| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 220 | Who else here loves casual sex? | Lifestyle | _notaxation | /r/seduction | 19/07/24 12:14 AM |
| 194 | Whats holding you back from getting a Girlfriend? | Conversation | _notaxation | /r/seduction | 30/06/24 12:53 AM |
| 181 | I've been working out of a upper end apartment building for the last few months. Here's what I I observed I think you guys might find interesting. | Conversation | _notaxation | /r/seduction | 12/08/24 01:02 AM |
| 73 | Cold approach will NOT save you | Conversation | _notaxation | /r/seduction | 05/09/25 12:02 AM |
| 31 | 2 simple reasons why not having a clear outcome is killing your (seduction) gains | Fundamentals | _notaxation | /r/seduction | 11/03/24 11:54 PM |
| 3 | Location, Location, Location | Logistics | _notaxation | /r/seduction | 27/02/25 04:00 AM |
| 3 | Question for the O.G's and the Veterans: How do you integrate your authentic self into game? | Inner Game | _notaxation | /r/seduction | 25/08/24 01:50 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 8 | Dating, hooking up is significantly harder for me in my 30s than my 20sDo you sit a the bar and approach them or are they coming up to you? | /r/seduction | 25/05/26 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Stupid simple natural seduction method that no one talks aboutI'll definitely read it and report back. I practice Tantric sex so what your saying does interest me. Seems like there's some overlap | /r/seduction | 07/11/25 09:46 AM |
| 1 | Stupid simple natural seduction method that no one talks aboutSo was it worth it? I'm like intrigued by the notion of becoming a clit plumber | /r/seduction | 07/11/25 02:03 AM |
| 4 | My first experience speed dating as a 29 year old in a large cityI recently made a post about my experience at a speed dating event. I was also pleasantly surprised with how well it went. I think Reddit guys dismissing it helps us who actually attend. Less competition | /r/seduction | 15/09/25 06:02 AM |
| 0 | Cold approach will NOT save youThis is the only answer with listening too. I agree this is how I've approached it for years | /r/seduction | 05/09/25 05:24 PM |
| 15 | why do girls say they want a nice guy and then date someone who looks like he eats drywalllmaooo our society is cooked | /r/seduction | 05/09/25 12:05 AM |
| 16 | why do girls say they want a nice guy and then date someone who looks like he eats drywallGuys make this same mistake time and time again. For women it's not what she sees in him. It's what lens does she see him through. She's not looking at him objectively. She's looking at all his positive qualities mixed in with her fantasies/imagination | /r/seduction | 04/09/25 11:01 PM |
| 4 | 130 Cold Approaches In: Is This Worth It?Pick up IS dead. Especially in this sub. | /r/seduction | 04/09/25 01:37 AM |
| 17 | Trigger Emotions! How ?It's pretty easy actually. The first thing I would tell a guy is to sexualize the conversation. Not overtly (certainly a large portion of women don't mind overt sexualizing) but covertly. See how she responds. Easy example. Love island. I would recommend guys watch it. Very relevant to seduction. I'll bring up love island during our conversation. Whether or not she's seen the show or likes it or not doesn't matter. I'll swing the conversation to how the show isn't about love at all. It's all abo… | /r/seduction | 07/08/25 11:51 PM |
| 1 | A note for the over explainers and long talkers (yes, it's long)Excellent post. Should be upvoted way more. I struggle with this as well. This is a good path to improvement | /r/seduction | 06/08/25 08:16 AM |
| 0 | Seduction is Useless Unless a Woman is Already Attracted to YouIt’s actually the opposite. The whole point of seduction is to move someone from a state of low attraction to high attraction. Seduction would be pointless if it was exclusively used on people who were already attracted to you | /r/seduction | 05/08/25 05:25 PM |
| 16 | I (26m) like older women, where do I begin to meet them?They tend not to get a lot of attention. Especially from younger men | /r/seduction | 28/07/25 03:09 AM |
| 6 | Is Models by Mark Manson still recommended reading in today's dating scene?I don't necessarily disagree when it comes to guys who achieved a level of proficiency with this stuff. For instance I go into the sexual state often to seduce women. (Not the only thing but a part of it) The problem is what's your describing to a beginner sounds easy. It's not. When your starting out getting yourself horny and worked up isn't going to do you much good if you don't know how to transfer that energy over to her. That's a skill that takes time to develop. What your describing also … | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 03:24 AM |
| 7 | Is Models by Mark Manson still recommended reading in today's dating scene?Great way to get a guy to open up. By being as annoyingly pretentious as possible. | /r/seduction | 09/07/25 07:11 PM |
