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sumethreuaweiei/r/askTRP28/03/18 05:05 AM
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sumethreuaweiei/r/askTRP08/04/19 03:12 PM
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sumethreuaweiei/r/askTRP14/12/19 05:44 AM
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the women you're with aren't your friends? or at least, they would do things for you, and you would do things for them.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 07:40 AM
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sure, but that’s when there’s potential. and when there isn’t?
/r/askTRP14/12/19 06:56 AM
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We might not know what we want, but we do know what we don't want, yet we continue to fuck hoes. If I'm fucking anything under an 8, I'm not in it in the long-term. And if she has no future, is stupid, is damaged, etc. I'm not in it for the long-term. example: "How was Thanksgiving?" "Oh yeah, spent it with my mom baking cookies because my dad isn't around and the rest of the family doesn't talk to us" -> damaged You don't need to fuck them or talk to them for long to figure this shit out.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 06:50 AM
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each person adds up. and doing this knowingly prevents her from finding someone she could be in a fulfilling relationship with.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 06:45 AM
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you're also preventing them from finding someone that they might be compatible with in the long-term
/r/askTRP14/12/19 06:44 AM
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Thanks chad. is it also natural to want a virgin? high n-count women damages women, but it doesn't matter if you increase her count, right? emotional baggage doesn't exist? your 18-year old son consents to drugs, eating candy and skipping classes. you let him do what he wants because he's an adult, right? when you turn 18, you're magically mature enough to understand life and its consequences?
/r/askTRP14/12/19 06:38 AM
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Because it helped me to get to where I am now, but it's unfulfilling, so I'm looking for the next step. I don't understand the cognitive dissonance between believing that fucking damages women, but also engaging in the same behavior that ya'll consider wrong.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 06:30 AM
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yea, thanks bro. why are we doing this to our females?
/r/askTRP14/12/19 06:20 AM
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I'm also gonna sound like a douche, but the girls I get with always end up attached. the last girl I was with cried and fucked up her grades because she couldn't focus or sleep after I said I didn't want her as a gf and just wanted to fuck. you can't tell me that there's something biological that makes fucking these women attached I don't need to nut because it drains my energy anyway.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 06:17 AM
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Because I don't see my female community as fuck toys. These are our mothers and sisters. I'm not going to be the person who prevents someone from being in a fulfilling relationship just so I can get off. I don't need sex. It's enjoyable, but nutting drains my energy.
/r/askTRP14/12/19 06:15 AM
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Lets say a girl is in a year long relationship with her bf, and they have sex 300 times Ok, I'll buy that argument. But, Now let’s say you meet a girl whose N count is in the hundreds and she’s had sex 10,000 times, but she tells you she’s been with 3 guys. Would you know? Yes, she's damaged as fuck. You'll tell from her dead-eyed stare and cynicism. The way she talks like a hoe, carries herself like a hoe, and probably doesn't enjoy sex with a guy unless he's a pro. Which one do you want? if yo…
/r/askTRP14/12/19 06:11 AM
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let me rephrase then. ya'll believe damaged women have high n-counts, but continue increasing the n-counts of women in general. how do you deal with the cognitive dissonance?
/r/askTRP14/12/19 06:02 AM
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reread the question. you missed the point. regardless of whether the examples were correct, I was saying: pick x race for y reason if you want an intelligent son, adopt a jewish son. if you want a strong son, adopt an eastern european. why reproduce using your genes, especially if you were raised in a shitty household? why are genetics necessary for parent-child relationships? is this supported by any evidence? children imprint to who they’re with at a young age. you’d feel just as devastated if…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/19 08:06 AM
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if you’re selecting for specific characteristics and your genes don’t matter, why not just adopt then? nordics for highest iq, certain african tribes for most physically powerful, etc.?
/r/TheRedPill03/12/19 06:47 AM
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I mean, legitimately, yes. If you had an awful upbringing, still deal with mental issues and haven’t grown up with proper mentor ship and guidance, why the fuck would you bring another person into this world? Why continue your suffering into another generation when you could allow more stable communities to reproduce instead?
/r/TheRedPill02/12/19 06:35 AM
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how? mass deportation would see a huge backlash
/r/TheRedPill02/12/19 06:33 AM
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but Europe is fucked too, isn’t it?
/r/TheRedPill29/11/19 02:43 AM
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this is the same shit from my parents that has made me anti-immigrant
/r/TheRedPill29/11/19 02:42 AM
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personally makes me anti-immigrant
/r/TheRedPill29/11/19 02:42 AM
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I posed this to the OP as well: if someone had vile parents, why reproduce and continue their filthy genetic legacy?
/r/TheRedPill29/11/19 02:41 AM
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Honest question: if your parents were such shit, why are you reproducing and continuing their genetic legacy?
/r/TheRedPill29/11/19 02:39 AM
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getting beat the fuck out of is different than zoning out. I train BJJ casually and prep for encounters. but when I’m at home or listening/reading psychology, I think about my own shit and live in my head for a little while. how do you suggest reforming behaviors?
/r/askTRP31/10/19 04:02 AM
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If people just love you regardless of whether you're at alow point or a high, then wtf defines a low or a high point for you? because you trust that I know the difference if I'm making reasonable strides and not just a neckbeard/stoner. Let's say I'm a uni student going to decent school with 25% – 33% acceptance rate. I'm making B+ to A- grades, my nutrition is pretty good, but I'm struggling with eating enough to gain muscle. Let's say I'm an entrepreneur paying myself $60k – $70k after deducti…
/r/askTRP29/10/19 08:55 PM
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Then you either need an LTR or an OLTR Isn't the whole point of a plate/fwb to have a woman that isn't interested in other guys, but understands you come with the condition of nonexclusivity? Even so, I've told her that I wasn't seeing anyone else (for now), and I enjoyed spending time with her. At least she's an "ethical" slut Because she's telling the truth? You should introduce light bondage into the bedroom Already done, as per SGM recommendation: using a necktie to tie her up or cover her m…
/r/askTRP13/10/19 02:08 AM
