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Shoulda waited for Johnny to get back from his mission.
/r/MGTOW02/08/19 07:12 AM
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Yeah, in a sense. Always had a physical attraction to women, but never really cared that much until college when people started making a big deal out of it, but then it became less of a “I’d like to fuck her” and more of a “I’d like to demonstrate that I have the ability to do this.” kind of thing, which also wasn’t healthy. So much easier to just forget about it, and enjoy everything else about life that isn’t a pissing contest over who gets laid the most or who “mans up” and gets married.
/r/MGTOW20/06/19 03:24 PM
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You do you, everyone else can do them.
/r/MGTOW19/06/19 11:01 AM
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The best option is to slowly increase your speed until she starts sprinting then sprint past her and go wherever you were going.
/r/MGTOW06/01/19 04:49 PM
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Not Utah but literally 3 miles from the state line.
/r/MGTOW03/12/18 08:28 AM
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Snow in Cedar? Damn didn’t know the storm hit that far south.
/r/MGTOW03/12/18 02:51 AM
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Wells, Winnemucca, Ely, there’s a big billboard telling you where to go.
/r/MGTOW26/11/18 04:26 AM
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Learn how to count cards.
/r/MGTOW23/11/18 11:38 PM
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That’s nice and all, but you’ve gotta rubber band that cash, otherwise it’s just sloppy
/r/MGTOW23/11/18 06:27 AM
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Thanks brother, it really has been a big upturn.
/r/MGTOW18/11/18 10:05 AM
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I’m no longer dealing with whichever flavor of the month fuckbuddy was asking for money, no longer wasting money on things that I only wanted to seem more attractive to women, no longer working at a company ran by incompetent people, some men, but mostly women and have made huge strides with self-employment this year. Earned 6 figures for the first time in my life, with virtually no major expenses, and the year isn’t even over, I work when I want or need to, not when I’m told. Plenty of disposab…
/r/MGTOW18/11/18 02:17 AM
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My poor choices in college made it so my work out of school was in a female dominated industry (mental health), before I finally had enough of it and broke into a new field where I’m self-employed I was told I couldn’t get a raise with my promotion and forced relocation because I wasn’t “pulling my weight”, in spite of managing our most profitable location with little help, maintaining a full caseload and taking on regional manager duties, once the previous regional supervisor quit. That’s the s…
/r/MGTOW17/11/18 05:22 PM
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I know this guy, it’s very likely exactly what he did.
/r/MGTOW17/11/18 07:31 AM
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I went to high school with this guy. This is also the guy who tried to sue Taylor Swift and Ariana Grande.
/r/MGTOW17/11/18 07:30 AM
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If you’re trying to save, yeah, selling whatever worthless shit you don’t use is a big help. Most important thing is, don’t spend money on anything that isn’t a necessity, I don’t know what your usual expenses are, but it’s amazing how much little things like eating out, tobacco products and snacks from the gas station can add up over the course of even one month. If you’re paying for internet, see if there’s a cheaper option for slower speeds, or cut it out entirely and just use the free WiFi a…
/r/MGTOW13/11/18 07:47 AM
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I’ve had a couple decent fucks off of tinder when it was still a fairly new app. but as it’s grown it’s become more and more of a waste of time, before I deleted the app from my phone for good the last few gals I met were so insufferable I had to end the evening early with “I’m driving you home”, funny how silent they go when you decide to end the “date” early.
/r/MGTOW13/11/18 02:58 AM
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I’ve always said if I have a daughter, the foster family will love her very much.
/r/MGTOW12/11/18 10:18 PM
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I’ve been in those shoes, if you stick around too long you will get burnt out. Find another job before they try to relocate you 3 times in 3 years for no additional pay.
/r/MGTOW12/11/18 10:15 PM
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You’re not too far off base here, I can agree that believing whatever you hear from any community without critical thought is no way to form opinions. I cannot agree that being part of a community of people with common values is synonymous with forming dogmatic beliefs. If you take everything posted in this subreddit to be a truth claim then I don’t think you really understand what the subreddit is for.
/r/MGTOW10/11/18 05:09 AM
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It’s not such a bad or uncommon option, I wouldn’t have been able to be successful in self-employment without my parents letting me stay at their home, it’s a great opportunity to save money that you can invest in whatever project without having a chunk of it put into paying rent.
