying this, in my opinion. If a woman accused a man but never bothers to take it to court, or there's no hard evidence that he did anything wrong that's a pretty good reason to believe a woman is lying. Either way though, no, I wouldn't date a man like that. I don't need that stain on my reputation when there's plenty of men out there …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 11:30 AM
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While there's a chance that he's being manipulative it's unlikely that he's doing it deliberately (unless he's on PUA-type sites, then it's definitely deliberate and you're better off finding someone else). The more likely explanation is that he just communicates love differently than you do. And since romance and compliments are not his natural way of expressing love he might not understand how important they are to you. There's a simple way of figuring out if he's being manipulative or it's ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 08:31 PM
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With a man who got a woman pregnant and then ditched her or couldn't keep her around for whatever reason - no, as it shows poor judgment or a poor RMV on his part. Also, the woman might still be part of his life through the child which isn't something I'm willing to put up with. With a man who's a single parent because he's a widower - sure, it's the one case where single parenthood is acceptable because it's not the person's fault. But even then only if I'm 100% sure that he's actually with me …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 07:46 PM
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Is this a better system? For accusers of sexual harassment to prove what they say to the media is right? Yes. I think it's total bs that someone could go to the media and accuse a random person of sexual assault and have that person's life ruined without even the smallest bit of evidence that their claim is true. In my opinion any cases of "sexual assault" that are taken to the media but not to court should be disregarded, because they're either baseless or unprovable. Do you believe this system…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 11:16 PM
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No. I am aware that there's always a chance that something might happen, but I never feel truly unsafe. I will make sure to be aware if my surroundings and have something to defend myself with if i have to, though. Funnily enough I tend to feel less "safe" in an area with a low population density and a low crime rate than in a higher population, higher crime rate place (i.e. the countryside as opposed to the city). But that has more to do with the fact that, in the country side, the next person …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 11:07 PM
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When they say they prefer women with no make up, they MEAN IT And they pursue girls with no make-up just as much if not more as women with make-up. You can keep repeating this as much as you want, but that does not change the fact that I literally get 10 times more attention when I'm wearing light makeup (light coverage foundation, mascara and maybe brow pencil) than when I'm wearing no makeup. And the same applies to almost everyone I know. The only women who can get away with wearing no makeup…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/18 09:51 AM
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Because this question relates to the dating scene. Sex bots offer sexual satisfaction, not human company. Prostitutes and escorts offer sexual satisfaction and some degree of company. The dating scene is about sex and human company. If prostitutes (which potentially offer a bit of both) are confirmed to not be a threat to the dating scene then the idea that sexbots would be is laughable. Sexbots threatening women's position in the dating market is just the next revenge fantasy of low value men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 05:27 PM
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I think you're missing my point. What I'm saying is that if most people aren't even willing to pay for pleasant human company and sex they will definitely not be willing to pay for a talking, walking piece of machinery and silicone to blow their load in. Most people aren't not hiring escorts because of privacy reasons or supply/demand factors. They're not hiring them because they want an authentic connection with a person who likes their company for them, which escorts don't offer, and sexbots o…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 05:23 PM
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Is there going to be a point in the near future where people who's marriages didn't work out are simple called "single" and not "divorced"? No, I personally don't think so. There's just too much of a difference between the average divorcee and a never married single person. That being said: I don't care what society calls diforcees. I won't date someone who used to be married and probably has financial responsibilities towards and children with a woman who's not me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 02:44 PM
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Ladies, would you allow a female sexbot in your home so that your SO could use occasionally? If VR were more realistic and cerebral, would you be upset if your SO had a virtual orgy without you? No. There's no reason why whoever I'm seeing would need a sexbot/VR porn since I'm pretty much up for sex with my SO whenever they are. If he'd want it for the novelty of having sex with "someone" else (and is using the robot as an "acceptable" substitute) then he has the right to get a sexbot, I won't s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/18 07:18 PM
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Does readily available prostitution change the dating scene? Hint: no, it doesn't. If escorts who provide pleasant human company and sex on demand for a period of time don't pose a threat to regular women then sex bots definitely won't either. The truly "undesirable" people might have something that makes them happy. Ugly people, people with no social skills and generally low value people who probably would've opted out after their first one or two rejections might not try at all now. But that's…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 11:40 PM
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I can love someone without wanting to have sex with them, I can also want to have sex with someone without loving them. The two aren't necessarily connected for me. However, I do look for sexual attraction and (potential to develop) love in a relationship as I believe both love and sex are important when you're romantically involved. So while I can feel that a friend loves me even though we wouldn't even consider having sex, I would feel very unloved if my partner didn't want to have sex with me…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 11:25 PM
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They'd probably feel like women do nowadays: an incompetent, very vocal minority would blame their lack of success on the system while all others would mock/laugh at or be disgusted by their victim complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 12:25 AM
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I think women often think and say "I'm not responsible for his feelings" in friend-zone situations. This is true. It's also true that men often think and say "I'm not responsible for her feelings" in fuck buddy situations. I do think the way the OP phrased the question steers the answers in this direction too. I guess my question is what can I do to help the situation? Is it still possible to remain friends with her, or would she be better off if we also put our friendship on hold as well? He sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 12:18 AM
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I mostly learned from watching my parent's marriage, along with some stuff from RPW (3ish years ago don't know if it's still good), and RPWi. I implemented what works for me and fine tuned it to fit my personality and environment through trial and error, and disregarded the parts that don't appeal to me. If I'd ever need more advice I'd turn to people who are in a happy, long marriage (preferably at least a decade or two).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 09:49 PM
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I would CYV but I think you pretty much nailed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 09:48 AM
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“lucky for you, that’s not everyone’s experience.” Maybe you grew up in a particularly open minded environment Except I didn't. I grew up in a rural area where pretty much everyone is still very conservative, right now I'm in a mostly liberal environment. Since I'm pretty middle of the road when it comes to politics I've gotten my fair share of shit from people in both places. It's just that instead of sitting back and feeling sorry for myself I actually did something about it; minding your own …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/18 09:45 AM
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deep relationship with someone who is practically asexual So... A very close friendship, except you're not allowed to have sex with anyone because you call it a relationship? I'd rather stay single if those were the only two options.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/18 07:19 PM
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Most girls grow up with no idea how their sexuality really works bc the religious conservatives refuse to fund sex education Anno 2018 there's this amazing thing called the internet. Besides people bitching about all the things they don't agree with, it also contains a wealth of information about pretty much anything you can think of. Every 2 year old nowadays knows how to use the internet so if someone who speaks English still grows up not knowing about how their sexuality works that's mostly o…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/18 06:50 PM
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How has this very normal part of adult life turned into such a shitshow? What is the matter with you young people? It hasn't. I'm not sure where OP gets these ideas from, I'm currently in college and sex is still mostly a non-issue there. Same thing goes for the semi-private highschool I graduated from. If you're confident about your decision and don't go around belittling others people still don't care what you're up to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/18 05:52 PM
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I check Facebook every day, mainly as a way to remember birthdays and to find interesting events to attend - I don't post unless my phone is broken and I want to let people know I'm not ignoring them. Edit: I also use Facebook to stay in touch with my grandparents. Use Instagram because my pictures get the most exposure there, which makes it a great site to promote my art and gain potential clients. Also to support my friends from the art academy who use Instagram for the same reason. Does Pinte…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/18 05:11 PM
2

