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That gives me reassurance.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 09:18 PM
2

How can I build abundance mindset?
/r/askTRP20/06/21 09:11 PM
-2

Why am I so scared of letting go?
/r/askTRP20/06/21 09:10 PM
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She just somehow got into my room because I forgot to lock the door and she said ‘why don’t you want to talk about things now’ ‘you see this is the problem with the relationship, its only ever on your terms’ after I asked to her politely to leave several more times she said ‘fine only because I respect you, unlike you’ (That was the last thing I wanted, I just wanted to chill out and watch the football)
/r/askTRP17/03/21 08:13 PM
1

I probably have failed a few things, she was never mine anyway... just my turn
/r/askTRP17/03/21 07:55 PM
1

She has ended up at my flat and said she wants ‘to talk’ my flat mate must of invited her over. I don’t want to talk to her What would I even have to say I don’t really care about this drama I think its probably something deeper than what happened earlier
/r/askTRP17/03/21 07:54 PM
1

You mean by not asking whats up? Etc...
/r/askTRP03/03/21 04:23 PM
1

Should I care that I’ve pissed her off though?
/r/askTRP03/03/21 01:28 PM
-3

Bro I can get over it in a heart beat but surely she deserves a soft next for her petty reaction.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 12:01 PM
0

Is it my fault she can’t handle a joke? If she said that to me I wouldn’t act up it just unnecessary drama which I don’t need. I don’t expect that sort of behaviour from her.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 11:59 AM
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We was joking around i.e being sarcastic towards each other beforehand so it wasn’t out of context. I didn’t want her to stay because we’ve set boundaries that we sleep separately during the week and she was planning on leaving anyway sometime soon.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 11:29 AM
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I want to soft next because I found it disrespectful in the manor in which she left i.e ignoring me and for getting in a mood about a joke, its petty behaviour. I don’t even remember the entire conversation but. the last two things were said was ‘i’ll just leave then’ and I replied ‘bye then’ after a series of sarcastic jokes towards each other before hand so It wasn’t just out of the blue.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 11:26 AM
-1

I sound like a child for not caring about her reaction because It was only a joke, sure thing buddy.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 11:23 AM
1

This situation is something really petty and stupid I know. Im not worried, its not even that deep to be honest, its just that I haven’t applied a soft next before and was curious about other people’s opinions.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 11:22 AM
1

We were both joking around though and she was the one who took it seriously. As I said she was going to leave anyway and she can be socially awkward so therefore I believe she used that as an excuse to leave.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 11:05 AM
2

Okay I’ll wear one
/r/askTRP28/02/21 12:05 AM
1

Agree with the first part, not the second.
/r/askTRP27/02/21 11:55 PM
2

Its most likely because of what I said, that it is her friends getting on to her about it.... I’ve witnessed it multiple times with some her friends even saying it in front of us together when we’re having conversation about sex.
/r/askTRP27/02/21 09:31 PM
1

A good sign I’m getting cucked?
/r/askTRP27/02/21 09:27 PM
2

True
/r/askTRP27/02/21 09:26 PM
-8

If she’s gonna start making we wear a condom. Whats next?
/r/askTRP27/02/21 09:06 PM
1

All three?
/r/askTRP13/02/21 10:42 PM
1

Doesn’t work they just resent you more for pointing out their mistakes, it makes them feel like you’re their parent lmao. The worst kind of people are the ones who are the slobs and its obnoxious when they say i’ll do it when I feel like because nothing changes.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 02:48 PM
1

This is exactly what I needed to hear thanks for reassuring me, she has friends in her flat to talk to aka her male gay best friend (red flag) I know. She is just getting more and more desperate to get my attention therefore the pleading messages. I feel like I should just at least reply ‘i’ll talk to you when I’m ready’ so she’s in my frame? Or it doesn’t even deserve a response because she’s trying to manipulate me?
/r/askTRP09/02/21 10:11 PM
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She has just hit back with two more texts: ‘Please, just for a while?’ ‘I’ve hit rock bottom n I tried idk what else to do. I’m really sorry for bothering you. I’m sorry for everything’ I feel like an asshole I haven’t even replied. She has been there for me and I’m not being there for her. I genuinely feel like she has hit rock bottom. What happens if she commits suicide?
/r/askTRP09/02/21 09:45 PM
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It wasn’t really an argument it was just me saying if you can’t deal with the way I am maybe we should just break it off for a while and she was just crying then I left. Hardly failed a shit test bro.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 09:36 PM
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It was a mutual agreement although when I brought it up I said maybe we should just break it off for a while then she started crying and I left the room and I haven’t spoken to her since. We was in each others space to much, it was bound to happen I was way too invested in her and now that I’ve pulled back. It seems like she’s trying to test me because she is not used to to be not being around and to be honest I don’t even feel like I have anything to say or need to talk about the ‘argument’ at …
/r/askTRP09/02/21 09:32 PM
1

