frecklie Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	What are some of your go-to witty remarks? Do you live in the 1980s?	/r/seduction	01/11/24 10:57 PM
2	Do different men peak at different ages? Probably because you’re a whiny child? Bemoaning having to be patient on the internet? Why would any woman want a “man” like that lol.	/r/seduction	29/10/24 04:34 AM
2	Do different men peak at different ages? Ah I see! Well i think you already have a great perspective on it. All I will add is that the secret sauce in my opinion is to learn to love “flipping” people’s opinions on what they’re into. There’s a competitive juice in there that it’s very gratifying to overcome initial misgivings/prejudice.	/r/seduction	28/10/24 11:52 PM
3	Do different men peak at different ages? Most of the hottest and most successful white women I have known did not get married until their 30s, so I think you're just fine brotha	/r/seduction	28/10/24 09:04 PM
11	Do different men peak at different ages? The cultural norms of different societies are what I cannot speak to, but in most places a good looking man with a good career has absolutely no problem getting married in his 30s.	/r/seduction	28/10/24 05:24 PM
82	Do different men peak at different ages? Absolutely they do. Also it’s hard to know when your peak really is. You’re at your peak SO FAR but in my late 30s now I feel like I get more attention than ever. What was George Clooneys peak? Legitimately for some men it’s their 50s. This is one way our life is much easier as men. Women do not have this luxury, unfortunately, and society/men would almost never say women peak at whatever age. Just look at the discrepancy with actors, Pitt and DeCaprio are still sex symbols in their 50s and 60s.…	/r/seduction	28/10/24 03:56 PM
19	Most couples you see are together because of circumstances. Hah bro every hot girl I know has been hit on constantly their entire life. Skillfully and unskillfully. Every iteration.	/r/seduction	20/10/24 01:12 AM
2	Good girls are usually picked up from the field by age of 25 at most What country do you live in? Maybe you’re just blinded by your culture.	/r/seduction	17/10/24 07:27 AM
7	Good girls are usually picked up from the field by age of 25 at most You do not know shit about women little buddy	/r/seduction	17/10/24 06:16 AM
7	Is inviting someone over on a first date a bad move? Well said. It’s much scarier for them than it is for us! Gotta have empathy for that.	/r/seduction	09/10/24 03:23 PM
1	Why do i struggle to find women to date/sleep with Are you trying to get with primary English speakers? If so you might want to take some higher level english courses, read some english literature, or watch some films (ideally with great banter) and practice mimicing their cadence. I would start with doing some brave and honest self analysis about what communications are failing right now. Text? Phone calls? In person convos? Where is the fail point, so that you can try and improve that area the most.	/r/seduction	07/10/24 04:44 PM
2	Does anyone else experience anxiety when losing a fwb? Maybe your gut is trying to tell you something about what you are craving in life right now. Maybe a relationship for a while might feel nice.	/r/seduction	07/10/24 03:35 PM
2	Why do i struggle to find women to date/sleep with Based on this meandering series of run-on sentences, I would guess you suck at texting and/or are a poor communicator. And as a result, you fumble the bag.	/r/seduction	07/10/24 01:01 PM
7	Moving was the worst thing I have done that affected my game/sucess with women I would… i would consider bailing. There’s so many details I don’t know but just consider the overall culture of the place beyond dating. If that culture speaks to you, if you feel you can be happy there, then stay! If not..	/r/seduction	06/10/24 07:26 PM
96	Moving was the worst thing I have done that affected my game/sucess with women Don’t discount number 5. It’s actually very stressful to move and I bet you are a lot less confident than you were before. Give yourself some grace, I bet things start to really perk up in the next 12 months. Focus on making friends and getting to know your new city.	/r/seduction	06/10/24 03:25 PM
16	How to break up with a woman with the least damage for her? If possible. Because my child, when you grow up one day you will realize that it is verrry challenging to find a great person to be with. You will hope your woman is intelligent, fun to talk to, loyal, kind, of sound mind, good with money, gets along with your family, a good mother, and of course - attractive. And compared to those huge things, her having a period of being promiscuous is TRIVIAL. Trivial. Absolutely so unimportant compared to the mannnny key factors I listed above. I am in my mid thirties an…	/r/seduction	06/10/24 08:00 AM
