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I think there are also some men who stay with women more out of convenience than anything else, meanwhile they are looking for “the one”. Not everyone married the right person. Men can be poor at vetting just like women.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/19 09:20 PM
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Yeah I know opportunity plays a big role but I still think there are men out there who aren’t very attracted to their partners and this plays a role in cheating. Maybe they think their personalities would not be compatible with a woman they find more attractive than their gf/wife, so they treat the gf/wife more as a friend then they have “hotter” lovers. I feel like men that rate high in narcissism would be likely to do this. They want the mildly attractive loyal wife that’s easy to control then…
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/19 08:51 PM
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True. Although I think a small amount of men may hide their preferences or fetishes pretty well, out of shame or not wanting to hurt their partner. Men are good at separating sex from love which can lead to double lives.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/19 08:47 PM
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I was thinking about how sexual compatibility could factor in. To be fair this is probably a small minority of men, but I wonder about body type preferences and fetishes. For ex, I knew this guy who was really into bigger boobs and curves (not bbw but think like a Scarlett Jo type body), well he dated a girl for years who was smaller chested and petite, and he cheated on her a few times. It’s quite possible he would cheat no matter who he was dating, but I always wonder if a man had his “ideal” …
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/19 07:54 PM
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There are lazy men though that will carry on online affairs for lengthy periods. Although I guess some may not consider that cheating.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/19 07:35 PM
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I agree with everything except the income. Most of the good marriages/relationships I’ve seen, the man typically makes more or works more. And most of these men enjoy this. It’s more natural for men to be the providers.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/19 07:30 PM
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It seems like intelligent, reserved/introverted men from good families are a lot less likely to cheat. Unfortunately there are less of these men than their opposites (not very smart, very outgoing, and from broken homes). If a man had separated or absent parents, I think he’s less likely to want to uphold a loyal partnership.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/19 07:19 PM
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Yep. Attractive men definitely have to put in far less effort.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/19 07:15 PM
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What made you choose him? I’ve known a few autistic men before and can’t imagine ever being romantic with one. One was creepy incel territory in one of my college classes (now that you mention it, I do think I overheard him complain of sluts once) and the other was a nice guy but just too nerdy to relate to on an intimate level.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/18 08:41 AM
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Are you better looking than him with the makeup? Seems like he is very attracted to you while simultaneously worrying that you will attract someone better than him when you’re dolled up. It’s okay for men to have insecurities but if they take them out on you, it can damage the relationship for good. In that case, what’s the point? You are left with next to nothing. It’s possible that gaining confidence as a man will help him get over this, but will he do this?
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/18 08:33 AM
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The fact that she didn’t say much at all about the positives of her husband shows a lot here.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/18 07:32 AM
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Lol. Ok if you want to play this stupid game. Just because I posted in sugar life doesn’t mean I’m doing it. I just find it interesting to read. And I’m not even over 30, I just prefer to hear opinions of older men and people in their 30’s. State education? And? I have 0 student loans. I probably have more money saved than you bc I come from wealth. And I post in tinder like what.. a few times.. because it’s FUNNY!! I just commented on some posts. I am not even on tinder. lighten up. Good god.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/18 12:14 AM
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She is comparing every aspect of these two men. If she was even halfway content with her husband, she wouldn’t even be doing this.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/18 11:42 PM
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Class envy. She didn’t say he was unattractive, just that her husband was in better shape. Most men gain weight/lose muscle as they age anyway. Doctor still wins. I’m not sure why I have to argue in a red pill forum why a higher status, less attractive man is a better catch for marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/18 11:36 PM
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She is a married woman and she is comparing nearly every aspect of her husband to this man. Career, kids, attractiveness, wealth, intelligence, hobbies. I just don’t think most people do that with tiny crushes.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/18 11:52 AM
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She said the BIL is good with the kids. Why automatically assume he isn’t loving just because he’s wealthier? As if wealthy doctors can’t be loving? Some people in this thread are really showing their class envy.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/18 11:40 AM
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Some men are just better all-around catches than other men. Op married some hot, low-earning, low IQ sports fanatic.. when she could’ve married a mildly attractive, mentally stimulating, intelligent doctor who’s ranking 6 figs. Ever heard of sapiosexuals?
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/18 11:32 AM
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Idk. I just don’t agree. I think she should be in the honeymoon phase of marriage when she’s 26, I find this post to be very.. not good. Also, notice what she said about BIL discusses news and medical topics? Seems she’s also regretting that she married a dummy.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/18 11:27 AM
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I don’t mean to sound condescending but I think you should read it again. She is totally Gaga for the BIL. She wants a successful/wealthier man. She could have easily compromised on looks and went for an older/less attractive guy that has more money and status.. I mean, hubs is just an electrician.. she is realizing she could have married a wealthier, higher status man that’s powerful and ranking 6 figs, if she just compromised a bit on physical attractiveness. That’s gotta hurt. If they ever st…
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/18 11:10 AM
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It could be more simple than this- maybe she doesn’t truly love and respect her husband and she picked the wrong man.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/18 10:57 AM
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What religion would require a man to live at home? There may be some but I’ve never heard of any where this is common. I think it’s a lot more common and accepted for religious or conservative women to be living at home. It’s also less socially accepted in general for men to live at home. I think this also comes from internal pressure, men wanting their own domain.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/18 07:44 AM
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Yeah, I think you hit the nail on the head. Some guys are just too unmotivated to complete school, because inevitably you will have to do stuff in school that you don’t want to do, and super beta guys will whine and say that “it’s not fair” or make silly excuses instead of just being masculine, sucking it up, and getting the shit done. I think this ties into the mentor idea because men with mentors are given structure and this helps them succeed. My ex was like that, he was smart but just didn’t…
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/18 08:03 PM
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Yep. Heavy porn usage is even worse!!
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/18 03:41 AM
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All I can think is why did these men not go into tech? Missed opportunity. I know several gamers who went into tech and now make a killing.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/18 03:35 AM
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Why is he having such intimate conversation with a woman he’s known for 3 days? This strikes me as odd. Not sure if your husband is good looking but it’s possible there’s some jealousy or spite since her discontent seems to be directed at you. If he wants someone unbiased to speak with, maybe he should consider therapist or a level-headed family member.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/18 11:17 PM
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Yes, it is expensive, therefore it is a status symbol because lower classes cannot easily afford it. I kind of doubt you are UMC if you don’t at least have a bachelor’s. Nearly everyone from my wealthy hometown went to college.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/18 02:47 PM
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Yeah.. I mean, aren’t steroids used for swelling and inflammation? Seems like there should be other options that can manage that long term. I’ve only taken steroids temporarily for after a surgery. Also she’s treating pcos which can be improved alone just by weight loss... seems like her doctor isn’t giving her all the information she needs for this condition. This information is all available on medical sites.. so it’s not like you need to be a doctor to know about the different treatment optio…
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/18 10:13 PM
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Maybe she can try going off them and see. I mean, I just think there are plenty of overweight people who aren’t on steroids. The average person is overweight these days.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/18 02:07 PM
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I mean ya, but so many people use Medication or other things as an excuse for why they’re overweight, I just don’t buy it. I think these same people would still be overweight even if they weren’t on the meds. So many people underestimate how many calories they consume.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/18 01:58 PM
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Even when I had a thyroid problem which is known for weight gain, I still didn’t have a BMI of 27. She most likely IS eating too much, like most overweight people.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/18 09:48 AM
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Blowjobs aren’t the same as deepthroating. Quit conflating the two.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/18 11:22 PM
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I agree. It’s not even the only way to give a good blow job. It’s also juvenile thinking
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/18 08:32 PM
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The middle and lower class are contemptuous and jealous of the upper classes. Class envy is real. Being middle/lower class is kind of like being overweight. If you’re interacting with a thin person (higher class), you’re going to have some jealousy, whether you admit to it or not. Marrying within your class is important.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/18 06:01 PM
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Well, good thing for you that not many women are aspiring CEOs or lawyers, lol
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/18 03:29 AM
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Grew up UMC, almost all the women I grew up with at least have bachelor degrees before they get married. It’s just an expected thing to have higher education when you grow up in a wealthy family, whether you’re male or female. Most men who grow up wealthy don’t marry that far down in SEC. maybe you grew up middle class or lower, in that case, the rules may not apply and pursuing education beyond high school isn’t the norm for you.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/18 11:18 PM
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Yep. One girl from my hometown didn’t go to college and got into bartending and nightlife, which is fine, but a lot of men who want marriage will see those type of women as flaky party girl types and steer clear of them.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/18 07:22 PM
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Ok. Don’t date people who went to college then. No one is forcing you.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/18 06:46 PM
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Agreed. People from the lower classes are the ones who think education level doesn’t matter at all. It certainly does if you’re UMC trying to marry within your class. Most have at least a bachelor’s. A grad degree or higher is a status symbol. Showing that you can focus enough to study and pass classes also is indicative of your personality and commitment. If you’re some wild party girl who fails out of college, you likely be flaky and won’t make too great of a wife. I think studious women make …
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/18 05:20 PM
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I don’t agree that accomplishments or career don’t matter at all. They matter somewhat. Your SEC matters and is related to your education level. An attractive professional career woman is seen as more valuable/classy than an attractive woman who works in a cheap chain retail store. It tends to be that people from certain socioeconomic classes will marry other from the same, and education usually goes along with the upper classes because they can afford the tuition.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/18 05:17 PM
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True. I just think overall it adds unnecessary noise to my life.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/18 04:02 PM
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Idk.. but If a woman has a bunch of (straight) male friends and they don’t try to fuck her, then she’s probably not that good looking. It’s very hard for a guy to just be friends with a hot chick. That’s why a lot of hot girls just hang out with other hot girls.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/18 04:06 AM
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This is what I don’t understand about attractive women having male friends, especially close ones.how do you keep things platonic when you know the person is trying to fuck you any time you’re alone? My only close friends have been women.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/18 03:45 AM
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I don’t think so. There are pretty girls with low self esteem who date guys clearly worse looking than them because people have told them utter nonsense like ‘looks don’t matter, date someone with a good personality’. It’s terrible advice and causes girls to date below their league because they give guys chances who they’re barely even attracted to. It also pushes the false narrative that attractive men all have terrible personalities even though I’ve met tons of bad looking men with shitty pers…
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/18 10:33 PM
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It doesn’t matter how great of a guy he is. If he doesn’t want marriage while you do, you will end up resenting him.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/18 09:59 PM
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if you're getting your wheels spun by a guy who likes the great sex but will never give you what you want. BINGO. He has spoken against marriage and seems to be threatening her with the “if it wasn’t for the great sex” line. These are horrible signs. Also, I thought dread game in an LTR was for when you’re not getting enough sex or attention from her?? I think he is using it wrong.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/18 09:29 PM
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I can’t ask where you live because it’s against the rules. Maybe you can relocate? If it’s so bad where you live, you might find more luck in a more racially diverse area.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/18 10:46 PM
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How do you dress compared to them? If you dressed modestly at your age, guys are going to be more interested in the girls who show more skin. I don’t suggest you do this, though.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/18 10:35 PM
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These are boys in their early 20’s; most are NOT men yet. You will understand when you get a little older. To answer the Q, I think it is code for “I like hot girls who want to have sex with me a lot”. That’s about it. They like sex and like anyone who will give it to them enthusiastically.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/18 10:33 PM
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Don’t bother befriending men unless you’re certain they’re gay.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/18 10:18 PM
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Do you not find your own race attractive? What’s wrong with improving yourself to find a high value man of your race?
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/18 10:16 PM
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Maybe you just don’t like him. There are men who are conventionally attractive and said to be “10’s” that I don’t find all that great. Not all tall men are that attractive.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/18 05:33 PM
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Ok, my bad! Your post is super relevant to this sub and the women here. You’re right! Keep writing novels.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/18 10:34 AM
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Weird.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/18 06:30 AM
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Ok, so what? She should just put up with it? No matter what he did before marriage, he’s still being a shitty husband. They can’t change the past, they can only change the present, and he has the power to improve himself. If he’s satisfied with himself and doesn’t want to be a better one, then she should probably divorce him, lest she wants to feel depressed and unappreciated forever.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/18 06:27 AM
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Women already know this. There is no need to tell your wife about it.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/18 06:18 AM
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I mean yeah, she should have not married him, but they’re still married and he still shouldn’t be saying these mean things to her. He is responsible as well.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/18 06:14 AM
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That is borderline emotional abuse, imo. You can’t do anything about your age. 32 isn’t all that old either. If he’s that repulsed by you, he shouldn’t have committed to marrying you.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/18 04:25 AM
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This post is pretty confusing.. You say he tells you you’re attractive but then he says negative things and that he finds aging and pregnancy unattractive? What kind of “negative things” does he say to you? You’re his wife who makes an effort to preserve your looks and look beautiful for him, he shouldn’t be saying negative things to you. If he’s making negative remarks about your age, that is very unhelpful and damaging to your self esteem. I’m not sure what the solution is here, other than the…
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/18 02:22 AM
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No offense but I think you’re lying to yourself that you’re “ok with keeping it on the table”. You basically said it would emotionally ruin you. I don’t think you’re ok with any of this. Don’t lie to yourself just to look like a “cool girl”.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/18 09:35 PM
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25 is still pretty young for most men. Unless he’s an outlier, he likely isn’t very emotionally immature. The fact that you have ruminated on that convo for weeks isn’t a good sign either. Sounds like you feel disrespected, which may not go away.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/18 09:07 PM
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She already expressed to him that she doesn’t want to share her man with anyone and that it would “fuck her up” (her words). He responded by calling it “cruel”. This guy does not respect her feelings very much. A respectful partner would accept the “No” and move on. They’ve already discussed it multiple times, too.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/18 08:58 PM
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How old are you? If you and your boyfriend are college aged or younger, I’m going to be honest- many guys are very immature and focused on sex at that age, and there is a strong possibility that your boyfriend is with you mainly because he thinks he’s promised a threesome due to your attraction to women.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/18 08:50 PM
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Lol. You’re defending Muslims? Their religion is trash. Just.. bye. Not entertaining this argument.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/18 08:35 PM
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We can’t tell you if your requirements are unrealistic because we don’t know what you look like. You are going to have to get out there and see. Isn’t life fun?
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/18 10:48 PM
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Intelligence often comes with a price. Either your social skills are affected negatively or you are arrogant and difficult. I don’t think many men like socially inept or arrogant women. At least, it doesn’t seem like many do! Look at the qualities most men desire: beauty, youth, fun, and domestic skill. Intelligence is pretty low on the list.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/18 07:45 PM
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Smarts usually means IQ level, book smarts, academia, etc, not feminine arts.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/18 07:37 PM
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This is why I try to steer clear of discussing any type of academic or “heavy” topics with my partner. I like to keep things light, like goofing around and laughing and doing fun activities. I have a feeling he would be turned off and see me as too masculine if I broach heavier topics. I would rather discuss those topics with people online. Anonymity is nice.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/18 07:18 PM
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With all due respect, I don’t think we are ever going to agree on this, but oh well, here goes: Basically, a well-functioning society is based on order and structure. When you bring in non-monogamy and people who cheat, the social order is ruined and becomes more chaotic and difficult to maintain. Ever wonder why the hippie era in the 60’s was a fringe movement and didn’t take over society? It’s because it lacked structure and order.. social disorder.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/18 06:54 PM
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Non-monogamy and cheating are not the same things, no. That’s not what I meant. I meant that they are both symptoms of social disorder, and social disorder is more likely among lower classes and liberals.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/18 06:44 PM
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I think you might be some kind of outlier if you are non monogamous and not poor or Uber liberal. It is more common with poor people and the uneducated. Cheating and women giving birth to children whose fathers are completely absent, or “who is the father?” paternity cases, are also more common in lower, uneducated classes. This is related to non-monogamy because there is social disorder that occurs in lower classes. These issues are less likely to affect the wealthy and educated for various rea…
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/18 06:38 PM
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if your partner is actively ogling other women, in a way that's clearly disrespectful, then that's a problem. Exactly. I can’t believe anyone who treats their partner respectfully would even argue against this point. I’m also not sure why lonlinessinc is agreeing with your post, but not mine, since the main messages were both the same. Very odd..
