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MetaDeepC1980/r/TheRedPill11/06/20 11:41 PM
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DeepC1980/r/TheRedPill14/12/19 02:28 AM
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Start with the Red Pill University episode on mission https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CM2peCE3yFQ
/r/askTRP31/01/21 03:24 AM
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How people keep their home is generally a reflection of their state of mind. If it's been getting worse lately, has their been any other changes in her behaviour/way of communicating?
/r/askTRP17/01/21 03:23 AM
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And I have never stood up for myself because of scenarios I have created in my head that what if I do. Perhaps i could get into a fight or someone could shoot me. You could get hit by a bus crossing the road and die. Are you going to stop crossing the road now? Problem is that especially in group scenarios where guys end up bantering with each other for fun I end up becoming the joke because I take shit so seriously. Learn to let go out your fragile ego. It's how you react to it that counts - la…
/r/askTRP17/01/21 02:04 AM
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The fact that she's been open about it is a sign of a good partner without you having to ask her about anything. Just keep an eye open in case she starts hiding things from you or covering her tracks, in which case that means it's probably the beginning of the end. He's probably just an orbiter and her emotional tampon and you failed her shit test. You shouldn't be showing any jealousy to what she is doing. If she keeps talking about him, just withdraw your attention from her. You could even int…
/r/askTRP13/09/20 11:59 AM
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Dread, don't get complacent, reward her for good behaviour and withdraw attention for bad behaviour, keep her chasing something
/r/askTRP28/07/20 11:29 PM
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Best advice I can give you is to forget about it. If it lingers in your mind, next time you are in that situation you will just think about it again, get anxious, and the same thing will happen again. You've got to be fully relaxed and it'll happen.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/20 02:33 AM
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What is the question here?
/r/askTRP07/06/20 02:13 AM
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No, women aren't going to magically appear in your life. You need to go out and talk to them when you're out and about. Next time you go out doing shopping or whatever, just strike up a conversation with a few girls you find attractive. No need to go out of your way or change your schedule up just for women. You just do it on the side when you're already out doing stuff. If you're into online dating, just swipe while you're sitting on the toilet or eating a meal. Doesn't have to be more than 5 m…
/r/askTRP08/05/20 04:21 AM
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I think it says more about the "men" buying it than it does about the women doing it. I'd imagine getting a 6 figure revenue just for putting your ass on the internet and getting thousands of men saying how amazing you are (validation) would be a pretty sweet deal from a woman's perspective. They are getting money AND the dopamine hit from validation from thousands of men at the same time (validation is basically sex for women). They are dopamine whores, they can't resist. As long as there's a m…
/r/askTRP07/05/20 06:46 AM
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Sounds like half of AskTRP
/r/askTRP07/05/20 06:25 AM
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It's better to have friends that are on the same level or greater than you. If he's a loser or a chump, let him go. Likewise, if he's not contributing to you reaching your goals or improving yourself, then it's time to let him go and move on. If you choose to keep him around, just lead by example and live a good life. You can give someone advice, but you should never force it on them. Sounds like he's not open to being helped, so don't be Captain Save-A-Bro. Instead mind your own business. He wi…
/r/askTRP07/05/20 05:32 AM
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You're taking yourself way too seriously here. If they are joking around and making fun like that, it means they genuinely enjoy your company. I would be more concerned if there was indifference to you being there on the call or not. It's just friendly banter. I had a group call with some long time friends today, where I'm the only person in the group who is not in an LTR with kids. One of the guys made a joke that I must be masturbating a lot because I can't go out and date during the quarantin…
/r/askTRP25/04/20 08:39 AM
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David Goggins is a perfect example of a man who overcame his past with no support network and instead built internal strength (mentally and physically) and walked the hard path. He embraced suffering and sought out discomfort and got better every single day to achieve his goals. His name is brought up fairly regularly on TRP, but if you aren't aware of his story, do a YouTube search for his name. He also has a great book called Can't Hurt Me which is well worth reading.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/20 01:40 AM
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This 100%. All the advice you need is right here. /thread
/r/askTRP23/04/20 11:25 PM
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I think you first need to have some burning desire to create or produce something that will provide value... it doesn't have to be something brand new, you can just put your spin on a product or service that already exists, it needs to provide unique value. It will probably be a lot harder than you imagine, you have to do everything yourself, accounting, legal, sales, engineering, you name it, when you start out. It is very easy to get burned out, that's why I say you need to be passionate about…
/r/askTRP21/04/20 02:06 AM
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This is great advice. Uncle Vasya's articles have helped me a lot in my late 30s to understand that you can live your life on your own terms and crush it. They should be mandatory reading for any man reaching 30 and beyond. Marriage and kids is just some societal pressure bullshit to maintain the status quo. When I've spoken to male friends who are married and/or have kids, whenever I ask them what the benefit has been for their life, I've NEVER been able to get a solid answer out of them.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 01:29 AM