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to love me is to accept me at my worst Why is this a bad thing? Wouldn’t everyone be happy with someone who stuck around during your low points, or if someone was with you on your ‘journey’ from beta to alpha?
/r/askTRP12/10/19 10:33 PM
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Thank you for taking the time to respond. jelq Jelqing is dick extension and increasing hardness by ‘milking’ yourself to increase bloodflow. Except you are the kind of guy who gets with girls who sleep around; that's why you have plates. The intention was “sleep around” = multiple men in rotation why do you care? The thought of another man pumping/dumping, licking her body and sucking on her mouth is frankly disgusting. I don’t want to think about her sucking someone off while I’m kissing her. …
/r/askTRP12/10/19 10:24 PM
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my plate wants to see other ‘fun’ guys when she visits her hometown during thanksgiving. Any advice on improving so she might be less inclined to sleep around? I’ve already read SGM, ramped up my cardio, and started jelqing. I’m thinking about telling her “I’m not the kind of guy who gets with girls who sleep around. You can do what you want, but I’m not interested in being part of your rotation”
/r/askTRP12/10/19 05:34 PM
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any guides or youtube videos regarding this for laymen?
/r/TheRedPill25/08/19 05:50 PM
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any guides or youtube videos regarding this for laymen?
/r/TheRedPill25/08/19 05:50 PM
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Are you willing to show me your response, or are you worried that you don't have a proper answer? I am fine if you admit the latter, it would just confirm that my questions are difficult.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/19 02:48 PM
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I don't think you understand that after years of self-reflection, these are the conclusions I have come to. If I am looking at a box from the top, no amount of "honest self reflection" will allow me to see the bottom.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/19 04:22 PM
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Mate, I sincerely reached out to you for help and asked for an opportunity to change my mind. Why would you avoid the questions after typing a response? I am a refugee. I escaped from a broken system without help. I don't have parents. I have gotten this far with a computer I bought from working two jobs. I implemented the sidebar by lifting, doing martial arts, learning monetizable skills, and excelling in my hobbies. I don't understand what else you want me to do to help myself to escape from …
/r/TheRedPill13/07/19 10:02 PM
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I understand that I have a problem, and I’m hoping you can answer my questions so I not only hear what you are saying, but internalize it as well. Thank you in advance. overcoming your baggage is key to building attraction Baggage exists in your mind because it exists in reality. If you have alcoholic parents, they are still alcoholic parents even if you make peace with having an unhappy childhood. The person with a more stable family can provide them as a network, and become an extension of her…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/19 09:18 PM
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Sometimes bad behavior is something that even they don’t realize. What do you do when you’ve met someone who is generally quite high quality (low n, attractive, feminine, went to Oxbridge), but doesn’t understand certain behaviors are wrong, or is naïve? You punish them for not being perfect, or do you help them understand?
/r/TheRedPill07/07/19 09:13 AM
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don’t get destroyed by anyone you wrongfully offended. You can get fucked and crushed like a bug if you fuck with wrong people TRP: Don't give a fuck about offending people ?
/r/TheRedPill25/06/19 12:24 AM
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Not everyone can be an elite entrepreneur. If you don't have bottom steps, how do you have a staircase? The people who are at the "bottom" of a non-egalitarian social structure would go mad if you told them that they were expendable and not as valuable as others. In addition, is there a real way to calculate this "value"? We're made of differences in personality types, body types, etc. because the variation allows adaptability. If food supplies ran short, the fat feminists would be the ones that…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/19 07:53 PM
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Thank you very much. I will implement some changes based on the recommendations in this thread, and then observe if I need exogenous T after a month or so. Do you have any suggestions on how I can begin research if I want to supplement T?
/r/askTRP08/04/19 10:50 PM
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Is medical care so rare in America that you are considered a bitch for going? I have not had medical care my whole life, and decided to check my health levels because it was free. I have no experience with my endocrine system. Is that something I should check?
/r/askTRP08/04/19 08:05 PM
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Not much, used to do 1-2 times daily. But I discovered it in middle school, so it most likely affected me. I've stopped for the last 7 days, but still no morning wood or anything
/r/askTRP08/04/19 08:03 PM
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Any resources to find these things in Europe? Another person suggested using a patch
/r/askTRP08/04/19 05:25 PM
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Fixed your energy, T-levels, or intolerances?
/r/askTRP08/04/19 05:17 PM
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Yes, but in Europe the minimum cutoff is 8 nmol/L and I'm at 9 which is considered "healthy." I had to argue just to get a testosterone test because the guy said I don't have man boobs. They said the same thing about 5.5 glucose level being "healthy", and online it said I was pre-diabetic.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 05:16 PM
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I'm trying to bulk though, so would I use salads instead of my rice? Rice is high in calories and less filling
/r/askTRP08/04/19 03:44 PM
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The decrease from morning to afternoon is approximately 30%. If I was at 10.4 mmol/L (300 ng/dl), a 1/3 decrease would still put me at around 7 mmol/L (200 ng/dl). What do you eat the peanut butter and tuna with?
/r/askTRP08/04/19 03:40 PM
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I barely have enough room for e.g. rice+chicken, how much and what kinds of veg do you add to a typical meal? In addition: Allergies: eggs Only use olive oil and butter Don't drink I do not use a microwave or plastic containers
/r/askTRP08/04/19 03:33 PM
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Probably not eating enough food, I become full easily and I am not sure how to plan my meals. Most bodybuilding guides recommend eggs, dairy and protein powder which I do not digest well. It was taken in the afternoon after the doc recommended to eat something beforehand. I had almonds, walnuts, peanuts and some oranges.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 03:30 PM
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Thank you for this man, this is incredible and I appreciate it very much. I have some questions: First, are you not concerned about a 25 year time horizon to make back your 300k investment? Or are you including the additional opportunity cost of rent? However, with rent you don't have to concern yourself with taxes and repair costs. If you're working with a home near a university, it's both pricey and messy with students. There's also no guarantee a house will be available because the current ow…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/18 06:40 PM
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She’s not at the event. Should I text and ask if she’s here?
