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| 2 | Most girls don’t prefer significantly older menOnly guys who were attractive in their teens, like hella attractive, stay attractive into their 30s. Not always. There are guys who are pimply faced and then turn into decent men. https://images.app.goo.gl/LVsrt6CvcZ2mtXm67 https://images.app.goo.gl/LgDcfFKtVjguwCUf6 Even some men don't look that great in middle age but start to look better as they get old. https://images.app.goo.gl/iQceJQGfMb7J3SFeA https://www.google.com/imgres?q=wayne%20knight&imgurl=https%3A%2F%2Fs.yimg.com%2Fny%2Fapi%2Fres%… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 05:47 AM |
| 2 | Most girls don’t prefer significantly older menit could also be that girls might be more likely to say they’re in a relationship while the guy thinks of it more casually (like a situationship with a Chad type)? Look around a typical college campus. Are 67% of young men in relationships? No way. What about the young male loneliness epidemic? Yet somehow 67% of women are? This is just common sense. They find their boyfriends all around. It is NOT uncommon for women to be dating older. Shift to a major city. It is NOT uncommon to see a woman of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 05:31 AM |
| 7 | Most girls don’t prefer significantly older menLike literally the stats say that 33% of men in their 20's are in relationships yet 67% or double the women in their 20's are in relationships. How does the math compute? It's basically mathematically impossible to be true. There's only one way this is actually possible. Half the women in their 20's are dating older men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 05:17 AM |
| -10 | Most girls don’t prefer significantly older menMen get better looking from their early twenties all the way to their late 30s. Only after 45 does it change. Of course there are outliers who start aging at age 30, but that's really not that common- even for women. Boys in their early 20's still look immature. I'm a man and i can still see that. Unless that boy in their early 20's is extremely attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 05:16 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women don't care about money when looking for a partner.Money matters for marriage. It will tips the scales for a guy who is on the border. Go to a medical class reunion. How many guys in the class remain unmarried? Usually rarely see men who are at least average looking who are doctors who are not married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/25 03:24 AM |
| 3 | Men don't care much about women's socioeconomic status, though if given the option may even make the effort to go for lower socioeconomic womenUnless she was raised so poor that she's self destructive or would raise horrendous kids. Or embarrass you at the school PTA meeting, etc, etc. Of course some people are ok just living in isolation as well. I saw a (larger) woman who was married to an undocumented Mexican and when he got deported in 2016, she moved to Mexico to be with him. She lives in Mexico to this day and has a Youtube channel. So yes it does happen, even for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/25 06:17 PM |
| 2 | If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier menor living with a partner. This proves that your stat means absolutely nothing. So a percentage of women are dating. No one said that young desirable women at the peak of their attractiveness aren't dating. The real concern here is that 50% of the women at their peak AREN'T (successfully) dating. Of course a percentage of the 50% ARE dating but just haven't found the one yet. Now recalibrate the stats for major cities like New York, Dallas, Miami, Chicago, Boston, Seattle, etc. Probably only 30% … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 06:24 PM |
| 2 | If every average man dropped out of the dating market it would not affect women one bit. Their dating problems are entirely based on the behaviour of top tier menwhat part of the country is this? In major cities, i'd bet the majority are single. In smaller cities, yes- majority married. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/25 04:03 PM |
| – | Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media".Except that the Democrats actually do the exact opposite. Calling working class people ignorant idiots and panders to the ideologies of the cultural elite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 09:16 PM |
| – | Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media".Porn would still be objectifying women and causing addiction in men. No it would be made 18+ requiring age check via a credit card, like it was pre 2010. There's a reason why porn was made free on purpose. Why would companies voluntarily give up a cash cow? Access of porn to kids is a HUGE mistake. If tomorrow there were no progressives and the ideology magically disappeared, social media would still be here contributing mental illness, loneliness, and all sorts of other social problems. You hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 09:09 PM |
| – | Young men are turning to right wing and manosphere ideologies due to being shut down and treated terrible in mainstream/progressive spaces, not from being brainwashed by "Redpill gurus" or "right-wing media".He had arguably the most accomplished single term in decades. The delusion, the delusion. Really? Even better than Obama or Clinton? I dare you to hit the streets with a camera and ask the public and fin what percentage agrees with that statement. Actually, you know what? Someone has already done something similar. It's called approval ratings. And how did Biden fare? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/24 09:01 PM |
| 3 | The 4B movement is just female MGTOW.Argentina has a knack for following all the movements that get them nowhere and not following any of the ones that would move them forward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/24 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Are There Really Men Who Make Over 175K A Year And Have Difficulty Finding A Mate?I've found that once you cross $250k, a chasm erupts where for women in a large city...the sky is the limit. Women date up, not down. So you're saying that once you earn 250K or more in a large city- that it does become a lot easier? I said 175K because it's a lot more realistic, plus that's a high income for smaller cities and rural areas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Are There Really Men Who Make Over 175K A Year And Have Difficulty Finding A Mate?The title talks about finding a mate, not a supermodel or star. Just like there are only so many billionaires/millionaires in the world for women to marry, there are only so many supermodels and celebs. For most men, finding a solid 8 (or even a 7 or 6) would still be a solid win. Even good looking men typically marry 8's or 7's. 9's are not that common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 05:03 PM |
| -3 | Are There Really Men Who Make Over 175K A Year And Have Difficulty Finding A Mate?You can always be subtle about it and see if they bite. If not, no harm, no foul. Women know when you're interested, but hold off on crossing a certain line. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Are There Really Men Who Make Over 175K A Year And Have Difficulty Finding A Mate?175K is a decent enough salary anywhere outside of NYC or California. No families are starving on that salary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Are There Really Men Who Make Over 175K A Year And Have Difficulty Finding A Mate?Where do you live? Someplace like Des Moines, Syracuse or Columbia, SC? Surely there must be some sweet women looking for a good provider. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 02:19 AM |
| -6 | Are There Really Men Who Make Over 175K A Year And Have Difficulty Finding A Mate?You're a dentist. Can't you just tell them to find another dentist? It's not like you're a counselor or something where moral compromise is more of an issue. Of course at the same time- you do depend on Google reviews, so it would not look good if multiple women started stating that you hit on patients. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Are There Really Men Who Make Over 175K A Year And Have Difficulty Finding A Mate?That's also not a typical dating market either. A place where people put their careers above their dating lives as priorities will naturally result in less cohesion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Are There Really Men Who Make Over 175K A Year And Have Difficulty Finding A Mate?300K is another level above and Silicon Valley isn't the norm for compensation nor dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 02:12 AM |
| -2 | Are There Really Men Who Make Over 175K A Year And Have Difficulty Finding A Mate?Maybe because they're expecting models? 7 figs a year should not have trouble finding someone. Finding the perfect person? Sure, everyone struggles with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 02:06 AM |
| 2 | Are There Really Men Who Make Over 175K A Year And Have Difficulty Finding A Mate?Anywhere outside NYC, California and probably Boston, 175K is a good enough salary. Maybe nothing special but more than enough to support a family. If you add 75K as a spousal salary, thats 250K. No one is homeless on 250K outside of Silicon Valley. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 02:04 AM |
| -5 | Are There Really Men Who Make Over 175K A Year And Have Difficulty Finding A Mate?You have opportunities every single day as a dentist. Don't you talk to your patients? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 01:59 AM |
| 0 | Are There Really Men Who Make Over 175K A Year And Have Difficulty Finding A Mate?There's nothing wrong with any of those 3. However, it's just facts that they might still have some difficulty as of course money doesn't become everything until a higher level of wealth is reached. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 01:51 AM |
| 2 | Are There Really Men Who Make Over 175K A Year And Have Difficulty Finding A Mate?It sounds like the dude fits category 3 though- weird or offputting personality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 11:04 PM |
| 4 | Are There Really Men Who Make Over 175K A Year And Have Difficulty Finding A Mate?Wouldn't it be nice clothing, a nice watch, car and decent home? On a dating profile, it would occupation, pics of his car, home, at nice restaurants with wine, etc. I suppose it works best with people you already know, not strangers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 10:36 PM |
| 2 | Women mostly judge what you CANNOT change. Men mostly judge what you CAN change.I always thought the opposite. That men will primarily pick on looks. You either have it or you don't. Of course women many many more means to improve and more women are attractive. But a woman who is a 4 or below doesn't really have much she can do. She could become a passport sis, or keep searching until she finds a guy who's desperate or has had bad luck. Generally speaking, just like a guy a woman who is a 4 or below can prioritize her career. For the man who is a 5 or below, he has the opti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 02:49 PM |
