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Yes. Watch this video. There has always been pushback. https://youtu.be/APIAPD67Jds
/r/AntiFeminists08/02/22 01:23 AM
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Listen, I mean it when I say this: they are actual losers. Only loser men spend their days bitching about women online. This will never not be true.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/12/21 07:33 AM
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It depends. I think everyone should seek someone more compatible with them. I am personally really into people who give me as much attention as i give them (which can be a lot), so i wouldn't waste my time with someone who plays games like that.
/r/ExRedPill08/12/21 09:04 PM
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This and gender roles. The idea that masculinity = hypersexual manly man who doesn't feel anything except his own sexual gratification is so toxic and really needs to die. People who gravitate to this aren't even happy, theres so many psychological issues they're not dealing with and our culture glorifies men burying their problems with power seeking behaviour and destructive vices or habits
/r/ExRedPill07/12/21 07:55 PM
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Soul destroying is a great way to describe it
/r/ExRedPill06/12/21 02:13 PM
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"the red pill" Extremely toxic sexist cult, and the dudes on married trp regularly talk about how to cheat without getting caught :( or how to make your wife submit to you
/r/ExRedPill06/12/21 03:18 AM
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Yeah, same goes for meeting anyone new, romantic interest or not. As a rule of thumb, don't say things like "you're paying for yourself", it comes off as tactless and makes you look stingy and standoffish to most people
/r/ExRedPill04/12/21 06:28 PM
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To me it looks like you wasted an opportunity based on mere speculation. Next time if you want to improve your chances, show more tact, don't repeat this mistake. Wait until you're actually there and have the date show up first.
/r/ExRedPill04/12/21 06:19 PM
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Im sure she knew there's a fee. You could have just said nothing and paid for yourself in the end
/r/ExRedPill04/12/21 06:04 PM
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Smooth. Nice going dude Edit: what you did is tactless even if the person were a friend or a male coworker lmao. Makes you look like a cheapskate. And particularly self righteous in a dating context. Should have just got to the awkward moment where you only pay for yourself AT the date.
/r/ExRedPill04/12/21 05:10 PM
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Abusers are really good at sniffing out the trauma out of potential victims. I'm not saying don't ever be vulnerable, but definitely don't reveal your vulnerabilities too early. Also if you're not already getting therapy then please do. It could help you with healing and really believing and behaving like someone who knows she deserves better and accepts nothing short of amazing, kind, empathetic men who respects you as a person.
/r/ExRedPill18/11/21 06:29 AM
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that's the type of advice that does get old and toxic because when you hear it all the time and when you start doing it and you still have no results then it is just useless You can say that about most advice. Some advice will be helpful to some people ("Work on your confidence! Hit the gym!") and to other peoole its irritating because they already tried but it hasn't helped. That doesn't make the advice useless or toxic to everyone, it just means you personally have to keep looking somewhere el…
/r/ExRedPill17/11/21 03:41 PM
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I wasn't saying they're idiots. A lot of guys have social anxiety especially around women. Sometimes it helps to have experiences that don't trigger the fear response as much, platonic female friends can be a good option for that. Never said it was the only option either, just disagreeing with you calling this advice "toxic and useless" when it can make a big difference for some people.
/r/ExRedPill17/11/21 03:14 PM
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This. Men who have female friends (platonic ones) are usually so much easier and chill to talk with. They usually are wiser and socially skilled and more relaxed so the quality of conversation is like on another entire level vs a guy who you know has no female friends. That's been my experience every single time
/r/ExRedPill17/11/21 01:57 AM
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It helps more than you realize because for some guys they legitimately treat women like another species and they have no idea what to say when the person is a woman. If they stop trying to say "the right things" to get laid, and just accept friendship with no sex on the table, they could develop their social skills and improve their anxiety through experience (as well as social network expansion). Maybe those things weren't an issue for you because you didn't struggle with a crippling amount of …
/r/ExRedPill17/11/21 01:55 AM
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There are guys like that too, and the bro code helps them hide it even better from their gfs. You can't let two people represent an enormous group. Make better friends
/r/ExRedPill17/11/21 01:51 AM
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Yep, same experience here. Discovered in my teens. Found it intriguing because it explained a lot of my male classmates behaviour. I used to give them the benefit of the doubt more often but the way these guys talk when they think its just other men reading was eye opening. It made me upset, but then it just made me less naive. The way I see it is that TRP does have some truth but its absolutist and extreme. Some men are like that all the time but most men also want connection. Decent men do exi…
/r/ExRedPill13/11/21 07:36 PM
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Some of these comments are great suggestions, especially therapy. There are so many therapists out there.. Look for one who knows how to handle mens issues. Maybe find a male therapist that might understand your issues on a deeper level. Shop around for one and take any up on "free consultation" offers to know you've got one you click with. Also plug for r/DecidingToBeBetter, a good sub to subscribe too with a lot of helpful people in case you want even more advice
/r/ExRedPill13/11/21 01:49 PM
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Btw saying things like "women lose value with every man they sleep with" is not only, extremely sexist its also a way of making you feel like you HAVE to stay with him now. TRP is very attractive to abusive guys who want to control women. Like I said, that's a million red flags, i wouldn't bother sticking around if i were you.
/r/ExRedPill11/11/21 06:25 PM
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I got into TRP when i was really young (still in my teens) and I thought it was really upsetting and depressing to see so many men think that way but eventually it warped how i viewed relationships and i thought if i have that view too then it'd make me more likable to men. Turns out it only makes you more likable to the very worst sort of guys. Great guys think its horseshit. I got older and wiser and eventually just grew out of it. Some people don't.
/r/ExRedPill11/11/21 06:20 PM
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Honestly this guy sounds like someone I'd advise to dump, block and delete. Im all for helping people on a path to becoming better individuals but this guy sounds like too much work to be worth it and you can't change people who are unwilling to change. Let me repeat that. You cannot change people who are unwilling to change. If he hasn't shown any curiosities in your perspective, or worldview and just blocks it all out or talks you down then do yourself a favour and get a new boyfriend. This on…
/r/ExRedPill11/11/21 06:00 PM
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Hey on the bright side, congrats on your date :) hope it goes well
/r/ExRedPill03/11/21 09:01 PM
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That's actually really sad. I agree with the other user, hope you get help because that fear sounds detrimental to your life
/r/ExRedPill03/11/21 08:23 PM
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Keep trying dude. Blackpill is cancer and won't get you anywhere. Do you handle rejection well or does it fuck you up really bad every time?
/r/ExRedPill30/10/21 08:43 PM
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I don't even have a strong libido for me to care that much about sex. They can't know that, they have to guess your intentions based on how much effort you put into it Also why would I risk humiliation Ugly men arent interested in dating ugly women and they can tell. So what's in it for them? Nothing Now if its an ugly man whos actually really romantic and hella interested in them as an individual, there's a higher success rate for both parties. But if you're looking for a quick lay just because…
/r/ExRedPill30/10/21 08:24 PM
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Ugly women are willing to date ugly men too, but they dont want to be used as a fleshlight and dumped. But ugly men don't want to woo ugly women and wine and dine them, be romantic, or seem too interested in a woman they're not attracted to. So both remain alone for the most part.
/r/ExRedPill30/10/21 07:56 PM
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You live off your mama's money and you're having a hard time accepting feminism? how can I accept that women will have different opinions and ideologies and avoid getting sucked into the red pill or manosphere? If you're actually asking in good faith, you can start by listening to women and having empathy and remembering that you do not have their experience.
/r/ExRedPill30/10/21 04:47 AM
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Whatever you do, just work on making yourself more likable. Redpill doesn't work but if you wanna try that, go ahead, though i strongly advice against it. Stop worrying about social dominance. Make at least a few friends who think you're a cool and chill guy.
/r/ExRedPill29/10/21 10:19 PM
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i am a person too but i accepted that women don't see me as such otherwise i wouldn't have been an incel. TIL being seen as a person = being seen as attractive Best advice i can give you is lose the red pill incel ideology shit and work on being a human being. Make some friends first before you worry about a girlfriend. A bigger social circle means you can meet more people too. Pick up a copy of how to make friends and influence people. Work on the fundamentals of how to socialize while you're s…
/r/ExRedPill29/10/21 06:58 PM
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With this reasonable assumption, how can an average man ever convince a hotter woman into a short term fling? Not going to happen. Then you haven't been to university or the culture you live in is crazy sex negative/traditional I'm guessing these frustrated women are in the minority (or) simply people trolling using gender reversed role play. I broke up with my ex for the same reason. High libido women being stuck in a low libido relationship is a recipe for disaster. The Red Pill doesn't captur…
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 11:26 PM
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I didn't mean that people literally only have sex with hotter peoples when they do casual. But thats your best chance at being with someone hotter than you. Banging a hot person and keeping one satisfied and faithful are very different challenges. The man gives commitment in return for the expectation of frequent sex. A very one dimensional, red pill view again. Go to r/deadbedrooms and you will see many women actively LEAVING long term commitments due to infrequent sex. This isnt the 1950s. Wom…
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 04:35 PM
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It doesn't make sense to you because red pill lenses mean you only see things from that perspective. But reality is more complicated. In the real world, most men actually want children and a healthy relationship with someone they get along with. Boobs sag, people age, and marrying a woman of similar socioeconomic status becomes really important for men trying to find someone to "settle down" with. Also getting the hot woman to commit to him is a challenge that you completely miss, and becomes in…
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 03:25 PM
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idk i think people just get horny sometimes and find an attractive person to do a quick bang with, its not that deep. The demand for casual sex is really low from women, so good luck with that. Most women dont like to do that. Women usually orgasm more reliably with long term partners.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 02:00 AM
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Both men and women tend to do casual sex with "hotter" people than who they marry or get in long term relationships with. You can stop being jealous now, this isn't a thing particular to women. Everyone places greater emphasis on looks for short term flings than they do for long term partnerships.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 01:49 AM
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Issa vibe yah, especially with some clean shoes on, a good quality cologne and a nice flattering hairstyle
/r/ExRedPill23/10/21 10:17 PM
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You might not need tattoos or to smoke weed, but a fashion sense and style might help with "creative" types of people. Having said that, most people cannot ever convincingly fake an entire new personality, nor is it healthy. But you can try different hobbies and experiences until you find something that you enjoy and that other people around you can relate with.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/21 10:03 PM
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Red pill power fantasies are hard to let go of for some guys. Especially when they're bombarded with YouTubers selling abusive tactics to lonely, envious and impressionable men. Its sad to see because not only are they setting themselves up for a lifetime of failure, they're also going to hurt other people trying to follow red pill "advice"
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 09:04 PM
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Nope not really. Women have a low orgasm success rate with successive casual sex with men. Men orgasm nearly every time and are much less picky about who they sleep with.
/r/ExRedPill14/10/21 12:21 PM
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Because they don't view men as objects to be owned and discarded, or "pumped and dumped"
/r/ExRedPill14/10/21 02:53 AM
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Thank you
/r/ExRedPill13/10/21 04:05 PM
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That's really fucking dangerous That kind of speech straight up inspires attacks, i reported it
/r/ExRedPill13/10/21 03:10 PM
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They do the same thing with women being suicidal, especially if she's beautiful, an older woman or a single mom. Its never about "pErceiVEd uNfairNeSs", they hate women and want to see them punished for not giving them the harem they felt entitled to
/r/ExRedPill10/10/21 12:30 PM
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Sometimes you can have all of this and still become bitter because it's just that different for us Nope, if youre bitter then you still got some growing in the emotional maturity department to do. It's too unfair and too disingenuous just to say that we can judge a guy based off his attraction levels Yep and i didnt say you can, read the earlier comments again. I was saying you can't assume a less attractive dude has a good personality just because hes less attractive, often that's just not the …
/r/ExRedPill05/10/21 04:43 PM
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If they were doing anything other than no strings attached sex then that would be extremely unusual. There's a reason that the options for casual sex do exist for women, that's because the demand for it is low. And the demand is low because it doesn't benefit most women's lives to casually hook up as much as men would like to.
/r/ExRedPill05/10/21 05:32 AM
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I've never seen attractive guys date anyone like that. So my question also still remains, what did those guys actually look like? Not disfigured doesn't mean attractive. But the kind of woman that struggles - that question is hard to answer to a guy who doesn't understand what sex is like for the woman. What you're calling "dating" is probably just sex. Sex with random men isn't as beneficial to women as sex with random women is for men. Men get more out of it than women do, hence why the demand…
/r/ExRedPill05/10/21 04:16 AM
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Getting rejected a lot isn't fun for anyone, so that's my guess. Obviously responding to that rejection with hatred will only make things worse for them and for everyone else but that's my best guess. I think the less attractive guys who AREN'T misogynistic were taught from a young age to both expect rejection AND how to handle rejection in a healthy way or are naturally really gifted in the emotional intelligence department.
