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ashaw7/r/MGTOW18/02/18 04:06 PM
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ashaw7/r/ExRedPill04/12/23 04:55 AM
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ashaw7/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 10:35 PM
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ashaw7/r/MGTOW19/04/18 05:17 AM
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I see, just like how women fought all the wars?
/r/ExRedPill15/08/25 05:32 PM
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Some things don't require a study. But despite being able to see the same generalities across the world, across civilizations and time, there will stull be some who insist that all differences are purely a result of upbringing and social pressures, but I will agree to the degree that I don't think that it's 100% inherited biology.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/25 05:17 PM
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It implies lack of choice because their isn't a choice in your proclivities, just in whether you choose to indulge in them. I am am outlier, and for example I don't like sports. No matter how much I try, I am wored that way and I never will enjoy watching them, but I am in the minority, and most males seem to enjoy watching sports, amd playing them if they can do so well. That's an example somewhat related to how men are naturally competitive, and there has been sociological studoes showing men …
/r/ExRedPill15/08/25 03:29 AM
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I can't recall exactly what the meaning of value is when they say that women have intrinsic value, but men have to earn their value, but I think it's more of in the sociological gender roles and how society and other people treat men and women as well as boys and girls. Men are valued for providing for women and children... being a provider, and being a protector, making sacrifices. Women arevalued for their intrinsic value on a subconscious level, basically for their ability to bring children i…
/r/ExRedPill10/08/25 10:11 PM
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You will probably inevitably settle down with someone even if you say you won't now, but if you don't want to rush out of loneliness, I will saythis with an asterisk; A pet like a dog can provode companionship and affection when you are having a bad day. Just be sure you can take care of it before you make that commitment. Don't do it if you don't like dogs at all, and I have learned that taking care of a small dog is a lot easier.
/r/ExRedPill09/08/25 04:48 PM
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If he thinks there are things he can do to attract women other than win thegenetic lottery or become a millionaire or celebrity, then he's red pill. Red pill is like a toxic self help forum where everyone just gives terrible advice. Black pill is incel stuff where guys say that it's impossible and futile.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/25 11:57 PM
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So with your friend... "Jester maxing" is being funny to attract women? I thought the whole black pill thing was supposed to be about how it's all in your genetics or wealth, and there is nothing you could do, so it's all hopeless. Maybe he should try jestermaxing. It sounds kind of like calling taking a shower "hygiene maxing", or being polite "manners maxing". Are you sure your friend is being entirely serious?
/r/ExRedPill26/06/25 12:20 AM
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Rollo Tomasi is the one I'd love for you to take down. Not that it would do any good. Sounds like it would just turn into what we call "internet bloodsports". You honestly sound just as toxic bragging about your body count. Red pill is partly toxic because of the focus on numbers and distain for monogamy. I don't care how many women you've bedded. Are you able to actually support a long term healthy relationship? Can you work with a partner to create a positive environment where you could raise …
/r/ExRedPill25/06/25 03:53 AM
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Have you ever seen someone change their mind by having someone else disagree with them and tell them that they are wrong anf stupid? I'm sure the answer is "no". The closest you can get isbthe socratic method where you ask leading questions, but that can also be very annoying when it's obvious that the person asking the questions has an opinion. I think the key is to be supportive and be as non-confrontational as possible if you openly disagree. People won't change their minds if you don't let t…
/r/ExRedPill25/06/25 03:39 AM
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Alright, I see. You are a university student in some kind of "... studies" or social sciences, as your understanding of what conservatism is exactly what everyone who is no longer on reddit will tell me that every redditor's perspective is. Did you know that Karl Marx was also a racist? So was Che Guevara. So were practically the entire Democrat party until Lindon Johnson. Now I will admit that racism seems to be more prevalent in the right wing, but this is because racists get conflated with na…
/r/ExRedPill12/06/25 02:14 AM
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I will agree on the criminality of Jan 6 and trying to overthrow the election. That has nothing to do with red pill. The charges related to real estate that they tried to get him on were obviously bogus. But you fail to relate any of this go trp. Give me an example of a policy that has to do with trp and explain how it's related. I could even make the case that trump is opposite. In his first term he passed an executive order that cracked down on human trafficking and directed the FBI to take do…
/r/ExRedPill10/06/25 10:40 AM
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I have a question. Sorry, but there are plenty of people giving advice. What does Red Pill have to do with politics? I get that there are a couple of red pill content guys who say some vaguely right wing things, but conservatism isn't about trashing women. I've read TRP and it's all just about being a manipulative turd in relationships and having casual sex while hating women. There are plenty of conservatives who believe in monogamy and trust. Andrew Tate advocates being a literal criminal, and…
/r/ExRedPill05/06/25 02:45 AM

Basically don't be the autistic person that I have been most of my life who can't read the room, read social cues, or flirt without being awkward... But that is not really a product of modern society so much as being a little bit different at birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:35 AM

I'm not single anymore, but "go to church" is advice I always hated. First of all, as an atheist it would be inherently dishonest, especially if I were doing it for the express purpose of finding a partner. Secondly, the one thing that people should have in common meeting there, I would not have in common. Finally, the idea is you would find someone who has virtue and won't leave you, but it disregards shared values and beliefs. The equivalent for me, I suppose would be instead to go to a natura…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 02:29 AM
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Aren't there lonely women out there that just want a boyfriend? Aren't we all genetically programmed to seek a partner? It would be a one size fits all solution if it were being offered for problems like a broke down car, no job, leaky faucet, but of a guy is lonely, then a girlfriend is the obvious solution just like if a woman were lonely a boyfriend would be. What about that is sexist or treats women like objects? Seems to me a desire for companionship is the opposite of objectification.
/r/ExRedPill26/04/25 11:42 PM
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So a few points that I want to touch on here. Men can do things to increase their odds of success with women, but there is good reason for it to be a red flag. There is a range from taking care of yourself and giving compliments and learning to flirt which are pretty benign, and really just part of being a gentleman, to the other end of the spectrum, like cutting contact until the other person givea you what you want, or using ultimatums strategically, which are very manipulative and not a way t…
/r/ExRedPill06/03/25 01:55 AM
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A man can be a literal burn victim and still find a woman.
/r/ExRedPill04/03/25 04:01 PM
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Is this rule in a sticky or something? Is it just no discussing him in the sub?
/r/ExRedPill08/02/25 04:41 PM
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No. Obviously people can have fantasies, but if your partner wants to act on that desire then they are looking to be unfaithful. No. Live and let live. Our relationship is a 2 way street with trust, and that breaks the trust. Humans are evolved to have mostly monogamous relationships, but also evolved to cheat. The virtuous choice is to remain monogamous in a monogamous relationship. Lust can be more intense, but it is important if you are serious about staying monogamous not to put yourself in …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 04:17 AM
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I would probably say to dig into the scientific validity, by reading scientific literature to see what research is actually saying about human behavior and the behavioral differences in the sexes.
/r/ExRedPill17/12/24 03:49 AM
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If you are talking fiction, that is one thing. I think the most real part of this is the fantasy women have of opening up the soft side of a hardened man. I think the biggest evidence for this is all the serial killers and terrible guys in prison getting love letters from women. On the other hand, the trope of women who only date jerks, I think there is a difference between the guys being jerks to them vs jerks to everybody else, the fact that this is only a particular kind of woman, and also th…
/r/ExRedPill16/12/24 09:34 PM
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I generally disagree with most of what you said, but I can see where you get that idea as a lot of people on the internet call themselves MRAs and there is no real advocacy involved. But a lot of men who identify as MRAs are just smeared with that brish in order to silence them. I've personally heard MRAs talk about real men's issues and advocate for from all walks of life and usually people on the left just write them off as conservative or right wing. Tthe fact is that conservatives don't line…
/r/ExRedPill23/11/24 07:18 PM
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I don't know how naiev that makes you, and I think the big question is how long did you wait? Regardless there is still time.
/r/ExRedPill21/11/24 02:54 PM
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From your post you make it sound like TRP is going to the gym and having a laise fair attitude about women. Those two things are extremely generic and have been around well before TRP. These things are not even what is generally considered toxic about TRP. The abundance attitude is only toxic if it means that after you form a bond with a woman where she reasonably thinks that you are exclusive that you cheat or continue to actively look for other partners. But when you are going on first and sec…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:43 PM
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That sounds a little bit like the "It's not you, it's me" routine. Typically its women that raise men's hopes to let them down. I just hope for your sake that you didn't remain single to wait for him.
/r/ExRedPill18/11/24 02:30 PM
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I connect woth him in your story about him in that I feel like your presentation of him in the before time is like what am ex-girlfriend would have said about me. I don't feel like we were meant to be, but I do feel like I did her wrong and I won't gi into it amy deeper for this post. My intuition says that this guy had a lot of insecurity that he was grappling with, maybe some mental health issues and issues in ability to talk to amd connect with others, especially women. I am going to bet that…
/r/ExRedPill18/11/24 03:10 AM
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I can tell you that as a man the RP is wrong about a lot, including probably the parts that are stopping you from having a relationship. As a teenager I had a number of emotional issues and struggled to find a relationship partner. Even as a teenager I knew that I wanted more than a release and pretty arm candy. We are also hard wired to want companionship, and some men want a family with children. I think all humans can be tempted to cheat, but for me I believe it to be wrong, and I recognize t…
/r/ExRedPill16/11/24 05:43 PM
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Yes, and we are debating the merits of them, not whether they exist or not.
/r/ExRedPill06/11/24 01:24 PM

I am sure that if you go and find trash people, you will find the men and women that choose to be with them. And about guns, we didn't evolve alongside guns, so they are not going to automatically make women feel safe. Maybe if humans had 20,000 years of mate selection alongside guns they would choose men with guns over men without every time. In fact, as I think about it your assertion that women dislike men with guns only applies to areas where theh don't perceive the need for guns in order to…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 04:08 AM