18	How to break up with a woman with the least damage for her? If possible. Worrying about a promiscuous past is childish first of all. But you do you man, if that’s a dealbreaker for you.. sure. As for breaking up with her, there is no nice way to do it. Tell her you care about her but that you are not compatible. Tell her this has been on your mind for a long time and that your decision is final. Tell her you need a break from contact for a while and then block her number and don’t talk to her again, at least for several months. Be sincere, firm, compassionate but fin…	/r/seduction	06/10/24 06:38 AM
9	I just moved to Seattle here from Vancouver, Canada and am so far disappointed. You have whiny lil bitch vibes. This guy gives you great advice and this is your response. Your problem is you are struggling to adapt to you a new place. You don’t need seduction advice you need to grow as a person and discover if you are capable of thriving in this new place.	/r/seduction	21/09/24 04:19 AM
1	Why is sex such a taboo? Imagine if we could just simply ask the person if they sex like "hey we should have sex sometime?" instead, we play these games and make it complicated How absolutely dastardly of them, why those absolute charlatans!	/r/seduction	04/09/24 07:24 PM
5	Losing a high interest girl due to playing it cool/inaction That sucks dude I’m very sorry to hear that. I wonder if maybe some of your standards are perhaps too high and some maybe too low. There may be some selection bias at work. Fwiw I think your ideal criteria is very good, and that kind of quality is exactly what you need.	/r/seduction	28/06/24 12:51 AM
15	Losing a high interest girl due to playing it cool/inaction Spoken like a man who has never landed a marlin 🤷‍♂️	/r/seduction	27/06/24 11:41 PM
49	Losing a high interest girl due to playing it cool/inaction The best women, the ones we should all want, have had 'cool' guys treat them as replaceable and they are over that shit - almost universally. Because they respect themselves and are intelligent enough to recognize the pattern. One thing this sub does not prepare young men for is how to catch a Marlin. Instead folks talk about here's how you can catch a bass every weekend. For wife material you can take your bass fishing advice and cram it.	/r/seduction	27/06/24 05:48 PM
13	After sex increase attraction I disagree with most of the commentators, I’d say since the sex was already great you should focus on building your non sexual connection. Women can be very nervous about the idea that sex is all we want from them, so you want to defuse that bomb. I would make sure your place is very clean and pleasant, have her over, cook for her and talk to her. Show interest in who she is as a person and find out how much you enjoy talking to her. Be curious, courteous, and see if you like each others minds a…	/r/seduction	09/06/24 04:24 PM
11	Mastering this Area is Very important You are definitely making a fundamental mistake if you think this woman is a teachable point for female psychology lol bro - she gets married, within a few months puts out fake rape charges, loses in court and then gets married again? That woman is unhinged and a scum bag. She is not a template for understanding women’s motivations. There are unethical and unreliable people of both genders and you must avoid getting involved with them. There’s your lesson.	/r/seduction	09/06/24 01:49 PM
21	Will a guy expect sex if I invite him to a movie at my house? Just as a follow up I think it's key that you tell him you like him but that you are the kind of woman that likes to take it slow and get to know someone first. Clarity is key, you don't want him to think you are cooling on him.	/r/seduction	30/05/24 10:31 PM
8	She ain’t replying to me 😭 Act bad to you? Lol you never talked to her ever and you hit her up out of the blue on snap, and you just expect her to be happy to hear from you? Cmon man, you have not earned the time of day. Let it go and work on making sure the next time you like someone you actually speak to them and get to know them. Reminder: you don’t even know this girl, literally she is a stranger that you “stared at up and down” (ew) so I suggest letting this go and meeting new people.	/r/seduction	28/05/24 02:01 AM
15	Holy fuck. American girls are incredibly masculine Welcome to the big leagues! Lets destroy your assumptions for a bit - Austria is about 84k sq. km and has a population of 9 million - The USA is 9.8 MILLION sq. km and a population of 333 million. We have as many square km as you have people. So your statements about what American women are like.. lets review. On a visit in whatever part of the country you are in, whatever bars you have gone to, you have decided that you understand this CONTINENT that dwarfs you in every single way. You have no …	/r/seduction	02/05/24 06:32 PM
