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| 3 | Why is it a red flag if girl has bad relationship with her dad.Works the same way for men with let's say bad mothers. Or bad relationships with their mothers. It's somewhere between Fear, Ignorance, Ego, lack of good examples and lack of proper training. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/19 06:09 PM |
| 18 | [rant] Why do you care so much?But I think maybe not. We all need a struggle in life. Without any struggle you have no purpose Don't make the mistake of attaching some kind of spiritual purpose to women. That would be a mistake on your end. I wouldn't want to win millions because I'd lose the struggle of try to build my own source of income/having to work to provide for myself Pretty young guy I'd guess. Heres the thing. Theres Always More Work to be done, and you should Always Be Working... But that doesn't mean chase your o… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/19 12:00 PM |
| 30 | [rant] Why do you care so much?All power and knowledge is essentially gathered along the same line, and the line is called Brick by Brick. Nothing is truly free, nothing costs nothing, and sometimes establishing a positive system is insanely expensive to get started. The work is worth it though. As far as Deeper Purpose - who said there is one? We need work yes, and things need to get done yes, so pick any of them and work on it. Whether that fulfills your cosmic destiny or not is basically irrelevant static. You choose, you … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/19 11:55 AM |
| 0 | Anyone else tired of seeing women constantly glued up to their phones?Why are you talking about undercurrents and natty lites on the internet? Stop being a woman. Women arent perfect. Neither am I, you, or anyone. There's actually math to that. Wanna know what's definitely not perfect for certain? Living more in your phone\your own little world than the big one. And I mean that in all of the possible ways. No, women do not get a pass for being women. Nor do you for the EC tag and ad hominem lines. People should be better, and thats ok. Phones and social media are … | /r/askTRP | 05/07/19 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Girl I just started to ltr just came out as bi and has female orbiter best friend who is ALSO bi, need adviceI mean we spin plates here bro Open Relationships can be great if everyone came to the table hungry and liking the looks of the food But yes its different and hippies are uhhhh special, or at least think they are, especially the artsy women being worshipped by the throngs of strung out betas and knocked on by dozens of drug dealing firespinning nomads | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 01:07 PM |
| 5 | Girl I just started to ltr just came out as bi and has female orbiter best friend who is ALSO bi, need adviceUhh Phrasing But yes this is a Hippy/nonbinary/sexual empowerment problem for lesser developed minds. Power is great.. Multiple partners can be amazing.. Until it's you getting replaced, texts ignored, gossip being spread through your circles for petty reasons But yeah free love man its great I love free things | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 01:05 PM |
| 2 | Girl I just started to ltr just came out as bi and has female orbiter best friend who is ALSO bi, need adviceIts more than just bi or nonbinary people and allies. Its the whole damn hippy dippy bullshit tree watered by drugs, sex, Instagram flexing, for profit music festivals that claim to be private for the people. The list goes on. Artsy girls are beautiful and can have beautiful minds, and be kinky af and fun to have around. But there are plenty of hippy/hood girls out there more broken than most guys are ready to really realize. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 12:56 PM |
| 11 | Girl I just started to ltr just came out as bi and has female orbiter best friend who is ALSO bi, need adviceSame thought i had. Maybe you can get something out of the transaction OP. I wouldn't LTR the girl though just because of her and her friend "hissing at you" and ganging up on you in conversation, while they both know WHY. Thats a big red flag for OPs hopefully ex LTR. If everyone knows and there is still tension thats because one or both are probably lying about something additional that impacts you. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/19 12:52 PM |
| 3 | Nice or Asshole? How healthy are you? How healthy were you?Thanks for the post in the 1st place. One thing. Agree the world is complex, and you definitely have to read people to determine what you tell them. Again, I think it's being honest with YOURSELF that someone isn't worth the squeeze. This is Tomatoes and Potatoes. Ideally, you SHOULD be able to present an honest version of yourself to people. That is going to be a more stable, more efficient relationship no matter who or what type of relationship we talk about. But Potatoes and Tomatoes. Sometim… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/19 11:57 PM |
| 17 | Nice or Asshole? How healthy are you? How healthy were you?There are Levels to this concept you have written today. And I gotta say I've been on this sub for 4+ years and this is easily one of the best posts written to TRP. Alphas are honest and direct about their intentions and thoughts Not always. What you want is to have that option. Alphas also know how the world and people in it work, on a deep and fact-verified level, so they know better than to reveal all things to all people. Ned Stark was an honorable, honest man. Look where that got him. So ju… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/19 10:44 PM |
| 5 | Why do women despise RedPillers yet despite men who do not understand women, when RedPillers clearly understand women at the core and use this knowledge properly?Well said | /r/askTRP | 02/07/19 03:52 PM |
| 27 | Why do women despise RedPillers yet despite men who do not understand women, when RedPillers clearly understand women at the core and use this knowledge properly?Women are capable of hating what they are attracted to. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/19 03:25 PM |
| 2 | Nothing Like Being in the NewsA decent shill piece. Whoever is paying for this stuff leave a message | /r/TheRedPill | 02/07/19 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Daughter Came Out as a ManIf it is hard to be a meaningful part of her life due to custody, you'll have to find some other way to reach her. Sounds like she needs your help and you need to get smart about it. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/19 12:17 PM |
| 10 | Feminist Teaches Husband About Consent. Now She Has to Beg Him For Sex.Heres a wild thought: Women lie sometimes | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/19 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Modern Women "I’ve Had Sex With Well Over 100 Men, but That Does Not Define me as a Slut"Whats your point dude is there even one? She wants the D, and the relationship. Its called Hypergamy. Wheres the Real News? Fucking sub is filling up with incels | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/19 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Girls Cant Survive Without YouWell as long as you can afford the maids and a mop | /r/askTRP | 25/06/19 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Girls Cant Survive Without YouBaby does this hurt? Relax Sshhh Accept it | /r/askTRP | 25/06/19 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Girls Cant Survive Without YouI like how you think after 5 years on TRP my income has remained fixed. Stop challenging people over text. And watching them reply and timing their edits. No, i promise I'm not on Meth. Thanks for your very genuine concerns. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/19 12:39 PM |
| 2 | Girls Cant Survive Without YouIT Security FinTech | /r/askTRP | 25/06/19 12:34 PM |
| 0 | Girls Cant Survive Without YouI don't get why you took a screenshot when both comments are visible and unchanged. Nothing ive said so far is untrue. Check my post history, cuck | /r/askTRP | 25/06/19 12:33 PM |
| -4 | Girls Cant Survive Without YouActually I've only ever done meth once i make 400k > yr and work remotely lol If You Aint got haters you aint poppin | /r/askTRP | 25/06/19 12:13 PM |
| 2 | What effect do you have on a women mentally if you are able to make her orgasm multiple times?You can learn & be aware of how to cause female orgasms without investing yourself in achieving them with any particular female. Sit down | /r/askTRP | 25/06/19 11:50 AM |
| 13 | What effect do you have on a women mentally if you are able to make her orgasm multiple times?During the act of sex itself MOST women can be handled like mutant zombie sluts. Slaughter that pussy with a battleaxe and a 12-gauge. They still want flowers and respect and equitabrutality tho, when other people are around and you're not alone with her. One I met at a festival 3 weekends ago, a hippy bitch, would let me choke her literally unconscious. Her lips turned blue/purple and I swear I crushed her larynx. But I didn't shes fine not even fingermarks. She loved it I was tryna fuck her ro… | /r/askTRP | 25/06/19 11:40 AM |
| 4 | What effect do you have on a women mentally if you are able to make her orgasm multiple times?Orgasms and broken hearts are for you to remember, like trophies. She can't even remember her own name with your fingers in her asshole. Don't blame her shes just female. All These Females Twerkin Lil Ladies Workin Sweat Drip Down My Balls | /r/askTRP | 25/06/19 11:32 AM |
| 2 | What effect do you have on a women mentally if you are able to make her orgasm multiple times?This one girl or the other girl? Girls LOVE watching eachother have orgasms. Its dread directly into her vagina. Like a battleaxe to her pussy on prom night | /r/askTRP | 25/06/19 11:29 AM |
| -7 | Modern Women "I’ve Had Sex With Well Over 100 Men, but That Does Not Define me as a Slut"So you gotta LTR every dick or pussy you come across in a year? Chill out bruh. I've bagged at least 8 new and its,not even July Course they last all of 3 weeks each | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/19 03:29 AM |
| 3 | "Influencing girlfriend" shit test?The biggest challenge is enough losers witnessing your greatness that they agree to hate you. If you aint got haters you aint poppin' | /r/askTRP | 22/06/19 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Video Games Are As Bad As Porn & Why To QuitYes ive heard this before from gamer bros and agree. It comes down to wild west kinds of honor. Men aren't supposed to be tied down too much. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/19 09:59 PM |
| -2 | Should I just deal drugs?Which lane is that again? You dont know shit about me | /r/askTRP | 18/06/19 07:35 PM |
| -1 | Should I just deal drugs?The hippie wooks dealing at these fests are far from hard. Most are easy to move around. Ive known plenty. Alot of them just float from fest to fest selling as they go and thats not even a requirement for me, just an enhancement. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/19 07:19 PM |
| -1 | Should I just deal drugs?Maybe you're right. Maybe my SMV is too low. I'm above average but getting new plates still feels like work. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/19 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Should I just deal drugs?Just as plates / fwb. I want kids one day but not with that type of girl | /r/askTRP | 18/06/19 03:00 PM |
| 0 | Should I just deal drugs?Pretty much, yeah | /r/askTRP | 18/06/19 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Should I just deal drugs?You'll never find better sex or better tests of frame. GL HF | /r/askTRP | 18/06/19 02:58 PM |
| 2 | Should I just deal drugs?Flow Festivals & Burns Aka Burning Man festivals (regional offshoot events) I think ill do both. Deal and keep hunting in this scene because i can and its fun, but also explore new territory and maybe find different, cleaner, less insane types of women. Thx | /r/askTRP | 18/06/19 02:20 PM |
| -1 | Should I just deal drugs?Dude I disagree. Game and SMV cannot guarantee she will stick around. It guarantees that you as a man are not deficient or the root cause, but she has to want to stay around. Period. You cannot force or game someone or self-improve to the point of controlling them. My SMV is high, im cut, charismatic, well funded, good at sex, etc. You cant tell me "hurr durr just be better and women will stay". Thats stupid, and puts the blame on men when it belongs on women. These girls SAY they want to stay a… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/19 02:17 PM |
| 7 | Grow a pair and Travel AloneHumans of days past were often nomadic and frequently engaged in raiding. These behaviors are wired into the female brainstem. Same thing for cowboys, soldiers, travelling merchants, etc. Ride in, fuck shit up, ride off into the sunset. Women love that stuff | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/19 01:04 PM |
| 40 | Game isn’t needed if she’s attracted to you.This. Game is King. Never let anyone tell you different | /r/seduction | 13/06/19 02:50 AM |
| 12 | With women all over the world seeking there right to have an abortion or keep the child shouldn’t men also have the right to choose if there going to be a father or devote any resources to said child?Men built the civilization we live in and proceeded to hand it over to women bit by bit. Your point stands, but only if we assume men everywhere remain asleep forever. They won't. I believe that. It might even make sense to accelerate and support Thottery to the Nth degree at this point - the more insanely egregious and entitled women become, the less they feel compelled to hide their nature. Plenty of guys are waking up. The bubble can't last forever. In a fucked up way, the more painful and ob… | /r/askTRP | 13/06/19 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Sales Bros and STEMlordsAs a recovering STEMlord myself.. Accurate AF | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/19 07:47 PM |
| 38 | STOP TRYING SO HARD, EMOTIONAL UNINVESTMENT, AND SHE’S JUST A KID DUDE.You are describing Zen. In a sentence, Zen is the ability to apply maximal effort while maintaining an "empty mind" free of stress or distraction. Empty Mind is a bit of an eastern phrase. In TRP, we describe it as being a Natural & having Outcome Independence. You dont have to think too hard to play the game, its just easy, and you arent worried about winning or losing. Only competing at your best. "Once the arrow is loosed it is no longer your job to worry about where it lands". Your effort an… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/19 06:16 PM |
| 14 | STOP TRYING SO HARD, EMOTIONAL UNINVESTMENT, AND SHE’S JUST A KID DUDE.Push. Pull. Gap. Rhythm. Tension. Anticipation. Release. Repeat. I will always upvote rhythm / tension posts. I am a fearless motherfucker ill approach the 11/10 girl and yes it has worked but damn if patience is not a virtue. Going in too hard, confident or not, is desperation. Neediness. Impatience. Outcome dependence. Etc. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/19 06:10 PM |
| 13 | A Poignant Reminder of the Hypergamous Nature of FemalesYeah also in the wife store on the last real level: On this level women are young & beautiful, they cook, love sex, would be good mothers, and are loyal and honest PSYKE. This floor exists simply to prove that most men will always chase the fantasy of "The One". Except, there is no One. And they sure as shit arent loyal or honest. Thank you for your visit, no refunds. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/19 12:42 PM |
| 2 | Anyone planning on having a kid later in life?Yep. Probably in the 40s. It may happen before then, and that's ok too. A good friend's father waited until he was 45 to breed. Good plan. More status, experience, frame and power to attract the highest SMV female you can. And then provide a good and challenging and loving life for the kiddos. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/19 04:31 AM |
| 2 | How to stop falling in love so quickly?!Second. The problem of oneitis for me resolved itself after the 2nd or 3rd known-fact cheater. I just cannot bring myself to fall that deeply for a female anymore, because the ugly truth is staring me right in the face. Love her? Sure. In a way. With bitches on the side, my own path she can follow or fuck off, and full knowledge that she cannot love me the way I could (but wont) love her. Self sacrificing, pedestalizing love that ignores the red flags and drives for the soulmate romance anyways?… | /r/askTRP | 09/06/19 02:52 AM |
| 3 | LTR ComplainingNice vid | /r/askTRP | 08/06/19 11:30 PM |
| 2 | LTR ComplainingThis | /r/askTRP | 08/06/19 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Looking younger than you should beAlso the beard. Because people are visual creatures and take cues off what they see. Hence style and fashion. My behavior has not changed radically in 3 months. Nor my fashion. What changed was people looking at me and seeing a grown male, instead of a young one. I look young for my age so this makes sense - shave it all off and dress the part and I could pass for a teenager. Far as the safety of the chemical I fully agree, anyone using it should do their research first and knowingly accept the … | /r/askTRP | 08/06/19 01:49 PM |
| 1 | So the weirdest shit happened to me today during and after having sex with my GFDing ding ding "Im stuck with you thats why I'm crying" | /r/askTRP | 08/06/19 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Looking younger than you should beI grew my 1st beard at 30. I am using minoxidil to try and fill patches. Not sure if the chemical is achieving much, like 3 months now maybe, but no bad effects either. The stuff is designed for your skin. The difference in how people view and treat me with the beard is huge. Keeping it, even with a patch or two. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/19 12:12 PM |
| 1 | NYC Daygame FR, and walking out of a 'date' with a 9 within minutesSolo-approach is about 99% failrate for anyone without godlike genetics. It's still good to do because of social freedom, game habit, and a few nets here and there. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/19 12:22 PM |
| 3 | Where do you make new friends after swallowing the pill?Maybe they are a bridge to someone else, or you enjoy their friendship in spite of their sleepiness. There are many levels of friends. I'm sure most of your friends, the people you actually spend your time with voluntarily, still fall into a risk category in this context. Theres an argument to be made for "who cares anyways" - which is valid assuming you have friends, a healthy social life and get to pick and choose. I'm not quite there yet and many aren't. And ive been practicing for about 4 ye… | /r/askTRP | 07/06/19 12:22 AM |
| 19 | Where do you make new friends after swallowing the pill?This nuance is key and part of the journey. Without it you become that incel fighting the good fight on Facebook trying to convince everyone how right you are. I had a couple of these friends, nobody eants to be like that. "Think as you like but behave like others" TRP awareness is radioactive until you learn to hide it. It identifies you as a slave without a collar and thus a subject of attack. So to most of the world, friend, you still need to show that BP side. Even with closer friends be car… | /r/askTRP | 06/06/19 07:08 PM |
| 7 | Plate I'm cutting off says she'd rather have me "check" her than leave her.Never ever lay your hands on a woman or even marks, unless you are acting in self defense and usually not even then except when necessary to protect your or someone elses life. It's just a bad career move these days. Ive hardslapped and choked girls in bed before but never marks. Read a dude on here who claimed to choke his bitch unconscious and she loved it, still doesnt have to leave marks. Ive left flogger marks on a girls ass and body but thats more defensible, legally. Your choice to keep h… | /r/askTRP | 01/06/19 01:07 AM |
| 4 | Shit where I eat, majority of girls in town know me now help me own itThis lol If you aint got haters you aint poppin | /r/askTRP | 31/05/19 11:42 PM |
| 2 | Asian Men in White CountriesYeah that happens alot. "Find out what her drug is and you're in" is pretty true for most women Being the source of that drug for broke ass hoes translates into "I have no money here's muh vag" rather quick Also literally pimping. Young bitches have shit business sense. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 04:30 PM |
| 25 | Asian Men in White CountriesI know a 5'8" Asian dude that lives in East Coast USA cities and kills it including with hot white girls. He's also ripped, pretty sure he's a drug dealer and lives that party boy lifestyle. Point is grab your balls and get it done. Nobody said it was easy but 90% of men out there can be outworked through sheer force of will. Some men you will never out compete and that's ok. You don't need to beat everyone all the time - you just need to beat enough of them enough of the time. | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 01:58 PM |
| 27 | When topic of a past relationships rise up, all girls mention to me three different guys - the long relationship guy, the nutjob-but-crazy-sex -guy, and mysterious guy they go to when they are not in the relationship. I want to talk about the last one.If you are trying too hard and/or are not getting what you want, you are chasing. Advancing is not chasing. Showing interest is not chasing. Spitting game & flexing is not chasing. Doing any of those things and some others, reapetedly or excessively, or needily, is chasing. Getting super stoked over a morsel of her attention or sexuality is chasing. Double texting is chasing. The list keeps going. You will find that the target moves. Persistence works sometimes, sometimes aloofness, etc. There i… | /r/askTRP | 17/05/19 12:07 AM |
| 28 | Extreme Case Study: Feminine Imperative in Action - Magazine Article Tries to Shame Leonardo Di Caprio to “Do the right thing” and Pay His Ex’s Debts for No ReasonCan't support that openly or the pussy Cartel would fall apart. Pussy is cheap. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/19 07:50 PM |
| 3 | I'm unable to function as a human being any longer - Debilitating AnxietyDo you meditate? Lift? Eat clean? Able to sleep well? Getting off weed (THC), Porn, Video Games and getting a script for Ambien has changed my world alot. Had undiagnosed insomnia even before weed and unreliable sleep patterns. I also like the 3:1 rule. If you think something negative about yourself, you stop and come up with 3 positives. This is simple but if you do it consistently it wires the brain for positive instead of negative thinking. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/19 10:22 PM |
| 0 | How to address/punish disrespectful behaviour from a FWB"If you can't respect my time, we can't have fun" Field tested and Sovereign approved. This is after you bake her with a soft next for at least 3 days. When you pick back up say the line above and otherwise act like nothing happened. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/19 09:37 PM |
| 7 | Alabama bill would criminalize false rape accusationsI've only been to a handful but that one stands out because of the insider knowledge. "Not all weddings!" /s | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/19 05:52 PM |
| 1 | FWB now telling people I’m “her man”Comfort & Honesty. Comfort like snuggles, spending nonsex time doing things together, and she got at least one dose of nut each week. Women need the seed if you ain't giving it she'll feel wrong, had to save some for her after I was done with others Honesty was a two-prong attack. She'd know about girls I was talking to, when we fucked, how I felt about them and her, etc. This was part comfort part dread - and I started it by talking about how we should communicate and make sure we are having sa… | /r/askTRP | 10/05/19 05:45 PM |
| 9 | 20 year old plate just told me her body count....This. It's not medicine if it tastes good, but when you are ready to internalize that relationships with women are shit investments the air gets all crisp and free and clean again. Which was the point all along. Sex without slavery. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/19 03:26 PM |
| 2 | FWB now telling people I’m “her man”Had a plate do this once. 3 months in asked for exclusivity once, said no not in a good place for that right now She knows I'm gaming other chicks and wings me for it a couple times I forget what (if anything) changed but suddenly I was her boyfriend for a while I had about the same reaction you are now; oh look, that's interesting. So? Continued plating for months. Then I left to go derpmode mono on a chick she knew I was getting with. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/19 05:32 AM |
| 3 | Living in the big city has me constantly comparing myself...and the act of sex 'slaying pussy'. Yeah. We should say take sex off the pedestal, not pussy, because that's what is meant. needed a fancy car and clothes to find women. Need is a strong word but flexin is flexin. Sometimes it is about that lifestyle and it doesn't matter if you have a six-pack or 'character', not for getting laid. For keeping your daddy's trust fund afloat and making sure the ride doesn't stop when you hit 32 and die of fatness is when character starts to math it's way in. | /r/askTRP | 10/05/19 03:23 AM |
| 3 | Living in the big city has me constantly comparing myself...Thirded. Specialization is a law of nature. It's Us vs. Them on an individual scale. And it works. I don't care if you're 6'5" and rich, one day you will be old and tired and boring and go to the club and realize it is no longer your domain. Or maybe 6'5" club bro walks out to the track and field day and his girl starts foaming at the mouth for a square shaped 5'8" disc thrower who works out 9 days a week. We all have our reigns, and then we die. You can daydream about being a lion all day long … | /r/askTRP | 10/05/19 03:18 AM |
| 38 | Alabama bill would criminalize false rape accusationsEvery wedding ive been too has been like watching livestock led to the slaughterhouse. The place settings and celebration serve the same purpose as blinders and massages before the kill. And then you hear from some senile aunt how the bride fucked the best man night before and THAT'S why the groom got drunk and picked a fight. That dumb cunt then let himself get browbeat into not seeking an annullment. I just.. don't get it | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/19 06:01 PM |
| 1 | My two friendsYou are scratching the surface of the most important question of all time: Who wants it more. How can I be as loud and charismatic and smooth as them? You can spend your entire life asking this question and never find the answer. Basically, apply more effort. You decide to be high or low energy. It's not a personality type, its not genetics. It's choice. If you aren't good at it get good at it and spit more game. Realize that trying too hard is a major pitfall here. You have to apply more effort… | /r/seduction | 09/05/19 02:10 PM |
| 2 | Epiphany Phase Ahead of ScheduleAlpha Widows. My longest lasting GF was brutally cheated on by her ex. She said she lost her "Rose colored glasses" and unlike most other women, she had a strong masculine (ex coke dealer) father who told her how to find happiness and fulfillment with a man. I was still BP then, broke it off when I found TRP. She was still the best as far as relationship material goes. Someone who was scared straight because she saw how shitty it felt to get brutally cheated on. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/19 11:13 PM |
| 7 | Best books to learn game?Reading books isn't bad for you, but Game is one of those things you can't just read about. Go out and get some field experience. Years of it. Books and game articles are more like the formula but you need to do the homework or you'll forget the formula when it matters. Practice using what you have in the street to even begin to get the value back or understand the deeper meaning. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/19 11:07 PM |
| 7 | Why do marriages fail although women SMV declines?A nut is worth practically nothing. Our time, effort and status, on the other hand, are priceless. | /r/askTRP | 01/05/19 09:41 PM |
| 1 | What will happen to all the THOTS as they get old ?The research center's study also found evidence of a correlation between economic difficulties and fertility decline by race and ethnicity. Hispanics (particularly affected by the recession) have experienced the largest fertility decline, particularly compared to Caucasians (who have less economic hardship and a smaller decline in fertility). In 2008–2009 the birth rate declined 5.9 percent for Hispanic women, 2.4 percent for African American women and 1.6 percent for white women. This does not … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/19 02:31 PM |
| 5 | What will happen to all the THOTS as they get old ?You got citation for the birthrates? I've heard that meme a thousand times | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/19 12:31 PM |
| 19 | What will happen to all the THOTS as they get old ?This right here is the correct analysis. There will never not be betas who are willing to keep their eyes closed and as such become some THOTs golden parachute. In a way it is very sad - these men, conditioned from birth, have never been able to see the true nature of women. However by a certain age I stop feeling sorry for them. You can't tell me a 40yo man whose had several relationships under his belt lacks for opportunities to at least smell smoke where there is fire. If you don't figure it … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/19 12:27 PM |
| 1 | How the hell do you guys balance drinking and staying fit?Here's the thing. Moderation is the hardest path to walk. It's like fucking a hot bitch with a condom on you gonna want to take that sleeve off but you shouldn't. But moderation is also the way you can enjoy what you want to enjoy, while skipping most of the negatives. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 02:37 PM |
| 1 | How the hell do you guys balance drinking and staying fit?Exactly that. You can but it at CVS or wherever. They work great. As a side bonus if you ever get food poisoning or any kind of poisoning (remember; alcohol is a poison) charcoal is exactly what the EMS use to save your life. It absorbs lots of bad shit. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 02:32 PM |
| 0 | Does the game change when you're big?Testosterone and full spectrum awareness of the bullshit that surrounds us is a recipe for aggression. Meditate. Despite the injustice of it all you gotta keep a lid in that shit most of the time. Most people are scared little sheep. But there are more sheep than there are wolves, never forget that. The answer to your question is: it depends Being aesthetic and sexy is great. So is being jacked and strong. Why not both? Find the balance point for yourself. Even so, being too big to fuck with mak… | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 02:53 AM |
| 23 | How the hell do you guys balance drinking and staying fit?All these other replies are shit except the one above. It has NOTHING to do with calories. Alcohol is a systemic depressant and it also has a tendency to disrupt your digestion (kills the friendly bacteria, stresses the liver). This is what fucks with your energy & gains. Doesn't matter what you eat if you can't absorb and process the food efficiently. Point blank: alcohol is a poison. The question is, how much poison do you want to swallow? I've faced the same question because obviously it's al… | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 02:39 AM |
| 1 | How to achieve / hope for something you've never had?Seconded. @OP Your biology doesn't know the difference. Go nut in a 9 (use a condom) who is good at acting and fun to be around and you might be surprised. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 01:47 AM |
| 21 | How to achieve / hope for something you've never had?1) Never quit. Quitting is like suicide 5% at a time. You slowly give up on the things that make being alive worthwhile. "If you are going through Hell, keep going." Winston Churchill 2) Nobody said it was easy. Two quotes I like for this alot. "Excellence is never an accident. It is always the result of high intention, sincere effort and intelligent execution." Aristotle "Women (and by extension 'feminine people' of any gender) are energy consumers. Men, alphas and masculine people are energy p… | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Fat obese fuck in my class gets more attention from the females than me. What is going on?I stated my position in other comments but this became a reasonable convo so here we go. Game is necessary (you can't get laid without some amount of it). Sure you can. The guy who has never heard the word Game before in a PUA context can still get laid. The wallflower who stutters can still get it. It might be RANDOM; as in females perceive him to contextually have game even when he doesn't. But he may still get in depending on other variables, lacking Game. Maybe she wants someone "safe". Game… | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Fat obese fuck in my class gets more attention from the females than me. What is going on?Ad hominen deflection detected. Howsabout you address the argument instead, or just don't bother replying. Why flex bro? | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Fat obese fuck in my class gets more attention from the females than me. What is going on?I was a skinnyfat WoW playing beta that still got cute girlfriends from 16-26. I had zero game or social proof when I met these chicks, and in fact was usually tag along status. My lack of game was so intense it was possibly perceived as game (IDGAF because I don't know how to). But I've got an aesthetic face, baby blues, and I'm nofilter aka "cocky and arrogant". That's all it took. Writing this out I'm realizing I don't feel like that anymore. A few rough turns on the wheel and no more Ignoran… | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Fat obese fuck in my class gets more attention from the females than me. What is going on?No they're not. Looks matter very little to women. Lol. Game may be king but this statement is just absurd. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Fat obese fuck in my class gets more attention from the females than me. What is going on?Game & Frame obviously have big roles to play but I consider it misleading to suggest they are end all. Women are even more superficial than we are when deciding who is even going to get enough airtime to spit game. That foot in the door from looks is the equivalent to a wet lead in sales. Can't sell if you don't have the lead. Then again there's that "didn't know I could fuck her" type experience and leagues are flexible. The theories about what women prioritize in different phases of their lif… | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Fat obese fuck in my class gets more attention from the females than me. What is going on?Size matters. Just because a dude is fat does not automatically make him unattractive. I know a guy whose spent his whole life as a 5'8" 250+ not handsome tub, but he has game and size and bitches lap it up. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 02:19 AM |
| 2 | Fat obese fuck in my class gets more attention from the females than me. What is going on?This is a weird comment. Let's all stop lifting now guys we can just PUA our way to glory Mr. Whisper said so | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 02:17 AM |
| 2 | My experience in an Austrian brothel: a totally dfferent worldAyyy. If you've watched Game of Thrones even once or glimpsed the Real World version of powergames, you know what's up. What happens is that King's entire dynasty is murdered. It's the only way to be sure right? But who knows, maybe King McTendies' is a strategic genius and his children mostly make it. 100 kids is alot of people to track down. You have shifted my point of view somewhat to include "Otherwise Useless IG Manhoes" as a valid interpretation of Fitness/Violence. Maybe I've shifted you… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/19 03:59 PM |
| 5 | My experience in an Austrian brothel: a totally dfferent worldKeep that logic stream going. Where did the crown come from? How many men did he (or his forebears) have to defeat to get it? What happens when a Barbarian conqeuror knocks on King McTendies' door? You aren't wrong, and neither is your logic, in fact I agree with you and posit that you agree with my former statements based on this reply. But if you continue to it's natural conclusion Perceived/Actual Capacity for Violence is the selected trait. All circumstances where it appears not to be are te… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/19 03:43 PM |
| 5 | My experience in an Austrian brothel: a totally dfferent worldCaught me scrolling with my coffee. Survival of the Fittest is absolutely one of the most natural and immutable forces of our biology. And a good thing, too - or else we as a species would not evolve and thus become subject to catastrophe. But we no longer live in a survival society. Who is fit and who is not is no longer decided by nature but by systems of control, influence and compliance. You can short circuit this to some degree - visa vis Lift More and Alpha Badboys. But the system is still… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/19 01:06 PM |
| 9 | My experience in an Austrian brothel: a totally dfferent worldNot the EC but yes I do. This game of "keep performing or die sexless" is not natural. It is a malformed tumor riding on top of digital-industrial capitalism. "But wait! Animals in the wild perform or they die!" Animals can also kill their enemies, rape their females, murder their rivals, etc. Look at the way an Alpha Chimpanzee leads it's life. Realize that you are less free than the Chimpanzee. The controls placed on Men in Western society are anything but natural. The Pussy Cartel exists beca… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/19 11:27 AM |
| 6 | Never Truly LivedMy retirement package, once the dick doesn't work anymore (or I just don't care). Assuming I can't get a Futurama-Richard Nixon situation. The "VR People" have been referred to in science fiction for decades. Chipheads. Better Than Lifers. Once the Tech reaches a certain point the question that's really gonna bake your noodle later on is.. are they RIGHT? | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/19 03:08 AM |
| 1 | Noticing how seem all western women under 35 seem have tattoo these days?Men and women have different rules. You even sidebar bro? | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 11:38 PM |
| 8 | Noticing how seem all western women under 35 seem have tattoo these days?Yeah it's definitely a blast. Best sex around IMO. You just gotta remember where you are and not get suckered in by their FreeLove be my 3rd boyfriend in our polycule bullshit. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 02:04 PM |
| 12 | Noticing how seem all western women under 35 seem have tattoo these days?Thx bruh. I spend time in nature and watching those David Attenborough docs. It's soothing and empowering to see that we share so many of the same problems and behaviors as our animal kin. Another fun example are Birds of Paradise. Male birds do WHACKY shit to attract female attention. Females just sit and judge. Male birds also look like rainbow Peacock gods, while females are brown and boring. We are subject to greater evolutionary pressure and thus we achieve better evolutions faster.💪 Anothe… | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Noticing how seem all western women under 35 seem have tattoo these days?You are an idiot who cannot read English and should be ashamed of yourself. Or you think I only dated one girl over 4 years in a scene known for extreme promiscuity. Oh wait, you're beta! Nevermind :) | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 01:44 PM |
| 5 | Noticing how seem all western women under 35 seem have tattoo these days?Lol peer pressure never did make sense to me. Then again I was homeschooled so I grew up not giving a fuck what people think or listening to teenagers. I've got plans to get at least one tattoo, because the symbol itself has meaning to me. Also because I do like licking the frogs and they look for guys who look like them. It's team-signalling at that point. Hardline is nothing that shows up through a business suit though. Which also means 0% facial piercings which basically means 0% piercings of… | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 01:43 PM |
| 58 | Noticing how seem all western women under 35 seem have tattoo these days?You don't put bumper stickers on a Ferrari. Tattooed bitches are hot for the same reason druggy Party bitches are hot for the same reason Pierced clits are hot. They are a little dangerous, definitely insane, they love rough wild sex, etc. It's like a brightly colored Frog found in the Amazon rainforest. Lick one and you're either gonna trip balls and have a great time or just die. Either way if you look at them as ANYTHING more than a hole to nut in you're in for a stupid, wasteful, crazy ride.… | /r/askTRP | 10/04/19 01:19 PM |
| 14 | Fake it till you make it: TRP vs. realityIn regards to women your confidence does not need to be rational and is likely better when irrational. They aren't rational about sex and relationships. Why should you need to be? | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 10:09 PM |
| 3 | Why does TRP invoke such...PURE RAGE?Ssshh. I used a big word so it's my fault. Ppl ain't know what "apt" means, too many letters /s | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 05:29 PM |
| 2 | Aren't a lot of the guys here just as bad as the thots they don't like?Nah you're on point here. One word: Mechanics You can either stomp around the festival all weekend trying to break in or you can make sure it's your festival and people are trying to break in to what you got going on. The reason this gets tricky is because most guys want to be the "Unicorn Alpha" they sometimes see around town. The cross-contextual, doesn't have to lift a finger guys with godlike genetics that can do diddly-squat and still swim in pussy. Even trickier are the ones without godlik… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Honest Advice Requested.TL;DR At a certain level it comes down to Game and Machavellianism. IME all the highest tier women are attracted by and kept in frame through Dread and conspicuous displays of status. Example: Three Fridays in a row with the same circle, different bitch on your arm each week GF/mainplate breaks, everyone knows it, and you've got. A new bitch on your arm 3 days later, and you're smiling and having fun again like nothing changed Verbally / socially putting a bitch directly back into her place such… | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 04:45 PM |
| 14 | Why does TRP invoke such...PURE RAGE?You quoted the movie! Ten points for Huffle Puff. Seriously, that movie is made out of quotes that work for this sub. They could not have chosen more apt symbology when making this place. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 11:53 PM |
| 12 | Is it just me or are some people better off not being saved ?Seconded. As a guy who found TRP at 26. Proceeded to be stubborn and learn harsh lessons anyways. Now 30, and better able to use my experience/age to help assimilate and understand TRP concepts. It is a journey. Every iteration makes us stronger. It's not too late until you're dead. Really if you think about this, you are dead as soon as you give up & start thinking it's hopeless. Don't die. Live. Believe. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/19 03:01 AM |
| 2 | Bertrand Russell on women.You do not have sufficient direct experience with populations of people to comment. Violence and conflict are human nature. Inescapable. Inevitable. Spontaneous, sometimes even within the confines of a family. Removing government and taking self defense classes won't change that. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/19 03:48 AM |
| 4 | Bertrand Russell on women.Raiding is sort of our default setting in absence of greater structure. It won't just be neighbors living side by side trading chickens. Governments do all of that and worse, but more as a means to an end. In absence of that our way of daily living would become more routinely violent. Anyways, under every such condition where government does dissolve it eventually resurfaces or reasserts from somewhere else. Government is another word for leadership. So do monkeys have government? What about a t… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/19 03:33 AM |
| -1 | Bertrand Russell on women.Government's main facility is to consolidate control over violence. You take that away and a whole bunch of problems go away because of bigger problems. Like deathsquads and raiding. Government needs to evolve and so do people. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/19 03:19 AM |
| 9 | How the hell do I find my mission? Whats YOUR mission?Ask yourself what kind of lifestyle you want. Mark out goals & milestones for creating that lifestyle. Those goals are now your Mission. They will change over time. What you cared about at 21 will seem meaningless by 30. That's normal. All this hyperbolic talk about finding your Cosmic-Destiny as the Savior of the World and Curer of Cancer is a steaming load of shit. Life is rarely that simple, and people get stuck here because they basically want "something to tell them what to do". Many choose… | /r/askTRP | 02/04/19 03:55 PM |
| 4 | Anybody have any rp tips to suicidal college students because they are struggling?Seconded. Life is hard af and the Red Pill has a way of forcing you to see all the ugly long before you have the power to do much about it. Stay strong OP. We all gonna make it 💪 The difference between where you are and where you want to be is as simple as Years worth of study and discipline. Not easy, but simple. The path starts with Sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/19 03:50 PM |
| 2 | LTR uncomfortable with my daily pot usageAny artificial stimulation of your brain with chemicals or even just "supernormal" stimulation like porn can and does cause impact in your brain. Simply put you will be a healthier and stronger person without it. Up to you. There are successful people who shoot heroin too. Doesn't mean it is good for them, or that they couldn't be even more successful without such a habit. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/19 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Met a great girl WAY too soon in my RP journey. Need advice from older TRP members who might have been in this situation.You don't know enough about women to seriously approach an LTR. It's a bit like walking up to a Rodeo and volunteer to ride the bull. You'll learn something & maybe it will break your bones in the process. What is most likely to happen just your very obvious oneitis/scarcity will fuck this up. The rule generally is to bed n>25 women and be at least 25yo before you bother trying to make an LTR work. Even in an LTR, you probably never want to be strictly exclusive in today's market. But you aren't… | /r/askTRP | 02/04/19 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Why do I keep “backing out” when i am close to a break through? Or feel like i may be... (revelations after shaving my head). Dead serious.It is just a feeling of almost numbness. I feel very robotlike Read up on Dopamine Sensitivity and consider what you are doing that stimulates Dopamine in a way that your caveman ancestor couldn't. Dopamine insensitivity is basically a result of artificial over stimulation and leads to feelings of apathy, disinterest in doing things, a futile outlook, etc. If it's not chemical, it's still chemical. You can have dopamine insensitivity organically, even if you aren't using drugs/watching Netflix. … | /r/askTRP | 02/04/19 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Women parading in front of you at the gym...?I don't chase them and I've never pulled or tried to pull from the gym. I have had a non-zero number eyefuck me from across the gym, which is always nice, but that happens alot of places I go and sadly does not always translate into a lay or even a reasonable shot at a lay. If only I got 50% of what their eyes say I should get. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/19 08:52 PM |
| 14 | Women parading in front of you at the gym...?I workout in the "Financial District" of my city. Everyone is already beautiful we just go out of habit I think. Saw this one smokeshow HB9999 blonde that was doing Rope Crunches in a pair of see through dark yoga pants and no panties. Every time she crunched half the gym would stop like time got froze lol. I mean DAMN. Throwing it out there. A non-zero number of these gym THOTs want gymrat dick. Period. Don't frustrate them it's rude. Give the lady what she wants and lay those calloused apehand… | /r/askTRP | 26/03/19 07:30 PM |
| 1 | So what are 'positive identities for men' and why do so many of you assume Protestant Ascetics are the answer?I'd say it depends what you want to Succeed at. Wielding power over others and making pussy crawl on its knees is what most people want to learn from TRP. The "Ultimate Alpha" answer to all such questions is do whatever the fuck you want. As long as you aren't lying to yourself. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/19 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Video Games Are As Bad As Porn & Why To QuitI've never seem anyone do intro posts unless they are an Endorsed Contributor or some kind of other manosphere producer such as Roll Tomassi. I think switching to a dumbphone is a great step especially if you struggle with self regulation. I did the same kind of thing to ditch gaming - I sold my PC. Easy, direct way to make a significant change. GL HF | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/19 04:12 PM |
| 1 | So what are 'positive identities for men' and why do so many of you assume Protestant Ascetics are the answer?Your only biological necessity in life is food shelter and reproduction everything else is just extras that depend on your worldview, your preferences and your capabilities. There is more to being Human than survival, homeostasis and reproduction. At least if you choose for there to be. Surviving is easy in most industrial nations, most of the time. Not always or everywhere depending on how Humans choose to treat each other and sometimes Earthquakes. So 'historically speaking' we ARE lazy, idle … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/19 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Why are people who have a not so good relationship with their parents so easy to influence?/u/HurricaneHugues Makes a good point, I was talking about girls you are already consistently fucking and how they can use ego fluffing. If you haven't fucked her yet and she's giving you this treatment you need to escalate. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/19 02:41 PM |
| 0 | Taste in womenI see you. Take your upvote you sarcastic twatwaffle | /r/askTRP | 22/03/19 02:35 PM |
| 0 | Taste in womenOG. "I wont have an ounce of guilt fucking your 18yo as long as I don't make any" Ah who am I kidding I would do it anyways. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/19 02:33 PM |
| 5 | Georgia (Feminist) Legislators introduce HB 604: Any male 55 years of age or older shall immediately report to the county sheriff or local law enforcement agency when such male releases sperm from hisSame thoughts I had basically. Women with 3rd grade level thinking will jump on this because "stop telling us what to do with OUR bodies. Here's what it feels like!" They know it will never pass but hey it makes us men "feel" something so maybe we will "learn to understand them better" and stop trying to control them. It's not about their fucking bodies. The selfish, ignorant cunts cannot wrap their brains around the idea that it's about the BABY LIFE growing inside of them. This makes sense, co… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/19 11:48 AM |
| 5 | So what are 'positive identities for men' and why do so many of you assume Protestant Ascetics are the answer?Sup bro. Your top quotes are mine - you're welcome. It's not about perfection, it's about excellence. I've done MDMA at raves and festivals, used to play vidya games, still smoke the occasional blunt or have the occasional night of drinking, etc. I've been cold invited to orgies and pulled women right in front of their "man". I bet I have done and will continue to do "unproductive things" for my own pleasure that you've yet to even think of. But living clean 95% of the time is still worth it to … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/19 11:22 AM |
| 7 | Girlfriend is not happy with our one sided open relationshipSmart call IMO. Only thing to add is not to expect shit from your corporate Masters. Large companies generally do not reward loyalty and would rather hire external. This is true even for senior management. I work 5 hours a week, remotely, at 6figs. I did not get there by pushing for promotions or transfers or kissing ass or even being exceptional in my work. I got there by branchswing. I'm in Tech so be mindful of differences between fields. Looks like this: Stay at company for 6 years busting a… | /r/askTRP | 22/03/19 03:17 AM |
| 6 | Georgia (Feminist) Legislators introduce HB 604: Any male 55 years of age or older shall immediately report to the county sheriff or local law enforcement agency when such male releases sperm from hisBet you this is from Atlanta. The salt over Stacey Abrams is still palpable. Edit: Yep. Mainly black female feminists from counties within nutshot of Atlanta. The saltiest wildebeest and #1 losers of the urban SMP and the blue haired lunatics behind them. Color me un-fuckin-surprised. I'm moving to Mexico in April and then I'll be able to actually laugh at this shit. Cannot. Fucking. Wait. Six years was plenty. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/19 01:40 AM |
| 3 | Girlfriend is not happy with our one sided open relationshipYou arent wrong but basically you sound like an idealist to me. Instead of just "knuckling up and having more abundance than her pussy can possibly handle" as the end all be all answer to any problem, why not put yourself in a position of advantage by not trying to ice-skate up hill? That's a bit literary so let me say it like this. No man's strength is infinite, and you will find better results, faster, and more easily by admitting that outcompeting and succeeding is sometimes about picking the… | /r/askTRP | 22/03/19 01:02 AM |
| 7 | Girlfriend is not happy with our one sided open relationshipDisagree. The success of the male strategy depends on the capitulation of the female's, and vice versa. Keeping her in scarcity is just good business, because he doesn't seem to want her as a plate. He wants babies. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/19 12:27 AM |
| 24 | Girlfriend is not happy with our one sided open relationshipThis. --- @OP she sounds like a catch. Any female that can grind it out in the gym and work that hard for you gets respect in my book. However, I think it's a mistake to have her move to your SJW feminist city. Better for you to bring her somewhere else, where conditions for exclusivity are more favorable (if that's your endgame with her). Until then cruise control. I've lived in such a city for 6 years now and the same logic applies to smalltown girls as it does to Russian/Thai wives. They will… | /r/askTRP | 21/03/19 10:16 PM |
| 2 | Why are people who have a not so good relationship with their parents so easy to influence?Yep, you got it. Good interpretation. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/19 10:04 PM |
| 5 | Why are people who have a not so good relationship with their parents so easy to influence?Oh young Padawan. Women are gonna try to fluff your ego for a million reasons. Usually because most men are very susceptible to it, because most men dont get that kind of validation often from girls. Maybe because she likes you, or she isn't yet assured that you are gonna stick around. Maybe because she wants you thinking you are hot shit as a cover up for whatever else shes doing that you won't know about. Generally speaking I don't like being "fluffed" in such a way. I don't need her validatio… | /r/askTRP | 21/03/19 09:46 PM |
