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this isn't necessarily true all the narcissists in my family's dogs are obsessed with them
/r/TheRedPill28/04/20 10:48 PM
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i don't wanna talk about it
/r/TheRedPill05/04/20 06:37 PM
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EXACTLY Chad's NOT fucking the ugly fat bitches and THERE ARE PLENTY TO GO AROUND. IT'S MOST OF THEM If you're a fucking loser you need to accept it and take what you can get or stop complaining and WORK ON YOURSELF this is why porn should be illegal fucked up incel types should not ever be allowed to see a beautiful woman's body fucked up incel type dudes aren't mad that the ugly fat bitch next door to me won't fuck them they are the male version of that and they should know their place and wha…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/20 04:42 AM
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I’d like to add I have gotten laid in this time extremely well but I have had to battle how desensitized I am psychologically and that it takes a LOT to get me hard, and also progress is not linear and the reason I haven’t overcome it is because I haven’t actually abstained long enough because the underlying causes of my sex addiction haven’t been fully dealt with, not because nofap doesn’t work. Mic drop
/r/askTRP13/12/19 11:40 PM
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Both bro lmao. The flatline is the total loss of libido during porn withdrawals that happens while you are recovering from porn induced erectile dsyfunction. I can’t fuck and my dick doesn’t work for real sex because of porn addiction that I’ve been struggling to overcome for two years! Bro you need to check out yourbrainonporn.com and also check out the nofap subreddit, idk why you quit porn without doing your research!
/r/askTRP13/12/19 11:31 PM
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if you gave up porn two months ago you may be in the midst of a flatline bro
/r/askTRP13/12/19 12:44 PM
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boom glad to see some level headed ppl still on this sub
/r/TheRedPill16/11/19 07:39 PM
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something just clicked for me in a huge way thank you GLO
/r/TheRedPill22/10/19 11:07 PM
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Yup, I keep accidentally mostly creating comfort because my libido is fucked so I just end up talking a lot because I’m depressed.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 04:59 AM
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it’s probably more like ptsd about it don’t ask, but that makes sense
/r/askTRP02/10/19 02:38 AM
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I accidentally created too much comfort and I need to reestablish frame and get the bang. I am not “into” being anybody’s comfort or boyfriend. I like her just fine and I want to bang her. Your comment has nothing to do with my question
/r/askTRP01/10/19 04:34 PM
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I’m sorry but I need to ask if you actually changed enough to actually end up sleeping with sane women, because I’m a bit worried about actually being able to cross that barrier or if it’s really too deeply ingrained. I haven’t read any stories of guys exclusively fucking crazy chicks and then changing so much that they started fucking normal women. I heard some guy the other day saying our preferences in love are hardwired by our childhoods. I’m hoping that’s bullshit, if not I’ll go celibate, …
/r/askTRP21/09/19 08:32 AM
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When you say female acquaintances do you just mean acquaintances? I have plenty of sane female acquaintances, but there is a reason they are just acquaintances. No spark.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 08:20 AM
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I end up avoiding hanging out with more normal relatable dudes because I don’t want the lack of sobriety to rub off on me or the monagomous tendencies but I should probably say fuck it. It’s definitely a comfort zone thing now that I think about it. My narrow interests and shit are a comfort zone. Like I feel resistance to enjoying things that are more popular- like when my sister watches Friends, I always end up paying attention to it and laughing. It is uncomfortable to fit in or be “normal.”
/r/askTRP21/09/19 08:03 AM
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I was diagnosed ADHD but never diagnosed on the autism spectrum apart from being told by a therapist that adhd is on the spectrum. If I am I’m high functioning. Nobody has ever accused me of it lol. I did develop my unique interests from spending a lot of time alone. You’re probably right about some of it being a comfort zone thing, I don’t know. It might mostly be a comfort zone thing, I’m just so used to being a certain way and doing certain things it doesn’t occur to me to do other stuff, or …
/r/askTRP21/09/19 07:49 AM
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I don’t know at this point. I don’t like Marvel movies, I hate Disney, The music I enjoy is obscure. I rarely hear a pop song I like. When I go to the bars and people dance to the music I don’t want to dance because I don’t like the music. I am particular about the things I enjoy as far as art or media. I barely like anything on Netflix. I watched Game of Thrones but now I don’t and now there are no tv shows I watch. I don’t care about sports. I never understood caring about whether or not a tea…
/r/askTRP21/09/19 07:29 AM
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I don’t have anything in common with most men either, same problem.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 07:05 AM
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You just have a mental block about your place. If she mentions it you brush it off, this literally only a problem you’ve created in your mind, you’re holding YOURSELF back. This is something I know very well. I could have fucked a bunch of girls back when I lived at my parents’ house and barely fucked ANY of them because I was self conscious about being at my parents’ house and I DECIDED it wasn’t a good place to bang, I MADE THAT DECISION FOR THEM. But they all came there, alone with me, waitin…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/19 05:01 AM
