Do different men peak at different ages?

dgusain · 2024-10-28T15:51:43+00:00

Yes.

frecklie · 2024-10-28T15:56:31+00:00

Absolutely they do. Also it’s hard to know when your peak really is. You’re at your peak SO FAR but in my late 30s now I feel like I get more attention than ever. What was George Clooneys peak? Legitimately for some men it’s their 50s.

This is one way our life is much easier as men. Women do not have this luxury, unfortunately, and society/men would almost never say women peak at whatever age. Just look at the discrepancy with actors, Pitt and DeCaprio are still sex symbols in their 50s and 60s.

On your last point just get married when you are ready and at no other point. Your family has no say, they can try and influence but they will love you regardless of your choice.

Practical-Macaroon38 · 2024-10-28T16:29:13+00:00

Yes but the range all depends on attitude, genetics & lifestyle.

If we’re speaking about physical peak, such as their looks, then for most men it’ll be anywhere from the age of 20 to 35.

Otherwise, when it comes to their quality of life then it depends on what they’ve built & how much effort they’re putting into themselves, as a whole.

Let’s take 2 guys for example, Bob & Alex.

Bob:

Was the captain of his college football team. Got with every girl in college. Was very social & did well in school.

Eventually drops out, starts smoking pot all day, loses all of his friends, works a shitty job & never gets married.

Alex:

Was a complete loser in college, barely having any confidence & got with only 1 ugly girl.

He graduates, focuses on building a career, excels in it, starts working out a lot, travels more, becomes more confident & makes a ton of new connections. Eventually marries a beautiful girl.

Bob probably peaked in college whereas Alex peaked years after college, it could’ve even been in his 30s or 40s.

So we can see how a lot of it comes down to your attitude in life & what you’re willing to do for yourself.

thebrownmancometh · 2024-10-28T16:40:06+00:00

I haven’t even begun to peak

NoMoassNeverWas · 2024-10-28T17:48:40+00:00

38, getting more attention from women than I ever had. That's also having to do with fact that I am more confident.

ASleepyLawStudent · 2024-10-28T16:07:04+00:00

Yes.

You’re partially responsible for when you peak and when your “promiscuous” period of life is. You also choose whether you want to be an adulterer or not. You’re speaking as if life just happens to you rather than you taking ownership of how you are. You can just come out and say “I don’t want to get married because I think I’ve hit my peak and I want to be promiscuous at this time”

Own it, bro.

Seductive_allure3000 · 2024-10-28T17:27:09+00:00

I feel like Men improve with age

I'm 32 but I feel like I understand Women better than I did in my 20s.

FakeSafeWord · 2024-10-28T17:35:34+00:00

Nope, everyone peaks exactly at 5:22pm eastern on the third Thursday after they turn 24.

MO_drps_knwldg · 2024-10-28T16:02:31+00:00

Concur with others. I believe guys can still have success, but they will peak at a certain age. I peaked in my late thirties, some guys peak in their late twenties, some into forties or beyond.

JayinHK · 2024-10-28T16:07:02+00:00

You answered your own question

MozlemBoy · 2024-10-28T17:03:50+00:00

I'll add a comment here that it isn't just physical and career that peaks, but also charisma. I feel WAY more charismatic now than I ever did in college. Something as simple as making comments to strangers, I do a lot more of it now. Ever seen Bald and Bankrupt? Not saying I'm anywhere near his level (dude's a legend) but I've exhibited more of that quality as of late.

Some of it might be attributable to the corporate life I lived so far, where you have to be very particular about your words, as a result of which your verbals just get way better.

Regardless, super excited about the next couple years!

OriginalMandem · 2024-10-28T17:37:01+00:00

I'm 47 and literally just finding my stride.

nordik1 · 2024-10-28T18:14:26+00:00

I’ve known guys to peak in their 40s and 50s. They suddenly had a fusion of everything come together: career, finances, fitness, social status etc.

It mainly depends when you discover certain knowledge and how well you take care of yourself along the way. Some of these guys i’m referencing took decent care of themselves but didn’t lock into their fitness and career until later (and some were married and complacent until they divorced)

Fantastic-Willow-754 · 2024-10-28T16:41:52+00:00

Biologically it is 28 - 32 years of ages if you did not mess up your life in college or high school. But, some men fit better to the societal norms of "cool" at different ages. That is entirely artificial in my opinion. I saw a before / after photo of a couple once. The guy looked like a typical 6 / 10 when they were young (27) but in the older photo (+40) he somehow resembles Richard Gere and looks very charismatic. He is older, probably in worse physical condition but looking like Richard Gere makes him an 8+ / 10

Cavsfan724 · 2024-10-28T16:22:31+00:00

sparkibarki2000 · 2024-10-28T16:24:10+00:00

I am peaking and >50 😏

Excellent-Archer-238 · 2024-10-28T16:36:06+00:00

Yes bro, some mean even peak in their 40s while some other ones peak in highschool and then just go downhill from there.

