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College is kind of a precursor to white collar employment and greatly reduces poverty rates for people
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 08:43 PM
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Ok. If there's enough money, sure. If the women know what's going on with their finances, sure. I highly doubt these women always wanted to be stay-at-home wives, and likely had ambitions at some point. Being a stay-at-home mom when you have no education or prospects is terrifying
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 08:42 PM
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I think Americans should embrace European work models
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 08:40 PM
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Considering the fact that 'hysteria' was a legitimate disorder well into the 1900s, I don't really trust that there has ever been a historically accurate depiction of how women really felt. Mental health in general was ignored for everyone, so to be quite frank, I don't think there was any real way to gage people's happiness back then
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 08:37 PM
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Wish my parents got divorced lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 08:36 PM
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1) You can't take pride in the fact that your demographic has "invented more" when my demographic was burned for demonstrating critical thinking abilities 2)I don't know what 'modest' is to you. 3) Yes. People tend to be more sad when they have more critical thinking ability and understanding of the world. I would love to be a conservative moron that thought everything was simple 4)I wish my parents got divorced lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 08:36 PM
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Gave them? Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 08:34 PM
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American culture and policy is needlessly making its people more miserable
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 08:33 PM
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So? There's millions of shitty parents in the United States. There isn't really much of a point in trying to create a social order for money that you don't even believe in
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:48 AM
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Children are impressionable. Children are eager to find role models. It's a disturbing concept to me when children are looking at weird corners of the Internet for guidance
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:36 AM
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I will just address what you don't disagree on. Women didn't have full legal rights until the 1970s. This creates miserable conditions for them that made creating happiness or independence incredibly difficult. Homeschooling data is not reliable. It is typically self-reported, and targets people who have enough financial resources to have the time to educate children. This creates "higher" results, because underprivileged families are blatantly not included. That doesn't mean homeschooling is wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:35 AM
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I'm very young, thin, and pretty lol. I can cook when I have the time :)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 07:30 AM
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The male loneliness epidemic is such a mysterious thing
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 06:39 AM
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Silly comparison. Men rely on women significantly more than the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 06:18 AM
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You're acting like it's something to strive for
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 06:17 AM
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Men and women can both cook lol. But I guess in terms of opportunities, I mean once you sacrifice your independence it's very hard to get it back fully. If I'm an Accountant, and I know stuff, and I sit out for 20 years to raise a family, it's very hard for me to be an accountant again when everything has changed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:47 AM
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Being a wife isn't the key to happiness, dude. I know very few women who are entering their 60s who are a) still with their first husband b) if they are still with their first husband, are happy with their first husband
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:45 AM
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Genuinely do not know anyone in my life that wants more attention from men in my life. The complaint is that they want less lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:34 AM
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I feel like this country in general is not very smart. I don't think a dual-income household is good if the Moms do full household tasks, AT ALL. That is also miserable, but with more agency to leave
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:33 AM
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To want to be a housewife, women do not just need to "save the family some money." To do it safely, as they are forgoing professional opportunities and attractiveness on the job market, she needs a comfy amount of cash
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:31 AM
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? What pretty pictures have progressives painted for a family unit? Be nice to your family? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:29 AM
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This 'extreme sect' has poured an ass-load in money in lobbying efforts and trying to train yougn people to influence the government. As more under-educated immigrants enter the country that already have traditional values, truly concerned about how much more popular fundamentalism will become
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:26 AM
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Old people are influencers too nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:11 AM
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I know what they actually are, but perpetuating a fake life is really bad for young girls trying to figure out their lives, and young boys
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:10 AM
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I mean it does hurt people. That's the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:04 AM
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Being a homemaker is fine, if you have actual control of the home (ex- finances)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:04 AM
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I don't think we grew up the same way lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 04:01 PM
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This was entirely what my post was complaining about lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:31 AM
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I don't really owe the third party anything. The issue is he felt the need to assert himself in something he didnt understand
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:25 AM
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I didn't say you shouldn't have a spine lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:22 AM
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I feel like I tried really hard to avoid making generalizations and that's all your response is doing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:22 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:21 AM
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I personally have endless empathy for men victims of DV or sexual violence
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:19 AM
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I feel like I'm generally pretty nice
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:18 AM
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Yes, you should exclusively practice good morals to get sex. I wonder why you're unhappy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:18 AM
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"Welcome" where?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:17 AM
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Ok don't find a solution lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:48 PM
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If I wasn't crouched over picking up shit, I absolutely would have let him, and I've been gracious before, but crouching over while handling my dog puts me in a very vulnerable physical position. Post also isn't about homeless man
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:48 PM
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My original post is talking about romantic and social relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:31 PM
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No one is asking you to do that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:27 PM
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They can be!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:27 PM
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That's not what I said, but if you are universally failing at building relationships, you should probably introspect. That's what I did, and my life has gotten infinitely better
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:22 PM
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They are statistically less shallow, to be fair
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:20 PM
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Never heard anyone say that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:18 PM
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Empathy has everything to do with relationship-building.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:18 PM
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No lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:16 PM
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Strongly disagree about what women are "attracted" to lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:16 PM
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Yes. I HAD a friend who became an in*cel, and that is how he socialzied with me. We don't talk anymore. I feel like most people enjoy dating someone that cares about them and expresses interest and kindness.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:12 PM
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It helps lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:08 PM
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I feel like men regularly get praise for basic acts that involve caring about another person. I have plenty of male friends + a boyfriend I have endless empathy for
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:07 PM
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Not really. Carceral systems are devoted to mainly men that can't control their impulses.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:06 PM
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Ya'll can adapt
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:06 PM
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How has public discourse been more "anti-male" than anti-female? Look at Trump's conviction and his history of comments about women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:05 PM
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You do realize these are societal problems men originally caused, right? LIke you're complaining about gender roles?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:04 PM
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Who wants you to die? What?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:03 PM
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People have used my dog as an excuse to sexually harass me before, and a homeless man has threatened my dog before. He's my son, and I was being cautious. Honestly if I was walking, I may have even let the homeless guy pet him briefly, it was the fact that picking up poop basically puts me in a fetal position.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:03 PM
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No one is entitled to sex, but if you are putting everyone off, maybe it's important to figure out why
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:00 PM
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She has all of the traditional qualifications of a President. Pick a new argument lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:59 PM
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Ok, but not this, which is what we are talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:58 PM
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Yeah I'm not 16 years old lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:57 PM
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Have you heard of something called "a friend"?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:57 PM
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Platonic friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:57 PM
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I don't think anyone is entitled to sex
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:56 PM
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No one "deserves" anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:56 PM
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"Emotional intimacy" involves friendship. A lot of people are friends before they date.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:56 PM
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It has everything to do with EMOTIONAL INTIMACY which is what makes men attractive to women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 07:27 AM
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how
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 07:08 AM
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Not really. There are a lot of sexist women out there (against women)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 06:32 AM
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Did AI hurt you, loL? Yeah you're just not correct on what empathy is
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:35 AM
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I feel like almost no men grow up with limited exposure to women. "Car stalking" comes from not being able to see women as human beings
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:33 AM
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I'm horrified
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:32 AM
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I don't think empathy has to be that specific lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:30 AM
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How to empathize with someone with Epilepsy- -> It is probably sad, disturbing, painful, tiring, makes it scary to go to new places or do new things. It really shouldn't be that difficult for you to put that together on your own. If you can't develop empathy for people not exactly like you, it shouldn't be a surprise if you struggle to have relationships with the majority of people. You should consider learning, or at least learning to parot what it looks like if you want real closeness with oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:17 AM
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He should've been. Homeless guy was standing close to it and was making loud noises. I do feel like when men post about their experiences, they generally get validated if they're going through something difficult. Full disclosure, I will say I have pretended to be a man to get advice and the responses are 95% more sympathetic, but I'm not pretending like that happens every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:12 AM
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Empathy: "the ability to understand and share the feelings of another" which you seem to lack by your disturbing response. I'm not sure if you're trying to argue with me, because everything you're saying is exactly like what my post is complaining about lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:07 AM
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No I think they're great
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:28 AM
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I mean in general, the fact that so many people have more hatred for those who engage in consensual sex than actual predators is deeply disturbing. I think it should be decriminalized Incels aren't really logical. They feel angry and entitled to women for free, so decriminalizing sex work wouldn't work for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 05:14 PM
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I didn't mean to imply conservative women are more likely to lie out of joy, or being vindictive, but they are more likely to be in a situation where they feel like they have to. What statistic do you have for "majority liars"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 05:52 PM
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What thotting even means ranges so much from person to person
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 05:51 PM
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I feel like joining a new app to talk about this is excessive, but I don't really think N counts are fair judgment calls. Just because someone was thotting around doesn't mean they want to do that indefinitely lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 05:23 PM
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" Women with high n-counts are better because they don’t get attached and lie about rape as much as women with low n-counts." That's not really a common phenomenon anyway, but the truth in what you're saying is that more conservative women may feel pressured to lie about being raped in a conservative community
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 05:22 PM
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I'm a woman. Let's acknowledge women, AND MEN can be trapped in sexless marriages. I have more empathy than you would think for people in "sexless" relationships, but it's also moronic to neglect your partner emotionally, or behave like a general loser, and then get upset when you don't get sex. Women like men who act like their equal. If a man acts like a teenager, or child, it's extremely repulsive sexually. However, if your partner is truly a loser in general, you should probably just end the…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/24 09:45 PM
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Once. His face looked mildly weird on tinder but good in person. Great sex. Most of the time though, no, much worse than person, but I did learn what to look out for. For example, if someone isn't smiling with their teeth in any photo... red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 01:08 AM
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Ok. In terms of virginity, not really sure what you mean. Does it include rape? Does it not? Nothing anatomically changes after someone "loses their virginity". I suppose a hymen can tear, but it can also tear from riding a horse, or doing other random shit. Was I not a virgin because I fell on a bathtub when I was 6? Kind of a pointless conversation, though. About 3% of adults are virgins when they get married, so I'm not sure why you're acting like there are so many options. Marriage is not a …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 12:57 AM
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Men are significantly more dangerous. Not sure why you're belittling her, she's just saying a fact. It's not even an opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 12:49 AM
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Studies that you don't agree with should be ignored? K lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 12:48 AM
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you didn't share anything
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:40 PM
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try us
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:04 AM
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Yes, the donut stuff can all apply, but what I don't understand is you assume that either: - Someone getting the donut is in so much better of a place than you - The person getting the donut will be better off if they have it The problem comes with discrediting other people's experience when everyone's experiences should be cared for <3
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 06:38 AM
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I didn't say anyone would take away anyone's right, but would it upset you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 06:25 AM
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Generalizations about a sex is typically what sexism is! So is universally discrediting what one sex says! Anyways, back to my ORIGINAL POINT, if women complained about hating men, would that upset you? Yes, or no? It's a simple question.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 06:11 AM
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how am I a troll? explain please
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 06:05 AM
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.. What do you mean "back"? Misogyny didn't start in the 1970s lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:59 AM
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Maybe those are 'extreme sexist cases' but that is this sub's front page rn lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:39 AM
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So a woman saying, "I hate men" doesn't upset you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 05:28 AM
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I'm dating a feminist socialist. No, I do not think that is OP's point
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:27 AM
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Not really. Protection to me means look after me and my interests. I look after him too
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 04:20 AM
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Strong, tall, assertive, takes care of me emotionally
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:48 AM
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I don't really think your take is correct. My partner is a traditionally masculine man, but a feminist and in touch with his feelings. I think the women in a man's early life are very important in determining how dateable he is later on. Anyways. For one, why would I want a man to protect me? Be specific, protect me from what? The only thing I would be afraid of is other men lol. Being invested in a relationship is not a 'masculine' trait, it is called "liking someone." Don't really care about w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 03:42 AM
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It should be the law that no one can turn me down
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 11:29 PM
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Not..really. These religious communities are typically pretty reclusive. I don't think a random man would get access to hoards of women in ultra-religious communities. I'm not sure why ya'll are so stuck on the past. The past is the past for a reason. If a man is struggling with 'modern women' I don't think he would automatically be a hot commodity to a religious community.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 02:14 PM
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Small study, obviously, but honestly the results are about what i would expect
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 08:23 AM
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Yeah. I want to get married
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 08:50 PM
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I would disagree. Women I know regularly date stupid shitty guys and seem pretty immune to the opinions of others, including myself at some point
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:58 AM
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No. Bars are an example of a setting that is intended to be social. A parking lot late at a night is not one of those settings, for example. You can approach whoever you want at a bar, but you also have to have basic human social skills and understand when someone is obviously not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:28 PM
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Not my "social circle", random men can be disgusting to women they have no relationship to. But I've also dated badly, I didn't know any better. Generally high education young 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:00 AM
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No. You read the opposite of what I just said, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:17 AM
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Nope lol. Very wounded by men I've never dated or selected
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:07 AM
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Red flags in terms of other mental health issues, sure. But it seems like your argument is missing context. Women don't randomly wake up hating men, but I, and a lot of women, are exhausted by the number of abusive men. Honestly women could complain about what they experience much more than they actually do
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 04:40 AM
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I just don't really see either of these two "problems" as real. Men on this sub keep using the amount of sex people get as some sort of metric of value, and honestly, it's fucking exhausting. Ugly men can get ass if they're confident and fun. Hot men may get almost no ass if they're shy, and more selective. I also don't think less attractive girls punching above their weight is too much of a problem. If someone is genuinely punching too high.. no one will date them, and they'll figure it out, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/23 08:00 AM
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Yeah. A lot of maladjusted individuals circulate this sub, but yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 04:48 PM
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Mean? He raped me multiple times love
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 06:37 AM
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Since you're asking all of these PROBING questions, my sex drive isn't normal. It really doesn't take much for me to be attracted to someone. They just can't look scrawny or ill, or have weird skin
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 05:34 AM
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My uber driver asked me if I was "safe" and if I wanted to "go home" when he saw him
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 05:24 AM
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Nah I was super into him
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 05:15 AM
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I would have been perfectly happy with my ugly man had he been nice to me. I was fine with "settling" but he was too much of a piece of shit for me to function as a human being or have self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 05:04 AM
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To be honest I think they should be pursued more as business transactions
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 04:23 AM
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Your "study" would be more impactful if you included people in unhappy relationships. Truly, nothing can make a woman more miserable than a loser man. I also found this, so not sure if your info is accurate lol https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2019/may/25/women-happier-without-children-or-a-spouse-happiness-expert Instead of dropping obscure studies, what is your goal? What are you requesting women do?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 03:38 AM
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No. A "pick me" is not going to have a positive outlook towards men. Being a pick me comes from low self-esteem and desperation. Healthy people don't need to scream pick me at their own detriment for affection
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 06:53 AM
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Probably. I don't want to be some weird white secret lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 08:41 AM
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Why are there children's rights advocates? Adults deserve rights too!!!!!!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 03:51 AM
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The "sponsoring" idea isn't horrible. In the past I've had guy friends that I would absolutely never introduce to my female friends. Now, after I've grown more, I don't have those types of people in my life at all. This particular app doesn't seem like it will succeed, but I'm definitely pro-sponsorship when it comes to planning social events for singles. Women and men don't experience dating the same way. Worst case, men meet a fattie, and worst case women get [r@ped](mailto:r@ped). Having a sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 03:46 AM
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Ok, but harsh moral judgments are typically imposed on one group and not the other
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:30 AM
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and who said these are the men anyone wants? no offense
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:14 PM
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No lol. You're talking really grossly about the girls you want to "settle down with." Idk. No man I'd ever consider dating speaks this way. It gives very... "I was attractive in high school but got overweight very quickly, and make $60,000 a year after my trade school with unresolved anger towards women" energy. Not saying thats u tho
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:43 AM
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Gross way to talk about your "chaste good girl"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:37 AM
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What makes you think they want to settle with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:33 AM
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Yeah I don't really see "longer lasting" as a good thing, necessarily. A lot of women don't have experience because of emotional damage btw lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:33 AM
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Because there isn't a non-sexist reason you'll be able to muster to make it not a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:26 AM
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Sorry I misread nvm
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 03:24 AM
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sry im tired
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:58 AM
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Seems like a weird assumption. Dating and being serious with someone is, in a way, like finding a best friend. There are a lot of people you can enjoy sex with but not experience that deep of an emotional bond with
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:53 AM
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I don't get it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 02:51 AM
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Tbh. Eh
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:29 AM
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I mean yeah, we know what men generally think, we want to know what types of men think what lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 01:08 AM
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That would be hurtful if it were true
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:45 AM
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I guess I don't see promiscuity as necessarily a one night stand, it can be having a lot of boyfriends over a spread out period of time. It's not that hard to have a lot of experience if you don't enter a committed relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:42 AM
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I feel like a high value man, by definition, has standards
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:40 AM
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Yet somehow, we keep repeatedly doing that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:38 AM
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People cheat at alarming rates. I think it's genuinely moronic when people say things like: "I hate cheaters so much!!" Because it's like.. don't talk about your mom that way lol. Anyways, everyone has the capacity to cheat, but that doesn't mean they will. You should set boundaries with people so things can never reach a certain point.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:32 AM