The women attracted to scum are a subsection of women, something like women who had absent or abusive father figures. And as far as carrying a gun, that is steeped in politics and propaganda. When I say women are looking for someone who can protect them during pregnancy, I am not saying that is on a practical or rational level. I am saying whem they were cave women, they would not mate with a male that was not capable of hunting, starting a fire or building shelter. How that translates to the an…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 11:59 PM
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Fashion is about emphasizing your natural qualities that are attractive and drawing attention away from the unattractive qualities. Also there are non-genetic qualities that we can be evolved to find attractive, such as whether the other person will make for a fit parent, whether or not they can protect you during pregnancy, whethet or not the have the social capital or wealth to give you and your offspring a good life, and whether or not they will treat you well. Yes most of these examples appl…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:01 PM
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OP, I don't carry many friendships but when I do they are good friends, as I tend to be an introvert. When it comes to a romantic relationship, in marriage anyway you meed to treat them like family, unless you had a crappy family, amd if that's the case you need therapy and to learn what loving families are like. With a wife or someone who will be, you meed to know that she will be there for you no matter what and you need to provide the same.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/24 09:28 PM
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While you say you would hate for a partner to be overwhelmed by your lack of independence, I got married late in my adulthood, and I find that I am too independent. My wife would prefer that I be less independent. This goes two ways. One is involving her more im things that I need andthe other would be including her needs, sich as picking up things for her when I go ojt to grab something that I need.
/r/ExRedPill01/07/24 10:20 PM
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Wish I could tell you how to talk her out of it, bit that's free will.
/r/ExRedPill10/06/24 12:47 AM
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There is a psychological phenomenon, where once you identify with a belief or ideology, the more evidence you are shown that contradicts the belief, the more firmly you dig in your heals amd stick to it. Its sort of like a sunk cost fallacy. If you want to support your friend and get her out of the belief system, the things you shouldn't do are debate it with her and sound preachy or judgemental. Instead, I would suggest to avoid talking about ideology as opposed to actual life amd probably just…
/r/ExRedPill09/06/24 03:35 AM
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First, I am an atheist, but I don't believe that Christians hate women. Some of them have beliefs about gender roles that come from god, but I don't think that is the same as hate. I think some of these guys are doing what a lot of religious leaders like to do. They realize that religion can be used to spread their message, and so they preach the religious messages because for many it's an easier pill to swallow.
/r/ExRedPill02/06/24 05:04 AM
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First, your OP didn't really tell us much about yourself, and second, you are just negative woth people's suggestions. I'm actually wondering if maybe the reason you have no success is that you have no understanding of manners, or ability to put yourself im other people's shoes and imagine how your words come off to them. If you were into red pill before, that makes sense, because they treat dating like a mathematical formula where you get the desired outcome based on putting in the right inputs…
/r/ExRedPill18/05/24 09:56 PM
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If women are looking for a hookup, they are generally not going to care too much about if a guy is sexist. They will care more about things like confidence and looks. It might be a bit different if we were talking about long term relationships.
/r/ExRedPill27/04/24 04:21 PM
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It sounds like you are talking about TRP, but for clarification, does tgis apply to TRP, "Sex at Dawn" or both?
/r/ExRedPill14/04/24 10:47 PM
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I remember a book that came out a while ago that shows that a lot of what manosphere guys say about evopsych is backwards. It is based on looking at the few hunter-gatherer societies left as well as what can be known about pre and post-agriculture. From what they can tell, paid-bonding and family units didn't become much of a thing until agriculture. Before that humans lived in small nomadic groups and tended towards more communal ownership, and children were raised by the group, and monogamous …
/r/ExRedPill06/04/24 03:33 PM
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I feel like they may have meant character, but it depends on how you define personality. Someone could have mid-tier looks but be really fun to hang out with or talk to. On the flip side a woman might look like a model but have nothing to talk about other than makeup.
/r/ExRedPill05/04/24 02:03 PM
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Red flags would include being overly critical, being violent or overly emotional, misrepresenting what you or others say, all her exes were jerks, and being flirty with guys that aren't you. Also if her mood is your responsibility. Good characteristics, she displays affection for you. Does things to show you she cares (sexual things don't count). When you say or do something nice she shows appreciation. She is reliable and takes responsibility for her actions.
/r/ExRedPill05/04/24 02:00 PM
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It's going to really depend on you amd your weaknesses, which I am betting are there givem you haven't had a girlfriend for so long. The first thing I would say is that you need to be transparent about not wanting kids, and of there is anything else that is normally expected, like not wanting marriage or to move in. You need to let her know ASAP, no later than by second date. And you also need to make sure that she os on the same page a little later, as sometimes women aren't sure, amd will go a…
/r/ExRedPill05/04/24 01:47 PM
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But it's a woman saying what neglected men want to hear. There are so many men looking for that.
/r/ExRedPill01/04/24 01:09 AM
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I think it's a little bit her personal experience, and a lot her finding what would be as viral as possible. I think she wamts to be rich more than to be married.
/r/ExRedPill28/03/24 12:29 PM
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It's not genuine concern so much as sour grapes. I think a lot of that comes from MGTOW and incel. It's basically screaming "your going to regret your decisions to screw around in your twenties."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 04:01 AM
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There are three vertical dots under each recommendation. You have to click on those and the select "not interested". The problem could be someone else from your same computer or another one that you are also logged into youtube is wachi g, searching and liking that content, so if that's possible you are going to want to log out when you aren't using it, and possibly change your password and remotely log out from all devices you may have logged into, such as friends cell phones.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/24 03:48 AM
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Pearl, aka just pearly things. I don't evem disagree with everything she says, but it seems pretty clear that she is just repeating talking points she has read and heard elsewhere, doesn't practice wbat she espouses, and she hurts genuine men's issues by advocating for legit issues while also talking the most extreme positions that don't represent 99.9% of men. For example, I'm like "Yeah, women taking sole custody might be a bad idea, and children should have their dads in their lives even if t…
/r/ExRedPill24/03/24 02:57 AM
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I think a lot of us guys who weren't born blessed woth excellent genetics and women gushing over them have these feelings. I'm not short, but I was not athletic, always kind of nerdy and a little bit on the spectrum, and I have had guilt with feeling like a creep just for wanting to talk to women. What I have come to realize is that women like all kinds of guys. A lot won't like you, but I guarantee that some do. Women actually worry that guys don't notice them.
/r/ExRedPill21/03/24 10:14 PM
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Okay, and I won't pretend that women never cheat on men, but understand that this is fiction, and it's not an actual guy or example. If you are often watching fiction of women cheating on their boyfriends, then you may be giving yourself a false impression about how common it is. In my experience in life I can think of 2-3 examples of guys that I knew who cheated or women who I knew who had been cheated on. I only know of one example where the woman cheated on the guy amd that is a story that wh…
/r/ExRedPill17/03/24 04:43 PM
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I had this same issue, though I am married now. I think its odd tgat you uaed MGTOW for pickup advice though as they don't generally advise to do that. The thing is that men and women do actually tease each other when they are attracted. The thing is to not be a dick such as delivering back handed compliments or insults, except when clear that it is a joke. Aside from advising to try to stop "negging" women as the RPs call it, I'd say maybe try occasionally giving a genuine or sincere compliment…
/r/ExRedPill17/03/24 04:28 PM
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A lot of what you commented on seems to be about the man's penis, which I have come to learn in my life doesn't matter much to most women. It's at best number five on the list of physical attributes that women notice. And guess what? If Jason Statham or Mamoa have a small dick it doesn't matter to their sex lives at all. About body shaming and body positivity in general, this mostly comes down to the fact that men and women have different types of psychology. Im general men are more likely to ju…
/r/ExRedPill15/03/24 03:12 AM
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I understood that comment much better. Thanks for making an effort. Your comment illustrated exactly what I was saying about getting into some genre of fiction and then stereotyping real people based on fiction. Your attitudes are literally an example of why schools and libraries try to censor or curate the types of materials that young people have access to. Imagine if you met a young woman who acted like she detested you even though you did nothing to make her feel that way, and then she confi…
/r/ExRedPill15/03/24 02:55 AM
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What's ntr? I think it might be an age or generational thing, but it seems like you haven't learned punctuation, and that makes it difficult to understand you. I think you need to understand that what you see portrayed on screen is not how things happen in reality. This has probably some of the worst effects on people who over-consume porn, but can apply to all forms of entertainment, such as action movies or Rom-Coms. You wind up not realizing that you have sterotyped certain people based on pu…
/r/ExRedPill10/03/24 04:02 AM
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At 15 you are not an incel. How long again had you been reading red pill stuff? It really sounds like you have a slew of problems that might resolve by the time you are an adult, but sounds like a counselor is in order. I can't quite get an individual issue out of what you wrote, but I think a lot has to do with being at am age where women are still foreign to you. If there is one thing I would suggest, it's stop watching porn.
/r/ExRedPill04/03/24 12:29 PM
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If you ask many women, they will say they would only dat 6' tall men. But if Tom Cruise comes by they will still swoon. There is a difference between stated preference, and reality. The problem is that most of the information that red pill sites are going by is stated preference.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/24 08:20 PM
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First, you need to use punctuation. Second, try talking and having a conversation with women. I can tell that you are very young by how you type, and that you don't have much experience talking to women. It also seems that there are qualifiers that you have used to exclude women in order to rationalize your belief that women do evil things to men. I'd venture that your mother unselfishly took care of you, raised and fed you. Just some food for thought.
/r/ExRedPill25/02/24 01:47 PM
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I never attracted women who were promiscuous. There was one case of a girl when I was in grade 6 who had said that she got black out drunk and was assaulted by a group, like a sports team or something, and I wasn't less attracted to her for that, but in general I have always been more attractive to women who were quiet and mousy, or a bookworm type personality. I can't say it mattered to me much, but I did like the idea of finding someone and both of us being only true to each other. I think thi…
/r/ExRedPill19/01/24 03:32 AM
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It seems odd. Like that is not something that I would be asking ever. I think I could figure it out after a few dates of she is talking about all her ex boyfriends amd their escapades.
/r/ExRedPill19/01/24 03:26 AM
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Just wondering, bow os it that these men you date kr potentially date knew this status? Maybe guys like you more because announcing unsolicited that you are a virgin is a red flag.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/24 11:47 PM
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Years ago turd flinging monkey said this. He is MGTOW, and was trying to explain to men how to reconcile the instinct to pairbond with the notion that women are unreliable and will not be faithful. A dog won't decide it can do better amd leave you for another owner.
/r/ExRedPill13/01/24 06:10 PM
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I hadn't said anything about "most women". I just gave an answer to why men are giving these comments about no eggs. I'd guess that your country has a replacement rate of less than 1. Why did you choose the number 10? The fact is the more sexual partners someone has, the harder it becomes for them to permanently pairbond, and that applies to both men and women. Which men are old and dried up? The ones marrying the 30+ year old women? The ones saying "no eggs"? I'm pretty sure most of the red pil…
/r/ExRedPill10/01/24 05:00 AM
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It doesn't apply to me anymore, as I'm married, but if I were single, I would probably want to increase the chances of the person that I fall in love with have other desirable characteristics. They could range from veing attractive to being from a culture that appreciates men believes in complementary gender roles. Not too different from a woman trying to increase the chances that the man she falls in love with be from the wealthy persuasion.
/r/ExRedPill10/01/24 04:41 AM
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How far do you think is okay for someone to travel and find the person that they will marry? How foreign do you think makes a man unacceptable?
/r/ExRedPill06/01/24 06:05 PM
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This really depends on the situation. Some of these are unethical and immoral, but if foreign womem wamt to marry western men, whobare we to stop them. I have seen a sode of this that is wholesome an oilfield worker from Alaska brought over Filipina woman and married her. He is tickled pink that she takes care of the homed, and will cook for him, and she loves the better living conditions. I barely talked to the guy amd hadn't met the wife, so I don't know how transactional it was. I am leaning …
/r/ExRedPill06/01/24 04:46 PM
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When I was single coworkers would often ask me about if I met a girlfriend amd tgat sort of thing. Family somewhat. I think it's pretty normal for friends and family to tease about finding a girlfriend. Most cultures consider a relationship to be the default status that everyone should have. As others have pointed out, the key is not letting others' comments get to you.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/23 09:40 PM
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I'd imagine it's because they are aware of women's desire to have children and the concept of a biological clock. I think it's the idea that they are saying women make poor choices such as going out and having meaningless sex without relationships, or working on a career to then find their prospects for marriage and family have dried up in their 30s.
/r/ExRedPill25/12/23 04:56 PM
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First, there will always be jargon and specific terminology in internet subcultures. It will always sound cringy when expressed IRL. Second, red pill and white pill are used on the internet outside of dating. You clearly have been very affected by the PUA community. I had actually never heard the term white pill in the context that you claim to be the one and only context because supposedly it was where the term first emerged.
/r/ExRedPill13/12/23 01:37 AM
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Yes, I agree. I think this can be said about the incel community in general. Maybe there are some exceptions.
/r/ExRedPill13/12/23 01:26 AM
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This is an exaggeration character, and there is no difference between the two characters other than race. You have to understand that this all comes from the incel perspective, that there are guys who because of their looks women are just throwing themselves at indiscriminately. The characters are created to incite anger in the incel for being denied something that is practically tokenized by the "Stacey". Basically incels are mad that anyone is having sex while they aren't, and they have painte…
/r/ExRedPill05/12/23 04:24 AM
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Excuse me for offending or triggering you by using words you don't approve of. I had a point tgat I was making and you chose to look beyond that and get caught up in semantics because you are triggered by any sort of "pill" terminology.
/r/ExRedPill05/12/23 04:08 AM
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I remember him from when I consumed mgtow content. Even then, he stood out as a guy of low moral character. I think enough time out of the loop has maybe scrambled his brain. Obviously, evem if you want to live as a bachelor, you can't continue to date 18 year olds unless you are Leonardo Dicaprio or some other major celebrity. Any other normal man will appear to be creepy as he ages and continues to hit on women increasingly younger than he is. Also, from what I remember of this guy, he is crit…
/r/ExRedPill04/12/23 05:05 AM
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It is very hard to say as I am aging but married, so not looking, but I think that there is a taboo when it comes to an age gap around 15 to 20 years, and also at a certain age gap there are social/generational differences that would be a near instant turn off. Also when I was in my 20s, I would not have even looked at a woman in her 40s, but in my late 30s it didn't matter as much. I'm pretty sure there is a huge barrier to either sex dating 20 or more years younger, so it very much depends on …
/r/ExRedPill04/12/23 04:23 AM
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I'm just going to drop this here. It's a bit of a debunking of some od the red pill talking points. https://youtube.com/watch?v=eYV3sKPZbos&si=i5Q27dBBmkIw-D1A
/r/ExRedPill04/12/23 04:12 AM
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This concept existed before the red pill. Ever hear of a spinster or an old maid? In China at a very young age (late 20s) women are in damger of becoming "leftover women". It basically means that a woman has not gotten married in time to have good odds with child bearing, or at an age where men still want to date or court them. It's not as applicable in this society where there are plenty of men if all ages with all kinds of relationship statuses who might want to date them, but the fact remains…
/r/ExRedPill03/12/23 05:28 PM
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Yes but the red pill theory is that women have more of an instinct known as hypergamy, which basically means they are attracted to status. So in high school of you are the middle of something everyone cares about, especially if people in that group give you a lot of respect. But status and money go hand in hand too. So if you drive an expensive car, wear expensive clothes, have a big house, and are treated like you belong wherever you go. I don't entirely disagree with this, but mainly disagree …
/r/ExRedPill02/12/23 11:15 PM
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I am not here to shit on you. I felt like the wrestling comment was a little harsh, but it's understandable if you bave been very isolated. There is one thing that the online community gets right, which is that if you are a socially awkward man or not very good looking, women will initially be resistant to even talking to you. That usually changes once the ice is broken if you treat them ok. Stop worrying about your V status. People really don't or shouldn't care.
/r/ExRedPill02/12/23 03:16 PM
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I am so curious about their relationship status. I'm guessing probably married, or they are painting gen-Z women with this brush.
/r/ExRedPill02/12/23 02:59 PM
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I think it is entertaining because people like a dumpster fire. This is why some adults liked to watch the Jerry Spriner show after it was revealed to be a lot kf aspiring actors and fake, amd why people enjoy pro-wrestling even though they know it to be fake. There is a deliberate suspension of disbelief that goes into entertainment. I don't know how old you mean, but it really makes no sense for men in their 30s or older to take these women as representing all women because they have to discou…
/r/ExRedPill02/12/23 02:52 PM
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This is like hearing someone say that they just realized that pro wrestling is fake.
/r/ExRedPill02/12/23 02:35 PM
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Women are pro only fans but not pro their boyfriend looking at only fans. Women are pro only fans the same way women are pro abortion. They aren't. Like abortion, which is opposed by a lot of women but falsely framed as men telling women what they can do with their bodies. The only women who are pro only fans are the ones that think it could benefit them, just like the women who are pro abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 12:44 PM
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It sounds like you have made sex and relationships very transactional in your mind with this talk of "low value" and "high value" men and women. When you get into a healthy relationship, this thought of value should not enter your mind. And women can't tell just by looking at you that you have a porn addiction. You can quit today and start talking to women. Also, I have found that developing positive qualities trends to attract women who also have those positive qualities. It's negative qualitie…
/r/ExRedPill21/11/23 12:35 PM
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Most men your age are still missing most of tge signals that women send them, or focused on persuing their education rather than finding a mate.
/r/ExRedPill21/11/23 12:28 PM
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Wow, a lot to unpack there. First, you need to forget everything that you think you learned about women from watching porn. Most women aren't hardwired to desire casual sex, so it is like me being lactose intolerant and disliking cheesecake being offered all the cheesecake that I can eat and my wife being jealous because she likes cheesecake. Neither of us gets what we want but she is jealous because I have access to something that she wants. Second, women don't have access to casual sex the way…
/r/ExRedPill21/11/23 12:21 PM
