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| 18 | They know.I like this approach 👌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/22 06:51 PM |
| 474 | Is there even a bar anymore?He already crossed that line when he asked her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 08:12 PM |
| 44 | Men start looking for reasons to hate/intentionally misunderstand you when they realize you’re smarter than they expected?Would love to read more about this here on FDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 09:21 AM |
| 3 | Love is blind JapanI think the Brazil version is worse 😅. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 10:58 AM |
| 57 | Love is blind JapanThat's exactly what one of the women pointed out. she said it's rude, and he should already know that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 07:55 PM |
| 154 | Love is blind JapanYou're right! If women vetted properly, they will end up with like 20 min footage and no show 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 03:02 PM |
| 288 | Love is blind JapanFrom my experience, when I first dated in the West, I felt like there's pressure to act like a couple very early on. After one date, I was expected to be intimate, share my vulnerabilities, my space, my time, my trust, etc. Yes, it might be a cultural thing or just LVM. But, I did sense a big difference in how you're pressured to lower your guards as if dating is the same thing as being in a serious relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 02:28 PM |
| 44 | Love is blind JapanIt's on Netflix | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 02:10 PM |
| 671 | Love is blind JapanI also noticed that they interact with men like the strangers they are, not like in the Western culture where you go on one date, and they expect you to be acting like a couple. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 02:10 PM |
| 21 | Seriously though, this is such a sad truthIt gets worse in episodes 4 and 5.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 09:31 PM |
| 2 | A teenage boy full of gratitude to his mom & treating her after years of sacrifice is a good thing to see. This is what a (possible) baby HVM looks like. Take note, lurkersIs this not normal ? 😕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 04:37 PM |
| 16 | "Liberated: the new sexual revolution" on NetflixDone, sorry about that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 02:18 PM |
| 111 | This is why you don't get an OnlyFans. Men that you know will happily buy the nudes to wank over you, and then go on right ahead to use that fact to stop you from getting a job. Male 'feminists' are evil, do NOT believe them when they say they are supportive of 'sex workers'.I'm in Tech, and for exactly this reason that I keep my social media accounts very private. I get friend requests from my colleagues all the time, and I decline every time. Even if you post normal pictures, they will share it with the boys and gossip about it. I saw it happen. Boys in Tech are very immature and can't stand seeing women do better than them in this career. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 08:48 PM |
| 10 | Episode infinity on "Men Who Tell On Themselves"Yup. The only difference is that now you get to do 50/50 with the ex muslim 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 10:13 AM |
| 213 | Episode infinity on "Men Who Tell On Themselves"I just wanted to add that even if he's an ex muslim, he will still be holding all the misogynistic beliefs that he grew up with. Why? Because it benefits him. How do I know that? I'm an ex muslim who used to think that ex muslim men are changed men 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 05:45 PM |
| 102 | Episode infinity on "Men Who Tell On Themselves"The thing is, having sex outside marriage is a sin in Islam, and that applies to men and women. But like always, religious men seem to forget about that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 05:39 PM |
| 75 | Men literally have no empathy for women: A case study on prostitution and pornSame. I have zero empathy for men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 04:28 PM |
| 12 | West Elm Caleb: Women Warn Each Other about LVM on TikTok, Patriarchy Immediately Freaks OutI'm loving the comment section; it gives me hope 😊 "Buzzfeed: Here are some clear examples of this person’s predatory and potentially abusive behavior Also Buzzfeed: Boys will be boys! And a woman wrote this??? Fuck. Off." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/22 12:03 PM |
| 41 | Rules of misogyny: the default is always maleSame, I just let it slide because they get work done faster if they think I'm a man 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/22 08:08 PM |
| 3 | Just another day in the mind of a LVM. Men shouldn’t be allowed to date, they’re evolving from walks to wanting to run errands on dates for their own benefit👆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 03:51 PM |
| 19 | Flip the scriptI met a guy on old and he asked me if I wanna go out because he's in the neighborhood. I declined and explained that I can't because it's last minute. He then proceeds to tell me how good it is to be spontaneous. I let him finish then explained that I literally can't because I'm doing something else. Fast forward a couple of days, and he asked me out in the same way. I, again, said I can't it's last minute. A couple of days later, yes you guessed it, he does the same thing. So I stopped respondi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 08:27 AM |
