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Would have been fine if he stopped at shaking his head.. He took to passing judgement and morally putting himself above someone else.. Trp is amoral.. Enter as you please.. but leave your judgement at the door..
/r/askTRP19/11/16 06:31 PM
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Also his choice to take a plate.. finger wagging is for bitches.. You can disagree all you want.. doesn't change a thing.. It wasn't your choice to make..
/r/askTRP19/11/16 01:17 PM
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Are you shaming? Cause that would really trigger me.. And you don't want to see me triggered..
/r/askTRP19/11/16 12:29 PM
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Woah moral police.. feel better? Nobody cares
/r/askTRP19/11/16 12:04 PM
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And locks only keep out the honest..
/r/TheRedPill15/06/16 09:08 PM
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Not referring to a dictionary.. referring to the nuance you spoke of.. it's subtle.. but it's there.. The phrase "cutting off the nose to spite the face" is a good point of reference.. you know it will make the face hideous.. but you do it anyway.. (it basically means doing something you know is stupid to piss someone.. off.. or in other words a shit test..) Would you ever cut off a nose to despite a face? No that doesn't make sense.. Though yes they can be interchangeable in certain instances..…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 01:46 AM
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In spite would even in knowing(what the repricussion would be).. and despite would be in not knowing(ignorance to the repricussions).. in the most general terms..
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 10:06 PM
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Why do you even care about Facebook?? Fuck Facebook..
/r/askMRP05/05/16 09:41 PM
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If you actually want a dog, get it after you let go of this shit (wife).
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/16 09:36 PM
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From the video in that article.. "I found the interogation to be extremely shameful" The fuck?? I thought interogations were supposed to be "I'll agree with whatever you deem as the truth" Guess I've been doing it wrong..
/r/TheRedPill25/03/16 01:08 PM
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Why not let the plates friend drop off the face of the earth and let the plate decide if she wants to shatter herself here?? She might actually start spinning more stable if she was getting wobbly..
/r/askTRP09/03/16 03:12 AM
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That's true.. but no point in NOT implementing a boundary for those in attendance.. doesn't mean you take any shit or even ever acknowledge anything she ever says again.. but like fuck anyone who witnessed what transpired won't gain a little respect for staying stoic and continuing on.. not to mention that bitch probably gets wet..
/r/askTRP09/03/16 03:08 AM
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I do believe that he's admitting to oneitis for not one but two doorknobs (everyone gets a turn)
/r/askTRP06/03/16 02:07 PM
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So she's slept with less than 5 people in her life.. they just all seemed to be your friends?? And you want to ltr this bitch?? Are you fist fucking me right now?? Where the fuck is your abundance..
/r/askTRP06/03/16 01:58 PM
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I just cracked WISNIFG.. I guess I don't consiously blame others.. but I consiously blame myself.. which I think is a good thing.. though I have to harness it and not let it control me..
/r/askMRP13/02/16 09:17 PM
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Straight up thank you..
/r/askMRP13/02/16 08:58 PM
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At what point did I say I wasn't a victim?
/r/askMRP13/02/16 08:57 PM
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I haven't read shit about shit.. microexpressions and all the other shit you're talking about.. this has been me my entire life.. making sure not to piss off mommy.. realising that the bitch was going to blow and trying to diffuse before the nuke went off.. I'm not saying I'm some fucking pariah.. Everyone wants me to kill the victim mentality.. which I understand.. and trust me or not.. I have been balls deep working on that shit.. Last victim puke here: my father was a man crippled by divorce.…
/r/askMRP13/02/16 07:46 PM
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That's so true.. yet when I shut my mouth the codependent maker keeps going until I can't take it.. and I snap back.. I'd much rather walk away and go do my own thing.. only to be presented with a "where we going?" And she will be in my car before I have even started it.. she cases me in and wonders why I act like a cornered raccoon..
/r/askMRP13/02/16 07:31 PM
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Sure. Do that.. but only if you have the frame to not be butthurt when it isn't received the way you want it to be.. It will not go well unless she bought it herself.. or her pussy would already be a slave for your dick.
/r/askMRP13/02/16 05:07 AM
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Makes way more sense.. hope you have some martial art training taking on 4/5 guys..
/r/TheRedPill07/02/16 01:37 PM
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That would make you a white knight..
