| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 116 | Objectification is being disguised as empowerment | CULTURAL MISOGYNY | jesusbatman | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 03:53 PM |
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| 1 | One of the best break downs of the minds of men who watch porn. Protect your peace and protect your wombs ladies. #Allmen100% my ex was and still is a porn addict. He'd hole up in the bathroom, shameful AF, would bring a laptop and TV tray in there. Disgusting. Our intimacy dwindled to nothing. On the rare occasion we did have sex he struggled to finish. I thought it was my fault. He preferred his vice grip cum claw to the touch of a woman. It really fucks with your head if you're dating one of these losers. You are worth so much more. You deserve to be valued and cherished, made to feel sexy but not oppressed. An… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/22 11:49 PM |
| 5 | Thoughts as I'm packing my things while he sleeps, drunk after going to bed at 7am (a normal night for him)You are going to be so much happier soon. Get it done. Use PTO if you need to. Refer to this post of you have second thoughts or doubts. You're going to be 20x better off without him dragging you down. You can do this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/22 08:13 PM |
| 2 | Seen in a medical sub. Thankfully the replies were very supportive; I hope she will be OKThe only acceptable "other outlet" is masturbation. Such assholes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Once again, Guard Your Womb, Sisters.My father actually missed the Superbowl because I was born. Had a ticket and everything. I was born 2-3 days beforehand. He wasn't about to miss my birth for a second because he's not a piece of shit like this loser. Too many men have their priorities way out of whack. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 03:20 AM |
| 8 | How big of an age gap in relationships is acceptable?I'm a Xennial at 35. I prefer a gap of 0-3 years. I wasted most of my 20s with a Gen X NVM who was 6 years older and it was unhealthy and unbalanced. 21 and 27 to start. He was a manipulative, LYING mooch and his taste in music didn't align, which sounds like a non-issue but it's important to have shared experiences and mutual respect. I'm 6 months older than my current man and it's wonderful to be equals and have an actual partner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 04:27 PM |
| 8 | Objective vs Subjective: Make sure he meets your needs, not just your standards.I never cared about a man's education level. I have dated two men who didn't have a college degree. The first was a college dropout who thought he was smarter than me, turned out to be misogynistic and was very condescending toward me, despite the fact I regrettably supported the both of us. When I got a raise or a new job, he didn't think I deserved it. He was and likely continues to be absolutely atrocious with money. A short sighted spender hoarder. He was a total mooch, YouTube star wannabe,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 10:11 AM |
| 11 | Along the same lines as the post about not being afraid to lie - saw this infographic on FB the other day, very helpful for the "too-friendly" of usThat gives me sex trafficking vibes. Glad you declined. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 07:53 PM |
| 20 | Minari: a typical tale of life with an LVMThe grandmother and her love for mountain dew was the best part. Pretty anticlimactic film IMO. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 09:34 PM |
| 105 | Guys that date women similar to their female relativesShe hasn't bought her own house yet? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 09:32 PM |
| 32 | My boyfriend was making iced coffee and asked me if I wanted some. I said “No, thank you”, then he sat on the couch with his glass, I was like “Damn that looks good shoulda said yes” so he got up, went back to the kitchen and brought me the second iced coffee he had made for me.Him: "Do you want anything from the grocery store?" Me: "Uhh nah, I'm good." Him: "Got it. I'll peruse the baked goods aisle." Comes home with cinnamon loaf. Om nom nom nom. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 05:21 AM |
| 7 | if you are childfree, vet your partner’s reasons for being childfreeThat's a nice group on Facebook called respectfully childfree. Not every poster has good intentions (there are some brainwashed poly women and dudes looking for help with their OLD profile) but for the most part it's a good group. No use of the term crotchfruit allowed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 09:54 AM |
| 8 | Reflections on a bad date, excuses LVM use, and learning from itI work with engineers and the ones not on the spectrum are already happily married and appear to be loyal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 06:30 PM |
| 21 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InI think we are all recovering pickmeishas. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 01:57 AM |
| 26 | Man chooses to propose to his forever GF of 18 years finally, on live TV, after her participation at the Tokyo Olympics. Overshadowing her literal moment in the spotlight.I was just watching compilation videos of proposal rejections on YouTube last night. Never propose of you don't already know the answer! These women fled for their lives. And there's always some jackass man in the crowd yelling out telling her to just say yes! Good on them for being brave enough to say no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 04:28 PM |
| 5 | This is a new TV show...the bar is drowning nowLooks like a knock-off Love Island. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 09:04 PM |
| 7 | The lies of the 90s - the "romantic" red flagsSilver lining playbook was so boring I can't even tell you what it was about. Total snore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 08:19 PM |
| 4 | God help the woman married to this manMy dad had Superbowl tickets and his home team was playing coincidentally in the same city my family moved to the year prior. It's like the sports experience of a lifetime, but he missed it because I was born 2-3 days before. A man with his priorities straight is so attractive and hard to find these days. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 04:39 PM |
| 5 | “So okay, I don’t want to be a traitor to my generation and all but…”That is not normal. This is not acceptable behavior. No one should be punching anything or anyone. Period. Please get out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 04:18 PM |
