Why do you care so much about her potentially cheating?

If you set boundaries like a man then you should have enough self respect to just walk away as a man. If you don't, then you deserve everything you get because doormats are supposed to be walked over. If she's going to do it, she will, just like if it's going to rain, it will. If it rains you find shelter, or get an umbrella. You can't stop it raining. If she cheats, you cut her out of your life and on you go. You don't look back at her, because you're not going that way.

Why do you care if she wears certain things?

If she is coming home to you and fucking you good, there's no issue. In that case, the clothes would not be the issue anyway. It goes beyond that. Women want attention but so do men. That's why people like Cristiano Ronaldo are like how they are. That's why Instagram is full of male models also showing off. If she looks nice when out with you especially, that's also a compliment to you. You have this attractive women by your side, and other men only get to look.

Why do care if she hangs out with friends? They're a bad influence or they're males?

So what? Her male friends are just the emotional tampons there soaking up everything that you'd otherwise have to shut down. By the time she gets around to you, you can simply reassure her in a calm manner, and get it sorted with a solutions based approach. If her female friends are a bad influence, then simply tell her to have a great time because as with earlier on, if something's going to happen, it's going to happen.

Why do care about her drama and emotional outbursts?

You entertain it because you like it. You are a bitch. You sit there soaking it up, get into the gritty of it, and you lose all control. She didn't force you to do it. Her being dramatic and emotional is not a flaw, it's by design and as nature intended. You being a bitch is a flaw, and instead of either ignoring it, just giving her the look, or brushing it off swiftly in a way that shows that you cannot be moved, you allow yourself to be suckered in and then blame her for it.

This list could go on forever.

Why do you care?

Let's be honest here, you care so much because you are an insecure little bitch and are protecting your ego. This bullshit that wants acceptance and validation. Let it die and let the real you be born. Once you kill the ego, you can actually be yourself. It's time to let go.

The real red flag is that you've been brainwashed by society into caring so much about shit that doesn't matter to keep things in flux, just like women.

You've been brainwashed to give up your future children and have a career paying taxes for others and their kids. You've been brainwashed into thinking love is anything more than a marketing buzzword. You've been brainwashed into thinking that the traditional family home is a must for child raising and that you're not ready to become a father, like anyone is. You've been brainwashed into thinking monogamy is the only way. You've been brainwashed into eating certain foods over natural foods. You've been brainwashed into self genocide via condoms in the pursuit of some invented bullshit American dream. You pump and dump thinking you're winning but you're not. The people at the top are winning because your stressful job in the city means you pay a lot of taxes, buy material shit that doesn't fucking matter and you can't take to the grave, and commit self genocide so your evolutionary lineage dies out. We've been brainwashed to care.

The reality is we should all be living with nature, fucking whoever, eating natural food, being savage killing to survive, suffering hardship trying to survive, but you've also been brainwashed into thinking you're better than that. That you're civilised, that you're not an animal, and that thanks to IQ tests, your brainwashed parents telling you that you're special, the education system giving you letter grades, or some job title you now think you're some form of important.

You should not be looking for the red flags in women. You should be looking for the red flags in you, because once you resolve those red flags in you, any red flag in a woman just simply doesn't fucking matter anymore.

The simple reality is that the red pill is nothing more than ego death. It's coming to terms with who you naturally actually are, and not the brainwashed acting drone society wants you to be. The boy must die. It's time to become a man.