/r/TheRedPill07/02/16 01:33 PM
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I also have at times crippling anxiety.. and sure a good ol' "buck up champ" from a quote eases my anxiety for that split second.. but getting off my ass and forcing myself to do something is where the gold lies.. Motivation is mental masterbation.. Feels good.. but its not the real deal..
/r/askTRP05/02/16 05:13 PM
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Not only to solve their problems, but give them credit for being part of the problem solving..
/r/askTRP31/01/16 02:15 AM
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I felt dangerous and watched it with my live in LTR.. though i wouldnt suggest it.. i had a shit ton of fun with it.. The shit was abundant.. im a misogynist in her eyes.. though she agrees with me more often than not.. if she knows its gender based its full storm.. otherwise she's kinda smart.. After reading the title i said out loud "this will be amazing or laughable" I chose my own adventure today.. and took the scenic route..
/r/askTRP31/01/16 01:58 AM
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Here's another gem.. pay attention to who's laughing.. and his closing line is AMAZEBALLS laugh out loud.. https://www.ted.com/talks/michael_kimmel_why_gender_equality_is_good_for_everyone_men_included?language=en
/r/askTRP30/01/16 08:17 PM
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I was listening and keeping an open mind until the graphic where the men move over to the women's side..
/r/askTRP30/01/16 06:15 PM
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I'd say it has less to do with the behaviours that led up to it and more about how you handle the aftermath.. You could have been suave as fuck before hand.. you could have been an asshole before hand.. And she still could drop that shit on you.. I personally would not have used "thats unfortunate".. if it worked for you thats great.. though I have seen that invite more tests.. Hence me saying ignore.. STFU and continue on having a good time..
/r/askTRP30/01/16 02:33 PM
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Being called sweet, cute, adorable, sensitive, accommodating or any other of the like.. are ways of keeping you in a box.. As a man you don't need that validation.. So step outside of that box.. completely ignore.
/r/askTRP30/01/16 02:08 PM
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Go along with it all and make it a goal to bang one of the feminists in the class.. then smile and shake the hand of her hamster.. Because there is no way any self respecting woman would ever let herself be caveman fucked..
/r/askTRP30/01/16 02:01 PM
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You do realize that she thinks she won and became empowered with the "we aren't having sex" same bed fiasco.. she wanted to fuck.. Whether you wanted to or not.. her hamster is painting you as an orbiter..
/r/askTRP30/01/16 01:53 PM
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What was the dialogue? And did it come across as try hard?
/r/askTRP30/01/16 01:34 PM
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Thank you for your insight.. I have been thinking of moving back to my (dominant)bloodline home.. though technically Romanian moved to hungary then canada..
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 04:52 AM
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Holy fuck.. thanks for the response!! And the shit test(s) that will be endured furthering research on this subject!! I won't put words in you mouth.. im drawing my own conclusions here.. Jews and feminists are playing the same game..
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 03:52 AM
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You make a great point.. the suicide of a teen girl due to online bullying makes massive headlines.. though there's probably a lot of boys who swallow their shame and just for the lack of a better term "hide in the corner" when it happens to them.. and then guess what.. that's when a school shooting happens.. Probably no connection though..
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 02:08 AM
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Could you point me to something about this? Hungary specifically. You've piqued my interest.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/16 01:55 AM
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Then let that thought resonate within your head for a day.. ignore your own hamster.. tire that fucker out by hitting the gym (or for me carry well over 1000lbs a day on my shoulder) that's where you can trust your thoughts.. beat that hamster bitch down with your right to logic.. Unless you plucked her early.. she's been ridden harder.. and probably put away wet(some people don't know how to take care of their tools.. or don't care to) Bottom line.. use that time to get as angry as you want as …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/16 05:19 AM
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I'd X-post this question there.. you might get more relative advice..
/r/askTRP24/01/16 12:56 PM
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Or getting his dick wet.. blood=cheap lube..
/r/askTRP24/01/16 02:02 AM
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http://i.imgur.com/4dBFbZW.jpg
/r/askTRP24/01/16 12:43 AM
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Up vote for the blunt delivery.. i don't get the worry about replacing the tampon with your dick.. If it bothers you that much take her in the shower.. the water slows/stops the flow..
/r/askTRP24/01/16 12:28 AM
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"See frank over there? (Pointing at older stranger at another table), frank and his wife Jody went on a trip to Venice 23 years ago, and i don't think you would be able to handle the details.. but it involved a cow, 3 barmaids, and an 8ball of coke.."