| 9 | Men ignore conventionally unattractive women (they aren't even on their radar), so they assume that all women are privileged in datingBut isn't this refuted by the women who choose situationships with attractive men over actual relationships with average or slightly above average men? If what you are saying is true, they would turn down the attractive men for a relationship with an average man, but that often does not happen, does it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 01:48 PM |
| 1 | If you're not making $100k or more looks don't matter as much as you think.85K is hardly that much more than 60K, especially in finance in a major city. Why don't you just put in the effort to get a bump in income? 60K is a really low income for finance in a major city, if i'm not mistaken. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 01:58 AM |
| 1 | If you're not making $100k or more looks don't matter as much as you think.No not really. It's more of a negative qualifier that eliminates people. It doesn't mean that a women will go for a guy just because he earns 200K a year. What it means is that a certain looks threshold and personality threshold has to be met. Then they might eliminate based upon income. So your premise does not hold true. But they might bend the rules for a guy they really really like (superchad) or try to help him to make $100K a year. And this is only for marriage. If they aren't looking to g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 01:36 AM |
| 1 | If you're not making $100k or more looks don't matter as much as you think.You're not getting the point. Your income isn't really high enough to support a family and kids in a major city. It would be different if you were 25 and just getting started. But at 38? That just shows a lack of ambition. That's a turnoff for women. If she's a small town girl, she may want to later shift to part time work after having kids or even become a stay at home mom- which is what a lot of small town girls want. Not to mention with high costs these days- that would be a mediocre life. 60… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 01:30 AM |
| 2 | If An Attractive Guy Were To Ask You Out in Person And You Simply Said No Because You Didn’t Know Him, What Could He Do To Change Your Mind?Good, detailed answer, thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 07:42 PM |
| 0 | If Women Don’t Know Who They’re Attracted To Until They Get To Know Them (Demisexual), Why Don’t Women Give More People A Chance?Haha, i believe that women would also give a guy a chance just because he was confident and/or persistent- as long he was at least in that narrow band of having some attraction or higher? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 06:21 PM |
| 2 | If Women Don’t Know Who They’re Attracted To Until They Get To Know Them (Demisexual), Why Don’t Women Give More People A Chance?Just a hypothetical, but what if that attractive guy kept showing signs of a crush or interest in you? Does that turn on the emotions (and the imagination) for women? And does that change him from a non participating person in the background to a soap opera like situation? I need a reason I'd want to give them the time of day or consider dating them. And for you what would be a good reason? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 03:34 AM |
| 1 | If Women Don’t Know Who They’re Attracted To Until They Get To Know Them (Demisexual), Why Don’t Women Give More People A Chance?What happened? Can you go into more detail please? I didn't mean that women need to accept dates from EVERY single person that asks them. But i do tend to see a lot of women with men that seem so-so anyway. It just seems that women want to meet men based upon repeated meetings and getting to know each other over time. And that's why only work, school, church, hobby and possibly special circumstances like travel, a convention or a work project are the main ways to meet. Although sometimes, it can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 03:31 AM |
| 4 | If Women Don’t Know Who They’re Attracted To Until They Get To Know Them (Demisexual), Why Don’t Women Give More People A Chance?Ok maybe i shouldn't have used the term demisexual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 01:28 AM |
| 1 | If Women Don’t Know Who They’re Attracted To Until They Get To Know Them (Demisexual), Why Don’t Women Give More People A Chance?Thumbs up! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 01:22 AM |
| 3 | If Women Don’t Know Who They’re Attracted To Until They Get To Know Them (Demisexual), Why Don’t Women Give More People A Chance?I wouldn't say that all women are demisexual. I have met women who show interest in just minutes (or less) after meeting in person. But it also seems common that women don't even notice you initially and then boom, like a switch it gets turned on and it seems so late that you're surprised about it. But anyway, i was really talking more in reference to apps- where you have no idea what a person is like until you meet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 01:20 AM |
| 5 | If Women Don’t Know Who They’re Attracted To Until They Get To Know Them (Demisexual), Why Don’t Women Give More People A Chance?No i mean 1 date, maybe 3 dates tops. Most people can sus out people in 1-3 dates. If she isn't feeling it, it's plenty of time for her to cut ties and look elsewhere. I understand that it can be difficult and agonizing to have to constantly let guys down and deal the possibility of threats as well though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 01:17 AM |
| 2 | If Women Don’t Know Who They’re Attracted To Until They Get To Know Them (Demisexual), Why Don’t Women Give More People A Chance?Good answer. It's unfortunate that there's no way to be able to have a "negative test" with an online profile. So many people are passed up on that way, and that's what i'm trying to address. If you were single, would you just pick a few guys that looked interesting on the apps and give it a try? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 01:10 AM |
| -1 | If Women Don’t Know Who They’re Attracted To Until They Get To Know Them (Demisexual), Why Don’t Women Give More People A Chance?What kind of a girl would go ask out a guy with no makeup and sweatpants on unless she was gorgeous to begin with? That's like a guy trying to ask out a girl with a grease stained shirt and reaking of body odor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 12:49 AM |
| 1 | If Women Don’t Know Who They’re Attracted To Until They Get To Know Them (Demisexual), Why Don’t Women Give More People A Chance?Just wanted to add to the previous post- it's actually women who sometimes are poor at developing a connection and trying to have a conversation when they show interest in a man. I admit i have passed over women because they didn't interest me emotionally although under slightly different circumstances, i may have developed interest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 12:32 AM |
| -3 | If Women Don’t Know Who They’re Attracted To Until They Get To Know Them (Demisexual), Why Don’t Women Give More People A Chance?Actually no. If a decent looking girl asked me out and even if she was -2 on the looks scale if she was interesting i would give it a shot. In fact most men would give most any woman over a 5.5 rating a shot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 12:30 AM |
| 5 | If Women Don’t Know Who They’re Attracted To Until They Get To Know Them (Demisexual), Why Don’t Women Give More People A Chance?This mainly applies to apps. It's well known that even attractive men can have difficulty getting matches on apps. In real life, there is no real issue, except perhaps the guts by the man to make the first move and try to get her to show interest to ask her out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 12:28 AM |
| 3 | If Women Don’t Know Who They’re Attracted To Until They Get To Know Them (Demisexual), Why Don’t Women Give More People A Chance?That's good advice for women who may not have reached their potential and has no bearing whatsover on the post made. These kinds of questions are also meant to help other people as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 12:26 AM |
| 2 | If Women Don’t Know Who They’re Attracted To Until They Get To Know Them (Demisexual), Why Don’t Women Give More People A Chance?Nowhere in the post do i refer to myself. It was a general question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Were Hollywood Stars In The 1990’s and 2000’s Disproportionately Top % Men- And Has It Led Woman To Think They Should Be Dating A Top % Man?Would you say that there are a disproportionate number of really attractive men vs really attractive women in Hollywood though? Even if you rarely see these type of men in person- people can tend to focus on stars- leading to unrealistic expectations. For example if a little girl grows up on Justin Beiber or Zac Efron, how will she view the average guy? I mean this also does exist for men as well but it just seems that Hollywood, romance movies, soap operas are full of eye candy for women and ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 05:57 PM |
| 0 | Were Hollywood Stars In The 1990’s and 2000’s Disproportionately Top % Men- And Has It Led Woman To Think They Should Be Dating A Top % Man?Do you live in some rural area or small town? Or do you live in the burbs of a 1million+ metro area? I wonder if even women who live in major cities (that aren't NYC/LA/Miami and a few other cities) would say the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 05:51 PM |
| 0 | Were Hollywood Stars In The 1990’s and 2000’s Disproportionately Top % Men- And Has It Led Woman To Think They Should Be Dating A Top % Man?I'm literally taking the answers from an all female thread of answers. No one is naming Timothee as a male 10. Perhaps there are Tik Tok stars that are male 10's but because they are not super famous- it's hard to name them specifically? Ironically- the male 10's they name are the ones that are the most famous. Not only that- but a LOT of repeat answers of the same people- which verifies it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Were Hollywood Stars In The 1990’s and 2000’s Disproportionately Top % Men- And Has It Led Woman To Think They Should Be Dating A Top % Man?Yes comedians, action stars and indie movies are separate categories of course. Plus a large cross section of the viewers of comedies are children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 03:32 PM |
| 0 | Were Hollywood Stars In The 1990’s and 2000’s Disproportionately Top % Men- And Has It Led Woman To Think They Should Be Dating A Top % Man?If this were the case- in the 1990's and 2000's you could immediately name female 10s. For males it was easy- Brad Pitt, Johnny Depp and George Clooney. For females perhaps Catherine Zeta Jones, Megan Fox, Christina Applegate and Cameron Diaz. But it seems to me that iconic beauty in women is not as celebrated due to the increasingly feminist society we live in. Long ago, we had more exploitative female shows that would show off scantily clad women (that were also subservient as well). Today tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 03:30 PM |