/r/ExRedPill04/10/21 11:36 PM
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Often the less attractive ones are actually a lot more bitter and resentful of women and harbour LOTS of misogyny. Filtering only the less physically attractive guys with good social skills + a warm heart and demeanor narrows the dating pool much more than you think
/r/ExRedPill04/10/21 11:20 PM
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Your definition of attractive men probably doesn't match everyone else's tbf
/r/ExRedPill04/10/21 11:20 PM
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Red pill dudes call everything that isnt sex on command a shit test
/r/ExRedPill30/09/21 02:44 PM
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Its not about testing masculinity, its 9/10 about testing your commitment and prevent being "pumped and dumped" or worse, a man staying with you for ages for access to sex for years but not being actually into the woman. Ignore the redpill dude saying otherwise. Some people here are not ex red pill and still have insane beliefs like "women cant love".
/r/ExRedPill30/09/21 01:20 PM
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Depends How long have you been seeing her? If over two-three months then ask her whats up? Has it been exclusive? If so, ask her whats up, is everything okay on her end? Did either of you mention or make it "official"? If not then cut your losses and go, she might be more casual with your relationship then you're expecting it to be. If you have built this up into an official exclusive relationship, then ask her how shes doing. Dont immediately assume its you who shes upset with, just ask her wha…
/r/ExRedPill29/09/21 01:26 PM
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Because either they are lucky, or they have other pros that people find attractive or they're really manipulative and rope people in with lovebombing etc can you tell me how? There's no foolproof way. Its like teaching you how to make friends. But most relationships are based on trust, mutual respect and shared interests. Those that don't have those are outliers
/r/ExRedPill29/09/21 12:47 PM
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No that's not what i mean. Im not saying going around being nice and warm is going to guarantee a date. You still have to have enough social skills to actually meet someone, you still need to show that you're street smart, have mutual interests, and compatibility with the person you're meeting. But going around being unattractive in every way possible (not physically attractive, not capable of supporting a family, not willing to do anything for anyone else and being a shit person) is going to re…
/r/ExRedPill29/09/21 12:37 PM
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I don't understand why so many men struggle to understand this and even seem to envy not being able to treat women like shit Why is the concept of pros and cons so difficult to understand? This is like a restaurant owner asking "im offering people two week old dog shit sandwiches for 200$ each AND a free insult to every customer yet NO one is buying? What gives? :(" If you're unattractive in every single way then the very least you can offer someone is respect and a warm relationship. Stop worry…
/r/ExRedPill29/09/21 12:04 PM
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You have to also understand 3 important things: A lot of currently red pill people use this sub to debate people and defend the red pill with no intention of leaving which puts a lot of people on the defensive A lot of the red pill is based in straight up inhumane behaviour, hatred and bigotry. The Red Pill is dehumanizing to everyone in a way but its especially horrible to women and when people defend blatant dehumanization of women don't expect to be coddled by the same people your ideology is…
/r/ExRedPill29/09/21 03:24 AM
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Spot on
/r/ExRedPill28/09/21 03:05 AM
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I was also stumbled on it, back when i was in my mid teens. I knew guys who shared Return of Kings articles on Facebook and it was genuinely pretty upsetting shit to come across and see so many fears and stereotypes people said about men come alive in the red pill. Guys were openly discussing and encouraging cheating and manipulating peoole that trust them, reducing women to numbers 1-10 and calling women they sleep with "sloots" and just being straight up awful. It made me less naive and honest…
/r/ExRedPill18/09/21 02:29 AM
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That height isnt the be all end all. But obviously if your face is actually below average then you'll really have to work on other things like having an attractive personality and handling rejection well and work on improving your strengths to make up for any weaknesses. That's how it is for ugly women too. You can find love but you have to be someone who other people want to be around for one reason or another Edit: just wanna add that ive creeped random blackpill dudes who post on rate me subs…
/r/ExRedPill12/09/21 04:26 PM
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Imagine how daunting it is to be a woman, if men can only truly love and desire us for Less then 15% of our lives (aged 18-30). They are bang on about this. But what you said isn't true. Time and time again shows that intelligence and other factors weigh more for women's preferences than for men. Although physical looks matters a lot to women, men have other means of being attractive that women don't. There's a reason that women spend so much more time on their looks than men do, and its not for…
/r/ExRedPill12/09/21 01:00 PM
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I dated a short guy once, he was my first bf. I used to really like him cause of how smart and funny he was, plus he was good looking in spite of his short height (shorter than me, he was like around 5,7) Well we broke up after about 8 months because of religious differences and other compatibility issues. He's had other girlfriends since me. I think you need a better way to cope with not being the sexiest man alive. Do you think every single person in a relationship right now, both men and wome…
/r/ExRedPill12/09/21 12:49 PM
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Yes 100%
/r/ExRedPill10/09/21 02:37 PM
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Same. If people have kinks, its not my thing and i question the mental health effects of it long-term, but whatever. But to desire someone's who acts inferior to you as a day to day role? People who want that don't know what love is, they want power and a subject to control. Its gross
/r/ExRedPill08/09/21 03:28 PM
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You're right and it absolutely is a phenomenon. As long as its used correctly, its a term that decries the idea that women have no other usefulness than as a wife in our society. A lot of women are taught that if they don't marry then they are worthless.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/21 06:21 PM
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Have a low n count but stop rejecting our poor men you're making them sad and murderous :(
/r/ExRedPill20/08/21 06:19 PM
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Well said
/r/ExRedPill16/08/21 11:43 PM
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Exactly. They say they do those things because they're trying to impress other men. All of TRP/PUA's desperation for a high n count is to get to a point where they can impress other men and feel powerful and envied by other men. They want validation from other men by trying to be a caricatured version of masculinity. And on the internet they can say whatever they want, a lot of guys want to believe in it.
/r/ExRedPill14/08/21 02:21 PM
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Didn't a bunch of redpillers make a horrible website where they collected the social media pages of white women who have dated black men? As a sort of "registry". The Red pill/incels and others of the "dark web" are horribly racist and sexist
/r/ExRedPill04/08/21 04:50 AM
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Sums up all of TRP Men = acting on biological impulses, never wrong Women = acting on biological impulses, always wrong, AWALT
/r/ExRedPill01/07/21 02:29 PM
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Doing the lord's work o7
/r/ExRedPill29/06/21 07:25 PM
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Straight women as a general group are attracted to a blend of traditional and new masculinity, and there is a lot of variation between individual women. I don't have much advice except to say, if you want to attract the maximum number of people, be fake. If you want to attract the right person, don't hide your empathic personality too much. Don't try to please every one you meet. Use your empathic skills to your advantage and when you sense that a woman isn't into the real you, don't pursue them…
/r/ExRedPill21/06/21 05:28 PM
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I sort of understand, i am non-binary and i loathe gender with a passion. But I was raised in a very traditional manner and the way i dress and look does not match my personality, and have struggled a lot in the past with coming to terms with people's preconceptions, and still struggle with the way people seem to be almost angered at my not conforming to their expectations. I don't know if that's similar to what you have felt but I pray that someday our society will become less gendered. I hope …
/r/ExRedPill21/06/21 05:08 PM
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This is not fun because there's no guarantee i was responding to this. there is never a guarantee to anything. i don't know your life story and its impossible to account for every single variable. all i am saying is that OP has a healthy approach to improving one's odds with dating and coping with rejection
/r/ExRedPill21/06/21 04:38 AM
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if you're looking for a magic bullet to dating, like life and health, you will never find one. at best you will find healthy advice like OP, at worst you will find unhealthy ones like TRP.
/r/ExRedPill21/06/21 04:27 AM
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There's a lack of nuance nowadays. Many young men get confused because "just be yourself" really isn't great advice. "Be the best version of yourself" is Excellent post all around and this is so well put Just going to drop a link to r/DecidingToBeBetter because it's a great sub with great resources for self improvement in many ways, not just the toxic "self improvement = make lots of money and hustle 24/7" mentality.
/r/ExRedPill21/06/21 12:56 AM
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Well you have a fantastic attitude and that's freaking awesome. You are definitely still really young so hang in there :) and definitely be yourself. HMU if you ever need style or general advice.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/21 10:37 PM
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Ok excuse my frankness here. Women do love guys who are nice. A clichê stereotype in women's fantasies are (good looking) men who save kittens or a buff guy who plays well with children.. My SO is always helping people, he chats with homeless folk and buys them food sometimes. Kind men who are physically attractive and good in bed = best of all worlds. Niceness isnt the problem. The problem is usually a lack of sex appeal. You might be attractive to look at but if your demeanor comes off as "les…
/r/ExRedPill19/06/21 09:35 PM
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beauty standards
/r/ExRedPill19/06/21 07:26 AM
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Sounds really implausible to me that things would actually be perfect. Considering the original post is insisting that all women are irrational creatures who only do feefees. ​"its never my fault, i am perfect by nature as a man, women are imperfect". Redpill isn't a beacon of self introspection and rationality, its a philosophy for men who don't think women are complex human beings who's opinions and feelings in a relationship actually matter, no one else would say such dehumanizing things such…
/r/ExRedPill17/06/21 03:07 PM
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Therefore the decisions she makes based on her reality may seem like total nonsense to a man (women are crazy, right? Funny that he should say this since its common as hell for men to call all of his ex gfs "crazy" - huge red flag btw. Like i had to reread this cause i was sure at first that he was being sarcastic, but nope, zero self awareness as per usual - hence why they belong to this sad cult. If hes calling everyone crazy then he's revealing his gaslighting and own insanity to you. Men do …
/r/ExRedPill17/06/21 03:14 AM
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It true tho
/r/ExRedPill16/06/21 10:37 PM
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If someone is red pill they're a moron.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/21 09:45 PM
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That extreme level is rare, but nearly all are somewhere closer to that than to actually being a good roommate to live with. Though I expect this has been improving with each passing decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/21 03:39 AM
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The red pill is a natural consequence of old school male chauvinism be coming less commonplace and being pushed to the margins of society. Redpillers are enraged by the idea of women even being people and having social freedom they never used to have before. They have no problem with using others as long as women are the ones being used. Red pill rage is not about disillusionment the way they claim, its about grieving the loss of male supremacy and male exceptionalism. They grew up in a world wh…
/r/ExRedPill12/06/21 02:04 PM
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No, men's bodies, sperm quality, and ability to have erections naturally decline with age (because we are all mere mortals) but what does go up is their ability to buy sex or reproductive access. So if you lacked charisma, or sexual attractiveness or both as a younger man, you will be able to "pay to play" instead when you're older (on average people tend to accumulate wealth but this is not always true either)
/r/ExRedPill08/06/21 04:02 PM
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That was beautiful.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/21 12:43 AM
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Im not sure how to get rid of them but i imagine that approaching it from a woman's perspective might help you. Be a woman. Be told your gender role is to find ONE man and the more men you date the more strikes against you. Be told that your position as a woman is to always submit and be degraded whenever you have sex. Be told that having sex with men is an admission of having "no self respect". Also if you were in womens shoes, the attention isnt actually that appealing because it gets in the w…
/r/ExRedPill06/06/21 05:36 PM
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being strictly attracted to people because they are weak, and not in spite of it, will forever be creepy.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 06:12 PM
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TRP exaggerates it. As long as you make enough to support yourself and help support a kid or two you shouldn't have any issues being attractive to women. It's less about being a golddigger for most women, more related to you doing your fair share. Personally I'm more career focused, so I'd prefer it if my SO stayed home with our future kids, but society isn't that progressive yet where thats the norm.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/21 11:06 PM
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I think no one would complain about posts on the topic of overcoming racism since like the other user said, its relevant But theres also r/decidingtobebetter which is such a helpful sub to follow anyway
/r/ExRedPill01/06/21 08:00 PM
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Do you want to try explaining what im getting wrong or shall we just call it a day?
/r/ExRedPill01/06/21 07:11 PM
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Honestly that wasnt my intention so I'm sorry. I'm having a hard time talking about this in the right way, I'm not a therapist but you mentioned anger and i agreed that even if its uncomfortable, anger is a human emotion. I don't want to put you on the defensive and I'm not concerned with whether you proved your point or not because i already agreed But you're obviously pissed off so ill quit asking you questions and just say this because at the least it might help someone who isnt you. And lol …
/r/ExRedPill01/06/21 07:05 PM
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I'm trying to help, maybe i should have worded it better. What form of anger do you think society should be more accepting of? Anger towards the individual who rejected you? Or anger about being a person who gets rejected a lot?
/r/ExRedPill01/06/21 06:40 PM