/r/askTRP06/12/18 11:30 AM
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Hey mate, I'm 21 in uni and I would love to be where you are regarding real estate. Any advice?
/r/TheRedPill06/12/18 12:25 AM
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You don't recommend being a cook? How did you get to the position you’re at now?
/r/TheRedPill06/12/18 12:21 AM
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Any tips on getting a bulls it job just to sustain yourself?
/r/TheRedPill06/12/18 12:19 AM
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Family Alpha looks like a pussy. Deer eyes
/r/TheRedPill04/12/18 10:19 PM
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Thank you for responding, I really appreciate it. I feel like I'm chaperoning I know it's stupid because I'm inexperienced. This is the third girl I've been with. #1 was a shitty hookup this September. I'm currently plating #2 who loves as much aggression as I can give I can't do this I tried to fuck, but she didn't like it aggressive, she didn't like it from behind, and she didn't ask to use a condom until I suggested it and wouldn't let me take it off afterwards. On top of all this, I was nerv…
/r/askTRP03/12/18 05:38 PM
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Lmao this is incredible
/r/askTRP03/12/18 02:52 PM
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u/VasilyZaitzev would appreciate your input because you know how to handle confusing shit like this
/r/askTRP03/12/18 02:43 PM
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Explain where I could've done better.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 03:58 AM
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Fuck man. Does it really seem like I didn't use enough comfort? I don't understand why she's leveraging the other guy then. If I didn't send my text, I would've sounded desperate from our last interaction. Regardless, I'm seeing her again and I can act like I'm not upset, or just throw more comfort.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 03:55 AM
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I get that I fucked myself, but I still think it's salvageable if I'm nonchalant when we meet again.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 03:50 AM
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Feel like an alpaca male yet?
/r/askTRP20/07/18 06:53 AM
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Good one
/r/askTRP20/07/18 06:50 AM
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Jesus Christ man. I said I’m a work in progress. I’m not the one who brought up roids.
/r/askTRP20/07/18 06:44 AM
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I’m not doing roids because of money and joint issues. I haven’t worked out long enough and I don’t know enough about it either. I’m not drinking because I don’t want to.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 09:12 PM
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Idk how man.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 08:04 PM
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?
/r/askTRP19/07/18 06:33 PM
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if you don’t know how to sell your product Me as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 06:15 PM
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I have a degree 1 ac joint separation (stretched). Roids are no go for fucked joints
/r/askTRP19/07/18 06:09 PM
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Lmaoooooo. And nah the American stereotype is for the cowboy, lumberjack, or Wall Street Noo Yolka. I’m a fuckin skinny allahackbar that happens to sound murican
/r/askTRP19/07/18 05:57 PM
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the gainz man
/r/askTRP19/07/18 05:38 PM
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Spotted the Muhammad. I’m ex Muslim if you haven’t noticed. We can go more in depth with how much of a cancer it is to society if you want to discuss in PM. A lot of it is inherent to any religion, so it’s not entirely personal if you’re concerned about that. How? Everyone’s at middle school English levels in Scandinavia. Butchering their language makes them uncomfortable because they’d rather have you speak English Doing them alone? If you’re over 24, probably not. My age, bitches love social s…
/r/askTRP19/07/18 05:38 PM
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That’s chill. I’m reading on PUA and shit right now to work out some kinks and learn how to get people more hype. It’s annoying sometimes because of the shitty language barrier, they’re at middle school English levels. I’m also not that high SMV so idk if I come off like a faggot. I’m not trying to drink so idk how to get along with all these alcoholics and fucking 15 year olds
/r/askTRP19/07/18 05:31 PM
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I’ve been out, it’s all alcoholism and 15 year olds
/r/askTRP19/07/18 05:28 PM
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Bro lmao I’ve seen your name everywhere
/r/askTRP19/07/18 05:18 PM
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I’m 20. I physically and mentally fucked up my siblings for years because that’s all I was taught by my parents. They’re permanently betafied, but I’ve shown them reading and lifting. How are you and your siblings? What helped undo the fucked up conditioning? I have a shoulder injury and early stage arthritis from a fight that I was taken down in one hit, from telling a guy to fuck off and leave me alone. Do you train without fear of injury? Does being hypervigilant become tiresome? I’m afraid o…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 06:25 AM
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Calls are best when, and what do you say?
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 04:58 PM
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7% average return is studied over three decades, not per annum.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 01:58 AM
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Why calling over texting a girl? It seems strange. I call friends all the time, but for girls it seems like a bit much
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 01:53 AM
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I feel like traveling is overhyped. Currently in Denmark and it’s nothing special.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 05:41 PM
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I feel like worldliness is overhyped. Currently in Denmark and it’s nothing special.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 05:40 PM
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Dead first link
/r/askTRP30/06/18 11:48 AM
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Goddamn. I’m 21, the last injections I got were vaccines as a child.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 06:26 PM
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lmfaoooooo
/r/askTRP28/06/18 04:03 PM
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Looks like BPC157 is only useful by injection because oral absorption isn’t any good
/r/askTRP28/06/18 04:02 PM
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Do you have any advice for someone with Degree 1-2 AC shoulder separation and early stage osteoarthritis? A drunk acquaintance dropped me on my shoulder and I’m incredibly pissed that my shoulder is fucked.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 12:14 AM
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lmfaoooooo
/r/askTRP27/06/18 08:07 PM
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This is actually a very common symptom in abused children. See Harlow’s monkeys
/r/askTRP27/06/18 12:11 AM
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1 out of every 10 guys is rare?
/r/askTRP26/06/18 04:22 PM
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If you’re too 20% wouldn’t hypergamy make girls just go for top 10%? 5%?
/r/askTRP26/06/18 02:46 PM