/r/askTRP24/01/16 12:19 AM
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The daughter being the oak for pops is key.. so long as it isn't used as a crutch.. It damages both of them if it continues.. She's there helping him back up on to his feet.. but don't think for a second that she won't need her pops to be the oak in a few years.. Use her oaking for you as a reminder that you need to be the biggest oak around..
/r/MarriedRedPill24/01/16 12:11 AM
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Lol! Unless you have a gorgeous dick..
/r/askTRP23/01/16 01:18 AM
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I understand the worry of coming across as creepy/obsessed/needy/no options. That being said, and me being who i am would play with it. After noticing the awkward creepy vibe, say something along the lines of "what can i say, i have a good memory." Than make up an absurd story about someone in the room. Whether you know them or not. Keep it simple but absurd. If you know the person keep it almost believable.. if you don't, like a patron at a different table in a restaurant go off the rails on ab…
/r/askTRP23/01/16 01:09 AM
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R/redpillnonmonogamy
/r/askTRP22/01/16 03:10 AM
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I can appreciate that.. it does smell funky.. im not near as enthusiastic about it as i used to be.. but if im feeling it.. it won't stop me..
/r/askTRP22/01/16 03:05 AM
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Period week is still fuck week.. unless you cry at the sight of blood.. That's on you.. Nothing "gross" about shower sex..
/r/askTRP21/01/16 04:18 AM
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If youre worried about saying the first thing that comes to your mind with a shit eating grin.. it won't work.. You are way to apprehensive about this shit.. be playful.. be fun.. pretend its the old lady at the pet store with cats everywhere if it puts a smile on your face.. just say something..
/r/askTRP21/01/16 04:08 AM
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Hes obviously not ready for that level.. maybe he should try "okay. Have a good night"
/r/askTRP21/01/16 04:03 AM
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What's ends up being more important than the pass or the fail is that you become outcome independant of whether it was a pass or a fail.. You did what you needed to do.. you drew a line.. if she was ignoring you after that she was respecting that line.. If she ended up screaming like a shrew over you pointing out you won't be talked to in that way, it would be a way bigger issue.. so she has at least a shred of respect for you.. Did she stamp around like a child for a while?? But not bother you?…
/r/askMRP21/01/16 03:57 AM
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I can't paste a link (on mobile).. but google "blackdragon three types" Should be the second..
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/16 09:11 PM
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Agreed.. one big point to make on top of this is to not try and be the "fixer" She is more than likely a "strong independant woomanzz" and doesnt want you telling her what to do.. There is a post on blackdragon that breaks down the three types of women you will encounter.. And the "strong independant" woman ends up being a "dependant dominant".. aka. Doesnt want someone to tell them what to do.. but feelz they need to be bossy.. Arm yourself with that knowledge and amused mastery becomes gold..
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/16 08:43 PM
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Im not here to disagree, as we are technically on the same side.. That being said i question your use of strong independent woman.. Could you describe what you mean by that? Edit: mods feel free to remove this if you don't think its a valid question..
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/16 08:17 PM
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Also a way of grabbing some badass points.. eyepatches are badass..
/r/askTRP17/01/16 02:24 PM
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What's the best way to bag beta bux? She dangle that sex in front of them.. makes them willing to do anything to acquire from her what they could never acquire for themselves..
/r/askTRP16/01/16 01:39 AM
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No shit right.. $95 makes her a hooker (read:covert contract).. She didnt feelz it (read: your game sucks) Don't ask what to do.. youre the man right? Dictate when you're available for both.. go with A for the time being.. let B linger (read: abundance mentality) Working this hard for it isn't going to get you anywhere but frustrated..
/r/askTRP14/01/16 04:57 AM
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Should have scrolled farther down.. Woody Allen was the first thing that came to mind.. ended up leaving his wife for the Asian they adopted.. is that right?
/r/askTRP14/01/16 04:47 AM
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Woody Allen?
/r/askTRP14/01/16 04:44 AM
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I understand your stance, though i don't agree.. If one wants to spin plates their entire life, that is their choice. But if one is seeking an LTR (which by the way bothers me that i feel compelled to use "an" when long term relationship doesnt start with a vowel) or even marriage (as that still seems an option for some) and they have their head in the right place, there would be a checklist (either conscious or subconscious) in place of whether the person (assumably woman) meets those standards…
/r/askTRP14/01/16 04:35 AM
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Motivation is mental masturbation.. discipline and dedication is fucking the LMR..