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When you say you want to be able to be angry, what would that look like? Would you take it out on the person? With angry messages? Or would it be an internal feeling you deal with yourself? And have you identified what exactly you are angry about, the person for not choosing you? Or for the state of being rejected many times? One of those is more sensible than the other, but either way, there is a healthy and a nonhealthy way to process it. I'm actually glad you touched on anger about rejection …
/r/ExRedPill01/06/21 06:22 PM
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There is no fail proof dating advice. All dating advice is circumstantial. You're right that most women don't know how repeated rejection before any onset of romance feels like the way most men do. But getting angry should be discouraged as much as possible. For one thing, it doesn't help, at best it makes you lose sight of a growth mindset. At worst, it's intimidating and not fair to the person rejecting you. For as long as men are the gender that wants many more partners than women do, men wil…
/r/ExRedPill01/06/21 01:53 PM
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I could talk to people comfortably but if a another dude person who’s maybe a little more extraverted (not even attractive) talked to her them she’ll they'll be more engaged because women people would rather talk to a real man person who’s good socially than to talk to a guy person like me who’s might be attractive, interesting and a good personality but is a bit introverted and therefore not as fun to be around. When I notice these things it makes it hard to deny the male hierarchy and the whol…
/r/ExRedPill31/05/21 02:48 AM
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Takes more than just faith, but faith does help because being overly cynical is crap too. Realism, self esteem and a dedication to working things out. And even then, don't expect perfection, find someone who is flawed as you are also flawed but is willing to work on their flaws. Be equally willing to work on your own flaws too.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/21 02:38 AM
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Yeah I can't describe how refreshing it has been to learn that TRP doesnt represent all men, just a good chunk of them who prefer vulnerability over strength. But if all men were to desire vulnerability and meekness, then I'd imagine our species would be much worse off. Thankfully thats not the case. Strength, resilience, determination, ambition, wisdom, and intelligence are all necessary traits for success, especially in marriage and parenthood, regardless of gender. And a lot of men do thankfu…
/r/ExRedPill28/05/21 06:45 AM
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Hey dude good for you. Even if things with your girl go well make sure that you dont hinge your self esteen entirely on your relationships. You will always need to be there for yourself even if no one else is. Mental health is key
/r/ExRedPill23/05/21 03:05 PM
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This is true, but i just want to add that when evaluating the infamous red pill inferiority complex, I think its important to point out that having some degree of an inferiority complex is extremely common in teenagers and really young adults, so between 11-24. I think the older TRP guys are largely dealing with much more serious inferiority and insecurity issues than the younger guys, who are still just figuring out their identities, masculinity, the social roles expected of them plus a hard ti…
/r/ExRedPill18/05/21 06:46 AM
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Yeah, I also said I dont think a straight up diagnosis of people you haven't met is useful, with or without psychological training. I do think that analyzing why a worldview is pathological from a psychological perspective is fine as long as its educational. Some worldviews are pathological for different reasons like encouraging self harm, like pro-ana groups. Having some understanding of psychology can help people make more informed decisions when engaging with harmful content online. Being abl…
/r/ExRedPill17/05/21 05:12 PM
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I think if you can back up your statements with evidence its more akin to psychological analysis than a diagnosis. And any psychological analysis should be taken with a huge grain of salt, but that doesn't mean its not useful. I also wouldn't say they are all individually narcissists. But I would say their ideology and worldview is characterized and motivated by higher than average levels of narcissism and abusive tendencies. I believe their rhetoric, worldview and explicit objectives meets ever…
/r/ExRedPill17/05/21 04:54 PM
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Redpill is pathological though. And there is certainly a lot of narcisstic tendencies to be seen in their goals to dominate and manipulate as many people as possible while giving next to nothing in return, using all manners of abusive tactics to coerce more people into being exploited and an abject aversion to seeing their targets as human beings worthy of the respect they themselves feel entitled to. Also psychology as a field, as much as i love it, its well known for pathologizing behaviours d…
/r/ExRedPill17/05/21 04:35 PM
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Thats different from the way you originally put it. In the OP you're talking about "sexual market value" and "settling" . Now you're talking about family planning and reproductive goals. The first one, basing your life partner on some red pill ides of her "value" on the market is douchey and a dehumanizing framework. The second is sensible and literally no one would be criticizing you for those concerns. Why dont you find out her goals first, maybe she doesnt even want kids, do you even know? An…
/r/ExRedPill13/05/21 02:58 PM
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I'm sure some real stories exist but most of them are just fantasies. TRP is one big ass collaborative fanfiction.
/r/ExRedPill05/05/21 02:37 PM
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It works on sad dudes who use RP as a power fantasy If only they spent as much time on communicating with partners as they do reading red pill fiction
/r/ExRedPill18/04/21 03:53 PM
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Because they get their idea of masculinity from film noir where everyone speaks in mysterious codespeak to look badass. Also, I think they're too cowardly to be direct because being direct makes them feel vulnerable to rejection. Being indirect allows them some wiggle room to pretend they meant something else or brush negative reactions off without feeling let down. That's my guess. In any case, don't take their advice. Unless anyone wants to sound douchey. It's so easy to pick out the guys who …
/r/ExRedPill14/04/21 01:44 PM
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Focus on your studies. Join a sports team or a hobby group to satisfy your loneliness and get you active and socialising. Also, once it becomes possible, do a bit of travelling. Preferably with some kind of student group or with friends and go somewhere far away. I know it sounds cliché and all but it can be great at your age (at any age really) for widening your horizons and getting out of your comfort zone. You might meet someone who's in a similar situation (you might not, but you will defini…
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 09:31 PM
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You keep ignoring the fact that men choosing to mate with a different woman than the woman he chooses to marry IS a dual mating strategy. Otherwise they would be marrying the same women they have flings with, which men don't do. Also A 2016 study at the Hospital Clinic of Barcelona showed that a number of women considered these men captivating, though they are “selfish, rule-breaking, imprudent and rebellious.” The reasons they’re so compelling? “They are also brave, temerarious, independent and…
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 07:38 PM
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And Martie Haselton doesn't say anything about the men being "bad boys" . She talks about women preferring short term mating with men who have masculine body type and facial features, dominant behavior and certain scents Dominant behaviour is not "bad". It usually means being bold, not being shy, being assertive, not being submissive. Both genders prefer to mate with one type of person, usually more physically attractive and who displays more sexual dimorphism (big muscles for men, large breasts…
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 07:14 PM
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I think one reason for that is because there's a lot of cultural bias in favour male narratives in science, which are only starting to change in the last few decades. Men regularly admit to wanting to settle down with women that look and act differently to the kinds of women who they have short flings with. "Marriage material" is another word often used, and there's also the "Madonna-Whore" dichotomy which is similar but not identical. So far science has reserved the term dual mating to refer to…
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 06:21 PM
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That's called a dual mating strategy, or strategic pluralism and the evidence is not exclusive to women. There is evidence that men prefer women who are "bad girls" who prioritize fun, sexier, more promiscuous for short term mating, and women who are more intelligent, long term strategizers who are more monogamous for long term mating. There's even a cultural stereotype for this, "Marilyns" vs "Jackies". TRP likes to cherry pick studies that demonstrate this in women whole ignoring that similar …
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 05:36 PM
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Some evolutionary psychology can be reasonable, but TRP treats their cherrypicked version of it like dogma.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/21 04:25 PM
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I think people are reacting to your use of "men" instead of "teens", which would be much more apt. Your writing might help other kids and teenagers around your age. I say go for it
/r/ExRedPill10/04/21 08:55 PM
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Perfectly said
/r/ExRedPill01/04/21 03:37 AM
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I thought it was 100% accurate. What didnt you like about it?
/r/ExRedPill26/03/21 02:14 PM
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Not my experience. Seems like guys with asshole personalities work harder on getting laid because they need that dopamine and ego fix all the time. A lot of guys who can't get laid are assholes who look up to other more successful assholes (most of TRP/incels/mgtows fall in this category) But the guys who don't need to try hard are usually: Not assholes, socially amicable but also not pushovers Tall and good looking
/r/ExRedPill26/03/21 02:05 PM
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I often find that's not even always the case. Sure they probably attract more narcissists, but as you said they themselves are narcissts and narcissists have a tendency to be overly critical of everyone who they want to control. So there's probably a lot of narcisstic women they they date, but they are also viewing non narcissistic women who stand up for themselves and have a backbone as narcissists because theyre pissed off that those women are not easier to manipulate The whole calling women b…
/r/ExRedPill19/03/21 04:56 PM
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Not all men are actual rapists but in various surveys roughly 30% of them admit they would rape women if they didn't get caught. Your thoughts on this are not wrong. They may be a bit on the extreme end, but you are right to be scared and upset by the way men as a class treat women as a class. That means you have good observation and can see things for what they really are, not what people wishfully want to see. Be cautious, stay safe, and don't trust just any man. Good men are very hard to come…
/r/ExRedPill19/03/21 03:44 PM
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I'm a huge feminist, and I understand that a lot of it will be projection But I can't help but also think for some men this is actually kind of true. Maybe not to the point of "they'd rather die" than show human weakness, but not everyone is fully aboard the "new masculinity" train yet. I don't know how to answer to "how common" is it. I think there are varying levels of gendered expectations, some people are worse than others. I definitely think it's more social, in the sense that human vulnera…
/r/ExRedPill13/03/21 08:29 PM
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Feminism does more good for men than TRP will ever like to admit. But ultimately, to not be a feminist, whether you are male or female, is to be sexist. The world is currently sexist and feminism is a strive to reduce that. If you don't like feminism, then you're either uninformed or you are pro sexism.
/r/ExRedPill25/02/21 07:46 PM
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I've not read anything ok by him, its all dehumanizing rhetoric against women wrapped up in pseudoscience and pseudointellectualism. People like that don't even try to hide their chauvisnism. I hated him before, but knowing now that he blames a woman for her own death at the hands of a violent man is just sickening. This man has a daughter. I hate this fucking planet
/r/ExRedPill25/02/21 07:43 PM
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Hey sister let me give you a word of advice. I've been there. TRP is a great window for women to see how many men view us and view the world. Use that for your benefit. I believe TRP is a spectrum of shallowness and incapacity for genuine love and respect. Many men will be on the "awful human being" end, the types that will literally only see you as a tool to stroke their ego. But now you can see the methods they use, so you can use that to weed out those kinds of guys that aren't worth your tim…
/r/ExRedPill24/02/21 04:04 PM
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Let us know when you want to be human again. This so much. A much needed message they will sadly never learn
/r/ExRedPill24/02/21 03:48 PM
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men sure as hell wont care if a women is insecure in bed I know, I'm saying the TRP men are the ones insecure. I get that that's what TRP is trying to go for but I don't buy it. It doesn't logically make sense for most young women to stay virginal for the sake of low n count men's egos. Accountability is not the issue here since these women aren't doing anything wrong to themselves or to other people by engaging in safe, consensual, ethical sex. Modern women are taking responsibility for their a…
/r/ExRedPill19/10/20 04:18 AM
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But this is missing the point. What's the accountability thing about? Women don't want to date guys who are insecure in bed or are undesirable/unattractive. And guys who are insecure or have a low N count don't want to date women with a higher n count. So where does accountability come in? It just sounds like TRP guys are saying "it's not fair, you shouldn't have more sex than I do" and trying to spin it as if it's an issue of accountability, when really its just an issue of insecurity and jealo…
/r/ExRedPill19/10/20 04:03 AM
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high value men wont want to be in a relationship with her for that reason Except that's not true. I mean let's assume by high value men we mean men with money, good looks and decent social skills. Those men usually date and/or marry other women with money and good looks. That's what they go for. Men with status and beauty go almost always exclusively date and marry women with status and beauty. They don't fret that much over n count the way guys with low N count do. its a bit unfair that an aver…
/r/ExRedPill19/10/20 03:54 AM
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I don't get it, what should the consequences for riding the cock carousel be? I don't understand. Every friend I know who "rode the cock carousel" whatever that means is now living a happy life, working a nice job after college, paying their taxes and being a law abiding citizen. OP can you explain where accountability comes in? Are they accusing these women of raping men? Or hurting them in some way?
/r/ExRedPill19/10/20 02:59 AM
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This. Why are we acting like only women's love is conditional? Also, attention, validation? Men seek those things just as much. We are social creatures. Just seems like an unnecessary amount of othering of women. When women are not being accused of only having sex for money, they are being accused of only fucking hot, tall, Chad's with big dicks. And when its neither of those, it's "she just wants attention and validation". TRP is a joke. Relationships require attention given to the other. Relat…
/r/ExRedPill19/10/20 01:49 AM
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This is a dangerous narrative. You're saying men have to be misogynists and manipulative hateful psychopaths in order to date women.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/20 05:58 PM