| 3 | Is Models by Mark Manson still recommended reading in today's dating scene?Your not sexualizing the conversation enough. If you bring sexual subjects/innuendos into the conversation you should generate tension | /r/seduction | 09/07/25 07:05 PM |
| 9 | I litterally cannot look pretty girls in the eyesI gave a serious answer | /r/seduction | 14/06/25 11:47 PM |
| 13 | I litterally cannot look pretty girls in the eyesYou keep doing it until you don't feel like a creep anymore | /r/seduction | 14/06/25 10:46 PM |
| 79 | 3 Flirting Principles That Get Me Laid Over TextI want to add something, a powerful technique I learned from a PUA about a decade ago that has served me well over the years. In regards to number 3. Those two examples are good. But the second one is even better. I was told that it's hard to be rejected if you don't ask a question. Removing the question mark from number 1 and perhaps re phrasing it a bit to a statement goes a long way. Not only do you come across more confident, more sure of yourself (which is what women love) it also more impo… | /r/seduction | 25/05/25 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Dating under 25 as a guy is a losing game — Here’s why :Tf. You're doing backflips to avoid the real problem that men need a certain level of yes. Experience. with women to understand them. Nothing that you "build" in your 30's is going to replace the necessary time spent with women. | /r/seduction | 19/05/25 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Dating under 25 as a guy is a losing game — Here’s why :This is a bad take. The experience you get with women in your early years is invaluable. It pays its weight in gold. Guys who go down the route you suggest typically struggle and end up settling in a bad relationship | /r/seduction | 19/05/25 12:46 AM |
| 5 | Ranking every location I have approached women at regarding how effective it is (based on personal experience)Your adding nothing of value to this post | /r/seduction | 06/05/25 04:06 PM |
| 6 | Today is her birthday.I've been in your shoes. Let her go. I promise you, the road you're heading down only leads to your own self embarrassment. She's not thinking about you as much as you think about her. It's a tough pill to swallow. So better to do it now | /r/seduction | 27/04/25 04:55 AM |
| 129 | The easiest way to get women (in my experience) is through being referred by anotherI was taught a long time ago that the friend zone is actually a great place to be for a guy. Now you're in a position to meet all of her friends and get those "referrals" Also, you get the opportunity to test whether or not you're actually in the friend zone by asking her to introduce you to other women. Trust me, nothing gets men out of the friend zone quicker than this one request. | /r/seduction | 18/04/25 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Fast vs slow escalationGo onto Google and type in fast is slow, slow is smooth. That should take care of your first question. Regarding your second question. those things aren't mutually exclusive. If you build desire in her, she will win you over. | /r/seduction | 12/04/25 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Can’t last more than 7 minutesUnderrated comment lol | /r/seduction | 25/03/25 09:46 PM |
| 26 | Tired of missing signals with girls-how do I train myself to catch cues and escalate properly?Your misunderstanding signals. In your mind your expecting a giant neon sign that says "My pussy is wet. You may now escalate" That's not how this shit works. You escalate then if she tells you to back off you back off. If she seems into it, you continue. That's why you start off small and slowly increase physical contact throughout the night. | /r/seduction | 04/03/25 02:10 AM |
| 1 | a conversation with a girl on bumbleWow, you've explained something that has always been in the back of my mind, but I could never articulate. Take the up vote | /r/seduction | 27/02/25 05:09 PM |
| 450 | 10 small yet important physical improvements that skyrocketed my dating lifeI don't wanna be harsh, but telling guys not to smile is dumb. If it worked for you, fine. But we gotta do better as a community with our advice. Smiling is one of the most well studied, consistent, easy to implement thing men can do to raise their attractiveness. Going around mean mugging every woman you see is gonna keep your dick dry | /r/seduction | 27/02/25 12:58 AM |
| 3 | How I Make Women Chase By Building Highly Desirable Frames - Frames 101It doesn't sound like you read what was written. There's actual value being conveyed, but you got your party's twisted over dumb shit | /r/seduction | 22/02/25 04:32 AM |
| 6 | I invited a woman back to my apartment and I did not escalateEscalate whenever you want is bad advice. Sure, you hold off escalation up until she's about to leave your place because you didn't do anything before and have it still work out, but does it mean that's what you should do? Of course, there's wiggle room. You gotta read the situation. But the general advice of Escalate early is sound and proven to work over years of experience with thousands of men. There's not much of a downside. Women reward boldness and punish cowardice. | /r/seduction | 20/02/25 07:45 PM |
