| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 36 | A first year of not downloading Tinder out of boredom and depressionCongratulations on cutting out alcohol, this has also helped me make better choices in my levelling up journey. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 03:08 PM |
| 15 | Safety tips for Internet.Important words. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 10:29 PM |
| 6 | Saw this on r/confessions... This is why I don't do FWBThis has got to be a fantasy writing piece. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 05:25 PM |
| 70 | Another red flag from Chris Pratt’s captionI’d be livid if this was the best tribute my SO could think of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 08:45 PM |
| 279 | Please carve my eyes out of my head nowThere are no ‘accidents’ keep him blocked! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 05:07 PM |
| 14 | Woman asks if she should end her engagement, Christie accurately points out all the red flags and encourages her to break it off.Well done to Christie, called the bullshit straight out! Hope this woman get away from him he’s dragged her down for the last 11 years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 02:10 PM |
| 31 | Surprised by his decent behaviour, and then… the mask slipped 🚩Yes! It’s the classic down grade | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 05:45 PM |
| 32 | Let me guess, she initiates every single date, too. Oh wait, she confirmed in the comments that, she in fact, does.Exactly! It’s a year down the line now & she wants to make him start paying- never going to happen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 02:13 PM |
| 20 | Saying "I love you"He said the first ‘I love you’ after 6 months together, I knew it had been building for a while, however I was determined not to be the first one to say it. We were officially bf/gf after 2 months & again he asked me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 05:06 PM |
| 35 | Lvm prefers to play with the boys than fit into my scheduleThis is the only response required! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 06:39 PM |
| 71 | And people were praising his honesty 🤡🤡🤡.Sounds fake but probably what NVM are thinking | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 06:44 AM |
| 77 | So guys do expect you to be a live in maid just because they earn more than you do. Nevermind the fact that if he lived alone he would still have to do them.My exact thoughts! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 03:30 PM |
| 254 | OopsShe looks beaten down & worn out. I hope she finds the strength to leave! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 05:09 PM |
| 26 | It's okay if you make a mistake. Growth isn't linear.This is something we should all remember. We won’t always get it right, levelling up is a choice we have to continue to make every day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 05:06 PM |
| 71 | Imagine wanting to take multiple girls for coffee and not even being able to pay for it and then complaining about women using men in the comments. What a scrote. The pickmeishas in the comments are even woseSure I’ll split the bill, but I will be blocking your number on the way out the door !! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 08:37 AM |
| 30 | That's what you get when you build a manThis is so true! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 03:26 PM |
| 276 | That's what you get when you build a manIf you don’t think I’m a 10 - GTFO! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 03:25 PM |
| 72 | “Just give him a week”I time them to 48 hours & then cut them off! Previous experience has taught me that only the shady ones do a disappearing act. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 04:01 PM |
| 35 | This is the type of obtuse mentality that I'm referring to when I say "men are committed to misunderstanding us"Hanging onto the success of FDS coattails, trying to make himself sound relevant. I won’t google you, like all the other LVM I’m not interested in. Block & delete. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 07:09 PM |
| 54 | Found this on a relationship sub. Women think this kind of behaviour is endearing ?! Nah sis 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ makes me wonder what else he thinks gets done by magic. Some guy commented and argued with me about how men do more domestic labour lmao I can’t handle this sub. I never want to be married.She married a 💩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 01:39 PM |
| 67 | Her pornsick cheater will send her to an early grave and she's still internalizing all of his abuse...She is wasting a whole lot of time & energy with this one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 01:49 PM |
| 76 | ANOTHER SLUG UPDATE and honestly, this one is much worse. He was clearly exploiting her mental illnesses for his own personal amusement. One of the most disgusting, depraved, and truly evil things I've ever seen.It just gets worse with every update! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 08:10 PM |
| 89 | The advice on dating subs will have you down bad. Reserved guys ask women out too. It’s actually even more obvious when they’re into someone.Exactly! if you have to bully a man into a date/relationship then he’s not interested. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 02:02 PM |
| 482 | Jealous of a cat “woke up to him smiling at me smugly from atop my gfs tits”Lol she’s already picked the cat! He’s trying to back track now to find a way to weasel back in. Seems like he wasn’t as damn important as he though he was. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 09:36 PM |
| 19 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check InGrey rock him! Don’t get involved in any discussions regarding dating, sex or dogs! x | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 03:44 PM |
| 12 | “Looking for a woman who can keep up”Love it! Going to start saying my love language is diamonds 💎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 10:58 PM |
| 68 | Those poor women. Actually naw, they know the history.The best predictor of future behaviour is past behaviour! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 07:51 PM |