| -1 | Were Hollywood Stars In The 1990’s and 2000’s Disproportionately Top % Men- And Has It Led Woman To Think They Should Be Dating A Top % Man?Top 1% is a very very high level for women. Yes, women like Mischa Barton, Megan Fox, Catherine Zeta Jones, Cameron Diaz and Monica Belluci hit that mark. But todays crop of actresses are mere 7s. Anna Kendrick, Anya Taylor Joy, Aubrey Plaza, Sydney Sweeney, Jennifer Lawrence don't hit that 1% mark. Even back in the 90's/2000's, many average/above average women. Sandra Bullock, Meryl Streep (a character actress), Reese Witherspoon, Kirsten Dunst, Kate Hudson, etc. I wonder if it’s because you ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Were Hollywood Stars In The 1990’s and 2000’s Disproportionately Top % Men- And Has It Led Woman To Think They Should Be Dating A Top % Man?Sure, 5's are even more common than 6's. But 6s is where people start to perceive attractiveness, although sometimes even 5's are considered dateable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 03:11 PM |
| 2 | Were Hollywood Stars In The 1990’s and 2000’s Disproportionately Top % Men- And Has It Led Woman To Think They Should Be Dating A Top % Man?No the "average" actor were people like Jimmy Stewart, Cary Grant, Peter O'Toole etc. There were still actors who were exceptionally attractive, like Marlon Brando, Paul Newman, Rock Hudson or Robert Redford but it wasn't like you couldn't make a movie without them. If anything, in the classic era, the attractive women were much more famous- Marilyn Monroe, Jayne Mansfield, Grace Kelly, Rita Hayworth, Brigitte Bardot, Catherine Deneuve. Betty Page. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Were Hollywood Stars In The 1990’s and 2000’s Disproportionately Top % Men- And Has It Led Woman To Think They Should Be Dating A Top % Man?Women who are 8's and 9's are not that common as well. But we commonly term them 8's and 9's, not top 1%ers. Women who are 6's are really common though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Were Hollywood Stars In The 1990’s and 2000’s Disproportionately Top % Men- And Has It Led Woman To Think They Should Be Dating A Top % Man?You also see 1% men cast in most romantic comedy movies which are media made for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 02:53 PM |
| -1 | Were Hollywood Stars In The 1990’s and 2000’s Disproportionately Top % Men- And Has It Led Woman To Think They Should Be Dating A Top % Man?Really 1984-2012. Movies in the last decade have gone into serious decline, plus they have started pushing more generically interchangable celebs and more average looking people. Like Jonah Hill, Seth Rogan, Ryan Reynolds (a top 20% guy, not a 1%er), Sydney Sweeney, etc. Women have more difficulty naming top 1%ers these days other than Henry Cavill or mayyyve Chris Hemsworth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 02:52 PM |
| – | Barring disability, short straight men play the dating game on the hardest difficultyNot in Latin America https://www.youtube.com/shorts/yDTGGysdpB4 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/24 01:09 AM |
| 0 | How are women able to walk away from a guy so easily?This is like rich people saying that poor people have it easier because they don't have to make as many choices and don't have to worry about their investment accounts losing money when the stock market crashes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/24 07:31 PM |
| – | Being laid back and uninvested is not what makes men attractive, women are attracted to men who act like that because those men are already attractiveBut if your over 6ft, northern European white, and fit... Then you can almost get any woman you want. They need to be good looking. Bill Gates even if he got fit, and wasn't rich would not be getting any woman he wants. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/24 02:35 PM |
| 2 | Attending a rap concert was a humbling experience as an average guy.Are they attractive women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 11:56 PM |
| – | Women in their 20s usually like guys our/their own ageI think the OP is really overthinking this. I ran into a lady with perfect skin, flirtatious, blonde white lady (although her body was fairly awful) and 68 years old. If she was able to get her body in shape, I reckon that she's be quite successful in dating as long as she avoided apps- due to being required to list her age as 68. Age is just a number. There are men who look pretty much exactly the same as when they were younger (and even white men). Admittedly they are rare. But i'm sure there'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 03:35 PM |
| – | Women in their 20s usually like guys our/their own ageNo offense but the majority of women that show interest in me are in their 20's and i'm significantly older. And tons of these are early 20's. Admittedly i look much younger than my age, but older women seem to somehow know that i'm not that young. And additionally more women show interest in me than when i was in college and in my early 20s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Women don't hit a wall, but they do stop taking care of their body after a certain age which is why most men prefer to date younger.Sounds like something that isn't race exclusive. Eat healthy, get exercise, use skin care products. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 01:11 PM |
| 3 | Women don't hit a wall, but they do stop taking care of their body after a certain age which is why most men prefer to date younger.Some women fill out and look better at 24-25 than 18 though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 01:06 PM |
| 2 | Women don't hit a wall, but they do stop taking care of their body after a certain age which is why most men prefer to date younger.Also from sun damage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 01:04 PM |
| 4 | Women don't hit a wall, but they do stop taking care of their body after a certain age which is why most men prefer to date younger.Most people also start to slowly eat a bit healthier as they get older. Yes young people can abuse their bodies, drink, etc when they are very young without too many bad effects if they fix their habits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Self improvement is quite limited for menWhat you need to do is to change locations to a small town. You would probably earn more money. In a small town where everyone's only earning 50K, your salary would stand out. As long as you're ok with small town women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 04:00 PM |
| 0 | Self improvement is quite limited for menYeah but status and money don't really help women all that much. A man who is a 6.5 who has a high paying job and some status can clock in closer to a 7.5. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Self improvement is quite limited for menSame thing is true for women though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Sexless men should honestly take their chances and approach as many women as possibleThey're usually over 50. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 06:00 PM |
| 2 | Sexless men should honestly take their chances and approach as many women as possibleHaha, just saw someone refer to a scene from Vicky Christina Barcelona with Javier Bardem, Scarlett Johannsen and someone else. Describes what you said to a tee. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 05:53 PM |
| 3 | The whole “men do it too” thing is old. You will never see a mediocre man turn down a hot chick because she “texted too fast” or too slow or made one comment he didn’t likeAn example right HERE! It's such a simple fix and no need to break a relationship over. What do you think happened in the olden days? The woman simply bought some soap and showed/helped tidy up the bathroom. Men are naturally worse at things like these. Ever wonder why you never ever ever see a latin male household cleaner? It would be like a man saying- that woman doesn't even check her spark plus on her car- what a deal breaker! And what happens here? The man helps her with her car maintenance… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 01:21 AM |
| 3 | The whole “men do it too” thing is old. You will never see a mediocre man turn down a hot chick because she “texted too fast” or too slow or made one comment he didn’t likeWomen can lose attraction over the smallest things and won't put in effort when they are actually correctable. I've heard about women who went on perfect dates (attractive guy, date went well, no issues) then saw the guys bathroom then cut all contact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 11:48 PM |
| 4 | There are very few women considered "losers" and this leads to a kind of empathy gap between men and women.A lot of fat women- which is actually a pretty high percentage in America, old and older women, women who aged quickly, women who dress like old women, women who cut their hair short like a man etc. But yes, if you're talking women in their 20's who are in shape and at least put in moderate effort- it's pretty low. Maybe like 20% max. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 11:46 PM |
| -4 | There are very few women considered "losers" and this leads to a kind of empathy gap between men and women.Really? I thought this was unheard of. Women no matter how unattractive can seem to find someone to have sex with- even if it does mean no relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Why don't more men read womens' romance novels?It's pretty much the same thing- just a "lite" version of the same thing. Hallmark movies or romantic comedies with a predominant female audience? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 11:08 PM |
| 3 | Why don't more men read womens' romance novels?Most women literally dont read them. Many women think theyre cringe and trashy. Then for others it just does nothing for them. Many women may not go as far as reading romance novels or soap operas- but they definitely consume watered down versions of the the same thing. Movies like Bridget Jones Diary, Pride and Prejudice, Bridgerton etc. Or they consume Hallmark movies or rom-coms or the Netflix versions of basically the same thing. Rom-coms or really female oriented media is all still pretty s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 12:53 AM |
| 0 | Why do women's dating frustrations match with what I experience irl?So you're saying you're a 7 (high tier normie). Because an 8 would be top 20% and the 9 would be the guy that girls try to contact first. And most of the girls you date from apps are 6's? In real life, you'd probably get 7's and 6.5's as well? And maybe the occasional 7.5? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 04:16 AM |
| 2 | Why do women's dating frustrations match with what I experience irl?Have you asked them why they didn't want to commit to you. She said that she's taller than 5'11" (quite rare for women) and that she was dating guys who were shorter than her. Not rocket science here. Unless she's some kind of supermodel..... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Question about buying attractionMoney does account for a lot, especially these days, now that everything is getting expensive. It can even work for women. If a woman is a doctor or earning 150K+ regularly, she could probably find some guy, even if she had to go down the socioeconomic ladder just like men do. I'm sure there must be some men earning minimum wage who would be interested in marrying a women who makes 150K+. Have you seen 90 Day Fiance? The women who are traditionally undesirable- the obese and the women over age 5… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 07:29 AM |