| 17 | Why are people who have a not so good relationship with their parents so easy to influence?People do this in general, I'm sure parents factor in but it's correlation not causation. "Monkey See Monkey Do". For men, they want to assimilate traits they consider to be desirable for themselves. For women I think it mostly comes from a place of emotional pandering and stroking the guys ego. A good example is the hot female that suddenly picks up video games because her boyfriend plays them, and then never touches them again afterwards. "Immitation is the highest form of flattery." | /r/askTRP | 21/03/19 08:08 PM |
| 1 | The Queer ConversionYes it was. The thought occurred to me to stop but then, he knew where he was. Got over that guilt pretty quick. I just had never really seen that level of incel before. Oh well. I like being versatile. Like you I prefer NOT to have an audience but sometimes in today's world that's just the way it happens, and I've never let it stop me. There's a certain flourish/flex that comes along with fucking a girl well and loudly and not caring who knows. Some chicks are really into it. In my post history… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/19 05:34 PM |
| 1 | The Queer ConversionWho said he was whacking off? I didn't. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/19 05:17 PM |
| 5 | The Disease of MoreAgreed. This reeks of the same stench of Buddhist pacifists who stubbornly insist that even in the face of genocide and oppression, the only correct path to happiness is accepting the universe as it is and finding peace with your lot. Fuck that. Even the self-obsessed narcissist that thinks the world is literally not enough for him will one day be able to look back and smile at what he had achieved. Sure, taking time to smell the roses and appreciate yourself is important too. But you can do tha… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/19 11:49 AM |
| 1 | How does a young, inexperienced guy effectively absorb and utilize information on this sub without getting overwhelmed and overly analytical about every little thing."How can I do that? How do I get from where I am to where you are?" Dr. Strange "How did you become able to perform the most complex surgeries?" The Ancient One "Study and practice. Years of it." Strange | /r/askTRP | 20/03/19 08:28 AM |
| 1 | The Queer ConversionNever fucked in front of someone bro? Orgies are generally, but not always, over-rated. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/19 08:25 AM |
| 3 | The Queer ConversionThanks. I'm going to two next month alone. You're right - lack of shame cuts both ways. Just uhhhh not bringing any turkey to Thanksgiving this time. Should be fun. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/19 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Redpillers, what was the roughest, most hardcore thing you've done to your partner in bed?Sometimes yes sometimes no. It comes out during flirt sometimes if the conversation goes that way. I don't flex it at all. Better for it to be a surprise. Usually the first couple hookups are "vanilla", yknow, choking and hair pulling. Then if I sense that she's kinky or I'm just feeling extra that day I'll usually go to the Flogger or Shibari. Things like hibachi wands and insertables are the least used because you should normally buy them new for each bitch. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/19 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Redpillers, what was the roughest, most hardcore thing you've done to your partner in bed?The most assertive/dominant move I can claim is tying up a chick I met on POF. She came to my spot, I took her top off and tied her arms behind her back (shibari). Had plenty of texts and some pre-meet nudes to make sure it was worth my time and I had some CYA. Shoved her face down on the bed and she's laying there telling me how she has a boyfriend, how we aren't having sex, etc. Grab the rope firmly enough to lift part of her torso off the bed, lean down next to her ear. "How are you gonna sto… | /r/askTRP | 19/03/19 09:37 PM |
| 86 | First Date: Girl Gave Out Number In Front Of MeYeah there's just a ton of PUA retards floating around this sub and real life, contorting themselves into ridiculous situations just to "get it in". They fail to see that they are putting pussy on the pedestal. All hail the pussy. Any cost necessary for pussy, including tolerating disrespect like in the OP. I don't get it. I'd probably get laid more if I acted like that - and I don't care. I get laid enough and can still respect myself in the morning. Of course that attitude also rocks the boat … | /r/askTRP | 19/03/19 03:37 PM |
| 5 | Apology to UCD students as 'consent app' proposal sparks uproar. "It's clear that the developer of the app's primary concern is not the safety of women nor is it to ensure that all sexual encounters are consensual."The bone-deep truth is that it's not a females consent that we should care about. What we should care about is whether an accused criminal can be established to follow a pattern of Disruption to a high degree of confidence, high enough to warrant destroying his reputation, life, and possibly freedom when measured against the good of the whole. Her consent is so transitory it basically cannot speak to that. By this logic though eyewitnesses should not be trusted in general, and of course they oft… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/19 02:18 AM |
| 7 | Apology to UCD students as 'consent app' proposal sparks uproar. "It's clear that the developer of the app's primary concern is not the safety of women nor is it to ensure that all sexual encounters are consensual."This isn't just a problem with sexual consent, but a problem with finite human awareness. We have immense technological powers compared to yesteryear, but the Objective Clinical Truth of something, anything, can still be extremely hard to pin down. Just look at the science behind something like Soy products or any myriad other scientific endeavour. It can take years and sometimes decades to come up with a Real Answer, and that is for things you can experiment, repeat and demonstrate - not transi… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/19 02:04 AM |
| 10 | TRP Raising Children Series: "In Their Own Words: Parents of Kids Who Think They Are Trans Speak Out"Do not fucking homeschool your kids. I was homeschooled and even though I progressed academically without any issue my social skills and general life experience were non-existent. For years my only social experiences came through my older sibling and my parents, and so I only knew how to socialize amongst adults and children haphazardly chosen by my parents. I had some kids at birthday parties and met a few neighborhood knuckleheads when my father dragged me into it, but I was comfortable in iso… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/19 01:38 AM |
| 16 | "On Tinder the top 20% of men are competing for the top 78% of women"Yup. I went to a bar having a D&D event a couple months back. The game-runners (DMs) would go up and talk to everyone to try and get them into their game. I noticed this one redhead by the bar, talking to some nerd. I walked to and said "hi". She says hi back, asks me if I'm a DM trying to snipe her for a game. I just smile and say "nope". Shoot her down with some finger gun action and walk away. Go back to talking to random and my friends. She ends up walking away from the people she was talkin… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/19 12:13 PM |
| 24 | "On Tinder the top 20% of men are competing for the top 78% of women"I wonder how much game awareness amongst women is contributing to this, because it's true. Most of my pulls don't come off approaches or sets. They come off of me bouncing around social environments, having fun with my friends, and ignoring bitches until one puts herself in the pocket for a pickup. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/19 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Why do celebrities get married ?I might be you but like 10 years ago. I'd be interested in talking about your passive income strategies. For the dopamine.. mine rebound pretty quick. 2-3months. But then, all of my problems were INDIRECT to the dopamine pathway. Porn probably being the worst. Yours may take longer or you may straight up need to see a psychiatrist for meds, considering the chemical stimulation that hit your brain pan for so long. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/19 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Why do celebrities get married ?Glad you're on the way to recovery brother. My demons are named Porn, Video Games, Weed and Oneitus. I would lay around for days at a time nuking my brain with the harsh realities of TRP, then numbing it with weed and the rest. I still forced myself to go out, approach and make friends otherwise I may as well have shot myself. I was that passive, that inactive. Somehow I'd still pull pussy, but I was so busy breaking myself that they never had to, so any alpha frame I had was temporary. Instead … | /r/askTRP | 18/03/19 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Why do celebrities get married ?This is because of dopamine sensitivity btw, if you didn't already know. That's mainly what coke fires on. Lots of other things to avoid for dopamine sensitivity too.. such as porn, video games, cigarettes, etc. Makes you start to understand how some guys can literally be monks with almost nothing going on in their lives, like shaved head Tibetan monks, but they are still happy and fulfilled because they aren't bombarding their brains with bullshit and growing bored of the universe. | /r/askTRP | 18/03/19 12:27 AM |
| 3 | St. Fatrick's Day. Or why too much beer/alcohol consumption is preventing you from having the ideal body composition you want.Agreed. I'm 30 now and still tryna get my best body so alcohol for me is very limited. I'll drink maybe once a week or even two weeks. When I do drink it's 1-3 drinks tops. For my St. Patty's day celebrating I had 1 mixed drink and a redbull and had a blast. I'm planning to do even less going forward, like zero. I feel the negative pretty intensely because I am on a strict 6-day gym routine & eating clean to cut for Summer. Instead at the club/party I'll prolly start doing redbulls & lime or som… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/03/19 12:18 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with anxiety in the stomach?It's good to be able to hang with Alphas, especially if they see you as one of them. Be mindful about this dynamic though. You could be the beta. That's not always bad - I hang out with guys who are higher value than I am pretty often. But I also make sure to solo dolo sometimes, and specifically to hang out with guys that are lower value so that I get practice at leading. Yes it really is that simple sometimes. People are sometimes fairly basic. The hotter/taller/more aggressive males with bett… | /r/askTRP | 18/03/19 12:08 AM |
| 3 | St. Fatrick's Day. Or why too much beer/alcohol consumption is preventing you from having the ideal body composition you want.Big difference between a disciplined guy in physical prime drinking when he feels like it and some skinnyfat/obese blob doing it. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/19 09:03 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with anxiety in the stomach?Yep, that's a good book too. Warpath is the only path. I do alot of that pesky 'thinking' though, just how my brain works. Learning to flow smoothly in my own thoughts has been one of the most challenging/rewarding parts of the journey so far. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/19 08:58 PM |
| 6 | How to deal with anxiety in the stomach?Look up some Reiki healing memes/pictures. Some of it is hippy dippie bullshit but alot are pretty good. Example: "The last thing to grow on a fruit tree is the fruit. Be patient. The things you are working for will manifest." Affirmations work for some people because when in doubt, people look to be told what to do. It's why people come to TRP and why a bro friend or father figure can verbally bitchslap your ass back into frame. Sometimes listening, saying less and following advice is what you … | /r/askTRP | 17/03/19 08:52 PM |
| 2 | How can I encourage progress in my 'internal game', when it is locked in a negative self-assessment informed by early childhood?Change your environments. Migrate. Therapy has mostly been a waste in my experience - the therapists do not acknowledge TRP concepts, and try to bluepill you into happiness. I found success and an evolution in how I saw myself only when, after ~4 years of applying TRP, I switched into a new scene/circumstance. Leaving behind old friends who saw only the old me was critical. New people saw the new me, and that was everything when it came to being able to internalize that I was finally changing. G… | /r/askTRP | 17/03/19 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Why do celebrities get married ?"I hurt myself today, to see if I could still feel". Oh Johnny Cash. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/19 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Why do celebrities get married ?Read my reply to the other poster about prescription. I'm not sure why you want your own special reply but it's 8am and you're getting it. Feel special. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/19 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Why do celebrities get married ?"Fuck with" = I'm into that Or "Fuck with" = I'm turning knobs and buttons and just praying it works. JIGGLE IT HARDER STEVE | /r/askTRP | 16/03/19 12:14 PM |
| 8 | Why do celebrities get married ?Having a prescription and maintaining disciplined dosage is not "fucking with opiates". Still though. I watched my Mother (cancer) go down a spiral with opiates she never got out of. Not pretty. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/19 01:13 AM |
| 1 | 27m help with bad habitsI struggled with Porn, Weed, Video Games, NetFlix, and alcohol primarily. And obv. chasing pussy. What worked for me? I stopped buying weed. I sold my computer. I setup a variety of porn blockers on my smartphone that never worked, considered going with an older style flip phone. Once I dropped the other bad habits I felt so amazing inside and out, physically and mentally that I could not bring myself to whack it to porn anymore. I would deflate in the middle of Pornhub or 4chan and go "wtf am I… | /r/askTRP | 16/03/19 12:49 AM |
| 1 | What to do with bros other than drugs/alcoholFind bros who do things that aren't drugs and alcohol. Or, even better, learn how to do your drugs and alcohol moderately, so they do not interfere with your goals and health. This is easier said than done so err on the side of exclusion, but it is possible. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/19 12:44 AM |
| 12 | Why do celebrities get married ?Don't fuck with opiates. You have been warned. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/19 12:41 AM |
| 10 | The Queer ConversionYeah I'm like the dumbest smart guy you'll ever meet. I woke myself up at age 26 once I decided my GF LTR should be squirting when she wasn't. I then threw myself into the nastiest most sex-affirmative scene I could find, which was regional burn offshoots of Burning Man & hippy/wook culture. Sluts sluts sluts. Drugs. Polyamory. BDSM/kink. Blue haired feminazis with tattoos and piercings everywhere bleating about equality and wahmenz meanwhile jumping on caveman dick, hoodrat dick and drug dealer… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/19 05:25 PM |
| 9 | The Queer ConversionLots and lots of gays out there who can't get laid with women so they go gay. That is the ONLY reason behind a non-zero percentage of gay men. I mean I guess technically you're still right, they think they dont have a choice and some are maybe so hopeless they really don't. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/19 04:46 PM |
| 1 | The Queer ConversionText doesn't translate sometimes. What I read that as was you tryna flex on the internet, or even condemning the fact that I kicked her stanky ass out at 3am. You aren't her color anyways she spent the next couple weeks posting brags about "big black diction" before I unfriended. Not sure how you miss the memo on Asian fusion tho. Not just half Asian white girls I mean raised culturally Asians. Got a 19yo plate right now, -3% bf, B cup perfection. Soft sweet and submissive. Not worth more than a… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/19 04:21 PM |
| 3 | The Queer ConversionThere's leftovers and then there's leftovers. What I shoulda done was baked her until more time had passed, or made her take a fucking shower. And less sleepovers. But you go on ahead bro 👊 I am very impressed by how important you are. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/19 02:24 PM |
| 6 | The Queer ConversionAtlanta. There are other scenes & options obviously, I stepped away from the hippies 6ish months ago because they are all insane leftists and use too many drugs. I started rolling with club Bros instead because they use too many drugs but at least they are woke. But pretty much any Music Festival with Camping is like that at a certain point of night. Hulaween Bonaroo Burning Man EDC take your pick | /r/TheRedPill | 15/03/19 11:01 AM |
| 6 | Leo’s shags : SMV for men vs women with age and fameHahahahha thanks dude that just made my day. Holy shit those comments are a goldmine of cognitive dissonance. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/19 09:19 PM |
| 1 | The Power of Pre-Selection.Bitches drink cocktails got it. There's a joke in there somewhere. This will be in Mexico in vacationland so much apreesh. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/19 12:42 PM |
| 1 | The Power of Pre-Selection.I am planning to bartend for the first time in my life at age 30 because of these mechanics. Not like I meet bitches in my dayjob. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/19 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Woman I was introduced to by a mutual friend will not take a hint and repeatedly tries getting attention from me. What should I do?This is called harassment. Quietly inform the gym staff, have them witness it, and if it proceeds, ask for her to be banned fromnthe facility. You can do all of this anonymously. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 07:06 PM |
| 1 | How to handle ex LTR trying to ruin your life?That's just engaging the frame too much IMO. No value in suing her or pressing charges unless she makes this her mission in life for the next 6 months or something, which enters libel/slander territory. OR if she tries to get you banned from the gym (and it works). That's the kind if shit you fight. The rest you are better off ignoring. Make new friends etc. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/19 03:35 AM |
| 1 | How to handle ex LTR trying to ruin your life?Good. There's no rush but it's a good sign you are willing to hit the bricks like that. You'll be fine | /r/askTRP | 12/03/19 03:32 AM |
| 1 | How to handle ex LTR trying to ruin your life?Seems like she struck first? Airing dirty laundry on social media is a stupid move but it gets tricky when they bash you like that. So many females and white knights will rally to the flag instantly. I think there is actually some value in addressing it at least once. My most recent ex I made the mistake of posting that she smashed my phone and we had broken up. She proceeded to drag everything she could possibly twist into the light and label it abuse and I mean dude there was a mile long list … | /r/askTRP | 12/03/19 03:30 AM |
| 8 | How to handle ex LTR trying to ruin your life?1) Women fuck with you after the fact for two reasons mainly. Usually: called her out / shamed her / made her feel like shit (revenge) OR you were her alpha and she's irrationally making plays to somehow stay in your life. Point is, if you meant nothing to her she would have just disappeared and stopped talking about you. So good job in a way, you had impact. Your absence is felt. 2) Don't leave that gym just because she's bitchy and gossiping. You go there to lift not to suck dick right? So lif… | /r/askTRP | 12/03/19 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Cheated on LTR and now the relationship is better. Why is this?"She seems confident." | /r/askTRP | 11/03/19 07:38 PM |
| 2 | Misogyny Alert: Men’s Brains Are Significantly Larger Than Women’s BrainsPeople like you are the reason I still have hope for escaping the nation-wide vortex of seemingly state sponsored insanity that is the US of A. Somewhere, surely, it is different. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/19 07:17 PM |
| 5 | Why do women always go back to their abuserWomen are in part hardwired for the abuse. That sounds shitty doesn't it but it's not just about his value/dick game. Many women today are so broken they respond better to abusive treatment, as it is so rare for them to feel so intensely (even when it's negative). They also associate this with higher value men/status, even if the abuser really isn't, because obviously only men of extreme value dare to treat her in such ways. Yes, they really are that stupid sometimes. It breaks my brain thinking… | /r/askTRP | 11/03/19 01:42 PM |
| 6 | Dealing with lowsThis having somewhere to be / something to do is key. What I read that as is "have responsibilities that mean something to you" aka a reason to roll out of bed. I am EXTREMELY good at being efficient. Perks of lazy, spoiled upbringing and IQ. I have worked maybe 5 hours a week the last three months. Before that I was working maybe 10-20 hours a week. Surprisingly this is not all a bed of roses. I am often bored with little else to do except babysit a laptop waiting for an email from 9-5pm. This … | /r/askTRP | 11/03/19 01:23 PM |
| 8 | Thirty Years with the RedpillOf course - but height is an amplifier for certain conditions. Not saying give up if you are <6 ft. I'm saying don't pretend that six inches means nothing. It does and always will. Which is natural. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/19 04:47 PM |
| 11 | Thirty Years with the RedpillBecause I prefer learning from every resource available, not just the school of hard knocks. If you don't change the behavior/belief then you haven't learned. And on the topic of marriage I can see the forest for the trees without needing to don the ring myself. I've been to plenty weddings where it was just obvious the man was being led to slaughter. Friends married to whores, robbed of their hard earned money, custody, dignity. But you do you bro. Thump that chest some more because you are ego… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/19 03:59 PM |
| 23 | Thirty Years with the RedpillI'm happy for you that you were born/raised Redpill but you are delusional of you think being 5'8" wouldn't change things for you. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/19 02:04 PM |
| 5 | Thirty Years with the RedpillNah Redpill takes a pretty hard line on marriage, at least in the US. Bad deal is a bad deal. You can have kids without getting married. Seven kids from four baby mommas get steppin bruh. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/19 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Do women seriously just travel for dick? I've noticed whenever I'm backpacking, the women I'm around act more horny...I would like to believe this. Hell, it's part of my long term strategy. Find women who aren't rancid sluts from countries that aren't FUBAR. But then again, AWALT. Be mindful not to look at these foreign relationships and idealize them. It's easy to look from the outside and say "they seem happy. She appears loyal." | /r/askTRP | 10/03/19 01:33 PM |
| 37 | Do women seriously just travel for dick? I've noticed whenever I'm backpacking, the women I'm around act more horny...Went on a cruise recently and saw the following: Entire group wearing "What Happens On The Cruise Stays On The Cruise" t-shirts Chick wearing a shirt that said "Trust Me" Cheating is an Olympic sport. Get with the program. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/19 03:03 AM |
| 6 | girls that can cum from only PIV, green flag?I mean you still need to not be a little bitch but yes. Wielding that power over her makes it infinities easier. Girls do not come across guys that do that to them often. I alpha widowed the shit out of that bitch. It's 3 years later and I saw the ghost in her eyes just randomly at a NYE club party. She reflex reached for her little boyfriend as I walked by and ignored them lol | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 11:21 PM |
| 7 | girls that can cum from only PIV, green flag?I once had a plate that developed into an advantageous OLTR. She orgasmed 3+ times a sesh without fail from PIV only. Literally had this girl asking my permission to masterbate via text. It was mostly the dread. It was also suggested by friends I may have been the most attractive guy she ever dated. Towards the end of our 9month or so thing she would full on cry during sex. Also orgasmed but cried. That almost bothered me but meh. Basically all I had to do was not commit and game other bitches. … | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 10:59 PM |
| 2 | I tried faking high value, at the end I hit it hard. I just realized itOuch. Just described me with that Sigma shit. I need to work on my social circles :/ But first... Mexico. Not like they could follow me anyways. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 12:09 PM |
| 10 | Girl telling me to install Snapchat?Snapchat is the hookup chat of choice because it does two things: 1) Auto deletes messages and media content 2) shows when pics or content has been screenshotted So the hoes can hoe in the comforting belief that no one will ever find it or see it, except who they want to. Girls with boyfriends especially rely on Snapchat for their cheating and pre-cheating behaviors. Get it. Don't post snap stories or other faggot shit. Just use it to close on women who want the deniability. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/19 03:52 AM |
| 1 | UCSF administers puberty blockers and hormonal treatment to gender dysphoric kids 8-12 turning young boys (and girls) into happy trans kidsIf you think this is bad read about DEHP and Pthalatates. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/19 07:37 PM |
| 12 | UCSF administers puberty blockers and hormonal treatment to gender dysphoric kids 8-12 turning young boys (and girls) into happy trans kidsFuck outta here with your warped bullshit. What's more desirable for society has not a goddamn thing to do with a human person's sovereign right to not be poisoned, deceived and oppressed. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/19 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Confused in college, need advice.What? Is this supposed to show over-eagerness for TRT? | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Big penis while being 5'3"My experience has taught different lessons than yours. I had an friend/aquaintance couple years back. Part of the larger social circle. We'd hit bars and go on trips as a squad. Dude had a big dick apparently. His beta wingman would literally just say to random bitches in the bar "my friend has a big dick, come over". Some would, some wouldn't. Very low effort opener. The guy himself was a bit shy and bashful about being called out like that, but he was attractive and not totally retarded so he … | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 05:06 AM |
| 2 | Big penis while being 5'3"Say less until you know more. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Big penis while being 5'3"The fuck? Big Dick not a selling point? You are lost in the woods friend, sit by the fire for a while and read some sidebar | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Big penis while being 5'3"Literally just tell bitches that you have a big cock. The only time this is a bad idea to do is when it's not true. Have friends say it for you too. A non-zero number will take you up on it. And yes, once this reputation gets around your social circles you will find a number of women with MidgetThatsHungLikeAHorse fetish. Obviously you should still also work on game, looksmaxing, lifting, etc. As a little dude you can probably also get away with being stupid Extra (silly, social freedom) and the… | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 04:25 AM |
| 5 | AWALT - well, this basically sums it up for me.Yep. I didn't sign up for this shit either bro but it is what it is. Funny thing though once you see it like that they become way way easier. Can't get blood from a stone right? So they are what they are. And that ain't too terrible, sometimes. PS if you're a homie you'll let the married cuck know somehow and save him 5-10 years of wasted time. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/03/19 01:09 AM |
| 5 | Discussion: Do you want children? What is the best way to have children?Yes, I would like to have kids. At this point I only have two ideas for how to approach this. 1) Pay for a surrogate and have all parental rights assigned to me exclusively. Bring mother-material into their lives but only within my discretion. 2) Go to some other place/culture and pick out a breeder and STAY, because maybe that culture still encourages monogamy and punishes failure. I don't have much family to speak of in the US anyways so this is a viable approach for me. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/19 10:23 AM |
| 1 | Video Games Are As Bad As Porn & Why To QuitAs long as you are building real value out of it do what you want. I'd say the same thing if you were some kind of Porn Critic that somehow got paid to fap or watch clips. The 0.1% of people making a living / building themselves up as a mover & shaker / Apex / creator in gaming are excluded. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/19 03:43 PM |
| 2 | Fuckonomics discussion: Applying the concept of price in the Sexual MarketplaceSaved. You basically just held a mirror to my face and called me a pussy who doesn't approach/escalate enough. I get eyebangs everywhere I go it seems, number closes fairly easy. But few dates, no GF and sporadic lays. I've been holding back. I shouldn't. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/19 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Fuckonomics discussion: Applying the concept of price in the Sexual MarketplaceAs a techie I understood this analogy +1 | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/19 03:38 AM |
| 2 | DEHP - Penis Shrinking Infertility ChemicalMy bad I was busy when I replied before, there are a few small steps to take. You're still gonna get exposed but maybe less? I use glass protein shakers and Tupperware. There is a short list of ingredients in the article to avoid as well if you take the time read labels. And they recommend a brand of water filter named "Pure & Clear". Alternatively you could use an osmosis filter (about $5k for a home install.) | /r/askTRP | 04/03/19 11:28 PM |
| 2 | DEHP - Penis Shrinking Infertility ChemicalMove to a region that is untouched by modern industry. Pray that the wind doesn't carry DEHP to you from the nearest town. Also pray that the water supply is not cross contaminated. And the soil. Also never need to visit a doctor or take medicine. Practically speaking it is unavoidable. Read the article mate | /r/askTRP | 04/03/19 11:09 PM |
| 2 | DEHP - Penis Shrinking Infertility ChemicalThe answer right here. End of the day I don't need TRT or gear. My hormones are fine and I'm making reasonable gains in the gym. The risks probably outweigh the reward. But still. I weep for the species over shit like this. Makes me wonder whether or not I was affected, and what life might have been like. Oh well. Plates to be spun etc. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/19 08:35 PM |
| 2 | Video Games Are As Bad As Porn & Why To QuitI'm on year three. I thought I was serious about lifting but really I had no idea what I was doing. This year though. Already gotten good gains. Grats on your progress dude | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/19 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Video Games Are As Bad As Porn & Why To QuitCan't save em all bro. I'd love to but.. just can't. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/19 07:11 PM |
| 3 | Video Games Are As Bad As Porn & Why To QuitWhat is cognitive dissonance? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/19 07:04 PM |
| 4 | DEHP - Penis Shrinking Infertility ChemicalThe article I linked scientifically demonstrates that American males are being exposed to a chemical that fucks them up. Chances are dudes out there today are lesser versions of what they might have been. DEHP effects where known in 1975 btw. Born after the industrial revolution? I was. But taking a chemical that runs the opposite way is bad, inherently? Why? So let simplify with an analogy. Let's say that there was a chemical in your socks that caused your Vitamin D to crash or maintain consist… | /r/askTRP | 04/03/19 06:49 PM |
| 2 | DEHP - Penis Shrinking Infertility ChemicalMy penis size is fine. As are my hormones, been tested. Thanks for the ad hominen deflection tho. So your argument is don't do TRT/Gear because it's difficult and expensive. Nice Redpill you got there bruh | /r/askTRP | 04/03/19 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Video Games Are As Bad As Porn & Why To QuitEven musicians who don't make alot of money still tour, play shows in front of audiences, make friends amongst the music scene, frequent concerts, and of course pull pussy. Specially if you the front man on guitar. There are just metric fucktons of nerds up in this thread trying to argue with a nerd about how Vidya is fine. Ok, it's fine. GL HF bro. I'll be out here playing the Real Game. I'll say hi to your wife for girls night this Friday too. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/19 05:37 PM |
| 1 | I tried faking high value, at the end I hit it hard. I just realized itPrimitive camping and hiking has been on the lost for too long, it seems. Makes sense. Its kind of astounding at this point how ingrained the "system" really is. Where is the rebellion? Where's the purging of old, decayed bullshit? TRP is a personal answer but not a macro one. Maybe it's just meant to be this way and the option is choosing whether to be asleep or awake. I've learned over time many just cannot and do not wish to be saved. "I'm sorry. We have a rule. We never free a mind after a c… | /r/askTRP | 04/03/19 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Video Games Are As Bad As Porn & Why To QuitHahahaha fucking dead | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/19 01:44 PM |
| 6 | Video Games Are As Bad As Porn & Why To QuitNever played Mass Effect apparently. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/19 01:23 PM |
| 13 | Video Games Are As Bad As Porn & Why To QuitCongrats. That's a huge accomplishment dude stay with it. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/19 01:21 PM |
| 5 | Video Games Are As Bad As Porn & Why To QuitFor fucks sake no. The problem is the sense of tribe you are describing isn't "real". It rarely results in anything happening in the real world. I say this as someone who still has lifelong friends from gaming I actually visit in person. So instead of building a tribe with some homies you can actually go do something with, who invite you places or enrich your experiences or introduce you to people or show up to help you move you've got homies who help you minmax your K/D ratio and talk about how… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/19 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Video Games Are As Bad As Porn & Why To QuitRat Park is the end all be all answer to addiction so you are on the right track. I've got other things in my life but only because I worked for it. I wasn't handed any kind of social circle and have nuked my fair share over time. If you actually believe you are permatripping or whatever, see a psychiatrist. I've done plenty of psychadelics and have heard stories about it but never experienced it myself. What I do experience is a sort of mild PTSD about taking drugs like that, not being in contr… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/19 01:23 AM |
| 3 | Video Games Are As Bad As Porn & Why To QuitSee this is me too. It's a simple calculation. "I could learn guitar" I've literally had one sitting around for 2 years since Christmas 2017. "I could do XYZ" and in your brain your thinking yeah, let's do that, I want the rewards and experience of doing that. But you don't. Instead you say, "that was a long hard day and I'm just gonna game". And a big part of that is the dopamine wiring. It's chemical. Your brain is telling you that guitar is boring and not valuable compared to a video game. Yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/19 01:14 AM |
| 5 | Video Games Are As Bad As Porn & Why To QuitI do not make video games or mods. My 6fig job is fine lol. My career in IT is unrelated to gaming. What I was trying to explain is that I had a "natural in" for IT jobs because I knew my way around a computer as a result of gaming my life away. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/19 12:55 AM |
| -10 | Video Games Are As Bad As Porn & Why To QuitNext time you think this bullshit look at the Chad living the life you want to live and remind yourself that nothing in his life is worth the effort of peeling yourself away from the idiot box. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/19 10:43 PM |
| -5 | Video Games Are As Bad As Porn & Why To QuitYES YES YES. The TL;DR right here. Make it easy on yourself to be a winner fellas that is the name of the game. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/19 10:42 PM |
| 7 | Video Games Are As Bad As Porn & Why To QuitI have managed to create value through video games, but I would not recommend it as the optimal path for any of my fellows. I founded a gaming community which gave me leadership, marketing and what I can only describe as "Sheriff & Executioner" experience. Really valuable. Spent about 6 months on it. Also the competition. The willingness & ability to lose over and over and over until you're finally better than the other guy and thriving off that dopamine hit and victory. This is basically my poi… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/19 10:39 PM |
| 3 | Video Games Are As Bad As Porn & Why To QuitEasy. Are you actually busting moves to become a 0.1% twitch streamer? Is it adding tangible value to your life? Then keep on trucking. If not, admit to yourself that you are basically masterbating your masculine instinct for dominance and growth through a game and step back. I had this same thought in my head when I was Masters league SC2. I went so far as researching Team Houses in S.Korea, seeing how the life works, and befriending even more elite players who were either in or associated with… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/19 09:13 PM |
| 8 | Video Games Are As Bad As Porn & Why To QuitVideo games a poor choice for me RIGHT NOW. When I'm 65, retired having lived my best life & can afford Matrix style VR tech I be back in the Game most likely. 'Poor Choice' because we here generally are looking for he Hard Path that leads to adding value, creating strength, and enriching our lives through status, game, all of it. At least I know that's what I'm doing. Seeking safety and comfort through a video game is the antithesis of those pursuits. And no, I'm not trying to forget about our … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/19 09:08 PM |
| 22 | Video Games Are As Bad As Porn & Why To QuitYou aren't wrong because really what you're saying is "be alpha and do what you want, responsibly." Duh. Look around though. Most of us aren't there yet and most of us may never be. These little indulgences have a tendency to addict us, to make us need them, to make us weak over time and thus need more and more. Add the hardships of life and there you go. Sounds just like a female doesn't it? What's the better piece of advice for your 12 yo. son? Smoke cigarettes responsibly son and they can be … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/19 08:35 PM |
| 0 | Video Games Are As Bad As Porn & Why To QuitThis. All of those real things to spend time on. All of the secondary and tertiary benefits that come out of doing real hings with real people. And yet it is so easy to replace them with pixellated lies. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/19 08:30 PM |
| -8 | Video Games Are As Bad As Porn & Why To QuitThe world is both good and bad. I've seen some shit and trust I know how people are to each other when the chips are down. Doesn't matter. In fact I'm fairly surprised by your position. An Ugly Truth is better than a Beautiful Lie. Escapism is for the men who cannot forge a bountiful path for themselves.. or who could, maybe even did, but are so broken that it's not enough. Seeking happiness, even short term pleasure is normal as fuck. But there's an important difference between seeking "a few h… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/19 08:27 PM |
| 3 | I tried faking high value, at the end I hit it hard. I just realized itYes to all of that, but also add in these: Hobbies Social Circles Family Career Purpose/Calling/Mission All of these can be worked on the same way you work on a ripped physique. It's a whole package kinda Enterprise. Good luck & have fun my brother | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 05:18 PM |
| 3 | I tried faking high value, at the end I hit it hard. I just realized itLol I've posted comments just as good as this one with 3 upvotes, social media is weird like that. I love taking examples from nature because it somehow explains why things are the way they are. Like we evolved on a planet trying to murder us every step of the way no fucking wonder we are what we are. And accepting that animal nature in yourself is liberating - and also brings you into a closer kinship with the natural world. One of the biggest mistakes we have made as a society in general is pu… | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 05:15 PM |
| 2 | I tried faking high value, at the end I hit it hard. I just realized itI forget. Pretty sure it was from Planet Earth II. Google that shit ya foo | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 12:58 AM |
| 3 | I tried faking high value, at the end I hit it hard. I just realized itSometimes a thing can be simple to understand but difficult to actually execute/deliver. This is the path, and believe it or not, it isn't any more complicated than that. Be in the top 10%. Most people get there through Effort, Ambition, and Hard Ass Work. So yeah, it might be hard. There will be pain. Loss. Wasted time. Confusion. And growth. Priceless memories. And it will be worth it in the end. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 12:56 AM |
| 249 | I tried faking high value, at the end I hit it hard. I just realized itThe "Loud Monkey" attribute is a good thing. Talking over people, talking about how you're on top of the world, etc. are all DHVs. They establish value. You need to learn nuance so it doesn't become too annoying for your friends and people you meet. And also so that it sounds casual and effortless, just part of who you are - not trying to impress anyone. About Inner Game - which is the sort of Confidence you feel in your bones. This for me was just a matter of experience and time. I'm on year 4 … | /r/askTRP | 02/03/19 07:39 PM |
| 5 | Did I fuck up? I feel so ashamedSounds like you made the right moves on this girl, but a few pointers 1) Get 1000 more stories like this. Not exaggerating. That's the path forward. 2) If she has been a friend for a while and this is the first time you've made a move on her, the ASD will be stronger. Women give you 1 chance to show them who you are and after that you are whatever they labelled you as the first time (to their eyes), and it's very difficult to change that perception 3) If she was not a friend, but rather a newer … | /r/askTRP | 02/03/19 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Discipline is freedom. How Do I get disciplined (EC help)?So much this. Inaction is the root of all betahood. Thinking about the situation can be important, but sooner or later, you gotta pull the trigger. Sometimes it's better to just pull the trigger and think later. Betas are conditioned to be so afraid of taking risks that they have to get a PhD in it before they jump. I should know. Life is... Pretty different now lol | /r/askTRP | 02/03/19 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Female Corruption EventsThat's actually an option I'm keeping up my sleeve. Paying a surrogate. Marriage is a big deal because of how hard it is pushed, the fact that it is overwhelmingly bullshit and actively destructive, deceitful and downright inhumane for many men. Some men get lucky maybe. Or appear to. That's really my question hear reading your position. What have you seen? Why are you defending the "nuclear family" so hard even with so much evidence that it's shit for most men? Turning shit into gold is a skill… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/19 02:42 AM |
| 2 | Female Corruption EventsThey may lead good lives overall, but marriage is still a shit deal for men these days. That's a fact. Just because some dude out there is willing to swallow his pride and look the other way for the sake of making babies, while getting his own on the side, does not mean that it is not a shit deal. It's Donald Draper types you're talking about. You seem them driving Porsches and having hot wives and kids and you project. They face the same shit as anyone else. Irrational women looking at the most… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/19 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Female Corruption EventsYou are in the anger phase. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/19 01:48 AM |
| 3 | Female Corruption EventsFelons make a choice to get where they are. Children are inherently undeveloped and thus unsuited. Can an argument be made that most women these days are barely more than children? Sure. But I also know you've met women smarter than you. Even, dare I say it, women more Alpha than you. Same could be said about fat beta blob men. By your logic we should exclude all men under 6 foot, all men who aren't ripped, all men who aren't presently financially & sexually & socially successful, etc. It's a bi… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/19 12:15 AM |
| 17 | Bumble is launching a women-first networking tool that lets recruiters exclude menRealtalk there are many ways to fire a person without firing them. That's how you get it done. You also don't shit where you eat and keep your nose 110% clean in your business. And also maybe have cameras and never be alone with a female employee. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/19 10:32 PM |
| -1 | Female Corruption EventsThe vote should be available to women. I haven't read C.H. article yet tho so I can't really speak as to why he believes this to be a key factor. Sure it would be EASIER for men if women didn't vote, but would that be right/better? Probably not. Birth Control is good, but in its current for is shit for men, because.. we have 0% control over it. There is no equivalent contraception for men except Condoms, and who the fuck likes those. This puts control of conception firmly in a woman's court, whi… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/19 10:26 PM |
| 129 | Bumble is launching a women-first networking tool that lets recruiters exclude menYour judgment of her performance is based on toxic patriarchal standards that fail to take her specialness into consideration and is a clear indication that you are an INCEL womynhater just trying to keep her down. Recommendation from the bench is mandatory sterilization and reeducation | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/19 10:15 PM |
| 19 | Bumble is launching a women-first networking tool that lets recruiters exclude menOr work 5 hours a week in someone else's treadmill remotely. And then start your own business. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/19 10:13 PM |
| 4 | Can deep-seated beta tendencies established in early childhood ever be overcome, or are such people pretty much always going to be beta no matter what?You're an idiot acting like a scientist and you should stop spreading info like you know what your talking about. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/19 07:01 PM |
| 0 | what makes blue pilled people still believe their way is the right way when the red pilled people in their group actively shows that its not?It is hard to fill a cup that is already full. The cup must first be emptied.. usually by eviscerating the man's ability to trust and believe in a woman's love. Fuck his bitch. That'll do it. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/19 01:38 PM |
| 12 | You should NEVER ignore any signs of infidelityThe kind of man that can fuck your girl easily & well, has no problems being honest about it, and even goes out of his way to save you money, and tip you off about what's going on. That's a guy that could make an interesting friend. The Chad you don't be friends with is the one who could do all that, say nothing, smile and act like your bro the entire time. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/19 02:57 AM |
| 9 | Why do some girls stare but look away immediately when I make eye contact?You're stuck on an island with no other men and a book named TRP. Read it and STFU. Eye contact is basic shit. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/19 01:50 PM |
| 13 | Why do some girls stare but look away immediately when I make eye contact?Indication of Interest aka Greenflag. 9/10 times it will mean nothing on an an approach, but you should approach that shit anyways for the 10% who are dtf. Also do more sidebar reading this is a TRP day 1 type question. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/19 01:35 PM |
| 7 | How To Not Suck At Lifting 101You know what? Thanks for being a hard ass about it. You're right, I've got rookie stats. Thank God - means I still have some value to harvest from the gym. At least I'm putting up extra weight every single day. I learned this shit the hard way. Not bragging. Just tryna save some people time. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/19 02:27 AM |
| 1 | How To Not Suck At Lifting 101Google Jade Cicada Push Pull Lift routine | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/19 02:24 AM |
| 2 | How To Not Suck At Lifting 101Last reply here for a bit. You are 100% correct. At the end of the day, it is on each of us to summon the strength required to get shit done. But hold space for the middle too bro. That's what this entire Sub is about. Saving young men years of confusion and wasted effort. I struggled for a while to even get noob gains. That's on me, but if I had heard the lesson clearly from the outset I would have saved some time. I felt like I could Lift and then go out and Party and that is what was the righ… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/19 10:13 PM |
| 3 | Be a shitty alpha"Where do you get your drive? How do you do what you do?" Said the Defeated to the Victorious. There are lots of ways to be born lucky in this world and not a single one of them is more important than a Man's capacity for work - his Drive. I walk around these days out-gaming (some) 6 foot plus perfect chiselled Chads with my skinnyfat ass because my balls are bigger and I want it more than they do. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/19 10:04 PM |
| 2 | How To Not Suck At Lifting 101Talk to your doctor. I ultimately got put on an Ambien prescription that I use sparingly. Getting good sleep is critical. Be mindful not to consume caffeine or stimulants after a certain hour of the evening. Other than that just make sure your bedroom is dark and quiet. Turn off any screens 1hr before bedtime. Read a book or meditate or do some laundry. Reading a bit before bedtime is boring and definitely helps me fall asleep | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/19 09:55 PM |
| 20 | How To Not Suck At Lifting 101Yup I'm currently skinnyfat. Far from done. Goal is 175 @ 12%. Should be achievable in 2019. Was 115lbs my Senior year of high school with 0 sports of any kind until I started martial arts. I'll take my 60lbs gross bulk from 3 years of training. I look and feel so much better than I used to. Not done yet tho. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/19 09:24 PM |
| 32 | Be a shitty alphaEgo & Pride get in the way. In HS I had a HB7 GF. In college another one. BP as fuck. After I found TRP? Somehow I couldn't get laid even with 5s. Wtf is this shit bro? Of course I was ignoring all the actual 5s. Not romantic or chasing anymore so no bring chosen as a BF. Only going for gold, etc. Add in RP knowledge and lifting and suddenly I was "entitled" to the best pussy. But still not getting it. Enter our old friend: cognitive dissonance / dumbassery Cast a wide net fellas. We are not wir… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/19 05:30 PM |
| 3 | Does the manosphere have a self reporting problem?Yeah. Pre-TRP I had an Ncount of 2. Both strictly mono LTRs. Now in year 4 with an Ncount of like 40-50. And I've been screwing that up a fair bit. Tried to LTR two sluts and that fallout cost me alot. This shit works. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/19 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Laws of Human Nature Summary - Chapter 6: The Law of Short-Sightedness.Excellent post but you should also point out the catch. Farsighted / looking at the world and life on a whole timeline like this can CAUSE anxiety and depression. You have to be mindful of that. "It's too late, I should have done XYZ by now, time is running out" on and on. You see I was always that guy. The control freak. The planner. The strategist. Rarely would I move unless certain of my choice. Finding TRP exacerbated this and at first I became brittle - seeking perfection instead of excelle… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/19 04:23 PM |
| 240 | Be a shitty alphaGood post. TL;DR Your job isn't being better than anyone else. Your job is to approach, achieve and sustain your "personal best self" for as long as possible. Comparisons against others are usually not helpful because everyone gets dealt different hands in life. Upon finding TRP I found my focus switched to "bad bitches only". Because hey, if they all sluts, why not just go for the Nova hot party sluts? Problem is this narrow-minded thinking can confuse you. Trap you. You only go to clubs, you o… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/19 03:35 PM |
| 1 | What are the ways men can hit their wall early?.#1 killer and thief right here | /r/askTRP | 23/02/19 12:34 AM |
| 12 | Hard Nexting HurtsHard Nexting is the 1st step on the path of "I'm the Prize" Can't give your time & value to hoes and be a prize. By not doing that, by Nexting the skank when necessary, no matter how hard it hurts or even if you have 0 pussy as backup.. it is still the right choice. Hard Next into your grave mother fucker | /r/askTRP | 22/02/19 11:31 PM |
| 3 | That Awkward Moment When You Have to Lie in the Bed You've MadeVasaglGel/RISUG is not available for purchase anywhere - even India. At least, not to the average Joe. Can't even sign up for the trial unless you are an Indian male living in the target neighborhoods. But you're right. Give men the power to control their reproduction and the game will change. Sexbots and robobrothels will change the game too though. Think about it. All the betas who will go to those brothels or buy a toy. Alphas will still spin plates like we have since the dawn of time. So wha… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/19 10:22 PM |
| 15 | Just found out true meaning of AWALTThis is the true meaning of "AWALT". Once it really clicks women get easier to deal with, because you are no longer trying to invent a fantasy out of thin air. You just deal with the woman as she is. And what they are is community bicycles. Ride one where you tryna go then put it back. Wipedown optional. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/19 04:35 PM |