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From my understanding, common law isn’t as big of a deal and separate assets still remain separate.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 05:23 AM
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It’s an issue because they don’t know the real me. I haven’t achieved anything, formed any relationships, lifted much. Fucked up family, no money, no sexual experience, no interesting hobbies, no culture, no adventures, no social skills. I’m a work in progress. I anticipate a shittest where they see me make a social fuckup and just wait on them to reject me
/r/askTRP14/06/18 12:34 AM
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I’m probably a 6 approaching 7, and I’ve had 8s into me consistently. I get worried because I don’t have any experience or the body/stamina to get the experience.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 09:09 PM
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I meant, what do you personally use that won’t socially fuck you up. Depressed, alcoholic, neglected etc. are too much. If you said something like, “I want to help orphaned children because my friend had a fucked past.” That’s not putting yourself down, yet also shows ‘vulnerability.’ My buddy’s go-to vulnerability is about loving dogs.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 12:02 AM
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What vulnerabilities can you fake that don’t make you look like a faggot?
/r/askTRP10/06/18 11:48 PM
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No gi or gi for beginners? Also what about CTE?
/r/askTRP10/06/18 10:51 PM
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I had an acquaintance talking to me belligerently drunk and at that point I didn't give a shit about being alpha. I looked at her and said "Seriously, how drunk are you? Grow the fuck up." And the next day she told me she loved it. I don't understand because I thought I was supposed to keep my cool
/r/askTRP24/04/18 04:35 AM
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Not opening, but for example I had a girl came in belligerently drunk and at that point I didn't give a shit about being alpha. I looked at her and said "Seriously, how drunk are you? Grow the fuck up." And the next day she told me she loved it. I don't understand because I thought I was supposed to keep my cool
/r/askTRP23/04/18 02:08 AM
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Incredibly difficult when you were raised by a family of narcissists. Physical and verbal attacks were a part of daily life. Now that I'm in university, I'm angry that I'm part of the minority that had to deal with this. If my family had an ounce of emotional control, I could have been a Chad long ago. I wouldn't have a dysfunctional family, no empathy, and maybe some friends. I don't even know what kind of brain damage it might've done and whether my IQ or height could have been better in the l…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/18 02:02 AM
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I see positive qualities, but I see them paying off in the long-run. I don't fit in with anyone. As dumb as this sounds, I'm 'unplugged' and just can't relate to anyone around me. I'm focused on self-improvement, but everyone around me is focused on having a good time and building relationships, which I don't know how to do. I feel like an unrelatable alien, which is why I don't think I can pull. I get along so much better with older people, which makes me feel like an old man.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 06:55 AM
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I'm not going for anything lower than a 7 when the girls saying they like me are 7's and 8's
/r/askTRP28/03/18 03:10 PM
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I think it's because I hate myself. I know they can already do better. I'm at a state school where there's plenty of rich, white, ripped, tall alpha dudes in status-boosting fraternities. When a girl likes me, the only thing I can think is "why me and not another dude?" I come off as aloof to them only because I'm nervous because all they need to do is find out I'm a loser. Here are some examples: I dress well and have good posture so it gives off the vibe that I have muscles, but I'm skinnyfat.…
/r/askTRP28/03/18 02:53 PM
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I'm telling you I can do these things like get preselection and all the other shit but I don't know the process itself.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/18 03:53 PM
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Thanks man. I'm in uni and I don't know what to do and I'm having such a hard time pulling. I'm at an athletic school so it looks like anyone and everyone can lay good pipe anyway and they've got money to do exciting shit. I'm still working on lifting, I'm 150lb 6ft 13% bf. I can do all the techniques like teasing, spiking the conversation, being humorous sometimes, pass shit tests and whatnot, but I literally don't know what to do. It's like having a bunch of tools and not knowing what the fuck…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 11:48 PM
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First off, how the fuck did you learn this? Second, how do you get a girl to the point where they're this committed that you can safely ghost them for three days? What happens if she doesn't contact you for three days, and if she contacts you within one or two, do you tell her you'll see her later because you're busy?
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 11:10 PM
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fucking Pavlov lol
/r/askTRP15/01/18 05:03 PM
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What's wrong with not being consumed by urges? Just curious
/r/askTRP15/01/18 03:36 AM
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Thank you bro. You just inspired me to take a year off to lift and gain social skills. I'm going to go study abroad. I don't know if I should backpack afterwards, but I have a scholarship that lasts 5 years and covers 1/3 of the cost of attendance.
/r/askTRP13/01/18 05:00 AM
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Fuck. I have shit status and a bad body. I might've benefitted before but I'm closing up my second year to be an upperclassman. I might get my younger siblings to take a gap year though. When did you take your gap and what did you do? How did things change? Also, will money help? Because I'm going to sell my soul to the devil for a bit making cash for a few years by working my ass off in a lucrative field
/r/askTRP13/01/18 12:40 AM
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How do you improve your status?
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 07:50 AM
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My problem is that I consider a girl that I'm attracted to as a girl out of my league. It's going to feel the same with all of them. Like I said, Greek life dominates.
/r/askTRP11/12/17 05:59 AM
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So my SMV doesn't improve with any of those things? Looks, money, and status are most important, but like I said these top tier dudes have it all from going Greek and I'm not sure what to do As for the last sentence, you're advocating for practice girls rather than girls I'm genuinely into?
/r/askTRP10/12/17 10:19 PM
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yo you have me really fucked up. I do this so much and shut myself down because I'm not Alpha. Hell, I even made a post about it earlier this week if you wanna check it out
/r/askTRP01/12/17 08:59 AM
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1) how do you train a chick? withholding attention/affection won't make you look butt hurt? 2) I'm a colored dude. Sorry to say but my dick only goes up for white women. Am I fucked? Idk about children yet tbh, stats: 19/barely 6ft/145 lb 3) how did you not kill your self after catching something? I haven't gotten intimate with a chick at all but that shit scares the fuck out of me
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 03:16 AM
0