/r/MGTOW07/11/18 05:43 AM
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This is still somewhat common in places like Utah, you better have spent 2 years of your youth in a third world shithole like Haiti, Ethiopia or North Las Vegas serving a “mission” if you want your Mormon wife though.
/r/MGTOW05/11/18 05:24 AM
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Been on a bluegrass kick lately. Old Crow Medicine Show, The Devil Makes Three, etc.
/r/MGTOW21/10/18 12:26 AM
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Yes, and for friends, family and relatives I’m usually happy to help, as long as the request is within reason. For an employer, well this is exactly what led me to resign and become self employed. Going from managing my office to being handed regional manager responsibilities for no extra pay and then being asked to relocate without compensation to a city with a significantly higher cost of living for no extra pay. Of course because I’m “not tied down, don’t have kids to get home to”etc. I highl…
/r/MGTOW21/10/18 12:02 AM
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Amen brother!
/r/MGTOW16/10/18 06:52 AM
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So why would she put herself through that?
/r/MGTOW13/01/18 02:09 AM
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I'd agree, my realization came in college when this gal tried to blow me while the condom was on.
/r/MGTOW13/01/18 12:44 AM
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It's tough to give specific examples, but here's some ideas. Being someone who works with kids. One of the most important things with kids is setting boundaries early and often, make it clear early on that you are the one leading, you are the decision maker, not them. When they want to make a decision, remind them of the boundary, ask them why they want to do that activity, get a treat or whatever. It's okay to give them what they want, if you frame it as a reward that they must earn with good b…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 03:21 PM
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I know you're getting some flack for the coloring book and cartoons thing. But honestly, I pull that kind of shit all the time, I think it's funny, and it seems like a joke, then you actually do it, and it's actually pretty fun. It's fun to find the absolute worst movie you can on Netflix and watch that too (it's Rubber by the way, absolute garbage). I've got a date planned to go build a snowman for fucks sake, it's really pretty fun to do childish shit once in a while. If the girl isn't into it…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 10:54 PM
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Right, but what I'm wondering is. In a rural area, where there aren't a lot of options. Does that 1 or 2 per year figure that you used in the title change from top 10% to something else? And how does that compare to the "top 10%" in even relatively close metro area like Denver? It seems like in a town of a couple thousand, with "close" towns being at least 60 miles away if not 100 miles away in many cases. That the numbers would be very different. It's just something I was thinking about, you'd …
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 08:15 PM
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Interesting. I wonder how these numbers would look if done by region, I imagine numbers in a large metro area like NYC, Chicago, etc. are much different than in rural places like Wyoming (where I live) where there just really aren't that many people.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 05:17 PM
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I tend to agree with this, I've pretty much taken to only using social media for the purpose of connecting with people who I don't otherwise see on a regular basis, and pretty much only through the messenger app. The partying crap is true too, the ones taking pictures aren't really having a good time, the people in the background of the picture are the ones actually doing something worth their time. If you're standing around people watching, the reality is, the weirdo dancing like a bird, that y…
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 03:05 PM
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I can't be sure whether this is 100% true or not because all I have are anecdotes, I do tend to agree though. While I was in college, my friends and I went to parties all the time. There was one house that threw a lot of parties and everybody knew who we were, the hosts knew us well enough to give us access to their bedrooms where they kept the booze and let us smoke weed with them when they had it. The respect we had from everyone there made our game so much easier. On the other hand, there wer…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 03:02 AM
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r/mfa is good and has a lot f good suggestions. If I can add my two cents though, I'd suggest noticing what the guys who do well with women in your area tend to wear and building a personal style off of that. Maybe not everybody will agree with me, and that's okay. But I found that much of the advice online wasn't that successful for me, because it didn't fit with the culture of where I live, I live in a rural area, so I started taking notice of what the lady killers were wearing and adapted it …
/r/seduction10/07/15 09:06 PM