| 24 | single womenI don't see how OP is "unstable". Some commenters on this post seem offended, and I don't understand why 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 10:04 PM |
| 19 | I thought for a long time that my male friends were actual friends, but everyone of them ended up trying (aggressively) to get me to sleep with them. So it's a NO for me.Having male friends is not worth it 😕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 06:40 AM |
| 213 | I thought for a long time that my male friends were actual friends, but everyone of them ended up trying (aggressively) to get me to sleep with them. So it's a NO for me.Exactly. I had a "friend" who wanted to hang out more after my breakup. I didn't think much of it until one evening. he got really close to me and told me that he's here for me if I want to talk about the breakup, he was really creepy about it and he knows well that I don't like people getting in my personal space. I backed off and told him that there's nothing to talk about and that I was already seeing someone new. I could see that he was disappointed; he really thought that I must be really v… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 10:11 PM |
| 276 | I thought for a long time that my male friends were actual friends, but everyone of them ended up trying (aggressively) to get me to sleep with them. So it's a NO for me.You can't even be nice and joke around with them; they get the wrong idea, always. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 09:41 PM |
| 28 | How do you handle interactions with men who have already made assumptions about who you are?I find it easier to do on zoom too; I just stare at them and pretend the camera froze 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 07:31 PM |
| 26 | How do you handle interactions with men who have already made assumptions about who you are?That's true; I need to learn how to use it to my advantage instead of just feeling offended | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 07:29 PM |
| 30 | How do you handle interactions with men who have already made assumptions about who you are?No. I meant what I said; it has everything to do with race. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 01:35 PM |
| 45 | I think being intimidating is a good thing.I personally don't find abusive a**holes intimidating... Being seen as an intimidating woman actually keeps the abusive a**holes away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 11:43 PM |
| 2 | This was on the official Muzmatch tiktok page before they deleted it. The app is a major scam and encourages pickmes 😡I completely agree, and thank you for not invalidating my experience ❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 07:22 AM |
| 2 | This was on the official Muzmatch tiktok page before they deleted it. The app is a major scam and encourages pickmes 😡Thank you for the explanation. I'm an ex muslim and fluent in Arabic, so I do understand everything you're talking about, and I can't deny that marriage in islam has some great points in favor of women. That being said, the emphasis on making sure that the woman is loved and cared for, and therefore "in the mood", along with making sure that she enjoys it, is not what I call consent. It actually means that if you're a good husband (by islam standards) then the wife has no reason to refuse sex. I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 10:23 PM |
| 3 | This was on the official Muzmatch tiktok page before they deleted it. The app is a major scam and encourages pickmes 😡I agree that the importance of mutual pleasure is discussed in Islam, but it dosen't change the fact that it's seen as the wife's duty (among other things). عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهُ قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ إِذَا دَعَا الرَّجُلُ امْرَأَتَهُ إِلَى فِرَاشِهِ فَأَبَتْ فَبَاتَ غَضْبَانَ عَلَيْهَا لَعَنَتْهَا الْمَلَائِكَةُ حَتَّى تُصْبِحَ (بخارى ، رقم:٣٠٦٥) Abu Hurayrah reports from the Prophet : “When a husband calls his wife to bed, and she r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 08:52 PM |
| 281 | I can't believe this is the kind of advice that's out there 🙄This, exactly. Pickmes and Lvm are out there gaslighting women every chance they get. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 08:18 PM |
| 235 | I can't believe this is the kind of advice that's out there 🙄After 20 years, why even bother | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 08:15 PM |
| 161 | I can't believe this is the kind of advice that's out there 🙄Yes, that's exactly what I expect her husband would say | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 08:15 PM |
| 25 | This was on the official Muzmatch tiktok page before they deleted it. The app is a major scam and encourages pickmes 😡It also says that it's a wife's duty to have sex with her husband... whenever he demands it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 04:45 PM |
| 6 | A Text from an Ex. Have a field day, Queens."Hey..." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 05:24 PM |
| 15 | I let myself reopen my mind to walking dates.... Whoops-a-Daisy 🤦♀️I never did walking dates even before FDS, because I can't walk and get to know someone at the same time. It's physically impossible for me to do both, kinda just focus on walking 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 02:38 PM |