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Seems like a weird comment...the more someone interacts with a demographic the less they like them. That doesn't say great things bout men lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 12:10 AM
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There's a difference between other women liking him and him putting his penis in all of them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 02:44 PM
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Nothing is more cheap than a man's attention lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:53 AM
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It's really not that common
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 03:50 AM
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Thank you. Nothing bad happened to me because you said I was lying. Guys! I was never assaulted! My dragon dungeon said I was not! Whew. What a relief
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 06:49 AM
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Really jealous of the lucky girl that has your attention
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:24 AM
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Shifted the goal post really weirdly my love
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:23 AM
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He was an acquaintance. He wasn't my friend. An acquaintance is not a friend. I never said this behavior was out of the norm, but when I asked this question in reverse men got defensive and said it wasn't their job to help women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 03:20 AM
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ya but I don't fault those people in that situation
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:53 AM
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I didn't call you gay, and she doesn't have to be your type, but she is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:46 AM
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No one said it was your job, just don't pretend to be helpful if you aren't helpful
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:45 AM
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Yet another smart, cool, and emotionally intelligent take. Wow. And yet they say women don't need men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:37 AM
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I'm sure they'd say that, but that doesn't change the fact that men regularly overlook gross behaviors of their friends and acquaintances, and in general aren't that "protective" unless they see a direct benefit to themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:30 AM
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You can.. call for help? You're acting like you've never helped anyone in your life lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:25 AM
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You don't do that good of a job at that as a group You don't have to attack someone to help them. There are a lot of ways to protect and help people
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:19 AM
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​ Again, she made her choice and expect men to clean up. This is something a 7th grader would say because their parents are rightfully ignoring them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:16 AM
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but you didn't bring up the times you were in dangerous spots but nearby men didn't intervene. That would be a 30 page long story
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:09 AM
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I can be assaulted and feel unsafe. I'm not sure what you're trying to say. I don't know. Make sure someone isn't kidnapped? Call the police?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 01:06 AM
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I feel like you mistook the point of my post in the most embarrassing way possible. Anyways. Ways I've helped men: My male acquaintance was throwing up and peed himself. I took him back to his dorm and made sure the cops didn't see us. I didn't expect him to thank me, or eat me out, I simply did this because I wanted him to not d*e or ruin his life. I've given homeless men money and food on numerous occasions I called the police when a man overdosed near my building At a party, a female acquaint…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:59 AM
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They're actively fighting lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:55 AM
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People on this app. I also regularly see the most disgusting, vile, abusive men pretend to be protective
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:49 AM
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ew
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:47 AM
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She still looks fine
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:44 AM
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Strong feelings for someone you've never met and don't know?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:44 AM
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They're above average women. You shouldn't be disgusted by them and think you're straight. Also, women don't bully men they find ugly in large groups like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:43 AM
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I never said they are correlated, I said I think a lot of misogynists might be gay and not know it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:41 AM
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There is more overlap than you think
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:40 AM
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I'm an idiot because you can't read the word "some"? Interesting. Reported lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:39 AM
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I said some
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:39 AM
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something tells me you never treated women that great <3
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:37 AM
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no what is it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:37 AM
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You're not supposed to help people just so they thank you and get a card, though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:36 AM
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Are you trying to communicate something of value? I can't tell
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:35 AM
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I don't mean help them tie their shoes. I mean in SA/SH contexts. Do you have a source on that? Would love to see. People are also allowed to feel things lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:32 AM
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odd
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:30 AM
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We didn't say we want help. We said we want you to stop acting like you're helping us if you aren't helping us
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:29 AM
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Is he standing by idly while you’re being preyed upon? Watching it all take place repeatedly and never doing anything? Ya No, but learning about it later and taking their side
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:29 AM
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Nice perfect victim narrative
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:27 AM
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Victim points? Where can I cash in?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:25 AM
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yes i did sry
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:30 PM
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No it's not. A man I've been related to has never protected me from predators in my fucking life lol. Also.. some men beat up their wives?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:28 PM
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I'm talking about misogynists, not normal men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:27 PM
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No stranger is worth getting shot over. Too many people illegally carrying around weapons in the US. I’m not getting involved unless she’s my girl. Fine..but you also shouldn't talk about how protective you are or complain about the burden it is to be a 'protective man' lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:27 PM
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Typo. I added "and made me feel unsafe." How would he know I Feel unsafe? Context. For example, if my vagina is being grabbed at a concert I am not responding and seem scared, I am probably not interested. Or, if I'm walking in a dark street and a group of men keep following me and making weird noises, and I'm not responding. Idk. I think a lot of men aren't emotionally intelligent so maybe this is more of an ask than I expected
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:24 PM
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no thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:17 PM
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I feel like men get what they want from women and all still angry. For ex: get all the sex they want, and still hate them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:17 PM
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Thanks for the niche story that doesn't show anything
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:16 PM
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I mean boobs are just..there. Actually protecting and helping is an action you have to do
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:12 PM
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Eh. A decent amount of them are married with kids. I haven't seen women act this way in large groups towards a fine looking man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:09 PM
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Women are just more attractive though
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:04 PM
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These women are influencers. I don't think they're doing it to get her attention lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 09:03 PM
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if a man protects his wife from an intruder in their home he can be criminally charged... Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:58 PM
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There are different types of gays
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:57 PM
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Depends. I mean. She can also get raped. Sure, you should know what's going on before you get involved Maybe That's not true lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:56 PM
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No one said that, but you also shouldn't brag about it if you never do it? I would call 911 I've given homeless men a lot of money and snacks over the years
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:47 PM
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If it’s their own family yes Not even in my experience, unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:33 PM
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I don't get it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:40 PM
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He didn't really open up about anything
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:39 PM
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That's a good point, but a lot of people have the means and willfully don't go
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:05 AM
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Creators? What? I doubt you have been told no and kicked in the nuts in front of a crowd of your peers. No I was just molested lol but bullying is also sad
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:01 AM
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You're right. I want to get pregnant by a guy that has the emotional skills of a toddler that can never speak about this feelings and im sure all women would feel the same
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 05:00 AM
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It's worth it for some of ya'll
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:58 AM
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I did. Now I have treated PTSD from going to therapy. I also went to therapy pretty much right after I became an adult, when I could legally go and not get all of my shit disclosed to my family.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 04:38 AM
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No one is making you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:58 AM
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Idk that could make someone sad. I don't think that's that weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:56 AM
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you seem upset
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:51 AM
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Yep. Lmao. Do you want me to be embarrassed? Nooo Jay10033 I'm so embarrassed about the anonymous shit you pulled from my account I use primarily for venting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:49 AM
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I'm not upset at men for being sensitive. I'm annoyed that what I described in my post is a common place yet they're still stereotyped as being so much more stoic and emotionally equipped
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:47 AM
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It's labeled a debate
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:45 AM
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Bro men didnt allow us to go to war lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:44 AM
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I don't think I've ever posted about being rejected by a crush in 7th grade because it was not a deeply traumatic event. Idk what you're talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:43 AM
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I think the point of my post was that context matters, not just reactions from people
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:41 AM
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I would be a cop. It'd be fun. They just don't make that much and with my brain I can make more than that. I'm a feminist and don't really care if every workspace is 50-50. That's not my goal. I care about women being in positions of corporate leadership, because companies are more profitable. I care about women being in government because political decisions impact everyone, and men that don't understand my body and are 90 years old don't know that much about me or what I need, but a 30 year ol…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:33 AM
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A woman wants surgery to appear younger, and you can it 'toxic feminity.' Interesting. What demographic likes virgins? What demographic gets grossed out by leg hair? What demographic likes women to look young?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 03:32 AM
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What? " Bad things happen to men and women. I'm not saying that they don't."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 02:07 AM
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Not too many women going to war throughout history. And whose fault is that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:31 AM
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Read my first sentence again
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:27 AM
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Yeah, I've seen this. It's a bit confusing because the most accepted numbers seem to be 1/4 for women and 1/8 for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:27 AM
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Yeah. It's pretty hard for a whole community to not like you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:20 AM
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Brother A is more my type. He seems more extroverted and independent. I'm more extroverted and independent, so it's about compatibility. I don't know Probably A. I like people who view friends as an important part of their life, because I feel that way. That makes B less attractive. If I was single, maybe? Idk. I hate to sound pompous but I don't really have to settle in my life. I have a lot to offer. He sounds fine, but not particularly exceptional or unique. Probably not. I feel like it's rat…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:20 AM
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Yeah that's too bad
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:50 PM
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Seems like an enormous generalization
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:46 PM
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Keep telling yourself that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:46 PM
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It's hard to get support if you don't talk about anything
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:45 PM
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I was actually trying to be nice it wasn't an attack lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:44 PM
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Yeah getting SA'd is really fun and cool. It's like getting a new pet I can show my friends
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:43 PM
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You're free to read statistics
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:43 PM
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I don't know if that's true since you make up the majority of inmates
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:42 PM
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Kind of. First point was an issue which made me less compelled to keep reading
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:42 PM
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I feel like dv statistics and murder rates show we are not being treated better by partners, no. Going to therapy is a sign of maturity lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:41 PM
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I think tying your dating life, sex life, or lack of dating life/sex life to your worth is horrible for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:40 PM
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It's still job to fix yourself if you're that out of touch with your feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:39 PM
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Mhm
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 11:38 PM
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Why haven't you seen a sexual assault statistic before? Look it up yourself. It's not hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:35 PM
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It's not about just the emotion, it's about what it's in response to and how proportional it is to the triggering event.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:34 PM
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Uh.. Maybe. But what are the reasons behind the emotional instability?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:24 PM
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I feel like if you never get over it you're not that resilient? That's not what resilient means lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:23 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:21 PM
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No. Stop saying you're a "group" with other men because you are not. A lot of men have close friendships and people to confide in. It's sad that you clearly do not, but it's not a problem everyone can relate to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:17 PM
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Yeah but they deleted it bc I went to bed and didn't change the flare in time
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:15 PM
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Yeah I had to repost this because they wanted me to change the flare and whateva. As in my first sentence, I know a lot of men have horrific problems. A lot also just seem debilitated by weird problems and I haven't seen that with women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:14 PM
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I mean. Speak for yourself lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 09:13 PM
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I don't know if that's necessarily true. Plenty of ugly, and unpleasant men feel entitled to sex pots
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:09 PM
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... So you say. I rode the uggo carousel in my teens before settling with a gorgeous man
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:08 PM
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Working class people have college degrees too. There are a lot of predatory universities or horribly ranked universities.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:07 PM
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I feel like a lot of the men that genuinely think that don't touch grass. Idk if ya'll have seen who is getting married, but hoards of ugly, working class men are regularly getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:53 PM
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if it's a long-term complaint, yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:56 AM
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I dont see women doing that Mk You seem excited about hitting women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 05:12 AM
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Ok. Other men would probably care. Zac Efron. Justin Bieber. If you get slightly slapped you shouldn't knock someone out, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:57 AM
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Mods changed it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:53 AM
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I mean yeah. Women haven't been conditioned as a threat to you because they typically don't go out of their way to harm you. That's because they are the center of rom coms and advance fine professionally. I never said that was good?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:53 AM
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I just said no one should smack anyone. Learn how to read
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:51 AM
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Women don't really do that to men so it's not a problem. If an elderly woman with no teeth said disgusting things to you on the subway I'm sure you'd be a little concerned. Don't really see that Idk. Fat men are treated better than fat women for some reason Men are physically stronger than women so that's a stupid comparison, but no one should hit anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:45 AM
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pirrrrrated ? Wat
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:43 AM
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Sure. It's just weird when we grow up being told how fragile women are and that really doesn't seem to be true at all
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:40 AM
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I'm not implying anything I'm repeating what I've been told
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:37 AM
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huh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:34 AM
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Don't tell me what I do and don't think lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:30 AM
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I don't think having your crush that doesn't know you exist is the equivalent of having your partner beat you, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 04:27 AM
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I'm saying they're not trying to be exceptional. I never said they had to be exceptional. No one has to "match." It's not women's fault that they're happier alone than being with someone mediocre to them
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 09:22 PM
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men try to be exceptional? lol ok. Try succeeding next time
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:44 AM
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Not really. The gender ratio is equal lol. If you're being categorically rejected by the gender you're trying to date, do some self-reflection. People seem to blame everyone but themselves for their dating failures
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:35 AM
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Anyone can be a rapist, really. Sure. What I will say is there are certain power dynamics that come into play by differences in size alone between men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:08 PM
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Seems odd. I've been lonely as a woman before but didn't complain and call it an epidemic
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:06 PM
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I didn't say that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 03:41 AM
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Unattractive men have always treated me horrifically so I don't give chances anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:31 AM
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Why advocate for any "role." Not all people are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 02:30 AM
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Men that call women "sluts" are not HVM. Having that word even slip your mouth demonstrates how low value you are to most women with any dignity
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 08:16 PM
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men = baggage
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:48 AM
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My point is men who resonate with these insecurities, strongly, have issues (ex: calling women products). And no, no one is being "honest" here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:28 AM
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I have no stake here, just confused how men get upset a girl isn't sexual/sexually exploratory and then get upset when she explores lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:27 AM
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Doctors didn't use to wash their hands. That did not help the infant mortality rate so we do not do that anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:23 AM
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Calling women products does not bode well for you. It plays directly into my point lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:20 AM
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Yeah I miss when women didn't have choices
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:15 AM
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That's nice but that doesn't mean it's a healthy industry
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:13 AM
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Women can't want sex and be high quality? God lol. And then men complain their wives don't give them enough sexual attention
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:11 AM
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well i can have a job in this century now so I don't need "resources" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:07 AM
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why are you describing consensual sex as rape lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 06:02 AM
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That's not really how it works. Why are you assuming the "neighbor next door" is less attractive? At least for me, I settled down with the most attractive guy I've been with, by far.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:57 AM
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im not accepting it, just explaining it. it's obviously moronic
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:51 AM
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You quoted my thing so I thought you were talking about me. Nvm. I meant the specific women you were referring to, not weird theories lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:50 AM
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traditionalism lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:49 AM
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Models have health issues, do drugs, and experience a ridiculous amount of SA, so I don't know if what they do should be considered ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:46 AM
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Your last point isn't really true, because people change. As for who you value, I hope you "value" a partner for something other than the sex she has not had
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:45 AM
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elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:36 AM
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I feel like the social aspect of what you're saying is a given. Yes, you should avoid having sex with someone's friends if you are serious about them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:35 AM
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I mean it's not about like or dislike
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:31 AM
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I've been in a relationship for almost 6 years. Also, you're talking about what you want, what about them? If everyone is fine with casual sex, what's the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:30 AM
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... I mean going either way. Why does sex or not having sex have to be any kind of value judgment?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:29 AM
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why does anyone have to be shamed at all lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 05:15 AM
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Not really. I don't like it when a man nickles and dimes me. A man that is cheap will also be cheap with his emotions and time
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 04:32 AM
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What? No, if no one wants to date you at all, and no one ever has, and you're 50, let's say, you are in low demand on the dating pool, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 04:22 AM
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No one has to think this way lol. Genuinely, I'm just sick of men thinking that being overly fixated on sexual pasts is normal, because in most urban centers it is not. Women who sleep around do so for the following reasons: (1) High sex drive (2) Don't want to commit (3) they didn't find someone they liked enough to date (4) untreated mental illness if it's impulsive and unhealthy/trauma. #4 is treatable. Men with weird fixations (No, I don't mean "I would prefer if we had the same level of exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 04:21 AM
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For your first point, you took the logical chain I used and completely reversed it. That's not what I said. Is this bad? Are you complaining? I can't tell
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:49 AM
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I feel like you're missing the point and have said this before, and are missing the point again. No one is saying you're worthless unless you are dating. I am discussing all of this in relation to dating desirability
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:46 AM
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Good point. People are exactly the same between the ages of 18-60 with no change at all. Moral judgements about sex are really juvenile to me. At some points someone might want to have more casual sex. At other points in their life they want a more meaningful relationship. That's incredibly normal. I've also never met a man irl that was overly fixated on his gf's past sex life that didn't have a host of other issues
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:32 AM
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no just rich people with prospects who are attractive lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:18 AM
3

