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| 3 | Break Up With Your CountryI'm living in Poland but thinking of moving to Russia (either Karelia or deep into the centre into the woods). What do you think about it? A shithole or a good place? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/11/20 07:18 PM |
| 0 | Your favorite colognesAcqua di Gio essenza. The most beautiful scent I've ever worn, got complimented every time I wore it. It is no longer produced but you can still grab it from the internet. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/20 03:36 PM |
| 4 | 19 year old with $14k in savings, what can I do to increase it?Yeah just calculate the annual return of 1,2120 (360/3) and you will know he's full of bullshit. Leverage works until it doesn't and then your account is suddenly empty. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/20 10:49 AM |
| 7 | Worried about catfishing my Tinder date5'7 is not small, nothing to worry about | /r/askTRP | 22/06/20 10:24 AM |
| 3 | Mid 20s. Don't give a shit about muchThis subreddit gives you tools. It's not dogmatic, it's not an ideology. You can pursue any goals you want | /r/askTRP | 14/06/20 01:20 PM |
| 3 | Mid 20s. Don't give a shit about muchAsk knowledgeable Endorsed Contributors, not randoms at askTRP who make stuff up | /r/askTRP | 14/06/20 12:21 PM |
| 3 | I feel lowCalm down and remind yourself of the fact that you have a roof over your head and dry clothes. Yes, you may TEMPORARILY not earn much, but you are alive and not hungry, as I assume. The bad times will pass. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/20 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Those of you firmly against "Enjoy the Decline" mindset, what do you do to fight the degeneracy?You cannot stop the effect on a global scale. All you can do is ensure YOU are not affected and the people closest to you. Become non-mainstream. Raise your family in the countryside, reject porn, reject consumerism, reject tattoos, reject alcohol, reject weed, reject mass media, reject christianity, islam, judaism and other desert cults. Embrace tradition and your roots. First your family, then your tribe, then the rest. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/20 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here from post soviet union countries?Who is that abstract "they" you refer to? You'll pick up jack shit here, people are closed and cold towards people we don't know. We do not talk to nor befriend strangers. But why do I even bother replying? America and Western Europe present reality on the opposite end of the spectrum and you literally cannot comprehend it. Even if you visit us, you will only be an exotic tourist at most. Put your head out of your ass, the remark of yours sounded just as solipsistic as those of women. Of course … | /r/askTRP | 09/06/20 01:59 PM |
| 14 | Anyone here from post soviet union countries?I'm from Poland. for example greeting a stranger is fine in states, when in Bulgaria makes you look like a weirdo. Yes, here too. So day game is almost inexistent. Apart from that, girls work the same. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/20 05:59 AM |
| 1 | When slightly drunk, I'm much more dominant than when sober. But I don't want to drink anymore. What to do?I get it - young men hate themselves - drink - inner demons resurface. But I still miss the point of this saying. What is "manly" in this act? I think I've missed it. What constitutes a man in this situation? Thank you for sharing, I don't doubt your old mentor is very knowledgeable. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/20 03:34 PM |
| 1 | When slightly drunk, I'm much more dominant than when sober. But I don't want to drink anymore. What to do?Will try my best to do that. Thank you for an advice, I think it might work if I focus a little | /r/askTRP | 27/05/20 02:33 PM |
| 2 | When slightly drunk, I'm much more dominant than when sober. But I don't want to drink anymore. What to do?Thank you for sharing your experience. Maybe it's the usual problem of delayed vs instant gratification, just painted over a drink-or-not-drink scenario. and don't worry about the effect on your social life This one is hard for me. I have always been a loner and abstinence, as I observed, only exaggerates this. The bitter consequence is that I need to learn to live with it, I suppose. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/20 12:51 PM |
| 1 | When slightly drunk, I'm much more dominant than when sober. But I don't want to drink anymore. What to do?It's not about getting a hard-on. It's about how to drop the mental obstacles. Thanks for the tip anyway | /r/askTRP | 27/05/20 12:39 PM |
| 2 | How does one cope with loneliness.I don't advocate to stop using the technology but to stop getting junk dopamine hits by passively consuming social media and video games. By paradox, when you get bored (=your mind resets slowly from the dopamine), you start being active. You start processing thoughts you haven't thought of before like mathematics, philosophy, art. Get bored and you will see that you will feel an immense need to read a book or create an artwork. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/20 09:41 AM |
| 2 | How does one cope with loneliness.Hey I'm no help, it's just a bro talking to a bro. (porn, weed, eating food, oneitis syndrome) that leads to depression If you can, stop using your phone and computer apart from school/work and I mean school/work ONLY. By not surfing the internet and absorbing all the stimuli you will get your head healed up, I promise. All it takes is literally just a week without ANY videogames, ANY bullshit infomercial site and ANY social media. You will notice how your creativity and curiosity spark up again… | /r/askTRP | 24/05/20 08:23 AM |
| 1 | How does one cope with loneliness.I really feel you. Loneliness is especially dangerous to melancholic people who then get a depression paired with loneliness. I am like that too, my friend. The obvious answer to your question is "make something not to be alone". Start a social hobby and meet people who can become your friends or romantic prospects. Go out, be a person who gives value to other people. I want to offer you an insight now. Maybe you will feel you agree, otherwise you can be sure it's not this direction that you sho… | /r/askTRP | 24/05/20 01:06 AM |
| 2 | Plate invited me to something and now doesn’t want me to goThat's a trashy thing to do, all it shows is a lack of manners and no respect for you. I'd soft next her | /r/askTRP | 20/05/20 10:34 AM |
| 5 | Is LTR wanting to move into a flat with her friends a red flag?I'm not sure of that and the greatest proof is this post. Thank you for kind words. I will be very careful | /r/askTRP | 20/05/20 10:26 AM |
| 5 | Is LTR wanting to move into a flat with her friends a red flag?I have n count high enough already. All I want now is to have a stable life and family. Old fuck in a young body. | /r/askTRP | 20/05/20 06:47 AM |
| 9 | Is LTR wanting to move into a flat with her friends a red flag?Right, you made me sure of that too | /r/askTRP | 19/05/20 10:23 PM |
| 6 | Is LTR wanting to move into a flat with her friends a red flag?Yes, and that's what makes me afraid, because her friends are drunkard youth with no drive for better life whatsoever. I wonder if I should react out front or after the fact. Mate guarding vs being passive. Hard shot to call | /r/askTRP | 19/05/20 07:37 PM |
| 0 | Build your life from the bottom up, not the top downI can boil down your whole post to 1 sentence: Enjoy the journey, not the destination. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/20 02:45 PM |
| 3 | To the guys who struggled but managed to get their life back on tracks - what should I do in my position?Thank you. This whole list looks really practical and is boiled down into easy-to-do steps. I will adhere to it. You helped me very much. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/20 05:42 PM |
| -1 | To the guys who struggled but managed to get their life back on tracks - what should I do in my position?Easier said than done. I have good relations with them and I'm grateful for their support, financial support too. Dumping the university will most likely make them feel ashamed of me and deteriorate our bond. Would you just say "fuck you" into the face of people who've fed you ever since you were born? | /r/askTRP | 05/05/20 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Sad nigga hoursDon't worry, time heals the wounds. In the meantime don't neglect maintenance so you can be ready for new people | /r/askTRP | 24/04/20 08:45 AM |
| 12 | Will it be harder to approach post COVID because everyone will be paranoid?Who the fuck knows. I bet no because we don't learn from mistakes | /r/askTRP | 21/04/20 10:36 AM |
| 2 | What TF is the point of working towards anything at all?I agree with you, the situation seems depressing. I anticipate an increase in suicide rates across the world and people using a coping mechanism such as becoming more and more infantile. Basically, the "Idiocracy" movie becoming more real with each passing year. It is interesting. Maybe some worldwide crisis will come to abruptly reset the cycle and make us hard again? If not, we are on the decline anyway and it might take up to a few thousand years. Quite a fascinating notion. In the meantime, … | /r/askTRP | 20/04/20 10:08 AM |
| 13 | What is TRP'S advice on the "Curse of Intelligence"?I think it is a curse of being an ignorant dork with your head deep up your ass. Barring the extreme cases of women with a peanut of a brain (who reek "I am a cum dumpster" from a hundred kilometers anyway), I sincerely doubt you are too enlightened to get some interesting experiences from other people. It is a self fulfilling prophecy when you approach people with a mindset of superiority and you should be really, really, really careful with such judgements. IQ doesn't mean jack shit anyway and… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/20 05:31 PM |
| 1 | How do you cope with the fact that you need to work your ass off at least 40 hours a week only to survive? Even when working 8 hours a day it seems like there is no time left for yourself after the work, and earning big money also seems like magic.Are you working in the USA? | /r/askTRP | 14/04/20 06:47 PM |
| 2 | How do you cope with the fact that you need to work your ass off at least 40 hours a week only to survive? Even when working 8 hours a day it seems like there is no time left for yourself after the work, and earning big money also seems like magic.It is possible, at any level of income, to retire early after only 10 years of working. Fascinating idea, I will check him out immediately. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/20 06:41 PM |
| 1 | How do you cope with the fact that you need to work your ass off at least 40 hours a week only to survive? Even when working 8 hours a day it seems like there is no time left for yourself after the work, and earning big money also seems like magic.That's exactly how I feel. Unfortunately what I'm lacking now is the experience to even see the paths which NOT end in 9-5. I'm sure opportunities will pop up as the time goes by and I'll more than likely catch on to something to get out of that 8 hour hell working for other people. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/20 06:35 PM |
| 1 | How do you cope with the fact that you need to work your ass off at least 40 hours a week only to survive? Even when working 8 hours a day it seems like there is no time left for yourself after the work, and earning big money also seems like magic.In nature you'd work 24 hours a day to survive with no breaks or sick days. Interesting. I've read that the primitive people in Africa are so "backwards" and can't even compare to Europeans (and by extension - Americans) because all they have to do is... nothing. They have bananas literally falling into their laps. Maybe swarm off a tiger or two from time to time. Don't get me wrong, I am thankful even for that 8 hour work which I cry about, I am thankful for the fact that it is not hypercapital… | /r/askTRP | 14/04/20 06:19 PM |
| 2 | How do you cope with the fact that you need to work your ass off at least 40 hours a week only to survive? Even when working 8 hours a day it seems like there is no time left for yourself after the work, and earning big money also seems like magic.What exactly are you trying to do that requires so much time? Nothing in particular. Just the feeling of working for somebody else than myself feels like I'm exchanging my lifespan for some scraps under the table. Maybe it's a good idea to move on and abandon this thought and start working on myself. Anyway, I really appreciated your comment because I respect people working blue collar jobs to make money for their families. Hope you have some bearable job right now too. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/20 06:16 PM |
| 2 | How do you cope with the fact that you need to work your ass off at least 40 hours a week only to survive? Even when working 8 hours a day it seems like there is no time left for yourself after the work, and earning big money also seems like magic.While what you say is true, there is 8 hours sleep, 8 hours working, probably 1-2 hours commute, 1-2 hours gym, 1-2 hours meal prepping. As you can see, the free time diminishes quite rapidly. What you are the most right about however is the fact that we should not be entitled, it's the hardest thing to get over. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/20 06:13 PM |
| 11 | How do you cope with the fact that you need to work your ass off at least 40 hours a week only to survive? Even when working 8 hours a day it seems like there is no time left for yourself after the work, and earning big money also seems like magic.Definitely a matter of perspective. Thank you for sharing your views and a bit of your life. I hope to be just as hard one day. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/20 02:31 PM |
| 4 | How do you cope with the fact that you need to work your ass off at least 40 hours a week only to survive? Even when working 8 hours a day it seems like there is no time left for yourself after the work, and earning big money also seems like magic.How are you now? Did it pay off? | /r/askTRP | 14/04/20 02:30 PM |
| 1 | How do you cope with the fact that you need to work your ass off at least 40 hours a week only to survive? Even when working 8 hours a day it seems like there is no time left for yourself after the work, and earning big money also seems like magic.That's why comments like yours are welcome to show me some real world, thank you | /r/askTRP | 14/04/20 02:13 PM |
| 40 | How do you cope with the fact that you need to work your ass off at least 40 hours a week only to survive? Even when working 8 hours a day it seems like there is no time left for yourself after the work, and earning big money also seems like magic.You're right. That's what I needed to read. I am panicking needlessly and should take things slower | /r/askTRP | 14/04/20 01:58 PM |
| 9 | How do you cope with the fact that you need to work your ass off at least 40 hours a week only to survive? Even when working 8 hours a day it seems like there is no time left for yourself after the work, and earning big money also seems like magic.I'm easy to panic and apparently all these career worries resulted in one chaotic post asking for perspective of other people since I have nobody to talk about it. That is another worry of mine but now I see it's just irrelevant mental masturbation | /r/askTRP | 14/04/20 01:57 PM |
| 4 | How do you cope with the fact that you need to work your ass off at least 40 hours a week only to survive? Even when working 8 hours a day it seems like there is no time left for yourself after the work, and earning big money also seems like magic.How much depends on working hard, and how much depends on the fact that your rich daddy connects you with the right people and a vacancy is yours? | /r/askTRP | 14/04/20 01:46 PM |
| 0 | how many chicks are rocking very good looking tits"very good looking tits" is a subjective term. Your very good looking tits differ from my very good looking tits. How the fuck should we know such a percentage Why the fuck do you care, are you writing a thesis? Where the fuck is your problem here in the post | /r/askTRP | 11/04/20 09:48 AM |
| 1 | 16 year old girl 19 year old guy. Feels kinda weirdWho cares, just go for it | /r/askTRP | 10/04/20 08:53 PM |
| 3 | 16 year old girl 19 year old guy. Feels kinda weirdI think it's within my threshold. I have some friends who are 20 and have 17 yo girls too. I'm 21 this year and have 18 yo girl, there is 2y8m difference between us. In a few years such numbers diminish | /r/askTRP | 10/04/20 08:50 PM |
| 5 | Is there an antidote to nihilism? If so, what is it constituted of?The next step after nihilism is freeing yourself out of it or staying in this worldview until you die. You free yourself by inventing things to do. I used to have a very simple girlfriend from the village who once told me, after I told her I feel down very often: "In the past people were having their asses pulled to work 24/7 and they didn't have depression". And you know what? I don't know about you, but I think it is true. At least to some extent. Listen to Philosophize This! podcast about Nie… | /r/askTRP | 03/04/20 08:04 PM |
| 2 | LTR being argumentative about Covid 19 and workHelpful advice but you replied to the wrong level of the comment so he won't see it as fast | /r/askTRP | 02/04/20 09:56 PM |
| 2 | LTR being argumentative about Covid 19 and workread the damn sidebar https://illimitablemen.com/2014/12/14/the-shit-test-encyclopedia/ | /r/askTRP | 02/04/20 09:29 PM |
| 4 | Did I give the wrong advice here?Tell him to arrange a 3some u dumbass | /r/askTRP | 02/04/20 06:19 PM |
| 2 | What to do when she starts talking about chastity after 5 sexual encounters?This guy knows what he says | /r/askTRP | 30/03/20 11:29 PM |
| 2 | Best way to increase attraction during quarantine?Interesting observation and probably accurate looking at the amount of guys on askTRP who suddenly started their Tinder enterpreneurship. If you're willing to break the quarantine, that is : ^ ) | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 01:09 AM |
| 7 | Best way to increase attraction during quarantine?The advice I will give you might not be well received by others. I understand however that you might be attracted to a girl which you'd like to keep. If so, there is my advice to you. If you barely know the girl - I think you should, unfortunately, move on and maybe contact her once you can meet her. If you know her longer - keep some contact so she "doesn't forget you" (can she really?). Call her once in a while, don't be glued up to your phone all the time. Keep in touch but minimize the amoun… | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 12:27 AM |
| 9 | My neighbor is talking shit again...You are losing your shit over a mental old fart. Come on | /r/askTRP | 25/03/20 06:46 PM |
| 1 | I will be sitting closed for at least the next 3 weeks. What skills can I learn that could let me EARN MONEY after the quarantine is over?Thanks, I will try to beat the 42 attempts tomorrow | /r/askTRP | 25/03/20 05:55 PM |
| 1 | I will be sitting closed for at least the next 3 weeks. What skills can I learn that could let me EARN MONEY after the quarantine is over?I want to play around in a car I'm saving for but I have too little. So if you are so knowledgeable, might you point me in the right direction with regards of what to read or so? | /r/askTRP | 25/03/20 05:45 PM |
| 0 | I will be sitting closed for at least the next 3 weeks. What skills can I learn that could let me EARN MONEY after the quarantine is over?How am I going to do it NOW locked AT HOME FOR A LONTH you lunatic | /r/askTRP | 25/03/20 05:10 PM |
| 3 | I will be sitting closed for at least the next 3 weeks. What skills can I learn that could let me EARN MONEY after the quarantine is over?Mutual funds always retain higher average profits than individual traders. I am not a rich guy and don't want to burn all my money to learn that lesson. See, I can't afford to risk what I have, bro. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/20 04:06 PM |
| 1 | I will be sitting closed for at least the next 3 weeks. What skills can I learn that could let me EARN MONEY after the quarantine is over?I am in no hurry with making money but would like to learn something which could be monetized directly, as opposed to being just some "knowledge" to write in the CV ("knowledge about geography" vs "video editing training") | /r/askTRP | 25/03/20 02:52 PM |
| -2 | I will be sitting closed for at least the next 3 weeks. What skills can I learn that could let me EARN MONEY after the quarantine is over?Thanks for the advice. I'd like to fix cars as a hobby but that's a distant future plan. What can I do with 3 weeks to earn money from real estate, this seems crazy (in a positive way)? What courses do you mean from Khan could make money? | /r/askTRP | 25/03/20 02:37 PM |
| 19 | How the fuck are you supposed to not be paranoid knowing AWALT?What I see is a confused guy in anger phase. I know how hard it is to be isolated but please, do not lose your head. It is a woman, not an out-of-mind animal. If she wanted, she could wait 10 weeks to fuck you. Don't worry about it. Moreover, don't worry about ANYTHING for that matter. Because apart from YOUR aspirations to become better for YOURSELF and having some increase in SMV, there is NOTHING you control about her. You can't make her stop seeing other men, you can't force her to think abo… | /r/askTRP | 22/03/20 12:54 AM |
| 2 | Which developed countries/cultures have not been destroyed by feminism, socialism and 'woke' culture?Poland, especially in the big cities and amongst the academia is getting buttfucked by the leftist turds. The girls are shallow and dumb as fuck. If you are looking for a GENERAL advice, I suggest the poorer the better. Belarus, Ukraine, maybe the Balkans (idk about the Balkans, but the aforementioned 2 are good to catch a nice submissive girl) ? or some hardcore shit like SE Asia (I wouldnt want a girl outside of my race though). If you want the BEST advice there is - go for the poor countrysid… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/20 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Do I need to flee to the forest / 3rd world country shithole to create a family?Thank you for the advice. The passage of time is the only thing I can count on for now. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/20 10:01 AM |
| 1 | Do I need to flee to the forest / 3rd world country shithole to create a family?Sound advice, thanks. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/20 07:19 PM |
| 3 | Do I need to flee to the forest / 3rd world country shithole to create a family?I meet women and I date women. I keep my frame, act relaxed, outgoing and not mate guarding. But it's driving me nuts how little self-reflection they have, how much they are drinking and fucking around. I don't want a whore and I don't want her to have whore friends either. PS Do I need to lie that I love plating girls? Because I don't. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/20 06:52 PM |
| 0 | Opinions on Billie Eilish?I don't even listen to her but why do you flame so much? Why do you care? Is this "make a poll on the red pill" or "ask the red pill (about your problem)"? You're breaking the sub rules and doing mental masturbation. Thanks for coming to my TED talk | /r/askTRP | 11/03/20 10:22 PM |
| 1 | I made out with this girl for the first time (first between us), and it was awful. I was her first kiss. Can this be improved upon or is it possibility of physical incompatibility?I know for sure that you need to desacralize the act of having sex. Don't romanticize it because there is nothing inherently romantic in that. If she makes you wait on purpose, she is attempting to undermine your frame. Think about it, if you were a virgin woman of reproductive age, getting wet by looking at handsome, muscular guys around you and in the tv, wouldn't you be excited and want to be taken by a guy eventually? You'd feel a WANT rather than a FEAR or UNCERTAINTY. I know that we need e… | /r/askTRP | 08/03/20 06:37 PM |
| 3 | I made out with this girl for the first time (first between us), and it was awful. I was her first kiss. Can this be improved upon or is it possibility of physical incompatibility?Don't think so much my playboy friend. Go and enjoy time with that girl and smash her. Nothing else really matters, who tf cares if you're "physically incompatible". As long as there is no penis on her part, you will match like puzzles if you know what I mean | /r/askTRP | 08/03/20 03:45 PM |
| 5 | I made out with this girl for the first time (first between us), and it was awful. I was her first kiss. Can this be improved upon or is it possibility of physical incompatibility?You have oneitis, waited for the girl 4 dates for kiss, call her a unicorn, bit her 'accidentally'. I call bullshit on your n-count and on your whole background touching story. You reportedly fucked 13 girls but do not know how to kiss and ask for kissing tips? What the fuck are you trying to sell here. Sidebar, iron rules of tomassi, commandments of poon. You violeted all of it. Go and learn again. Kissing is not a rocket science, a literal starfish could master it in 30 minutes. Let alone "n-c… | /r/askTRP | 08/03/20 03:38 PM |
| 1 | How do you plate an ex?You don't. Thanks for coming to my TED talk. Sidebar u dumbass | /r/askTRP | 08/03/20 12:21 PM |
| 1 | /r/askTRP RPEC Advice AMA Megathread - Ask Away!Thank you man. I appreciate the time you took to reply for my question. And for the whole help you give to the community as well. Always a pleasure to read your post. All the best | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 03:24 PM |
| 1 | /r/askTRP RPEC Advice AMA Megathread - Ask Away!I'm actively fighting for such a group, some people choose careers over company , others take time to befriend but I'm getting there. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 02:58 PM |
| 1 | /r/askTRP RPEC Advice AMA Megathread - Ask Away!No I do not have one yet unfortunately | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 02:51 PM |
| 2 | /r/askTRP RPEC Advice AMA Megathread - Ask Away!Don't want to sound like a whining bitch but this shit is hard to obtain and I don't know any users who could be my trip guides. Shrooms would be the closest I could find and do them on my own. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 01:35 PM |
| 2 | Should I enlighten my husband about the Red Pill to keep our marriage healthy?Maybe buy him The Rational Male trilogy? | /r/askTRP | 04/03/20 10:08 PM |
| 1 | /r/askTRP RPEC Advice AMA Megathread - Ask Away!Thank you, I appreciate the time you took to reply. I do some of those things already but you proposed some good steps to take. Worth giving it a shot. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/20 07:25 PM |
| 1 | /r/askTRP RPEC Advice AMA Megathread - Ask Away!Thank you, I will dig into this piece of advice to make good use of it. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/20 07:23 PM |
| 3 | /r/askTRP RPEC Advice AMA Megathread - Ask Away!How to stop feeling suicidal? I have sex, on a good education path and decent social life. Yet I don't have anything to wake up to nor want to try anything because it all feels so pointless. Like having passions for the sake of having passions. As if you've seen everything and feel your life is at the finish line. PS Only spending the night with a girl seems enjoyable but it's like a cocaine hit lasting a few hours. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/20 04:56 PM |
| 1 | I'm 21. Fulfilled sexually, but lacking direction-wise. Looking for "life experience" advice.I planned something similar for summer to see how other people in my country live. Does it help actually? | /r/askTRP | 29/02/20 09:08 PM |
| 2 | I'm 21. Fulfilled sexually, but lacking direction-wise. Looking for "life experience" advice.Thanks but I'd rather stay drug free. I don't even have access to that. | /r/askTRP | 29/02/20 09:06 PM |
| 14 | How do you let a girl know you like her without sounding her fuccboy alarm?"Let me lick the peanut butter from your asshole" | /r/askTRP | 28/02/20 06:32 PM |
| 3 | Just broke up with my LTR of 3 years. Going insaneTime heals the wounds my friend. It will pass, believe me. Give yourself some time to mourn, like 3 days, but then cheer up with your friends and move on. It will slowly get better, I promise. | /r/askTRP | 27/02/20 03:50 PM |
| 2 | Is A&A really that effective?hit me up if you want to talk about it | /r/askTRP | 21/02/20 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Is A&A really that effective?Why do you even revolve around passive aggressive pricks | /r/askTRP | 21/02/20 09:57 PM |
| 3 | Is A&A really that effective?I guess it was illimitable men who wrote "The Shit test encyclopaedia". Long ass post about shit tests, maybe MAYBE it's on the sidebar. Otherwise google it. Pressure flip = she says A towards you, you say A towards her, implying that she's got some underlying issue concerning A "you're acting like a princess (to a man)" "wow, I see your prince must have missed the castle" etc, off the top of my head | /r/askTRP | 21/02/20 09:44 PM |
| 3 | Low spirit - What to do to change this?What about enhancing your spiritual life? And I don't say religion here. Taoism and Stoicism could help you. Other than that, you need company. Find male friends first. To do that, you will need to overcome your low spirits and join something. A fishing club, a football club, whatever. Talk to friends first and tighten the knots with them first, make women your priority nr 2 (I assume your financial issues, health and other more immediate problems are solved) | /r/askTRP | 21/02/20 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Is A&A really that effective?Depends on the situation. You might come off as passive and powerless | /r/askTRP | 21/02/20 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Drove 90 minutes to meet tinder match after 10 minutes of texting, date went great and then she stopped replying???Wow I wouldn't even meet a thirsty beta creep who would drive 90 min to my house after literally 10 fucking minutes of contact. You better wake the fuck up because you're inviting disaster into your life | /r/askTRP | 21/02/20 03:12 PM |
| 3 | Is A&A really that effective?I call it an 'insult' but what I mean is a shit test. That's right, you shouldn't take insults, that's hard next. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/20 02:05 PM |
| 6 | Is A&A really that effective?took me a while to internalize it. Always protect your image | /r/askTRP | 21/02/20 12:05 PM |
| 36 | Is A&A really that effective?Don't do A&A when they throw an insult against you. "Wow you're really dumb" "Totally, I'm the biggest dumb fuck ever" Use a pressure flip or some other tactic then "Wow you're really dumb" "Guess you've found yourself a soulmate" | /r/askTRP | 21/02/20 11:47 AM |
| 1 | What The Red Pill Can Teach Us About CoronavirusIt is not a subreddit based on democracy but on the knowledge and expertise of people who put themselves out there, call it a kind of aristocracy if you want. Respect the tag. No further discussion will be conducted because you clearly haven't gotten too deep, as far as reading the rules even. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/20 05:15 PM |
| 4 | What The Red Pill Can Teach Us About CoronavirusRespect the tag. He's been there longer and has the privilege to post as he sees fit. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/20 05:10 PM |