| 130 | LVM coworkers ranted(?) to me and I'm sad for the women in their livesThat's true, every time I start a new job, there's usually a couple of coworkers that try very hard to get personal in hopes I'll start sharing and get vulnerable lol. It's so obvious too, like they share something out of the blue or complain about not having a good weekend because of some personal stuff, hoping I ll ask them about it 🙄. I usually just grey rock them until they stop. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 12:05 PM |
| 43 | All the red flags rolled into 1 little red pill incel ('I'm dominant, blow your back out, women cheat on nice guys') the women in the comments having a field day bc he's using a shower curtain as a bedroom curtain + no curtain rod. All jokes aside the fact that this has 50k+ likes is frightening....Same. It's funny with no sound on 🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 01:11 PM |
| 132 | I absolutely love reading stories like this. Like what do you expect the outcome to be?A fuck-relationship describes it better. They only offer mediocre dick and think that's enough for the woman to stick around. It's laughable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 12:29 PM |
| 359 | I absolutely love reading stories like this. Like what do you expect the outcome to be?Back in my pickmeisha days, whenever a scrote have the audacity to ask me for a FWB instead of a relationship, I say YES. Then go a head and find a hotter guy within a week and ghost the scrote. They play themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 10:48 AM |
| 23 | Can men who engage in hook up culture/casual sex, turn around and happily commit to long term monogamous relationships without cheating/hall passes/porn addiction etc.As someone who married a typical fuckboy, No. At first, he said and did all the right things. Then he got even more into porn, started chatting up multiple women from his previous Harem, and he eventually relapsed into his old habits. He didn't go to therapy or even try really. He was desperate for attention and couldn't live without it. He's an ex now. Edit: I was obviously suck a pick-me back then, I felt so special for being picked. And some of his friend told me that I must be really great, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 08:06 AM |
| 12 | There's a "promaledatingstrategy" to contradict FDS. Men really don't know how to act when women have had enough.I thought it said "PROBLEMdatingstrategy" 🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 05:44 PM |
| 2 | Anyone who is actually high libido who is now low libido because of disapppointing experiences with men... that thinking about having to deal with their BS in order to have sex is just too unappealing?I have very high libido and even though I use my toys regularly, I always felt not completely satisfied. It all changed when I discovered this toy : Satisfyer-Air-Pulse-Clitoris-Stimulator-Pressure-Wave It's literally the best orgasms I've had in my entire life. I'm 100% sure no man can ever compete. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 09:44 PM |
| 8 | Remember, men have no problem using you for relationship benefits until they find someone betterLove your username 🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 09:14 AM |
| 24 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 14 - Dr. Gail Dines & the Queens Rage Against the Porn MachinePersonally, I don't think it does. It's a reminder that we're under no obligation to be "nice" to men who are determined to misunderstand us, and the severity of the issues that we discuss. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 10:18 PM |
| 187 | 👇I would like to believe that's an accurate statistic, unfortunately I didn't find any source. It sounds like a peaceful world 😌. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 08:18 PM |
| 9 | I posted a video criticizing scrotes believing women hit a wall and got this comment, with a picture of him to match ☺️🤣🤣🤣🤣 I'm dead | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 08:13 AM |
| 160 | Preach it, sis!Not that I'm looking for young men, I prefer someone with the same life experience as me, cause you know...I'm not a predator. But whenever they start explaining why they are creeping on young women, I don't argue (no point) with them, I cut them short and say : "Yeah...I prefer young men. They're in good shape, good quality sperm, have more energy and a dick that works." They struggle to prove me wrong without admitting that it's indeed creepy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 07:51 AM |
| 36 | I am not a fleshlightSo proud that you're able to see through the bs at your age, warms my cold heart 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 07:18 AM |
| 9 | OopsSo happy you got out, I promise it gets better. Please take care of yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 04:54 AM |
| 53 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 12 - How FDS Can Help Autistic Queens Navigate RelationshipsAs much as I love listening to the hosts, inviting guests definitely adds more to the podcast. I love everything about this episode ❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 08:49 AM |
| 27 | 🚨 Male shit tests and the pickme radar 🚨Absolutely ☝️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 06:26 AM |