| 1 | Question about buying attractionExpensive clothing too. Looking like you have status/money or are important. Cars and watches are just signifiers that you are a somebody. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 07:26 AM |
| 1 | Question about buying attractionYou're a doctor and finding it difficult to get attention? Unless you work in a solo or small practice and work with the elderly? If you work in a hospital, there are nurses, CNA's, assistants, etc. None have ever shown interest in you, when they knew that you were a doctor? I always heard that doctors were almost never unmarried. They're viewed as one of the most stable and prestigious occupations out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 07:25 AM |
| 1 | Question about buying attractionHave you tried the classic stuff, like wearing and expensive watch and expensive clothing and driving a nice car? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 07:08 AM |
| 1 | Question about buying attractionUsually people of high wealth have high, powerful positions or own businesses. They become attractive to the people they work with, because they see them in position of power. But it can be unfortunate for say lawyers, who would have few prospects other than paralegals and the legal secretaries that work at their company. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 07:02 AM |
| 1 | Question about buying attractionMarrying a hot but dumb golddigger has tons of disadvantages. It lowers the IQ of your children, lowers their education level- children tend to learn everything from their mothers- their fathers work all day. She might embarass you in social settings, she might not fit in with the ladies who lunch, etc. Breeding is important. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/24 06:57 AM |
| – | Do You Notice Marked Differences Between People On Dating Apps Vs The General Population?But isn't there definitely the type who happens to be on there year after year, perhaps because they are unrealistic or have personal issues? I mean even in the general population, there is a certain amount of truth that the best people get snatched up quickly and the only ones left over are the leftovers- perhaps except for the Chads, because it just doesn't pay for them to commit, when they simply have so many options. Do you also find that the best, high quality people are also simply missing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/24 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Arranged marriages in EastYou could say the same thing for unattractive women and men. They are both forced to have sex with and/or marry partners that they do not find attractive. How do you explain this? They just realize that life isn't perfect, they didn't win the genetic lottery and that something is better than nothing. Question for you- what goes through the mind of an unattractive woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 06:52 PM |
| 2 | Arranged marriages in EastYou could say the same thing for unattractive women and men. They are both forced to have sex with and/or marry partners that they do not find attractive. How do you explain this? They just realize that life isn't perfect, they didn't win the genetic lottery and that something is better than nothing. Question for you- what goes through the mind of an unattractive woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Arranged marriages in EastIn some societies being unmarried beyond a certain age is more of a stigma and in poor countries, being able to eat and feed her children are a real concern. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Arranged marriages in EastYou could say the same thing for unattractive women and men. They are both forced to have sex with and/or marry partners that they do not find attractive. How do you explain this? They just realize that life isn't perfect, they didn't win the genetic lottery and that something is better than nothing. Question for you- what goes through the mind of an unattractive woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 06:47 PM |
| – | Why people don't think that society already showed every way to be romantically successful for menOK, but you'll only pay for it for the rest of your life- with unsuccessful and unfulfilled relationships, frustration, fights, divorces, dead bedrooms, etc. Bro this trend of modern men who put so much emphasise on understanding women is so annoying . They are acting like they achieved something special , who give a fuck about understanding women, and do you think women try to understand men?😂😂 This only further cements my viewpoint. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Why people don't think that society already showed every way to be romantically successful for menAnother emotional manipulation from women, the same women who also would use their sexual advantage to extract resources from men. Funny how it's called the " game " until it doesn't benefit women. This sounds like a guy who has spent TOO much time online reading what other men dish out. You're clearly seeing everything from only a man- centric view and this is from a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 05:02 AM |
| 3 | Why people don't think that society already showed every way to be romantically successful for menYeah this guy clearly has like zero actual understanding of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 05:01 AM |
| 5 | Why people don't think that society already showed every way to be romantically successful for menWow. Just wow bro, it's pretty clear that you have like zero understanding of women. You're just talking about what works with social media algorithms, which in itself has bias anyway. I think the best way to explain this, is that you're missing the big picture and can't see the forest for all the trees. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Women, How Often Do You Run Into An Attractive Man In Real Life?How about for yourself then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Women, How Often Do You Run Into An Attractive Man In Real Life?How do women then decide that a man they are interacting with for the first time is a "go" or even a one night stand? I'm guessing that even just a few minutes of interaction is enough to make or break a person? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Women, How Often Do You Run Into An Attractive Man In Real Life?How do women then decide that a man they are interacting with for the first time is a "go" or even a one night stand? I'm guessing that even just a few minutes of interaction is enough to make or break a person? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Women, How Often Do You Run Into An Attractive Man In Real Life?How do women then decide that a man they are interacting with for the first time is a "go" or even a one night stand? I'm guessing that even just a few minutes of interaction is enough to make or break a person? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Women, How Often Do You Run Into An Attractive Man In Real Life?How do women then decide that a man they are interacting with for the first time is a "go" or even a one night stand? I'm guessing that even just a few minutes of interaction is enough to make or break a person? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Women, How Often Do You Run Into An Attractive Man In Real Life?How do women then decide that a man they are interacting with for the first time is a "go" or even a one night stand? I'm guessing that even just a few minutes of interaction is enough to make or break a person? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Women, How Often Do You Run Into An Attractive Man In Real Life?How do women then decide that a man they are interacting with for the first time is a "go" or even a one night stand? I'm guessing that even just a few minutes of interaction is enough to make or break a person? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Women, How Often Do You Run Into An Attractive Man In Real Life?How do women then decide that a man they are interacting with for the first time is a "go" or even a one night stand? I'm guessing that even just a few minutes of interaction is enough to make or break a person? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Women, How Often Do You Run Into An Attractive Man In Real Life?How do women then decide that a man they are interacting with for the first time is a "go" or even a one night stand? I'm guessing that even just a few minutes of interaction is enough to make or break a person? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 07:31 PM |
| 3 | Article: The Case For Marrying An Older ManGood post. I remember when i was 18 and luckily made a male friend who was 28 and invited me into his circle of MBA grads. It was educational and interesting to say the least. And when i was 25, i had a friend who was 33. Learned a lot from him as well. Taught me a lot about women, etiquette, etc. Benefitted me a lot in my later years. Actually had a beautiful woman who showed interest back who was 40 when i was 25. But i was too timid and stupid back then. Of course would not have likely worked… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 07:19 AM |
| 1 | Article: The Case For Marrying An Older ManReposting the article in case some can't see it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 05:46 AM |
| 2 | Article: The Case For Marrying An Older ManIt was written by a woman. Just saw a video of older women discussing it, read the article and thought it would be an interesting topic to discuss. The article has over 500 comments on it and the Youtube video near 400. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Article: The Case For Marrying An Older ManPART 3: For me, my relationship, with its age gap, has alleviated this rush, permitted me to massage the clock, shift its hands to my benefit. Very soon, we will decide to have children, and I don’t panic over last gasps of fun, because I took so many big breaths of it early: on the holidays of someone who had worked a decade longer than I had, in beautiful places when I was young and beautiful, a symmetry I recommend. If such a thing as maternal energy exists, mine was never depleted. I spent t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 04:59 AM |
| 0 | Article: The Case For Marrying An Older ManPART 2: I find a post on Reddit where five thousand men try to define “a woman’s touch.” They describe raised flower beds, blankets, photographs of their loved ones, not hers, sprouting on the mantel overnight. Candles, coasters, side tables. Someone remembering to take lint out of the dryer. To give compliments. I wonder what these women are getting back. I imagine them like Cinderella’s mice, scurrying around, their sole proof of life their contributions to a more central character. On occasio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 04:58 AM |
| 0 | Article: The Case For Marrying An Older ManPART 1: In the summer, in the south of France, my husband and I like to play, rather badly, the lottery. We take long, scorching walks to the village — gratuitous beauty, gratuitous heat — kicking up dust and languid debates over how we’d spend such an influx. I purchase scratch-offs, jackpot tickets, scraping the former with euro coins in restaurants too fine for that. I never cash them in, nor do I check the winning numbers. For I already won something like the lotto, with its gifts and its cu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 04:56 AM |