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I am putting this part at top in case you don't read to the end: From a social advocacy point of view there are absolutely social issues that are unfair towards men that need to be fixed, but for an individual struggling through life, it is not that bad and focusing on what ks out of your control is bound to leave you feeling depressed, but if you focus instead on making the best of your own situation you will do much better. "Clean your room, bucko(high pitched nasaly voice)". Some of it is tru…
/r/ExRedPill21/11/23 11:49 AM
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I don't agree with their opinions, nor do I watch their content, but I don't care about their monetization status. I happen to have a pretty libertarian outlook on things and I don't believe in YouTube deciding which points of view people can and can't access, and demonetization severely restricts how far an audience a vide can reach. In the case of Pearl, I think that it's actually a grift and it's not her honest opinion, but rather she says what she thinks men want to hear just to pander. In t…
/r/ExRedPill20/11/23 03:58 PM
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What about having parades in public and daylight where gay people are marching in tho gs and bondage gear? What about a push to have teenagers read mandated literature that describes gay sex acts in graphic detail? How about having men dressed as women read to small children? This business about the right to marry is a motte in your motte and Bailey debate techniques when the left is criticized for pushing debauchery they retreat into saying that they are just calling for equal rights.
/r/ExRedPill05/11/23 06:00 PM
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No, I see men and women as equal, but I understand that men and society give women a lot of exceptions. You have to understand that the majority of the male population is not red pilled. It's pretty easy to not realize when you have things easier if you take those advantages for granted. And it doesn't help when people who point this out are silenced to spare the feelings of the other. I mean right there is an example of an advantage that women have in men's preferential treatment. Noone would t…
/r/ExRedPill05/11/23 05:50 PM
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No, all women except for the fringes. What I said may not apply to the morbidly obese, burn victims, or those who display zero femininity. Pretty much every woman has a boost in men wanting to help them.
/r/ExRedPill05/11/23 05:42 PM
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I'm pretty sure it was our mothers that gave us the advice to just be ourselves, and to just be nice and we won't have to worry about finding a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 12:50 AM
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This is the wrong forum. This belongs in purple lpilldebate. Yes that's a forum for both perspectives to discuas contentious topics whether they are red or blue pillbor exredpill. That said, if anything, the only emotion generally accpeted for ken to express is happiness and gratitude. Anger is seen as too dangerous and linked to criminality. When a man gets amgry it is seen as a dangerous situation that could lead to violence, and if you are that man, you may think it is acceptable because peop…
/r/ExRedPill20/10/23 12:47 AM
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Women want men to express their emotions more as long as they are the emotions that women are hoping to hear. The moment the man's emotions are feeling powerless, or insecure about his ability to support his family or uncertainty that he deserves the love of his partner or is the right person for her, her pussy will dry up faster than the Sahara desert on a summer day. I think happimess os the only real acceptable emktion for man to display amd that has to be done right. That and maybe sometimes…
/r/ExRedPill20/10/23 12:36 AM
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I don't know, maybe the fact that people care about your feelings, and will drop everything to help you? I've seen women in college coast by because everyone is willing to help them with their homework and give the previous year's tests etc, while as a guy no one lifts a finger to help. Even in male dominated professions, your company will go out if it's way to recognize you for mere mediocrity. And if you fail in your career and finances, you will always have a career so long as you have a pret…
/r/ExRedPill20/10/23 12:30 AM
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Sounds like he's conservative, aside from using the term "Thot". The term Red Pill can mean two different things, or both. It can mean a non-political ideology on women espoused by a group known as The Red Pill. Somehow people always seem to lump men's rights in with this group even though they have nothing in common. It can also mean being politically awakened and moving to the right / conservative. It sounds to me like he is conservative and is aware of some parts of modern culture that are pr…
/r/ExRedPill07/10/23 11:40 AM
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Wow how this question has revealed so much about the ex-red pill community. In TRP forums simp can mean anyone who gets attached to a woman, whether it's a healthy attachment such as a committed relationship or not. They especially use the term for when a man does something polite or selfless for hos partner such as giving her gifts. On the rest of the internet it generally means those who patronize e-girls and give them tips, especially if they have unrealistic expectations, like that they will…
/r/ExRedPill04/10/23 10:37 AM
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I don't. I have seen people flirt at work. Some people seem to like to flirt and joke around even if they are in a relationship. I was saying that I don't do those stupid things.
/r/ExRedPill14/09/23 09:33 AM
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I was interested in PUA in the 90s when I just wanted to be able to find a woman to date or have a relationship with. It was a little off target as they were only interested in sex, but I figured that maybe I could still use their techniques for my goals. When I first heard of The Red Pill it was an article criticizing Roosh V around 2011, a PUA guru who was advocating a Mgtow lifestyle. That's the one difference I can tell is PUA was just a way for single guys to get sex, but TRP was a way of b…
/r/ExRedPill14/09/23 09:27 AM
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It sounds like you are a woman, and asking what is feminine vs what would turn men off. It is really more about what you want, either way just be honest and find a partner that is honestly okay with it. If you want to hunt, that is fine. There may be some men who don't want women as part of that, but there will also be groups of men that are fine with having a woman hunt with them. Just don't do it if it isn't something that you honestly like. Don't pretend to like hunting to meet guys, it won't…
/r/ExRedPill27/08/23 04:27 PM
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I used to read redpill and mgtow forums a lot. I don't agree with the redpill as the idiotic users of the reddit group had espoused, and I am now married. But a couple of things I do, I don't talk to women at work unless I have a reason to, especially young women. I avoid sharing spicy opinions, which serves well also on things that have nothing to do with sex and gender. Other coworkers are all on the same political team and openly talk about politics and religion, and if I were to tell people …
/r/ExRedPill27/08/23 04:16 PM
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After reading some of the thread, I am convinced that I was right in my other comment that you got into RP as a teenager. From what I can tell, it sounds like your interactions with women are women who are physically attractive to you while not having much in common or a likeable personality. If you want a friend, maybe find women who are not attractive to you but share similar interests and likes, and to find a partner maybe try looking for women who are both attractive and share your interests…
/r/ExRedPill26/08/23 01:21 AM
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I have a suspicion that this may be due to your age but I don't know for sure. My suspicion is that you may have got into Red pill stuff sometime during high school, and transitioned out of it perhaps in your mid twenties? If so, your experiences with women or girls was before you were fully developed into a man and with women who weren't yet fully developed either, and now looking to pick up where you left off. If I am right, part of this may be not having developed the social skills, and also …
/r/ExRedPill26/08/23 01:10 AM
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Because having children together is a long commitment that requires you to work together for years. It's the opposite of something transactional such as accepting money, having sex and being over with it the next day. Also I knew and talked with them. The tipic of the wives didn't come up much but when it did it sounded like a relationship.
/r/ExRedPill26/08/23 12:38 AM
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Ok, so then would it be helpful to label most eating disorders that women suffer from toxic femininity? What about when women spread rumors and gossip? Or when women turn men against each other, or put their partners in dangerous situations by picking fights? Why are we not calling parental alienation or violence by proxy toxic femininity? I'm sure that you will agree that these things consist of toxic femininity, but the reason why the focus on toxic masculinity specifically is because of an ag…
/r/ExRedPill21/08/23 12:24 AM
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I don't see how labeling that form of body dismorphia toxic masculinity helps anyone, whether the man with the issue or others. And with your definition, the only other example I can think of is homophobia. Society in almost all other cases pressures men to not do the things that are labeled toxic masculinity. Society expects men to protect women, to not be driven by their emotions, to show restraint and temperance. "be a man" is used to pressure men to generally make sacrifices.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/23 04:14 PM
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Not common, but also not transactional, which is why I mentioned it.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/23 04:01 PM
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I put not sure because I am not diagnosed. By today's standards, yes. When I was growing up, you would have to be rainman.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/23 12:54 PM
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Ive had male coworkers who are married with kids to women 20 years younger.
/r/ExRedPill03/08/23 02:51 PM
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Noone who becomes "fat and out of shape" gets better. And these men who get better do so mostly in the eyes of women in the same age bracket. There are probably some cases where younger women crush on them, amd yes these men sometimes wind up in a relationship with younger women, at least more often than happens with older women and young men.
/r/ExRedPill03/08/23 02:50 PM
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This quote pretty much sums up the common people in the matrix. The idea that the reality was so hard to grasp tha Morpheus had given up on trying to explain without showing.
/r/ExRedPill14/07/23 03:34 PM
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Why do we need a word for when men do toxic tgings specifically? Can it not just be called being a shitty person?
/r/ExRedPill14/07/23 03:31 PM
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"man up" they said. I think its ironic. There are ways you can do masculine things that would be good, but moving out and away from what little support you have, into a situation that would not be financially viable, is not manly. That would be foolish. It's ironic because I had a psychiatrist and my parents both try to tell me that if I were living with them I would not be attractive to women. The thing both had in common was that they were baby boomers who had no perspective on the financial s…
/r/ExRedPill29/06/23 12:44 AM
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I'm not sure what you meam by sub-par. Most guys in their twenties have very little experience at all. You need to tell us your motives. Do you want to date and hook up with dozens of women, or are you looking for a long term relationship? I would say to mainly stay focused on your interests that you have control over. If you won't be satisfied unless women are falling down over you, you won't be satisfied, and that will put women off.
/r/ExRedPill28/06/23 09:01 AM
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Because he believes that enforced monogamy is a good thing that makes him a piece of shit? So you think that there shouldn't be social consequences for cheating? Or is it the institution of marriage that you have a problem with? In the western world marriage is optional and you can end a marriage if you need to, but I think he sees it as a social good. I would agree as far as raising children and having a stable society is concerned.
/r/ExRedPill24/06/23 05:01 PM
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I think we all know of some women that will do this kind of thing. Boundaries are important in relationships. The healthy framing of this is set boundaries with your partner. She should set boundaries too. Both men and women can disrespect boundaries. Sometimes the types of people who disrespect boundaries may be more attracted to people who enforce them, but you don't really want someone who views your boundaries as a challenge. In another way that the red pill misses the mark, they see enforci…
/r/ExRedPill24/06/23 04:42 PM
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No. Just because one thing from a given source is valid, it doesn't make everything valid. In the same vein, just because something is asserted by an unreliable source it does not make it false. This is the genetic fallacy, the assertion that where an idea comes from can make it valid or invalid. Im not sure what the inverse one is, that a source was right about one thing and that makes it right about everything.
/r/ExRedPill24/06/23 04:20 PM
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An uncomfortable truth is what the original metaphor was from the movie "the Martix". If you accept any uncomfortable truths that you are better for accepting in the long run, then in a sense you can be red pilled. This is why the Red pill has also been used to describe conservative economic theory and politics such as Thomas Sowell. But I don't agree with the Red Pill reddit groups relationships between men and women. They suffer from the same solipsism that they project onto women. That said y…
/r/ExRedPill24/06/23 02:32 PM
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I thought that the chad stacey and becky tropes were more incel things, and I kind of suspect that those who were bullied heavily would be more likely to identity with the incel community.
/r/ExRedPill23/06/23 07:38 PM
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Some of these are societal double standards or just uncomfortable truths about the differences between genders in our society. They are certainly not fair, and they don't apply accross the board. A lot of red pill beliefs are reinforced by their own behavior. For example, if you don't look for a meaningful relationship, you will find partners who instead are looking for some sort of utility from you instead, and that will color your view of the opposite sex.
/r/ExRedPill23/06/23 07:33 PM
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She is just riding that bandwagon for views. If she really cared about men's mental health, she wouldn't be accepting patreon money to give men riske photos and develop parasocial relationships with them.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 01:52 AM
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That's a social science term for social reinforcement, eg. a reputation. Promiscuity and polyamory, the alternatives to monogamy, should be socially unacceptable behavior. It doesn't mean that you go to jail for cheating on your partner. JP is not red pill at all in terms of relationship advice, and if you listen to his general advice of telling the truth, standing up for what is right, taking small steps to improve yourself, you will generally be happier, and have better relationships.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 01:50 AM
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This phrase doesn't sound very common. And yes, there are some girls that do, but this behavior is not generally socially accepted.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/23 01:25 AM
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If a potential long term partner has had a lot of sexual partners, I think It os less favorable for several reasons that should be self evident. It brings up questions like whether you will be another notch on their belt or are they serious about you but not the others? Are they bad at making decisions or commitment? Do they have no impulse control or are hedonists? Do they have diseases that they could pass on to you? But yes, maybe to some people a high bodh count is more ideal for some reason…
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 06:11 PM
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When I met my wife on a dating app, she did not get a lot if attention from guys on the app, and for the most part the guys were trying to run scams. One of the things the red pill says that generally is true is this: "women are gatekeepers to sex, amd men are gatekeepers to relationships." I see you are jealous of women because of how easy it is to be a whore, but have you ever considered that women don't want to be whores the same way that you do?
/r/ExRedPill17/06/23 06:03 PM
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I agree it's hypocritical. A low body count is ideal for both. If you don't get married until your thirties expecting your partner to be a virgin is a little unreasonable. I think the red pill thing on men having casual sex is more a statement of wjat makes them attractive to women. It is certainly not virtuous. On that note, men are generally more concerned with the purity of their long term partners, but that's not always true either. I think what you are onto is red pill guys on the internet …
/r/ExRedPill08/05/23 10:12 AM
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Does he specifically identify as red pill as in all the pick up artist/mgtow garbage on reddit and the internet, or is he red pill as in conservative? If it is the former that is the main problem. To play a bit of devil's advocate, men talk differently when women aren't around and it's not fair to judge him by the standards of how you expect him to speak in your presence. This is different if they are saying these nasty things in the presence of the e-girl. As others have pointed out, it seems a…
/r/ExRedPill05/03/23 01:27 PM
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I would say that if you don't report intimate partner violence, then it can be said to not exist, and the Duluth model has reduced male victims of intimate partner violence by sending out the message that if you do report it and you are a man, you will be arrested and treated as though you are the aggressor. It may have also reduced it by counting intimate partner violence on males as exactly the opposite. Most cases of intimate partner violence are to some degree a two way street. People who ha…
/r/ExRedPill23/02/22 05:29 PM
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I had been bullied as a child. I heard boys will be boys. I still have a problem with this assertion, even though I agree with most of Adam's underlying points. Firtst on showing emotions. Just look what happens to men in the public square who cry. The same people who say how men should cry were willing to skewer Jordan Peterson for it. In his case he was crying about not being able to help men because of the culture. Maybe because they disagree with his politics. Look also at Kyle Rittenhouse w…
/r/ExRedPill20/02/22 07:23 AM
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Before 40: they fool around misleading many women into some relationships and causing them heartbreaks they may never fully recover from Or they strike out a lot and have failed relationships. they make baby mama's That is the responsibility of the woman just as much. If you choose to have kids with someone who isn't willing to marry you, you have yourself to blame for being a single parent. they leave their children to have another children with another bm leaving more children fatherless Start…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 06:49 AM
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I a man so I don't know directly a woman's point of view. From the few I have dated, dick size either isn't important or I am doing alright, even though as far as I can tell I am right around average. Looks clearly matter, but not as much as a woman's looks matter to men. Height also matters, but generally only to women that would be shorter than you. Eg, if you are 5 feet tall, your height won't be an issue for women 4'10 and lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 05:55 AM
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Do I care about a woman being a great lawyer?... No... Except in a ltr I don't want to constantly have to hear how upset she is because she can't handle the demands of her job, and if she is not going to be a house wife, I want her to be able to hod down a job. I also generally prefer a woman who might know how to cook, and how to take care of herself. If going to be a mother she better be competent at a lot of things. Especially if she won't be working, then she better have a lot of domestic co…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/22 05:56 AM
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So the part that you wrote about she will leave you once you aren't the best option anymore... Hypergamy is real in the sense that women value men initially based on their status, and men value women more based on their youth and looks. The example being that men aren't lining up to date a woman like Rosie O'Donnell because she is a celebrity, but a less than average looking male actor such as Jason Alexander will never have a problem finding an attractive woman to date. I am just using him as a…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 05:45 AM
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Lol dating coaching is a scam industry wtf YOU ARE A MAN YOU KNOW HOW TO FUCK Encoded in DNA. literally by going out and just interacting and taking radical action any guy will figure it out. If he just pays attention to trial and error and not emulating some technique or concept in a book. I had a long learning curve talking to the opposite sex. I didn't say I needed a book to teach me how to fuck. Men seek TRP and other dating advice for all the stuff that comes between seeing a pretty woman a…
/r/ExRedPill06/06/21 11:01 PM
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What's lacking for men is just normal dating coaching. TRP subreddit is only about sex and manipulation. It is totally not a healthy way to go about dealing with people. I think a youtuber Alexander Grace is pretty good at taking some Redpill stuff and separating the B. S. From the useful stuff of you are looking for that though.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/21 07:59 AM
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All the stats say that for a long term relationship she is more likely to be faithful and not leave you the fewer the sexual partners she has had. If you are looking for a pump and dump a girl th t is not a virgin will probably have lower standards and be more easy.
/r/askTRP27/02/21 11:33 PM
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Good reasons to not fap: you are exercising self discipline and giving something up. You are making a decision to focus on more important things than immediate physical gratification. You are quitting porn. Bad reasons to not fap: you think it will affect testosterone, make you more attractive, give you super powers.
/r/ExRedPill20/02/21 09:45 PM
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What about Alexander Grace since we are on the subject of manosphere dating advice channels? He espouses some advice from r/trp but he delivers a pretty moderate milk toast version and emphasizes being virtuous and finding a "high quality woman".
/r/ExRedPill20/02/21 09:38 PM
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I remember a video where he showed a picture of an out of shape couple and a super fit couple with their faces blurred, then revealed that they were tge same couple and had transformed their bodies together and talked about how great it was that they both supported each other and did what they did together. He is clearly antifeminist and he seems to be a MGTOW, but he is really just making men aware of the dangers they face and dispensing some relationship advice.