| 21 | I finally dropped a girl that I liked and it feels so fucking good.Congrats, feels good don't it? Call that feeling Self Respect from now on. Next episode: abundance. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 07:40 PM |
| 3 | Broad question meant to incite broad answers. Where should a man be in his life at age 25?This is where Chad is by 25. Physically fit and at or nearly at his Apex of strength/endurance. Working hard on good career prospects (or living them) not just wasting time in dead end jobs or degrees. Solid grip on fashion, grooming, socializing, has good habits going out, has social circles or can easily make friends. Not wasting excessive time on bullshit like video games, weed, etc. No critically negative addictions or substance problems. Has already fucked more bitches than 95% of guys ever… | /r/askTRP | 17/02/19 06:19 PM |
| 5 | Cues of upper body strength account for most of the variance in men’s bodily attractivenessYes. Skinnystrongbro here and I can tell you that even uglier, shorter guys (but not betas) that are big and wide get advantages. It's a "size club". Bigger is better. Not fat blob with own gravity, but anything other than that. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/02/19 10:26 PM |
| 7 | Women and the main-stream narrativeIts basically a bait & switch for both genders. Women want the alpha badboy.. to fall in love with her and only her, thus proving how special she is. Men want the sexy partygirl.. to fall in love with him and only him, thus proving how awesome he is. So when you hear that love song or see that romcom, yes, women really do want that.. from Chad. And only enough to know he cares, not so much it tarnishes his street cred. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/19 06:24 PM |
| 11 | I think I’ve past all stages, gf dumped meLift. Avoid drinking, weed, and other bad shit. Eat clean. Get good sleep. Without missing a beat, go out and socialize. Spit some game at new bitches. Keep doing it. Don't care how you feel. Once or twice a week minimum. Next time, don't ignore red flags. You will forever be losing if you pour your time, love and energy into a bucket that looks like Swiss cheese. Spin more plates, give less fucks | /r/askTRP | 12/01/19 01:13 AM |
| 11 | Not having muscle mass really that much of a deal breaker?And on today's episode of OP is a faggot: Doesn't want to lift, wants TRP to tell him it's ok to be a weak backed manlet. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/19 02:06 AM |
| 3 | NYC vs Atlanta in terms of game, women and partying. Anyone with experience in both cities want to give their thoughts?I think your friend is shitting on NYC for other reasons. Any metro is going to have lots and lots of chicks to game. I live in the ATL and have for 6 years. I pay about $1000 for an apartment in Buckhead + utils. Logistics on point. There are definitely plenty of hot girls, sweet clubs, and tons of other shit going on in Atlanta. The music & film scenes specifically are very hot here. Tons of festivals. EAV/Little 5 Points has a good hipster vibe if you're into that. You already know about Buck… | /r/askTRP | 11/01/19 01:38 AM |
| 5 | OneitisSeconded. "Am I handing her power" YES. In my experience, having that heart to heart about what you want from her is basically girlcode for "I couldn't live without you, please complete me, I need you, don't fuck this up pls pls". The 180 that gets pulled afterwards is overshadowed only by the moment the ring slips on. This may seem to clashe with the RP directive to establish your boundaries. The difference is in execution. You don't spill your guts like you had just been impaled on the spear o… | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Did discovering theredpill make you happier?"Why do my eyes hurt?" Neo "You've never used them before.." Morpheus TRP for me was Denial > Acceptance > Pain Pain Pain > Growth > More Pain > More Growth > continue Once you have enough of that pain and growth under your belt, you look in the rearview and say.. holy fucking shit. I DID that? What else can I do? And yeah. That's a happy feeling. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 09:11 PM |
| 2 | Anyone who also suffered/suffers under ad(h)d and depression?I take self-prescribed adderall (not daily, maybe 10-15mg/week) and have struggled with my own depression (never sought diagnosis). First, ditch the female therapist. If you need therapy, find a man who knows what it's like to live in this world as a man. Otherwise you may as well be spilling your guts to a brick wall. That's about how much the average female understands what men go through. Even then, most guys are BP, so the search may take time but finding a worldly, masculine male therapist … | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 09:04 PM |
| 2 | How often should I be going out?About 2-3 social outings a week is the sweet spot for me. The rule of thumb I use when asking myself if I wanna go out: What better, more interesting thing am I going to do with my time? If there is no good answer, I go. Even if I'm not really feeling it. More often than not I am surprised and have a great time. Besides, if it's shit and you don't enjoy it, leave. Learning that changed the entire game for me. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 08:38 PM |
| 1 | What positive experiences have you seen applying trp theory with women?Why not? It's a turn on tbh, both sides I think, kind of "risque" or whatever. Plus the nips and clit get really really really sensitive towards the end of the pregnancy, which is fun for everybody | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 08:20 PM |
| 3 | How do you get out of the loop of telling yourself you're a loser and will never get better?I really need to try this. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 26/11/18 03:02 PM |
| 6 | Can you get away with bad "game" (ie "no game") if you're physically attractive?She did not expressly & enthusiastically consent to groping of the boob, only placement of the hand upon the underboob. Gotta be a gentleman in this harsh world boys /s | /r/askTRP | 25/11/18 05:29 PM |
| 6 | What are the 3-5 most influential Red Pill Theories?Sisyphus was damned to the pits of Tartarus by Zeus for his crimes, fated to forever roll a giant boulder uphill, only to watch it roll back down and have to do it all over again. Unlike even the mighty Hercules, his labors will never end. One must imagine Sisyphus as happy. He has purpose. Meaning. This is what men are. We have to DO. We must ACT. Without action, we are meaningless. Myth of Sisyphus is a classic book written as an argument against suicide. Basically, embrace the labors and chal… | /r/askTRP | 25/11/18 05:21 PM |
| 5 | What positive experiences have you seen applying trp theory with women?This highlights your lack of understanding. The badboys that rich women spend money on have the upper hand. Clear as day because you can see the value being siphoned from the one to the other. Maybe that is hard to grasp because the things society tells you are valuable (money) are not what Natural Law values (strength, size, potential for violence). I don't much care what you believe friend. But these hallowed Halls are a place of enlightenment. If you are unable or unwilling to challenge your … | /r/askTRP | 25/11/18 02:02 AM |
| 2 | GhostingSimple. Women do not lose very often these days when it comes to the SMP. They are used to an easy ride. So if you make them feel like a loser, or doubt their special snowflake status for even a moment, you are revealing to them an entire world they cannot even begin to understand. And you always fear what you don't understand. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/18 01:20 AM |
| 2 | What are some good masculine role models?The Rock. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/18 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Is game a constant? Or can some moods destroy your game?This is called State Control. Fact is if you know yourself well, and are healthy, you should know how to get yourself into "the Zone". For me it's usually chatting up everyone, downing a red bull, and not drinking too much (alcohol is a depressant). After being social and having fun for your own sake the flow state arrives. Maybe it's different for you. Probably is. And that is on you - learn yourself, and how to apptoach your best self / live your best life. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/18 01:15 AM |
| 13 | Being cut out of my social CircleHave more than one social circle, #1. Abundance mentality applies to everything.. not just women. Those two sound like chodes unworthy of your time. Decide only if retaining the post of VP is a valuable use of your time, fully realizing they will continue their toxic behavior. Sounds like it's time to cut ties and move on down the road. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/18 01:08 AM |
| 3 | What positive experiences have you seen applying trp theory with women?"just to have a sort of power advantage over them" If you do not already have a power advantage over them, then your LTR is not going to work. Because it isn't your LTR. It's hers. InB4 - but women know how to value & respect men even when they are less valuable than them, right? And honor the sanctity of their relationship/marriage even though the man is weaker. HAH. The rest of what you said is just hamstering. AF/BB. You are either the Captain or you are not. If you are not 1st you are last. … | /r/askTRP | 25/11/18 12:41 AM |
| 92 | What are the 3-5 most influential Red Pill Theories?Briffault's Law Hypergamy Myth of Sisyphus (life is pain & hard fucking work, flow with it) Discipline = Freedom Finding your own Path/Mission that is above and beyond any single relationship you could have with a person, even a wife or children. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/18 09:21 PM |
| 8 | What positive experiences have you seen applying trp theory with women?To rephrase this: Never LTR a girl you cannot immediately and easily replace. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/18 09:18 PM |
| 10 | What positive experiences have you seen applying trp theory with women?I let a girl I was hooking up with sleep over one night. We'd been hooking up for ~6 weeks or so. She had been out partying that weekend and around 1-2am after not being able to fall asleep in my own bed, I decided I did not want the slut around anymore. Shook her awake and asked her to leave. She proceeded to blow up my phone for days. ---- Oh also, lets talk about the 8months pregnant chick I fucked last week. "Mmm, I want to, but I can't.." "Ok, I'll text you my address". Closed. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/18 05:34 PM |
| 3 | LTRs with low SMV girls to ensure loyalty?What you will find over time, young grasshoppa, is that if a woman is genuinely attracted to you she will make sure her "personality" is a good match for you. These low SMV girls are probably breaking their backs for you. THAT is what you want. Because loyalty is.. well, AWALT. Even ugly women are like that. Aiming for low SMV girls is a good way to get laid and generate new options, but trust, it does not change anything about the laws of nature. Instead of aiming for women who are lower value … | /r/askTRP | 23/11/18 05:35 PM |
| 6 | Heart broken and red pill#1: Cut all contact. Throw any sentimental objects or anything that reminds you of her in the trash. I repeat, do NOT continue letting this girl be part of your life on any level. Full on ghost mode. #2: Focus on your friends. Go out and be social. Talk to everyone - the bartender, the waiter, the grocery store checkout clerk, the uber driver, your coworkers. Chat up everyone and just be friendly, it's not about getting a certain result from them but about training yourself to be a socially outg… | /r/askTRP | 23/11/18 05:32 PM |
| -1 | infidelity and casual sex really all that common?You smell mad. You blue bro? I can sell you some tren rn fix that shit up. Let me know bro. Only shrinks your testicles a little bit | /r/askTRP | 23/11/18 03:14 AM |
| 2 | infidelity and casual sex really all that common?Infidelity is the natural order. Casual sex is the current social norms. Combine these two and what you see is the market today. The only reason fidelity ever existed in the 1st place is because people thought it was a good idea for society, back in the day. It was enforced fidelity. Social consequences for breaking rank. What social consequences are there now? Yeah. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/18 03:13 AM |
| 5 | Putting on muscle seems like it’s pretty complicated (counting macros etc). What’s wrong with just lifting and eating healthy?And not drinking too much | /r/askTRP | 23/11/18 02:50 AM |
| 4 | How to stop my housemate from making jokes about me that i don’t like around our group of friendsWell, don't be a bitch about it. You are stuck living with this guy for a while so your best bet is to make due until you can change the situation. Give him a taste of his own medicine and treat him like the bratty little brother he is acting like. Whatever you do, definitely don't let his bullshit keep you from hanging out with your OTHER friends (unless they are oh so eager to talk down at you themselves). If that whole crew is on the /u/usernameallread is a joke train long term, make new frie… | /r/askTRP | 22/11/18 03:08 AM |
| 24 | How to stop my housemate from making jokes about me that i don’t like around our group of friendsSo for managing your inner-frame, the guy above is 100% on point. However when I read your post, I started thinking how to answer the outter-frame problem: which is that some guy you are socially associated with is dissing you in front of mixed company. All men who are living under the same roof will compete with eachother, overtly or covertly, to establish the pecking order. It is unavoidable. To fix this, you can either live alone, or live in a situation where you are the controlling party and… | /r/askTRP | 22/11/18 02:15 AM |
| 4 | Almost 30. I found what will fulfill me in life and it revolves around gaining popularity and hot girls. Now how do I make it happen?Lots of useless hate on this thread. If you guys aren't going to add value then give your thumbs a rest. @OP What I can say is this. All men desire sexual success. This is normal, and you are right to tell people to fuck off for arguing about it. However.. the reason TRP tells you not to squawk "Pussy" as your answer every time someone says the word "Mission" is actually a very good one. If you make Pussy your Mission, it is obvious. Blindingly so. Especially to women. And only thirsty men need … | /r/askTRP | 22/11/18 01:53 AM |
| 2 | What to make of this?You texted this chick Tuesday for plans on the weekend? And you've seen her twice? Never make plans that far in advance with such a new girl. I'd go so far as saying never make plans that far in advance period, but if you know her well or there is some special context like she will need an event ticket, then ok. Game is like music. The secret all singers & musicians rely on is called rhythm - or "the gap". Like the lull right before a dope bass drop on your favorite remix. It is this moment of a… | /r/askTRP | 22/11/18 01:44 AM |
| 67 | Do you eat pussy?Here's what you do if you are on the fence about muffdiving some piece of strange from the bar. You finger her, get her nice and wet, then rub your finger on her nipple. Go in for the nipple and give it a sniff n lick. If the juice seems worth the squeeze, carry on to mufftown. If it smells or tastes weird, abort mission. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/18 01:35 AM |
| 7 | Do you eat pussy?This one needs more sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/18 01:30 AM |
| 1 | The Hypergamy IllusionYou were never intended to compete with women pound for pound on the SMP. Mother nature took care of that "math" a billion years before you were born. So why the salt? You are supposed to compete against other men not against women. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/11/18 08:19 PM |
| 2 | Can we talk about something Rollo Tomassi said about masturbation and women sensing it?"TNT" AC/DC | /r/askTRP | 18/11/18 02:45 AM |
| 1 | From your experience, In order to maintain a life filled with progress, friendships and sex. What’s the optimal number of plates. How often should they spin?Can't be arsed to look this up, pretty sure it's Return of Kings or Rational Male. The theory is that each person has "slots" for different types of lovers. You might have (1) love slot but You may also have 2+ FWB slots And 5+ plate slots On and on. It's really up to you. The different levels of investment means that girls consume larger or smaller amounts of your time and energy accordingly. For strictly plates, no need to have more than 3. Of course always be hunting for #4 because by the tim… | /r/askTRP | 18/11/18 02:31 AM |
| 6 | What’s a certain behavior/trait about a girl that turns you on?Sadist* If he was a masochist he'd be one of those guys asking the chick to step on his balls until he bleeds | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 08:05 PM |
| 3 | What’s a certain behavior/trait about a girl that turns you on?One of my first ever plates sobbed and sobbed during sex because she knew I was gettin' it somewhere else too. Definitely a powertrip. TFW the one who full on cried during sex was also the one who came the most/effortlessly/often/squirting. Goes to show you female arousal is primarily linked to Dread. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/18 08:04 PM |
| 3 | Finding Purpose and Stability: Your First StepOk. I'll bite. What is your grand Purpose? | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/18 02:36 PM |
| 3 | LTR lied about attending a part while I was out-of-town. Need advice.Dump or silently demote after the 1st lie. You made the right call. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 05:36 PM |
| 10 | Finding Purpose and Stability: Your First StepDisagree. Purpose does not need to be grand and people often get lost in that, searching for some kind of cosmic destiny. Passion is purpose. I was like you once. I thought my Purpose had to be transcendent. I needed to save the world. Cure cancer. Lead my fellow men into an age of enlightenment and abundance. You will find those narratives unhelpful. Vague. Intangible. Not practical in the real world. My mission today is simple. Get Fit Travel This requires extensive focus on the priorities of … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/11/18 05:26 PM |
| 7 | Why TheRedPill makes you DEPRESSED.Remove the illusion and we are left with reality. Some people's realities are depressing. Seeing the truth for what it is - that can happen 5 minutes deep into the sidebar. It did for me. Accepting the truth for what it is and remaking one's entire existence to be worth living? That can take five months. Five years. Fifty years. Longer than some people have. Some will make it. Some won't. Maybe you can fix it. Maybe you can't. That's up to you. Redpill is not the mountain it's just the map. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/18 04:25 PM |
| 2 | Where do you chat up hot girls if you don't drink.Acro-yoga. Dancing. Cycling. Running. Hiking. Kayaking. Surfing. Spelunking. Snorkelling. Live music. Flying fucking kites. Know what all these things have in common? 1 Groups of random people get together and do them. Try Meetup as a starting point. 2 They are physical, exploratory, experiential activities - something that you do and the thing itself is worth doing regardless of getting laid or not. As opposed to consumptive, you are the product and the problem activities - bars, clubs, etc whe… | /r/askTRP | 30/09/18 03:19 PM |
| 2 | Long Live TRP & ThanksIt's quarantined for mobile access. Only PC users can get into the Sub now unless you use some fancy workarounds on mobile. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/18 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Long Live TRP & ThanksNice | /r/askTRP | 28/09/18 10:06 PM |
| 2 | TRP Transformed My Entire LifeTrp.red Pay it forward. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/18 04:46 PM |
| 6 | What are the ways men can hit their wall early?America | /r/askTRP | 23/09/18 12:47 AM |
| 4 | Why Are Girls Intimidated By Me, & Can It Be Fixed?I get this alot. If I could close even 50% of the cuties that eyebang me from across the room then I'd be a made man. The goal is to achieve the following status: "Easy to hang out with and fun to fuck" The #1 way to make yourself more socially approachable is to socialize EVERYONE. The fat chick, the fat chicks hot friend, the old gay dude who only dates black subs, the bartender, the boring dweeb sitting in his phone. Everyone. After that you will find yourself accidentally opening the girls y… | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 04:52 PM |
| 1 | "Why Do Girls Dump Their Boyfriends?" An introduction to Generation-Z and whats to comeCan you go into some more detail on this? I know companies will pay for MBAs if the guy is a talented manager or something that needs paper to continue moving up the ranks. But why would an MBA at a top school just be partying and travelling? Sounds off | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/18 10:06 PM |
| 4 | "Why Do Girls Dump Their Boyfriends?" An introduction to Generation-Z and whats to comeThe career folks call that a sabbatical. I've been working hard for about 6 years now and earn good money. More money than I need really for just myself (no wife no kids, no pets). I was just thinking 2-3 months but 6 does sound nice. The ultimate version of this though is landing a 💯 % remote job. Work anywhere. Live anywhere. Do anything. That and my fitness goals are about all I wake up for these days. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/18 12:21 PM |
| 2 | Ever since taking the pill I have felt constant anxiety and am unable to live in the present moment and be content.You are describing performance anxiety through the very unforgiving lense of real-to-life RP truths. Reading and looking at the world the way it really is was the easy part. Accepting the world for the way it is and then building a life you love & believe is worth living with every fiber of your being is the hard part. Fact is you will continue to feel like that until such time as you have actualized more of your potential. It's about your relationship with yourself. Put in the work, and as time… | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 04:40 PM |
| 42 | Was it exceptionally hard to have casual sex in the late 80s and early 90s?Smartphones. Game changer. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 04:34 PM |
| 2 | Need relationship advice. With a great girl.I want you to understand something. "Point me to the rocks" and "tell me what to do" are very lazy. Get less lazy. If you were on an island and askTRP did not exist, what would you do? Remain a slave? If you want to look under rocks, do two things. Get access to her phone OR throw a GPS tracker on her vehicle. You can come right out and ask to go through her phone if you want. She will accuse you of being an insecure little bitch, and may or may not show the phone to you. After that moment check… | /r/askTRP | 28/08/18 05:57 PM |
| 6 | Need relationship advice. With a great girl.Do not fucking get married. If you take anything from this sub, DO NOT GET MARRIED. If you take any two things from this sub, LIFT & do not get married. The end. You have oneitis and this chick has you right where she wants you. Want proof? Start looking under rocks. I understand the need for proof. You'll find it if you go looking. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/18 03:01 PM |
| 1 | How do you make a family in today’s and future society?God I want this so bad. Sick of this leftist bullshit. Get Fit and Travel my only two goals | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 07:56 PM |
| 3 | Don’t listen to their words, watch their actions.Ignore the troll. If the sub was better moderated he'd be out already. I've seen tents filled with nothing but wives and girlfriends getting drugged and fucked by men whose names they don't / can't remember. I've seen C beams glittering off the shoulders of Orion Betas have a hard time believing just how much like a cheap soap opera this shit can be. He'll figure it out.. or not. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/18 02:16 PM |
| 6 | Don’t listen to their words, watch their actions.A good question. Out there somewhere is a game theory model that treats cheating like a pathogen - it spreads, flipping non cheaters to cheaters the more people fuck each other over. Makes sense. Survival / self preservation kicks in. The problem is how powerful the lie is, and how widespread. That's "the matrix". Really they are shooting themselves in the foot. If I was born 10 years earlier I would have been beta Billy for life probably. But I was in my 20s right around the time Smartphones ca… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/18 02:50 PM |
| 15 | Don’t listen to their words, watch their actions.My last 3 relationships ; alpha as fuck until we got exclusive. My behavior doesn't really change. It's her. It's them. "Oh hehe he's dumb enough to think I was serious! Hey Sally too bad he doesn't know the same time I called goodnight I was getting fucked by Thomas LOL right?!" They are weaponized. All it is for them now is racking up more fake social points to feed their bottomless ego. This is why youth/innocence is so valued. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/18 01:31 PM |
| 8 | AWALT Boys. No matter what your life experiences tell you. AWALT.Exactly this. Doesn't matter how alpha or valuable you are. Even alphas get cheated on, lied to, and fucked with. Difference is Alphas can have a new girl on dick that day/weekend. Community bicycles gentleman. Just ride em and rack em.. no point trying to paint your decals all over a bike that'll just get ridden by 3 other dudes next week. Better off knowing how to ride and enjoy lots of different bikes. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/18 08:46 PM |
| 4 | Are girls attracted to crazy men the way men are attracted to crazy girls?Accurate Other things can get you laid, but not for the right reasons really (in my mind). Tall Dangerous Muscular = I want his babies Anything else = I want his something else | /r/askTRP | 05/07/18 02:40 AM |
| 2 | How to stop taking girls seriously?This right here. I allow myself to forget in the heat of a romance, at least temporarily. "Enjoy it while it lasts" right? None of it lasts forever. None of it. Good advice, thanks | /r/askTRP | 03/07/18 07:59 PM |
| 2 | How to stop taking girls seriously?Long duration Soft Harem = True nature of women That's been burning in my ears for a while. Every time I get one going I end up "opting out" with the best plate and repeating the cycle... Thanks | /r/askTRP | 03/07/18 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Should I try to take over this public event group?Useless. "If you want to take on a project and ask some homies with experience how to approach it, obviously you are a loser cuck retard who wasn't smart enough to ever get it done in the first place." The why is irrelevant. Maybe I'm trying to save baby penguins. Who gives a shit. | /r/askTRP | 25/04/18 09:21 PM |
| 2 | Question specifically to former AFCs of TRP that turned their life around and became alpha, did you ever feel like you are compensating for lost time when you did not get to bang/date women, by going out with and banging as many women as possible? And does it feel hollow to do this?Always keep your game sharp. As far as feathers in the hat, this will become less of a priority as you consolidate your gains. Once 'being Alpha' is normal to you and not some gigantic quest, the urgency to fuck everything with a pulse disappears. There is nothing wrong with going after what you want. If that's a bunch of feathers, so be it. The point of obsession and unhealthy focus is what you should watch out for. If your non-women goals are failing.. if your frame and emotional well-being is… | /r/askTRP | 18/04/18 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Who Is Willing To Sign Up For The Human Trials of Vasalgel- RISUG?Thanks for taking the time to reply here. I do appreciate the insight. Vasalgel is systemic? How so? What is glossypol? Is it also 10 years away with no hope of making it to market? Just tryna not have babies over here. | /r/MensRights | 18/04/18 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Who Is Willing To Sign Up For The Human Trials of Vasalgel- RISUG?From a biological perspective, I would choose the gel first. Specific is better than systemic. Games rigged man. I would literally fly to India and pay 30k to blindly include myself in a Risug trial. Married Indian men only :/ | /r/MensRights | 18/04/18 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Who Is Willing To Sign Up For The Human Trials of Vasalgel- RISUG?Out of curiosity, WHY do you think Vasalgel would never make it to market in the US? I've been tracking their progress for years. | /r/MensRights | 17/04/18 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Dilemma With Discovering My Life CallingTeach yourself. That's cost effective. Build a fancy GitHub or equivalent body of work and use that as your diploma/degree. As for Life Direction.. good luck. The best I've found so far is this: Instead of asking what your mission is, ask what kind of lifestyle you want. Then make building that lifestyle your mission. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/18 03:32 PM |
| 6 | Can you guys help me out with this one part of the First Iron Law of Tomassi?Frame is one of those glorious TRP truths that applies to way more than just fucking bitches. Consider your typical corporate office job. You walk through the door on the 1st day. Whose frame are you in? The highest frame of that business is that of the Board and Shareholders. All decisions flow down from there. That's what frame means. Whose calling the shots. But there are frames within that frame. Unless you are a rich fuck or C-level exec you will never directly interact with the Board. Inst… | /r/askTRP | 11/04/18 03:15 PM |
| 3 | I’m burnt out. I can’t physically or emotionally bond with women anymore.Try it before you knock it. I felt the same way about polyamory and thought why wouldn't I just have plates instead? But then I actively use emotions for the sake of enhancing sex. It turns me on to have some feelings for her and when she is feeling me. Poly is the current lingo for "I'mma have sex with whoever I want but I still want to cuddle up and maybe take you out occasionally for social proof & preselection". The risk comes from guys who poly up in order to not lose some girl. Then they a… | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 06:11 PM |
| 2 | How to stay “loose” during interactions with womenStrictly this. There are no shortcuts to frame, assertiveness and amused mastery. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/18 03:01 PM |
| 26 | Am I Crazy?Go to college on their dime. Take all of that "I'll prove to the world and do whatever it takes" energy AND the advantages college can bring. Plus college is the best hunting ground you will ever.. ever.. EVER find for pussy. Do the math. You craze. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/18 02:04 AM |
| 1 | How to not make her feel like a slutDisagree. Comfort tests exist. Not saying you should be super-concerned about consoling her every last whimsical emotion.. but if you ignore the opportunity altogether that's your loss. Comfort tests / providing comfort is a way to calibrate their image of you. No comfort? Gonna be that strictly sexual alpha plate vibe. Some comfort? Now you can start to discuss things like if she feels safe with you she won't feel the need to maintain active backup options, etc. Basically whether or not she bel… | /r/askTRP | 03/04/18 06:13 PM |
| 1 | How to not make her feel like a slutEither a shit test or comfort test. Which one depends on her level of attraction to you and her overall estimate of your character. No need to beat around the bush here. Say "yeah something like that ;) " That's a playful A&A. Bear in mind logistics are always better bringing her back to your place instead of going to hers. Your place where you hopefully have no roommates, and she can indulge in her true slutness without fear of friends and roomies judging her. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/18 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Managing Goals?This. You build a lifestyle that gives you the energy and time to work on goals. Then you work on a few goals at a time, maybe even just one, one day at a time. You then defend that "one simple goal" you are working on like it's your fucking lifeline. Let nothing stop you. Rinse. Repeat. Achieve. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/18 03:08 PM |
| 22 | Where to draw a line on horniness? How to know when to stop trying to initiate sex? Does it come off as needy beta shit or assertive, dominating alpha?There's not really a line or a rule for this. The Alpha feels no urgency to achieve sex, because he knows he can fuck whenever he wants. He also feels no hesitation to indulge, because he knows that even if he over indulges this one girl there are others. If this is a girl you are fucking, she should be down for sex at any time. In any place. Once she is in your physical presence her body is yours to do with as you please. If it's not, find a girl who is willing to give herself to your command f… | /r/askTRP | 01/04/18 03:39 PM |
| 2 | What to do if finding a "mission" seems impossible?One just imagine Sisyphus as happy. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 31/03/18 02:27 PM |
| 1 | What to do if finding a "mission" seems impossible?A good question. If I was sitting at God's feet and I got the chance to drop in to any random fleshbag I wanted.. maybe I'd pick an Alexander or Rothschild and try to fix some problems in the world. But even then, why bother? Alexander's empire crumbled to dust as soon as he died. Pecked apart by vultures instantly when his frame left this world. Nothing we build lasts. Our "problems" on this Earth are almost universally created by us. We have the technology to achieve Utopia.. and we are too bu… | /r/askTRP | 31/03/18 02:23 PM |
| 1 | What to do if finding a "mission" seems impossible?I have nothing to complain about except the 1st world repetition of "more is better". If anything I probably live too much in the world we have built, and focus too much on the artificial goals we set for ourselves. Some time in nature and just getting back to the basics might help. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/18 02:19 PM |
| 1 | What to do if finding a "mission" seems impossible?This one is good. Life in every breath. Maybe I should read more Bushido. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/18 02:17 PM |
| 1 | How does one develop that social, carefree & fun personality that guys with a lot of women around them have?Like anything else, you get to a point with game and social skills where you've seen it all before. That also happens to coincide with the point where you can start having "fun" because you've finally learned the ropes & built some value. Basically i don't give a fuck because it genuinely does not matter - even if I creep this girl out or embarrass myself at this party, I've done that shit before, life keeps moving forward, and I KNOW based on EXPERIENCE that I will get good results if I just ke… | /r/askTRP | 28/03/18 12:50 PM |
| 35 | What was that thing that you had a hard time getting?This is one of the hardest parts of unplugging. You can see it on them. How they love being sexualized and objectified (by the right men only, of course). Used. Traded. Bought and fucking sold like livestock at auction, literally in some cases. And yet the "dream" of One True Love somehow survives. It's frustrating. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/18 01:00 PM |
| 1 | 4 months into TRP, still not seeing any progress in highschool?Redpilled men polarize people. Polarization is good. Some people will hate you, others will love you. This is far superior to the "neutral nice guy" who tries to keep everyone happy. Maybe fewer people hate him, but fewer people love him as well. He's barely visible at all. In short let the haters hate. Let them whisper about you in the hallways next to the lockers. Let them gossip about you in homerooms and on Snapchat. And then smile. Look at Trump. Even bad publicity is good publicity. You kn… | /r/askTRP | 12/03/18 08:15 PM |
| 5 | 4 months into TRP, still not seeing any progress in highschool?Normal highschool experience. The sad fact is that the cool kids were already on track to be cool by this age. You on the other hand are trying to play catch-up. Keep focusing on you. Consider a hobby or sport whereby you can participate and make friends. Trying to "break in" with just charm and a smile is a hard road to hoe. Keep trying, but also work on you. Humans are simple, base animals in that way. You can't just ask. You have to make them want to be your friend. How do you make people wan… | /r/askTRP | 11/03/18 04:48 PM |
| 2 | Main Girl going on Vacay for St. Patty's DayWent with a hard next. Appreciate your advice dude. It was used. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/18 03:48 PM |
| 2 | Main Girl going on Vacay for St. Patty's DayFucked her a few more times and the sex was good. But the variables of demoting her, reframing it after the over investment and keeping her where she would need to be.. All the while she's tryna tell me she loves me and wants only me? I hard nexted. There are a lot of things in my life right now which could use that energy better than using it on her. Thank you for the advice, felt like giving you a followup was warranted so you know that at least sometimes people do listen. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/18 03:47 PM |
| 1 | To demote or just ditch this girl?Fucking thank you. This is what I needed. On the one hand it feels "passive aggressive" to say nothing to her. On the other I could just sense that having a serious talk to "take space" would be laughably awkward and terrible. Silent Demotion. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 08/03/18 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Main Girl going on Vacay for St. Patty's DayWord. Ty | /r/askTRP | 08/03/18 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Main Girl going on Vacay for St. Patty's DayWord. Ty | /r/askTRP | 08/03/18 07:00 PM |
| 1 | To demote or just ditch this girl?From the outset I did not want monogamy with this girl. Red flags revealed early on further cemented this fact. However, what I actually DID was act all BF/GF despite my tough talk. This is an old blue pill habit that dies hard for me. Each iteration shows progress but I still over invest or invest too early with most girls. I overindulge in one girl and end up catching the feelz. The trip is very not innocent. My mental loop is that she is technically obeying the verbal bounds of our relationsh… | /r/askTRP | 08/03/18 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Main Girl going on Vacay for St. Patty's Day/u/ChadFromColombus Would you recommend demoting or just hard nexting this girl? My frame is iffy. It could get worse, or if I land some fresh vag soon and reframe correctly, might be able to spin her as a plate. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/18 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Main Girl going on Vacay for St. Patty's Day/u/AlfredKinsey I will be backing off and finding new plates. Would you recommend demoting or just hard nexting this girl? I'm a little fucked up over it but might be able to relax and spin her as a plate. Maybe. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/18 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Main Girl going on Vacay for St. Patty's Day/u/VasiliyZaitzev Would you recommend I demote or just hard next this girl? Thx again | /r/askTRP | 08/03/18 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Main Girl going on Vacay for St. Patty's DayI'll take this a level further. My problem isn't a lack of options.. it's a lack of options "who were less trashy". My main scene right now is ravers, party girls and festisluts. I can fuck new pussy this weekend at a high confidence interval. But it's all the same trashy party pussy. Hmm.. I think I see the writing on the wall here. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/18 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Main Girl going on Vacay for St. Patty's DayThanks dude. You are 100% on it. She's mouthing the words I Love You and said it first.. but obviously that means nothing to her because she still wants to run off and hoe. I'm good on that part. My main thing is not knowing if can still fuck her / see her & handle it after this weekend. As in will we just go back to the way things were? We never agreed to be exclusive so nothing is being lost or changing.. other than perhaps my mental image of her is now being forcibly updated to reality. Oh we… | /r/askTRP | 05/03/18 08:35 PM |
| 3 | LTR & DreadShit tests are normal and desireable behavior from women.. to a point. You want them to test you occasionally, as it gives you the opportunity to hold frame, win and fuck her quivering holes. If she is shit testing excessively that's called drama. Cut it off. How much is too much? Personal judgment call. Hint: less than you think. For her snaps / your replies.. I don't care enough to try and micromanage your texting behavior. Keep it simple. Mostly logistics. Be unavailable sometimes. If she bri… | /r/askTRP | 05/03/18 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Main Girl going on Vacay for St. Patty's DayHeard | /r/askTRP | 05/03/18 06:41 PM |
| 3 | Main Girl going on Vacay for St. Patty's DayExpected this reply.. so I think you're right. I laid all the groundwork to be nonmonagamous with this girl BECAUSE I knew I wasn't gonna try and deal with her red flags. But then I've been acting all BF/GF.. probably out of habit. I felt unmotivated to find other pussy. And now this weekend is the first spot where that image is colliding. She is off to do her own thing, and I don't really see a win trying to stop her. I do see a win in keeping her around though, provided I actually get off my a… | /r/askTRP | 05/03/18 06:41 PM |
| 5 | LTR & DreadLol you'rer doing just fine on this one. She hit you with the convos from your exes expecting you to crumble and instead you held frame and got your dick sucked. Good job. There is nothing to "fix" from what you said. Girls who are into you will try to lock you down, sooner or later, bit by bit. Treat her exactly the same as normal. Reply to texts and calls as you normally would with her. AkA softly ignore her for a few days, call meet fuck, rinse repeat.. This "soft ignore" isn't a soft next. I… | /r/askTRP | 05/03/18 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Opinions on microdosingThe problem isn't your dosage. You can take 100 hits of acid all at once and be fine. The problem is your strategy. Microdosing will not get you off your ass. Only you can get you off your ass. So I'd say enforce limits. Only microdose one day a week. What you want to avoid is the trap of "I have to wake up and dose every day and keep doing that to get out of this rut". 1 this rut has nothing to do with how much acid you are or aren't eating 2 when you get out of this rut, you want to be able to… | /r/askTRP | 21/02/18 08:27 PM |
| 3 | Most men are losers. You can easily fuck their women.That's just bad info. Obstruction can occur in the throat or sinuses, but mostly in the sinuses. That's why fat people or people with fucked up noses are mouth breathers. As long as the oxygen gets to your lungs it's all the same. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/18 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Opinions on microdosingI can't endorse that. That sounds like a drug problem waiting to happen. GK HF kid, there ain't no shortcuts | /r/askTRP | 21/02/18 02:27 PM |
| 0 | Opinions on microdosingI found drugs to be helpful on my journey, but maybe not in the way you think. Drugs fuck your frame. Especially psychedelics. How can you expect to stay on target if the target is a transdimensional unicorn that walks through walls? This can be a good experience because it forces you to learn how to deal with that shit over time. But don't expect magic from some LSD. If you are feeling blocked give it a try and see what shakes out - but don't keep going back. Instead, work on your lifestyle eve… | /r/askTRP | 21/02/18 02:14 PM |
| 7 | Life is too short to be a chump. The 80/20 rule isn't a theory, it is law. Not every action yields an equal result. The key to personal success is finding the 20% of things that give you 80% of your results and to double down on those motherfuckers. Here is a guide.Worthy comment. I kicked ass in the gym for about a year with minimal results. Why? Lack of sleep, poor diet, and putting toxic shit in my body for the sake of partying. Now I lift with the same intensity as last year, but better sleep/diet and.. wow.. look at that it's like I'm on roids but I ain't! | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/18 06:43 PM |
| 2 | How to improve your reflexes. Help neededSpecifically Brazilian Jiu Jitsu. Spend time with a 200lb dude trying to pin you, break your bones and rip your ligaments and other problems in life seem small | /r/askTRP | 20/02/18 02:58 PM |
| 6 | Should I be less confident with my superiors at work?Short answer, yes. In every job you integrate into a pre-existing hierarchy. Even the CEO answers to the board, and the board to shareholders, and the owner to his customers, etc. You say you don't like to bow unless people "earn" your respect. I say fuck you. The senior managers and leadership get that respect by default because they fucking earned it somewhere along the way and they decide if you get paid or go stand in the breadline. Be a team player. Make your bosses look good and they will … | /r/askTRP | 20/02/18 02:51 PM |
| 6 | Being controlling doesn't workAim for indifference instead. Indifference is boring and a pale comparison to genuine frame. Instead aim for Amused Mastery. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/18 02:20 PM |
| 3 | mid 30 man, want to fuck young (17-21) = sluts only..?It's worth pointing out that most Western girls will have plenty of "experience" by age 20 compared to the average dude. Maybe not life experience or changing tires.. but anything to do with sex and socializing they are ahead of their 20yo male peers. That's sidebar stuff but it was a good lesson. I'm 29 now but if she's a sluy or popular chick still run into early 20s girls whose "experience" makes me look like a damn casual. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/18 04:19 PM |
| 0 | For people who experienced a drastic move, leaving everyone behind to live somewhere elseTry not to think about it as a finish line. Making meaningful social connections is a lifelong skill you carry with you everywhere you go, even when you go back home forever. So yeah, maybe depending on your circumstances and skill set, it will take you 3-5 years to really get a robust social life going in this new place. But do it anyways. You're like a gardener. Can't take the trees with you, but you can take all of the skills and knowledge to plant bigger better trees wherever you go. Conside… | /r/askTRP | 14/02/18 06:50 PM |
| 3 | For people who experienced a drastic move, leaving everyone behind to live somewhere else"Fresh Starts" like this are a rite of passage for men. Good on you for having the balls to change. I moved to a big city in a different state (all inside the USA) about 5 years ago. Biggest thing that made this city feel like "home" was of course my social circles. Get hobbies, volunteer, get involved, and make connections that matter. This is a process that could take years, or just a few months. Really depends on you and the kind of place you're living. Regardless of how long it takes, it's w… | /r/askTRP | 14/02/18 06:02 PM |
| 3 | I am tired of people telling me to lower my standards.By shutting your damn mouth. Whining doesn't achieve anything other than conditioning you to the useless habit that is whining. You are ugly, bald and nearing middle age. Ok. I've heard of this thing called a sidebar that, if read and sincerely applied, will turn you into an ugly, bald, middle aged pussy slaying machine. Your choice which path to take. I spent about two years not really believing anything I did with TRP, asking myself and members if I was doomed forever and just be one of those … | /r/askTRP | 14/02/18 05:26 PM |
| 8 | Friends gf cheating on himThis. If he was completely in the dark and a close friend, maybe say something. But he knows? Your words ain't gonna a mean shit he's already so far up his own ass it won't matter. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/18 07:42 PM |
| 63 | How the fuck do you not get attached to plates?Read Black Dragon Blog on boyfriend behaviors to avoid. You are probably coming off as boyfriend material so they try to put you in that role. Limit snuggles and sleepovers. Post-coital cuddling is basically just a huge oxytocin hit for your brain so if you spend time making yourself feel that you are basically programming your brain to bond with her. Don't spend multiple days in a row with a plate. Don't take a plate on every social outing (go out alone without female company sometimes). For a … | /r/askTRP | 09/02/18 03:13 PM |
| 5 | Traveling to see a potential new plate?This. Of course it's fine if she travels to see you instead. Rules also relax a bit if you are just able to travel places like it's nothing. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/18 07:13 PM |
| 67 | Red Pill Going Mainstream: I thought I was reading a Reddit Post on this Fox News column!All women lie about sexual assault unless due process reveals otherwise. Even for me after 3 years of TRP, that sentence stuck out as a firestarter. What's weird? That sentence doesn't say ANYTHING different from "innocent until proven guilty". Nicely put. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/02/18 08:31 PM |
| 3 | Is it normal to have these high expectations?At 17? Sure those expectations are normal. Also you can't die and will be forever young. Once you are in the real world your expectations get matched against reality, and then you get to do this fun thing we call growing up. Never go "full adult" as that's boring.. but definitely grow up. Instead of saying "I want to be a billionaire by age 30" Say "I want an affluent lifestyle by age 30". The more specific your goals, the more useful they are. Goals without plans are just wishes. Plans without … | /r/askTRP | 05/02/18 08:08 PM |
| 8 | How to take advantage of being 6'5This is a bit silly. Being 6'5" is a natural trait for you. You don't "use it".. it just works. That's like asking how to take advantage of having a 10" cock. If you need an instruction manual for that, good luck to you. Women everywhere are going to clock you in any room just because of your height. That's free and paid for homie you don't have to lift a finger for that. What comes after that? Up to you. There is a sidebar full of material on how to polish your looks and daygame / nightgame. It… | /r/askTRP | 05/02/18 07:53 PM |
| 11 | I got a buzzcut and gained a load of muscle, now people approach me less and don't seem comfortable talking to meFor all your looksmaxing needs, use these: "Easy to hang out with and fun to fuck" "You wanna look like you can fuck someone up if you really need to, but not like you'll fuck her up" Anyone on the TRP path will go through versions of this over time. Basically your newfound SMV and "look" have changed your position in the market. Some of the girls and scenarios that got you Ws before aren't going to work now. Simultaneously, new girls and scenarios should now be open for you to harvest. This stu… | /r/askTRP | 05/02/18 07:42 PM |
| 1 | I Got Cheated On and Dumped by My LTR of 4 Years: TRP LessonsSimilarly, Women serve two purposes to a fully realized and independent man: pleasure and offspring. That's the money, right there. "Masculine Love" requires you to see women for what they are. More often than not, they are only good for fun, nothing else. Just don't be so jaded that you can literally never enjoy yourself or feel anything with a female. That's anger and bitterness. We are better than that. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/18 11:26 PM |
| 1 | I Got Cheated On and Dumped by My LTR of 4 Years: TRP LessonsRight and wrong. Women can and will love you, especially if you are alpha. But it is only a woman's love, and as such could never be what you wish it can be. This is Briffaults Law & Women In Love & Men In Love. Sidebar stuff. When you are ready you will be able to love women as they are, in a masculine way, without surrendering frame or power. This is a different kind of love and may even feel "less than" romantic, bluepill indoctrinated love you may have pretended to have before. But its there… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/18 05:17 PM |
| 1 | How to handle trust issues & potential disrespect from my brother?Thanks for your time. My instinct was to attack and my brain would not fucking let go. Thank God for TRP tho. You and the EC are 100% right there is no "win" in confronting him. Fucking sad. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/18 05:07 PM |
| 2 | How to handle trust issues & potential disrespect from my brother?People are fucking weak. I've been at the bottom and the top and everywhere in between, and never once did I fucking use this bullshit feminine mindgame crap to make myself feel better or cut someone else down. I'm heartbroken that my own brother is the worst offender. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/18 04:20 PM |
| 1 | How to handle trust issues & potential disrespect from my brother?Thanks | /r/askTRP | 02/02/18 04:19 PM |
| 2 | How to handle trust issues & potential disrespect from my brother?I lift. I read the sidebar and reread it from time to time. I can see how putting myself in that position was a mistake. But if you can't trust your blood then wtf man? His behavior is more disappointing than surprising. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/18 03:25 PM |
| 2 | How to handle trust issues & potential disrespect from my brother?Thanks. Your comments are on point. But how do I handle him moving forward? We've got a family vacation coming up in June and if I have to be on my fucking guard the whole time there's no point. I think I either need to just not spend time with him ever again, or if I do, dont bring any of my friends or girls around him. He'll just use it as an opportunity to try and poison the well. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/18 03:24 PM |
| 5 | feminine global shit test.Sometimes you just have to choose. Analysis only gets you so far. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/18 07:15 AM |
| 1 | The world is shrinking for men, build your frame or dieWelcome to the desert of the real. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/18 06:57 AM |
| 4 | Am I more caring than my friends or just a low value individual?You care more than your friends. People are usually reluctant to update their "image" of you. This is why first impressions are so important. Explore your world, connect with new people, and you will find during your TRP journey that these new people treat you differently. Being Mr. Serious all the time is a pretty serious disadvantage when it comes to socializing, especially if you are socializing with a younger crowd since you're in your early 20s. But even older people, don't take that shit t… | /r/askTRP | 21/01/18 12:30 AM |