The players who hang around and attract mainly low quality women are bitter and/or misogynists. Find some players who can keep a few halfway decent women around (and I mean as family, friends, fuck buddies or whatever else) and you'll find a very different attitude towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/18 03:48 PM
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When you learn that a guy you know is pursuing a girl way out of his league, do you judge him for it? For pursuing the girl? No. For bitching about how shallow women are after he gets rejected by a chick who is way out of his league to begin with? Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/17 08:03 PM
1

My dad. He passed away 9 years ago, so I can't really describe our relationship, but he was one of the few people I met who had some sort of natural authority. He knew how to balance doing his own thing and looking after his family. He was smart, he raised me to always gather the facts and think for myself (too many parents try to force their own beliefs onto their children). He was very strict, but never unreasonable. Everyone who knew him respected him, even if they couldn't stand him. My (hal…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 10:04 PM
1

But will it grant me commitment and access to money?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 12:23 PM
3

I have limits to what behavior I accept from anyone in my life. If anyone crossed those limits they're out, and that ESPECIALLY applies to my "captain" since he has a say in most things I do. Anyone who abuses that power should not have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 11:34 AM
1

Only if he had ungodly powers and grants me at least 3 wishes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/17 10:21 AM
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I've never thought about night clubs as a place to get attention and validation to begin with. For me it's just a place to go to and have fun with my friends if we want to have a good time but don't feel like we've got anything to talk about. It's just fun to dance a little, flirt with each other just for fun, get a little buzzed, etc. That being said, my friends and I frequent the night clubs that we go to because the people there are usually laid back and just looking to have fun rather than h…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 09:52 AM
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We turned out to be much more different than we expected and after almost 2 years we apparently didn't know each other as well as we thought we did. Once we went to college my social life got pretty busy with friends from high school, college, and student society activities. I didn't have as much time as I used to and I started going out without him occasionally (in high school we had the same friend group so we were together most of the time). It frustrated him, he took it out on me and I start…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/17 12:09 PM
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I guess I'll need to look to see what you mean. Don't bother, it's literally the only negative response in the thread and it's not even supporting his point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 10:00 AM
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Nice cherrypicking. That's the only negative response I've seen at all in this thread, and the guy isn't even saying nice guys and NiceGuys(tm) are the same. He's just saying he doesn't care that it happens occasionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 09:59 AM
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In case you're still wondering: not yet. In the original timeline that my SO and I had in mind we'd have a place together by now, but we had to postpone our plans a little so we're still looking for something. Until we've found an affordable place getting pets is off the table because it would narrow our options way too much (most rental contacts don't allow pets where I live) and we want to make sure we're financially secure enough to be able to afford potential emergency vet visits before gett…
/r/RedPillWives23/07/17 12:37 AM
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Definitely A. A 7 inch dick is the best thing in the world, assuming the guy knows how to use it. I don't care about oral anyway, so it wouldn't be a loss to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 09:22 PM
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Are "Breast" men less attractive to women? No. My SO is definitely a breast man and I wouldn't have it any other way. It would be a waste to be with someone who doesn't appreciate the girls as much as he does :) Women complain all the time that large breasts serve no evolutionary role so men should not select for them I'm pretty sure the women who complain about this have small breasts or are (men hating) feminists. It's the same thing as fat women shouting that "real men" don't like skinny or f…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 01:17 PM
2

Are you taking about French food as it's served in the US or something? Because I don't live too far away from France and I can assure you that proper French food (made in France, by French cooks, according to a French recipe etc.) is nothing like that. Also if your ever visited France you can't judge unless you visited non-tourist locations and ate there. The stuff they generally serve tourists is different from what regular places serve.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 12:52 AM
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Never. I don't give my phone number away freely and apart for my SO and best friend I try to limit my interactions with people to face to face interactions. And I don't like to surround myself with thirsty guys anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 06:47 PM
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My half sister is a lawyer. She's pretty smart, observant and kinda stubborn, but those are family traits, so I doubt it has to do with het being a lawyer. And even if what you're saying about female lawyers is true I don't think the profession shapes the people; it's rather that a certain kind of women is drawn to the profession.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 06:31 PM
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1,5 years younger than I am (give or take a few months) would be the minimum. Anything younger would be too close to my little sister's age, which just feels wrong. Maximum age would be 10-15 years older than I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 06:20 PM
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I admire their dedication and discipline, other than that I don't care much about them. I'm definitely not attracted to the bodybuilding competition body type.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 09:30 PM
2

There are some people of either pill who are sensible and acknowledge that both RP and BP have some truth and some bullshit to them. They're just either very rare or they don't speak up often.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 08:38 AM
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Should this woman get jail time? Yes, she should get the same sentence that a man would have gotten for stabbing his girlfriend. Laws are laws, they should apply to everyone. Does not giving her jail time promote the idea women should violently attack men if they want to? No, it just promotes the idea that they'll get away with it if they do. Should men seek more shy or submissive women to avoid physical fights with the women they date? Nah, just someone who isn't a violent psycho should do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 10:01 AM
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Absolutely. I want my children to have the best they can get, and one of the best things you have as a person is good genes. Not being susceptible to any illnesses, both physical and mental, is a blessing and being good-looking and smart is absolutely an advantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 10:19 AM
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Prostitution is legal where I'm from, it hardly makes a difference in the dating market, doesn't affect women at all from what I can tell. The only significant difference is that men who can't get women or don't want to put in the time and effort can still get laid if they want to. Plenty of young guys have visited a prostitute at some point, so there isn't really a stigma around it (though it obviously isn't openly talked about either). Most people decide it's not their cup of tea and move on t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 02:00 PM
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Red My parents were together for 15 years, until my dad passed away in 2009. It was my mother's first marriage, and my dad's second (his first wife passed away).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 09:13 AM
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I'd probably stay away from relationships until I'd want children. No sex until I'm married, and after having my first child only have sex when the risk of getting pregnant is low. Women. How would you control yourself around masculine men with good seductions skills? Lol. Like I always have; it's not that hard. It takes more than being masculine and having some basic seduction skills to get me interested anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 12:29 PM
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It takes a majority of people to successfully start a revolution. People who identify as feminists are actually a minority. Feminists who care enough to want to start a revolution are an extremely small minority of a group that's already a small minority. There just aren't enough women who care for it to make a difference. Most women think radfems are full of shit, so if they would start a revolution they'd have very little support. What would be the point in trying anyway if over 90% of women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 12:17 PM
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I automatically lose interest in him. I don't need to be hit on by someone who either has a bad taste in women, or thinks the best he can do is a 5. That is if I notice it at all, I most likely won't though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/17 11:25 PM
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If they think the money and risks are worth the potential results then they should definitely go for it. However, they should also realize that plastic surgery isn't necessarily going to solve their self-esteem issues, so until they take care of that it might not make that much of a difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 12:23 PM
1

Lying. The escort and the man have an agreement in which they both get something they want, there's nothing wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 12:17 PM
1