/r/ExRedPill20/02/21 09:35 PM
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I think "the silent treatment" is a rather vague term. Like I can totally understand not wanting to talk to someone who you have a legit reason to be mad at for a while until you cool down. But I don't know if that's what you mean.
/r/ExRedPill20/02/21 09:29 PM
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What makes a man or woman low value is a matter of perspective. An executive will have a different perspective from a bike or a welfare queen etc. Most of this group is concerned with getting vagina, in which case being free if STDs and minimal other shit to deal with is what is highest value along with good looks. If you want a long term relationship then loyalty and a compatible personality matter. What women generally consider low value would be out of shape, broke, not fashionable, not fun t…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/21 03:46 PM
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You were a free meal and entertainment. It's one thing if it wss early on and she wanted to have a relationship before making out. Maybe she was waiting for you to ask her to go steady, as a very traditional woman. Then you failed a shit test. She implied she might screw and you came running right away. I would say at least make her wait and minimize expenses for that date. But probably better to just forget about her.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/21 03:36 PM
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So are you Captain Saveaho the white knight, or are you just a woman who likes stringing guys along and getting them to pay for shit? Probably the latter and don't understand what it's like to be horny and actually have to persuade someone to fuck you.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/21 03:27 PM
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In my experience lifting is more important than money when it comes to getting women Are you talking about hookup culture or long term relationships though? And once you are in a relationship do you really think having an awesome body is more important than financial success? Being able to drive a nice care, live in a nice home, go on cool trips together, and not worry about how to pay for it is great. I feel like the novelty of a sexy body would wear off after a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 10:36 PM
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I agree on just about everything there. Regarding be the prize, if you are really in a slump, go MGTOW for a while and focus on yourself. Talk to women or online date for fun only. You will eventually fimd someone worth your time who values you once you lose your scent of desperation. Regarding "she's not yours, it's only your turn." this one indicates that before your red pill you thought you can own women. Yes, in western languages relationships are described in possessive pronouns. But any re…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 10:30 PM
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Redpillers claim that passing shit tests, holding frame, and demonstrating status can generate attraction. Bluepillers claim that personality, especially confidence and “charm” can generate attraction. Blackpill best pill. You have never changed how attracted you felt about someone after meeting them or getting to know them? It's probably a bit more rare for a man to do, so you have never seen a man change in the eyes of a woman after passing or failing a shit test, or showing confidence or a se…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 05:34 PM
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I think he might mean that you can't use facts and reason to convince someone to be attracted to you. Even if you could convince them that they should, it will not change the fact that they are not. This applies to all humans, not just men or just women. You can still change how someone sees you by changing your behavior and appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 05:29 PM
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Yes. That's the solipsism of Red Pill guys. Complain all women are shallow and untrustworthy, while figuring out how they can cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 05:21 PM
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I hadn't heard of Radical Beta before. By the definitions I go by alphas don't contribute much and are pretty selfish. My definitions: Alpha: Good genetics/looks/phenotype/game who doesn't provide for women or families. They are Chads and Tyrones who pump and dump women. Beta: The guys who can't make it on genetics and game alone and improve their SMV by gaining the things that show they can be a good provider. Their success is in building families. Cuck: The guys who rely on virtue signalling s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 05:18 PM
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Sounds like you were about to say everyone cheats, but then you decided to move the goalpost further to redefine cheating to mean everything from having a stray thought to fornication.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 04:52 PM
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I know plenty of people in the MC who don't save or invest anything for their retirement because the believe in social security, or just say they believe in living for today. I would say my parents were middle class and if I ever talk finance with them my Mom thinks its stupid for me to be preparing for retirement. I'm late 30s. Maybe that's a boomer thing in her case as both my parents got good pensions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 04:49 PM
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What exactly is your point? Is it that men also do shitty things to women? Everyone knows that men are capable of harming women. My O.P. Is to trun around the narrative because of the blind spot people have in regards to women harming men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 04:41 PM
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Yes, lets just add the hypothetical things to move the goalpost. That way the hypocrisy of the poster I referred to is lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/19 11:24 PM
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Agree with most of what you said. I think the word hypergamy has been bastardized from its original meaning in academics. It means that women are attracted to high social standing, wealth, and power. It does not mean she will cheat the moment someone with more of any of these things comes along. There are other forces at work. For one women can become attached to their mate. Red Pillers will say she will never love you but I disagree. Another factor is there are social consequences for cheating …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 04:41 PM
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Also, not sure if it's RedPill but this assumption that we don't work, make money, care about making money, are financially irresponsible, seeking cash/prizes from divorce has got to go. I agree I know plenty of men who don't work and aren't financially responsible and women who do work and are financially responsible. I think there are general differences between how women and men see money and finance. Men are less risk averse, but I think the attitude that we can rely on the government as a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 04:30 PM
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I remember saying that but I can't see what you are replying to. Did you not put your reply onto one of my comments? I know plenty of people who have been married happily for 25 or more years. I don't think you can claim that the marriage success rate is zero given the fact that these people aren't hard to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 04:24 PM
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It should go without saying that my post was sarcastic. More commonly men are told they will be able to find someone who treats them well if they are nice and respectful.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 04:17 PM
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I assume since this post is still up you are okay with the OP but warning the chat?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 04:13 PM
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Not sure this is incel content. None of these guys are complaining about not having sex in the whole 30 minutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 04:09 PM
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Are women going around slapping and choking men without warning, though? If so, I wasn't aware of that. There you go again. You just can't get ma wahman out of your head. You can't leave a PSA for women that way, just have to find some way to point it at men. I don't know how common that is for guys to do without warning. You want to provide stats since it is apparently on the rise?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 04:04 PM
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You see Max, if you do your homework and are super nice to everyone, one day you will be married to a barely average cunt who will barely tolerate you in public, pity-fuck you once a year maybe, and not take you to the cleaners in a messy divorce. You want more? Sounds like you have a case of toxic masculinity and entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 01:49 AM
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You see what you did there? The whole point of the PSA for women was to take a common narrative telling men how to be good but denying any accountability to women and flip it over. Your advice may be given using gender neutral language but who is it really aimed at? I can't think of any men who have sued women or filed police complaints after a night including casual sex. So essentially you are telling men to only sleep with women within a relationship because the threat of having your life ruin…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 01:41 AM
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A lot of women would say that girls and women are raised to care about what men think. Probably only applies to the high status men. Your comment is extremely subjective. I can find two women and point out huge differences between them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/19 12:44 AM
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The AWALT thing is pretty vague though. There are certain traits that will be shared be all women, men or humans, amd others that won't. I think you need to be more specific.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 06:33 PM
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I disagree. What you said goes against most of what I have observed in women. Very few are opnly such gold diggers that they will stick by a loser to get his money. More often the things that come with his money and status tend to make him more attractive to women. It's like how women on first dates ask what you do, but try telling them that you make a lot of money and they will usually get turned off.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 06:31 PM
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First question, are you male or female as I think it is relevant to your pov on alphas? Second a point. Just because someone can kick your ass doesn't make them an alpha. You could be a black belt and have a job where everyone bosses you around. There are social mores that prevent you from being an alpha. The only place your viewpoint would apply is prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/19 06:26 PM
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I am neither. Its like how I am neither liberal or conservative. I agree with some of what the red pill teaches which is seen as controversial but has some scientific basis, but also agree with blue pill on some ways that red pills are often excuses to oversimplify human behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/19 08:09 PM
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No. Men first look at women's bodies and for a youthful look. That is not hypergamy. Hypergamy is choosing a man based on how well he does something, how much he has acquired, and his overall status. Guys don't care about that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 10:30 PM
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The issue here from a red pill perspective is your woman example is only interested in men who are equal or higher than her own perceived status. There are guys who would be willing to have sex or a relationship with her, but she has ruled them out as potential mates. She is likely only considering guys in certain professions, guys with the equivalent degree as her, guys who make around the same money or come from the same or higher standing background.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 10:01 PM
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Both sides agree on that one. Some feminists might disagree. Its not really controversial to say that havimg a noce body and lots of money and being confident makes men more attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 09:55 PM
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I "My engineering degree didn't get me any Tinder hoes you liars". Only having a respected high paying job will get you Tinder hoes, especially if combined with the clothes and car that the money affords.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 09:53 PM
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The problem is alpha and Beta aren't well defined. I personally like the definitions of these used by a certain MGTOW.. Alpha: the guys with superor genetics that can have casual sex with women who are 8-10s. Beta: guys who can have a spouse due to their status or money. Cuck: these guys are the incels amd male feminists with nothimg to offer women. They do not have access to sex. Regarding hypergamy, you are misunderstanding what it is. It is am instinct that responds differently due to social …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 09:50 PM
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I think the spinning plates thing is reprehensible if done in what is understood to be an exclusive relationship. When dating on Tinder and Plenty of Fish I had no problem seeing multiple women at the early stages, but its not okay to string someone along and continue to see otger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 09:29 PM
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I never heard this term before either. I will say that when they decide they don't like you any more, they can demonize everything about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 09:24 PM
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I think I lean more red pill than normies around me, but I agree with you on everything you said. In fact I think women often make more responsible financial choices due to being more risk averse.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/19 09:19 PM
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As a teenager I met some guys who were very in shape, had no trouble picking up women. They weren't the ubermensch you described though. Just super attractive and promiscuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 09:43 PM
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I thought women liked short guys with small dicks who browse reddit. I figured if I could just get shorter and make my dick smaller I would be golden.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/19 08:25 PM
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I emailed the RIF app devs about the font appearing as courier. They told me this: Courier font sounds like you are posting comments as code. This happens in Markdown when you surround them with backticks or when you put 4 or more spaces in front of each line. So I am not putting spaces in front of my paragraphs now and seeing if that has any bearing. I don't even know what backticks are.
/r/ExRedPill26/08/19 03:31 AM
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I don't know what's with the font. I use the "Reddit is Fun" app and sometimes it does that. Anyway, people on Reddit like to downvote posts that challenge what they believe. It leads to groups becoming circle jerks. I think trp is a toxic group, and following the advice there to a Tee will lead straight to unhappiness. So I think a lot of those who leave that group may discount when people say things that sound somewhat red pilled. I am expecting that there are some here who might be seeing red…
/r/ExRedPill25/08/19 12:07 AM
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Little more info on you? Are you in your late teens to 20s and have acne? As far as the rest of the appearance part, make sure your clthes fit well amd are colour coordinated. Be well groomed... Even of you sport a 5oclock shadow, make sure that's deliberate.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/19 04:33 AM
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There have been studies that show that there is a difference between what they say they want and what they actually respond to. Also science indicates that women's judgement is impaired when near ovulation. As far as taking women's advice, it sometimes helps to listen, but when they tell you what to do, they are engaging in a famtasy where Mr. Perfect approaches them. The same approach by Mr Average or Mr Homely would be considered creepy or even harassment. In reality different women are attrac…
/r/ExRedPill07/08/19 04:04 AM
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If all you want is sex, logically the most honest way to go about it is to seek a prostitute, but ask the same women what they think about that and they will shame you. The problem is that very few women want just sex. The exception might be attached women who want to have a fling, but even they would want you to make them feel appreciated, and sleeping with them is in my humble opinion extremely immoral. My suggestion would be to date a large pool of women, and look for the ones who are willing…
/r/seduction02/08/19 04:48 PM
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If a woman or girl says a man or boy touched her privates without consent how often will anyone say that?
/r/MGTOW01/08/19 05:03 PM
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Not true. When you are a star you can do anything and they will let you do it. Grab them by the pussy, you can do anything.
/r/MGTOW01/08/19 08:22 AM
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Just my opinion here. Lets say you are making out and you want to cop a feel but you don't know if she is into it... I would probably put my hand on her waist and slowly slide it towards her breast. My rule of thumb that hasn't failed me in my life has been when in doubt move in really slow. If she is not into it she will likely move your hand away. If she does, don't go for it again until you get some kind of green light. It doesn't have to be any more a big deal than that. You may want to wait…
/r/seduction01/08/19 08:12 AM
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I'm not sure if you are appreciating humour here. My local radio station advertises a job posting site that often makes fun of bosses or employees named "Dave". They have a disclaimer "not all employees or bosses named Dave are like this. Please don't write us to complain. That would be a real "Dave" thing to do, Dave.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/19 04:02 AM
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So the one thing about her that is being withheld is not desired itself and makes everything else about her more desired? Seems like pretty backwards thinking to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/19 04:29 AM
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Your point was about withholdimg sex and you specifically say that people want what they cannot have. It sounds like you are talking about "playing hard to get", a strategy of appearing perpetually busy and popular to minimize all time with the desired man in order to maintain an air of mystery. That could theoretically make the woman herself more attractive, but it can backfire, and it is not possible to maintain into a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/19 05:30 PM
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Seems like point 1 and 4 are at odds. It's supposed to remove men who are only interested in sex, while making sex more desired because it's being withheld. Sounds like a challenge if anything. My current relationship started with sex on the first date, and I was jaded and didn't care about anything else, yet I became interested in the rest along the way and after. If there is a reason to not have sex early on the OP is missing the better ones, especially for young women: You don't establish you…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 02:53 AM
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It seems like writing a criticism of masculinity is mostly about how we raise our boys. It's not a stretch to say that there are more women raising children than men, in both careers such as teacher and psychologist, and as parents. So it would make sense that there are more girls getting female mentorship than boys getting male guidance. This transitions into the point that if feminists want less "toxic masculinity", they should stop alienating fathers. We don't put enough pressure to raise gir…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 02:18 AM
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I upvoted you because I don't think you were intending to be rude. And you reacted to others being defensive by being defensive yourself. I think instead of saying "Give examples." which sounds blunt and entitled, phrasing it as a question like "what are some examples of condescending texts he sent you?" is less confrontational sounding.
/r/ExRedPill06/03/19 06:08 PM
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The science shows that in dating, at first the number one thing men are looking for is physical beauty, which starts to fade in women between 25-30. Women tend to care about men's social status, their passions, their job, and their wealth a lot more than men care about these things in women. So a low value man at 18 could be a successful engineer with lots of passions and a budget that affords nice clothes by 30, while a woman who looks average at 20 will have fading looks by her 30s and will ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/19 06:27 PM
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I would just ask you to consider of you keep dating her and she decides to see other guys, and one of those guys makes a commitment. Will you be fine with not being able to date her anymore and her seeing another guy? Women feel a pressure from their biological clock to settle down eaier than men, but there are good reasons to look for a good woman and form a strong relationship for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 08:51 AM
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I agree woth other answers about daddy issues, but also consider hypergamous women trying to get the top 1%guys. These guys don't have any reason to try to keep a woman pleased when they can just move on to the next. Of course they will be emotionally unavailable. The problem here is RPers seeing a correlation and assuming causation. Eg. He's emotionally unavailable and women are attracted to him. They aren't attracted to him because he's emotionally unavailable. They are attracted to him becaus…
/r/ExRedPill01/02/19 12:59 PM
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So you are dating and she wants you both to be exclusive. This means she likes you. Obviously you don't like her if you are not comfortable with this arrangement. You should probably stop seeing her as you are stringing her along. My criteria for entering a relationship is mutual attraction, compatibility together, and good character. But there could be other factors in other guy's cases, such as wanting kids and her being able to give that, or similar economic classes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/19 12:50 PM
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Haven't you set thos up nicely. If the MGTOW / TRP had codependent tendencies and is growing away from it by implementing these positive things, you have them. Also of any part of their new life can be shown to be codependent, you also have them. How exactly does one falsify your claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 04:17 AM
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The idea that women know what they want in men, and therefore women make good dating coaches for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 09:37 PM
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Willing to listen to the Red Pill, but skeptical about some of their ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 09:33 PM