| 8 | Got a new, better paying job in May and wanted to reward my hard work. No one treats me better than I treat myself.My mom took us kids and her parents on a cruise to celebrate her divorce. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 10:13 PM |
| 6 | For folks you ended up dating the hvm, how did you guys meet. I don’t want to get into OLD - had the worst experience last year.Through a mutual friend in highschool. We were friends first for many years before we finally started dating in our early 30s. The chemistry was there from the start but we didn't date sooner because I thought I was in love with my NVX. I wasted my 20s hopelessly devoted to a total loser who never deserved me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 05:34 PM |
| 11 | The author said both positions were “totally reasonable.”This is the kind of guy who buys himself a coffee on his way home and doesn't think to bring his wife anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 01:18 AM |
| 7 | Antoni Porowski.Now this is my type of man. And age appropriate, less than 2 years older. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 01:09 AM |
| 12 | For anyone who says 30+ women have hit the wall, this queen begs to differ (credit: @ihopeyousuffer3 on Tik Tok)My aunt is mid 50s and looks similarly amazing. I recently told her she's goals and my female cousins all agreed. Don't hesitate to complement each other, ladies. Build each other up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 01:07 AM |
| 79 | They settle down when they get old. #geriatricNever again. I'm 6 months older than my current man and it's night and day the difference in level of respect given. He's my equal. No more condescending old pricks for me. No more tolerating mansplaining. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 08:16 PM |
| 14 | Men don't want a FWBI can't do casual either. I'm 35 and have been with only 2 men. Oh, and they were each well above average in dick size. Have some self respect, sisters. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 08:06 PM |
| 16 | Men don't want a FWBIt's not how a person treats a friend at all. I hate the term because it's a boldfaced lie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/21 08:04 PM |
| 14 | Reddit hates women who say size matters.Honestly worth breaking up over by itself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 05:23 AM |
| 2 | How much debt are you in as a direct result of a LVM ex?I'm so glad you're free of that loser now. The future looks bright! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 06:20 PM |
| 2 | How much debt are you in as a direct result of a LVM ex?I don't want to even think about it, let alone talk about it. He cost me well over $50,000. Probably closer to $100,000. I'm not in debt anymore but I was for so many years because of him. Let's just say I'm looking at buying my first home at 35 instead of 25 because of him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Billie Elish bf is 10 years older than her.Phoebe Bridgers wrote a similar song about Ryan Adams called Motion Sickness. She was 20 and he was 40. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 05:06 PM |
| 5 | To the young ladies, do NOT fall into this trap, I’m begging you!I know a married couple where he's 51 and she's 35. He has adult kids with an ex wife. Things get a little awkward when his kids come over to their house. I couldn't do it. I don't know how she does or what she was thinking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 09:19 PM |
| 24 | To the young ladies, do NOT fall into this trap, I’m begging you!Actually 17. She's ALMOST 28. So they started dating at 22 and 39. Barf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 07:48 PM |
| 5 | I am tired of the pickme cultureYuck. No, honey. Men can control themselves. They just don't want to control themselves. It's a choice. It's always a choice. I wasted my 20s on potential. Girl, the potential never turned to anything. He's in his 40s working at a fucking call center now. Lmao. Life is too short! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 04:57 PM |
| 6 | Remember, men have no problem using you for relationship benefits until they find someone betterWarning: long and rambling. Sorry. I didn't experience a healthy relationship until my 30s. I practically had to retrain my brain. For me, I got together with an old friend, someone I trusted and had vetted for several years. The chemistry was there from the start but the timing didn't align for a long time. We started with a foundation of trust, mutual respect, and affection for one another. I had to work on communication. My parents' abusive relationship and divorce really fucked me up to the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 04:51 PM |
| 2 | Remember, men have no problem using you for relationship benefits until they find someone betterForeplay. It's also his job to make you feel sexy. Of course there has to be a base level of attraction. If there's not, he's not it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Check-inNo she was not the CFO. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 03:56 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Check-inLink to the discord??? Thanks in advance | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 06:24 AM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Check-inI hope the date goes well. Continue to vet, queen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 06:23 AM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Check-inA HVM would have put you to bed when you said you were too drunk. And not make advances on you the rest of the night. He should want you to be able to consent. He should make you feel safe and this loser did the opposite! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 06:21 AM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Check-inHe feels entitled due to his wealth. You deserve someone who can communicate clearly, which he failed to do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 06:16 AM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Check-inAnd HR. Years ago 2 coworkers got busted for this... the CFO and AP manager. She got fired so fast. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 06:12 AM |
| 58 | Especially a baby scrote. Too many downplay the physical effects of pregnancy and after birth changes. What’s something we should know?Literal parasites. No thanks. I'm not having kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 08:44 PM |
| 22 | I'm going to end it with my abusive bf, please pipe me upAnything like a birth certificate, passport, social security card, etc., move out of the house somewhere safe before he has any idea you're even thinking of moving out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 09:38 PM |
