Oops

crapeescape · 2021-05-26T16:59:26+00:00

The fact that somebody would make a meme out of this and make fun of her, makes me really angry! Do men really think we all just sit around the house every day dolled up to the nines?!? Get real!

radsera99 · 2021-05-26T16:12:41+00:00

Who wants to bet her domestic workload increased 1000%, so much so that she doesn’t have the time to brush her hair in the morning. Men want slaves but still expect us to look pretty. What a joke.

Lavender_flow · 2021-05-26T17:00:47+00:00

Perfect example of what marriage does to women. This is why the patriarchy try to brainwash us into thinking being single is the worst thing in the world

arnezuara · 2021-05-26T17:19:51+00:00

These kinds of memes are so disrespectful and, overall, disgusting. If your woman looks worn down and dreadful, it’s a reflection of HOW YOU treat her.

I think they do understand that they largely contribute to their SO’s suffering and deteriorating mental/physical health. They just find it funny.

Yellowsunflowerlover · 2021-05-26T18:21:56+00:00

I resonate with this so hard! One of my last relationships made me look like this by the end of it. I was drained mentally, physically and emotionally. I love how the don't include the "you better look like this because if you get dressed up that means you're actively cheating" part. Literally you're expected to look like this and be cooped up in the house cleaning and cooking. It's disgusting as hell. And then when you see family you have to suck it all in and pretend that you have a great life as you're giving your lifeline/happiness/youth to your scrote.

throwaway8437764 · 2021-05-26T18:19:03+00:00

Yet you'd never see this type of meme made for men. "When he's your bf vs. when he's your husband". The patriarchy runs deep, y'all.

veruscka · 2021-05-26T18:46:09+00:00

So he’s admitting he made her sad and exhausted

bioqueen53 · 2021-05-26T16:40:08+00:00

Who else has dated a man who explicitly asks you not to wear makeup or dress up? Like everyone I dated pulled that shit at some point.

the_moocher80 · 2021-05-26T17:09:51+00:00

She looks beaten down & worn out. I hope she finds the strength to leave!

OrangeyPanda · 2021-05-26T16:13:03+00:00

Before and after being married to a man.

karabnp · 2021-05-26T20:46:27+00:00

This is so so sad.💔

Males lurkers, if your girlfriend or wife looks tired, sad, depressed, and like she is suffering in ANY way, that is a direct reflection on YOU as a male. Where is the pride and dignity in and of taking care of the women you allegedly love..?? You DON’T love her. You only want a slave/accessory. Look at the misery on this woman’s face. THAT is your legacy: Being vile, repulsive, hateful, parasitic, GOOD FOR NOTHING soul leeches.

2021-05-26T17:37:31+00:00

Wow I really appreciate this as that is such a negative narrative that I see among my older age group. Like we 'let ourselves go' intentionally and completely disregards a vast majoritu of us solely responsible for child rearing, home management, usually also working FT, and perhaps by our ages battling health issues. It is sad. And they like to throw in the exception not the rule stories of women they know who "dropped babies" and got those bodies back immediately, too. Even some shady male coaches are somewhat realistic in saying to plan that the woman you marry and have babies with likely will go up a dress size naturally. (They still suck also yet at least they are telling their audience to be somewhat realistic about what child birth does to our bodies)

millions_ofpeachs4me · 2021-05-26T20:42:29+00:00

Totally got emotional over this meme. This was me with my ex. Haha, wow... just really hit today. It’s been about two and half months since I ended it and two weeks since I moved out. I haven’t cried since well before I moved out.

My friends told me how pale and sad I looked, how my eyes became sunken in, how much weight I was losing. I’m happy the chapter is closed. It’s amazing how much physical change emotional pain can cause.

superderpina_ · 2021-05-26T16:09:44+00:00

owned

modernmedusaa · 2021-05-26T19:50:29+00:00

This is how my ex made me look after dealing with his bullshit gaslighting

All life has been restored to my eyes

cakewalkofshame · 2021-05-26T18:58:19+00:00

She looks like a fucking POW in the 2nd pic.