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In a society that constantly denies women's faults, they need to emphasize women's faults to drive home that women have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 09:31 PM
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Sounds like some incel bullshit. Just lowering the bar. Women don't rush you and beg you to fuck them? You are not attractive enough and will never get a woman. MGTOW is supposed to be about choice, not compromise.
/r/MGTOW16/10/18 04:12 AM
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Reminds me of how evry now and then a "nofap" video wanders into my YouTube feed. They talk about doing it to be more invested in getting pussy.
/r/MGTOW15/10/18 03:09 AM
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As others have pointed out, the blue pill forum is just there to mock and satirize the red pill. Also, I'm not sure there is any real purple pill ideology. If you are willing to accept some red pill ideas such as that women are attracted to status and me are attracted to youthfulness, but not others like as you said the idea that women are just going to maliciously use you every chance they get, the purple pill debates is a forum where you can hash things out and have different opinions without …
/r/ExRedPill15/07/18 01:49 PM
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Well let's put our thinking caps on and analyse the situation here. Who generally craves sex more, men or women? Oh its men. And who can married men have sex with? Their wives, when they let them. Okay so you have men who are biologically more horny, with legal and moral obligations not to have sex outside their marriage, nevermind that that's often not available. If these men want sex more than their wives, what do they even have as a bargaining chip?. Nothing? Hmmmmm. Seems like a real Scooby …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 07:55 AM
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Governments and courts have made laws and rulings that make it near impossible for men to set boundaries. There os no law against withholding sex, unless a man does it, then it's emotional abuse. But a man can be charged with abuse for withholding finances.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 07:47 AM
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Hen pecked might be a better description.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 07:43 AM
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This is rendered moot because a woman can withdraw consent at any time. Hypothetically it could be used to show a court that she had at one point consented, but I'm sure they would find a way to get that thrown out too.
/r/MGTOW28/06/18 07:39 AM
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You do realise that the blue pill subreddit is satire aimed at TRP, MGTOW, incel, MRA, and all other groups that they can label misogynist? TheBluePill isn't an instruction manual on getting laid. If you want blue pill dating advice, her you go from a feminist amd tradcon point of view : Feminist - Treat her like an equal all the time. Ask her put only after you ascertain that it won't make her uncomfortable in any way. Whatever she decodes at any point in the relationship, you have to be okay w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 07:34 AM
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On this one I have to ask, is it a double standard? Is a woman not considered insecure if she is concerned about the sexual past of her boyfriend? It seems to me like this one is a standard that applies the same to both genders, but you will get different people who consider the behaviour insecure or not.
/r/MGTOW21/06/18 09:15 AM
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You are human and humans are social animals. Also at 22 the drive to reproduce will be very high. I suggest you date multiple women and never go steady. If you want to go monk, maybe invest in a sex doll.
/r/MGTOW14/05/18 05:17 AM
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And in season 20 Butters goes full on MGTOW.
/r/MGTOW04/05/18 07:32 AM
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I'll be very blunt and speak plainly here. Men and women are biologically wired differently in how and when we ask for help, and our biases to asking for help are also shaped by the sex of the person asking and the sex of the people who hear the call for help. This works to the advantage of women in school. This works better for women in the criminal justice system.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 09:51 PM
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So what will Norway do when they are going to war and suddenly one quarter of their female soldiers find themselves pregnant?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 09:42 PM
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I somewhat consider that this might also apply to women whose childhood may have had excessive corporal punishment or physical abuse as children, not necessarily in a sexual manner. These same women are more likely to find themselves in abusive relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/18 10:32 PM
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Saw the recovery. He looks like they type that would either be a male feminist or an evangelical Christian. This based off his scrawny appearance. I don't see how he co<ld think it's a good idea to post something publicly that would make her seem like a cold hearted ice queen.
/r/MGTOW18/02/18 09:50 PM
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I didn't realise that it had been reposted so much. Admins may delete it of they like. I just thought it would be good for a laugh. Makes me wonder if the caption she put on there is real.
/r/MGTOW18/02/18 09:41 PM
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She seems to really be one of those who believes that if you didn't enjoy it, it was rape. She keeps on saying how crappy she felt and how she tried to put down subtle hints, as though he is supposed to read her mind. From what I've heard of her interview, I would speculate that Ansari clearly saw the night as an opportunity for some sex, while she wanted a relationship with a traditional courtship. The reason she clearly would not refuse or stop him when he performed oral sex and asked her to r…
/r/MGTOW17/01/18 06:30 AM
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I'd really like to give this guy some advice but why is this already in an archive, and why is it posted in self.rape?
/r/MGTOW01/01/18 05:55 AM
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Turd Flinging Monkey has interesting things to say on MGTOW and other subjects. He's also very knowledgeable on economics and discourages his users from buying digital currency. I ignored Angry MGTOW a long time ago because he was clearly trying to make money off MGTOW for a long time and has no ethics or character, let alone intelligence. As for MGTOW 101, I don't get how he can claim he puts so much time into editing hos videos. He just copies other sources and clips in memes to loom like he a…
/r/MGTOW01/01/18 05:47 AM
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Sounds a lot like what has been happening in comic books recently.
/r/MGTOW01/01/18 05:27 AM
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She might have been manipulating you to get a free drink. She might have been showing interest a d asking you to reciprocate. I think in this case it was the latter. If you wanted a date or sex or some sort of relationship, buying a drink might have been in order. None of those things were going to happen after you rejected her, especially in front of her friend. Women are not used to rejection, and also don't usually put themselves out there the way men do in courtship.
/r/MGTOW01/01/18 05:23 AM
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Certain kinds of insanity are not recognized by the courts though. If it is determined that she was delusional, and didn't understand that her child was not sick, then she cod be deemed insane, which is generally a life sentence. If she is determined to be a psychopath who knowingly engaged in these fantasies in order to elicit sympathy and understood that she was harming her child, well being a psychopath is not widely accepted by the courts as negating guilt, so she would more likely serve her…
/r/MGTOW15/12/17 04:46 AM
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The problem with using your personal experience for this kind of am argument is that it's just as valid for someone with an abusive father to say "it's just their nature." about men. Thos might have been the case with the judge or CPS workers in the OP's article. Both genders do some horrible things. The main problem is the systemic lack of accountability for women.
/r/MGTOW15/12/17 04:39 AM
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I have a hard time believing that this woman completely understood what she was doing. It's just hard to fathom a parent being that much of a monster. It's much easier to believe that she is delusional. It really is stupid that they won't let the man see his kid because of allegations that have now been disproven by the very organization that put him in foster care. While I know it doesn't apply to this family, the probable reason is that social workers have learned over time that abuse runs in …
/r/MGTOW13/12/17 10:26 PM
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Some nuance : they may be safer when you're young, but not harmless. A false allegation of misconduct could still be possible and extremely harmful. Also to the OP, praiser1, if you have sex, make sure to use some protection that you can control, particularly a condom. Getting a woman pregnant could also derail your life.
/r/MGTOW13/12/17 09:55 PM
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They are lucky society (or the judge anyway) at least recognizes that fraud is fraud.
/r/MGTOW10/10/17 06:10 PM
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Denial of sex when agry, passing the check not having a job expecting the other partner to put all the work into anniversaries and Valentine's day acting like their genitals and sex automatically qualifies them to be put up on a pedestal telling the other partner what they should wear and how they ought to dress
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 11:49 PM
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He is very good at getting the truth out of guests who call him. Quite amusing to listen to, and he has a lot of good advice for both women and men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 07:44 PM
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Because you will always take back seat to the child. Is that not also an argument against ever having children?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 07:41 PM
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How is it 19/20 the mother's fault? This is the kind of thinking that I wanted to understand. Could it not be that it is 19/20 times the fathers fault? Maybe there is a pandemic of men who are just looking for greener pastures, regardless of what they have now, being enabled by new technology and social attitudes which enables this immoral behaviour. I'm not saying that this is the case. All I did there is reverse a MGTOW narrative, but statements like yours demand evidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 07:39 PM
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1 - I am aware that there is another side of the story, although getting it would be near impossible. When we deal with people we often have to make judgements without all information. 2 - Sample size of one is all I need when refuting a statement that uses "all", although in this case let's be hypothetical instead of making it about my case.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 07:31 PM
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You are being what is formally known as "cucked". You care for another mans child with your resources and not your own. YOUR genetic material is not passed along to the next generation. The other man escapes and creates or tries to create more children increasing the odds that his genes get passed along. Your genes do not get passed along, you die, game over man game over. Although we have "instincts" which lead us to procreate, it doesn't mean we have to do so to be happy. In fact all of our pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 07:15 PM
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Have you ever watched a MGTOW youtube station? Single motherhood comes up probably every third video.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 06:43 AM
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https://youtu.be/E5keP947eZ8
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 06:40 AM
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I don't have his point of view, and I don't think she was perfect. That said, I wouldn't agree that in every case where one partner cheats both partners are to blame. It seems the RP/MGTOW community is ready to exonerate men from responsibility in their shitty relationships and blame them all on female nature, gynocentrism, and hypergamy. True, if a marriage ends with fault in a case of one partner being negligent, the other partner made a bad choice in spouse. It just seems we have a double sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 06:38 AM
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Yeah, maybe I should have left the personal stuff out because I'm not really looking for advice. Without anymore personal information added, none of those things are issues and I'm not supporting her child. To bring it to the discussion level, I just always hear "never date a single mom". I'm asking if there is some nuance to that, or does the rp world believe it to be carved in stone?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 06:27 AM
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I was listening to a Tom Leykis YouTube clip when I had this thought. Tom is very hard on single moms. A lot of MGTOW point to him for inspiration, and his lifestyle and dating philosophy is compatible with both RP and MGTOW.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 06:17 AM
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When women choose a short bald man, are they inherently making a bad choice, or is more context needed?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 06:11 AM
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I've seen those women in droves on POF.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 06:09 AM
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I would agree with you as long as the word "generally" stays there. I'm mostly taking issue with the use of "all".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 06:07 AM
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Maybe because I date people and not categories. Single mother is not the entirety of whobshe is. Maybe a single mother can in some circumstances date a man without neglecting her child, and maybe some men don't have an issue with a woman putting her child's well being above all else.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 06:04 AM
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Toxic Masculinity has given us some dude bros cracking lame jokes and some men not going to the doctor as often as they ought to do. Toxic masculinity is not a helpful term or well defined, but I think you are really picking the lamest examples. I am not on board with the categorisation but it has been used to include homophobia, thug culture, hyper-agression, violence, rape culture. While I don't see any of those as purely masculine problems, sure, toxic femininity in the form of the overprotec…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/17 05:55 AM
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Regarding a MGTOW bank: https://youtu.be/U7rXOgL4oFQ And yes, there are some financial advantages to being a blue-pill man. It's basically a socially imposed bachelor tax. Married people generally do better financially than unmarried, provided they don't get divorced, and there are a bunch of tax deductions for children and family related things. If you're going to be a MGTOW, you need to be extra motivated and responsible with money.
/r/MGTOW11/08/17 03:52 AM
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On both r/MensRights and r/PurplePilldebate there is a lot of users who hold the belief that females have the power to simply accuse a male of sexual and then have his entire life ruined. Sometimes there is significant to an individual males reputation or life from a false accusation, but to say it is a widespread problem and that it affects that many males for it to be a widespread problem is and asinine. First to get this out of the way, not every accusation of sexual assault that is not prove…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/17 06:23 AM
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I wrote this article thinking of this https://youtu.be/1k7jeQQdqPA
/r/ExRedPill06/08/17 04:37 AM
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I don't think he is a TRP. I think he has had negative experiences with women, and pissibly believes that ypubare a NAWALT (not all women are like that). These might be experiences like seeing women use men, or possibly dating women who are super-competitive and insecure. I recall reading about how TRP attracts the women who reinforce TRP beliefs. Well, can it not work the other way? Can manipulative, insecure, hypergamous women shape a man's world view to a Red Pill perspective? I think that it…
/r/ExRedPill06/08/17 04:36 AM
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RP is actively destructive. shallow is too polite. Both adjectives can be used, but shallow suited the context I was speaking about.
/r/ExRedPill31/07/17 05:19 AM
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Agreed. Red pill culture is shallow though.
/r/ExRedPill10/07/17 03:00 AM
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You don't have to be some imaginary ubermensch to find happiness or success. You just have to be someone others want to spend time with. My post was about PUA culture. If your definition of happiness is getting laid constantly by different women, then you might want to be an ubermensch.
/r/ExRedPill07/07/17 04:11 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/user/serpentza check out his videos on chinese scams. There is one detailing the exact scam you describe. More relevant to MGTOW is the man trap scam, and extorted in China. This man is not MGTOW but has great videos and is quite insightful. In China there are a number of scams and extortion schemes, some particularly aimed at foreigners, but not all. Their government practically enables these scams, especially when the scams involve lawsuits and extortion.
/r/MGTOW04/07/17 08:21 AM
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First off, don't set up unreasonable, unrealistic expectations and then shout triumph when your idealized, stereotypical ubermensch gets there while realistic people don't make it. That's my point. Don't aspire to be the ubermensch. Find something better at making hou happy.
/r/ExRedPill03/07/17 08:26 PM
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One lf bigangrydinosaur's tips was to get rich then talk to women. You are sesing my point now I think, or you don't understand the sarcasm of bigangrydinosaur's points. They are not humorous because they aren't true. They are humorous becaise they are true and impractical, and the real solution if you are having trouble with women is to realise how stupid a problem that is, and how you could be persuing other things with better payouts.
/r/ExRedPill03/07/17 07:14 AM
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When I wrote it, I was more thinking of the selection bias when say, you try to make a formula for how to be successful at a given task such as running a business, and only look at the traits of the successful companies. You might then come to conclusions such as taking big risks is a good thing, without considering the element of chance that could cause extreme hrm due to not having sampled the losers either. Maybe not all women are swayed by looks or money or generally having it together, but …
/r/ExRedPill03/07/17 07:03 AM
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I've seen ugly dudes with good looking women. What is your explanation?
/r/ExRedPill26/06/17 05:40 AM
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I would tend to agree. I'm not at the point where I care about my success rate with women anymore, but I would advise anyone who is to become passionate about something else, work on their social skills in general, and be honest in your attempts.
/r/ExRedPill26/06/17 05:39 AM
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Here is the reason why you always hear ablut rape culture in terms of cis-gendered men and women: They make up something lime 97% of the population. So while trans people may be at greater risk, the instance of it happening to trans will still be less, and out of those, the number that insert themselves into culture talking about rale will be virtually nothing.
/r/ExRedPill24/06/17 05:14 AM
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How the fuck is this guy not raping you evidence of rape culture? He oressured you to do what he wanted? Seems your pretty sad he's not in your life and you want him to have to spend time with you. Why should he have to spend time with you, while you don't have to do anything you don't want to?
/r/ExRedPill24/06/17 05:10 AM
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Rick and Morty is awesome, and those people just called it how it is. It's about time that "react" genre actually showed people who appreciate what they watch. Rick and Morty did start out obscure, but of course it will become mainstream because it is good.
/r/MGTOW24/06/17 05:00 AM
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The irony here is that had this woman been the man she was pretending to be, she may very well have lost everything due to an unfounded rape accusation.
/r/MGTOW24/06/17 04:54 AM
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It used to be that being able to financially support a child was a major factor in a parent's suitability to have the child. Then this was considered unfair, and so this got tossed out becaise it generally favored men. So to balance this the more suitable parent could keep the child and the other parent would have to continue to financially contribute to the child's upbringing. I think with some limits and responsibility, child support can be fair. Alongside that though, the other parent shohld …
/r/MGTOW24/06/17 04:41 AM
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How old afe you, and how long agobare each of these stories? I'm glad your depression is over. I hope gou can now find someeanimgful things to make the persuit of your time, rather than bitches.
/r/MGTOW24/06/17 04:21 AM
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Reading through your post, for most of it I was wondering what led him to TRP and MRP. I mean you present it like he was super nice and you were both happy and he just happened to fall on these websites. Then I get to the end of your post and I see that you "had to move states" becaise you were accepted into graduate school, and the election, for some reason. On your move, I think he may feel he made a huge sacrifice in your favor that you are ingrateful for. On politics, I don't see why he woul…
/r/ExRedPill22/06/17 06:01 AM
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Fighting against reform in the family courts, the Deluth model (a model of domestic abuse that automatically assumes men to be perpetrators and women to be victims), glorification of single-motherhood, mandating reverse sexism, indirectly expecting the government to pay for every equality, by taxing men. I could go on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 05:37 AM
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This post is so non-specific. Sexual strategy can be immoral or amoral. For example, killing other men to show how much stronger you are would be immoral. A less extreme example would be deceit such as telling her you own the sexy car when you don't. An amoral example would be making a general flirtatious compliment, or giving a thoughtful gift.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/17 01:12 AM
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So what I see here is your paradox, that you need to project success and strength to attract a mate, but then want to be vulnerable, sharing weakness and insecurity without having her walk away. I would say it depends on the woman you attract, and how. I would also say that after a certain courtship period, women have an invesment in their partner and are willing to be supportive despite imperfections. Just consider how much you might be willing to tolerate in a partner, its probably somewhere a…
/r/ExRedPill19/06/17 12:56 AM