| 97 | MeN aRe ViSuAl CrEaTuReS is a lieUrghh can’t tell you how many dates I’ve been on where they turn up in scruffy jeans, shoes or gym kit on one occasion. It’s an absolute no for me now. I always dress smartly, will get my hair blown out for a date. Not wasting the expensive lipstick on the LVM anymore! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 04:13 PM |
| 215 | I don’t want the men I used to want anymoreThis sub has taught me a lot & once you see you can’t unsee. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 04:37 PM |
| 104 | Ladies would we marry a man that keeps a jar of pubes?Emotional support pubes 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 04:18 PM |
| 74 | Ladies would we marry a man that keeps a jar of pubes?😂 that’s enough internet for today | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 12:33 PM |
| 2 | When the whole story is just wrong.Throw the whole man away it never gets any better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 09:53 PM |
| 3 | Reminder: You are allowed to reject a man for any reason you chooseI’ve just done a complete block & delete ghost on a man I’ve been chatting with from OLD for a couple of weeks. Turns out he was 56 not 49! Was very easy to find with a quick google search. Next! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 06:45 PM |
| 16 | Thank you all! 💋Same 💅🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 03:38 PM |
| 28 | i have no words , i can’t believe she’s trying to not hurt his feelings about his hygiene when he doesn’t even wipe his butt ??? and this is a man she’s probably having s*x with ... all the possible bacterial infections he could give her . She needs to leave ASAPIf that doesn’t give her the ick I don’t know what would. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 08:32 PM |
| 19 | 😂🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 09:20 AM |
| 47 | Thought experimentI feel personally called on this, my last three ‘relationships’- cancelled on, Fwb & negging 😖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 04:56 PM |
| 58 | Thanks for the warningPandemic plus cuffing season has had them reaching out in droves testing the waters. FYI lurkers stay in your boat! The waters are ice cold!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 04:09 PM |
| 2 | Using the Principles of War in DatingLove the element of surprise! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 08:00 PM |
| 3 | 👑Same had high hopes for one then all over 😞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 04:08 PM |
| 38 | My good guy friend of many years confessed feelings for me, then I learned he is still chasing after his ex. When I asked why he would compromise our friendship if he still is obsessed with his ex and commented he has been acting unhappy lately...this was his response. Blocked/deleted.Cuffing season is upon us, stay woke ladies ✌️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 07:22 PM |
| 169 | When FDS gives you a signScreaming 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 07:20 PM |
| 69 | LVM showed his true colors — thanks FDS!Dated a police man - misogynistic, alcoholic, porn, ED, two divorces = no thanks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 02:57 PM |
| 18 | How does a HVW act when running into a LVM ex?No smiles, I still remember the disrespect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 07:18 PM |
| 48 | How does a HVW act when running into a LVM ex?I ignore or give very short answers depending on the situation. I wouldn’t be down right rude but any access to me is over & they best not try acting friendly. Absolutely no hugging. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 06:01 PM |
| 5 | No date for you, sir.I’d leave him on read until he comes up with an actual time & place for a date. Non of this Friday for now and rearrange bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 09:15 PM |
| 28 | Bundle up! 🥶Watch out for cuffing season !!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 07:36 PM |
| 20 | Why settle for someone who could potentially be a prince when there are ones who already are?I swipe left with the same attitude 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 04:56 PM |
| 181 | Latest narrative from Pickmeville 🤡Unfunny story; my co workers asked me the same thing on Friday when I went on a second date with a man I’ve been talking to. Ermm no was the reply! Shocked pikachu faces all around that I would make a man wait 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 02:52 PM |
| 14 | Dirty Nails 😡Two of my ex’s had horrible feet (toenails) I shudder to think about it 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 08:59 PM |
| 15 | Woman's self defenseAbsolutely! As a teen I went to a karate class for several years, even just the escape techniques are invaluable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 06:23 PM |
| 24 | My coworker y’all 🤮🤮🤮Savage 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 05:02 PM |
| 5 | Like notify your girlfriend???Any bathroom selfie’s are an automatic left swipe! No I don’t want to see you next to a toilet! Do you have intestinal issues? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 10:13 AM |
| 3 | Anybody watching the Undoing?Love this show! Think it accurately projects the absolute bewilderment, anger & rage that these LVM put us through when they pull the rug out from under us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 09:49 AM |
| 15 | Pulling the old switcheroo when you’re vulnerable 😐Lol 😂 we are wise to this now! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 09:45 AM |
| 54 | FDS Helping me stay strong (and thank goodness)This sounds like a classic love bombing & pushing your boundaries. Cam girl in Romania!! WTF!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 09:43 AM |
| 35 | Ex-boyfriend calls to “catch up”. Why?Calling, texting is low effort he’s either bored or lonely. I wouldn’t respond unless he follows up begging forgiveness & admitting he made a mistake, even then I’d be suspicious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 11:18 PM |
| 20 | looking for a roommate when...You just know there is going to be a secret camera in every single room 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 03:43 PM |