burntbpd · 2021-05-27T02:19:42+00:00

I'd like to give some context. The lady in the picture is honeypreet insaan. She was born to parents who followed a new age Indian guru. The guru introduced her to the son of a high ranking politician and matched them. As an adult woman, she was adopted by the guru and she became his favorite daughter. She worked as a director, producer and other roles for the wacky Guru's wacky projects. The guru was then arrested for raping to of his young female followers. Honeypreet came to the limelight after she escorted him to the investigation organisations headquarters. Her husband (the politician's son) made claims that honeypreet and her adoptee father actually had sexual relations. He later apologised but the guru definitely tried to push her in the limelight. It is speculated he was trying to train her to take over his cult. Later his cult members rioted and killed a lot of people when he was convicted for rape and it was thought that honeypreet orchestrated these riots. She was arrested. The first picture is her posing next to the gurudwara and they second is her mugshot in jail. The memes were made against her because people hated the guru and his members then. Memes still sexist tho.

Equal-Ear2312 · 2021-05-26T20:40:59+00:00

Marrying a LVM man is the equivalent of sitting next to toxic waste ☣️

In the second picture she looks as if the light had been sucked out of her eyes. It scares me😟😨😱

alraqsfidawalqamar · 2021-05-26T21:57:35+00:00

Same goes for those “when she’s your gf vs when she’s your ex” memes with the after being her prettier. LVMs hate it when they see a lady thriving and out of their control.

4BigData · 2021-05-26T18:25:15+00:00

I need to know how long it took the husband to do this.

SpectralCadence · 2021-05-26T20:06:39+00:00

Warning for any women still thinking a man will save them. They just add to your workload and misery.

secularwitch · 2021-05-26T20:18:20+00:00

This is proof why we should never settle. If he makes you look like shit, DUMP him.

gcthwy · 2021-05-26T18:59:35+00:00

So how she looks going out vs how she looks when she’s comfortable and at home? I love to dress up when I go out but when I’m at home it’s athleisure or pajamas all day long.

lskfjd743 · 2021-05-27T17:04:01+00:00

This is a South Asian women depicted here, so you need to also factor in how his boy-mom treats her.....

Connect_Chipmunk_691 · 2021-05-26T23:54:01+00:00

She looks like someone who's in a refugee or concentration camp. That is so sad and how do they not get that she looks like that because of what her husband did to her and has put her through? Men are so blind to this stuff it's heart-wrenching and frustrating on levels I can't even put words to. I feel like it's pointless trying to talk to them at all. Even if you are completely logical insight all kinds of facts and what women have been going through for the duration of human history they will still find some way to blow you off and blame everything on you.

I feel like I'm at the stage of my healing process right now where I have to let go of the hopeful illusions I've had and deal with the reality that I've always known but really look at square in the face that most men are just absolutely completely horrible and they're really truly good ones are anomalies.

It's also stunning to me to think how many men think that if they're not beating or straight up violently raping their wives that they're not hurting them in any way. This meme clearly shows otherwise. my heart breaks for this woman and I hope that she is in a better place right now or that she is able to get to a better place and be happy and feel alive and vibrant!

pegsa1990 · 2021-05-26T21:08:28+00:00

TRUE! My mom is glowing and looks at least two decades younger than her age after 50 years of marriage to a loving selfless gentleman

slayeroftruth · 2021-05-27T22:22:13+00:00

I hate when men post women photos for meme's.

The difference in photo to me is happiness. Its scary men don't care about how depressed and sad she looks and more about her not wearing makeup/dressing up all the time. They wonder why women divorce more than men.

The fact that men expect us to look like dolls 24/7 is gaslighting. Any man who has dated women for certain amount of time knows we don't wear it 24/7. So what if women dress down when married when women are considered lucky if we get men who dress this way let alone something nicer. Men have such low bar they should be last to complain.

Revy_Ur_Engines · 2021-05-26T22:42:17+00:00

Someone needs to send home girl a rescue unit ASAP.

cakeandtart · 2021-05-27T03:04:51+00:00

Literally. Men are so embarrassing. They make memes like this and it's like, congrats, u played yourself. You just admitted you can't even take care of a woman and keep her healthy or happy. Are we supposed to laugh at HER? Because you come off as the pathetic loser here.