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I have a theory that this is why men go bald so early. It forces them to recognize that their short term attractive qualities won't last long, and with the wall approaching they will be more keen on settling down and raising their children. Women see men who are losing their short term attractiveness as a good potential mate because it's less risky to have kids with a man who is losing his ability to pump and dump with every passing minute.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 01:08 PM
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Attractive physical traits with loyalty, stability, and maturity as well as respect can be extremely attractive in any partner. Usually men (and women) who have all of those are the first ones out of the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 01:05 PM
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Discipline? Huh? I don't think that's the right word. Some women can see through the bravado and think it's lame when men try to act alpha. Even when other women think those guys are alpha. Even if they look good, the way you see a man treating other women can make or break them. If you know they are a player or suspect them to be, that can be a huge buzz kill and make them unnattactive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 01:03 PM
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Idk what women you're talking to but hot men who can clean and cook are even hotter. I find it sexy when my SO does that stuff because it shows commitment and it just looks hot when he does anything that shows maturity. Makes me think he's more marriage material and would be good with kids. I don't think RP really capture the full breadth of human experience
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 12:58 PM
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?? Most young women don't party or drink every weekend, and neither do most young men. Idk who you're following on social media, but that's not common. Also men are actually twice as likely to binge drink too. Oh yeah and we have hobbies and shit
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 06:35 AM
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Those guys don't know what objectified means
/r/ExRedPill17/06/20 08:39 PM
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Yup, be thankful you weren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 06:52 PM
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Were you ever a 12 year old girl?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 05:30 PM
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Although it is still wrong to pigeonhole people into gendered categories, it is not equally dehumanizing. Being feminine is to defer to men's authority.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 05:25 PM
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To varying degrees, yes. Misogyny is entrenched in our culture. Femininity is based on submission, vanity, and inferiority, and nearly all straight cis men prefer their women feminine. All men react somewhat negatively to women who don't fit that gender role, like I said, to varying degrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 02:59 PM
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Except you're forgetting its not just Red pilleurs. It's nearly all men to varying degrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 06:08 AM
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Nah, there's just a lot more AMALT shit that you either haven't accepted or are not willing to accept. Women have heard everything men have to say about us for centuries. Men have made up the majority of playwrights, comedians, novelists, poets, directors, professors, the list goes on. Men's thoughts about women are entrenched in our culture, and women have heard it all before. AMALT is the new thing. AWALT was made default from centuries of male supremacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 06:05 AM
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11 here, but honked at since 8/9
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 06:00 AM
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Straight bullshit lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 05:54 AM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 05:54 AM
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based
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 05:51 AM
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Negging is a big one
/r/ExRedPill07/06/20 02:44 AM
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They didn't say it was for women only though
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/01/20 09:59 PM
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Arguing against women having the right to vote might just barely be within our rules, if it's civil and provides a reasonable rational. This is disgusting. Arguing for the removal of basic human rights on the basis of sex or gender is never civil. When their voting rights were being debated some women didn't want them, so it's not necessarily misogynist to take up a similar position. This couldn't be more false. Women can and often are misogynistic. If you see someone saying that women are an in…
/r/MensRights09/01/20 02:44 AM
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Interesting opinion but I don't agree, it's not transphobic to allow trans men a space where they can comfortably identify as a trans man. They don't have to attend if it doesn't suit their needs. Also if your logic is true then you are being transphobic by even referring to trans men as trans men at all. Also plenty of trans men push for the need to clarify that menstruating is not exclusive to cis women. Trans men aren't a monolith, some are happy with the clarification, they are not all the s…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/20 09:21 PM
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if that is not the case then there should be no issue in giving them away purely on the basis of need You know this already exists right? There are scholarships that aren't exclusive to racial and gender minorities. I agree that there should be more financial aid. What I don't agree with is the idea that the other guy was implying where he complains about white men not having scholarships exclusive to them on the basis of race and gender. Edit : do you support any presidential candidates that of…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/20 08:57 PM
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Being male isn't what's holding them back in STEM. Scholarships based on financial need exist, so do scholarships for men of colour. I agree that more financial needs based scholarships are great. What we absolutely don't need is a "white male" exclusive scholarship.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/20 08:44 PM
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This is exactly the sort or bad science and conservativism I come to r/MensRights for
/r/MensRights08/01/20 09:13 AM
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Sounds like this sub was inevitable given the popularity of r/mgtow, incels and the like
/r/MensRights08/01/20 09:12 AM
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Parent comment I was in STEM 20 years ago in school and I got nothing given to me for being a man (in fact 90% of exclusive scholarships were already for women or minorities)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/20 04:56 AM
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r/NegativeWithGold
/r/MensRights08/01/20 03:05 AM
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wasnt even part of that sub, so they’re obviously taking preventive action or something So he offered to help you and you punched him in the face?
/r/MensRights08/01/20 03:03 AM
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Lmao you have no rebuttals other than stereotypes so you stereotype me and you're a liar lmao lmao lmao
/r/MensRights07/01/20 11:36 PM
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Lmfao you posted both that comment and this post 21 hours ago. Bruh
/r/MensRights07/01/20 11:33 PM
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I've seen more than 5 easily and they don't get downvoted. You're more likely to be downvoted for saying you agree with x feminist idea, than for saying women shouldn't have the right to vote on this sub
/r/MensRights07/01/20 11:31 PM
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They banned you within 24 hours of your comment. Your conspiracy theory is bad and you should feel bad. Also you lied about their ban being "preventative". Tough
/r/MensRights07/01/20 11:29 PM
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Oeindrila Dube, a professor of global conflict studies at the University of Chicago and S P Harish at New York University, have studied four centuries of European kings and queens. In their as-yet-unpublished working paper, they examined the reigns of 193 monarchs in 18 European polities, or political entities, between the years 1480 to 1913. Although just 18% of the monarchs were queens—making their analysis less statistically reliable—they found that polities ruled by queens were 27% more like…
/r/MensRights07/01/20 11:26 PM
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Actually it was started by a man, he recruited women because being shamed by young women is more effective. Still stupid and immoral though but let's not spread alternative facts
/r/MensRights07/01/20 11:17 PM
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EDIT: as soon as I received the first silver award, I received a message from Feminism informing me I was banned. Quite a nice subreddit there, no? i wasnt even part of that sub, so they’re obviously taking preventive action or something Why do you MRAs feel the need to lie so much? You know anyone can go through your history right? Reality isn't on your side so you just make shit up? throwawaylol12344321 1 point 21 hours ago So he offered to help you and you punched him in the face? How nice! Y…
/r/MensRights07/01/20 11:12 PM
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I see a lot of guys here arguing that women shouldn't have the right to vote.
/r/MensRights07/01/20 11:06 PM
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Don't bother with facts or context, they're not welcome here
/r/MensRights07/01/20 11:06 PM
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Oh yes, feminists are famously pro-coverture
/r/MensRights07/01/20 11:04 PM
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Hope you stretched before those mental gymnastics
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/20 11:00 PM
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Because I'm talking about discrimination within the 𝓒𝓸𝓷𝓽𝓮𝔁𝓽 of equal pay. Have any rebuttals or gonna keep nitpicking?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/20 10:06 PM
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𝓒𝓸𝓷𝓽𝓮𝔁𝓽 In Canada, men are not afforded equal pay rights under Justin Trudeau's feminist inspired policy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/20 09:07 PM
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Not related to equal pay
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/20 08:56 PM
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Because everyone knows white men are severely underpaid and discriminated against in our society
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/20 08:16 PM
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Men are a minority in college. Nope, not in STEM
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/20 07:56 PM
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How is it transphobic to want to increase trans acceptance?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/20 06:15 AM
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https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/comparison
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/20 06:14 AM
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Yeah and this title IX complaint is aimed at events catered towards diversity in STEM. Your argument (and the title IX complaint) is basically just another "diversity means anti white men" whinge, is it not?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/20 05:53 AM
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90% of exclusive scholarships were already for women or minorities Why is this shocking to you? Are you implying that they should make some scholarships exclusive to white men? Or that minorities shouldn't have diversity efforts exclusive to their needs at all?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/20 03:30 AM
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Can someone tell me how this is any different from asking for a "Straight Pride Parade?"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/20 03:29 AM
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Weak tbh
/r/MensRights30/12/19 08:52 AM
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You couldn't even get the basic math of this post correct though, but you're a MGTOW so no surprise there lmfao
/r/MensRights17/12/19 05:44 AM
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Lmao DAE wahmen suck at the maths Lol
/r/MensRights17/12/19 03:32 AM
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By that definition, this sub is also a cult because they are always using misleading information to brainwash angry young men. "Men are raped more often than women!" "yes, by other men, and in prison, are you in favour of better prison conditions, reduced sentencing for nonviolent crimes and the removal of institutional racism from law?" "well, no. B.. B.. But it's the feminists fault!"
/r/MensRights17/12/19 03:28 AM
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Ah the old "Women are perfect, women never do anything wrong, women never commit violence You're projecting and being incoherent. No one's claiming this. Do you know what late stage is? Late stage in pregnancy refers to the third trimester, weeks 29-40. 91% of abortions occur before week 13. 98% of abortions occur before week 22. The majority of abortions in 2015 took place early in gestation: 91.1% of abortions were performed at ≤13 weeks’ gestation; a smaller number of abortions (7.6%) were pe…
/r/MensRights08/09/19 04:58 AM
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Fuck that must have really hurt. They could have been more tactful
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/08/19 03:21 PM
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Sorry you had to experience that. Are you pursuing higher education?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/08/19 03:20 PM
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That's pretty damning. What job position was it if you don't mind sharing
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/08/19 03:18 PM
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You don't have to answer if you don't want to. But anecdotal experience is what usually prompts people to do more research into a sociological thing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/08/19 03:17 PM
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Doesn't make it any less childish in my opinion. In fact "but they do the same thing to us waaaah" makes it big dumb of a thing to do
/r/MensRights31/08/19 03:15 PM
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Married women make up a huge percentage of women seeking abortion. I wouldn't call that fucking around. That's just the limitations of birth control. It's not perfect. Also lol women do consider pregnancy when they have sex. That's why they're the ones that spend the most amount of time and money on birth control. Also I don't consider fetuses people. Only people can be murdered. Not amorphous blobs with no conscious brain activity. Late term, sure, but that's rarely done and usually it's becaus…
/r/MensRights31/08/19 06:08 AM
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Discrimination against women won't fix men's problems. Equality means equality for everyone.
/r/MensRights31/08/19 06:04 AM
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Ugly chicks and you probably have a lot more in common than you realize.
/r/ExRedPill31/08/19 06:03 AM
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One feminist says something = all feminism bad Logic.
/r/MensRights31/08/19 05:51 AM
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Did you read what I said? I'm not telling you to befriend them with the sole intention of wanting to fuck them. No, you're right, that's not good. But befriending a few girls is still a good idea. Don't expect sex from them. But you might meet some new girls through your friends. And you get to be more comfortable being around women and hearing their POV, which often is very helpful as well. It might help bring you out of your shell. Of course though if one of your female friends does reveal tha…
/r/ExRedPill14/08/19 12:55 PM
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There was no indication to me given that suggests she was saying she expects that from a man. She was just answering a question. Apparently the "3 months salary" thing was a rule of thumb that advertisers pushed on the American public a few decades ago. It's still commonly used but the general trend is that millennial couples (and soon Gen Z) have shown a massive decrease in average spending for engagement rings. Most people in their 20s that I know are forgoing a lot of the crazy wedding expens…
/r/MensRights13/08/19 03:56 PM
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Saving this comment, thanks for this
/r/ExRedPill13/08/19 03:50 PM
1