/r/askTRP14/01/16 04:06 AM
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Watched it again last night.. and yeah.. its good.. but i agree that it has no place being part of the evil dead franchise.. I liked the fear factor being turned up.. i thought that was amazing.. but losing the campy, schticky absurd humour makes it lackluster at best.. and the you go grrrll aspect of a female ash kinda ruined it as well.. I'd be interested to see if they try and continue the "rebirth".. i doubt it.. ash vs evil dead deserves those resources more.. There are tonnes of RP truth i…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 05:58 PM
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You're a punching bag because you allow yourself to be a punching bag.. From the sounds of your victim puke, you haven't done so much as draw a line in sand that shouldn't be crossed.. those lines need to be drawn with something way more durable.. i can kick your line in the sand and break it.. but watch me try and break a line you paint with the shit they put on roads.. From what im hearing is that you don't respect yourself enough to set boundaries.. or you have them.. but don't enforce them..…
/r/askTRP10/01/16 02:58 PM
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RP is about living your life the way you want to live it.. I may be wrong here, but i don't think OP is using "ideal" as a universal term.. Your "ideal" will be different from mine, as we are different people with different goals.. It would only be blue pill thinking if his "ideal" was that bitch from frozen, or some unicorn made out of snowflakes.. Call me blue pill all you'd like.. but i have an idea in my head of how i want MY woman to be.. that would be my "ideal".. because she would then fi…
/r/askTRP10/01/16 02:24 PM
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He wouldnt let me leave anything.. and was insulted that i tried.. he explained how it was built in to their wage or the pricing.. i don't remember which tbh.. Trying to remember the exact city on a river cruise will be difficult.. but it was a pretty famous (for the area) German pub/restaurant..
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/16 11:35 AM
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Realize that she is (probably) in a "relationship"(read: enjoying the pump and dump for now) and looking for a backup(orbiter).. Without more information on your interactions (he said then she said) youre only gunna get feel good answers..
/r/askTRP10/01/16 04:49 AM
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So why did my waiter scoff at me when i tried? (Germany)
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/16 04:32 AM
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Did you watch the 2013 "re-imagining" evil dead? I started it.. and it was pretty good from what i saw, but haven't finished it yet.. The humour doesnt seem to be there, but they dialed the terror factor up BIG time.. girlfriend was worried about nightmares.. lol.. in hindsight probably not the best movie for christmas eve..
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 03:23 PM
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The entire Evil Dead franchise is amazing. My step dad introduced me at a young age (probably younger than my mother would have liked), and i thank him for it!
/r/TheRedPill08/01/16 11:22 PM
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I truly dont think these are comfort tests.. And i come to that conclusion from how worried you are about them.. They seem more like orbiter application forms.. and you're worried about filling them out wrong..
/r/askTRP07/01/16 12:41 AM
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Nice IDGAF.. attempt.. a question wouldn't have been asked if you truly didn't give a fuck..
/r/askTRP06/01/16 02:43 AM
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Buying a Ferrari and buying "genetics" fall in to different columns in my personal opinion.. my kid might inherit the Ferrari.. but he has no choice on the genes.. EDIT: doesn't that kind of make brad Pitt seem a little insecure.. which would go against some pretty basic RP philosophy?
/r/askTRP02/01/16 03:36 AM
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Like looking for another motivational quote when the high of the last one wears off..
/r/TheRedPill02/01/16 02:19 AM
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I like what you did there.. big lol.. EDIT: Down vote away.. but preaching about discipline and then saying "i was gunna but didnt" I thought i was supposed to laugh..
/r/TheRedPill02/01/16 02:12 AM
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"That's abusive!! How could you say such things!!" Said no red piller ever........... Holy fuck.. not PC enough for a laugh? Guess im in the wrong sub.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 03:47 AM
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3 months is in the probationary period still.. much like with a new job.. in the first 3 months you can be fired with no need for an explanation..
/r/askTRP27/12/15 06:32 PM
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Ill be the guy who turns my nose up to this.. Plastic surgery is for women.. its the easy quick way.. to "buy" a few more years of SMV rank.. Men work for status.. they don't buy it.. If lifting doesnt get you "attractive".. then excel in other areas.. Or.. Go get botox. Your call men.. Does a man take the easy way??