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Wow, you are just l over the place in this post. I haven't dealt with trans people before, so let me just share my perspective on what you wrote. So first you are looking for a random hookup on Craigslist to play out a "dirty slut" fantasy, particularly reenacting porn, and your surprised that your partner is sexually agressive? Then when you tell him your reservations and boundaries, he respects them and it's somehow proof of rape culture because you felt uncomfortable. Then he doesn't call you…
/r/ExRedPill19/06/17 12:36 AM
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I have to say, I mostly agree with the assessment of the problem here, but there is something that they are missing here, which anhone who isn't a feminist should be able to point out, as should also a psychologist. They seem to be missing the fact that behaviours are formed by biology and the environment combined together, and that men are biologically different from women, which is a lot to do with why men seek less help. Case in point, the taboo against men crying. Especially in high school, …
/r/MGTOW18/06/17 07:37 PM
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I recall a study that linked country music to the highest rates of suicide, while rap music was linked most highly to outward agression. Rap tends to be about the behaviours that would be categorised as toxic masculinity, such as hating gays, violence, and promiscuity, while country's worst part seems to be about pining over the woman who left.
/r/MGTOW18/06/17 07:22 PM
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Reading through comments here. A lot of commenters seem to not have read the article. It's not about women who just decided not to have sex after getting married, rather it's about the lack of desire caused by menopause. It is something to consider, that after going through "the change", your partner will not be as enthusiastic about sex, so you will have to deal with it somehow. If that's all she brought to the marriage, then your SOL. On the other hand, the dying of her libido might also trigg…
/r/MGTOW18/06/17 06:54 PM
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Herbivore men and MGTOW are different due to theor motives. Times are chamging in Japan, but some traditions change slower than others. Japan is not as gynocentric as the west. Women can't divorce rape men. The reason for men there to become herbivores is that traditional family life for them in this time would involve working so much that they would not have time left to reap the benefits of having a family. It's more an anti-corporate stance than an anti-gyncentrism stance. I got my info on th…
/r/MGTOW18/06/17 06:30 PM
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I work in such a company. Your program is very good for being able to make money quickly after graduating, along with heavy truck driving, which os also of value in the oilfield. The caveat is that you have to work long hours away from home and be able to be responsible. Oilfield has a higher divorce rate than most jobs, which I would say is directly due to spending time away from home. If you are MGTOW, this is likely well suited to you.
/r/MGTOW18/06/17 06:16 PM
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I think your right regarding the stats. I had also heard one about when ots non-reciprocated abuse, 70% of the time its women. And regarding false rape claims, you have to be skeptical of those statistics because its usually only classified as such if the woman admits to making the entire thing up. Reality is not so black or white. Understanding how women can make a false claim after having consentual sex is like understanding how a man can commit a sexual assault or rape on a date and not reali…
/r/ExRedPill21/05/17 03:58 PM
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In what context does blame matter? If she wants to move on, she should address the fact that she allowed herself to be abused. If a criminal investigation is done into an abusive relationship, the victim should not be blamed for "allowing it".
/r/ExRedPill21/05/17 12:06 AM
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So you are under the impression that women won't even want to talk to you unless they want to fuck you? If you can fathom a woman talking to a man without there being sexual attraction, then maybe the first step is making friends and talking to women platonically, just assuming they will treat you like a person if you show them the same courtesy.
/r/ExRedPill21/05/17 12:00 AM
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Every aspect of women in videogames is sexist. They are excluded, then sexualized, made boring, made out to be stereotypes, then made too unsexy. They are too realistic and unrealistic. Its sexist for them to be weajer than males, but sexist for their characters to be balanced out. Hell ots sexist for mrs pacman to have that stupid bow on her head.
/r/ExRedPill20/05/17 11:47 PM
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Looked again at your post and I think youbare mostly not addressing the root of the problem: My younger (half) brother is 14 years old and is quite a lonely teenager, doesn't have many friends, spends all his time online, struggles at school/socially etc. So long as he is stuck without purpose, or friends and has internet access he will find some sort of echo chamber. The influences you have coted sound rather mild when you consider that in similar situations some teenagers do things like join I…
/r/ExRedPill20/05/17 11:42 PM
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So, are you afraid he's going to become a misogynist or a conservative? Lauren Southern is not alt right, Milo is, sort of. But these labels are pretty stupid. These youtubers are famous for calling out feminists on bullshit, and being right wing (not so much bearing, he doesn't seem politically affiliated). You are going to have to accept your brother may not have the same political ideology as you. That's fine, as long as he isn't becoming an actual nazi or misogynist. And by the way, none of …
/r/ExRedPill20/05/17 11:20 PM
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Henry Rollins
/r/MGTOW20/05/17 08:40 PM
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It's not "normal", but that's through a lot of social conditioning. The fact is a woman bears child and usually spends the time with them at a young age. Doing this and having a full time job at the same time is virtually impossible. So if she's going to have kids, she will need to find a man that can provide financially from pregnancy of the first born to gradeschool age of the last born. That is just life. But between traditional leave it to beaver society and third wave feminism, women are th…
/r/MGTOW05/05/17 07:44 PM
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Getting an early start in sending her boy down the path towards suicide I see.
/r/MGTOW05/05/17 07:27 PM
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So your beef then os with traditional society that treats women and girls as invalids that have no autonomy. Maybe if you raise your daughter to be independent and responsible you will enjoy having her as your daughter. As for feeling cuckholded by the fact that another man has a romantic relationship with your daughter, my advice to the author or anyone seeing it from that point of view is just don't reproduce.
/r/MGTOW05/05/17 07:19 PM
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Not sure what that forum really is, but let's consider that not all marriages end in divorce, and some of thkse are happy marriages. If they are the NAWALTs, then ok.
/r/MGTOW05/05/17 07:09 PM
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I agree with knowledgeovertime, but have some to add. I don't know about the US, but in Canada the police only actively go after the guys who try to pick up prostitutes on the street. On backpage you have more to worry about being scammed, but that doesn't happen a lot either. I think I had read about a sex trafficing police sting of backpage users in the US supposedly targeting pedophiles, so you would be safer going for older women. Another option is massage parlours. But like knowledgeovertim…
/r/MGTOW25/04/17 01:50 AM
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In Canada we used to have 3 provisions. You couldn't be found in a common baudy house whether client or worker or just there by accident. You couldn't live off of the avails of prostitution, which was originally intended to be an anti-pimp law, and you could not solicit in a public place, so advertising and street walking were illegal. This made prostitution virtually illegal, but it was seldom enforced and police were not known to have stings. Sex worker advocacy groups challenged the Canadian …
/r/MGTOW25/04/17 01:37 AM
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Thanks for the clarification. I see the irony now, although its still wrong and that judge and attacker are still pieces of shit. I had never heard of ignorance of the law being a successful defense for criminal behavior, and in most cases including this one I don't think it should be. This goes to show the stupidity of feminists rallying in support of Islam. But it is not mentioned whethwr this woman or her family actually were in support of taking in all these immigrants.
/r/MGTOW24/04/17 07:54 PM
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Troll is troll. I won't argue about what constitutes human rights because all rights are a social construct. May I suggest you post in R/bringbackslavery? How about R/rapeisok? Why don't you go join ISIS you goat fucker?
/r/MGTOW23/04/17 04:04 PM
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From what I can gather of the poor translation that google does here: Man rapes woman brutally. Woman does not consent. Judge believes alleged rape happened and was not consensual but says it wasn't rape because no reason actually given. Man puts this on MGTOW reddit subforum for some reason. Is it to laugh at a woman getting raped and the rapist not getting justice? Is it to direct men to the right country to get away with committing violent crimes against women? Who knows. I think false allega…
/r/MGTOW23/04/17 12:46 AM
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I once heard that women have a much higher tendency to poison men or use weapons in a domestic abuse situation. This makes sense as women are generally weaker than men and tend to select men that are larger. I think it makes sense for more men to ise acid as a weapon than men. A woman's sexual marketplace value is mostly based on her looks. A man's is based on his wealth and reputation first. Looks can play a part. All that said anyone attacking anyone with acid is scum.
/r/MGTOW22/04/17 12:58 AM
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Seems more of a hermit than a MGTOW. And Dr. Manhattan is a liar himself. He lies to his first wife before deserting her.
/r/MGTOW21/04/17 08:50 PM
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I think the reason it is assumed to be gendered is that in the areas where these are common, a woman's looks are her only valuable asset. I am curious now, is it both the victims and the attackersthat are 50/50 men to women?
/r/MGTOW21/04/17 08:45 PM
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An act of cowardice that I have heard is popular in the middle east. The idea is to make the woman unacceptable to any future men. I'd say it's pretty improbable that this is was staged, even with her asking about what if beforehand. GYOW is not about violence and doesn't advocate for violence against women. It is about walking away and finding happiness independently. I'm sure someone will call me a white knight for this, but if this man is guilty of this crime, he is a complete loser and scum.
/r/MGTOW21/04/17 08:40 PM
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Its ultimately up to him.
/r/MGTOW20/04/17 03:54 AM
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Just that you need to understand what you are giving up to remain committed. I'm sure there are guys that are exceptions.
/r/MGTOW18/04/17 02:34 AM
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I would say if you attempt to be MGTOW at 15 you won't likely be successful.
/r/MGTOW17/04/17 03:56 AM
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If you live in a harsh dictatorship globalism isn't going to matter. If you live in a democracy, you wiĺ also have freedom to move and immigrate. Globalism is a threat to that freedom because it represents uniform rules everywhere.
/r/MGTOW17/04/17 03:53 AM
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So, he sounds like he's just winging this one. He doesn't seem to get the "bachelor" side of MGTOW. I would agree with him that at 15 it's too young to swear off relationships. Bill seems like a very purple pill kind of guy. He doesn't mind triggering women but I am not going to shit all over his marriage and life decisions. I hope he stays happy as he is. His reaction is very similar to Jordan Peterson's. I think with a better presentation, Bill could come around to supporting MGTOW.
/r/MGTOW15/04/17 04:22 AM
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I am proud that my country has a newspaper that will take his story seriously. But I am troubled by the state of men in this country.
/r/MGTOW15/04/17 03:48 AM
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If you disagree with a nation state you can always choose to immigrate somewhere better. Not so with a world government.
/r/MGTOW15/04/17 03:38 AM
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I agree with this version of globalism but there is another side which is the emergence of organisations such as the European Union.
/r/MGTOW15/04/17 03:37 AM
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There's a difference between supporting free trade and being a globalist. Globalism as recently has been about democratic governments relinquishing their sovereignty to unelected international bodies such as the European Union. As a libertarian or classical liberal myself, I can support trade agreements that include trade specific rules to allow overall more economic liberty. But an overall hegemonic global government would take away people's "foot vote", and reduce government transparency.
/r/MGTOW15/04/17 03:35 AM
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Globalist libertarians? Those two things are mutually exclusive.
/r/MGTOW14/04/17 04:08 AM
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I've done some bjj. It has nothing to do with MGTOW. No more than basketball has to do with MGTOW.
/r/MGTOW25/03/17 05:13 AM
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How messed up this is. If they were hypothetically successful in decimating male births, then in 1 generation all males left will be alphas, able to have their pick of desperate women. Also to avoid population collapse they would have to open their borders to massive immigration and risk losing their culture. Also like turd flinging monkey points out, there will be not enough men left to drive the economy.
/r/MGTOW18/03/17 01:11 PM
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I bet she goes through peanut butter like mad.
/r/MGTOW18/03/17 04:23 AM
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You are not going to get an STI from a handjob. Same for a "russian finish" or as you are calling it, a boob job. None of the microbes that cause STIs live on the hands or the chest, or the skin in general for that matter. You probably have a UTI by coincidence, or maybe you got a little chaffed. You might have jock itch (not a STD). Probably nothing to worry about.
/r/MGTOW11/03/17 08:26 AM
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There are a lot of deleted and removed comments in that thread. Including widowed and divorced people in the single category effectively makes the study useless. If 1/4 of marriages end in divorce, then they are taking the best cases of the married and adding the worst cases of the married to the single. Then of the 75% that are left in the married category, only a handful of the men have to be happier than when single compared to most of the women who are happier. It's the no true scottsman fal…
/r/MGTOW27/02/17 03:57 AM
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No, if he raises his daughters to be independent, they need not get married, even if they want t have kids. The problem is that female nature is a combination of genetic programming and social programming, and given their mom, they have plenty of both pushing them in the wrong direction, combined with a society that undervalues men and puts women on a pedestal.
/r/MGTOW27/02/17 03:47 AM
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"I've slept with 6 to 9 HUNDRED women." Sure and I've been in 500 street fights and won all of them. WTF was that? You want dating sites to have mandatory pussy pics so you know what you're working for? Yes, there is a difference between women in bed and part of that is the physical qualities of their vaginas. Just live with the fact that you aren't generally going to get to find out about pussys on or before a first date. If you think it's something to strive for you are out lf touch with reali…
/r/MGTOW26/02/17 04:56 AM
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Just another stupid double standard. Generally, the same women who are angry about men doing it to them won't hesitate to do it to men. No, it's not am okay way to end a long relationship, but I can understand if the woman is likely to cry and swing at you.
/r/MGTOW25/02/17 02:34 AM
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Your seriously asking how to just treat women like people? Maybe think of decent women with good character that you don't want to fuck for whatever reason, whether it's because you have a professional relationship, you are related, or you don't find her attractive, and then try and treat other women like that?
/r/MGTOW25/02/17 02:14 AM
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I've watched most of tfm's videos. He has a good scientific sounding interpretation of hypergamy, but there is a difference between providing an explanation, and providing scientific evidence. He is really good when it comes to analysing data and pointing out flawed logic.
/r/MGTOW10/02/17 07:21 PM
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Well I will do some searching for scientific studies of hypergamy. I'm not sure I buy that it is socially constructed, maybe its more of a biological urge manifesting differently in the presense of money or even property rights. I'm not sure what that would have been in hunter gatherer times.
/r/MGTOW10/02/17 06:00 PM
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Thanks I'll look for that.
/r/MGTOW10/02/17 05:56 PM
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Now I see. I don't know much about Australian politics, other than your citizenry were able to depose the carbon tax, which my Canadian government is now taking up. I didn't mean to get your exact nuance on every issue I mentioned, but was more curious on the rationale you had for your label of right wing authoritarian. You actually sound more libertaruan leaning than authoritarian, especially regarding the gay wedding cake stuff. Where I weigh in is let any 2 people claim the same government be…
/r/MGTOW05/02/17 04:48 AM
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Libertarian parties are usually filled with nut jobs, but a libertarian stance can be reasonable.
/r/MGTOW03/02/17 01:25 AM
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Classical liberal is like a libertarian who knows how to pick their battles. I had heard about the libertarian party convention in Canada and how they want to remove seatbelt laws and stop the state from requiring a license to drive. They need to realize that there are so many better things to put your energy towards in getting people liberty.
/r/MGTOW03/02/17 01:24 AM
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If that is how you see it, what would make you a traditional conservative authoritarian? Generally in the west that would mean you want the death penalty, abortions illegalized, and also want sodomy and gay marriage to be outlawed. There are other social issues assocuated with conservative authoritarians, but from what I notice they all seem to be related to Christianity, yet you say you aren't religious or at least believe in secular government.
/r/MGTOW03/02/17 01:17 AM
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I'll try and read on them when I get the time. I remember Keynse from my University Macroeconomics course.
/r/MGTOW01/02/17 05:36 AM
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I don't know why you would like to be one category politically. That implies that you actually see your beliefs as something different from what you would like to be. And that is the first I've ever heard of a super liberal far right person. Perhaps you mean libertarian?
/r/MGTOW01/02/17 05:32 AM
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Agreed 100%. Of course the specofics of the marriage contract are not clear to both parties when signing and prenuptuals are often waived and thrown out of court for being unfair.
/r/MGTOW01/02/17 05:27 AM
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For most people these issues fall into an ideology. In some instances these ideologies contradict, such as those that want more freedom on guns but no freedom on recreational drugs, or those who want the freedom to use drugs but want government imposed restrictions on guns. My way of seeing this ideology as an interaction between contradictory values, mainly liberty, compassion, and utilitarianism.
/r/MGTOW01/02/17 05:24 AM
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It's my view that the far right and the far left both put society ahead of the individual. Fascism being an example of far right and communism the far left (I'm not calling you a fascist, just putting that as the farthest reach of the right). I'm not sure how you would advocate government would regulate our morality, but can you really say we are more moral if we are only that way becaise of laws and punishments that force us to be so moral?
/r/MGTOW01/02/17 05:18 AM
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Me too.
/r/MGTOW01/02/17 05:10 AM
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Aside from the last part, what you describe sounds like "classical liberal" to me. I put the quotations to emphasize the classical part as the word liberal has turned into an all encompassing term for left wing, when classical liberalism was not necessarily so. Classical liberalism was about liberty and small government, and is very similar to libertarian.
/r/MGTOW01/02/17 05:10 AM
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I'll look those up. But the Chile one... was that one of those south American police states that kidnapped and tortured people who were thought to disagree?
/r/MGTOW01/02/17 05:05 AM
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Care to give an example of real socialism that isn't a failure? Perhaps Venezuela, lol? Most leftists point to the democratic socialist countries like the Sweden, which aren't technically socialist, but I'd choose to live there over Cuba.
/r/MGTOW31/01/17 06:04 AM
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While I don't agree with Marxist solutions, Marx's analysis of history and economics was brilliant. I disagree with his narrative of everything being about class, but the mechanics of capitalism are still applicable. I have noticed the way western capitalism keeps people in debt, sells us dreams of materialism only to make us slaves. Family is another obligation that keeps us in check. To me the solution is an individual one. Not to buy things on credit. Not to have kids you can't afford. As I g…
/r/MGTOW31/01/17 05:59 AM
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I think that had a lot more to do with Obama and the "environmental" lobby. I put environmental in quotations because as I see it, a lot of things they fight against including pipines are less hazardous for the environment than the status quo alternatives.
/r/MGTOW31/01/17 04:55 AM
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Me too, although my understanding was they just stamped their approval on one that was already built. I thought I heard they also denied one.
/r/MGTOW31/01/17 04:47 AM
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I like the liberals on some issues. I wish they would go and fix the prostitution laws that the conservatives messed up. I can't say Iike them on anything they've actually done since getting into office.
/r/MGTOW31/01/17 04:40 AM
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Sorry, I just reread your initial post. I think I originally misread it as dismissing all the main issues talked about as a distraction. Now rereading it, it appears you were more speaking about labels and party affiliation. Feel free to clarify or correct me if I got that wrong.
/r/MGTOW31/01/17 04:36 AM
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I agree there. Doesn't mean I won't participate in voting or other parts of democracy.
/r/MGTOW31/01/17 03:54 AM
2