| 2 | How come so many guys do not want to go to clubs to get women, even though that is the easiest option?It also holds the problem that it is late night hours. It throws off your whole sleep schedule for the week and if you drink, your entire weekend. Add to that DUI's, having to find the best places, needing a friend/wingman or even a woman to get into the best clubs, and these days cost. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 06:54 AM |
| 5 | She has to like you moreThis is so he won't be as likely to go astray as the woman gets older and loses her looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 04:59 AM |
| 12 | How would you describe “lady game”?Too many girls these days have lost the art of flirting and knowing what does it for men. They don't realize how much they're missing out on by not utilizing their full potential. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Let’s stop pretending guys don’t age and have just as many unattractive problems later in lifeFor a man, 35 is hardly an old fart! C'mon- let's reverse this and call a 35 year old woman an old maid or a spinster or cat lady. THAT would get a ton of hate! No, she's in her prime and able to get any guys she wants! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 06:44 AM |
| 1 | Let’s stop pretending guys don’t age and have just as many unattractive problems later in lifeMen who take care of themselves can have a nearly 2 decade delay vs women. 50's for men can equal 30's (beginning of real aging) 60's for men can equal 40's (starting to age) 70's for men can equal 50s. (getting old) Dolly Parton is almost 80 YEARS OLD! And men will have an easier time than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 06:36 AM |
| 1 | Let’s stop pretending guys don’t age and have just as many unattractive problems later in lifeYeah but women get a LOT more flexible and open as they get older. That's also a large part of why it gets easier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 06:24 AM |
| -1 | Women face no significant penalty when dating in their 30sEarly 30's sure but every year after 35 and the clock starting ticking quickly for a lot of women and gets acute after age 38. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 07:54 AM |
| -1 | Women face no significant penalty when dating in their 30sActually just googled a pic of Sofia Vergara. I wouldn't say she looks great. Plus she's clearly had work done, her face looks different and her lips too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 07:50 AM |
| 1 | Who are the type of young women who date older men? Most women I knew when I was early 20s were chasing hot college boys.I regularly get women 20+ years younger than me either show interest or even develop crushes. In fact of all the women in my life that have shown interest only a minority are older (older than 38ish). if you want to know where or how- everywhere. A lot of workers that are low level are young women- retail workers, restaurants, cashiers, etc. I think a lot of men say that women in their 20's chase them or show interest. Your view is very skewed. I was in college once too and realize what you're s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 07:41 AM |
| – | Being an attractive woman in the West is the highest level of privilege a person can ever have.Dolly Parton is almost 80. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 07:17 AM |
| – | Being an attractive woman in the West is the highest level of privilege a person can ever have.Yeah but they can't enjoy all that privilege at that age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 07:14 AM |
| – | Being an attractive woman in the West is the highest level of privilege a person can ever have.It's easy to lead a good life but it's also easy to destroy your life. Can you explain this in further detail? It's also very easy to lose that "privilege" if you go off the wrong route. And this one too? As long as she has a good head on her shoulders, i don't really see this happening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/24 07:13 AM |
| 1 | Are women not getting approached anymore?Let me ask you- have you ever or do you ever get men who either check you out or when around you act a little giddy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Ladies (non-exclusively), what are your thoughts on population collapse?This is just false. People had 8 kids per family not that long ago. And people grew up in poverty. It's just entitlement. The main expense for kids is childcare- and that problem is actually solved when you have multiple kids because the older kids start to care for the younger ones. i grew up with a kid whose family had almost like 15 kids or something. They wore hand me downs, they attended public school and worked part time jobs to buy a used car. They had to join the miltary to pay for colle… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Debate : People dont understand that Money and status makes you GENUINELY more sexually attractive as a Man.This is false. If Brittany Spears was a waitress at Hooters, she could still get a guy like Kevin Federline. Maybe different now that she is older though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/24 03:55 AM |
| 2 | Female Behavior Rewards Manipulative Men Who Play The Field Or Date DownwardsHow do you catfish your race? Unless you're racially ambiguous or catfishing for a very similar looking race. Are you talking about black fishing, like Ariana Grande or Kim Kardashian? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/24 07:53 PM |
| 1 | How do women actually go about guessing a man's wealth?That's less true outside the major cities. Try talking about designer brands to a girl in Cincinnati or Bradford and it won't matter at all to her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 08:27 PM |
| 1 | How do women actually go about guessing a man's wealth?You could say the same about women too though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 08:18 PM |
| – | How do average looking guys get 10/10 Western women? Why is there less dating inflation abroad?However as you said, it won’t make you jump multiple levels. Women aren’t going to know you’re rich unless they talk to you or you flaunt it. If you flaunt it then gold diggers will come, and normal girls will have an “ick”. And if you don’t flaunt it then women will never know. Rich men usually find women within the context of what they do as being rich men, not going to a random bar. The women they encounter via work, while car shopping for a 100K car, in a fiver star hotel, at networking even… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 07:57 PM |
| – | How do average looking guys get 10/10 Western women? Why is there less dating inflation abroad?Start a band or become Tik Tok famous. Axl Rose was able to date Stephanie Seymour (a model) in the 90s. Marilyn Manson dated a bevy of attractive women- Rose Mcgowan, Dita Von Teese, Evan Rachel Wood, etc. Half the men in that era started a band to get women. Women find ugly rock stars sexy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 07:48 PM |
| – | How do average looking guys get 10/10 Western women? Why is there less dating inflation abroad?HAHA- IS THIS A SARCASTIC POST? It sounds exactly like what an average woman would post! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 07:28 PM |
| – | How do average looking guys get 10/10 Western women? Why is there less dating inflation abroad?Your best shot hands down is social proximity. There's a reason why celeb women end up marrying their bodyguard. Or waitresses and strippers end up dating the manager who works there. You have to find a way to constantly be in contact with her, while she lacks opportunities to find other good men. She gets to know you and you're always around. Then one day, she has something tragic happen, and you're there. Then she sees something in you she never saw before. Best way is to work with them. Or of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 07:26 PM |
| – | How do average looking guys get 10/10 Western women? Why is there less dating inflation abroad?I gotta disagree with at least the first part. Money means nothing to women in the west. UNLESS you’re willing to spend it on her, then all you get are gold diggers. But that only works when she finds you attractive and is interested in you. i disagree. While being a millionaire won't allow one to jump multiple levels, it can be the deciding difference for a guy is a little above average to help "seal the deal", especially for marriage. There's a reason why doctors typically don't have a difficu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Why do players keep a harem of girls when he could easily get a girl he wants?Two things: First is that if you are a very attractive man, you are constantly being thrown options. This can make it very difficult for a guy. Second, if you are with a ton of women or if just a TON of women show interest in you, your pickiness gets sky high. So they ARE looking for the perfect woman, but just haven't run across her yet. Of course, just like women, when they get truly near the wall (50-65), they commit and get married too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 07:34 AM |
| 1 | Why do players keep a harem of girls when he could easily get a girl he wants?It's actually even worse than that- they lose interest on some small action or mistake the man made. I just saw a thread where a woman walked out because the man had a dirty bathroom. Like duh, if you become his girlfriend and use the same bathroom, it would now be clean. It's a super simple problem to solve. Whereas things like looks, height, career or penis size are not solvable or easily solvable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 06:58 AM |
| 4 | Why do players keep a harem of girls when he could easily get a girl he wants?And big penises. When you see women actively pursuing a man, there's a high chance he has a really big dick or exceptional sexual skills. How do they know until they've had sex? Much to the dismay of redpillers and incels, good looks lose their novelty very quickly, especially to a woman who has no problem securing men that are attractive. That's why the women who are really into it are typically 6's and 7's. Genuinely attractive women also do enter the picture as well and if the woman is high v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 06:44 AM |
| 1 | International dating is generally good for men and a life changing positive event for the women they marry. Scholarly research - mostly by feminists -has repeatedly proved this. Lonely guys should consider it - particularly otherwise successful guys who are a bit socially awkward or shy with women.They do unless they're ok with supporting the men that they date, unless they go to one of the few countries where men earn similar wages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 06:35 AM |