Some of them are objectively good looking, but none of them are my type, so no, I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 12:14 PM
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Would you want your bf to be this honest with you about your looks? Yes, absolutely. I like being attractive to him and I'm always making an effort to stay attractive to him. He should give me his honesty opinion before I do anything though, not after. Is he wrong for considering breaking up with her? No, people can break up for any reason they life. Would you keep your hair exactly to your SO's specifications because he wanted it that way? Depends how elaborate his specifications are. If he'd l…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 05:40 PM
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They shouldn't have been punished for having sex with their enemy at all, they should be punished for why they did it. Nazi sympathisers deserve a more severe punishment, prostitutes who were just making a living should only be charged for prostitution according to the law, if they had husband and they cheated they should also be punished according to the law (if there is one), if they did it to save their own skins it shouldn't be punished, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 08:12 AM
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If he assumed that was your job how would you react? I'd think that's stupid and entitled. If I wanted a girlfriend I'd date a girl. If I wanted to deviate from traditional gender norms I would've been a liberal/feminist. I'd probably also break up with him, because our expectations wouldn't match. But then again, I don't expect him to arrange a fancy proposal for me either. I would like to get married eventually, but I wouldn't be upset if I didn't get married. I'd also be fine with a "proposal…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 08:02 PM
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People can easily fool themselves into thinking they're intelligent, can't fool yourself into thinking you're hot if you aren't. Just a way for low value people to feel superior.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 03:28 PM
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It's telling me I need flash, so I can't give you my result on this test, but I generally score 135-138 on IQ tests.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 11:14 PM
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As it is now; 16-18. Ideally the law should allow underage people to have sex too, but with an age restriction for the older partner. That way teens will be protected from sexual predators, but there won't be ridiculous things like court cases because an underage couple had sex. I would say something like no more than a 2 year difference if the youngest person involved is 12-15, a maximum difference of 4 years if the youngest one is 15-17, no restrictions if the younger partner is 18 or older.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 10:10 PM
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You can't please everyone, so don't try to. It's a waste of time and energy, and you'll always feel like you're not good enough. Other than that I got every advice I needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 04:19 PM
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The only thing you can say about consent that's universally true is something along the lines of: make sure you know for a fact that both puerile are okay with whatever is happening. And in my opinion there's no need for an entire workshop just to get that message across. Besides, who would attend those workshops anyway? Most likely people who already know and agree with the idea of consent as it's taught in those workshops. I don't think people like the guy in your example and everyone who thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 03:22 PM
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They are bad traits for anyone, regardless of their gender. With the exception of 6 I wouldn't like those attitudes in any of the people I associate with.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 12:37 AM
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A guy has to be at least around my height for me to be attracted to him (I'm just over 5'6"). I wouldn't mind if he was an inch shorter, but that would be the absolute minimum. I prefer someone who is taller than I am when I'm wearing heels, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 12:28 AM
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Being hot
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 11:41 AM
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Mutual attraction and putting in effort to maintain that attraction. Getting along well, both in romantic and non-romantic situations (and making an effort to keep it that way). Working together to solve problems. Communication (to an extend). Trust. Being able to rely on each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 08:19 PM
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Just some of the things that came to mind, in no particular order. I'm sure I could think of more if I wanted to, but that would make the list way to long. Laziness. No drive to do anything interesting. No ambition. Not being able to talk about any interesting subjects. Not standing up for himself when he should, but also being overly defensive when he shouldn't be. Complaining about problems but doing nothing to solve them. Not taking responsibility when he should, but also taking the blame whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 11:54 PM
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Traditionalism: 88% Liberal Feminist : 54% Radical Feminist: 9% Marxist Feminist: 11% Cultural Feminist: 6% I can see where the first two percentages come from, but I have no idea how I scored anything at all on the last three.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 12:48 AM
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I don't know any guys with triple digits, but that's because most guys my age haven't really had the chance yet. I definitely know some who have potential to be that guy though. I'm going to say something that's gonna sound very non-RP here, but unlike what many TRP members like to believe those guys cannot and will not try to attract all (or even most) women out there. They rack up their n-count so quickly because most of the woman they hang out with enjoy casual sex and put out easily. Knowing…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 07:07 PM
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I think it's that people who are more attractive are above average intelligence, but only somewhat above average (like an IQ of 110-130 or something compared to the average of 100). Intelligent enough to be a successful doctor, lawyer or business (wo)man, but not the kind of genius that invents something world-changing. That doesn't automatically mean that all people who are more intelligent are also more beautiful though, there's definitely plenty of ugly but smart people out there. Don't quote…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 06:42 PM
4

Congrats!
/r/RedPillWives15/04/17 02:14 PM
1

The internet can definitely be a good place to learn when it's done right. However, I haven't seen that happen yet; it either turns into a woe-is-me circlejerk or a place that breeds anger and contempt towards groups of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 09:36 AM
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92% Submissive 90% Girl/Boy 87% Primal (Prey) 82% Brat 77% Pet 67% Ageplayer 59% Primal (Hunter) 57% Switch 52% Vanilla 31% Rope bunny 31% Experimentalist 26% Dominant 22% Exhibitionist 22% Masochist 12% Daddy/Mommy 9% Slave 8% Non-monogamist 8% Master/Mistress 7% Sadist 6% Rigger 6% Voyeur 5% Degradee 4% Brat tamer 1% Degrader 1% Owner All of them are some form of submissive except primal (hunter). That's kinda interesting, because I never thought of myself as particularly submissive. Whelp I g…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 10:27 PM
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Why is this even labeled CMV anymore? Its pretty obvious that OP just wants to tell everyone they're wrong and he's right.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/17 09:24 AM
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I'm assuming it actually calculates the person's value as a partner, since IQ doesn't really relate to a woman's sexual market value. It makes perfect sense to deduce points for a high IQ though, because people with a significant difference in IQ trend to have trouble relating to each other. So people with a higher IQ will have a significantly smaller pool of people they're compatible with (lower demand=lower market value). If anything I'm surprised 120-130 is considered ideal. The average IQ in…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 11:23 PM
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Because it's easier to claim others are shallow (aka "they only care about looks") than to face one's own flaws and weaknesses.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/17 11:10 PM
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It's not Tuesday anymore, but whatever. Just a month and a half of school left. 3 more things to do next week and then I can start preparing for the final exams without having to worry about anything else. My SO planned a weekend for just the two of us after the exams. I'm really excited about it because we haven't been spending enough time together lately. My grandpa had to go to the hospital for what they thought was something pretty serious, it turned out it wasn't as bad as they thought and …
/r/RedPillWives01/04/17 06:29 PM
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Red 19 Female I believe there's... something. I don't consider myself religious though, and I don't care too much. I'll find out what's out there when I die. 5 ish, I guess I don't see how they correlate, so no conflict there. One hundred duck sized horses, that would be so adorable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 04:11 PM
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1 (my current boyfriend), I'm a woman. For a partner ideal would be at least 1 and around 10 at most. For anyone else I don't care as long as they don't come to me to complain if their choice backfires.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/17 03:53 PM
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In reality most low n count women settle with low n count men, and most high n count women settle with high n count men. Anyone who believes otherwise has spent to much time on the internet (specifically on TRP).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 07:32 PM
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antifeminists Sure enjoys watching videos of women being assaulted and knocked out by larger men when they "get out of line" What the actual fuck? No, of course not
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/17 07:24 PM
3