What qualities should I try to bring to the table? Wouldn't mind specifics as an undergrad also
/r/TheRedPill01/12/17 01:35 AM
1

How do you give? I don't have top tier looks enough for people to approach me but I have knowledge that people find valuable as fuck. People who would normally turn me down e.g. student body president, esteemed professors, president of a fraternity, and a few chicks hear some of what I have to offer and they want to talk indefinitely. But there's no way I can reveal that information or my résumé without seeming like a showoff or an autist. I try to "speak less than necessary" but people just ign…
/r/askTRP30/11/17 06:27 PM
4

The video you linked, couldn't she just be a newer reporter that's nervous? Looks young enough for that to be plausible
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 04:17 PM
1

Thank you for this. I've been reconsidering marriage a lot and it's interesting to hear that it might be a bad idea. My friend found a 'unicorn' and she blew up on him and he was thinking "yeah I'm really rethinking how I thought I would marry her. Fuck that now." I have the opportunity to go to Europe this summer (study abroad) and be left on my own. Any tips? 19 6'0 145lb well-dressed, bordering on 20 in a couple months, still haven't gotten intimate at all with a chick because I confused girl…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 07:26 PM
2

Damn dude how did you pull in class and where did you take her?
/r/askTRP28/11/17 04:05 PM
1

I don't like either of them.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 10:30 PM
1

What was your count when leaving uni?
/r/askTRP26/11/17 10:17 PM
2

How would an immigrant get over this or are they fucked for life?
/r/TheRedPill26/11/17 08:59 PM
1

Ok, so should I learn and keep up with mainstream sports even though I don't care? Also, isn't bitching (negativity) just a no-go? Cars? Politics is risky? Video games aren't autistic?
/r/askTRP29/10/17 02:12 AM
1

Yeah I'm fucked as far as social environment goes. I don't know how to make bullshit talk. I can talk for hours with my two bros but I'm fucked with everyone else. My bros know me inside and out though so it's different with them.
/r/askTRP29/10/17 12:26 AM
1

Like what topics? What's appropriate to talk about and when should you just listen? What about trying to say as little as necessary?
/r/askTRP29/10/17 12:16 AM
1

What clarification or context? Im basically asking about just bro talk
/r/askTRP29/10/17 12:11 AM
1

My biggest fear is that my dick won't be working as well as it is now. I'm 20
/r/askTRP20/08/17 12:47 AM
1

Yeah this shit happened to me in high school. I'd hang out with mostly younger kids, and I was a weirdo because I couldn't find anyone my own age
/r/askTRP17/08/17 07:33 PM
1

It's more like, "Can't find anyone your own age? No friends your own age?"
/r/askTRP17/08/17 07:25 PM
1

I'm 19 a sophomore and I feel like a fucking predator to these freshman coming in because I'm too focused on seeing them as plate material beyond anything else. Idk how you did it at that old
/r/askTRP17/08/17 07:13 PM
5

That was a really fucking good explanation on frame and I appreciate that, should make a post on it. Do you actively search for why she may have thought some way or do you just think of it in different perspectives? What about for a group? A group of guys thinking that something you said is stupid is a lot more powerful than just 1v1 Still not sure on how to learn pressure flips though, lol.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 09:41 AM
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See you don't help at all. I can definitely wait, it'll just make me slow. Swift justice is what makes it good. But you didn't explain how to get good at pressure flips themselves. Structure, how to say one, where to learn them, get better ones. "Think about them harder" is the equivalent of "read the sidebar"
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 08:56 AM
1

True, pressure flips are great but how do you learn them? These are the glorified "witty comebacks" that make you legendary because they're scarce. Amused Mastery = Ignoring or brushing off, it'll just egg them on A&A with males will make you look like a clown. With chicks you should use it when you've established that you aren't a bitch, but that takes a little bit
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 07:14 AM
1

How do you come up with this shit? I always stay silent, pressure flips are hard as fuck. But when I ignore it they egg on and eventually disrespect is the norm
/r/askTRP26/07/17 07:07 AM
1

What do you do when you don't deer? There's a lot of material on shutting up but not much on when or what to say
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 07:05 AM
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Damn, I feel like shit for missing out on the babes who gave me signs and I just thought they were out of my league
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 08:44 AM
1

NLP has been proven to be bullshit multiple times. How do you teach someone to love themselves when they are constantly seeking self improvement to get away from their current selves?
/r/askTRP24/07/17 02:20 AM
1

I thought you were only supposed to keep your weaknesses to yourself?
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 07:32 PM
1

How'd you keep her still attracted on the way back? How'd you start fuckin, did you close the door and just start making out?
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 06:17 PM
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Force him to see what his noob gains at the gym can do, get him into a sport, sit him down and meditate with him outside, more extreme could be to block anime from the router level
/r/askTRP22/05/17 12:41 AM
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You ever try to help your own brother out?
/r/askTRP21/05/17 07:20 PM
1

I'd also like that PM, archery sounds badass but I don't even know where to start
/r/askTRP21/05/17 07:18 PM
2

