So I’ve just had to soft next a girl im exclusive with last night because as we was joking around in bed I said ‘bye then’ as I said that she got up and left.

(Now she wasn’t planning on sleeping with me for the night anyway as I prefer my own bed and I’m way more productive waking up alone so that’s not the issue)

The issue was she abruptly got off and left when I said ‘bye then’ and gathered her belonging without making eye contact with me, before she left I said give me a kiss before you go then and she ignored me and just left the room like I wasn’t there. A couple minutes she ends up coming back as she had forgotten her glasses.

(Which proves she wasn’t thinking straight when she got up all of a sudden, whilst completely changing her mood and reactions towards me)

When she came back to collect her glasses I said ‘whats up you’re acting different’ she said ‘im not’ I said ‘okay then goodnight’ in a casual manor not displaying neediness. I brought up the question of why she was acting strange to give her the chance to say something but she didn’t.

A. Did I handle this well?

B. Is this worth a soft next? (I think it does)

On a side note this girl barely puts any effort into starting a conversation as she said she doesn’t know what to say. Also her mood in general changes 100% when she is around other people and I just think what is the point sometimes. She doesn’t act interested in me and she doesn’t act like she wants to get to know me. I thought it was the girls job to chew my ear off and for me to be a good listener.