| 49 | How to Spot a PAYou're describing my ex 😯🥶 Edit: Actually, all of my exes 🤯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 10:16 PM |
| 55 | Women thrive without men, men perish without women, not the other way aroundScrotes are maaaad. so sensitive 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 07:55 PM |
| 14 | Matthew Perry weaponizes his Hollywood status to force teen girls young enough to be his granddaughter to look at him on dating apps. Tik Tokker calls him out.For them, women speaking up about their perspective is like how you would feel if your toaster suddenly became sentient and announced they hate cooking bread. Like outrage and shock and then rage 🤣🤣😥😥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 04:25 PM |
| 3 | 20% of women in China regret getting married. Only 7% of men regret getting married. 73% of divorced are initiated by women. Marriage has always been an institution meant to benefit men. More and more women are realizing this.I had a nightmare last night that a boyfriend proposed, I said yes, and then freaked out right after and noped out. Nooo thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 08:49 AM |
| 12 | We need more kink shamingExactly, if he's watching rape porn and getting excited, what makes him think that he won't eventually do it ? Or if he happen to witness it in real life, he will get turned on, because that's how his brain was conditioned. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 09:50 AM |
| 33 | Beauty is like a social exchange. I don’t like it.I've been thinking about this lately, and I can finally be honest with myself about it. I agree with you, a lot of the things I do to take care of my appearance, I do them to be accepted in society and perceived a certain way. I think a good middle ground is that I'm staying away of everything that's specifically caters to the male gaze (like obviously so). I don't do makeup like I used too, only blush and chapstick now. I wear oversized and classy clothes (which surprisingly feels more like my … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 06:24 PM |
| 22 | Female friendships and misogynistic propagandaFor the male redditors who are concerned about me : My messages and chat are turned off, so keep screaming in the void. Oh almost forgot, I just wanna add 🤷🏻♀️☻🤺💄👑🥋🎭🏣🌏💅👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 09:26 PM |
| 3 | Female friendships and misogynistic propaganda (Part 2)Please watch part 1, that being said, I agree that gossip as we know it today is definitely toxic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 09:04 PM |
| 3 | Female friendships and misogynistic propagandaIt's up, check my post | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 08:57 PM |
| 5 | Female friendships and misogynistic propagandaYes, check my post 🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 08:56 PM |
| 13 | Female friendships and misogynistic propagandaJust did 🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 03:26 PM |
| 33 | Female friendships and misogynistic propagandaJust posted it 🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 03:25 PM |
| 5 | I boiled over at workOh wow, that's totally unacceptable. Usually when we invite someone new to the daily, not only he get to speak about his work but we make sure he speaks first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 12:23 PM |
| 36 | Nothing but facts"They think of sex as something they do TO women" I just had a flashback to my first time having sex, my boyfriend at the time wasn't a virgin, so he was telling me that he had his first time at age X. He said "I DID sex for the first time when I was X" I corrected him but didn't think much of it until now🤯🤯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 10:06 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-inHe sounds annoying, glad you're getting out 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 08:02 AM |
| 16 | I'm sick of men always trying to shoot their shot with EVERY woman they interact withI didn't answer and I'll keep any professional interaction with him short. I don't understand that culture too, it never occurred to me to mix work with my private, I can't do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 10:25 PM |
| 7 | That's what you get when you build a manFDS rescue mission? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 08:12 PM |
| 45 | I'm sick of men always trying to shoot their shot with EVERY woman they interact withTeach me? haha I'm certainly not as friendly as I used to be, but I still feel a little bit pressured to play nice, cause I'm afraid I'll be penalized if I don't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 07:56 PM |
| 36 | I'm sick of men always trying to shoot their shot with EVERY woman they interact withThis is it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 07:38 PM |
| 103 | I'm sick of men always trying to shoot their shot with EVERY woman they interact withThe few women I work with are all very accomplished, focused and professional. men on the other hand, are acting like chimps who can't control themselves. Men are embarrassingly weak. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 07:34 PM |
| 140 | I'm sick of men always trying to shoot their shot with EVERY woman they interact withWorking in a male dominated field is hell, you can sense that these men don't know how to work with women, they act like it's the first time they saw one. I really like my job, but this constant feeling of being watched and preyed on is unbearable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 07:33 PM |