I thought you were supposed to use the friends as preselection?
/r/askTRP21/05/17 07:43 AM
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There's one major flaw in your argument. I don't think shooting the shit has no value. It's rapport and trust building.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/17 06:00 PM
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Here's the thing — I actually, genuinely don't like people beyond their human capital. Most people, especially at a younger age, aren't doing shit with their time or their lives so they aren't building anything, they aren't creating anything. I have things to build and create, I'm not going to waste time on them when I can invest that time in myself by lifting, reading, or doing some other "masculine" hobby. Here's where the paradox comes in. When I see someone of higher value or SMV, however, I…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/17 05:56 PM
1

That's the problem — how to have fun. I'm a book nerd man. I don't even know what hobbies to pick up. I go to the gym, run, I've taken up dancing. I can try picking up basketball and get back into swimming & poker, but that's all. I don't know how to give a good time, I'm a lone wolf and prefer becoming more intelligent over anything else
/r/askTRP19/05/17 02:57 AM
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Yeah I've read but it's basically not to treat girls special and what they're capable of. I get that but as a bro how do I kick it back or have a generally good time with her
/r/askTRP19/05/17 02:19 AM
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How do you retrain the looking away reaction? I got caught checking out a girl on accident and when I looked further up she was smiling at me. I looked away hurriedly and instantly thought to myself, "fuck, I should've smiled back." I felt her attraction just dive and didn't get any acknowledgement from her when I saw her later
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 08:44 PM
1

Yeah I just wanted the MBA at first but tacking on the JD for just another year is something that would be cool. I'm confident that I can get a great score on the GMAT/LSAT to get into a top school. Four years at Harvard preferably or even three for Yale could set me up for anything. It's several years down the line but I put a lot of value on education. I just want to make a shit ton of cash lol Social skills are shit rn but I'm working on it with books and joining activities. Did a cold approa…
/r/askTRP18/05/17 07:51 PM
1

I'm planning on doing an MBA/JD down the line. I assumed that I could recover my GPA if I have work experience and projects to demonstrate (CS major)
/r/askTRP18/05/17 09:06 AM
1

I'd enjoy more detail/discussion on this because the problem doesn't lie with the favors themselves — it's giving too much and thereby becoming less valuable once you've shared what you know. That's part of how the "mystery" value comes in with keeping to yourself
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 10:57 PM
1

Can you get into a top law school with an excellent LSAT but shitty GPA?
/r/askTRP17/05/17 10:54 PM
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Here's the problem; even if you never want to share, people can and will cut you off for being a leech. The best way to get help is to give help. It's give-and-take, and real networking happens when you have something to offer
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 05:02 PM
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I have the same problem. When a girl has a crush on me it's a turn off because I think, "Who would have such low standards to have a crush on me?"
/r/askTRP13/04/17 07:34 PM
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Common law is only legit in a few states
/r/askTRP13/04/17 12:45 AM
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Marriage without signing any legal documents. Basically a ring and a ceremony, possible cohabitation. I'm not well-versed in civil unions or domestic partnerships but I assume they're good alternatives to get the benefits of marriage without the possibility of divorce rape.
/r/askTRP12/04/17 08:16 PM
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Wtf? Give up the most access to chicks I'll ever get?
/r/askTRP04/04/17 11:09 PM
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I can't be completely outcome independent because I'm at a university — everyone knows everyone and each fuck up you make can and will screw you with a lot of different things
/r/askTRP04/04/17 10:52 PM
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I have the opposite problem. Girls useless, guys connections
/r/askTRP04/04/17 08:04 AM
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I haven't talked to her at all, her drunken reveal was the first time we've spoken. Like I said, we'd just introduced ourselves last Friday
/r/askTRP04/04/17 02:44 AM
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She isn't alone anymore, she's with a friend. Should I just wait it out the next time I see her?
/r/askTRP04/04/17 02:41 AM
1

Isn't this just basically brainwashing yourself / making yourself blissfully ignorant?
/r/askTRP03/04/17 07:32 PM
1

Would "I got it" or silence be a sufficient response as well if you're just picking up something small like ice cream?
/r/askTRP03/04/17 05:22 AM
1

1) How low of a rating would you go for sex? Girl across the hall wanted to smash, but she's a 4, 5 on a good day feminist depressed with barely shoulder length hair. Turned her down 2) I have a viscerally repulsive feeling towards girls who have been around or I see them whoring out. One 7 was into me and I somewhat regret not going for it, but she slept with a different dude every week/two weeks and it just disgusted the fuck out of me, especially because I knew three of the guys she was with.…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 09:01 AM
1

I'd prefer it. Probably weird but idk, seeing or imagining a chick with other dudes bugs me
/r/askTRP28/03/17 09:45 PM
2

So basically, if he refuses or insults you, tell him to leave and tell other people he hurt your feelings? Not trying to bash you but come on, man. Especially if it's somebody you barely know, they don't care to talk to you anyways
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 05:28 PM
2

The dose of trading an assault charge for a sexual assault charge?
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 05:15 PM
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You would've hit him or gone out of your way to press charges?
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 05:13 PM
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Like I said, your frame of "cringe" overtook his frame of "harmless flirting." Your reality superseded his. If his frame was stronger he would have felt absolutely no shame. Shame was the player here. The guy had personal issues. If it was a guy who was completely unapologetic about his actions, this would've turned out different.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 05:06 PM
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I also want to point out to you specifically that you may have hurt yourself in the long run because people don't like to feel negative emotions. The group may not be on your side so I'd be cautious, especially because the guys knew eachother before you did, so you're in their territory. The only reason it worked out is because the guy's shame came out and destroyed his frame, so you got lucky.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 05:00 PM
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Handling disrespect is a very complicated topic imo. If it comes off wrongly you can piss people off for good. This is especially bad if you see them consistently. Friends will also disrespect you easily, but it comes with the cover of banter and joking around so you can't really do much about it. The worst part is though, is when they treat you like that in front of other people. The defense is always, "I was just kidding dude can't take a joke? Chill"
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 07:28 AM
2

