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I feel your thoughts!!! But I dont have an answer- thx for posing the question!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/22 10:50 PM
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What the actual effff
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 11:16 PM
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For me, I firmly believe men and women cannot be friends. Case. In. Point. More often than not, and I’m not willing to chance it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/22 07:10 PM
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So I couldn’t even read past the age difference … my jaw dropped and I thought THE AUDACITY of this old ass man to think he has a right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/22 03:03 AM
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Totall bs excuse!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/22 01:04 PM
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Just to hear the sound of his own voice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/22 03:55 AM
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Love this example and I stan with you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 12:08 PM
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YESSS this line also makes me 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 12:07 PM
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Exactly …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 09:55 PM
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TIME WASTERS! Exactly…. Glad to know it’s not just me :) Thx for posting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 07:02 PM
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Literally just use these apps as material for my podcast and roasts of these idiots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 01:45 PM
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Ya it would feel like insert vagina not person here How unoriginal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 01:43 PM
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😂💕🥰👌🎤 this was spot on!!! Cheers 🥂 to hitting delete
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/22 04:35 AM
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This is a great example of Queen sh*t! Man, kudos to you for valuing yourself and pushing past those feelings 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 10:14 PM
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I use a burner phone number It’s the best investment and has saved me from dealing w a lot of yuck It’s like $4 a month and you can block whomever or just get a new number local to you. When they call it goes to that number and you can record a message
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 04:03 AM
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Isn’t it just total BS!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 04:01 AM
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Wow this guys is scary
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/22 02:01 PM
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Went out on 3 dates with a man I thought was gonna be solid Last date we had a bit too much to drink and he said I love you sevral times, but it wasn’t directed at me. Not being committed or having excuses to not talk about things that come up, and avoiding real intimacy as well as constantly talking about other women are a few
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 10:38 PM
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Wtf is wrong with these men. This has been going on for decades particularly where men leave women when women get terminally ill yet statistically women tend to stay with men when they get terminally ill. It hurts my heart to admit this but my late father though he stayed with my mom when she had cancer, could NOT deal. He was aggressive, unkind, scared, mean, and absent. It was my first eye opener to this phenomenon, and I think about it often. My ex husband would have been this type of man. I’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 03:19 AM
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For myself, I have had a long held belief based on nothing but my own instinct and experience- men and women are not designed to be “friends” One will always hold something for the other, and it’s like a dysfunctional relationship. But what do I know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/22 03:15 AM
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Ok I’m all in on this documentary
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 03:12 AM
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Ok i couldn’t make it past story 3 We all know… but this is just effing sick I have zero faith in these bruhs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/22 12:40 AM
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Mic Drop!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 01:53 PM
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Yass!! Wtf w these men who need a training bra doing talking about us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 02:26 AM
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Isn’t that the worst part - it’s not even surprising…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 05:25 PM
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Now ex husband told me this to justify cheating on me with his ex wife 😑💀”I just needed to be needed by her”. ✌️Bruh Best thing to ever happen really.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 04:26 AM
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Dang… well said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 02:19 AM
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WTF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 08:05 PM
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NAH SIS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 03:18 AM
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Who does this bruh think he is?! That got bad fast
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 09:06 PM
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MIC 🎤 DROP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 05:16 AM
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That’s a nope from me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/22 03:41 AM
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Dope & Deep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 04:57 AM
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You got it right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 01:05 AM
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“Up to a point” - If that’s not just facts !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 04:07 AM
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RUN! Personal experience showed me it’s not worth it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 03:46 PM
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It’s the same picture
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 02:48 AM
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I think you’re on to something with film sexualizing young girls. Even as a 40yr old, it’s still nasty to think about why a 60+ ur old man is interested in me. And when you’re young I think it’s easier for these men to flatter and it pumps their ego and fills their own insecurities about being old. So once again, all for their personal sexual gains physically and egotistically
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 05:17 PM
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No fucking way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/21 12:49 AM
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What the actual EFF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/21 03:20 AM
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I can’t even!!! I’d rather let my “cooch” get cobwebs. Earlier on dating over 30 some guy was bitching about what do women want out of dating apps any way bc they always seem “too busy” and he’s worried it will start a vicious cycle. The audacity is real in every lane of male.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 12:56 PM
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Wow…. Felt like I was reading my former life!!! This is exactly why I WILL NEVER date a “single dad” (much less marry them) again… the guilt and using the kids to manipulate is so real while he becomes fun dad… I remember being sucked back in several times over the guilt of damaging the kids … lessons learned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 10:40 AM