| 102 | I invited a woman back to my apartment and I did not escalateI prefer mortal kombat. Show her no mercy with sub-zero | /r/seduction | 20/02/25 07:38 PM |
| 15 | Dating apps have always been rigged, here is how you can still be successfulGreat post. Lots of negativity around the apps on this sub (justifiably so) still it doesn’t mean we shouldn’t come together and figure out ways tip the scale in our favor, even if the game is rigged. That’s what this community is all about! | /r/seduction | 09/02/25 07:14 PM |
| 1 | How I Make Women Fall In Love With Me - The Principles Of ComfortWish I could upvote twice. love when someone who knows what they are talking about shares valuable insights. Question. When you talk about qualification, how early in the seduction process are you doing so? Also if she fails to fall into your frame what does that look like? For instance if we're chatting and I bring up that I love working out, if she changes the subject to pottery does that count as her not falling into my frame? | /r/seduction | 08/02/25 07:56 AM |
| 2 | Why you have to work harder than your grandfather (and what to do about it)Incredibly ignorant | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 10:40 AM |
| 2 | The Anti-Woke is now just bigots and neckbeards.You sound unhinged. I'm not even white and I cringe when I read your comments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/24 06:26 PM |
| – | AI girlfriends are going to completely change the dating game, and it's going to happen very soon.So your just using the female version of the "female delusion calculator" got it. There's a few reasons why this model doesn't work. One of which is what the national standard of what overweight is vs what most people consider overweight do not line up. And that's assuming they are pulling from a reputable source and not just making shit up. Regardless, demographics play a role. I work in a Predominantly Asian city in the U.S. these supposedly "top 3% women" are a dime a dozen. When I was in the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/24 09:28 PM |
| – | AI girlfriends are going to completely change the dating game, and it's going to happen very soon.I'm sorry but those qualifications shouldn't make you "top 3%" those are basic ass qualities a man should want in a woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/24 06:01 PM |
| 17 | Girls, what makes sex with a guy literaly the best for you?One thing I appreciate about women is how detailed you guys can be. If I was asked the same thing I would probably be like "uhh idk, fat ass I guess" | /r/seduction | 15/11/24 03:51 PM |
| 2 | How in god’s name do you ask a woman out?I'm not sure what life with autism is like but your gonna have to work on that shit dog. It seems to be your main roadblock, so you gotta get that shit sorted out before you start to seriously date. Or you can join some autism community and try to connect with a chick with similar issues. I've seen men on this subreddit say they had success doing that. (I have no idea where those communities congregate by the way) | /r/seduction | 08/11/24 08:29 AM |
| 2 | How in god’s name do you ask a woman out?With a random person? Approach them and make a comment on observation you had "I noticed your bag is nice...the coffee here sucks...that guy outside is weird." Shit like that. Just make it relevant. If you don't act odd she'll continue the conversation and then after awhile you can ask her out | /r/seduction | 08/11/24 07:50 AM |
| 6 | How in god’s name do you ask a woman out?This is one of those things that is really, really simple. Your overthinking it. Many men haven't done half the things you mention (be well groomed etc) and still have no trouble. Like others have said all you have to do is literally ask "hey do you wanna go to x? Do you wanna eat at y? Etc" If it's cold approach then sure your going to need a little small talk. But for the most part it's that easy. | /r/seduction | 08/11/24 05:51 AM |
| 23 | PSA: seduction =/= basic social skillsI'll just say this. If your successful with women and you believe all you did was chat her up and escalate a bit. 2 things happened. She was already into you and all you had to do was not fuck it up. And 2 you displayed other traits that are necessary to seduction but at a subconscious level. True seduction happens when the first criteria isn't met and the second criteria is is done intentionally | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 02:17 AM |
| 1 | PSA: seduction =/= basic social skillsSo funny how accurate this is. If you've been here long enough you see exactly this | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 12:56 AM |
| 34 | PSA: seduction =/= basic social skillsI disagree. Seduction is some much more than basic chit chat. Yea you need basic chit chat to function. Just like you need basic chit chat to function in society. 90% of the guys asking questions in this subreddit are stuck in precisely IN the chit chat phase. Rarely is anything advanced discussed because most of the conversation is centered around trying to teach guys how to take their first steps | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 12:54 AM |