| 1 | I have just gone from being poor founder to 0.1% in terms of wealth for my age group (< 25). How do I not fuck this up?Most men fall towards one of two camps. If you are Camp 1, go fuck all the gold diggers and die happy. If you are Camp 2, don't. Camp 1 is Fuck for the Pleasure of Fucking. These men can spend money on hookers, have sugar babies, gold diggers, etc. and enjoy themselves completely and feel fulfilled by it. They don't care what she thinks at all, she is a vaguely human slab of fuckmeat acquired and discarded in the most expedient NSA manner (money transaction). Camp 2 is Fucking for the Sake of th… | /r/askTRP | 19/01/18 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Ex plate wants to get pregnant?Scoop it out the pooper and shove it in the pussy. It's dark usually but I swear I've seen this before. | /r/askTRP | 12/01/18 09:33 PM |
| 8 | What to do if your GF has oneitis for you but you dont for her?Pretty sure this was Patrice O'neal. "The best relationships are ones where the girl loves the guy, and the guy likes the girl." Basically you have the power. Congrats, now you know what it feels like. Sounds like you don't want to commit or get exclusive, so don't. Enjoy her and anyone else you want. If it gets to the point where she gives you an ultimatum, or is having serious emotional trouble coping with the fact that you are fucking other women, cut her loose. I had a plate like that once. … | /r/askTRP | 12/01/18 08:54 PM |
| 11 | Do I answer with this text honesty or ambiguity?"Next time". Done. This dreads because there is no reason for you not to invite her.. unless another pussy is involved. It answers her text, so it doesn't appear like you are avoiding her, punishing her, or are incompetent and unable to communicate (aka don't know what to say). | /r/askTRP | 12/01/18 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Need clarification.does following that voice really work? is it that powerful? Let's pretend you are God. Not only are you the most powerful being in the universe.. you are the only one. Everything is dark. Life, stars, nothing exists. Yet. What should you do? No one is around to tell you how things are 'supposed to be'. There is nothing to compare yourself to. No goals to achieve, no meaning, nothing. You have two choices really. You can sit there analyzing and thinking for eternity, and nothing will ever exist. … | /r/askTRP | 10/01/18 08:33 PM |
| 4 | Is it ever acceptable to transfer an Ex to a plate?Don't mess with exes. Generally they aren't worth the effort. Iron Rule #7 or something like that. Also you probably have oneitis, etc., spin plates, etc. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/18 06:50 PM |
| 2 | Tindering in the Bay Area, does the definition of SMV change geographically ?All SMV is relative. You changed venues so of course the market is different. Tinder market in my home city is pretty meh, at least for me. I'm sure some guys slay it but in a major metro area I just don't have the 'look' that make women want to fuck through Tinder. Not yet anyways. Sounds like you will be learning how to survive without Tinder. Welcome to the club. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/18 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Good places to pick up girls solo?Shared hobbies or interests. Think Disc Golf group, climbing gym, etc. Beaches. Popular parks or hiking areas. Coffee shops. You can try grocery stores, malls, etc. but that all felt very cringey to me. Only girls who respond well are the ones well beneath you, and in that case, may as well swipe tinder. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/18 05:47 PM |
| 2 | vent and also asking for advice how to get back in (approach anxiety)You're welcome. The thing about achieving that Next Level Game like rsdtyler is it can only come from experience. Study and practice, years of it. Cold-approach is one way to build that experience which you can do at any time, without needing other people, so in that sense it is very nice. But cold-approach interactions are almost always very shallow, temporary, and more importantly.. can only teach you about cold-approach interactions. Social groups, friendships, shared hobbies and interests.. … | /r/askTRP | 05/01/18 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Insecure about my penisThe line gets a little blurry, but the concept is all that matters. Sometimes a girl will become psychologically aroused because you have a six-pack. Maybe she doesn't normally get to fuck really fit guys. And of course, they will be aroused by a giant dick for similar reasons. But there are many more, and much larger, variables that contribute to her arousal (is she being a 'bad girl', are you new and fun, are you breaking any laws or rules, are you good at teasing and controlling the pace, etc… | /r/askTRP | 05/01/18 05:31 PM |
| 3 | 12 levels of Dread = passive aggressive?The 12 levels of dread is proactive-aggressive. You are taking deliberate, conscious steps to create distance, add tension, express value, and hopefully, reclaim the balance of power. This question and others like it are rooted in the feminine paradigm. Surely, Mr. Real Man, you could just have an honest conversation with your partner and talk out all of your problems? What? No? That hasn't worked? Well if you break up with her you are an insecure quitter. If you try and do anything to change ot… | /r/askTRP | 05/01/18 05:27 PM |
| 2 | Insecure about my penisIf you stick to it and make it real, you will be damned happy with the results. I am clean as of 12/23/17. Even after a few days off porn and that whole cycle I notice cognitive benefits, confidence, and an easier time getting hard / staying hard / getting off. It's not a super power.. unless you have been whacking it to porn nonstop for years. And then it is because you suddenly realize what it feels like to be a 'normal guy' with testosterone, a libido, etc. But most importantly all that energ… | /r/askTRP | 05/01/18 05:18 PM |
| 3 | vent and also asking for advice how to get back in (approach anxiety)State Control / Getting in the Zone / Flow State. This is how you 'pump up' socially. Talk to anyone, talk to them early, talk to them often. Doesn't matter if the conversation is short or bullshit. Doesn't matter if the conversation goes anywhere or contributes to your goals. You build that into a habit and soon you are chatting up the cashier chick, the girl on the bus next to you, the 80 yearold dude at the bar, whatever. But also sometimes the venue or party is just shit. You can't force it … | /r/askTRP | 05/01/18 05:13 PM |
| 4 | Insecure about my penis6.2 inches is a very decent size. Above average. Also, look at you, so cute, caring about what some cam whore thinks of your dick. So like, the opinions of random women are really important to your sense of self-worth huh? I'm between 5-5.5 depending on the day and dish out plenty of PIV orgasms. Remember that for women, 80% or more of arousal is purely psychological. Go read Sex God Method. Anyways if you are still set on penile enhancement, look up GoodLookingLoser & his bathmate/Jelq program.… | /r/askTRP | 05/01/18 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Who determines who is the alpha of the group? Men or Women.Loaded question. The highest value members of any group determine the leadership of that group. Gender plays into that contextually. If 80% of men are betas then any mixed group is statistically dominated by men who follow women and women themselves. That's the feminine paradigm. But it doesn't seem to stop high-value, charismatic men from leading women and betas around by their noses. And one of the premier strategies for building power is connecting with other high-value men. Your inner circle… | /r/askTRP | 05/01/18 05:02 PM |
| 12 | How to Express Displeasure Without being Needy?Recently I was disrespected so I backed away, but also explained that she did something I didn’t like. She called me passive aggressive and immature. Classic gas-lighting. There is no 'controlling' them. Let go of that idea. You attract them, you take what you want, and set boundaries for what you are willing to put up with to get it. But you can never remove her agency, so even if you play the game perfectly, she can still decide to be a rancid cunt. You stated your case, she used it as an oppo… | /r/askTRP | 05/01/18 04:42 PM |
| 2 | Cardio vs liftingMuscularity is about more than looking aesthetic for females. Lifting heavy weights and carrying optimal muscle mass also increases your testosterone. That is a direct and linear correlation to your mental health, confidence, assertiveness, not to mention libido. Most blue-bros are also woefully ignorant on what it's like getting punched in the face. Muscle is strength, strength is the ability to defend yourself from bullshit. Add jiu jitsu or another practical martial art for full effect. Turni… | /r/askTRP | 30/12/17 01:10 AM |
| 2 | How to stop being naive/innocent among men?Lift and take up a martial art. Jiu Jitsu is best because you spar with intent from day 1. This will correct the #1 issue that tricks your monkey brain into that frustrating, often unconscious submission to other males - being physically weaker and as a result afraid of them. Modern society supposedly protects you from violence (hint; it doesn't), but even so, a billion years worth of instinct is telling you to submit when a stronger man is threatening you. Back in the day you would either submi… | /r/askTRP | 30/12/17 12:37 AM |
| 3 | Interesting bits of info on the sex ratio in Putin's RussiaNice write up. Interesting to see that there seems to be between 6-10% more women than men in my nearby counties. Too bad it's in America. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/17 03:23 AM |
| 2 | Is there such thing as a 'male' unicorn?An alpha she doesn't deserve that somehow magically loves only her for no apparent reason whatsoever. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/17 03:14 AM |
| 6 | GF got preg, she is keeping kid, all of my frame is slippingFirst thing that jumped out. Hmm.. convenient. And the sudden attitude change. You sure she's actually pregnant OP? Lol | /r/askTRP | 15/12/17 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else have the problem where you start losing feelings for your ltr's after about 6 months+ of dating?That sounds plausible, but not because women don't enjoy variety or are somehow more satisfied with a lower number of partners compared to men. The higher value the mate relative to you, the more likely you are to enjoy them long term. Talking beauty, personality, the whole package. Women exhibit less desire to "fuck as many people as humanly possible", because it is relatively easy for them to establish a sexual relationship with a higher value mate. Duh. That's AF/BB. Long as she's getting tha… | /r/askTRP | 15/12/17 05:25 PM |
| 2 | How should you respond to a “thanks for drinks last night!” textThe formula is meet, gap, meet, gap. Not meet, plan next, meet, plan next. The difference is the uncertainty. Or rather, rhythm. Give her space to process what just happened. To remember the date, think about the memories, and then wonder what you're up to. Is she going to hear from you again? Well he replied so.. I think so. But he didn't ask for a new date so maybe not? Maybe I'll wear my high heels and little black dress next time. Gotta make sure he comes back for more. Extra bonus points if… | /r/askTRP | 15/12/17 05:17 PM |
| 3 | I am as I want to be when drunk; aloof and relaxed. How do I do this when sober?Another way to say this is that people need a reason to feel confident/aloof/relaxed. Social proof, status, preselection all fit this. TRP is basically offering you a long list of reasons you can go out and accumulate. Once the ball starts rolling and you fuck enough hot bitches and see how shit works, the reason is "been there, done that, last time she was blonde tho" | /r/askTRP | 15/12/17 04:57 PM |
| 5 | Group of girls I barely know shouting my name in hall.Bro I fucking wish I found TRP at 17. Or any manosphere shit. But do remember to think for yourself and take the content with a grain of salt. Even within TRP there are many unanswered questions, many arguments with endorsed members on both sides, etc. "Adapt what is useful, reject what is useless, and add what is specifically your own." - Bruce Lee | /r/askTRP | 15/12/17 04:52 PM |
| 4 | How should you respond to a “thanks for drinks last night!” text"I do like manners. You're welcome" Done. No need to tease or sexualize - I rarely do any of that shit via text because it seems to have little impact. Also, don't plan any future dates or even say "lets do it again soon". The medium is the message. You bothering to reply at all is proof enough that you are interested in more, but her hamster will spin anyways because most betas are like: "omg it was amazing! you were so hot! i had so much fun! lets do it again this friday if you are free :) :) … | /r/askTRP | 15/12/17 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else have the problem where you start losing feelings for your ltr's after about 6 months+ of dating?monogamy goes against man's human's biological imperative Girls have all the same urges. Even Chad's dick gets boring on a long enough time line. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/17 04:42 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else have the problem where you start losing feelings for your ltr's after about 6 months+ of dating?Yeah. 6-8 weeks seems to be the sweet spot for me between either getting bored or spotting giant red flags that mean it's just time to move on. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/17 04:41 PM |
| 3 | Why make plating the goal? Isn't LTR with kids the endgame?Women's logic. Good job. Being popular / agreed with doesn't make you right. Being unpopular / disagreed with doesn't make you wrong. RIP Galileo | /r/askTRP | 14/12/17 10:26 PM |
| 2 | Why make plating the goal? Isn't LTR with kids the endgame?Very amused that you decided to go and edit your original reply. Precision of language is important. Women should never be "The Goal". We agree on this. a goal v The Goal Sorting out your life is the best sexual strategy (macro game, abundance, value), we agree on this too. This however is still wrong: The point of TRP is that women are not goals at all, whichever way you choose to consume. You can set healthy goals for and about women. Things you do in life and choices you make can take women i… | /r/askTRP | 14/12/17 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Why make plating the goal? Isn't LTR with kids the endgame?Very amused that you decided to go and edit your original reply. Precision of language is important. Women should never be "the goal". We agree on this. Sorting out your life is the best sexual strategy (macro game, abundance, value), we agree on this too. This however is still wrong: The point of TRP is that women are not goals at all, whichever way you choose to consume. You can set healthy goals for and about women. Things you do in life and choices you make can take women into account. You a… | /r/askTRP | 14/12/17 10:02 PM |
| 0 | Why make plating the goal? Isn't LTR with kids the endgame?Can lead a horse to water but can't make em drink. Good luck buddy | /r/askTRP | 14/12/17 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Why make plating the goal? Isn't LTR with kids the endgame?Absolutely true. TRP quickly becomes about alot more than just bitches, but pretending they are "not goals" or that TRP is "not about women" is just factless. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/17 06:39 PM |
| -5 | Why make plating the goal? Isn't LTR with kids the endgame?You don't have to go very far in the side bar to find the facts. "The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men" | /r/askTRP | 14/12/17 06:37 PM |
| -5 | Why make plating the goal? Isn't LTR with kids the endgame?Wrong and still upvoted lol This is a place for sexual strategy. The stated goal is becoming more successful with women. People get confused because you need to be able to set goals / seek success with women and NOT become obsessed with it or attach your sense of self worth to it. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/17 05:55 PM |
| 1 | How do you condition your brain to think differently than it has your whole life?There will always be people who are greater or lesser than yourself. There is jack shit you can do about how life started out for you. All you can do now is play the hand you were dealt. These feelings of inadequacy, of being left behind, and needing to catch up.. I know them well. I did not start my journey until I was 26. Should have been 16. That's a decade, wasted by coddling parents & bluepill illusions. For the rest of my life I will be smaller and skinnier than I "could have, should have"… | /r/askTRP | 13/12/17 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Soon to turn 18 years old, don't like my body, want to make a change. Advice? (pics included)Fast squeeze slow. No need to exaggerate the press/lift, it's the squeeze hold at the top, slow return and high volume that shreds muscle. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/17 04:47 AM |
| 10 | How do you condition your brain to think differently than it has your whole life?Lift. Seriously, I underestimated how important is for your MENTAL health when I started. Highschool = 125lbs College = 145 lbs 26 = 145 lbs + found TRP Now 28 = 170 lbs Yes I look better. Yes I'm stronger. But what surprised the fuck out of me was the difference in how I feel and think. I attribute this almost entirely to lifting. Probably increased my testosterone or something. It helps that being successful at lifting also means getting good sleep and having a good diet, which themselves are … | /r/askTRP | 13/12/17 02:07 AM |
| 9 | Been Title IX'ed, what to do?Keeping your head down is not a valid strategy for this problem. You are going to end up in an office somewhere, or on the job, or even just in public, with the same fear, anxiety, and risk. That risk will always be there, because our society currently cares more about placating women than any concept of justice or fairness. So here's some tips. 1 Be attractive. Don't be unattractive. Sounds like you've got a good start. The amount of shit you are "allowed" to get away with is directly proportio… | /r/askTRP | 13/12/17 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Soon to turn 18 years old, don't like my body, want to make a change. Advice? (pics included)Fat Phobia: you lost it once, you can lose it again. You need to eat a surplus to gain. Period. Go pay for a dexascan to track your bf% and adjust as needed if you start to gain too much fat. Ideal bulk range bf% is 15-25%. You go above 25%, cut back your food or add cardio OR take a break to cut. If you are <25% quit whining. EAT. LIFT. SLEEP. REPEAT. Lift heavy at low reps to build strength. You are recruiting neurons through the mind-body connection. All powerlifters train like this, and they… | /r/askTRP | 13/12/17 01:36 AM |
| 8 | Ignoring a woman will make her want you and Focus on yourselfAgreed. Like anything else it's about balance. If you ignore a girl that is otherwise "where she should be", and she takes it wrong, that's like punishing a dog for asking to go outside. Destroys the trust. All leadership requires trust. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/17 01:12 AM |
| 5 | let the plate break or is it just a shit testI take my plates out to concerts, parties, etc. when I feel like having company and it works out fine. Literally only meeting at your place/her place/the motel gets boring. Great for preselection too. The medium is indeed the message. She is taking your cancellation as an opportunity to shit test / grab frame. "good seeing you too" if you want to be nice.. notice how you aren't explaining yourself or chasing her "word" or "ok" is a little less nice, but you acknowledge her statement and establis… | /r/askTRP | 11/12/17 05:55 PM |
| 89 | The most alien thing I’ve ever felt: I don’t careWell, step#1 there is other shit in life besides girls. The more time you spend in this "null zone" the more you will appreciate your hobbies, your friends, and other non-bitch related activities. Step #2, they are still fun to fuck and I usually genuinely enjoy their company (I don't hang out with brats like in the OP, 0% tolerance for constant testing). Step #3, even if you've played Poker for 20 years and thought you'd seen everything, sooner or later some player or some set of circumstances … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/12/17 12:37 AM |
| 139 | The most alien thing I’ve ever felt: I don’t careI get this feeling whenever I am doing something with girl Z that I have previously done with girls A, B, C.. etc. This deep, barren pit of nihilism. This is the 3rd girl I've had in my apartment hot tub this week. Oh look its snowing, she thinks this is very special. She thinks she is very special. In 30-45 minutes after we get back inside and dry off I will escalate and close. After that I can decide if she calls an uber or if I want a snuggle buddy overnight. The bluepill illusions are gone. … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/12/17 11:46 PM |
| 5 | I’m using my new situation in life (body, money, etc) for sex and entretainment with women, and I’m loving it. Why TRP says that is counterproductive?This touches on a basic philosophical question: is there any point to our life other than successfully procreating? Nature has wired your brain for that to be THE priority. Without those strong instincts, we die out. But we are the one species known to exist that has the ability to defy nature's programming (sort of). Everything of value you build in life will enhance your ability to attract women. That's how it works. But are they your only reason? If all women on the planet suddenly evaporated… | /r/askTRP | 10/12/17 11:19 PM |
| 14 | How to respond to this message? What's going through her head?Just tryna update an old dog on the new tricks. Take it as you will. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/17 09:45 PM |
| 13 | How to respond to this message? What's going through her head?This. But send something like "ok" or "word". I've been directly called out on "k" as "notorious for meaning you are upset". Opposite of what I was trying to communicate at the time. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/17 09:36 PM |
| 2 | So be honest who got engaged or married this year and why did you ?If there are any good ways left to raise a family it's something like this. Where y'all live? No need to get specific I'm just curious if you are living in the "degenerate west" or in Russia or somewhere similar where the society is structured right. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/17 09:10 PM |
| 3 | Tinder girl wants me to dominate her, any tips?SGM is the foundation upon which you build amazing sexual experiences. On top of that you can add alot of things. Fuck her where you're not supposed to. Coitus is always a bit more fun when you are breaking at least one law/rule. Go to a Dick's/sporting goods store and pick up a 50ft cut of soft nylon climbing rope. Google a Shibari video and pick something very basic, then tie up yo girl. I will even pull out my phone and watch a tutorial with the girl standing right there and just tell her I w… | /r/askTRP | 10/12/17 04:55 PM |
| 4 | Should I try to salvage or quit?bruh You are a 'friend' that is getting the puss You seem to believe this interaction was awkward though and none of us were there so context is a thing. If it's just about being her 'friend' then you are golden. If something else happened, if you were super awkward and scared when this conversation went down, etc., then maybe move on. Your call. In your shoes I would act like it never happened. Text her as normal for a fuck and see what goes down. What's the worst that she'll say, no? k next | /r/askTRP | 08/12/17 06:32 PM |
| 4 | Antidepressants and trying to pass the bar exam after ex-gf destroyed meFor sure. Doesn't matter how strong you are, we all get knocked down. Mental hygiene is the name of your game until those antidepressants are gone. No other drugs, I wouldn't even drink a single beer. No weed. No porn. Keep lifting. Meditate. Sleep. Get out and hike nature. Make sure you regale us with your victories when this trial has passed. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/17 06:26 PM |
| 10 | Antidepressants and trying to pass the bar exam after ex-gf destroyed meany advice on regaining my old self when I probably don't belong in this industry to begin with? Do you mean being on meds or being in lawschool? For the meds, use it and then lose it. The less you use the stronger you become. Your goal every day should be to wake up and need it less. But, your doctor would not have prescribed if you did not present as needing it. So use it without guilt, but with balance in mind. It should be a goal to wean off, but don't beat yourself up about using it for now… | /r/askTRP | 08/12/17 06:20 PM |
| 3 | Is club game worth it for beginners?Agreed. I ran club game when I first found TRP as a clueless bluetard. Were my efforts rewarded with laurels and endless hot pussy? No. Got some lays, but not many. I can pull from any club now with confidence but I rarely bother with it unless I'm out with friends or just really feel like hunting. But I got the experience, I dropped my fear and anxiety, learned that people literally give zero shits and will not remember, and looking back, probably had dozens of potential lays that I walked away… | /r/askTRP | 08/12/17 06:02 PM |
| 8 | Balancing Time for Friends v. PlatesIf you are worth a fuck your friends will understand the occasional no. Your plates might not, but they are plates, so who gives a fuck? If in doubt, choose your friends. They are more likely to stay around long term, more likely to add genuine value to your life, and having deep friendships and a good social network will net you more pussy in the long haul. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/17 04:14 AM |
| 2 | How long to wait when texting? / Texting in 2017This right here. Except it's not actually random. You calibrate to the girl based on her attraction levels and context. Try not to think about it in terms of hard and fast rules. Only for logistics, only 2:3 ratio, wait 15 minutes before a reply, etc. Any rule like this you take as an absolute will cause problems later. What you want is to learn how to read where the girl is at with you and play accordingly. Remember that in the Matrix, some rules can be bent.. others broken. The higher your val… | /r/askTRP | 05/12/17 09:53 PM |
| 3 | Which movie/series/comic/manga/book/... would you name as your number one inspiration?Paul Atreides from the Dune books (Frank Herbert) It's excellent sci-fi but he is a great TRP character. Typical hero stuff, conquers the universe etc but there is an excellent moral at the end. Even this God Emperor, hero & conqueror, a man who can literally see past present and future and accurately predict and act upon it to control the world.. ultimately he realizes he cannot control it. He can't stop the Jihad. Unlimited power, more than any human alive had ever held, and he sits his happy … | /r/askTRP | 05/12/17 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Which movie/series/comic/manga/book/... would you name as your number one inspiration?Dude was alpha af. Went down like a Greek god, murdered by the product of his own genius | /r/askTRP | 05/12/17 06:48 PM |
| 2 | You will get burned.It doesn't work like that. The beta will always be there. Just like an ex-smoker will sometimes feel a twinge. You'll be winning at life and then do something beta without even thinking about it and go "really? I just did that? I know better.." You can never kill your demons, all you can do is learn to live with them and keep them locked up where they belong. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/17 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Feeling less attracted after their true slutiness is revealed?Yes actually. Healthier than ever doing shit like dance, BJJ, etc. Came down to building core muscles & learning stretches appropriate to my lifestyle. One of my bigger wins from the last couple years | /r/askTRP | 05/12/17 03:28 PM |
| 2 | Feeling less attracted after their true slutiness is revealed?Another user nailed it down pretty good for me a few days back. I was in two LTR relationships between the ages of 17 and 26 with only a 3 month gap when #1 turned into #2. So putting the bluepill tsunami of society and feminism aside, I spent 9 of my first and most formative years learning how to appease one woman at a time, based on THEIR playbook. No surprise that I have and will continue to feel the ripples of my past | /r/askTRP | 05/12/17 02:42 AM |
| 11 | You will get burned.Good. Embrace that feeling. That's your inner beta screaming at you as you unlock the shackles. Try this one on for size, courtesy of my cheating ex-gf. Monogamy is a lie. All of it. Always. Period. Make you flinch? GOOD. Own it. Cut that illusion out of your life and laugh all the way to the bank as your beta insides twist and change. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/12/17 02:04 AM |
| 8 | Being seen as Alpha in some social circles and Beta in others? Need some helpI don't find any of them particuarly attractive and so I didn't bother with them it is mainly the girls who have this opinion I can't really handle the disrespect You pissed off the hens by making them feel like they weren't good enough for you. So they are talking shit about you to shame you out of the circle and make themselves feel better. Throw one a pity fuck and make sure she says good things about you. Or ignore them and focus on your male friends, like you wanted to in the first place. P… | /r/askTRP | 04/12/17 03:59 PM |
| 2 | What worked the best for you for combating anxiety?Meditation, Lifting, Sleep, and avoiding Drugs Be strong, be natural, be free | /r/askTRP | 04/12/17 02:54 AM |
| 1 | What is your take on NoFap?Thanks for this. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/17 12:05 AM |
| 2 | What is your take on NoFap?This isn’t rocket science It is and it isn't. You see porn from the perspective of a non-addict. Porn is the only drug out there that is Free, has Infinite flavors, is Immediately accessible from anywhere, can be done 100% privately without human contact at any step, and has effectively no limit on how high you can get or how long you can stay high.. and thus no limit on how much damage it can do in your brain. Every drug and addiction becomes a problem when the artificial stimulus becomes more … | /r/askTRP | 30/11/17 09:10 PM |
| 3 | What is your take on NoFap?Nothing at all. You focus on the physical sensation itself. If you find that difficult at first it's ok - getting away from porn will make it easier. Learning how to meditate will also make it easier. The reason being this.. you are essentially training yourself to leave space open for your partner. Instead of needing to tell yourself "ok time to get hard" you were already hard as soon as she starts getting undressed. Instead of reaching for the highlight reel when you are ready to come, you jus… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/17 08:37 PM |
| 7 | What is your take on NoFap?Masterbation isn't the problem. Porn is the problem. Cut out all porn. Forever. Period. You want to know why google Your Brain On Porn. When you do masterbate, which can be healthy & normal, focus strictly on the pleasure. Don't fantasize. This is a softer rule and mostly applies only to ex-porn users who can't get off without seeing or fantasizing about XYZ fetish. It becomes a sort of Meditating Masterbation. Meditating Masterbation = Clear your mind of bullshit and have fun in the moment. The… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/17 07:43 PM |
| 2 | How difficult is it to improve your personality after mid 20s?The alternative is basically death. So you'll what, just quit and never live the life you have every right and every ability to live? Ok, enjoy your medicine. Wasn't always easy for me to keep going, but it was always simple. Get busy living or get busy dying. Ain't nobody give a fuck either way. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/17 05:56 PM |
| 2 | How difficult is it to improve your personality after mid 20s?Second. I found TRP at 26. Now 29. Some changes happened fast, others were slow and stubborn. It depends on the mind more than your age. But God damn I am a very different person today than I once was. For the better. "Im sorry. We have a rule. We never unplug a mind after it has reached a certain age. It's dangerous. The mind has trouble letting go." ~Morpheus to Neo | /r/askTRP | 30/11/17 05:49 PM |
| 9 | I push for sex too soon, end up creating plates. I don’t want plates anymore. I’d like a relationship eventually while spinning plates lowkey.Got heavy doubts about this logic from /u/RedPimpin & /u/broek_325 A girl will do almost anything to appease the man she considers alpha. This is especially true in the very beginning, when you are still a complete mystery to her and she has no idea what to expect from you and no reason to believe you will even remember her (and therefor no idea how to please you, lie to you, etc.) Alot of women give it up on the first night. The majority of them. Some of these women still aren't "turbosluts".. … | /r/askTRP | 29/11/17 01:10 AM |
| 5 | Utilize The Full Potential of Cold ShowersSecond. I struggle with weed, porn and occasional use of other drugs (rockstar 20s right?) After a bad binge my entire life feels off. I don't care about friends, or sex, or work, my appetite feels off, lifting, etc. By "don't care" I mean I feel no desire. The absence of purpose and drive. Apathy. If you read about dopamine and it's role in human behavior, this makes sense. Dopamine gets you high. It is your brain's way of attaching reward to behaviors that improve your chances to survive and r… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/11/17 07:37 PM |
| 14 | Why are seasoned guys always talking about the sidebar?Honestly, half the shit people say here wouldn't have been said had they read internalized what they should have read Reading about being a man and actually being a man are two very different things. This is one of the only places where guys can come spout their 'shit', have it appropriately destroyed, and then get set on the right path. Just a cost of doing business in a place of learning.. not everyone learns on the first try. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/17 01:09 AM |
| 8 | How long do I plate and get a woman before upgrading to LTR?Be careful not to use redpill tools to try and fulfill your bluepill dreams. But let's assume you are a healthy well-adjusted male with his shit together who wants a girlfriend. Six months is a good timeline for dating. Almost every woman will want to have "The Talk" long before this. If she doesn't she is not LTR material.. any girl that will fuck NSA indefinitely is probably not your ideal candidate. Definitely DO relationshippy type things with your prospect. Not necessarily with all of your … | /r/askTRP | 22/11/17 01:48 AM |
| 2 | Do you go for the hot one or the fun one?This. You game them both. You will go through phases of having high energy and gaming the hottest hardest most high maintenance bitches and enjoying the challenge, and then low energy where you just want something easy and fun. Do both. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/17 07:46 PM |
| 24 | Can't be alone. Always yearning for intimacy with a woman. Unless you are a pyschopath how do you not?It is the ultimate burden - caring for someone else and showing them the path. Most women are followers, that's why they want strong, dominant, successful men. Proven leaders. The problem with putting them in the Mommy role, whether conscious of it or not, is you are putting them in the leadership role.. trying to feel "safe" and "warm" by burying your head in the proverbial sand of her pussy instead of facing life head on as a man. They despise this, even if neither of you understand it on a co… | /r/askTRP | 20/11/17 07:28 PM |
| 37 | Can't be alone. Always yearning for intimacy with a woman. Unless you are a pyschopath how do you not?What I feel like I'm missing is a woman or partner in life. Someone with a deep intimate connection. Dangerous ground. You must feel whole and complete by yourself, before you can expect to share your life with another person in a healthy way. Most men like you are looking to replace mommy. I know because before TRP I was also that guy. You want someone who will love you even when you don't love yourself. If you've been paying attention you know where this road will end if you put that burden on… | /r/askTRP | 20/11/17 06:08 PM |
| 2 | Why Did I lose?Here's the thing.. it's not on her to make the play happen. You look her in the eyes and she doesn't look away? Good now put a hand on her thigh. No flinching? Good now kiss her. She still with it? Ok isolate her. She's isolated and letting you do whatever you want? Move the fabric that is blocking your genitals and fuck her. Sounds like you were trying to convince her sex was a good idea. Doesn't matter if it's a good idea. Sooner or later you just need to escalate all the way to balls deep. Th… | /r/askTRP | 19/11/17 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Feeling less attracted after their true slutiness is revealed?This makes alot of sense. Once I valued the bonding and affection very highly.. and so I would not get tired (delusion, oneitis). But then TRP happened. Now I don't value the affection at all. I see it for the illusion it is. They really do just seem like a burden men must carry in order to reproduce. Once you nut why bother..? | /r/askTRP | 19/11/17 03:53 PM |
| 2 | Feeling less attracted after their true slutiness is revealed?What I did was focus on the sexual side. That's all they seem to be good for | /r/askTRP | 18/11/17 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Feeling less attracted after their true slutiness is revealed?Word | /r/askTRP | 18/11/17 11:04 PM |
| 3 | Feeling less attracted after their true slutiness is revealed?No it means my dick stops wanting to be inside her. None of these women are LTR material. I'm not even looking for an LTR. That's why sluts make it past my "vetting process".. I basically don't have one. Be cute, be fun, no drama. Problem is I still get hit with jealousy/anxiety and even worse I stop feeling physically attracted to them once I face down the evidence of their other partners etc. I can know we are not exclusive.. and as long as I don't have to look at the evidence I'm ok. Shove it… | /r/askTRP | 18/11/17 08:20 PM |
| 2 | Feeling less attracted after their true slutiness is revealed?Relevant question. The recent chick that's on my mind I saw too much. Twice a week with two occasions where we spent multiple days together, one being a convention and the other just cuz I was needy. Also engaged in some boyfriend behaviors just by habit. Not saying it's her fault at all really.. it's mine for failing to lead the frame and be congruent. That's why I feel shitty for letting her go. Can't change how I feel tho and last time she was in my bed I kicked her out.. that's how disgusted… | /r/askTRP | 18/11/17 07:39 PM |
| 9 | Feeling less attracted after their true slutiness is revealed?Seems like such a waste. But I think you're right. I have yet to be able to overcome the mental barrier once I see a girl in this way. And the more mental gymnastics I try the more exhausting it becomes. Shouldn't be this hard. I've always blamed myself.. and that makes it worse. I should let go. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/17 06:06 PM |
| 6 | Feeling less attracted after their true slutiness is revealed?The part that gets me is.. going in.. during the first couple weeks.. I KNOW these girls are sluts. I mean they'll meet me at a party for the 1st time and spread their legs like it's nothing. So I'm confused by the change that happens. At first j enjoy the sluts. I love them. Maybe too much? And then they just turn me off. Maybe I'm expecting too much from them? | /r/askTRP | 18/11/17 05:54 PM |
| 2 | Feeling less attracted after their true slutiness is revealed?I mean you aren't wrong but that doesn't really help me. I've been here 2+ years I can get laid and I'm not giving these sluts exclusivity or dreaming of a future I just want to have fun and relax.. which is easy at first and then gets hard. What can I do? | /r/askTRP | 18/11/17 05:47 PM |
| 6 | Inconsistency costing me success... any advice?You sound like me. During an upswing I can and do conquer the world and achieve my goals, and actually enjoy doing it and it doesn't feel like "hard work". During a downswing I annihilate myself with the uncanny precision and depth only I could dream up. It'll set me back days or weeks at a time and often cost me whatever plates I had in rotation, stall my gym progress, miss out on great times with friends, etc. I don't know about you but my problem is dopamine abuse. Go lookup dopamine agonist … | /r/askTRP | 18/11/17 03:14 AM |
| 3 | Men who share their women.. how?Truth. I was going to reply that kicking her out at 2:30am was over reacting on my part.. shoulda waited.. considering I'll probably have a new plate by tonight. But now she's texting me about how fucked up she is over it and asking if I'm ok and what she did wrong. The new recruit cracked a joke about tonight being a date and so I said "yeah you're right.. I'll just let you know when I'm done with my evening and you can come chill. Or not. Have fun." "I'm sorrrry! I was looking forward to it!" … | /r/askTRP | 17/11/17 08:27 PM |
| 10 | My ex said I was a pussy. LoLWhy do you care? Maybe she's right. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/17 03:15 PM |
| 2 | Am I behaving like a thirsty freak?"I'm busy that day but I'll take your number" Done. Don't have to go to the party you won't enjoy. Don't have to chase her down either. It is better to act and be wrong than to think and not act. Lift. Approach. Your brain will be forever fucked regarding women until you take control of your life and establish abundance mentality. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/17 03:14 PM |
| 2 | Men who share their women.. how?Logically? You are correct. But I dunno. I had this hard 8 model chick in my bed Tuesday night. She had cancelled plans to go party on Saturday and get fucked. We were not exclusive. I had another plate that broke the previous Thursday.. I think that's what fucked me up. Plate#1 cancelled plans the same night so it was a double whammy. I stayed busy over the weekend but still felt down on myself. After the weekend plate#1 shows up at my place Tuesday acting sweet but it feels weird to me knowing… | /r/askTRP | 17/11/17 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Men who share their women.. how?Think it really depends on context for me. Some girls I don't give a shit about. Some I do. Unfortunately for me I care a bit too easily. Probably once I have a truly stable rotation I'll be good. Caring about them is "allowed" when there are 2+ and I had no problems holding frame in those situations. Soon as it's down to 1 tho.. nope. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/17 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Men who share their women.. how?I've had it both ways. One OLTR that worshipped me and other more recent situations where it was obviously working out in her favor. Hmm.. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/17 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Struggling to get laid in Atlanta, GA; does anyone have advice on how to game here?For bars look to Edgewood, EAV, the Highlands and Decatur. For white girls check out the rave & concert scenes. Now to the real question.. how many of you RedPill ATLiens are down to collaborate? | /r/askTRP | 14/11/17 03:17 PM |
| 1 | SMV is relative - Ego, Advantage and DiversificationAh. Yeah well, from 16-26 I was in two LTRs. My scarcity and oneitis was legendary until I found TRP. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/17 01:34 PM |
| 2 | SMV is relative - Ego, Advantage and DiversificationNot even getting monogamous with these girls, so that's not it. If I had to guess I let my guard down too quickly and engage in boyfriend behaviors too quickly, even with plates/Fwb. I don't give them exclusivity but I probably do give off a "boyfriend" vibe.. which actually makes alot of sense now that I think about it. If I act like a boyfriend they will treat me like a boyfriend.. but I won't be their boyfriend.. so they dip. Lol. Is it really as simple as treating them worse? So they'll get … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/17 01:45 AM |
| 0 | SMV is relative - Ego, Advantage and DiversificationYep. Contrast with my experience. I benched myself through college regarding women. Only in the past two years did I break free from monogamy and take the pill. Thanks to a gigantic ego linked with quantifiable ability to lay hot bitches, I pretty much ignore any girl who is even slightly lower than my "hottest lay". This aloof & better than thou game has its advantages.. like hot girls spontaneously revealing themselves to be fucked. But also creates problems with frame and abundance. The women… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/17 01:01 AM |
| 4 | SMV is relative - Ego, Advantage and DiversificationDebatable who holds the advantage in such a scene. But I see your point. They can't really become serious to you because of how young they are. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/17 12:52 AM |
| 5 | SMV is relative - Ego, Advantage and DiversificationYou aren't wrong but it does not paint the whole picture. Frame is built on power. Power is built on value. You don't have to look like a Men's Fitness model to have power as a man.. but with no power, your frame will be hollow either way. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/17 12:34 AM |
| 7 | SMV is relative - Ego, Advantage and DiversificationYou are correct. Could probably summarize my entire post into this: For most guys it's easier to keep frame with women they have an advantage on. This should be done and practiced until it is effortless. Then move up the ladder accordingly. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/17 12:20 AM |
| 6 | Should you only enter a relationship if the girl has more SMV than you?The opposite is actually true. Never LTR anyone you cannot easily replace. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/17 07:40 PM |
| 2 | How to booty call, ask for nudes, and get more of what you want in general? Slow and steady or to the point?Truth. But SMV is relative. I'm getting caught by that now. The women I've been laying are getting consistently hotter and more popular, which has been fun. But it also puts me back in a weird way because compared to previous girls, I am less "above" the new hotness. Progress is obviously being made but I wonder if I shouldn't just scoop a few HB5-6s for "easy mode" girls in addition to the others. | /r/askTRP | 13/11/17 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Should I next this girl?Definitely went deep on the response-comfort after my apology. Thanks for your feedback. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/17 07:13 AM |
| 2 | Should I next this girl?Thanks | /r/askTRP | 12/11/17 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Should I next this girl?But this one's different I swear | /r/askTRP | 12/11/17 02:59 AM |
| 2 | Should I next this girl?You are treating her as a GF that has the freedom to sleep around. Accurate and a lesson to be learned from. Thankfully much cheaper than an actual GF who sleeps around. Only counter I was considering is that if I scale back the inappropriate behavior, and she's still DTF, I could retain the plate. That does sound like a headache & I definitely see your point about being better off spending energy on new girls tho. | /r/askTRP | 12/11/17 02:47 AM |
| 16 | She needs commitment but she wants hard dickAgreed. Even after 2+ years of redpill and a barrage of harsh life lessons, the concept of kids is still around. Will I get married to facilitate that goal? Maybe. Either way, the end-goal would be to produce strong viable offspring.. not to live happily ever after with the mommy. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/17 12:16 AM |
| 3 | Should I go out tonight?Focus on your macro and don't sweat these small decisions so much. What I mean is "wasting" one Saturday sitting at home watching netflix is not going to destroy your life and future. Putting yourself into any social situation where you feel obligated to perform (as opposed to excited/passionate/genuinely interested) is going to suck. Regarding this anhedonia.. unless you are diagnosed by a licensed medical professional with a real disease, come off that shit. Most of the problems with how we fe… | /r/askTRP | 11/11/17 08:48 PM |
| 26 | Why do women's looks (or at least a LOT of women's looks) seem to PLUMMET so rapidly as compared with men's? What is the science behind this?Mother nature arms women with something approaching "ideal physical beauty" during their prime childbearing years about 16-25. This is to facilitate the survival of the species. After 25 the chance of successful conception per attempt goes down, as does the chromosomal stability of each egg meaning even if conception occurs it may be less than healthy. But nothing good lasts forever. Deviate even a little bit from that ideal and suddenly you have "The Wall" or the plummet as you describe it. Thi… | /r/askTRP | 11/11/17 06:15 PM |
| 5 | Do you guys eat ass?Yeah. Compartmentalize that shit and you'll be fine. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/17 04:23 PM |
| 9 | Do you guys eat ass?Uhh yeah it kinda does. A girl who just got done pegging you and calling you her little sissy bitch while you were literally begging and crying for it will NOT respect you the same way outside the bedroom. Can you pay for a prodomme & be a man everywhere else in life? Sure. Can you have a plate/LTR that Dom's you but somehow you're still her Captain? Maybe but probably not | /r/askTRP | 09/11/17 02:38 PM |
| 2 | English teacher called me out in front of college classShit ton of effort for zero reward. But fight the good fight my dude - someone has to. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/17 11:40 PM |
| 3 | English teacher called me out in front of college classListen, it's not fair or right, but you need to learn to pick your fucking battles. You just turned this professor into someone who doesn't like you. Keep it up and she may become an enemy, or it may even become something that sticks on your academic record (disrupting class, disrespect of faculty, etc.) To "keep frame"? For what purpose? Because some middle aged shrew decided she prefers Professor to Mrs.? So what. Give her what she wants and shut the fuck up. Check your ego at the door. Someti… | /r/askTRP | 08/11/17 10:28 PM |
| 1 | How do I escalate in this scenario?I know she's still a virgin You don't know shit for shit. All people everywhere put up an image - what they want you to see. Including you to others. but I personally like being in control of everything It's controlled chaos. What you really want is Dominance, which is not the same as Control the way you probably think of it. An RC helicopter can be controlled. A person can only be influenced. I'm planning on isolating and escalating, by first just making out, then either moving my hands to her … | /r/askTRP | 08/11/17 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Am I making a fool out of myself?By posting here and asking for internet strangers' opinions. But that's not really a good point by this guy. We do not live in a vacuum. We are not all-knowing. Asking for advice and learning from others is a GOOD thing, as long as you can think for yourself, as well. As a fellow car-singer-rockstar, I salute you. You will find that people are attracted to that kind of energy and expression. Make sure you always do it for yourself and not to impress anyone. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/17 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Backsliding / Getting soft after they are platedI absolutely love Blackdragon and had not seen that article yet. Very relevant. According to his list I'm riding the line with one MLTR. But the other MLTR is 100% just showing some affection and nothing boyfriend like. Good stuff. Thanks for posting dude | /r/askTRP | 07/11/17 04:21 AM |
| 3 | On Male BondsConcise and excellent post. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/17 07:42 PM |
| 3 | Two career choices and I'm stuck on which one to go forI'm in the USA, and up here there are loads of starving lawyers. They go through expensive as fuck lawschool only to find out when they graduate the jobs aren't there or are much less lucrative than they had been led to believe. So they end up with hundreds of thousands of dollars worth of lawschool debt and basically no way to pay it back quickly. But then you have some lawyers out there netting million dollar cases. I'm not familiar with New Zealand, or where you plan to live in the future. I'… | /r/askTRP | 06/11/17 03:40 PM |
| 2 | Backsliding / Getting soft after they are platedHeard. Genuine Desire is often at the front of my mind. I can think back to girls who got soaking wet within seconds and would orgasm 3+ times a session so I usually look at that as a benchmark. But I definitely see your point. Thinking that every girl will be like that.. or rather, thinking that I am obligated to somehow make every girl like that is rooted deep in the ego. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/17 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Backsliding / Getting soft after they are platedYou need to get into a mindset of qualifying women, instead of trying to prove yourself. Sounds right, but I'm not trying to prove myself. I'm trying to find power I know I should have. I click better with some girls than others so maybe, as you say, I should qualify them more. But the catch is if they all eventually turn out like this then I am the problem. Probably a little bit of both. Thanks for your input. | /r/askTRP | 06/11/17 03:48 AM |
| 2 | Girl literally jolted when I passed a shit test?Disagree. Played house with this hb8 I met at a festival. In hindsight one of the most educational chicks I've ever been with. Still mining gold from those memories. Forget what she threw at me. My response was "yeah, but you like it" To which she said: "It doesn't matter if I like it." Damn girl. OG as fuck. And right. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/17 04:02 PM |
| 6 | Back from party, slightly drunk. How am I so bad at TRP???The thing is, after a while, I have talked to all potential fuck girls, which makes me walk aimlessly at the party, looking for people to talk to. Desperation is a stinky cologne. Learn to show yourself a good time first. Go to a party and DONT approach any girls. Feel free to chat them up but don't lock on like a heat seeking missile aimed at her pussy. Instead focus on having a good time, meeting people and getting quality interactions. Sound boring? Only if you're boring. Sound pointless? Lea… | /r/askTRP | 05/11/17 03:53 AM |
| 2 | Anxiety about having to be productive?Macro level first: You will be MORE productive and create MORE value when you learn to relax, be patient, and accept that all things come in their own time. Micro level: Stress & pressure, anxiety & depression are emotions we make ourselves feel when we believe that something is wrong (with us) or (with the world). The good news is that you are motivated to work on fixing whatever those problems are. The bad news is you can't figure out how to let go and cut yourself some slack. You will find th… | /r/askTRP | 04/11/17 12:29 AM |
| 3 | Should I expect to close or should I expect to have a boring night?lol | /r/askTRP | 02/11/17 08:40 PM |
| 5 | Should I expect to close or should I expect to have a boring night?I wanna close cause I been wanting to fuck her for months Lol | /r/askTRP | 02/11/17 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Why girls are using me for some sort of an "Approval and Validation" tool and how to change the way they view me as a guy?Identify why they are approaching you and care about your opinion. Use that to make them jump through hoops. Play the game. One of those hoops is your dick in her pussy. Don't stop until you balls deep son | /r/askTRP | 02/11/17 02:05 PM |
| 3 | What kind of dance classes would you recommend for increasing fluidity, kino with girls and general charisma?Salsa, bachata, swing | /r/askTRP | 01/11/17 12:38 AM |