How?
/r/askTRP27/03/17 08:21 PM
1

…Robert L. Moore ?
/r/askTRP26/03/17 07:39 PM
1

Anything specific you'd like for me to get started on?
/r/askTRP26/03/17 07:27 PM
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PDF link?
/r/askTRP26/03/17 05:35 PM
2

Appreciate something other than a PUA book. Very interested in general human behavior, but don't know where to go in psychology, sociology, philosophy etc. I love to connect something someone said to something that they had in their childhood. For example, those who are typically "too nice" probably had a bad father figure
/r/askTRP26/03/17 05:32 PM
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RemindMe! 1 day I really want to see a response to this, also from u/VasiliyZaitzev - any analysis?
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 05:13 AM
3

This is all really interesting and I don't have an answer for any of it. I'd like to see an EC's perspective on the whole comment thread u/Archwinger u/TheeRyanGrey u/MattyAnon u/SirGaetanDugas
/r/TheRedPill18/03/17 11:20 AM
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how do you plan on connecting with women If you don't put your emotions forward she feels free to express herself?
/r/askTRP15/03/17 06:09 PM
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I love women because they're hypergamous What? Women aren't evil Can't get this out of my head. It just enrages me to see them. Pisses me off when I see chicks go slut it up at clubs or fraternity parties. Or if there was a chick who I was interested in take a new dick every weekend. Even the ones that are into me will take a different dude home each weekend, and it just repulses me and I push them away when they try to make a move on me, only to regret it later because it could've been an easy …
/r/askTRP15/03/17 06:07 PM
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I've read the sidebar and been reading the subs for at least a year or so. Just makes me hate women because they're evil. But I'm still attracted to them. Gaming a girl is different because there's the push-pull dance. When a girl completely throws herself at you, I have no idea what to do besides be bold, which even that I don't know how to do My question was specifically on coming out of the "I'm serious as fuck don't know how to have fun" frame and thinking chicks are weird for being into me
/r/askTRP15/03/17 04:46 PM
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So the stereotype that fat people are typically unintelligent is true?
/r/askTRP15/03/17 04:41 PM
1

So you'd ask her to see if she's that type, and if she says yes you'd drop her?
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 04:32 PM
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Any advice for those of us in a dorm? Also, how would you set this up? "Come over to my place, I've got some drinks that I think you'll like…" And the meet me outside part: "Meet me outside, I need to make sure you're not a thief or anything like that"
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 02:34 PM
1

If you absolutely have to before marriage, the only thing I'd say is to not sleep with a guy unless you're in an exclusive relationship with him. If they push, just say "I don't sleep with guys outside of a relationship." There was a post a long time ago about a guy who came across a girl like this and she stood her ground no matter who it was. He ended up wifing her up because she also had a lot more to offer than just her body, and had a very low notch count because it scared a lot of horny du…
/r/askTRP14/03/17 10:14 PM
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We're talking about your daughter, not some club slut. They like to fuck around but it damages them in the process. It's like being okay with letting your son get a drug addiction because "drugs make them feel good" or tobacco addiction "tobacco calms him down." On a lower level, porn, because "urges are natural."
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 09:48 PM
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Wanting a daughter who'll only grow up to get railed on the weekends is fucked. Unless you want to homeschool university or brainwash her into a nun
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 09:43 PM
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You need to be plotting… How?
/r/askTRP14/03/17 05:42 AM
1

Enjoy the decline? Is that all that's left? Then what's the point of fucking living? Oh and I couldn't take an 8 home. They need you to be bold as fuck and I'm not about to get arrested.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 12:30 AM
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My daughter is incredible and raising her right is a big part of my mission I'd contend that it's still impossible because there'll be a guy out there that will fuck her over/widow her if she doesn't marry a good guy (who she may or may not be attracted to) right away. Religion is a great suppressant as well, but it's like shaking a soda can where it's ready to burst.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 11:14 PM
1

You're twice the man I am for willingly not aborting a daughter. No idea with how you'd be comfortable with bringing a girl to this day and age
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 10:08 PM
2

What are some of the best ways to keep people dependent on you i.e. bring something to the table?
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 01:09 AM
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Any way to learn how to use this energy?
/r/askTRP13/02/17 09:37 PM
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I mean for example, if you talk about the philosophical meaningless of everything or you talk about how you believe a political idea is stupid, doesn't it count as seriousness?
/r/askTRP13/02/17 07:43 PM
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Mansplain? Also, I thought you weren't supposed to be serious and it was all supposed to be lighthearted
/r/askTRP13/02/17 07:11 PM
1

How do I improve socially? I feel like I'm actually autistic
/r/askTRP13/02/17 04:47 PM
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Can you please elaborate on your experiences?
/r/askTRP08/02/17 06:09 AM
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Why?
/r/askTRP08/02/17 06:04 AM
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Want to go into finance as an engineer Major: CS + Business, will attempt math minor and finance concentration Grad school: No, may consider if I get paid for MBA Nearby: State school is <1 hour, other school is out-of-state about 20 hours. However, I'd like to get away from home. Environment: State school is in small city and countryside, other school is massive city
/r/askTRP08/02/17 02:39 AM
1

Yes, I'm in STEM (CS+Business). Any scholarship recommendations besides r/scholarships and Scholly?
/r/askTRP08/02/17 02:35 AM
1

Should slim shady not go for 7's since he's just a 6?
/r/TheRedPill04/12/16 09:42 PM
0