| 2 | How do you find your happiness after not being yourself for a long timeGet deep into Stoicism by reading Marcus Aurelius, Epictetus and Seneca. Get deep into Taoism by reading different translations and various explanations of Tao Te Ching. Stoicism and Taoism are oftentimes similar. Go listen to Philosophize This! podcast about those two aforementioned. Philosophy might soothe your suffering soul. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/20 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Is it okay to chase and tryhard a little on a girl?You can tryhard but to me it's like using muscle tissue to get energy. Eventually you will be unable to continue your healthy functioning, so to speak. She has a low interest level and you shouldn't try to double down on it in the long term because it won't work, my man. She will find herself a better guy, seems like she's scouting for one right now and you're the beta bux. Either make something so the ball is in her court and she is chasing you or start looking for more girls. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/20 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Stop fetishizing the end goalThanks, will look at that. I can blindly say that I pressume my back pain occurs due to chronically tight hamstrings. We'll see. Thanks for the recommendation and good luck in further progrees | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/20 02:10 PM |
| 2 | Stop fetishizing the end goalI agree with all the benefits you have pointed out. It is still quite hard for me because I deal with chronic back pain which can't seem to go away by any means. I feel envious because most people don't bother about educating themselves and I was 24/7 into fitness and could get injured with 50kg backsquat. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/20 01:54 PM |
| 1 | An issue of old-school parents, travelling, guilt, taking care of themI also think family is above everything but this is hard to evaluate who takes the priority, children or parents. Many people would say, if this is a zero sum game, I should choose my children. Otherwise I agree. Imma wait 10 minutes til you read it and delete this shit, why do I care now what will happen in 20 years. Should let it flow. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/20 02:49 PM |
| 10 | My son died. No will to liveFeel free to grieve. Yesterday I was reading about some bullshit philosophy and there was a quote 'it' s okay to not feel okay'. Be there for your wife, if you have one, she suffers just as much. My condolences. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/20 11:29 AM |
| 0 | Girlfriend disrespects me on snapchat: I dump her immediately. Did I overreact?On the one hand it seems like a disrespect, on the other hand it seems like normal attention whoring. I wouldn't like it either but there might be people who wouldn't give a fuck about it, I suppose. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/20 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Yesterday I got shredded to pieces by a girl and don't know what to do now. Need more of psycho/mindset help than game tipsTough situation when two butthurts meet ain't it | /r/askTRP | 15/02/20 09:27 AM |
| 1 | Yesterday I got shredded to pieces by a girl and don't know what to do now. Need more of psycho/mindset help than game tipsWell... That's a message with a positive outlook on the future. I will be waiting then. That leaving my place threw me off the balance, I wouldn't mind not scoring but wanted her to spend some more time with me. Hope I didn't look butthurt. Meh, her loss | /r/askTRP | 15/02/20 09:20 AM |
| 8 | Date idea for a 17-year old👉👌 You dumbass | /r/askTRP | 14/02/20 09:31 AM |
| 4 | Looks of disgust in clubThey think they are entitled to anything and have unmeetable expectations. Leave them to rot and meet pleasant people | /r/askTRP | 12/02/20 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Stop fetishizing the end goalStill it does not solve the problem, or at least I do not understand how it could help. What you advocate now is to 'figure (hamster) out' the reason I should enjoy it because it is good for me. I know very well it is good but I don't enjoy it. Assuming I want to lift nonetheless, I will be either suffering, while thinking of the destination anyway, or I will finally give in by bending the reality and lying myself until I believe in the lies. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/20 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Stop fetishizing the end goalOkay if somebody is still active here, please clarify that to me. According to the text, you have na epiphany: you do not enjoy lifting. Now what? Should I not lift or should I force myself to lift despite not enjoying it anyway? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/20 01:14 PM |
| 9 | Why is it so common now for hot white girls 18-25 saying they don’t won’t kids?I'm from Poland and currently exploring a Ukrainian girl. It is definitely better than what you say about USA/UK/Western Europe, yes, but make no mistake and please don't fall into the trap of romanticizing these countries out of proportion. Most of the girls (16-22) are pretty shallow with only her looks to offer. Many are getting trashy flower / other bullshit tattoos and the propaganda of a working woman takes its toll - many of them use an excuse "I am bad around children. I want a career an… | /r/askTRP | 11/02/20 12:27 AM |
| 4 | Why is it so common now for hot white girls 18-25 saying they don’t won’t kids?What countries are the uncucked ones? | /r/askTRP | 10/02/20 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Do I need muscles as a prerequisite to start training martial arts?thanks for the reply. I'm by no means an athlete but am pretty good in terms of cardio because I ride my bike a lot. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/20 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Do I need muscles as a prerequisite to start training martial arts?Think as you want, prefer being lean over feeling like shit 24/7 for the next year or two | /r/askTRP | 10/02/20 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Do I need muscles as a prerequisite to start training martial arts?I used to be very fat when I was younger and dropped it, so now every time I get little handles on my sides I go into panic mode. After Christmas I stayed at 15% bf so want to drop it altogether to start bulking etc. with a peace of mind that if I get fat, I will be in that threshold that I still accept. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/20 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Do I need muscles as a prerequisite to start training martial arts?I can't look at my fat ass in the mirror and want to lose that fat first | /r/askTRP | 10/02/20 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Do I need muscles as a prerequisite to start training martial arts?I got fat after Christmas (~15-18% bf at 73kg 172cm) and want to have a clean slate to start bulking or take up said martial arts. There’s no requisite for having muscles to train martial arts. If you’re eating at a caloric surplus and strength training alongside martial arts, you’ll build muscle. So I ask if the strength training is a part of the course or do I have to take care of that on my own. | /r/askTRP | 10/02/20 02:55 PM |
| 4 | Weird problemI struggled with the same problem when I first started out with the red pill and can say that things go better with experience gained. Obviously, it is the only stage when you can make yourself appear to be a goofy autist so you should be observant and adhere to the rule "less is more". As u/YungRichKid said, your goal is to break the touch barrier and LET HER KNOW you are SEXUALLY interested in her. One of the easiest ways to do it is to hold eye contact. Firm and confident eye contact. The… | /r/askTRP | 09/02/20 05:15 PM |
| 8 | Why is smiling seen as so unattractive?Yes, smiling can be perceived as a sign of being a nervous servile subordinate. Try an asshole smirk instead. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/20 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Should you confirm a date? If so, how?I don't like losing the right to make decisions in my relationships with anybody so maybe that's just a personal preference. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/20 11:12 AM |
| 1 | Should you confirm a date? If so, how?It's not meant to be apologetic, you're right. My "I'm sorry" is rather just a courteous introduction. You shouldn't state it as a question in my opinion either. English has the useful expression "Let's..." which could be perfect here. Cheers ; ^ ) | /r/askTRP | 07/02/20 10:54 AM |
| 2 | Should you confirm a date? If so, how?As u/theunbannablehulk said, the submarine method lets you still operate in your own frame. It lets you save face instead of doing that "You cannot meet? Oh don't worry it's okay we will meet some other time". You can say you'll be 30 minutes late because the remark of 10 minutes delay, made a few hours earlier, can seem weird indeed. Op set himself for failure by planning a date with a rando in 7 days' time. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/20 10:41 AM |
| 52 | Should you confirm a date? If so, how?The submarine method. "Sorry I'll be 10 minutes late" If she's flaking, she'll tell you now. Otherwise you will get an "ok see you then" | /r/askTRP | 06/02/20 10:23 PM |
| 1 | How to keep a straight face / poker faceTouch the roof of your mouth with your tongue hard. Or bite the inside of your cheeks. Play some poker. Remember to control your breathing to make it even and slow, otherwise you will burst into a nervous laughter | /r/askTRP | 05/02/20 11:18 PM |
| 1 | How to apply the TRP at work?I'm meeting loads of new colleagues all the time Most likely looking how to find friends while starting with a good frame. My bullet points in this case would be to strike up friendly conversations and suggest going out to a bar to get to know somebody. Nothing spectacular or standing out, but that's the way you get to know people more. Cheers | /r/askTRP | 05/02/20 04:45 PM |
| 2 | How to apply the TRP at work?Nevertheless it is based on anecdotal experience so you could write a few bullets he can take inspiration from instead of acting like a butthurt edgelord who's omniscient. Oh, maybe you still have a few years before attempting your first job? | /r/askTRP | 05/02/20 04:41 PM |
| 5 | What is the obsession with lifting?Good luck, I hope she makes you happy throughout all of your remaining life. Hope you have both created a home you both enjoy. Cheers | /r/askTRP | 05/02/20 03:21 PM |
| 3 | What is the obsession with lifting?How did you let her fatten up to 110 fucking kilos in the first place and not throw up fucking that | /r/askTRP | 05/02/20 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Help me guys. I want your opinion - maybe the gym just isn't for me?Hey, I really like what you wrote. Your comment resonates with the kind of calming I needed to read. I indeed would like to train for aesthetics only, could you please tell me more about why are heavy lifts unneeded / what is needed instead of them? Anywhere I could read to know more? And that cutting you mentioned. Do you think of cutting like TDEE-300 (which would take about 6 months to shed 6 kg since 1kg = 9000 kcal) or just giving up the gym for 1 month to do TDEE-800 kcal daily to just she… | /r/askTRP | 03/02/20 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Help me guys. I want your opinion - maybe the gym just isn't for me?Ok but will cutting maintain or diminish my muscles or will I be growing them too? If it grows muscles, why even bother with bulking? | /r/askTRP | 03/02/20 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Help me guys. I want your opinion - maybe the gym just isn't for me?Yeah, training alone, eating and sleeping well. It's not the gym itself, it's the thought like " how much time will it take to repair all mobility issues, in the meanwhile not progressing in the gym, in the meanwhile getting fat bc of kcal surplus"... Problems stacking up in a vicious cycle | /r/askTRP | 03/02/20 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Help me guys. I want your opinion - maybe the gym just isn't for me?So if I have 2200 TDEE now and go 2500, do i keep those 2500 throughout the 6 month period? I could just start by going 1900 today, doubly so since I am a beginner. I think I would just like to see some small progress rn is what depresses me | /r/askTRP | 03/02/20 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Help me guys. I want your opinion - maybe the gym just isn't for me?I eat on point but I want to lose fat now. I feel I'm getting too fat on my stomach (thanks to overindulging during Christmas) and feel like shit. And feel scared like shit of muscle imbalances, muscle shortening due to not stretching and all that other shit | /r/askTRP | 03/02/20 01:42 PM |
| 7 | What if you’re moderately disfigured?Stoicism - what is in your control - master it. What isn't - let it go. Sometimes we are just dealt shitty cards in life. I do not envy you with regards to your recent accident, I'm sorry man. But that's how you are right now and all you should do is accept it. You have been dealt a worse hand in the game of life. Maybe you can train your face to improve? Maybe it will always be like that? There's no point worrying. Aspire to change what you can change and let everything else be as it is. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/20 11:55 PM |
| 2 | The Rational Male- worth it to skip to the third book?No, if you are familiar with Rollo's style you know for sure that he likes to write lengthy, dull articles. His books are more like popular-scientific articles. Your problems are solved in the Book of Pook. And I can't stress it enough. Ditch Rollo and go for Pook if you want to do it fast and just go and live your life. Ps book 1 basics, book 2 stages of women's psychodevelopment, book 3 something something raising rp kids | /r/askTRP | 26/01/20 01:40 AM |
| 3 | The Rational Male- worth it to skip to the third book?All 3 books are different. I had the most trouble getting through nr 3 but I felt obliged to finish it as quickly as possible. It is good to read it if you have some free evenings. I'd read the whole trilogy, then complete the Book of Pook and you're set for life | /r/askTRP | 26/01/20 01:00 AM |
| 2 | Improvement, but not in interpersonal relations (21M)You don't offer anything worthwhile for people to bother striking convos up with you. The facade you describe is not important to them. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 08:45 PM |
| 2 | How do you tell when it's okay to go for the kiss?Read book of Pook. You can first try fondling her hair and if she reacts positively, go for it | /r/askTRP | 23/01/20 12:21 PM |
| 1 | 1.7 million subscribers on The Red Pill PageHow TF do you know it is 1,7 million subscribers? When it was quarantined (1 or 2 years ago??? time flies fast) it had about 500k subscribers and I don't believe it would skyrocket into 1,7m in the span of 1-2 years MAX. Btw your 4 percent analogy is bullshit and you should sharpen your mathematic and deductive skills. Oh and BTW there is only 1 rule in askTRP and where the fuck is your question that you start a new post? | /r/askTRP | 11/01/20 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Meeting women while striving for simple livingYes I know about monk mode but always kept this somewhere deep in mind that monk mode = isolation too. Now I see where you're coming from and I can say that I agree. No need to worry about women because I won't be a permanent 24/7/365 hermit whatsoever. Good there are people like you there who clean out the bullshit | /r/askTRP | 10/01/20 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Meeting women while striving for simple livingI agree, the point is that my goal is to live in isolation or semi-isolation. The only thing I will be ploughing is the soil, the only thing I will be nailing will be the roof of my wooden house in the forest. If I want a woman I need to think about that a bit earlier so I think my question is not out of place. I'm open for discussion, feel free to disagree. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/20 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Meeting women while striving for simple livingYoung people from my country don't go to church me included | /r/askTRP | 10/01/20 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Things to do with the boys?Excuses, excuses, excuses. All you need to teach ONE of them is how to shoot. Then he practices and gets better while the others observe, learn and take turns. Your overthinking and lack of enthusiasm make me deeply sad | /r/askTRP | 09/01/20 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Things to do with the boys?Who the fuck cares what the generation does as a whole. Just take your friend/s and go play, you can teach them and you'll have trained a few new players. I'm 20 and go pool every week, haven't even bought my own equipment because the bar stock cues are enough for laymen. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/20 09:57 AM |
| 1 | Things to do with the boys?8-ball pool in your local bar | /r/askTRP | 08/01/20 09:47 AM |
| 1 | Will this feeling ever go away ?been introduced to trp 2 years ago and since then I pretty much tried it all (spinning plates, LTR with a HQ woman etc..) This part made me alert. If you read more of Rollo Tomassi's articles or his book you would know that there isn't such a creature as "high-quality woman". I don't know you but I got the feeling that you feel a bit tired of spinning plates, which I think is fine. If you want to gain a new perspective, I really suggest you to read The Book of Pook. It is online, free, written i… | /r/askTRP | 07/01/20 04:15 PM |
| 1 | There are shitton of books to read, should i read all of 'em or reading few of them will do enough for me ?If I could recommend some Red Pill reading, go for Rollo's trilogy The Rational Male to get into the mindset of Red Pill, then read Book of Pook. It is delicate and will polish you like a diamond. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/20 02:35 AM |
| 5 | What should I do ?Hard next, this one cigarette could poison her internal organs and then pass on to you during sex making you infertile as a result. Oh I'm 12 btw and I have 3-digit n-count On a serious note though: you're an idiot | /r/askTRP | 02/01/20 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Tips for Penetrating VirginIt doesn't burst but rather expands. Who cares gaylord, the idea holds its ground | /r/askTRP | 02/01/20 12:01 AM |
| 4 | Tips for Penetrating VirginIf you fingered her then you already penetrated her hymen so it makes no difference anymore. The rest is in your head | /r/askTRP | 01/01/20 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Looking for ideas of social activities connected with NATURESeems nice, will check it out for sure | /r/askTRP | 31/12/19 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Looking for ideas of social activities connected with NATUREI googled and I can't really find anything. Thank you for these ideas but what I look for is something more concerned with HELPING the nature or nourishing it than just being outdoors | /r/askTRP | 31/12/19 12:48 PM |
| 3 | On healthy eating - or, don't eat like a slaveJust wanted to ask some quick follow-up questions: 1) What opinion do you hold about dairy, milk etc? 2) What about the fact that many mass produced meats are full of GH and other shit nowadays? It is a risk no smaller than the easy junk carbs 3) How to get enough kcal excluding grains from the diet? Thanks in advance. I liked reading this post. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/12/19 05:46 PM |
| 1 | How many of you who are in supposedly monogamous LTRs have a side chick on the side?I like what you've wrote and agree | /r/askTRP | 27/12/19 10:24 AM |
| 1 | How many of you who are in supposedly monogamous LTRs have a side chick on the side?Machiavelli, The Prince | /r/askTRP | 26/12/19 10:33 PM |
| 8 | How many of you who are in supposedly monogamous LTRs have a side chick on the side?Your private feelings don't add value to the toolbox. An argument "if you cheat you are a lying piece of shit" does not seem to be valuable. I will check the difference between amoral and immoral. Have a good day bro | /r/askTRP | 26/12/19 09:09 PM |
| 74 | How many of you who are in supposedly monogamous LTRs have a side chick on the side?Cheating. It's called cheating. There is a significant probability that you will get caught. Some men do it, some men don't. Look into yourself and be honest about it. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/19 09:06 PM |
| 19 | How many of you who are in supposedly monogamous LTRs have a side chick on the side?You shouldn't act dogmatic. TRP is amoral. Saying "X is bad" is not amoral. You can say cheating is bad IN YOUR OPINION (in mine too) but it is not a proper place to moralize. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/19 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Stop being negative?Why the fuck do you care. You can be negative and that's fine and I guarantee that you will be mentally exhaused after the first week of trying to brainwash yourself into an exaggeratedly positive person. I don't know you but let's assume you have little control about that. What you do have control over however is the fact that you can shut the fuck up about it when around people who cannot appreciate it. You test the waters and proceed accordingly. | /r/askTRP | 23/12/19 06:15 PM |
| 1 | What online resources / books will help me with lifting?Thanks for the terminology. What I wanted to emphasize is that I need the full scope of knowledge, not only the "push knees outward" type of tips. Jeff Calaviere is a good guy. Seems to know his shit. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 11:12 PM |
| 2 | What online resources / books will help me with lifting?Thanks. Doubly so for the old fashioned book written by an expert in his field. Will look it all up for sure. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 11:02 PM |
| 1 | How do I proceed?It all depends on you man. All the answers you are given here come from people with different values. Some may value sex more, some may value shared experiences more. I assume that you asking means that you don't know the answer just by yourself. Nevertheless I advise you to look into yourself. Maybe you don't have a portfolio of experiences yet so you don't know what choice to make. Having said that, I want to emphasize once more - make the decision basing on YOUR OWN THOUGHTS only, because nob… | /r/askTRP | 21/12/19 07:16 PM |
| 1 | I have a history of lower back pain. I want to cry because going to the gym is hellThanks. 6 days in and I'm 95% back to the previous form, just feeling some minor pain in the center of my lower back when doing weird bends. luckily I'm supervised by my trainer so with him and videos from athleanX I started stretching the surrounding area and working on the core and other muscles which all have influence on the lower back. Thank you also for the good wishes and I hope you too keep strong and injury free | /r/askTRP | 19/12/19 05:50 PM |
| 15 | You cannot fully appreciate something unless you seek to discover it yourselfWhy not both, used in the most suitable contexts | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/19 09:44 AM |
| 6 | What are some other forums or blogs that are similar to theredpill but for other topics?The Art of Manliness is pretty versatile, check it out. Filter out the bullshit and you're set. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/19 09:01 PM |
| 1 | I have a history of lower back pain. I want to cry because going to the gym is hellI will start doing these, saving your comment to have the list of muscles and exercises that I will be working on once the pain is bearable. The trainer is a good guy who competed in Arnold Classic Europe. I only trained with him for a month now so we'll see what he will propose (I mean, I don't know if he's just a trash teacher just yet ;-) ) Anyway, thank you for the time it took you to reach out and help me. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/19 09:47 PM |
| 6 | I have a history of lower back pain. I want to cry because going to the gym is hellYeah I got folded in half by the weight of my enormous vagina. Fuck off | /r/askTRP | 13/12/19 04:10 PM |
| 1 | I have a history of lower back pain. I want to cry because going to the gym is hellThanks, I will try it out too. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/19 03:56 PM |
| 1 | I have a history of lower back pain. I want to cry because going to the gym is hellMy posture is good. Could be weak surrounding muscles. Don't know about spinal damage, didn't do MRI | /r/askTRP | 13/12/19 03:55 PM |
| 4 | I have an insecurity when it comes to eye contact. Like it's a genuine insecurity at this point because I'm self-conscious about it and it seriously affects my interactions with others and how they perceive me.Don't stare down strangers on the street, though, or somebody will eventually get pissed off. I got elbowed for that when I was a retard and tried power plays mindlessly on everybody. Chicks are good to stare down though | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Can’t afford a gym membership at this point of my life.Buy exercise bands. You can do isolation exercises on them. Some makeshift barbells from old metal maybe? Maybe ask friends for some small equipment? Buy a belt and do weighted dips and pull ups if you have to | /r/askTRP | 09/12/19 11:22 PM |
| 13 | Don't Be A Hyperconsumerist Christmas CuckOr maybe he worked his ass off to be where he wanted to be and you clench your butt in jealousy. Oh wow he is so wrong to protect what he worked out with a sustained effort, let's give it to some nobodies' for diversity's sake. I spit on this bullshit | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/19 07:05 PM |
| 0 | I’m in a happy fulfilling relationship...Probably not gonna say anything innovative, however please remember: -disregard all arguments referring to morals. Cheating, not cheating, whatever. These are up to you and you should make a well thought decision before attempting any move but don't let outsiders influence it. If you cheat, you do it with confidence. If you don't cheat, you do it with confidence. -abundance mentality. If you dump your gf, no biggie. If you stay, no biggie. -determine whether your super sweet relationship is lack… | /r/askTRP | 06/12/19 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Should I be concerned about promiscuity in XXI century?But don't you feel you are doing something immoral, something that in the long run will wreck you? | /r/askTRP | 04/12/19 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Should I be concerned about promiscuity in XXI century?I can, I have no problem getting dates, then doing blitz-quick K-closes and escalating but currently I am in a position where I do not have many girls around me. Going home, going to the gym, going home, going to the gym etc. And I'm too much of a lazy depressed motherfucker to go outside because I am afraid of the world Not so much really, I can use my hand and I know all these bullshit thoughts will soon be gone :/ | /r/askTRP | 04/12/19 10:59 PM |
| 1 | How do you eat enough?I dont know where you are from. Here in Poland it is common to eat pork, e.g. ground pork as in meatballs. I make spaghetti with ONLY (way too little for me but I have to keep it clean) 100g of dry pasta (=about 300g after cooking) = 350kcal, 500g of meat (lean pork is 130kcal/100g, fatter is 180kcal/100g) = assume 650 kcal, a spaghetti quick fix sauce = ~120 kcal. Here you have a big ass dish with a bit too little pasta and it gives you 1120 kcal and 100g of protein (I count only meat). Add 100… | /r/askTRP | 04/12/19 04:39 PM |
| 2 | Weightlifting ChoiceExcellent, now I get the bigger picture. Thank you once again | /r/askTRP | 01/12/19 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Weightlifting ChoiceThank you. I thought you are "only" a regular gym goer and expected to know what bodyparts you train during these 3 days but nevertheless a good explanation on your side in the long reply. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/19 05:26 PM |
| 2 | Weightlifting ChoiceGood comment. I enjoyed reading it. How would you then plan a 3 day training week? PPL, 4 days rest, PPL, 4 days rest etc? | /r/askTRP | 01/12/19 05:16 PM |
| 9 | Girl asks to push first date back tonight from 7 to 8. Should I meet her halfway? I don't want to seem availableLmao this shit is ridiculous. If you were to be ready at 7, you would also probably be willing to spend some time PAST 8. So it seems really idiotic in my opinion to force any power plays here. Just enjoy the date, enjoy that she has a gift card, enjoy that she proposed a later hour instead of flaking. Why do you take everything so robotically. Humans are live beings and are ORGANIC. Don't behave like a tool come on. You don't have to be vigilant 100% of the time and scout for shit tests like a … | /r/askTRP | 01/12/19 12:31 AM |
| 1 | I need help with going sugar free. I hear it is amazing for weight loss and mood in general?And what about the training performance without carbs, have you lifted well ever since? Off to sleep, will reply in some 8 hours | /r/askTRP | 30/11/19 12:44 AM |
| 3 | I need help with going sugar free. I hear it is amazing for weight loss and mood in general?Thank you for this knowledgeable response. It is an interesting idea. I need to calculate if I could replace my 2200 kcal diet with mostly proteins and fats. Why are beans bad though? Aren't they mostly protein + fiber? | /r/askTRP | 30/11/19 12:36 AM |
| 3 | I need help with going sugar free. I hear it is amazing for weight loss and mood in general?Rice no, bread no, beans no???, white pasta probably forbidden too. What should a man eat then to have something on the plate apart from meat? What should I eat meatballs with if i have no pasta for my spaghetti man? | /r/askTRP | 30/11/19 12:21 AM |
| 2 | What's this community's thoughts on calisthenics?Calisthenics due to the lack of weights will not let you grow as much as the gym. You will be strong, look "ripped" but it won't make you huge. Calisthenics requires more focus on the form so you do each exercise perfectly. Otherwise it is just wasted time. Consider weighted calisthenics for size or go with a REAL PT who has higher education in physiotherapy from a legit uni. Exercises at the gym should be pro-health, not damaging. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 12:13 PM |
| 9 | Plate hooked up with another guy who left hickeys all over her body. Should I care?Hamster it all the ways you want. Me and you know what the truth is | /r/askTRP | 28/11/19 11:11 PM |
| 6 | Plate hooked up with another guy who left hickeys all over her body. Should I care?She's your only plate so she's just your girlfriend. A guy left hickeys on your girlfriend's neck. What do you do? | /r/askTRP | 28/11/19 11:09 PM |
| 2 | Empty / dead inside. What is wrong?Thank you. Definitely it is the passion I am lacking | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 08:28 AM |
| 1 | Empty / dead inside. What is wrong?I have no passion unfortunately. Apart from that it's doable | /r/askTRP | 21/11/19 08:27 AM |
| 2 | Empty / dead inside. What is wrong?Definitely need to work on it. It's hard to start though because I don't really want to pursue anything even a bit (except gym and diet for that matter). | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Empty / dead inside. What is wrong?Sleeping and eating well. No history of mental illnesses. Yes, I insinctively rub one out with porn in the evenings. Been depressed for 1,5 years. I talk to myself kindly about myself, not being angry and realizing that Im just a human like all other people. I was not aware that such things (except maybe sleep and diet) could be of any inportance | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 10:32 PM |
| 2 | I'm out in the "party zones" of my city. First time solo. Don't know how to approach.Poland. Western Europe like NL, DE, Belgium tends to be much much warmer and friendlier. Amd these are just my subjective obserwvations | /r/askTRP | 17/11/19 09:03 AM |
| 2 | I'm out in the "party zones" of my city. First time solo. Don't know how to approach.I will say, before you go to the clubs, think a bit beforehand. Not every culture is as welcoming as they have it in the USA. People in my country go to clubs with friends and a stranger chatting them up is more often than not considered creepy, same in the bars or attempting any daygame. | /r/askTRP | 16/11/19 09:56 PM |
