I'm having trouble in college to basically get a second date. I just went on my 5th first date this past 30 days and only one of those five turned into a second one, but she was unattractive so I guess her standards are lower. All of the others made politely ambiguous statements about seeing me again, but its clear they just aren't interested. They say stuff like "I had a good time but I'll let you know when I'll me free", or "I'll have to check my schedule but otherwise, yeah", but at the same time, they never message back about when they're free.

I just have a hard time getting women to like me I suppose, and I'm not acting desperate around them. Its basically just casual convos the whole time at a coffee or smoothie shop. All of these dates are from tinder and its hard for me to land a date on tinder initially (on the poverty end of tinder, 200 matches in a year, less than one per day, whereas a lot of people get that much in a week), let alone have one continue to want to be around me more. And IRL, women don't show interest in me so idk what to do