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Dude, you already built rapport with her on your first date, the hard part is over, if you already have rapport everything else is easier than you make it out to be. It should feel natural, you’re thinking too much and overanalyzing. You did a fine job of it on the first date, it’s just a continuation of that. You pick up where you left off. It’s simple. It sounds like you guys were pretty comfortable together, overanalyzing this will kill it.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/19 04:57 AM
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If she’s into you and you have something to lay on that isn’t gross or uncomfortable and you have privacy she WILL fuck you; don’t worry too much about the atmosphere, YOU are the atmosphere
/r/TheRedPill03/09/19 06:06 AM
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He wasn’t freaking out at me he was freaking out at my mom I could just hear it from the other side of the house
/r/askTRP20/04/19 09:17 PM
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He’s not manipulating me or putting any pressure on me to save him. If my dad wanted my help then this would be much easier lol
/r/askTRP20/04/19 09:16 PM
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I gave him No More Mr. Nice guy a month ago and haven’t been able to get him to read it. He does not have friends to hang out with. He travels for work all week and on the weekends he wants to spend time with my mom who doesn’t appreciate him.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 08:55 PM
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When I prevent my mom from dominating me in the way she dominates him it creates problems. She sics him on me. I was kicked out the first time I moved out. I try; I can only do so much. I’ve almost gotten through to her about her issues before; I think I finally got her to see how she failed as a mother, I tried to convince her to go back to therapy but her hamster is super jacked from 65 years of sprinting.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 07:05 PM
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Get audio of her confessing to doing a bunch of crazy shit she has done before or of low key threatening you
/r/askTRP07/04/19 05:25 PM
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As if that’s not how it starts
/r/askTRP31/03/19 10:28 PM
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If you think you have to lose your soul to get laid I feel pretty sad for the current state of your soul.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 10:25 PM
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If you have decided you don’t want to exist anymore this is your cue to become somebody else entirely. Quit doing all of the lame shit you do completely, don’t watch porn, don’t jerk off, don’t play video games, get off the internet. Get super serious about working out. https://self-compassion.org/category/exercises/ use these guided meditations to stop hating yourself. Fucking figure it out man. I don’t care how short or ugly you are or how much of a loser you are; I was a drug addict pathetic …
/r/askTRP31/03/19 10:24 PM
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You don’t have to be rich to get laid. Did you go to the main sub and read the side bar? If not you are breaking the rules by posting.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 01:36 PM
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I have the exact same problem man, it sucks shit.
/r/askTRP17/03/19 02:22 AM
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Gym
/r/askTRP16/03/19 12:08 AM
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I don’t understand your response so you might not have understood what I said but either way it’s literally scientifically proven that self compassion is positively correlated with self esteem and if you don’t have self esteem it doesn’t matter how much you achieve you will always rely on external validation which makes you a loser. And self compassion is not coddling or being complacent with failure either. It is the opposite of self loathing. Just be encouraging and nurturing of yourself every…
/r/askTRP15/03/19 10:04 PM
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Have a compassionate internal monologue
/r/askTRP15/03/19 09:55 PM
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I don’t have a good link, trust your own search engine abilities and your ability to tell the difference between a shitty article or video and a good one
/r/askTRP15/03/19 06:28 PM
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I can see you posted a few days ago about your horrible depression and hating yourself, sounds like you need my advice.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 06:10 PM
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Okay this is self compassion like I was talking about. You are more experienced in it than I am. OP listen to this guy
/r/askTRP15/03/19 06:06 PM
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You don’t have any self esteem. If you begin to practice self compassion it will increase and this is scientifically proven.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 04:55 AM
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You aren’t doing TRP right if getting older is making it harder to get girls, it is common knowledge that male smv increases as he ages. Did you even read the sidebar?
/r/askTRP14/03/19 02:26 PM
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You need to ask yourself these questions and stop looking to other people to solve your problems. Ask yourself WHY AM I SUCH A HUGE PUSSY? WHY DON’T OTHER PEOPLE RESPECT ME? WHY DON’T I RESPECT ME? WHAT IS IT GONNA TAKE TO CHANGE IT? Nobody on asktrp is gonna do the heavy lifting for you. Take fucking responsibility for yourself and stop asking everybody on the internet to figure it out for you. Go read the sidebar again because you don’t understand it. Read the books everybody recommends ad nau…
/r/askTRP14/03/19 04:06 AM
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Stop asking strangers on the internet for advice on how to live your life for one. Why are you so desperate for female attention? Why don’t you like yourself? What kind of people do you look up to? What are they doing with their lives? What is it going to take for you to think you’re the shit?