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I guess the first thing is usually that when I go out I tend to not really give two shits and do my own thing, whether that be dancing in a goofy way on purpose or just having a really unusual opener. So it's just a really warped sense of humor, some people really enjoy it, others don't but that's fine with me. I'm very average looking so I guess being abnormal is my way of standing out. In regular conversation I'm very calm and lax and have been told I have a soothing voice. Then as far as hobb…
/r/seduction29/07/14 04:21 PM
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It kinda depends on what you are mean by introversion, since people seem to have different definitions of the word. If you mean quiet and introspective, then I think you should see the comment made by /u/laserf0cus If you mean shy, then follow the advice of working to be more confident, outgoing and charismatic that a few people have mentioned. If you mean that you get mentally exhausted by social interaction, then work on socializing more and you'll find that you don't get as exhausted as you u…
/r/seduction28/05/14 07:18 AM
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This is absolutely context specific. This depends on where you are going out to, what area you live in, whether it's a college town or not, etc. My friends and I have tried it and it was met with hostility, so we stopped. This part of the country is a place where business casual means jeans and a plain t-shirt, business means a polo and khakis and not even the lawyers suit up regularly. (hell I get asked why I'm dressed up if I wear a 2 button shirt) However, I'm sure if I drove down to Denver o…
/r/seduction13/05/14 08:08 PM
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I agree, I was hoping he would go into that as well.
/r/seduction07/05/14 02:23 AM
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In my experience if you're anxious it does help you to cope with your anxiety and comes off as authentic because you really are feeling anxious. Just don't make it a crutch, if this becomes a safety behavior then it'll be tough to actually get over your anxiety.
/r/seduction29/04/14 04:00 PM
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You know, that's a good question. I'll be graduating next fall with my bachelor's and I still struggle with this type of thing sometimes. In my honest opinion, I think this question is best answered by what kind of person you are. I think authenticity goes a long way in making you memorable to people. That means authentic and genuine listening as well, it's pretty obvious when people are just nodding and not really paying attention, don't think you have to fake it, but if you feel like you must,…
/r/seduction20/04/14 07:21 AM
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I've got this friend. We'll call him Auggie, we've been speculating lately that he may be schizophrenic, he's not bright at all, and is an all around odd individual. Last Tuesday, my friends and I were hanging out and Auggie gets some girl he met off of tinder to come over and hang out with us. He also gets her to go to our local Applebee's trivia night with us. The entire time, he was making an ass of himself, he was telling us he absolutely knew the answer to questions he later admitted to hav…
/r/seduction20/04/14 06:52 AM
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Thanks to whoever gave me gold.
/r/seduction14/04/14 05:15 AM
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You can flirt without having any intentions, just don't get a number, don't get a date, or anything like that, it's not at all inconsiderate to just talk and be a little playful as long as you don't misrepresent your intentions by suggesting future meetings.
/r/seduction13/04/14 04:35 PM
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The whole thing about disrespecting the boyfriend is not sexism, that is called showing empathy. You wouldn't want to be cheated on, so don't get a girl to cheat. The bit about sex under those circumstances resulting in unhappiness, you say there is such a situation where it does not, but that does not make up for the rest of the situations, where in fact it does. The rest of your points I don't really think address the arguments for avoiding sleeping with taken girls. I think most people would …
/r/seduction13/04/14 04:26 PM
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I still have a long way to go. Two years ago, I was 20, a virgin (unless you count an interrupted bj), overweight and battling severe depression, suicidal episodes and social phobia. I started working on losing weight, between that summer and my 21st birthday in February I had lost 40 pounds. In the meantime I got on antidepressants, was going to therapy, and actively working on my social skills. After turning 21 I was starting to get a lot of confidence boosts, people commenting on my weight lo…
/r/seduction13/04/14 08:45 AM
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Good observation, I like that.
/r/seduction12/04/14 03:13 PM
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It's one thing to just be goofy because it's your personality and you're just having a good time, but it's quite another to force something like this and looking like a try hard. I'll admit to being a weird and goofy son of a bitch. I don't force it though, it's just what I naturally do. It's also good to pick up on the atmosphere of the venue, the 5-year old hello or dancing in a silly way might work with a young crowd in a loud, packed place. But you'd better keep it to a little conversational…