Congrats!
/r/RedPillWives17/03/17 10:09 AM
3

If there's some underlying problem and his wife is actively working to improve their sex life then yes. If his wife isn't even trying anymore then no.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/17 10:24 AM
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Nature did make us all hot, people are way more attractive than they were a few thousand years ago. Society's standard of "attractive" just increases as the average attractiveness does.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/17 10:37 AM
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Handsome and capable. I don't need a top 2% IQ guy, and unless a person themselves has a top 2-5% IQ I don't see why anyone would care about that. If a person can talk about some interesting topics that's good enough for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 09:10 AM
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Would probably bang Would bang Might bang if drunk or desperate Would bang Would bang Would not bang Would bang Would not bang Or: 6 probably higher if her hair was longer 10 5 10 8 or 9 2 10 2
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 03:10 PM
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Yes, a whole drawer of them! Just kidding. I don't. I haven't met that many people who are relationship material to me, and the ones I know are already in a relationship. The people who are easy to get in a relationship with aren't people I'd want to be with, because they'd probably get with anyone just to get laid. That being said, I think my relationship will last for a long time, so I don't see a reason to have a backup person. And if my relationship would end I'd probably take a break for a …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/17 10:59 AM
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The post OP linked to asked how many men were attractive enough to make women consider dating them without knowing anything else about the men. If you think that means those percentages include men that are "not repulsive" you don't understand how women's sexuality works. Women aren't men; they don't fuck anything that's "not repulsive", they're not desperate. The minimum requirement for most women to consider dating/sleeping with a man is attractive (to her), so guys she would consider about a …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 12:26 PM
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6.5 he's not masculine, but he's definitely sort of cute in a boyish way. 7.5 looks good, but idk... his face just isn't the kind of face I like, I guess 5 I don't like his face and he looks like he needs healthy food and exercise. Solid 9. 3 it's hard to tell, but I think he could be attractive if he'd lose weight. Can't tell because of the pose and the face he's making, but at least 7.5 because he has a nice ass. 8 he looks too "clean" (well groomed?) for the setting he's in, but other than th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 11:41 AM
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9 nice face, from what I can see also a nice bone and muscle structure. And he looks really masculine. 5 he has a very feminine face and lacks a defined facial bone structure. His looks don't match the image he tries to convey with the tattoos and the pose, which makes the lack of masculine features and out even more. 6.5 because of the look on his face and the baggy clothes, probably easily a 7.5 if he'd wear better clothes. 7 I guess, not really my type though. 7.5 he looks a little old and is…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 09:24 AM
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Not really. 1 implies all women are attracted to the same 20% of men (80% of men get very little to no action ever), whereas 2 means 80% of women are attracted to about 20% of men they meet, but those men vary between women (more men than only the "top 20%" have women attracted to them).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/17 07:49 AM
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6 though she could be a 7 with different clothes and make-up. 8.5 4 probably 5+ with clothes on. 8.5 I don't really like her face, but other than that I would totally turn gay for her lol 5 compared to those other women because she looks old, on her own probably a 6. Her features are a too masculine for my taste. 3 because she's fat. Without all the make-up probably even a 2. Hard to tell because the angle makes her face look really weird and pointy. Could be an obvious 5 trying to look hot, but…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/17 06:48 AM
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From what I understand the majority of the response saying 0% don't imply the women don't see any attractive men. They're just women adding they wouldn't date a man based on looks alone. If you continue reading you'll see that women talking about how many men meet their minimum requirements (when it comes to looks) give much higher percentages. The answers range from 0% (people who probably only read the title, not the actual question) to 70% on campus. Plenty of people are saying 5-15% of every…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 03:10 PM
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It depends on what you consider friends. I have a very large social circle, but only two or three people with whom I spend one on one time. I consider the former close acquaintances, but most people would call them friends. To answer the question: I believe it's a red flag if a person can't get along with people of the opposite sex. However, a close friendship between a man and a woman is, in my opinion, more of a red flag than the lack of friends of the opposite sex. I would turn down a man wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 01:27 AM
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The post wasn't about whether it's validating to thirsty guys though, it was about whether or not it's validating to women (it isn't).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/17 04:45 PM
2

Wear them around the house regularly. You could also start out wearing wider heels or wedges, if you don't wear those already. They really help you get used to the height of heels, but they're easier to walk on because they're more stable than thin heels. Starting out with short heels and working your way up also helps. Those 5 inch heels don't feel as high when you're used to walking on 3 inch heels regularly.
/r/RedPillWives21/02/17 01:26 PM
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All of them should at least meet my minimum requirements, if they don't the guy isn't a dating option.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/17 10:23 AM
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What makes you think the expectation is always deferment? The more you talk about this topic, the more you're starting to sound like you know nothing about it. when she doesn't, she's the one causing problems even if it's just her not feeling this is the best course of action I'm guessing you've never been in that position, nor known anyone who has. With people who are worth my time not being deferring when I usually am does not make me the problem. Quite the contrary, it makes people listen to …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/17 05:21 PM
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I don't know about religious communities/evangelicals and what they do, but indoctrination is not related to the captain/first mate dynamic in any way, nor is it related to your CMV post. What I'm saying is that C/FM is about choice. Not about force, not about what you're taught, just about choice and personal preference and, most of all, trust. It's not C/FM unless women can walk away as easily as men can make decisions within the relationship. And walking away easily includes doing so without …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/17 05:02 PM
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even when the captain defers to the first mate's wishes it is just that: a deferment You're right, it's just a deferment. Just like when things would be the other way around. There's no force in a captain/first mate dynamic; both can choose to go with the other person's wishes, or leave the dynamic if they do not like it. The wife didn't really make that decision, he did And he doesn't decide for the wife if/when she defers, she does. Weird huh? It's almost like it goes both ways. /s and as such…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/17 03:41 PM
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Do you realize that it's impossible for the man to lead the relationship if the wife doesn't want him to? In a captain/first mate dynamic men don't force women to follow them (that would be an abusive relationship), but rather women choose to trust and respect their man to make the important decisions. They carefully choose their partners to end up with someone who is reliable and trustworthy enough to defer to and then choose to follow his lead. Men are carefully vetted to make sure they will n…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/17 03:22 PM
2

All of those people are unconventional, but none of them are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/17 06:41 AM
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Neither. Both are equally unattractive options, so I'd rather stay single and wait for a better one. If I really had to pick I'd go for the second option, not because I'm attracted to "Alpha Chad" (if you're going by TRP's definition his behavior would actually make him a repulsive to me), but because I wouldn't feel guilty ditching him once I've found a guy I actually like.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/17 12:10 PM
1