1	Where to look for high income women? Your situation is you are a whiner.	/r/seduction	25/04/24 06:57 PM
1	Wow. Your mentality is good man, you’re gonna be fine. One of the keys is to recognize that this girl did not reject you. There’s nothing about you. That is inherently flawed. There are some healthy changes that you can make, that you have control over, and they will improve your success in the future.	/r/seduction	19/04/24 07:42 PM
2	Wow. I mean this is your answer dude. You got her all the way back to your place and she was like ew I'm bouncing. You need to elevate your cleanliness and have a cute space. So many chicks if you befriend them will tell horror stories of dishes piled up and clothes everywhere etc. So many come to this board looking to learn how to get better at picking up chicks when what they really need is to elevate themselves. Clean unwrinkled clothing, a tidy home, not being smelly, having a bed that they WANT …	/r/seduction	19/04/24 05:51 PM
4	Yes, You Can Approach Women In the Gym Honestly cringe	/r/seduction	03/03/24 05:12 PM
103	How do people manage to have sex with someone they don't know well? Just my two cents as a man but most of my female friends and my current partner don’t enjoy casual sex the way men do. I know a few women who are the exception to the rule, but largely i think men are just wired differently and can enjoy sex without as much need for an emotional connection. It’s natural and not weird that you want an emotional connection before sex. Take your time, go at a pace you feel good about. Cool guys who like you enough will wait (within reason) and that’s who you want a…	/r/seduction	03/03/24 08:02 AM
1	JUST BE YOURSELF is the most brilliant and simultaneously the STUPIDEST advice on the planet, if you don't have a clue what it means! Unfortunately CAPITALIZING every other word does not get your ideas across well - being SUCCINCT is challenging, yet if you ever hope to make a compelling point, it is CRUCIAL.	/r/seduction	05/06/23 11:35 PM
1	A simple strategy I stole from the Art of War. Damn! How about therapy in addition to the medication, has that not helped either? That's rough that you are still experiencing these symptoms despite the high dosage :(	/r/seduction	04/05/23 04:30 PM
1	A simple strategy I stole from the Art of War. You may have untreated ADHD, something treatable that is connected to your brain chemistry. Working with a therapist, considering medication, there are things you can do besides white knuckling.	/r/seduction	04/05/23 11:34 AM
6	[deleted by user] Dude people are so negative on here lol, I think a lot of the responders have at LEAST as much insecurity as you. "You won't keep her if you have to post on here" etc. Let me tell you a secret as someone that is married to a woman that makes 6 figures and looks good - they don't have a lot of serious suiters. I was shocked when I got to know her similarly successful friend group that they really struggle to find men that fit their qualifications and are actually gunning for them. Many many men a…	/r/seduction	28/10/22 05:13 PM
4	I’m confident in myself and feel like a total package man — but my marketing sucks. Others are saying it, you probably posted here because you know it already: there is something wrong that you do not see. Rather than pile on though I want to encourage you to approach this like a study project. You need to educate yourself on a challenging topic, pretend that you are studying for a serious exam - because motherfucker you ARE. I officially challenge you to do 2 of the following: Get in therapy - talk to a professional and see if it helps you better understand the things you are …	/r/seduction	06/10/22 05:09 PM
1	How to let girls know u broke broke? Spooooky dude, can you let us know if you peed in yr shorts when you saw the tattoo (ik this is not the subreddits topic)	/r/seduction	06/10/22 04:43 AM
2	How to let girls know u broke broke? Hahahaha wtff it’s a incredibly fun place full of beautiful ppl. Cool it on the Bible studies and go for a visit sometime.	/r/seduction	06/10/22 04:39 AM
9	[deleted by user] Ok so just to be clear, you claim to regularly have penetrative sex upwards of two hours… And those times when you only last, say, an hour and a half, you equate that to a pathetic coffee break jerk off… and, let’s see, girls love it and it’s easy.	/r/seduction	30/09/22 05:34 AM