/r/seduction10/04/14 04:07 AM
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That's a good point, if you really wanted to get serious about this being like exposure therapy, you could put intentional rejection along the exposure hierarchy, working up to the actual feared stimuli.
/r/seduction12/02/14 08:05 AM
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The women are there for the same reason you are, just remember that, there are three reasons a man or woman goes home alone from a night bar hopping. Getting laid wasn't their goal They didn't make a bold enough move Nobody else made a bold enough move
/r/seduction11/02/14 05:08 PM
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I agree with this comment. Even though I agree with the conclusion the premises aren't leading to it. It should look more like this. P1: Approach anxiety is either a fear of embarrassing yourself or rejection P2: Fears are treated by exposure to the feared stimulus P3: Aim to either get rejected, or do something embarrassing. SC: You will no longer fear embarrassment or rejection. C: You will no longer have approach anxiety.
/r/seduction11/02/14 05:05 PM
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It's tempting to respond to this in a way that says "No, trying to fail is bad, you won't get better this way." But the truth is, most people who are struggling just won't approach, and approach anxiety is a common problem that people have. Having approach anxiety is a fear of being rejected. Although it is clichéd, the best way to get rid of a fear is to face it head on. The most effective treatments for anxiety disorders and specific phobias are exposure therapies, and exposure therapy for soc…
/r/seduction10/02/14 06:29 AM
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I agree with you on that, it is a long time away. I'm gonna have to log off, but thanks for keeping the conversation moving forward and for keeping it respectful.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 11:08 PM
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I was sort of thinking the same thing, privately funded research. I do think if you could get enough going to just try to show the current model of feminism and gender roles is wrong that would be the first step, and then you could maybe get people open up to your hypotheses. I mean, even though I don't agree 100% with TRP, feminism is definitely not true, although both may include some partial truths. Either way, I want to see knowledge on this subject advance.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 10:24 PM
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Well, at least I can agree with you on that last line.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 10:13 PM
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I see where you are coming from, and I am just as interested in this stuff as you are, I would like to see a lot of the ideas here get tested and published in a peer-reviewed journal. Do you think there's a way of getting the funding for this kind of research? Maybe by offering it as testing a hypothesis congruent with the popular opinion and finding it incorrect it would open the door for the unpopular research. Just a thought.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 10:03 PM
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Not all subs make as tremendous of truth claims as this one.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 09:59 PM
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Cool, if you think it works for you then enjoy it. I didn't make a claim about whether or not it works, only that a lack of real data is why the sub is loathed.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 09:55 PM
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Why would it be politically incorrect to research something? So long as the methods are ethical. Social science is not exempt from the method, there's just a few more quacks slipping through, who think it is exempt, which is where communities like this come from.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 09:53 PM
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He asked why TRP is loathed, and I said why, because it's making truth claims without undergoing scientific method. That's all.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 09:47 PM
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What are you talking about? Plenty of universities have done research on human sexuality, they teach classes on it, they teach classes on adolescent development, gender differences and personality too. The fact that none of the research supports the things you are saying doesn't mean no research is being carried out. Science is bending over backwards to prove yourself wrong, not cherry-picking anecdotes to suit your argument.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 09:43 PM
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One of the fundamentals of science is that the one making the claim has to provide evidence before the claim can be taken seriously, the burden of proof is not on anybody else.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 09:33 PM
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Because almost nothing posted here is peer-reviewed or based on peer-reviewed research, yet you all claim to have this vast amount of knowledge that AFCs don't get.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 08:47 PM
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I would say to just be forward, if you don't risk rejection you can't enjoy the reward of getting the girl.