| 29 | Anyone try just creatine? Or what do you think of it?When performing activities such as training, first you use your ATP reserves of the body from your cells. Then, you start getting energy from the creatine present in your muscles. When you supplement it LONG TERM (key words for supplementing yourself with creatine), you have more of the creatine in your muscles so you have, as other user said, more energy to squeeze in additional 1-2 reps. On a day to day basis you feel no difference (except of bigger muscle pump because you can workout longer s… | /r/askTRP | 10/11/19 06:56 PM |
| 5 | Free two day shipping on all muscle gainsThanks man. Some days, you just simply need this reminder that you have to keep going. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/19 03:30 PM |
| 5 | Stop telling lies to make others happy..... it's unattractive, weak, a terrible habit, and every time you do this you are acting in someone else's frame.Why shouldn't I lie besides the fact that you're telling me it's bad and pointing your finger? It is just a means to an end, another tool in the toolbox. If I see it will help me, I will use it without my heart skipping a beat. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/19 02:50 PM |
| 10 | If a girl isn’t pursuing you, does that mean she definitely doesn’t have high interest?Never be direct. It should always be covert. One of the reasons is plausible deniability. Have you read the sidebar? | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 02:10 PM |
| 7 | quarter life crisis need helpI'm 20 but if you want to hear a word from a younger man... First, sorry for your loss. I don't think you are too old to start new studies just yet. You will be ready at 30-32 with another 20-30 years of career ahead. About girls - if you don't want ONS, then I suggest not to look for ONS at all. As long as you don't fall into into scarcity mentality, you should be okay. It will be hard to find a mother material these days. Maybe you will have to compromise? Depends on your individual values and… | /r/askTRP | 03/11/19 12:26 AM |
| 4 | quarter life crisis need helpWow you're fucking pathetic. Why even bother going to askTRP if all you can give is this pretentious shit. His problem is not lenghty anyway. Go squat a cactus | /r/askTRP | 03/11/19 12:20 AM |
| 1 | I'm not living my life - merely vegetating. I feel I lost all hope for any improvementSure, just pm me. See ya | /r/askTRP | 03/11/19 12:18 AM |
| 1 | I'm not living my life - merely vegetating. I feel I lost all hope for any improvementWhat is it supposed to mean | /r/askTRP | 02/11/19 11:06 PM |
| 1 | I'm not living my life - merely vegetating. I feel I lost all hope for any improvementBanging girls isn't enjoyable, because you only want a mother. I want a friend, I can take care of myself. Ah yes, existentialism, nihilism and absurdism in the play. Doesn't work for me that I remind myself that nothing really makes sense so the sense is in whatever comes. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/19 09:47 PM |
| 3 | I'm not living my life - merely vegetating. I feel I lost all hope for any improvementI have given some hints to people that I have depression but no meaningful conversation emerged. And am not too convinced to go to a therapist sadly | /r/askTRP | 02/11/19 07:50 PM |
| 2 | Should I do cardio or go to the gym? Pic insideSounds reasonable, I think I will most likely do it. Thank you for the advice | /r/askTRP | 28/10/19 07:06 AM |
| 2 | Should I do cardio or go to the gym? Pic insideI did 5x5 for some time but it was really lacking the upper body volume. Thanks for the advice. Will fix my back at my PT and go to the gym in a week or two, keeping maintenance / small surplus of calories | /r/askTRP | 28/10/19 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Should I do cardio or go to the gym? Pic insideI think I can manage to get 160g protein daily with a little help of powders. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/19 07:04 AM |
| 1 | Should I do cardio or go to the gym? Pic insideWish gyms around me had such great offers. Will ask for an assessment like that. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 27/10/19 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Should I do cardio or go to the gym? Pic insideIf I understand it correctly, I should eat at a moderate surplus (I assume +200 kcal over TDEE to begin with) for a few months. So then I will weigh even more, but perhaps the weight gain will come in 80% from muscle gain. Then won't I lose all my muscle because of cutting? I mean, the slow cutting will take a few months too and these ever so small muscles will diminish to the starting point, won't they? Thank you for the explanation and the note about body confidence. It can definitely be tak… | /r/askTRP | 27/10/19 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Should I do cardio or go to the gym? Pic insideBut on bulk I gain weight anyway, so when will the fat shedding part come? After X months during the cut or perhaps faster? | /r/askTRP | 27/10/19 09:16 PM |
| 1 | High chance to fail my universityThank you for sharing a bit of your life. My problem is, I am not even too passionate about the degree. Been pressured by my parents "BeCAuSE yOu HaVE to Go ANd StUdY". Fucking hell. I am not utilizing the possibility to go to office hours, so I should definitely change that. Feeling really powerless. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/19 04:34 PM |
| -2 | High chance to fail my universityThanks. It is hard for me because I am afraid of the money. Been always ingrained in me to go and study to earn money asap. Taxing on the nerves | /r/askTRP | 24/10/19 11:44 AM |
| -6 | High chance to fail my universityI am on a scholarship rn but studying in another language than I speak. tf should I do if the lecturer this semester barely speaks the language and can not explain shit he will be testing me from. Studying all the time and not getting it. Go fuck yourself if bashing is the only thing you can offer | /r/askTRP | 24/10/19 11:38 AM |
| 0 | High chance to fail my universityWhat did you take up as a replacement if I may ask? | /r/askTRP | 24/10/19 11:27 AM |
| 1 | Lifting and sciatica?Can you get big with swimming though? | /r/askTRP | 23/10/19 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Lifting and sciatica?thanks for sharing your knowledge. The fact that it is a slow process is something that's very hard for me to chew on | /r/askTRP | 22/10/19 04:45 PM |
| 1 | 20M wanting to earn money on the sideThank you. I also aim for some 1-2 millions and would be sweet to reach it in the next 15 years. Will look into the suggestions you listed as some seem quite interesting | /r/askTRP | 21/10/19 06:03 AM |
| 1 | 20M wanting to earn money on the sideFinance and accounting is my major | /r/askTRP | 21/10/19 06:00 AM |
| 28 | 20M wanting to earn money on the sideThanks but they don't reply when I send my CV | /r/askTRP | 20/10/19 10:28 PM |
| 1 | How to live to the fullest as a loner?Thanks for a considerate rensponse. Here is my take on it: I feel torn internally and just getting to know myself. Dont want to close up from new experiences but it feels to me now like I really am the type of a loner and so idk... Expectations vs who I am, fuck its hard | /r/askTRP | 15/10/19 06:59 PM |
| 1 | How important money is for an adult man?Thanks. All the best for you as well. Socratic method at its finest | /r/askTRP | 08/10/19 11:52 AM |
| 1 | How important money is for an adult man?I feel like you are working with a block of wood because I have no foggiest idea what I can do now. Won't find a job anytime soon, won't earn money anytime soon. Reading will make this shit worse. Fuck really idk | /r/askTRP | 08/10/19 11:18 AM |
| 1 | How important money is for an adult man?Because I am an analytical thinker and would like my life to have a structure I could follow | /r/askTRP | 08/10/19 11:10 AM |
| 1 | How important money is for an adult man?I'm conflicted inside about my worldview. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/19 10:56 AM |
| 1 | How important money is for an adult man?Still don't know. My mind is killing me over that shit | /r/askTRP | 08/10/19 08:40 AM |
| 1 | How to properly vet a girl from a poorer background?Age of consent 15 where I live, now to the question...? | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 09:19 AM |
| 1 | How to properly vet a girl from a poorer background?Age of consent 15 where I live, now to the question...? | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 09:19 AM |
| 2 | How to fix lower back painThank you for the advice. Been using etofenamatum to calm the pain down a bit. I have been stretching for some week now but haven't really felt any difference, will try to do it nonetheless as long as I feel it is safe. I'm good in terms of diet and sleep, I also walk pretty often. Hope time and these measurements help. Thank you once again | /r/askTRP | 30/09/19 09:29 AM |
| 2 | Struggles in careersA hooker then? | /r/askTRP | 28/09/19 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Going to a club for first time tonightYou won't be having good conversations in a club because it is too loud. Go dance and have fun, get used to the environment. Pick-up is unimportant for now. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/19 02:46 PM |
| 1 | How to lose 5kg the fastest way without damaging health?I literally do not completely understand the advice to lift while shedding fat. While people want to preserve muscle mass - yes I get it. But is there a point in me lifting and preserving muscle mass if all i care for is fat? I won't get my lifting numbers up anyway on kcal deficit will I? | /r/askTRP | 27/09/19 02:31 PM |
| 1 | How to lose 5kg the fastest way without damaging health?I'm after a long break and will need to start again so I basically have no muscle mass to take from | /r/askTRP | 27/09/19 08:54 AM |
| 1 | How to lose 5kg the fastest way without damaging health?Thank you for the information. Checking the subs right now | /r/askTRP | 27/09/19 08:14 AM |
| 1 | How to lose 5kg the fastest way without damaging health?Thank you for the information. Do you know how many kilos in what time can one expect to drop? | /r/askTRP | 27/09/19 07:58 AM |
| 1 | What cured youre acne?Tretinoin, adapalen + benzoil peroxide, clindamycine | /r/askTRP | 24/09/19 09:28 PM |
| 1 | I have negative energy and bad vibeI will say - fuck it. Genuity in the first place. You should do you rather than try your whole life to fit into a role you are not meant to be in | /r/askTRP | 22/09/19 10:37 PM |
| 2 | I'm lonely and it starts being detrimental to my sanity. How to change it?Doing all I can but it still comes out weird. People sense the insecurity. Will be doing it nevertheless | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 08:32 PM |
| 1 | I'm lonely and it starts being detrimental to my sanity. How to change it?Thanks for replying quickly. My biggest problem is that I don't know where to meet new people. Like even if I go to an event, I just take part in it, go home and everything goes back to point 0. It is hard for me, as a loner, to meet other people, because nobody will introduce me to anybody else. But I am considering joining an organization so new contacts will be forced on me. We shall see | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 08:28 PM |
| 2 | Handling staring contest with other manworld is small isn't it : ) | /r/askTRP | 21/09/19 03:56 PM |
| 11 | Handling staring contest with other manI used to mindlessly stare EVERYBODY down when walking every day. It lasted about 3 months until somebody elbowed me for that and unfortunately I dropped my phone on the ground. And I, just like you, posted a post on askTRP. From which I took an amazing piece of advice. Here it goes: If you want to train eye contacts, stare down girls. No need to stare down men, you won't be fucking them anyway will you? If you lock eyes with men, look for a few seconds, then look TO THE SIDE. It "defuses" the d… | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 08:52 PM |
| 2 | How to overcome lows and periods of depressionI like going somewhere where I am alone and cry. Into the forest or into my room when I know I will be uninterrupted so nobody can see this side of mine. Just putting music that mangles me like a little bitch and crying until I can no more. You get a terrible headache afterwards but all the broken pieces seem to be glued back together for a while and the soul seems cleansed as well. | /r/askTRP | 16/09/19 01:37 PM |
| 0 | Think I might be legit depressed. Not sure what to do. I tried meds in the past but they fucking ruined my libido and appetite. Scared about the future.Not exactly if he is depressed. If he indeed is, then he will bathe in that discomfort, unable to make a move. What you describe is a reaction of a healthy man | /r/askTRP | 14/09/19 07:57 AM |
| 1 | Chasing hook-ups made me empty insidethanks for words of encouragement. I will see what can be done, if a girl is barely fuckable or not at all. Best of luck to you brother | /r/askTRP | 12/09/19 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Chasing hook-ups made me empty insideI hang out with the ugly ones because that's what's immediately available to me as they respond to reach-outs when they invite me on Facebook and I initiate a chit-chat to test the waters. Apart from that idk, I am alone and maybe feel like I need some intimacy. But fuck it will be good if I will get a hard on from those hags | /r/askTRP | 12/09/19 12:57 PM |
| 6 | Veterans of the red pill, drop your top 3 most important pieces of adviceSuffer in silence | /r/askTRP | 12/09/19 08:18 AM |
| 0 | Pulled my first girl from day game - Thank YouI agree. This sub has only got 1 rule that got broken. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/19 08:16 AM |
| 2 | Make her do a striptease again.Exactly, simultaneously wrote the same | /r/askTRP | 11/09/19 07:28 PM |
| 3 | Make her do a striptease again.Like training a dog. Reward good behaviour, ignore bad behaviour. Taking notice of her bad behaviour (her avoiding striptease dancing) is not IGNORING IT. Not ignoring a behaviour (reacting either positively or negatively) = reinforcing a behaviour Remember that it is a person just like you and she might have her little quirks about why she won't do that again. You can't force it. Be very gentle and use your social compass. When she does it again or when she shows up in some sexy lingerie et… | /r/askTRP | 11/09/19 07:27 PM |
| 12 | Make her do a striptease again.Looking for a way to manipulate her is like trying to extract the very last drops of external validation from her "Oh show me how cool I am by doing a striptease for me please my sweetheart please please please"... She did it and now she says she doesn't want to. You will look like an idiot trying to set a stratagem for a stupid striptease. Do you think your plate has got like 40 IQ and won't know that you're acting weird to get something? It is exactly the definition of beta covert contract. Go… | /r/askTRP | 11/09/19 07:10 PM |
| 17 | Today, I failed. I thought I was doing everything right, but she ended up telling HR that I was making her “uncomfortable”.Exactly my man | /r/askTRP | 10/09/19 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Chasing hook-ups made me empty insideI don't lift, have no hobbies and looking for them hopelessly for a year now. I hate waking up. It will sound weird af but there are always people who talk to me and are showing understanding IN MY DREAMS. When I wake up it all feels so empty and futile. I wish I could break from this omnipresent feeling of both tension/anxiety and senselessness but I am running in circles... I'm totally confident when I have to (does it even matter if I fake it?) but inside I am a shattered mess. Point is nothi… | /r/askTRP | 09/09/19 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Chasing hook-ups made me empty insideCan you lead me a bit into this topic? I feel lost recently | /r/askTRP | 09/09/19 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Chasing hook-ups made me empty insideNot fat. Only ugly. I mean - a nose like a potato is what turns me off | /r/askTRP | 09/09/19 08:12 AM |
| 1 | Chasing hook-ups made me empty insideI have nobody to even talk to yet alone get some dopamine from intimacy from. I guess I handle it badly | /r/askTRP | 09/09/19 05:57 AM |
| 2 | Tied down early in life, curiosity getting to me...Both of you have me there. I got a good night's sleep and can see it now that I was too much of a binary judge. You are surely older, more experienced and more refined. I let myself be taught by your life experiences and want to thank you for wanting to convince me. All the best to you | /r/askMRP | 09/09/19 05:09 AM |
| 2 | Tied down early in life, curiosity getting to me...I underdstand it is moralizing and dogmatic but there is a new-forming life at stakes. You may disagree but let's imagine the world like a Yin Yang. Rollo created a similar image and so did David Deida in The Way of the Superior Man. He needs to teach the son both aspects - both the masculine and the feminine. I think the kid will lack the balance if one of the parents will have the burden of upbringing it and thus the child will be raised damaged or worse.. One thing that makes me wonder is thi… | /r/askMRP | 08/09/19 09:43 PM |
| 2 | Tied down early in life, curiosity getting to me...I don't listen to nor read this guy's works and am probably never going to as his sweet-from-the-facade easy life pro tips make us men weaker. I said what I believe and what I thought comes from the Red Pill Knowledge. I don't say he should stay with the mother. He will do as he pleases. But I think if he could fuck some bitch raw, he can also upbring a child in a HEALTHY way - by giving him a normal, family life. trp teaches men to embrace their masculinity. Masculine is LOGICAL. Fuck his feeli… | /r/askMRP | 08/09/19 09:32 PM |
| 14 | Tied down early in life, curiosity getting to me...Responsibility is what makes a man. But if you would sell your own mother for a one night stand - whatever clicks with you man | /r/askMRP | 08/09/19 01:29 PM |
| 17 | Tied down early in life, curiosity getting to me...Whatever you do, be confident of that decision. Remember that YOU are responsible for everything you did in your life. Who forced you to go raw? Now you have a baby you fuckhead. Own the responsibility. You can leave when you are 37 and he is grown up. Do you really want to pursue hedonism and some cock sleeves if you still get pussy and more importantly - you raise a child? In my opinion it will be more beta than getting transformed into a spineless slave of your woman. Because you promised som… | /r/askMRP | 08/09/19 01:03 PM |
| 1 | Feeling weakFind it :) | /r/askTRP | 05/09/19 03:21 PM |
| -2 | Y’all think hair makes a difference?Lmao did you even read the sidebar. Your frame creates the reality. Frame and confidence (two terms that are both entangled very much) are what matters the most. Fucking 'Bl4cK piLlEd InCeLs'. You seem to know nothing about biology (including the theory of evolution) and you seem ignorant towards the knowledge of the Red Pill... One question to you and one question only. Why would MEN need EXCESSIVELY POLISHED LOOKS? What is it useful for us? | /r/askTRP | 05/09/19 09:17 AM |
| 4 | Y’all think hair makes a difference?Your world, your crayons you use to paint it | /r/askTRP | 05/09/19 05:38 AM |
| -6 | Y’all think hair makes a difference?Men are not judged by their looks. Sure, you can't look like a potato but the threshold is lower than you might think. Probably a 3/10 could be perceived as 8/10 with tight dressing, fit body and a little bit of the green on the side of the plate. Men are there to accomplish tasks, take action, DO. It is the women that are there to look nice. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/19 05:32 AM |
| 3 | What do you do if you're not in the top 20%?Men are not judged by their looks. Sure, you can't look like a potato but the threshold is lower than you might think. Probably a 3/10 could be perceived as 8/10 with tight dressing, fit body and a little bit of the green on the side of the plate. Men are there to accomplish tasks, take action, DO. It is the women that are there to look nice. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/19 06:13 PM |
| 3 | Feeling weakYou are a person who doesnt give a fuck about their position in the society, or at least in the spheres you describe, like your job, that's all. Why fight it? Do your thing man, not everybody can be alpha everywhere. Sometimes in certain situations we just care to get shit done and move on. Find the zones where you want to dominate and crush them instead of forcing yourself to be a bloodlust wolf in places where you simply dont seem to enjoy it. " He who has a WHY can survive almost any HOW." - … | /r/askTRP | 04/09/19 04:27 PM |
| 1 | How to fight against recurring bouts of sadness?Thanks. I treat this community as a gathering of men and so I come here like to get a substitute of fatherly advice that I will never be given by my own father. If know better places please PM me. Sadly I have nobody to talk to, the parents I still need to live with are terrible and I have 0 friends or acquaintances. It all sucks, I don't have the desire to eat, even less to lift or jog or cycle or whatever. Like fuck I really feel I am stuck in a black hole right now | /r/askTRP | 03/09/19 09:07 PM |
| 28 | What do you talk about with women you meet at a bar?Leave deep questions for men. Women are fickle and the words should be merely a facade for your emotions engaging into sweaty, animalistic battle in which she can bathe in your masculine outbursts of pure passion. Go figure | /r/askTRP | 02/09/19 06:49 PM |
| 3 | Should I avoid mentioning my criminal record when talking to plates?My man. Relax. I wouldn't be ashamed of your felonies but it is not a particularly appropriate excuse to brag. Tell sb if you want and if it will be in a proper situation. Nobody gives a fuck, especially to a degree you think they do. As long as you are doing well. If things go bad just better not tell it or it will be the strawman people will use to shit on you | /r/askTRP | 02/09/19 06:45 PM |
| 3 | Should I avoid mentioning my criminal record when talking to plates?Arson seems badass to me but I don't seek comfort from you. Maybe tell it as a form of an interesting story complementing your character? If you are working a dead end job then fuck no, it will sound lame. But if yoy do well, why the fuck not? | /r/askTRP | 02/09/19 06:34 PM |
| 3 | What do you eat for breakfast?Sounds like puke bro | /r/askTRP | 01/09/19 07:59 PM |
| 23 | How to cultivate a sense of discipline that isn’t based on motivation?He who has a WHY can survive almost any HOW. ~Friedrich Nitzsche, emphasis mine | /r/askTRP | 30/08/19 05:18 AM |
| 2 | Any RP Novels ?The Lord of The Rings | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 09:00 PM |
| 0 | Any temporary profession where I can develop thick skin and immediate comebacks?Nah video games don't make me paralyze that way. Maybe it's the security of home you stay in that make it easy to insult and deflect while playing games | /r/askTRP | 24/08/19 09:54 AM |
| 5 | I [18M] havent had a past relationship but have been going on these dates with this girl [18F] and after having sex she said she wanted to be friends with benefits but I have a ltr mindset as I have never had a relationship beforeDon't be dogmatic with regards to TRP teachings.. If you want to try an LTR - try an LTR. It is generally not advised but you have to experience it yourself to really see how the LTR looks like. Get into LTR, see if you like LTR. If yes, stay. If not, turn LTR into FWB. If impossible, find another FWB. If this girl doesn't want LTR, keep her as FWB and go look for LTR if you want. My 50 cents: LTR not worth it unless you have your shit together | /r/askTRP | 24/08/19 08:42 AM |
| 1 | Any temporary profession where I can develop thick skin and immediate comebacks?To be able to do if I deem it fit. Mostly to not let words get to my head and make me go physically limp when bracing for a response | /r/askTRP | 24/08/19 07:23 AM |
| 2 | Any temporary profession where I can develop thick skin and immediate comebacks?Right now I work at a company which produces agricultural machinery. Despite me being hired as a white collar translator, I spend some time in the magazines and in production halls with the boys and I think what you say is true. However I feel I'd need more, like an active confrontation with clients who are pissed off. Friendly back and forth seems to not be enough. I'd need to swarm off some fucked up pretentious snowballs | /r/askTRP | 24/08/19 07:18 AM |
| 2 | Life is putting me on monk mode. Any tips on how to handle it?My recommendations: Work - don't worry about it, will be okay. Worse people start working in harder jobs or lie on their resumes and are okay. School - focus on it, seems the most important now. Don't make them throw you out. Double down on learning, plan it out and win the fuck out of this Gym - if you have time except of school, focus on it but don't sweat it. Make it a cool and enjoyable hobby to relax from school. If it interferes - dump the gym for a while. I'm sure you will be okay. Sleep … | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 01:58 PM |
| -4 | Escaping the USA after graduation...any countries worth moving to?I don't have the time and crayons to draw it out to you. Don't get angry brownie, everybody just guards their own interests | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Escaping the USA after graduation...any countries worth moving to?Whoopsie, non-whites not welcome in Europe :^) | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 05:02 PM |
| 4 | Escaping the USA after graduation...any countries worth moving to?In Poland you'd be upper middle class with about $15k for 3 ppl family. (~5,5-6k PLN / mo) | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 04:31 PM |
| 0 | How the fuck do I save money? In dire need of help here.My curiosity has been satiated. Thank you for this in depth analysis. I still have a lot to learn. Good luck | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 04:30 PM |
| 5 | Escaping the USA after graduation...any countries worth moving to?You will be hella rich within your field. I recommend my home Poland or poorer Belarus / Czech Rep. / Slovakia as there is no refugee trash here and still not as degenerate as the West Europe | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 04:11 PM |
| -1 | How to respond to "Are we friend?"Lmao these previous comments are pure shit man. You want to possess her so simply answer "no" and don't bother answering any follow-up questions. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 12:52 PM |
| 2 | How the fuck do I save money? In dire need of help here.His finances must begin with something. Saving is good for a start. Etfs good. Bitcoin - why do you advocate it? It is like gambling and no respected financial specialist could offer to invest in it so freely. PS for capital to SAFELY generate capital, you need a lot of it. If you want to multiply it so rapidly, you are willing to basically gamble it. Reply as Im genuinely curious to your response. | /r/askTRP | 20/08/19 11:14 AM |
| 16 | How the fuck do I save money? In dire need of help here.I think you should first assess how much money you got, let's look at an example: (assessment )+2000 $ (salary) Now take a look at fixed costs, which means costs that you can not change. Not living in the US so I make these numbers up. 2) Fixed costs -700$ (rent) -500$ (monthly food and chemistry supply) -200$ (saved up for medicine and clothing) It shows that you have 2000-700-200-500 = 600$ spare in theory. If in doubt, round the expenses up so you have the safety cushion. As you can see… | /r/askTRP | 19/08/19 07:21 PM |
| 1 | I don't have the WHY for my lifeWhy? Will check it out | /r/askTRP | 19/08/19 01:59 PM |
| 1 | I don't have the WHY for my lifeThank you for the time you took to write the comment. I struggle with taking life as a joke and that's probably the main source of my confusion. We have next day today, let's see how we can make it better than the previous days | /r/askTRP | 19/08/19 05:25 AM |
| 1 | I don't have the WHY for my lifeStarting reading straight off. Thank you | /r/askTRP | 18/08/19 02:37 PM |
| 1 | I don't have the WHY for my lifeFrankl quotes Tolstoy and Dostoyewski in that book. Thank you for these descriptions, I think I will grab a title from one of the aforementioned Russians as my next book to read. But what are you trying to say, that I should commit the rope neck myself? I think I'm probably more of this coward type who doesn't have the balls to end it all. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/19 02:12 PM |
| 1 | I don't have the WHY for my lifeConsidering it but I'm young and it is hard for me to accept getting separated from my hard earned money to talk for an hour weekly... | /r/askTRP | 18/08/19 02:09 PM |
| 2 | Analysis Paralysis when trying to start new thingsThank you for a thoughtful comment and actually getting interested in what I wrote. I don't think I have any kind of anxiety and whatsoever but... fuck idk. I just want to do some things to develop myself but I think I'm doing miserable in that matter. Can't find anything that would spark any joy for shit, feeling like an NPC | /r/askTRP | 16/08/19 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Analysis Paralysis when trying to start new thingsLol doing shit costs heavy money and here we go again refer to the title | /r/askTRP | 16/08/19 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Analysis Paralysis when trying to start new thingsIdk probably not | /r/askTRP | 16/08/19 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Analysis Paralysis when trying to start new thingsWell I'd like to but here we go again, read thread title... Circle goes on and on | /r/askTRP | 16/08/19 02:46 PM |
| 5 | Noobie swallowed pill and severely depressedCalm down friend. I interpreted your post as "My heart is racing and I feel really pressured to do something but there are so many options and so many scenarios and so many......ARGH I'm getting mad!" My advice is - go to a place where you can be totally alone. Into the nature preferably. TOTALLY alone, no human sounds around. Spend an hour, two, or maybe six in such a place and calm yourself down. When you did that, let's look at my simplified plan for you: 1) Lifting 2) Money 3) Game Fig… | /r/askTRP | 15/08/19 08:10 AM |
| 9 | How to talk to girls over text/snapchat etc?You are 18 and think you know better than successful men who created LOGICAL and WELL-THOUGHT guidelines. Put your head out of your ass. I'm 20 and have no problem with text for logistics only. You stand out from the thirsty betas this way. Text to ask for a date and if she doesn't put the phone down while meeting you, hard next that bitch. Have some self respect and humility. GL changing the "how" of your texts when your only tool are blank letters and childish emojis. Raise your SMV so they da… | /r/askTRP | 13/08/19 08:44 PM |
| 1 | For those of you who have fake family did you ever find anyone to be close with like family?That does not mean they are not lonely. Take a random man, for example. When he is weak and can't stand solitude, he will do all he can to find himself a girlfriend. Maybe fix a child with her quickly. But only after a while does he realize that all his attempts to escape loneliness only bring it closer to him. He is now alone but trapped in a bad company. On the other hand when somebody is good with being alone, they will find better company because they can filter people. They are selectiv… | /r/askTRP | 12/08/19 05:41 PM |
| 1 | For those of you who have fake family did you ever find anyone to be close with like family?I don't know because I am not successful yet. But I guess that until you reign over the loneliness, you can never reach your peak strength. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/19 03:01 PM |
| 4 | For those of you who have fake family did you ever find anyone to be close with like family?u/vandaleen once said that life at its core is lonely. Suck it up. You can rely on yourself and should never turn back to look into what has been. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/19 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Why do some people hate Jordan B. Peterson?I care, please elaborate. You provided short yet very imaginative response. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/19 04:43 PM |