I completely agree with you and what you said has made a lot of sense to me. The question is does her text even deserve a response? (I will have to read into light amused mastery but for now I need some rest thanks for the solid response)
/r/askTRP09/02/21 09:07 PM
1

To be honest I’m tired and need to get up early tomorrow. I’m my number one priority maybe I shouldn’t be in a relationship, maybe I shouldn’t even text back who knows?
/r/askTRP09/02/21 09:01 PM
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She said she’s ready to talk to me but that doesn’t mean Im gonna cave in to her demand. I completely feel like this is a test and I don’t want to fall for it about her saying she is’int feeling good at the moment sort of shit.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 08:59 PM
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That’s it go ahead an laugh at me see if I care lmao
/r/askTRP07/02/21 09:44 PM
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How does this sound? For example: clothes rack in the background Message: nice clothes rack, there’s enough room for me to fit mine on there Any pointers? Anything I could look up to get better at this?
/r/askTRP07/02/21 06:32 PM
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Yes I could’ve come across better but that was all I could think of in the moment. Also I agree with you, I was planning on moving back so I could get a routine sorted and then this argument then this just happened, lesson learned.
/r/askTRP07/02/21 01:47 AM
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Still waiting for your response to my other message...
/r/askTRP04/02/21 06:37 PM
1

Well thats a funny story actually which I forgot to clear up. It was a text message from me but I was just hella high and didn’t realise she was joking when I asked her who it was. When we started seeing eachother I would always joke when she got a text from someone, I would say it that your boyfriend again. She hadn’t been on her laptop for ages and when she opens it up my text messages come through because she’s got an apple mac and I didn’t recognise the thumbnail was me.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 05:44 PM
1

If she cheats, she cheats but I’ve made the boundary clear now and she was very apologetic for what she did.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 05:14 PM
5

Make a move bro
/r/askTRP04/02/21 04:56 PM
1

I did. No feelings mentioned or involved I worded that third point incorrectly but thanks I got straight to the point.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 12:16 AM
1

Perhaps you are right, Im not gonna sit here pretending I know everything and that I’ve read all of the sidebar. The way I see things is if I was to slap other people’s arses potential LTR wouldn’t like it either so tell me what the difference is? (I can’t really backtrack now its happened)
/r/askTRP03/02/21 06:57 PM
1

I would be sad if things ended but I would get over it. On the other hand there are plenty of other options out there so who knows, its up to me at the end of the day. I think i’ve resolved things for now but I don’t know what the future holds, maybe I think things are okay and there not we will just have to see.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 06:07 PM
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Just what I needed to hear, thanks!
/r/askTRP03/02/21 06:04 PM
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Its a tough situation but i’ve made my move now and she apologised and thats that at the end of the day. I told her if she wants a relationship she has to stop doing it, if she wants to continue it thats fine by me but I wont think of her as LTR material. I know she wants a relationship so its her choice.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 05:00 PM
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I just set the boundary, said it straight to her how it is and she seems very apologetic. I do see her as a potential LTR this is’int mate guarding is it because I seem to be getting conflicting feedback from the community... (Also this gay man is in a relationship so I don’t know what the fuck he think is doing, doing that to her anyway)
/r/askTRP03/02/21 04:40 PM
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Hmmm well there seems to be a lack of transparency within this community on what is right or wrong.... At the end of the day they’re slapping each others arses and if she wants to be my LTR then she has to respect my boundaries.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 04:36 PM
2

Your right, Im an attractive man and I’ve got plenty of other options why would I care?
/r/askTRP03/02/21 03:45 PM
2

Okay Im going to; Move out from their flat Apply dread If she reacts tell her how I feel Not give a fuck what happens even if its for the better or the worst
/r/askTRP03/02/21 03:15 PM
2

She just squished his butt again how the fuck do I sort this out man??? (Im literally just gonna demote her to a plate at this point)
/r/askTRP03/02/21 03:03 PM
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I’ll have to think about this as she’s a very understanding person, im sure she doesn’t mean to disrespect me but now im starting to see cracks and im not sure if she’s mature enough to handle a relationship. She has a lot high energy/playful with everyone in the flat at uni but with me which I don’t mind because I’m very chill and when its just us we chill. Just makes you wonder why though?
/r/askTRP03/02/21 02:54 PM
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I am very happy she cooks, cleans, she does things when I ask her too for me, puts on outfits I like for when we fuck, fuck everyday basically etc... Im just worried she things will become less and less over time!
/r/askTRP03/02/21 02:18 PM
1