/r/seduction04/09/13 05:36 AM
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I scheduled an appointment for next week. Thanks for the response.
/r/seduction21/08/13 10:43 PM
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You're right
/r/seduction21/08/13 05:25 PM
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Thanks, that's a good way to put it.
/r/seduction21/08/13 05:25 PM
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Yeah, I already do that. I did stop seeing my therapist in March though, I used to go for major depressive disorder and social anxiety, maybe I should get back to that.
/r/seduction21/08/13 05:24 PM
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Think about how sexually repressed some of those academic types are. They've usually been sheltered and pushed towards greater academic achievement, haven't been out mingling as much. They're ready to break out of their shells.
/r/seduction17/08/13 05:03 AM
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Dude, don't wait too long. Just meet as many people as you can, say hi to everyone. Male or female. Everybody is looking for new friends in that environment so when you take the initiative it really makes a good impression, especially on the shy people. Not everyone will like you and you won't like everyone. I know I quickly became very polarizing and still am on my campus. People either love me or hate me, and I'm cool with it. Usually the people that hate you will come around but if not, who c…
/r/seduction17/08/13 04:59 AM
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I wonder about this too. I've lived in a rural area almost my entire life and this past summer I spent in the city and it's vastly different. In rural areas like I've grown up in, your reputation matters more, you aren't one of 8 people to hit on her that day you're one of 8 that year. Text game isn't so bad in rural areas, it's discrete, it's efficient and can be a lot of fun. Those are my observations anyways.
/r/seduction17/08/13 01:57 AM
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Beta minus
/r/seduction06/08/13 04:13 AM
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Thanks, this is really helpful.
/r/seduction02/08/13 06:13 AM
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idk why you're getting downvoted, that's funny
/r/seduction02/08/13 02:31 AM
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Sure you might get a date without kino, or sex if it's with a prostitute. But even when people aren't aware of what the term "kino" means they are still touching each other and physically escalating from there, seriously if she's not comfortable with you touching her she's not comfortable with you being inside her.
/r/seduction29/07/13 03:47 AM
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Don't take life too seriously, for fuck sake there's too much to laugh at and enjoy to be stressing over every last thing.
/r/seduction28/07/13 04:10 AM
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I would really have to read the exact situation, what kind of state am I in? Am I attracted to the girl? Am I busy with a different set? Is he someone who's world would be crushed if I did it or is he just failing with that girl and looks ready to move on? I think I'd be more inclined to do it if he were a sensitive wussy seeming guy, I know that's dickish but I also just know when I'm in that state of mind, that's how I act sometimes.
/r/seduction22/07/13 10:06 PM
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I too would like to hear some of this.
/r/seduction22/07/13 05:51 AM
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As long as you say it in a way that they know you're joking that's a great response.
/r/seduction21/07/13 11:05 PM
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I've had that happen where I've said that to the owner of a place, they usually just laugh and realize that I'm joking around.
/r/seduction21/07/13 11:00 PM
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I like pretending to own the place, literally, like telling people "Thanks for coming!" or something along those lines when they enter or exit.
/r/seduction21/07/13 07:48 PM
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It's fine, I just didn't want anybody taking advice saying to ignore your mental health professional.
/r/seduction14/07/13 01:43 AM
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I stopped reading at the whole bit about how psychotherapy is bullshit or how he's "...never met a single person cured by a psychologist" in his whole life. Psychotherapy works for a lot of people. It has worked for me a whole lot in the past with my major depressive disorder, social anxiety disorder and insomnia. Am I perfect because of it? No. But it helped me to be less anxious about talking to other people, got me out of a funk I was in where I wouldn't even shower or change clothes because …
/r/seduction13/07/13 06:47 AM
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I'm sure the area you are in has a lot to do with your taste in clothing. But where I'm from, athletic shorts are a great thing to have, especially a colorful pair. Sure you wouldn't wear them to the office or a conference but they are great for daygame settings and even at night they can give "easy access". Still coordinate the colors and make sure the look is congruent but they can work. One of my go to outfits is a hoodie or t-shirt with athletics shorts and a backwards cap with p.f. flyers. …