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This is all too true. It’s rape culture attitude all day. “$1k should get me access to any hole any time n the month raw plus a key to her house”. What the actual efff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 10:03 PM
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💯 Win for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 02:53 PM
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Can confirm. Never again. I have also found that most “single” dads like this are deeply entwined with their kids mother. So, more like living. Their best life between two women while doing minimal work yet claiming they are a struggling single father poor them…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 09:31 AM
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Asking me to take him to airport at 3:30am knowing I have to work and am a single mom
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/21 03:16 AM
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W.T.F.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 02:12 AM
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YES !!! Ty for this truthful real post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/21 02:09 AM
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What. The. HELL. 🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 07:11 PM
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I feel sick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 02:25 AM
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Great! I’d rather be by myself than with some person like u
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 01:16 AM
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Wow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 08:34 PM
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Ugh. Just… ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 09:54 PM
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Ummmm 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 08:09 PM
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Can confirm. Reporting from the field, so you don’t have to…… that is some very real deal knowledge you’re sharing. Red flag 🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 02:38 AM
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Ok I saw this earlier as well and immediately thought of this sub. Thx for posting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 02:58 AM
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Do t waste your breath. That’s my motto these days You want to play? I’m out. Block and delete
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 02:11 AM
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I love it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 10:13 PM
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This is so accurate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 01:50 PM
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Facts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 05:40 AM
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I needed this belly laugh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 02:54 AM
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This one hit deep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 06:40 PM
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YES 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 02:44 AM
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Yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 04:45 AM
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SAVAGE!!! Here for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 03:55 AM
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There is a “family tree” on him and all the women he’s been with and or had children with, most quite younger. He’s a big songwriter part of Hollywood douche club
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 05:52 AM
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Preach!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 12:11 AM
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Lmao!! Love it 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 10:41 PM
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100
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 02:03 AM
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Yes yes yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 04:27 PM
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THE AUDACITY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 01:53 PM
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This wAs a good burn 🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 01:52 PM
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It’s one of the only things that you CANNOT HIDE .... and yet, it still happens. Wonder how many times a minute a dude lies about his height...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 09:44 PM
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YES
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 07:46 PM
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Love this. Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 07:45 PM
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Thx for the play list!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 07:24 PM
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Are you in sales? I feel like that type of behavior is often treated that way in certain “territory sales rep” positions. Like if you’re a woman you’re expected to take that. Crazy as h$ll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 07:25 PM
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Wow.. well said!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 07:21 PM
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I used to be so guilty of this!! Then I realized: one they don’t read it anyway but two and maybe more important, why give them the satisfaction of wasting my thoughts, time or breath on this idiot. I also started setting myself a text timer so I’d have time to think about my one or two word answer and get the paragraphs out in my head and not on text anymore.... not engaging is a powerful action. Took me a long time to learn but well worth it.
/r/askFDS15/01/21 02:08 PM
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Isn’t “you’re acting crazy” a flag in itself no matter the context?
/r/askFDS15/01/21 12:01 AM
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Red alert!! Type guy
/r/askFDS13/01/21 05:12 PM
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I love you for writing this, thank you! The
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 10:41 PM
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I love you for writing this, thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 10:41 PM
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That’s a great reminder. It made me laugh because it was relatable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 04:46 PM
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Go in another date
/r/askFDS31/12/20 04:53 PM
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Ok to clarify, he JUST told you, and it happened that long ago?! From personal experience. Whatever you go through on your own now to separate from that, will benefit you in ways you never expected in the future
/r/askFDS31/12/20 04:52 PM
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Seriously
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 09:41 PM
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Preach!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 03:27 AM
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I am so thankful for this question bc I can relate and the shame I felt was much like you described. For me I realized it was a good lesson and I need to not date and work onmyself more and ya
/r/askFDS24/12/20 08:51 PM
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He’s gonna kill you. Gtfo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 04:28 PM
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Yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 04:10 PM
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Dang that was mood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 03:05 PM
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Don’t be his test subject. He’s 40 and his son is 9 my guess is you won’t change his commitment issues and he’s using his kid as a reason to tug at your heartstrings while keeping you around so long as you’re willing to do the dance. Don’t waste the next ten years of your life. Don’t ignore the red flags and sirens.