| 42 | I'm sick of men always trying to shoot their shot with EVERY woman they interact withYES. Exactly this 😖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 07:02 PM |
| 26 | Tik Tok users are warning women over April 24 being 'National Rape Day' 🤮" Some TikTok users are claiming that a group of six men has reportedly declared April 24th as a "national sexual assault day" for carrying out rape and sexual assault, reportedly even providing tips on how you can successfully do it to someone. As of Monday (19 April) the "April24" hashtag had more than 25 million combined views. The message was spread by some TikTok users who are actively warning their followers (especially those who are women) of this trend as they view the day as a potential… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 01:11 PM |
| 63 | wage gap isn't realI was interviewing for a senior engineer position, and the salary they mentioned was a bit off, so I asked a friend (male) and he revealed that they offered him more. FOR THE SAME POSITION. Always negotiate the initial offer, even if it's good enough or within what you expected. Because I guarentee you, men get better offers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 10:02 PM |
| 51 | Instead of going on walk dates, buy yourself a trash grabber so that you can pick up trash in a way that at least benefits your local community☠🤣🤭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 11:56 PM |
| 11 | Uh huh" Extremists feminist hate group" " FDS is kink shaming " Thank you 🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 04:59 PM |
| 2 | There seems to be an influx on men on tiktok spreading messages that you must have sex before marriage etc for “compatibility”. As someone who doesn’t want to, this just reeks of a LVM tactic to coerce women into sexHaha I didn't listen either 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 09:16 PM |
| 69 | Following our recent discussion here about sending nudes, here is this man hoarding nudes of his exes years and years later....while also married.I think it's better to just delete them from his computer if you can, I definitely regret not doing it when I had the chance | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 06:50 PM |
| 93 | Update: I dumped him!Yes they do, just saw a comment on Op post in that sub defending "barely legal" fetish. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 08:18 PM |
| 7 | Blocked and deleted🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 06:25 PM |
| 18 | "Daddy issues" and how they've thought me to spot the signs of an LVM/NVMThank you, that's a very accurate list of red flags to watch out for a Narcissist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 11:09 PM |
| 37 | Conservative Pick Me Magazine Evie thinks we’re all Femcels Y’all. I wonder which man dictated this idea for them to write down? Lmaooo, imagine being this desperate for male approval in 2021.I know it was meant as an insult but “How to enjoy the permanent company of your cat, flat.....but never be a placemat!” sounds......correct. She got that one right 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 10:58 PM |
| 8 | I just left my porn addicted boyfriend, he was my first everything and I feel so stupid because I am struggling so much and I want to go back to him, please give me motivationWe're all so proud 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 06:25 PM |
| 2 | How to spot a pedophile?It's scary as hell, you could be in a relationship with a man for years and he could end up being a pedo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 06:17 PM |
| 6 | How to spot a pedophile?So I think getting into the mindset of never playing down your intuition is important and so is getting on high alert when it comes to their behaviors around this topic. This. There's no going back now that I realised it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 06:02 PM |
| 5 | How to spot a pedophile?That's disgusting 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 06:01 PM |
| 7 | FDS Podcast Episode 2 is HERE!!! FAQs about Feminism, Double Standards, Being Friends with an Ex👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 11:26 AM |
| 4 | What Is Happening on Reddit Shows the Importance of Female Run SubredditsCan I please have the code too ? 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 09:49 AM |
| 35 | I can't believe thisCompletely, can't imagine how maddening it is to have your family take the side of your abuser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 09:22 PM |
| 179 | I can't believe thisYup. And she stayed with him while he served 6 months in jail for that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 07:59 PM |
| 10 | What's your cringiest moment with an ex LVM ?Fuck him 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 06:50 PM |
| 17 | What's your cringiest moment with an ex LVM ?Same 🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 09:31 AM |
| 21 | You read about us on Vice. She said we hate men; she said we’re no different than the redpill. You were disgusted by us. Yet, somehow, you felt some urge to come here.Porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 01:32 PM |
| 20 | It’s annual review time at work so I thought y’all might appreciate one for your vulva.I love this 😌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 08:22 AM |