/r/seduction10/07/13 05:45 AM
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I could see that for sure. Great insight!
/r/seduction09/07/13 03:27 AM
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Honestly, all it's gotten me is it's easier to talk about sex and techniques when you actually have some reference points, I've yet to have sex since quitting my anti-depressants but in my experience the sex itself wasn't that great for me, what was great was the foreplay and afterwards just feeling accomplished and desired. Maybe it was the meds messing with the way my body gets aroused but I really just enjoy the feeling of being wanted.
/r/seduction06/07/13 03:59 AM
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I'd like to know how everybody sees these being applied to game, I have a few thoughts but I'm interested to hear what everyone else has to say. This is what I think. Reciprocity: Kino, if you initiate physical touch then she will reciprocate, pretty simple. If you initiate a romantic or sensual vibe she will reciprocate. Scarcity: Time constraints, make your time valuable by staying busy, don't always be available. Or maybe it could just be putting yourself into situations where males are scarc…
/r/seduction06/07/13 02:36 AM
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If peacocking works for you, then do it, if it doesn't, then don't. It works for me just fine. I wear a lot of bright colors, one of my favorite outfits is a pink polo, baby blue chino shorts and a teal backwards cap, get approached on being "colorful", "bright" or "looking like cotton candy", and it usually ends up in a positive interaction. Another favorite item of mine is a loud tie-dye hoodie that gets me opened a lot on the colors or people asking if I know where to get bud. My favorite ind…
/r/seduction25/06/13 05:56 AM
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Yep, luckily this is just for the summer.
/r/seduction23/06/13 04:39 AM
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Even some smaller places can have a good night life, it just depends on the atmosphere. Laramie, WY is about 30k and has a great nightlife.
/r/seduction19/06/13 03:55 PM
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Sorry dad
/r/seduction19/06/13 05:34 AM
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Is your name Tony?
/r/seduction19/06/13 03:54 AM
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That last little bit of how some places just have terrible night life is absolutely true, I recently went to a night club in Provo, Utah. Half the girls didn't drink at all and most of them were married and blew off any guy they didn't show up there with. Compare that to where I'm used to, and the difference is amazing. I'm used to everybody being out to mingle and having a few drinks and every bar being packed on the weekends.
/r/seduction19/06/13 01:38 AM
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You're statement is very informative and I really like the analogy, I just wanted to point something out. A blackjack hand is only in the house's favor that much if you don't know how to play. You can reduce it to less than 1% if you play basic strategy or have even a little bit of an understanding of a hi-lo count. So I guess the lesson there is, learn how to play the game.
/r/seduction18/06/13 04:36 PM
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Clearly the two things have their similarities, but even with that divergence in outergame you could still link them by going a step further and framing it as direct selling rather than negotiating when it comes to outer game, as many people do, which is why we use terms like 'close' and 'building value'. So as far as that divergence goes, with seduction you don't instantly know the other person's value outside of looks, so like you said accepting the initial approach is sort of an ultimatum gam…
/r/seduction18/06/13 06:12 AM
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This, 100 times this.
/r/seduction16/06/13 05:52 AM
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If you want to do something else, tell her you'll take her to dinner, on a walk, or whatever you want to do. If you don't want to go somewhere then don't go.
/r/seduction16/06/13 01:16 AM
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OP is a faggot
/r/seduction16/06/13 01:13 AM
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I would have hated it regardless because you just don't date a friend's sister, but I hated more that he went behind my back and abused my trust in him. They were pretty serious, they were in a relationship two separate times and he almost lost his virginity to her (mom came home when they were about to get it on lmao). Text would absolutely be fine but if you're really not that close of friends with him maybe you just don't say anything, but don't deny it if he asks. Just be honest is all. The …
/r/seduction15/06/13 07:48 PM
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I've been down this road. What you have to do is make him aware right away what you're doing. It's so much better for him to find out from you right then than it is for him to just run into a photo of you two on facebook. Let me tell you first hand the difference between telling him and not. My friend had started dating my sister (which is maybe worse than a dude's ex) and he didn't tell me. They did all they could to hide it from me. Lied about what they were doing, who they were with, etc. One…
/r/seduction15/06/13 06:54 PM
1