really? you're a Statistician now? let's leave that to the experts
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:18 AM
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Yeah that's.. your math. Not my math. Honestly no one I've ever talked to irl has ever said this cringe. Maybe I'm just good at filtering people out
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:16 AM
0

not about your body count
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:11 AM
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dating interest you get. note - does NOT mean sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:10 AM
2

huh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:09 AM
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Destroyed? Do you think men are predators? Dim view, my friend. Dim view.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 01:06 AM
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Huh? No.. I mean a certain type of men want virgins and many, many do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:58 AM
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A 10 for who? For a Christian man who goes to Church every day? Sure. For a Jewish-raised but now agnostic banker in New York City that wants women to step on his ears? A 1. You're assuming everyone has your values and they just don't. For example, I've never dated anyone with your values, or even close to your values.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:54 AM
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" Assortative mating is the process by which people of similar backgrounds, such as educational attainment or financial means"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:51 AM
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Ok. My family in Kentucky eats hot dogs, mac & cheese, and potatoes for holiday events, almost exclusively. Wealthier families do not do that. They have steak. They have huge buffets. They aren't exposed to food deserts and are more exposed to diversity, and are more used to different types of cuisines. Values? Ok. On a basic level, lower-income people are more generous in a way that upper-income people are not
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:49 AM
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I included a source in my post so i wouldn't have to have this exact stupid conversation lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:48 AM
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Poor and wealthy people rarely have the same values or food tastes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:46 AM
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I never said they don't date, but people are entering serious relationships, for the most part, with similar class-groups. Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 12:42 AM
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What do you mean "those women"? Ugly women? Chad doesn't usually have sex with women that are hideous when he has other options.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:19 AM
1

Are you calling Judith a liar?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:14 AM
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knowing what your league is
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:07 AM
-4

Watch judge judy. Fat, otherwise grotesque men have 10 illegitimate children. Watch Maury.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:58 AM
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... Does it? Ugly men have sex with other ugly people pretty easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:51 AM
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past about what? is she a felon lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:37 AM
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Not sure how helpful stereotypes are, even if they're true. It leads to women abusers being overlooked, women with autism being misdiagnosed and ignored, etc. I don't really see this as true, though. Men don't seem to view anger as an emotion. Mostly men are in prison for being unable to control their emotions. Basically, men are so bad at controlling their emotions there is a whole business and prison system devoted to containing them. Meanwhile, what do most women do when they're upset? Cry?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 02:43 AM
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Painfully bad argument lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 07:49 PM
1

Ok. Roofies are also an effective method.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:40 AM
0