| 12 | Any alcoholics out there? Alcohol is slowly destroying me.Google the Rat Park experiment. It is the end all be all to anything addiction related. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/17 11:12 PM |
| 3 | (LTR) - "Last night, X guys hit on me"Congratulations, you have a vagina. This slays the hamster. Also.. LOL | /r/askTRP | 31/10/17 04:57 PM |
| 3 | I have a gf but I dont know how to turn that into a way to meet more women.What you are talking about is Passive Preselection. You need to bring your girlfriend around an event, bar or social scene such as a house party or meetup where other girls can see you two together. Other cute girls at that event see that you are with a cute girl. You are now Cute Girl Approved(tm). BUT.. you have a problem. You have a girlfriend. Making a direct move on anyone new will come off as creepy, desperate or weird. Of your girlfriend finds out she may ditch you. What is a man to do? O… | /r/askTRP | 31/10/17 04:48 PM |
| 9 | Broke up a 3y LTR. Coping with the loss and understanding a sexual fantasyCompetition anxiety has a large role to play in sexual arousal in both men and women. Anxiety in general can be a strong arousal factor - because of how it involves the dopamine pathway. So wanting to hatefuck the girl after she slutted around / cheated is kinda natural. Remember though.. just because it's natural doesn't mean it's good for you. Nature only cares about making babies. It could give a shit about your mental health and happiness. I'd hard next this chick and move on. You are in way… | /r/askTRP | 28/10/17 09:14 PM |
| 4 | Should I play videogames with friends all night? Aka do an all nighter of league of legendsGo enjoy your friends. If you live life like you have to be 100% productive 100% of the time you will find it hard to have fun. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/17 05:38 PM |
| 13 | Is wanting more than a hookup considered Oneitis?Married RedPill is a whole subreddit. LTR game is harder but doable. Short answer: you want more? Take it. Build it. No one, not even the most alpha alpha who ever posted in TRP, can tell you it's wrong if that's what you want. Just keep your fucking eyes open, and dont forget what you have learned. Ever. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/17 12:54 AM |
| 8 | How to push myself and be ok with being alpha?Time. Experience. Life is a spiral - you will see the same things from new perspectives over and over again. Get out there and do you. There will always be work to be done. There will always be things to improve, problems to solve, mistakes to learn from. That's good. Ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders. You got time my man. Don't waste it but also don't worry. You're probably in a hurry to "get there". Ironically, you will never "get there". But once you stop trying so hard … | /r/askTRP | 27/10/17 10:04 PM |
| 1 | what concepts to focus on with bitches at music festivalDrugs. Music. Other bitches. The usual. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/17 02:31 PM |
| 13 | How to get meaty manly forearms and fingers?Farmers Walks Grip Machines Barbell rollups Pullups/Chinups Most lifters will tell you forearms just "come with time", which is true because nearly every freeweight workout also works your grip. But I'm in the skinny-forearm club, and a grip machine is amazing. Good luck finding one though. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/17 02:27 PM |
| 2 | Why does RP frown upon weed and psychedelic drugs?Psychedelics will poke giant Swiss cheese holes in your frame (while in use) but they can also be useful self teaching tools. Their addiction potential is very limited and most are quite harmless - it's what you do while on the drugs that can get stupid.. like professing undying love to the girl with fairy wings you met ten minutes ago and meaning it. Or dreaming up some fear and letting it take root so deep you still have it when sober. Weed & party drugs offer essentially no net benefit but th… | /r/askTRP | 27/10/17 01:52 PM |
| 9 | Girl lead me on with sexual remarks and then blocks me off social media when i mention sex.Girls being girls. You ever pick up a toy and tease a dog? Play with it? Let the dog get reeaaall close just to jerk the toy away like some nefarious Chewtoy Satan? yeah. Alot of girls are like that with their pussy because unfortunately, alot of guys ain't much better than the fucking dog with the chew toy | /r/askTRP | 26/10/17 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Girl loses her shit after I nut inside herFacts. I don't actually mind crazy that much. They usually fuck like champs and have way more fun. Probably how they feel about most alphas.. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/17 10:49 PM |
| 0 | Girl loses her shit after I nut inside herFuuuuuuck Youuuuuu | /r/askTRP | 26/10/17 04:43 PM |
| 2 | Girl loses her shit after I nut inside herYeah I know. I sent her my two checkup texts. That is my diligence due. Done after that. Highly doubt she comes back round but if she does.. do I really fuck the crazy again.. knowing the crazy? | /r/askTRP | 26/10/17 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Girl loses her shit after I nut inside herFor sure man. If nothing else I will fucking think twice next time just because it cost me a nice plate. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/17 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Girl loses her shit after I nut inside herDude this is genius | /r/askTRP | 26/10/17 03:13 PM |
| 0 | Girl loses her shit after I nut inside heryeah | /r/askTRP | 26/10/17 02:21 PM |
| -2 | Girl loses her shit after I nut inside herYeah. I mean, the nut was in the morning / we were both relatively sober.. by comparison. But yeah. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/17 02:05 PM |
| -9 | Girl loses her shit after I nut inside herI hear you but I've been fucking raw since my 1st gf at 16. Managed to get by without serious damage so far. Condoms fucking ruin sex for me. Maybe I need to force myself to adjust and get used to them, as I am not about anything more than plates at this point in my life. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/17 01:51 PM |
| 3 | Girl loses her shit after I nut inside herI offered to pay for Plan B etc. but she literally would not talk to me. We had previously discussed the option of her getting on BC so we could be safer and still enjoy ourselves the way we wanted, but that obviously had not happened yet. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/17 01:48 PM |
| 3 | So, is it just about my face?Just wanna know if i should lift weights and have a good body if my face is ugly / average Lift. Protip: you are not a special snowflake. The sidebar still applies to you no matter how many ECs you tag in your shitposts | /r/askTRP | 19/10/17 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Two Plates One Festival (when plates collide?)Heard. Also, be gentle, cup the balls don't squish em | /r/askTRP | 18/10/17 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Two Plates One Festival (when plates collide?)sounds like a good way to lose plates. Now plate#2 and this third girl tho.. that might work | /r/askTRP | 18/10/17 02:56 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with being afraid of being single?Oneitis / lack of abundance mentality. Women come and go. Yes, the one you are seeing right now is included. One day she will be gone and that's ok. When you are afraid, do your tighten your grip, or let go? Fight or flight? Yin or yang? The only answer is "both". You want to be able to do the right thing at the right time. How do you know what is right? Look in the mirror and figure it the fuck out. No one else can do that for you. Specifically regarding your fear of being single.. you need to … | /r/askTRP | 18/10/17 12:07 AM |
| 9 | How Abundance Mentality In A Female Mind Works To Your BenefitLots of hate in this thread. I never killed it at 19 but some guys do. Sounds like you are doing it right. You don't demand respect - you command it. The difference is overt vs covert. Done. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/17 06:28 PM |
| 18 | The coming age of anxiety will be a gold mine for redpillersDoesn't matter. Powerless men will be powerless and worthy of contempt under any social paradigm. Powerful men will be attractive and rewarded under any social paradigm. Look at the west right now. Look at your FB feed today. "Me too" and anyone who dares to do anything but parrot the narrative is obliterated. And it does not matter. Alphas are still out reaping the spoils, while everyone else is debating on FB, outing themselves as social retards and incels, literally being branded as sexual pr… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/17 06:06 PM |
| 20 | Should you ever, under any circumstance, tell a girl that you "miss her"?Meh depends on the girl IMO. Some girls respond positively to a little sweet. Especially if they are comfort testing or otherwise well in your frame. As long as sappy shit is not your default tone then the occasional soft touch is a nice reward. I've heard it described as "passion game" IE giving the girl the impression that she is getting to you, getting her hooks in a little. The only answer to this question is Push Vs Pull. If you can afford it, romancey stuff will drive some girls crazy. Oth… | /r/askTRP | 16/10/17 05:57 PM |
| 7 | Can you be social and normal after long term social isolation, or are you fucked permanently?Yes, it is possible for social retards to make a full recovery as long as you don't have actual brain damage or congenital defect. Source: me I was homeschooled for 9 out of 12 years in the US. I also lived at home through college, safely nuzzling under mommy's wing and playing WoW instead of engaging in the college experience. I wasn't beta, I was Omega. Outside the social hierarchy completely. I had ZERO social skills. Then at the ripe age of 26 I found TRP. And believed it. Everything I read … | /r/askTRP | 16/10/17 12:18 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with sudden loss of attraction in bed - especially if it's the first time?Fair enough. I'll give the V a try, can't hurt. I also meditate. Bout two weeks back I made a different chick meditate with me.. now THAT was some fun sex. Got us both to relax way past our normal thresholds. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/17 04:35 PM |
| 4 | How do you deal with sudden loss of attraction in bed - especially if it's the first time?Had this happen recently with a shortie. HB7 with a nice tight body, funsized girl, just my type. I realized afterwards I experienced a sense of obligation / competition. We are both poly and she's fucking this dude I happen to kinda know (just acquaintances), but the fact that I know she's fucking him and I know who he is = compete and be better than him. Bad mental state. I felt like I "had to" fuck her a certain way, I "had to" get her off, I "had to" be super dominant, etc. Basically it kill… | /r/askTRP | 15/10/17 02:59 PM |
| 6 | Girl wants to become bf/gfLook for "Handling The Talk" Huh. It's in the sidebar. Imagine that. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/17 04:50 PM |
| 2 | Sex Feedback LoopHere's the part I see as missing. The highest assignment of value a woman can ever give you is sexual access. If she's hot and the sex is great etc. then that absolutely validates you sexually. And that's fine. But it doesnt validate "you", as a person. If you had hot sex with hot girls but everything else in your life was total shit, would you really be happy? And to contrast: Even the sexual validation you receive has limits. One girl loving your dick doesn't matter that much. Ten girls and yo… | /r/askTRP | 14/10/17 04:36 PM |
| 30 | Anyone here been cheated on before?Yup. She fucked her ex BF after having "dreams about him". This is after chasing me for 3months saying how much she wishes we could just be together. 1 if you see red flags.. believe them. Your heart will make excuses. Crush them. 2 the plate is already broken. Teach yourself to let go of everything you fear to lose. Ironically if you do this, more women will be beating down your door than you can reasonably fuck. 3 monogamy is a joke. Don't do it. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/17 10:05 PM |
| 3 | Why does everyone advise lifting over anything else?Yes, you are wrong. A good lifting program works the entire body. In general free weights and compound movements like bench, deadlift and overhead press are also miles better for you physiologically. Machines isolate a specific muscle group, which is unnatural, and by doing that allows you to train without using accessory muscles or putting the same stress on your tendons. You WANT to train those accessory muscles and stress your tendons with freeweight and compound exercise.. because when the t… | /r/askTRP | 13/10/17 05:52 PM |
| 3 | Why does everyone advise lifting over anything else?A well built physique is a status symbol. It reflects an excellent work ethic, dedication, and constant effort to maintain. It is not something that anyone can buy or cheat their way to. ~ Arnie You know Jack shit about lifting. Get a membership to a real gym with a full compliment of free weights. Campus gym being "too packed" is an EXCUSE. Light your excuses on fire or they will prevent you from living. Main reasons to lift are as follows: Health & strength. Injury prevention, more energy to h… | /r/askTRP | 13/10/17 05:37 PM |
| 1 | How do I support basing my happiness on other people?There is life in every breath | /r/askTRP | 12/10/17 09:39 PM |
| 29 | How do I support basing my happiness on other people?Learn to base it on something else. I managed to learn this once I finally lived by myself. I took a 3 month monk mode, with the main goal as learning to keep my own company. It worked. I can be happy mostly without anyone. Eat well, sleep right, lift hard, do good at work, enjoy my hobbies, read, etc etc. This all led to a strong overall sense of wellbeing. Since no one else is involved, no one else can fuck with it, making it an unshakable frame that I can always rely on. Over time, bit by bit… | /r/askTRP | 12/10/17 02:12 PM |
| 3 | Losing weight has lowered my SMV?Don't go by BMI. Those are bullshit. Try this and go to the Max Muscular Potential page http://www.weightrainer.net/bodypred.html | /r/askTRP | 10/10/17 07:54 PM |
| 3 | How to release the thought of being cheated onhow can I hold on to this lit stick of dynamite and not be worried about the explosion? | /r/askTRP | 10/10/17 03:35 PM |
| 12 | How to release the thought of being cheated onBy your description she's sex positive, hot, presumably American, and travels. Hmm.. She's probably either cheated already or will at some point. How do you get over it? The plate is already broken man. She's not yours, it's just your turn. Personally I have yet to find a way to feel "ok" being exclusive with a girl knowing full well they are very prone to cheat. You are giving up your options and your power for the sake of trusting an agent that is generally not trustworthy, with the idea that … | /r/askTRP | 10/10/17 03:26 PM |
| 10 | Losing weight has lowered my SMV?At 6'3" 170 makes you look fucking anemic. Build muscle. Alot of it. I'm 170 at 5'10" and still have about 20lbs of fat to burn off and 20-25lbs of muscle to add. Find one of those biometric calculators online that can tell you your ideal maximum lean weight. Probably about 200-220 for your height and joints. My ideal maximum is 175 @10%bf. Also dafuq you thinking? Use powertalk and a serious tone for business. Use clown game for girls. You can be more than one thing. Girls respond to caveman fu… | /r/askTRP | 10/10/17 03:13 PM |
| 6 | Losing weight has lowered my SMV?What's your total bodyweight now? 200+ is big alpha territory even if you're fat. Less and maybe not. It's about the physical presence. Also maybe try going back to the clown game as that seemed to work for you. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/17 01:49 PM |
| 5 | How do you deal with the ugliness of whores without catching the dirt?28 ciswhitemale, American Southeast, STEM field job making 6figs Probably in the low 20s for n-count. Didn't really start "playing the game" until I was 26 and found TRP. Went from n2 to n20+ in that time. Simple fact is, some girls are good for fuckin, some girls are good for hangin out, and a rare few might be both. Learn to appreciate each one for what they are. Also learn to spot the ones that aren't good for shit! I too prefer some connection with my women. A little emotion goes a long fuck… | /r/askTRP | 10/10/17 01:47 AM |
| 2 | How did you quit smoking cigarettes?Cigarettes were a social thing for me. An excuse to talk to someone. To give someone something or ask for something. I've literally gotten laid after opening with "do you have a cigarette?" But it's just not worth it. You can open just as easily with vapes too most of the time. "hey try this flavor" EVEN IF THEY DONT FUCKING VAPE "Oh that's Candle Apple Fudge? mmmmm" and suddenly she's sucking on your proxy phallus lol. Psychology is weird brah | /r/askTRP | 10/10/17 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Snorting viagra for a 3 sumWhy.. why did you snort it? Lol | /r/askTRP | 09/10/17 11:23 PM |
| 3 | How did you quit smoking cigarettes?Switched to vaping. Vaped with nicotine. Eventually start vaping without nicotine. Then you are officially free to stop.. I keep vaping tho just enjoy the flavor/habit of it | /r/askTRP | 09/10/17 09:25 PM |
| 3 | Tips for dealing with women who only like it 'rough'lol'd | /r/askTRP | 09/10/17 08:54 PM |
| 13 | Does she think she’s my girlfriend?Enjoy the ride. Don't commit. With plates I have a "when I'm with you I'm with you" rule, so on a date or outing she can claim me all she wants. But I do whatever I want to on my own time. If the question ever comes up in front of friends or whatever, or you get called a couple, say something like "we are poly" or "good friends" with a shit eating grin. I had one plate last year that told me she loved me. I said it back. Feelings are fun to play with. As soon as the I Love Yous happened she star… | /r/askTRP | 09/10/17 08:40 PM |
| 2 | Tips for dealing with women who only like it 'rough'Translation: Punt that Cunt. Heard. I was playing with that idea this morning after making the post & /u/Kommanderdude 's replies and it instantly felt like I had relieved some pressure. It just feels so.. weird.. to think that an otherwise hot and willing girl needs to be punted because her personality doesn't mesh well into mine. "NO WAIT I MUST CHANGE MYSELF FOR PUSSY AND BECOME HER PERFECT ALPHA MAN" Sounds silly now. Oh well, always forwards | /r/askTRP | 09/10/17 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Tips for dealing with women who only like it 'rough'I have two plates counting her atm. The other plate is more submissive, more effortless, better sense of humor, and the sex is better. She is also inviting me out to show off to her friends / paying for tickets to events etc. I'd say plate #1 is a hb8, she's actually a model but looks alot more tame IRL of course. Plate #2, the girl I describe in my post, is probably a HB7. Funsized, cute, nice ass and titties, but definitely a bit more used up and not as easy to work with when it comes to sex. … | /r/askTRP | 09/10/17 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Tips for dealing with women who only like it 'rough'Because I have a negative fucking mindset about her for some reason and I'm a stubborn cunt. I want to win and fuck her into a whimpering little ball of feelz. I hear you. I'll give it some space and see what happens. She never did reply to that text anyways. I've got a dope fucking party coming up on Friday which would be perfect to go stag to and game some new chicks. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/17 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Tips for dealing with women who only like it 'rough'Perhaps your penis is trying to tell you something.... I've considered this as well. Despite recent successes I am still fairly 'new' to the winner's circle so it isn't my first instinct to discard an otherwise hot, sexually available female. My first instinct is to fix something and try again. Sure I can get more plates but why not try to keep this one too? Sounds like she doesn’t like it rough. I think maybe it's more that she doesn't like it rough with me, OR that she doesn't like the particu… | /r/askTRP | 09/10/17 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Tips for dealing with women who only like it 'rough'I've read the sidebar and SGM. DEVI But this chick is fucking with my chi somehow. Just prior to this I had fucked 3 other girls. Two of them I tied in ropes, whipped, blindfolded, and took "semi-consensual" video and pics of the deed. Meaning I showed them the evidence after the blindfold came off and they got giggly and wet all over again. But for some reason this girl just did not submit. Its strange. She's getting other dick for sure so maybe I'm just not her #1 option right now and thus try… | /r/askTRP | 09/10/17 02:53 PM |
| 25 | When a beta makes progress, its quite disturbing to women, and I have found nothing but confused, hostile people around me going out of their way to knock me down.If you ain't got haters, you ain't poppin' | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/17 01:50 PM |
| 9 | Spinning two plates -> Turn one into an LTRYes, you should wait for them to bring up exclusivity. That's their job. Your job is to allow it or not. They want to capture you and put you in that cage.. make em earn it. If you fly into the cage it's boring. Do not talk about anything first, really. If you haven't talked about it yet the default assumption is that you are non-exclusive. Also realize that your status of non-exclusivity is a big part of the attraction. Preselection and competition anxiety are a potent combo. Even if one of the… | /r/askTRP | 09/10/17 12:01 AM |
| 3 | AWALT is for betas. Alphas see the beauty of female novelty.Lol why is this down voted? Is it really so hard to handle that some guys are actually winning? Oh, the humanity!! Excellent post btw. Wish I could give you a Delta point. Tapping in to the emotionality of sex is a crucial part of enjoying it ( and being good at it). And women can be good for more than their holes. Keep preachin brotha | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/17 07:46 PM |
| 1 | What exactly is positive masculinity?You sound mad bro. Good luck out there | /r/askTRP | 08/10/17 07:32 PM |
| 1 | What exactly is positive masculinity?That's a pretty narrow view. What about r selection breeding? Aka the alpha fucks that gets her pregnant and bails. Perfectly valid reproductive strategy present throughout the animal kingdom.. including us. You seem to anchor your sense of meaning to offspring. That's not wrong - but only in the sense that living as a celibate monk in some monastery isn't wrong.. if that's what you choose to do and believe. Masculinity is about power. Creating children to carry our legacy into the future is one… | /r/askTRP | 08/10/17 04:35 PM |
| 4 | Do you act different when you are doing nofap?Absolutely. I've been hooked on porn since I was 12. In the last 2 weeks I stopped. I've looked a few times, even jerked a few times, but I catch myself, stop and move on. Meditate or go outside. I feel different. My dick feels different. I am aroused more easily and slip into caveman animal mode more naturally. The world I see is full of opportunities - instead of before where I would see only an endless grind without meaning. There is a warmth in my chest and a spring in my step. Even when I'm… | /r/askTRP | 07/10/17 08:03 PM |
| 17 | It's fucking SaturdayThe journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. ~ Lao Tzu | /r/askTRP | 07/10/17 02:21 PM |
| 9 | What exactly is positive masculinity?100% disagree with gaylubeoil Masculinity can be positive or negative. It is often selfish, but does not need to be. It can even be generous. That's why we call it "providing value". You become the fucking sun, showering others in your nourishment. Getting something back is not always a requirement. "Positive Masculinity" I would argue is the willingness and ability to compete, to thrive, to lead and grow. Without an excessive need to also destroy, humiliate, cause pain, etc. You do what you mus… | /r/askTRP | 07/10/17 12:51 PM |
| 1 | How do you land a second date and keep her interested?Nah but I heard it was a golden age of pussy I'm looking at SeekingArrangements now for my digital pussy acquisition, but at the present time I'm getting plenty of play from social circles and randoms so not really a priority | /r/askTRP | 06/10/17 08:10 PM |
| 10 | How do you land a second date and keep her interested?Whatever you are doing to get them to meet up is working so don't change that. "No hookups" is just a shit test. Remember watch what they do not what they say. Girl matches you on Tinder and then meets up with you? She wants the D.. but only if you are man enough to give it to her Get them face to face. Then escalate. That simple. Don't give a single shit about any of her "rules". She can sit there and tell you she is an unplowed virgin, fresh as the fallen snow, who will only sleep with her hus… | /r/askTRP | 06/10/17 04:03 PM |
| 4 | How do you land a second date and keep her interested?Keep working bro. I still have yet to go on a single date from Tinder. Couple other platforms work but not Tinder. So at least you got that going for you. Anyways, TBH if a girl meets up from Tinder she is expecting to get fucked. It's a hookup app not a girlfriend finder. Try taking them somewhere else. A park. Your dorm room. Are you escalating appropriately? Remember don't wait for permission. Game her and escalate until you are balls deep or you get enough hard nos to realize it isn't going … | /r/askTRP | 06/10/17 02:29 PM |
| 1 | I slept with one of the hottest girls in a while last week, went back to my usual fwb, and now having a meltdownThis right here. Enjoy each of them for what they are. Fuck them like you'll never see them again. And remember its just pussy.. there is always more | /r/askTRP | 06/10/17 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Does TRP community use affirmations?I employ the Highlight Reel. This is literally a written list & description of what I consider to be major accomplishments in my life. All the affirmation I will ever need | /r/askTRP | 06/10/17 02:06 PM |
| 0 | How important are Looks to TRP?Yknow what man you're totally right. I get rejected every time and the only thing that keeps me going is fighting neckbeards on askterp Good luck broseph | /r/askTRP | 06/10/17 02:04 PM |
| -1 | How important are Looks to TRP?Keep thinking that. I laugh myself to sleep crushing kids like you into the dust. There's just something delicious standing next to some 6'4" bro with my 5'10" ass and knowing without a doubt I'm the one leading the frame | /r/askTRP | 06/10/17 01:18 PM |
| 4 | When plates hit you up too often what do you say?Don't be scared to lose a plate, you can get more. TRUTH | /r/askTRP | 05/10/17 11:04 PM |
| 6 | Is a sordid sexual history always a deal breaker?This right here. I give no shits if a girl I happen to be fucking is or was a turboslut who fucked the football team. But a girlfriend? God forbid wife? No way brah. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/17 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Women only get into me once they get to know me, how to fix this?Meditate. Lift. Noporn. Nofap is more "optional". If you do fap, DON'T use porn.. and buy a sleeve or fleshlight. Deathgrip can still be a problem even without porn. Point-blank you want to train your penis to respond to pussy and nothing else. Last thing. This helped me immensely to become less serious and more social. Go out more. Get exposure. Be active. In as many groups, hobbies, places, etc. as you reasonably can. By increasing the volume of your interactions, each individual one becomes l… | /r/askTRP | 05/10/17 01:33 AM |
| 2 | Women only get into me once they get to know me, how to fix this?Lift heavy and remove all traces of porn. Preferably don't masterbate or limited only. Nut into a female or don't nut. That helped me alot. Having a healthy body and learning to hold your sexual energy in tension is like throwing gasoline on the fire that is TRP. Even when socializing with guys or friends, being in that state of tension just makes you feel more ALIVE, fun-seeking, creative and assertive. Like there is a warmth in your chest, a spring in your step. Pretty sure the science dweebs … | /r/askTRP | 04/10/17 10:47 PM |
| 3 | Women only get into me once they get to know me, how to fix this?I operate by logic and when someone starts telling me about "flow" I don't know what to think or do. Here's your problem. You are too serious. You approach SMV and women mathematically. "If I possess xyz traits, women will fall in line" Newsflash. Dropout junkie losers with mangey beards and ratty clothes get laid more than you. Why? They have Game and Personality. Fix your robot status and try again. | /r/askTRP | 04/10/17 06:55 PM |
| 3 | How do you respond to a female relative that insists on behaving dominantly in social situations?I offered to help her drive part of the way, and I insisted she wear a seatbelt, which she doesn't like Good for you.. Your head's in the right place, it really is. Being aware of this mechanic - where one person is telling the other what to do - is part of game. Part of all human interaction, really. But you aren't quite finished yet. Keeping score like this is thinking too small. Over a seatbelt? Or her driving? Here's an example: A current plate comes over to my apt for the first time. We are… | /r/askTRP | 03/10/17 02:36 AM |
| 2 | Posting pics of girls on social mediaThat makes perfect sense. I didn't take many photos or vids to begin with so the crop of choices is slim, and hers WOULD stand out as a 'brag'. Next time I'll get more material and make it look more casual. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 02/10/17 11:32 PM |
| 2 | How do you respond to a female relative that insists on behaving dominantly in social situations?Here's an odd concept for the freshly unplugged: Some women are dominant. Some of them are even higher value, better socialized, more intelligent and more charismatic than alot of men. Certainly most of the hot ones are more socially and sexually experienced than most men. So what do you do when someone 'insists' on being dominant? You can get butthurt about it, you can accept their dominance, or you can do something to take the reigns. The latter two have nuance and benefit from a certain level… | /r/askTRP | 02/10/17 11:02 PM |
| 10 | Why don't I get shit-tested? I know I'm not a super ChadHere's a "secret" I have figured out in ~2yrs of TRP. Some girls won't shit test you. In fact sometimes they won't show any obvious signs of attraction - OR disinterest. They sit there in purgatory acting like perfectly prim little angels just waiting for you to 'figure it out'. Hit these chicks with game anyways. Go as far as they are willing to let you go. I've gamed girls like this where I couldn't tell which way the wind was blowing and wound up closing the deal anyways. In a macro context, … | /r/askTRP | 02/10/17 10:38 PM |
| 5 | TRP on Cannabis. Many Seem Anti.Moderation is key. I smoke but be aware of how it affects your dopamine reward circuit. THAT is exactly why you crave it. Anyways, as long as you use the drug and the drug doesn't use you, do whatever the fuck you want | /r/askTRP | 29/09/17 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Whats the difference between being patient and being a bitch?No one can answer that question for you. My opinion however comes down to what your priorities are. Like your job? Like getting paid? That's what you have to deal with. Can't stand the guy anymore? Find other work. Don't expect to somehow "hold frame" or jedi mindtrick him into being a different person that dog don't hunt. Actually alot of people are like the guy you describe - give them the tiniest amount of power and they reveal their inner douche. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/17 05:46 PM |
| 2 | How to hold sexual energy without losing my mind?Thanks man. Writing was a childhood talent of mine and I've neglected it recently. Your comment has reminded me to make it a goal again. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/17 12:11 AM |
| 3 | I'm having second thoughts about going on a booked vacation with my ex-gfIron Rule #2 Never fuck with exes. Bail out. If the tickets are non-refundable then consider it a cheap lesson. You going on this trip is a recipe for pain and humiliation, UNLESS you are legitimately so fucking rock solid and high SMV that you KNOW you can pull fresh hot vag in front of your ex. Even then, doing so would only be revenge, which is still her frame. Get the fuck over it. Don't go. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/17 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Why should we even post in here?ECs and many other men here post their perspective from the position of an elite and high SMV man. What they say is usually on point - but that doesn't mean it applies to you. Lift hard for another 3 years then come back and try again. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/17 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Cherry RP, where do I start?chicks seem to dig the confidence in that This doesn't matter. At all. this is the hairstyle I'm most confident in This matters. Remember that TRP is a toolbox. The tools are here for you to read, play with and experiment to find what works. Think for yourself and decide whether it applies to you or not. Whether it works for you or not. Not sure if it works? Try it. If you haven't cut your hair short in a number of years, I'd say try it. You can always grow it back. The main risk with long hair … | /r/askTRP | 28/09/17 08:00 PM |
| 2 | The Key for Not Getting Stuck In Your HeadYou got it. One of the hardest lessons to learn is that accepting yourself and being that 'inner alpha' does not.. CAN NOT.. come from outside. It's not how much money you make. It's not how many bitches you fuck. It's not your fucking khakis. You can waste your whole life like that looking for external "excuses" that justify labeling yourself as alpha. It's looking yourself in the eyes in the mirror and seeing that fucking animal ready to hunt, kill and eat every last fucking shred of life out … | /r/TheRedPill | 28/09/17 02:16 AM |
| 2 | The Key for Not Getting Stuck In Your HeadGo read Black Dragon Blog. That guy has put out the best material there is for non-monogomy IMO. Monogamy in today's market is a joke. I understand you completely - letting go of all that is scary. But only until you start succeeding and have built a great life without it. Then you realize how much it costs and how little you get in return. The power a high value man experiences when he does NOT pursue or commit to monogamy is staggering. And women smell it on you. Preselection is easily the mos… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/17 11:23 PM |
| 3 | How do you internalise shit?I didn't bother reading any books. Your call there. I meditate for at least 20 minutes every day. Few exceptions. Focus on your breathing. Meditate in a variety of locations and at different times. The goal is not to think about nothing - that's impossible. The goal is to let random thoughts come up.. and then let them slip away. Do not resist them. Do not encourage them. I sort of imagine myself in a room watching a blank screen and sometimes images show up.. I go hmm ok.. and then the image di… | /r/askTRP | 27/09/17 09:34 PM |
| 2 | The Key for Not Getting Stuck In Your HeadThere is only so much pressure you can put on yourself. The brute force / willpower method works for smaller, short term challenges. For the rest of it? Long term investments like SMV, learning Game, learning Self Respect, Internal Validation, etc.. this all takes time. Alot of it. Repetition. Research. Application. Internalization. The pressure relief valve is accepting the cold hard reality - you CANNOT skip the line. You CANNOT ice skate up hill. Once you fully agree with this, you can accept… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/17 09:30 PM |
| 5 | The Key for Not Getting Stuck In Your HeadI know that feel. Still get that way sometimes but I'm mostly better now. You gotta force it. Make it deliberately awkward as fuck if necessary. Do it often. Rinse and repeat. Eventually your brain will realize it's no big deal. "Hey girl nice shoes wanna fuck?" 1 you will get a non-zero number of yes 2 once you trick your Machinebrain into realizing it's not a big deal.. you can do it whenever the fuck you want and feel great doing it | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/17 09:27 PM |
| 1 | How do you internalise shit?Repetition. Experience. Patience. I've got a thread on the main sub that touches on this topic exactly. Basically "fake it til you make it". Eventually these habits that feel fake, this lifestyle that is hard and challenging.. will all gel and start to feel normal. As it does pressure will be relieved, and you will then be able to take on new challenges, add new pressure, kick back and have fun with it, etc. As a Broscientist I figure this is a cycle we all go through. Pressure > Growth > Cathar… | /r/askTRP | 27/09/17 06:33 PM |
| 2 | Cherry RP, where do I start?For me at least "enjoying" my hobbies came with time. At first I picked them up because I expected they would be useful to me. I took little joy in them. As time went on however, I got used to the hobby. I saw the profits. And then I started enjoying them for their own sake. Far as small town goes.. can't help much there I live in a big city. Maybe a hiking club. Start one. But even people in small towns need to amuse themselves. I'm sure you'll figure something out. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/17 05:27 PM |
| 4 | Cherry RP, where do I start?Sidebar on the main sub Lift. Start experimenting with new hobbies. Find something you enjoy that also enables social interaction. Focus more on friends and building a fun life than hunting for pussy. Having that fun active lifestyle is what will bring the pussy not the other way around. GL HF | /r/askTRP | 27/09/17 04:06 PM |
| 1 | How to hold sexual energy without losing my mind?I've just started Jiu Jitsu but also have a different hobby that gets me outside, in nature, socializing and active with my body as many times a week as I feel like. It's not my physical health. Other than deathgrip, you could call that physical. It's the wires as you say. My 'reward circuit'. Sex is still enjoyable but it doesn't normally have the same intensity. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/17 05:39 AM |
| 1 | How to hold sexual energy without losing my mind?Sexual Transmutation. I've read about that a bit. Thanks for your input | /r/askTRP | 26/09/17 11:34 PM |
| 2 | How to hold sexual energy without losing my mind?Doing that. Good advice tho | /r/askTRP | 26/09/17 11:00 PM |
| 3 | How to hold sexual energy without losing my mind?No the fuck it does not. Not for me at least. When I am in that gotta-busta-nut energy, smoking weed magnifies it. Trips some kind of pleasure sensor and then all I want is more pleasure. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/17 11:00 PM |
| 7 | The Key for Not Getting Stuck In Your HeadYeah unfortunately I could not really write around the metaphor so it labored on a bit. But the mechanic is what's important. Alot of guys, myself included, will sometimes try to think they can just brute force / willpower their way through challenges. Sometimes that is enough. Usually though it takes alot of hard work, training, patience and reptition. That is common knowledge.. WHY it works the way it does is what I tried to touch on here. I've always been that nerd that wants to understand wh… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 10:59 PM |
| 28 | The Key for Not Getting Stuck In Your HeadTo each their own. The three second rule is a micro lense. What I present here is a macro lense. The pendulum swings both ways. My childhood and experience may not be common ground for most guys - in fact I doubt it is.. but as a painfully introverted AFC being able to conceptualize this 'separation' in my brain was fucking priceless. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 10:55 PM |
| 1 | How to hold sexual energy without losing my mind?Agree on all points | /r/askTRP | 26/09/17 09:03 PM |
| 2 | How to hold sexual energy without losing my mind?I'm at the point where I enjoy almost total social freedom, reasonable status, have fun with things and am usually always in cad/flirt mode even if I am not actively on the hunt. These days I get the eyes almost every time I go out.. whether I act on that or not is contextual. You aren't wrong though - the ultimate answer for where to put that energy is directly into some hot young vag. But it's a bit of a chicken and the egg question. I'm pulling the vag but can't control myself long enough to … | /r/askTRP | 26/09/17 07:53 PM |
| 6 | How to hold sexual energy without losing my mind?Yepppp. That's it. I'm in transition now so it's both exciting and frustrating. I am more successful than ever with women, hotter hotties, cuter cuties, etc.. but fact is when I feel like that I have a window of 3-6 hours before my will power starts to buckle. And I do not yet have a speed dial booty call level of power. Combination of not being used to that "fiery" feeling and a nasty long term porn addiction. Especially annoying when I give in and then can't get properly hard for days, includi… | /r/askTRP | 26/09/17 07:42 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with too much available dickYes, TRP is full of nothing but jaded neckbeards who never get laid. It's true. You caught us. So why are you worried? Hmm.. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/17 06:09 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with too much available dickHyperbole followed by ad hominen with zero new information. Ego invested much in that opinion of yours? Have fun getting cucked with those girls who "aren't like that" | /r/askTRP | 26/09/17 06:02 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with too much available dickWomen do think about it differently, that is true. But you are kidding yourself if you think girls on Tinder are the "exceptions" and Less Slutty Girls(tm) are more normal. AWALT Wanna see some shit go open a Seeking Arrangements acct. Lol. 18 & 19 year old girls dtf strangers for cash. And yes, these are the same chicks in your classroom with boyfriends living normal lives. Tech has just made it easy to hide. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/17 05:25 PM |
| 5 | How to hold sexual energy without losing my mind?Try me | /r/askTRP | 26/09/17 05:11 PM |
| 9 | How to hold sexual energy without losing my mind?Figured this would be the best answer. I do meditate. But the "ready to hatefuck anything with a pulse" feeling is literally something I don't think I have ever felt in full effect before now. I will get used to it with time | /r/askTRP | 26/09/17 05:09 PM |
| 6 | How to hold sexual energy without losing my mind?Thanks. Noporn is the priority but nofap is a bonus goal. Ideally I would be in such a position that whenever I wanted to fuck I'd have people for that. May not apply to everyone but for me at least when I fap I sort of "lose my powers". The opposite is true if I orgasm with a female. After nutting in real sex it feels the same as if I had abstained for 3-5 days. I can only imagine the energy/confidence I would have if masterbation and porn disappeared from my life, to be replaced with only real… | /r/askTRP | 26/09/17 05:07 PM |
| 7 | How do i stop looking young?The answer here. I am 28 but if I shaved and acted the part I could walk into any high school and not look out of place. I will never have that "hairy masculine" alpha vibe, but that's ok. Because i lift hard and my young cleancut ripped vibe makes plenty of tingles. Hairless body, no tats, no piercings. Like anything else some girls will think 'boring' but just as many are fucking thrilled by it. I let my body stand on it's own without any "extras". And I have noticed the advantage with younger… | /r/askTRP | 26/09/17 02:55 PM |
| 28 | [FR] How I Accidentally Cucked My Best FriendComment more valuable than the OP. This is the way of the world. Dog eat dog. Your "real friends" will share an understanding of acceptable behavior. But 99% of the Bros/pals you hang with would gnaw on your bones before going hungry. I remind myself of this by saying that the world is less civilized than we like to think it is. That sentence scares alot of people when I talk about it too. Just goes to show you the softness of most people. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/17 01:43 PM |
| 4 | "The Female of the Species", another gem from Rudyard Kipling (who wrote the poem "IF")I actually discouraged my ex getting on BC for this reason. Tapping into a woman's raw, primal nature during her ovulatory cycle is a beautiful thing. Likewise the threat of your sperm actually doing something. Don't have any science to back it up but I swear by busting a raw nut inside a girl. Changes their whole attitude about you. Like sure, escort her under armed guard to the pharmacy for planned B and don't use it too often.. but damnnn if they don't go crazy for that dick after you do that | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/17 11:04 PM |
| 10 | Rent: Alone in apartment or house with friendsLive alone, especially if you never have before. Critical step to becoming your own man. Last year I lived in a house with 7 people. Party pad. Infinite drama. Threw some good parties, but I am literally not on speaking terms with any of those people save 1. One chick ran over my dog, after letting him out of his cage without my permission. Another failed to pay rent. Another constantly stole food. Disrespect of people's working/sleep schedules. The list goes on. In short? Whatever social benefi… | /r/askTRP | 25/09/17 10:54 PM |
| 1 | What can I do about my shitty sleep?An hour before bed stay away from screens and dim down most lights. No caffeine obv. No nicotine either. The best advice tho is to be an active person and make sure you get physically active each day so that your body is actually tired at the end. Take melatonin as you get into bed or 15 minutes before. In my experience this will send your ass to sleep very easily but you might have to take more if you wake up. Some people also benefit from white noise. | /r/askTRP | 25/09/17 01:56 PM |
| 2 | I used to not have to work hard at all to meet friends, but now it feel like I do. What gives?Cold approach is similar for friends or girls - poor returns. I've noticed this is less about you, the approacher, and more about the recipient being very closed off to anyone they don't have a "reason" to interact with. It skeeves most people out so unless you run into a very confident, outgoing person they are likely to shut you down. Cold approach is still great practice for social freedom. Do it as a habit to build the muscle, wherever and whenever you can, regardless of the yields. It will … | /r/askTRP | 25/09/17 12:11 AM |
| 2 | I used to not have to work hard at all to meet friends, but now it feel like I do. What gives?Welcome to the real world. Your previous successes were likely based on HS + College where endless buffets of friends and girls were basically thrown at your face for free. New friends and social circles out in adult land are built by mutual interests and Mere Exposure Effect. Mutual interests should be self explanitory. Go muddin' with your redneck friends. Go partying with your bro friends. Go play boardgames and D&D with your nerd friends. Sometimes if the connection is solid these people wil… | /r/askTRP | 24/09/17 11:43 PM |
| 1 | How to take notes while reading?I prefer making flashcards of important sections. They have just enough space to repeat a few sentences and describe the jist of an important topic. Bonus: Later on you can quiz/memorize the flash cards. Do that enough and it will always be at your beck and call. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/17 11:38 PM |
| 19 | I just found out that im craving for external acceptance. I want to quit this bullshit.That craving for status is normal to an extent. Healthy, even. But you need to put that shit in check and have a balanced attitude. There is no easy answer because essentially your question is "how do I go from thinking like a beta to thinking like an alpha". It has alot of variables. Some of the mechanics you should already know. Work hard for yourself. Stay clean, organized, eat healthy, exercise, get outside, spend time both alone and socializing, wake up early, get good sleep Ask yourself no… | /r/askTRP | 21/09/17 04:03 PM |
| 3 | How do I lengthen my attention span?Meditate | /r/askTRP | 21/09/17 03:56 PM |
| 3 | I don't take action because of being unsure of my own SMVAnd even worse, sometimes I hesitate to make a move or initiate an interaction with a girl because I keep thinking in my mind that will this be what an alpha/chad do? Or is it the right thing to do? The short and true answer is don't be a pussy. The longer and still true answer is that this stuff gets easier with time. On your first 10 approaches, you are going to be stuck in your head as described. On your first 10 plates / girlfriends, you are going to be stuck in your head as described. After… | /r/askTRP | 21/09/17 03:50 PM |
| 3 | Chicks baiting for complimentsWhy is water wet? Validation from women and attractive men is second only to oxygen. And if they were forced to choose, they'd choose validation. Now the question is why they are baiting you. Are you a girlfriend there to share feelz and help her feel pretty? Or is she twirling her hair, grinning, trying to get you to notice how cute her skirt is? Tease, pressure flip, give yourself a compliment instead, ignore them, etc. etc. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/17 03:45 PM |
| 1 | September 15 - Weekly Improvement & Progress ThreadDoing much better with porn. As in for the first time in about 15 years I think I know what it feels like to not be a passive wanker. It's a tough feeling to describe. Going out I know feel "fuller".. and I don't just mean my balls. Confidence, presence, all of it. I also pulled fresh hot vag directly in front of my cheating ex-gf at a party last weekend. Had no idea she'd be there because I have her blocked on everything. Laughed all the way home after that one Making solid gains in the gym. Tr… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/17 03:42 PM |
| 5 | How do you pretend you are not hungry when starving?Do you fiend over food when you get hungry? Do you run up to perfect strangers, clutching at their clothing, licking your lips, asking for any food they can spare? No. You have an abundance mentality about food. Even if the next meal is an hour or two away, you KNOW, for a FACT, that you will eventually be able to eat. So you work towards getting food, but you aren't desperate or torn up about it. Same deal for sex. And it really is a mental hurdle, not a physical one. Develop "fuck faith frame"… | /r/askTRP | 16/09/17 03:36 PM |
| 3 | How to get into the "in" group?Can you expand on this or point to some good resources? So far my best results are coming from books, and learning better conversational skills. Making people feel good, comfortable and being fun is definitely a value-added trait. But there must be much more. "Specializing", finding a "niche", bringing "that thing" to the table.. would be much easier to learn to do if some good examples were made. Even when I was throwing successful parties I did not feel like I was doing a great job of reaping … | /r/askTRP | 16/09/17 03:30 PM |
| 1 | I'm going to die soon. Why have a life with *minimal* luxury, leisure and rest/comfort?How can I confirm that this is the case? Try it. This was my point in saying no one can tell you which path to take. That choice is for you - and you alone. Is it obvious to you? Very clear. From birth to age 26 I was path 1. Lazy, efficient, smart, hedonist. I minimized work and maximized pleasure. From 26 on.. opposite. And, as promised, my life got immensely better. Pleasure peaks got higher. Ability to enjoy pleasurable activities is enhanced by contrast with work. Work itself enhanced in ma… | /r/askTRP | 14/09/17 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Ok I know this has been asked a lot but I can't get it up I know it's nerves and probably porn induced ed, but is there I way I can just use some brain power and make this happen tonight?Long term solutions covered by other comments. Short term use something like ExTenze or Viagra. ExTenze can be bought OTC at your local pharmacy. Pills work great. The shots are very meh and also tore up my stomach. I'm currently using ExTenze as my go to safety net while cutting out porn. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/17 02:34 PM |
| 2 | I'm going to die soon. Why have a life with *minimal* luxury, leisure and rest/comfort?Your question at it's core is about nihilism and hedonism. The equation goes, why do any work at all other than the minimum required to secure my pleasure-goals? This is an operative and functional way to get through life. It also puts you on the defensive - in a position of constantly qualifying for your pleasure targets, doing tedious work to achieve them, and only enjoying yourself when you are 'relaxing'. It is also quite frequently fragile, since you only do the minimum required, and is the… | /r/askTRP | 14/09/17 12:27 PM |
| 5 | Meet up with an ex?this x9000 | /r/askTRP | 12/09/17 05:33 PM |
| 19 | Have you ever just wanted to delete every person from your life to start fresh?Reboots are a priceless part of becoming a man. Some people call that a walkabout, or a rite of passage. Fact is people who already know you are usually very reluctant to update their view of you. If you are constantly making new connects great it shouldn't matter much. If you are a little bit less of the social butterfly, those old connections and their out-dated version of you can be detrimental to your progress. Whether you care what they think or not, what they think has an impact on your st… | /r/askTRP | 12/09/17 12:39 PM |
| 4 | TRP game is basically adopting the female sexual strategyThis gives girls waaayyy too much credit. Hinging on your definition of consent, most of them will just 'go with it'. That is exactly what push, pull, dread, passing shit tests and crushing LMR teaches you to do. In the hotseat it feels pretty much like brainwashing. Yes she consents.. because you told her to. Is that maybe what she wants all along? Sure. Did she maybe show up at that party having zero intentions of hooking up, but oops!! her panties just fell off by themselves after she slipped… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/17 12:34 PM |
| 3 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread September 11If Conor McGregor sat down in a wheelchair to never get up again, and lost his fame overnight, his girlfriend would disappear so fucking fast. If he does anything other than maintain or improve his existing status she will lose attraction to some degree. Maybe she stays, maybe they work through it. A has been is better than a never-been. But it will change. The girlfriends of your starving artists are there because they ARE starving artists. Not their potential for being rich or famous. That is … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/17 12:23 PM |
| 2 | Is it even worth following TRP strategy if you have a small penis?I would imagine guys with other physical issues they can't necessarily fix would have similar issues once they accept the ultimate superficiality of women as a whole. This is true, but depends how you look at it. Are you a positive person or a negative person? My dick is average. I have good facial aesthetics, and I'm not short. Not tall either. I am however very very skinny from my bone structure. I've worked hard to put muscle on and I look good at 170, still going for more. But there are lite… | /r/askTRP | 11/09/17 10:23 PM |