| 1 | 8 mistakes guys make on a date that make you look like a foolHard pill to swallow for most men, but it's the gods honest truth. Wish I could tell younger me that | /r/seduction | 22/09/24 05:46 AM |
| 3 | I'm really starting to wonder if it's even worth it. I'm on a massive as dry spell guys. Is this what hookup is about?Damn | /r/seduction | 15/09/24 12:27 AM |
| -1 | I entered my 30s and had one gf only and just got rejected againActually, that's a form of seduction, believe it or not. I'm not saying she was trying to seduce you, but it's common for people to increase attraction to those they were rejected by. | /r/seduction | 14/09/24 02:56 AM |
| 3 | Why is Social Media ( DM’s ) approach so Underrated here ?It's not your fault. You may not have been here long enough to recognize one of the few landmines Seddit has. Very anti-social media. You can explain it perfectly with Dawkins' level of logic. It doesn't matter. It's the psychology of the demographic you're dealing with. I like this sub a lot. Lots of smart guys who add value. But the truth is this sub isn't concerned with the most effective way to get women. They are concerned with getting women in only the way they want. Which is the avenue th… | /r/seduction | 12/09/24 05:37 PM |
| 2 | Why is Social Media ( DM’s ) approach so Underrated here ?It's pretty simple really, think about it. Most guys on here don't have a compelling social media account. Not that that is super needed but a lot of guys on reddit feel social media is to much work. Which is funny because they feel like approaching 100 women a week and getting rejected at a 99% rate is a better option. Social media, particularly Instagram, exists behind this veiled wall on reddit. Most guys see it as ineffective or a hassle, yet in real life, the average guy has a way better sh… | /r/seduction | 12/09/24 05:10 PM |
| 4 | Does Reply Time Really Show Interest?Replace club game with night game. Night game includes clubs, bars, concerts, lounges etc... these are all excellent avenues to find women | /r/seduction | 11/09/24 11:04 PM |
| 20 | Chemistry doesn’t exist without physical escalation.Unfortunately, you learned a tough lesson many men have had to learn. Always escalate. Back in the old PUA days, it was advised (depending on who you learned from) to always go for the pull. Even if it's on the first date. The reason was to avoid situations like this. Going for the pull, even if it's on the first date, removes any ambiguity if she likes you or not. At least within reason. If you don't you run the risk of playing this game of does she like me or not? Guess what she won't tell you… | /r/seduction | 10/09/24 11:32 PM |
| 2 | [VIDEO] How I Transformed My Identity To Someone Who Could Attract Women And Then Lose 50+ Pounds and 6 Pack AbsDude, they went in on your ass lol but I hope you realized that there were a significant number of men who also agreed with you in that post as well. I've noticed the same thing in this sub and been debating back and forth whether or not to address it in a post of my own. | /r/seduction | 10/09/24 01:37 AM |
| 1 | I’m Soft and Feminine: A Question about being a Walking ContradictionNot really. At least from my perspective, what he's describing I've seen exactly that. Particularly in college. Guys trying to cozy up to girls, tampering down their own masculinity, trying to act more like them, hoping one of the girls falls for him. Instead he just gets to be a sponge for all there gossip and relationship problems. | /r/seduction | 10/09/24 01:26 AM |
| 0 | I’m Soft and Feminine: A Question about being a Walking ContradictionDamn did homie hit a sore spot or something 🤔 | /r/seduction | 10/09/24 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Why self improvement won't solve your dating problemsI agree wholeheartedly. Lots of guys missing the point in this thread | /r/seduction | 03/09/24 09:18 PM |
| – | Why aren't males attending singles events anymore?Crazy how we all have to pretend this isn't the case. Women are almost always a minority in most of these activities, yet online in particular reddit. They like to act as if these spaces are just brimming with single attractive women. There's a reason people default to online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/24 04:22 AM |
| 3 | Anyone else from Toronto feel like something's 'Off' here? Im a tall, relatively higher iq black dude who can't get SHIT from women Im attracted to. I feel like I have no choice but to Passport-bro...I'm 6'4 mixed and live in LA. I promise you Toronto isn't as hard as LA is and I've done pretty well for myself here. Cold approach is difficult don't let anyone tell you different. But going to random chicks in the mall and saying "hey your pretty" is not how you do it. Secondly, you should be doing better on online dating if you're 6'4. Pussy shouldnt be falling out of the sky but if you're fit tall and not rude you should be getting a few matches. Something might be up with your profile. Last… | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 04:57 PM |