What? Everyone does that. Everyone is weary when they get burned lol, men included
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 01:39 AM
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Ok. Sure. A lot of women don't. It's still annoying behavior borderline predatory if you lie to someone to get sex. It's not that far from drugging them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 01:22 AM
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Ok fine. It's like signing up to volunteer at a soup kitchen when you have no intention of going. It's annoying and stupid behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 01:12 AM
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ok. im venting. i dont care lol. this is a stupid conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 01:11 AM
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In Western Europe it's not "really low" and that is where the support is strong. It's lower in the Soviet bloc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 01:10 AM
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Relationships aren't a 'game'
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 01:09 AM
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Men complain women look sickly when they don't wear makeup, or gay. Men complain they are being 'gaslit' when women wear makeup. It's insufferable, really
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 01:08 AM
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I do
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 01:07 AM
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why? men dont wear it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 12:21 AM
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not really?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:49 PM
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You can date men if makeup upsets you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:48 PM
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I think a lot of single men hate women and think bitterness will make them succeed, somehow
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:48 PM
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Makeup isn't really a disguise. If women without makeup gross you out you can date men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:47 PM
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Voting doesn't really matter. Look around you, lol. Fertility rate doesn't = good. Ethiopia has a great fertility rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:46 PM
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im not a man
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:11 PM
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That's honestly not coercive at all lmao. The amount of deadbeats that pretend to want to be dads is astronomical
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 11:00 PM
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It's really not their fault at all. It's the result of our political system, which is predominately a male institution, failing to secure benefits and resources for women and new mothers, especially in the United States, and failing to protect new mothers in hospitals (extremely high maternal mortality rates in the USA). Seems like in general women are expecting significantly more of men in a lot of ways than they did in the 1950s, for example, and if men can't meet those expectations they are f…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:59 PM
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Not really. Lying to a hospital and telling them I'm a surgeon when I'm not a surgeon doesn't mean I am qualified to be a surgeon, or skilled in that way
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:55 PM
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Yeah... what? Women love compliments and being showered. I've dated so many ugly creatures just because they showered me with love and compliments.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:27 PM
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USA. I would say here we just weirdly police sexual behavior and complain people are too sexual or not sexual enough
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:24 PM
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I agree with that, but even then, continuing to sexually pursue a woman that's being delusional is dangerous
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:23 PM
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This post isn't really directed at that demographic alone, but the demographic that thinks this behavior isn't that harmful when they're constantly called told off by wounded women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:21 PM
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"I love you so much. We should have sex. I love you so much and I think we should get married later so why not just have sex now?" Meanwhile, man has no intention of a long-term relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:17 PM
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The mom in the barbie movie wasn't 'incompetent' she just felt incompetent, which is reflecting of the studies, and the reality that men are over-praised while women are under-praised. Men generally complain about societal issues the patriarchy created for them, which is why it can be annoying to hear about. Women would be endlessly safer in the world if men didn't exist, but men would be just as unsafe if women didn't exist, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:04 PM
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A seems sweet, fun and cool. I would say yes to him. B is borderline. He's not my type physically (not that he's ugly), but seems genuine and like I'd enjoy talking to him. I would probably say no to C. I don't think he's unattractive, but I don't like when men have weird expectations of me before they meet, like I have to be "confident." Why do I have to be "confident?" Are you going to bully me? I don't want to be 'confident' all the time. I have high emotional needs and a need a partner under…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 10:00 PM
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enough for... what
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 10:54 PM
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You sound like you're from Texas or something and should probably stay there. What gift? Me standing there and looking confused, because the "joke" was fucking moronic? Do you know how tiring it is to say "har har" to every stupid joke a stranger makes to you throughout the course of your life when you're trying to go about doing errands and mind your business? They're not trying to make any type of relationship with me, they're trying to say a stupid comment, and then leave. Not everyone is ent…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 10:48 PM
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it wasn't the point of that comment. the poster also didnt have a captive audience
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 10:42 PM
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not mad at you. just dont understand the point of laughing at jokes strangers make to me when they're so horrifically unfunny i can't even pretend to smile without looking in pain. and yeah im much funnier than the men im complaining about lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 10:35 PM
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you're free to do that. it gets old very quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 10:26 PM
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Yeah. They have more real trauma than men. Meanwhile, men are still traumatized from their middle school relationships as adults, and can't regulate their emotions enough to stay out of prison
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 10:25 PM
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interesting. they're incredibly stale to me. maybe you should fuck them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 10:22 PM
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ew
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 10:21 PM
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none of them have any interest in "breaking the ice" or getting to know me. they want to say stupid shit then leave. i dont understand why
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 10:00 PM
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interesting flex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:59 PM
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i exude that energy and still have this problem
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:26 PM
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no thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:26 PM
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Ur right. I should've laughed because these jokes are so hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 09:25 PM
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Why? Any woman? Attractive women?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 08:10 PM
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Ok but do these jokes do well with anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 08:09 PM
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U guys are so mentally strong. That's why you keep killing yourselves lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 08:00 PM
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Not trying to antagonize. Genuinely trying to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 07:58 PM
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I already have met this man and have kept him for a long-time. I met him at my ivy league undergrad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:42 PM
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Indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 02:09 PM
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Yes. Men regularly have to pretend to be liberal or apolitical to get sex
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 03:56 AM
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Yes and no. I agree with you to an extent, but women with autism are much more likely to get sexually taken advantage of, because they often come off as naive in a way autistic men do not. I have also seen autistic girls get made fun of ruthlessly in grade school
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 03:23 AM
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Why do you think that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 02:16 AM
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Except hes not lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 02:15 AM
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Nah. It's exploited by men lol. I'm a female that went through a "hoe" phase, that was pretty severe. Why? Honestly, trauma that wasn't processed properly. I eventually chilled out. In the meantime I was constantly berated by men for not putting out for them, or putting out for them too quickly. It was absolutely exhausting. We as a society have encouraged sexuAl lIberAtion for women while not doing anything to ensure their sexual safety. Too many men are predators and that is just the reality o…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 02:31 AM
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I'm sure they are enjoying themselves. Worry about yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 02:27 AM
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Men can't hire lawyers? Huh
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 12:44 AM
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Juvenile question. Are you trying to be annoying, or are you genuinely asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 03:43 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 03:43 AM
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Honestly every time I try to offer advice they lash out. Similar to how most men act in couple's therapy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 11:43 PM
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True. Who can wear a condom? Men, or women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 11:43 PM
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Men can make many more children than women ever can so this argumnet is bad
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 10:13 PM
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Thats funny bc he literally does exist lol. He's not an actual model, he just looks like one! thx tho
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 10:12 PM
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I never said they were perfect, but you're acting like their loserishness is equal when that's absolutely not true. One parent stayed and dealt with the consequences, the other did not. They are not the same. The fact that you can't tell is a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 08:29 PM
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I said if.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 08:23 PM
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I just dont think you like women very much and have a hard time holding people to the same standard
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 08:23 PM
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What? Not all of you are entitled to date me, specifically. Sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 08:22 PM
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That's called parental alienation, which is illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 08:21 PM
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Throwing who to the wolves? Many men have very healthy, normal dating lives. If you're failing miserably, it's a you problem
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 08:20 PM
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No it's just not what it's called lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 08:18 PM
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Wouldn't he be the dumbass, and she's just a pushover?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 08:18 PM
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You could just say sex worker
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 08:11 PM
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"Whores?" You're going to be more judgmental than Jesus Christ? Weird. Anyways. Sure. Maybe one vindictive ex would. But many about the same guy? Doubtful. Very doubtful.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 08:08 PM
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Im ok thx though
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 08:08 PM
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You're really arrogant and I'm not sure why. You don't know what you're talking about at all. Most custody situations are never even contested, and the mother is the primary guardian by default (with the father's consent). The default situation if there are no major issues between the parents is joint custody that is relatively 50-50%. It's extremely hard for a man to not get any access to his children. You think the court systems in family law should be 50% male? Lol. Ok. Promise you nothing wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:56 PM
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Sex workers regularly share clients to make sure men aren't abusive, and I'm not sure why women in general can't do the same. A man shouldn't be able to assault 50 people before other people find out about it, and the criminal justice system is not helpful at all. Most abusive behavior never makes it to criminal court. I understand why men who do weird things would be apprehensive, like if you compulsively lie to have sex with women, like most of the men on this sub claim to do, you could get ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:47 PM
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You didn't say anything about that lol huh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:45 PM
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I'm biased because of the things that I have...seen, with my own eyes, in the real world. Huh. Ok. Weird argument. Your arguments honestly just suck in general. People regularly get divorced. Why do you think that is? Do you think that the person they married remained the complete same, and then the partner just randomly thought, "Oh, i dont want them anymore!" No, lol. PEOPLE CHANGE. I never said single mothers were perfect. Even if her taste in men does suck, she was ultimately the responsible…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:43 PM
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Every race can have loserish fathers
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:39 PM
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Why do you think people regularly get divorced?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:39 PM
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I used to thot around quite a bit. I came a total of one time. It was really pathetic. Meanwhile, I got an STI, beat up, and other disturbing and traumatic things kept happening. So, in other words, it is a very low yield activity
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:34 PM
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Every time I have "settled" for a man physically I've been treated like absolute garbage. My current chad/model partner that is 6'5 treats me like a queen. I almost feel like if you give guys that are too ugly a chance they combust and don't know how to handle it. Where I disagree is that male loneliness is a problem. I'm not going to say everyone male that is lonely deserves it, or anything like that, but considering how many men are grossly overweight, hate women, or have no hobbies or career …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:31 PM
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Men struggle to wear condoms, so maybe don't criticize our ability to properly use birth control lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:29 PM
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How? They are responsible. They're staying with the child. What are you saying
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:27 PM
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Just because you can detect it doesn't mean you can detect every single person
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:25 PM
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Simplistic, kind of just dumb argument. People change rapidly. If they didn't, divorce rates wouldn't be as high as they are lol. You think people would get divorced if they stayed the same forever?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:24 PM
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You seem to be taking these really hard-lined, weird stances, that have no bearing on real life
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:24 PM
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Statistics about who ends up in prison are framed in a way that suggest "single mothers" are a problem and does not mention "absent fathers"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 07:23 PM
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i mean yeah, id abort the shit out of that and think its weird that someone else wouldnt do that. our options are dwindling though
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:28 PM
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I never said u guys would get women pregnant calm down Also Scandinavia has a pretty high birth rate lol. Italy and Spain is struggling rn
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:24 PM
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That doesn't mean anything when you don't know why divorces are happening. I brought that up because people typically divorce because they become unhappy, or something changes for whatever reason
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:23 PM
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Never said she was perfect. There's a difference between not being perfect and actively making dumb decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:18 PM
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Can't even express how untrue any of this is
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:17 PM
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People get divorced regularly
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:11 PM
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Don't assume that a deadbeat is honest. They regularly lie about their children and how many they have. I've had deadbeat clients swear to me that they "didn't know" a woman that a DNA test confirmed he had a child with, and another client with texts begging for a baby then ignoring the mother's request to take the toddler to a park
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:11 PM
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Deadbeats say this, then discovery happens and it's very obvious the deadbeat is full of shit. This situation happens every time. It's almost never true. Men that get in weird deadbeat like situations are compulsive liars
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:08 PM
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Why do you think people get divorced? People change
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:06 PM
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#1 -> Men regularly lie about the existence of their children #2- Not necessarily #3 Not necessarily
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:06 PM
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Really stupid argument that I already addressed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:02 PM
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I dont trust "The american spectator" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:01 PM
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Right. And she didn't leave, hence the term single mom
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:01 PM
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Yeah I hate to tell you this but your first sentence is not true lol. You think deadbeats are attractive? Hm. Hard "I dont think so" from me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 11:00 PM
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Excellent question. "They'd be on the hook for child support." Lmao. If you don't make any money your child support isnt gonna be very much is it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 10:37 PM
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Men hide their past children all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 10:36 PM
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No, you really are not
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 10:35 PM
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Don't act like men aren't like, "oooh so excited for our baby" then get the milk and never come home lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 10:35 PM
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Long enough? Your comment is just stupid. People change and divorce in marriage all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 10:34 PM
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Most men don't want 50% of custody so there is never even a dispute lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 10:33 PM
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That makes no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 08:25 PM
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From my experience, that's not really true. Men get praised for spending time with their child once a month sometimes. Don't think women "gatekeep" both parties have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 08:14 PM
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Men are the major beneficiary of marriage lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 08:13 PM
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Never said that. A lot of them are losers, but there's a difference between being a loser that is there for your child and being a loser that is not there for your child. That makes you much more of a loser
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 08:11 PM
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I disagree. Men can pretend they're not losers, and then end up showing their loserishness at a later time
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 07:40 PM
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Idk I don't really agree with that at all
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 07:34 PM
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Lower how?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 07:26 PM
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If you're a single mother by choice you probably have a great support system and financial resources. So, no, I don't agree with you. Most of the negative statistics you have involve mothers that were not single mothers by choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 04:56 PM
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Me: divorce rates arent important U: u diD not aDdRess my StaTistics do u see how that does not make sense. Why is it self-evident? Are you afraid to share, because it's gonna sound weird?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:46 AM
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I asked you if you have another reason. Go ahead. What is a better wife? Explain please
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:37 AM
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Because you say "better wives" and that is the sole reason men on here have ever used. Unless there is some other secret perk. How does it not? I talk about how divorce rates really aren't that important. At all. Which is your whole post
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:30 AM
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Divorce rates are pretty worthless, if you're comparing countries where women have the financial means to leave their husbands (generally) to countries where they do not. There are also differences with power discrepancies with mail order brides, making all of your comparisons pretty useless. I also don't view divorce as a good or bad thing. People change within a 10 year span. That shouldn't be that hard for people to believe or accept. Dating a foreign woman is fine. Taking advantage of someon…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 03:25 AM
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Can you not read?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 10:33 PM
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It's kind of dumb you're frustrated at women and acting like they're afraid for absolutely no reason whatsoever
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 10:31 PM
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That's an essay, but let's start with "our." Not all men have the same preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:57 AM
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? What. Is this your second day on Earth? Feel free to google "difficulties for women in STEM." Have you noticed you demand empathy but are unwilling to give any to other people lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:50 AM
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Do you know how to use the Internet? Not trying to be condescending I just don't understand how you don't know this, to be honest. I had to do a book report on your stupid question in the third grade so I'm not sure why you're clueless on it. Please research "the pay gap reasons" and stop speaking to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:41 AM
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It isn't required that he "knows" what's creepy. Women shouldn't have to teach grown adults basic human decency and social skills. You're an autistic man? Sad. That's no one else's problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:38 AM
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and whose fault is that? it sure as shit is not mine lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:34 AM
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Most women don't hang out with men they find insufferable for long periods of time
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:33 AM
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If it's that hard of a skill you should take a class or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:33 AM
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why would your actions be misogynistic abuse? did someone specifically tell you that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:30 AM
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if it's that hard for you you should take a class or something, it's an important skill
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:30 AM
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im not a lesbian lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:29 AM
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Ok. Don't. No one is making you
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:29 AM
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I'm not going to argue about facts with you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 05:06 AM
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I'm not generalizing men. I'm saying that a lot of men show their true colors later on.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 05:03 AM
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Most reasons people attempt to come up with are just dumb. But you're free to try.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 05:02 AM
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No. I'm literally just explaining domestic violence basics to you, and you're taking issue with it, for some weird reason. Stick to topics you actually know please
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 04:59 AM
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Calling women that kind of a demonstrates a problem on your end but u do u
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 04:58 AM
1

