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-sweetchuck/r/Divorce_Men06/08/22 04:04 PM
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-sweetchuck/r/Divorce_Men01/04/23 02:00 AM
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-sweetchuck/r/Divorce_Men11/08/22 06:05 PM
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-sweetchuck/r/Divorce_Men11/12/22 01:54 AM
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You are in for a hell of a divorce. Been there.
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/25 12:21 PM
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Yea, that's either not the whole story or you need to fight the judgment. They can put a temporary order in place but can't put a permit order in place unless you have been served and don't show up. If you were served and couldn't show up then you should have asked/motioned for a continuance. If you don't pay then they file another motion for contempt. You could get jail time or they can't garnish wages/ seize assets. It can get nasty. You have a super long and nasty divorce on the way bro. It's…
/r/Divorce_Men29/12/24 04:09 AM
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You haven't even gotten on the roller coaster yet. Get out of that hose and don't leave a forwarding address
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/24 04:16 AM
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Nope.
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/24 07:17 PM
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Nope.
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/24 07:02 PM
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You're good. Like within 500 bucks lol. But I have had to do a bunch of work myself so someone else might be at 35k+ before they appeal.
/r/Divorce_Men24/11/24 05:40 AM
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Run! You are in for a hell of a divorce That is narcissistic personality disorder. You will be made out to be the aggressor and the bad person in the divorce. Anything you say or do will be used against you. F****** run
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/24 07:36 PM
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Leave son out of it. The kid has school to think about. Lawyer up. Fast and hard. You are about to meet the devil. Be a mute. Say nothing that can come back on you, to anyone.
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/24 03:06 AM
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Same. "The lifestyle". She played every trick in the book and the court just keeps eating it up. Just gotta keep believing in a higher being.
/r/Divorce_Men25/10/24 03:21 AM
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After giving a real attempt at the devil's triangle lol
/r/Divorce_Men07/10/24 06:35 PM
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I'm in the same boat and can't tell you how to get out of it. Just hang in there and don't let it consume you.
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/24 03:58 PM
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And when you walk away from your kids because she's a fucking monster, you'll be the bad guy.
/r/Divorce_Men30/09/24 12:14 AM
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Get a fucking lawyer! That year is a year for her to plot and spin things in her head. Get a hobby. Go play pool tournaments. Build a fucking race car. Open a side hustle. It's a process.
/r/Divorce_Men15/03/24 12:07 AM
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You're fighting depression good sir.
/r/Divorce_Men15/03/24 12:02 AM
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March forward. Leave her alone. Cover your ass. Jts hard to see the future at this point but trust us, there is better things on the horizon. For the time being take one day at a time. Healthy habits. Get rid of the anxiety with exercise. It could be pregnancy hormones. It could be that she knows the child isn't yours. Either way, begging her isn't going to help. Don't contact her. Let her contact you.
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/23 07:22 PM
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By all means, try! I called everywhere for 4 counties. Women and children only. This is just my experience. Ex has NPD and was the abuser. Physically and everything else. She used a DVPO for custody. The system is sexist AF.
/r/Divorce_Men05/12/23 12:58 AM
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They only help women. At least here in Charlotte nc
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/23 11:53 PM
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She was banging someone else and it didn't work out. You good with that? The number is 6 months. If y'all are split more then that then give it up.
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/23 07:39 PM
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Pretty girl in the morning light, as the sun starts to rise. it's healing.
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/23 12:49 AM
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It's straight when both of you are laying there smiling. The next couple girls I was with, it just struck me. Like oh yea this is what it's like to be with someone who enjoys being with you.
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/23 05:25 AM
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Don't. Not worth it
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/23 08:32 PM
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And you can't prenup anything with kids
/r/Divorce_Men30/07/23 09:15 PM
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Lonely or longing for adventure?
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/23 12:24 AM
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What state do you live in? I'm just surprised the judge allow her to move so far away. Usually the judge will recognize that type of move is not in the best interest of the child. At least here in North Carolina
/r/Divorce_Men30/06/23 02:19 AM
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80% of divorces are initiated by women. Of the divorces initiated by men, 80% of those men already have another girl. If you're considering getting divorced because the way you're being treated, statistically high that your gut instinctive this is abuse is right. Hence the lack of hesitation to say f*** that b****.