Buy some new clothes that make you look and feel fresh. Don't need to drop mad bucks but just look like you care about your appearance a bit. Girls tend to like that. Also don't forget to wear some nice shoes either. But also, get out there and put yourself out there. Go to more parties and events, go to bars, go to birthday parties, go to meetups, join a new club. And work on your mental health if that's a problem for you
/r/ExRedPill13/08/19 03:49 PM
1

Try r/skincareaddiction Theyve got a lot of great help in the sidebar But what you use depends on what your specific issues are. Acne? Puffy under eye bags? Massive acne scars and large pores? Hyperpigmentation and sun damage? Generally speaking a decent routine is Gentle cleanser Gentle chemical exfoliation like 5% AHA Moisturizer Sun screen
/r/ExRedPill13/08/19 03:47 PM
-1

I'm not against sex robots, I just disagree with the idea that all or most women want to be free of sex with men. In my experience women love having sex with men, not as a leveraging tool but because they enjoy sex and having orgasms. Older women, maybe less so. They were born in much more pruder times. Women are in higher demand, so they can afford to be pickier, especially when they're younger. You're making it seem like their pickiness is proof that all women hate sex or something when that's…
/r/MensRights13/08/19 03:42 PM
5

This was already posted earlier. The girl was just a law student answering the question of what is typically the cost of the average wedding ring. She wasn't stating that's what she expects. Does anyone know how much a typical engagement ring costs?" This lady next to me said "three months salary" without any indication she was joking. He's TA for calling her a goldigger in the middle of a lecture for stating the average cost of an engagement ring.
/r/MensRights13/08/19 03:26 PM
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You're spreading false ideas about male victims. In this case the dude in question does care. That's why he's speaking up about it.
/r/MensRights13/08/19 03:23 PM
4