| 3 | "Just be yourself"These guys just don't get it lol | /r/seduction | 27/08/24 07:20 AM |
| 10 | Need some sense slapped into me 33m went on a date with 21fYou already fucked up in this sense so let this be a hard lesson. I'm not going to go absolute and say never, but I would advise you not to check the woman's social after a date. This is a lesson I've had to learn many times. I'm telling you this so you can save future you some trouble. Women do not think like men. They don't use social media like men. Whatever you think is going on in her head is most likely false. Women can be like cthulu. If you stare into the abyss long enough, you'll go mad… | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 02:36 AM |
| 2 | Need some sense slapped into me 33m went on a date with 21fI really like that analogy, lol. A new twist of the same advice we men have been telling each other for most of humanity | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 02:30 AM |
| 0 | How to not lose a git by missing signs and being too platonic on first dateNice strawman. Never said frames don't work. Where did you even get that from... | /r/seduction | 25/08/24 11:36 PM |
| 1 | How to not lose a git by missing signs and being too platonic on first dateI don't think simply changing your frame (which is what I think you're suggesting) is all it takes. What you're saying is what ideally all men would like to accomplish. Be the chased, not that chaser. The problem is that's now how the game is played. Men are on offense. Women are on defense. From the beginning, nine times out of ten men are the ones asking the women on the date. It's hard to be chased when your asking Her out and not the other way around. Not to mention all of the other social c… | /r/seduction | 25/08/24 10:34 PM |
| 2 | Question for the O.G's and the Veterans: How do you integrate your authentic self into game?Great advice. I appreciate your insight | /r/seduction | 25/08/24 08:09 AM |
| 1 | Question for the O.G's and the Veterans: How do you integrate your authentic self into game?Great analogy with the fight club reference definitely enraptured what this feeling is like. Idk man I feel like for guys like us the sunk cost fallacy plays a huge role as well. How can you give up so easily the thing you put so much literal blood, sweat and tears into? And that thing isn't some material object, that thing is you!! | /r/seduction | 25/08/24 05:52 AM |
| 2 | Question for the O.G's and the Veterans: How do you integrate your authentic self into game?You know models was the first ever book I ever read on this subject. Literally day one. I think ive over looked it because I don't think it had that much of an impact on me developing my game as other material but as you pointed out I think it's becoming super relevant now. So yea I will re-read it. Thank you for the reminder. | /r/seduction | 25/08/24 03:13 AM |
| 6 | The one texting frameworks that consistently gets me laid with online dating.For a young guy I'm impressed OP. Wish I knew this when I was 21 ahaha | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 10:32 PM |
| 6 | The one texting frameworks that consistently gets me laid with online dating."Escalate and get out quick" that's really funny I can definitely relate to that. Shit I've done that myself just recently. You hit the nail on the head, been doing this so long I've adopted the mindset that text game should be left to logistics only. This post made me realize I've probably left some opportunities go by not investing a lil more in text game. | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 10:31 PM |
| 2 | How so many people here so good on apps yet have 0 success approach irl. 25MI like reading your story. Good to see some positivity in here | /r/seduction | 22/08/24 04:52 AM |
| 7 | Hard to settle down once you know about game?Dude don't get me started. These guys are in for a reality check lmao | /r/seduction | 13/08/24 04:22 PM |
| 3 | I've been working out of a upper end apartment building for the last few months. Here's what I I observed I think you guys might find interesting.That does suck, so now you have to have a different game plan. Go after the extremes go after short girls and since you said you like tall girls go after them as well. Check my other comment I made to another guy in this thread. Tall girls are the secret gold mine men have yet to discover. | /r/seduction | 12/08/24 02:38 AM |
| 32 | I've been working out of a upper end apartment building for the last few months. Here's what I I observed I think you guys might find interesting.Here's a pro tip. If you truly like taller girls, do not be afraid to approach them. Tall girls rarely get approach and asked out by men. Take a look at the tall subreddit. Tall women complain about this all the time. This is gold mine of potential. If you're smart you take advantage of this | /r/seduction | 12/08/24 02:35 AM |