So you think tax and how it is used are trivial? Or the rules governing what you can and can't do?
/r/MGTOW31/01/17 03:53 AM
2

Reminds me of a Sandman video O watched the other day from several years back. He makes the argument that Obamacare is a bachelor tax. I don't live in the US, I'm Canadian, so I don't know a lot of the details about it. He makes the argument that under Obamacare, women's health is paid for more than men's, but Obama had alluded to most men not minding as that goes to their wives and daughters. But for single men and MGTOW, this amounts to a bachelor tax. Sandman made some allusion to mamograms b…
/r/MGTOW29/01/17 11:51 PM
1

I love how you go back to the classic marxist argument "But that's not real socialism" every time you are given an example of socialist failures. That is what happens when people try to instill a "socialist" state. Understand that this is not an accademic debate and it is not worth my effort to come up with sources to prove that dictators hold on to power. Such a statement doesn't merrit sources because it is not contentious.
/r/MGTOW29/01/17 08:36 PM
1

Why can't it just take place on an island somewhere. It seems quite ridiculous to say that communism will work but only when it takes over the whole world. That's quite an all or nothing mentality.
/r/MGTOW27/01/17 07:42 PM
1

Citation? The USSR, Cuba, Laos, the Vietcong, North Korea, China. The list goes on through human suffering and every terrible socialist regime ever. They are all governed by a select few who hold power and benefit immensely at everyone else's expense. Probably the best examples would be a google search of the name Kim Jong Un.
/r/MGTOW27/01/17 07:39 PM
3

It's the women that don't initially reject you that can do the most damage. You should be sending thank you notes to these women. You aren't getting married then divorced with alimony and child support payments. You get to keep what you earn unless you pay for dates.
/r/MGTOW27/01/17 04:58 AM
1

When there is a state in socialist countries, a select few hold power and benefit from it. Why would they ever let go and rescind the benefits they have?
/r/MGTOW26/01/17 10:11 PM
1

Well communism has been tried a number of times. Can you give me an empirical example of the state withering away under communism?
/r/MGTOW26/01/17 05:24 AM
2

Neitsche was an existentialist philosopher whose ideas can be applied to MGTOW. Marx and Lennin were about political theory and political and class structure. As a libertarian/classical liberal, I am at extreme odds with Marx and Lennin, but you could take a Marxist perspective on marriage and the family, eg the man provides the labor and the women exlloit him for resources. This wasn't the case when they provided their fair contributions to the family and would not be able to just leave and sur…
/r/MGTOW24/01/17 04:09 AM
4

ROTFL! This is the best unintentional humor since "Steven Seagal:Law man". OK, you sound like you learned everything you know about sex from bad seduction websites. Just saying based you your reference to your "dick muscles". First, maybe read a high school upper level biology book and you will learn what goes on between the bladder and the prostate during sex, and why you can't just "keep jizzing". Best you can maybe do is prolong your time before ejaculating.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 08:10 AM
2

So of all the other things you changed, did you do it for yourself or to impress women? Do you feel good about yourself now? I ask because you sound like you are putting too much value on approval from women, and possibly overestimate the physical enjoyment of sex. By the way, in men there is nothing physically different about you after you have had sex.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 07:57 AM
2

Women don't like men saying that they are hypergamous. They disagree that society is gynocentric. They don't like pua because they dislike the idea that their motives and behaviours are not unique to each individual. They also see a lot of red pill psychology as over simplistic and an excuse to be an asshole. Also they mostly notice men in the red pill rage stage and see that as all red pill. I have to admit, I see some of their point on the psychology part. While we have a lot of generally true…
/r/askTRP22/01/17 08:25 AM
1

I had this debate with a bachelor on this forum becaise he was shaming "TFLers" meaning true force loneliness. He felt they shouldn't be allowed to call themselves MGTOW. It came down more to monks downvoting his posts about getting pussy. I feel like that really belongs inTRP anyway. Anyway, a TFLer can still be MGTOW if they don't waste time and resources trying to get women. As a brotherhood we should not shame them. After all there is sexual marketplace value (SMV) and actual value (AV). The…
/r/MGTOW21/01/17 04:06 PM
9

I love hard work. I hate silver spoons. Trump is not one of me. Agreed. He was born with a silver spoon and his business practices rely on cheating and government handouts. His style of business does not involve producong anything of value, rather conning others. He's just another manipulator. Wake up. GYOW. The most obvious hint was that he ran for president.
/r/MGTOW21/01/17 03:48 PM
5

Single Mom wants to set an example for her daughter - of how to be a whore.
/r/MGTOW21/01/17 03:29 PM
-1

Me too. I'm of the opinion that in dating there has to be a verbal agreement made before both partners can expect exclusivity, aside from where partners have been dating exclusively for a long period of time, or an engagement is made.
/r/MGTOW18/01/17 06:10 AM
11

Being Alpha really means having won the genetic lottery. It means you are naturally athletic handsome and charming. All the "red pill" betas can do is try to appear more alpha by working out and emulating alpha behaviours, but the reason this doesn't always work is because they have equated corelation with causation. Alphas behave like douchebags because they can do that without getting called in it due to being athletic and good looking and sometimes rich. Women like them for being alpha, not b…
/r/MGTOW16/01/17 06:11 AM
1

I think in Canada you can be charged with something like attempted murder if you have unprotected sex with someone and your hiv positive and you don't disclose your status before having sex. The thing about the spouse not disclosing her status though is a tough ethical dilemma though, as hiv carries a stigma, and forcing disclosure could discourage people from getting tested and make the stigma worse, which is a big part of the reason for the spread of the disease. Obviously on the other hand th…
/r/MGTOW16/01/17 05:56 AM
2

I was told in first aid courses that good Samaritan laws protect those who volunteer to help in first aid situations from law suits. The good Samaritan laws that compell you to help as I understood were a myth created by the show Seinfeld. The only caveat to that are once you begin CPR or AR by choice, you are legally bound to continue until A - The victim begins breathing/heart beating/gains consciousness B - help arrives or someone more competent C - the victim is pronounced dead by a doctor D…
/r/MGTOW16/01/17 05:49 AM
2

Check out the adam ruins diamonds video which kickstarted his show. https://youtu.be/N5kWu1ifBGU Bill Burr also has a good bit on diamonds. The reason why women want them is that their artificial scarcity combined with the man's ability and willingness to provide them shows financial and social class. It also shows that he is a provider. Basically it completely exploits hypergamy.
/r/MGTOW16/01/17 05:37 AM
2

I think that the MGTOW community feels similar to you. Reading through their forums, there are those men who respect traditional women who can be faithful to their man. The reason MGTOW choose to pump and dump or avoid women altogether is that in the event she decides to divorce you, the family court system and society will fall in her side and they see the risk as too great. My advice if you want such a woman is join a traditional community where hypergamy will mean being ostracized, such as mo…
/r/askTRP15/01/17 06:42 AM
3

That and American Beauty. But Fight club is simpler. I would agree with a lot of the analysis of this film, if only the author could keep his opinions out of the analysis. By this I mean calling all of the manosphere "radical", quoting the title of an article for shock value that was obviously written as satire. This and the movie was about rejecting all of blue-pill life including materialism, society's expectations, vanity, self improvement, etc. There were other elements of the movie's symbol…
/r/MGTOW11/01/17 07:07 AM
2

Become a citizen of a country where divorce is not cool like Philippines (divorce allowed for muslims, but near impossible for Catholics). Marry a woman who has no prospect of dual citizenship. Live in that country. Outside of that, try and squirrel away money into an offshore account, so in the event of a divorce your assets are out of the government's reach. Note: this is my best hypothetical answer. I wouldn't recommend this. Also, in lieu of the last year's events, I wouldn't recommend livin…
/r/MGTOW11/01/17 06:36 AM
3

I see and agree with the comments that the government is doing this because it wants men to lead blue-pill serviant lives. The real cause though is the nature of the exchange. The government cannot enforce taxes on prostitution, neither as a service tax or an oncome tax because it is all cash. When people can make money and keep it to themselves without giving a cut to the government, it is smeared and deemed immoral and dangerous.
/r/MGTOW11/01/17 06:24 AM
3

If there is any "human trafficking" on there its minimal. Police and law makers are being really stupid about this. If backpage went away something else would pop up. They need to realise that women are willing to sell sex and men are willing to buy it. But anytime money changes hands in a way that is difficult to tax or track, the government wants to shut it down. The reason all these myths exist is that most hookers and johns don't want to out themselves in order to have a dialogue or influenc…
/r/MGTOW11/01/17 06:05 AM
2

Society didn't force the dumb butch to get drunk every weekend. She is just happy because she never had boundaries growing up so now she's enjoying them.
/r/MGTOW07/01/17 06:03 AM
2

Don't know what to say to that. I don't recall ever being told to work hard fo a trophy wife. I don't k ow this "how do you like me now?" Song but even hearing the title brings up the image of a guy who is letting a woman he liked knkw that she passed him up for material reasons to later have him become a material success, but he doesn't want her anymore becaise she is shallow. Maybe it's just me, but I always took from this sort of thing that it is harder to find women who truly love you for no…
/r/MGTOW07/01/17 05:50 AM
1