| 86 | Lib Feminism is a coping mechanism that doesn't actually change anything for women worldwide.Virtue signaling parrots. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 02:10 AM |
| 24 | What would happen if dating coaches/ relationship gurus were honest about how desirable women vastly outnumber desirable men?I recently rewarched HIMYM and the episode where Ted hires a matchmaker only to have zero matches is so realistic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 02:08 AM |
| 7 | Alex Landi - a Korean heartthrob in Hollywood!I just hate his character on Grey's, but damn he's beautiful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 07:08 AM |
| 12 | No Man I’ve been with has ever made me orgasm. EVER.Same, but I'm starting to think it has to do with the size of men I've been with. Nothing sub 7 inches. And girth matters too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 12:52 AM |
| 82 | Hmmm.. I wonder why this is?I was reading a thread somewhere else on Reddit today and in the commentd section two different men admitted that their girlfriend broke up with him shortly after he gifted her a vibrator. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 12:48 AM |
| 40 | The Tiger King v. Carole Baskin: The “hate” surrounding Carole is worse than you think. It’s really a microcosm of how ACTUAL corrupt, evil men in power with greedy, hypocritical agendas, manipulate low IQ scrotes all over the world into hating powerless women.I won't watch the show. One of my best female friends did some work for Carole in the past. I trust and respect my friend's judgement. Carole is a real person who cares for these big cats. That's all. This is just a case of sensationalized drama for profit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 10:36 PM |
| 12 | If someone doesn't appreciate the humanities and thinks STEM is the only way to show academic prowess, next them.I do pretty well for myself with my BA in English Lit. Can't imagine letting anyone put me down for finishing my degree and having my shit together professionally. I don't have time to defend why I'm awesome when it should be readily apparent. As for work, it's a symbiotic relationship between STEM and humanities. I work in engineering and I'm extremely glad the culture doesn't tolerate misogyny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 08:33 AM |
| 9 | A Woman's TouchWas he in 4th grade? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 08:09 AM |
| 26 | A Woman's TouchBecause all he wants to spend money on are video games, movies, electronics, and junk food. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 08:08 AM |
| 3 | Indian scrotes discussing what they’d ask women before an arranged marriage. The audacity.Oh hell naw | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Indian scrotes discussing what they’d ask women before an arranged marriage. The audacity.Do I want to know? I don't think I want to know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 05:32 PM |
| 19 | Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman.She's in a much better place now. It's been 15 years. She's back in school finally finishing her degree, a boss bitch mom of two wonderful kids. We've been friends since 93. :) Love your sisters, everyone. Encourage and be proud of each other. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 05:27 PM |
| 26 | Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman.No, I'll never date a cop. Not keen on my partner being likely to dieor murder someone. Also, my friend was raped by a cop. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 05:11 PM |
| 4 | “I don’t remember ordering my relationship off the a-la-carte menu” 💀I loved that show. I didn't like the one woman's parents telling her to lie about how she didn't want kids, but then loved it when she didn't take their dumb advice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 04:22 AM |
| 15 | New Post Yesterday In Another Sub "Does watching porn/ looking at the naked photos women post to Reddit affect how you see or feel about your significant other?"This is exactly what happened to me. Dead bedroom for 9 months before I had enough and the resentment built up enough to drive me to leave. Every woman deserves to feel desired by her partner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 08:13 PM |
| 8 | No, you shouldn't do whatever you wantI like her music and like that she's single and happy to be single at her stage in life. Focus on yourself, girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 06:06 PM |
| 18 | Weekly FDS Check-InYou deserve to be attracted to your partner/lover. You're not, so I'd end things to give him a chance to find someone who is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 05:38 PM |
| 12 | I accepted a full-time job offer in my fieldGreat advice. And if you can, put in the minimum to get the full employer match. Congrats OP! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 03:24 AM |
| 77 | NVM's wife raised the kids and managed their home for nearly two decades yet he resents her for not working? Feels like an abuse victim?? He has the option to retire early and live a comfortable life together but comments he rather have her work a cashier job "for the principle"After 27 years of marriage, my mom got half of all assets, 9 years of alimony, plus half of my dad's pension. And she worked part time as a nurse when they divorced (was SAHM for 12 years). OP should realize he's better of staying together. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 10:33 AM |
| 58 | Keep it up sisters! Toss the trash in the can and slam the lid.Freaking $20. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 02:49 AM |
| 12 | Don’t let society or Reddit tell you that spending money on an engagement ring/wedding is foolish!I think that's a more than reasonable expectation. The average cost of an engagement ring is currently $5,500. $2,000-$3,500 would probably be the sweet spot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 01:51 AM |
| 21 | Don’t let society or Reddit tell you that spending money on an engagement ring/wedding is foolish!I just looked it up and the average cost of an engagement ring is currently $5,500 USD. Higher than I expected, but it makes sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 01:48 AM |
| 2 | Objectification is being disguised as empowermentThis one? https://youtu.be/kMS4VJKekW8 There's a link to every reference source in the video description. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 01:40 AM |
| 16 | Gross! 🤮Have you heard about Twilight Sleep? https://www.bellybelly.com.au/birth/twilight-sleep/ Barbaric. They didn't stop until the 1970s. Everyone here should know about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 08:52 AM |
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