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/18 06:23 PM
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Ok, let me be more specific: American liberals are the ones who started swinging in the first place.. hippies?? Free love? Feminists? They were all related.I’m speaking from the point of reference of a typical American, I’m not taking every single culture across the world into account. I find Mormon culture to be very strange because of how segregated they are, so I don’t even consider it.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/18 06:14 PM
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You’re putting words in my mouth. I don’t care if a guy ogles women when I’m not around, how would I even know if he’s doing it if I’m not there? It is assumed that I meant what he does when his partner is present, why would I know what he does when he’s out with the guys or at the gym? I wouldn’t know and I wouldn’t care. The whole point is having respect and self control around your partner to not stare at every woman. And I still believe it to be true that men who ogle some women’s boobs righ…
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/18 05:59 PM
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I am not sure how old you are and if you know any 18 year olds and how they function, but this is the new normal. This is actually a better situation than most 18 year olds are putting themselves in these days.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/18 01:55 PM
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I’ve always been smarter than my peers. I have a slighter higher IQ than average. I’m also very observant and introverted.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/18 01:50 PM
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Ok, if you think of getting plated by one guy as “behaving recklessly”, then I don’t know what to tell you.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/18 01:35 PM
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Well, I think there are actually women in their 20’s who didn’t find a husband and who weren’t busy partying, believe it or not.. Many women waste time on LTR’s with men who are incompatible with them or the relationship falls apart for some reason or other and doesn’t lead to marriage. There comes a time in an LTR where you have to stop, evaluate, and decide, “is this going to lead to marriage, should I stay, should I leave” often it is not that easy to decide, which explains the time wasted on…
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/18 01:18 PM
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I think it can be a sign that he lacks self control if he needs to stare at every bosom or behind, this isn’t a good thing because this can lead to cheating down the road. I dated a guy who openly ogled other women and was told “it’s just what guys do”, and he ended up cheating on me. I’ve dated other guys who didn’t ogle, and they didn’t cheat. I have a hard time believing there’s no connection between the two. Sometimes when something stirs jealousy in you, there is a valid reason. There is a …
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/18 10:16 AM
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Is the coffee meant to be every single morning? And the fire meant to be every single night? Sorry, but I think that is too much. That sounds like he can’t handle any minor change in schedule. The other ones are fine, I guess, but he has admitted that the contract was too much . 75 pages just to move in as a girlfriend? I would take his as a red flag that he has too much baggage.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/18 09:39 AM
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I didn’t know high school girls got plated? I thought it was only post-wall women. Who knew. Tell her about plating and what guys do. Better she knows now than later on.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/18 08:56 AM
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I have noticed though that there are successful older men who don’t take women in their early 20’s seriously. My cousin is 33 and was talking to me about his dating life and he basically said he has had ONS with college age and he said they all seem too immature and concerned with the wrong things (partying). He has a demanding job and high salary, so he doesn’t have time to turn a young ho into a housewife, if you catch my drift. Unless you’re very religious, it is hard to find an early 20’s wo…
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/18 08:40 AM
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Agreed. I don’t know why we are acting like so many average men (physically and financially) in their 30’s have their pick of the litter of early 20’s women with stellar looks and personalities- they simply don’t. They might get lucky and get some 22 year old with BPD and daddy issues who will nearly ruin their lives, but that’s not exactly winning. The high quality women in their early 20’s with high RMV and SMV can do much better than the average man in his 30’s.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/18 06:13 PM
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Mm, ya I guess you’re right, I think some light wrinkling is pretty common in late 20’s. I thought by going gray that you meant like whole head gray, but ya I can see how finding one or two hairs is common. I’m half Mediterranean so I have a little more melanin than the average white girl. I also did not tan my skin to leather growing up and I don’t do drugs or smoke.. I think a lot of white women that have “hit the wall” in late 20’s are guilty of one or both of those, lol. That is one of the p…
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/18 05:44 PM
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I didn’t know a lot of women get gray hair or wrinkles in their late 20’s/early 30’s. This is a thing? My mother didn’t go gray or really get wrinkles until after 40.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/18 05:22 PM
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Complete agree. Why are we ignoring that there are clearly reasons other than age? Many women are overweight, not facially attractive, or simply not putting themselves in positions to meet these men, regardless of age. In this case the male RP advice would be useful. Go to the gym, fix your diet, dress better, figure out how to do your makeup and hair, put yourselves in positions to meet men you will like. A man isn’t just going to fall into your lap unless you’re some highly visible celebrity o…
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/18 03:46 PM
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I agree. She clearly had some type of major insecurity or emotional damage which led her to stay in an on-off relationship for years with someone who wouldn’t commit. This seems like a more logical explanation, I’m surprised anyone is fully on board with the message of this post when the reasoning is not all that sound.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/18 03:19 PM
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This is not really true, especially for women who are UMC and can afford to look good as they age. The wall is late 20’s if you are a single mother/ were around an HB5 or below at age 22. If you’re a 7 or up in your 20’s and you take care of your looks, the wall is a considerable amount of years away. If they play it right, they will also have higher RMV than they did in their early 20’s.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/18 03:02 PM
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Wow. Nice alt account there.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/18 02:35 PM
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Ok and you don’t stop to consider that he could be exaggerating, or that they’re dating him because he’s throwing money at them and that’s the only reason? They’re not dating him because they have raw sexual attraction and genuine love feelings towards him that they get with a man closer to their age. You can keep telling yourself that 29 year old women wouldn’t rather fall in love and fuck a 30 year old all you want. Most older men who aren’t sociopaths would be bothered by this very fact that …
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/18 11:46 PM
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Being too picky isn’t a good thing when a man is looking for a wife. No one is ever going to check every last one of his boxes. You need to be realistic and find the best fit. He most likely doesn’t have Donald Trump level money where he can just get married at any age because he’s so rich that women don’t care about his old age. As your friend gets up in age, women are really going to start wondering why he has never been married and they will be more prone to sabotaging the relationship (out o…
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/18 11:27 PM
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You literally said many 30+ women have baggage “without the looks” of younger women. People also associate being fat with older age. You see some fat woman with terrible skin and you may assume she’s like 40 just because she looks like shit, but she could be like 25. Conversely, you see some 34 year old woman who is in shape and has nice skin and you assume she’s 26. Then people go online and report how they saw some fat post wall woman and some hot 20’s chick, then your thought process that all…
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/18 11:00 PM
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A man who isn’t married by 40 (or at least gotten very close to marrying) seems like a big red flag to me. Sounds like he has commitment issues, or “no one is good enough for me” syndrome. By 40, most high quality men have had several LTR’s, so you have to wonder why none of those woman made the cut. Is he a control freak or a perfectionist who expects too much? Probably. You are only his friend, you do not know how well he functions in a relationship. Also, society doesn’t take into account tha…
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/18 10:49 PM
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I have to be honest since this sub is about honesty. This whole “you’ll be better off in your 30’s and be able to pull younger women, guys” feels like some feel-good tactic to pump up men in their 20’s who are ugly/broke/not getting laid. I don’t completely buy it. Men don’t just turn 35 and suddenly become successful and attractive. If you’re a low quality guy in your 20’s then you will likely not be a high quality guy in your 30’s, but with a worse hairline. Such is life. Also, I think young w…
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/18 10:14 PM
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Yes, every woman under 30 is just a total glowing stunner. No women under 30 are hideous, have ugly acne, or are fat.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/18 10:11 PM
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But the whole point of a 24 dating up in age is supposed to be that those guys are out of college and beginning their career. She has to wait 2 years for him to begin his career.. and he will have debt as well. Not good.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/18 05:59 PM
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I agree. I forgot to mention in my own post about a negative that stood out to me, she is saying she feels an overwhelming sense of dread and that she’s settling for him because he was her first. If I heard my partner thought of me like that, and I wanted a future with him, i would be very upset and would have doubts of marrying. I want someone to be sure about me, otherwise what’s the point in spending your life with them? People who feel this way about their partners can get very depressed and…
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/18 07:07 PM
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From what I have read and heard, it seems like the type of men that prefer porn over real sex are typically unattractive or lazy and don’t want to do any work other than just sitting there. A good looking man who is in decent shape would usually prefer sex over porn, because good looking men are able to get better looking and more eager partners, on average. Of course, porn addicts will argue with this, and say some tripe like “I’m attractive! I can get 8’s, I just prefer porn of 10’s” mmhm, sur…
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/18 09:59 AM
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I don’t think causal sex is really good for anyone. Even the men who do it, I’m not sure it is good. I knew of this man who has 200 partners, he has had multiple std’s, and he cheats on every girlfriend he has. That kind of man is not good for 99% of women, who wants to get cheated on? Also, he clearly has poor impulse control. Not attractive. This idea that casual sex is psychologically good for us has been borne out of hook up culture that emphasizes physical pleasure over a real connection. I…
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/18 09:47 AM
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She may be not ready to date.. For what it’s worth though, I’ve heard from multiple sources that OkCupid is pretty low quality in most areas. Is she attractive? Try Bumble, I’ve heard women have had better success from it. There are more attractive and higher quality men.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/18 09:36 AM
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One of the pros of dating an older man is that they’re supposed to be more financially stable and have a stable career. He does not appear to have that. if he gets a decent job out of school, is he going to still have student loan debt? Grad school is more expensive than undergrad. Unfortunately, if he has a good job in 2 years, doesn’t mean he will be wealthy if he’s still busy paying back loans for the next 5-10 years. You also mentioned he isn’t funny, is humor one of the main qualities you l…
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/18 09:20 AM
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Have you asked him about possibly hiring a maid to come once a month or so? It isn’t that expensive and can take some of the load off. If he makes enough money, it shouldn’t be difficult for him to pay for most of it. Tbh, for me, a house that’s messy (within reason) might be fine as long as the guy is responsible in his career and he has other redeemable personality qualities- nice, funny, intelligent, creative. Does he have any good qualities besides having a good job? You don’t seem to list a…
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/18 07:03 AM
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you are overthinking it, I think. Girlfriend is fine if she’s your girlfriend. If she’s your friends with benefit or something, just say “friend”. Not that hard.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/18 06:41 AM
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I am just talking about people you work with, not girlfriends.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/18 06:21 AM
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Of course. If it’s an informal setting then it’s fine, but I think most settings when dealing with acquaintances or coworkers should be treated as more formal than casual.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/18 06:05 AM
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To be fair, it is kind of weird to refer to a woman above a certain age as girl. Like I’m not going to call someone’s mother or older relative a “girl”, I’ll call her woman or lady, it is more respectful and well-mannered because they are an elder. This is a part of having social grace. Also, calling a female coworker a “girl” can be definitely be passive aggressive if she’s above 25 and has kids or a husband. When people don’t adhere to these rules, I tend to think of them as low class, because…
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/18 05:47 AM
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You’re coming at this from a very female perspective though. Men are still going to date the hot bitch over the super sweet ugly chick. Most men need to be attracted to a woman to fall in love with her.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/18 03:24 AM
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I don’t believe myself to be “high class”, I was just raised UMC and with decent morals. I don’t cheat on my boyfriends and I’ve noticed many women who cheat tend to be lower class women who grew up with single moms and absent fathers. I suppose UMC women could have been raised by single moms, but it doesn’t seem to be as common. Money issues break up a lot of families, after all.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/18 04:05 AM
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I think implants are fine as long as they’re proportionate to your body type and don’t scream “fakes!!”. How tall are you? I know this girl who is about 5 foot 2 and she got small C’s and they look much natural and better than what she had before (completely flat).
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/18 03:59 AM
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How many of these cases were from women of low income/ Lower class? Or dare I say, minority women? Some men seem to think that paternity fraud happens just as often among women from the projects/trailer parks as it does of women from middle class or UMC homes.. I truly doubt it happens equally among these two camps. Trashy is as trashy does. If a man is really that worried about this, he can quietly and secretly take the child’s hair and his hair and get a paternity test. Problem solved. Don’t n…
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/18 03:18 AM
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From my experience, seems like blue pill-ish guys do fine, as long as they are attractive and offer some commitment. No matter if you’re blue or red pill, you need to have a baseline of attractiveness to succeed at dating desirable women. I remember when I was in college, I met this guy in class who was legit 30 and still in college. He admitted he was a virgin. Guess why he was a virgin? Cause he was overweight and always hitting on girls out of his league and thought “being nice” should get hi…
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/18 03:11 AM
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That is why I said fat or older in the title. Even for fit, older women, red pill seems questionable because of the whole “women lose value as they age”. Since you can’t control your age, it seems like hearing that would be negative and not helpful. Since it’s about improving, there only so much to improve when you’re like 45, you can stay fit and try to maintain your looks but that’s about it. So if a woman is already doing that at that age, then why would they bother being here?
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/18 02:51 AM
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That is an interesting coupling. I suppose his physical strength is part of what makes him more dominant? The only thing is, she is likely making more money and more educated than him? I imagine it can lead to problems for some couples. I can’t help but think women who choose “high status” careers are just more dominant types of women and this carries over into their relationships and may cause some issues. All of the submissive feminine women Ive known have become nurses, nannies, teachers, or …
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/18 12:17 AM
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Eh. Not all women are naturally feminine. Some women have high testosterone, for example, so they have higher sex drives and more dominant than the truly feminine and submissive leaning women. I’m not trying to discount your opinions, just saying. If we are looking at biology, not all women are feminine and softer by default. In fact, I know of this tall woman who went to the doctor and got tested and found out she has high testosterone. She isn’t super manly looking, either, just tall, like an …
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/18 12:11 AM
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It’s unlikely that a female doctor would take on the female gender role in a relationship unless the man was somehow more accomplished than her. Also most men would feel emasculated if their partner is in a higher level at their career, which is something red pill seems to acknowledge. I know it’s just tv, but a good example of a “power couple” relationship that works is Meredith and Derek on grey’s anatomy. They are both good doctors, but Derek is more accomplished and noteworthy in his career.
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/18 12:04 AM
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Is this “world traveler” attractive? Which part of the world is she from? It’s possible that it is a regional thing. If it’s the part of the world that I’m thinking of, there are many women who are practically raised to be escorts there, so it would make sense why they stay single in their 20’s in order to continue escorting, then they start to look for a husband when they begin to age a bit. Watch some of the show “90 day fiancé”, it might answer some questions of what region I am talking about…
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/17 04:02 PM
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By alpha do you mean older rich men?i guess our definitions of alpha are a little different. I thought the Alpha men that red pill talks about are usually relatively young and attractive, aka the hot Chads? From what I’ve seen, they aren’t necessarily wealthy, but there are young girls who will do things for these hot Chads even if the guy isn’t wealthy or even nice to them, which is sad but happens.. and this is something RPW advocates against. Rpw says to find a guy with the best mixture of be…
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/17 03:18 PM
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No but a 30 year old woman can be young looking as long as she doesn’t tan her skin to shit or get fat. It’s just that the women who don’t take care of themselves ruin it for the women who do. Men see all these fat women and women who haven’t aged well in their 30’s then they think this represents all women that age. I was also referring to women in their 20s because of the initial comment you responded to.
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/17 03:41 AM
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You sound like a loser, red pill is about truth, so just being honest :)
/r/askTRP30/12/17 11:28 PM
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“Fat is not who you are” is the exact catch phrase of a FA feminist.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/17 11:16 PM
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Lol, what? You don’t need an old guy to remind you if you’re hot and young. It’s plainly obvious. It’s called a mirror. And most women don’t date guys ten years younger than them, they date guys their age.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/17 11:15 PM
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What does this have to do with the comment that you were responding to?