| 3 | What is a HVM?A HVM is financially stable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 10:19 AM |
| 26 | Ladies, how are you treating yourself this Valentine's day?I got myself a gift box full of goodies, so I'm planning a spa day at home 🤭😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 07:56 AM |
| 14 | HVM that aren't your physical type?And when they date you, they think they can do better. DELUSIONAL. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 03:42 PM |
| 19 | What LVM really mean when they say...Him: I have a kind of dark sense of humour Me: Me too! Wanna hear a joke? Him: YES Me: Block and delete | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 08:11 PM |
| 40 | As of today, February 1, 2021, I am DONE being a pick-me doormat!Congratulations, we're here for you ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 07:49 PM |
| 6 | I’m genuinely curious about this random guy on OLD. Ok, I’m the independent woman. But you sound like you’re planning not to add any value to my life. Then why do I even need to date you? I don’t need you!Once I was explaining to my LVX that it's not okay for him to disappear on me for days with no contact, and he said that's because he knows I'm an independent woman so he didn't think I need constant contact. And it worked. I shut up. Now that I'm wiser, I cringe every time I think of it. And every time a man tries to use feminism against me, I laugh and walk away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 08:59 PM |
| 6 | OG FDS: The Solitude of SelfHa! We're still fighting the same battle, despite what LibFems want you to believe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 12:36 AM |
| 43 | With ‘I Hate Men,’ a French Feminist Touches a Nerve"Harmange and Coffin argue that putting sisterhood above appeasing men is a logical next step." This. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 08:22 PM |
| 13 | I'm a day dreamer. And lately I've noticed that in all my day dreams im single 🤷OMG yes yes, I noticed that too, I can't even get myself to daydream or fantasize about being in a relationship anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 10:59 PM |
| 34 | HVM: FACT OR FICTION? I want to believe, but (considering my experience with romantic relationships, family and platonic relationships, and society at large), I don't know if I ever willI understand how you feel, I get more and more defeated and disgusted with the world. I'm not concerned about whether HVM exist or not, even if they are out there, my concern is why they are not the norm ? What can we do to change that? But since the majority of people are not concerned with that, I want to know what can I do to change that ? Me, personally. Unfortunately I can't seem to answer that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 03:48 PM |
| 38 | TW-raped by own classmatesI cried too, this is beyond disturbing, I just can't.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 10:34 PM |
| 8 | Oh no no... I have no words, just down votes..I think (and hope) you're talking about countries like Saudis Arabia, because that's definitely not the way Muslim women live in other Muslim countries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 05:14 PM |
| 29 | Oh no no... I have no words, just down votes..Unfortunately that's exactly how Muslim men see western women, they get into relationships with them knowing very well that they will end up marrying a muslim woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 04:11 PM |
| 17 | Her boyfriend complained that she’s only spending $200 for his birthday after she already spent $300 on him for Christmas.How is he not embarrassed? Ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 02:51 PM |
| 11 | To celebrate me, and the shiny future ahead of me.Gorgeous 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 01:23 AM |
| 43 | Sis, No! You obviously didnt want to.I think it's her intuition kicking in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 01:08 AM |
| 10 | Other relationships subs need a lot more of this energy. Inspired by horror stories being shared here.I understand, as I was that woman, and everything that you said is exactly what I call working on your life. It's just that here on FDS I found it helpful and sometimes necessary to be straight forward with your advice. I know it's what I needed to hear and it's the only way that I snapped out of my conditioning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 12:41 AM |
| 23 | Other relationships subs need a lot more of this energy. Inspired by horror stories being shared here.I'm happy to hear that you got out 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 02:37 PM |
| 23 | It’s a yes or no question!Not even "wyd" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 02:25 PM |
| 50 | It’s a yes or no question!This should have the flair "justPickmeishaThings". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 02:12 PM |
| 66 | Other relationships subs need a lot more of this energy. Inspired by horror stories being shared here.Agree. If you can't even entertain the idea of breaking up, then you should seriously work on your life and self esteem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 01:46 PM |