| 15 | I've been working out of a upper end apartment building for the last few months. Here's what I I observed I think you guys might find interesting.My best guess is that you see this happen because men tend to be less picky then women. Even attractive guys don't mind settling for an average woman | /r/seduction | 12/08/24 02:25 AM |
| 9 | I've been working out of a upper end apartment building for the last few months. Here's what I I observed I think you guys might find interesting.I'm sorry to hear that. Truly. But here's the silver lining. You can still find a girl shorter than you, there's a lot of short women out there. I know you've heard this before. I know what you'll say about them wanting taller guys. I know. But just keep what I said in mind. | /r/seduction | 12/08/24 02:24 AM |
| 19 | I've been working out of a upper end apartment building for the last few months. Here's what I I observed I think you guys might find interesting.Sorry, none at all. Every single couple has had a guy be taller or same height. No short guys with tall girls | /r/seduction | 12/08/24 02:22 AM |
| 18 | I've been working out of a upper end apartment building for the last few months. Here's what I I observed I think you guys might find interesting.Not many, I'm afraid. I'll put it to you like this. I've barely seen any short guys or at least guys under 5'6 to begin with. The few I have have been fat dudes with big girlfriends. That's just off the top of my head. | /r/seduction | 12/08/24 01:51 AM |
| 3 | Went on 22 Hinge dates in the last 9 months: Here are the results (2024 Online Dating Experience)There's a lot of truth in this | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 09:39 PM |
| 16 | Getting Her Number is AnticlimaxYou're absolutely correct. Settling for the phone number is a voluntary obstacle. Somewhere along the way in pick-up culture, guys have lost the plot. Thinking numbers are the goal instead of lays. | /r/seduction | 10/08/24 09:05 PM |
| 2 | How do I stop being bitter?Nice. Happy for you | /r/seduction | 09/08/24 07:19 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop being bitter?What were those first 5 years like for you? | /r/seduction | 09/08/24 01:01 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop being bitter?Do you mind explaining what you like about each one of these books? | /r/seduction | 09/08/24 12:43 AM |
| 1 | kinda gave up on relationship in generalThere's always a guy like you... always | /r/seduction | 09/08/24 12:36 AM |
| 2 | What do you think is the reason woman reject youIt's just one guy in particular. He gets his account deleted and makes another one complaining about the same shit | /r/seduction | 05/08/24 02:38 AM |
| – | Start raising "normie" sonsPoor shoulder width lmaooo Jesus. You know what? I'm a nice person. I don't go out of my way to say mean things but today... fuck it I'm glad you said it first. The people at these DnD meet-ups are 90% VERY UNATTRACTIVE. And I'm tired of reddit pretending like that is not the case. This is like the only website that will gas light you into thinking otherwise. Like, god damn can we all just stop pretending for one minute? These people SOMETIMES have decent personalities, but having been invited t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 05:10 AM |
| 13 | Is Mystery outdated? Who is today’s greatest PUA?There are some aspects of they mystery method that are outdated. But for the most part, his core structure of how to seduce, bed, and ultimately develop a sexual relationship with a woman is still super solid. I reference him all the time when I give advice in this sub. As you can see in this very thread, more people have a problem with the IDEA of a PUA and the label of PUA rather than the meat and potatoes of what they are trying to accomplish. There are plenty of PUA's running around right no… | /r/seduction | 24/07/24 11:49 PM |
| 3 | 🙋 Step-by-Step: How To Get Better At ApproachingReally good shit bro. This sub needs more people who know what they're actually talking about | /r/seduction | 24/07/24 07:17 AM |
| 30 | Girls will also approach youI love to go to bars as well. I've seen it happen on a few occasions. The scenario you layed out is exactly what I've seen. If a girl approaches a guy in a bar, her group of friends is usually right nearby. Women's confidence skyrockets when their friends are around. Also, women who go to bars are typically bar girls. Not some shy, quiet girl who can't hold a conversation. Usually, the former group is not afraid to talk to strangers. | /r/seduction | 24/07/24 02:22 AM |
| 30 | Escalated but didn’t kiss, how do you make a comebackSometimes, you need to take a step back from all the PUA, Kino, Escalation, mind games shit and simply ask yourself. Did I have a good time? Did she have a good time? If both of those answers are yes, then no, you don't have to "recover" because you didn't do anything wrong. If she left happy, then she's going to want more. | /r/seduction | 23/07/24 07:38 AM |