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/17 11:14 PM
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Yeah, hook up. they’re hooking up with them to try to use them for their money. It doesn’t mean they’ll genuinely like them, or be physically attracted to them as they would with a guy their age.
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/17 11:09 PM
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Exactly. See, you shouldn’t feel bad that he didn’t like you. You were incompatible. And when I said “boring”, I didn’t mean in a vicious way, I hope you didn’t take it that way. I would actually describe myself as kind of boring in that I don’t have very eccentric hobbies, just “normal” boring ones lol. I also think if you’re the type who cooks and cleans for your guy, you might want to be careful because there are men who will interpret this as “doormat” and try to take advantage and use you f…
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/17 07:50 PM
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Men place value on different things. It’s quite possible the guy you dated valued something like intelligence or humor, rather than a boring woman who cleaned and cooked for him. Every man places different values on these things. Plenty men don’t just want a maid.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/17 07:34 PM
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Im not promoting obesity at all, I really didn’t mean for it to come across like that. I know they’re different. It’s just that a lot of fat women don’t ever lose weight. Or if they do, they don’t keep it off long. They can get better, yes, but it doesn’t mean they will.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/17 06:24 PM
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No, I’m not. It’s just weird because I always see in the improvement section women are like “I need to lose 30 lbs”. Do these women ever get it together and even lose weight? I’m just wondering. It almost seems like there aren’t many pretty young girls here who maintain a healthy weight and who don’t need to improve their SMV that much. The type of girls that red pill actually wants to have around, Sometimes I feel like this is a place that attracts women who are home-maker types, but who strugg…
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/17 05:50 PM
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Ok, but most people are blue pill, and a lot of blue pill women like guys closer to their age more than older guys. Just because an older guy is a more stable option, doesn’t mean a young girl will go for it. I mean, all of the girls in college I knew were dating college guys. Very few were like “yeah I have a 40 year old boyfriend”. So, I really think these older guys do end up burned by younger women who either play them or they just end up committing to a guy closer to her age. I’m not saying…
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/17 05:40 PM
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I didn’t ask any questions. Just saying my thoughts. I just find it weird that fat or older women like being here. Especially women who have been fat for most their life, by that point being fat is practically their identity.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/17 09:54 PM
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I understand all that and I agree, but I can’t help but think that since the 26 year old will have tons of options of men, she may pick a guy closer to her age in lieu of the 35 year old guy. So this process repeats, 35 year old guy gets burned by a few younger women, cuts his losses and dates the 35 year old woman. Since Bp seems more popular in general, isn’t this more likely to happen? Are older women (who keep fit and such) better off than Rp presents? Maybe the same can be said of overweigh…
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/17 09:45 PM
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Some of the threads I’ve seen on here have made it seem that older women or fat women are near useless in the dating market and will only get the scraps. It’s almost as if why bother dating if you’re an older or fat woman when people make it out to seem miserable. Stuff about post wall hags and there was literally a thread called “don’t be fat”. Which is why I don’t fully understand the overweight, or older women being on here, seems depressing for them. Also if a woman has been overweight for a…
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/17 08:39 PM
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I mean, is it not a little hateful towards them? Like, if I was a paraplegic, I wouldn’t want to join a group that hates paraplegics, you know? I am not fat so it’s not much of a bother to me, but I imagine if I was fat, it would bother me. So I’m curious of their perspective, why overweight women would even enjoy being here. I guess it doesn’t matter, it’s just something I’ve wondered after reading red pill stuff and seeing that there are self proclaimed overweight women here. I appreciate your…
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/17 02:54 PM
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Eh, I think that’s a bit fantastical to think he will have hot chicks falling all over him just because he gets abs. I’m only saying this because I feel like this is a sub that keeps it real? From how op describes him, he doesn’t sound like he has “Chad” tier looks, or ever will. You need a good face and decent social skills to be a Chad, not just abs. Op also said he has always gotten dumped, which shows he probably isn’t all that attractive or has some other physical deficit that we don’t know…
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/17 03:28 PM
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I think it is mainly jealousy, envy, whatever you want to call it. Many women don’t enjoy the “rat race”, but they have been brainwashed into feeling obligated to participate in it- liberal media sends all these messages to women, like “be an independent woman, make your own way”. Even men have been brainwashed by this, so they think that all women want to work while also taking care of the home/raising children! They actually think this arrangement makes women happy, all due to feminist brainwa…
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/17 05:43 AM
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It is sad that a lot of people seem to react poorly to women who say that their only mission is to have a family and care for children. Women are only applauded if they supplement their desire of wanting a family with “I want to own a business”. A lot of women whose main job is motherhood/housekeeping are trash talked and called lazy by jealous single moms who work 9-5.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/17 04:14 PM
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Some men are afraid of marriage because they’re just scared or pessimistic people in general. To be frank, it sounds like OP’s boyfriend is this type. He’s just terrified of being left.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/17 04:00 PM
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I don’t know how to quote while on mobile, but in your 5th paragraph you basically say he thinks you’re perfect and that he sees marriage. Then in the following paragraph, you say that he has said, “why bother with marriage if it’s just going to end in divorce?”. This is very contradictory, not sure how to interpret it.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/17 03:31 PM
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I don’t think the person you were responding to was overanalyzing. Your subject is literally “my boyfriend is broken”. He was essentially, emotionally destroyed by a woman and is still dealing with the fallout. He also has a defeatist attitude even know, which is evident in things he says to you, “what’s the point in marrying if she’s just going to leave” type of statements. I don’t want to worry you, but this is not the behavior and speech of a strong family man looking for marriage. Keep in mi…
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/17 03:01 PM
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if he has a relatively high smv, it’s quite possible his ex was high smv as well, so it would make sense that she had plenty of (possibly better?) options when things went stale with him.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/17 02:55 PM
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You’re at a perfectly healthy weight. I hate to be blunt but your weight most likely isn’t the issue, but most people won’t tell you the truth if you ask. It might be that the “hotter” girl whos getting more attention has better boobs, butt, body proportions, face, or all of the above. Even fashion choices can matter, two equally attractive girls and one dresses in tighter clothing.. who do you think the guys will pay more attention to? Focus on squats and lower body to get a better butt. wear a…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/17 04:25 AM
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A truly high quality man wouldn’t put up with her actions. I don’t think you should butt in
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/17 11:56 AM
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Sorry but I disagree. If women got support for their confusion then slut shaming wouldn’t exist. I got slut shamed when I was young simply for talking to a guy once at a party. I was wearing a shirt and pants and didn’t even look slutty. A few boys said “he never gets girls to talk to him. She must be a slut” and were mean to me about it for silly reason. Imagine the response if I actually did something sexual with him and wasn’t only talking. I suppose from other women, that women can get suppo…
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/17 12:00 AM
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A woman can take responsibility and dress a certain way and not put themselves in positions, but as others have said in these comments, young women, namely teen and early 20s, don’t always understand or know how to diffuse sexual situations. Men are physically stronger than women, so they also need to take responsibility to reel in their strength as needed. There needs to be more education for both young men and women on this matter. Young men need to be taught not to pressure young women into s…
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/17 11:43 PM
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I’m going to assume you have good Smv and all that, so I won’t say anything about that. You own your own home at 20, that is a big deal. If you date men who are apartment renters, this may make them feel inadequate, so you may need to fluff their egos in other ways. Tell them they’re doing a great job at work, frequently compliment their cooking, fitness endeavors, interests.. whatever they excel at. Make it crystal clear that you enjoy being around them. It’s possible that you did not make them…
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/17 11:08 PM
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I have another thought on why the results may be off. Do you know how the data was recorded in that study? I think there is a possibility some of the women reported a false N count.. I mean how else would they get an accurate count, other than asking them and trusting that they’re telling the truth? It would be easy to lie about. If you think about it, many women lower their N because of the stigma of a high one. there may be women who haven’t divorced, who had something like 5-7 partners, maybe…
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/17 06:55 AM
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I was responding to the person who cited a study on divorce being dependent on how many partners a woman has had. It does come off like shaming when you imply a woman’s N-count is the most important cause of divorce. It places all the weight on a woman’s sexual past, so that if a marriage doesn’t work out, someone can go “oh, it’s cause you had sex with 5 guys in your teens and 20’s”, while any mature adult would know when there are a plethora of other factors that go into divorce risk, such as …
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/17 01:58 AM
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This probably isn’t something you want to hear, but you have to “get out there”. I am an introvert also, and I know this is annoying to hear but it’s true. You need to challenge yourself to be more outgoing and meet more men. I’m not sure where you live, so it is hard to give you exact places, but you can try meetup for young professionals or something of that nature. Look up other events in your area that don’t involve alcohol.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/17 01:37 AM
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Op is 27. 3 partners is not high, especially considering her age and the culture we live in. I would be careful with basing divorce risk on only one study. There is another study showing that people who marry earlier than 25 have a higher risk for divorce than people who marry in their late 20’s or 30’s. Divorce isn’t 100% dependent on how many partners a woman has had. She should keep her partners low, but attempting to passively shame her for 3 partners at 27 is unnecessary and not helpful to …
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/17 01:09 AM
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Yes, I agree with this. However, I don’t think it is foolproof in every situation. If you tell a guy, “I only have sex in committed relationships”, there is a possibility (albeit, small) he will agree to a relationship, only to date for a short time, like an extended pump and dump, then he leaves when he’s bored of you. I’m curious, is there a way for women can vet for that type of guy? My gut instinct says there’s no way to predict this behavior, but maybe there is? I know it isn’t very common …
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/17 12:47 AM
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Every woman has occasional emotional instability, unless they’re a saint or on some medication that makes them calm 24/7- a little occasional moodiness is part of being a woman and any seasoned man knows this. Still, you’re not providing enough details of your relationship for people to give you real answers. So I don’t know what else to tell you.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/17 10:53 PM
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Ok.. Why even post if you’re not willing to provide enough details to assess the situation? If it hits a nerve, then be an adult and tell him that it went too far. This is not that hard to navigate.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/17 10:44 PM
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I’m not sure what teasing you’re talking about, what’s an example? We need more details to properly assess this.. I had an ex who would straight up insult me and then say he was joking. He would claim I was “sensitive” when I got upset. That was not just teasing , it was him being a jerk.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/17 10:40 PM
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You know you can tell him to knock it off, if it bothers you this much? Have you done this? You haven’t given enough details but it sounds like he teases you and then enjoys watching you have a “reaction”. you both have some growing up to do, if this is the case.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/17 10:35 PM
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You should be mature enough by 34 to discuss this matter. this is worrying.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/17 09:58 PM
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A “smoking hot” girl who looks unfriendly could potentially be into you. It just takes time and patience. Like I said, they are usually introverts or shy, they’re usually not terrible people or anything just because someone looks unfriendly doesn’t mean they are a bad person. I guess I’m biased because some of my best friends have been introverts. I think what I said was still valid, it takes some confidence and patience to “crack” that type of women. If it’s not for you, it’s not for you. I’m n…
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/17 09:40 PM
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How do you ask? Just ask. If he doesn’t want exclusivity, just walk away and don’t make the same mistake again. Also how old are you?
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/17 09:35 PM
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two x thinks leagues don’t exist so that wouldn’t do well there. It’s true though. You have to be ballsy to approach the hotter girl who doesn’t seem as receptive. It’s a built in shit test. The comment by that guy about how he prefers “easier” interactions can be interpreted as preferring easier women in general. Hint - sluts. I’m not saying a woman should strive to look unapproachable or something lol. This isn’t like “oh it’s better to be the hotter unfriendly girl!” No, I’m not saying that. …
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/17 09:08 PM
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The only problem is men who prefer easier interactions are sometimes lazy or lack confidence. a turn off. The guy that approaches the bitchy looking 9? Probably has a lot of confidence and is willing to put in effort and won’t get all butthurt if she rejects him. That is a sign of good character in a man. The guy who approaches the 7 who’s smiling? Could possibly be lazy or insecure.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/17 07:56 AM
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If it ends then the love may have not been reciprocated.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/17 06:41 AM
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Super friendly and smiley girls definitely get approached more. A smiley 7 will get more approaches than a 9 with resting bitch face. Men see less chance of rejection with the happy chick. I think I recently read some article about this! The gist was men are more attracted to women who seem interested in them. I also recall something about how men find smiling women more attractive.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/17 04:59 AM
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Saying “he probably loves you the way you are” to a woman who is 20 lbs overweight is pretty blue pill. There are men who stay with overweight women because they can’t do any better.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/17 12:09 AM
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You're correct. I should have worded it differently.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/17 11:36 PM
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This is true. But smart people do tend to like other smart people. They tend to like a stimulating conversation. So I think she should show people she's intelligent, not by bragging necessarily but she should definitely place less emphasis on "I modeled for a few years" and more on her intelligence and commonalities with her level of education. I'm sure she will have better results and attract better men that way. I'm not sure how she is acting with her dates. If she is opening with "I used to m…
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/17 11:23 PM
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This might come off.. brash. But I think you need to get this idea that you're "objectively attractive" out of your head. Fashion beauty standards are different than everyday dating standards of men. here's why: If you're a fashion model, you are most likely tall, yes? A lot of men aren't into super tall women. The average height of women now (around 5 foot 5 across the globe) proves that men select for shorter women over time. Being a model, aka tall, might actually be your barrier. Be careful …
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/17 09:29 PM
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Yes, the robot probably will be able to fill that social need for a woman. If a robot is to act like a human, it will be trained to socialize, not just to have sex 🙄 you think as a man, you will somehow have an advantage over women in the future? you probably won't..Sorry
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/17 11:00 AM
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I don't know, it just happened. I have lost my identity of tall man who slayed pussy
/r/askTRP04/08/17 02:19 PM
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Yes but the question is how much can a man who is naturally beta really change himself? The red pill confuses me because you can try to be more alpha but sometimes you just aren't. Some men can fake being alpha by showing faux confidence or being mean. But is there a point? Wouldn't it ultimately just make him more happy to be who he is?