I wouldn't say they are the "most" misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 12:37 AM
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Lol sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 12:36 AM
0

Huge gap between hating women for NOT getting something and hating men for getting stalked or abused
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:01 PM
1

Yeah, that's different than being a misogynistic. And yes, emotionally unavailable women will not like things that are good for them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:00 PM
2

#1: There are right and wrong settings to approach women, and I'm tired of men acting like it's so difficult. For example, public transit is typically the wrong setting. So is an empty parking lot. If you want to approach, go to a bar, join a club, or make friends. Lord. You can be disappointed, but no, you can't have a misogynistic fit because you aren't getting the results you want. You should introspect and figure out what isnt working
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:58 PM
1

I think if youre a traumatized woman and hate men you're going to date fucked up people until you get help, or self-destruct
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:54 PM
1

Let's not use the word "mad" because men get violent and weird, but feel free to go your own way peacefully!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:53 PM
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1.They probably shouldn't do it. It makes you seem judgmental and annoying in social settings, unless you live in Kansas, then that's probably fine I guess. 2.no one said that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:52 PM
1

I don't think it's a goal, it's just a useless emotion that doesn't help you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:51 PM
1

why would they date an ugly misogynist when they could date an ugly non-misogynist, or attractive misogynist/non-misogynist/women/no one?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:50 PM
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Men regularly lie and make false promises, and if they are good at it, women won't "stay away." There is also a difference between initial attraction in dating and being dysfunctional in dating. Both are failures, just different failures.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:49 PM
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I've explained this 8 times and I wish I could update my post but I cannot. No, initial attraction or interest is not all that is needed to "succeed" at dating. If you cannot date without getting faced with jailtime you are not succeeding.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:47 PM
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You don't have to date us, but I will say men regularly lie about being feminists and liberals to get access to our dating pool
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:46 PM
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Paternity tests exist
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:45 PM
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That's not a "cop out" at all, this has been established since the 1960s. Modernize please. No, saying abused women are "partially responsible" doesn't make you logical and smart, it makes you deficient lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:43 PM
1

Who is him?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:42 PM
-1

That makes no difference whatsoever
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:42 PM
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Yeah, as I have said many times, his dating life is suffering because he can't be in one without committing felonies. I'm not repeating myself again. Initial desire isn't all you need to be successful in dating. A lot of incels strike out there, and then gross men, like Chris, won't be able to have a functional relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 07:41 PM
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https://people.com/music/chris-brown-a-timeline-of-the-singers-legal-trouble/#:~:text=Brown%20was%20arrested%20for%20felony,to%20police%20spokeswoman%20Gwendolyn%20Crump.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 06:18 PM
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you're a horny man, not a woman. good try tho
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 06:17 PM
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Do you think he's honest with the women he is having sex with? I'm going to go with no
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 06:16 PM
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lol I'm in a long-term relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 06:14 PM
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If you cant date without committing a felony you're not succeeding
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 06:10 PM
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His behavior has landed him in jail on numerous occasions. THAT IS NOT SUCCESS. JESUS CHRIST. If you can't interact with the opposite sex without committing a felony, you are not thrivivng
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:13 AM
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no he raped people so that is not true lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 03:05 AM
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Yeah again there are different types of hate. Also, women can discern it, but abusive men hid it extremely well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:39 AM
-3

Yeah that is not success.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:37 AM
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I mean it doesn't have to be 100% to make a difference, though. Why would someone diddled be a bad wife LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:36 AM
11

Beyond horrific mentality
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:35 AM
5

??. You should treat them like a human being. What
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:20 AM
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I mean yeah. Lots of men respect that. Not sure where you live. Hope everything is ok over there
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:17 AM
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Medicated or not? I'm not going to say the study is worthless, but it is pretty old. Mental health has undergone a huge revolution since then. Also you seem to be forgetting about plain old trauma for the sources of this behavior, sexual trauma, that men, for the most part, would've given them. So it seems annoying to be judgmental of women about this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:16 AM
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No, they're actually probably some of the dumbest. The main reward of their behavior is getting the attention of a man who doesn't respect them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:15 AM
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I'm not straying away from your argument at all. You said, "women hate men more, wah" I said no, that is not true, when there are disparities in M-W/W-M violence, men hurt women significantly more. Then you were like, "what about all violence" which is an example of you "straying" from my argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:14 AM
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Yeah I think we have dif ideas about what a success in dating means
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:12 AM
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Really? More access to HVM? That's funny. It's difficult for straight women to find a man that knows how to get a non-moronic haircut and shower, while there are so many gorgeous, kind women willing to give you gifts and plan elaborate dates. I'm bisexual. Trust me, I know which gender is easier to date
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:10 AM
-1

Ok. Don't date us. What's the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:08 AM
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I feel like you're attempting to make this logical. Men typically think, or at least express, "ew, girl, a lot of seggs, icky" not, "I am concerned about my possible partner's mental health and do not think it will be sustainable."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:04 AM
1

Um... Source pls lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:02 AM
1

I don't need to take responsibility for anything because my life is good lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:01 AM
-5

Do you know how much more common it is for a man to kill a woman than the other way around ? Most women in jail for killing a man are there for self-defense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:00 AM
1

What do you mean "We?" Men speak to women all the time lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 12:59 AM
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You're not really successful in dating if you can't date without committing a felony, are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 12:57 AM
1

Your main assertion is kind of stupid. Men pretend to be kind to get sexual favors from women on a regular basis, but eventually show their true colors later on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 12:56 AM
1

Why are you responding if it doesn't address you?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 12:54 AM
1

That's often what they came off as, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 12:54 AM
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I mean his behavior with women has put him in jail. Is that success to you lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 12:53 AM
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No that is why I posted this
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:58 PM
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I don't think your take is bad. It's rational, you aren't "horribly fixated." I do feel like you could at least take comfort that if any of the men were that amazing, she would be with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:54 PM
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I feel like that demographic isn't really storming this subreddit, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:52 PM
3

Yeah that's called FAILING
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:48 PM
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Point #1: That's .. fine. But not necessarily true. People have different goals throughout their lives. A lot of men might also not treat them well, so rather than wondering who else is out there, they might be grateful someone is decent to them. It depends. Punishing people for poor past self esteem seems mean Women work now. A lot. Does that bother you? Paternity tests exist
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:48 PM
3

Not really. You kind of just lack pleasure in your life and get stomped on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:39 PM
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Commercializing your sex life is sex work
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:38 PM
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You don't hear about it because men love us (bpd girls) https://www.psypost.org/2020/06/men-are-drawn-to-borderline-personality-traits-in-physically-attractive-women-study-finds-56961
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:38 PM
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Really moronic argument when women contribute the majority of household labor. Try harder next time. No one is forcing you to date us lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:35 PM
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You're moving the goal post though between sexual partners and sex work
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:33 PM
1

Why are you assuming that is everyone's goal, though
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:32 PM
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There are a lot of horny women out there nowadays that don't require commitment. Lying to get it is gross behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:32 PM
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A lot of men are sexually deficient, unfortunately. So you wouldn't really be comparing yourself to that many other people, necessarily
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:30 PM
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Social welfare became a concept in the Victorian era because of women. Before then, men believed that low wages were a good thing for the economy. But pop off, "Natalia."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:28 PM
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Conservatives don't have 9 children anymore, for the most part, so I'm not sure what the hell you're talking about or what stupid point you're trying to make, but it's hurting my brain.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:26 PM
1

huh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:25 PM
1

Maybe. People can get help for mental health issues, so again, it's not really a lasting character trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:25 PM
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Why? Because you have an inability to introspect on your experiences, but blame everyone else? Yes, you're so right, it's women's fault they don't want to date you, a man who hates them. Again, GROW THE FUCK UP.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:24 PM
1

Yeah. So? Doesn't mean someone will act like that forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:22 PM
2

I don't think what he knows would matter when both parties can barely move
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:21 PM
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Yes. But reread my first sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:20 PM
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Not getting a date doesn't make you a victim. Hope you continue to experience no hardship, but at the same time, grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:19 PM
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I mean I dont really care about what you see. You don't see anything wrong with your behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 10:19 PM
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What? Never said you SHOULD have sex with someone because you're bored and lonely lol. Having sex with a lot of people doesn't mean you're a player, necessarily. A player is someone who pretends he wants to commit to a bunch of people to get sexual favors from women. That's gross, deceptive behavior, and is something different.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:16 PM
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Idk. Depends how recently it was. I'd be ok with that if it was a while ago
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:57 PM
2

To be honest I don't really see women saying that, but if they are they shouldn't be saying that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:56 PM
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Yeah again you have issues if you talk about women that way. Blatant misogyny is repulsive to most people. A non-misogynistic man would say, "Oh, I would want someone with a similar level as sexual experience as me" they wouldn't call women they wouldn't want to date dehumanizing language.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:54 PM
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I feel like this becomes more of a compatibility issue. If one partner likes doing something you think is disgusting you probably shouldn't date anymore. And no, that's different from sexual partners in a monogamous relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:54 PM
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I used the word 'fixation' for a reason in my title. My post didn't talk about STDs. Anyone can get an STD, and people can get treated for them. Have a conversation with your specific partner. That's really the only beneficial conversation to come from this. Assuming all of your statistics are true (i'm not looking at them), people seem to disregard the aspect of time. People have different sexual desires throughout their lives
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:52 PM
2

I'm not going to say zero but it isn't necessarily determitive, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:50 PM
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Im kind of sick of this same type of post repeatedly storming this subreddit. -Women have said thousands of times we don't care much about "muscle." I'm not sure how much more we have to say it. Hollywood's hottest women are simping over skinny ass dudes repeatedly -Stop with the weird financial lies about dating. Men and women date within their own socioeconomic statuses, so no, a 6 figure man isn't looking to benefit an impoverished woman, and is also seeking a 6 figure woman to date and build…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:48 PM
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You can tell if your standards are realistic based on whether or not people like you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:45 PM
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You're acting like poor women are regularly reaching above trying to scope rich men and "using their money." I am saying that's not true. Most women also work and do not completely rely on men for money. I'm not sure what you're having trouble understanding
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:43 PM
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Your sexual history is the basis of a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:41 PM
0

That sounds like a financial issue
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:41 PM
2

Sure, I can explain that. Abusive men tend to be very charismatic and charming before they unleash their true personalities. Most extreme violence happens to women trying to leave the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:40 PM
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No. Some women are promiscuous and feel very guilty about it. Some women really enjoy themselves. Some women are currently promiscuous. Some women were promiscuous 50 years ago and haven't been since
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:39 PM
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Oh ok. Don't feel shame then. I don't care. I haven't met any real life passport bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:33 PM
1

I'm not. I'm in a happy relationship. It's still just annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:30 PM
2

lol np
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:26 PM
0

You can have standards about women's appearance, intelligence, values, and personality. You know. Things that actually matter. The more you're pulling, the higher your standards can be. I also said many times women shouldn't judge men for their consensual sexual pasts, either. Don't respond like an infant, please.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:25 PM
2

my post didn't talk about this
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:24 PM
1

I can call them dumb, which I am doing
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:23 PM
2

It's in the title.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:21 PM
3

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:21 PM
-9

Not really. Most couples are from the same socioeconomic class.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:20 PM
-4

That's nice. I don't need to date them either. I don't care about what random celebrities have to say
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:17 PM
2

I've said women should also not have THIS specific standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:15 PM
4

Sure. Go call a grandmother a whore because she had a lot of sex when she was 16, and has now been happily married for 60 years. That wouldn't be weird or maladjusted behavior at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:12 PM
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It's not really my job to protect or police your feelings. I'm sorry if you feel "ashamed" but that's not really my problem. I'm basing this off of experience. I've never thought "rats...he's so cute and awesome but he wants to go to Cambodia to find his wife...ugh... fml..." I don't know a single western woman to ever thought this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:11 PM
3

Yes. And that's stupid, which is my whole point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:09 PM
0

Ah, yes. Your outward values to the world is the exact same thing as a partner's body count that you would never be able to discern, almost as if it doesn't impact anything or have any outward expression at all without them telling you, are exactly the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:08 PM
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-Not cheating -Men do this, also not cheating -Annoying but not cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:07 PM
3

I'm not going to make a false equivalency to something I didn't post about. Make your own post.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:06 PM
6

Not really. People aren't promiscuous forever. It's not like everyone has the same drive and interests throughout their entire lives. That's kind of a weird assertion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:04 PM
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I'm not advocating for someone to do that. I used the term "fixation" in my post for that reason. But for the most part, no, you shouldn't be overly invested in someone else's consensual sex life if they arent cheating on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:03 PM
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It's not really a strawman at all. If you fail at getting pussy in Canada you are not going to immediately succeed enormously in another non-impoverished and war-torn nation. You either have game or you don't. You're either ugly or you're not. It's not that complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 07:02 PM
1