| 273 | Other relationships subs need a lot more of this energy. Inspired by horror stories being shared here.Seriously, I can't stand reading posts on relationships advice subs anymore, it's so obviously painful that she should dump him, yet she gets offended when you tell her. Breaking up is always an option, and most of the time, the only option, it's not a death sentence. You can't fix trash, you can't make it smell better, or less rotten. Take. The. Trash. Out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 01:25 PM |
| 225 | Other relationships subs need a lot more of this energy. Inspired by horror stories being shared here.Simple. Dump him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 01:19 PM |
| 7 | A guy I’m talking to just joked about being a psychopathIf you're not sure if it'sa red flag, just ask him WHY his exes miss him and HOW does he know, his answer would be a screaming RED FLAG for sure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 09:41 PM |
| 93 | Pickmeisha horror tale. Hapless scrote nearly destroys mind/body of once-vibrant girl. She has an STD (prob bc of him)+ is at risk for cervical cancer. Jobless bum doesn’t care. Friends beg her to leave b4 this kills her. They “just can’t see the good”. And she’s STILL f*cking him. Mother help her!What. The. Fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 06:52 PM |
| 16 | Greg.You need to read the handbook. That being said, I understand the frustration. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 04:22 PM |
| 17 | LET GO OF MALE VALIDATION IN 2021🎉👏👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 12:17 AM |
| 35 | The last time I dated anyone who wasn't my husband was 16 years ago, a man come over from spain (I'm mexican) just to see me and we didn't had sex, and now men think you don't need dates? Ok...Same, I'm completely turned off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 11:44 PM |
| 31 | FDS Principles Are Essential to Professional Success In a Man's WorldI'm in IT and I recently started taking certification courses, and they usually have a section where they post members who passed the certification, I noticed that ALL of them are men. I mean I know it's a male dominated field, but it was a shock to not find one woman in there. So a little advise for my fellow women in IT, get yourself certified. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 10:56 AM |
| 7 | I found a child porn sub and reported to the FBIYou have to really scroll down, but it's there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 11:10 PM |
| 24 | I found a child porn sub and reported to the FBILet's make it to the top ladies 🤯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Hinge, a couple looking for a 3rd. No thank you.😊👍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 08:49 PM |
| 10 | Hinge, a couple looking for a 3rd. No thank you.I was always joking around saying "that's what she said", but then it just sends a signal that I'm open to hear sexual jokes, so I stopped doing that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 08:46 PM |
| 7 | Saw this and thought it belonged here 😂😂First time I hear the offer, I immediately point out that it's less than what I was expecting, usually they give a second offer on the spot, then I take a couple of days to think about it and negotiate a second time based on the second offer. I usually do this when the first offer is obviously not good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 05:43 PM |
| 75 | Saw this and thought it belonged here 😂😂YES YES, when I started my new job I consciously decided to do that, when it was time to negotiate my salary, when I answer emails, when I want to say No, when I disagree with colleagues, when I express my opinions, ect... whenever I hesitate, I just ask myself, if I was a white straight man, would I speak up ? The answer is yes. Their audacity and sense of entitlement is the one thing I learned from. EDIT: I always double negotiate on an offer, first one is automatically after hearing the offer… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 11:14 AM |
| 240 | Not all women agree with Female Dating Strategy, and that's okay. There are plenty of women alive today whose mothers and grandmothers were anti-suffragette, and nowadays we still get to enjoy the right to vote. Future women will benefit from FDS, whether you like it or not.FDS is the reason why I finally regained my dignity and self worth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 07:55 PM |
| 6 | A picture is worth a thousand wordshttps://vm.tiktok.com/ZMJpqJXu9/ < this one 🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 10:15 PM |
| 9 | Pickme says to be less independent, be less educated and less successful to get a HVM.looks at bigger bank account and clearer skin and finding peace ever since breaking up with her ex Exactly 😌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 08:33 AM |
| 2 | It feels impossible to find a genuine sisterhood in a world filled with pickmeishasYou are growing and the more you do the more you'll attract energy that aligns. Trust the process! Thank you, that's really good to hear 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 08:57 PM |
| 6 | It feels impossible to find a genuine sisterhood in a world filled with pickmeishasI'm 28. And you're right, I think (and hope) it will get better with age. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 06:54 PM |