Wean1eHu11 · 2024-10-28T18:17:45+00:00

You peak in life when you stop putting in effort to be your best self imo, although it depends If your definition of peaking includes life in general or just how many girls you get. I know guys who are married and living a great life who I would consider at their peak, I know guys who are married, miserable and have let themselves go to near irreversible levels. Same for single guys

Thebiggestbigsquid · 2024-10-28T23:16:43+00:00

Now it’s July of the 19th year of every man that ever existed. This is common knowledge, FAANG nerd

burncushlikewood · 2024-10-29T05:53:31+00:00

I was a very late bloomer, and didn't grow much till senior year of high school. In fact my license has me currently listed at 45kg lol because they didn't update my current 107kg weight. In school all the girls are attracted to the popular guys, but when you grow older and become successful things will change. Some guys peak in school, but in adult age women are looking for men with money to settle down with, as these men are highly desirable because of their ability to provide for offspring. Men peak athletically at the ages of 25-32. So work hard in school like I did, because nothing was handed to me, I knew friends who were unstoppable in high school with girls, and the women were wrong about me, being a young black male, societies pre-conceived judgement of me is that I am a 'thug', or I'm 'lazy', I once had a girl straight up tell me I quote 'wasn't going to be successful ', she was wrong, I just worked harder than everyone

PR4CE · 2024-10-28T16:47:51+00:00

Yes. Usually between 30s and mid 40s but it’s more complicated and depends on many controlled and uncontrollable factors but I personally think it depends on strategy (Plan your peak), the game never ends but it’s up to the men to choose when to retire (mariage) and shift focus to other matters.

precense_ · 2024-10-28T17:38:11+00:00

yup I've been a late bloomer, and I know I'll peak closer to my 40s

Fantastic-Life-2024 · 2024-10-28T18:42:00+00:00

You peak when you get your life together.

rrlzsrnc · 2024-10-28T19:09:08+00:00

how did you get in FAANG? What's your salary, what's your degree in? I have a low 6 figure in tech but I don't want a higher salary (= more responsibility). I want my own business. I'm hoping people peak at different ages.

Thinking out loud, there's personal peaking (could peak at 60 fwiw), there's peak attractiveness for women - and your peak might not correspond to the peak age. i.e. you could peak at 50 but it's too old for 20sth year olds.

Time sucks. People should have infinite time

BravoPUA · 2024-10-29T00:05:50+00:00

Yes, I still havent peaked!

redspikedog · 2024-10-29T05:24:25+00:00

white people age the soonest and fastest.

Black people age pretty slow.

latinos age a kinda slow.

Asians age very slow until they hit a certain age in which its instant age.

all from my own observations.

Worth_Sorbet_9086 · 2024-10-29T06:00:04+00:00

Let’s talk again after you get PIPed😉

Squali_squal · 2024-10-29T06:50:58+00:00

Yea bro I'm 34 and still waiting.

digitalbiz · 2024-10-28T16:44:35+00:00

No matter how many peaks you had in the past but if you are not having the peak in late 20s or early 30s, when it matters the most, none of your past peaks are relevant anymore.

iskyoork · 2024-10-28T18:11:30+00:00

Nope, it's 17.5 years old for every male. Sorry.

InstructionAbject763 · 2024-10-28T21:27:56+00:00

Yes and no,

As a woman if you're past 35 and have not been in at least one serious relationship you're a red flag

Not saying it bars you,

But women see not having been able to maintain and long and steady and deep connection with one person for long term as an inability to do so, ever. Even if it's untrue

Or if you're past 35 and still not "ready for a relationship" like sir, you're never going to be, so, no

Also, yes. Most men do not age like George Clooney

The only thing men who are older have that's good, is money

And that's not something most women with a career are willing to sacrifice anymore to get

Especially now with science, men who are older tend to have babies with autism, down syndrome and general disabilities to an EXTREME amount that it's just not healthy

Plus the older a man is, the more likely a healthy women will miscarriage even when she's in the fertility window

Not saying this ends things for men, just like being older ends things for women

It's just women do think logically about dating, despite men claiming we are all emotional

We do see prospects above a certain age as not good

Like if you've never been able to hold down a girlfriend for long... we see it as something about you makes you a bad long term partner

And women have less time to waste...

The only time a guy over a certain age is deemed good, is if he's aged well, look wise, has money, and has had at least one healthy long term relationship (or we see you as someone no one wanted, and that means we will listen to the women who didn't want a relationship with you over whatever you say) even if it was you who chose to stay single, we don't really see it as that, since the mantra is men are always trying to get in a relationship with women, if he hasn't been in one, and he's handsome and has money, then something is turning off women...

But this is all conjecture, so take it lightly

I dont thi k any one in life "expires" for love.

But if you're looking to settle just to be in a relationshipand not for looking for true love, men do have an expiration date like women

ATATwalker92737 · 2024-10-29T02:35:12+00:00

Guys who start having sex as teens makes me so jealous and resentful. I really wish I had those experiences as a teen in high school. It seems a lot more fun than as a adult due to things like raging hormones and being more carefree and stuff

orgasmforyou24 · 2024-10-29T02:40:43+00:00

I m peaking watching my two sister’s masturbating in the bathroom after cheerleading practice

Title	Do different men peak at different ages?
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Date	October 28, 2024 3:49 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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