I care because it's annoying to hear about.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:58 PM
3

Childish response
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:57 PM
6

Men cheat too, at similar rates. Don't be weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:56 PM
2

Hard disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:56 PM
6

Men that use expressions like "ran through" have other issues. ' Yes, I'm correct. Manosphere? Men with zero issues do not use terms like "manosphere." Just because you wouldn't date someone doesn't mean they aren't valuable to someone else I'm going to shame exactly who I want. I said in my first sentence, if you have standards, and your dating life is working out fine, you have no incentive to change. Good 4 u. "Traditional" behavior from men doesn't mean slut-shaming, trust me <3
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:56 PM
4

In liberal social circles, no..not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:52 PM
2

No one said you couldn't choose who to have sex with lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:51 PM
0

Yeah, you want someone that meets your very niche arbitrary standard of how you think women should behave. You don't think that's a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:51 PM
7

Are there...really? Also what "promiscuous" means varies greatly
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:50 PM
2

Yes, this is a matter of survival. So true
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 06:50 PM
2

That's not what I said, and your vague stupid question made no sense. I'm blocking you because you refuse to ask a coherent question and are making weird quotes based on things I never said.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:57 PM
-1

Ok. Regressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:56 PM
1

Yeah again as I said it's broad idk what you are talking about. No, I don't think you should be able to murder someone else in a private room without criticism.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:54 PM
2

Not really. Most women are fine with 5 or more. Financial status? Not really. Most women date men of the same socioeconomic status as them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:54 PM
4

Yeah, but that will never happen, because while some men annoyingly complain about this, other men annoyingly complain that women are not putting out fast enough. So women have literally no incentive to care
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:53 PM
6

You can have irrational emotions, but you can recognize they are not rational
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:52 PM
2

No one should slut shame in general lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:51 PM
4

What? No. Stop making weird quotes out of things I did not say. I have said PEOPLE of ANY GENDER overly invested in anyone else's sexual past (consensual sexual past) have issues many times
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:51 PM
5

I've been with my partner for 5 years. To be honest my dating life before him was a trainwreck. I have an abnormally high drive and legitimate hormonal issues. I do think men believe that a woman having sex with them has to do with their skill, or something about them. That's not necessarily the case. I've had sex with people because I was bored and lonely, for literally no other reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:49 PM
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I don't give a shit. If a man thinks he's so undesirable to American women he has to flee, then I would also probably would not want him lol. I'm concerned about men taking advantage of women in dire financial situations or political warfare (refugees, for example). But no, if no one is harmed in the process, I don't really care. I do think a lot of "passport" bros have a warped perception of what non-western women will offer them. They have an idea these women are more "submissive" which isn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:45 PM
2

I don't know what you're asking. It's very vague. Can you be more specific? No, I don't think women should judge men for their private consensual behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:41 PM
0

I mean calling women sluts, is regressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:40 PM
2

Not only but I think it's a good indicator. Why is it so confusing? Political identities are representative of social values
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:39 PM
1

I wouldn't say that. I would say there is a minor inferiority complex, at least
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:38 PM
0

I said if you succeed in dating you can clearly do the things you like
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:38 PM
5

Men have critical thinking skills
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:37 PM
1

Yes correct. Liberals have more feminist values and wouldn't do something like that, for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:35 PM
0

People should generally mind their business when no one is harmed in the process
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:33 PM
4

I would but that's not really true. People for the most part date other people within their own socioeconomic status.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:32 PM
1

Ok. If you are a girl in shorts, and call another girl in the same shorts as you a slut, I'm going to go out on a limb and say you are dumb. And conservative. Liberals are the reason for modern birth control and sex education. Conservatives do not want sex education and like "abstinence only" sex education, and view it as their ideal sexual belief. I feel like thats common knowledge
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:31 PM
0

Yes, but that's not what you said
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:29 PM
11

This demographic of women are regularly made fun of and called pick mes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:29 PM
-1

Not really. A lot of guilt is associated with having views like that. It also demonstrates a type of judgmentalness which can be annoying to date as well
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:28 PM
1

I didn't say the men who do this never get dates or never get sexual experience. That's not what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:26 PM
5

Annoying and weird if no one is harmed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:25 PM
1

I don't think having a lot of sex is the same as cheating
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:25 PM
-1

Most people are in heterosexual relationships, but those women tend to be dumber as a demographic with worse sexual abilities. Happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:24 PM
0

The job market won't be grossly wrong with what you're worth. I didn't say the dating market is perfect, but it is not grossly wrong, no. For example, if you went to an ivy league, are extremely charismatic and competent with an amazing resume, you will be able to find a decent job you like that supports you financially, assuming you do not have any other self-sabotaging beahviors
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:22 PM
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Do you have casual sex with women? I'm going to guess that you dislike the idea of someone else's sexual past because you see it as "dirty" which is an example of a regressive sexual view that I included as an example in my post. But again, if you're succeeding in the dating market, u do u
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:20 PM
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No, I wouldn't say "conservative or liberal" liberals as a group do it significantly less. Regardless, no one should do it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:19 PM
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To be honest I don't really think that's true in liberal women circles. Conservative women may do that, but I don't have any conservative friends lol. Where do we draw the line? Idk. Spend time shaming people for creepy non-consensual behavior instead, perhaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:09 PM
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There aren't that many lucrative criminals. Most men are in jail not because they are masterminds, but because they are degenerates that can't regulate their lives and emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:06 PM
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My view is that no one should be overly fixated on the consensual sex lives of other adults btw
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 05:04 PM
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Pretty sure this is against the rules. And is it really ok? Men make up the majority of prison populations because they don't know how to regulate their emotions. You guys aren't doing that great in that regard, clearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 04:51 PM
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To be honest if you compare the average female and male 'bad experience' the experiences will vary greatly in severity
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 12:09 PM
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Found the complete opposite to be true. Dated many hot, experienced guys that are strong feminists, including my current partner. Men that hate women tend to repulse them unless they are extremely manipulative I find that redpill Taters are relying on weird advice because they don't speak to women in real life. Men who spend hours "strategizing" how to approach women fail miserably. Again, these same men can't comprehend the problems women face either because they don't talk to women so they hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 12:04 PM
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I just don't really care about getting vandalized, to be honest. That's more of a mild annoyance than an event that has a lasting sexual impact
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 05:10 AM
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I don't think a percentage of "all crime" matters. The only other comparable crimes are like. Murder. Maybe setting someone on fire?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 04:57 AM
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I'm sure you were. It's severely underreported. There are a ridiculous amount of emotional and real roadblocks that prevent situations from being reported. Self-reported surveys conducted hundreds of times hover at 1/5
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 04:42 AM
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The standard agreed upon number for how often it actually happens is 1/5. I'm not going to argue about a fact with you. I'm also not sure why you're trying to dismiss it, because doing so doesn't benefit you at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 04:37 AM
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Yes. That's because men regularly rape and abuse us. Thanks for trying, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 04:20 AM
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Men: I hate women and dont trust them Also men: Waaaahhh the birth rate is low why wont women touch me for free !K#@# J@I:WLRJ
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 04:05 AM
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Woman questioning a man's sexuality because he cried -> You're complaining about anti-feminists. Google what feminism is. Woman said it was Red flags for bringing flowers.--> ? Weird. Been told someone was a pedo for dating a woman 2 years younger (26/28)-> You're obviously by definition not, so who cares. Heard a woman call a man a bum for living with a roomate... While she lived with her parents. ---> She's dumb. Who cares? An old Christmas song talked about staying at someone's house because …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 04:02 AM
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no. i support women's rights and their wrongs.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:52 AM
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Men who talk like this never have the option to choose either category. Men who get pussy don't speak like this. Nor do they say "this is the tao."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:51 AM
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why are prolifers so bad at sex? i can close my knees and have sex thx
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:50 AM
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Not sure why this is my problem. Be more desirable, I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 03:48 AM
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No women who really think deeply about men retain a high opinion of them; women either despise men or they have never thought seriously about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:53 AM
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Good point, but they still hiss at sunlight and make the atmosphere around them less pleasant, no matter how "uninvolved" they pretend to be
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 07:23 PM
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No. I complain about incels lol. I don't find them attractive in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 12:50 PM
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Women regularly complain about men who show these traits lol. Dating a man with the emotional capacity of a toddler is quite exhausting. Most patriarchy-enforcing comments about men come from other men. Look at stories about female teachers abusing young boys. Then, look at the comments. Who is saying, "Hahahaa...lucky boy!!!" Hint: It's not women! Pick a different theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 05:21 PM
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Yet more stupid assertions. It's literally not? People are regularly getting married, every single day. This sub should put a ban on factually false assertions because these discussions are quite frankly, moronic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 05:20 PM
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I don't think your age is the exclusive reason anyone would call you repulsive
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 04:52 PM
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You're so right! Men in happy monogamous relationships do not exist at all! What the fuck are these 'opinions' lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 04:52 PM
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Older women and women in general regularly complain about all predatory men. Wtf are you talking about lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 08:58 PM
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i meant per capita. doesn't really matter what metric you use, so it's kind of annoying that's what everyone's harping on. going to an impoverished country for the purpose of having sex makes you a creep, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 06:56 AM
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that's gross too, they just dont have their own name
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 01:42 AM
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Kind of a stupid argument when certain companies have monopolies on almost every good. But if you must know, I buy thrift + designer
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 01:42 AM
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Cambodia and Laos has extreme problems with sexual exploitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 01:41 AM
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Kind of a weird argument considering how unforgiving asian beauty standards are
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 01:40 AM
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I don't really buy that the pull is beauty standards considering that my size 2 fits in 'fat girl' shops in SK
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 01:40 AM
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huh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 01:39 AM
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There's a difference between stumbling upon a gf from a poor country and actively seeking one
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 01:39 AM
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How are moral concerns 'irrelevant'?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 01:38 AM
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Per capita, sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 01:38 AM
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Not really. Asian beauty standards are pretty vicious, and western men are pretty fat, to be honest. A decent portion cannot view their own penises. Learning the language also isn't enough. There are a great deal of norms that go with it that even Asian people regularly complain about
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 01:37 AM
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Correct
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 01:35 AM
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So true. Communism is why I cant get dates
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 01:35 AM
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No. The OP is actively seeking impoverished women to have sex with
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:01 AM
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hard disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:59 AM
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per capita bb
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:59 AM
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Yeah sorry I meant per capita lol. I thought that was obvious my bad
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:59 AM
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There's a difference between finding one and actively seeking one out.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:58 AM
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A peasant in the US can't afford to fly elsewhere, and live elsewhere for a significant period of time
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 02:58 AM
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I didn't say 'going' dude but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:51 AM
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Cambodia? Laos?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:40 AM
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Being gawked at isn't the same as wanting a family with you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:38 AM
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If they're in poverty, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:37 AM
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be my guest!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:37 AM
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do they really though
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:34 AM
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I didn't say women couldn't be perverts
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:32 AM
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The first is also questionable
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:31 AM
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huh
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:31 AM
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It's actually a non-sequitur at all when you're preying on people with low financial resources for that reason
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:30 AM
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#1. Sometimes #2 depending on legality and aggression
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:50 PM
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Duh? Do you see the shit people post here? There is no "duh" on this sub. The floor is in hell
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:42 PM
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Other: My Soviet grandmother voted to send villagers to the gulag. That was her responsibility in the village. The stereotypes you're relying on are likely insanely wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:41 PM
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20% is uncommon?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 09:31 PM
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Why do men make not getting laid everyone else's problem? Why does there have to be a larger societal problem to address? Why can't you just self-reflect?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:33 AM
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No. A loser in the United States will likely be a loser in Japan. You'd probably actually be more of a loser in Japan, because they have many more social norms and customs that are significantly less forgiving. Sorry. Men need to get weird fantasies about how much more desirable they would be somewhere else out of their heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 07:23 PM
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You're right. Moronic men with an IQ of 70 probably don't care about my degrees. Unfortunately that is not the demographic I am pursuing <3
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 07:18 PM
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I didn't ask for empathy lol. just maybe a factual concession that violence is a real problem. "But still it's prevention is like 75% in the women's hands." LMFAO. What should you get empathy for? Hating women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 07:12 PM
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I would respond to this but you keep getting defensive about things I didn't say. About your comparison, though, you would be right if violence was not a real risk
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 07:08 PM
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You only need one good one, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 07:05 PM
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Apparently prison rape is bad in women's prisons too, so I don't know if it's as gendered as you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 07:03 PM
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I never said most men are 'assaulting' women. It's really not my fault you can't read. I'm not going to defend myself over things I never said. Look up the definition of the word "or."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 07:02 PM
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No, it's really not. No survey that would ever be in discussion would use the term 'assault" without the 'sexual' before it, so I'm honestly confused about what the hell you're referencing or why you think this is a thing, because its a completely different definition. Assault can be threatening to hurt someone in a dark alley without ever touching them. That is not sexual https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/sexualviolence/fastfact.html ​ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK202266/
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 02:57 PM
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All of the surveys I'm preferencing use the term 'sexual' assault, rather than assault, so I"m not sure what you're referencing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 02:52 PM
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1:13 is a big gap, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 02:20 PM
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Would love to see your soruce lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 02:19 PM
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Why do you want empathy for how hard dating is for you when you can't even empathize with women for getting assaulted?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 02:19 PM
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Less likely is demonstrative of statistics. I never said 'impossible.'
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 07:06 AM
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You're not poking holes in anything, because you're saying something I never said. I said "harder' not "impossible."
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 05:41 AM
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You're not conceding that sexual violence is underreported? Ok. You're free to be wrong. Facts really, really don't care about your feelings. I hope one day you can learn how to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 03:30 AM
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Not enough information. Career prospects? Sexual quality? How much fun I have with them? What are their values? Even if someone is overall more 'attractive' than someone else, that doesn't necessarily matter. People care about certain physical traits more than others
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 03:30 AM
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Surveys have very specific definitions. There isn't much room for discretion. I'm not sure why you think women are so dumb and incompetent that they don't know whether or not they were assaulted. That speaks volumes to your character.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 03:27 AM
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No it's not. Surveys provide a very specific survey definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 03:25 AM
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Unreported. The majority is not reported, so that is the more accurate measure of what's actually going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 03:13 AM
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not what i said. what?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 03:12 AM
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It's harder to be raped when you actively want to have sex with someone, correct. Yes. Indeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 12:55 AM
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don't underestimate men lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 12:53 AM
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You're saying the more men can have access to women, the more they abuse that power. In reality, I don't think they hurt women more. When they do, it's just more of a public thing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 12:53 AM
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Huh? You attacked my character and made weird comments about my father. Learn how to read next time. You're really weird, dude. Go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 12:51 AM
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I didn't say men didn't experience that. It isn't my fault if you are coming to conclusions I did not say
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 12:49 AM
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Kind of different, actually. It's not the safest thing to do but there's a difference between being alone with someone you definitely want to have sex with and the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 12:48 AM
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How would she know before she actually talks to them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 12:48 AM
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I'm also bisexual. Women are less horrendous to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 12:47 AM
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Kidnapped poor people are at an extreme risk because police are under less pressure to look for them. Idk what you mean lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 12:46 AM
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Men are the majority of perps of violent crimes so that's a weird argument. Stop beating each other up, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 12:44 AM
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Men lie to get into a relationship and then get sex pretty regularly. Being in a relationship doesnt protect you, if that's what you're trying to say Yes I have experience with that 20%
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 12:44 AM
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I'm not scared at all. Statistics are just bad. Don't bend over backwards for us. Go date men. No one is making you date us.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 12:42 AM
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huh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 12:42 AM
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you can date men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 12:42 AM
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Huh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 12:41 AM
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1/5 of women getting assaulted is low? Not really, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 12:40 AM
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Super weird assertions. Reporting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 12:38 AM
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I never said all women are smart Never said they are all quality matches They can. I've done the community service myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 12:21 AM
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I said "Most." The narratives you shared are not "most." Skin to skin contact is not affection, which is the whole point of what I was trying to say. I don't think asking anyone to self-reflect is problematic. I'm confused, again. You don't want to pay for things, but are against feminism?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 12:20 AM
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On first dates? Correct, men are rarely the victims of violence on first dates. This post isn't talking about DV, it's talking more about initial violence and safety issues women face
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 12:17 AM
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We all have wants don't we
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 12:16 AM
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1/5 women is a lot of people. That's a statistical fact, and common knowledge. I didn't say men are unstable violent monsters. You did?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 12:15 AM
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What the hell do you know about my life weirdo lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 12:13 AM
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Yeah it is. 1/5 women are assaulted. I'm not going to argue about facts with you. Google is free, and if you dont know how to read it that's not my fault, unfortunately. I don't know why you're making weird character judgments about me. I've been in a successful relationship for 5+ years. I'm not sure why I would care about what you think. My whole point is more is not = better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 12:13 AM
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Been in a longgggg relationship dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 12:10 AM
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How am I an incel? I've been in a relationship for 5 years. No one said "all men are bad" except you..right now
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 12:09 AM
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No, they do not get sexually assaulted more in any case. 1/5 women (or more) get assaulted. Not really entertaining the rest of this because you're wrong at point 1
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 12:09 AM
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Yes and no. How many men enable abusive men?A lot
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 12:08 AM
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That's actually not important to point out at all. The men with the most access to women abuse them the most? Weird point.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 12:05 AM
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I don't think that is the next logical chain, no. Bonding with other people is a fundamental human need. Though a lot of women are deciding not to date
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 12:04 AM
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Women by a landslide
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 04:39 PM
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Was it really though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 03:53 PM
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Why are the men on this so sub so angry about women for having preferences? They are not the problem lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 05:22 AM
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I don't think ghosting is cruel, to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 11:52 PM
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Why does shit a random person said matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 11:43 PM
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Ugly people regularly date. Wdym 'undatable?"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 09:02 PM
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That's just painfully untrue. Awkward 6s that are nice to women can regularly pull hot, loving gfs. I will say a woe is me attitude is the most nauseating type of attitude a man can have when trying to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 06:53 PM
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dude idk i asked myself this so many times lol. I don't date ugly men anymore though. They're always really mean to me and then the aftermath is embarrassing. Hot guys only
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 03:36 PM
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I mean they are in the minority of people in general, I'm just telling you, men of all socioeconomic statuses can be predators
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 06:05 AM
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There aren't any. Rape is horrifically underreported. That's the point. But it is common knowledge wealthy, influential people regularly sex traffic women and children.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 05:49 AM
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yeah that's horrifically incorrect. get that idea as far out of your head as it will possibly go
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 05:37 AM
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Uh..yeah, I know. You seem to have the horrifically wrong assumption that successful men aren't predators, which is just so far from reality I suggest you go do more research
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 05:30 AM
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Strangers on dates are considered 'acquaintances' which is the most common kind
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 05:24 AM
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Really? Celebrities, and politicians have nothing to lose?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 05:23 AM
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Last time I checked, straight men getting raped on dates isn't a regular problem. Men have such a victim complex on this sub for absolutely no reason lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 05:12 AM
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Sure. Why is it a power trip? Would you date a toad if your celebrity crush wanted you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 05:10 AM
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So what? Why should I have to date a toad if I have options not to?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 05:07 AM
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Picky? Picky for who? Women are out there..dating. Regularly. And regularly dating losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 04:58 AM
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This post is unfortunate. Marriage is low? Be more desirable. Be mad at people who made the economy trash. Why do you care who is having kids? Go reproduce on your own. If no one wants to reproduce with you, how the hell is that anyone else's fault? I don't know what the hell you're talking about, honestly. Older women regularly marry, and remarry. Women with 4 kids regularly remarry. People uh. Want us, it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 04:54 AM
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Women don't like gym bros, if that's what you're saying, unless they're also gym rats. If a man is absolutely shredded, he is lacking in personality or career. Time you spend at the gym takes away from something else
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 03:36 AM
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Men say this but still place gendered stereotypes on women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/23 03:22 AM
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so true! sorry <3
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 06:24 PM
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You don't have to, but people regularly do that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 06:22 PM
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I don't think it hurts lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 06:21 PM
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Some things stay the same across cultures. If someone is a loser in the United States, they will likely also be a loser in Estonia.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 06:21 PM
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i did lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:29 PM
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I hate to be the one to tell you this, but women do pay taxes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:28 PM
3