| 1 | Are there more lonely men or lonely women?Partly Anglo culture, but also US culture- that prioritizes work over everything else. Add the isolating car culture and destruction of 3rd spaces and men being afraid of being called wimps or gay for male friendships outside of accepted avenues like sports or work or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Are there more lonely men or lonely women?You also have to add incarceration, the military, men who work in coal mines or oil fields or logging too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Women generally don't consider a mans potential, and this is causing unhealthy imbalances in the dating marketA woman who is physically attractive but has a less than perfect dressing style/makeup/hair and femininity. A woman with a pretty face whose body (already thin). could be drastically improved via working out. A pretty girl who is a little overweight or slightly pudgy/ill formed body. A pretty girl who is smart but their career potential is underutilized. A girl who grew up in a small town but is open minded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Why aren't there more male mentors? I've always wanted one even now I'm a middle aged manA lot of this happens when you're young- join a sports team in middle/high school, boy scouts, karate/mma, military, car racing, skateboarding. For adults it's mostly in business, sports or church. Golf and country clubs are good too. A long time ago we had bowling leagues, poker games, fishing/hunting, men's lodge meetings. If you're looking for mentorship with women, there are books, youtube channels or you could pay dating coaches (some of them are female) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 08:02 AM |
| 2 | Just rewatched Forrest Gump and it made me think about dating a lotThat's the punishment for the original sin, i believe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 07:47 AM |
| 8 | Just rewatched Forrest Gump and it made me think about dating a lotI think you're misreading the movie. Forrest's relationship with Jenny was basically all fantasy. Like a teenage girl's imaginary relationship with a pop/movie star. He definitely pined for her, but that doesn't mean he deserved her. Jenny was nice to him, because they grew up together and were friends when they were little. There WAS NO RELATIONSHIP. I mean look at it realistically- what kind of sane person, male or female would look at someone like Forrest as a real partner- if nothing else fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Just rewatched Forrest Gump and it made me think about dating a lotSince you're mentioning the Bible-Ecclesiastes 7:27-28 “Adding one thing to another to discover the scheme of things— 28 while I was still searching but not finding— I found one upright man among a thousand, but not one upright woman among them all. But it does say that women are redeemable: 1 Timothy 2:15 “Notwithstanding she shall be saved in childbearing, if they continue in faith and charity and holiness with sobriety. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 03:04 AM |
| 7 | Just rewatched Forrest Gump and it made me think about dating a lotTo be fair- trauma, especially at an early age causes a LOT of issues. It's well known that a lot of sex workers, porn stars and strippers come from traumatic backgrounds. In psychology, a lot of acting out is due to unresolved issues of things like feeling unlovable, trying to replace the hole left by the father that left them with drugs, sex, food, etc. And for Christians- they believe that trauma causes issues of demonic influence- thus leading to negativity, lashing out, out of control promi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 02:45 AM |
| 1 | "Male loneliness epidemic" is just a tool used to manipulate menI don't think that it's fact that women hate domestic work/duties. It's just when they work a full time job and are responsible for cooking meals, cleaning, holding the house together, creating a social life for the couple AND caring for children and paying attention to their well being. Yeah, it's a bum deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 08:09 PM |
| 1 | "Male loneliness epidemic" is just a tool used to manipulate menThe reality is that the impact of the Internet is HUGE. Before you'd sit at home for maybe an hour max before getting bored and either calling someone to hang out or (even more rare today) just do the pop in. There were times where you would just assume that certain people would pop by during certain times. I even saw it on the retooled version of Full House- the girl had a habit of always popping in and they made it into an inside joke. My theory is that if you killed the Internet and video gam… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/23 08:03 PM |
| 14 | Dating would be so much easier if there were wholesome communal meeting places for younger peopleThere used to be a ton of things like this in high school. Football/basketball game, roller skating rink, school dances, Friendly's/ The Malt Shop, etc. In small towns, people would also just cruise the main drag. In foreign countries- in small towns they have town squares where people just hang out outdoors- in Italy, Spain, Latin America with a bottle of wine or something. The closest thing you can get in America is a 4th of July parade or a big annual town wide festival like the Azalea Fest I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 06:37 AM |
| -5 | How Common Is It For Women To Choose Not Hot Men So They Don’t Get Cheated On?That's where the just cheated for a night due to urges vs started another family/ fell in love with someone else (true betrayal) is a huge difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 06:44 PM |
| -4 | How Common Is It For Women To Choose Not Hot Men So They Don’t Get Cheated On?Yeah but most average men here say that they can't get female attention to save their lives. Women often pick men because they know that they don't have other options. That's why unattractive couples work so well. Neither party has outside options, generally speaking. Unless they go seriously bottom feeding that is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/23 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Let's be real it's the women in the 5.5-7.5 range causing most of the dating/relationships problemRealistically with the right hair, makeup and outfit, most women are at least a 4. Women below 4's tend to old women, women who are morbidly obese, women with really masculine features/body, mayybe a few women over 6 feet tall. Most of the rest, are primarily that way due to lack of effort (overweight, don't work out, short hair, no effort in style/makeup). Most of the 2's of the world are old women who make zero effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/23 07:53 PM |
| 1 | More women (than men) are seen as attractive by other women, because the standard of what passes as attractive man is higher and unforgivingWomen have makeup and clothing to help, curvy bodies/big chest, revealing clothing/ femininity and their personality. But men have their job/career, power, personality and their bodies as well. Men don't care if a woman is a waitress or a lawyer. And do you think that Jeff Bezos and Bill Gates would have decent women otherwise? You might say that bodies only help if a guy is at least decent looking already. But the same is also true for women with curvy bodies- the face has to at least be decent… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 08:40 PM |
| 1 | More women (than men) are seen as attractive by other women, because the standard of what passes as attractive man is higher and unforgivingSure, but modern narratives often create a sense of victimhood amongst women and simultaneous entitlement which stimulates the proliferation of widespread discontent. There's a reason why most divorces are initiated by women and the divorce rate is so high. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Dating for men is a race to the bottomWouldn't international travel being common be a plus for the men rather than the women? Yes women also go to international destinations, but as 90 Day Fiance shows, attractive women under the age of 50 only go to first world nations. The ones going to third world countries are typically over 50 or overweight/undesirable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Perfect looking men are so incredibly rare it’s almost not even worth thinking aboutAre you saying that even amongst Hollywood celebs, that 8's, 9's and 10's don't exist? Very attractive men may not be common, but they do exist. It also may just be fact that the places your frequent, where you live, your social circles don't have them. But as others have mentioned, dating apps evens those numbers. Let's just look at this mathematically. Average woman joins dating app, sees 100 men per day on app. Swipe right on mayybe one out of every 500 men. Sees a very attractive man after 8… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/23 08:23 PM |
| 3 | Are straight women really qualified to give advice on how to date straight women?That's like saying that you can't teach men how to pick up women? It comes with a little direction, knowledge and practice. Just like with anything else in life. But women aren't used to being on the other end of the stick. That's why they're so bad at it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 06:09 AM |
| 0 | Are straight women really qualified to give advice on how to date straight women?Add another CLUELESS dude to add to the list. In my personal experiences, it makes a BIG difference. A girl who can flirt, who knows how to use body language and come off as feminine makes a huge difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 04:46 AM |
| 0 | Are straight women really qualified to give advice on how to date straight women?I just saw a thread where a girl (26F) said that she noticed a very attractive guy in one of her classes and was asking how to approach him. The advice from men was horrible. Pretty obvious that they had not been approached much. Their advice was extremely simple. Just say hi. Just ask him out. The problem is that the vast majority of women are VERY bad at trying to pick up a dude. A few are quite good at it though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/23 04:25 AM |
| 1 | All else equal, young people are universally more attractiveStraight from the horse's mouth: https://www.reddit.com/r/RomanceBooks/comments/16d8wbi/i_need_cr_authors_to_stop_having_their/ My experience of logging back on to tumblr after like, 2 years and half my 20-something mutuals being completely OBSESSED with current Tom Cruise in Maverick and the more recent Mission Impossible movies says that maybe the CR authors aren't that out of touch, actually.... like, you guys, I think a lot of young women are just horny for (attractive) old men. Like, I feel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/23 05:37 PM |
| 1 | All else equal, young people are universally more attractiveNOPE! Just thought about this- if what you say is true, then why are over 60% of men in their twenties single, while only 30% of women are? Yet at the same time, most men in the thirties and forties are married? This thread also confirms that life begins at 30 for MANY men. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/16caakd/i_have_been_friendzoned_by_over_30_women_heres/ The same is shown with Jason Statham, but you can also use many other celebrities (and not the really good looking ones) to s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/23 07:38 PM |