/r/Divorce_Men29/06/23 08:31 PM
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Don't say a word to her about it. I say again! Keep your mouth shut! Go down the street and talk to a lawyer. The moment you pull the trigger you need to be able to execute everything all at once. Start recording and keeping records right now. Don't have a conversation off the books. Once she knows what you are doing, don't engage in a fight. Don't argue or talk about it. It'll all become a potential weapon. Finally, is she is hot and not fucking other people, maybe try therapy. One clue to look…
/r/Divorce_Men29/06/23 08:28 PM
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Fucking run bro. Make a plan and cut that bitch off as cleanly as you can.
/r/Divorce_Men29/06/23 08:18 PM
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Accurate numbers. Don't fuck around
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/23 07:27 PM
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I wish I did this. Record everything. Document everything. Refuse face to face off the record communications. If you get upset, let a lawyer fix it.
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/23 05:10 PM
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Narcissistic tendencies are, apparently, a normal response to being fucked over. 80% of divorces are initiated by women. Go figure. Yea the Western idea of equality might be flawed. Don't really know if there is a fix. Try to find a girl who is an actual friend vs a girls who lays on her back for attention.
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/23 05:07 AM
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Talk to a lawyer and have them help come up with a game plan.
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/23 11:20 PM
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Yea, I feel for that and caught her carrying out my guns and other valuable half way though. Don't be a dumb ass. And as much as you want to belive her, don't. This is a final step. If you can get it all stacked up in the driveway, so it's a quick and painless as possible.
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/22 09:34 PM
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Seems to be a go-to for trashy women.
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/22 04:31 PM
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Mine had "brest cancer", that's why she couldn't be bothered with theripy lol. She didn't. She was just an idiot.
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/22 04:54 PM
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Mire if an accounting question. Without researching tax law, Google puts tax-free gift limitations at 16,000. She would legally be required to report the income. If arguing the income with 100k of support coming in, I would be suspicious if there really is any arrangement and suspect infidelity. This is assuming you have not already divorced. It's worth a phone call to the sharks.
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/22 07:38 PM
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Single moms just give me flashbacks of her doing that to my kid. Trade up not down
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/22 01:32 AM
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Justified, lol. Me and her are in agreement, and her lawyer is doing everything he can to push a fight for billable hrs.
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/22 04:58 PM
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I have to call the dmv and ask the same thing. I don't want to just sign and notarized the back because its not a sale. I want to change the title without saying it's being sold
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/22 02:07 AM
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This.
/r/Divorce_Men27/11/22 03:31 PM
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Why would you pay Alimony? She worked and makes enough to provide for herself.
/r/Divorce_Men24/11/22 02:40 AM
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The most exciting thing for me is proving what a dummy she is. I've always made it work, by the grace of God. I'll rebuild. She may have walked away with an unfair share of the assets but didn't walk away with the experience to build more. That I kept.
/r/Divorce_Men20/11/22 01:27 AM
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I would suggest you cut your losses and move on. It's just money. If you are stuck on the idea you need to know where the money came from. If he has a 9-5 job you start with a pay stubs. If money Is being distributed to another account you'll have the last 4 of that account for a lawyer. Else he is transferring the money out of the account you already know about and you would see the transfers on the account statement. If he is self employed, you might be screwed. Especially if he's had time to …
/r/Divorce_Men20/11/22 12:52 AM
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Why do you care?
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/22 11:31 PM
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Yea, I'm going though this now. Each time I talk to the ex she is running a narrative idea past me. Off the wall shit. So far it's been abusive, gambling addict, drug addict, ptsd, controlling, and finally its we just didn't make good partners. None of those were true. The reality is she was running around on me and I kept catching her. Can't make a house wife out of a hoe. It sucks because we have a 3 year old and I don't want him to hear that bs later in life. One peice of advice to someone go…
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/22 03:33 PM
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100% accurate
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/22 10:24 PM
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Interesting. I've been the one pushing for therapy from the start. I hope she wants to truly work on the marriage but context just screams that's not the case. She certainly has been the "abuser" in this case. Which is strange to think about because I can definitely defend myself but have just eaten some awful shit over the years.
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/22 07:45 PM
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Get a lawyer. You could keep it but I'd both your names are on the mortgage/deed you will have to buy her out.
/r/Divorce_Men11/08/22 06:08 PM
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Sunk cost fallacy is gold. Thank you.
/r/Divorce_Men07/08/22 06:48 PM
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My lawyer really sucked then.
/r/Divorce_Men07/08/22 01:41 AM
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Nc makes you wait a year. It's also a no fault state. Talk to lawyer who was pretty much worthless and said I'm fucked. I have a few small moves but not much.
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/22 11:54 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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