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39 here with no marriage or kids. Life is what you make of it, it's about your mission, your purpose, finding meaning in the world. If you want marriage and kids in your future then so be it. Personally I don't see the benefit of either, and am completely fulfilled with: Running my own business and working towards early retirement Lifting 4 days a week and looking after my health Having fun with a variety of different women I may settle down with someone at some point in the future, but it will …
/r/askTRP21/04/20 12:02 AM
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Maybe you need to warm it up in some nice warm moist vagina
/r/askTRP20/04/20 02:02 PM
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The girl doesn't even have to be attractive to get attention from guys. She just needs to put on some makeup and show her ass online and she'll get likes instantly and validation from hundreds of men. Women love the validation they get from men, why do you think they put sexy pictures of themselves online? It's also a power game, women crave having power over men. Validation for women is like sex for men. That's why TRP always says not to give women too much validation - as soon as you do, they …
/r/askTRP16/04/20 11:11 PM
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Australian here. In my completely biased opinion, it's pretty fucking great here. I wouldn't want to live anywhere else to be honest.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 01:03 PM
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TRP is based on truth, experiences and observations of tens of thousands of men over a decade or more. If you aren't believing the truth in what these men are writing, the only thing that will change your mind is to say fuck it, and go out and try it. If you haven't read the sidebar yet, start with that. It will explain the true nature of women and why they act like they do. When you read it, think of times in your life where it explains why things turned out the way they did. They key is to tak…
/r/askTRP13/04/20 01:01 AM
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I'm going to tell you some things you probably don't want to hear, but you need to hear them, it's for your own good. Did you ever fuck this girl? You've got her on a pedestal and that's your first problem. If you never fucked her, why are you taking her so seriously? If she wanted to be with you, you'd know about it. Instead, she's probably had a dozen or more Chad dicks through her in the last year. What else do you have going on in your life? You should have enough business and other obligati…
/r/askTRP12/04/20 03:41 AM
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You need to give them some validation occasionally. Use it as a reward for good behaviour. Flirt with her and give her the tingles, if she doesn't get it from you she'll get it from someone else.
/r/askTRP12/04/20 01:32 AM
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This is spot on. The two analogies I've seen on TRP which ring true is the cat and dog analogy, and the all women are children analogy. If you try to give a cat or a child too much attention, it will get bored and move on to something/someone else. A cat or a child will only come to you when it wants something (a need or for validation), otherwise it will be off doing its own thing. To add to this, I think women aim to get power over a man (through sex, manipulation, shit tests, behaving in a ce…
/r/askTRP10/04/20 04:05 AM
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I disagree that manipulation is the way to go. People can see through shit over the long term. If your relationships with others are built on a house of cards, all it takes is one shaky comment or decision to make it all come crashing down. In my experience, genuine connections with others build much better results. Being genuinely interested in people and thinking about what value you can offer them. Understanding their situation and being empathetic. I agree that connections are crucial in the…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/20 03:10 AM
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Lol what the fuck is this shit? This is some next level needy blue pill beta bullshit right here. I regret reading that all the way through. You were basically her bitch. Her emotional tampon and you happily fed her validation whenever she wanted it. She basically got everything she wanted out of it without having to give anything back in return. I hope you learned a lot from this because it will just keep happening over and over again until you fix your shit. Don't think for one minute that she…
/r/askTRP10/04/20 01:00 AM
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While I agree 100% with what was written in this post, the problem is the people who need to be reading it, won't read it. If they haven't read the sidebar, are they likely to read this post? Hopefully it will at least get through to someone who needs to hear it, who isn't coming on here just looking to get told what they want to hear
/r/TheRedPill08/04/20 03:46 AM
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Sprinkles of validation for good behavior and withdraw attention from bad behavior.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 02:21 AM
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Because I'm turning 40 this year and it's becoming more and more clear that time passes quickly. We only have this one life to live, you ain't gonna get any second chances at this. I do this for me because I know you have to live each day like it's your last with no regrets. Everything you do should be for you and reaching your goals, the things you want to achieve before you die. Women are just a nice side effect of having your shit together. It's really not more complicated than that. If you a…
/r/askTRP06/04/20 02:01 AM
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If you blocked her, how are you seeing the text she sent you? I think you handled it well. Just ignore her, it's just a test. Don't give her any validation. Just move on to your other plates if you have any, otherwise get more (if you're not quarantined or locked down).