/r/askTRP27/12/15 05:37 AM
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Cunt is a derogatory word right up there with the big "N".. That's not to say it doesnt have its place. How would you define a cunt? I would personally describe it as a woman/man who creates more issue than is needed over a non issue for the sole sake of creating the issue.. I don't think you fucking his girlfriend falls within that definition.. unless you turned down an HB9 for the sole purpose of spite fucking his girlfriend.. You pulled.. kudos.. unless youre seeking validation for your actio…
/r/askTRP27/12/15 05:28 AM
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Scarcity mentality.. find the abundance.. then move on.. EDIT: tell me a joke
/r/askTRP27/12/15 05:12 AM
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Don't talk to boring people.. why would you spend a fuck trying to draw out conversation? You get a finite amount of fucked to give. Don't waste them.. Either youre doing it wrong, or they're not worth it.
/r/askTRP27/12/15 05:10 AM
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You don't tell yourself shit.. you do shit.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 05:19 AM
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Can't have a tinder account without a facebook account.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 04:39 AM
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If youre smiling, you're in your frame. AS LONG AS it doesnt matter what is is said(outcome independence/DGAF/willing to walk away), and you are still smiling, you are still in your frame. Don't be afraid to throw a quick flash of confusion/disgust after she says something stupid/shit testy.. (stay playful) Just make sure youre smiling when you respond.(keep it witty, playful, and not in anyway defensive, or even worse accusatory of her level of incompetence) she will respond better to being pla…
/r/askTRP24/12/15 04:29 AM
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I'm sure you have a post I'd like to read. So thank you.
/r/askTRP05/12/15 06:02 AM
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Did you know there was R/redpillnonmonogamy.. its fairly slow but its there..
/r/askTRP05/12/15 12:03 AM
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It was always "about the articles" thanks to the beta bitches that trumpeted that go to line because they couldn't own that woman being hotter than their wife.. And its probably those same beta bitches that buy the firefighter calendar for their wives..
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/15 01:55 AM
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Vetting is only the first step.. owning your life is the second..
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 02:44 AM
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Fuck the whole happy wife happy life bullshit.. was HE happy?? If so they were doing it right.. and i mean happy.. not throw on a halfassed smile for photos happy.. When looking at grandparents, the man might be senilish happy.. thats when you look to the woman.. if she's still happy.. start learning what made it work.
/r/askTRP28/11/15 07:24 AM
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Still don't get it.. someone needs to edit that video and put those cartoonish puffs of smoke coming out of her ears when the hamster explodes..
/r/TheRedPill28/11/15 07:12 AM
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Be safe and wear a condom and vette properly.. fuck people looking to get offended..
/r/TheRedPill28/11/15 07:07 AM
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Really don't get the downvotes
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 11:22 PM
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Yes DEER..
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/15 05:21 PM
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The "on the other" sounds like a squeaky wheel.. don't want that hamster working too hard.. oil it..
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/15 12:05 AM
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Several days doesnt mean shit.. cramming might have gotten you through college. But it doesnt mean shit here.. If you actually are the unicorn alpha that truly just stumbled, keep on your path.. If you are actually lying to yourself, and trying to save face.. it will find a way to bite you in the ass.. Karma is usually the cunt.. not your wife..
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/15 07:13 PM
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Overthinking? Probably.. but who has come here without over thinking (ties right in with covert contracts) Kudos.. youre getting it
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/15 04:56 AM
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This seems like you're more angry about it than she probably is.. not to mention the fact that you are taking a molehill and turning it in to a mountain by being offended by something that has expressly been advised against (a sore spot (for you or her i wonder)) Am i missing the mark here? Looking forward to your reply.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/15 04:35 AM
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I'd say its better than putting my knee on the ground for the sake of chivalry. (P.s. its dead.. go hug a feminist for that one)
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/15 04:28 AM
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Absolutely.. delivery is key.. I'd love to see more standup related theory in this sub.. Not just "here is a link of something funny" But those amazing fuckers handle shit.. "Dealing with hecklers" - anyone?? EDIT: autocorrect correction
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/15 04:11 AM
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Couldn't agree more. Ive always been a subtle negger before I even knew there was a term for it.. It has always seemed to grow tiresome (for her, aka cruel to her) in LTR status.. But to be honest i wasn't the best captain.. I afforded myself the luxury of instant attraction and expected it to last.. Oops..
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/15 03:56 AM
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My sentiments exactly.. If its LTR, you should be past negging.. Game gets you there.. but your life takes you the rest of the way.. choose your personal path.. and be ready for resistance..