I 100% agree with this, must be used sparingly. I've only done this 3 times in 21 years and before I got into pickup. I was just reflecting back. I guess it is something you should think through before doing, it has to be the absolute correct situation.
/r/seduction14/06/13 02:51 AM
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I lost mine at 21, trust me you want a girl that knows what she's doing. A few weeks before I lost it, I went for it with another virgin, but since we were both kind of clueless it ended up being just a naked make-out session. If you get a girl that knows what she likes she can guide you to do what she likes.
/r/seduction10/06/13 08:53 PM
2

If you don't know it by now, you'll never know.
/r/seduction04/06/13 08:19 PM
1

Long story short, change the meaning you attach to phone numbers.
/r/seduction16/05/13 10:08 AM
1

Who cares if they're cold approaches? If you've been talking for 15-30 mins and she won't agree to coffee with you, you're doing something wrong. And where did I say you were straight asking randos for numbers? All I said is most younger women don't have any qualms about giving their number to you, it doesn't always mean they're attracted. A good conversation doesn't mean she's attracted to you, and neither does a number. Rather than trying to turn numbers into dates, turn the approaches into da…
/r/seduction16/05/13 10:06 AM
1

I really think this is a common hump to get over for anybody learning their way with women. It's a phase I went through. It seems that most women, especially in a college setting will give out their # without even thinking twice. You were ballsy enough to go for it, so why not? Keep in mind a phone number is pretty low risk, worst case scenario for her is you're a creep and she stops responding or gets someone else to tell you off. Best case scenario for her is she realizes she digs you and it's…
/r/seduction16/05/13 06:51 AM
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Thank you
/r/seduction14/05/13 04:07 PM
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Lost 40 pounds, that was really a confidence booster. Get in shape and you'll not only look better but feel better, makes progress in other areas much easier.
/r/seduction14/05/13 06:14 AM
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Rule 1: Be attractive
/r/seduction13/05/13 08:14 PM
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I was just talking to her, she came and sat by me. I was actually laying on the ground using a beanbag chair as a pillow, just a little kino with her legs, and what not. She kind of overheard them saying that and I just looked at her and reached over casually. Acted like it wasn't out of the ordinary to do that, she had to have seen it coming.
/r/seduction13/05/13 06:58 AM
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Sure, it can be less stressful. What I mean to say is, if you really want it changed, you have to take some action. If it's not a big enough deal for you to care then don't worry. And of course, you have to be civil about it. I've found it's actually quite easy to get a professor to give you a better grade or an extra credit opportunity if you just talk to them. If the waiter screws up tell them a mistake was made, maybe even accept blame for it but say something and you'll get what you wanted. …
/r/seduction13/05/13 12:54 AM
1

I'm not sure what you mean by cbf. If it means cockblock a friend, the guy wasn't my friend, just some rando I had met earlier in the night.
/r/seduction13/05/13 12:25 AM
1

Correct
/r/seduction12/05/13 11:35 PM
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I never used to drink and I still don't drink very often, as a matter of fact some of my best nights out have been sober. Sometimes the social lubrication alcohol gives everyone else will rub off on you, the social atmosphere is contagious. Another tip on being sober, don't go bragging about it, but if people ask, just tell them and be cool about it, no big deal. Just don't be a douche about it.
/r/seduction12/05/13 09:45 PM
2

It seems to differ between people. I have a friend who takes a deep interest in what people are saying and is a master at getting people to talk about themselves in a polite and classy way. I tend to have more success when I'm sarcastic and "sassy" as one of my wenches calls me. For simplicity sake, I do better when I'm kind of a dick.
/r/seduction11/05/13 06:52 AM
1

Seriously? Stop worrying about arbitrary garbage, someone could be looking at the ground for any number of reasons, why concern yourself with it? And why make assumptions about it?
/r/seduction11/05/13 06:49 AM
1

Absolutely agree, some people learn quicker than others, some are more dedicated and of course there are barriers as far as physical attractiveness goes sometimes that can take a while to break down.
/r/seduction30/04/13 07:40 PM
1

Yes
/r/seduction30/04/13 07:39 PM
2

Thanks man, I appreciate it.
/r/seduction30/04/13 08:23 AM
2

No kidding, I've had similar experiences. The last couple of years for baseball we've had a tournament in Mesquite, NV and every time I have men and older women hit on me and it really does give you insight as to what is considered creepy, over the line and "nice but awkward" or even that sometimes circumstances just aren't right even if they want to do something with you. Examples: Creepy; I'm in the hot tub after hitting up the casino alone. Just relaxing, an middle-aged gentleman is talking t…
/r/seduction11/04/13 02:03 AM
1

Why do you care? Different people do things different ways. Just because some people have a different way of going about their goals doesn't make them or their ideas any less valuable. If you want to influence people and persuade them towards your style, you'd probably be better off just posting your style rather than attacking theirs.
/r/seduction05/04/13 06:39 PM
1

You're welcome
/r/seduction20/03/13 04:44 PM
2

/r/askseddit
/r/seduction20/03/13 04:22 PM
2

Who cares? If you want to respond and can, then respond. If you want to respond but are busy, then make a mental note and get back to it. If you do not want to respond, don't respond. It really is that simple, don't get caught up in the whole timing thing. Women are people with things going on two and get busy with things.
/r/seduction20/03/13 02:44 PM
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I'm not really an expert on the subject. But I find the most common mistake is commenting rather than questioning. Instead of saying "some weather today" to which someone may respond "Yeah" try instead saying "what do you think of this weather?" give them something to respond to and let them speak.
/r/seduction16/03/13 07:21 PM
1

Woah! That's x-treme!
/r/seduction16/03/13 06:18 AM
2

Wyoming
/r/seduction16/03/13 06:18 AM
2

I do have a very handsome face, so I've been told.
/r/seduction16/03/13 06:18 AM
1

For the most part, I'm pretty busy, and when I'm busy tends to be when my game is at its best, because I'm not thinking about it and getting in my own head. Monday: class, class, class, contact and interview potential new fraternity members, baseball practice, bed. Tuesday: class, hang out in union building, read, class, IFC, baseball practice, bed. Wednesday: same as mondays Thursday: class, prepare for exec, class, baseball practice, exec meeting, bed. Friday: class, read, class, get info on p…
/r/seduction10/03/13 10:29 PM
1