| 3 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread September 11Essentially dread / negging. I read in a book (The Rational Male?) about a different kind of Selective Honesty. Basically the assertion is that Lies or Honesty are just two ways of talking. Like GameTalk or StraightTalk, they are languages we use to achieve a certain goal. Sometimes it is actually better for your goals to be honest than to lie. Sometimes it is better to lie. One is not inherently more powerful than the other. Stupid, simple, factless ideas have mobilized armies and toppled natio… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/17 10:18 PM |
| 26 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread September 11The 'measure of a man' would be his delta quotient. This is his ability to adapt, improvise, learn, change and grow in a given measurement of time. The tip of the spear. Regardless of their starting SMV in life or their peak / final SMVs, men with a high delta quotient will skyrocket from their origins like the IPO of Facebook. They tackle novel challenges with confidence, skill and emotional resilience, even in the face of failure. If you destroy them they will simply rebuild themselves, and li… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/17 10:08 PM |
| 12 | Is it even worth following TRP strategy if you have a small penis?Good thing you came here cuz your frame is jacked af. I'll address your main question first and then add some thoughts. while not being particularly large? Unless you are under 4 inchs or pencil thin this does not matter.. unless you are busy obsessing over it. There are a few things to try. One, meditate. Learn to give less fucks. Two, read Sex God Method. Turning a girl on and bringing her to orgasm is 80% psychological, 20% physical. Three, if you really want to, try jelqing, bathmate, or str… | /r/askTRP | 11/09/17 09:45 PM |
| 6 | Why meditating is heavily advocated on this subreddit?Meditation is lifting for the mind. DYEM bro? | /r/askTRP | 11/09/17 09:38 PM |
| 1 | How to handle coming across someone you hard nexted, in public?Same Night Lay | /r/askTRP | 11/09/17 09:36 PM |
| 3 | My experience with having a sugarbabeIt seems way better than escorts. Less pressure on time, less money, the girls are sluts but still not taking it nearly as much as real pros. The ad-hoc nature of it also leaves room for game and sexual tension, which is generally absent from escorts. My overall experience was way better even if we exclude the price. Major metro city, was expecting it to be way more but idk maybe she just liked the D she got. HB6 imo nice tight ass buttaface | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/17 09:34 PM |
| 2 | My experience with having a sugarbabeI'm 28 and look young, still in the early phases but +1 from SA so far. Seems very promising. Actually having alot of money seems.. negotiable. It's more about the appearance of having money. What a girl actually expects varies from girl to girl. The one I met only asked $100 (after the deed) for what was basically an instant effortless SNL that was not on any timetable. Felt exactly like a tinder hookup except way easier. Much better than a pro who is always watching the clock. Biggest problem … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/17 03:10 PM |
| 3 | My experience with having a sugarbabeSo talked to this chick from SA. She reads my profile where I put a blurb like yours.. don't be lazy message me. She messages first. Says she can help make my life more exciting. Dope. I felt like having some excitement that night. She's game. Swap numbers, text back and forth a bit. She ends up dropping plans to go see a movie with her friend. Comes over. Brings me weed. Netflix & chill. Had the cutest fucking outfit and boots on. No discussion of the arrangement at all until after the movie an… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/17 03:06 PM |
| 2 | How to handle coming across someone you hard nexted, in public?Ran into my ex at a house party Friday night. We saw eachother see eachother. After a few moments I left the room and went outside to smoke a cig. We both did the ignore/don't look at me dance. Worked well. Took shelter in some easy conversations, took ~15 minutes and a couple cigs but then I remembered my life actually got better after her, and I relaxed, began to legit enjoy the party again, etc. Ended up brushing past her in a hallway on my way through the kitchen. Already had a big smile on … | /r/askTRP | 11/09/17 02:20 PM |
| 6 | Potential LTR - but possible red flags?Sounds like you got your head screwed on. Listen AWALT. You were in some new relationship energy and lost sight of that until she reminded you. Keep your head straight. IMO always spin plates. Even if you have a GF, also have a sidepiece. But I don't know if I'd even blame a girl for "cheating" on an LDR. LDRs are not real. Girls have trouble making overt emotional statements like "hey this isn't working out because we aren't close enough to be in a relationship anymore". But they will usually c… | /r/askTRP | 11/09/17 02:06 PM |
| 13 | Potential LTR - but possible red flags?Trust your gut. All liars fuck up sooner or later - even the really good ones. I once caught a plate explaining how she'd had a threesome after she & I started hooking up.. even though she swore up and down she wasn't seeing anyone else at the time. Knowing what I know now, just keep your mouth shut. Plate her. The timeframe for vetting is more like 6-8 months anyways. If she is 99% on point throughout that time, you have the option of LTRing. The plate is already broken so it's up to you what y… | /r/askTRP | 11/09/17 01:27 PM |
| 2 | My experience with having a sugarbabeThis is about the same for a quality escort in my city (major metro USA). Even if it's $400 per meet.. as long as that is an evening instead of an hour, and we are talking an 18-23 yearold in college instead of a well used pro with 10000 dick stare.. worth | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/17 02:22 PM |
| 2 | My experience with having a sugarbabeProfile is legit for anyone wondering. Thanks dude! I signed up last night and am already in DMs with some fine cuties. Too early to see if it will work for me in my area and budget, but early signs are promising | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/17 02:05 PM |
| 17 | Student's friend left her number on my desk. To laugh it off or pursue?Document consent. Other than that.. fire away capn that hot young vag won't fuck itself | /r/askTRP | 08/09/17 03:19 AM |
| 3 | My experience with having a sugarbabeRequesting a follow-up post regarding your profile design and general game strategy when talking to girls on this website. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/17 01:20 AM |
| 19 | My experience with having a sugarbabeAlot of men up in this thread still attaching their value as men to whether and why women get with them. Hurr durr you are so insecure using money to get laid all my women jump on my dick becuz I have big biceps hurrr Good for you being past that, OP. At the end of the day it is all transactional. I'm young. I make alot of money compared to my peergroup. I refuse to show off my money in the 'dating game' because I don't want gold diggers lying to me. I still enjoy the hunt, and I'm open to love.… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/17 12:26 AM |
| 18 | men are increasingly undergoing vasectomy's to avoid having kidsI agree with this, but only to the extent that you fully disclose. I plan on getting VasalGel and not telling a fucking soul. Women want babies. It's that simple. Young women may not actually want to get pregnant RIGHT NOW.. but the idea is still crack to them. Blasting inside a girl with no condom is a fucking statement. It creates real, tangible physiological changes in both the male and female. Taking that a step further, actually knocking the bitch up and her popping out your kid produces ev… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/17 12:16 AM |
| 8 | men are increasingly undergoing vasectomy's to avoid having kidsExactly what I'm waiting for. I donate every year and tbh would not be above flying to / bribing my way into a clinical trial even if it's not inside the US. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/09/17 12:08 AM |
| 7 | Men - the most important post you'll read on Testosterone. Your levels are being systemically lowered with plastics. Science inside.Did you find her at CostCo or WholeFoods? | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/17 05:03 PM |
| 4 | [Urgent advice] LTR is gonna break up with me today.Your certainty in your own path forces her to question the validity of her own. Being calm, not crying, not fighting to keep her, etc. is a display of strength and confidence in yourself. When you really start to 'get it' you will realize that all females, betas and any weak person is like this. People follow strength. FYI I don't care if she shows up at your door wearing nothing but lipstick and high heels.. she should never be anything more than a plate beyond this point, and that only if she … | /r/askTRP | 07/09/17 03:22 PM |
| 1 | How much of a scum am i by doing this to a girl...How would that be different from any other girl? You sound like a scared little boy behind a keyboard | /r/askTRP | 07/09/17 03:06 PM |
| 3 | How much of a scum am i by doing this to a girl...I'm worried about repercussions Such as what? She gonna blast you to her other slutty friends about how you pumped and dumped? That would just be terrible for your reputation, you vile fuckboi Ask yourself how many guys this chick has casually burned in her life without feeling an ounce of guilt. I'd plow it and tell her she's fun and let's see where things go but let's keep it simple for now. Done right she will continue barking up your tree for something 'more serious' while gobbling your dick… | /r/askTRP | 07/09/17 03:19 AM |
| 1 | How to get out of a rutMoneyshot right here Dryspells, winning streaks.. that's all in your head. Same thing happens in gambling. Dude wins 9 hands in a row? Thinks Lady Luck is sucking on his cock that night. Bets everything on hand #10. Loses. But confidence matters, right? Even if it's just in your head. So instead of letting the world or the last hand decide how you feel, learn to control how you feel and see the big picture. Meditation helps. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/17 03:18 PM |
| 3 | An observation about online datingYou're only competing against every dude who happens to be in her life. True statement but you have failed to interpret it's meaning correctly. My only quibble: Women don't chase. Maybe they don't chase you. But Chad? They chase him and send him nudes from the work bathroom with their wedding ringed fingers jammed up their assholes. Bet on it. Every dude walking past her on the sidewalk, working at her job, going to her school, knowing her friends, showing up to any of the same parties, on any o… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/17 02:51 AM |
| 3 | An observation about online datingFucking this. For all the shit we talk about girls and their inflated standards, guys have problems with big egos as well. Myself included. Why would I ever fuck a girl whose not as hot as the hottie I fucked last month? Pussy is pussy and a nice easy fuck with a slut whose just grateful to taste your dick can go a long way | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/17 02:46 AM |
| 17 | I got cheated on. Don't be like me.More girls are like this than most men are comfortable believing. Even the guys here on TRP. I walk around these days seeing some BP fucks with hot girlfriends.. sometimes I feel a bit like Cipher. They might be ignorant fucks, but they are temporarily happy in their ignorance. I'm not yet fully into the acceptance phase so I still have some anger and hesitation.. I think.. what if I could forget? It would make talking to girls easier if I didn't see the demon behind their eyes. But then I remem… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/17 02:22 AM |
| 3 | What has been the most influential book you've read that has bettered you as a man?Zen in the Art of Archery A short readable 100 pages that forever improved the way I look at winning/losing, abundance mentality, outcome independence, and pursuing mastery. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/17 04:47 PM |
| 6 | How to handle relationship after first lay?Trying reading the sidebar or searching for the question. Very common | /r/askTRP | 31/08/17 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Am I bound to remain like thisI cannot phantom being with one person and not bang anyone. Has anyone felt like this on here? Is there anything I can fix in myself to get out of that struggle? Nothing is broken. Nothing to fix. If you have lingering feelings of doubt, it's the beta crying as you live redpill. Move along | /r/askTRP | 31/08/17 02:10 PM |
| 4 | Feeling like I've run out and burned out of date activities with my LTR after 6 months?Stop trying to win them over. Ironically, the less you try, the more they will be won | /r/askTRP | 31/08/17 02:01 PM |
| 3 | Desperate for help with approaching in bar/party environmentflirting with me and me back and forth for two nights, i do nothing about it. Third night i see her out Strike while the iron is hot. Never hesitate. A girl who is DTF that first night she meets you may be completely uninterested even just a day or two later. whats the best way to simply approach a girl, how do I converse to escalate to making out/at the very least get her number Try not to think about it in terms of the "best way". Just do it. Your objective is to grow a pair of balls and be ok… | /r/askTRP | 31/08/17 01:57 PM |
| 2 | Feeling too powerful... dark triadMastery is being able to change your state as you see fit Once you were nice. Now you are an imposing asshole. Be both, be neither, and have the ability to consciously choose when and why. That is state control But yes it's really weird. I've been a nice beta most of my life and it came as a surprise when I realized that people were reacting defensively / apprehensively to me sometimes because they felt threatened. Fucking excellent sign of progress though so fuck em | /r/askTRP | 31/08/17 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Friendly reminder to BLOCK ON EVERYTHING AFTER BREAKUPTerrible logic imo but you do you Moving to a new place and starting over is never a bad thing in general. Change is life. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/17 03:12 AM |
| 4 | Guys who are in their 50-60s. What is your life like?I have this one friend who I've seen operate in close quarters over the span of years. He is maybe 5'8", probably 230-250 of pudge on any given day and otherwise not pretty. At this point he is ~40. I actually had a conversation with him at one point when he was worried about getting older.. I pointed him directly to TRP and the male SMV curve. To this day he slays it. All the goddamn time. Frustrating sometimes because I'm taller, more muscular, more lean, better looking, etc.. and still don't … | /r/askTRP | 31/08/17 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Combat sports and braincellsAll sports have risk of injury. That's pretty much what you want too - you don't learn how to be tough by getting hit with pillows. I chose Brazilian Jiu Jitsu because most fights end up on the ground anyways and there is a much smaller risk of head trauma, fucked up teeth or cauliflower ear. Within two weeks I noticed a marked difference in my physical confidence / manspreading / feeling comfortable in my own skin even around bigger, stronger dudes.. yes they are stronger but now I have felt wh… | /r/askTRP | 31/08/17 02:34 AM |
| 5 | Friendly reminder to BLOCK ON EVERYTHING AFTER BREAKUPGood job. I ignored about a zillion warnings for my last LTR and predictably got burned. I did the blocking thing 100% though.. haven't seen or heard from the bitch since. She's still around somewhere but nowadays it's my friends giving me a heads up when she will be at such and such party because that bitch is so blocked I can't even see when she's going to shit | /r/askTRP | 31/08/17 02:31 AM |
| 7 | Fwb says she actually gets turned on when I am protective of her or (mate guard) is this a real thing?A female is overtly praising you for a certain behavior and using the only leverage she has to do it.. sex. "Omg thats so hot.." Manipulation doesn't get much more obvious than that. Watch what she does not what she says. Money down she continues to flirt with dudes in front of you. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/17 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Did you ever get over your first true heartbreak?I am traditional, yes. I still want to find love, but I will apply the TRP ways. Kill this with fire. You will waste years or decades trying to make the BluePill dream come true with RedPill knowledge. It won't happen because the BluePill dream is a lie. It always has been. It always will be. Stop trying to marry BP to RP. You are not the chosen one. Choose what you believe, and choose who you want to be. Half assing it and only believing the nice, convenient, feel good parts of TRP is a recipe … | /r/askTRP | 29/08/17 04:27 PM |
| 9 | How people treat you is a reflection on who you areAbsolutely. This pattern of thought is insidious because it poses as the "challenge". Surely all of these people will treat me better, with the respect I deserve, if I could only figure out how to be better or work harder.. but I'M A MAN'S MAN SO I WILL CONQUER IT ALL You might influence the people around you, but you will never control them. And they are far too busy with their own shit to spend all their time looking at you through a microscope | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/17 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Do you take notes while reading a book?Store bought physical index cards | /r/askTRP | 28/08/17 07:58 PM |
| 35 | The Redpill is messing with my headWhy do my eyes hurt? ~Neo .... because you've never used them before. ~Morpheus | /r/askTRP | 28/08/17 06:08 PM |
| 9 | "You're going to get tired of having sex with me if we have sex too often"Surprised at the lack of good advice here so far. You failed to provide context. So it depends... Did she seem worried when she said it? Looking away from you or down? Soft voice? This is a comfort test. She's worried that you will get bored and leave her. Make sweet monkey love to her and when you are balls deep in that pussy, remind her that your cock will always find its way home if she keeps it tight and ready for you. Or staring you in the eyes, snarky tone, an amused smile on her face? Cra… | /r/askTRP | 28/08/17 06:06 PM |
| 3 | Be the Man You Want To Be. Let the Pieces Fall Where They May.I literally had this question written down waiting for the day when I found a good answer to it. Nice | /r/TheRedPill | 28/08/17 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Do you take notes while reading a book?I build a deck of flash cards. I also build flashcards for anything that I derive from field experience or self-analysis. I've got quite alot of them now.. they are broken down into category. I review at least one category a week, or before going out, as needed. Then I fucking forget about them and don't worry about it in the field if I don't remember. Relaxing is key. It's either there as reflex or it's not. Been very helpful for me. Drilling like this makes it instinct instead of "whoops, what… | /r/askTRP | 28/08/17 01:40 PM |
| 10 | SextingGirls will send you nudes unsolicited when they are desperate for your attention, OR if they are trying to get your attention for the first time Asking for / commanding nudes can be fun but if the girl doesn't initiate this on her own why bother? I find this has a tendency to inflate their already fat egos ego too much to be worthwhile "The one who wants the other the least holds the most power" Her sending you nudes = you have power You asking for nudes = she has power | /r/askTRP | 28/08/17 02:44 AM |
| 4 | Dilemma between being no pressure and letting "GF" go out alone.The plate is already broken. She has already cheated. Live like this and you will not worry or be afraid. You can keep her to fuck if you want.. or send her away because you've already committed too much and her bad behavior would reflect poorly on you. She's not yours, it's just your turn. AWALT Welcome to the Real | /r/askTRP | 28/08/17 02:39 AM |
| 10 | How can I stop my sister from being a slut?Interesting hypothesis about pheromones and puberty. Source? | /r/askTRP | 27/08/17 06:00 PM |
| 3 | If you actually make it and hit your stride in your 30s, does loneliness await you given how much people around your age have fucked their lives up?Loneliness awaits those who fail to act. Mentors, alphas, proteges, women, random photographers who stop in the middle of what they are doing to shoot you instead There are friends everywhere. Life can be lonely at the top.. it's not every day you find a man or woman who can sit down and handle the sort of truth that we are so accustomed to speaking amongst ourselves. But they are out there. And you can be friends with people, regardless of them being superior or inferior to you. Asleep or enlig… | /r/askTRP | 27/08/17 12:56 AM |
| 9 | Okay, how the hell do people pull off kinky shit like pissing on girls?BDSM/Kink communities are like a cult. From the outside looking in all a female brain computes is "fun, different, new, hot" There are fresh recruits every year Never peed on a girl tho lol sounds like an ego trip | /r/askTRP | 26/08/17 07:20 AM |
| 5 | After discovering the pill I've gradually noticed a colossal influx of beta women-worshipping testosterone suppressing music, television & advertising. It's just fucking everywhere.have a way of 'mystifying' the character's success and therefore making him an object of distant worship instead of character-insertion In MadMen they set up Don Draper as a super successful alpha male, but never explain the roots of his success. Women magically approach him He was always married to hotblonde Betty He was always a bigshot in business and just got bigger The only thing they do somewhat show is him being a smooth talker / salesman, and constantly putting his peons back in their re… | /r/askTRP | 26/08/17 12:00 AM |
| 1 | After discovering the pill I've gradually noticed a colossal influx of beta women-worshipping testosterone suppressing music, television & advertising. It's just fucking everywhere.true but still fuck that I don't need that shit on replay in my head when I'm out trying to score | /r/askTRP | 25/08/17 11:51 PM |
| 3 | Dating market of US is fucked. I am in US market. Should I accept the inflated value of women set by the society or should I force my frame?I've only been outside the US a few times.. but I see the difference. If you choose to live in the US, what choice do you have but to force your frame? Big fish big pond. Learn to swim or gtfo I'm putting in the work and seeing success, but tbh my near term goals involve getting outside the US to travel and taste the rainbow. Every bro that's ever gone to Thailand comes back giving absolutely zero fucks about American women for months on end | /r/askTRP | 25/08/17 02:58 PM |
| 50 | After discovering the pill I've gradually noticed a colossal influx of beta women-worshipping testosterone suppressing music, television & advertising. It's just fucking everywhere.Most media is shit. Netflix is absolutely filled with cuck-perspective shows and movies. Even shows that have strong male figures (MadMen) have a way of 'mystifying' the character's success and therefor making him an object of distant worship instead of character-insertion. No, of course, they save the character-insertion and forced perspectives for beta male provider cucks.. the alphas are just out of reach and only come in to magically win the day and make the cucks feel uncomfortable Get outs… | /r/askTRP | 25/08/17 01:38 PM |
| 3 | Girls approach me more on NoFap?We underestimate our brains. Bluepill can be summed up as alot of bad wiring, bad habits, dopamine addictions, etc. Redpill is thus good wiring, good habits and a healthy reward circuit. The amount of your brain that is conscious, thinking and rational is much much smaller than the bulk which is instinctive, unconscious, primal. Think of the billions of years of evolution of the animal brain.. and only recently have we become "sentient". The books "The Power of Habit" and "The Brain that Changes… | /r/askTRP | 25/08/17 02:28 AM |
| 1 | First date after going on the red pill journey ( 8 months since i found out the sub) Mixed reactions. Help!Don't wait for permission to get laid. AkA "I'll date girls after I reach xyz goals".. this is usually an excuse new guys use to let themselves off the hook. You'll be waiting a long time with that attitude Get your shit done, but give yourself permission now. GL Hf | /r/askTRP | 24/08/17 10:46 PM |
| 2 | First date after going on the red pill journey ( 8 months since i found out the sub) Mixed reactions. Help!Resistance can be good and bad. If she acts like "don't fucking do that" and pushs you off hard.. lay off for a bit and try again later. If she keeps it up, she's playing games and you eject/hard next. A girl who is on a date with you / out with you knows where things are going. If she acts like "i'm going to make you wait" or "i'm oldschool" or "hehe not here.." you grin at her cute girlish ways and kiss her anyways then watch her melt. This same logic applies until you are balls deep in her pu… | /r/askTRP | 24/08/17 09:31 PM |
| 1 | "I'm gonna make you wait for that.. and enjoy it" (FR)Heard. Thanks again brother | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/17 09:55 PM |
| 2 | Cool Side Jobs and Hobbies?Animal shelter. Plenty of attractive girls (in the orientation at least). But it's the downtown metro facility so maybe that's why I also miss animals in general. First time in my life where I haven't had a dog or cat. I would probably cuddle my plates less if I had a dog rofl | /r/askTRP | 23/08/17 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Cool Side Jobs and Hobbies?Social sports like disc golf, cycling clubs Charities / volunteer orgs. I just went to an initial orientation and it was me, 1 other attractive guy, 2-3 unattractive dudes, and about 20 girls, many being quite fuckable. And that was just the current days intake I'm also in STEM and refuse to either act like or become a dead beat drugged out bad boy. Just not my thing | /r/askTRP | 23/08/17 06:02 PM |
| 8 | How I put myself in a great position to expand my Social CircleExcuses. I'm 28 with a full time career. I lift, I take BJJ, I go to clubs, bars and festivals, hang with friends, volunteer at an animal shelter.. and still have time to do all of the other shit I need to do with my life. Granted, no girlfriend, wife or kids atm | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/17 03:12 AM |
| 3 | "I'm gonna make you wait for that.. and enjoy it" (FR)And in your opinion is it worth a followup IE 2nd try? I usually will text twice anyways. Not sure what there is to lose. She was responsive & fast, fully explained why she couldn't come over.. and I dunno sometimes persistence does in fact pay off. "Fuck or walk" sometimes feels like having a sensitive ego. If my read is right she wants a little chase. Certainly felt that way Saturday night. So I'm thinking text again Sunday or early next week.. after that though full next | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/17 03:00 AM |
| 4 | Mentally Recovering From Being An OmegaMeditate. Lift. And most of all, make sure you are being bold and living in the present. Rejection is better than regret. This applies to friends and social circle game just as much as women. Living in fear, or even allowing fear to win for a single moment, will catapult those dark thoughts from your past right back to the top of the pile. That's your baggage likely forever. Speaking from my experience thus far, it does not go away. But it does get better. "I ask not for a lighter burden, only b… | /r/askTRP | 23/08/17 01:27 AM |
| 2 | "I'm gonna make you wait for that.. and enjoy it" (FR)And unfortunately you were correct. Txt her a bit ago and got a quick response but noncompliance to hang She kept the conversation going so I doubled down.. telling her to do her shit tomorrow and come over cuz I wanna smoke a J in the hot tub She's like nope gonna stick with what I had planned I don't even see a follow-up attempt on that one. Oh well, maybe next time I'll remember to bite when i got the damn girl where I want her | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/17 09:52 PM |
| 3 | Why do girls from adolescent years not find one attractive after years of improvement?People are reluctant to change their first impressions of you. This is one part lazy and one part crab-in-bucket mentality. They don't care enough to notice your changes and/or if they do it might make them feel shitty for not making progress themselves Focus your energies and newfound powers on people who don't use outdated data. If you are extremely lucky, find people who are real af and can see your progress for what it is, support you, and enjoy the new you | /r/askTRP | 22/08/17 04:28 PM |
| 1 | How does one truly be happy alone? I feel like I have no close friends and am getting depressed.You decide to accept yourself. Sounds too simple to be true.. but that's the core of it. After deciding to accept yourself and have a positive outlook, put in the work. You can't just decide to be positive and then go play video games and wank. Well you could but.. you've seen TRP so you'll never be happy that way Also meditate. Hard Work + Positive Attitude + Time = Progress Progress = Hope, Confidence, Abundance, Patience, etc. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/17 04:24 PM |
| 3 | I can't reconcile having sexually submissive desires and becoming Redpill. Anyone here has?Yes. I consider myself a top heavy switch. In BDSM/kink community that means I usually top.. because most girls like that and I do too Every now and then though there will be a girl who makes me want to just submit. Worship her body. Massage her feet. Be told what to do and how. Most girls are pretty bad at this but some are amazing. It makes for a good overall energy because I'm dominant but don't get pissy if she "wins".. its a bit like tug of war. Whoever is actually more alpha and sexually e… | /r/askTRP | 22/08/17 02:50 PM |
| 12 | Found out my unicorn will always be an alpha widow... The Pill HURTSThis. Also @OP: reread the sidebar. Women are physically incapable of loving you the way you idealize should be possible. Sorry dude Good luck, have fun | /r/askTRP | 22/08/17 12:43 PM |
| 5 | I can't reconcile having sexually submissive desires and becoming Redpill. Anyone here has?I share some submissive desires in certain contexts. Really only for nova-hot dominatrix type women who would be "out of my league". Stop jerking it to porn. Cut out all porn. Come back in 6 months and reevaluate your sexual proclivities. If it's still there, cool. Find a partner who is game for being top in the bedroom but otherwise the relationship is normal out in the real world. They exist. Get on FetLife. Or have normal relationships with most girls, and then pay for a dominatrix profession… | /r/askTRP | 22/08/17 12:34 PM |
| 6 | I cheated. Now it's getting serious. What to do?The Don Draper approach. Caught red handed.. deny deny deny. It does not exist. It never happened. And NEVER apologize for something you didn't do | /r/askTRP | 22/08/17 12:27 PM |
| 1 | "I'm gonna make you wait for that.. and enjoy it" (FR)You're on the right path. If anything, you sound alot like me and are doing most things right.. last thing you need is that killer instinct. Tongue in her mouth? Try to lead her out the club. Got her out the club? Push to close. Do not hesitate. Do not tell yourself 'I can fuck her later'. CLOSE. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/17 12:23 PM |
| 2 | "I'm gonna make you wait for that.. and enjoy it" (FR)Look at you trying to hold my hand. This is our first date hanging out, we need to be friends first I'm learning to love obvious shit tests like these. I would have pulled close with a grin like "oh yeah? Says who?" Kiss. It's not smooth. It doesnt need to be. What you say doesn't matter. Its what you do - shit test? Escalate, A&A, pressure flip, ignore, etc. Grab your balls and take a leap of faith Maybe she laughs you off. Maybe she sucks your dick. Btw read more on kino. Good shit is touching… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/17 03:01 AM |
| 8 | Question about the 20/80 ruleAttractive women will fuck betas for utility. So its more like the top 20% get about 80% of the total volume of sex, and especially the good raunchy pornstar sex. Betas get laid but also get played and the sex they have is not as good | /r/askTRP | 21/08/17 09:45 PM |
| 2 | "I'm gonna make you wait for that.. and enjoy it" (FR)Lol I was high af when I wrote the OP I know she was waiting for more. I did exactly what I wanted to. I crushed her LMR and left an emotional impact - that's all I wanted to do before I went home. In hindsight fucking her in her car in the parking lot SNL would have been way more emotional impact.. but w/E I wasnt worried about it Abundanced myself out of a potential lay maybe But if her behavior was any indication shell be there waiting for my follow-up. Wish me luck | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/17 04:27 PM |
| 1 | "I'm gonna make you wait for that.. and enjoy it" (FR)I appreciate the counter-opinion. In hindsight I do wish I had escalated, fingerbanged, BJ, fuck, whatever. She waa probably down. If I don't get her on the follow-up I'll feel a little regret. BUT the big win was proving to myself I can go out and achieve all of that. I carried that football to the goal line and then decided not to walk across it.. but getting there is the hard part and now no one can ever fucking tell me I can't do it again. Including myself. The real win is having that confid… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/17 04:22 PM |
| 1 | "I'm gonna make you wait for that.. and enjoy it" (FR)Heard. I dunno why I got up out that car coulda probably done all kinda of terrible things to that girl. Ah well. Now I know | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/17 04:18 PM |
| 4 | Is TRP's goal to make a man into a misanthrope that gets laid, makes money, but has no friends or social acquaintances? Is this the ideal life for your 30s that TRP preaches about?Get better goals. Those can stay on your list, but women should never be at the top. Money is also arguably over-rated past a certain point. Status is so fragile as to be moot, what you should prefer is power, as power inherently begets status. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/17 04:02 AM |
| 3 | "I'm gonna make you wait for that.. and enjoy it" (FR)Heard. I mean she remembered my name and approached me after 3 months of nothing. What's three days? Shoulda cloooooosed haha I'll damn sure remember for next time tho Thanks for the tips dude. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/17 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Showing attraction and giving a fuck: need an explanation on thisYes, alot of girls will do exactly this just to pull your strings. It's a balancing act. You have to express your interest, but do so confidently and without attachment to the outcome. When giving her attention, you command something in return.. IE escalation, logistics, sexual vibes. Notice I said command.. not demand. You lead her to what you want, and if she does not follow, you turn your attentions elsewhere. This becomes easier when you have a life filled with things worth paying attention … | /r/askTRP | 20/08/17 11:03 PM |
| 3 | "I'm gonna make you wait for that.. and enjoy it" (FR)She doesn't have my number yet, she put it in my phone and I didn't think to call her then. I'm out of town for the eclipse. So thinking early next week. What is C&F.. chill n fuck? Was just gonna hit her back on Tues or something and tell her to come over and smoke | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/17 08:04 PM |
| 4 | "I'm gonna make you wait for that.. and enjoy it" (FR)You might be right. I'm now regretting the fact I did not push for a close. From my perspective it was about the 'progress'.. being willing to go and do all of that and own it. Getting laid was secondary to 'growing balls'. But I flirted, isolated and escalated this girl only to.. dip and not close. I can see that being a break. Any advice on how to follow up with her? Lesson learned either way I guess | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/17 05:38 PM |
| 1 | "I'm gonna make you wait for that.. and enjoy it" (FR)28 with a young look, just now seeing good gains in the gym | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/17 05:12 PM |
| 7 | "I'm gonna make you wait for that.. and enjoy it" (FR)I feel you. But I came away from the car asking myself "did I go too far". Now I'm asking myself, "did I go far enough?" Actually fuck it. I think ya'll are right. There is no "A for effort" in this game. It was a first time experience for me pushing like that, but next time I should keep pushing until I'm balls deep. Either way I bounced way outside my comfort zone and came away winning, regardless if I fuck her or not. I had already won at the exact moment I had the balls to go for it and be c… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/17 04:52 PM |
| 15 | "I'm gonna make you wait for that.. and enjoy it" (FR)Should I save my FR's for the humblebrag easy lays? Like the tinder chick who gobbled my dick 5 minutes after explaining how she had to leave to go pick up her boyfriend from the airport? What I did there was.. swipe right. Instead I wrote about one that demonstrates personal progress based on reliable mechanics. The lay is not the point. It's the attitude. If you don't get that then I can't help you | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/17 04:38 PM |
| 5 | Saw my ex with her new boyfirend.Your presence obviously is very important to both of them. Grin and wink at her next time. Blow him a kiss. Or just roll your eyes and move along (my favorite). | /r/askTRP | 19/08/17 07:32 PM |
| 10 | Saw my ex with her new boyfirend.My first gf had a "friend" from HS that she would occasionally hang out with. Sometimes with me, sometimes without me. Was super awkward whenever we were all 3 hanging out because he made it plain he was trying to bang her. I as too young then to know any better. When we broke up I ran into him at a Kohl's with a new girl on my arm. He came out of literally nowhere xalling me a douchebag, talking about how he was there to buy my ex a ring, etc. I was so surprised I literally did not react. I jus… | /r/askTRP | 19/08/17 06:26 PM |
| 2 | I got her, so what's next?Your frame is already fucked and you need to course-correct asap. Get plate #2. Or #3. Read black dragon blog on nonmonogamy You think you gonna keep a 22yrold loyal with yo dick? Haha shes got 8+ years of free reign. Don't chase that shit. The less you chase the more she'll crave. Game other girls and have other plates. Yesterday | /r/askTRP | 18/08/17 04:41 AM |
| 2 | Girl doesn't let me pick her up at her house?!Who cares? | /r/askTRP | 18/08/17 04:38 AM |
| 6 | Why do many of us turn to self-pity in times of difficulty rather than facing our issues and remaining hopeful? Is it easier to just live in self pity? Or does it simply feel good to be self loathing?Shitty thoughts are normal. Thoughts come and go. They are meaningless until you give them meaning. Everyone has shitty thoughts. If you have shitty days, weeks, months, and years... see below Alan Watts, Life is Not a Journey and this one https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WldsRzmu4zs You just fucking decide. You wake up in the morning and choose to believe.. today I will work hard, kick ass and enjoy life. Nobody can tell you when it's ok to feel like that. There is no amount of stuff you can hav… | /r/askTRP | 17/08/17 08:28 PM |
| 2 | Online "proven" lifting program vs Gym PT ?Lift, Eat, Sleep, repeat Change your program every 2-3 months. Over time and as you tune in to your own body, you will be able to add in accessory exercises or modify routines as needed. As long as you lift heavy, eat right, and get good sleep.. doesn't really matter what the routine is. There are many good ones. Also watch out for alcohol, cigarettes and other drugs. A little is ok.. maybe. Too much and you kill your gains. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/17 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Post hookup help"if you are uncomfortable u can tell me" Never say this to a girl. Shows a severe lack of confidence on your part. That's why she bailed early. The simple and amazing truth about girls.. if you are comfortable with what's going on, so is she. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/17 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Where to look when there is a silence in conversation?Looking away is a signal of disinterest. Quick way to kill a conversation. What you want to do is allow the silence, while expressing interest with your body language.. eye contact.. etc. Wait for them to help carry the conversation. If they aren't autistic as fuck they will usually do so. Other workable techniques are directing their attention somewhere.. damn you see that girl? What teams are playing on TV? Etc. But also, 1:1 you'll tend to run out of things to talk about with dudes unless you… | /r/askTRP | 17/08/17 02:02 AM |
| 1 | On Initiating Social shit vs. being invited, how to expand and what to expectAppreciated. First time I've seen Dunbar's number that is interesting. Problem right now is I have the energy / confidence to go out and socialize.. make tons of those initial connections.. vibe well etc.. but nothing behind that. then it suddenly takes off and your social networks will start expanding almost by themselves. Nope. if you have good social skills and positive energy, people are generally pretty welcoming of a possible cool new friends This works for me and people react as described… | /r/askTRP | 17/08/17 01:53 AM |
| 1 | On Initiating Social shit vs. being invited, how to expand and what to expectGood shit. This explains why I'm so weak rn. I dont have even half of the distribution and frequency you have. Most of my friends are unforced. We are friends due to mutual interests and sharing the 'scene'. Unfortunately at this time that is my one and only social group based around 1 hobby/festival. I know I could quickly build value by leading events.. especially ones with girls. But it's a bit of a chicken and egg problem. I can have a solid idea, try to pull people in on it, and no one bite… | /r/askTRP | 16/08/17 05:14 PM |
| 1 | On Initiating Social shit vs. being invited, how to expand and what to expectDangerous thinking. It's easy to ignore your problems when you live in a bubble. Happiness is more complex than just deciding to be happy. Having good friends ans a healthy social life go a long, long way. Humans are social animals after all. We (esp. men) CAN survive in isolation.. but nature did not intend that to last for long periods of time. Ans gaming your grocery cashier doesn't count | /r/askTRP | 16/08/17 02:00 PM |
| 2 | On Initiating Social shit vs. being invited, how to expand and what to expectI became closer with the core people in the group AKA game the alphas. This actually makes tons of sense and may be why I'm experiencing a valley/decline. I've been more and more competitive for that lead spot while forgetting to leave space for other alphas and integrate into existing hierarchies. So obviously.. I'm treated as an outsider / try hard / threat. Good stuff | /r/askTRP | 16/08/17 01:42 PM |
| 2 | On Initiating Social shit vs. being invited, how to expand and what to expectMost useful reply. So: Build groups around hobbies and mutual activities Leaders lead, followers follow. I suspected this would be one possible answer to my 'why dont I get invited' question Strive to escalate/deepen the friendship by doing more than just (mutual activity) or (drink party). The more varied the interaction the deeper the relationship is likely to become. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/17 01:36 PM |
| 2 | On Initiating Social shit vs. being invited, how to expand and what to expectK. Guess I'll take a break from askTRP and figure it out for myself | /r/askTRP | 16/08/17 03:31 AM |
| 1 | First Date Escalation? How far should one go?Good question. It's never rape if you're hot Dead serious. But it's also very easy to read between the lines.. remember people communicate through alot more than just the words they say. The "PC" answer to your question is that no.. I did not obtain verbal enthusiastic consent. In fact, her verbal statement was "nooo I said I don't wanna fuck" However, tied up, on my bed, being told what to do.. she did not protest past that first little 'test'. I did things to her, she groaned, she got wet, she… | /r/askTRP | 14/08/17 09:47 PM |
| 8 | I blew it...I told her my number.Genie's out of the bottle on that one, but don't stress mate. She might keep fucking you or might not, whatevs There are more fish in the sea. This stuff will happen. You will kick yourself even more the next time you get asked and still let it slip.. but I knew better! This comes with time and experience. Also try to teach yourself to pause and think about the question before answering. Why is she asking the question? Etc. This applies to anyone asking any question. We sometimes answer question… | /r/askTRP | 14/08/17 06:07 PM |
| 2 | First Date Escalation? How far should one go?here's only one girl in my rotation i know right now with LTR potential Scarcity. Oneitis. Pedestal (already). You are in no place for an LTR. but at the same time i don't want to risk slow playing and having her lose interest Wrong mindset. You are afraid of losing her interest? She should be afraid of losing your interest. Remember, play the numbers game. Invest your time horizontally into another 100 girls.. instead of worrying so much about investing your time vertically into "this one speci… | /r/askTRP | 14/08/17 06:02 PM |
| 3 | First Date Escalation? How far should one go?Various schools of thought out there on this one. Some say keep the first date short, dip out even if you have nothing else going on, let her hamster spin. I think this is stupid because you are basically trying to 'win her over' when she has already been won over.. she's there, that means she's interested, stop trying to play games. Some say escalate as far as you can until you hit a hard stop. Even if she tells you no.. deescalate, fuck around, hang out, and try again once or twice before taki… | /r/askTRP | 14/08/17 05:49 PM |
| 5 | Advantages and disadvantages of sharing a house vs. having my own apartmentI was facing the same choice 4 months ago. Now happily living solo in my own apt for the first time in my life (also 28). It feels like a rite of passage. Massively reduces the noise in your life and you realize in a visceral way that nothing happens unless you decide to make it happen. You get less passive social activity but the flipside is you then only hang out when you actually want to, not because your bros brought people home and you'd rather be reading/sleeping/working. I find this impro… | /r/askTRP | 14/08/17 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Utilizing Monk Mode effectivelyThis. As a former/current internet addict.. so many of our problems as men comes from the fact that we don't spend our time out in the real world. The more time you spend in the real world OP, the happier and more grounded you will be. | /r/askTRP | 14/08/17 04:28 PM |
| 18 | I'm still insecure after being cheated onLift, meditate. Have things in life more important than women. The fact is only you can decide when you will feel better about this. Your trust was betrayed and the biggest problem with that is that now you are uncertain about yourself - your own ability to judge character and set boundaries. Its not about them. Its about you. Good news is over time, and with TRP on your side, you will learn to trust your judgment again. And realize that people are people and there is always some risk of people … | /r/askTRP | 14/08/17 03:26 PM |
| 1 | FR: Lied about my age. It worked. Advice going forward.This sounds good. I could walk into a highschool or college right now and fit just fine, 28. Likely to use this going forward | /r/askTRP | 14/08/17 03:22 PM |
| 4 | Thoughts on no fap?Masterbation is natural and healthy. Even monkeys do it. Porn is what's unhealthy. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/17 08:17 PM |
| 1 | What other reasons you have for lifting?I lifted to heal my back. I was weak and hunched over working IT all day and had chronic back pain.. until I built my core and back. All better now. It's like I cured a disease with weightlifting. Increased testosterone/energy/positive mood. Goes hand in hand with better diet, sleep hygiene, and lack of toxins. Look good, feel good, fuck bitches, have fun Most recent addition.. lift to build strength for Jiu Jitsu. It's a feedback system. I go in to Jiu Jitsu a little stronger every day, and win… | /r/askTRP | 11/08/17 03:22 PM |
| 2 | All Porn is cuckold pornIt works for me. Like I said, my brain doesn't care that I paid for it. There's no "chase" is the big thing, no anticipation, no doubt, no ego boost. But it is still fun. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/17 11:10 PM |
| 29 | All Porn is cuckold pornIt's more than that. I pulled this from "As You Are" Nick Sparks and it made alot of fucking sense. Paraphrasing: "In order to get sexual like a man, you need to FEEL it. If you are trying to get sexual but you don't feel aroused or sexual, it's going to come off as bullshit, fake, and awkward. To project an authentic sexual vibe you must genuinely FEEL sexual, turned on, aroused." But the problem is if you are a deathgripping AFC who just wanked his meat 19 times to black gay tranny midget snuf… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/17 08:22 PM |
| 12 | All Porn is cuckold pornTurn this around and fuck a hooker. It's been my go-to cheat code against porn. Your higher mind thinks "I had to pay her for sex". Your reptilian brain just sees, smells, feels, and dominates a nice, hot wet piece of ass that shows up on an hours notice and disappears forever unless you want more. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/17 08:16 PM |
| 8 | What about just avoiding THOTs?You will absolutely lose a part of yourself. The part that believes you are the Chosen One, that she is a Special Unicorn, and that you two can beat the odds and not end up with your marriage being a punchline. That part will die forever. And then you'll be red as fuck and dealing with women on your own terms. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/17 02:23 AM |
| 42 | Friend goes on a large group trip overseas, watches as 90% of the girls cheat on their boyfriendsGirls aren't stupid. When you threaten her with 'consequences', remember that she does not speak in the same language as you. All you are doing is telling her what she needs to lie about. This is why the strategy is to let them do whatever the fuck they want - WHICH THEY WILL DO REGARDLESS - and make your decisions based on her unfiltered behavior. Paradoxically if you succeed in this strategy and are willing to genuinely let go, she will be less likely to do anything that would risk losing you.… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/17 03:51 AM |
| 83 | Friend goes on a large group trip overseas, watches as 90% of the girls cheat on their boyfriendsBet your ego likes little miss priss riding your dick, eh? But she's getting something out of it too. This is all transactional (always is too). And that's ok, bro. Just realize: She treats me like she wants an LTR. She treats you like this because she is reading that as what you want. She is in 'act like the girl he wants' mode. Good place to have a girl, but keep your fucking head and don't take her seriously. Ever. Make sure you kick her dog next Tuesday and randomly ignore most of her daily … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/17 03:43 AM |
| 1 | How are your experineces with Modafinil?Good so far. Mostly used adderall before this, which was very "hype" feeling. Modafanil is alot more calm and controlled. I am awake, and able to focus. But not all fucking hyper and excitable. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/17 10:28 PM |
| 4 | 19 yo girl said she would have not went on a date with me if she knew I was 30, what do?Lotta jealous kids in this thread. Good luck on the 2nd date, push for that fclose, do not double text or chase. Remember that it "just happens" when things feel right for her | /r/askTRP | 07/08/17 01:43 PM |
| 10 | Divorcing your Sense of Value from Women (and friends)What are some things you can have that people want in these settings besides drugs? That, my dude, is the right question Being the event host is one such position. Being the guy who brings the girls is another. Bouncer, DJ, promoter, bartender.. etc. etc.. The list really does go on. Being a drug dealer was always a deadend road I never wanted to travel precisely because of how easy it is to do. Anyone can fucking do it. If anyone can fucking do it, that means you are replaceable and lack (long … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/17 11:05 PM |
| 7 | Divorcing your Sense of Value from Women (and friends)Enough that it is abnormal to see one actively plugged in & selling that does not get the aforementioned pussy benefits | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/17 10:44 PM |
| 2 | Divorcing your Sense of Value from Women (and friends)Out of the dealers I know about there's 1 guy who sells molly as a regular thing that is NOT getting laid through it. The rest are. Can hand a dude a loaded gun but if he's too much of a pussy to pull the trigger it won't matter | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/17 10:34 PM |
| 8 | Women serve two primary purposes in a man's life: 1. Sex, 2. Companionship. How to acquire both in the most cost-effective way.I plated her for ~3 months. After 3 months we were oLTR for an additional 6mo (I Love Yous etc.) At various periods of time during she was the only girl I was fucking, BUT the perception was always that I had one or more other girls in the pipe or in my bed. ONS or short term FWBs would come thru and then drop From the beginning I established that I was not seeking anything 'serious'. I said specifically: "i'm not in a good place for something exclusive right now" This was a bit self-deprecating… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/17 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Hard time establishing connection with othersOne, enrolling in a porn recovery program (Porn has a huge psychological effect on how I view woman). True. And a program may help.. or it may not. Either way, go google "ted talk addiction". Watch the video 'everything we think we know about addiction is wrong'. In brief; breaking addiction doesn't come from willpower, or support groups, or some intellectual epiphany. It comes from building a better life such that drugs & porn lose their appeal. I've kicked just about every other bad habit in m… | /r/askTRP | 06/08/17 07:08 PM |
| 5 | How long to message after a ONS?Depends on context but normally a couple days & then only to setup the next meet "good vibes last time, im doing xyz come out and play" Optional to drop the first half but they do like a little validation too | /r/askTRP | 06/08/17 05:37 PM |
| 3 | Big head/narrow shouldersLift I've done some reading on the idea of avoiding shrugs/trapezius development but working on delts & shoulders to increase the perception of width ymmv Mostly tho just lift period, 99% of body image problems disappear once you are <15% bf with a decent amount of muscle | /r/askTRP | 06/08/17 05:09 PM |
| 2 | Scent. What's going on here?Lawrence Tyrell.. thought you were talking about a basketball player at first | /r/askTRP | 06/08/17 05:07 PM |
| 5 | Scent. What's going on here?I only go down on girls with "the scent". Hard to help myself honestly. It does absolutely influence my attraction levels though. Girls whose sex smells right = better sex = more attracted. Girls whose sex smells off = worst sex = less attracted. Only time it has ever affected me emotionally is when I had a good smellin' girl whose panties I kept after each fuck.. sniffed on em like a little perv and fell into oneitis sooo fast lol | /r/askTRP | 06/08/17 05:06 PM |