MACMUA · 2021-05-26T16:17:53+00:00

Hahahha amen

brighterintupelo · 2021-05-26T20:36:36+00:00

Statistically, unmarried (never married) women are the happiest demographic. Unmarried men are the unhappiest. Married experience less depression and addiction, and they live longer than their unmarried counterparts. The exact opposite of all of that is true for married women. Marriage is literally the worst thing so many women can do to themselves.

And yet men still think they’re the prize and like single women must be so miserable without them. Not only do women not need them, but they’re far better off without them

SPdoc · 2021-05-28T02:57:28+00:00

Or...we could normalize that women may not always be wearing makeup and their looks will change with age. Let’s stop acting like being treated as a human automatically results in us looking conventionally attractive.

Dexaroo5716 · 2021-05-30T15:29:55+00:00

She took one look at the micro penis she is stuck with for life and lost all will to live. It’s more common than people realize. RIP to that woman’s sex drive. Thoughts and prayers. 🙏🏻 God grant her divorce and the revival of her spirit.

FluffandRainclouds · 2021-05-26T23:15:06+00:00

This is true. I mistakenly believed I could easily find a decent romantic partner of similar values and beliefs to my family. I'm happier alone with my family. You won't see me with some man who obviously doesn't see my worth.

MsXxSelfDestructxX · 2021-05-26T23:52:37+00:00

I actually do have a picture of myself a couple weeks after breaking up with ex vs pics of me now. I looked like complete shit before, a total train wreck like way worse than the lady in the op's pic to the right. Now I spend a lot of time doing things that I like to do and less stressed out. Took time to focus on my self-esteem. That's how I knew I was doing the right thing by walking away and focusing on myself when looking at the before&after pics, if it wasn't for my privacy I'd share.

spicyspa · 2021-05-30T15:28:26+00:00

Blink twice if you need help.

thiccolas- · 2021-05-26T17:51:13+00:00

Exactly!

greenbagmaria · 2021-05-27T03:14:09+00:00

This is distressing. Based on that shoulder cut off shirt the first pic must not be 5 years ago. It’s such a short time to lose your glow because of a man

humaninthemaking · 2021-05-27T06:16:57+00:00

I really wish the two images were swapped after she dumps the scrote’s ass.

breadandbunny · 2021-05-27T03:18:46+00:00

What is wrong with some dudes? Seriously? This is disgraceful. Imagine being this huge of an asshole. I can't. I have a strong feeling that men who find this funny are fricken neckbeards. Ew.

badbadnotbueno · 2021-05-27T06:19:42+00:00

Since I’ve been divorced (beginning of 2018), I’ve moved around a bit and have had to update my drivers license both times. The most recent DL pic and the DL pic I had taken right after the breakup are literally like night and day. When I first compared them, I loved that I looked much happier and healthier in my recent one. On the other hand, I was sad bc I allowed myself to become so unhealthy and miserable during that marriage. My skin had no color, my eyes had bags under them, I was easily 50lbs heavier, I had a noticeably forced smile... At that moment, I decided I most likely will not re-marry. I have been my happiest as a single lady. Meeting a HVM would be the only reason I’d change my mind.

t3ddi · 2021-05-27T00:10:21+00:00

This is en pointe!

BxGyrl416 · 2021-05-27T06:14:27+00:00

It’s almost like the problem here is you.

dutchie19 · 2021-05-26T21:23:28+00:00

the-worst- · 2021-08-24T14:47:12+00:00

These men still be out here telling on themselves like that.

ABiggieboy · 2022-04-21T16:20:31+00:00

Let's blame men for everything!!!

Dramatic-Juggernaut2 · 2022-06-02T20:17:32+00:00

Women tell lies too

Upset_Ball2495 · 2022-08-08T17:50:56+00:00

Women ☕️

Hamster_lover1 · 2022-08-08T19:16:47+00:00

Those are not lies that men tell the girl tells lies you dumb idiots

MR_DERP_YT · 2022-08-08T20:24:11+00:00

Bruh what is this subreddit 💀💀

Spunch-bob · 2022-08-08T20:25:31+00:00

I hate woman

Lonely_Craft_7840 · 2022-08-24T10:13:04+00:00

I JUST REALLY LOVE APPLESAUCE

bizzybumblebee · 2021-05-26T20:52:58+00:00

and i oop

Title	Oops
Author	PBJellyNutella
Upvotes	15271
Comments	210
Date	May 26, 2021 4:05 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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