This past weekend I went out a few times, ended up with 5 numbers. 2 of them were just me being friendly and accepting somebody's # that I didn't want. Anyways upon hanging with these girls again later in the weekend I realized the hottest one is a compulsive liar (told a bunch of blatant lies about her life) and then the other 2 I was interested in at all had no sense of humor and were just sort of stupid and gullible both giving obvious IOI's I didn't get anywhere with them, didn't even try. b…
/r/seduction22/01/13 08:07 AM
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Women aren't people, they're animals.
/r/seduction02/01/13 12:11 AM
1

Thanks man, and don't worry I'm not really dwelling on it. In fact realizing how many women have been attracted to me without me even trying has boosted my confidence if anything. I will definitely keep the self-amusement thing in mind.
/r/seduction31/12/12 08:21 PM
4

Thanks man I'll try this out, I'll probably message you at some point too. Thanks again!
/r/seduction25/12/12 01:22 AM
6

I prefer day game to night game because I don't really enjoy parties, clubs or drinking. But I'm much better at night game than day game. What do I need to do to improve at day game? It seems like whenever I'm doing well with a girl I don't even realize that I have her attracted and never go for a #close because it doesn't cross my mind. But when I am conscious of what I'm doing I freak out or I just flat out don't build any attraction.
/r/seduction24/12/12 11:24 PM
1

You're welcome man. Just be aware of where you are, I made the mistake of saying the n-word in front of an african american man in Georgia once.
/r/seduction23/12/12 06:46 PM
6

I find the best way to be funny is to just stop filtering your thoughts. Obviously some places aren't appropriate for this, but when appropriate that's the best way to get a laugh or two. For example, the other day I was at a Fanzz store in Utah. The girl helping me was showing me a few Jazz hats. She pulls one out and I said the first thing that came to mind "That's a black man hat." she bust out laughing and told me I just made her day. I didn't see anything funny about it at first, it's just …
/r/seduction23/12/12 08:37 AM
2

I love this advice. It's one way I've dealt with my social awkwardness in the past. If you feel awkward, don't fight it, just amplify it so people know you're kidding and they'll get a kick out of it. I got free rice by making my waiter laugh the other day. Just said "thanks dad...I mean....uh" when he brought my food.
/r/seduction17/12/12 08:02 PM
1

I'll bring this up during my next appointment with my psychiatrist.
/r/seduction16/12/12 03:46 AM
2

I do have a therapist that I talk to for free through the University I go to, suppose to be getting into group therapy next semester as well. I am a psychology student so I have a pretty good idea of what I have, the symptoms the science that is behind it and what we don't know, etc. I appreciate this comment, it was very useful. Thanks man!
/r/seduction16/12/12 03:44 AM
2

I think that's more a sign of a histrionic personality. Except for extreme cases I don't think that's a personality disorder per say but more of a personality tendency.
/r/seduction16/12/12 03:42 AM
2

Way ahead of you on cutting off contact. Thanks for the response.
/r/seduction15/12/12 05:50 AM
2

Well I know him, and he's kind of a dick to me, he was a dick to me that night too. I would talk to the one girl he was trying so hard to get with and he said things like "Dude I'm gonna fucking hit you." I usually responded with something like "no you're not." and he'd shut up.
/r/seduction23/10/12 03:34 AM
2

Thanks man, I appreciate it.
/r/seduction23/10/12 03:33 AM
5

Lol, nice
/r/seduction18/10/12 01:13 AM
7

I actually said "On a scale of one to cheddar, how cheesy?" She said "Only thing cheesier would've been a lame pickup line." I said "So, sharp cheddar?"
/r/seduction18/10/12 12:24 AM
1

I live in Laramie, Wyoming during the school year at UW so I'd be kind of interested. I go down to Denver a several times during the spring semester.
/r/seduction26/05/12 05:35 AM
1

I have 0 red clothing, save for one baseball cap. Guess I'd better get on that.
/r/seduction08/04/12 03:48 PM
2

I never noticed that before....you're kinda right.
/r/seduction09/03/12 06:38 PM
4

20 years Pic of me alone: http://i.imgur.com/J7Odn.jpg Pic of me with girl (and my partner in crime): http://i.imgur.com/3UVj1.jpg
/r/seduction09/03/12 08:11 AM
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