| 6 | Am I heading in the right direction?Either strategy is cool. If i had to take one lesson out of TRP, it would be "Listen to YOURSELF about what YOU really want and when you chose that thing, bring all of your energy and force upon it." having said that - I recommend doing an introspection to figure out what you really want out of your 20s, preparing a brief plan and then executing it to the T. Remember that 20s are a whole decade. Good method would be devoting first half for intensive studying, second one for job and some light pa… | /r/askTRP | 10/08/19 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Lifting seems a chore instead of anything fulfillingWill see the nsuns sub. Thank you for the extensive advice. Truly helps me to read that as I see there are ways to go from the dead stop | /r/askTRP | 10/08/19 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Lifting seems a chore instead of anything fulfillingI surely am. 2 routines like doing them repeatedly or doing routine 1 for a few months and routine 2 for another few? | /r/askTRP | 10/08/19 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Lifting seems a chore instead of anything fulfillingSomething about 12-15% bf. Seing top 2 "bricks" of my abs and having little fat handles, good is that they don't stick out whatsoever. So I understand well, you advocate for incorporating both STRENGTH and HYPERTROPHY at the same time? Is that a common approach in tbe gym? Seems logical as I suppose | /r/askTRP | 10/08/19 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Lifting seems a chore instead of anything fulfilling20, 172cm, ~70kg | /r/askTRP | 10/08/19 08:55 PM |
| 2 | It's like "not my day" everyday..You know yourself the best brother. Go somewere calm and figure yourself out | /r/askTRP | 10/08/19 08:46 PM |
| 2 | It's like "not my day" everyday..The less you have something, the more it is worth | /r/askTRP | 10/08/19 08:38 PM |
| 2 | It's like "not my day" everyday..Maybe you just need to refocus on work and fulfilment for a moment? When you have plenty of that and little contact with women, due to the supply-demand law, you will want to approach more and it will go more smoothly? | /r/askTRP | 10/08/19 08:25 PM |
| 2 | Lifting seems a chore instead of anything fulfillingThanks for the time you've spent to explain to me in the simplest English possible. I really appreciate it and hope it will help me grow past the plateau and other bullshit excuses I made | /r/askTRP | 10/08/19 12:46 PM |
| 1 | My [22] mom [50] slapped me and I punched her in the stomachI agree with other people who commented here - I think you are also aware of that - you did that as an impulse, "almost instanteneously". I say - you're 22, living elsewhere, cut her out of your life because she raised you with the wrong methods. What happened - happened. You can't repair that, you can't unpunch her, but you can work on not punching people in the future in your safe environment of your own place of living. Think hard about changing yourself because you might have some bad scars … | /r/askTRP | 10/08/19 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Lifting seems a chore instead of anything fulfillingLet me show you my situation. I do 55kg bench which comes perfect or 95% perfect. Now, the smallest increment I can go up is 55-> 57,5 kg. Here I naturally do the bench ~90% well. Now what? Grind that 57,5 kg until it is done perfectly? I think I'm starting to get the gist | /r/askTRP | 10/08/19 12:15 PM |
| 2 | Lifting seems a chore instead of anything fulfillingThat's a distance I get from my village to the closest town and back. It's 1,5-2h of cycling, doesn't feel really exhausting and it's something I actually fully like doing...Would be hard for me to go through the warm summer without biking | /r/askTRP | 10/08/19 12:14 PM |
| 2 | Lifting seems a chore instead of anything fulfillingYou shouldn't lift until you snap something, you should lift and slowly increase mass around your comfort zone. It's not about raaaaaaarw im gonna lift the heavy and have insane results it's all about discipline and repetition. Okay, I agree - I might have a wrong mindset. But tell me: let's say my max in an exercise is 50kg done 5x5. And the program says - increase 2,5kg every session. After 4 sessions I MUST be pushing near my 100% 5x5 weight to move on. If I lifted the weight I can get perfec… | /r/askTRP | 10/08/19 12:07 PM |
| 2 | Lifting seems a chore instead of anything fulfillingThanks for solid critique. You're right, it all seems quite new. I tried to get a trainer but none is available right now and the frustration continues. Nevertheless I refuse to give up. Will figure something out, I suppose | /r/askTRP | 10/08/19 12:05 PM |
| 3 | Lifting seems a chore instead of anything fulfilling5x5, tracking my lifts, tracking my weight. Form idk because there is nobody to tell me. Internet says little tweaks are needed. Macros - tried hitting 2000kcal daily to get shredded, 140g protein daily fixed, % of fat and carbs varies to fill up to 2000. Every other day it's gym, cycling 30kg, gym, cycling 30km. PS even keeping track of that bullshit seems exhausting and drains a lot of the day to day energy | /r/askTRP | 10/08/19 11:30 AM |
| 1 | Bothered by girl doing drugs - adviceStop acting like a scarcity mentality cuck and drop that degenerate bitch. You know it deep down that drug users are dangerous and useless in the long run. If you want a hoe-dope addict mix of a wife then go ahead but don't tell we didn't warn you. You have no obligations towards her yet totally living in her drug taking frame just to get a lick of a laced stinky cunt. Grow a pair and walk away | /r/askTRP | 08/08/19 08:21 PM |
| 1 | So a random girl I don't know added me on FB and now I'm having a date in a week. Please more experienced guys tell me wtf is going on?We'll see tomorrow. Will have 2,5 hours. Will try to go full commando for f-close in my car | /r/askTRP | 08/08/19 04:33 AM |
| 6 | Is texting more than logistics a terrible idea? I mean I prioritize other shit first but once I’m free I’ll text a little bit or snapchat with a girl?? But I’m curious how much texting affects my situation?It has no advantages to real life meetings and you can either score 0 points for a move or - 1 so no way of you to win anything | /r/askTRP | 05/08/19 06:02 AM |
| 2 | So a random girl I don't know added me on FB and now I'm having a date in a week. Please more experienced guys tell me wtf is going on?Can only share the D | /r/askTRP | 04/08/19 10:37 PM |
| 1 | So a random girl I don't know added me on FB and now I'm having a date in a week. Please more experienced guys tell me wtf is going on?Now I get it. Thought my own enquiry is the "typical red flag question". Hope all is good. Thanks for the appendix | /r/askTRP | 04/08/19 09:58 PM |
| 2 | So a random girl I don't know added me on FB and now I'm having a date in a week. Please more experienced guys tell me wtf is going on?Thank you for all the insights brother and you have my word I will not stop developing. For now I'm just a 20 yo man starting the journey, bet you were in my spot one day in the past. It's great to have a place like TRP to have mentoring and sometimes getting plowed into the ground like a pile of dirt under a roller. Hope you too have the resilience to achieve your goals. All the best to you and see ya later | /r/askTRP | 04/08/19 09:56 PM |
| 1 | So a random girl I don't know added me on FB and now I'm having a date in a week. Please more experienced guys tell me wtf is going on?Lifting consistently and diet on point. Life starts getting colours. Ps read my edit if you would be so kind. Thank you for the comments. ps most trp says healthy girls don't hit on guys | /r/askTRP | 04/08/19 09:43 PM |
| 2 | So a random girl I don't know added me on FB and now I'm having a date in a week. Please more experienced guys tell me wtf is going on?Of course I won't since I'm only 172cm. May you elaborate on the "typical red flag question" please? Any chance it might be a normal girl or 99% thot? | /r/askTRP | 04/08/19 09:41 PM |
| 1 | So a random girl I don't know added me on FB and now I'm having a date in a week. Please more experienced guys tell me wtf is going on?Am I? | /r/askTRP | 04/08/19 09:39 PM |
| 1 | So a random girl I don't know added me on FB and now I'm having a date in a week. Please more experienced guys tell me wtf is going on?She is not a catfish as we have like 50 common friends and the profile is a legit one of a 6/10 girl. I invited her for some dessert and coffee so if I play it well I'll smash her in my car. From Poland also so low chances of getting some false rape accusations. Mostly afraid it is some skank or as I said, someome literally mentally retarded. Wow great of me to think that only damaged goods would like me but let's face reality that it is the most probable scenario. Edit: btw how can she scam me?… | /r/askTRP | 04/08/19 09:39 PM |
| 5 | Last couple of months I've been crawling out of depression and anxiety. Anyone else experience this?I had a 1 year long depression that ended about march. Now I feel I'm changed - more mature at times. But as other people said there - I am in favour of a saying "A man is only a sum of his habits". Seems like you're doing a good job. Hope it gets better and better. Good luck | /r/askTRP | 04/08/19 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Father is a sick fuck, can I escape the situation anyhow?Thank you for the cold shower. Yeah, I lost frame completely and will probably take a few good days to unfuck the things up | /r/askTRP | 04/08/19 08:08 AM |
| 3 | Father is a sick fuck, can I escape the situation anyhow?Thank you for sharing the experience. I'm 20 and studying so money dependent on parents. Will try to at least change my living conditions to be able to live in the academic city the whole year. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/19 08:05 AM |
| 1 | Buddy invites me home for a beer, but I do not drink.You're right, totally agreed | /r/askTRP | 28/07/19 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Where to pick up girls as a serious personYes I judge. I am being judged too and hold myself to high standards. Fuck the modern degenerate laissez-faire. I control my emotions and am mindful of my future unlike many of my peers. You're wrong - when I'm alone, I can keep myself entertained and constantly develop. I am not sad. Let's say I am content. But yes - not happy at all. I see no reason to and find "just relax and enjoy yourself" a cheap excuse to behave like an idiot. | /r/askTRP | 28/07/19 06:05 PM |
| 1 | How to be more fun?Why to be fun. Screw that, don't be phony | /r/askTRP | 28/07/19 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Buddy invites me home for a beer, but I do not drink.Not worth to start. Your head feels light but you start behaving like a moron and then you get a dry mouth in the morning and a rumbling stomach. If you want to experiment then go blackout drunk alone and give this shit up forever. Cheers | /r/askTRP | 28/07/19 05:46 PM |
| 3 | Conceited, narrow-minded, or accurate: I haven't met anyone in person who adds value to my life, and it feels like it'll stay that wayAs much as I will assume you are asking in the spirit of benevolence, I agree with ECs here. Please take your head out of your ass. You are SCREAMING "arrogant" and it certainly won't help you personally or in business. The fact that you FEEL superior does not mean anything until you prove it. Acta non verba. Right now you can only prove you're a fruit market worker and your big dreams don't mean shit until you have already realized them. Even then I doubt you will keep your clientele if you emi… | /r/askTRP | 27/07/19 11:26 PM |
| 11 | How to deal with sexual frustration?I think you're wrong. I'm from Poland. People fuck around the same but it is not romanticized or promoted as in the US or in the West. It's AWALT, not "AWALT-in-Western-World". Stop wanking to porn and you'll get back on the right tracks in no time. PS do you even lift bro | /r/askTRP | 27/07/19 09:03 PM |
| 3 | What is your personal opinion on eye contact?One time I bedded a woman by staring her down aggresively. She then told me "I see how you look at me, as if you were so hungry of my body". On the other hand I see no point staring down male strangers on the street because you will get fucked up by a stronger buddy who will read it as confrontation pretty quick. That's how I got my new phone shattered on the street in January. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/19 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Fear of missing outReally hope so. Just the fact that young girls might not like me then makes me a little sad | /r/askTRP | 26/07/19 07:16 AM |
| 1 | Fear of missing outYeah, probably some confidence issue at hand. Willing to work on it | /r/askTRP | 26/07/19 05:56 AM |
| 2 | Fear of missing outThank you for the advice. I am plannin to join a martial art club and some student organization when I'm back at the uni in October. Til this time I will have to grind a bit in the work and just clench my teeth I suppose. Hopefully everything will be fine and I wish they same to you in the new city. I envy you that adventure (4 more years on my parents' bill) and hope you'll be happy there | /r/askTRP | 25/07/19 07:54 PM |
| 2 | Fear of missing outThanks for the time. I have to start from square 0 and I feel like I've lost the ability of chatting up strangers. What could a social dummy do to start? Especially in the era of smartphones when I have to take all the initiative because most people are only looking at the screen. Got no people to go out with, literally 0. Not a wild party animal either, sadly. (Got 2 friends but they're both losers and I'm not willing to associate with people who are only putting me down, gave them some chances… | /r/askTRP | 25/07/19 07:23 PM |
| 5 | 15yo niece is turning into a thot and I am disgusted by it. She doesn't give a fuck and does so many things that she will clearly regret. Are all women growing up like this nowadays?I say if you want her to change you can only do it COVERTLY by LEADING BY AN EXAMPLE.Read the sidebar, it is no different than taming a wild chick. Spare yourself the words for she will not listen anyway, that's what I bet on. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/19 10:55 AM |
| 1 | 15yo niece is turning into a thot and I am disgusted by it. She doesn't give a fuck and does so many things that she will clearly regret. Are all women growing up like this nowadays?She is also a woman thus AWALT applies doesn't it? His frame is non existent in her tiny brain. What shall he do, lock her in the room or beat her up? This backwards thinking is what 3rd world countries can boast of. She is doomed because there was nobody to SHOW HER how to behave. Sick it up OP if you read this. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/19 10:53 AM |
| 19 | 15yo niece is turning into a thot and I am disgusted by it. She doesn't give a fuck and does so many things that she will clearly regret. Are all women growing up like this nowadays?Sorry but it is bullshit advice. You want him to SAY OVERTLY that it is bad? Did you read the sidebar? Acta non verba. She won't give a shit about his words. It's AWALT like in every other case. He could take her for a hike maybe and get her away from this brain rotting shit. Otherwise I don't think she will improve much. What I'm sure is that OVERT (though IMPLICIT) scolding will not make her behaviour improve. | /r/askTRP | 24/07/19 10:51 AM |
| 3 | Wasted one year in a different city due to LTR; how to refer to it when talking to people.Lmao sounds like you moved from Suwałki to Kraków. Hard to reach 600km distance here in Poland ;) Nobody gives a fuck really. Don't even bother mentioning your ex gf. Just say that you wanted to have an adventure. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/19 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Holy balls I had a good day. How to get a date?Yeah, not the first time getting shut down. However I usually did it in my 600k study city, not 2k home village. The girl must be from elsewhere though as it's nobody I'd know from the proximity | /r/askTRP | 22/07/19 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Holy balls I had a good day. How to get a date?Fair point and I realize she might just be kind because she is working. Hell, I wish I knew if it was worthwhile | /r/askTRP | 22/07/19 07:29 PM |
| 5 | Eye contact - How to change your instinctsStare down women but I suggest not to do stare down contests with men. Once I almost got into a fight for this shit | /r/askTRP | 22/07/19 06:39 AM |
| 4 | What do you do to improve your looks?Do you like running after hookers with a chainsaw too perhaps? | /r/askTRP | 21/07/19 01:18 PM |
| 0 | It's been almost two years and I'm at a lossAlright. I think you are no better than her. During your funni break you slept with more people than her yet you show some pretentious indignation. She had no obligation towards you yet your childish tantrum emerged once more when you found out the girl fucked sb before you were even together. Grow up emotionally. It is a cold game and there is nothing to fall in love for. You have oneitis and apparently lack the sidebar knowledge of not catching oneitis which is pretty apparent there I suppose.… | /r/askTRP | 19/07/19 12:19 PM |
| -1 | It's been almost two years and I'm at a lossNot catching oneitis | /r/askTRP | 19/07/19 11:44 AM |
| 2 | An advice for a kid with wanderlust?Thank you for the advice. It is the young blood that boils inside but hopefully it does not Cloud my reason. I'd be happy to have a life like you described. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/19 03:33 AM |
| 1 | An advice for a kid with wanderlust?True. I see what you are trying to say. Especially the big failure paragraph. Thank you | /r/askTRP | 19/07/19 03:31 AM |
| 2 | How do you come to terms with being ugly?Since you stopped writing their usernames in every post I can focus on what you are writing more and you actually make a lot of sense, u/TheRedPillRipper , and so is this time. You are right that OP should lift and gain confidence in his body. Waiting for more from you, Godspeed and good luck! | /r/askTRP | 17/07/19 06:44 AM |
| 2 | How to show up as a Red Pill man in a new job?Lmao good way to lose the job | /r/askTRP | 16/07/19 11:05 AM |
| 2 | How to respond to: “How are you?” via text."Fine thanks and u?" in the meantime go buy a box of chocolates and the biggest bouquet you can afford | /r/askTRP | 16/07/19 10:29 AM |
| 2 | Lashing out at my motherTotally immature of me right now. Good observations. As I talked with another user in PM, it's like an unnatural biological background where my biology boils my blood already and the society holds me back by the straps because I have some work yet to do. I agree it is all my fault and will apologize when I'm back home and take my lessons. Thank you. | /r/askTRP | 15/07/19 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Lashing out at my motherI can completely see my dad in the 1st paragraph... It rings to close home my dude | /r/askTRP | 15/07/19 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Lashing out at my motherMay you elaborate on that incompetence issue? | /r/askTRP | 15/07/19 04:00 PM |
| -3 | Lashing out at my motherAfraid to say but yeah, I probably do. It happens around my mother only. Sadly my father has it the same. I am usually not a person to explode but somehow my mother is excellent at triggering me. Maybe because I take her for granted? Shit, idk... | /r/askTRP | 15/07/19 03:27 PM |
| 1 | I fucked up big time, what now?You'll most likely never see her anyway. Move on with your life. Where's the issue? | /r/askTRP | 15/07/19 01:20 PM |
| 1 | I'm about doneI see you are right and my comments were inappropriate. My apology, deleted everything and I take my words back. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/19 06:27 PM |
| 1 | I'm about doneI totally agree. However I think you should show some understanding. We're just humans and OP is depressed. Calling him names is just a good way to make him kill himself. Think about consequences and stop being a keyboard warrior. | /r/askTRP | 14/07/19 06:15 PM |
| 1 | I'm about doneHey there bro, we know you're in a tough place now and need help. There are some good and some bad news. Good news are, you can always rebuilt yourself. Bad news, or maybe even more good news is, it all depends on you yourself only. Despite our best efforts here, we can not live your life for you. I'm an avid proponent of the statement that living your life should be experienced in the spirit of humble enjoyment. Enjoy your life without the pratfalls of hedonism. Go take a walk and think for a w… | /r/askTRP | 14/07/19 06:14 PM |
| 1 | I'm about doneShut up asshole, you're writing as if you never needed any help | /r/askTRP | 14/07/19 06:08 PM |
| 4 | Why can't your average person admit or see that we're a severely sick society?Heil Odinn | /r/askTRP | 13/07/19 11:59 PM |
| 1 | What field of study should I go in to be rich. To become rich?I am from Poland and knowing German and English guarantees that I could communicate with 95% of International trade partners making me a valuable person to know. Also can do the exams for certified translators and get paid big bux for using ready document templates. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/19 11:28 PM |
| 8 | What field of study should I go in to be rich. To become rich?IT field or financial jobs pay very good money. You could also try learning at least 2 foreign languages or becoming a master in some trade like electrician, HVAC, plumber etc. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/19 11:12 PM |
| 1 | I have no friends nor hobbiesWell yeah these might be just excuses but on the other hand if I perceive it like that then they seeme legit for me. Struggling with this feeling of tiredness for a long time | /r/askTRP | 09/07/19 03:18 PM |
| 2 | I have no friends nor hobbiesStocks I know because I'm studying finance. Tried programming. Going to the gym and my target is to be stronger before enroling in a martial art club in October. Apart from that I like philosophy but reading 2 pages into Nicomachean Ethics gives me headache. I rationalize not taking up photography with the high cost of a camera and oversaturated market. Same with making music. Same with crafting. Maybe you do not understand it but I really feel nothing inside. Been depressed for a long time and … | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Should I work with a trainer or on my own? I have issues with squat form and would rather work with someone who knows what they're doing5 pillars of squat, deadlift, bench, youtube it. Juggernaut Training System. I have no trainer and started lifting 2 weeks ago and his cues made me feel confident in my squat. Takes 2-3 trainings to incorporate all the tips | /r/askTRP | 07/07/19 03:57 PM |
| 1 | How valuable is a high value male with everything but game?Sadly no, tried to find it but I didn't bookmark it anywhere | /r/askTRP | 06/07/19 08:26 PM |
| 2 | How do I meet girls and new people in general if I’m 17 and not doing anything since it’s summer?That sounds like a fun activity and one that would keep you occupied for some time. And cool of your dad to include you. Take it easy and I hope your circle will slowly expand. Good luck and have a good summer | /r/askTRP | 06/07/19 06:18 PM |
| 1 | How valuable is a high value male with everything but game?It is my perception of the problem at hand and I am open to evolve it but I think it is an overally healthy habit to master every sphere of your life than only be a narrow specialist. There was a great post on TRP a few months ago about mastering your every little habit from brushing teeth and cleaning to diet and gym. I liked it and now I like to remind myself to be like an even, smooth circle rather than an edgy polygon which excels in one area but lacks in others. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/19 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Should I apologize?No problem. If you say so, then talk to them a bit. Remember that TheRedPill stems from the USA where there are a lot of trashy girls. Being from Poland myself I can tell you they might not be as openly slutty as it is stated by the American folks, but 90% of the girls are no saints either. There are some cool modest 6-7/10 girls from closely knit families that you are not afraid of or feeling friendly towards and you should appreciate them but if you are most likely not meeting one of them then… | /r/askTRP | 06/07/19 06:07 PM |
| 1 | How do I meet girls and new people in general if I’m 17 and not doing anything since it’s summer?Go out where you can meet new people in a way forced by the activity first. I'd recommend a martial arts club or some workshop type of meetings. Or some interesting facebook group that sets up some meetings together? | /r/askTRP | 06/07/19 06:00 PM |
| 7 | How valuable is a high value male with everything but game?Game (or broader - the perception of your character traits) as I interpret it is one of 3 pillars of high SMV alongside looks and money. So a guy with absolutely 0 game would not be in my terminology considered a high value male. He would be a handsome and rich chump to materialistically pump and dump or suck resources from or cheat on. Look Elon Musk or Jeff Bezos for real life examples. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/19 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Should I apologize?It is weird. You don't seem to be adults yet and she is doing some stupid mind games on you. That's how I see it. I think you shouldn't have sent the meme at all but consider that a win - you weeded out one more grumpy bitch who would've made your life hell anyway. Say in mind "her loss" and move on. If you want to take chances with her again, and I sense your little blue ass wants it, wait for another week/two or even better, approach her yourself and FUCKING GO STRAIGHT TO LOGISTICS. That is w… | /r/askTRP | 06/07/19 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Should I apologize?You approached one girl and believe she is ltr material after talking to her for 1 month at most. It seems like you have oneitis. And to me, your perception of the idea of AWALT is faulty. She won't be your LTR because she got mad and deleted u. Now if you apologize you will enter her frame totally and be her little bitch dog. That's what you want? If yes, go chase her right now. I think you know that you have to skip this one chance. 3499999999 else await. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/19 05:34 PM |
| 4 | Finnaly got enough confidence to go outside and record somethingNo. "POSTS MUST BE EITHER REQUESTS FOR ADVICE OR CLARIFICATION" While we probably appreciate that you like the advice given here and grew personally, please fuck off with your petty videos. It is a wrong sub to share that. Congratulations that you had enough balls to go outside. I spent the last decade locked up in the basement. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/19 05:28 PM |
| 3 | Should I apologize?Wow you fucked it up badly. Prior to sex, no need to say a word about sex to get sex. Remember. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/19 05:23 PM |
| 3 | Finnaly got enough confidence to go outside and record somethingThere is only 1 rule in this sub. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/19 05:21 PM |
| 1 | [rant] Why do you care so much?I like what you wrote. Clicks with my favourable views on Varg Vikernes. Sadly he has been the target of YT witch hunting lately and moved elsewhere. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/07/19 10:42 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop being a LAZY FUCK?Regain your perspective, think about the fact that you're just 19. You have plenty of time, so take it easy. Life is to enjoy it. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/19 09:48 AM |
| 11 | Anyone else can’t access the main sub?It is quarantined since like 6 months. Search the full name or go via PC. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/19 09:58 PM |
| 6 | Helen Hirsch and Amon from Schindler's ListIt's a movie so relations depicted there might not be realistic. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/19 10:50 AM |
| 3 | First date at her placeSo tell her what you will be cooking. Should be ok or what do you think? I like the "submarining" meaning you write a few minutes / hours earlier and say "oh sorry due to my poor time management I must inform that our meeting has to be postponed by 10 minutes" and if she flakes she will tell you "oh fuck did we have to meet today?" etc | /r/askTRP | 27/06/19 01:21 PM |
| 15 | First date at her placeI say do not ask about the dish. Make one or two and just present her with a fait accompli. Higher risk, higher reward. Plus it is just a dish. Give orders, not questions. Take the personality that you are good with. Your natural one. She will feel that you fake it and tear you apart. PS Sun Tzu art of war, war is won before it is even fought. | /r/askTRP | 27/06/19 01:02 PM |
| 25 | Why are Men leaving Corporate America?You men are just pussies for quitting! | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/19 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Torn on these 2 booksFirst, sometimes the author repeats himself. Sometimes he gives completely opposite advice. The main reason why I dislike it would be that it is impractical. You get half a hundred woo-woo tips on how to "gain an advantage" but personally I cannot find an extensive application of many of them. Obviously, as a smart man you must have noticed that you cannot transgress them all at once and at least 1/3 or 1/2 you utilize daily without a conscious effort. Thus I find reading the book a waste of you… | /r/askTRP | 26/06/19 08:25 PM |
| 2 | Torn on these 2 booksOnce I read here that the laws of power applies more in everyday life and dale Carnegie in business. I personally find laws of power a pile of crap and wouldn't bother learning all 48 by heart. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/19 03:56 PM |
| 1 | film about menCome to Poland and I'll be glad to be interviewed ;) Good idea but hope you planned it well for it to be wisely designed | /r/askTRP | 25/06/19 11:28 AM |
| 1 | What ethnicity do I look to you?Native American / Asian (in fact it's one and the same) | /r/askTRP | 24/06/19 12:34 PM |
| 2 | In 2 hours will be going to the club. Will be sober, dance poorly. Any tips to spare my life?Simple. Scared a bit but I want to have some memories in 5 years from now, right? Thanks for the words of encouragement. It Will be the test go to see if clubs are my thing. | /r/askTRP | 22/06/19 07:57 PM |
| 1 | In 2 hours will be going to the club. Will be sober, dance poorly. Any tips to spare my life?Yeah I will go just for the sake of new experiences. More freedom to me because I'm a driver so can go away if things are not as exciting as they could. Hope to have some fun and do new things | /r/askTRP | 22/06/19 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Slept with several attractive girls but can't break up with overweight gfOP I won't scold you for cheating, you tried what you could and it seems not to work. Maybe she should get scared a little? Tried applying dread? BTW your bros here might be right, think about it hard if you still love her or are just clinging to the IDEA of your PAST girlfriend. I know it's hard but you seem to be a smart man, you'll get it figured out. Good luck! | /r/askTRP | 22/06/19 05:16 PM |
| 1 | How To Escalate In A CarWhat car? I drive in 2016 Opel Astra and there is so much space in the back that I could inflate a mattress there (not literally obv) | /r/askTRP | 18/06/19 08:29 PM |
| 10 | Only looking for friendYou say "watch their actions, not their words" and proceed to try to decode whatever pile of steaming horse shit she just said. Come on bro, just act as if she didn't say that. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/19 12:03 PM |
| 4 | Can't we just replace "sex/intimacy" in Maslow's hiearchy of needs for something else?I can smell the hamster wheel burning from 3000 kms away bro | /r/askTRP | 17/06/19 10:24 AM |