Well... technically we’re not I haven’t asked her and neither has she asked me. We’re acting like we are even though it hasn’t been said. Kinda like an unwritten rule which everyones knows but you don’t say it.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 01:59 PM
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I have formed some sort of attachment to her, is this a problem? -We both having feelings for each other -Also we’ve been living with each other at university which now thinking about it, I shouldn’t be doing that as I’m not planning on marrying her within the next so and so months etc...
/r/askTRP03/02/21 01:39 PM
1

I feel like they would still flirt behind my back anyway. Im not even sure if there’s any point.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 01:09 PM
1

True but like I don’t know if she took me seriously though? Should I just bring it up now that im one on one with her? Saying do you think it acceptable if I, slap other people’s arses and if she says no then I could flip the table on her and ask her why she does it.... If she says yes to my question then I wouldn’t know what to say? Is there anywhere on the sidebar that could help me deal with this situation?
/r/askTRP03/02/21 01:07 PM
0

This cracked me up, her gay best friend is in a relationship as well.... and im sure his partner is not very fond of this either. When you mean in person do you mean one on one?
/r/askTRP03/02/21 12:40 PM
2

Im trying to think of the right way of going about this situation. Any pointers? (The actions that she takes doesn’t make me jealous and I don’t want to show my beta side and come across jealous if you get what I mean?)
/r/askTRP03/02/21 12:37 PM
1

Should I just pack my bags and leave without saying anything? (She hasn’t said a word since I’ve been in and out of the room)
/r/askTRP24/01/21 08:35 PM
1

How do I take it from here? Im high and i’ve got terrible anxiety about it! (She is just laying in bed listening to sad songs, since I got up and left without saying anything)
/r/askTRP24/01/21 08:31 PM
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Try saying that without a dick inside your mouth.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 01:47 AM
3

I basically said he needs to watch himself its not cool to do that and he needs to calm down in a chill way, I think he got the message. Thanks for the genuine and well thought out response. Yeah it wad a stupid thing to do. How do I act when we next bump into each other? Like it never happened? We live in the same accommodation.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 01:46 AM
-7

I have no idea what kino is?
/r/askTRP29/11/20 01:26 AM
1

Im in the same situation, I haven’t texted back since we couldn’t meet up because of lockdown.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 12:29 PM
1

Keep her interested over text or on dates?
/r/askTRP26/03/20 03:02 PM
1

Just read that particular section. You’re right but at the moment I’m not hitting anyone up because it feels like there’s no point with this whole quarantine stuff going on they will only get my attention and will have no intention of meeting up.
/r/askTRP26/03/20 11:05 AM
1

I respect that you right ABUNDANCE MENTALITY
/r/askTRP23/03/20 11:19 AM
1

So I just have to leave it a couple of weeks make her feel worried wondering where I’ve gone.... pop back into her life and plate her? Sounds simple but have you done it before? Surely they lose interest?
/r/askTRP23/03/20 11:00 AM
1

?
/r/askTRP18/03/20 06:43 PM
1

Fair enough. Well the dilemma is I’ve said come hang mine Friday but because of the virus she might not be able to as she is meant to be self-isolating. So the plans aren’t concrete in all fairness. What should I do? Message her on the day and confirm plans?
/r/askTRP18/03/20 05:37 PM
1

So I might as well just text her cancelling this weeks plan then? (Act as if I’ve got something better to do?)
/r/askTRP18/03/20 05:26 PM
1

She’ll come back if she knows whats good
/r/askTRP18/03/20 05:18 PM
1

I disagree for now I guess time will only tell
/r/askTRP18/03/20 05:16 PM
1

First of all thank you for taking the time to send me this long ass message. This seems like some solid advice! I’ve messaged you, get back to me if possible.
/r/askTRP17/03/20 09:25 PM
5

Roger
/r/askTRP17/03/20 08:02 PM
1

Her reply to me asking her out Friday, my place ‘I’m supposed to be self isolating but me/no one around me has symptoms so that’s a possibility’
/r/askTRP17/03/20 07:54 PM
1

Her reply to me asking her out Friday, my place. ‘I’m supposed to be self isolating but me/no one around me has symptoms so that’s a possibility’
/r/askTRP17/03/20 07:54 PM
1

Well fuck it I just asked her out again lets see how that unfolds
/r/askTRP17/03/20 07:40 PM
1

Okay bro just told her straight up lets hang my place i’ll keep you updated
/r/askTRP17/03/20 07:39 PM
2

Haha you can tell its my first post!
/r/askTRP17/03/20 07:36 PM
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