Youright.
/r/MGTOW07/01/17 05:41 AM
1

Hillary Clinton is the only other first lady I remember being remotely memorable, and similarly I've heard how Michelle Obama wants to run for president. Other than that I may have heard of Nancy Regan. I wanted to ask you about all the motivational speaches aimed at boys telling them to study hard so they can bang supermodels, because I never got one of those when I was a kid.
/r/MGTOW06/01/17 02:27 AM
1

Box of shit. That's better than my dick in a box.
/r/MGTOW06/01/17 02:20 AM
1

I do agree with you that women should take this to heart, unless their goal in life is to be a mom. More on that in a moment. I do agree that young women should focus on something that matters instead of a crish that is going to be fleeting. Reading for leisure is a sign of intellect, and a noble persuit. So is higher education, but a I mentioned earlier, I have a caveat to this. A woman whose life purpose is to be a mom is a noble thing, but if you are not going to stay in the workforce, then y…
/r/MGTOW06/01/17 02:18 AM
1

Maybe some people have better genetic adaptation to keto than others. I think this is the case with a lot of extreme diets, such as keto, raw vegan, etc. The other part I speculate on is maybe keto can work when you sacrifice a bunch of other things too like coffee, alcohol, tv, staying up late. I'm personally going to give weight loss another try even though I am not noticeably fat, but I am not going to live like a monk to achieve it.
/r/MGTOW05/01/17 08:31 AM
1

Now I get why the others didn't waste their time explaining to you. I won't address everything you said, just the dumbest parts to highlight that you are just willfully ignorant. 1 - You honestly think that a sexually active couple that is sterile is a valid refutation of the biological fact that sex and sexual desire was put there by nature for reproduction. I was using someone who thinks that way as an example of completely poor reasoning or understanding of how instincts work, that an instinc…
/r/MGTOW05/01/17 08:22 AM
2

So Paul Joseph Watson is a doctor now? He's done years of med school and residency? No? So he doesn't really understand depression? I've overcome depression. And I agree with some of PJW's comments regarding fetishizing depression, but unfortunately that goes hand in hand with collectively having compassion. What I can agree with are that we are too quick to give medications, and that a psychiatrist or psychiatrist should make the patient take responsibility for the condition and not revel in it…
/r/MGTOW05/01/17 07:28 AM
16

Finally someone gets what I was saying!
/r/MGTOW05/01/17 07:04 AM
5

It wouldn't work if we got rid of the welfare state and child support. Okay, get knocked up to be a single mom living in poverty groveling with your family for help. Gets you from one hell to another.
/r/MGTOW05/01/17 07:02 AM
1

I responded to the part that I put at the beginning of my response to try to clear up a lack of understanding you seem to have on why men and women have different sexual behaviors in terms of quality vs quantity sexual partners. I put a lot of time into a long response to your OP if you care to read that.
/r/MGTOW05/01/17 06:51 AM
4

I would rather they become useful and independent than leach off the system or a man. But if they are only motivated by the status of their future husband, then the cause is already lost.
/r/MGTOW05/01/17 06:45 AM
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First, that's still hypergamy. I don't deny that she accomplished a lot, its what she said about her motives that I find messed up. Second, she used the first lady position a lot to get in the public eye.
/r/MGTOW05/01/17 06:42 AM
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Yes. And she is so glad she has accomplished all that she has because it led to her being married to the president.
/r/MGTOW05/01/17 06:31 AM
2

My point being she outright knows that young women don't give a shit about what she accomplished, so her motivation to them is to tell them how well they can marry if they develop themselves. Maybe it will work and they will come to realize the importance of studying, but I would rather have a post secondary school full of people there for the right reasons.
/r/MGTOW05/01/17 06:30 AM
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Quote from here. Michelle Obama is soooo glad she studied hard. Not because of her career. Because it enabled her to marry Mr. Right. Mr. High social status. Mr. Ride my coattails. http://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/us_560c00afe4b0af3706decbf5
/r/MGTOW05/01/17 04:58 AM
1

EDIT: To be clear, I don't have a problem with the best men getting to have sex with the best women. That's only logical and rational for the species. What I take umbrage with is the 80%/20% imbalance. That's not good for the species, and why would the top 20% of guys even want women who are not in the 20% also when they could get those better women instead? Answer: I know this sounds a little condescending, but this along with your "takes two to tango" really give off the impression that you do…
/r/MGTOW03/01/17 05:50 AM
1

I am going to try and refute your points by explaining the individual genetic advantage to hypergamy, as well as both the collective and individual genetic advantages of white knighting and gynocentrism, within the context of the paleolithic human. I'll also explain how human societies had until recently evolved to keep these behaviours under control (patriarchy). So the first point you bring up is about reproduction and reproductuve advantage. You seem aware that a tribe of 6 comprised of 1 mal…
/r/MGTOW03/01/17 05:26 AM
1

Again, you can say what you want about me but MGTOW is a philosophy, not a place, that any man can choose to adopt before taking that vow. You come across as telling other guys that they can't choose to be mgtow because they aren't players. Beta and even omega males can choose to be mgtow. Just look at Nichola Tesla or Isaac Newton. Two bachelors who decided to do more with their lives who could be called TFL'ers. In reality, they could have learned to play the game and get married with kids but…
/r/MGTOW02/01/17 12:50 AM
1

Whether I'm a TFLer is a question of semantics and definitions. I have been in relationships and had sex but I don't choose to expend the effort. As I mentioned, it doesn't come easy. But I could have a blue pill lifestyle with a woman if I choose. I have walked away from relationships before or determined to keep them in the friend with benefits zone. How is it that you sre making this about me? I was paraphrasing, but I don't believe for a second that you are the top 20% alpha and that women j…
/r/MGTOW01/01/17 05:04 PM
1

Okay. Anyway, I think I agree that there could be subforums of MGTOW on Reddit as there are on the website I referenced. That is much more reasonable than asking 2 entire demograohics of men to not be MGTOW. Just wondering though if maybe there are already red-pill/seduction forums where you can post about looking for pussy.
/r/MGTOW01/01/17 04:13 AM
1

I never said I was either. Your tone is quite combative. I think you might have misidentified why you get so many downvotes.
/r/MGTOW01/01/17 03:57 AM
2

This guy misses the point entirely. Yes if you are incapable of having a platonic relationship with a woman you are attracted to, then you are immature. He doesn't say that choosing not to makes you immature though, which I would say is a better choice. Next every value he attributes to women or asks men to develop goes against nature and culture, which is a construct of human nature. Romantic relationships between men and women have a courtship period which involves pushing boundaries. And tell…
/r/MGTOW01/01/17 02:06 AM
1

What privileges are those? I honestly don't know. I would not care about being downvoted unless it stopped me from participating in the discussion, but if I were being downvoted in a particular forum, I would move to another forum. There is a certain amount of group think on the internet. In other words forums become echo chambers for certain points of view. To a certain degree this can be useful for having discussion with like minded people, but some rooms will be more restrictive on certain po…
/r/MGTOW01/01/17 01:52 AM
1

Hard to tell. I thought similar about Jian Ghomeshi, but "feminism lol" had quite a lot of details of how a conspiracy was orchestrated by one hater and a bunch of jealous bitches. I think a similar conspiracy is plausible in the Cosby case, but I do think it is more likely that he is a rapist piece of shit.
/r/MGTOW31/12/16 08:53 PM
1

After I commented, I started to read more of the thread, and I see that getting downvoted really bothers you. Myself I don't care. Having my point of view challenged is the point of being in these forums, not collecting upvotes. Popularity on Reddit means nothing in the real world.
/r/MGTOW31/12/16 08:33 PM
1

First, what does tfl'er stand for? "Tough f'in Luck"er? And why cant a tfler be mgtow? I am reasonably good looking but it isn't easy to get laid. What if I say I don't choose to jump through hoops and play the game? If your going to say it's bad for the movement, then what would you have me do, become a blue man? Continue to choose my own path but stay out of forums on MGTOW? The only requirements of MGTOW are that you be a man, and you turn away from the blue-pill marriage based lifestyle. Wha…
/r/MGTOW29/12/16 05:33 PM
1

Sounds more like she was trying to convince you of her opinion, which pretty much everyone does. I don't agree with her convincing you to abstain if you don't vote Hillary, but nothing else you listed was very manipulative. Sending websites and videos that echo her point is not that devious, unless you would rather stay in an echo chamber where noone disagrees with you. And you are comparing having your opinion changed to taking part in genocide. Mostly it has been the left that has been compari…
/r/MGTOW21/12/16 07:02 PM
3

I've never heard Lauren Southern identify as a feminist.
/r/MGTOW21/12/16 06:34 PM
1

Yes, he's singing about being a social outsider to persue being a touring musician. The song can be applied to MGTOW, but its not the intention. The writer os James Hetfield. I'm pretty sure he got married, but nit certain. But you would be hard pressed to find a red pilled rock musician. They are all used to women fawning over them. Kurt Cobain figured out what was up but his life ended due to addiction before he could confront this problem. Unless you listen to the conspiracy theories which sa…
/r/MGTOW19/12/16 03:15 AM
2

Wherever I may roam is more about being on the road in a band. I would say "Heart Shaped Box" by Nirvana/ Kurt Cobain. A cautionary tale about being stuck in a bad relationship like a "magnet tarpit trap".
/r/MGTOW19/12/16 03:04 AM
13

That's what I was thinking. Season 20 butters is some mix of MGTOW and MRA.
/r/MGTOW19/12/16 02:46 AM
1

And how do you propose anything will improve when the only reward for beciming more able is to be given more work and responsibility? Do you think people spend years educating themselves just so that they can be more useful to their comrades?
/r/MGTOW13/12/16 03:20 AM
1

Well if you think you should be given resources exclusively according to your needs, and given work and responsibility exclusively according to your needs, then I'm sure in your mind the world owes you everything.
/r/MGTOW07/12/16 02:11 AM
4

How about drinking bleach? I've heard that also cures oneitis.
/r/MGTOW05/12/16 07:44 AM
3

He won't change the minds of the people who already took sides, but may change the minds of those currently on the fence.
/r/MGTOW05/12/16 07:37 AM
3

No. Marxism is about taking what isn't yours through government. It rewards the lame and stifles creativity. MGTOW is a response to gynocentrism. Everything women are getting is from claiming to be more oppressed and lobbying for government support, in a way that can only be described as marxist. MGTOW is about men exercusing their liberty and choice to carve a new path for themselves. That is something that would not be available under marxism/socialism /communism/democratic socialism /social d…
/r/MGTOW04/12/16 07:40 AM
1

That's pretty specific. 5 years exactly of just how much money? If they didn't have kids, just how would it be established and measured that one sacrificed for the benefit of the other? It just sounds like court sanctioned extortion to me.
/r/MGTOW20/11/16 11:42 PM
2

LoL, what's so awful about Flo? The only thing I can see is that some MGTOW have a problem with women who are employed.
/r/MGTOW19/11/16 04:38 PM
2

It's a possibility, but you are making quite a stretch to assume so. Imagine you go to report you had been robbed and the police and everyone you know come up with alternate possibilities of how you actually tried to give the attackers your money, or decided to sell them something and later regretted it. This line of thinking can be applied to anything. The article said nothing about drinking or making invitations. All it said was that there was video footage. You may think the fact they saw the…
/r/MGTOW19/11/16 04:24 PM
8

Alimony is bullshit. It's not fair either way. The thing is once it starts to unfairly affect women, they will look at scrapping it. Look at the man in that clip. Why does be need that money for investments? Can't he raise his own money? Maybe there was something about their relationship that wasn't in the 2 minute clip. I'm not sure where alimony came from but I think it is from back when women weren't expected to work and there wasn't any "no fault" divorce. It was probably originally a measur…
/r/MGTOW19/11/16 09:53 AM
2

So it sounds like this woman is going to have to prove beyond a shadow of a doubt that she was raped in order to get out of her adultery charge. The thing here is that she may get charged even if they find it was rape. I mean their law may apply incases of rape. I'm sure they will blame this woman for not being covered completely, and not being escorted by a man she can trust. If it was rape, she was probably targeted by these 2 Britons as she was visiting with her mother and did not have a husb…
/r/MGTOW19/11/16 09:40 AM
1

You are the only commenter that didn't assume that she is lying or a whore. One commenter even said that it was hypergamy to raise the £25000 for legal fees from family friends and donations, as though any 25 year old has that much money lying around. The commenters here are doing the opposite of what is done in the west when a woman makes a rape accusation. Normally people asume the accusations to be true, often to the peril of the accused. Here apparently if a woman makes a claim that she was …
/r/MGTOW19/11/16 09:20 AM
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I'm barely mgtow, but I'd say its about how women are hypergamous by their biological nature, and our current society encourages the behaviour. That and this sote does seem to have a lot of complaints, but then again I haven't been through what a lot of the other redditors here have.
/r/MGTOW30/10/16 07:37 AM
3

It can be rude to tell anyone to smile, especially if you don't know them and have no idea what they are going through. It's not abuse, it shouldn't be illegal, and it's usually said by well intentioned people. But it's still rude because it is presumptive, and you are asking them to put their needs behind your own.
/r/MGTOW29/10/16 06:53 PM
1

So you want to write about MGTOW but you want our thoughts? What I know about writing is that writing what you know works best. Write about your personal experience doing it, your thoughts on it, etc.
/r/MGTOW29/10/16 04:29 AM
1

Yes. PUA stuff is b.s. because they confuse cause and effect. Not everything they advise is kissing her ass, such as backhanded compliments, acting cocky, and being confident. The question is how it's perceived when an attractive rich successful guy does it and how it's perceived when an unattractive working class poor guy does it. Think of the Seinfeld episode where George tries to pick up a woman by opening with feeling her jacket and asking if it's Kashmere. When an attractive rich guy does i…
/r/MGTOW29/10/16 04:08 AM
1

Yes. PUA stuff is b.s. because they confuse cause and effect. Not everything they advise is kissing her ass, such as backhanded compliments, acting cocky, and being confident. The question is how it's perceived when an attractive rich successful guy does it and how it's perceived when an unattractive working class poor guy does it. Think of the Seinfeld episode where George tries to pick up a woman by opening with feeling her jacket and asking if it's Kashmere. When an attractive rich guy does i…
/r/MGTOW29/10/16 04:08 AM
2

So he had a pet name for him. And she played a "prank" on him that likely had a severe impact on his weight loss. She then thinks it funny. Haha, made him feel like shit and adversely affected his health!
/r/MGTOW27/10/16 05:17 AM
1

First, I honestly believe that I am at least average. That said I don't think it is all that important, just as tightness is not the be all and end all of a good pussy. Women may use size as an insult to men they dislike because they are confident that it will damage his ego. But aside from extreme size issues, her pleasure is mostly based on how attracted and horny she is. Consider that the ancient Greeks and Romans made otherwise idealized anatomically correct statues that all had micropenises…
/r/MGTOW27/10/16 04:49 AM
2

Yes I agree. I would guess I'm about average and have never felt that size is an issue. Physically, I think women look at almost everything else first. Dick sizes for men is more something in our own heads, and that we compare mentally. It's like how women compare who has the best purse when men couldn't care less.
/r/MGTOW21/10/16 04:33 AM
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