| 48 | Finally blocked my ex everywhere. You'll never guess who called me two hours later.Exactly! Take away their access & they start bawling 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 08:16 PM |
| 14 | He deleted his video afterwards.🤦♀️🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 06:54 PM |
| 9 | THE BAR IS SO LOW ITS UNDERGROUNDMy thoughts exactly!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 03:59 PM |
| 163 | Share your ridiculous OLD storiesBumble. Me F40 & M49, he had some nice pics with his dog, got chatting & mentioned the dog had died a few years ago. I was then slightly suspicious that the photos were very old so I asked for a FaceTime and he agreed. He was a lot older than the pics he had put up, he was drunk, and clearly had no bottom teeth!!!!!! I was in some shock at this point when he started telling me about his online dating experiences that he had met a woman who had asked him to go back to a hotel where her husband wa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 05:42 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered November 1 2020I’m in UK currently in lockdown, I’ve removed my profiles for now. Still talking to one, we’ve had a couple of FaceTime dates but I’m trying not to engage in too much texting until he can actually set a date which would be a few weeks away yet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 05:44 PM |
| 20 | Saw this on AITA today. Lady has issues with videogame induced rage yet defends the guy in comments. (Swipe to see)Absolutely kick him out! Don’t let those vulnerable children that you care for have to witness this shit show of a relationship. Give me strength!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 12:06 PM |
| 3 | When guys post shit like this on their feed I just laugh. I just find it so cringey😆 Am I the only one who notices this influx of men comparing themselves to animals?Yes they are eating the food that the actual hunters brought back! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 05:09 PM |
| 24 | Woman gets a ticket she could barely afford to be with a dude she never met. He blocks her number while she's on the flight.Your right, nobody deserves to be treated like that it’s a hard lesson to learn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 03:10 PM |
| 8 | Okay ladies, I need to talk. Incoming LVM ex rant...Very true, hold onto your sobriety with everything you have! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 03:51 PM |
| 53 | "Why didn't you hit me up?"Good for you! He was trying to get away with as little effort as possible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 09:04 AM |
| 10 | If women wrote a list of dating demands like angry men doBrilliant 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 08:27 PM |
| 27 | Classic “let’s go on a walk”Agreed I’m not losing precious sleep over men anymore! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 04:53 PM |
| 17 | Blocked a LVM and want to share what happened here. Please share your thoughts!Boss move 👊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 03:53 PM |
| 105 | Nope. He is not going to be my projectUrghh did this, held him when he cried, played with his hair until he fell asleep on me. All the time he was texting other women behind my back 🤡 NEVER AGAIN !!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 03:50 PM |
| 8 | Red Flag in 4th Message? Just Unmatch!I stay clear of those that mention alcohol in their bio, binge drinking isn’t a personality trait. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 09:08 PM |
| 14 | Do NOT blame yourself after getting ghosted after a first or second date!Chin up x | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 05:56 PM |
| 22 | Is it LV behavior to ask a guy for his Instagram before meeting up?Personally I don’t ask for social media as I only have family & close friends on mine. I do however like to have a snoop and google just to see what is out there about them if we have been chatting a while and are planning on meeting up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 09:19 PM |
| 9 | Anyone ever had to deal with an ex at work?Thank you for this. My ex is a senior manager I avoid him at all costs. I’m still feeling bitter 6 months later. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 11:29 AM |
| 9 | Any ladies that dont drink, smoke or do drugs?I’ve been sober for 15 months, dating is almost impossible, most men seem to think that binge drinking is a personality trait. I’m very upfront that I don’t want be be with a heavy drinker. I’ve had men try to say that they want someone to ‘go out & have fun with’. I don’t think I’m less fun, I enjoy going out watching a band, socialising, dancing. I don’t try to persuade them otherwise, I don’t have to prove myself to anyone by drinking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 03:23 PM |
| 15 | All the pickmes in the comments 💀Absolutely not! Wouldn’t buy that trash for myself, shows no thought or effort. I would happily accept a beautiful second hand ring if someone had seen it & thought specifically of me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 04:09 PM |
| 5 | When did you have your FDS epiphany?Found this sub about 6 months ago after being left heartbroken by my ex, I knew in my mind that he wasn’t the right man for me but I badly wanted it to work. In hindsight, applying the FDS teaching would have stopped that relationship in its tracks before it even got started. I’ve slowly started back into the dating game again & I feel a lot happier and more confident with the men I’m talking to. If they don’t show genuine interest then I won’t pursue, I’m not afraid anymore to let it go. Thank … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 09:05 AM |
| 48 | I'm 30 yrs old, and I'm shocked at how old men lookMost of them are knocking a few years off their age to talk to younger women. Stay alert x | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 05:52 PM |
| 6 | Escaping NVM HellYour definitely right - once you see it you can’t unsee it. Sounds like your levelling up. I wish you the best x | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 05:05 PM |
| 3 | Raise your hand if you’ve been personally victimized by an ugly dusty you gave a chance and he ended up playing you?Brilliant! I’m still mad 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 10:02 PM |
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