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/15 05:35 AM
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When she steps in line. There's nothing wrong with congratulating her on doing something right. That's the oak.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/15 12:51 AM
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It's a really shitty feeling knowing the words that are coming out of her mouth are just that, words.. There's no truth behind them, it's manipulation.. I'm willing to wager that she throws the "and SOMEHOW I'm going to end up apologizing for this tomorrow" shit test. I never figured out how to pass that one properly, but it has fallen out of her repertoire since it has become a disengagement point for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/15 04:12 AM
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Only a good idea if YOU can skate.. Not sayin, just sayin.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/15 05:19 AM
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While I agree with you with the comments for the BP lurkers, if that was how she, or most other women would handle it.. I'm sure this sub wouldn't exist.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/15 05:09 AM
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It's the anger phase. And try-hard canned responses and still a covert contract all rolled into one.. I had a conversation with my sensei(who is also a good buddy) today and we were talking about self defenses, at the start they teach you a string of movements(canned reaction), but you'll eventually after enough practice, you'll look at that canned reaction as useless because you're so able to read the situation that you will act on instinct, not react. "One day you will be a wordsmith, but unti…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/15 04:55 AM
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"are you kidding me?" Is bitching, it feeds the hamster, in no way will it "murder" it. There is no way would that end well for OP. And the calling her on her bullshit comment is WAY too long winded.. It's feely, and WAY too LOGICAL to be effective.. either shut the fuck up and go about your business, or A&A(to absolute absurdity, no holds barred, don't giggle while saying it, but have that about to break into laughter look on your face, if she fires back something you're not ready for(and she w…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/15 04:41 AM
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You're spot on on the OI. And she's doubling down on the shit test because she's scared she's losing control. OP owned up to being a drunk captain in the past, it only makes sense that she is going to test harder when he starts demonstrating that very same OI that she wants him to "just get" The road to alpha is always a longer road from beta. OP - you're doing it right.. You just need to keep at it.. It's not going to change overnight.. Expect a ton of pushback.. Just don't let it push you over…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/15 04:25 AM
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Just this past week it occurred to me that you can't DEMAND (desire, respect, a raise, your dog to obey, your children listen), but you can sure as fuck COMMAND it. DEMANDING is a covert contract(I say this, therefore you should do this) COMMANDING is leading. If you're commanding from a weak position you're actually DEMANDING, as opposed to COMMANDING.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/15 04:31 AM
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I can only assume he meant that dating a women significantly older will equate her to being addicted to the pre-wall.. The transition period between AF/BB.. She wants the young "prey" as the cougar stills wants fun, but if you over invest, she'll follow the money. Because even though he over invests as well.. She doesn't have to have sex with him and still gets the benefit of supplemental income. EDIT: or you get out alpha'd but is an alpha looking for a significantly older woman? (No troll)
/r/TheRedPill04/11/15 04:59 AM
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Yup, tough pill. She doesn't care I'm putting in full time work plus at least three hours a night at the house were currently trying to sell for the last 2 months. But I don't acknowledge what she got for the Halloween party I could give two shits about tomorrow night in the new house. Not her issue.. Call me jaded, but I thought the earth revolved around the sun.
/r/askMRP31/10/15 03:33 AM
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Obscure but relevant: Cash, Johnny cash auto(ish)biography
/r/askMRP31/10/15 03:22 AM
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Amazeballs
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/15 05:07 AM
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Setting frame is more important than getting to know someone, IMHO. I agree with making assumptions more than asking questions. You're smart, you've read the sidebar, pick up on something she has said or done, and play with (tease) her on it. Have you ever opened on a girl with a serious question about herself? How'd that work out for you? Women want to veil themselves from who they ACTUALLY are.. Play into THEIR "mystery". AWALT.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 04:43 AM
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Wouldn't that make her a FWB more than a plate? I think you're either more invested in her than you think, or she has found better "options". Or both.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 04:06 AM
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It'd be a province for me, but valid and useful advice regardless!! Thank you I wouldn't have thought about that..
