Lately I've been thinking about my past relationships with men, whether romantic, friends, acquaintance, ect.. and every one of them at some point let it slip that they wish to sleep with young girls (aka children).

I was the cool girl not so long ago, so a lot of men felt confident to share with me some of their disturbing thoughts, and honestly a lot of men are just not that good at hiding who they truly are. But being the pickmeisha that I was, I didn't fully realise that these men are disgusting predators.

So here's some of the things that a pedophile will say/do:

I was once asked casually if I envy young girls because they get a lot of male attention, I was confused because I was 26 at the time and I had no problem getting men's attention myself.

Around the same age I was dating a 30 year's old man and he was chatting with 18 year's old girls, and I didn't understand what he could possibly have in common with them.

Another ex tried to get me to have a threesom with his friend, and when I asked why her, he said it's because "she's so naive, she's like a child". Luckily even then as a pickmeisha I found it disturbing and said no.

I was always told that I have a baby face, even now in my late 20s, and all my ex's seemed to like that about me.

I was chatting with a taxi driver on my way to college and he said that high school girls are technically women and not children, I don't even remember how we came to talk about that.

I could go on and on, but it seems like every man I encountered is secretly wishing he could get with young girls if he could. That includes every men I've been intimate with. It's disgusting.

How can we vet for this early on? Please share any advice on how to spot these sick men.