| 1 | All else equal, young people are universally more attractiveGiven that they would want to enjoy their marriage for a few years before having kids, that would make the man at least 75+ at that point. Highly unlikely at that point, unless the guy was wealthy, good looking AND kept his looks like someone like Robert Deniro or something. A 50 year old who dates a 32 year old isn't necessarily wealthy, but he probably needs to have it together and be earning a six figure salary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 05:57 PM |
| 1 | All else equal, young people are universally more attractiveI haven't met any men in REAL LIFE who look better at 40+ than they did at 25 lol. I have seen plenty. Mediocre or dorky looking guys who turn into more manly looking men as they grew older. I have seen Facebook profiles of people from high school. Just didn't want to post people for privacy reasons, but a transformation like Jason Statham is not unusual and he was still above average when young. True, they didn't turn out to look as good as a Jason Statham, but nonetheless it's not like other p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 04:30 PM |
| 1 | All else equal, young people are universally more attractiveA 50 year old would likely be dating someone aged 27-35 though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 04:23 PM |
| 1 | All else equal, young people are universally more attractiveAu contraire. See this video of Jason Statham: https://www.youtube.com/watch?app=desktop&v=euH44kYUu6M And yes, i saw your comment about Hollywood heartthrobs. But see the aging process in Jason, he looks like a kid in his twenties. The video shows him throughout the years. I disagree with you. A lot of men out there look like kids in their twenties and don't turn into men until older, like Jason Statham. Of course, yes some peak early and the same is true for women. Britney Spears peaked in hig… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 06:42 AM |
| 1 | All else equal, young people are universally more attractiveIf they're already 40 or 50, then by the time replacement time comes, they'll be old enough that it won't be so easy or desirable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 06:27 AM |
| 2 | Yes men peak at an older age than women. But that's because most men start at the bottomSee this video of Jason Statham- https://www.youtube.com/watch?app=desktop&v=euH44kYUu6M He definitely looks better older- looks like a normal kid in his twenties. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 06:24 AM |
| 2 | Men, Would You Rather Be Married To A Beautiful Woman Or Be Genuinely Attractive To Women However- ?Isn't this almost all golddigger relationships? And yet I rarely see people turn down beauty queens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 04:53 PM |
| 0 | Men, Would You Rather Be Married To A Beautiful Woman Or Be Genuinely Attractive To Women However- ?They're just used as hypotheticals to illustrate the example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 04:52 PM |
| 0 | Men, Would You Rather Be Married To A Beautiful Woman Or Be Genuinely Attractive To Women However- ?Yep, i think your analysis is accurate. But in scenario #1- she would probably leave if you cheated-. I'm quite surprised so many are picking #2. The ultimate goal is to lock down a beauty queen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Men, Would You Rather Be Married To A Beautiful Woman Or Be Genuinely Attractive To Women However- ?The real secret is a lot of Chads are actually just banging a lot of 6's and 7's. 9's are already in a relationship, with really rich/powerful men only or married to their high school sweetheart. Or they work as bargirls or something. There are tons of 6's and 7's. Plus once they meet a Chad who actually shows interest, they are like bees to honey. It's also just all too much just to pass up. So when they see an average/above average dude with that 9, they also feel jealous- even though they are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/23 04:32 AM |
| -3 | Men, Would You Rather Be Married To A Beautiful Woman Or Be Genuinely Attractive To Women However- ?So you wouldn't rather be with Cameron Diaz with a decent marriage, but would rather have a marriage full of passion with Anna Kendrick? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 07:32 PM |
| 0 | Men, Would You Rather Be Married To A Beautiful Woman Or Be Genuinely Attractive To Women However- ?So you wouldn't rather be with Cameron Diaz with a decent marriage, but would rather have a marriage full of passion with Anna Kendrick? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 07:31 PM |
| 0 | Men, Would You Rather Be Married To A Beautiful Woman Or Be Genuinely Attractive To Women However- ?I didn't say NO passion, just lacks some of the REAL passion you see in other situations, say for a Chad. There are lots of real life couples like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 07:19 PM |
| 2 | Men, Would You Rather Be Married To A Beautiful Woman Or Be Genuinely Attractive To Women However- ?Guy in scenario #1 has the "perfect girl" that guy in scenario#2 wants (and every man wants). I have seen men i was surprised that they were able to get such amazing partners. Meanwhile the Chads were mainly getting a stream of slightly above average girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/23 07:02 PM |
| 2 | Are most women not sexually attracted to their partners?They're in the honeymoon period. That's why they're holding hands. How many older married couples hold hands and give loving looks like teenagers to each other? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 07:27 PM |
| -1 | Woman Claims It’s Hard To Get Sex, Is That True?You haven't found any guys you would have sex with in 9 years? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 07:30 PM |
| 7 | Woman Claims It’s Hard To Get Sex, Is That True?So finding a guy that you actually want to have sex with is actually difficult? Why not just offer it up to guys in the top 5%/20%? Or do they get so many offers that they would turn someone down? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 07:29 PM |
| 2 | Woman Claims It’s Hard To Get Sex, Is That True?She's attractive enough to bang, without a doubt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Being shy or a little introverted can be considered an endearing trait in women, but is usually a very unattractive one for menIt's absolutely an endearing trait for standout good looking/attractive guys though. You would stand out since most very good looking guys are the opposite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/23 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think so many women are sexually attracted to K-pop male stars ?So were you sexually attracted to them? Or did you feel more primal with masculine men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 10:02 PM |
| 5 | The 'Chad C*ck Carousel* is a MythApplies in the economic world too. Taking off restraints leads to winner takes all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 05:10 PM |
| 1 | The 'Chad C*ck Carousel* is a MythSome of the guys might be in relationships or in a phase at work where they're super busy. Or worse still- getting massive attention from tons of women but not sleeping with all of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 05:09 PM |
| – | CMV : I have never seen a young woman dissatisfied in a relationship with a traditionally attractive manThey're the ones who are more masculine and traditional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 04:41 PM |
| 2 | Money 100% does help with dating and does compensate for shortcoming no matter what this sub saysI think it could if the woman was dependent on the man for their livelihood- ie- didn't have any other choices. But for the average hot woman- that net worth probably needs to be in the millions for the advantage to be so great. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Dating in the Modern Age is Analogous to Wealth Inequality in Later Stage Capitalism.I don't understand why that would lead you to support polygamy, unless you yourself are in the top 5% or 1%. What is your logic? All the women would still flock to the same people- what would change? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/23 08:29 PM |
| 2 | You might as well go for the most attractive women possible.You're going to run into very similar problems as women trying to lock down 1% or 5% guys. Every girl wants them and singles them out for attention. First of all- very attractive girls are likely to already be attached. Very rarely single. This is the single biggest hurdle- even if they are willing to give you a chance. Second- is that just like the 1% guy, they get singled out for attention everywhere they go. And they mainly go out in public where they are likely to get even more attention- re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 07:32 PM |
| 5 | Where do you people find „ugly” guys?Women from places like Eastern Europe, Asia. Latin America and the Middle East have a more realistic/balanced view. Women from countries like Northern Europe (west), anglophone countries have a larger divide between the genders. American men in particular are known for not caring at all about their style, although not everyone obviously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 06:42 AM |
| 1 | I'm incredibly skeptical that personality or other characteristics can "override" lack of physical attraction - please change my mind.Oh come on. You never been drawn to someone for a reason that you can't articulate? There's just something about him/her. I've been attracted to not so attractive women. Maybe they have a nice smile, a good body, an interesting nose... Or their personality. I once found a girl ugly when i first saw her and then later became wildly obsessed with her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/23 07:05 AM |
| 2 | Why don't low quality women just lower your standards comparable to where you actually are?I acknowledge that I’m decent looking, dress nicely, okay weight, etc. but that has not worked. If you're less attractive, being in good shape, being a great dresser, being very feminine and being great at flirting is what will make the difference. Just being an ok dresser (somewhat frumpy looking), not being that good at socializing, not wearing items that are flattering for you, not prioritizing looking "hot" (looking like a mom, when you're not a mom), not being a big flirt are going to hold … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/23 04:16 AM |
| 1 | Why don't low quality women just lower your standards comparable to where you actually are?Because i've seen many examples in real life where mediocre women were able to get decent/good men. Men are more desperate and if they hit the right group of lonely guys, they can hit the jackpot. Maybe not real bona-fide chads, but have seen the above scenario many times and even across races. Another thing you haven't discussed is the female equivalent of Passport Bros- they tend to date Latino, Black. Middle Eastern or Asian men or target men from abroad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Why don't low quality women just lower your standards comparable to where you actually are?You could be a candidate for exactly what the OP is talking about- never gave men of a lower level a chance. Where there's a will, there's a way, yes? Plus women also have the crutch of being able to dress up, use tons of makeup, wear revealing outfits. "There are no ugly women" is the quote. A woman would have to have masculine features and broad shoulders like a football player and be 6'3" to really start to get sympathy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 07:44 PM |