If it's almost impossible for you to find low n count girls who don't have casual sex you should look elsewhere. There's plenty of them, they just don't interact with men the way sluts do because they have no reason to. And they don't hang out on tinder/in bars/clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/17 10:18 AM
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Why are so many people bad at giving dating/relationship advice to men? People aren't bad at giving dating or relationship advice to men specifically, they're bad at giving dating or relationship advice, period. The reason? I'm guessing most people don't want to be honest with themselves. The cause of a person's lack of dating/relationship success is usually something about the person him/herself. And if there's one way to make sure someone will hate you it's telling them something about them is…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/17 05:20 PM
3

I'm not into casual sex and/or having many (short term) relationships. If a guy is then it means my views on sex and relationships are not compatible with his. Since being compatible in this regard is important to me I don't want to be with someone who has a high n-count.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/17 09:57 AM
2

My observation is that there's roughly an equal amount of experienced women who like the idea of taking a man's virginity as there are experienced men who want to take a woman's virginity. Either way there are very few of those people. There are quite a lot of men who claim they want a virgin, but really mean to say that they want a girl who's so attracted to them that she has to have them, even though she has turned down every single guy that came before him. When guys are actually dating a vir…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/17 11:03 PM
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I don't really care to much for this discussion, but I'm just gonna put this out there: prostitutes are still allowed to decline clients (at least where I'm from) so it would only help average looking guys who just don't know how to pick up girls. The ugly ones still won't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/17 11:40 PM
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I was thinking the same thing. There aren't any feminine features on that face as far as I can tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/17 02:55 PM
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Height and width are correlated I'm not sure where you're from, but in my experience it is not. I'm from a mixed race family (one side Malaysian/Indonesian, the other side west European) and in my experience the Asian half of the family has a visibly wider bone structure than the men in my country. Yet men in my family are on average about as tall as I am, which is around 5'6", while the country's average length is slightly over 6'1". Now something on topic: Considering the fact that plenty of w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 05:02 PM
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First off, you're trying to link one thing (the increase in the size of babies due to the C- section, which stops natural selection) with another (women preferring taller partners) without any evidence or sold training to back it up. So could you give some sources to back up the claim that the two are related? Second, the logical conclusion is that height of the partner affect length of the baby, but I don't see why a taller partner would make a baby wider/fatter. It is the width of the baby tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/17 08:48 AM
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I figured I need a new hobby now I'm done with the art Academy selection assignments, so I tried crocheting. So far I've made a little dog that turned out really cute. Working on it for hours at a time really made my hands hurt, but I'll probably get used to that eventually.
/r/RedPillWives23/01/17 10:22 PM
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I love how he's stubborn and how he likes to do things his own way, but he's never reckless or unreasonable. He's hardworking, dedicated and responsible. People trust and respect him, he's just really good with people in general. He's a great musician and when people we know need someone to do something music related he's the first person they ask. He can sing really wel and he has a really sexy, manly voice. He's an amazing boyfriend; he's really sweet and caring and protective, but he also doe…
/r/RedPillWives23/01/17 09:11 PM
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Good So many things, I've had a great week! Technically something for last week's reflection, but I didn't get to post one last week: I finally got to spend some time with my best friend again for the first time in two years. We had a great time; bought some coffee, visited a museum, watched some bands play at a music event in the city and looked around in cute shops while talking about what has happened in our lifes during the past two years. I really wish I could spend some time with her more …
/r/RedPillWives23/01/17 08:24 PM
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Song for You by Lunatica describes our relationship really well. If I ever learn to sing I'd like to sing this with my SO, it would sound amazing with his voice.
/r/RedPillWives16/01/17 10:39 PM
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I'd go back to acting the way I did before I met my SO. With a little luck I'd actually get with a new high(ish) value man to whom I'm attracted. That is if there are still men looking for a relationship. In the unlikely scenario that all remaining men would only care to hook up I'd opt for celibacy. I've been happy on my own before, I can do it again. Being on my own and keeping my dignity is a better option than getting with a man I'm absolutely not attracted to or becoming one of the many gir…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 06:25 PM
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I had never been in a relationship before taking the red pill, but it definitely made a difference. Single, non-redpill: 5/10 I felt a lot of pressure to perform and be successful at the cost of doing things that made me happy. Single, after finding RPW/RPWi: 7/10 the red pill made me realize that men and women being different wasn't a bad thing. That realization really helped me get in touch with my feelings and figure out what I really want. In a LTR, still redpill: 10/10 or, if I need to take…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/17 10:50 AM
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It's not Friday anymore, but I'm still sharing this: I went to the art academy for the final conversation with the people there; it went really well and a couple hours after they called back to let me know my application is accepted. 😊 So I'm going to the art academy starting next year!
/r/RedPillWives14/01/17 07:44 PM
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Relaxed-Engaging (secure) 61.1% Relaxed, 22.2% Engaging
/r/RedPillWives13/01/17 12:30 PM
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That's not true at all...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/17 09:06 AM
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The history of philosophy and the philosophy major are two entirely different things where I'm from. I'm definitely interested in the history of philosophy and how it affected society, but only up until Descartes' time. After him science became way more relevant because it did a better job at explaining things than philosophy, and I feel like very few interesting, new ideas originated after Descartes. Yet 400 years later my country still has philosophy majors which teach people to be an old scho…
/r/RedPillWives12/01/17 02:21 AM
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My SO and I both have parents who have been keeping pets for as long as we can remember, and he actually thinks a home isn't truly complete without a pet. So although it isn't a good goal in that sense, getting a pet is definitely something that's somewhat important to us (both of us, not just me, we've actually talked about this since we first started to consider moving in together). I do need to add that "convincing" my SO might have been a bad choice of words. It's more like mentioning it the…
/r/RedPillWives12/01/17 12:14 AM
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Dear future me, By the time you're reading this (again) you will know what you'll be doing for the next 4-6 years. Remember how much you've been worrying about the future? That didn't help you in any way, did it? Try to keep that in mind next time you're losing sleep over something you cannot control either way. If everything happens the way you want it to happen you'll be planning the interior of your new home by now and you'll be enjoying your early summer holiday. Before then there are some t…
/r/RedPillWives11/01/17 09:28 PM
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I have very strong feelings about single parents by choice (IVF) receiving single parent payments and childcare payments from the government. Which country does this? Single people shouldn't have children if they cannot afford to have them and the government certainly shouldn't support it.
/r/RedPillWives11/01/17 11:01 AM
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Glitter is Satan dust It's fabulous Satan dust though.
/r/RedPillWives11/01/17 10:51 AM
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America is the best country in the world America isn't a country, it's a continent (technically even two continents). Sorry, this is also one of the things I have a strong opinion on even though it's not important :')
/r/RedPillWives11/01/17 10:30 AM
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It's kinda funny that the weekly off-topic megathread has an automod message telling people to put off-topic comments under the automod message.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 10:19 PM
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Where do I start? :') I really cannot stand socks in sandals/sneakers worn with a suit. If a person does either I'm going to not take them seriously at best and strongly dislike them for no real reason at worst. Cheap shoes with an otherwise expensive outfit should also be illegal. I'm judging women who complain about clothes sold in stores, yet make up excuses for not being able to sew their own clothes (it's really not that hard). I think men not eating meat are really weird. I don't know why …
/r/RedPillWives10/01/17 10:00 PM