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/15 07:09 PM
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Valid point.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/15 03:25 PM
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Made the mistake of buying a house, then further made the mistake of moving to a much better area just recently with an opportunity I couldn't afford to pass up.. I plan on soft nexting/plating, only due to the fact that at this moment I can't afford the place on my own. It's not going to be easy.. But I put myself in this situation. And it's up to me to find a way out of it.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/15 03:01 PM
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Nah.. This is my decision, it's a live in LTR not a marriage, I can walk away with no kids. She's been a shit storm for way to long. Was thinking about askTRPing downgrading live in Live-in LTR to plate. I'm not saving this one. I understand this now.. EDIT: I don't want to save it.. Edit 2: thanks though.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/15 02:01 AM
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As stated in a previous reply, I've been radio silent for two days, though I'm including logistics in that as well. I've found that's her way of pulling me back in to her frame.. If I don't answer 3-4 of her validation texts she will create a logistics text.. And use it as a guise to drop some feelz or some other bullshit.. Not sure if this is any help in this situation. Just passing on notes..
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/15 01:44 AM
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How long do you stew? I was doing the same thing you describe, to no avail. I'm on day two of radio silence after three repeated days of disrespect (read freak out) shown on her part. The last two of the times were after turning down sex that wasn't working for me. First time (morning blowout after I could tell it was duty), next night she demanded what she wanted and I didn't comply (wet as fuck, told her she's doesn't demand), blowout ensued. went radio quiet after that. When I only stewed in …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/15 01:36 AM
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I can only speak for myself, but the repeated asking of something what is bothering me tends to bother me more, I'm trying to work through my own shit. Add on top of that, even though you have always been making more, you just doubled it! He's feeling like less of a person, maybe having anxiety of arrested development. Leave if you think it's best, but maybe support without the undertone of being better than him would help him get through it.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/15 12:44 AM
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Let's start a revolution.. Don't buy gas monday.. That'll show big oil.. Ah fack.. It's Tuesday now.. And I need gas..
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 02:31 AM
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Well played sir.. Well played.. Read it, no.. I listen, I'm an audiobook guy due to time constraints(12-14hr days) and available "commute" time.. Though I plan on buying EVERY suggested book once I'm done selling my old property and have my office set up in the new house.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/15 02:15 AM
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I was right with you, until you supplicated to that shit storm SJW..
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/15 02:06 AM
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Alright tiny.. Let's have have it out.. I can tell to haven't read shit.. And if you have, you're letting you feels get in the way much like a woman would. So maybe read more. If you want to trumpet against religion, by all means have at'er.. But try your tiny little testicles of to make it something worthy of someone else's time.. You sound like my girlfriend bitching about god knows whatever.. Form an opinion.. Make it make sense.. I eagerly await your reply..
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/15 01:59 AM
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No clue why this was downvoted..
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/15 01:51 AM
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I'd have to agree, though the "cute" is her putting herself above you. It's a shit test. And in my opinion, IDGAF, alongside a hefty dose of AA were in order.. Women don't fuck the cute ones..
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/15 01:38 AM
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Muslim brigade??
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/15 01:08 AM
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Regardless of your religious beliefs, the good book is the good book for a reason. I personally have never been religious. Thought my Facebook page says under the religion tab "I like the morals, not the rules" Trust the morals, make your own rules..
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/15 01:04 AM
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In no way am I arguing with your points, though,(bring on the down votes), "if your son turns out to be gay" was a horrible way of saying it.. If you haven't read it yet, I suggest how to win friends, and influence people-dale Carnegie If you have, have a second go at it.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/15 12:48 AM
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Stoicism Week 2015 https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3o52ly/stoicism_week_2015/
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/15 08:21 PM
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"I'm sure you would! I've seen orange is the new black, those bitches will fuck anything"
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/15 02:32 AM
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👍👍😂
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/15 03:07 AM
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One thing if like to a add is that becoming a man goes WAY beyond reading the sidebar.. It's about addressing the situations that appear in front of you in the best way you are capable. If that means doing research for a month on electrical theory and practice, then so be it (if you have the time). A man can't do everything, he can do what he can do. As has been said, outsourcing is a viable option if you can afford it. Otherwise, spend the time to learn. The sidebar isn't the bible for electric…
/r/askMRP07/10/15 03:26 AM
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It doesn't bother me in the least, just pointing out that he might have left out the rabbit-hole.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/15 02:16 AM
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To be honest I found my way here by googling "why does my girlfriend try to piss me off" took a little rabbit-holing to get all the way here through..