| 4 | Girl starts crying and saying I am forcing her?When you took her to the beach there was plausible deniability that you go just for the sake of going to the beach. The moment you started undressing the deniability faded and LMR started. That's how I see it. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/19 11:19 AM |
| 1 | Didn't have the balls to actYou're right. It stings as hell though | /r/askTRP | 16/06/19 07:21 AM |
| 5 | Didn't have the balls to actHopefully I learn this quick enough | /r/askTRP | 16/06/19 01:59 AM |
| 1 | I'm in Mexico traveling with my family and on my phone all day.u/deborahbinladen said it well. When you start, things keep going. Just start | /r/askTRP | 15/06/19 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Going to the club with my buddy whos never gone tonight. Any tips?I disagree. The last time I let myself go I ended up vomitting all over a tree for a good hour. I think the best ones are when you control your drinking and reduce it by 60-80% and act strategically. Maybe we're different kinds of men . Cheers | /r/askTRP | 15/06/19 06:21 AM |
| 1 | Girl not answering text after spending weekend togetherQuoting Donnie Brasco: "Forget about it!" There might be a multitude of reasons. You hear me? Now I'll tell you why the sentence above is wrong. Because there really might be a multitude of HAMSTER EXPLANATIONS. Totally irrational, primal, hornonal, unexplainable. Move on with your life and "Forget about it", she'll contact you again or not. Her loss | /r/askTRP | 15/06/19 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Has this ever happened to you while talking to a girl and her friend?It could be that she doesn't treat you seriously and says it to her friend like "look, a puppy did poo poo on the carpet, ain't that a cute puppy?" All depends on the context and the tone of her voice obviously, maybe I imagine a different type of situation | /r/askTRP | 15/06/19 06:09 AM |
| 1 | My friend is ruining his life for a girl. Hes like a brother to me, how do i help him?You are unplugged, he is still in the Matrix. You are like an observer of an ant colony. Can just watch. If you stick your finger inside the nest, you will get attacked by the insects. I know he is your friend but you can either just watch things unfold as they do (intervene only if his life is at risk literally), or make one 'talk' where there is more than likely a chance he will resent you. The choice is yours. You are safe and sound, do you want to break this state? The first rule of CPR is t… | /r/askTRP | 14/06/19 05:14 AM |
| 1 | I'm not lazy but the thought of working makes me sickEnlighten me then. You disgust me. Well, it probably had to be like this. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/19 09:34 PM |
| 1 | I'm not lazy but the thought of working makes me sickWise words. Thank you. It would be nice if I saved some cash and they offered me an amount that I couldn't ever get in my situation if I worked a labour job. I think I will stay but commit to 40h per week to have weekends free for some local travelling or ask for 4x 10h days. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/19 09:34 PM |
| 3 | I'm not lazy but the thought of working makes me sickFair enough. Im the lucky one to have it better than many other people. Idk why I complain. Thanks for a wake up comment. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/19 06:28 PM |
| 1 | I'm not lazy but the thought of working makes me sickIt seems interesting. What do the blacksmiths nowadays do in the main part? How did it all start for you? I'm currently studying Finance and have 4 more years to go but when I complete it and save up a little bit of money, everything might happen. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/19 04:26 PM |
| 1 | I'm not lazy but the thought of working makes me sickMust be the mentality. Thanks for the comment. I think I do indeed have it all wrong and hoped somebody could 'straighten' my bent perspective a bit. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/19 04:20 PM |
| 1 | I'm not lazy but the thought of working makes me sickWhy do you order people in a binary fashion? Socialist, communist <---> Capitalist. I can assure you I am neither a zealous capitalist nor any kind of socialist/communist. Please don't tell me I want it all handed to me for I don't. Yes, I'm young. No, you don't offend me. I'm glad that you want to talk with me. I'm just young and a bit confused. Why I said "filthy capitalist" is to express my anger towards my boss or bosses around there who get awfully rich while paying some dog shit to their w… | /r/askTRP | 12/06/19 04:07 PM |
| 2 | I'm not lazy but the thought of working makes me sickI think I get the point. Will clean my head and finally decide on something to try, thank you for the reply. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/19 02:48 PM |
| 1 | I'm not lazy but the thought of working makes me sickThat's right. Currently I'm looking for my mission but as far as the moment is concerned there is nothing particularly interesting in life for me. Thus my concern and the post. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/19 02:24 PM |
| 34 | New ways to fuck her?In the butt | /r/askTRP | 10/06/19 02:56 PM |
| 11 | Why work on yourself, why be healthy, why have relationship, why chase women, why chase wealth?That's the intricacy of life. You don't need to do anything because life is inherently pointless. Nihilism can tell us everything about it. However it comes with a solution - the point of your life can be anything. Anything is as pointless as it is... "pointful". If you feel happy where you are, okay. But maybe you will open your eyes one day and realize you want more and thus a next big adventure will happen. Who knows? It's hard to tackle this issue. I'm only 20 but know it takes a lot of time… | /r/askTRP | 09/06/19 11:38 AM |
| 1 | ELI5: The whole rollo sceneMoney money money | /r/askTRP | 08/06/19 10:27 AM |
| 1 | ELI5: The whole rollo sceneIts name is 21 Convention. It was supposed to be here in Poland this year. GayLubeOil comments on it frequently. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/19 09:42 AM |
| 1 | ELI5: The whole rollo sceneRollo was a co-establisher of 21st Convention, a meeting where 'men' could gather in the atmosohere of growth. However he sided with a cuck and some other BP fags who started cashing 2000 bucks for a meeting. The only RP think they have is an account subscribed to TRP. So he left or was kicked by them prolly because it was their last bastion of sanity, be thankful for that. He's quite a good guy and a really important figure in the Manosphere. | /r/askTRP | 08/06/19 09:34 AM |
| 5 | How do i not end up killing myself?Don't worry brother, things get a little rough for us all one time or the other. If you really struggle with learning how to program I'd recommend you to really rethink if you want to scrape through for the next 3 or 5 years doing shit you might start hating and getting a figurative knife up your throat in the form of grades and tests. If you have been working anyway I'd say you should save up like 80% of your income monthly (you live for free I assume or give some for the bills, you might eat f… | /r/askTRP | 07/06/19 04:52 PM |
| 2 | The Sigma Male?He told you to go earn 100 karma by shit posting in other subs = posting shallow things that earn you the karma points to be able to add a topic in the main sub of TRP. If autists like you consider themselves to be sigma then Sigma-me-off from this piece of steaming bullshit. Respect the tag because he put in the work you clearly are not capable of appreciating. | /r/askTRP | 03/06/19 04:26 PM |
| 1 | How do I develop self compassion and fall in love in myself?I didnt go into depth because there is nothing to talk too much about - a girl which is not crazy for me, one from many. But definitely I keep overthinking this and many other situations. First regret going, then regret not going. So I hope to fine-hone this algorithm if possible | /r/askTRP | 01/06/19 09:53 PM |
| 2 | How the fuck do I stop overthinking?I like to think about one exact word and this word is APPRECIATION. Life is a gift. You don't have to like every smallest while, but realize that every moment should be noticed and the fact of the wonder of life - appreciated. Helps me more than meditation because it appeals to me and seems somewhat logical. You calm down and get straight back into the present again. PS Buy yourself some cool symbol to wear on a chain or necklace on neck or on your wrist to remind you that you are there. Could h… | /r/askTRP | 01/06/19 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Haha You Little BitchI think it's not worth the fuss to invest into sb calling you a bitch. It's straight disrespect no matter the tone. Ghost and move on, your frame crumbled to that "bitch" .-) | /r/askTRP | 31/05/19 10:06 PM |
| 3 | Which subreddits are you automatically banned from if you post on TRP?AskMenOver30 banned me for posting despite a topic unrelated to trp at all | /r/askTRP | 31/05/19 05:04 AM |
| 12 | How to react to girls touching me?She likes you. Escalate, isolate, close. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/19 10:09 AM |
| 1 | Depressed, alone and frustratedMon - Thu I'm a full time student so during the evenings I'm studying and go out no more than 1 night a week, Fri - Sat I'm working part-time 8:00 - 16:00 and 8:00- 14:00 and then I'm studying and try to go out or get some fresh air on a small car ride on Saturdays Sunday up to 14:00 I prepare myself for the next week by studying and then 14:30 - 17:00 I travel 130km back to university and the few spare hours left I spend on studying or reading or sometimes I will watch a film | /r/askTRP | 26/05/19 08:19 AM |
| 1 | Depressed, alone and frustratedI actually am a salesman part-time now apart from studying and like the contact with clients. But it's more of a specialized market for people who know what they want. I ask out every girl I find attractive if we are not strangers and glad to get rejected. Thank you for the advice Brother. | /r/askTRP | 26/05/19 06:54 AM |
| 1 | Depressed, alone and frustratedThank you. The state which you have written about is what I'm striving for - the unlimited self love. But I find it really hard as in everyday life I have to outperform others and really cannot get free of that thought. I shoot myself down with girl by thinking "she probably seen 50 better dudes than me already, give up". How did you come to that mindset? Thanks to the book you recommended? Thank you for the answer | /r/askTRP | 26/05/19 06:49 AM |
| 2 | Depressed, alone and frustratedAfter a small introspection I have to admit you're right, that was probably due to rushing as I did 5x5 and added 5kg to squats every day despite bad form accumulating. I will check the therapy option too. Thank you | /r/askTRP | 26/05/19 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Depressed, alone and frustratedThe university is small and all it has are career guidance advisors at the moment. I think I'll go to the doctor for SSRI if the situation doesn't improve, because as I said I find it hard to enjoy things at all, but we'll see how the situation develops. Thank you that you took your time to write your advice | /r/askTRP | 26/05/19 06:42 AM |
| 1 | Depressed, alone and frustratedActually I can relate to it because that's what I'm doing but that process takes requires a little patience. Thank you for a good idea | /r/askTRP | 26/05/19 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Depressed, alone and frustratedCurrently it's 3x max reps pull ups, 5x5 weighted dips 3x 12 close grip push ups 3 x max reps crunches 3x 12 bic barbell curls 5x5 OHP 3 x 12 one leg squats | /r/askTRP | 26/05/19 06:37 AM |
| 2 | I feel sore but I want to do the workout anywayIf so, then take a rest. Listen to your body and you'll be fine. If it tells you not to train, take one or two more days off. With time such pains will diminish and you will be able to train 3 times per week. Your organism is a masterpiece and it tells you exactly what to do. Go and follow your gut. If you cannot stand the pain then obv dont train, friend. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 06:03 AM |
| 4 | I feel sore but I want to do the workout anywaySuch soreness will last like 7 days tops. Go and train, blood will circulate better so you will heal faster | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 05:58 AM |
| 1 | I dont know how to respond - offered a date and girl did a side stepTrue... You're right. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 05:37 AM |
| 2 | I dont know how to respond - offered a date and girl did a side stepYeah that might be where my part of putting effort in ends | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 09:33 PM |
| 3 | I dont know how to respond - offered a date and girl did a side stepI need to open girls anyway so basically doing what I'm doing rn It's not the only one down the pipe currently | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 09:30 PM |
| 6 | This sub is turning into a joke. On another note, my wife saw me smile today, is that beta? Should I go no contact?No no, MRP says it's dread lvl 9/11, deer not dare, read no more mr nice gay | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 04:56 PM |
| 5 | How do you deal with loneliness.Maybe I didnt express myself clearly. No doubt what you listed are true, terrible problems which led many people to suicide. What I want to say is that loneliness shouldn't be something we undervalue, regard as a petty issue. It is often a stub which leads to depression or other mental issues. Moreover, as it is a "soul problem", it can stack atop "social problems" like wars and further amplify their destructive effect on mens' lives. I got angry for disregarding it as a problem because when it … | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 09:39 AM |
| 36 | How do you deal with loneliness.Bullshit. Times change and the profile of people's problems too. His loneliness is no less serious than eg. a chance of being wounded by war. Making such comparison is neither productive nor necessary and you use it just to inflate your ego. PS if loneliness and isolation weren't serious problems, European romanticism wouldn't have existed - people killed themselves just because of that daunting feeling of being alone. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 05:11 AM |
| 4 | How to lead a friend down the red pill path?He might be resistant anyway. Living with you he becomes more like you so he will improve little by little but there is a good chance he might not change permanently. Red Pill is a blessing and like in Plato's Cave, not everybody will accept it or even willing to look into it. More goods for us. Good luck ;-) | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 05:28 AM |
| 2 | How to lead a friend down the red pill path?Buy him The Rational Male books or just the vol 1 | /r/askTRP | 22/05/19 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Rejection is better than regret. I chose to regret and now feel like shitThank you. I will get home and find this book online to have a read! | /r/askTRP | 19/05/19 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Rejection is better than regret. I chose to regret and now feel like shitI can imagine the amusement because of somebody saying "Wait for a second. Let me hug you now. Ok, where were we...?" Thank you for the useful advice. Will use it next time with this girl and some other ones I have streamlined for the incoming week. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/19 12:36 PM |
| 1 | Rejection is better than regret. I chose to regret and now feel like shitYou're right. My usual rejections end up with an awkward "wow I can't believe you're not a happy orbiter" look and if we talk again is another story because last 2 or 3 times I was going for a K-close which is not the best either. I might have taken these experiences to heart too much and got discouraged yesterday. Would you be so kind as to explain how to focus outwardly and keep conversation moving quite naturally after getting shut down? | /r/askTRP | 19/05/19 11:00 AM |
| 1 | Rejection is better than regret. I chose to regret and now feel like shitHer attraction will increase when you escalate because you took bold action. Regardless of outcome. Thanks for the comment. This sentence surprised me. Maybe I forgot about such mechanism? Do you remember any posts which said it happens as you said? Nevertheless I am grateful for your reply and yeah, surely this whole act of inaction conditioned me not to wait for so long in the future | /r/askTRP | 19/05/19 10:14 AM |
| 2 | Struggling to find an inner peace in lifeWhat type of meditation do you practice? Yeah, social interactions are important but on the other hand everything has a trade-off. People start to annoy you when you constantly just cannot click with anybody | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Struggling to find an inner peace in lifeI expected time to be one of the main answer. Thank you for what you wrote. Will keep grinding | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 08:31 AM |
| 2 | Long lasting fragnance?Thank you for the advice. Making your own cologne sounds like an awesome, manly hobby or even a project to generate revenue from. How does it look like? Extracting and then combining essential oils? | /r/askTRP | 12/05/19 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Long lasting fragnance?What you're saying is true, it's just a simple smell of clean hair or shaving cream or soap that can be incredible. People here have given me fantastic advice I'm going to test and will remember what you wrote - "don't overdo". As in the article suggested by u/Fereallyred , the scent is like the final strokes of paint on canvas, so it will just complement my persona nicely. Cheers! | /r/askTRP | 12/05/19 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Long lasting fragnance?Just started checking out both. Thank you for the advice and recommendations! | /r/askTRP | 12/05/19 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Long lasting fragnance?Thank you, wow, have never even seen that the letters are different. | /r/askTRP | 12/05/19 05:17 PM |
| 2 | Long lasting fragnance?Totally will check because the skin affects the smell. Just wanted to grasp some good names that tend to be durable. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 12/05/19 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Long lasting fragnance?Thanks for the recommendations, will go check them out tomorrow | /r/askTRP | 12/05/19 11:44 AM |
| 2 | How do you get rid of oneitis?One, two more LTR break ups and I'm sure you will not have a problem detaching much faster. Your mental fortitute increases in an exponential rate. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/19 10:43 AM |
| 1 | I keep hearing "Read the side bar." But I'm confused.Don't be a faggot who expects to get everything served on a plate Suffer in silence | /r/askTRP | 09/05/19 09:06 AM |
| 3 | Society Does NOT Want You To Be SmartWhat is your problem exactly? There is only 1 rule in askTRP yet you managed to break it. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/19 11:12 AM |
| 1 | Society Does NOT Want You To Be SmartMany non-English natives here, including me, are not fucking faggots and know when we make mistakes and use the language properly. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/19 11:11 AM |
| 1 | I think this song is maybe THE BEST SEX ANTHEM EVER for straight males and it seems like it should be THE ANTHEM of "the red pill" community. Everybody heard this song already?So what is your problem exactly? | /r/askTRP | 04/05/19 05:10 PM |
| 1 | CollegeMy professor says that what pays and will pay well is IT and Finance-related professions. Creativity should be an asset too as it cannot be replaced by robots yet and that will be your main concern in 5 years. I study finance and think it is Gold. In the end you have a lot of experience and knowledge not to get fucked up by a bank and a degree you can use to get a job. PS you act like a brat who got into a tantrum and demands a list of college courses yet cries because is bad at maths. Man the f… | /r/askTRP | 04/05/19 07:48 AM |
| 3 | What do you speak about with your plates?I am not from US but if you served in military I deeply respect and admire you. If that is real I hope for you to find the peace you might be longing for. Good luck bro | /r/askTRP | 03/05/19 12:13 AM |
| 103 | What do you speak about with your plates?As Vandaleen said. Let them do 85% of the talking. Check out How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie, a good and timeless book. If you want to talk about topics like you menioned - intraparameters of movies like pacing etc - I think you need to show true enthusiasm doing this. So to summarize, either : a) Let them talk vastly more than you b) Be passionate about you're talking about Challenge for you: talk to somebody about cooking pasta and make it the most fucking entertaining… | /r/askTRP | 02/05/19 11:10 AM |
| 1 | Is anyone here familiar with Varg Vikernes' (up-to-date) ideology etc? These views are conflicting with the TRP mindset so here I am torn between two worlds.Thank you for what you wanted to share. Hope you reach your goals, no matter if traditional or not. Cheers! | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 05:58 PM |
| 2 | Is anyone here familiar with Varg Vikernes' (up-to-date) ideology etc? These views are conflicting with the TRP mindset so here I am torn between two worlds.Think as you want | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Is anyone here familiar with Varg Vikernes' (up-to-date) ideology etc? These views are conflicting with the TRP mindset so here I am torn between two worlds.That is good to know that there are people who know both Varg and TRP to their fullest. Now I have a question but be sure I do NOT want to guilt trip you. Just asking: dont you feel degenerate by enjoying the decline? I do, every Time, actually. Hence the tear between the 2 worlds | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Is anyone here familiar with Varg Vikernes' (up-to-date) ideology etc? These views are conflicting with the TRP mindset so here I am torn between two worlds.He is not a white supremacist. I asked for a view od somebody who KNOWS the ideology. He specifically stated many times that he is not a white supremacist. Not going to comment on this comment any longer. | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Is anyone here familiar with Varg Vikernes' (up-to-date) ideology etc? These views are conflicting with the TRP mindset so here I am torn between two worlds.You say murderer, I say self defence. You say too far fetched for a self defence, I say TRP says to man up and you cry over a murder of somebody who was not innocent. This dick measuring contest can last forever. If killers are not a reliable source of knowledge then why BPDs are? Should we then exclude 25% of americans from voting? See? Let's not make it political | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Is anyone here familiar with Varg Vikernes' (up-to-date) ideology etc? These views are conflicting with the TRP mindset so here I am torn between two worlds.A propos the second part - I thought it out and I think it boils down to the most important trait of all of them - Frame and game. I think I realize it now. But I still cannot grasp the first paragraph of what you wrote. While I wouldn't be eager to enter any formal marriage ever, I think that having kids in some long-term future (in 10-20 years) is something I would love to do. But literally none of my (I'm 20) peers think about that. They laugh at stupid youtube videos, smoke and drink every t… | /r/askTRP | 26/04/19 04:25 PM |
| 1 | How to lose fat so that the abs are visibleThank you for the backing up effort, reading it right away. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 09:58 PM |
| 1 | How to lose fat so that the abs are visibleWill check it out, thanks | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 09:55 PM |
| 2 | How to lose fat so that the abs are visibleAll I wanted to know. Very helpful, thank you mate! | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 09:39 PM |
| 2 | How to lose fat so that the abs are visibleTotally feasible but I have to ask about it: if I reduce carbs, won't I be getting exhausted during my weight workouts? | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 09:38 PM |
| 3 | How to lose fat so that the abs are visibleThanks for an instant reply. Have you experienced substantial strength loss while losing fat quickly (as in my planned 3kg in 1-2 months)? What about the intensity of the cardio sessions? | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 09:22 PM |
| 2 | My dad is having a meltdownGive him The Rational Male trilogy. It was written also for that reason. Wish you good luck | /r/askTRP | 20/04/19 05:43 PM |
| 82 | "I'm a decent girl". SIDEBAR SIDEBAR SIDEBARStopped reading after "textcalation" and kissing emoticons. Nty, you learned nothing apparently | /r/TheRedPill | 20/04/19 09:46 AM |
| 1 | Having a trouble to relate to / connect with people at allBook smart people or academics don't interest me at all, however I admire their knowledge every time they have an opportunity to shine. I'm just a regular guy with the difference that I don't drink and am pretty damn much traditional. But I have this problem to connect to people. I'm never somebody's friend, rather "the friend of the guy who brought him". Seeing people interact makes me feel I'm being on a safari. All the concepts that people regard "bond-making " or "funny" feel totally foreign… | /r/askTRP | 17/04/19 10:16 PM |
| 8 | Is a past ONS or two always a immediate dasqualification for a LTR/marriage or are there cases where it‘s not?I don't tolerate degeneracy so I'd disqualify such person immediately. Having said that, nowadays it's hard to find people who didn't do it at least once. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/19 09:38 AM |
| 1 | Anyone feel up for a chat about stuff?Shoot me a message in case you're feeling down bro, always welcome to talk | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 03:19 PM |
| 1 | I feel disenfranchised from society and women in general, is that a bad thing?Check Varg Vikernes. He despises the degeneracy like some of us too. All depends where you draw the line in partaking in this shitshow. Cheers | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 08:54 AM |
| 8 | In horrible painLet me then assure you, none of that will bother you in the near future. Let's look at it mathematically: Your pain, p, is a function of time, t. p(t) = 1/t The more time goes by, the less pain you will feel. May sound ridiculous just right now, but have you ever had a tantrum as a kid? You could have screamed your lungs out for a toy which seemed precious when you were 5. Would you do the same now? We understand that you might feel bad for a missed opportunity but recognize it is not the realit… | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 05:25 AM |
| 4 | In horrible painI'd start by getting rejected by a ton of girls. You seem to catch oneitis for many women you interact with. Nothing will reduce it like hearing "no, fuck off" a million times | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Interacting at partiesLearn a few magic tricks and announce you're a magician. Got great reaction doing it past 30 or so times and picked up many bitches via my "mysteriousness" PS it doesnt matter WHAT you say. All that is imporant is HOW you say things. You could even say bullshit out of context random words as long as you're totally confident of yourself. Good luck bro | /r/askTRP | 12/04/19 05:21 AM |
| 17 | Got my eye on a red head, what's the move?You have oneitis. Take her to date and fuck her. Otherwise you are the same beta orbiter as others. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/19 09:39 AM |
| 2 | How do I shut down my attraction to women while I improve myself?Won't start arguing against your defeatism. Grow a pair man. If you don't believe in yourself then who shall? Cheers | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 03:08 PM |
| 2 | When to end the soft next in my situationYou have oneitis and act like a heroinist on a relapse. If you want to use TRP, I'd start by reading the sidebar. Clearly you are not aware how and why you behave in certain ways. PS We don't give a fuck about your demands. Struggle and adapt or die. That's how nature works. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 02:14 PM |
| 2 | How do I shut down my attraction to women while I improve myself?You say you want a no bullshit advice. What about you? Why don't you accept it gracefully instead of finding some shitty excuses? We joined TRP not because we were natural alphas getting too much pussy but we were sad, alone, depressed and miserable. Yet people here don't give up when faced with adversity. You shouldn't either. Approach girls, get shut down, rinse and repeat x1000, get your first success eventually. But you know what? You are just asking the question to get some attention like a… | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Wtf is the point of sex?I can feel you bro. Sometimes you just feel satiated. Make a break from that. Your demand for sex will go up thus making you perceive it as more valuable. Hope you're doing well. Cheers! | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 09:48 AM |
| 2 | What's the most weight you have lost?Once I took a massive shit and I swear it was like a 2kg-toilet-clogging anaconda which teared up my asshole | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 08:11 PM |
| 6 | nofap and mewing, are they legit?Game > looks so here is your answer why you shouldnt make excuses to approach girls today instead of holding your tongue against your mouth for months like an idiot. The other answer? Sex > masturbation. Substitute it and find yourself asking such questions no more | /r/askTRP | 08/04/19 08:02 PM |
| 5 | Question about "Women are utterly incapable of loving a man in the way that a man expects to be loved"Men expect women to keep track of all the niceties, compliments and sacrifices they made to them. Moreover they expect women to be logical: You have sex + I want sex - > ask for requirements for sex - > do them - > get sex Or in a way that you can trade your favours for sex. You cannot and (Such) reasoning is not something that women hold. They are emotional creatures. Relational equity doesnt exist and they can leave you with no problem Just after you work your ass off to sustain their wellbein… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 08:27 PM |
| 12 | How to Structure Your Day to Maximize ProductivityWhat if we then go back even more and start going to sleep at 6 PM and waking up at 2 AM? By sleeping the same amounts you have a range of time you can do things. If you won't have 4 hours before work in the morning, you'll get the same 4 hours after your work. Makes no difference to me in the terms of time. Unless you take things like afternoon traffic into consideration. The only upside I see is the morning productivity surge but I guess not everybody posseses that anyway. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/19 07:03 PM |
| 6 | What is N count determined as?Probably depends on the type of person you talk about it with. For me it would be like that: -sex, head, etc etc - +1 -kissing, groping ass or boobs - 0 But some people may take kissing into account in example because they are young yet and still think that kissing "means business" already. Or they are from an environment that doesn't promote sex and kissing may have some value of an indicator that peope love each other. Hope you get the idea. Definitely it's a subjective term. General conse… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/19 06:53 PM |
| 5 | You Are What You WearDidn't think about it that way. Such way of tackling the issue genuinely seems really pragmatic and mindful . Thank you for your opinion, I read it with pleasure. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/19 09:27 AM |
| 65 | You Are What You WearAn epitome of XXI century consumerism. Rotten to the core and egocentric. But totally and undoubtely true . You indeed are what you wear. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/04/19 08:43 PM |
