So I read some advice which included this:

  • She will start asking you lots of questions. This is what chicks do when they suddenly find themselves attracted to a man they know nothing about. This is your chance to open up a little and also find out more about her and build a deeper connection. You have to do this, or she will flake later (even if you've kissed her!) Women are the worst flakes in the world! Don't make it too easy for her, make her work for it a bit. Then talk about connections and childhood memories and things you have in common, etc. She needs to feel that this is genuine. This is usually the time when I throw in a few fake vulnerabilities, like pretending I'm shy or insecure about something. I know it's fucked up but women need to see that there are at least a few small holes where they can sink their hooks in you. They get uneasy if you are too perfect. (emphasis added)

Gentleman, this works. The ONLY people I've picked up and fucked recently I consciously followed this advice, thinking to myself, "God this is so fucked up. I am literally sitting here acting and pretending to be vulnerable about something I'm totally confident in. How fucked up is this."

Gentlemen: the women I didn't do this with, I didn't get farther with.

So what the FUCK kind of advice is this given The Red Pill?

How is faking vulnerability "holding frame"? Why is this necessary? Why, or how, can this possibly work?

The advice is totally, completely at odds with holding frame all the time: but I did that, and was rejected.

so....? Explain.