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 07:56 AM
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Well, most men are beta. And beta men who try to be alpha usually end up stressed out and depressed because it's not who they are. It's like an effeminate gay guy trying to be a bro. Might work for some time but isn't sustainable.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 07:27 AM
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lol lol "but sociopaths are alpha". No, actually.. sociopaths are mentally ill and drain others. mentally ill people aren't alpha. Alphas are mentally strong and not in a "I have no feelings and don't care if I hurt people" way. God so many people don't even know what being alpha is. Pathetic
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 07:06 AM
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It's not going to work on any woman who has been called words like hot, sexy. gorgeous, beautiful her whole life. She will just get pissed and make your life hell because she's not getting the treatment she is used to. Can almost guarantee this will backfire on most guys.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 01:05 AM
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Exactly.. and also even if this wasn't manipulative af.. there is no way in HELL that this shit is going to work out well on a 7/8 or above. It's really not that hard at all to compliment a beautiful woman's appearance, just do it and stop whining, Jesus. "If it ain't broke, don't fix it". This bullshit would only work on a girl who is unattractive with like hardly any options.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 01:01 AM
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Let's be honest, a lot of people aren't that good looking. So, let's take the average person. They get into a relationship with someone who they're not that attracted to, because they're not attractive enough to get an attractive person. The couple has sex often, for some months, not because they're genuinely super attracted to one another, but moreso because it's new and fun. Then a few years go by. Maybe one or both of them has gained weight, or just generally something has happened to make th…
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/17 11:52 PM
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Women tend to jump into relationships without properly vetting a guy for his ability to lead. The sad truth is many men are content with laying back and only doing the bare minimum, so this puts many women in a place where they have to nag and beg the guy. You have to find a man that wants to lead in order to be rpw. That really should be emphasized more in this sub, because not all men will grab the reigns even when women hand them over.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/17 10:59 PM
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I did read it, maybe missed a few details though.. my bad. The main problem was that you seemed to be blaming someone (friends, family) or something (medication) for why you didn't just take action. I am on a medication right now which is known to cause weight gain but I haven't gained anything. It's just about take personal responsibility. That is all I'm saying. And someone else in the comments pointed this out as well, so I don't think I'm out of line here.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/17 10:39 PM
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It's still frowned upon, regardless if you support fat acceptance or not, for a woman to tell her friend that she's fat and needs to lose weight. You obviously knew you were fat, so I'm not sure why you expected your family members or girl friends to tell you that. Your health and weight loss endeavors are not their responsibility.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/17 09:26 PM
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No offense but what do you want a friend to tell you.. "oh you're a fat a**, lose some pounds you're over 200 lbs?!! Nasty !!" like duh your friend who you've known for years isn't going to tell you that! Don't get me wrong, Feminism has its flaws, but most reasonable feminists seem to be more concerned with other important issues, rather than telling fat women they're hot. overweight women who try to act like they're hot is not what feminism is supposed to be about.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/17 09:33 PM
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The wall happens faster to women who don't take care of themselves.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/17 08:24 PM
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If you don't mind me asking, why are you opposed to a couple living together? Is it a tradition thing for you, like no living together before marriage? Just wondering.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/17 04:44 PM
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I don't think his friends and family are going to tell you that. Sometimes they don't even know if he is or not. Grown men who cheat usually keep it secret and don't tell everyone they know. That's not something a man would broadcast, especially an intelligent one. I understand what your general sentiment and such, but I just think you're giving men, in general, too much credit. A lot of them lie and will hide their cheating, even the men who seem "good". Frankly I would rather seem a little par…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/17 04:13 PM
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But.. A man could more easily hide his.. "side chicks" (or some other awful thing) if you're not living with him and only going on trips once in a while. At least if you move in together (or just one person moves into the other's apartment so they can leave at any time w/ no strings attached) you'll be able to quickly gauge if the man is faithful enough to want to marry. If you don't live together for years then move in, you could find out you've been with a cheater for x amount of years..all th…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/17 04:30 AM
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Many men will forgive women for doing a lot of things, as long as they don't cheat on them or greatly betray them. Isn't this normal in a seriously relationship? You have to forgive people for small issues. I think the same can be said of women, I don't know. I guess for the women who don't forgive, it is because women are more emotional which makes them more likely to hold grudges. To be fair, sometimes the man has done something that is hard to forgive, like heavy flirting with another woman, …
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/17 02:46 AM
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It isn't healthy to assume the worst for your married friends.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/17 08:52 PM
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Wat? Maybe it would be better to point out that all marriages and relationships have problems and not everything is always perfect rather than alarmist "they're going to end in divorce" lol.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/17 11:50 PM
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Maybe he doesn't understand that the majority of fit/non-overweight women need to watch their weight? A big problem is the average man can eat more than the average woman while maintaining a normal weight. In this situation, some education on the subject might be necessary.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/17 02:05 AM
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Pretty much. Except height isn't as much of an advantage for women; it matters a lot more for men.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/17 10:12 AM
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So you never go out or meet men? That is kind of a rare predicament to be in, I guess I assumed you had just been around men your age, I mean to be fair, most people have.. but, my bad.. I take back most of what I said then. But it still stands, you're going to need to expose yourself to men at some point. When you do, I'm sure it won't be hard to figure out where you stand. You will get attention and a LOT of men pursuing you if you're above average and you can usually just figure out your leag…
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/17 11:55 PM
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Conventionally speaking, the one who works out and puts more effort into their appearance will usually be better looking than the couch potato. You need to put in effort to be good looking, even the women who are "really hot" work on their bodies and put effort into their hair and makeup and clothing style
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/17 10:29 PM
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Well that's the thing.. i think the main issue is that if a woman doesn't know her smv at all.. well, that it's not a good sign. Women who are somewhat above average (or very attractive) will know their SMv because they get attention and commitment from good attractive men. However women with lower smv, (and sometimes even average) tend to have trouble figuring it out because they simply don't get this attention and so they are lost .. "Men never approach me", "I'm 20 and a virgin / only kissed …
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/17 10:16 PM
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"Above it all"? I am simply saying you don't need to go on a rating forum to get a good idea of your smv... weird that you took my comments that way ..lol The bottom line is that if the op can't get men to commit to her, then she should do things to IMPROVE her smv so she will get more attention and land a good man. That's the best thing she can do. Lose weight, improve her style, spend some money etc.. you focus on things in your control. I don't see what going on a "rateme" forum will do.. the…
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/17 10:01 PM
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Sorry bud but I already know my smv and what I can get. I'm not an idiot, It really isn't that hard. No offense to the op, but it's kind of a dumb question and I've seen it on RPW before. I've been in a few LTRs (like serious ones where marriage was discussed) and also the type of men who approach or try to pursue you is a good indicator ( no I don't just mean for sex, I mean men who actually take great interest in you as a person as well and also if you reject their attempt to hookup, they keep…
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/17 09:47 PM
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Eh, sounds more like you're trying to defend your ego because you frequent there and I dissed the type of people who go there and participate, so you took it personally, maybe? I never posted my photo on there and never gave any input. I find the idea stupid, if I'm going to rate someone I just have the balls to do it irl and not behind the computer so people are free to judge me back if they want. I have been told others have rated me 8 (when I was done up )behind my back, and it was like 2 guy…
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/17 09:18 PM
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Also, sounds like husband is unhappy and blaming op for being a sahm.. op made t sound like her husband insisted on her being a sahm, but now he is angry about it. From what I know about NPD, it does sound like something a narc would do- nothing is ever good enough for them, always criticizing others.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/17 08:28 PM
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But the people that gravitate towards the rating sub tend to be judgmental "hard to please" types. A lot of those guys don't have the "women are wonderful" thing going on, like at all. They are mostly unattractive/anti social men who are looking to feel superior by underestimating women who are hotter than them, basically online negging. It's not a secret that lack of sex can make men frustrated and bitter. makes perfect sense that they would go online and take it out on random girls and neg the…
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/17 07:56 PM
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I have seen the rating sub, I actually think they tend to slightly underestimate real-life women (.5-1 point) because they are mostly really young geeky beta dudes with lack of real life experience seeing women up close (welcome to reddit!) who are comparing girls to edited photos of celebrities and porn stars, which isn't exactly fair considering all the professional makeup, hair styling, clothing and plastic surgery that famous/wealthy people have access to. I personally think very social alph…
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/17 07:27 PM
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The problem I have with the x/10 thing is it's certainly pretty subjective. Some people are far pickier than others, so their assessments will vary.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/17 07:14 PM
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Nose could certainly benefit from surgery if it's as bad as you say- I would make that your #1 priority if you're saving for surgery.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/17 05:18 PM
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"someone" is the key word here.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/17 05:13 PM
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Semen? Yikes. Don't most people use condoms during casual sex?
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/17 05:00 AM
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Also, with smv, I think something that is not mentioned often is that the way we look naked matters quite a bit. Some women are like 9 Smv in clothing due to push up bras and flattering clothing, but then when they're nude, their bodies are more like 7's (breast, butt, skin, body shape, even labia appearance..) all these things matter in our true smv because it's sexual market value. I think this is why average looking women sometimes date better looking men- perhaps she looks better without clo…
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/17 05:39 AM
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With smv, I think something that is not mentioned often is that the way we look naked matters quite a bit. Some women are like 9 Smv in clothing due to push up bras and flattering clothing, but then when they're nude, their bodies are more like 7's (breast, butt, skin, body shape, even labia appearance..) all these things matter in our true smv because it's sexual market value. I think this is why average looking women sometimes date better looking men- perhaps she looks better without clothes- …
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/17 05:34 AM
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Probably from the weird things we are exposed to that weren't around in the olden days. But there's still ways to regulate hormones to increase fertility.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/17 10:56 PM
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I would definitely look into hormonal bc then! I am a natural B cup as well and my birth control gave me a full C cup. I have to admit I feel sexier having fuller breasts. It gives most women bigger breasts from what I've heard.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/17 10:45 PM
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Do you take birth control? The estrogen in them usually enlarges your breasts. Push up bras are also great for a temporary fix. Not sure what can be done about the hips, I don't think much could be done there unfortunately beside surgery. And maybe I'm old fashioned but I don't think it's ok for your boyfriend to look at other women around you. Women always try to be strong and act like it doesn't bother them, but it usually does. You can tell him it bothers you, there's nothing wrong with being…
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/17 10:34 PM
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I edited my comment, I think you should limit your exposure to seeing those type of women. Not only are those body types very rare, but they're also edited and airbrushed so that their skin looks perfect.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/17 10:28 PM
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Ok, I understand better now. Does your boyfriend make comments on other women? Where is this envy of tall women or different looking women coming from? Maybe getting to the root of it would help you feel better.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/17 10:18 PM
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I missed the part that you had a serious boyfriend on my first read, my bad. If you put yourself together and still have very low self esteem, then I think you should try daily positive affirmation. There are different exercises for this you can google, like writing down 5 things you like about your appearance. I also wrote in my other comment that height doesn't matter much for women, which is pretty valid in my experience. Most people aren't going to look at a short woman and say "she needs to…
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/17 10:14 PM
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Is this new information? everyone knows this. This is also a sub for women so I don't think we need to going into detail about what's attractive in men, no offense.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/17 10:08 PM
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Yes. It affects hormones and hormonal imbalance effects ovulation. Do you take enough vit D and omega 3? Vit D has been proven to aid fertility and hormone regulation, omega 3 has some connection as well. They're also good for the thyroid. Many people are deficient in both of those.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/17 10:00 PM
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You can be great at domestic duties, but if you cannot make your man feel warm and happy with your personality alone, then he is not going to fall in love and stay in love.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/17 09:55 PM
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I am not sure what classic pose is, but I have heard the positions where he can go the deepest is the best way. Also, are you using fertility trackers or signs? There is a, uh, very different consistency of a woman's fluids when she is ovulating and most fertile in her cycle. So you need to be sure to be having intercourse multiple times during this period. Have you also been checked for a thyroid issue? Even a mild thyroid problem can decrease fertility. There are a variety of things to look in…
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/17 09:31 PM
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I actually have friends that are pretty tall, and they have more trouble dating. Be careful what you wish for!
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/17 09:26 PM
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There you have it. Dressing well makes you feel good. Strive to build your wardrobe and add quality items. Notice how the "hottest" women are usually wearing quality clothing that fits them well?
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/17 09:22 PM
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Eh. The taller you are as a woman, the less options of men who are taller than you, so it's really not much of an advantage (unless you're a ten, of course, but that's rare) Height really doesn't matter much for women. If you're an average height, your height probably isn't going to be an issue. So don't let that be an insecurity. Maybe the issue is that you look very young and guys assume you are underage? Maybe buying clothes that make you look older would help your confidence. Try dressing in…
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/17 09:14 PM
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Have you looked into more practical solutions? There are certain vitamin deficiencies that can decrease fertility and different ways of having intercourse to improve chance of conception. basically saying, there is MORE you can do and not just give up and say "I'm too old"! Please do some research, and keep trying! This is a practical solution, something pro-active you can do to increase your fertility, rather than give up and blame your age. I realize this isn't exactly "red pill" advice, but t…
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/17 08:19 PM
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Yep. If he is such a fun loving guy, he should show it some way through his behaviors- for tinder, you would show it in some photo or text (cracking a joke, funny photos) rather than simply declaring it. His "looking for" then listing a bunch of adjectives is also a HUGE red flag to me- he is expecting Wonder Woman. This way, he has an excuse to use women for sex and he can justify in his head "oh, she wasn't insert adjective enough for me". This man is not looking for a human woman, he is looki…
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/17 07:55 PM
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There is also a strong possibility that he is misrepresenting himself to draw girls in and get laid. He's on tinder and "owns a firm"? Those two things alone, I would be wary of. Op, you are a little naive to think so highly of a man you have yet to meet. I'm a little worried that your compass for good men is a bit off if you claim this guy is a captain simply by reading his tinder profile.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/17 09:54 AM
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Be careful. Guys looking for younger girls to use for sex is pretty standard on tinder.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/17 06:59 AM
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Ok.. What does she look like ? And why does this matter so much to you? If she won't listen to any of the advice you give, then I think you need to just back off and let her be. And I think you have to remember just because a woman has confidence in her looks, doesn't mean they think they're a supermodel. If she's not good looking but still confident, who is it really hurting? So, maybe it's annoying, but who cares? Just let her be.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/17 06:36 AM
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If he wasn't sleeping with other women, then you were never a plate..