hot guys date people
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 09:27 PM
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Oh. Are you talking about child support? You should be more specific. *Subsidizes women with kids.* Also..don't act like men don't beg to knock their girl up and then dip immediately lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:57 PM
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sad view
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:55 PM
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People are fake. Women are choosing nice, kind men that later show that they're actual demons, and then struggle to leave the relationship hoping the fake/nice man will come back
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:45 PM
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Why are you acting like women don't enjoy relationship sex lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:40 PM
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Your first thought is horrifically wrong and sad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:35 PM
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huh
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:24 PM
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Yeah. If a man loses interest in me within the first month of dating, how would they treat me in 15 years? Bye bye
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 08:19 PM
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Maybe. There's a really moronic misconception that seems to spread through the Redpill community, though, that broke women are regularly marrying rich men and bleeding them dry. People date and marry within their socioeconomic status. This is just a statistical fact of life. Wealthy, successful men don't have serious relationships with hairstylists from Ohio. A wealthy heiress does not have a serious relationship with a mechanic from Ohio, either. Also, just because someone is objectively ugly d…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 10:07 PM
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To be honest I don't think it's that complicated. If you're in a social setting, women are more receptive to being approached. If they are in a parking lot at night alone, perhaps don't approach them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 09:11 PM
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I mean. I don't really think anything he says matters. Men only have time to criticize women like he does when they can't interact with them in real life. Men with healthy, normal relationships with women don't act like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 05:47 PM
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It's really not that complicated. In social environments: bars, clubs, plays, entertainment areas -> approach In public transit -> do not approach
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:03 AM
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"And harass women." Your assumption is fundamentally wrong. Men don't harass women because they're horny, they harass them because they hate us lol. Sexually abusive behavior isn't the same thing as sexual desire. For example, not all child rapists are actually pedophiles. A lot of them are just angry. Also, look at prison rape/harassment. Most of those men are not gay
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 06:54 AM
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She benefited from a greater income. He benefited from household labor (which is very expensive). He didn't lose anything from this. She did, however, because she could've had a job, and it's hard to spring right back into work after not being in the labor market for years
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:36 AM
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Yeah you can. It's pretty easy to calculate exactly what the costs of services would be if they were out-sourced. -babysitting has a cost -cleaning has a cost -cooking has a cost -tutoring has a cost -errand running has a cost ​ list goes on
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:22 AM
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Your income split isn't completely IRRATIONAL except women do the majority of household labor that homes need to rely on and function, so it doesn't work in practice. For your second scenario.. the homemaker washes her husband's ass for 15 years, breastfeeds their kids, cooks all of his meals, cleans their home...for alimony for 2 years? Sweet deal!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:01 AM
2

Are you against partners being homemakers?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 04:00 AM
6

What? Having a legally-sanctioned family is creating a unit... together. Why would it not be split equally?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:53 AM
8

I'm not denying that I'm just giving you statistics on sick divorce. Women are divorcing men for being losers or deficient, not ill.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:51 AM
2

In the minority of states they can get some assets, but not really near 50%, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:50 AM
5

Ok. So you kind of just said there is no reason for a woman to be unmarried and a homemaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:50 AM
3

In the minority of states, you could maybe get a chunk of cash, but nowhere near 50%, and nowhere near your contributions. Why do you think women's labor is worthless? Cringe. Also, women work now!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:48 AM
5

I don't understand what you're saying about sick people, but if men do not have a woman in their lives telling them to go to the doctor they die much quicker. You're free to google it. You tried to make a whiny point about sick men, but it's also incorrect. Men divorce their sex wives significantly more frequently than the reverse lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:44 AM
5

Um. Ok, let's clear something up first. If you are a homemaker, for your BOYFRIEND, and your boyfriend dumps you, you have NO legal recourse or financial support. If you are a homemaker, and your HUSBAND divorces you, you can get around 50% of the assets.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:42 AM
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This is so unbelievably cringe. Men regularly beg women to marry them Men are the primary beneficiaries of marriage in a modern society Unmarried men are significantly less happy than unmarried women Unmarried men have significantly worse health outcomes than married men Your rights as a woman are significantly limited if you play house with a man for 15 years and decide to break up than if you are married
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 03:33 AM
2

Mhm. Literally not at all. I think most rape victims would agree that lying to someone to get sex is bad. I'm sorry if what I said makes you doubt your past "encoutners"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 07:35 PM
1

ugly men date regularly. ugly men regularly get married. ugly men are regularly in long-term relationships. ugly men regularly date/marry hot women. ugly men regularly cheat on the hot women they marry. need i go on
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 04:33 PM
2

The world isn't an 80s movie. Ugly men regularly date out of their league
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 04:31 PM
2

I know. Myself included. It just might be a good thing to address if it's preventing you from dating
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 04:28 PM
6

i feel like you're greatly overestimating the options available to women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 06:02 AM
7

it's def feminism's fault you can't date i agree. why is the world standing in your way?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 06:00 AM
2

joke
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:51 AM
3

"vidya>women"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:50 AM
5

The examples I brought up are from this subreddit! Showering is not the same as general grooming habits, which a lot of heterosexual men do not have.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:49 AM
2

lol jail
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:48 AM
5

not shifting any post giving examples
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:45 AM
5