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Good: my SO and I talked about moving in together and agreed that we will be moving in this year if I get into the art academy, because the art academy and his university are in the same city. We will also getting a cat if we find a place that allows us to keep pets. Bad: I feel like I'll have to choose between living close to my SO and going to an art school (which is basically my life long dream) if I don't get accepted into my art school of choice and it's a horrible feeling. I really don't k…
/r/RedPillWives10/01/17 06:46 PM
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LTR oriented men (should) care too, since past sexual behavior is a pretty good indication of a person's view in sex and their possible future sexual behavior. If a girl likes to sleep around chances are she is going to get bored of being with one guy eventually, so she won't be a good match for someone who wants an exclusive relationship. If someone would want an open relationship, though, she could be a great match. And people generally look for partners with a sexual past similar to their own…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/17 10:10 AM
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If a redpill man slut shames 9.9/10 times he's in the "anger phase" (who are we even kidding with that name anymore, everyone knows by now that most anger phasers are not getting out of that "phase"). Those guys are just angry at women because they never got laid by women in high school/college... or because they aren't getting laid in general. The other 0.1/10 are a small minority of the men looking for a LTR. They might date and have sex occasionally, but their end goal is to find a good partn…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/17 10:02 PM
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I was pretty redpill to begin with because I'm from a traditional family. I came here after I found TRP. The theory was alright, but there were a lot of hateful anger-phasers which made me not want to associate with them, so I got a purple flair. I found RPW via PPD, it was a nice community but they were looking up to TRP a little too much for my liking. Half of the girls just seemed to be there so TRP would approve of them back when I still frequented the sub (before RPWi existed). Then I some …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/17 08:55 PM
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This is by far the best comment I've read this year
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 11:30 PM
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Introspection together and sharing vulnerabilities becomes too great a risk out of fear of discovering something that might harm the relationship. I think this is why things go wrong. You stop being yourself because you're afraid that your partner might not like who you are. This damages the emotional intimacy in the relationship (which, contrary to what TRP seems to believe these days, is actually necessary to maintain a successful relationship). Find someone who makes you feel safe enough to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 11:21 PM
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My problem was rather that I'm NOT on any hormonal birth control. SO and I agreed to use condoms until I've saved up enough to get an IUD. The downside is that I freak out and start worrying that something went wrong with the condoms every time I'm late. Have you looked at the copper IUD as an option? They don't have any hormones, they're supposedly at least 99.9% safe and if you get the right brand you don't have to worry about anything for the next 10 years. Or is that what you were taking abo…
/r/RedPillWives04/01/17 10:58 PM
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Thank you, but it's been a couple of years since I first stumbled across TRP so I'm quite familiar with the material. I've been reading RPW for about two years and I'm with my SO because he's a good captain, so it's not like I'm still in denial of redpill theory. I just strongly dislike what TRP has become since I first started reading it. It's kinda like watching someone you respect and look up to turn into your average condescending prick. Plenty of other redpill women seem to feel that way to…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 10:41 PM
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I wish, we never get free writing assignments from either of them and they don't teach gender related subjects :(
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 08:42 PM
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The female version of the red pill is very different from the male one, as red pill is about self improvement/sexual strategy and men and women are generally aiming for entirely different things when it comes to sex and relationships. TRP, however, has just become a mockery of red pill theory over the past years; many of their subs are stuck in the (very much encouraged) anger phase without any intention of ever getting past that. Their advice has devolved from ways to become a respectable man w…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 08:34 PM
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I'm grateful that my SO is always so calm and down to earth, especially when I am stressed. I'm grateful that finding a balance between spending time with my family and spending time with my SO and his family during the holidays was easy this year. I'm just very grateful to have my SO. He's amazing and I couldn't imagine being this happy with anyone else.
/r/RedPillWives04/01/17 02:37 AM
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Good: finally felt inspired to get started on my last project for the selection of the art academy I want to get into. I still have a week long holiday and a regular week to finish it. I'm pretty confident that it'll turn out nicely. Bad: I last saw my SO on January 1st yet I feel like it's been ages :( I miss him so badly and this afternoon I got all emotional because I have to wait until the end of the week to see him again. It's probably the last bit of PMS hormones that my body hasn't gotten…
/r/RedPillWives04/01/17 02:24 AM
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We clearly have a very different idea of what "acting like a child" means. It's not child either but most responsible teenager in the house. A step between child and man. Because that's something entirely different than "like a child". I can actually get behind this, it's not that different from the traditional view on women. See, this is why so many people dislike TRP; they say one (rather demeaning) thing and mean something entirely different (which usually isn't half bad). It's not child eith…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 01:55 AM
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I definitely support 1 and 2. I think the man that is claimed to be the father should be given the option to put his name on the certificate, or have a DNA test to make sure the child is his. However, standard DNA tests every time would be to expensive. Perhaps it should be discussed with the mother beforehand whether there are multiple possible fathers before she has the child? If she claims only one man can be the father and it turns out that the kid isn't his there sould be consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 01:26 AM
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It's true from what I've seen. My boyfriend and I became a couple two months (exactly two months) after we first talked. It definitely was a leap of faith, and in hind sight a very stupid thing to do. We're still very much in love. Things went pretty much the same way for another couple my boyfriend and I see regularly. They got together around the same time we did, within a very short time of meeting each other. They're still one of the cutest couples I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/17 01:15 AM
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Why are you wasting your time on people who act like children at all? Don't they generally have very little to offer (unless that's what you're into)? If you prefer that dynamic, well, fair enough, I suppose. Just makes me wonder though: when did TRP teaching men to aim for a captain/fist mate dynamic turn into TRP teaching men to aim for a parent/child dynamic?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 06:43 PM
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Two of my female professors are what one would probably call feminazis. And they somehow keep finding ways to bring up their beliefs even though they're not relevant to the subjects at all. It's extremely annoying and, in my opinion, very unprofessional. Some of my peers are also rabid feminists, but they don't really bother me because I can avoid them. Luckily, most of the people I know either don't care about gender stuff at all, or they don't care to discuss it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 05:59 PM
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Both genders will test your boundaries, it's a natural part of social hierarchy. And of course you do need to keep your frame, but you shouldn't have to treat anyone like a child to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 11:53 AM
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I think it works because many men put women on a pedestal, which makes them scared to talk to them. Infantilizing women does pretty much the opposite; it makes guys feel better than women, so it becomes easier for them to talk to women. It's basically just another pathetic way to cope with insecurities. It might work for hookups, but it's gonna bite those guys in the ass if they ever want a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 01:03 AM
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I hear that quite a lot, actually. I think (read: I hope) my boyfriend and I won't really have that problem though, because we both have quite a high sex drive. Thanks for the advice! I'll definitely be making the effort from the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/17 12:48 AM
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This isn't exactly dating, but I want to put some more time and money into doing new things with my boyfriend (activity wise) and going out together more often in general. We're also planning to move in together this year, so hopefully we'll be having sex way more often than we do now.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/17 06:49 PM
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Sorry, I forgot that it's a woman's duty to completely disregard facts and prioritize feels over everything else :')
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/17 06:09 PM