| 2 | Hard time establishing connection with othersThese are some good books to read for social skills: As You Are The Charisma Myth How to Win Friends & Influence People Zen in the Art of Archery (most important one IMO) I have a problem maintaining a connection with others and I believe it stems from my old habits. The more social experience you get the less this will seem true. Even degenerate drug abusing fucktards can have tons of friends (and get laid). Getting rid of bad habits & owning your shit is 100% about you, how you feel about your… | /r/askTRP | 06/08/17 04:57 PM |
| 8 | Women serve two primary purposes in a man's life: 1. Sex, 2. Companionship. How to acquire both in the most cost-effective way.Acquiring a relationship (I never mean this term to necessitate sexual exclusivity) This should be more noticeable in your post. The walkaway message is very oneitis sounding. Also, you paint this picture that "this One girl" is somehow a superior source of sex and companionship than multiple plates, FWBs or STRs could be. That simply is not true. Men delight in variety. It is women who benefit most from pedestalizing and idolizing their mates, having every need fulfilled by one alpha at a time … | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/17 02:19 PM |
| 1 | What hobbies do you do?-Lift -Read (self-improvement) -Write (fiction) -Spin fire -BJJ Also looking for something new, dance or bartending or volunteering maybe | /r/askTRP | 05/08/17 05:57 PM |
| 7 | Too late to rebuild? (26 M)Then unsub from TRP and go eat more cheetoz. No one gives a fuck what you do First step of winning is believing you can win "Do or do not, there is no try" | /r/askTRP | 05/08/17 03:37 PM |
| 4 | How to not feel so intimidated by other menLift, brazilian jiu jitsu Also hierarchy is a thing. It's okay to support people who are producing more in a given scene. You ain't gonna be #1 in every single room you walk into. The idea is to be up on that level though and hold your own. If you are slotting yourself in behind other dudes you don't even know, IE out at parties, then ya that's bad | /r/askTRP | 05/08/17 03:33 PM |
| 3 | Too late to rebuild? (26 M)You can never change the past. Nor should you live too much in the future, depending on 'life being better' one day, etc. Both of these lead to you not being present in the now. I've been TRP 2+ years and my life has changed tremendously. Yours can too. Put in the work. No matter how hard it is to keep going, do whatever you can, day by day, step by step. The first obstacle to get past is deciding to BELIEVE you can get better. Treat your mind like a muscle. Like your pecs or glutes. Keep that s… | /r/askTRP | 05/08/17 03:30 PM |
| 13 | So... About my fatherRead most of it Respect your elder a bit more. Stop feeling so sorry for him. Main reason he stayed around is for you. Shit even knowing TRP I'd do the same for my son, not that I'm planning to have one soon Build a better relationship with him. Throwing him a link to TRP is only one part of that job. Try being human and being a son and getting to know your pop a bit more, then drop TRP into the conversation without labelling it.. just like anyone whose never heard about it before You might find… | /r/askTRP | 05/08/17 07:55 AM |
| 1 | Should I take a job that offers remote work and total freedom to travel at the cost of possible isolation and lack of community?This is my current goal (also IT). DO IT. Go fucking travel the world you mother fucker. I will personally doxx you and bitchslap the shine outta your eyes if you don't at least give it a spin. Thailand? Europe? Taste the rainbow all while having the ability to save money / retire early / control your destiny? Fuuuuck That's as Redpill as this shit gets | /r/askTRP | 04/08/17 10:39 PM |
| 4 | Acting strange around my brotherHe's your elder. It's normal for him to have the upper hand. Strive to improve yourself until your idols become your rivals, your superiors become your equals, etc. etc. I have a brother who is ~10 years older. Doesn't matter what I do in life, seems like he's there first and does it better. Because he's got a ten year head start.. and he also figured it out on his own, whereas he helped show me some shit. You'd think that would give me a shortcut or something, and I'm sure it did in some ways, … | /r/askTRP | 04/08/17 10:22 PM |
| 2 | I don't enjoy this 'Alpha' mentality.lack of will to submit to that reality There is only one reality. It is here and it is now. Grab hold of that or you may as well be dead | /r/askTRP | 04/08/17 12:24 AM |
| 2 | Mom walked in on me with a girl, we're avoiding each other now and I don't know what to say."So mom.. uhh.. any pointers?" "Hey baby lay back for a sec lemme show you this thing my mom taught me" | /r/askTRP | 03/08/17 08:23 PM |
| 3 | I'm starting to pressure flip girls when they get out of line... do you think it's too much?How did she achieve that? She has a vagina. This means people default to her side. The entire female population (except sluts who steal her man) and around 80% of the male population (excepting guys who call her out on shit). Anyways, your best bet is to ignore the hag and replace that negative energy by trying to make sure your reputation with the rest of the office is still good. Her whining will be seen as just that, meanwhile you are busy making friends and doing good work | /r/askTRP | 03/08/17 08:21 PM |
| 9 | Double booked for next week, the preferred plate seems to be losing interest. How to best proceed?She is not a plate until you have fucked her 3 times & are set to continue. Once is a fluke, twice is interesting, three times is a pattern. Also she is not a plate if she's the only one.. 2 or more my dude How do I keep both plates interested This is a failure of mindset. It's their job to keep you interested, not the other way around. Go re-read TRM's section on Plates (I-IV). I literally JUST read it today so I'll paraphrase: It's perfectly ok to clear your schedule, cancel plans, etc. The pe… | /r/askTRP | 03/08/17 07:42 PM |
| 3 | I'm starting to pressure flip girls when they get out of line... do you think it's too much?It's about balance yo. In principle snapping back on the cunt is a viable option. But never shit where you eat. Always ask yourself: what do I gain out of doing/saying this? In this case she sounds like a chronic problem and you should ignore her from now on. Giving her a taste of her own medicine once or twice is you standing your ground, engaging in a turf war with some office hag who is never gonna change is bad for business. Pressure flips & snaps are more appropriate in mixed social groups,… | /r/askTRP | 03/08/17 07:31 PM |
| 13 | What broke you?Was in a pretty 'ideal' relationship for 5+ years.. ideal on paper. We had plenty of sex. She loved me and was loyal but she was very unhappy as a person, I couldn't quite figure out why. She blamed her job and I blamed her for bringing it home. Truth is she had crushingly low self-esteem and we were with eachother because it was safe. Codependant as fuck. Found out well after the breakup she would complain to her friends about what a loser I was, even though that made her feel like a bigger los… | /r/askTRP | 03/08/17 06:28 PM |
| 1 | plate says "i'll never give you a blowjob"Text sucks for anything but logistics. If she was being playful, A&A If shes just being a cunt, she perceives you as low SMV and go fuck your other plates. You do have others, right? That's what makes em plates | /r/askTRP | 03/08/17 05:01 PM |
| 1 | How easy would it be for a famous actor/rock/star celebrity to get laid if they were handicapped or had some other physical abnormality (dwarfism etc.)Oh, no doubt girls get with him for different reasons than 6'4" Chad. Wealth. Status. Etc. But I bet he still gets laid much more than the median of TRP. This has long been a barrier for me as well - I'm not 6'4" and as of yet lack strength. Compensating with status and money feels like a cop out. I dont want women to want me because I'm rich and popular. I want them to want me because I'm confident and attractive, strong and make them a little anxious. Aka I want to be wanted as a seed dispensa… | /r/askTRP | 03/08/17 04:59 PM |
| 1 | My LTR says sometimes I'm too confidentBalance and perfect state control are ideal. Be what you want to be, when you want to be it. Failing that, be too arrogant. Better you be too confident than not confident enough. Better that you be feared than loved. Etc. etc. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/17 03:56 PM |
| 4 | I'm starting to pressure flip girls when they get out of line... do you think it's too much?Apparently you think alphas can never retaliate or show emotion. That's not alpha, that's being insecure and you care too much about what everyone else thinks The 'truth' is more nuanced and contextualized. Sometimes its better to let shit roll off your shoulder and say nothing. Sometimes its best to snap back. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/17 03:20 PM |
| 22 | I'm starting to pressure flip girls when they get out of line... do you think it's too much?Lol the alpha-hamster in this thread.. If a bitch is being a cunt call her out on it. This pretending to ignore it is beta shit. That's what betas do - keep their heads down and take it WHEN you call her out on it what you say is less important than how you say it. You can throw a barb back, laugh her off with a joke, whatever.. as long as the message is you heard her being a cunt but could give a fuck what she thinks. Too many bitches in this place assume that DGAF means literally say nothing. … | /r/askTRP | 03/08/17 02:17 PM |
| 3 | How easy would it be for a famous actor/rock/star celebrity to get laid if they were handicapped or had some other physical abnormality (dwarfism etc.)Peter Dinklage fucks more than you | /r/askTRP | 03/08/17 01:54 PM |
| 1 | text exchange review (girl opened on fb)Facebook is my social calendar and how I stay on touch with acquaintances. TRPs hate of social media is mostly bias from old fucks. I get invited to more events and hit up for more shenanigans on FB than in real life or with phonecalls/texts.. just how the game works rn | /r/askTRP | 03/08/17 01:53 PM |
| 2 | text exchange review (girl opened on fb)See that's what I thought, I've learned to stop tryna be clever in txt because shit doesn't translate. Txt for logistics Whatever | /r/askTRP | 03/08/17 02:11 AM |
| 4 | Been gettibg called a nice guy... What?To add: Give zero fucks about what anyone says about you unless they are a trusted friend whose opinion you have previously decided has value. Even then, take it with a grain of salt. Same as anything. People say all kinds of shit for all kinds of stupid reasons. And most importantly, especially with strangers / recent acquaintances.. these people don't actually know shit about you. So some slut you tonguewrestled in a bar is calling you nice based on what? Ten minutes of interaction? Who gives … | /r/askTRP | 03/08/17 01:59 AM |
| 9 | Am I getting cheated on by my LTR? Unsure of Red FlagsSo turn a blind eye to questionable behavior. Woo! You go girl! Worrying about it will accomplish nothing. On that you are correct. What seems to be missed here is that OP is asking whether this is a red flag worth acting on. The solution to any such scenario is to act in such a way that resolves the issue. Good with it? Think she's legit loyal? Wanna pretend like the girl cheating on you won't hurt, blindside you, or make you look stupid as fuck? Enjoy what you have until she checks out so much… | /r/askTRP | 02/08/17 08:30 PM |
| 9 | Am I getting cheated on by my LTR? Unsure of Red FlagsThe friend attractive? Why did she go on a two week trip without you? Etc. Basically man it's Schroedinger's slut. You will never know if she cheated or not until it's too late. You have to decide your own boundaries. We're it me, solo vacations where you go out drinking with old guy friends are crossing the line. She expects you to "trust her" and will shame you for being insecure if you dont. Fuck that. She shouldn't act in such a way as to cast doubt on herself, and her failure to do so has c… | /r/askTRP | 02/08/17 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Need Advice On Moving Out [Self-Improvement] (20/M)Listen up bro. I was homeschooled and lived at home through college. That shit is shit. Every second you spend under their roof is another second spent living in someone else's frame. You will NEVER become a man until you are out on your own - under your own finances, and living in your own place. Even roommates are a crutch to this. I'm 28, 3 months into living solo for the first time ever, and holy fucking shit, it's a new world. Less noise, more control, more responsibility, more fun. You hav… | /r/askTRP | 02/08/17 01:22 AM |
| 7 | What hard truth do you wish you were told earlier in life?The first step in being able to do something is believing that you can do it. I was a fucking nerd in school. Call me Mr. Spock. For 26 years it was, if the math adds up, I can do it. The universe doesn't give a shit. What I think doesn't matter. What you think doesn't matter. Ironically, I was halfway alpha in that mindset And then I found TRP and my emotions got all fucked. I realized I didn't have all the answers. Now I am slowly realizing, learning, assimilating, the fact that how I think.. … | /r/askTRP | 02/08/17 01:08 AM |
| 13 | What hard truth do you wish you were told earlier in life?Hardest shit to deprogram man And it's not even about being a doormat. I walk if they are cunts and don't look back. But upon first meeting? I still try to stretch out the olive branch. And they use that as a signal to look down their nose / try and fuck you 9 times outta 10 Fucking primates. The world could be better but we'd need to cull a majority before that would work | /r/askTRP | 02/08/17 01:05 AM |
| 1 | What is the happiest moment of your life you can remember of?Rolling my balls off for an effigy burn at a local burning man event. Managed to make peace with my brother, but only after standing my ground and making him realize shit he did wrong. Gamed the fuck out of two hot girls who both walked away with me, one under each arm. Started a howl that literally the whole crowd picked up and carried. Vibes with all the friends. And this is me.. social introvert hermit.. goddamn if Molly doesn't make me feel like the man I should be. It was raining, summertim… | /r/askTRP | 01/08/17 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Certainty and Becoming AlphaFucking excellent post. As with anything the simpler the idea the more powerful. And yet even presented so simply as this, most of the 'uninitiated' will be unable to absorb it at first pass. Might want to break this post and it's 4 categories down into more actionable steps. But that's up to you. The student must first be willing to learn before that kond of thing even matters | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/17 04:37 PM |
| 30 | Successful people aren't Demi-Gods with insane willpower and incredible productivity skills. They are normal people who understood the importance of the small seemingly insignificant daily disciplines. They understood how these disciplines leveraged with time could make them unstoppable.Bullshit. The mind is a muscle. Your personality is not fixed. The difference between people with "grit" and without is sufficiently pruning the wires in your brain. Most will never do this because they never bother to stop and ask why they are doing what they do, much less why they are the way they are | /r/TheRedPill | 01/08/17 04:17 PM |
| 1 | I envy my younger siblings and I don't know how to fix it.I was also homeschooled so I feel you brah. Shit sucks and parents seem to have no clue what it does to hamstring you socially. Anyways, be glad you found TRP before/during college. I was 26. As for experience, relax. You are not in a notch count competition with anyone. And women would always win in that regard - they have a much easier time getting sex so their numbers are usually 4-5x higher than a dude of equitable SMV. More generally.. you CAN build a better life. Social skills, friends, gi… | /r/askTRP | 01/08/17 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Skills with girls/confidence getting WORSE with time, not betterDude you posted this exact same shit last week | /r/askTRP | 01/08/17 04:02 PM |
| 11 | So, after my last askTRP post, I went speed dating. Got 14 phone numbers. Where do I even begin handling that many?You aren't wrong. Girls who resort to speed dating, meetup groups, and other tertiary social activities are almost all damaged goods or looking for beta bucks. Probably a ton of single mothers. But who gives a shit? Some are still cute. Wrap it up and don't fall in love Bonus points for tattoos, clit & nipple pierces, having half their heads shaved and doing the snoo-snoo like she's trying to grind your pelvis into dust | /r/askTRP | 31/07/17 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Explain "honour" to a 19 y/o with no concept of itBitch we're on season 8 that ain't my problem Tywin Lannister rapes Daenerys and Jon Snow rides a dragon | /r/askTRP | 31/07/17 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Questions about the importance of clothing/styleLooks alone won't kid you laid kid but it helps Read the sidebar and save threads for real questions | /r/askTRP | 31/07/17 06:42 PM |
| 47 | So, after my last askTRP post, I went speed dating. Got 14 phone numbers. Where do I even begin handling that many?Order of logistics. The more you play this game the more you realize a hb6 submissive, well-polarized woman is more fun than a bitchy, flakey hb7. PS thanks for the speed dating comment. Honestly never crossed my mind but sounds like an efficient way to meet some sluts | /r/askTRP | 31/07/17 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Questions about the importance of clothing/styleDo the clothes make the man, or does the man make the clothes? Lift and get strong and you'll notice that almost anything you wear looks great on you. Then just keep it clean and keep yourself groomed. Build your own style, sure, but that's something that comes with time.. you can't get it from a catalog or a weekend shopping spree | /r/askTRP | 31/07/17 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Socially awkward guys who joined clubs/activities to make friends, was it as bad as it sounds?I wonder if this is because of the organic hierarchy that gets established. Like you can't even be mad and MUST respect someone to a certain degree when they can submit you on the reg. Dont like it? Get better. There's zero deception and bullshit. Just pure merit. | /r/askTRP | 31/07/17 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Monogamy is a lie.. save yourself the time and angst, esp. if you are new hereRereading this thread now, and I wanted to say thanks for taking the time to type out these lengthy and insightful comments. Soon I will go through and attempt to answer some of the prompts, as you said, to learn a bit more about myself. The theory about her being a man-eater / never enamored / trying to be caught is interesting. Not sure how valid it is. It would make alot of sense if she was an alpha widow who was very hurt. Her ex cheated on her (yes the same one she cheated on me with, I lol… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/17 04:10 AM |
| 3 | She knows we are not exclusive but I don't know how to behave in publicI like going out with my plates. I do not bring them round my friends and circle until after a good bit of vetting (fucking) etc. but I will take them out to a park, or kayaking, etc whatever I was already doing. Different rules apply if she was pulled from your circle and is already a regular This can get out of hand if you send the wrong messages, but its manageable. Plus having cute girls on your arm is good for you AND it actually helps you land other girls not make it harder. Biggest thing … | /r/askTRP | 31/07/17 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Expatriation?My 2cent I fully intend to travel as a primary lifestyle, once I can do so without sacrificing my career. I'm in a field that will let me travel though once I get the right job. Make sure you really think this through. Obv. visit your intended destination first for as long as possible to feel it out. Going expat is alot more expensive than just dumping your job and moving - you lose all pre-existing social networks and become an outsider wherever you go. It's easy to become isolated, and even ea… | /r/askTRP | 30/07/17 11:57 PM |
| 2 | July 28 - Weekly Improvement & Progress ThreadGotta have value first bub | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/17 11:10 PM |
| 1 | July 28 - Weekly Improvement & Progress ThreadPositives: Attended my 3rd initial Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu session and am now a fully paid member for the next 12mo. Got smeared but felt good all at the same time Non-productive time correctly limited to after 9pm on weekdays, with some exceptions where I felt like being productive anyways Got out and socialized in a healthy manner multiple times this week Took my first Salsa class Went kayaking Finished As You Are & started The Rational Male, including flashcards for review Went out deliberately t… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/17 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Will you never have a high SMV if you don't go out drinking/partying and do not frequently use social media?It's all relative. I'm talking about the US and in major metro areas (where I currently live). If I moved out to bumfuck then 100k/yr would be considered well off. When I go to foreign countries, I'm rich American guy. At any rate, yes. If we are talking about how women treat you.. they only see a few colors, like a Trex only sees movement. Poor as fuck, not poor, and rich. Being "Not Poor" is actually the least beneficial in terms of genuine attraction. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/17 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Will you never have a high SMV if you don't go out drinking/partying and do not frequently use social media?You do you. If you have enough social opportunities to keep scoring plates and you want nothing more, then cool. This is a toolbox, what you build with the tools is on you Far as money.. I've heard it put like this. Middle-class level income (into the mid 150-200s) will put you in the beta provider box. You have enough cash for most girls to see you as good daddy material. More cash than that, especially if you flaunt it, and suddenly you are gold-digger material. And that's the kind of women yo… | /r/askTRP | 30/07/17 02:41 PM |
| 2 | Will you never have a high SMV if you don't go out drinking/partying and do not frequently use social media?You need to be active and social, yes. You want to have a large social group, yes, preferable multiple compartmentalized circles. In ay least one of those circles, be the producer/leader/apex But you can do that without partying, drugs, or being an IG celeb | /r/askTRP | 30/07/17 02:21 PM |
| 3 | Why do women Date men known for being Players?Why do men want to fuck/date girls who are known for being slutty? Cuz they hot Girls want to take Chad and be the one special girl good enough to make him settle down Guys want to take their crazy pornstar dreamgirl and be alpha enough to make her fall in love and be loyal Both logic streams are broken, but it's more natural for a girl to share & submit to a very high SMV guy than it is for a guy to share & submit to a very high SMV girl (also called being a cuck) See girls actually like being … | /r/askTRP | 30/07/17 02:16 PM |
| 3 | My SMV is going DOWN as I get older... Age 33 -- wish I was 25 and hadn't even heard of TRPYou are isolated. I know the feel, I'm there myself. Working on changing that without giving up my day job Your SMV probably hasn't gone down.. what went down is your exposure. You need to create more surface area with women. Do this with hobbies, interests, and by expanding your social circle. dr_warlock had an excellent comment or thread about it somewhere can't be arsed to link Bouncers, DJs, drug dealers, club-promoters, photographers, river guides, bartenders, massage therapists, dancers...… | /r/askTRP | 30/07/17 02:00 PM |
| 2 | What is the biggest mistake you made when first trying to implement red pill changes in your life?28, and definitely not peaked. But to be clear, the "relationship I wanted" will never exist, because it was a bad idealism. Certainly I can have a healthy relationship, or series of them, should I choose to. But if you read the side bar and swallow the pill, you will understand that there is no "One".. instead, there are many "Ones". | /r/askTRP | 29/07/17 06:27 PM |
| 8 | What is the biggest mistake you made when first trying to implement red pill changes in your life?Don't look at media for any kind of serious learning. Hollywood is good enough to ape some very basic alpha traits - kind of like a PUA. But the storylines and context are all wrong. Look at Don Draper (MadMen). He shows a lot of alpha traits - but look closer. WHY do women respond to him the way they do? It's basically unexplained magic 90% of the time. He goes out, sits down at a bar, says nothing, and is magically approached by hot bitches who are being very overtly sexual. There are only two… | /r/askTRP | 29/07/17 01:35 AM |
| 2 | Banged my first 9/10, oneitis setting in, halpWell, the real lesson isn't what to do to correctly play her, specifically. Anticipation is good but some girls will walk if they don't get a "fuck yes" type of answer.. especially ones with big egos and lots of options. So the answer is.. play the numbers game. More women will respond to teasing & anticipation than will walk over perceived disinterest. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/17 01:28 AM |
| 8 | Banged my first 9/10, oneitis setting in, halpThe great time text was some advice I read on TRP because girls want to know they weren't pumped and dumped... idk if it was good advice tho Not everything said on TRP is true. Test these ideas for yourself, keep the ones that work for you, discard the ones that don't since the next date was already secured the same day and I didn't particularly need to further the convo Generally speaking, this is the wrong move. You want to create a gap.. it adds to the suspense. Don't meet > arrange next > me… | /r/askTRP | 29/07/17 12:44 AM |
| 35 | What is the biggest mistake you made when first trying to implement red pill changes in your life?It stings to admit, but for about 2 years, everything I learned at TRP, everything I did to improve myself, was still to try and fulfill the "Soulmate Fantasy". I (unwittingly) tried to use RP tools and tactics to locate, recruit, and maintain my idealized BP relationship. My reasoning at the time was.. if I'm alpha enough to attract and control my soulmate, I can have the life I always wanted. Obviously, I failed. When I failed though.. I realized that no matter how valuable I become, or how ha… | /r/askTRP | 29/07/17 12:34 AM |
| 10 | What is the biggest mistake you made when first trying to implement red pill changes in your life?When changing a very ingrained pattern of behavior, you are likely to over-correct at first, and then find the ideal balance. Normal | /r/askTRP | 29/07/17 12:32 AM |
| 1 | How can you become better at story telling?I need to work on this myself. I do know that the details of the story tend to be unimportant compared to the emotions. You have to make the people listening feel something. Then, and only then, will they pay enough attention to care about the details | /r/askTRP | 28/07/17 11:48 PM |
| 11 | >>Update<< of My girlfriend wanted to experience more!Yes, AWALT. However there is a big difference between a whore who respects you and a whore who doesn't. Once she crosses YOUR line, shes gotta be done.. next chick may be just as much of a hoe but if you learned your lesson she won't get away with shit | /r/askTRP | 28/07/17 11:20 PM |
| 1 | How to get into working out?See I said the same shit and equivocated. Granted I did not really lift until 26. As soon as I stopped drinking heavy (drink 6 a week tops), got good sleep EVERY NIGHT, and cut out weed and cigarettes.. bam. Big time gains. In hindsight all of the 'social gains' I got from staying out late & partying were not only fickle, buy I coulda got the same from social activity during daylight hours & with less alcohol I still party, I just don't go hard every weekend or multiple times a week anymore | /r/askTRP | 28/07/17 10:15 PM |
| 4 | How to get into working out?You don't need advice, you need discipline. Your first goal is to get in the gym 3x/wk for the next 12 weeks. It takes 21 days to build a habit, 90 days to build a lifestyle. Is it raining? Still go Are you tired or sad? Still go No ride to the gym? Get a bicycle or on the bus, still go No idea what your doing? Still go No gains? Still go Once your new routine is in place, it will feel WEIRD to miss a gym day. Like you've forgotten to tie your shoelaces. Then you focus on form, weight, diet, get… | /r/askTRP | 27/07/17 02:30 PM |
| 6 | I can't rationalize the morally shit parts of TRP. CMV on this.Take this less seriously. A girl cheating/lying is a very different thing than shooting a non-combatant in a warzone.. despite what the raging betas might have you believe. Sex is not the end all be all of life.. it's just a way to have fun and sometimes babies. Vice versa, being a bit of an asshole to women, or even cheating on your girlfriend, doesn't make you a card carrying member of the Nazi Reich. It's human nature, go read about evolutionary psychology and mate selection in primates. Infi… | /r/askTRP | 27/07/17 03:28 AM |
| 2 | Do most men really want to be alphas?Or this: Use TRP to try & fulfill the Disney Forever Love fantasy Even with infinite amounts of work, this approach is still doomed because all your effort is still being paid to a false idol | /r/askTRP | 27/07/17 01:32 AM |
| 2 | Cant keep erection hardYour hand is stronger and tighter than any vagina could ever be. Especially if you masterbate frequently, this will cause you to be less sensitive / responsive to the real thing Basically train for the game you are playing. Want to be a top performer for oral & vaginal sex? Whatever you use to masterbate should closely mimic oral & vaginal sex | /r/askTRP | 27/07/17 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Cant keep erection hardI had some wet dreams which are awful because theyre unexpected and it leaves a mess Funny as that image is, it's a good sign. You are a healthy male. The rest is in your head / arousal triggers. As others have said, stop porn. There is no need to cut all masterbation. Do use lube or get a fleshlight. Healthy masterbation might be 2-3 times a week. I've also heard it said that you should get fully erect once a day, but don't come. Sort of a 'trained response' at that point where you just will yo… | /r/askTRP | 27/07/17 01:09 AM |
| 6 | I'm Paranoid Every Time She's on VacationSo you have a few options here: Stay with her and start treating it like an open relationship. Kill your anxiety by finding other girls to stick your dick in - especially when she's on vacation doing the exact same thing. Don't bother with any kind of 'talk'.. just do it Break up and spin plates Continue to be a needy, insecure little bitch while your GF goes to clubs, parties, and on trips without you.. (lol) | /r/askTRP | 27/07/17 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Oh man what I do here? Save a guy from divorce and a lot of trouble?Hahaha that's funny. The truth is likely that everyone will be given opportunities to wake up.. and in fact we are usually given these opportunities early and often. Lying, cheating, seeing hypergamy in action. Shit happens in middle school. Girls going for jocks etc. And yet the betas keep on sleepin. I sure did. But most people don't even try to question it. Such events are hamstered away as unfortunate anomalies, when it's loyalty that is the anomaly. That's why I don't buy lotto tickets anym… | /r/askTRP | 27/07/17 12:31 AM |
| 2 | Oh man what I do here? Save a guy from divorce and a lot of trouble?This is the sad truth. I, like OP, have a soft spot for my fellow men getting deceived. I WANT to help them. But you just can't. Some minds just aren't ready to be unplugged. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/17 10:15 PM |
| 3 | How do I get attention from the girl I like without showing attention to her?Your all screwed up on this. You're a fucking man. Initiate. But do so from a place of having fun / outcome independence. You are interested in her, so show that interest. But genuinely do not care what her answer is. There are a billion more just like her. You've got alot more to learn. The fuck you think you're gonna do? Strut around like a peacock without initiating anything and shell fall into your lap? | /r/askTRP | 26/07/17 08:10 PM |
| 2 | why am i still having trouble with woman?Just go get rejected a bunch. You haven't done it enough to get over it. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/17 03:01 PM |
| 1 | why am i still having trouble with woman?Maybe see a therapist. A psychiatrist can also diagnose any actual medical issues with your brain. If you are eating clean, no drugs, limited alcohol, getting sunlight, lifting, good sleep .. physically you should be good. If you aren't doing these things start. No compromise. Your body is your temple. Treat it right or you will have to work harder than strictly necessary. The rest is mental. For me having my oneitis cheat changed something. I no longer look at women as reliable emotional fulfil… | /r/askTRP | 26/07/17 02:41 PM |
| 5 | LTR Says "I'm glad you're not the type to take me home after the first date" Turns Out She Slept With Someone Without A Date At AllThey get off on it | /r/askTRP | 26/07/17 03:21 AM |
| 7 | LTR Says "I'm glad you're not the type to take me home after the first date" Turns Out She Slept With Someone Without A Date At AllSounds like you know what to do. I'd suggest you get to it before you wake up one day to hear crocodile tears about how she tripped on a banana peel and landed on Chad's dick | /r/askTRP | 25/07/17 11:39 PM |
| 7 | LTR Says "I'm glad you're not the type to take me home after the first date" Turns Out She Slept With Someone Without A Date At AllThe fuck is this cuck shit? So she gets a free pass on all the slutty shit she did because he didn't know about it before? You're right, n-count doesn't matter and he should just appreciate his born again virgin | /r/askTRP | 25/07/17 11:26 PM |
| 7 | Understanding and Embracing Dread Game - Bacchus' Comprehensive Guide to DREADThis. Sufficiently high SMV is essentially passive 24/7/365 dread game. They know they are imminently replaceable even if you never go out of your way to show it and are otherwise a loyal partner. Their hamster does all of the lifting. That is, if you can rely on her to be even somewhat rational and provided her ego isnt experiencing hyperinflation from IG, Fb, orbiters etc. And we know how that tends to go. This kind of passive dread is technically the ideal but also the "most expensive" in ter… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/17 06:44 PM |
| 4 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread July 24"You" are not your thoughts.. or your body.. or your fucking khakis. "You" are the thing that chooses. Some combination of instinct, learned experiences and executive consciousness. The more agency you possess, and the more your thoughts, feelings and actions are consistently in alignment.. the more powerful, masculine and alpha you become. The less agency you possess, and the more your thoughts, feelings and actions are subject to external forces or just inconsistent in general, the more submis… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/17 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Had a minor fuckup today involving ex, but feel like shit/losing hopeIt's on the sidebar | /r/askTRP | 24/07/17 11:30 PM |
| 2 | Buddha bros of TRP I seriously need advice on controlling my mind, its driving me insaneThere are various ways to meditate. Look it up. Make sure you meditate DAILY for 20 minutes until your mind calms down.. and then 3+ times a week forever. Meditation is, absolutely, the best way to handle your stated issue. In time you will have this new muscle that you can flex to just calm the fuck down. It's a beautiful thing. But it does not stand alone. In addition to meditation, you might need some other things. Self-acceptance. Awareness of the fact that you cannot control other people. S… | /r/askTRP | 24/07/17 11:20 PM |
| 2 | Girls with rules, red flag?Yup. It's par for the course, and I think the reasons are pretty obvious. 1) if they say this, anything that "just happens" is your fault.. so she can't possibly be a slut 2) putting up resistance and then having that resistance effortlessly brushed aside is a recipe for wet vaginas | /r/askTRP | 24/07/17 10:25 PM |
| 3 | Girls with rules, red flag?These rules are usually more like guidelines. The key is to not take them seriously in the first place. Sometimes they'll cave because tingles, sometimes they'll hold firm. Don't take it personally and move on to your next tinderella etc. Fucked a tinder date a bit ago. On the way out from the place we met for drinks, I invited her back to my apt. "Well I guess so.. but we won't be doing anything on our first date" Smirked at her "what ever would we do?" She giggled, we fucked. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/17 10:17 PM |
| 11 | LTR inspecting my cellphoneYou're not serious, right? Why would you reward her for bad behavior | /r/askTRP | 24/07/17 04:08 PM |
| 2 | Had a minor fuckup today involving ex, but feel like shit/losing hopeAt the same time I also feel like if the only way I can be happy is by getting pussy then something is wrong Hit the nail on the head here. Monk it. Learn to accept yourself, have fun and be 'ok' without women. Sounds illogical as tRP is about sexual success right.. But like many deep truths, the paradox is the answer. Guys who don't care about getting ass.. get more ass than you. Your objective should be to monk, build a strong & positive mental attitude, raise your SMV, and slowly add in socia… | /r/askTRP | 24/07/17 03:53 PM |
| 1 | how to trigger girls emotions and take her in an emotional roller coasterDread + Passion game It's a pendulum and if you control the swing you control the tingles | /r/askTRP | 24/07/17 02:13 PM |
| 3 | Smiling frequently?Being clever and witty is good, but mind the balance. Overdoing it can look like supplication or attention-seeking You want to be the king not the court jester | /r/askTRP | 24/07/17 02:06 PM |
| 1 | If female hypergamy is true, how can you ever get in an LTR?The truth is spoken, go forth and conquer. I can summarize: Never LTR a bitch you can't easily replace. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/17 01:11 PM |
| 2 | How attracted to her do you have to be?This is a great question. You must feel a sexual vibe before you can authentically project a sexual vibe. Otherwise you are just miming tricks you read on the internet. This also deals with ego.. should I talk to that girl because she's hot and I need to get laid to feel alpha, or because I feel something and want to act accordingly? This is part approach habit and part dopamine control. If you are a young, healthy male who lifts, has a good diet and good sleep hygiene.. you should have plenty o… | /r/askTRP | 24/07/17 05:42 AM |
| 1 | Hobby or side-gig where I will have to deal with shitty people?Fair point | /r/askTRP | 24/07/17 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Had a minor fuckup today involving ex, but feel like shit/losing hopeIs it really her looks on the pedestal, or the fantasy of her you have created? Her personality, her vibe, her energy? I just deleted all of the nudes I had of my ex because I binged today and used them. My moodswings are pretty epic. I know for me, at least, yeah she was hot but it's mostly about the "idea of her". In hindsight she was probably a hb7, great skin, pretty face, floppy tits, perfect ass. It was her attitude and charm that made it a package. Fortunately, once you apply even a littl… | /r/askTRP | 24/07/17 05:16 AM |
| 3 | Had a minor fuckup today involving ex, but feel like shit/losing hopePeople who spend too much time alone in their own thoughts only have their thoughts to think about. They lose touch and this feeds the cycle of obsession that is oneitis. Get busy. Monk mode. Stop masterbation with any kind of porn, and do NOT fantasize about her. Neurons that fire together wire together. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/17 07:11 PM |
| 3 | Is there any reason not to do steroids?Needing to pay for it and having the option of paying for it are very different stories. I get laid.. but have gone pro as well. It's quite fun | /r/askTRP | 23/07/17 02:06 PM |
| 1 | I have a tinder harem of women wanting to get pregnant. Why I think this is bad:You have enslaved yourself to the idea that your life purpose is to procreate. Your level of success in this endeavor is admirable - but I question how conscious of a decision this path was for you. As far as evolution and biology are concerned, making babies is all you are good for. So your genes are happy. But are you? What happens, I wonder, when you are no longer able to create new children? Or even when new children appear insignificant. After all what's the difference between 20 babies and… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/17 10:27 PM |
| 10 | Science says: Women most attracted to arrogance, confrontative behavior, and musculature for short term relationshipsThis is called state control. Always maneuver in such a way as to leave the most options available. But also, you cannot control other people's actions. Being absolutely nonreactive and only engaging with the world on your terms is a pipedream. You can, however, have the confidence and skills necessary to react to any random shit correctly and still have a solid frame. In fact I would argue the most difficult and most important times to hold frame are precisely when spontaneous forces leap out o… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/17 07:22 PM |
| 4 | Since White members here know White girls personally, what are their opinions about "Indian guys" to to put their curious hearts to rest lolI don't need to know white girls to know what they think about most Indian guys. Even on my worst most beta depressed day I'll see the average Indian dude and think "damn at least I don't act like that". Painfully obsequious. Don't like it? Sidebar is that way > | /r/askTRP | 21/07/17 11:26 PM |
| 199 | Why Quality of Women Varies Enormously By LocationIt's part being white(see; rich) and part being foreign anything. Japanese/Russian/Turkish/Moroccan/British whatever.. guy has decent SMV and winds up in America? Gets a boost. It's the accent. It's the story. It's the world-traveler vibe. I met this white American dude at a convention in America who had decent looks/game and was faking an Australian accent and background. Girls lapped that shit up. I caught him speaking with no accent at one point and just sort of gave him a 'the fuck?' type lo… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/17 10:33 PM |
| 21 | Stop Searching For Approval: A guide.This is a tough concept to reconcile for me, as I am actively seeking to improve my social skills, the best barometer of which is the impact I have on others ans the relationships I create and maintain. But like many deep truths the paradox is the answer.. care less, polarize more, watch some people fall away and others become magnetized. But! This is the key: Their approval or disapproval doesn't make me any better/worse of a person. Gaining or losing friends can change what you have.. IE your … | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/17 06:57 PM |
| 3 | How do you build social status?This is solid af. When we talk about social status though, for most people, you rarely have financial power over anyone. Your friends and partners in crime are unlikely to be financially tied to you in any way.. maybe a roommate? Even then their income stream is different But the logic applies. High status individuals wield the social power of EXCLUSION. And because they are popular, they have access to all the best people.. hottest girls.. coolest parties. An individual like this is likely to h… | /r/askTRP | 21/07/17 05:46 PM |
| 3 | Friend's Fiancee Cheats on Him with CHRIS BROWN - An Unbelievable Case Study in HypergamyThis comment is more valuable than the OP. I tried explaining this concept to my LTR when setting initial boundaries. I described it as "action is more important than trust". I was pretty genius too.. I seized upon a moment where she was doubting the integrity of her own father and framed it quite generally as an issue that effects all people, not just us in our relationship. She even seemed to understand. Of course, I was deep in crippling oneitis, so being a basic slut she threw all kinds of i… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/17 02:12 PM |
| 9 | Seneca once said “The greatest obstacle to living is expectancy, which hangs upon tomorrow and loses today. You are arranging what is in Fortune's control and abandoning what lies in yours.”Well written with a strong message. The thing about always having new problems especially stands out. It's an echo of many other truths we have seen here: Ask not for a lighter burden, only broader shoulders. One must imagine Sisyphus as happy with his labors. Life is not a journey, as if you are trying to reach a destination. Life is the destination. Remember to live it.. smile.. dance.. and be present in the moment. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/17 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Don't really know what's real or not anymoreAttention seeking, trying to demonstrate preselection to men.. etc. Basic bitch behavior 101 They fail to realize that preselection does not work for them the same way it does for us. We could give a fuck what other guys think about her as long as shes hot | /r/askTRP | 20/07/17 06:12 PM |
| 3 | How many rejections before a next?She sounds like a pass at this point. As a general rule I give em two chances. Sometimes one strike only if I read their flake as uninterested. If they decline but offer to reschedule, that does not count aa a strike. If they decline with no reschedule, 2 strikes max. If they ignore it altogether so that you'd have to ask twice, next | /r/askTRP | 20/07/17 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Questions about value/productivity on hobbies and people you hang out withYou are what you habitually do. So yes in a way your habits (more than just your hobbies) is who you are. As far as value.. hobbies add value. Interests are just for fun. Not everything in life has to be productive. You need some R&R, some creative expression, etc. Find what works for you. I like the Pareto principle as a general rule. 80/20 80% of your time is productive.. sleep.. eat. Work.. lift.. repeat 20% is relaxation.. video games, a fiction book, collecting stamps, hanging with friends … | /r/askTRP | 20/07/17 01:10 AM |
| 1 | How do you really "feel" the change happening inside? Sometimes I wake up and I feel like I'm the same guy I was a month ago.I agree that love in our current era is a joke. I think this girl actually loved me she was just so fucked in the head as to fuck other guys and believe... Like truly believe.. she loved me and that it was ok to lie about it all. She wasn't getting anything else out of me really, so it was just the sex, company, and love dovey feelz. I live alone but I still don't need their company really. Sex sure. Fun here and there. But I sleep alone just fine, get through my day just fine and truly do feel … | /r/askTRP | 20/07/17 12:57 AM |
| 2 | Where the women at?Oohhh. I like this one. Getting competitive is a great way to tease girls too. Examples? I don't have the ass for volley ball | /r/askTRP | 19/07/17 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Where the women at?Agreed, I've read about buffers as well. Even an endless buffet of hotties like in dance won't save you if can't sack up and escalate. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/17 07:50 PM |
| 6 | askTRP Megathread July 19What are some good ideas for meeting women? I think my SMV, Frame & Game are decent. I just need more volume and cold approach seems inefficient. Stuff like.. ballroom dance, biking groups, etc. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/17 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Where the women at?Left field but that makes alot of sense. Not one I would've thought of. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/17 04:38 PM |
| 8 | Reddit Post of a 18 Years Old Girl. She is asking for kuddos for her N-Count of 100!I second the vote for a full post, especially detailing strategies for guys with STEM careers to increase their surface area for hot women. I've got a good career, in my 20s six figures, good work life balance, good prospects. Can either go fully remote or start my own business with my capital savings in the near future. I don't want to give all that up to be a fucking bartender so as to get my dick wet. Clubs, hobbies, social circles, part time jobs.. I know there must be strategies as there ar… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/07/17 03:32 PM |
| 2 | What to do when a younger girl falls madly in love with youShe helped wing me for other girls and wanted a threesome All she was afraid of was me leaving her for another girl completely.. which I ended up doing anyways. But she knew that was coming because I told her I was thinking about it. In hindsight I never should have gotten serious with either of these girls and just kept spinning | /r/askTRP | 19/07/17 02:10 PM |
| 10 | What to do when a younger girl falls madly in love with youUp to you man. TRP is amoral and you shouldn't be asking internet strangers to define your principles for you. Some perspective tho.. my best plate ever fell madly in love with me, I said I loved her back and in a way I meant it, but less than she did. I guess it was an oLTR at that point. I was honest with her every step of the way about being non-exclusive. Created so much dread she ended up crying during sex a couple times towards the end of things.. right before she came buckets.. which was … | /r/askTRP | 19/07/17 01:44 PM |
| 14 | What to do when a younger girl falls madly in love with youWell, don't fall in love. They have no idea what they are doing.. so don't take it too seriously. Besides that.. get yours dude. Be a drug dealer - give them just enough of a taste that they want more, and then yank it away from them. Watch them go fucking nuts. Lay pipe. Repeat. If you are worried about being a dishonest person.. console yourself with the fact that she will spend the rest of her entire life lying to 99% of the guys she meets. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/17 12:46 PM |
| 5 | Friend: "If I looked like you I'd be fucking the hottest girls all the time". I haven't fucked in well over a year, what's the plan?We are our own worst enemies. This won't fix your life but.. drop some Molly and go Mack on girls one night. You'll see the version of yourself that should be. Hes in there. You just have to reprogram the beta bullshit and bring yourself into the world. For me it's a slow fucking process. Step by step brother. Second the Good Looking Loser comment And another thing.. dont be like me and fall in love with the first hottie who says she loves you. Spin plates. Do not commit. Maybe ever. But at leas… | /r/askTRP | 19/07/17 01:00 AM |
| 12 | Friend: "If I looked like you I'd be fucking the hottest girls all the time". I haven't fucked in well over a year, what's the plan?Your mental landscape is paramount. You sound fucked in the head, a bit like me. I'm told and believe that I'm physically quite attractive. Girls will eyefuck me when I walk into a room.. almost every day in fact. i've got a sort of lean pretty boy look. But when I open my mouth it all disappears. I'm either invisible or beta bucks at that point 90% of the time. Had a few good plates though who begged for dick so I know there's hope. I'm not that confident with girls and was basically raised by … | /r/askTRP | 19/07/17 12:20 AM |
| 1 | How do you really "feel" the change happening inside? Sometimes I wake up and I feel like I'm the same guy I was a month ago.I think I'm burned out rn, honestly. Went ham on TRP and plates for a year or so.. fell in love.. got burned. Immediately after the breakup, went a little crazy, drank too much, had sex with a few strangers. But I'm not mentally ready for the game again, so I went monk mode. Focusing on me right now. Meditating alot. Lifting alot. Working. Getting out to socialize once or twice a week. That's about it. I'm horny but not really lonely if that makes since. Like I want plates and sex, but it fucks … | /r/askTRP | 19/07/17 12:09 AM |
| 3 | What to tell girls when they want to get serious and exclusive?Correct answer. To add: These hoes ain't loyal. Ask yourself why she's angling for commitment. Ask yourself what you think will happen when she gets it. 98% of girls who are very attracted to you will try to lock you down.. and as soon as that happens you are playing from her frame. It goes from her chasing you to you chasing her, dread, is she cheating, etc. A fair test is to just say no or I'm not looking for anything serious. Does she keep fucking you? It was just a shit test. Does she legit … | /r/askTRP | 18/07/17 07:15 PM |
| 8 | Next my LTR?This isn't necessarily true. But she was keeping him on tap for a backup option. Girls will do this with exes or any guy. Sex may or may not be involved. If you're playing the game right you also have backups. Bit of a gray area.. the problem with it being there's no good way to know when a backup gets tapped If you don't tolerate her keeping backups, next. But what hot girl doesn't have a Legion of thirsty orbiters? This is why it's easier to assume non-monogamy. Enjoy your girlfriend and just … | /r/askTRP | 18/07/17 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Two exes coming to a friend's event.. go or skip?As I mentioned in other comments, I had no solid plans to go until I heard she was going, at which point I wanted to go pretty much to prove that she can't push me out of my regular spaces. Bad reasoning. Anyways, didn't go, and glad for it. Talked to my friend about it and am confident he's got my back. Spent that time in the gym and now am right back where I was.. monk mode grinding and making progress. The less I think about her the better, and that includes trying to prove fucking shit to an… | /r/askTRP | 18/07/17 03:30 PM |
| 1 | How can you even desire girls when theyreA post-wall ex carousel riding uberslut? She'll try.. only betas would take the bait. Fuck sluts. For LTRs, pick girls who are (less) slutty. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/17 12:17 PM |
| 2 | Is monk mode worth it?It's all about your mental state. I'm doing my first monk mode ever right now. Also doing 3 months not 6. I also still have a social circle and will still go out and socialize - I'm just keeping it mostly daylight hours, no drinking, no late night partying, no bingers, no drugs, etc. Also not really trying to approach or get distracted with girls. I'll spit game if it's easy but not going too far out of my way. I'm doing it to make improvements/gains.. but that is really secondary. My primary mo… | /r/askTRP | 18/07/17 12:13 PM |
| 2 | How do you really "feel" the change happening inside? Sometimes I wake up and I feel like I'm the same guy I was a month ago.Yeah.. take time and rest. We are all in a race against the clock but overloading yourself is not productive. Match your performance to your expectations and remember that you are human, with limits and flaws. There is a sweetspot for productivity, which is basically working as much as you can but falling just short of accumulating stress on the day to day. It's different for different people. I like the 80/20 principle. 80% of your time is spent producing. 20% is spent relaxing. If you're reall… | /r/askTRP | 18/07/17 11:51 AM |