| 5 | The modern world seems degenerate. Or am I wrong?Thank you for the time you spent to reply. That's right, I'm 20 and willing to learn. Won't "turning off my screens" make me ignorant toward things that seriously take place around me? I mean you're right. Got to know some things through the net so I'm hyper aware of some tendencies around me. But it's the same with The Red Pill. Wouldn't have found it away from the computer either and still its effect changed my life. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/19 09:43 PM |
| 8 | Anyone ever take testosterone to get out of depression?Aa far as I know, testosterone is not a substance present during the reward-punishment activities so I doubt it might actively help you. Maybe passively as by making you more agressive thus prone to take adrenaline inducing actions? I hope this thread unveils as it's a really interesting question you asked. I hope to learn from you and the comments. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/19 04:17 PM |
| 6 | What's "the thing you do" to help you get out of the funk?They're adults and can be responsible for themselves. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/19 01:32 PM |
| 3 | Is there a book/resource on forming strong emotional bonds with new people? I'd cut off my family if I had people to replace them.How to win friends and influence people by Dale Carnegie is a good read to begin with | /r/askTRP | 31/03/19 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Feeling lonesomeKeep at it friend. You always trade something for something. You trade your current opportunities for future benefits like financial freedom and work experience. Your "friends" do it reversely - they trade future potential for day-to-day pleasure. But is it worth it? What if they one day realize that it was all in vain? They will have nothing. Btw from your post it seems they are disrespecting you by ignoring and lying to you. Will you be tolerating it? | /r/askTRP | 31/03/19 08:16 AM |
| 2 | Fashion guide for new red pillers (Part 1)Why not roll sleeves? You can use the shirt in the winter if it has long sleeves, either But seriously for each their own, rip the sleeves with your guns my man | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/19 09:54 PM |
| 1 | A girl from interstate is coming to my city in 2 weeks and has expressed she wants to have sex. I'm not very sexually experienced. Do I just go ahead normally?Rub one or two before if you are afraid of cumming too early. | /r/askTRP | 25/03/19 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Fed up with lifeTrue... | /r/askTRP | 21/03/19 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Fed up with lifeSuch an adequate nick. Mental health facilities in Poland are far from perfect. Not to make it an excuse but I doubt if I won't leave such a visit in an even worse state | /r/askTRP | 21/03/19 06:18 PM |
| 1 | What books to reas on the topic of TRP?Read it all and looking for more If I may be more specific, more of read-and-use PUA would be best if you happen to know anything | /r/askTRP | 17/03/19 01:34 PM |
| 4 | Should I stop pretending to laugh at things I don't find funny?Thing as you want but behave like others? Idk, telling from my memory. Book is 48 laws of power | /r/askTRP | 16/03/19 11:54 AM |
| 2 | Feeling void and suicidal. Is there more to life?You hit it deep brother. You're right. I take it too seriously at times... I feel sincerely sorry about your brother. I'm sure that you want to spread good to avoid the same damage he did to himself. I think you just saved one person. All the best to you. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/19 11:02 AM |
| 4 | What to do with bros other than drugs/alcoholChess, darts, 8-ball pool, poker | /r/askTRP | 16/03/19 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Feeling void and suicidal. Is there more to life?Thank you for the time and care you put to answer. You're right. I'm already planning it out as I dont want to get fat by bulking again. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/19 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Should I remind myself before a date planned 10 day from now?Actually I know she writes an exam which would make her kicked out of the university if she failed if that matters. Let me think about the shit test aspect of it, thank you nonetheless for letting me know as I'd not suspect such thing to be testing | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Should I remind myself before a date planned 10 day from now?Yeah I think she's the one. Seems special. Thanks for the advice, a truckload of flowers is on its way already ;-) | /r/askTRP | 07/03/19 07:02 AM |
| 1 | How to survive lonely times?Loneliness to be adressed first | /r/askTRP | 04/03/19 04:36 PM |
| 1 | How to survive lonely times?Poland. What resources? Talents, inclinations or pure cash? | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 09:01 PM |
| 0 | Am I too judgemental of people?I believe that people with inclination to get tattooed are doing that to garner attention to their body, think they are special snowflakes and maybe like the feeling of receiving pain on top of that. Everything subconsciously of course. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/19 03:24 PM |
| 4 | Girl stopped initiating and I deleted her number. She messaged me half a year later.It might as well have been a joke on your side. Relax | /r/askTRP | 02/03/19 01:21 AM |
| 1 | Am I too judgemental of people?Hitting right where it should. Thank you brother, peace for you too. Got my answer so beautifully crafted | /r/askTRP | 28/02/19 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Am I too judgemental of people?First and foremost, I appreciate the time you took to think about what I wrote and make a very thoughtful reply. That being true to yourself you pointed out at the very end is the core my thoughts revolve around. I do keep myself true at all costs because I'm putting myself first absolutely even if it means sacrificing friends. Just thought... What if people are like that and I will be lonely til the end of my days, friendless, maybe I do something wrong? About the clubbing part I'm still trying… | /r/askTRP | 28/02/19 06:24 PM |
| 1 | I just came back from a party and feel very weirdRight, deleting asap | /r/askTRP | 26/02/19 11:52 PM |
| 1 | I just came back from a party and feel very weirdMaybe you have some insight that I havent yet gotten or can't see. This community is really insightful and could help with that. Thanks thst you spent time to answer. Appreciate it. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/19 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Should I push myself to go clubbing despite not being a club person?I'm going to give it a go just for a new experience's sake and try to have absolutely 0 expectations. Somebody suggested here that bars with dancefloors are better and I think I will be aiming for that solution in the future | /r/askTRP | 21/02/19 06:17 AM |
| 1 | Should I push myself to go clubbing despite not being a club person?Thank you for your opinion and I honestly value it a lot. My thoughts are that hedonism is bad because it leads to destroying the planet by overindulgence in e.g. consumerism, and destroying us as humans due to the fact that it encourages people to get promiscuous, greedy etc. I care for my heritage and would like to have quality children who could still use a livable Earth. To meet this goal, shagging skanks I met in a club in a big degenerate city is not a way to go. If you think I grasp somet… | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 10:35 PM |
| 3 | Should I push myself to go clubbing despite not being a club person?I'm an atheist, it's more the philosophical point of view | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 10:07 PM |
| 2 | Should I push myself to go clubbing despite not being a club person?Great advice. I am grateful that you took your time and wrote a guide for me to get inspired off. I think that it's what you said - being in own head, is the biggest problem and I will remember to enjoy the experience and have fun first and foremost. You helped me and I will read this post again before I go out tomorrow. Have a good day brother! | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Should I push myself to go clubbing despite not being a club person?That's an excellent idea. I endorse this notion and probably will do some sort of its variation. Thank you for the time you've spent to write the answer. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Should I push myself to go clubbing despite not being a club person?I based my thoughts on Epicureism and Stoicism. That's what I believe in | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 05:51 PM |
| 7 | Should I push myself to go clubbing despite not being a club person?I can get what you're saying and to be honest I feel excited thinking about this kind of approach to going out at night. Never thought of it this way before. Really insightful. Thank you! | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Should I push myself to go clubbing despite not being a club person?Great answer. Definitely will force myself because many questions are yet to be answered. Thank you for taking your time to reply. I know some dance moves but it will be the best time to practice them. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Should I push myself to go clubbing despite not being a club person?Won't bend backwards to stick my dick in a thottie | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 04:00 PM |
| 2 | Should I push myself to go clubbing despite not being a club person?You bothered to check my post history yet didn't look at the fact that it was a post I replied to a comment in. I am tired of the shallow degenerate society. Imagine there do exist people who don't care about pussy anymore. The bold word here is a keyword. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Should I push myself to go clubbing despite not being a club person?You bothered to check my post history yet didn't look at the fact that it was a post I replied to a comment in. I am tired of the shallow degenerate society. Imagine there do exist people who don't care about pussy anymore. The bold word here is a keyword. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Should I push myself to go clubbing despite not being a club person?No doubt. I am genuinely happy for you that you could develop yourself through psychedelics. Hope the development process doesn't stop there. Have a good day bro | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 02:37 PM |
| 2 | Should I push myself to go clubbing despite not being a club person?No drugs for me mate but thank you for your opinion. I am unsettled about using psychedelics because on one hand people say that is can open your perception to new experiences and on the other people say that drugs are not necessary and they can ruin your life. Me being only 20 is, I think, too early to try drugs because I have a shit tonne to do yet. Maybe when I'm 30+? Appreciate your thought anyway, I think this advice would help a great deal of people who are fighting with their thoughts too… | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 02:26 PM |
| 0 | Should I push myself to go clubbing despite not being a club person?I don't care about getting the pussy brother. That's not what I'm looking for right now. More like, searching for some internal peace. I will go and relax my ass, hope you can do the same whenever you please. Cheers! | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 01:59 PM |
| 8 | Should I push myself to go clubbing despite not being a club person?Like the fact that indulging in hedonism is bad for you as a human. Yes, drug and alcohol use is a transgression to me already. We have different opinions and it's nothing more than that. PS Even if what you said was true, why do you think that living a "fun" life is morally superior? "fun" is fleeting and shallow and devastating to the planet, thinking only of the short-term consequences or about no consequences at all. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 01:53 PM |
| 19 | Should I push myself to go clubbing despite not being a club person?Thank you for such a quick answer. I had quite a lenghty answer why I am a snowflake but deleted it to add just one thing - I will go, I will try and if I don't like it, I will make the conclusion myself. Have a good day, you gave me the kick in the butt I needed. Case closed! | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 01:47 PM |
| 3 | Literally what do you talk about with girls/people?You're right and this attitude seems fully logical and clicks with me. Thank you for the reply bro, stay well | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Literally what do you talk about with girls/people?Yeah it totally will not. No biggie, just a bit of shame, but thats the way the world works :) | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 07:58 AM |
| 0 | Literally what do you talk about with girls/people?So you compromise your values and sense of dignity and act like a dancing monkey just to get your stick wet, really? | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 07:57 AM |
| 1 | Literally what do you talk about with girls/people?What if I feel like a dumb kid from the kindergarden by perpetuating such bullshit topics? No hatred towards you brother but it makes me feel like my IQ is committing harakiri when dealing with women. I'd rather talk about philosophy or get down to solve some problem than to give a flying fuck about listening to her childish behavior stories or trying to sell myself in her eyes. Been red Pilled for 2 years but man does my mind feel barren when it comes to taming social strivings and intellectual… | /r/askTRP | 19/02/19 10:03 PM |
| 1 | I have a mentality of "I need some leisure time every day" and I would like to change it.I watch Varg too. Heil Odinn | /r/askTRP | 09/02/19 11:58 PM |
| 1 | I have a mentality of "I need some leisure time every day" and I would like to change it.Calling people names eh? Thanks for the solution, edge overlord | /r/askTRP | 09/02/19 11:04 PM |
| 1 | I have a mentality of "I need some leisure time every day" and I would like to change it.Glad to hear a reply. I didn't read for a long long time, your comment might be what's needed for me to rekindle that interests | /r/askTRP | 09/02/19 06:02 PM |
| 1 | I have a mentality of "I need some leisure time every day" and I would like to change it.Not really taking time off the goals. Thank you for the opinion | /r/askTRP | 09/02/19 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Lots of things people do make me disgusted. I don't want to participate in the world. I want to avoid most people. I look at the world and I see nothing that interests me. It's filled with filth marketed as virtue.I like Varg and what he says. Doubly because I'm European. Nice to see some familiar references in a community not to aligned with Vargs' worldview | /r/askTRP | 06/02/19 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Lots of things people do make me disgusted. I don't want to participate in the world. I want to avoid most people. I look at the world and I see nothing that interests me. It's filled with filth marketed as virtue.OP I agree with everything you said. I, too, am sick of the omnipresent degeneracy and decline. Promiscuity makes me want to puke. If you want to develop the good in you I suggest digging into Eastern philosophies and check out Varg Vikernes' channel on YT - ThuleanPerspective. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/19 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Ex LTR rewrote our story together: “I tricked her into being with me”If being wealthy is your goal then pursue it. No better time to do it than today in an era where idiots watch shit like hydraulic Press channel. I want to end up as a free man, not a wealthy man. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/19 07:51 AM |
| 2 | Ex LTR rewrote our story together: “I tricked her into being with me”I agree with you. Had a good conversation, thanks brother. Everything good to you and much resilience! | /r/askTRP | 01/02/19 06:25 PM |
| 2 | Ex LTR rewrote our story together: “I tricked her into being with me”That's why TRP teaches us to derive our happiness from our inner selves, do you agree? I'm thinking about the Rollo-esque 'mental point of origin'. Your words correlate with my worldview in a sense, because freedom is my top priority, be it freedom from society, opinions of others et caetera | /r/askTRP | 01/02/19 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Ex LTR rewrote our story together: “I tricked her into being with me”You raise a good point. Care to elaborate on that? | /r/askTRP | 01/02/19 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Ex LTR rewrote our story together: “I tricked her into being with me”This question seems as if you were new here. You decide your own fate and know that you are responsible for everything. Yes, we start with nothing but end up having everything, wealth, masculine style, respect and knowledge (women are like cars and depreciate in value with time), you are on average a much better logical thinker able to produce complex abstract thoughts. Fuck me I'd rather be reborn as a man and earn my way to freedom than be a slave to my being for my whole life. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/19 02:20 PM |
| 16 | Ex LTR rewrote our story together: “I tricked her into being with me”Yet still being a man is better. Who understands that, won the game of life. Good luck bro | /r/askTRP | 01/02/19 01:59 PM |
| 1 | How do you resolve internal conflicts? Morality, values etc.Yeah ik it's edgy af but been bothering me for far too long, cheers | /r/askTRP | 31/01/19 06:54 AM |
| 2 | Why does masturbating make me forget about my oneitis?Forgot the name but biologically you feel disgust after sex to move on and fulfill the mission of seeding as many partners as possible. It's called post coital something something | /r/askTRP | 30/01/19 01:54 PM |
| 7 | Is there something like "lifting weights" for your soul?What about Buddhism and Zen Philosophy? Somewhat connected to Stoicism | /r/askTRP | 30/01/19 10:52 AM |
| 1 | How do you resolve internal conflicts? Morality, values etc.Good words. Your diagnosis might be right sadly, so I need to keep digging deeper. Thank you for that refreshing take on the topic. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/19 04:17 PM |
| 1 | How do you resolve internal conflicts? Morality, values etc.Will take a look at Zen and Buddhism, Alan Watts sparked an interest in me altough he gets criticized. I think the same as you, perceiving hedonism as unfulfilling | /r/askTRP | 29/01/19 01:49 PM |
| 1 | How do you resolve internal conflicts? Morality, values etc.Very informative, thank you for the insight. I don't care if other drink etc and never give shit for that reason. Wouldn't consider marrying from the get go if at all, but you're 100% right. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/19 01:48 PM |
| 0 | How do you resolve internal conflicts? Morality, values etc.Edgelords ;) Thank you for good advice. Want to bike 500km to the seaside this summer. Not considering myself an idealist, but the discipline is something I wouldn't consider abandoning. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/19 01:45 PM |
| 1 | If a guy hints you aren't his type due to your ethnicity, is this a sign to back off or maybe a chance to change his mind?I think that if I said that, I wouldn't reconsider changing my mind. But it is an individual matter I suppose. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/19 12:32 PM |
| 2 | [Serious] What percentage of women are total criminals and should be avoided at all cost ?It won't help you to know the percentage. You should screen them for red flags. How does the statistics help you anyway? | /r/askTRP | 29/01/19 12:31 PM |
| 1 | How do you resolve internal conflicts? Morality, values etc.What stance to take on: [vices,parties, city life, promiscuity,hedonism] vs [anti-consumerism, freedom, values, principles]. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/19 11:52 AM |
| 3 | Ex plate made out with roommate, and I feel sick about it.She is your ex thus you have no way to influence her thus it is not your fucking problem. Read the sidebar bro | /r/askTRP | 28/01/19 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Public service announcementI wholly get you know. I assume you have not received an answer to a question you wanted answered. Remember that we are all human, many people work and some are not Red Pilled so they will give poor advice. I used to ask the same question a few times over a course of 1-2 months and only then was my thirst of knowledge satisfied. I get that it is random and depends on your question's popularity, but ECs and other flairs often reply to questions on askTRP and I think they do it well. So if you got… | /r/askTRP | 27/01/19 12:13 AM |
| 2 | Public service announcementOr maybe the nature of the questions is all the same all the time. Did you read "The art of not giving a F*ck" by Manson? He claims that no problem is ever unique, mankind has seen it all. I agree and think that good majority of problems here have already been adressed in the sidebar material as it is a universal source of knowledge. But many people won't bother to even spend a couple of hours to read it. Why should one then bother to construct elaborate 5 year metamorphosis plans for entitled s… | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 11:55 PM |
| 1 | I gave a girl the speech at start (per sidebar) but we're like boyfriend/girlfriend. So should I not promote if she acts like a perfect gf?From that pespective, you are right. After 2 years he will be pretty sure. I think that the screening might take less than 2 years pretty often | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 08:31 PM |
| 1 | I gave a girl the speech at start (per sidebar) but we're like boyfriend/girlfriend. So should I not promote if she acts like a perfect gf?Why 2 years? I don't think this is a sound advice, bro | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 07:50 PM |
| 1 | I gave a girl the speech at start (per sidebar) but we're like boyfriend/girlfriend. So should I not promote if she acts like a perfect gf?Exactly. Bravo! | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 07:49 PM |
| 2 | I gave a girl the speech at start (per sidebar) but we're like boyfriend/girlfriend. So should I not promote if she acts like a perfect gf?I think you needn't have made some "talk". Acta non verba. And I'm sure your beta-iness will show up, because you are faking what you are not and have not. Find some girls or prepare for the worst. PS If she is your only girl she is your girlfriend, not a plate. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/19 07:47 PM |
| 1 | How to react when somebody elbows you on the street?Bad habit that will be a good riddance. Yeah eventually I got what I deserved | /r/askTRP | 24/01/19 07:05 PM |
| 2 | How to react when somebody elbows you on the street?Great comparison. And yeah I must have had it all wrong with contesting people because I wanted to exactly avoid the 1000 yard stare afraid to look like a robot. We learn every day as it seems. Got my lesson. Thank you for the on spot explanation! | /r/askTRP | 24/01/19 05:48 PM |
| 1 | How to react when somebody elbows you on the street?Wholeheartedly agree. Thank you for the time you devoted to explain it. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/19 04:04 PM |
| 1 | How to react when somebody elbows you on the street?Noted. Harnessing the ego is hard but as they say in stoicism "you can't train virtue when everything goes well". Thank you for the insight. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/19 04:03 PM |
| 5 | How to react when somebody elbows you on the street?Yeah you're right. I had no worry about the fact that we coul bump purposefully but I lost my focus when I saw my phone do a double backflip into concrete. Won't be googling "why are tattoos so common on sailors" anymore when in public. Have a good day bro ;) | /r/askTRP | 24/01/19 03:59 PM |
| 1 | How to react when somebody elbows you on the street?I get you. I stayed silent and feel a blow to my ego, but that's my modus operandi and I'm wondering if I should train it not to be like that | /r/askTRP | 24/01/19 03:33 PM |
| 23 | How to react when somebody elbows you on the street?Good advice, as I retrospect, that eye lock had to provoke him. Thank you. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/19 03:31 PM |
| 6 | How to react when somebody elbows you on the street?You're right. I used to look people in the eye to gain confidence instead of looking below my line of sight when I was getting freshly redpilled. Btw This practice of looking people in the eye I mentally associate with "confident body language". While I understand that it was excessive and caused this small unnecessary act to happen, don't you think it is good compared to shying away in general? Asking a genuine question | /r/askTRP | 24/01/19 03:30 PM |
| 2 | What is the most effective psychological “trick” you use on women?Law of supply and demand aka the Iron Rule of Relationships by Tomassi | /r/askTRP | 23/01/19 02:09 PM |
| 3 | How to find new friendsI believe that's when you can show your best version of yourself. For you, small or big groups might click best. Just enjoy the life. If anything, remember it has seasons like the weather. You're in the Winter while shit grows in the spring. Wait patiently and you will reap the fruit of your work. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 10:14 PM |
| 1 | How to find new friendsBelieve me I'm in a very similar situation. If you have common interested that's great. Just shoot "let's go to the pub X at time Y today in the evening". No bullshit. Just as is you were gaming a chick | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 10:12 PM |
| 2 | How to find new friendsSimilar situation to yours. Hang out with people you know already. 2-3 times and you could meet new people and get the snowball going. Also maybe there are hobbies you share with your university classmates? Point is to get familiar enough to hang out together and then meet people through the help of other people. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 10:05 PM |
| 39 | Why do they scream?Women are children. Children scream when they are powerless, this is their last resort. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/19 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Women with no hobbies/passionsThought about the same or a very similar comment today. Good argument. I would get a girl with no hobbies max to a plate though | /r/askTRP | 21/01/19 03:10 PM |
| -9 | I don't send nudesSend a pic of your 🍆 instead, dumbass. Don't forget to show your face | /r/askTRP | 21/01/19 03:04 PM |
| 1 | How do I deal with naysayers?You are the villain, fuck the father's daughter and then look him in the eyes with the "I know" look. Nothing bad in your situation, just give less fucks. It's just a plate in the end isn't it | /r/askTRP | 21/01/19 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Who is your role model and why?Varg Vikernes, I also take much knowledge and insight from good people on TRP and askTRP | /r/askTRP | 21/01/19 03:00 PM |
| 0 | How to get interested in anything?I like your spot on criticism, thank you for the time you devoted to reply. "Achieved" and "experienced", I meant more or less both of these. I dont have my head so far up my ass to literally and with arrogance say that. I just mean that basically every new experience now is some subpar variance of the basic shit I have lived through already. I have a wardrobe full of good clothes, a part or even the whole of my house if I ever needed, I have fucked already, tasted the alcohol, was on a few part… | /r/askTRP | 18/01/19 06:28 PM |
| 1 | How to get interested in anything?You're right. But they say to enjoy the process, since that's 95% of the time. And the processes used to tire the shit outta me. Not stopping the search | /r/askTRP | 18/01/19 06:15 PM |
| 1 | How to get interested in anything?Thank you for the time. I'm not a lazy slob. I'm sure that when I find something that clicks, it will be alright. Thus asking here. Hope you have a good day | /r/askTRP | 18/01/19 06:14 PM |
| 1 | How to get interested in anything?I get what you and the foresayer are willing to convey. Taking up new hobbies seems like torture. I gave up computer games and other vices long time ago so all I do now is basically go to school and vegetate. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/19 06:12 PM |
| 1 | How to get interested in anything?Fucking off 50% cheaper tonight | /r/askTRP | 18/01/19 06:08 PM |
| 3 | How to escalate in a car?I usually put my hand on her thigh, then some kissing etc and then I say "lets go to the back, there is more space to sit" but drive to some intimate place first. In the back, you can do whatever the fuck you want to do, even fuck if you hide the seats. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/19 10:10 AM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on incels, the blackpill and their ideology?Main sub is not for such things either. TRP is not a place to discuss such ideas. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/19 04:43 PM |
| 0 | What are your thoughts on incels, the blackpill and their ideology?Posts must be requests for advice OR clarification Posts only It's called askTRP, not tellTRP. Not pollTRP, or discussPhilosophicalIssuesWithTRP, or haveAConversationWithTRP. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/19 04:26 PM |
| 2 | What do you guys do?Calisthenics, card magic, embroidery (saw Gucci embroidered denim jackets for 5000 € and said fuck it. I'm gonna make one myself) | /r/askTRP | 12/01/19 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend says “we’re just fuck-buddies”I think we as a Western civilization are getting more and more degenerate. Promiscuism, alcoholism etc. I don't like it because I silently fear that good, traditional women are in a solid shortage now :) | /r/askTRP | 11/01/19 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend says “we’re just fuck-buddies”Women are getting bitchy and vain as elsewhere due to the influence of your culture but you still have a heapload of friendly ones in all age ranges. Shit will hit the fan soon and we might experience a cultural reset, who knows? Good luck friend, hope you find peace in this shitful pool anyway. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/19 10:03 AM |
| 2 | Girlfriend says “we’re just fuck-buddies”I feel genuinely sorry for your environment that women have such high level of entitlement. Shit sounds sick. Poland here and I doubt they'd ever expect being paid for. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/19 09:30 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend says “we’re just fuck-buddies”I disagree there. If I pay, I do it out of courtesy only. She should pay for herself. Why should I, or OP in this case, pay for her anything? He's not at all obliged to do so | /r/askTRP | 11/01/19 08:20 AM |
| 2 | How to forgive myself?Good you discovered TRP now and not in 20 years' time, don't ya think, mate? And without being a beta in the past, you might have never discovered TRP at all. You had to grow up by being beta then. Now you are not. Enjoy your new you :) | /r/askTRP | 11/01/19 08:10 AM |
| 1 | Girlfriend says “we’re just fuck-buddies”If she is your fuckbuddy, she is only there expecting you to fuck her. If she also demands you pay for her shit, then that's a prostitute isn't it. BTW snowflake thinking "my problem is unique and sidebar wont help" is wrong, bro. Millions of guys before you had similar problems. Dig deeper and find the solution mate. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/19 07:58 AM |
| -2 | Do you drop or keep low value friends who have nothing going for in life?Drop. Plebs are friends with plebs, middle class with middle class, and hollywood stars are friends with hollywood stars. See the pattern already? | /r/askTRP | 10/01/19 09:42 PM |