17	[deleted by user] There are definitely some girls that can go that long, they are special and rare and memorable. But very rare, and it often takes time to get there. People would be well served to laugh off the advice of “fuck her for two hours” it’s a bragging attempt. Have a great time with her and she will WANT you to spend the night - now that is true.	/r/seduction	30/09/22 05:26 AM
85	[deleted by user] I mean stretching out the foreplay is obviously huge but in real life I've never fucked anyone for 30 minutes without them starting to get sore and tired, non porn stars just do not go fuck for 2 hours.	/r/seduction	29/09/22 11:44 PM
0	Women, why you do that? Super simple just live an interesting life!	/r/seduction	15/09/22 05:41 PM
1	My gf cheated on me. Here's what I learned So let's review - you have plenty of sex, fiction but lets go with it, yet you are mad at women being 'whores' because they have sex. So you dislike them for behaving like you do, right? So would you describe yourself as a hypocrite?	/r/seduction	13/09/22 06:14 PM
1	My gf cheated on me. Here's what I learned You just mad homie, you want sex from women bad enough to be on the seduction reddit, but you are somehow mad that they're 'whores' for also wanting sex. Make it make sense.	/r/seduction	12/09/22 11:38 PM
1	My gf cheated on me. Here's what I learned If your subreddit is upvoting "most women are whores" from some loser like daddysgotanew, your subreddit has problems.	/r/seduction	12/09/22 09:41 PM
14	My gf cheated on me. Here's what I learned Part 2: Finally a true red flag - This is a huge one and you must always watch for this. When people care about you they introduce you to their inner circle. If they have parent issues or something they are ashamed of there can be some exceptions, but generally people introduce bf/gfs to their tribe because they are PROUD. And that is positive. If that doesn’t happen it’s very possible that they are not feeling positive about the relationship and you deserve better. Only date people who are exci…	/r/seduction	12/09/22 07:05 AM
25	My gf cheated on me. Here's what I learned Did he or did he just take a ton of bad conclusions out of this? OP I am sorry this happened to you and it HAS happened to me - but you need to check yourself and this echo chamber of a subreddit is not going to help. I’m in my 30s, just got married, and 6 years ago in my 20s I was cheated on by a long time partner. Totally fucked me up for years. It’s very natural to feel angry and upset but you are still wrong about some things: Long distance - can be a killer and should not be done lightly - …	/r/seduction	12/09/22 06:52 AM
-7	My gf cheated on me. Here's what I learned This shit is so funny to me - here you are on a seduction subreddit dude, what are you? A skanky lil man whore. Or even more likely, a skanky man whore wannabe. You would brag openly about a high body count I’m sure, yet you hate the idea of ending up with a “whore”. Why do you get to do stuff but other people can’t? Maybe sex is just fun and it’s hard to find someone to be with forever - honestly the best sex you will have is with experienced women. Not that you’d know that.	/r/seduction	12/09/22 06:37 AM
1	[deleted by user] I honestly remember when this sub was interesting, now we get shit like this. Imagine yourself as the main character of a super hero movie!! Lol who is the target of this, 14 year olds? What adult man is so broken that they need to place themselves into this headspace to talk to women - and why should we cater to those men?	/r/seduction	26/07/22 09:24 AM
-3	How to handle this weird rejection Probably because in her fantasy you weren’t such an angry dude.	/r/seduction	18/05/22 04:14 PM
2	[deleted by user] “Basically I am terribly afraid” - OPs opening words sum up everything that followed. The problem is not that you missed the human experience bro - it’s that you are afraid of failure and judgement. You must try and fail and try again if you want anything to work in life. If therapy can help you start having the bravery to try and fail to connect with people, do it.	/r/seduction	11/05/22 06:42 AM
1	[deleted by user] That’s fair! Hey no judgement you do you. I’m 35 and engaged and feel like my appetite for the single life decreased as I got older. I wanted a real partner as time went on.	/r/seduction	19/04/22 05:15 PM
1	[deleted by user] Ok but maybe consider letting yourself off the hook if your mind changes after 30. No shame in it.	/r/seduction	19/04/22 01:02 PM
6	Am I delusional for thinking i can score hot women despite being short, skinny, mediocre job. Should i settle? Well this may be the wrong subreddit to post this, but I'm 35 and getting married and never been happier - and I think yes you should settle, but not in the way you think. The rarest commodity on earth, one that everyone all the time is looking for, is a partner that truly sees your value and can help you get the life you're looking for. Full stop everyone wants this and it's the hardest thing to find and the ultimate goal. Getting one of those people finally in your life, is the POINT of the r/…	/r/seduction	21/03/22 06:53 PM