| 3 | Committed relationship - Social media presence on her accountsCheaters gonna cheat. AWALT Get that through your head. Even Chad gets lied to and cheated on. But usually the girls will do anything to keep him around.. so they make sure the lies are good. I had this one plate. She had 3+ orgasms every single time we fucked. Stained my sheets. Begged for my dick. Helped wing me for other girls. Wanted a threesome. Etc. I told her multiple times we are not exclusive.. she can see other guys.. never heard a peep about it. Maybe she did, maybe she didn't. She ne… | /r/askTRP | 18/07/17 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Unable to get hard when it's timeMoral of the story: Winning is the best high.. and has the best side effects. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/17 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Unable to get hard when it's timeI'll get flamed for saying this but I can't get hard with condoms.. like period. I'll get half hard, get it in and then fall flat. Then again I had two monogamous GFs from 17-26 and I fucked them raw every single time for years. So I kinda got used to it. Other things are: Porn Deathgrip Substances (alcohol, stimulants, weed, other drugs) Good ol' fashioned performance anxiety.. getting to know the girl a bit and having time to hang out and have a drink or two first will help Also don't be afrai… | /r/askTRP | 18/07/17 12:41 AM |
| 2 | How can I attract a woman who loves me if I can't be myself around her ?Take risks. But also, read the sidebar. Women will never love you the way you idealize they should be able to. The schoolyard love of your youth - mostly just young, impressionable minds acting out the roles they had been taught. I had a relationship like that too. Very puppy-love, very pure, and in the end the same as anything else. As people grow, they become smarter. They gain experience. They learn to manipulate, and spot manipulation. People use these tactics to get what they want and avoid… | /r/askTRP | 18/07/17 12:29 AM |
| 6 | How do you really "feel" the change happening inside? Sometimes I wake up and I feel like I'm the same guy I was a month ago.Months? That's cute. I'm 2+ years in. The first changes I noticed were game, flirting, being able to easily pick out alphas vs. betas, being acutely aware of my status (for better or worse), etc. The biggest change I'm seeing now are mental. My mental point of origin is.. me. I don't think of myself in relationship to women or others. I think of myself in relationship to myself. I compare myself to others a bit.. but mostly I just try and compare myself with the guy I saw in the mirror yesterday… | /r/askTRP | 18/07/17 12:18 AM |
| 2 | Committed relationship - Social media presence on her accountsI had the same thoughts in my head for my last LTR (she cheated). But.. the social media presence and wide awareness of us being an item made it something to hide. That's basically about it. They want to avoid the shame, which in a way is also beneficial to you. Not like I want everyone to know my ex cheated. Does absolutely nothing to prevent them from cheating, though.. in fact the more invested things appear to be the naughtier & more thrilling cheating becomes. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/17 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Lost five girls in two days, what to doThe real answer. Also one of the toughest things to deprogram. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/17 12:09 AM |
| 2 | Explain "honour" to a 19 y/o with no concept of itThat thing that got Ned Starks head chopped off in season 1 even though he held literally all of the cards and knew his enemies had no honor. A luxury expediently ignored by those in power A sacred lie you tell yourself to feel Superior to others who are in fact your betters A concept that would be totally worth fighting for.. if a slightly larger percentage of the population had the brain power to even begin understanding it. But they don't so it's not. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/17 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Two exes coming to a friend's event.. go or skip?Your username is hilarious. I'm not going tho. Fuck em. I'm in monk mode anyways (as of 7.10) so I think this was mostly an ego defense. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/17 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Two exes coming to a friend's event.. go or skip?You might be right on this | /r/askTRP | 17/07/17 08:52 AM |
| 2 | Two exes coming to a friend's event.. go or skip?It's a redpill in and of itself to see that basically every piece of input on this thread is different. I guess I have gotten past the point of being able to ask anyone else what to do. I think the only reason she's interested in this event is because it's being run by my friend. As typical female behavior, they try to recruit all of the friends to their side. You're right in that she doesn't belong there. I've already pinged him to have her removed. It's gonna be hella funny though if I go on t… | /r/askTRP | 17/07/17 02:29 AM |
| 2 | Two exes coming to a friend's event.. go or skip?I hear ya. Fuck it There would be no folding. I don't want her.. like legit. I wouldn't fuck her if she showed up to my door wearing a trenchcoat and a smile. But the shit testing/etc.. ya I'm not ready. I trusted this skank like a stupid beta and although I'm doing surprisingly well considering how recent it was, I'm sure the knife could still be twisted | /r/askTRP | 17/07/17 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Two exes coming to a friend's event.. go or skip?See I think I'd be fine in all but 1 scenario She shows up with the 'other guy' and then sort of deliberately has a go at me. Direct or indirect, doesn't matter. Anyways, I've decided it's not worth my fucking time. I have already spent too much time/energy just thinking about the cunt Let this one slide and make it clear with my friend (who knows she cheated) not to let it happen again | /r/askTRP | 17/07/17 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Two exes coming to a friend's event.. go or skip?I attend this event about 50% of the time, it's semi-regular, not really a big deal. The two reasons to go are: 1) make it clear that her showing up to something isn't going to stop me showing up.. but that reads as "cares too much" & "trying to prove something" 2) don't really want my friend(s) hanging out with this cheating bitch.. but she either doesn't get invited again or I find new friends, no reason to make a stink over one slip | /r/askTRP | 17/07/17 12:29 AM |
| 2 | Two exes coming to a friend's event.. go or skip?Thinking I'll just pass. This is a semi-regular event.. which she won't be invited to again. Or I'll be finding a new friend. Truthfully I had no plans to attend until he mentioned it. I make it about 50% of the time usually. Think I was even at the last one, so this one can be a skip. There's too much obligation to be right there with her. If it was a party where I could just say "sup" or nothing at all and ignore her, fine. But this is less than a dozen people, all pretty much in the same spac… | /r/askTRP | 17/07/17 12:24 AM |
| 2 | Two exes coming to a friend's event.. go or skip?Generally agree but it's not really a party. We'd be in the same space/conversation for at least an hour or two. Less than a dozen ppl probably. Can sort of ignore her but not really since we can hear/see eachother at all times. This is a pass | /r/askTRP | 17/07/17 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Two exes coming to a friend's event.. go or skip?Will I break frame? Dunno, depends. As I said.. if she's alone or with some rando I am 100% not going to give a fuck. Being there with the 'other guy' would suck. That's just me knowing myself. My frame is improving every day but I'm not bullet proof just yet. It's also not a house party or anything. Open air chillout type gig, probably less than a dozen people, for maybe an hour or two. Basically alot of time in eachother's presence. Not like I'd be rolling up at a party where I can just ignore… | /r/askTRP | 17/07/17 12:20 AM |
| 4 | Would you keep around a friend who puts you down in front of others to try to raise his SMV?I'll go against the grain here. It depends. Is he ribbing on you in an open-handed kind of way? Calling you bitch or pussy etc. in front of people? Guys do this. Get with the program and give him a taste of his own medicine. You'll even notice other guys just jump on the band wagon. If, however, he's fucking with your game only when a cute girl is around, or is trying to hide shit from you and talk you down behind your back.. dude is toxic and needs to be ghosted. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/17 03:04 PM |
| 4 | Should I just accept that I'm a beta?Are you a virgin? Don't take everything so personally. I have fucked plenty of girls. I got this hooker twice over the last month - hb8 at least $500+. Very hot Couldn't even get hard. Pull a girl from the club though.. maybe hb5 accounting for drunk goggles.. hard af and busted all over her face Dunno why. I think maybe it's about the chase or something, like an ego high from conquering pussy. I took it as a sign to chill out and monk mode for a bit Anyways, don't quit. No one said this would b… | /r/askTRP | 16/07/17 02:09 AM |
| 1 | i have mental problems which prevent me from doing anything much. I come back home from my social interactions feeling tiredStep 1: you do not have any mental problems unless diagnosed by a licensed medical professional. These kinds of ideas about "being broken" are very damaging - and often not founded in reality Step 2: charisma, confidence and social skills are learnable. The first step in learning them is believing that they can be learned.. and that you, specifically, are capable of learning them Step 3: all social interaction is an attention based economy. You learn to attract and hold people's attention, to cr… | /r/askTRP | 15/07/17 05:34 PM |
| 3 | Games up, but I wanna win...You are attempting to qualify yourself to her at every level. Ghost her and reread the entire sidebar until you are done being retarded. She saw me as strong alpha with a brain and a frame I doubt it, but leading you to believe as much was very useful to her. Just look how hard you're trying to retain her approval. I know it's a lost cause; at this point it's like hitting on a married 10... I just wanna see how good my magic is. At this point the second great demon of sex reveals itself. Not onl… | /r/askTRP | 15/07/17 03:48 PM |
| 2 | People say I fuck a lot...Was going to say this if noone else did. Alot of girls aren't dumb.. and that ego of yours? It's got a nice little place for her hooks to sink in. Still, a trend is a trend. And it's more important that other people seem to share and discuss that perception of OP than telling him about it or how they feel about it or how he feels about it. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/17 11:34 PM |
| 2 | Monogamy is a lie.. save yourself the time and angst, esp. if you are new hereSo many things. Really the depths of my stupidity impressed even me. How I could have TRP knowledge and still let myself do these things.. Before we ever got together, she ambushed me with this flogging session with her friend and her friends BF. Led me into it and I had no idea. That friend took her top off and the friends BF was whipping them both before I knew what was going on. I took her outta there and fucked her on their futon but i still remember the gut wrenching humiliation. Ridiculous… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/17 03:32 PM |
| 2 | Monogamy is a lie.. save yourself the time and angst, esp. if you are new hereBasically this. I used to think that attitude was cynical - now I get it. I look back at my relationship and realize how effortlessly she lied all the way through. I got a couple "hints".. which if I had my balls and abundance in order would have been enough to walk on. But I convinced myself to wait for 'proof' and give love a chance. The humiliation of my own stupidity is pretty intense. Not gonna LTR for a long while.. couple years at least. If I do again, I might be just like them - go cheat… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/17 02:08 AM |
| 1 | I get harder when I put them on a pedestal.. wtf?What is an HH woman? | /r/askTRP | 12/07/17 09:50 PM |
| 2 | I get harder when I put them on a pedestal.. wtf?What I want is to be more easily aroused by women in traditional roles.. IE this dom fantasy submissive stuff is fun, but only as dessert not my main thing. It's also fucky because I'm not into humiliation, denial, pegging, cuck, etc.. it's strictly a body worship / chase fetish I think I'm not going to be surprised if this is a big part of my struggle w/ women right now. Sit there and try to attract via TRP/PUA traditional dom roles.. to feed my ego.. but what I'm currently wired for and recept… | /r/askTRP | 12/07/17 06:55 PM |
| 2 | I get harder when I put them on a pedestal.. wtf?You're not wrong, there is alot of moving parts to this. I don't think it's just cut & dry "I'm submissive and that's just the way it is". I've definitely been aroused both by dominating and submitting. Which kind of makes sense because it depends on the girl and context.. and that is sexual tension in action | /r/askTRP | 12/07/17 06:52 PM |
| 1 | I get harder when I put them on a pedestal.. wtf?I've been whacking to porn for like 15 years and have no doubt you are correct sir. Currently doing better than I ever have.. not perfect though. My current shortcut is kind of brilliant.. when the normal urge kicks in, instead of trying to resist.. I just go fap. But without porn. And when I'm done I don't feel horny anymore and don't look at porn. If I could feel the same arousal for women as I feel when I'm thinking about typing in "4chan" or "pornhub" I would be so fucking happy | /r/askTRP | 12/07/17 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Monogamy is a lie.. save yourself the time and angst, esp. if you are new hereYour concern and morals are noted. I see little reason to behave honorably towards dishonorable people. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/17 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Big spoon or little spoon?LOL that's fucking gold | /r/askTRP | 11/07/17 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Worth having a hot GF, even if she might not be loyal?Seems like you have a good situation. I assume you also have plates or hookups on the side? If not why not? | /r/askTRP | 11/07/17 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Worth having a hot GF, even if she might not be loyal?This. The only caveat is making damn sure you are in it just for fun, and avoid both the feeling or the perception that you actually give a shit about her beyond just enjoying the ride Dating such a hottie in that high risk scenario and letting on that you care will be seen as weak | /r/askTRP | 11/07/17 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Worth having a hot GF, even if she might not be loyal?What's cuck about it? Cuckolds willingly allow this shit to happen. Enjoy it, even. I'm talking about a value judgment where we assume that you are legitimately just using her as a means to an end.. as in the other comment, a successful product you can add to the history of your brand. As with Vasiliy and his oLTRs, you still require the bitch to respect and act right. She doesn't get to openly act like a whore and you just accept it. All of the same usual rules apply.. you just assume she's lyi… | /r/askTRP | 11/07/17 02:13 PM |
| 3 | Worth having a hot GF, even if she might not be loyal?Do you one better. Don't commit to any girl you cannot easily replace. It's not about how hot she is.. it's about the balance of power | /r/askTRP | 11/07/17 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Worth having a hot GF, even if she might not be loyal?That's kind of my point. You still walk if she fucks up or openly disrespects you.. but it's kind of an unspoken rule that you don't give a fuck as long as it's kept quiet. Vet her, try to invest wisely.. but assume AWALT and get everything you can on the side too. I dunno, it seems like one of those polar arguments / permanent gray areas without a truly correct answer. On the one hand.. you've given her the appearance of loyalty, and the status of being your GF. Cheating on the side might just … | /r/askTRP | 11/07/17 12:23 PM |
| 2 | I would like to go to 18+ clubs with my girlfriend. Why is it considered unwise to bring an attractive girlfriend to clubs?Choose your poison type scenario. She's in the city now. The nightlife in a major city is eerily reminiscent of an industrial slaughter house.. hot greasy meat under strobing lights like some horror flick. Especially in the after hours clubs with a strong drug or hood vibe, you just see the animal come out in people like nowhere else. Your girl will want to have a taste of that sooner or later. You can be the one to give it to her first, and just realize that shit doesn't belong to you forever..… | /r/askTRP | 11/07/17 02:36 AM |
| 1 | I would like to go to 18+ clubs with my girlfriend. Why is it considered unwise to bring an attractive girlfriend to clubs?Definitely agree on that for an LTR, but unless I misread OP it sounds like he's the one trying to take her to the clubs. Which if he's got plates or sidepieces.. it's meh. If he is more serious.. well fuck he should probably still take her so he can watch the hypergamy unfold and get woke, dude is 18, moved with her and already worried what she'll do | /r/askTRP | 11/07/17 02:28 AM |
| 7 | I would like to go to 18+ clubs with my girlfriend. Why is it considered unwise to bring an attractive girlfriend to clubs?Unless you moved from a major city in the first place.. welcome to the big pond. Expect to find sharks that make the Chads of your smalltown upbringing look like chumps. These people especially tend to congregate in night clubs, bars, etc, because chicks like your GF know they can come to these places and take their pick of an endless buffet. Up to you really. If she's already the clubby party slut type.. (and why LTR that?) may as well take her out and have fun, maybe try and pick up some slut … | /r/askTRP | 11/07/17 02:21 AM |
| 3 | I would like to go to 18+ clubs with my girlfriend. Why is it considered unwise to bring an attractive girlfriend to clubs?This just sounds dumb. If you feel like you need to test the bitch why bother? Besides, any test applied while you are actually physically present is bullshit.. she'll just act the part while you're around and effortlessly lie about whatever happens when you aren't. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/17 02:15 AM |
| 2 | [Method] No Bullshit guide to meditation | If you keep getting stuck in your head all the fkn time, it's time you start taking control. Meditation is easily the beast way to regain control of your mind and stay grounded brothersSkepticism is good.. but for anything that's cheap and easy to try like this, usually the best answer is to see for yourself. Experiencing something with all of your senses gives you a much more accurate picture of what a thing is like. Every other person in the world could benefit from meditation.. but maybe you won't, at least not at that particular time in your life. Reviews, evidence, etc. can all break down after a certain point of analysis and really you have to drop the effort to prove ev… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/17 01:31 PM |
| 3 | Monogamy is a lie.. save yourself the time and angst, esp. if you are new hereThis was a large part of my rationalization for getting into an LTR with this girl. She's hot, she's fun, she seems down to earth.. would be really fucking nice to ease back on the game for a while and focus on my personal growth. It's a lie. Relationships require energy, just like plates. Your investment-per-lay goes down but your overall investment of time and emotional energy to lead that shit correctly is more than enough to eat any savings. Plus the added liability of her pulling fuckshit d… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/17 12:56 PM |
| 0 | Sexual issuePorn is bad for you. Fap is okay, but no porn. When you fap, use a fleshlight.. even the tightest pussy can't match that deadlift trained grip w/ years of fapping experience. Drugs will also throw your shit off. Stimulants, workout supps, adderall, coffee, alcohol, weed, sleep deprivation, etc. Above all else.. if you aren't hungry, don't eat. You are not a walking talking dildo. Perfectly healthy men can just not be down at that moment. Same for chicks. Don't involve your ego or your fear of fa… | /r/askTRP | 10/07/17 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Anger phase 2 years later?Fix your inner game. Sounds like you have the look, and the mindset to live life for yourself, but you are cutting yourself off at the knees with women by thinking you are worse off than you actually are. This puts you in a frame where you are trying to qualify yourself to her through your "mad gainz", if only she would appreciate how hard you try.. You cannot out-gain a bad mental attitude. Alpha is a mindset. Ambition will always move the goal posts forward, women & friends will always come an… | /r/askTRP | 10/07/17 12:20 PM |
| 1 | "You're so unaffectionate" - Plate. How to keep my plate in line?There are zero things wrong with that approach. In fact I want to become more like that. My instinct heavily drives me towards affection/pairbonding behavior both before and after sex. I balance that with plates and dread.. but it still leads down a troubling path. It's a problem. Creates the wrong expectations in her head, dances a fine line with my emotions, can make you look like a needy beta, etc. She broke frame and resorted to direct communication (women only do this when desperate) to get… | /r/askTRP | 10/07/17 12:12 PM |
| 2 | Monogamy is a lie.. save yourself the time and angst, esp. if you are new hereThat link lead to a lot of really fucking good reads. Thanks. I need to start exploring some of the other manosphere content, TRP is ground zero but there is so much good material out there. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/17 12:07 PM |
| 1 | she opened up and I screwed with her headSo you were rude af, she got rude af back, and now you are lost and confused. Don't dish it out if you can't take it. At any rate soft next for a few days, give her the space, reach out like nothing happened and proceed to lay pipe Depending on your frame asshole game works like magic. I haven't really done this myself, but I have witnessed first hand plates/gfs being told shit like "i wasn't fucking talking to you" or "quit acting like a bitch" and not only do they shut up and fall in line but … | /r/askTRP | 10/07/17 12:03 PM |
| 14 | Monogamy is a lie.. save yourself the time and angst, esp. if you are new hereProbably a good part of why my relationship failed. I have the look.. but my head isn't quite done growing yet. Still need to do some work learning game, social skills, and especially self-love. So even though alot of chicks will oogle me, which she noticed, I didn't really line up any "credible threats" to her position. She felt very safe. She was NEVER worried about anything I did.. including drug fueled sex parties that she wasn't at. Never cheated on her. Really, really wish I had.. but then… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/17 11:55 PM |
| 9 | Monogamy is a lie.. save yourself the time and angst, esp. if you are new hereTBH it still feels like little daggers are impaling my heart now and then. But that's at least 50% my bruised ego.. thinking I had that shit under control with muh TRP when obviously I was fucking blind. But yeah. I'm over the dream. I see it now. Don't want to be stuck in that broken cycle forever.. time to create something new. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/17 11:50 PM |
| 39 | Monogamy is a lie.. save yourself the time and angst, esp. if you are new hereHold space for that pain. It's okay to feel like shit, or even a little confused, for a while. People getting that close and lying to us has a way of distorting our perception on reality.. hard to know which way is up, or trust ourselves, or our judgments of another person's character. Good news is.. you are still alive. You had to learn the hard way, like me, but if you take the lessons that TRP can teach you and really internalize your experience, you will be more free from women like your wif… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/17 10:01 PM |
| 11 | Monogamy is a lie.. save yourself the time and angst, esp. if you are new hereCouldn't agree more. It's the ego and idealism that makes monogamy so sinister and tempting. Even or especially for men who have studied TRP and think they have the "solution" to women being women. There is no solution.. only awareness and adaptation. That took me two fucking years to learn, and I had to learn it the hard way, even after reading the sidebar and being told again and again. If I can help even one guy skip ahead of that process by just a little bit, this post was worth it. Trouble … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/17 09:48 PM |
| 4 | Anyone here in therapy?I'm angling to get into therapy once my new work insurance kicks in. I tried it a couple times before and the results were meh. Now though I think I kind of have more of an idea of what my problems are.. other than woe is me why does life suck. I need to work on my attachment issues, IE tendency to dive head-first and waist deep into oneitis. I figure it has something to do with my mother's passing, feeling guilty, and clinging to my GF at the time like the last liferaft on the titanic. Also nee… | /r/askTRP | 08/07/17 05:12 AM |
| 4 | Do you actually regret screwing up any past LTRs due to being Beta?Easy trap to fall into. You ask yourself: if I had only known better, could I have made it work? But if you had really known better, you probably would have avoided getting serious with toxic women to begin with. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/17 01:25 AM |
| 3 | Should I try to burn my ex on our mutual scene?Heard. Thanks fellas | /r/askTRP | 05/07/17 07:36 PM |
| 3 | Resources for social (non-sexual) game?Charisma Myth, As You Are, What Everybody is Saying Alot of these are cross-applicable, game is game for women or people in general. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/17 01:51 AM |
| 1 | The Attractive Guy Next DoorStrength has mostly plateaued, but I had a severe case of fuckarounditis. We will see how this bulk cycle goes. Right now I'm on something Cook's muscle building program.. 4 days a week, plenty of compound movements and I'm supplementing with chinups & pullups and some accessories. Pretty weak rn so I'm hoping to see good results. 3k a day, macros keyed in, 8 hrs sleep, no fucking weed or cigarettes, very limited alcool | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/17 08:20 PM |
| 1 | The Attractive Guy Next DoorAgreed. This is the same logic I apply to gear. I've been lifting about 3 yrs now, with some results, mostly toning, health/energy and bf. But I want another 30 lbs of lean muscle. I'm in a place now where my knowledge, effort, nutrition and lifestyle can all be aligned to the goal. If I'm not well on my way by next summer, like 15+lbs, you can bet that I'm jumping on gear to get what I need. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/17 06:32 PM |
| 4 | "I love you" - the ultimate unintentional shit test, that women perform on us.Fucking truth. I could argue that there are levels of love - but in the traditional sense of the word, you are 100% on point. I've had plates & OLTRs that I was.. erhm.. I guess I can say "affectionate" towards. I even used the 3 words, but from the very first time I said it I realized I was doing it only for the emotional dynamite it sets off in them. It wasn't Love, but lustful affection and maybe a pinch of Mercy. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/07/17 06:18 PM |
| 1 | How do guys who hit their stride later on in life (after school) and outgrow their old friends find new friends?Mutual interests. Hobbies. Birds of a feather flock together, etc. You can find a buddy for just about anything.. just find someone who is already doing things that you are doing, and be social. Then do those things together and bridge into other social activities based on how well you vibe. Example: Gym buddy. Workout every now and then. After some rapport is established, go get drinks and smash hoes. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/17 02:10 PM |
| 2 | I get along well with most southern girls but wtf is up with the ones in Georgia?Are you me? Dunno for certain as ATL is the only big city I've ever lived in. I just assumed that is how bitches from the city are like. FWIW they aren't all shitty. But on the night scene here you are either Chad or invisible, I've made a few pulls but it's kind of rare. | /r/askTRP | 03/07/17 03:06 AM |
| 7 | Fingering and sperm?Technically? Yes. Is it likely? No. Here's your rule of thumb: if sperm touches her pussy in any way, there is a non-zero chance of pregnancy. Precum has sperm in it, for an example. If you are legit worried about it, personally drive her to a pharmacy and watch her swallow a plan-B, then stay with her for a few hours to make sure she doesn't puke it up. Problem solved. This only works within a 72-hour timeframe and should NOT be common.. but mistakes happen. Wrap your tool or get a vasectomy. I… | /r/askTRP | 02/07/17 10:02 PM |
| 3 | Former red-pilled, now cucked. Need help.I was in a similar situation in college. Found a girl who was hot enough, seemed wholesome, got emotionally close. Etc. I also had a very deep attachment to my mother.. which was severed when she passed. I was still with college GF and basically made her into my new mommy/emotional support. Basic fact: this girl and your attachment to her are detrimental to your life. You said it yourself. She makes you feel less motivated to succeed.. even if that's because she's amazing and makes you feel like… | /r/askTRP | 02/07/17 09:17 PM |
| 3 | I'm a 29yo virgin living at home (Europe) with my entire family... I'm scared to move on. What can I do?I was raised like a little bitch and was clinging to parents & attachments. Stayed home thru college because Mom wanted me at home and it was cheaper. Convinced me it wasn't worth taking loans to live in the dorms. Proceeded to live with Dad in an apt after Mom passed, couldn't afford to live on my own. Proceeded to live with GF + Dad after that, as he was out of town most of the time and paid half our bills. We could lived on our own together, but it was cheaper. I also liked him visiting becau… | /r/askTRP | 02/07/17 09:04 PM |
| 1 | I'm a 29yo virgin living at home (Europe) with my entire family... I'm scared to move on. What can I do?I'm not sure for Europe what the website would be, but find a reputable website that reviews escort girls. Find one with recent positive reviews. Go to town. Usually they require alot of personal info upfront if it is illegal in your country, to protect themselves. Worth the risk IMO. Once you are established with a girl she can be your reference to others. But if you have no job, car, or your own place.. fix that stuff first. The pros you want (hot & clean & feminine) are not cheap. Might be wo… | /r/askTRP | 02/07/17 08:41 PM |
| 1 | I'm a 29yo virgin living at home (Europe) with my entire family... I'm scared to move on. What can I do?Find a job. Get your own place. Become as independent from your family as possible as quickly as possible. I waited until I was 28 to fully disentangle myself from a family domicile. Mistake. The day you have your own place, all to yourself, is one of the biggest steps you can ever take to becoming an independent, self-driven man (ie alpha). It's the lack of guidance and lack of attachment. At first it feels like you are drifting alone in a raft on the open sea.. because you are. And then you bu… | /r/askTRP | 02/07/17 08:37 PM |
| 1 | The change in how people treat you once you get fit/bulky is real, and one of the best things that happened to me. Thanks TRPDon't do a recomp if you're a natural lifter (not on gear) because it'll be insanely slow. So my alternative is.. cut/bulk cut/bulk rinse/repeat. Which is what I'm doing. The rest of it I have down. I was eating 3000+/cals a day with plenty of protein and not really gaining size or strength. Was either too much alcohol/staying out late, or routine stagnation. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/17 04:18 PM |
| 2 | Can an introvert adopting a fun attitude grant him a better position in opening girls?Cut that useless label out of your vocabulary. Unless you have been diagnosed by a trained Psychologist or Psychiatrist with some version of autism or another social disorder, those labels mean nothing. People take retarded online quizzes and then allow such labels to govern how they lead their lives and think about themselves. Is that you? As for women and socializing, yes, letting people in on your "inner-dialogue" is a trick taught in many self help books. Remember, it doesn't really matter w… | /r/askTRP | 02/07/17 11:26 AM |
| 1 | The change in how people treat you once you get fit/bulky is real, and one of the best things that happened to me. Thanks TRPI appreciate that but I've been failbulking for 2+ years and wanted a change of pace. I think my body was ready for it too. Doing a straight bulk recomp works for some people, I had plateaued. I am currently gaining strength and improving my look during a time when I could use a little boost in that dept. I also think that when I do bulk again, my body will be more receptive to it. I dunno. I haven't ton a super ton of research on it but I do know that my previous efforts bulking did not go far,… | /r/askTRP | 02/07/17 11:18 AM |
| 8 | Best way to handle Girl Referring to herself as my GF?Did not read. Your scarcity is probably showing thru and that's WHY she is so pushy. You already know you don't want to LTR.. do not fucking cave like a little bitch when she threatens to take the pussy away. That is all. Carry on soldier | /r/askTRP | 01/07/17 11:38 PM |
| 7 | Best way to handle Girl Referring to herself as my GF?Fair. So its in the social space, but she's owning it correctly. "We're just fucking" is a helluva status boost for you. Hell maybe even A&A.. "you are Mrs. Slut now. Happy? I thought so." If she starts trying to advertise you two as something different than what you are, withdraw. Don't fall into her frame on this. What's said behind closed doors is just flirting/testing you.. this chick sounds like she is gonna break fast though without commitment. Don't be silly. Don't commit. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/17 11:02 PM |
| 7 | Best way to handle Girl Referring to herself as my GF?People have different approaches. Remember that TRP is a toolbox. Guys with true abundance can afford to be brutally direct and give zero fucks if the girl starts crying or flakes. Become one of those guys. As for this girl.. if she is only plate/FWB, why is she around you all the time? Why are people asking if you two are an item? I enjoy socializing with my plates but only after a nice pattern has been established. I don't bring them around my friends until weeks (or months) into the thing and… | /r/askTRP | 01/07/17 10:56 PM |
| 11 | The change in how people treat you once you get fit/bulky is real, and one of the best things that happened to me. Thanks TRPGood for you dude. Keep it up. Don't stop lifting until you grow 6" taller and can bench press a bulldozer. I need more of this myself. I'm fit and healthy.. but not ripped. 5'10" 155 Cutting through September because I've never seen my abs.. and why not its summer. Should only need to drop another 10 lbs or so. Somehow I'm still making gains on strength.. though I'm not getting bigger obv. because of caloric deficit. It's weird. At this weight I look for any excuse to take my shirt off - I look… | /r/askTRP | 01/07/17 10:53 PM |
| 2 | Any of you (or anyone you know on this board) super spiritual? I'm already red but I'm starting to get into spirituality.Yep. I'm a Redpill Burner. Aka burning man. Scene is rife with shallow spirituality, which I don't buy into, but I consider myself a spiritual person. Thought informs reality so the way you think about the meaning of the universe has an effect on how you live your life. "Dr. Strange" was a Redpill movie for me. Nothing as alpha as setting your eyes upon the world, and realizing that you have the power to affect it, and that you are in some way responsible not just for your individual existence, … | /r/askTRP | 01/07/17 10:25 PM |
| 1 | is it better to look mean or normalYou want to look easy to hang out with and fun to fuck. The main thing about it is being comfortable in your own skin. Would wearing a leather jacket, smoking a cig and looking mean feel weird to you? Then it would look weird on you. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/17 10:21 PM |
| 3 | quitting videogames, porn and netflix have made me realize how sad and pathetic my life was.Simplify. "Is this something I want? Or just what's expected of me?" Good ol Don Draper | /r/askTRP | 01/07/17 10:17 PM |
| 3 | Did I mess up and go into her frame?The push-pull on social media can play out in 5 minutes or 5 weeks. It's weird. I have pulled from FB before but in general it's not a place for you to focus on unless you are model-material with a badass IG following. Sometimes it's best to be aloof and distant, and take 8 hours to reply. Sometimes it's best to reply quickly, get a little engagement going, and then dip. Experiment on your own and find what works for you. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/17 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Do i feel like shit because of porn withdrawal?Get better sleep then. Other things you put in your body matter too.. cigs alcohol weed. A man shouldn't just be tired all the time. Figure that shit out. If its not diet, drugs or lifestyle, see a doc | /r/askTRP | 01/07/17 04:39 PM |
| 6 | Redpillers who consider passing on your genes/creating a family legacy important for you, what's your story? How do you plan to achieve your goals?Giving my son's a better start than what I had sounds like a damn good mission to me. No idea how to succeed at it though. I'm not even allowing myself to LTR right now.. my attachment issues with women run that deep. Gotta fix that shit first | /r/askTRP | 01/07/17 03:07 PM |
| 5 | Terrified of hot girlsExposure therapy is a good place to start. Honestly though, I didn't get past the fear of hotties until I actually fucked a handful of them. Fuck one hottie? That's a fluke Fuck two hotties? That's interesting.. Fuck three hotties? That's a pattern. Before I would tell myself: "I don't deserve hotties.. I'm not good enough.. obviously, otherwise I would've had them by now" After I would tell myself: "Well fuck.. I've already fucked 3+ hotties.. this is just bullshit in my head. I'm good enough. … | /r/askTRP | 01/07/17 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Do i feel like shit because of porn withdrawal?You shouldn't wake up exhausted. Something is wrong with that. Eat a deficit but not so much that your body enters starvation mode. Do more reading. I'm cutting right now, doing lift/cardio on alternating days 6 days a week. 1500 cals on cardio days, 1800 on training days. I wake up feeling fine. Number might be different for you but it should be possible to cut without feeling dead ass tired all the time. As for the amount of work.. that's nothing but good news. You aren't dead, and you aren't … | /r/askTRP | 01/07/17 02:44 PM |
| 3 | Do i feel like shit because of porn withdrawal?Continue to abstain from porn. Its weird man. I was out tonight at the bars and had no intent of gaming any women - just cruising with my homie and doing something other than Vidya. But seeing dudes out with hot girls, my friend talking to chicks.. suddenly felt like I was failing somehow. It's bullshit the tricks your brain plays on you. I didn't want to game any chicks so I didn't.. but by not doing so I felt like a loser. Added to that is I know I'm more attractive than alot of the dudes I sa… | /r/askTRP | 01/07/17 05:46 AM |
| 1 | Hey guys. I am a newbie but I have really big question. What to do if it's in ur nature to be a monogamist. and if I swallow TRP will it change this downside in my nature?Red Pill 101: Step 1: eliminate fear of rejection. Approach until they do not affect you. Step 2: eliminate the 'need' for women. This part varies.. getting cheated in helps | /r/askTRP | 01/07/17 03:30 AM |
| 2 | Cant seem to maintain self disciplineIf you don't follow your own rules, why should anyone else? Buddha said, 'A man who conquers himself is greater than one who conquers a thousand men in battle'. Welcome to ground zero. Stop bullshitting yourself. It won't be easy, but once you cut the bullshit out of your own head and life, the rest will fall into place. Making excuses, indulging moments of weakness.. these all affect you. Fall in love with yourself. Seriously. Once you can make rules, knowing that they are right for you, and si… | /r/askTRP | 30/06/17 02:04 AM |
| 2 | Texting at times when you can't talkSocial media is a woman's frame. That includes text. Try a phonecall... see how it works out for you. Women these days will treat you like you are weak and needy for actually trying to speak to them, instead of "supplicating" through the appropriately feminine medium of text, FB, etc. I can see arranging a meet far in advance for a girl who lives far away from you.. and that's ok. But in general, you don't need that kind of lead time. I feel weird sometimes when I give 24 hours notice. "Hey, let… | /r/askTRP | 30/06/17 01:57 AM |
| 1 | need help getting a twerk vid in a club solo, need a game planWell maybe don't listen to me. When "Friends" pull that shit on me I ghost the fuck out of them. I don't harbor liars and malcontents. I can also count my friends on one hand. YMMV Some people find benefit in socializing with those of questionable character. You can socialize, and just not really invest yourself. You play nice but don't trust too much. I can see the logic in that. It comes down to how you define the term 'friend'. To me it does not mean fair-weather ally. It means someone you ca… | /r/askTRP | 30/06/17 01:51 AM |
| 2 | Is my mental health worth more than keeping a job that I know will destroy it?So you have a source of income that is isolated from drama. Them business people are just doing what's right for the business. Don't take it personally. Sounds like your ex was there first and that's why it is the way it is. Your best move? Keep your savings. Hold this job down for a bit, but spend your free time looking for something else. Shouldn't take long. Always better to hunt for a new gig while you are already employed. Just quitting because it makes you feel undervalued or "sad" is weak… | /r/askTRP | 30/06/17 01:44 AM |
| 2 | Help getting over my oneitisMy friend.. try this on for size. Say it with me. "I will not be monogamous with a woman" Have a girlfriend if you want.. but fuck someone on the side. I had the opportunity to do that in my last "relationship", and if I had, life would be better than it is right now. Instead I chose the BP dream, and got fucked for it. These hoes ain't loyal. You've read that 1000 times. Time to internalize it. If the idea of forsaking monogamy bothers you.. that's the beta. He's right there. Put a shiv in the … | /r/askTRP | 30/06/17 01:38 AM |
| 2 | If you don't want herpes, then is the best thing to just only stick with LTRs?The worst thing about herpes is knowing you have herpes. A doctor told me that. Medically, it means almost nothing to you. It is the social stigma that is a problem for everyone. Don't knowingly expose yourself to herpes.. but don't worry about it too much. Don't be a fool, wrap your tool. Then fuck bitches and have bigger problems to think about | /r/askTRP | 30/06/17 01:34 AM |
| 1 | need help getting a twerk vid in a club solo, need a game planYou are in competition. He views you as a rival and is attempting to weaken your position. Sorry about your friend. On the plus side, even though he scooped you in this scenario, all he's doing is stealing your thunder. It was your idea. You will come to understand that the true source of value is the one who can come up with those ideas and act on them.. not some crumb-stealing scmuck who tanks his friendship to get a (very tiny) leg up. Ghost the fucking twat and move on. You'll be better for … | /r/askTRP | 30/06/17 01:31 AM |
| 5 | Why is it often touted that alpha = better genes?Genetics are a strong indicator for potential alpha-ness. Tall, muscular, dominant men have a tendency to make more of the same. They acquire more resources, they defend themselves better, have access to more and better mates, etc. People walking around with great genetics are essentially benefiting from a legacy of alpha-ness through their ancestors. People with great genetics also end up alpha at a higher percentage because they are given much more experience and opportunity in the SMP to lear… | /r/askTRP | 28/06/17 04:46 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to chick who refuses to do anything until you tell her how many girls you've slept with?"I don't really know.." Come on ball park it "Double digits somewhere? I stopped counting in highschool" | /r/askTRP | 28/06/17 04:41 PM |
| 2 | Is a LTR just one big shit test?LTR is a deal you make with a female. Most men make these deals without reading the fine print: lack of loyalty, loss of attraction, talking to them straight and treating them like equals, etc. Women tend to understand the fine print better. They seek out LTRs for status, for access to social scenes and lifestyles, for good feelings, but are instinctively inclined to undermine, test, and damage the relationship - and to get Chad's dick on the side. LTRs can be good for RP men.. but don't kid you… | /r/askTRP | 28/06/17 02:18 PM |
| 10 | "I can do drinks if it's as friends."Do you want to be her friend? Then go grab a drink. Bridges are things you use to get somewhere else. Only interested in a fuck? She had the decency to tell it to you straight, trying to change her mind is beta af | /r/askTRP | 27/06/17 08:34 PM |
| 1 | How can I find and receive mentorship after having an absent/pussified/BP father?Teach the self. You don't need a fucking mentor. All the tools and guidance is that way on the sidebar -----> | /r/askTRP | 27/06/17 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Your experience with L-Theanine, Modafinil, if any.I bought a bag full of modafinil online and never used it. Shit is bad for your heart. Most of these things are really fucking bad for you if you use often or long term. I have plenty of energy. 28. Lift, eat clean, sleep. Cut out alcohol, cigarettes etc. Best thing you could ever do as far as getting shit done. Oh and wake up early | /r/askTRP | 27/06/17 12:38 AM |
| 1 | The Rise and Fall - Confessions Of A Beta Scumbag: I got more girls when I was beta, What the hell was I doing? DON'T MAKE MY MISTAKES (Long post of a personal experience.)I dunno about pointless. But the idea is that you do something competitive, and you win. This does a couple things for you. Teaches you to work hard and be good at something Grants you status and respect amongst your teammates Women are attracted to the kind of men that other men follow/admire. Done right your team becomes your fam, and then you roll out and hit on bitches together. You got your head on your shoulders. You'll do fine. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/17 12:24 AM |
| 18 | Sister cheated on her BF. How to approach the situationIt's not your job to punish her over this. Her BF dumping her ass flat did that already. Any negative feelings she might hold on to will come from that. Likely though, she'll be all "hehe but im pretty and boys are dumb" and not learn a damn thing. Anyways, all you can do is show her the path. If she wants to fuck hot losers all through her 20s she will. Nothing you can do to stop that. But, you can help her understand the cost/benefit of that lifestyle. Use redpill language without talking abou… | /r/askTRP | 26/06/17 10:53 PM |
| 1 | The Rise and Fall - Confessions Of A Beta Scumbag: I got more girls when I was beta, What the hell was I doing? DON'T MAKE MY MISTAKES (Long post of a personal experience.)Sadly I was BP as fuck all thru college so I can't speak much to it. Join a frat. Join a sports team if able. Football would be best but anything is better than nothing. Be good at it, too. If all else fails, find a source and start selling green. It's stupid and you best protect yourself not to get caught, but point-blank ppl with weed get invited to parties, especially if you hook 'em up with good shit and are already social and cool. Use it to get in the door and then be like "well my guy dis… | /r/askTRP | 26/06/17 10:49 PM |
| 3 | How to have self esteem without egoLove yourself for your own sake. That is self esteem. Do not love yourself as compared to others, that is narcissism. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/17 09:08 PM |
| 14 | My girlfriend mentioned she was going to see Wonder Woman with her ex-FWB and another girl and I think I have to break up with her.Towards the bottom all 3 of your points are spot on. Once a cheater always a cheater. She can tell you and everyone else that you are her Fucking soulmate, with the biggest dick and best and and attitude ever.. doesn't matter. Watch her actions, not her words. The amazing-ness of this relationship on your part is coming from New Relationship Energy (aka brain chemicals). You could see yourself spending a lifetime with YOUR VERSION OF HER that you've built in your head. The real person, on the ot… | /r/askTRP | 26/06/17 09:05 PM |
| 2 | Beta in the process of changing, need some tipsDidn't read it all. You will get higher quality responses if you make your posts much more concise and respect the time of your readers / teachers. Congrats, you found TRP. You now have the map. Read the sidebar. Make a few goals and notes for yourself. Pick up some recommended books. Much more important than reading is application. You could spend 20 years here reading and never improve if that's all you do. You write as if you are very not ok with yourself. I've been there. I was a brainless s… | /r/askTRP | 26/06/17 06:27 PM |
| 2 | What is going on with her?Ghost that cheating slut and never look back. Don't even plate. There are more fish in the sea. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/17 03:36 PM |
| 8 | I'm 49M, asking young guys (under 25), is this normal among today's youth?Yes but it's usually not so obvious. Guys have to be pretty deep in the pocket & seriously lack self respect to put up with overt slapping, insults, dismissals, etc. Mostly what it is today between young guys and girls (I'm 28).. girl says X but does Z. "Oh no fuck my ex I'm over that dick and haven't seen or talked to him in two years" Secretly texting ex to make sure he is still an option "I don't get how people can just lie and cheat, I've never ever done that before, some people are just tox… | /r/askTRP | 26/06/17 03:25 PM |
| 1 | The Rise and Fall - Confessions Of A Beta Scumbag: I got more girls when I was beta, What the hell was I doing? DON'T MAKE MY MISTAKES (Long post of a personal experience.)You haven't had sex in two years(!?!?!) Problem #1 right there. Break that dryspell. Desperation is a stinky cologne. Pay for a pro or fuck a fattiez, just get your dick in vag at least once a month. If you don't meet that requirement assume you are functionally psychotic, a diagnosed incel, and it SHOWS. Also, you're in college now. The rules changed. They will change again when you go from college to real life. At each step you must learn and adapt to the new environment. The game has changed … | /r/askTRP | 26/06/17 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Is having two girlfriends holding me back?Didn't read it all. If you feel like they are taking away too much of your time, spend less time on them. Breaking up with both or just one is unnecessary IMO unless you just don't want them anymore, but in that case own your shit and don't gaslight yourself. Having a Hb7 and Hb8 wrapped around your fingers should make things in your life easier, not harder. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/17 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Any early-30s guys tired of constant disappointment decide to lower your standards to find an LTR?As usual, very on point. OP is still looking for a woman to hold his leash. | /r/askTRP | 25/06/17 05:33 AM |
| 2 | How to gracefully respond when a girl who ghosted you suddenly shows interestShe had better options, and now she doesn't. This will happen. Don't respond right away, and when you do, keep it strictly logistics. Hey I'm doing X let's go. Hey I'm not doing shit come over and get a drink. She either comes or she doesn't. Delayed replies, flaking, excuses, etc. are all BS. At this stage she's either DTF or not. Maybe she's playing you for validation, but it costs you nothing to find out. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/17 08:29 PM |
| 7 | Got an STD. How do I tell my plates?Perfect pressure flip. I hooked up with this chick a while back who had claimed she never once had an STD, but stupidly did not use condoms. Wound up with Chlamydia and had no idea for like.. several months. Zero symptoms. It was a routine test. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/17 08:14 PM |
| 2 | How to gracefully respond when a girl who ghosted you suddenly shows interestYour question lacks context, and so all of the answers you've gotten so far are shitty. Did you get her number, try to set something up, and she stopped replying? Then you stopped replying. Then a week or two later she texts you. Ta-daa, you've managed to make a gina tingle. Guys don't usually ignore girls, they keep chasing. Guys who don't chase are mysterious and interesting and probably a good fuck. Now if you had something going already, like a plate or fwb who straight up ghosted you, that … | /r/askTRP | 24/06/17 08:08 PM |
| 1 | How often to "pursue" a date or wait to be pursued?Perfectly normal. That's your role. Her role is to be there when you ask all dressed up and ready to have fun. | /r/askTRP | 24/06/17 08:02 PM |
| 3 | Question about being focused and partyingThis is about balance, and you will go through cycles, as you already noticed. Monk Mode is basically an excuse we give ourselves to ignore some goals and focus on others. It is delayed gratification for one of the main stated goals of TRP: sexual success. Basically, your time is valuable. Focus on what you really want and go do it. If you truly avoid time wasty activities, like low-value nights out at bars or meh parties, or gaming/netflix, etc., you will have plenty of free time. Staying up la… | /r/askTRP | 24/06/17 03:30 PM |
| 2 | [Method] I have trying out this NLP method called the 'greatest hits' to raise self-esteem and confidence for the past 23 days , and it fucking works. This is how you do it.Agreed. I didn't pay attention to his list of examples, just the concept itself. The examples need to be internally sourced - things you conquered, high standards you lived up to, challenges you didn't think you were ready for but aced, etc. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/17 01:56 PM |
| 28 | [Method] I have trying out this NLP method called the 'greatest hits' to raise self-esteem and confidence for the past 23 days , and it fucking works. This is how you do it.Distort your perception of reality, downplay your success, exaggerate your failure, distract you from the work at hand, delay problem resolution, prevent genuine enjoyment of hobbies and socialization.. Anxiety + Depression. Narcissism. Inappropriate attachment behaviors. I'm not talking little kid gloves and TLC and Disney movies here to keep your garden fresh. Time under tension is what makes boys into men. But you gotta have form. If you are out there putting shit tons of pressure on yourself… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/17 01:29 PM |
| 17 | [Method] I have trying out this NLP method called the 'greatest hits' to raise self-esteem and confidence for the past 23 days , and it fucking works. This is how you do it.I like it. Too many people think of the brain/emotions as something you can just 'control' through sheer force of will. But really it's more like a garden - you gotta treat it right or it's gonna fuck you up. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/06/17 12:59 PM |
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