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/17 06:34 AM
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If she's not putting up risqué photos, and is getting such a high volume of sexual comments, then she probably is pretty attractive or has some sex appeal, at least. You don't have to be a supermodel to have a relatively high smv.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/17 04:35 AM
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Does she put risqué photos on the apps? If she's receiving sexual comments from every single man, she may want to change her photos to something more.. wholesome. It seems like a lot of women who get barraged with sexual comment on dating apps is largely due to their style of dress.. and they play dumb as if they don't understand why the men are all saying sexual things within the first conversation. Maybe bring this up to her, not in an accusatory way. I know from experience, that having a bit …
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/17 03:23 AM
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I have no way of knowing if he did this or not, but some men do lie or misrepresent their sex lives to appear more alpha. It is possible he never even had plates or exaggerated them. Not that it matters now, but just a thought. A lot of men can't even provide solid proof of these so called multiple "plates". If he settled down with you only 3 weeks after you met, there is a good chance he was barely even sleeping with other women, or that you were the most attractive/best option :)
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/17 01:11 AM
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The majority of the leftover material from abortions cannot in any way be called a "child". Most abortions occur before a fetus is even formed. Most doctors will not even perform abortion on women who have a near fully formed baby. Your comment is pretty offensive and it is clear you are uneducated on abortion because of religious misinformation that is spread. Op's post had no relevancy to abortion anyway so it's clear you are throwing out crazy things to stir people up. It's fine to not suppor…
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/17 12:56 AM
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How's your social life? Do you put yourself out there to meet men? You have to be putting yourself in positions to meet men, first of all. If you're doing that, and men are not receptive to you, then you're either 1) pretty but giving off a "don't talk to me" feel, or 2) look nice and approachable but your SMV is not high enough. If it is the first option, try smiling more and wear more bright colors. If it's second, find ways to improve your SMV in a conventional sense.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/17 02:52 AM
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Yes. no offense honey but if this man is really as unattractive as you claim, why on earth would you believe him that he's having casual sex with gorgeous young women? Come on. No way he is being honest. I mean is he overweight? Ugly? What exactly does he look like? Honestly if he's lying I would call him out. I mean you married this man. I think it's appropriate that you figure out what the real truth is, for your own good. It will help you move on.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/17 02:40 AM
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I'm not in denial, some fat ugly guy is not going to be hot no matter what unless he's a multi billionaire which is very rare.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/17 02:39 AM
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A man who is a 3 is not going to be more attractive just because he's in a relationship. No way. Even if she's exaggerating and he is more like a 5, he's not going to be getting hot young beautiful women unless he's paying. If he isn't paying, they might be young but probably fairly bad looking, or they're older than he says they are. Something is up here.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/17 01:48 AM
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Yes he is probably lying. I'm wondering if they even exist at all actually. They either exist and he's paying them (and they're probably over 18), or he's completely making up the whole thing. Op says he is a 3, no way an ugly guy is getting all these younger women without paying
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/17 01:43 AM
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I'm pretty sure he is misrepresenting or lying about these other women he's banging. Op says he is a 3, which she may be exaggerating some, but a man who is pretty unattractive is not going to be able to bang hot younger women unless he is paying. So there's something weird going on. Would not be surprised if they're sugar babies or escorts. Either way, the guy is clearly an awful person.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/17 01:41 AM
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If he is an unattractive man and reading trp, it is very likely he is lying about fucking women and is enacting "dread game", where you purposely try to make your partner fearful and jealous to maintain control. I would not be surprised if these women didn't exist, or if they do, they are probably older and a lot less attractive than he says. Or maybe he is not lying, but he is paying these women for sex.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/17 01:35 AM
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so you're a man? I thought you were a chick.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/17 04:26 AM
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Yep, he was a really nice guy and was doing well in school. He was not a huge party guy either. They weren't really dating for that entire year, no, but they knew each other very well from working closely together on a project (it was an art school) and they began dating someway halfway through the year. even if they were dating the whole year and she waited, the outcome would probably be the same, he still would've left her because he felt he was too young to settle. Unfortunately guys will lie…
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/17 11:41 PM
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I respected your comment until the rap lyrics. Are you serious? Rap lyrics are not meant to be taken as wisdom..that just ruins your credibility. you think any woman who is good at sex isn't fit for an LTR? It doesn't take a lot to get "good" at sex. Really, it doesn't. Sex is relatively easy thing to be good at. The fact that you don't realize this, makes me believe you are sexually inexperienced or insecure with your OWN sexual skills. I think it says more about you than others.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 07:41 PM
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I'm not even sure what a high N is.. I mean mine is higher than yours if yours is only 4, lol. I think I've seen threads on red pill related sub saying anything over 5 is a slut which I'm a bit baffled by. If a girl is attractive and goes to college, chances are the average N for a girl like that is going to be probably somewhere around 10. Maybe even more if the girl was a big partier and went to a large school. Hook up culture and casual sex has gotten even easier to obtain since I was in coll…
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 12:09 PM
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If a young man and woman are out having a drink, and they don't know each other well, and the guy is attractive, and he is buttering her up and coaxing her to come home with him, what incentive does she have to turn him down? She's young and a lot of young women have their education in mind rather than "I need to save myself for marriage". a lot of people don't even care about n-count.. I mean maybe in very conservative areas, but I grew up in a wealthy place but I never heard of the concept of …
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 11:00 AM
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Well whatever. There's pros and cons to every race. With pretty white women you get pretty eyes and (usually) nice boobs or butt or both. With asians you get tiny eyes and thinness.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 10:41 AM
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Are these men single though ? As in unmarried? I feel like if a man hasn't married by a certain age there's a good chance his RMV or even SMV isn't that great, despite his wealth. Idk, there was this older guy on another sub who talked extensively about how he went to Asia to find a wife. He made a big deal of thinness and how women need to be thin. Then he revealed he had a bmi of 28. I don't think fat men who harp about women needing to be thin are very high quality men. They're using the doub…
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 09:25 AM
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It is not that they are offensive to look at, just that there are men who aesthetically prefer a larger eye or lighter eye color and asians usually don't have those traits. My main point was that not all western men are into Asians.. I'm sorry if I offended you, it was pretty blunt. It seems to be some weird thing on red pill that they think all western men are going for Asian women, but this is not what I've seen in real life, is all I'm saying.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 08:03 AM
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You're Mgtow so I'm not sure if I want to take advice from you. Not that women should aspire for a high n, but I don't think it's responsible for divorces. I think many (attractive) women initiate divorces because of stress of managing both children and work and feeling their husband doesn't appreciate them. Since they're attractive they know they will have other options of men to date. I think it has little to do with N, it's just that high N is common among American women who are attractive an…
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 07:03 AM
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It is only alpha men who are polyamorous by nature. Beta men aren't. I think if some beta guy had a high N due to like banging prostitutes or something then that would be a big divorce risk as well.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 06:29 AM
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maybe relationships in the west are harder because so many options and so few time, and not directly related to an arbitrary number. Obviously if a woman has lived in some tiny village her whole life, she will not have a high N.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 06:14 AM
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Well I mean, I would prefer the man I end up marrying to be 9 inches (you know what I mean) and 6 foot 4, but it's "just the way things are" that most men don't possess both of those traits, or the ones that do are more likely to cheat and be terrible husbands. Women have to settle just like men do. You are not going to marry a beautiful woman who is a virgin.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 06:12 AM
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Ugh. Please don't start ranting about Disney lies like those autistic Mgtow guys.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 06:09 AM
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How are men with high N count not more likely to divorce? Men with high N are usually attractive alpha types who are prone to cheating on their wives.. so it would make a lot of sense that n-count would matter for men in regards to chances of divorce.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 06:05 AM
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I don't know.. The thing is, with this n-count thing, I have personal experience with it.. I've only been asked once about it, and the guy that asked was a very insecure guy who I found out (we only dated for a month..) was on anti-depressants, made the salary of a teacher, dyslexic, and he made random mean comments towards me about my wealthy upbringing. And he asked me my n-count very soon after we began dating. So I have a VERY bad perception of men who care about n-count. I dont even have a …
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 05:44 AM
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I know, but this isn't as big of a thing in real life as you're making it out to be. a lot of men don't seem to ask n-count, I mean I've only been asked once and another woman in this thread said she was asked only once as well. The man that asked me also happened to be incredibly insecure and weird too. I think he was just asking to make sure mine wasn't higher than his. my n count wasn't high but I could just tell he was insecure over the fact that I had slept with anyone other than him, which…
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 05:34 AM
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There's also a number of women who have very high N of many ONS and random men, but they learned to lie and say it's only like 5, lol. And they can get away with lying because they can claim they only had sex with the few men they seriously dated. How would anyone know the truth?
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 05:18 AM
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It is almost like there is no perfect woman and you just have to pick the one you think is best?
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 05:03 AM
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Ok, but this seems to contradict your original post a bit. You say n-count is extremely important in your post, as if looks are secondary. So it is a bit confusing..
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 05:00 AM
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Yes but correlation does not imply causation. People who have high N are more likely to be attractive and college educated (lots of people rack up their N-count while in college, the atmosphere encourages promiscuity). So it might be more that attractive, college educated people are more likely to divorce, because if someone is attractive and educated then they will have naturally more options of people to date.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 04:50 AM
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A lot of high status men may be attracted to Asian women because of their look or submissive culture but most of these men still settle down with white women. Being the same race and having similar cultural backgrounds is important to most.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 04:41 AM
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I have seen other studies showing that people who get married before 25 have the highest risk of divorce, and a lot of those people are religious/traditional types. What is the truth?!
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 04:13 AM
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Uh, well hate to burst your bubble but I'm living proof that you're wrong.. I didn't have a high N and he didn't ask me for it. I think he just figured out, after the debacle with his ex, that he would rather just not know, so he didn't ask. But I still think you're wrong in that most men genuinely put N-count as some #1 priority. I think there are plenty of men who accept that the woman had a past and has been with other men, and leave it at that. Obsessing over a number from the past seems... …
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 04:05 AM
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I don't think anyone wants anyone who has a high-n, whether male or female. But if the person is attractive and you enjoy being with them, then their n-count becomes less important. Most people can get over it. I actually find it weird for someone to dwell on how many people their partner has had sex with. It seems unhealthy. Especially considering there's no way of knowing the real truth. Just move on and enjoy your time together and pay attention to their actions.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 03:58 AM
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Every attractive woman will have been with men in the past. Young women's n-counts are increasing these days, whether you like it or not, women are practically encouraged to be promiscuous. not much men can do but get over it and choose to live in the moment rather than dwell on the past.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 03:54 AM
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That's it? The rest of her personality doesn't matter?
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 03:48 AM
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I don't think that is "most important" to some men. Most women these days lie about their n-count for fear of being judged anyway, so who even knows the truth. Do attractive men bother asking attractive women (who used to be party girls) for their n-count? I think they learn not to, because they figure it is high and don't really want to know. I dated someone when I was younger, who told me he asked his ex for her N while they were dating. He said hers was higher than his, and he got angry. He d…
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 03:41 AM
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Ok. So 4 men? That still isn't the CC, considering there are 25 year old women these days with 50+ partners. Since you're over 50, I don't think you would know how it is out there and how promiscuous a lot of young people are.. lmao. The op is over half your age!
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/17 03:33 AM
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Not really, men need to do their part as well. I went on a date with a guy once, with a nerdy guy who was clearly below my league in the looks department, and he was mean and insecure. I did literally nothing to him for him to be disrespectful. In that case, the onus is on him to simply improve his self esteem and provide basic respect.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/17 09:58 PM
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But your career is not feminine!! I'm not saying this to insult you in any way. It's just how society views stem careers; they are NOT seen as feminine. Those other careers you mentioned are feminine, yours isn't
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/17 09:25 PM
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But that's not my point. The dating game has changed a lot since 40 years ago. lot of geeky guys don't know how to be confident so they employ this "I'll just be mean to her so I seem confident" thing. It's like a pua/neg thing and a surprising amount of guys do it. I mean sure some nerds are nice and don't do this, but plenty are bitter and mean because they're used to getting passed over for the more alpha guy. So even when a hot, nice girl shows interest, they screw it up with her. Bringing u…
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/17 09:15 PM
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All I'm saying that if you are in healthcare making 6 figures, people are going to look at you funny if you tell them your career is "feminine".
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/17 09:13 PM
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Yeah but female doctors are not really considered to be feminine in their career. If someone is talking about you and say "oh yeah, she went to med school and now a doctor" their first thought is not going to be "wow, what a feminine woman!" They are going to think, "wow, she is a smart and accomplished woman" Just saying. And unfortunately this can drive men away if they earn less than you! I think we talked about this before sort of, I mentioned you should try dating men who make close to your…
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/17 08:23 PM
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What exactly is your career? Usually stem does not directly refer to healthcare, it is more along lines of science and tech than caring for individuals. Scientists, engineers, software developers make up most of stem and those jobs aren't very feminine in nature. Most people are not going to look at a stem job as feminine, please be aware of that! feminine careers are more like fashion, makeup, non-profits, nursing, childcare, etc. basically, not many feminine careers are high paid.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/17 08:16 PM
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One of my college friends waited to have sex with a guy for a year and he ended up ditching her a few months after even though he claimed he "really liked her". I felt bad for her that she wasted so much time liking that guy. He wasn't even particularly attractive either, was kind of a manlet. I just think guys in college, in general, are not the best options for commitment. Best to just not hook up with guys in college if you expect any kind of commitment.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/17 07:19 PM
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I'm sure you're a real catch yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/17 07:00 PM
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Other people have said she's dating too young.. I think that's the main issue.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/17 06:58 PM
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A young city guy with a good job and high smv? There's no way he would've bothered seeing op past the second meeting if her smv wasn't high enough for him. The main issue was probably just that these guys are too young and not looking to commit.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/17 06:25 PM
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I agree. It sounds like the boyfriend is having his cake and eating it too- going to work, having girls flirt with him (and not properly shutting it down, therefore disrespecting his SO and making her feel insecure) then coming home to his SO who has made a clean home and food. This isn't fair to op.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/17 06:17 PM
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A wise committed Captain would shut down that slut and not tell his girlfriend about it. I'm not going to lie, it does seem suspicious. Remember, sluts need to be fed with attention in order to keep slutting. There is a good chance that he is lying to you and acting like he's not flirting with her, but he actually is flirting. This guy is 29, he should be more concerned with what YOU think than what some random slut as work thinks. Also, you say "younger slut". At 25, you shouldn't be worrying a…
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/17 05:13 PM
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Alphas have experience with women, so they know damn well that would make a girl jealous. It is a bit manipulative. He could've just said "let's keep it casual" or just something that focused the wording on her and no harm done. Instead he blurted out that he's fucking other women... that isn't appropriate thing to say unless you're trying to be manipulative. He's trying to make her insecure and pit her against these other women. (If the other women even exist..) But either way, alpha or not, sh…
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/17 04:54 PM
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I thought it might be but at the same time they write such lengthy responses that it seems like a real person whose just a little off? I don't know, some people are kinda neurotic.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/17 04:50 PM
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How is a stem job feminine? No offense. Just curious why that's a "feminine" career.. most people don't think of that as a feminine job at all.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/17 04:50 PM
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Lol wtf. I had to look up what hnwi meant. Seriously, I have grown up wealthy and never heard this term.. is this supposed to be some term everyone knows? I come from a very wealthy town, then my parents moved to a community with more wealthy couples and families.. most middle age men stay within their age range and don't commit to super young women. By commit I suppose I mean marriage... Literally none of these wealthy people I knew married women "two decades their junior" it doesn't happen tha…
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/17 05:50 AM
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Lol. Just because I am writing long comments doesn't mean I am hamstering.. Men cannot see through good makeup. Good makeup can make literal ugly women look hot. Granted, it does need to be applied very well Hair styling and extensions can also help a ton, and wealthy women can afford those a lot easier than poor ones. And I don't think you have experience with wealthy social circles if you think a high quality man with a good career and upbringing would pick a "hot" poor woman with ugly tattoos…
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/17 05:06 AM
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Are you saying like..men that are mostly beta but they try to act alpha? I feel like a lot of men do this. I think part of why this happens is that men are always told "be confident" to get laid. Unfortunately a lot of betas aren't confident so they just end up being mean to women and then call that confidence. And I also think most men overestimate their looks. It seems like there's some idea that women overestimate their looks but I don't think they do as often and if they do it's like only a …
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/17 05:03 AM
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The only problem is that those geeky or shy guys can be insecure and be pretty mean to hot girls, because they are used to being rejected or passed over by them. The alpha guys are actually nicer overall to hot girls, but unfortunately they are way more likely to cheat.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/17 04:31 AM
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Being thin with an average face isn't enough to attract really good men though. There are plenty thin women with unfortunate body proportions. Also you still have to dress well and have nice hair styling and makeup in order to attract high quality men. A lot of thin poor women have one or more of the following: bad clothes, bad teeth, bad hair color, ugly tattoos/piercings, etc. A high quality man wants a woman to be put together already, he doesn't want a pet project. This is why I don't fully …
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/17 04:20 AM
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Hmm. What is your dressing style like? makeup? Hairstyle? If you style yourself in a way that is too "out there " or even just too sexy, I feel like this attracts players. Maybe you can tone it down? If you wear hair extensions - take them out. Wear flats. Dress more casually. Don't wear too much makeup. Don't show cleavage. Don't wear clothes that are too tight. Don't wear those crazy kardashian waist cinchers. If you have a "loud" hair color, try something more natural. If you look more natura…
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/17 03:46 AM
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I don't think 2 men over a period of more than a year counts as CC. This comment also seems a bit.. mean spirited.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/17 03:21 AM
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I agree that it seems like a low grade manipulation
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/17 03:09 AM
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I think you're better off dating closer to your age range. If you're late 20's, then try 5 years older, or less. I feel like dating 10+ years older is too much of a gap- a lot of those guys are actually a bit creepy and trying to take advantage of young women, the ones who are 40-50 and exclusively trying to date women in their 20's, so be careful. Those men that exclusively try to date women nearly half their age are even more immature than some men closer to your age. They are trying to play y…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/17 11:19 PM
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So, I don't fully agree with wondergirl, but I think even if a girl is a catch in his college, this doesn't mean she is immune to getting cheated on or dumped. Why? Because hook up culture, and also guys in college are pretty dumb when it comes to girls (these are 18-22 year old guys we are talking about) they're not old or mature enough to recognize when they get a girl who is a "catch" so they usually screw it up by cheating or dumping her just to play the field. Many guys tend to cheat down, …
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/17 07:22 PM
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I think I agreed til you said the average guy has all these options of beautiful women. Lol that has not been true in my experience. But ya I agree it's hard like say if the girl is an 8-9, for example, she will need to date below her league if she wants a guy who will be truly committed to her. Because 8-9 men tend to be big players especially when they are young, many of them don't want to commit or when they do commit they end up cheating. This tends to get better as they get older and mature…
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/17 07:03 PM
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I see what you're saying but I don't know if I agree fully, because young women in the upper tier of attractiveness can usually get young men to commit. But the issue is, she will either have to date a safe guy whose looks are below her league ("settling") , or she will date in her league, but the guys in her league have a lot of options and take advantage of that, and so there is a good chance he might cheat or lie to her. I've seen this happen in many young relationships when she dates in her …
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/17 04:42 AM
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Yes. I also think some young women are open to relationships but they just end up getting sex. There is a certain age group where many guys decide they are not going to commit and only play the field, even if they meet a girl they like and could commit to. Sometimes they even lie to the girls they are sleeping with and say they're committed to them.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/17 02:37 AM
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A brief look at your post history makes me think you are not a woman.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/17 02:17 AM
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No. There is no excuse for it.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/17 11:35 PM
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But the man you commit to needs to have some beta/bp traits. A full-on alpha does not make for a good committed relationship (ie cheating). There is no perfect man, remember that.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/17 10:10 PM
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Well maybe america's expectations of two earner household is not the best expectation considering the divorce rate ? People can expect two earner household but that surely doesn't make it the healthiest arrangement. I mean studies show most women initiate divorces. I think it's because women are now expected to work AND take on the brunt of the childcare. This is what I think women should negotiate with their husbands, if possible, to be a SAHM because working AND taking care of most of the hous…
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 08:02 PM
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I don't think posting a modest gym selfie or wearing a bikini makes someone a "wannabe baddie" ? That bikini pic wasn't even posted by her, that is someone else's Snapchat.. they are at the pool, she's wearing a bikini. Nothing wrong with it. Being RPW doesn't mean we have to look like nuns at all times. Edit- the blog dubbed her a 7, I'm curious what people's thoughts are on that. i think a 7 is low balling it. I think she's a strong 8 or maybe even 9 in the real world. I mean she is fit, blond…
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 07:35 PM
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Yeah but when you factor in the cost of quality childcare sometimes a SAHM is a better option. I guess it does depend where you live. And some people don't trust their young children with strangers. You realize you have to pay an hourly wage for childcare right? Who is responsible for paying that.. the mother or father?