| 10 | Are late bloomers permanently damage?How late are we talking? Ima later bloomer. Things are way better now than when I was 21/22. If game and seduction don't come natural to you, then you need to learn it. Learning takes time like anything else. | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Who else here loves casual sex?You just gave me a light bulb moment. Something I'll write about here soon. I'll just say this to you, seducing women CAN be more than just a simple challenge. For you, maybe it's that way so you don't see the point. For me, it has literally changed my life. I've been invited to places I would never have had access to if it weren't for the relationships I cultivated that started through a hookup. | /r/seduction | 19/07/24 11:41 PM |
| 2 | Who else here loves casual sex?You know, when I say multiple women, I mean at different times. If you guys think that's slimy, then you need to wake up from the 1865 fever dream you're having | /r/seduction | 19/07/24 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Who else here loves casual sex?It's slimy to want to have sex with more than one person? | /r/seduction | 19/07/24 03:42 AM |
| 42 | Who else here loves casual sex?Virgin no. Unconfident, very much so. Not understanding women and what they actually wanted was one of the main sources of my lack of confidence. Once that changed, I became more confident. For instance, I just told a guy today that women punish cowardice they forgive boldness. Knowing that let's you go in for the kiss without fear, she might call you a creep. Most likely, she will feel flattered. | /r/seduction | 19/07/24 02:11 AM |
| 109 | Who else here loves casual sex?Okay, if you're asking in earnest, I'll give you my genuine answer not just for you but for anyone else who might read this. I used mysteries framework of Attraction - Comfort - Seduction as a foundation. Then, with books + this subreddit, I filled in the gaps. First, understand the terminology that is used in this community. Kino, ioi, escalation shit like that. Search them up within the search bar. See how they used. Don't make the mistakes others do by obsessing over them. Just get to know th… | /r/seduction | 19/07/24 02:01 AM |
| 11 | Who else here loves casual sex?I totally get that. I no longer do drugs, but I relate to the club thing. It's not something you can give up that easily once you get good at it | /r/seduction | 19/07/24 01:33 AM |
| 23 | Who else here loves casual sex?Although something about the way you stated, that seems a bit odd. I agree, you don't have to date in order to have sex these days. In my heart of hearts, I wish more men understood this. | /r/seduction | 19/07/24 12:56 AM |
| 79 | Who else here loves casual sex?You can genuinely learn how to get laid by using this subreddit. I did it. To a certain degree. Others have as well. | /r/seduction | 19/07/24 12:54 AM |
| 9 | Who else here loves casual sex?I don't know if I agree with the first part. I live in a liberal/left city. Plenty of people around here come up with wacky reasons as to why casual sex is bad as well. I do agree with the second part. There seems to be this strange attack on the concept of casual sex. Primary online. But for me I only started seeing this within the last couple years. Pre 2020 I didn't feel like it was like this at all | /r/seduction | 19/07/24 12:53 AM |
| 4 | How did you get rid of your victim mentality?Well, that's certainly much harder to find than simply hooking up with women. You're going to need a different approach than the one you're taking | /r/seduction | 19/07/24 12:20 AM |
| 3 | How did you get rid of your victim mentality?I'm not understanding how you can have a victim mentality when you've had several casual hookups this year? | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 09:43 PM |
| 8 | How did you get rid of your victim mentality?I disagree. I don't think this advice is all that good. But I do think it's better than the "subtle art.." | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 09:42 PM |
| 3 | Kiss rejection follow upYou went for the pull too soon. If she's shy, she probably needed more time. I don't blame you for trying, but it seems like you could have time bridged to another day or tried to bounce to a new location. N | /r/seduction | 16/07/24 04:45 PM |
| 1 | You need to spend money to get laid!If men weren't so easily impressed by mirror selfies, things would be different | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Whats holding you back from getting a Girlfriend?Dm me. Let me see if I can take a crack at what your issue is | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 07:03 AM |
| 1 | Whats holding you back from getting a Girlfriend?You need to go to the dentist. Look up derrick white the basketball player from the celtics for inspiration and motivation. He recently got his front tooth chipped in the playoffs and after words they fixed that shit like it was new. | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Whats holding you back from getting a Girlfriend?I'm not Indian but I loved reading this. There is too much Indian self hate on the Internet | /r/seduction | 30/06/24 03:34 AM |