Being happy all the time makes you look like a feminine clown. Smiling at a mildly attractive girl makes you lower SMV, because it looks like you're supplicating to her looks. The jester doesn't get laid or get respect. Having some kind of an 'attitude' makes them think you're guarded with who you give yourself to, making the 'chase' that much more fulfilling (i.e. gatekeeper of commitment).
/r/TheRedPill04/12/16 09:08 PM
2

How do you survive the pecking that comes with establishing a hierarchy in a group?
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 03:45 PM
1

Of the seven disciplines you've given me, which two or preferably even one would you recommend?
/r/askTRP17/09/16 05:53 PM
1

Thank you for the very helpful strategic advice. Another poster also recommended BJJ. Would you recommend that instead of Judo, and over Krav for self defense as well? Should I take up any basic wrestling? I also understand that boxing can make you lighter on your feet. I'd like to take on only one fighting style if possible with a typical "involved, busy engineer who also lifts"-type of schedule. How much time should I commit to training, and also weightlifting? What frequency will allow me to …
/r/askTRP16/09/16 09:51 PM
1

BJJ / Judo instead of boxing/Krav ?
/r/askTRP16/09/16 08:37 PM
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So, rather than saying, "You lost, I get the stick" you advocate beating people's ass for not knowing etiquette?
/r/askTRP16/09/16 07:49 PM
1

Another book to add to the list of 40+ recommended.
/r/askTRP16/09/16 07:03 PM
1

She was off to the side playing foosball. He didn't even see me speak with her.
/r/askTRP16/09/16 07:02 PM
1

No I haven't.
/r/askTRP16/09/16 07:00 PM
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Neutralizing jealousy/envy Any tips? She was an 8 but I doubt that was the reason.
/r/askTRP16/09/16 06:58 PM
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It was completely unexpected. I'd known him for a while and we saw eachother at the gym snd I'd talk to him sometimes. I didn't think he'd throw me. When he grabbed me from behind I thought he'd just move me to the side. And if I gave way to every guy who's bigger than me (a lot of guys in my athletics-dominated campus), I'd just be a pushover. I'm not playing pool anymore. I'll just read more.
/r/askTRP16/09/16 06:57 PM
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I'm fine, I have full range of motion. It's just a fucking pain that I'll have to be out for roughly a week
/r/askTRP16/09/16 05:59 PM
1

I didn't hit first? He threw me on the ground and I didn't retaliate because he had 40+ pounds on me
/r/askTRP16/09/16 05:26 PM
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Pros Satisfaction of hitting first Cons Arrested, expelled, homeless
/r/askTRP16/09/16 05:17 PM
1

The people you were with are now your acquaintances I wasn't going to have them fight back. One of my friends said "What was that, man." And the others didn't see anything except me suddenly on the floor. The rest were girls. You have a good point though. I'll ask what he was doing when I was on the ground. Where do I learn self-defense?
/r/askTRP16/09/16 05:10 PM
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Edit: There was an open table 5 meters away.
/r/askTRP16/09/16 05:09 PM
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I'm lifting. I'm going to be out for at least 5 days though. I tried to bench yesterday and my entire shoulder was in writhing pain. My knee can't bend back too far down so no squats either. Where do I learn self defense?
/r/askTRP16/09/16 05:08 PM
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Isn't there an implicit rule...? I edited my post. There was an open table 5 meters away. Is he well placed among your peers? He's a very chill guy. Made this even more surprising because I wouldn't have expected it. His voice seemed like he was playing around as well.
/r/askTRP16/09/16 05:07 PM
1

Fucking with girls heads is fun, but you have to learn to learn to put the ego aside and just put yourself at risk by escalating to physical contact That still hasn't answered my central questions. I have no be nonreactive but not boring as well? I have to be an asshole but be nice? Don't act like a child/goofball but have fun? Don't go for sluts but AWALT? Don't emotionally invest but LTRs are still okay? Be okay with sex but she'll make rape claims on you? Be a man but there are billions of ot…
/r/askTRP24/02/16 04:38 AM
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I am also deathly afraid of a false rape claim even though its about as likely as me getting buttraped. Yeah, it's pushing for MGTOW but attraction still exists. turning the ideas I have in my head into physical working apps I'm going to be taking engineering courses as well (combined CE & CS degrees). But that doesn't get rid of the central question: how many engineers could she get with anyway? Engineering isn't even an SMV-marketable skill either.
/r/askTRP24/02/16 04:30 AM
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I didn't "forget." I just said that so I could walk away. I don't understand how you can't show interest to demonstrate value, but showing interest lowers value. I feel the same when a girl tries to go up to me as well, "she must be weird/low value if she's coming up to me of all people." I'd get out of my head if I just knew the answers. I don't understand anything. And fixing myself is going to take a while, if it can even happen. Lifting will take 2 years to show results, and I can't change m…
/r/askTRP24/02/16 04:24 AM
1

Taking all of this in and not knowing how to act. It's overwhelming, honestly. After TRP, I find faults in every girl, and my mind automatically finds a way to think of her as a slut. I also feel like I'm late and time is going by too fast. Are girls who are attracted to me just weird? This, combined with other factors, have driven me insane. I'm not sure how I'm supposed to act. I try to be "nonreactive" but it just comes off as boring and as an asshole. As for friends, how do you tell one off …
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 11:30 PM
1

Get a job Already have one learn how to be comfortable in your own skin. Despite the fact that I will always be inferior?
/r/askTRP13/08/15 02:09 PM
1

Is a professional massage really worth it? Local area showing me it's for $45 for an hour, and apparently the effects are only temporary, even less than a day. As for local interest groups, those are forced meet ups as a group. There isn't much I can do outside of that specific group. How do I not be needy if I'm already giving off that vibe?
/r/askTRP13/08/15 02:29 AM
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