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 07:25 PM
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I think there are a lot more men than 5-10% who make enough money to afford a SAHM. I don't know where you live but I live in the US and you don't need to be super wealthy to afford it. Remember, you don't pay a SAHM an hourly wage like you need to pay a nanny or a daycare, you need to take this into account. Paying someone to take care of a newborn baby or toddler is even more expensive so a SAHM is pretty useful in that baby's first few years. I think, at least for the first years of the child…
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 06:39 PM
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"Who is getting more" is a weird way to frame the question. should be "what's best for our family". And SAHM is good for a lot of families. SAHM is still a job, just an unpaid one. It is raising a human. I mean why do you think nannies and daycare people get paid to take care of children? It is not easy, they would do it for free if it was fun and easy
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 05:41 PM
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What are the other signs of immaturity?
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 06:54 AM
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I was going to respond (to the person you replied to) with something along these lines. Like where do you draw the line? Because with every relationship there will be some difficulty but say we decide to break up.. well we will just encounter some other difficulty with someone else.. so it's hard to know when to walk away.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 06:54 AM
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Being feminine and having fun with your guy may be simplistic but they're still extremely important to a man's satisfaction with his life. Sometimes men dump a woman who was committed and loyal, feminine, fun, and had good sex with, simply because they're getting "bored" or think they should play the field. Sometimes they end up regretting it because not all women in this modern era possess all those qualities. This happened to me when I was young actually, this guy thought he wanted to play the…
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 12:37 AM
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It might be him yearning for his youth, and not so much the ex. Maybe he just has nostalgia. But I don't know, still believe it's a red flag that he is hung up on years ago. He should be living in the present. Have you mentioned to him it's weird to talk about it? I would just be blunt honestly. This is a subject that you may need to be confrontational about.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 12:26 AM
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I think in this situation it's more about the emotional maturity of the man. Some men are really bad at dealing with their emotions and getting over things from the past and it affects their current relationships. It most likely has little to do with her, he needs to learn to get over the past. There are men who do this even when their current relationship is great. They're just immature
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/17 11:59 PM
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I agree. This can be a sign of emotional immaturity. He should be mature enough by now to accept that things ended and live in the present.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/17 11:37 PM
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Your mom was with a man for 30 years. Imagine being with someone that long only for it to end? Also I'm not sure she was alpha widowed just because she went through a divorce. I guess it doesn't really matter but yeah, plenty of women divorce beta men and then complain about them lol just saying. You probably think highly of him Because he's your father but this doesn't necessarily make him an alpha. Maybe you can take her out somewhere and do a physical activity that takes her Mind off it. Comp…
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/17 08:28 PM
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What?! Being great domestically and also good at pleasing a man sexually is a big thing in a marriage! Why are you acting like this isn't valued? take into account how so many marriages are these days- wife is fat and lazy and the couple rarely has sex. A woman who keeps herself fit, gives frequent sex, and is good domestically is a blessing.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/17 08:14 PM
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Not really, when you consider the other option. You still have to find someone to care of your young children. other option involves paying a stranger an hourly wage to take care of the child. So when you think about it a man will benefit more from having a SAHM because he doesn't have to pay her anything. Not to mention his wife gets to bond with the children and if he's a decent man who loves his wife and children he would enjoy seeing them bond. I guess you're right in that you need a high qu…
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/17 08:11 PM
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You're looking at this like the man isn't benefiting from the SAHM arrangement at all. That is a silly way to look at it. If a man has a SAHM wife, then he gets the benefit of seeing his wife using her maternal Instinct to raise their child, and he also gets the benefit of not having to pay a stranger to raise his own child. There are plenty men who would enjoy seeing the woman they love raise their own child. Weird that you don't seem to understand this... And a woman doesn't have to ask a man …
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/17 01:17 AM
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This is true. I wasn't trying to make excuses for him, just to explain why.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/17 09:09 PM
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Being SAHM is probably the most feminine and maternal job of them all. And it is a commendable one. I personally like the idea of being a SAHM. I don't like how people are encouraging women to "go back to work" when their children are still so young and then they pay some random woman to nanny and take care of their kids. I think it is a lot more natural to take care of your own children rather than some woman you barely know or to throw them in daycare. I mean if you have a demanding career or …
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/17 08:08 PM
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There are plenty overweight low SMV who are SAHM. I'm not sure of what op's value is but she sounds fit, at least. I don't see why op should give up her desire to be SAHM if that's what she wants. If she is a 7 or higher and has a good RMV, why would she find that difficult to find a man who wants the same arrangement? Maybe you're a man who wouldn't be into that arrangement, but there are plenty of men who would like their partner to raise their children instead of nannies and daycare. Also, I …
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/17 08:03 PM
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I agree. I think we have to remember that men are not immune to insecurities, just like women. It is possible his behavior is based in his own insecurity and he is projecting it onto her when he tells her things like "I used to like your friend" or "I like long hair" when she clearly has short hair. He very well may be insecure about his own looks or about guys she used to like.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/17 07:48 PM
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You said "you" so obviously was meant to be personal.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/17 07:35 PM
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Lol my comment was about women in general, not me. You're making this personal so I guess I struck some chord with you.. are you the older dude in that situation? You think young good looking men never commit to anyone? That's just false. Yeah sure plenty of them go through periods of sleeping with lots of girls but sometimes that gets old and they commit to someone. 10 girls a week is a bit extreme, I think it would be more like 2-3 max even for a really good looking guy. Most men have never be…
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/17 09:24 PM
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Real life isn't hyperbolic though .. rp is based on real life, so the majority of people, therefore a random druggie celeb is a weird example to use
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/17 05:21 AM
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But looks still do matter for men. I mean.. say a young woman has a choice of two men to date. One guy is like a young Brad pitt, thick full hair, gorgeous smooth skin, funny, energetic, close to her age. Other guy is like 15 years older, looks more like her dad than her peer, has some wrinkles, thinning hair, but has a better job than mr Brad. His demanding job has made him tired And boring, yet wealthy. Which do you think her heart will want? Her bank account might want the boring older guy, b…
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/17 02:50 AM
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Yes. I suppose it could also be genes too. I've always had really clear plump thickish skin, just nice skin I suppose lol. and I also think how well people age is based on genes, provided that you don't engage in things that are known to age the skin. I've noticed that certain skin types don't age as well. Like my old friend, for example, she always had thinner looking skin, so thin you could see her veins. I realized that I am aging a little better than her. Makes sense because the skin thins a…
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/17 01:34 AM
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Lindsay Lohan is a pretty extreme example though. Most women don't age that badly. She was a drug addict and heavy smoker.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/17 01:25 AM
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I agree with this a lot. I always sought long term commitment but it was difficult when I was young. I always felt like I ended up with guys who weren't my first choice ( in terms of personality ) . And it wasn't cause I was overestimating my looks- actually one of the guys I wanted commitment from was actually below my league, a few people actually pointed it out to me lol. But he just didn't want a girlfriend at the time. I find that men take me more seriously now that I don't look childlike a…
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/17 01:15 AM
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The only way I didn't achieve my potential was not properly shaping my eyebrows - lol. I actually think I look better now and I don't think it's just styling tbh. I was very baby faced looking when I was in my teens and 20. Right now my face has lost a touch of that volume in the cheeks and my cheekbones are more prominent, I think I actually look sexier and less childish now. When I was 20 I still looked underage like a kid. If most men think a childish looking 20 year old is a "peak", then I w…
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/17 12:51 AM
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But some people exaggerate the difference in SMV drop from age 20-30 some. some people claim a woman loses 3-4 whole points of SMV, while men don't? I disagree with this.. I think it's more like .5-1 (given she has good genes and has taken care of her looks well). We need to keep in mind there are plenty of women who age well. it's not very productive to make sweeping generalizations about the wall and acting like the wall happens so early. Also they act as if men don't drop at all in SMV, thoug…
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/17 12:44 AM
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You used to be ugly? I thought you used to be a model? You modeled while ugly? something suspicious here
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/17 12:19 AM
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I just find it a little concerning how long you have been single. something just seems amiss. Is it possible you could try asking these guys why? Just say "be brutally honest, why will you follow/text and date me short term, but not commit to me? I thought we had something" Maybe there is something you're doing or saying that they could help you out with. It might hurt but at least you'll know why. Are you afraid of their honesty?
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 10:56 PM
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Ok well.. Not sure why your post history is so .. extensive on this issue. I mean it sounds like you add all these men to your social media.. are you perhaps doing something on social media that is offputting to them? Do you post thirst traps? Do you write weird long captions? Do you talk shit about men? Do you tmi? if we are being honest, something probably is going on here that is driving them away from committing. 8 years is a long time for a young woman to be single. Another idea.. Is it pos…
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 10:43 PM
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But are you family oriented? Do you want to find a man that you will have children with? LA is not the best place for this, even if you do find a committed relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 08:41 PM
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By "killing the game" I just meant men who do well in dating, sex, commitment, whatever it be. Low quality men will inevitably need more guidance
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 06:38 PM
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I agree with you- I've been to the red pill subs for guys, and it basically looks like a PUA manual. It is offputting, especially for us women who want commitment. But you have to remember, men and women are different so inevitably we will want different things, especially at different periods of our lives. And I certainly do not agree with the tone of a lot of their posts there- they can be very woman- hater and rude. I don't read there. But I do like this red pill women sub usually, and feel c…
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 06:29 PM
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I think you're right. Mostly low caliber. It's not exactly a place that attracts high quality men who are killing the game lol!
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 04:44 PM
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Don't block them- just ignore them. Keep meeting new men to take your mind off the olds. If they're in your social circle, do not have sex with them unless they agree to commitment! Extremely important. Try meeting men online maybe? Specifically put - "looking for commitment " in profiles. Will cut down on amount of men just trying to hook up. Don't do tinder. Try OkCupid or some other relationship- geared one. Men who want commitment will not be deterred by you saying you want commitment!!