/r/askTRP14/03/19 04:02 AM
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Then think about all of the other men that they certainly do this to without guilt. They would never feel this guilt. It is like killing a psychopathic murder who does not feel remorse for his crimes. Nobody feels guilty about killing a man who killed countless others and felt no guilt. You should not feel guilty about breaking the heart of somebody who would break a thousand hearts without mercy.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 03:34 AM
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Is your job fulfilling? Do you have a meaningful hobby? You need to make your life so fucking sick that running around chasing women seems like a waste of time. It sounds like there is something you want to hear. I’m not going to give you one quick easy hack to fix your game. If that’s what you want you are missing the point.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 03:20 AM
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Even if you were ultra mega super chad, women will never REALLY love you. Not in the way you would love them. All they care about is whether or not you seem like a badass, they do not give two fucking shits about you and they never will. The best you could ever hope to be to a woman is a trophy, you are either a prize or nothing. So have a fucking real mission in life and get girls as a side effect of that.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 03:14 AM
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You give way too many fucks. It sounds like you don’t have a mission other than women and that you have put pussy in general on a giant pedestal. They can smell your desperation. Women will never make you happy. Find something else to care about and focus on that, make it more important than women. Dealing with women will be easier afterwords.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 03:11 AM
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It probably sounded like you were feeling bad for yourself. It’s nobody else’s responsibility to encourage you to engage in RP behavior but your own. Do you want to get better or do you want to be a loser forever? If you don’t want to be a loser and you are fucking pissed that you are a loser and have always been a fucking loser nothing will discourage you. Nobody is coming to save you, you’re gonna fucking lose if you don’t save yourself. There should be a beast inside of you that refuses to lo…
/r/askTRP14/03/19 02:13 AM
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Mine too, I believe that it is toxic and you should consider cutting off your family members if you can’t get them to change their behavior towards you.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 11:15 PM
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If you have 40 kids and half of them reproduce it doesn’t matter what their job is you still reproduced. If I had no conscience I would do this without hesitation but the idea of 40 copies of me trying to navigate the world without my help seems like the cruelest thing I could do.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 06:44 PM
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ODB is a true inspiration :’)
/r/askTRP13/03/19 06:01 PM
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I don’t want to talk about it, if you are as arrogant as I was, good luck. Stop jerking off, stop watching porn, regrow your foreskin, if you do all of this the condom will feel good enough to satisfy you. A woman is always going to try to break you down, it is their nature. Giving her monogamy is conceding to her frame and you have begun an uphill battle, you’ve basically already lost. Risk is not worth reward. If you want an ltr for sex you’re foolish. Spin plates for sex. Ltr for having a chi…
/r/askTRP13/03/19 05:58 PM
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Don’t let your need for a specific type of sex suck you into an ltr, I tried that against my better judgement, my life exploded. Get control of your sexuality, don’t let it control you!
/r/askTRP13/03/19 05:34 PM
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what is mpo
/r/askTRP07/05/18 03:38 PM
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if you're a powerlifter you might be fat
/r/TheRedPill29/04/18 06:57 PM
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That's the danger in not having more than one woman at a time: once you have one you gotta try to find another
/r/askTRP19/01/18 12:27 AM
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Thanks for this, I tried to ask this same question the other day and I didn't explain my problem nearly as well as this guy and got awful answers.
/r/askTRP13/01/18 08:23 PM
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I must not've explained myself well. I do go out to have fun, and I have a lot of fun, and not only do I do not find lowest common denominator banter with basic chicks to be fun, I barely see them as people. It's not so much outcome independence as not caring enough. That's my problem.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 07:33 PM
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My dad's frame is fucking weak too, and it bothers the fuck out of me
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 08:18 AM
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Well shit this explains why I haven't gotten laid in so long even though I'm getting more interest than I ever have I'm very busy and moving too slow because I don't FEEL like it when I have my window and then I do but it's too late, that's why I'm going to stop jacking off, so that I definitely DO feel like it when I have the opportunities. Time to turn up the heat and get laid a lot
/r/seduction10/11/17 10:46 AM
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This was the only post left I needed to read, thank you very much for telling me what I needed to hear
/r/TheRedPill16/10/17 09:12 AM
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this guy only believes this because he's a muslim. it is true however that meditation can and does sometimes bring thoughts buried in your subconscious to the front of your mind, so if you are mentally unstable it might not be good for you yet https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/health-and-families/features/meditation-is-touted-as-a-cure-for-mental-instability-but-can-it-actually-be-bad-for-you-10268291.html
/r/TheRedPill09/07/17 11:26 AM
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This is literally how I have friends and do anything ever. Can confirm it works
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 07:19 PM

you sound like a bitter autist
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 09:48 PM
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i feel like he's just a moron
/r/askTRP24/04/17 01:01 AM
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This was after all the fun before leaving, plus I was lit up and her life was more interesting to me than the people that were still there
/r/askTRP24/04/17 12:18 AM
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she said he doesn't get it but I do
/r/askTRP24/04/17 12:15 AM

I was making good progress but I don't know how to find the right attitude. Lately I'm pinging between too mean or too nice and I don't know how I'm supposed to get into the right frame of mind. I was getting more female attention for a period and then found myself unable to actually secure a date. I feel like I was getting laid more before I swallowed the pill
/r/askTRP23/04/17 08:03 PM
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now you're wasting time you could have spent looking for the save button replying to comments :(
/r/seduction19/04/17 06:39 PM
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I needed this thread, thank you all
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 07:04 PM
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My beta dad is the opposite of your father, hardcore republican but hardcore Catholic and totally pussy whipped by my mom.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 07:03 PM
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If you had recorded that or gotten it in writing from her could she still get you to pay if you did get her pregnant? Asking for a friend
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 03:24 AM
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You're right, it is insanely egotistical. If anything it would have been a small part of a chain of events leading up to it.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 12:33 AM
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