Definitely seems like a kink. Like those people who wear leashes in public lol. Would be weird to witness though and not know whether they need help or not
/r/MensRights13/08/19 03:20 PM
2

Seems pretty accurate
/r/MensRights13/08/19 03:18 PM
5

r/deadbedrooms
/r/MensRights13/08/19 03:14 PM
2

I mentioned making platonic friends because I don't personally think that you should be out dating in the classic sense when youre going through a load of difficulties with mental health issues. So making some new friends, both guys and girls, might just help you get out of your old mental habits a bit without the crushing rejection. Cultivating friendships is like gsrdening. Sometimes you just want some friends around so that your life is filled with more happiness and beauty, even if youre not…
/r/ExRedPill13/08/19 03:12 PM
3

Agreed
/r/MensRights13/08/19 10:46 AM
2

Agreed, but he said just women in general. Only a few women are batshit enough to think no consensual sex is possible between men and women
/r/MensRights13/08/19 10:12 AM
1

Nah dude this sounds like a toxic or bitter mentality, not equality. You should aim to meet someone who you can respect as an equal. Don't stay in a relationship with someone you view as negatively as you currently seem to view them.
/r/MensRights13/08/19 10:10 AM
3

You're spot on about how mental health issues can make you more reclusive and feel like you need to rely on dating apps. But don't take the lack of replies too personally. I'd say work on your mental health first, and avoid the "cold dating' approaches like apps and nightclubs. Stick to platonic activities like joining a new art class where you can meet a mixed group of people and make new friends. But like I said, first priority needs to be working on your mental health. Depression and anxiety …
/r/ExRedPill13/08/19 10:08 AM
3

Doesn't sound healthy at all ngl
/r/MensRights13/08/19 09:59 AM
2

I'm not sure what you mean?
/r/MensRights13/08/19 09:48 AM
2

Yes I agree men should only be in a relationship with women who respect them and if it's a healthy relationship. Same is true for vice versa. Too many people haven't been taught how healthy relationships are supposed to be like and are expected to suffer emotional and even physical abuse in silence.
/r/MensRights13/08/19 09:46 AM
1

I see, thank you. It seems like it's not in danger of going away any time soon though. I think this year this sub should organize a big ass men's rights parade
/r/MensRights13/08/19 09:44 AM
1