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 01:44 PM
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read some of your comments in this thread. Sounds like you're placing too much weight in your looks. You keep saying you're a model and very attractive. "Very attractive" will catch the eye, but it won't make him stay. you are probably missing the warmth and personality to make men feel good in your presence. If you believe your location to be the problem, then you should move. LA isn't the best area to find nice family oriented men- You honestly should've thought of moving right after you were …
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/17 01:35 PM
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How long were you exercising before you gained that weight? Some of it might be muscle. Though like others said, you're probably eating too much also
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/17 11:24 AM
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Oh my. That.. well more power to them I guess, but I couldn't imagine being 17 and seeing my dad marry someone 2 years older than me.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/17 02:18 PM
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Interesting.. thanks for sharing! I don't think the 25/50 is common at all. I am wondering how often those relationships work out, because I was under the impression red pill likes to think older men can date a 25 year old woman at will. I would assume most relationships with so wide of an age difference would be more like cold emotionless type of "arrangements", like sugar baby/sugar daddy. It is one part of red pill that I don't agree. I think people should stay in their age range.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/17 11:42 AM
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No, larger social circles mean more variety for women to pick from as well. And some of these loud women pursue men these days, not everyone is red pill.. I have actually known of at least 10 relationships where the girl pursued the guy and was more aggressive than the guy initially. When you act like a man is the only one who does the picking, you're ignoring the fact that many people are blue pill.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/16 02:16 AM
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Another person suggested Asos, I think I'll go for that. They seem to have quality clothes that are decently priced.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/16 02:13 AM
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This is great, thank you. I really appreciate the specific suggestions. I wanted to get a visual idea and this is perfect.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/16 02:12 AM
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Except.. Many men think they're more attractive than they are, and they are simply not attractive enough for dread to work. Plenty of men mistakenly try dread on a woman who is equally attractive as him, or even more attractive than him, and it doesn't work well. I once had this male friend who I genuinely believed was into this type of thing. He was pretty unattractive, and I was way hotter than him. Men like him who are unattractive need to realize that the only way you'll ever possibly "date …
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/16 01:59 AM
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This is spot on. Especially the second paragraph. I think this happens in many relationships or marriages, especially young ones. The guy initiates the dread, then the girlfriend quietly gets "revenge", then the relationship crumbles into resentment and distrust. Like I said in my other post, I think the only time dread game would work is if the man is extremely attractive. Like a 10. Most men are not a 10, therefore dread won't work.I tried to explain in my other comment why I think so.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/16 01:49 AM
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I think there's a big difference between a man being desired by other women vs. a man desiring other women, though. Imo, a man has to be super hot for dread game to truly work. He needs to be hot enough to get stares from women, basically. If a man is just average or mildly attractive, and he's constantly looking at women who don't return his looks, then it makes him look stupid. Hence why the dread game only works when the guy is extremely attractive.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/16 01:25 AM
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I think there needs to be a delicate balance between complimenting your girlfriend and noticing other women (soft dread) though. There are men who go overboard with the dread game, so much that you realize they're full of it, so it backfires. My ex, for example, would comment on women, but it took a turn when he started to greatly exaggerate their attractiveness. He once told me this mildly attractive woman he once knew was the "hottest girl he had ever seen". He didn't tell me her name (probabl…
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/16 01:17 AM
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it's weird to me that you automatically assume its because I'm not physically desirable. I am attractive and have been told so by many people. Why is it so hard to believe it could be my location. I've met quality men in other locations and I recently men a quality man but I don't feel a spark with him. I stayed with my ex for a while, who was an attractive man who promised to change. Does this mean I'm low quality woman? I don't think so. I think it just means I would allow a man to try to prov…
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/16 12:49 AM
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Yes, but the problem is some of them aren't as upfront about it, like my ex. I didn't find out he was a functioning alcoholic until 4 months in. He was definitely intelligent because he was crazy good at hiding it. He had good qualities, but was unable to channel them into success.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/16 12:45 AM
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I know not to be fooled by social media, but I do have to disagree a bit, sorry, but I think it's not an illusion and that these men may simply be better. It also may be the location, so they are outgoing women and just exposed to a wide variety of men, because some of these women are outgoing and live in big cities, while I am an introvert and live in a small town.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/16 12:42 AM
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We have talked on the phone a few times and been on 2 long dates. I feel bad for not having a spark with him, but he is truly an amazing guy with other great qualities, so at the same time I feel bad if I just say "this isn't working" and bail on him. And I honestly do believe he's probably my best option, at least in this location. I guess I'll stick with him.. You're right. thanks for the reassurance.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/16 12:36 AM
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This must be a misunderstanding. I already dumped the guy from the other thread. But as with most breakups, I'm still thinking about him, and some of the other men I've met recently, hence why the thread was made.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/16 12:33 AM
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Yes I'm attractive but probably don't meet as many men as frequently as someone who is more outgoing. That might be the issue I have, but i still think an attractive, intelligent, and fun introverted woman deserves a decent guy..? People act like just being attractive is enough for women, but truthfully it seems like the women who have a combination of attractiveness and outgoingness are the most successful in getting good men. There are women that I'm honestly prettier than who seem to have qua…
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/16 12:16 AM
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That seems a little silly and unrealistic to say. Do you really think all men in the world will find a woman who is nuts about him? Some men are intelligent, nice, attractive, but kind of boring. That's just the way nature goes.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/16 12:14 AM
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I've lived in 3 different places and never had this issue anywhere else so yes I'm inclined to believe it is partly location of why it's more common here.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/16 12:12 AM
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I think he wanted to change but he didn't have the ability. I'm not seeing him anymore, as a result. He kept saying he was going to improve but he never did.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/16 12:10 AM
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This is true, but during the relationship, I didn't tell him to do anything besides stop smoking so much. He started smoking more, I believe in response to him failing at school. And I didn't tell him to go to school, he did it on his own, but I was disappointed when he failed at it. He made a lot of promises to me that he couldn't keep- the only reason I stayed with him.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/16 12:08 AM
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Or maybe just meet them in the first place. There seems to be a poor selection of men where I live.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/16 12:52 PM
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The guy in the other thread was my ex, who I had to leave because he would not improve himself (even though he said he would improve countless times, I believed him because he was very convincing) but I've also meet a good number of men similar to him (mild addiction issues, undereducated, or both) I believe due to poor location.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/16 12:49 PM
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Yes, I think he is very intelligent, but he's just not funny, at least.. Just not to me.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/16 12:04 PM
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this is a weird comment.. I mean.. She probably knows her boyfriend more than you do? If she's telling the truth and she's accomplishing things while he's remaining stagnant, there's a good possibility he is jealous. That's just human nature, especially for men. They need to feel capable and successful, or else they feel like losers, so they will naturally get easily rustled and bothered when their female partners accomplish anything. That's the whole reason why women need to look for a captain-…
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/16 10:36 AM
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Well I wrote that comment under the assumption that you read my other comments in the thread, before you commented. Maybe it's just my area but I encounter many men like this, who are under-educated or have some deal breaker like functioning substance abuse issues, so it gets tiresome.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/16 10:34 AM
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Personally, I would cut him loose or at least be very skeptical of his behavior. There really isn't much you can do, except lightly encourage him to cut down or cease drinking. But ultimately, he will do what he wants. I might be biased because I've had an AWFUL experience with dating a "functioning" alcoholic man who had pretty bad mommy issues. When a man has a strained relationship with his mother, it's very likely he will have difficult relationships with women, as well. The same goes for wo…
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/16 10:17 AM
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I'm sorry but how is a man who has substance abuse issues and can't graduate college a "good one"? This just seems odd to be defending a man like that. Maybe if he had other redeeming qualities, like artistic or comedic, then he could have some value, but I just don't see how the average joe smoker with functioning alcoholism and lack of college degree can be valuable to most attractive, intelligent women.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/16 10:07 AM
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Um.. No. I graduated school and am not an alcoholic or smoker. There are actually many men who are complete failures at life but try to keep it on the down-low because they know if they don't lie that attractive women with good personalities wont give them the time of day.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/16 09:41 AM
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Yes.. But sometimes there aren't really things you can accept.. Bad habits like smoking, drinking too much, not being able to pass a class? I don't know, there seem to be a lot more of these type of men than there are ones who accomplish things and are motivated in life.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/16 06:59 AM
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Yes, but it seems that the problem is there are a lot more lazy/selfish men than captains. Even worse are the men who pretend to be Captains but theyre actually much less valuable. Even if you encourage the average man to be his best and support him, it seems like many seem to fail.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/16 06:54 AM
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Being pregnant for 9 months and going through all the emotional and physical ups ands downs, only to give away your child, is EXTREMELY difficult. There have been psych studies on abortion and adoption, and women reported feeling low levels of emotional stress from aborting the embryo early in pregnancy. growing the baby and ultimately giving their baby away is a lot more traumatic than abortion for many women. Not to mention, pregnancy can change your body in many ways, and permanently. Not all…
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/16 06:25 AM
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I have anxiety and exercise is extremely important in managing it. It floods your body with endorphins that help alleviate stress. Make some time! Even if it's just 10 minutes of getting your heart rate up. You'll feel better. And drink plenty of water.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/16 06:17 AM
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What exactly are the improvements you made? Just curious. Men take a lot of pride in accomplishments and self improvement, so you might be right that he's jealous of you. It does upset a lot of men to see their partners reaching goals while they're struggling to find the motivation. I'm not really sure how to put this.. But.. Honestly, sometimes you have to let people go if they're not doing anything to help themselves. You can only nudge him for so long before you start to come off like a nag, …
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/16 06:10 AM
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Yes that's probably it. I have had several conversations with younger guys, like 19-23, and they all tell me I look soo young and they emphasize this. I think you're right- they have this idea in their head of what an "older" woman looks like. Maybe some 30 year old women really do look "old", but it's really just a mixed bag and it's weird to act like they all age exactly the same.. Because then you're just ignoring the reality that the way people age is dependent on genetics and environment. G…
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/16 01:37 AM
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I'm nearing 30 and I've not noticed any drop in male attention either. I still get stares and men still hit on me. The changes in my skin really aren't significant and I get told I look younger really often. I think the wall is more like after 40 (unless you haven't taken care of yourself). People saying after 30 are ridiculous and makes me question if they're just bitter at women or something (most people that seem to INSIST that the wall is after 30 are a few men that have commented on here..s…
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/16 07:21 AM
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Oh geez..Someone already downvoted you.. Lol. Men that are hung up on virginity are either insecure or virgins themselves. The male red pill seems to be obsessed with virgins and I find it really weird. as long as the girl has no diseases, it really shouldn't matter, as long as she's capable of being faithful. But I guess it does matter to guys with not much experience or beta guys who are easily threatened by other men.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/16 06:34 AM
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well yes, there are plenty fit women in their 40's and 50's in the suburbs. Many of my mother's friends are 50 and older and they're active and fit. But none of them really look perfect and gorgeous all the time. I was talking more about being picky in terms of other things, like looking perfect with makeup, hair styling, and fashion. Maybe I'm thinking of it in a Kim Kardashian/ celebrity sense, because women like her literally spend 1,000s on their hair, makeup, spray tans. It's not easy to lo…
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/16 10:57 PM
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provide an actual link to this npr, or don't even bother mentioning it. "Red pill facts" are not medical facts. you keep basically saying women have high chance of birth defects babies in their 30's but there are many recent studies showing it only takes a sharp increase after 40. You want to talk about Trump facts? His wife had their son when she was 36. How will you respond to that?
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/16 07:40 AM
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It honestly seems like the average courting would be 5 years more like for people who meet in their early 20's and aren't ready for marriage until late 20's. But if you meet when the woman is 31 and man is 35, for example, would the average courting really be 5 years? I doubt it. Most people know what they want by 31. And the men they're dating will hopefully know as well, so it shouldn't take 5 years of courting to marry.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/16 07:37 AM
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My mother had her second child at 38 and he was perfectly healthy. He is now 23 and in a tech career. Contrast that with a kid I know who is 26, addicted to drugs, didn't graduate college. Guess how old his mother was when he was born? 23. You can try to argue that women having children in their early 20's is the best possible age, but there are many real life stories proving you wrong. Research shows that after 40 is when birth issues really go up. Your statistics saying birth defect risks as h…
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/16 07:33 AM
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Do you really think a 25 year old woman who is a 7 will be a 4 when she's 30? I'm sorry but give me an example of someone who has aged that badly in 5 years to drop 3 SMV. Barring drug addicts and batshit crazy women (Lindsay Lohan, Britney Spears) most normal, healthy, generally stable women who eat well and take care of themselves aren't going to drop 3 SMV points in 4-5 years. Maybe 1 point,if that. Your comment is very strange and doesn't seem based in reality. I have a feeling you're just r…
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/16 07:11 AM
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One of my friends knew and had a crush on a guy for a year and then they slept together and he bailed shortly after. This was in college when they were maybe 21 though, so pretty young. I wouldn't blame yourself for not waiting long enough in this case. I think 4 dates is enough time to decide if you're into someone. So it's possible he didn't like you enough (sorry) or he may have been dishonest about his intentions and pretended he wanted a relationship when actually he's just playing around a…
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/16 06:12 AM
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Ive heads a lot of women lie about their n count in order to seem more picky and valuable.. some even split in half. But 2 isn't high in any sense. So I really wouldn't worry about it. Whether you tell a man your n count is 2 or 0, a sane man should react well to either number. Honestly I think if a man thinks you're a slut for fooling around with 2 men by the age of 22, then I would question whether he's immature, insecure, or both.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/16 06:07 AM
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I think it's mainly just a fantasy that is trotted out over at the male red pill sub. They seem to like to think if they get a good job and work out, that when they're like middle aged, they'll have 20 year old girls lining up for them, while the middle aged women have no options for men at all. They seem to live by the "young women are attracted to status" thing, but what they don't get is that being a 50 year old man and having a decent job doesn't automatically equal high status. There are ma…
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/16 05:50 AM
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Well.. Wow. Honestly, that's a lot to live up to. I don't know if you can really find this exact person with all these requirements. Of course you'll be able to find someone who takes care of themselves and does most of these things you mentioned, but no woman is as perfect as you described. People that look constantly put together are either very wealthy, famous, or both. And even earning as much as you do and taking care of yourself, it's no guarantee you'll be able to meet this woman (no offe…
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/16 05:36 AM
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Ok, I disagree. I think there are many men who are too insecure to have a wife more beautiful than them. Like I mentioned In my post, it doesn't mean a guy will automatically treat the woman better. If he's insecure, he may end up treating her worse than someone who is more in his league. Men like to feel dominant and in control, and being with a woman more beautiful can make them feel anxious and out of control. Will she cheat? Will she leave me for better? Ex
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/16 07:32 PM
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Really? Cause I'm in my mid 20s and those type of men have contacted me on dating sites. You can tell they're old even from faraway photos. A few of them obviously look like they work out. They're not that attractive to me, and I'm not even a very superficial person. I can't be the only girl in her 20's that isn't into older men. I'm still more attracted to men closer to my age. The guy would have to be extremely wealthy to pique my interest enough for me to want to be with him. And if you're wo…
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/16 07:29 PM
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Lol. You got shadow banned from RPW, so I don't even know which post of mine you're replying to. Another low value value man on RPW trying to rustle up the women on here. Pathetic. Your name says it all.. High value men are never named "Jamal".
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/16 11:55 PM
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I guess so.. But illegal activity doesn't seem like it would be desirable anywhere, because of the risk of violence and incarceration. I was under the impression SMV for men has to do with personality as well, and nitpicking and getting panties in a bundle over little things tends to be a personality trait that seems like it would lower a man's value. Almost on par with disability, like you said for lower value men. It strikes me as very feminine and not attractive, high value man seems like he …
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/16 05:21 AM
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Good examples of each.. Thanks. But honestly sounds like your social crowd may be low value if the women date men who end up in prison. I can't imagine a high value woman would be dating a criminal. Even a "kingpin", it still doesn't seem like a high value woman would associate themselves with a drug dealer, they would date a man with a legal, respectful job (king pin is adrug dealer, right?) And I should've been more clear.. I meant men that nitpick women when they're in a relationship with the…
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/16 04:55 AM
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Tinder is well known as a hook up app, so I would stay away from it. Okcupid has a "looking for" part in the profile, and you can select long term dating only. This helps filter out guys who only want hook ups. Otherwise, if you're only meeting guys out at clubs, you're restricting your pool of guys. Online gives you many more options of people you wouldn't normally meet. I wouldn't discount online dating so quickly. There are plenty of normal guys on it just looking for a girlfriend.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/16 04:15 AM
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Honestly.. Try online dating. Okcupid is a pretty good site, IMO. There is a greater pool of guys online than there are out at clubs. You can also figure out easier if the guy is looking for a hookup or not, because most guys who only want to hook up are pretty blunt about it online.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/16 02:49 AM
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There have been multiple studies showing women don't overestimate their own attractiveness, though.. Men do, however. There is even an evolutionary explanation behind why men overestimate their own attractiveness. This makes sense because you see so many unattractive men aiming for beautiful women. http://theconversation.com/shes-just-not-that-into-you-but-you-probably-think-she-is-4779 https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-sports-mind/201507/when-men-arent-good-looking-they-think http://www.…
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/16 01:56 AM
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Yeah.. They've really gotten stingy about prescription pills these days. The kratom reddit is great too for a sense of community...There are a lot of people who post on there who have a chronic illness and use kratom daily to deal with their pain. I think you may like it.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/16 12:17 AM
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Well if you can't get Vicodin anymore- Kratom is a natural opioid and can be bought online.. They were going to ban kratom but they decided not to. Check out the kratom reddit, they have vendors for you to but it. Red kratom is best for pain.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/16 10:32 PM
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Yes but Rc claimed she has heavy periods which cause anemia and she's in bed for weeks at a time because of it. The right birth control could lighten her period. Or even just going to the doctor and finding out if there's something else causing her bleeding issue. Unless she has another separate health issue that Rc doesn't know about, which is weird that Rc wouldn't know about it, since they're married.. And in any case, really I just find it weird that a man with an unfulfilling marriage is co…
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/16 09:23 PM
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It doesn't matter what rule it is, it's still true either way that women will always have more sexual options, even older women.. Especially an attractive older woman who hasn't let herself go.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/16 09:15 PM
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Apparently our friend Rcmasculinity has a wife about 10 years younger than him (he revealed she was a virgin and that she was young and those seem to be the main reasons he really was interested in her ..) and now, she stays in bed for weeks at a time, doesn't help around the house, and didn't help him when he was sick. Literally.. I read his comments in married red pill just to get an understanding and backstory behind his comments and why he's posting "wisdom" in a female sub. Looks like marry…
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/16 09:21 AM
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OMG. Get her on birth control that will lighten her periods and help her anemia. This is a no brainer. Come on. How do you not know about this? And lmao at you coming over to red pill women and shedding your great "wisdom" on us all about how great it turned out for you to marry a 20 year old. Look at how you speak about your wife! Your marriage sounds like you do all the work, and she contributes nothing except being younger. Turns out you probably would've been better off marrying a completely…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/11/16 08:55 AM
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Ok so you're trying to redefine tbe 1-10 scale even though everyone thinks of it as a 1-10 scale. Sorry but that doesn't work. You can't redefine a system that's already in place. And women are just more attractive by nature. That's why so many beautiful women end up with men below their league. Males weren't made to be attractive, so it's harder for a guy to be a 9 than it is for a girl.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/16 05:25 AM
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I'm pretty sure this thread is fake and this guy wrote this thread: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/5enuie/woman_on_askmen_isnt_attracted_to_her/daef9qn/ He responded to several of my posts, basically trying to "set me straight" on not to date or marry a guy above my league. You can go to my thread and see his responses ... I think my thread angered him so now he is trolling as an unhappy woman married to a man above her league. This is my thread - https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWo…
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/16 02:21 AM
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This is red pill WOMEN. You have your own sub. Seriously, go away.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/16 02:17 AM
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Yeah, a true RPW thread, that one of you or your cronies wrote! The mods should ban you for trolling. I'm not "ignoring" the wall, I'm saying some women can delay it if they practiced prevention and take care of themselves. Again, you're a complete moron if you think 30 year old women are all ugly and fat. A woman who is 30, fit, no sun damage, big breasts, and nice body shape is hotter than a 20 year old who lacks these things. This isn't rocket science here.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/16 02:05 AM
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you literally have no reason to be here. You're a dude. This is a female sub. Seriously. It's obvious you're just here to passive aggressively insult women. Creepy.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/16 01:41 AM
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Women are also more likely to get help for depression than men, though. That's why suicide rates among men are is high. They're too "manly" to get help.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/16 01:40 AM
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It's not dangerous for women over 30 to have children.. It's over 40. Use google before you start spouting false information just because you're intent on glorifying 20 year old women. There are many benefits to staying within your age group.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/16 01:38 AM
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The high value older woman is still going to have way more options for casual sex than the man. And there's still the "creepy older guy" stereotype that men need to work against. Women become "milfs" and Cougars, but men have potential to come off really creepy to younger women who can easily score young hot men who don't come off creepy. Even if the older guy is hot, he's still going to be working against men half his age who are even hotter that are trying to date/ get sex from the younger gir…
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/16 12:46 AM
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I had similar issues with my ex. He seemed like a high value guy at first: well-off, nice looking, dressed well, came from a wealthy background. But as I began finding more about him, I realized he had major issues- drinking and drug, Even porn addiction problems on and off, heavy smoker, kinda emotionally abusive. I almost wonder if his abusive mother turned him into a sociopath. He would say mean things to me, then act as if they were jokes or he would deny ever saying them. I fought back, tol…
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 11:05 PM
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Weird because I know a good amount of men in their 20's with a low N count and depression. one is 35 this year, and he has never even had a girlfriend. Others are 26-28, on low dose antidepressants, and partner numbers below 5.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 10:37 PM
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You and your friends need to stop making troll threads on here And get a life. You have your own sub. You're literally just here to belittle women. It's pretty obvious by your posts on here. They're not productive and just alienating to the women on here. Men and women want different things, so male red pill theory isn't helpful here. That's why there are two separate subs. Go back to yours.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 10:33 PM
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I know this isnt super relevant to your comment but I've actually been told I look hotter with my hair up.. Lmao. Someone told me it's because I have a good facial structure. So I find it interesting when people think throwing your hair up = not sexy!