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No, people had more kids in the older days because birth control was not available to everyone, and the birth control that was available was not nearly as effective. Birth control allows women to choose exactly how and when they want to have children. And due to economic reasons they choose to have fewer kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/17 05:01 PM
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I had an amazing night! I went to have dinner with my SO and his parents around 7. We went for a walk around the neighborhood, my SO's two closest friends joined us around 9.30. The four of us went out to watch the remains of the new year's night bonfires in the neighborhood (shame we had to leave almost right away because the only other people who were still out were some 12ish year old brats who thought it would be fun to throw fireworks at us). We watched some tv and played some board games w…
/r/RedPillWives01/01/17 02:47 PM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/16 09:45 PM
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I'm partially going to CYV: riding the CC might be good for future relationships for SOME PEOPLE. For others it's either not necessary, or simply a distasteful idea because they don't want hookups or casual relationships (that's how I personally feel). I'm in no way saying that my way is the best way, but it worked for me. And my close friends in long term relationships "settled" as early as I did. It's only a logical progression of things if you don't mind settling younger, though. I'm from a f…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/16 05:37 PM
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I'm grateful for having such an amazing SO. He doesn't take any sh*t from me when I'm being dramatic without a reason, but he can also be so kind and understanding when I'm genuinely upset about something. I'm grateful for my SO's family, especially his parents. They're really kind and they always try to include me in family events. I'm really gratefull for the support of my big (half)brother.
/r/RedPillWives29/12/16 10:14 PM
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I got 4. Pretty much what I expected since I love doing new things and meeting new people too much to be on the spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/16 09:31 PM
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Fair enough. But that doesn't change the fact that a world wide study's data shouldn't be applied to dating and hookups, which happens mostly on a local scale. Because there can still be a significant difference between countries. Or the fact that the study only includes about 700 measurements of participants' erect penises (and only gathered enough data to get an erect average in a handful countries) which isn't enough to get a representative number on a world wide scale. And I think my country…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/16 06:04 PM
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You keep using that statistic like it's absolute , but the thing is: it's a worldwide study. It doesn't apply everywhere. You should think in terms of local average rather than world average. Because the 5.5 inch world average will be huge in most of Asia, average in North America, and below average in Europe. In my country the average is 6.2 inch, so regardless of how few men (supposedly) have a 6.3 inch penis, they're going to be considered average here, not above average. And while searching …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/16 01:01 PM
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I'm okay with anything that's around or above my own height (5'6.5"), as long as he doesn't mind that I'm taller on heels. My boyfriend is 6'2", but that isn't why I'm with him. It's nice to be able to wear 6 inch heels and still be shorter than he is, though :)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/16 12:26 PM
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I'm not expecting anyone to pay, but even if I did how would that be making a fool of myself? In my country that's the norm, at least in the more rural area where I'm from; either you pay when you ask someone out, or you tell your date ahead of time that you're splitting the bill. Where did I say that you go out of your way to not pay anyway? I was referring to the original comment which says: It advised that guys should ask a girl to meet for coffee but arrive at least 15 minutes before the app…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/16 09:44 PM
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What's cheap about it is the fact that (in the example) the man invites the woman for coffee, then goes out of his way to avoid having to buy her a coffee. He could also have asked her to go for a walk in the park instead. That doesn't require him to pay, and it doesn't make him look cheap. Edited because I accidentally pressed submit before I finished writing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 03:49 PM
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If you just want to hook up: online and clubs. If you want an actual relationship: in your own (extended) social circles and places you come often. My boyfriend and I got to know each other because we were members at the same archery club, which is where we first started talking. We also went to the same school, that really helped because it allowed us to meet frequently and get to know each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/16 03:14 PM
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99,5% If you didn't marry a guy and he leaves after you have a kid it's your own fault, you could have done more to keep him from leaving you. Basically everyone, except the women who lost their boyfriend and the ones who chose to have a child/children on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/16 04:52 PM
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Asperges is gonna make dating more difficult, but certainly not impossible. As a woman who's in a LTR with a (high functioning) autistic guy I can tell you that it doesn't have to be a problem at all. I can try to give you some advice from the woman's perspective if you want, but whether it will work or not largely depends on where you live, what kind of people you spend time with, what kind of women you like, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/16 11:13 PM
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Hot: spicy hot cocoa - warm and cozy with a little spice Cold: vanilla iced coffee - sweet and full of energy Recipes: 1. Heat up chocolate milk in a pan with vanilla, cinnamon, chili peppers and (optional) some additional cocoa powder. 2. Some espresso or other very strong coffee, a few ice cubes and vanilla ice cream in a blender.
/r/RedPillWives10/07/16 03:09 PM
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I don't think people are discriminated against because they're virgins, simply because there's no way to tell for sure whether someone is a virgin or not. Rather, I think the reason people are virgins is also the reason they are seen as potential creeps, have less success socially and career wise, etc. People who are virgins because they are socially inept are going to look more like creeps, not because they're virgins, but because they are socially inept. They aren't going to be liked by as man…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/16 01:48 PM
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I've talked about redpill subjects with my more religious friends and my SO. I didn't refer to it by name though, when I bring it up its usually an observation or opinion about something relationship related. My religious friends are generally surprised I'm so conservative when it comes to relationships. My SO agrees with me 9/10 times and is happy I'm, as he likes to say, not as impulsive and irresponsible as most girls he knows. I've also made slightly redpill remarks around my mother and sist…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/16 01:26 PM
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My SO and I both don't have any children of our own and we don't want to have any, so this scenario is irrelevant. Of course I could guess how I would react, but I'm not emotionally attached to a non-existent child so I'm inclined to say I still wouldn't turn him in. Truth is: I wouldn't know until I actually have a child, which isn't going to happen as far as me SO and I are concerned, which makes this hypothetical event irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/16 12:48 PM
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The only people I would not/never turn in are either of my parents and my significant other; my parents because I feel I owe them and my SO because he's the one person I will protect with my life if I have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/16 07:29 PM
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As a standard people should live up to ("should" meaning they'd be considered worthless if they don't): yes, definitely. As an ideal or desirable (but not required) body type for people: no, not at all. If they'd choose make a serious effort most people would be able to get, or at least get close to, a body type that's often glorified by the media.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/16 08:52 PM
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1) I was following a couple of manosphere and anti-feminist blogs which mentioned trp or the red pill community regularly. About half of the blogs were extremely positive while the other half was extremely negative, I decided I wanted to know what the fuss was all about. 2) It definitely caused aversion. Not because I disagreed with the core principles of red pill theory (I've seen them in action enough to know they often do apply), but because of the general anger and hatred trp has towards wom…
/r/RedPillWives29/04/16 10:08 PM
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I personally don't think being called a woman is insulting because I AM a woman. I take pride in my femininity, and if someone tries to use me being a woman as a way to belittle me that says more about them than about me. As for women having masculine traits: I believe it is seen as a bad thing by plenty of people. For example "bitch" is often used for women who show certain dominant traits: going against what others say, sometimes for no reason at all; always trying to have her way; belittling …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/16 08:52 PM