| 1 | How long should you stay on a date, if you feel no-sex vibe?I agree, no point wasting time if you stop having fun along the way. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Short term: better to be lean but a bit undersized or better to be big but a bit chunky?Because it was a test of random women, not a confession of a girl I'd want to plate or ltr. While I know what you want to tell me and what I wholeheartedly agree with, they had no agenda in such a survey so I think it might be credible. They screeched for a right to vote so let's take their voice into consideration now shall we? And I didnt say they liked it. They said e.g. being skinny is the second last in terms of attractiveness. Ik that the top preferences will be highly debatable. Btw same … | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 12:12 PM |
| 1 | How can I stop wanting to tell my LTR everything I think about her?You are Blue Pilled in your mind still. You just want Red Pill tools to help you in your life. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 11:37 AM |
| 3 | Why are redpillers so obsessed about women's "partners count"? I don't get it.Males are not females. Our biology drives us to pursue as many females as it's possible for us. Call it cliche but the saying about good key and a bad lock is in tact. And fucking many girls does not make male ability to pair bond diminish. I dont mind these girls. They are not acceptable for ltr to me if they have had too much dicks inside them, though. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 01:50 AM |
| 0 | Why are redpillers so obsessed about women's "partners count"? I don't get it.I was never into digging scholar sources but googling "trp n count pair bonding" gave some solid results. I bet there's some Therationalmale article for that either. There's Rollo's article for everything I'm sure :) | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Why are redpillers so obsessed about women's "partners count"? I don't get it.Yeah it's about oxytocine probably as it is the bonding hormone. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 01:22 AM |
| 5 | Why are redpillers so obsessed about women's "partners count"? I don't get it.More partners - worse ability to pair bond for females. It's the sluts who have high N counts. Idk about you but the very thought that my LTR could have had 30 different sets of DNA inside her makes me want to puke. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 01:15 AM |
| 2 | Whats the dumbest thing you did to get laid?You've learnt your lesson and even scored. Nothing but be happy. Cheers mate! :) | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 12:32 AM |
| 10 | Short term: better to be lean but a bit undersized or better to be big but a bit chunky?I actually saw some tests that asked women about men's physique but won't find it now. If you had to choose being fat or skinny, it's better to be skinny. Being fat is the worst. Being skinny 1 point over. So nothing spectacular either. I'd say don't bother and strive for self satisfaction. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 12:26 AM |
| 2 | Whats the dumbest thing you did to get laid?Was the cheesecake worth it at least? | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 12:21 AM |
| 3 | Whats the dumbest thing you did to get laid?Yeah almost a double score that night. We're young, he was home alone but granny visited him for a month so she just went to sleep while we were drinking two stories down and outside the house, haha | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 12:19 AM |
| 3 | Whats the dumbest thing you did to get laid?40 minutes drive is either a 5km stroll through the heart of a city (just kidding) or like 30-60km. So you did about 120-160km which cost you about 15 dollars. I'd say it's not that bad. Altough you might feel bad about being the chaffeur bitch. In the end you got the fuck so it's good. I hook up with a girl at my friend's house party and we were upstairs in his sister's room. His grandma was next door, sleeping. And suddenly she came in on me to check the room, while I was fucking with a girl, … | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 11:52 PM |
| 3 | Home workoutI'd say start doing calisthenics if you are bound to train at home. The only necessary piece of equipment will be the pull up bar, though. If you have time and space you may also invest in parallel dip bars and you're basically set. You can get pretty fit and moderately swole with that. Especially if you then buy a belt to attach plates to and do weighted pull ups and dips. Either that or go to a gym and do SL 5X5. Good luck bro. Dips, Pull ups, push ups, pike push ups/handstand push ups, Diamon… | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 11:01 PM |
| 1 | The rational male-where 2 readAs far as I know there is no digital pirated version. I bought the trilogy because of that. Waited a month for the books but it was worth it. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Addressing the half-assed responses in this sub1.Posts must be requests for advice OR clarification It's called askTRP, not tellTRP. Not pollTRP, or discussPhilosophicalIssuesWithTRP, or haveAConversationWithTRP. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/19 12:56 PM |
| 0 | Anyone else becoming numb?I will hopefully be 20 this year and I feel similar. I feel like I achieved everything, actually. That's why my drive with women as well as all in other parts of life is non existent. Hope you will find upsides to your situation, brother. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/19 04:42 PM |
| 17 | Firat date - is walk in a park OK? Or Change?If you don't drink then do not sacrifice your values for anybody ever. Values should be your top prority. That forges your charakter. Dump people who can't accept that. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/19 01:33 PM |
| 2 | Depression and suicidal thoughtsThank you for the benevolent advice. I will do my best, which means trying medical help if possible. I do stay late during the nights so I will focus on that straight away. Hope you are doing well now. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Depression and suicidal thoughtsWill look for doctors although healing people with anti depressants in Poland is not yet largely widespread. A propos going to the gym, I do and it doesn't change jack shit | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Depression and suicidal thoughtsLike I said, since nothing is interesting you, it doesn't matter what you try. Just try something. That's right. I have the list from the Art of Manliness already and will be digging deeper into it. Thank you for the time you devoted. Good to know you care. All the best to you | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Depression and suicidal thoughtsYou're right, it is not up to discussion. But there is nothing that sparks any interest in me. Literally a flat line. I used to do card magic but stopped and now derive no real pleasure training new tricks, I wanted to try the guitar but it costs a ton of cash and I'm afraid I won't like it. Beside those two, I feel nothing. Today downloaded some good books but after 10 pages I called quits. Everything I touch gets me more annoyed I suppose | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Depression and suicidal thoughts19 Poland if you were curious. Thank you for the information and time you spent to answer, I swear I will look for any kind of free help, now that I calmed down a bit and see how devastating it is. I wanted to end this year and then start doing weekend courses and go to some dead end job to have some cash for myself. Also told my parents that I want to drop it for some time, collect my thoughts and start studying again but they gave me shit telling "When you drop now, you will never enter again"… | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 09:12 PM |
| 1 | TRP in a nutshellI'd say be unapologetically honest. There are times when you should say sorry. There are times when you are not the most important. But it should happen like once per 100 different events. Blue Pill have the proportion reversed and they keep wondering why nothing goes according to their thoughts. That's why - it's not honest, not realistic. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/18 07:10 PM |
| 20 | Since time is a woman’s worst enemy, what would be the equivalent for men?Uncle's Vasiliy top comment in today's popular post. Relates well to yours as well. VASILIY ZAITSEV: The problem of women in the Anglosphere is that they are taught to do anything besides become a wife and mother, to REJECT family life during their most attractive, youthful and fertile years, and to waste the flower of their youth working some pointless cubicle job in marketing or HR, drink like men, swing from the chandelier and ride a mile of cock, instead of locking down a husband like they s… | /r/askTRP | 30/12/18 06:46 PM |
| 4 | Since time is a woman’s worst enemy, what would be the equivalent for men?Totally agree with it. Similar to what uncle Visilii wrote on today's top askTRP post | /r/askTRP | 30/12/18 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Why are women in other countries so more feminine than in the US?You're right there | /r/askTRP | 30/12/18 04:47 PM |
| 8 | Why are women in other countries so more feminine than in the US?You're a shithole country bro, fuck off of Poland. It's decent | /r/askTRP | 30/12/18 04:39 PM |
| 1 | I have become numb to everything - hobbies, education, women etc.Hey. Thank you for a thoughtful answer after all this time. Some gears started going as I discovered TRP, definitely. This might be the ground on which it all started. Exercising will be a great way to kill time at least. Didn't do it for some time now, undeservedly as for such a great way of prolonging one's life :) The dopamine fast seems like an excellent idea. I did it before and trying it soon will certainly help to grab a good grip on life. Stoicism helps a lot as well but I'm sure you alr… | /r/askTRP | 29/12/18 10:38 PM |
| 1 | I have become numb to everything - hobbies, education, women etc.Yeah. Something might be missing indeed. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/18 07:37 AM |
| 4 | What are your essential smartphone apps?1001 techniques of masturbation Lichess | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Incels say its a lot harder after high schoolDon't use tinder then. Stand out. Boom, easy. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/18 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Losing motivation for gym after getting a girlfriendWhat about traning calisthenics? You monkey around on some bars and do cool looking figures. Maybe that could keep you going | /r/askTRP | 27/12/18 01:25 PM |
| 5 | What do you consider a good traits in women?For me, it's that she comes from a moderately wealthy family (not spoiled and not borderline poverty-criminal), is not glued to her phone (hard to find), doesn't drink or drinks very little. Doesn't smoke. Has a temperament to comply to my agressiveness and dominance. Ultimately I don't give a fuck because right now I'm only interested in plates. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/18 01:21 PM |
| 9 | Incels say its a lot harder after high schoolIt is not. If you want a girl with no options, raise one since kindergarden (ofc don't do it you sick fuck). Come on, don't be pathetic. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/18 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Should I initiate the talk with a girl I’m seeing?If you live ANYWHERE in the Europe, I call you on your bullshit. You must be from some Middle Eastern or Asian shithole, 100 years backwards to tell me that your religion and values are still strong But since you actually bring "religion and values" to the table, let me tell you something. It is a buffer you apply to deny the fact that (spoiler alert) AWALT! I am from Poland. I also thought it's not like in the US, that we have religion, values and other bullshit. And you know what? It's all… | /r/askTRP | 27/12/18 10:13 AM |
| 1 | Should I initiate the talk with a girl I’m seeing?That's right. No need to do any more talking, otherwise he will turn into her new girl friend . | /r/askTRP | 27/12/18 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Should I initiate the talk with a girl I’m seeing?As u/Auxfite said, man the fuck up. So far we only kissed, getting more physical every time we go out, about 5-6 dates now... Ok, in about 5 next dates try to touch her left boob, then after another 5 - the right boob. Of course fucking not. Undress her on the next date and plow her hard in your car. Reeks beta from you, as if you didn't read the sidebar did you? I simply said “I don’t mind either, as long as you know, I don’t care”. You try to express things explicitly. It will never work in yo… | /r/askTRP | 27/12/18 07:25 AM |
| 3 | How likely is it that I can go to prison after being falsely accused of sexual harassment/rape in the U.S. (Miami)?With high enough SMV - totally unlikely | /r/askTRP | 27/12/18 12:34 AM |
| 8 | Past week I’ve been feeling like “bleh” and have no motivation and have just been feeling emotionless. I want to get back to working out and bettering my life but I have no reason to and have just been out of it. Any suggestions?If you feel depressed or suicidal, I'd advise you to slow down. Go for a walk. Take some deep breaths. Enjoy the sunset or gloomy, rainy weather. Life is a sinusoide (or however tf it is called in English) and we go through ambivalent times too. If you want to have a talk, shoot me a pm. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/18 12:32 AM |
| 0 | In what country/city would I have the least chance of getting my life ruined (and sent to prison) because of a false rape/harassment accusation doing PUA?Poland here, we have no such leftist bullshit there. I suppose Ukraine, Belarus and Balkans will be the same, as well as Hungary and Romania. +you'd prolly score some for being exotic | /r/askTRP | 27/12/18 12:16 AM |
| 5 | What's an ideal redpilled answer to "did you do anything interesting lately?" to a girl/woman?Women are emotional creatures thus they don't give a flying fuck about your asnwer. Say anything, just emit a charming vibe. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/18 11:05 PM |
| 1 | How do you go about doing activities with a girl in which she is clearly better than you?I think if you are a total newbie then have fun and be her dominant figure who tells his submissive figure to teach him something new. Otherwise I wouldn't bother unless you get to her level. My thinking is - maximize your strengths, minimize your weaknesses, and by being worse you have big chances to lose your frame thus weakening her attraction level. You show incompetence. An example grounded in reality would be helpful in your situation. | /r/askTRP | 25/12/18 11:48 PM |
| 2 | High n-count LTR has all the makings of a unicorn?Enjoying while it lasts is better for everything. What else a path could you go, dont you think? Be careful bro, ultimately we want the best for you | /r/askTRP | 22/12/18 11:24 PM |
| 1 | High n-count LTR has all the makings of a unicorn?Enjoy while it lasts. But don't ltr a cum dumpster, you tool. She will hamster another dick to be "her soulmate" and will give everything to him while forgetting you completely. As somebody wrote, Men, not women, are the gatekeepers of commitment. Do whatever you want, maybe I'm mistaken (does your hamster go into overdrive after this sentence?) but remember just this: HAVE SELF RESPECT. Cheers | /r/askTRP | 22/12/18 11:21 PM |
| 4 | High n-count LTR has all the makings of a unicorn?Level of ONEITIS increases proportionally to the length of your wall of text . Connect the dots now. Have some self respect, man. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/18 11:09 PM |
| 19 | Did you tell your wife about red pill?You will seem fake in her eyes forever. Don't talk about the fight flub. Lead by example | /r/askMRP | 22/12/18 10:51 PM |
| 1 | May you advice me on a haircut please?I wanted to keep them longer but I come to the realization that edgelords may not actually slay too much pussy ;-) thanks for a good advice Brother | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 08:21 PM |
| 1 | May you advice me on a haircut please?While I yet didn't experience SMV boom, getting a haircut from a decent barber made my hairstyle go from negative to at least somewhere near neutral. Now we're working on that. My, how enchanting is life when even things as simple as hair can be conquered and perfected in a million unusual ways :) cheers Brother, once again thank you! | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 05:36 PM |
| 1 | May you advice me on a haircut please?All RPers could fit into a medium to big sized city, so hopefully we do not fight for resources ;) | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 05:33 PM |
| 1 | May you advice me on a haircut please?Trying to blend into the snow and cocaine | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 05:26 PM |
| 2 | May you advice me on a haircut please?Will take a deeper look into that. As you can see now, Diamond is the last shape I'd ever consider. :) Thank you for the time you devoted to help me. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 05:25 PM |
| 1 | May you advice me on a haircut please?I did. In the link there is front and sides | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 04:12 PM |
| 1 | May you advice me on a haircut please?Definitely will search the web beforehand. My weakness is that I have no idea whether the face is round, square, oval or whatever tf it could be, this shit seems as esoteric as tarot to me | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 03:54 PM |
| 1 | May you advice me on a haircut please?I'd wear beard if only it would grow ;) | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 03:50 PM |
| 2 | May you advice me on a haircut please?Definitely agree that pragmatism should be number 1. I'm from Poland so no Great Clips here | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 03:49 PM |
| 3 | May you advice me on a haircut please?Yeah I go to male barbers who are said to be the best in the area. The quality of haircut is much better than at chick salons, but they seem to be in hurry to serve as many clients as possible too. Money talks | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 03:22 PM |
| 1 | May you advice me on a haircut please?Why make it so philosophical about hair. Want to know if there are some fuck ups in my hairstyle that I might possibly eliminate next time. Thank you for the message though, everything else is already covered up. You seem to be knowledgeable about the topic as you've mentioned everything I thought about already, a barber, gel, hairstyling. Have a good day bro | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 03:18 PM |
| 3 | May you advice me on a haircut please?Definitely don't need a cringy haircut. What is a "cringy haircut" though | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 03:12 PM |
| 1 | May you advice me on a haircut please?Alright, thank you for the input | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 02:53 PM |
| 6 | “Just because we smile at you doesn’t mean we’re into you, we smile at men all the time just to be polite”Can you not see the distinction between a polite smile, oftentimes faked, and some attraction cues? I doubt girls who get hot for you will smile to you like you were their bestie | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Was it LMR or rejection? What next step to take?Of course, rejection >> regret. I'm curious now, what did you do that you turned it around into a good slay :) | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 10:03 AM |
| 1 | Was it LMR or rejection? What next step to take?Gonna try to reangage once more as I have nothing to lose. After that It's soft next I guess | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 07:31 AM |
| 1 | Was it LMR or rejection? What next step to take?I agree. Didn't wait for so long before. Maybe just a bad day. Cheers! | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 07:30 AM |
| 1 | Was it LMR or rejection? What next step to take?Yeah, I fucked it up this time. Next time it will be better | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 07:29 AM |
| 2 | Was it LMR or rejection? What next step to take?My ego took a blow right now but I cannot deny you the truth | /r/askTRP | 20/12/18 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Was it LMR or rejection? What next step to take?Good idea. Definitely getting her to be 1 on 1 and cooking would be nice. Thank you | /r/askTRP | 19/12/18 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Was it LMR or rejection? What next step to take?Good idea. Definitely getting her to be 1 on 1 and cooking would be nice. Thank you | /r/askTRP | 19/12/18 11:59 PM |
| 3 | Smell dating?I prefer these old-fashioned eye-licking rendezvous | /r/askTRP | 17/12/18 07:54 AM |
| 1 | BlackpillBetter ask somebody with a proper flair. Jedi never deal in absolutes, lmao | /r/askTRP | 17/12/18 07:49 AM |
| 2 | Seeking advice how to overcome emptinessI agree with you. Made a list of values recently and such people simply don't resonate with me very well. I probably just need to wait through all of it and self improve constantly so my environment changes a bit. Have a good day, I appreciate your insights. They are certainly helpful. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/18 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Seeking advice how to overcome emptinessHey, thanks for a sincere reply. The point is I do talk first and am not hesitant of that. I do want to meet up. I could be more than happy to delete all my social media and deepen the most important bonds I have. But the people I live amongst are just regular XXI century people, they prefer socializing in social media whereas me trying to get them outside naturally doesn't occur too often then. That is why I meet "friends" so rarely. I love spending time with people and having fun in a good com… | /r/askTRP | 17/12/18 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Seeking advice how to overcome emptinessNo, most of my time I spend alone. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/18 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Seeking advice how to overcome emptinessYes, it is totally, as you wrote, an obligatory means to an end. I try seeking passions but so far nothing brings me joy and I'm running out of ideas. +As humans, we're limited to our experiences. There might be tonnes of interesting activities but I might be unaware of their existence or look at them as unsignificant. Example: I've got nothing in common with fishing and have never fished. Maybe it's fun, maybe it's a life passion of somebody, but I can't comprehend that idea and overlook it fas… | /r/askTRP | 16/12/18 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Seeking advice how to overcome emptinessI don't catch these hard feeling for anyone anymore. Tried to give a shot to card magic, programming and some other shit. It is fun. I could have spent a good 50-200h on it but it just doesn't give me joy in the long term and I can't imagine doing it professionally. Philosophically, people say that there are good, exciting and bad, dull moments in life, like a sinusoide. I don't know if I should double down on persisting in that boredom with hope it will naturally pass or try to radically change… | /r/askTRP | 16/12/18 07:59 PM |
| 2 | Opinion of TRP about long distance LTRIt is your fantasy. Reality is different. LDR is not a thing, you're willing to be servile and loyal to a woman who fucks other people 1000s of kms away from you. It is an active cuckoldry on your side. Read sidebar or therationalmale or write "LDR TRP" in Google. Btw. If you dont believe me, we might meet again in a few weeks or months. Dont say then that we didnt warn ya. Your turn is over, find a new dick sleeve to fill in. PS you have oneitis and you know it deep down yourself bro. The bitch… | /r/askTRP | 14/12/18 03:18 PM |
| 6 | What went wrong?Good. Have a good day mate | /r/askTRP | 12/12/18 07:28 PM |
| 22 | What went wrong?First time did my post get such an attention. Thank you. Trying to repay the RP as it gave me a new life :) | /r/askTRP | 12/12/18 07:21 PM |
| 2 | What went wrong?I'd say you're right altough I'd advise being careful with that | /r/askTRP | 12/12/18 05:01 PM |
| 6 | What went wrong?Lmao our responses are so similar. Cheers bro | /r/askTRP | 12/12/18 05:00 PM |
| 1 | One arm getting more developed than other??It is normal for beginners. As it was written here before, use a barbell. The difference should get nivelated as your traning career progresses. Otherwise, wtf, get checked up | /r/askTRP | 12/12/18 04:54 PM |
| 355 | What went wrong?You acted like a computer program who executed red pill at all costs. It is normal that when you dont want to be her boyfriend, she will no longer chase you. You got what you wanted. Alpha Behavior will get you short term mating strategy. Pump and dump. You got it so be happy. If you want a girlfriend, then dont outright say no, but you have to agree eventually and she has to know about that possibility, at least subconsciously. And if you didnt want a gf but merely a plate - plates break eventu… | /r/askTRP | 12/12/18 04:51 PM |
| 45 | What are some Red Pill quotes that have stuck with you?"Suffer in silence" | /r/askTRP | 12/12/18 07:37 AM |
| 3 | How do you know if someone is LTR/FWB material?Yeah, I do see it really well and I fully agree. As you mentioned, the severity of their red flag is what matter. One drop of poison spoils the food. Thanks for the discussion mate, have a good day | /r/askTRP | 11/12/18 04:51 PM |
| 4 | How do you know if someone is LTR/FWB material?Your pespective is like... 1 Red flag is always worth more than any number of so called "green" flags. You know what? That is a new pespective for me, worth reflecting upon. But don't you think that all of them have some red flags, thus effectively making all the girls "not-ltr-worthy"? As I said, I have yet to think about it, so I am opinionless | /r/askTRP | 11/12/18 03:25 PM |
| 6 | How do you know if someone is LTR/FWB material?You have oneitis. If that is a plate then who gives a fuck about her Red flags | /r/askTRP | 11/12/18 08:47 AM |
| 19 | How do you know if someone is LTR/FWB material?Google "TRP Red flags" and "TRP green flags". Also, sidebar | /r/askTRP | 11/12/18 08:06 AM |
| 2 | alpha/beta theory question: is a school shooter alpha or beta?Beta. Look at ie. Elliot Rodgers. Quite a handsome man. Would he improve his social savvy, he'd be drowning in pussy. Instead he manifested an approach of entitlement and taking an easy route of blame which always goes wrong. Imo Healthy Masculine Men dont do that. BTW Alpha / Beta doesnt seem like an accurate object for comparison here. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/18 12:18 AM |
| 1 | LTR ghosted me? The fuck should I do nowYou are right. I'm here to learn and I behave like a bitch a lot of times. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/18 11:05 PM |
| 1 | LTR ghosted me? The fuck should I do nowWrote a message, which you had the creativity to name "faggy beta bitch". Whether that is rightful to say - it is. I disagree with you from there. I am not going to check on her 24/7. Thank you for the time you've spend on this input. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/18 10:17 PM |
| 1 | LTR ghosted me? The fuck should I do nowWhere did I write I didn't bother to respond? Got like 1 snap each day Mo,Tue,Wed but was too tired to reply. There? Do you think people go apeshit for not responding to their 3 stupid ass pictures? That is why I deleted this app today not to deal with such bullcrap anymore | /r/askTRP | 02/12/18 08:08 PM |
| 1 | LTR ghosted me? The fuck should I do nowYou're totally right. I wish not to repeat the same dumb mistakes in the future, though. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/18 08:07 PM |
| 1 | LTR ghosted me? The fuck should I do nowThat is why I do a soft next. But it all seems bananas to me and I dont get what the fuck has just happened | /r/askTRP | 02/12/18 08:04 PM |
| 2 | My place makes her unconfortable.I know how it feels to get your balls busted but it's an age when it will happen a fucking lot. Maybe try to do sth fun around your place and get her to stay inside for a bit after you're done having fun? Gotta get creative. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/18 05:47 PM |
| 2 | My place makes her unconfortable.Fuck her in her place and that's all. If pussy flows, then pay her bitching no mind | /r/askTRP | 30/11/18 05:42 PM |
| 3 | “you don’t like texting? I only see you text only one word”Great piece of timeless advice. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/18 05:34 PM |
| 1 | “you don’t like texting? I only see you text only one word”I'd ignore it, otherwise you are too prone to start explaining yourself. Maybe somebody will have some nice witty response but I think ignoring is safe. Ignore+set up a date to meet up+ignore part 2 | /r/askTRP | 26/11/18 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Why is calisthenics perceived as inferior compared to lifting weights?I'm curious about "you can accidentally leverage yourself into a position that you aren't strong enough to support. " Apart from that - I agree completely. It's just... I lost feeling in my arm for 48h after doing squats with mere 5kg added. I'm afraid to do them unsupervised. | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Potential LTR’s friends don’t like meI think you care too much. So far, you have 0/1 pussy and 3 dumb bitches messing with your head. If you like your hoe and your hoe likes you back, just fuck her (literally) and fuck her friends (figuratively). Do you think some yapping bunch of vaginas can control your mind? Cheers | /r/askTRP | 21/11/18 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Rate that conversation! Autism Special.Set up a date asap for today or tomorrow, otherwise leave hear message and don't respond. I find your convo purposeless to carry on with no intend to meet up as quickly as possible. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/18 01:27 PM |
| 1 | What is a non needy way to get a girl to give me head for the first time?That is a fully valid point. Thank you for your perspective | /r/askTRP | 29/10/18 10:38 PM |
| 2 | What is a non needy way to get a girl to give me head for the first time?Maybe they saved you from a trafic collision, who knows. :) | /r/askTRP | 29/10/18 10:33 PM |
| 1 | What is a non needy way to get a girl to give me head for the first time?thank you, Ricklogical, for the time spent to write your comment. I am getting it saved right now. Since I discovered TRP about 1,5 years ago, I feel somewhat hesitant to communicate everything explicitly in order not to feel too needy. But in this case as I look at it, it will really not be needy to ask ;) Right now I realized how much of a biggie I am making of such a petty issue. Once more, my sincere words of gratitude. | /r/askTRP | 29/10/18 10:23 PM |
| 1 | What is a non needy way to get a girl to give me head for the first time?Solid advice. We are often laying in bed but I will tweak it somehow so it will work pretty well. Thank you man | /r/askTRP | 29/10/18 09:30 PM |
| 17 | What is a non needy way to get a girl to give me head for the first time?Yeah brb i gotta get her some flowers first | /r/askTRP | 29/10/18 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Is love possible? Do non-used up girls exist?Agreed once more. I've been through this shit, suicidal, for half a year. Some gaping void moments still pop up once in a while but I deeply believe it is just one more obstacle that has to be overcome to ripen as a man. | /r/askTRP | 29/10/18 08:48 PM |
| 9 | Is love possible? Do non-used up girls exist?Your comment is great, I agree. The Red Pill is often binary in its judgement because to grasp a concept, one has to reach some extremum here or there. Then TRP becomes more of a parable and an excellent source of information. Hope you're doing good and deal with your problems with fortitude to overcome the ubiquitous adversity and depression. Cheers | /r/askTRP | 29/10/18 08:32 PM |
| 2 | 19 year old's struggle with parentsDefinitely. It is uplifting to know somebody as close to me as a co-member of our TheRedPill community went through the same shit. I want to get trained as a coder and get a job, but realistically it will not happen until Summer. Will have to clench my teeth and ass and persist. All the best to you mate! | /r/askTRP | 26/10/18 08:50 PM |