/r/askFDS05/12/20 09:42 AM
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Would not advise Just an older polished turd and waste of time IMO
/r/askFDS01/12/20 11:02 PM
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😂💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 05:09 AM
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Be busy don’t respond
/r/askFDS26/11/20 03:56 PM
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💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 11:51 PM
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💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 12:49 PM
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THank you 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 10:46 PM
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He bought the drinks then ubured us back to his house
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 04:11 PM
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Thank you for all the comments ladies 🤗❤️🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 04:10 PM
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Yes!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 12:38 AM
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😳.... a lot of truth in that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 12:30 AM
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That’s what’s really goin on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 01:43 AM
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My heart goes out to her. So was mine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 01:59 AM
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It was him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 01:58 AM
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So true. Met a LVM on hinge but he hid that well for the first few weeks. I am a single mom and got a babysitter on a Friday night bc he wants to take me out dancing. Mind you everything had been closed bc Covid and had just opened back up. He was love bombing me and trauma bonding I now see, but I figured well, he seems alright we spend a lot of time. Go out on this ‘date’ where supposedly he wants me to meet his friends. I dress super cute. He shows up in jeans and a tshirt.. first clue. Takes…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 06:58 PM
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Love it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 03:20 AM
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What in the actual eff
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 04:22 AM
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LOUDER!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 01:15 AM
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Ha! This is golden
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 01:17 AM
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Ha! So true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 11:22 PM
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Yep 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 07:41 PM
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Best thing that ever happened to me was finding this sub!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 01:45 AM
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HA! That’s hilarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 01:53 PM
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This! Was recently in an Uber and the convo steered toward me saying I have a real hard time respecting men. First words out of his (the Uber driver) mouth: oh, so you’re gay. The hell? And what’s that got to do with it all anyway......
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 11:48 PM
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Hobo sexual..... I like it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 01:41 PM
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Very true and real advice, speaking from experience
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 01:26 PM
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Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 04:17 AM
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Ahahaha. Oh😂. True
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 03:59 AM
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Exactly!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 02:21 AM
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Sorry you’re feelings are hurt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 09:04 PM
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Ya this morning a woman posted how she unsubscribed to this sub as deciding to be better. I thought, good luck sis you’re missing the whole point. This sub echos everything I have believe in since i obtained degrees in women’s studies and sociology and had long strayed from. The truth sticks and this sub is very raw and real, ... it helps me feel secure with my choice in being alone and not dating because I chose to focus and love myself first. And leveling up isn’t easy, but that’s the point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 08:24 PM
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Her mother did that to her :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 08:17 PM
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I now see it as super predatory and creepy where when I was younger I was taught to find an older man to “take care of me”. Often dated older men until i stopped, it felt like a strange father daughter rape situation and just disgusted me. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 07:18 PM
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Thanks :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 06:50 PM
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Ya no thanks. OLD is not worth it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 04:48 PM
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I don’t think it could have been more well said
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 01:28 PM
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And they wonder why I don’t respect them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:28 PM
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I love the: what do you have to offer? At the end
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:25 PM
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I saw this exact thread and immediately thought of this sub.... LVM all day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:22 PM
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For me it was assuming if I did something for him, he would do it for me... without any history
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 08:47 PM
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What the actual eff???? Rude uncalled for and can’t even spell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 08:46 PM
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True I think it’s true even in a 30 something woman being peruses by a 65+ man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 08:41 PM
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Thank you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 08:37 PM
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Do you have persona favorites or recommendations?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 08:10 PM
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Absolutely!!! My moms neighbor told me after my divorce that now I needed to learn how to filter and file faster so I didn’t settle again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 04:52 PM
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No gonna lie I was like what’s WAP stand for😳... I’m not putting it on my playlist. Personally wouldn’t categorize it as an empowering song
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 02:56 PM
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HBD!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 01:57 PM
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Love this sub Just turned 40 today, this quote is mood !! Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 11:20 PM
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Too true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 10:10 PM
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HA!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 11:54 PM
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This is so true :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 12:15 AM
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Hahaha #florida man is exactly what this bro sounds like!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 07:03 PM
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Newbie! My first boyfriend ever at 14 told me you’re perfect except for your stomach, it could be flat..... still can’t see what I really look like at 39 bc that phrase hits me with every thing I put on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 02:06 PM
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YES
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 06:29 PM
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💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 07:15 PM
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Thank you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:30 AM
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I just discovered this sun today and I LOVE it... this makes me so sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:18 AM
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