What do you mean? Men have sex with women all the time. That's the most common type of sex.
/r/MensRights13/08/19 09:36 AM
-1

It's no secret that a lot of women love having sex and even actively seek it out. It doesn't make sense to expect all women need to call something out that they don't even know exists.
/r/MensRights13/08/19 09:35 AM
2

You're right but I don't think TrollX is the right place to discuss that.
/r/MensRights13/08/19 09:33 AM
2

International men's day is already a day in November right? And don't we also have a whole month of Movember going on for men's health issues too? I don't see anyone shutting these things down personally, I thought they were established days.
/r/MensRights13/08/19 09:32 AM
2

Lol go back to your game bro! I'm just saying I don't think it's a men's rights issue just because a person who happens to be a woman made a mean tweet. Ykwim? If she were a fat acceptance activist but is being a hypocrite, I'd understand. But we know nothing about her except that she sometimes makes a mean tweet and has a vagina. We don't know that she's a hypocrite. It doesn't make sense to go after her like this for being a woman who made a joke. Just my opinion.
/r/MensRights13/08/19 09:27 AM
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I didn't think it was because women don't enjoy any heterosexual sex, I thought it was because they want to be protected by the law when drinking, etc. Also not all initiating conversation is sexual harassment, it's just there's a completely wrong and inappropriate way to do it, like at work or when someone has already turned you down. But you're making it sound like men will be put in jail for just saying hello to a woman in a night club. Is this a thing? Are thousands of guys being thrown in j…
/r/MensRights13/08/19 09:22 AM
1

Thats so awesome. Mind if I contact you in the near future about your experience there?
/r/MensRights13/08/19 01:20 AM
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I don't think most women are even aware of the tiny percentage of morons who say all sex is rape though. Theyre like a tiny, extremist minority. Also in which country is any attempt to initiate sex considered rape? Isn't that a bit of an exaggeration?
/r/MensRights13/08/19 01:14 AM
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She's pulled creepy shit before, like when she basically stole a teenager's first kiss on American Idol, which got a lot of coverage last year. Not saying it's proof, but it doesn't look good for her
/r/MensRights13/08/19 01:12 AM
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This is such a stupid argument. Sex robots don't cause violence. If anything they might even reduce violence. Why do they care what these men do in their own homes?
/r/MensRights13/08/19 01:03 AM
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Idgi, why would women want to be free from having sex with men? Most women are heterosexual
/r/MensRights13/08/19 01:01 AM
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Circumcision of infants and minors without their consent shouldnt even be legal. Question to everyone : are there a lot of circumcision protests going on around the world? I don't hear about them but I think it should be more popular especially in countries with high circumcision rates like the US
/r/MensRights13/08/19 12:58 AM
1

Yeah like I said she shouldn't have escalated it (unless there are important details she's leaving out).
/r/MensRights13/08/19 12:55 AM
1

It's just a joke though lol. Jokes don't have to be nice. I also don't understand why this has anything to do with men's rights? It's just a mean joke on Twitter at a fat guy's expense. What's political about it?
/r/MensRights13/08/19 12:53 AM
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Just like everyone else?
/r/MensRights13/08/19 12:49 AM
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Depends how persistent the person is, it can be. From this alone it doesn't seem like proper grounds for a sexual harassment case. But also its just basic people skills. If you keep persisting with someone who's clearly not interested, you end up losing self respect and looking pathetic. Not good game.
/r/MensRights12/08/19 07:20 PM
2

? The average woman isn't feminist
/r/MensRights12/08/19 07:16 PM
2

Always use necessary force to defend yourself. Don't go too far, for either gender, otherwise you can end up in worse legal trouble. But use force when necessary.
/r/MensRights12/08/19 07:16 PM
2

Nice
/r/MensRights12/08/19 07:13 PM
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She shouldn't have reported him unless she told him specifically that she's not interested, but he's also a dumbass for not taking the hint 3 times. ETA
/r/MensRights12/08/19 07:09 PM
0

This thread is taking their anger out on the woman for no reason though. She called a man fat. Who cares? He is fat.
/r/MensRights12/08/19 07:08 PM
0

How? I've never heard anyone call a man a "land whale". People make fun of fat women all the time. Comedians, TV shows, the Internet, etc. I didn't realize this sub was pro fat acceptance
/r/MensRights12/08/19 07:06 PM
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Lmao what are you talking about? People make fun of fat women all the time. Why are we defending fat people? They can just change their fatness by losing weight.
/r/MensRights12/08/19 07:04 PM
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Exactly. Either we're against the stupid fat acceptance movement or we're not. Gender has nothing to do with it.
/r/MensRights12/08/19 07:03 PM
2

How do we even know she's a feminist? Maybe she's just a random woman making a joke about fat people? Who doesn't joke about people's appearances sometimes? Is this woman famous or something cause idk why everyone's assuming her politics
/r/MensRights12/08/19 07:02 PM
2

Wow. That makes me so hopeful for some reason. Knowing people like that exist and help children out so much.
/r/MensRights12/08/19 02:47 AM
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Boomer women are the worst for that in my opinion. The kind of people who say video games and Marilyn Manson cause violence and shit lol. Punching bags and contact sports are so necessary, they'll never understand that.
/r/MensRights12/08/19 01:44 AM
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That doctor is a LEGEND. wow that's so awesome man, good for your parents for that wise decision to get a second opinion too
/r/MensRights12/08/19 01:40 AM
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Thank you for this post! Awesome read. I completely agree with you. Men need more ways to let off steam. Also it's been proven that when kids are allowed, or more encouraged to do more physical exercise and sports, school boys see a reduction in ADHD symptoms and aggressive behaviour. But instead our country wants to lock little boys up for hours in the time of their life when they have the most amount of energy, and then punish or overmedicate them for releasing that energy. (btw I know physica…
/r/MensRights12/08/19 01:18 AM
2

That's the first time I'm hearing about this. If this is serious then that's messed up. So just for clarification, you believe that when people say "the Future is Female" in 2019, what they actually mean is "we need to reduce the male population by 10%"?
/r/MensRights12/08/19 12:59 AM
0

What brought you to Hamburg if you don't mine me asking? Also I think Germany conservativism is way more liberal than American conservativism, but Im more familiar with the American version. But yeah I get what you mean though
/r/MensRights11/08/19 09:30 PM
1

Do you think it's a conspiracy or a lie when they say they get discriminated against? And when do you think this lie started? Like what decade? 1960s? 80s? Earlier?
/r/MensRights11/08/19 09:27 PM
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There's no good reason to form an 100% single sex government. This is an extreme position for them to take.
/r/MensRights11/08/19 07:37 PM
1

Mhm I have qualms with their government but im moving to Germany next year for a PhD, I don't have to pay a single dime in tuition. I'd say it's not as dysfunctional as you hear a lot of Americans claiming it is. They have a better quality of life, healthcare, and overall happiness and wellbeing than Americans.
/r/MensRights11/08/19 07:35 PM
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5,11 men are way taller than the average woman.
/r/MensRights11/08/19 07:34 PM
1

I agree
/r/MensRights11/08/19 07:27 PM
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he's the only one in the family who's that big of an asshole. Everyone else thinks he's a piece of shit for kicking out his own son. I think if he were a girl who was lesbian then he wouldn't have been kicked out. He posts photos of his son now in Facebook saying things like how brave he was for dealing with depression but always conveniently leaves out the fact that if he hadnt kicked him out in the first place then his son wouldn't have been in the situation he was in when he killed himself. H…
/r/MensRights11/08/19 06:00 PM
5

My uncle is a homophobe who gatekeeps masculinity
/r/MensRights11/08/19 05:47 PM
2

Are you surprised? Theyve been like that for some time. I got banned for saying something similar to this. "maybe we should just tell people how unfair the system is to men and chill out on the hate" Instaban
/r/MensRights11/08/19 05:32 PM
3

Trashy disgusting excuse for a human being. Fuck her
/r/MensRights11/08/19 05:28 PM
2

So essentially it's the first step then? I'm ok with that.
/r/MensRights11/08/19 05:27 PM
1

It's both. Pregnancy does take a massive toll on the human body. Your body is never the same after pregnancy, your risk of various diseases increase, death, depending on how many children you have already had then it can reduce your lifespan. You also will have to stop going to work or reduce your hours at work, and often quit your job entirely depending on the laws in place to protect your employment status where you live. There's no two ways about it, pregnancy is a massive ordeal with life lo…
/r/MensRights11/08/19 05:11 PM
1

more likely to be falsely accused than murdered. In which country?
/r/MensRights11/08/19 05:03 PM
3

Does that mean according to those stats more men are forced to penetrate than women are raped per year?
/r/MensRights11/08/19 04:54 PM
5