5	[deleted by user] Honestly I’m friends still with girls I desired back in the day and it’s great. They bring value to my life, full stop, and are a great sounding board for girl stuff I don’t understand. The key is that I am in a happy relationship and my ego is not wounded by them. It was rocky for sure at times but once I held up my end of the bargain and accepted that a friend was all I would get - it’s been great. Now I’m engaged and I have a richer social fabric too - so don’t say no matter what	/r/seduction	12/03/22 02:49 AM
2	This girl who I’ve wanted since I was in 8th grade ( she was a senior in high school at the time ) told me her friend wants to have a three some with me. Bro I’m happy for you but you need to educate yourself about paragraphs	/r/seduction	24/12/21 02:59 AM
3	[deleted by user] Yes but you’ve somehow misplayed the situation a bit and you need to course correct. She’s lost some interest, perhaps because you were too overtly interested or she learned more about you and found some concerns. You need to be non-needy, fun, and lock in a date - and make it a great one. Your worst enemy here is being overly concerned about whether she likes you or not. You have to basically let that go and avoid blowing your chance.	/r/seduction	11/11/21 01:54 AM
3	26 years old. Making big changes in my life. Never had GF, Sex or Kiss. But that’s changing. Should I tell women about my lack of experience ? I get that. It does hurt. But listen you’re not on this sub because you’re standing still! Be generous with yourself, you can and will improve. I did. You’re trying and that is where improvement comes from. Remember that the fictional characters we all love the most are NOT the naturals, they’re the ones who strive and struggle and get better. You’re a protagonist in this man, be a gentleman and put the work in and you can’t fail :)	/r/seduction	29/10/21 03:10 AM
416	26 years old. Making big changes in my life. Never had GF, Sex or Kiss. But that’s changing. Should I tell women about my lack of experience ? I’m going to zag away from the others and advise you NOT to reveal this until you get to know someone well. People will understand you burying the lead if they already like you, and they may write you off early if they realize you haven’t had success in the past. They’ll wonder why. No need to create those questions until you have been on several dates, just say you have been dating and are looking for something serious now. Simple.	/r/seduction	28/10/21 11:56 PM
15	[deleted by user] I’ll give you an example. In my home town a few years back a criminal case came through that we talked about a lot in my self defense course. A jacked dude, probably ‘ungodly lightning fast’, was out at the bar and had an altercation with another patron who was trying to chat up the same girl. Jacked dude showed off those self defense skills and the other patron left the bar, bitterly aware that he could never beat our guy in a fight. Story over? Sadly no. This disgruntled patron went home, got …	/r/seduction	24/09/21 09:18 PM
11	[deleted by user] I’m gonna go ahead and disagree with Rambo here. Generally I do think that being fit and formidable looking is a good deterrent, but in the real world the most crucial skill to your safety is de-escalation skills. By FAR the most common issue you run into going out regularly is not hardened criminals that are targeting you, but instead dudes with a lot of pride and a bad attitude looking for someone to challenge their masculinity. It is far more relevant and important to learn how to de-escalate…	/r/seduction	24/09/21 09:05 PM
2	[deleted by user] Uh oh, calling /r/iamverybadass/ this guy is ungodly lightning fast!!	/r/seduction	24/09/21 08:55 PM
23	I quit I'm sure you are going to get a lot of advice here on dating but I do think that there are some challenges that are harder to face, and more CRITICAL to address, than dating challenges. I believe you need to find peace and self worth in your own heart before dating opportunities will truly open to you. Your mood is one thing, and listen I believe you that it's a hindrance, but it's not the main issue. It is that core sense of purpose, that 'vitality' that you feel is missing. You need that. Why …	/r/seduction	01/09/21 11:38 PM
