Push/pull: girl couldn't take pulls.

MeatCurtainRod · 2016-01-30T03:43:15+00:00

Sounds like your application of TRP skills are severely lacking. The fact that the girl saw right through your PUA and called you out, indicates she has total frame over you, and you failed a basic shit test.

Chin up, next her try again with another girl.

idgaf- · 2016-01-29T17:05:12+00:00

Pulling is where you "pull the girl toward you", ie say something nice or put on a sexual vibe.

Push is where you gently push her away with a light joke. Or just stop pulling and return to a platonic vibe. It has to be fun and well calibrated.

Why do you assume it's her problem? You miscalibrated. You pushed too hard. Maybe you were "trying something you read on the internet" and not reading the situation.

FrameWalker · 2016-01-29T18:06:06+00:00

I focused on push pull dynamics for a few months. Very hard to calibrate. Here is my system that works pretty well. I just focus on logistics and screening her out if she's not dtf. I touch her side, leg or butt after fifteen minutes exactly once, then do small talk for an hour and then invite her over. Minimal effort.

This is can be thought kfpull/push. You show initial interest once, and then you back off (push ) until closing time (pull)

Girls are used to guys "gaming" and trying hard. Less is more.

The only time I add more is if I'm getting horny while talking to her and the tension is high. In that case every time they say something that makes me like them, I touch them. After a few times I might even kiss them, but it's rare to find someone who's cool enough.

RedPillJax · 2016-01-29T19:23:51+00:00

Sounds like you just did a whole lot of negging without any pull to back it up at all.

Or, your SMV could've been too low to pull it off.

A handsome, fit man who takes care of himself negging is attractive. A fat slob beta negging just gets ignored.

NightwingTRP · 2016-01-29T19:28:10+00:00

Seems like she views you as low-SMV. You confirmed it when you took her seriously. Girls are not to be taken seriously. That is not their purpose on this earth.

MrFuckupKing · 2016-01-29T22:12:10+00:00

Describe how you did the pulls.

The answer may be in there.

It was her perception and interpretation of what you were doing as to why (meaning she gave) that probably caused her to pull away.

Your pulls may have pushed her away (made her defensive so prevented attraction)

She became hostile.

This is easy to do with women depending on where their head is at concerning men in general.

So much of game is about being able to size up a woman quickly and constantly. It is being in the flow.

It reminds me of hunting prey while dancing with it at the same time.

To be both observer and participant at the same time.

Seducing women is an excellent way to build life skills that you can use in all relations with people.

Title	Push/pull: girl couldn't take pulls.
Author	Krainz
Upvotes	10
Comments	19
Date	January 29, 2016 4:40 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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