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/15 02:04 AM
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The west is a "group think" mentality, I'm a canadian, and I don't have enough fingers on my hands to count the number of places in Europe I'd love to call home.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 08:02 AM
1

Your woman is a reflection of you, if she has low self esteem it's probably because you yourself have low self esteem. The way I'm starting to understand it, is that self esteem and SMV are intrinsically connected. Therefore, you raising your SMV via confidence, allows you to be less "nice guy" harpy(covert contracting), and it actually puts her more at ease, making those types of comments playful teasing vs. "nice guy" knockdowns. And thats the "try hard"(anger) phase at work. It's not fun. Tha…
/r/askMRP22/09/15 04:45 AM
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I agree on every front. And to be honest, it wasn't too long ago that I couldn't do it yet!
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/15 12:22 PM
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"I know." Nuff said.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/15 05:39 AM
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"You shouldn't fear me leaving you for another woman, you should fear me leaving you for no one." I wish like fuck I could remember who said it. I'd suggest internalizing it, over saying it to her, it helps with AM. But be ready for shit storms if you say it.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/15 05:31 AM
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I know I got baggage and unresolved issues but I am trying to deal with them head on and get moving forward for me. Lose the "but" and the "trying to", then put an "ing" on the end of "deal".. It's all mindset brother..
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/15 05:02 AM
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I think I'd put my money on flipping the script. She's all talk. Flipping the script here would make her get off her ass and have to go get a test BEFORE you even had to do anything. Let's be honest, she either has a real RATIONAL reason to make the demand, or it's talk. I'm not a betting man, which should bear some weight when it comes to me putting money on something.. Though I accept any paradigm shifts that come my way.. EDIT: I totally agree with the "if you think you've gone too far, you h…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/15 04:35 AM
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Holy fuck late reply. My bad. I'd say it was a test to see if you'd work harder to gain her approval(read as a test to see if you were an orbiter or an alpha). The harder you work to seek her approval, the less likely she will seek your approval. EDIT: have you read art of seduction yet??
/r/askTRP20/09/15 04:27 AM
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Do a favour to future generations of men, nip that shit..
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/15 04:01 AM
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Best part is the fact that you owned it, a lesser man would not have even posted it. Or at the very least not replied to a call out.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/15 03:57 AM
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Agreed..
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/15 03:51 AM
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I would have to disagree, what you suggested is more IDGAF. Flipping the script would be more of a "I can absolutely go get the test, but not until you hand me your results" It's a shit test, use your BETTER judgement, and handle it accordingly. I do agree with the approach, laugh it off. She's got nothing. Though if she persists, make her get the test first. Will she acta?? Or is it verba??
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/15 03:50 AM
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That's actually the perfect time to step up the ass slapping!! If she reacts poorly to it, go build a table(feel free to insert your preferred hobby here, as long as something comes of it outside of a "level up", or go lift) As long as you don't react poorly you're free to do whatever the fuck you want. If you do react poorly, you're back to day 1..
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/15 03:12 AM
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Don't take my word as gospel, though I believe it's a push/pull, though they seem like two different strategies, they are actually both part of the same strategy. Dread being the push, and attention being the pull. Just make sure the attention is assertive attention, not covert contract attention. Others will be able to explain/expand for sure.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/15 01:32 AM
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If you don't mind audiobooks(though I think the pdf and ePub are in the zip as well) https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B2tCjHX8D1TaaEEyeWRKQ3pibEU/view?usp=docslist_api
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 10:06 PM
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Go to the bathroom, take a leak. I'm sure you noticed your balls were still there. That's a good sign!! Now use them..
/r/askTRP22/08/15 05:04 AM
1

Drunk and mobile opinion(hence the no format) M: If you still want me to come I will, but be honest if you would rather have fun with your friends, I dont want to drive up and have it be awkward or weird. H:I want you to come! We're all gonna have fun together its not like anyones gonna be left out H:If you dont come I will be deeply offended lol M: Lol oh yeah? Whose frame are you in here?? You dropped your shield with "if you still want me to come" what happened after that statement was almost…
/r/askTRP22/08/15 04:50 AM
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Have you read (or listened to) the art of seduction -Robert Greene, yet?? Classic push/pull.. She's seducing the fuck out of you.. Get on top of it(the game) or get seduced by a cleopatra.. EDIT: on mobile or I'd provide a link..
/r/askTRP21/08/15 05:12 AM
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I always go for the win-win.. Tag team effort.. Throw her on the spit..
/r/askTRP18/08/15 10:22 PM
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I guess it'd be best here to not respond??
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 05:07 AM
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