9	[deleted by user] Yeah you’ve been really cool. Love your attitude, at this point the ball is in his court. I will say I think it is just as likely he’s anxious about being a let down to you as it is he just isn’t interested any more. In spite of your comments he may have previous trauma he’s working through. Imagine if you will that he struggles with this regularly and a previous ex criticized him for it or cited it as a reason they wouldn’t work out - he may be scared to end up in that situation again you know?…	/r/seduction	30/08/21 05:16 PM
3	Where to meet women if don’t drink and no online apps? Keep up appearances?! He needs friends in order to build social skills and demonstrate he can cultivate a relationship	/r/seduction	11/08/21 03:51 PM
1	Where to meet women if don’t drink and no online apps? Yes sometimes people have to suck it up: when they are in a life threatening situation and NEED to act and think calmly or they could die. But that is RARE af. The rest of the time sucking it up represents not dealing with your mental health needs, and will only result in more pain down the line. If suck it up is your philosophy, you are going to break down eventually, I can promise you.	/r/seduction	11/08/21 03:50 PM
34	Where to meet women if don’t drink and no online apps? Yeah, exactly. OP can I ask you a real question? Why should a woman WANT to meet you? No drinks, you are ‘working on’ your finances, worst of all you “don’t care for friends” - what do you bring to the table? Try and take yourself out of a selfish mindset, thinking about what YOU want, and think about what you are bringing as a prospective date or partner. You don’t sound like you need to be working on your seduction as much as you need to work on your personality.	/r/seduction	11/08/21 03:57 AM
7	Where to meet women if don’t drink and no online apps? Can I ask you a real question? Why should a woman WANT to meet you? No drinks, you are ‘working on’ your finances, worst of all you “don’t care for friends” - what do you bring to the table? Try and take yourself out of a selfish mindset, thinking about what YOU want, and think about what you are bringing as a prospective date or partner. You don’t sound like you need to be working on your seduction as much as you need to work on your personality.	/r/seduction	11/08/21 03:56 AM
9	How many sexual partners have you been with? What age did you get the most hookups? So what changed? What kind of physical shape are you in compared to when you were 23? Career?	/r/seduction	11/05/21 10:54 PM
6	Game is really just flirting It's honestly a pretty good analogy.	/r/seduction	07/01/20 11:55 AM
6	Getting Laid Will Not Solve Your Problems Let me help you with this: Jordan Peterson isn't gonna solve your problems either.	/r/seduction	04/11/19 06:11 PM
664	Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life. Well you're supposed to approach DIFFERENT women..	/r/seduction	04/09/19 10:01 PM
25	There’s this beautiful girl in college whom i’ve been dying to date for a while. Whenever i catch sight of her, it’s like i lose my balance. I do wanna approach and establish more of a connection. Yet, there’s no common ground that i can think of. So have you people got any idea how to move forward? I don't agree with this, personally. Walking up to someone and saying you're into them is tough for women, potentially creepy. Also I would argue that being into someone without ever having spoken with them is not something you want to communicate. I think OP needs to find a way to get into her orbit - take a class with her, find a topic to spark a conversation over, or best would be to befriend her friend.	/r/seduction	21/12/18 02:27 PM
2	Why Tinder Is A Waste of Time For Most Men Everyone has standards - maybe yours are too high. Yes some women are going to end up with the alpha guy, the rich guy - but those women are typically VERY attractive. If that is who you're after, you may just be shooting out of your league.	/r/seduction	05/12/18 05:57 PM
-1	Why Tinder Is A Waste of Time For Most Men Whoever is down voting her is ridiculous. You can disagree but her opinion is completely valid.	/r/seduction	05/12/18 05:54 PM
1	24 Techniques and Mindsets that Immediately Attract Females Ok now this posture is good, but its getting the head backwards and squared over the body that is key. As you can see from this picture, a forehead foreward pose with a dropped chin is still incorrect. https://i.ytimg.com/vi/GNf8Mfrzf-Q/hqdefault.jpg	/r/seduction	17/07/18 05:45 AM
20	24 Techniques and Mindsets that Immediately Attract Females Sorry, have to disagree with your criticism here. I'm interested in learning to be retarded and this was the best guide yet.	/r/seduction	16/07/18 10:35 PM
11	24 Techniques and Mindsets that Immediately Attract Females Also we know that dropping your chin contributes to bad posture. A lot of bad posture habits involve the head being too far forward. Leaning your head and shoulders back is key.	/r/seduction	16/07/18 10:34 PM