| 54 | It feels impossible to find a genuine sisterhood in a world filled with pickmeishasI agree, the more higher education a woman has, the more likely she is to be radicalized, but it's not a guarantee and I guess that's why it's frustrating. I have a high level career, so I'm surrounded with women who have everything going on for them, they are financially independent, most of them live abroad, they work hard, they are capable and they've done it alone with no help from a man. So I wander why these women still put themselves in shitty situationships. These independent and capable… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 02:02 PM |
| 15 | It feels impossible to find a genuine sisterhood in a world filled with pickmeishasExactly, it's triggering, and it fuels anger when you constantly have to deal with it. I think all we can do for now, is to distance ourselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 01:15 PM |
| 137 | Looks like my search for a HVM is finally over, he even made a new account to message me, I feel so special!Or stupid enough to send a selfie | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 12:08 PM |
| 16 | Looks like my search for a HVM is finally over, he even made a new account to message me, I feel so special!I agree | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 10:43 AM |
| 329 | Looks like my search for a HVM is finally over, he even made a new account to message me, I feel so special!I just received the same message by the way. Block and Delete. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 10:04 AM |
| 753 | Looks like my search for a HVM is finally over, he even made a new account to message me, I feel so special!Congratulations! You've been chosen. Send a selfie to proceed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 09:47 AM |
| 71 | Man tells girlfriend to run $400 worth of errands then refuses to pay her. She doesn't want advice on the boyfriend.Return all of it, the boyfriend included. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 10:00 AM |
| 8 | Do Men Care if You Come?LVM don't, or they do for the wrong reasons. They just see it as a challenge and an ego boost. Example: I've never been able to come with an ex, so I insisted on trying with a vibrator, and I came, but he was upset because I didn't came with his dick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 09:01 AM |
| 31 | Men feel entitled to your helpOh wow, that's exactly what I'm talking about, and it's always the same reaction when you say no, they act surprised and start gaslighting and guilt tripping to try and change your mind and push boundaries. It's pathetic, I just give no reaction to that, because when I say no, it's NOT negotiable, it's not open to discussion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 08:56 PM |
| 5 | "My bf is perfect! Except for his violence, abuse and starving me."🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 07:15 PM |
| 59 | "My bf is perfect! Except for his violence, abuse and starving me."Riiight ? I mean if he's that hungry he can just go get something to eat, why does it have to be HER food. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 02:37 PM |
| 113 | "My bf is perfect! Except for his violence, abuse and starving me."I can't help but think that he's eating her food on purpose, as a way to control what she eats and how much. Especially after him saying "are you gonna eat that whole thing?" I don't know. Maybe I'm just bitter and suspicious at this point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 02:17 PM |
| 15 | Men need more attention than women.Absolutely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 02:06 PM |
| 7 | Confronted my (27F) husband (34M) about his porn use today... This is how it went.Please leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 09:43 PM |
| 4 | PICKME gives women a piece of her mind.Haha same. I stopped reading right there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 11:03 AM |
| 7 | A lot of TV completely unwatchable after FDSTry jena Friedman, she's amazing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 08:48 PM |
| 12 | Couldn’t Have Said It Better MyselfBeen there, done that, won't fucking do it again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 10:00 AM |
| 2 | Definitely how legitimate research studies are conductedExactly how I reacted reading that sentence 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 11:24 PM |
| 12 | I’m so tired of seeing men trying to control how women dressThis exact thing happened to me, I have a vague memory about my father telling me that when I was 9. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 10:43 AM |
| 10 | Pickmeisha Music Detox ChallengeOh wow, I was just thinking lately that I seem to not enjoy a lot of songs that I used to listen to often. They have this negative (pickmeisha) energy about them and I end up feeling "dirty?", as in I just lowered my standards. And we all know here in FDS, that we don't do that anymore. I'm with you on this, detox all the way 🙉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 03:04 AM |
| 31 | Finally broke up with a LVM.Congratulations! You're free 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 02:36 AM |
| 28 | "the dating market" is like a nature documentary about pickmeishas and LVM scrambling to prove themselves as the most mateable. You don't have to participate in "the dating market" while you look for a quality relationshipI just recently realized that's what I was doing my whole adult life. Not anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 09:31 PM |
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