| 0 | Whats holding you back from getting a Girlfriend?That was pretty good | /r/seduction | 30/06/24 03:28 AM |
| 29 | Whats holding you back from getting a Girlfriend?Lol | /r/seduction | 30/06/24 03:20 AM |
| 5 | How to lose your virginity in 2024It won't if you don't start building the skills now. Save future you some trouble and learn game now when your young | /r/seduction | 28/06/24 12:44 AM |
| 5 | Not getting hookups? Might be because you're tackling the game while sober and chasing sober womenWell said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/24 04:27 PM |
| 7 | Why do women need constant emotional stimulation to keep them attached?It's funny I see what your saying, it makes sense. But I still can't fully picture it in my head. My lived experience has been with women who I suppose have been giving me the "The short end of the stick." And I'm not blaming them, fully at least, because I think many men, especially in this sub, can relate to the idea that you spend sooo much money, time and effort to get yourself to the point where you can seduce most women into sleeping with you that you sort of unintentionally filter women w… | /r/seduction | 24/03/24 02:36 AM |
| 14 | Why do women need constant emotional stimulation to keep them attached?I think you're spot on. I want to make it clear I agree, but I wanna know from your perspective what does the man receive in return? Keeping your woman entertained in a long-term relationship "can" be a lot of work depending on her personality. I've often wondered in my own relationship, is that am I doing all of this just to get sex and companionship? It kind if feels wrong it feels like some days I was just waiting for my reward like a good doggy. Shouldn't we as men have the same expectations… | /r/seduction | 24/03/24 02:03 AM |
| 2 | Biggest turn off for womenI'm wondering the same thing lol | /r/seduction | 16/03/24 09:34 PM |
| 2 | 2 simple reasons why not having a clear outcome is killing your (seduction) gainsYes, we both agree on the same thing. The part your quoting is regarding a different context about Day/Night game. But I can see that I could do a better job making that more clear. I'll remember that next time. I appreciate the feedback 🙏 | /r/seduction | 12/03/24 09:31 PM |
| 1 | 2 simple reasons why not having a clear outcome is killing your (seduction) gainsIf you're clearly, Mr. Chad thunder cock who makes the pussy wet with maximum 3 blinks then okay this post wasn't for you. This is a method for guys struggling with approach. Also, idk what you're yapping about with my hidden low self-esteem. You may want to brush up on that psychoanalysis late night reading of yours. I never said you need to be tall & and jacked to do Day/Night game. In fact, that whole section was to point out that even if you were tall and jacked, OLD my might be a better fit… | /r/seduction | 12/03/24 05:38 PM |
| 2 | 2 simple reasons why not having a clear outcome is killing your (seduction) gainsGirls look for a variety of qualities in a man that falls outside of height, money, and muscel mass. Those factors certainly can give you an edge. But you shouldn't be chasing any girl who specifically only fillers for tall, rich jacked guys. Unless you are one of them. I gave the example of anime chick to a guy earlier. If you went to comic-con, you would see a bunch of nerdy ass girls. Their boyfriends aren't exactly a bunch of chris Hemsworths walking around. It's a bunch of overweight, nerdy… | /r/seduction | 12/03/24 06:20 AM |
| 0 | 2 simple reasons why not having a clear outcome is killing your (seduction) gainsFirst, you need to have a clear understanding of who you want to go after. So we're gonna use anime chicks as an example. You know deep down you want a nerdy anime chick. I would suggest following some on social media. See how they talk, what they're into. See what their boyfriends look like, especially. What qualities they posses. It would really speed up the process if you had some irl friends that are a part of that demo because you can see for yourself. The goal is to collect data points and… | /r/seduction | 12/03/24 06:10 AM |
| 7 | Looking for a girl😭😭😭 bro, this sub something else | /r/seduction | 12/03/24 01:18 AM |
| 3 | The whole point of dating apps is to get matches and go on dates. Every time I recreate my profile with different pictures, I seem to get the same results. Are some people just not cut out for it?You seem to be open to criticism and I think you have potential so here's my two cents. I think the first pic is fine but I would look into changing that second pic selfie into something a bit more attractive. Maybe a well lit pic after a fresh cut selfie would be one idea. Secondly I'm not a fan of the bio/about portion you have. In my opinion the joke comes across a bit corny and I feel like unless the girl really finds that sort of sarcastic/self deprecating humor funny. You might just be tur… | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 04:58 AM |
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