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Yay a chance to gush about my SO without annoying anyone! Where do I start? His singing voice is amazing. But so is his voice when he isn't singing. He just has the most amazing, manly voice I've ever heard. I love the spark he gets in his eyes when he's talking about music, especially when it has something to do with guitars. I don't know that much about music, but his enthusiasm always makes me want to learn more about it. Being around him always makes me happy. No matter how much my day sucke…
/r/RedPillWives10/04/16 11:56 AM
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Hiya, I'm tplg. I know the username doesn't flow that nicely, but I picked it when I joined reddit so I guess I'm stuck with it. I'm from a small country in western Europe. I like drawing/painting, cooking sweet stuff, reading, offline videogames and listening to my boyfriend playing guitar/singing. I found RPW last year around August or September and it has helped me improve my life a lot already, so I figured it was getting about time I joined the lovely community you ladies have here.
/r/RedPillWives08/04/16 06:43 PM
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Guys have to have some backbone, or I won't consider them datable. And in hindsight I have to admit I'm very guilty of shittesting (as TRP would put it) every man who was potential dating material.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/16 08:54 AM
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I don't think I could be in a happy relationship with someone who's BP (I know my flair still says I'm purple but RPW has kind of grown on me). That doesn't mean much though because I also wouldn't date someone who's active on TRP, most redpillers aren't interested in investing in a LTR as far as I'm aware. My boyfriend is cool though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/16 07:48 AM
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Scenario 1: no, I wouldn't feel jealous, assuming the clone has no memories of being with me, dating me etc. Because I know my SO wasn't interested in me and didn't think we'd get along until I started talking to him, so I assume his clone would feel the same way. What makes our relationship work the way it does aren't his preferences, it's the time we shared together and how we interacted and it grew over time. So why would I have any feelings about his clone, who hasn't experienced the things …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 11:29 PM
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It's not an accurate metaphor though, because the thief has already crossed the line and thus already proven to be untrustworthy. If you want to go with the thief/security guard metaphor the accurate one would be not trusting any person who comes in because "all" people would steal given the right circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/16 10:13 PM
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It's fine to expect it, I expect my boyfriend to live up to my sexual needs too, and if people deny you sexual acts they enjoyed doing with previous partners (the keyword here is enjoyed since I'm assuming you're taking about girls who liked it, rather than ones who did it in a last desperate attempt to keep your boyfriend) that's a really shitty thing to do. Just don't pressure them to do it if they tell you they don't want to do it and don't be an asshole about it, simply leave them and find s…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/16 09:29 PM
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"If feminism didn't have any truth, there wouldn't be anti-feminism." Now tell me that line off reasoning makes some amount of sense and mean it, I dare you. I'm not saying there isn't any truth in the red pill, there certainly is, but the reasoning you use to back your claim is about as backwards as its going to get. A counter movement doesn't prove a movement valid, after all there are counter movements against feminism, sjws, racism, fanatic religious people and many other people who make no …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/16 08:56 PM
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If I don't like the idea of a "random guy" wanting to have sex with me, I'm not gonna like him trying to kiss me either. In that case I'd rather know he wants to make a move beforehand so I can reject him in a more subtle, less awkward manner. And by the time I'd allow a guy to kiss me I've already decided that I want to have sex with him anyway, so I wouldn't mind knowing the feeling is mutual. Hell, hearing him say it would probably turn me on. Believe it or not, but girls aren't some kind of …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 04:47 PM
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Female, 18 Mostly horny high school and college guys who want to hook up with me, most if them are assholes. It gets boring and annoying real quick in my opinion, mainly because I'm not looking for a casual hookup. According to my boyfriend it's because I tend to come across as vain and stuck up when people don't know me, which apparently turns off most decent guys. Then there's my boyfriend who's pretty much the opposite of the others. He's calm, comfortable with being on his own and more inter…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/16 04:23 PM
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I acknowledge that a lot of thing we have today are the way they are because of men, but I'm not any more grateful towards men in general than I am towards the next best stranger I'll walk past on the street. Want to know why not? Because those men didn't do what they did for me; they did what they did because it was, in some way, beneficial to them. Just because they did something in their own best interest that I also happen to profit from doesn't mean I owe them anything. In my opinion gratit…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/15 08:13 PM
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Depends on what you define as "it works". To get laid by some girl who probably goes home with guys on a regular basis? Probably. To get a decently attractive girlfriend who stays with you? Sure, if you're her type and she's okay with the behaviour that comes with the TRP ideology. To get a solid relationship with a girl to a point where you can discuss your problems and worries with her and she supports you unconditionally? I wouldn't count on it if I were you. Edit to answer this reply to anot…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 06:15 PM
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Depends on what you consider freely, I guess. In case it wasn't clear from the original post; I'm making a choice that I can come back to whenever I feel like it, and I wouldn't hesitate to do so if I change my mind about it. In this case the choice isn't "not living freely etc." like you seem to think, the choice is not bothering a ONS with a guy that's anything less than amazing because it's not worth the fuss it might cause later on anyway and I'd regret it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/15 05:59 PM
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That largely depends on how open they are to different (opposing?) points of view. I don't really know about any of those guys, so I can't give a straight yes or no answer. If they're as close minded and unwilling to budge as some RP guys tend to be though, then no; there'd be no point as they'd only tell me I'm wrong without ever presenting any evidence to support their claims. But if they're cool, reasonable people to debate with then sure. I'm always interested in hearing why other people bel…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 04:04 PM
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When I'm judging someone as a person? No, I don't care about a guy's relationships with women when I'm just interested in being friends. When he's a potential boyfriend? Yes, absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 03:37 PM
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You're making a lot of assumptions and statements here, but are they based on anything solid? A study? Another other source than some people who say it's true because it happens to be how they experience reality? Don't get my wrong, I don't doubt that you have a reason to see things that way, but since (part of) TRP is encouraging using your appearance, your wealth and your status as a way to get women, don't you think that perhaps to you AWALT (with some, but very few, exceptions) because your …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 02:54 PM
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In my opinion whether this confirms TRP or not largely depends on whether those guys who are becoming more successful with women are using game as TRP teaches it or not. After all the assumption that a guy's looks/physique, status, and wealth can be attractive to women is not exclusively a TRP point of view. So if you draw the conclusion that: this is part of TRP ideology it is correct therefore TRP is correct You would also have to acknowledge that other people who share this belief but have an…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/15 02:33 PM
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When it comes to casual sex the majority of the women probably would be less picky, but I can't imagine women (or anyone for that matter) would lower their relationship standards because they have a high sex drive. For me personally I don't think it would make a difference. When I'm horny I tend to be more likely to consider a not especially attractive guy fuckable, however I wouldn't have casual sex with a guy unless he was a 10/10 anyway. After all a woman can only have so much partners untill…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 05:29 PM
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Neither does what you claim the sub is about. You keep telling people who have spent a decent amount of time on the sub that they are not correct about the content of the sub, but so far I haven't seen any solid evidence that supports your claims; neither on here, nor on the RPW sub itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/15 05:08 PM
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Actually one thing RPW seems to stress is that there's a huge difference between being submissive and being a doormat. They encourage women to be submissive, but they also encourage women to walk away when their partner does not respect them either by taking advantage of the submissive attitude or by not acknowledging their needs. Source: the articles in their sidebar, especially the first one under the Great Reads heading
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/15 03:49 PM
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