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 09:57 PM
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The waitress wasn't into you, she was just trying to get tips. If your wife had half a brain, she wouldn't feel dread by some hot waitress, honestly. Sounds like your wife has low self esteem, probably brought on by things you've said to her, and you like it. Gross. This is probably an example of a "hot 22 year old" who you believe you could "bend over" if you wanted. But in reality it was just some waitress.. Working her job. That's sad.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 09:41 PM
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Yeah, "easily bend over 22 year old hotties". This is extremely wishful thinking. Men age as well and most hot 22 year old women simply don't go for old dudes, especially for casual sex. They are going to pick a hot dude who hasn't aged a wink. This old dude with young hot chick is mainly a fantasy trope played out in movies, but it's not exactly reality. It's actually pretty blue pill for a man to think he can get older and still fuck as many hot 22 year olds as he wishes. It's played out in po…
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 09:33 PM
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Pretty sure this is a TROLL post made by someone advocating that women should never marry above their league. Everyone, look at the person's user history.. They only have this one thread. This sounds like a bitter troll response to my thread.. There were some select few angry commenters from my thread about women being happier with men who are slightly above their league.. Hmm
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 09:30 PM
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Yeah, seriously! Also, I think people don't get- a lot of this "wall" really does have to do with prevention in earlier years... Like even back when we were kids! Women who have grown up in warm climates will inevitably have more sun damage, therefore more premature aging, therefore hitting the wall "early". If you grew up in a colder climate, (or you grew up in warm but never tanned much) consider yourself lucky. Smoking is also a big ager, and a lot of celebrities who have allegedly hit the wa…
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 07:38 PM
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Yeah. He also said "if you're with a guy who's an 8+, he has tons of options" But actually, women have a lot more options than men at any given time. Also, many men like familiarity. If they settle with a decently attractive woman and she gives enough to the relationship, and they have good sex.. what incentive does he have to leave? Even if a hotter/newer girl comes along, plenty of men wont act on it because they like the familiarity and comfortable nature of their relationship. That's how peo…
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 07:18 PM
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There may be some truth to that theory, unfortunately. Maybe not necessarily that they hate them, but I believe the majority of men truly think they're better than women and can treat them poorly because of this - even very low value men. There is a certain level of delusion among those types of men, though. So their thoughts don't match with reality.. in that some women are higher value than them, and they have to treat those women better or else she will leave or cheat. They think, "oh she's a…
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 06:59 PM
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Really? I would think mama'a boys would actually like women more, if anything. The most damaged man I've dated was abused by his mother as a child. He was a rebellious young child, and his mother couldn't handle it, so she beat him. Pretty messed up. I think that made him truly hate women. But maybe the mother was somewhat of a single mother because his father traveled a lot? Hmm. On the contrary, my brother is a true mamas boy. My mother was very attentive when we were children and we had good …
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 06:52 PM
2

They will do that but deep down all women know the woman is attractive. It is merely a tactic for women to feel better temporarily by insulting other women.. you could get them to admit the woman is attractive, if you wanted, but trust me- they already know, so you can just rest easy knowing they know. And I also don't really see a harm in it- nitpicking someone's looks is ok, as long as you don't voice it to the person. It's kind of a way for women to relate, actually. Like the way men locker r…
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 06:30 PM
1

Yeah seriously. Saying a near perfect women is only an 8 just reflects badly upon other women a little below her, really. Seems like a very sleazy negging PUA-ey tactic tbh: "this super gorgeous women is only an 8, so you're not an 8, you're a 6" like wtf? That will turn many women off. But maybe that's his goal!? ;)
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 06:27 PM
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Your ex said you weren't pretty? Wow, I personally would've gotten so pissed. Did he say that while you were dating or after? If it was during, shit, I would've torn him a new one! Those kind of insults seem not so bad to men when they say them, but they're actually really fucked to say to a woman, especially a woman you're dating and supposed to think highly of. Like what are these losers thinking?wow I think that's the true difference between a secure man and an insecure one. An insecure man w…
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 06:12 PM
4

Good points, thanks. I don't really want a man just for his money.. I basically just want a guy who is a mixture of well-off, intelligent, and funny. But I feel like men with those qualities are rarely single because they're so desirable. Even some hilarious guys that aren't particularly wealthy are taken! I met one guy who's from my hometown, we got along great.. He told me I had a lot to offer.. but he had a girlfriend when I met him. Sigh
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 07:51 AM
1

Oh.. I don't remember the exact details, but I distinctly remember him saying he didn't know if he was going to marry her. I think there's also a small possibility it could've been the black dude she dated. They showed the scene of him singing to his daughter to signal that he was over his wife.. So he may have went back to main character after that.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 06:52 AM
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maybe I've just been unlucky but it seems like I meet a good amount of guys who seem nice at first, but then I get to know them and they seem sort of hateful of women.. Almost like they have mommy issues or something. I have met the past 2 men online.. The both wanted long term..but were also kind of mean. I'm also looking for someone with the same sense of humor, who can make me laugh... Seems like funny men get snatched up so easily, and I just don't meet guys frequently enough to catch one. A…
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 06:19 AM
1

What data? Also..about your previous comment- Unattractive men can get just as upset as attractive men that they're not spreading their seed though..I think that's why so many men look at porn while in relationships- it's an adaptation to monogamy.. A way to play pretend that they're spreading their seed to other women. Even an unattractive man could Cheat in a relationship- hookers ? And you say attractive men are more likely to stray than attractive women.. Maybe true, but that still doesn't m…
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 04:38 AM
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Except they're not the same.. because women and men are inherently different and will therefore want different things out of life. That's actually one of the basics of red pill.. Traditional gender roles. I think you should just get off your little power trip and go back to your reddit. Stop trying to control everything, it ain't going to work. This sub doesn't need some guy policing it to be exactly like the male red pill reddit.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 04:34 AM
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I just clicked that link, didn't realize it was about Megan fox. She has massive sun damaged skin from growing up in California and tanning her whole life. I think she also may smoke. Most women who don't have smoke/don't have crazy amounts of sun damage.. look relatively young and hot at 30, as long as they exercise and eat well. It's not that difficult, unless you've fucked yourself with the sun. If she didn't tan for years, she would still look great honestly.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 04:10 AM
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"They all think of themselves as 8's or 9's" um, read the rest of this thread, please. A woman in here called herself a 4. A lot of women who think of themselves as an 8 or higher actually are. You don't understand the psychology behind being a woman- from an early age, women are bombarded with messages to be beautiful.. There is a billion dollar beauty industry, along with airbrushing and Photoshopped ads, that make even the hottest women feel ugly. If a women still thinks of herself as an 8 or…
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 03:56 AM
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I mean.. You shouldn't have to try to be silly or funny. It's one of those things you can't really learn. If he's expecting you to be more fun but you have a more serious nature, it's possible you're going to have to just tell him it's not you.. You can't have everything in a relationship, there are limitations. With that said, there are plenty other guys that care more about sweet than funny, so I wouldn't sweat it if it turns out the two of you aren't right for each other.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 03:18 AM
1

I just looked that guy up.. Haha. I had no idea. Most handsome tall white men may find Asians somewhat attractive but ultimately don't settle down with them from what I've seen, but I guess there are exceptions. I think I read somewhere on reddit that white women are "being abandoned" for marriage, but I don't see it at all.. Lol. I'm from a very white, wealthy part of the U.S., literally every hot tall white dude from Where I'm from is dating or married to a hot white girl . Just the one tiny d…
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 02:48 AM
1

Maybe for hooking up but most super attractive men don't date Asian women, they date white women with curves in proper places. I went to a very large high school and the one guy who dated an Asian was a tiny dude.. Not phsyically desirable
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 02:37 AM
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Seriously.. If you rate her any lower than a 9 then you either don't like blondes, or your standards are way too high.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 02:03 AM
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See.. I think it's true for many cases, it seems like many of these really attractive guys are very secure in themselves, which makes them more emotionally mature and better partners. And dating a woman a little less attractive than him makes him feel even more secure, because he will secretly be thinking that you can't do any better than him physically, which boosts his ego.. And men love an ego boost. I think a lot of Men won't admit it but they like to be the more attractive one.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 01:51 AM
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Idk, I guess it could've been fat chick but I can't imagine her wanting to climb a mountain .. Lol. And the last conversation she had with the ex boyfriend, about him saying she was so beautiful and how he wasn't sure about marrying the other girl and that he missed her..I can't see him still marrying the other girl after all that. His mother also told her "you're better than her", his family liked her.. All things add up to that she ended up with him, IMO. I think it was just about timing. The …
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 01:35 AM
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Asian women hardly ever have curves though.. A lot of them wear padding to look curvier. If you're a boob man then good luck being super turned on by an Asian, unless she has implants. They also tend to lack any butt. It's extremely easy for a skinny flat girl to just throw on a padded bra and appear hotter than she really is. Fit white/Hispanic girls tend to have better natural bodies than Asians. Also Asian women Tend to look kind of eh without makeup..you have to have Big eyes to look ok with…
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 01:19 AM
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Wtf is this "hook up" culture bullshit- this isn't all about sex. This is about relationships. Leave it to some Internet dude with lack of real life experience to think relationships are all about sex and appearance, lmao. There are multiple women in this thread who claim To be in relationships with men more attractive than them, and they treat them well, so clearly attractive men who are mature don't only care about looks And you write posts like this - https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comme…
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 12:53 AM
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Lol.. No. Margot Robbie is like.. A 9, maybe even 10 to some. I'm curious what exactly you believe she's lacking to make her hotter.. Big tits? Lol. Maybe, actually, you underestimate female attractiveness. And studies say you're wrong: https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-sports-mind/201507/when-men-arent-good-looking-they-think Many studies show men overestimate their attractiveness while women don't, if anything women tend to underestimate their appeal.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 12:40 AM
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If I don't look my age then how am hitting a wall? Women that look younger than their age don't have to worry about that bullshit for a longer period. If you think all women age exactly the same then you're a moron. Some 30 year old women have the looks and vibrance of a 25 year old or even younger. It's about keeping yourself healthy, practicing prevention in previous years, and having a good personal style. To act like all 30 year old women are sexless hags is insane thinking. In fact, one of …
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 12:40 AM
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Um .. No. You're just wrong. Probably a basement dwelling type who doesn't understand much about life. You're literally just regurgitating the male version Of red pill hook up theory that doesn't apply to all situations. Men that want relationships don't go strictly for looks..
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 12:36 AM
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We dated 6 months and I broke up with him because I moved away for a year. When I moved back, I wasn't even thinking about him and he asked me to get coffee and I didn't respond because I was busy with other stuff. He just contacted me again months later, saying he missed me. Just because you have some dumb theory about how men operate doesn't mean it's exactly right. He didn't use me for sex and we had a good relationship. And at the time? Wtf does that mean? If anything, he's become more accom…
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/16 12:35 AM
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Yeah but there still remains the fact that a man may become uncomfortable with a woman he believes is too beautiful for him, so in turn .. he's more comfortable with a woman a little less beautiful than him. The thing for men that are more "average" is that this would require them to date a woman who is not beautiful. So they're faced with this dilemma of dating someone a little higher their league OR a little below.. They usually pick higher, but may find themselves uncomfortable and insecure b…
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/16 10:15 PM
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I met his friends and mother.. so I guess I was above whatever number you think I am.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/16 09:56 PM
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Lmao. But youre acting as if he was light years out of my league, he was just a little above it. It's not like I was a 5 dating a 10. I had more to offer than that, looks wise. So I don't see the issue. And we did have shared interests! Why all the assumptions?? Geez. Like I said, he saw something different in me, and came back to me multiple times. He appreciated my humor and spunk. And damage myself? If anything I've been more damaged by insecure men below my league. And I'm near 30, but liter…
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/16 09:49 PM
1

I thought the ending implied that she was with someone though. She was looking at the view then she turned and looked back and smiled, as if she was looking at someone. I think she may have ended up with the ex boyfriend. He even said he wasn't sure about marrying that other girl, so He was clearly still hung up on her.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/16 10:03 AM
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well that article mentioned how men like beautiful women.. So think of it this way: a "really attractive" guy who is a little more attractive than his girlfriend can still be quite satisfied with her beauty. It's like.. A 10 guy dating an 8 girl. The 8 is still pretty hot so he's satisfied with her beauty. And the 8 girl might make up for any lack of beauty with personality. I also think a lot of decently hot women that are "crazy" can become more pacified and peaceful around a very attractive, …
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/16 09:34 AM
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Shit testing generally doesn't work very well. Even if It does work, it still can put things in the back of someone's head, like the person worries that the shit tester thinks badly of them, so it makes for a relationship of tension. I don't see the point.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/16 09:02 AM
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