/r/askTRP05/04/20 10:52 AM
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39 years old here. I can tell you right now your life has barely even started. Your best years are definitely yet to come. Men age like fine wine, we get better with time. You will learn with time there are more important things in life than parties, college friends and women. You should be focusing on studying and getting the best grades you can while you're in college. There are plenty of time for those other things afterwards. You will regret it later in life if you don't succeed with your st…
/r/askTRP08/03/20 01:01 PM
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I think you made a mistake by commenting on her story. She got the validation she wanted and now considers you one of her orbiters. She's got what she wanted (the attention of the hot guy at the gym), now she'll move on to Chad and Tyrone to see if she can get their attention. I don't normally approach girls in the gym, it's part of the whole "don't shit where you eat" thing. It gets too awkward in the gym when things don't go as planned, and I've seen it happen to others where people have actua…
/r/askTRP01/03/20 12:49 PM
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First of all, it's great that your SMV is high enough that girls are approaching you. Things to consider for next time (if you aren't already doing it): Maintain and hold eye contact enough but not to look creepy when talking to them. Work on getting a deeper voice and being more loud. Chin up and shoulders back when talking. Ask them questions about themselves (how are you doing, tell me about yourself, wow you look busy today, etc). Don't overthink things or put too much pressure on it. It's n…
/r/askTRP11/01/20 12:07 PM
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I feel like your main priority should be to keep focusing on your studies and self improvement mainly at this point. There's plenty of time for women after you graduate. Put in the work now to set yourself up for more long term success in the future. You mentioned that you are going out as much as possible with the limited time you have - are you approaching any girls when you are out? Talk to as many girls as you can without giving a shit about the outcome. If they are responsive and you get a …
/r/askTRP11/01/20 12:00 PM
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You have a classic blue pill mentality and have a lot to learn. I would suggest starting on fixing your mentality by reading a book called The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi. Once you have read that, read through the sidebar here. There is a lot of information to absorb, but if you slowly internalise and put what you learn into practice, your mentality will change and your life will gradually become better than you ever imagined (as long as you put in the effort and consistent work). You will le…
/r/askTRP11/01/20 11:48 AM
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It's sounds like the typical blue pill/oneitis/orbiter scenario. Doesn't mean you should stop being friends with him anymore though. If he's been there for you as a friend when things have been tough for you, you need to be there for him, as loyal friends are hard to come by. A friendship shouldn't be based on if someone is blue pill or not - if you're a true friend, you'll be loyal and be there for him when things inevitably don't work. Maybe only then will they be open to TRP principles and be…
/r/askTRP11/01/20 08:39 AM
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I haven't had this problem, but I can only suggest ideas to try that other people have mentioned on here in the past with sexual issues. - If you watch porn, stop watching it entirely. - You mentioned you stopped masturbating to test it out. How long did you stop for? I have read from others that it can take 3-6 months for your brain to "rewire" itself to change what you should be coming to. - Be rougher/more dominant during sex. Being more animalistic with her might help increase excitement lev…
/r/askTRP11/01/20 08:07 AM
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Always assume attraction, because some girls do not feel comfortable showing much interest. Approach her, hold frame and see what happens.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 01:06 AM
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I think you just need to accept that she's broken up with you and walk away. Don't contact her again. If you want her to question her reasons for breaking up with you, you need to not show her you are emotional over the break up. If you don't want to go insane, block her number and remove her from social media. Don't cave in and go back to her. From here you just need to continue building yourself and working on yourself (think smarter, fitter, wealthier). Get some plates and find someone better…
/r/askTRP09/01/20 11:28 AM
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What helped me starting out was using a personal trainer until I became confident in the gym on my own. If you use a trainer, you aren't alone in the gym and your attention will be in them so you won't have time to think about anything else. After doing that for a while you will realise that no one gives a shit about you as they are too busy self improving their own lives and physique. And you will become confident enough to go on your own as you will know how to use all of the equipment and wil…
/r/askTRP20/12/19 10:22 PM
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Why are you still in contact with your ex? It doesn't matter if she slept with anyone or not, it's not worth the energy to think about. She's an ex for a reason. You should be blocking her number and removing her from social media. Don't cave in and go back to her and don't make her a plate. You should be moving forward with your life and focusing on building and continually improving yourself. Keep yourself busy so you don't think about her. Get some plates and find someone better, there are so…
/r/askTRP29/11/19 12:19 PM
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Some of my closest friends are women. There are pros and cons to having women are friends, it is NOT like having a good male friend though. In my own experience (yours may be different), you will have to listen to their dramas a lot more than with male friends. It's important not to have sexual attraction to these women, because you will have to hear about the men in their lives and the men they are pursuing, which can be quite difficult to hear if you have an attraction to them (orbiting). Ther…
/r/askTRP08/11/19 07:49 AM
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If I have a question I always start with a Google search of site:reddit.com/r/asktrp/ followed by question and almost always find the answer. There's years of amazing advice for just about anything that's already been answered.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 06:35 AM
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I'm really enjoying Animal Kingdom at the moment
/r/askTRP27/08/19 11:09 AM
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