| 4 | Why don't low quality women just lower your standards comparable to where you actually are?If that was the case- then wouldn't women- particularly older women who don't want to settle- in a ton of FWB relationships? But instead they just seem to go celibate or wait long periods between the alphas who show them attention from time to time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 07:40 PM |
| 2 | American women have the worst reputation for relationships / marriage in the entire world. This is not (so much) the case for American men.But this somewhat made up for by the fact that people are much more open to conversation with strangers and meeting new people/strangers. Try talking to or greeting strangers in Europe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 04:52 PM |
| 3 | 'Liberal Woman' Goes Viral On TikTok For Saying It's Hard To Find 'Masculine' Man Who's Not ConservativeI don't think so. There are established views for liberals where even the idea of questioning it or providing another viewpoint is rapidly pushed down. A person who is a critical thinker and thinks for themselves would naturally have a mix of opinions and not just toe the party lines positions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Is Finding A Poor(er) Woman To Date The Solution For Average Looking Guys?Admittedly- although small town girls seem more nice/traditional, the main problem is finding someone who isn't already married. The issue is that all the single people are the leftovers or divorcees. Still think they exist though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 05:38 AM |
| 2 | Is Finding A Poor(er) Woman To Date The Solution For Average Looking Guys?That's a rather pessimistic view of women who earn less. I didn't mean that you should go to the trailer park or homeless shelter looking for meth heads. There are a ton of nice women who work at jobs that may not pay that well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 05:01 AM |
| 2 | Is Finding A Poor(er) Woman To Date The Solution For Average Looking Guys?C'mon, women who work at the gas station are dating the top 1%? Maybe some of the girls who work in restaurants. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 04:28 AM |
| 12 | Is Finding A Poor(er) Woman To Date The Solution For Average Looking Guys?Interesting story- but in real life it doesn't need to be that extreme- et al- a Harvey Weinstein with a hot young girl- that's basically a sugar daddy relationship since she is receiving so much. Could easily be an average looking guy who makes 85K with a girl he met at a restaurant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 04:04 AM |
| 2 | Is Finding A Poor(er) Woman To Date The Solution For Average Looking Guys?Lots of middle class women also end up working at jobs like this as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 03:47 AM |
| 4 | Is Finding A Poor(er) Woman To Date The Solution For Average Looking Guys?Well yeah, the guy would need to be a good six figure owner with a decent car and home for it to work. But lots of women in retail, grocery stores, restaurants typically earn $20 per hour or less and with today's high rental rates, food inflation and gas- and on top of that if they were a single mother....... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 03:28 AM |
| 1 | CMV Most men cant rate attractiveness of other Men properly, and that leads to delusion.What is the tiktok chad haircut? Have an example image? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 04:42 PM |
| 2 | Apparently Women are joining the Passport Bros CrewIt's mostly older women who do it, who no longer have as many options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 06:03 PM |
| 1 | If coming on too strong is so unattractive why does love bombing seem to work so often?Haha, interesting point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 02:12 PM |
| 1 | People on this sub over exaggerate height too much CMVI'd think you'd have to closer to five feet than five foot six inches for this to truly happen. The main exception is when the girl is taller than the guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 07:45 PM |
| 0 | Are Gen Z/late Millenials really having less sex or are they simply redefining what counts as sex?Frat parties don't have kegs anymore? When did this happen? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Are Gen Z/late Millenials really having less sex or are they simply redefining what counts as sex?Do you think that this why dating apps don't work and couple only really form at work, school, or through activities? That repeated contact is necessary to make something work? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Age gaps don't matter. Attraction does.Women, like all people will bend their standards for the right person. I mean if a 23 year old girl just graduated from college and in her first job, her boss was Harry Styles (or similar guy). And Harry was starting out by subtly hitting on her. Do you realistically think she would turn that down? And it isn't just about money or experience. It's about the right person. Why? Because lots of rich women have voluntarily entered age gap relationships. Megan Fox with Brian Austen Green, Catherine Z… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Age gaps don't matter. Attraction does.And it isn't just about money or experience. It's about the right person. Why? Because lots of rich women have voluntarily entered age gap relationships. Megan Fox with Brian Austen Green, Catherine Zeta Jones w/Michael Douglas, Calista Flockhart with Harrison Ford and last Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher- For the big age gaps. Jason Statham- 20 years Matthew Mcconaghey 13 years George Clooney 17 years Ryan Reynolds 11 years Jay Z 12 years Chris Pratt 10 years Ellen Degeneres 15 years Adam Levine … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Age gaps don't matter. Attraction does.So you're saying that 95% of women will eliminate a good guy BECAUSE he’s 10 years older? (Except for girls still in college.) Because it’s hard enough just to find the right person. Can you actually imagine- nope you’re not within the 2-3 year age range. I have NEVER seen this in real life, maybe outside of high school. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Age gaps don't matter. Attraction does.Yeah saying that 95% of women will eliminate a good guy BECAUSE he’s 10 years older? Except for girls still in college. Because it’s hard enough just to find the right person. Can you actually imagine- nope you’re not within the 2-3 year age range. I have NEVER seen this in real life, maybe outside of high school. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 06:36 PM |
| 3 | Age gaps don't matter. Attraction does.The big issue is women still in college. That is young. So you’re saying that 95% of women will eliminate a good guy BECAUSE he’s 10 years older? Because it’s hard enough just to find the right person. Can you actually imagine- nope you’re not within the 2-3 year age range. I have NEVER seen this in real life, maybe outside of high school. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Age gaps don't matter. Attraction does.Honestly, in the real world, it's just unrealistic to narrow your dating market to only people within 2-3 years of your age. And i've never seen it. How many 38 year old women are ONLY looking for men from 38-40? NO, most will say, I will date from 37-52. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Age gaps don't matter. Attraction does.It's simply easier to look at it from the male side- how uncommon is it for men in their 40's and 50's to be with a women in their 30s? and how uncommon is it for men in their 30's and early forties to be with a woman in their late 20s? It's a LOT more common than what you are saying. And how common is it for women to say that young guys are simply immature? Something does not compute. How do you answer these? I don't think it's at all uncommon for women 25+ to date 10-15 years older. And i've s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 06:13 PM |
| 3 | Age gaps don't matter. Attraction does.So what are the multiple other explanations? https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/10yhdq7/63_of_men_under_30_describe_themselves_as_single/ How is this possible? It's widely accepted in the thread that it is due to women dating older men. And how common is it for women to say that young guys are simply immature? Something does not compute. It's simply easier to look at it from the male side- how uncommon is it for men in their 40's and 50's to be with a women in their 30s? and how … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 06:06 PM |
| 3 | Age gaps don't matter. Attraction does.https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/10yhdq7/63_of_men_under_30_describe_themselves_as_single/ How is this possible? It's widely accepted in the thread that it is due to women dating older men. And how common is it for women to say that young guys are simply immature? Something does not compute. It's simply easier to look at it from the male side- how uncommon is it for men in their 40's and 50's to be with a women in their 30s? and how uncommon is it for men in their 30's and earl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Age gaps don't matter. Attraction does.Didn't post from the other day prove that this is true? (How most women under 30 are in relationships and most men under 30 are not) How can it not be otherwise unless a whole lot of women are all dating the same men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Age gaps don't matter. Attraction does.Didn't post from the other day prove that this is true? (How most women under 30 are in relationships and most men under 30 are not) How can it not be otherwise unless a whole lot of women are all dating the same men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 05:37 PM |
| 3 | Age gaps don't matter. Attraction does.Didn't post from the other day prove that this is true? (How most women under 30 are in relationships and most men under 30 are not) How can it not be otherwise unless a whole lot of women are all dating the same men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 05:36 PM |
| 0 | Age gaps don't matter. Attraction does.Didn't post from the other day prove that this is true? (How most women under 30 are in relationships and most men under 30 are not) How can it not be otherwise unless a whole lot of women are all dating the same men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 05:35 PM |
| 3 | Age gaps don't matter. Attraction does.Didn't post from the other day prove that this is true? (How most women under 30 are in relationships and most men under 30 are not) How can it not be otherwise unless a whole lot of women are all dating the same men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Age gaps don't matter. Attraction does.Didn't post from the other day prove that this is true? (How most women under 30 are in relationships and most men under 30 are not) How can it not be otherwise unless a whole lot of women are all dating the same men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 05:35 PM |
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