That's insane. That's not fair at all. Was he able to prove that that's what she did? Anyone got a link?
/r/MensRights11/08/19 04:52 PM
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They shouldn't have said "that's not sexism against men" Uhh yes it fucking is. They should have said it's the other side of the same coin. Sexism in our society has negative effects for both men and women, often working in different ways and resulting in different outcomes, but it's still sexism even if it's against men.
/r/MensRights11/08/19 04:49 PM
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My cousin killed himself at 21 because his dad banned him from the family for being gay. When he told them he was planning on killing himself they said "go ahead, you're not a real man anyway" Being ostracized for not meeting your family's idea of "masculinity" is something I'll never understand.
/r/MensRights11/08/19 04:47 PM
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Male abuse victims need to be taken seriously and not told to just man up. People need to understand that men are often victims of serious mental abuse as well as physical even though they are stronger physically, you can still be trapped in a pattern of abuse
/r/MensRights11/08/19 04:42 PM
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Both rape and false allegations destroy lives. We need to find a way to make sure rapists are held accountable without throwing innocent people in jail.
/r/MensRights11/08/19 04:40 PM
2

Those are some great dogs tbf
/r/MensRights11/08/19 04:40 PM
1

If she refused to pay the fine she would have to serve jailtime for being topless. If you refuse to pay the fine, you're jailed and it would ultimately be for showing your nipples. Also here are some cases of women who were jailed for showing nips: Gabrielle Merville, Georgia - jailed Phoenix Feeley, New Jersey - jailed Michelle Sutherland, Virginia - jailed Anni Ma taken into custody for being topless at a rally Heidi Lilley, Kia Sinclair and Ginger Pierro in New Hampshire - arrested Jeannie Jo…
/r/MensRights11/08/19 04:38 PM
1

Original comment got deleted because I posted links automod didn't like. Anyway I originally replied to say I can think of worse ways to spend time and money than fighting for your right to not be jailed (and I should have included fined and arrested) for being topless.
/r/MensRights11/08/19 04:28 PM
1

I'm saying at best, that list is cherrypicking, at worst it's misleading or wrong. The man who started the white feather campaign wasn't a feminist, it started as a campaign to get more men enlisted. that the term ''toxic masculinity'' is non harmful So psychologists, doctors and scientists are all being misandrist when they accurately point out that toxic masculinity is harmful to men
/r/MensRights11/08/19 04:19 PM
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All rapists deserve to be locked up, regardless of their or their victims gender. Every single rapist is a scumbag who needs to be put away from the rest of society.
/r/MensRights11/08/19 12:42 PM
1

I don't think fetuses are people. Especially in early stages like the first trimester, when most abortions occur. If we want to protect embryos rights then we'd have to ban the morning after pill, IUDs, and IVF (fertility) clinics because all of those kill fertilized embryos. Embryos arent people.
/r/MensRights11/08/19 12:40 PM
2

Sorry what? Genocidal Feminism? Wipe out 45% of population? I agree with the point that it's Godwins law to call people Nazis or associate political ideas with nazism just because you disagree. That never helps discussion
/r/MensRights11/08/19 12:34 PM
1

Nope. Women were legally barred from voting, as in by law, based on their sex alone in most states. Thats how shit like the Susan B Anthony trial. She was arrested specifically for voting as a woman, which was illegal at the time.
/r/MensRights11/08/19 12:30 PM
1

The white feather campaign was started by a man's idea to get more men to enlist. There's a lot of cherry picking and misinformation in that list IMO. I don't personally think it's right to call every feminist a feminazi but plenty of MRAs still do but then complain when it happens to them.
/r/MensRights11/08/19 12:24 PM
4

So the threat of violence was necessary for black civil rights?
/r/MensRights11/08/19 12:21 PM
1

Not all of them, no.
/r/MensRights11/08/19 12:18 PM
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Wear condoms, and invest in the male birth control pill research
/r/MensRights11/08/19 12:17 PM
2

Aww that's actually cute and funny, what's wrong with this?
/r/MensRights11/08/19 12:16 PM
0

I guess that's your way of admitting I'm right that men couldn't vote either. You're absolutely right that some men couldn't vote. It just had nothing to do with their gender. Unlike the situation with women, where it had everything to do with their gender. Gosh it must be so hard being given free stuff. Nothing is free. In women's case being under men's care came at the cost of their civil liberties and freedom. And in my opinion I'd rather have freedom than get free shit. You might disagree, b…
/r/MensRights10/08/19 10:17 PM
1

I'll take that to mean you couldn't find any examples then.
/r/MensRights10/08/19 07:06 PM
2

So there were laws that discrimated against white people for being white? Which?
/r/MensRights10/08/19 06:42 PM
0

White people weren't enslaved for being white. They just so happened to be white, poor and often Irish. There were never any laws that banned white people from liberties specifically for being white. If there were any, let me know I've never heard of it.
/r/MensRights10/08/19 06:25 PM
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It worked for black people too and a lot of the country didn't sympathize with them either. Peaceful protest works, men just have to be willing to get out there and spread the word. If there is real injustice happening, which there is, then we need to put it on blast and get people talking. Statistics on how dangerous workplaces only get safer as more women enter the field for example. People only start to care about deaths when more women are dying. But no one knows that so how could anything g…
/r/MensRights10/08/19 06:23 PM
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Personally I don't see a difference between calling MRAs Nazis and calling feminists Nazis. If we want to be taken seriously we need to not resort to childish insults and address specific issues that we disagree with feminists on.
/r/MensRights10/08/19 06:12 PM
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IIRC the law she's proposing is written with gender neutral language. I completely agree with everything else though. Maybe increases in unionizing might make dangerous jobs safer? Also we are definitely always researching the cause of homicide victims : poverty, lack of education, nutritional deficiencies, the neuroscience and genetics of violence, recidivism, etc. People don't care because they're usually poor or black men and live in "ghettos". I think decreasing inequality could help massive…
/r/MensRights10/08/19 06:10 PM
1

Racism against white people can exist but most of the time white people arent discriminated against. which explains why people don't even know it could exist. If we had a history of enslaving white people for being white, and black people were deemed higher up, then people would have the reverse opinion. Most of the time people are racist its against non white people.
/r/MensRights10/08/19 06:04 PM
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The same way all civil rights movements won: Peaceful protest, spread information with patience and kindness, and elevate stories of male victims of injustice so that people can relate better to them.
/r/MensRights10/08/19 06:00 PM
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What do you mean by losing? As in losing elections? Or what
/r/MensRights10/08/19 05:59 PM
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I think the issue is mainly that women shouldnt have to be put in jail for taking their top off on a really hot day. That would be authoritarian as fuck IMO. Whether it's low hanging fruit or not doesn't really matter does it? If the law is not right then it should be changed.
/r/MensRights10/08/19 05:55 PM
1

But a lot of alt right people are racist though.
/r/MensRights10/08/19 05:54 PM
2

What does this sub think of the word "feminazi"? Is that ok?
/r/MensRights10/08/19 05:53 PM
2

What museum was this? You can try complaining. Doubt it'll do anything but maybe if enough people complain then they might create a men's only washroom
/r/MensRights10/08/19 05:51 PM
1

But your feelings shouldn't matter if they're not doing anything bad to you. Who cares?
/r/MensRights10/08/19 05:50 PM
1

I think the point is mainly just that the law shouldn't discriminate. Public perception can't be changed but the law can.
/r/MensRights10/08/19 05:48 PM
2

What sort of laws are you thinking about for example?
/r/MensRights10/08/19 05:48 PM
4

You don't think discrimination of women happens in our society? You think it's all a massive lie/conspiracy?
/r/MensRights10/08/19 05:46 PM
0

Men were never barred from voting simply for being men. Women were. Having your expenses paid for you is generally not seen as a great deal if you value your freedom. That's why teenagers are desperate to get out of their parent's nest at some point, you eventually have to give up being cared for in order to gain freedom and liberty. Would you actually want to give up your freedoms and let another man pay for everything but also not be allowed to be a fully autonomous adult? I doubt it. And if y…
/r/MensRights10/08/19 05:44 PM
1

What account was this on? Don't see it in your comment history
/r/MensRights10/08/19 02:32 AM
1

I hate when people say this but don't post a link. If it's so easy to find then how come you can't prove it?
/r/MensRights10/08/19 02:30 AM
1

Whatever you do, stay the fuck away from incel and similar communities. Do you want to end up like those 40+ year old virgins? Here's the deal kid If you want to be a chef, where do you go? To people who love cooking and are good at it. If you want to be a pilot, you go to people who love flying and are good at it. So if you want to be better at woman, why the fuck are you in subreddits filled with old men who hate women and are terrible at getting laid? That shit is gonna brainwash and radicali…
/r/MGTOW06/04/19 08:25 PM
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I'm addicted to his archnemesis Shaun. He also has a new video debunking him. He has 2 other ones I think on Black Pigeon. Skull daddy ftw
/r/MGTOW19/02/19 03:18 PM
1

I agree. I can understand why traditionally feminine traits are generally negative traits, with a few exceptions. But for a girlfriend or wife to demand that a man be traditionally masculine and taking offence to herself being traditionally feminine is blatantly hypocritical.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/15 09:28 PM
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Found the rational being
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