| 1 | So most girls won’t just willingly set up a hangout at the guys house they usually want to hangout elsewhere and the go to place seems to be the bar but what about for those guys like me under 21? If I just want to hookup what should I invite her to doGo for coffee/Ice cream near your house. Then use plausible deniability to show her your post stamps collection in your house ;) | /r/askTRP | 26/10/18 08:51 AM |
| 2 | Best Dog for companionship?Boxer dog :) | /r/askTRP | 24/10/18 02:35 PM |
| 3 | How big can one get with SL 5X5?Thank you for the info, especially the numbers, because I can visualize everything now. Signing in to the gym this week. Cheers! | /r/askTRP | 22/10/18 12:18 PM |
| 2 | "I don't feel so good today, so we won't have sex, ok?"I think this is a good piece of advice provided he does this with 100% confidence, otherwise it seems a little too see-through for me to state it as openly as that | /r/askTRP | 17/10/18 04:54 AM |
| 1 | How to act if she denies me a kiss?Yup, taking care of that. Smell and teeth are not an issue =) | /r/askTRP | 10/10/18 05:02 AM |
| 1 | How to act if she denies me a kiss?I appreciate the thoughts you share. It's definitely a good piece of advice, and especially you reassure me through the second part - I'm never much inclined to try again. Now I am going to change it with your reply in mind. Have a good day ! :) | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 09:20 PM |
| 1 | How to act if she denies me a kiss?Good perspective, especially the last paragraph is abundantly visual for me. I was in denial thinking of saving face at all costs, but I get it now that I have to ultimately stop caring. No galactic speck of dust will stop me - another galactic speck of dust, from gaming her hard. Thanks. Hope you have a good day =) | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 09:17 PM |
| 1 | How to act if she denies me a kiss?Appreciate your time for answering. In my question I assume they may show disinterest. Anyway, to differentiate it from ASD I will have to go and try kiss them to get rejected and gain experience. I know I'm not the top SMV yet so I can at least gain experience getting rejected. Want not to come off as a creep in the end. Every kiss attempt of course in an isolated place | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 08:52 PM |
| 1 | How to act if she denies me a kiss?Good advice. Actually, I want to embrace the rejections but not come off as some creep. You know, girls may portray you totally out of proportion if they are not into you. And it happens, and I expect it to happen. Thanks for your time and useful observations. No wasting time ;-) | /r/askTRP | 09/10/18 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Do you text/call/snapchat with your favourite plate / LTR?Good advice, life goes on. Thank you! | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Do you text/call/snapchat with your favourite plate / LTR?Good point. By writing that I wanted to emphasize the fact she doesn't treat me like a ONS. Behaviour follows these words, of course. | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Do you text/call/snapchat with your favourite plate / LTR?As much as I appreciate that you bothered to read my problem and reply, I have to disagree. Why do you think so? | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Do you text/call/snapchat with your favourite plate / LTR?Yes, I like her but her texting with her is boring, as it's rather unilateral on my side. I have to do good 80% of the writing so it's tiresome. Noticed that with other people, she might text more and use longer sentences. Nonetheless, when meeting face to face, she puts her phone down and is 100% focused on me and as I replied above - never flaked. Moreover, the conversation face to face is organic, light and pleasant. Maybe that's how it should be. No talking in between meetings. And on meetin… | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Do you text/call/snapchat with your favourite plate / LTR?She is not crazy busy. Literally never flaked since I know her (February). We are indeed seeing each other. Frequency about once per week | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Do you ever ask a girl from a cold approach if she’s single?Women decide whether sex will occur or not. Thus, don't ever ask this shit (unless morality doesn't let you hook up with possible taken girls, or course). Why not ask? -if she wants to hook up with you, she will not even mention her boyfriend. If you ask, she might become afraid and shut everything down. -if she is not attracted, she will mention it to scare you off | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 09:11 PM |
| -5 | Is it really possible to put on muscle mass or at least increase strength while also dropping body fat. If so, how do I do it?To lose fat, eat less calories than you need. To gain muscle, eat MORE PROTEIN(!) than you need. These two don't overlap. They're almost independent from each other (their only common denominator is that 1g protein = 4 kcal as you surely know.) | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 09:28 PM |
| 4 | what are your hard lines for breaking up with a girlI'd say it all comes to removing attention when the unwanted behaviour occured, giving some disgusted look. Manifesting your boundaries through your lifestyle. Best supplemented with saying things along the lines of "I don't approve of what you're doing but you're free to decide. And remember I can dump you and replace you anytime". Said about the covert warning because, I suppose, that should be the first line of defence, not to look like a clingy butthurt. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 07:55 PM |
| 14 | what are your hard lines for breaking up with a girlAs said, don't tolerate disrespect. Warn once, preferably covertly, then leave if she disrespects you. Some deal-breakers in my case: -voiced some issue about you IN PUBLIC -slutiness and excessive partying (ymmv) -shallow-mindedness, no hobbies etc. This can't be adressed as it's just a nature of certain people | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 03:54 PM |
| 3 | Need my stuff back from an ex - how to hold frame?You have oneitis and we can see it. You know it too, don't lie your own self. Take the shit back and go no contact. Period. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/18 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Girl says she wants to meet up, can't because of her bf ( which really does exist ). How hard does one push here?I'd not go for taken but that's just me. She isn't fully into you, and, as I presume, you realize it too... Schedule the coffee and go no contact until then. When you have her, try to escalate. I think she'll stick with her bf as her sex provider, though. Doesn't seem too attracted to you. I might be wrong. Cheers | /r/askTRP | 11/09/18 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Is there anyone here living in a community?If you want to meet some communities, I'd start with asking people centered around Varg Vikernes as he promotes it heavily (yt thuleanperspective). Slim chances, but chances nonetheless. People don't gather up like this anymore but who knows. Everything will have its renaissance eventually ;) | /r/askMRP | 10/09/18 04:44 PM |
| 2 | any of you ever feel like women belittle/look down on you?Fair and square. Have a good day! | /r/askTRP | 10/09/18 03:00 PM |
| 1 | any of you ever feel like women belittle/look down on you?You look as if you were tired with women for good, so - another shot at dating and playing women. There are plenty who are friendly straight off the bat and I'm sure you've known this already | /r/askTRP | 10/09/18 02:56 PM |
| 1 | any of you ever feel like women belittle/look down on you?As u/Pelikahn said, it's their default, biological mechanism. They don't give a shit about your socio-interpersonal convictions. Having said that, don't get jaded and don't visit MGTOW just now. Maybe sleep with the bitter TRP for a while and take another shot? | /r/askTRP | 10/09/18 02:51 PM |
| 12 | any of you ever feel like women belittle/look down on you?Bitch face is there because many men want to obtain women per capita. Ratio in real life is like 3:1, online up to 100:1. They keep the bitch face so low quality, beta men will be repelled. To overcome it, you have to show good value (smv higher than hers) and pass shit tests positively so they know you're an alpha and have good genes. Hope it helps, cheers | /r/askTRP | 10/09/18 01:43 PM |
| 2 | Scared of losing herQuick TRP Theory: Women are like children. Don't argue with children, don't ask "are you okay". Divert your attention and disengage. We operate in a logical plane, women - in an emotional plane. Arguing makes no sense - she will always come with a counterargument relating to her feelings, expectations, predictions. It's bullshit, because you can't counter an argument like "I'm wrong but what I did I felt was good, duh, you silly" Never change yourself to allign yourself to other people's needs o… | /r/askTRP | 10/09/18 11:27 AM |
| 1 | Is it necessarily bad to be narcissistic?It is good more often than you can imagine | /r/askTRP | 10/09/18 11:20 AM |
| 10 | Just had sex for the first time last night, will I smell like pussy?No, you don't smell like pussy | /r/askTRP | 09/09/18 10:38 PM |
| 1 | How do you cut losers out of your life without coming off bitter, entitled, selfish, superior.I'd say that you feeling superior is good and you could use it. Nobody will say this explicitly but ultimately you are better than them. Why be afraid of butthurting some losers? | /r/askTRP | 08/09/18 08:58 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill left me somewhat lonely. How to change it?I'm glad that boxing has become your enjoyment niche. You're right. But loneliness freightens me because I feel deprived of intimacy which I so crave. Gotta find a way past it, it's just a matter of time. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 08:43 PM |
| 2 | The Red Pill left me somewhat lonely. How to change it?Thank you for your insight. Soon I will be moving to a bigger city where the chance to meet new people will be higher. I will probably be alone more than not throughout the day, but meeting new people is what brings me joy despite the occurrences of a cunt here or there :) ready for what life brings. Have a good day, I appreciate the time you've given to answer so thoroughly. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 05:47 AM |
| 1 | The Red Pill left me somewhat lonely. How to change it?I don't expect girls to be the main axis of my life. Don't expect them to be any axis whatsoever. Gotta get disillusioned about this aspect of life as well. Thanks for answering | /r/askTRP | 03/09/18 10:27 PM |
| 2 | Learning a languageI'm Polish. When I was learning English, the best thing I did was to watch English YouTube videos. First with subtitles, then - without. Of course, you need some theoretical basis first, but that's something you can acquire with the help of books and various courses. Cheers! | /r/askTRP | 29/08/18 10:53 AM |
| 3 | Recommended reads after 'the game' ... Some questions alsoThe Game is about PUA in a significant bit. TRP is about mindset, not exact techniques which you execute step by step. Best bet are The Rational Male books (3) by Rollo Tomassi Both of the books you're going to read now are notably good. GL reading, cheers! :) | /r/askTRP | 25/08/18 07:18 PM |
| 4 | RedPill around the worldI'm from Poland. There are just as many AFCs as elsewhere. The Feminine Imperative is not as ACTIVE (I mean - feminists making loud and agressive claims, divorce raping etc) there, but many people are upbrought to be beta. Gym-goers are 1-5% of men, which is standard. I don't think there are drastically MORE or LESS redpilled countries as feminine imperative becoming more influential is an omnipresent phenomenon and we all (in Europe) derive from the same monkeys so our 'innate software' and the… | /r/askTRP | 25/08/18 09:31 AM |
| 3 | how to hold frame when she starts crying / complaining about her dayI think you shouldn't be texting with her in the first place. If you give too little comfort, it'll be good. But if you give too much, you'll quickly get bent and fucked over. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 10:39 PM |
| 2 | The 'How am I special' shit test/comfort testRollo Tomassi's "plate theory" articles | /r/askTRP | 18/08/18 10:15 PM |
| 2 | Is it just me or......I get your idea now and agree wholeheartedly. Have a good day bro! | /r/askTRP | 17/08/18 07:59 AM |
| 11 | Is it just me or......Double-edged sword means that it could hurt(benefit) both you and her. Don't you rather mean 'double a burden' for a man? | /r/askTRP | 17/08/18 07:50 AM |
| 3 | Do I admit I am a virgin?"how many girls have you slept with?" Look at your watch and count on your fingers, then play a confused man. Or "Today?" Or "You're my first" and add a shit-eating grin | /r/askTRP | 14/08/18 11:38 PM |
| 1 | How to proceed with this one..Treat her as if she were free. We know she's already made a decision. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/18 10:32 AM |
| 2 | After hook-up text logisticsI wasn't home alone, no car because we were drinking alcohol so I came by bike, and at the place where the party was held (my friend's house) there were people too. About the escalation part. I had my hand down her pants. Sex was highly likely. That's not my question now, though. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/18 08:54 AM |
| 1 | Did an introspection of my oneitis relationship and want to hear your TRP insights.Your answer really resonates with my thoughts right now. I have just become aware of my inner hamster working. Thank you for waking me up! | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Did an introspection of my oneitis relationship and want to hear your TRP insights.I'm glad you're willing to share your thoughts. I too find soothing in "amor fati" or stoics' fatalism, although it superficially contradicts the statement "you're responsible for everything in your life". This duality, I believe, is coherent. But haven't found a link to connect these two together yet. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/18 10:45 PM |
| 2 | Did an introspection of my oneitis relationship and want to hear your TRP insights.Glad to hear that. I hope your life's difficulties have already been resolved. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/18 10:38 PM |
| 2 | Did an introspection of my oneitis relationship and want to hear your TRP insights.I assume the time has already healed your wounds. How are you nowadays? | /r/askTRP | 09/08/18 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Did an introspection of my oneitis relationship and want to hear your TRP insights.100% true. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/18 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Did an introspection of my oneitis relationship and want to hear your TRP insights.Actually, I read the sidebar a few times. And your advice is solid. Still, I have a problem applying the wisdom of the sidebar to my own situation as I'm still being distracted by the stress and emotions related to the experience. Thus asking for objective insight. Btw , what you quoted is not what I've written. | /r/askTRP | 09/08/18 09:17 PM |
| 2 | Did an introspection of my oneitis relationship and want to hear your TRP insights.Good to hear you're back on good tracks. Doing whatever might help. Cheers! | /r/askTRP | 09/08/18 09:10 PM |
| 1 | If you want some semblance of loyality, wouldn't a near-wall woman be the best option for LTR?That's what I thought too. Aren't you from Poland as well? | /r/askTRP | 01/08/18 10:07 AM |
| 1 | Depression led to oneitis breaking up with me and washed away all my energy. Thinking about suicide.Point is, I see no big thing worth living for, either. The closest thing to a point of life I can imagine is having an offspring. But now shit hit the fan and that won't be viable. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/18 10:50 AM |
| 2 | Depression led to oneitis breaking up with me and washed away all my energy. Thinking about suicide.I appreciate the time you spend on answering. Doing "fun" stuff was something that came across my mind. But then - why should I bother? It's all illusion after all. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/18 10:13 AM |
| 1 | Constant Anger PhaseNice to test our worldviews. I started doubting any existence of God. Then existentional depression followed. Achieved a conclusion that nothing really makes sense so nothing is inherently good or bad, better or worse, than other things. It's troublesome - for now, can't find any happiness. Your insight is highly appreciated, wish to read your elaboration about life sense, happiness and fulfillment. Have a good day! | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Constant Anger PhaseTime heals all the wounds. Women can be breathtaking and fascinating. You may feel angry because of your ego and emotions not wanting to admit your own shortcomings with the other sex. Grasp a concept of nihilism (at your own risk): There is no point of living. No point in doing this or that in particular. Therefore, each decision is just as pointless as any other one. Thus, being angry is pointless to the same degree as seeking asnwers to all the questions and rocking the world and your life. A… | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 10:45 AM |
| 1 | Got dumped, deservedly. But are there girls that unforgiving nowadays?It's true that I must have ignored many important signals and didn't pass some shit tests. It's true that I have opened up myself too much. Will take my time and correct my altitude. It will be painful as I'm not fully used to the new perspective yet. Thanks for your advice. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/18 08:21 AM |
| 1 | Got dumped, deservedly. But are there girls that unforgiving nowadays?That's what I forgot to maintain. I thought that "once I clear the bad atmosphere", then may I proceed to implement red-pill with its full power again. But the day I have cleared the bad atmosphere will never come. Insightful indeed. Godspeed | /r/askTRP | 10/07/18 08:14 AM |
| 1 | Got dumped, deservedly. But are there girls that unforgiving nowadays?Good to know. Thank you for the insight. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/18 07:55 AM |
| 2 | Got dumped, deservedly. But are there girls that unforgiving nowadays?Introspecting the whole thing, I pressume with very high likeness that I've made myself too available and too "caring" for the emotions of the girl instead of taking it all in a cool manner. She had some issues of her own as well. I know that "everything is my fault" and don't blame anybody but me. Gotta take the lesson. Thank you for the reply, I appreciate your insight. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/18 07:53 AM |
| 1 | Got dumped, deservedly. But are there girls that unforgiving nowadays?I meant more like Russia or Belarus, being from Poland myself. Heard multiple times that girls are more conservative there. Thank you for the insight anyway. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/18 07:24 AM |
| 1 | Got dumped, deservedly. But are there girls that unforgiving nowadays?Definitely a lesson. Thanks bro. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/18 07:23 AM |
| 2 | Got dumped, deservedly. But are there girls that unforgiving nowadays?It's hard because of the ego but no, I think the girl is allowed to next me. Still, after quite some time of being together, I find their solipsism hard to believe. It's like getting erased with one fingersnap. Thus my consternation. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/18 07:22 AM |
| 2 | Got dumped, deservedly. But are there girls that unforgiving nowadays?Into it with some knowledge. I do the reading regularly but it doesn't seem to be in harmony with me. Remnants of blue pill conditioning? Probably. Or maybe some longing for long-gone times and old-fashioned family model. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/18 06:54 AM |
| -1 | Got dumped, deservedly. But are there girls that unforgiving nowadays?I messed up because I wanted to get her to logically tell me what her mood is and "work on it" somehow. That's when I started being more available by calling her up more often and started to say that I care about her. I suppose that's the moment my frame shattered. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/18 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Girl is sad all the time. What to do about this?Didn't think about it this way. That's what I'm trying to achieve all the time with wrong means as it seems. Thank you | /r/askTRP | 27/06/18 06:49 AM |
| 1 | Girl is sad all the time. What to do about this?Thank you for the insight, your experience matters to me and I will take it into consideration. Have a good day | /r/askTRP | 26/06/18 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Girl is sad all the time. What to do about this?That it's end I've been suspecting too. I like the concept of being unity with somebody, emotionally as well. But it's time I put this fairy tale to the books among the other ones. Thank you for the cold bucket onto my head. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/18 09:51 PM |
| 3 | Girl is sad all the time. What to do about this?Ah, you. My blue-pill killing angel of death. My "I must re-read the bullshit I've just written" lamp has just lit. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/18 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Girl is sad all the time. What to do about this?Thank you for putting me in perspective. Godspeed. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/18 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Girl is sad all the time. What to do about this?Right. I think I've grasped what you're trying to tell me. If I may, how should I proceed from now on to regain the balance? Will see through the sidebar to get all the concepts back to my head as advised above, too. | /r/askTRP | 26/06/18 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Girl is sad all the time. What to do about this?I will. Shit's been done, undeniably in a mistaken fashion. Any advice considering damage control in this situation? | /r/askTRP | 26/06/18 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Girl is sad all the time. What to do about this?Definitely | /r/askTRP | 26/06/18 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Girl is sad all the time. What to do about this?I'm serious right now and need either an advice or a slap to the face. I avoid giving comfort and validation on a day-to-day basis, to have it for shit like that which happens once per... never since a year or so. How much of a troll am I compared to your constructive answer? I'm a human and I find it humane to relate to other's feelings. Want to find a good, healthy way to get rid of this problem. Did I fuck this up? Clear my vision. Nonetheless, thank you for pointing out my bullshit. I will r… | /r/askTRP | 26/06/18 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Girl is sad all the time. What to do about this?Yes | /r/askTRP | 26/06/18 09:28 PM |
| -1 | Girl is sad all the time. What to do about this?To give her comfort which may be lacking. Isn't that a valid reason to console a sad bitch occasionally? | /r/askTRP | 26/06/18 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Found out my girl is not a virgin and it fazed me.Exactly what I needed. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Found out my girl is not a virgin and it fazed me.That's what I thought too but I don't want to seem fake and somehow blatantly competitive about the fact that somebody has fucked her, she told me about it 3 days ago and with the next approach I will be trying to fuck her as well. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/18 03:21 PM |
| 1 | I f##ked up an escalation. How to fix it ?Would do the trick as well as I suppose | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 11:36 PM |
| 0 | I f##ked up an escalation. How to fix it ?Yeah, it could be the beginning of her period. Wanted to "err on the side of too much boldness rather than too little" and not suggest myself with that she says. Thus I became confused and wanted to ask there. Thank you for your insight, hope you have some of mine insight as well. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 11:31 PM |
| 0 | I f##ked up an escalation. How to fix it ?Could be,you're right, it's about time. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/18 11:21 PM |
| 1 | The girl I'm seeing parties too much.Seen that quote before. It's perfect for the situation nonetheless. I appreciate your help. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 02:49 PM |
| 1 | The girl I'm seeing parties too much.You're right. My caring too much affects me negatively but I am yet clueless how to deal with it. Since discovering TRP ~year ago I became too much of an overly-analising sperg and school has made me more nervous over petty shit too. Gotta recalibrate somehow... But I don't like plating, all I think of is a big-ass "promiscuity" sign glowing over my head | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 01:59 PM |
| 1 | The girl I'm seeing parties too much.It's definitely doable | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 12:11 PM |
| 1 | The girl I'm seeing parties too much.Thanks. I have to double check the frequency of her going out but this will take some time. after that, either she is good or gets the fuck out. Godspeed | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 09:19 AM |
| 3 | The girl I'm seeing parties too much.That's right, they will approach. Got to either get rid of those ruminations or get rid of her. I appreciate your insight. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 06:58 AM |
| 2 | The girl I'm seeing parties too much.I too let her go even though I don't fully want it. But if I showed my lack of appreciation then goodbye goes the respect. Your point of view makes me realize that I try to control things I don't have power to control. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 06:41 AM |
| 2 | The girl I'm seeing parties too much.Good to know. I've not written it happens all the time, just expressing my thoughts. Thanks for the reply. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 06:31 AM |
| 2 | The girl I'm seeing parties too much.Definitely not going to commit to her if she turns out to be a party slut. Will see what she will do this evening. Thanks for your reply. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 06:24 AM |
| 3 | The girl I'm seeing parties too much.You're right. Some things are beyond my spectrum of control. Thanks for the thoughtful insights. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/18 06:23 AM |
| 3 | How to deal with misanthropy / feeling of standing out?Thank you. I have some time on my hands now so monk mode is doable for sure. Your contribution is a great reminder not to act like a snowflake and take action. | /r/askTRP | 07/05/18 07:30 PM |
| 2 | Spending almost entire day, every day in front of a screen.Illusion, card magic :) | /r/askTRP | 15/03/18 07:52 AM |
| 12 | Spending almost entire day, every day in front of a screen.Sign up for a gym / go do calisthenics Figure out your diet and follow it Find a hobby, maybe card magic? Cheers! | /r/askTRP | 14/03/18 10:36 PM |
| 2 | What's the optimal way of handling my longer absence from a woman?AWALT. Agreed with no shadow of doubt. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/18 09:07 PM |
| 1 | What's the optimal way of handling my longer absence from a woman?Yeah, no need to cheat when there is so much around. I've got to evaluate the risk of her getting nailed as it's not critically high. Solid advice, thank you. Cheers! | /r/askTRP | 08/03/18 08:15 PM |
| 1 | What's the optimal way of handling my longer absence from a woman?You're right and that's also what I've considered. Thank you for the time and sincere reply. | /r/askTRP | 08/03/18 07:21 PM |
| 6 | Why do I need to focus so much on psychopathic tactics than on true SMV?I think that certainty and confidence come with experience. Experience comes through practice. To be certain (thus have high SMV) you need to know what tools you can use and go through phases: unconscious incompetence conscious incompetence conscious competence unconscious competence Some people have such personality traits inborn, some have to grind in order to obtain them. Small steps towards the victory, you break sweat n times to finally get the n+1 sweatless. It's hard but ultimately worth … | /r/askTRP | 08/03/18 07:14 PM |
| 1 | My homestay family just kicked me out because I wasn't integrating enough. How do I make friends and be a good person to be around?Nice you reply. My point was to guide you towards some techniques, although now I see you may know them all already. One point I may have caught well is that you may have commited a faux-pas because you didn't know what they expected. -> You appeared rude because e.g. eating breakfast together is important to them. Do you think, cultural nuances like these differences might have affected their opinion? | /r/askTRP | 23/02/18 06:00 PM |
| 1 | My homestay family just kicked me out because I wasn't integrating enough. How do I make friends and be a good person to be around?Your concerns are human and should be tackled in a non-emotional way. People are self-absorbed. Your best strategy to make people like you is to keep them talking about their life, experiences and opinions. You may notice they tend to shallow and dumb, but resist the urge to correct or teach them anything. Act as if you were taught by them even if it's an utter lie. Dale Carnegie's book you've mentioned is a gold mine for me. Try to interpret it as if you were given precise tools for your missio… | /r/askTRP | 23/02/18 05:23 PM |
| 1 | How do you respond to ASD questions?"gentleman kisses without telling" | /r/askTRP | 21/02/18 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Need the books from The Sidebar post "Man affections vs boy affections"Thanks, will take a look at it. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/18 10:40 AM |
| 2 | How to be Alpha and caring when texting?Texting should be ideally used for logistics only as it's too easy to fuck up. Some comfort stated as you would do in person, from time to time, won't hurt but still be careful. Treat her as any other human being with feelings, but imagine it as a business - every time you COULD get abused, you WILL be abused. Take care bro, sidebar still exists. Maybe check out girlschase, got some on point articles about texting | /r/askTRP | 07/02/18 10:35 AM |
| 2 | I want to hangout with friends but when I do, I don'tChange friends so that they appreciate you for who you are. Why put up with some assholes? You should be the center of your life. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/18 10:32 AM |
| 1 | How to be Alpha and caring when texting?Most important - have your own life and don't expose every little detail about yourself though texting. Care as usually but at all costs strive to meet in person. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/18 10:26 AM |
| 2 | How to speak so that you fire up one's imagination?Thanks for your opinion. Whole concept of learning means looking for shortcuts, shall all books be destroyed? Cheers! | /r/askTRP | 06/02/18 12:25 PM |
| 1 | My first approach - will being overt yield any good results?You are right. I read every post carefully and have pretty vast amount of knowledge but it's hard to cherry-pick, especially with no practical experience. Genuinely asking - can you point some info I could refer to? | /r/askTRP | 02/11/17 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Should I apologize to my ex-friend after 6 years?Thank you for these answers and probable future ones as well. I will consider everyting thoroughly and make a decision like a grown-up. Your insight is very informative to me. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/17 08:44 PM |
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