Yes. Roofing everyone in sight will also get you "more access to sex" that doesn't mean you should do it, or that it is legitimate lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:44 AM
2

you sound like a catch
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:41 AM
9

Not accusing anyone. Poking a hole in a condom is rape. Taking off the condom when your partner doesn't want you to -> rape. Making up weird lies so you get sex is incredibly predatory and creepy behavior demonstrating a poor moral code
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:41 AM
3

That's not a genuine "lay" that's borderline rape behavior lol. You shouldn't have to lie to people to get them touch you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:37 AM
3

He complained about western women and our 'lack of values' and how that causes his dating troubles. Very sad story. Maybe. Maybe not. Bitching about it for an essay is nonetheless unnecessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:36 AM
6

sure. if you're trying to have sex with 16 year old girls in a 1980s movie, yes, that would be true.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:32 AM
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i like how men think women overcomplain. on this subreddit a man complained for 5 paragraphs because a woman asked him to buy her a $5 drink. Are ya'll going to provide for us or not? You can't have it both ways <3
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:26 AM
5

i dont think you should hate/blame urself, just introspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:24 AM
6

that was a joke, deshaun
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:23 AM
5

such a good point. i love surrounding myself with horrible people that make me feel worse about myself
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:20 AM
4

What does being a good person have to do with anything? Is that what you just asked me?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 05:15 AM
1

What
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 04:56 AM
1

I don't shame people for how they have sex. I'm not Pearl <3 But what I will say is her relationship/dating life is stale af
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 04:56 AM
1

not true
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 07:46 PM
6

ok. sexual assault is not!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 07:46 PM
1

yeah you'd be surprised buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 07:36 PM
4

Then say no? you lost literally NOTHING from this encounter.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 07:34 PM
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Yes, being asked to pay $5 is a "struggle."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 07:31 PM
2

Men constantly berate women for being cautious around men, and you are upset enough about this minor annoyance to make a whole post. You should be at least somewhat aware how entitled you sound to women and their time, and honestly, how stupid it is for men to complain about us as a group in literally any capacity. And yes, you complaining about a woman asking for a $5 drink from you is the exact equivalent to POVERTY.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 07:29 PM
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To be honest men's complaints about women are so hilarious in comparison to what women deal with. "Wahh... she asked me to buy me a drink and I said no." That sounds really tough. Anyways, my friends get roofied lol. Not trying to be rude, but it's insane to me that this whole situation bothered you enough for you to come here and make a whole post about it. Men want to be victims so bad
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 07:18 PM
1

People regularly have sex with people they do not care about, like, or are attracted to. So, that is a horrible way to get self esteem
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 07:17 PM
1

it really isn't that hilarious. a lot of tools are available to men and women for them to age better than they ever have before.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:21 PM
1

You seem mad for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 02:27 PM
2

yeahh hard disagree. Doctors also do not learn about nutrition so that is a poor comparison
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 02:25 PM
0

unfortch not
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 02:23 PM
1

That's not true. The amount they whine about there being so many 'low quality' women for them to date is deeply disturbing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 02:23 PM
7

Good point I should sleep
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 05:44 AM
3

We have botox and retinol. We are fine :) Not that urgent sweetie
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 05:44 AM
3

That's horrifically untrue, especially on this subreddit in particular. The loneliness is troubling
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 05:42 AM
6

wanting to have sex with you =/ wanting you. those are two different things. and AGAIN getting validation through sex is a HORRIBLE idea
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 05:21 AM
1

it was not the first thing you said, no
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 05:00 AM
2

what
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 05:00 AM
1

Approaching dating by making an angry, passive-aggressive checklist is not a recipe for success
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:45 AM
5

being interested in you and wanting to have sex with you are unfortunately not the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:44 AM
3

Why do you think you will find a lasting relationship with a good woman when you can't value any of her intrinsic qualities? Seems odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:36 AM
10

Equating your worth with who wants to have sex with you is subpar but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:28 AM
3

Tbh Pearl seems really gay to me but that is a matter of personal opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:15 AM
0

some of ya'll need assistance, clearly
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 03:52 AM
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Men are weird. They'd be much less annoying if they just wanted to quietly have sex with a lot of women. They complain constantly about wanting a "good" woman and that there are 'no good western women' left. By men, I mean men on this subreddit specifically
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 03:52 AM
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I mean, yeah. If you have evidence someone is maliciously lying they should be held responsible. I feel like that's obvious. And I just dont know what your goal is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 03:36 AM
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Honestly I don't know if enough adult men report sex crimes for them to be even comparable. Some. It's not common. Why would a woman go to jail for "lying?" Rapists regularly get probation. You can sue for slander, and if someone is truly malicious and out to get you, there will likely be some trace evidence. Most people also do not spend effort and time defaming someone who hasn't wronged them Quite honestly I don't know what you're trying to prevent. Actually going to jail for rape is very dif…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 03:18 AM
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Well..let's start here. Any kind of "false allegation" is not common. False sex crime allegations are not more common than any other crime, and none of them are particularly common. The majority of wrongful convictions with sexual violence are wrongful IDs, which is more of the result of overzealous police work, not women trying maliciously to put someone in jail. From my conservative hometown, women would say they were raped when they were corned by conservative men in their family, who found o…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 02:24 AM
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I mean they were normal guys with a normal amount of experience, but whatever. Ya'll care about something then can't evaluate it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 03:15 AM
1

I dated short ugly men that were mean for me. I will no longer be performing community service lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:46 AM
4

I know people that faked being virgins when they had sex with 15+ people, and the men never found out/never got upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 01:42 AM
1

Yep https://www.verywellmind.com/why-married-people-cheat-2300656#:\~:text=A%20study%20of%20495%20people,responsibility%20of%20the%20betrayed%20partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:04 AM
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You'd be surprised. Also, men talk more than women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:03 AM
1

You say that. Now every other time a husband cheats he whines about how "unaffectionate" his wife is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 12:02 AM
1

I mean people aren't going to actively talk about their friend's sex lives to their new partner
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 11:55 PM
1

Yes but They have to like you and They prob have other issues lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 11:54 PM
2

You can uh. Think that, I guess. If you think you have the pull to take your pick of the 3% of the virgin dating market, I hope you're offering a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 11:44 PM
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I think it's kind of funny that men think they can "Tell" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 11:29 PM
3

They're too fixated on creating a "formula" rather than just attempting to interact with women, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 11:27 PM
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I think everyone can be as judgmental as they want. The dating market tells them if they're standards are too high for them or not. If you look like a toad, you aren't allowed to get upset by women not shaving their armpits lol. Ur just not
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 04:42 AM
1

Because half of the west is obese, and still getting laid regularly :/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:54 AM
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1 - Most? I do not think that is true lol. 2 - No, it's actually not accurate at all. There are not enough attractive men to be "Chads" dating the majority of women. 3 - I don't believe that, but if that's you then cool 4 - :/ Yeah sorry dude. Ugly men regularly get laid and date. So many people are significantly overweight in the west. Involuntarily cebs could also be shooting too high. 5 - "Can be" dangerous is not the same thing as a societal phenomenon. 6 - Height is hard, fine. Would you da…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:54 AM
1

?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 12:47 AM
1

u seem angry
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 03:01 AM
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If you're disabled, you'd think you would try another sport, activity, or find another tool. Not repeatedly blame everyone else for not being able to swim like other people. No you did not. You can provide a link. It also doesn't seem like you know what household labor is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 02:51 AM
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You could have a disability. You're still not a fast swimmer, lol. I don't see the website you're talking about. How can you mutually gold dig?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 02:13 AM
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Ok. Approach women on public transportation. Lmk how it works
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 02:11 AM
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"Taboo"? No. If I was single I would like meeting people at social events where I'm in the mood to meet people. Do I have any interest in sitting on the subway, and talking to a random man I have 0 interest in when I'm on my way to work, before I've had any coffee? No. I'd rather unalive myself. I would much rather go online, where I Can talk to the people I already find attractive, or meet a guy that has already been prescreened by people I know. I met my partner at a social event, but honestly…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 12:02 AM
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Ok. Let's say I am a swimmer. I repeatedly fail at swimming, and other people beat me. I whine about how unfair it is, because everyone is faster/better than me, or whatever. That doesn't change the fact that I suck at swimming. Most people get married later nowadays, your research had nothing to do with ugliness lol. No, it is not "extra" if you don't want to look like a middle schooler. If you have had the same haircut since you were 8, that is a problem. Not specific enough Ok? They're both b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 11:56 PM
1

You expect me to believe looks don't have anything to do with who you pursue?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 11:51 PM
1

no i will not
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 11:51 PM
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If you repeatedly fail at something, and you blame everyone but yourself, that's an immature thing to do Ugly men regularly enter relationships and get married. Same with ugly women. Washing your face and cutting your hair is not all that hygiene, style, and grooming requires lol. What research? That isn't gold digging. That is called having a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 11:42 PM
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Think I misread your comment, unless you changed it. Nvm
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:56 PM
2

No it's not. You proved my point in less than 5 minutes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:54 PM
2

So what? You approach random women in public because you like their personalities?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:53 PM
2

Calling anyone a "worthless whore" is generally suboptimal btw
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:51 PM
3

An example of a weird view is being a 30 year old man that wants a virgin girlfriend that has sex with him constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:45 PM
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If you're a man very fixated on this standard there are probably a lot of unfortunate other qualities about you, like insecurity, jealousy, regressive views on gender roles. Some people have more tolerance for these qualities than I do. Example of regressive view on gender roles: Calling women "worthless whores"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:44 PM
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Those are hot! Dating apps can be nice because you don't have to talk to people you have no physical attraction to
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:43 PM
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I feel the same way about heterosexual men, the other way around lol. I'm friends with my partner's friends, and my friends' boyfriends, and the gays of course, but random heterosexual men? Nah lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:42 PM
2

The rating seems to think so
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 10:36 PM
1

Thank u
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 09:46 PM
1

Sry I have 3 brain cells. Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 09:26 PM
1

Did I say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 09:24 PM
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Idk how related this is but nothing is worse than giving an unfortunate looking man a chance, and then being treated like dirt, then having to show other people WHO Treated you like dirt. Never again lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 09:05 PM
2

R u calling me an incel
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 02:02 PM
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Calling me a "victim" is against the rules of this sub. Report. Be civil!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:42 AM
1

I feel like dehumanizing is a better word than "annoying"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:37 AM
1

It's hard to meet better people when you're jaded <3
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:37 AM
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Don't talk about my future wife that way pls
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:33 AM
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She sounds fun. I'd date her. I'm a woman tho. Tbh meth is a bit of a gross drug of choice. Cocaine would be an easier sell, or the typical prescription drug. I feel like her getting married is the least of ur problems girly. Go find her a lawyer
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 03:10 AM
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Dildos dont have faces or names lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:56 AM
1

Are you saying sexual harassment is a "first world problem" ? Sorry, I may be misunderstanding you
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:55 AM
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I really feel like it shouldn't be this hard for you to empathize with other people. I'm a big girl, one "nice tits" isn't going to traumatize me, but it does get deeply annoying over an extended period of time. "Block" Them? Sure. I can block... them. There will always be more.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:29 PM
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I feel like ugly and average men regularly get married lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:26 PM
1

What I said addresses the majority of your comment
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:25 PM
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I'd much rather get rejected from 99 out of 100 if 1 is decent. A decent degree is much better than a rubbish degree
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:25 PM
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I'm talking about violence or general threats men often make when they don't get what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:24 PM
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Other social media. It's not hard if you go to a school that is relatively small
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:23 PM
1

Does "horror story" mean dangerous? Someone being fatter than you expected is not a "horror story."
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:22 PM
2

Most perpetrators of sex crimes against men are men
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 05:20 AM
1

Empty basket v. fruit with poison (and delicious fruit) is a better comparison, but if you have the poison you're severely injured
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 05:19 AM
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I'm sure she has other redeeming qualities. A lot of overweight women are treated like jokes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:50 AM
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Don't "not all men" me, lol. I've been in a healthy relationship for 5 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:48 AM
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Sometimes they stalk you more than that. And after an extended period of time, it gets very disappointing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:14 AM
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"Bad choices" aren't just bad choices, they're dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:12 AM
2

Heterosexual men?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:12 AM
1

Really? You getting robbed from a date, statistically, is as much of a concern as dating violence against women? Let's be reasonable here.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 04:11 AM
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Example? Also discrediting someone because they used a logical fallacy, is a logical fallacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:55 AM
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Ah yes. Complaining about sexual harassment is trivial.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:51 AM
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I never said online dating was worse than other types of dating. Just that it isn't superb for women, as a lot of people on here seem to think
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:50 AM
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Violence against women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:47 AM
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But then there's legitimate danger mixed in
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:46 AM
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I didn't say it's particularly more harmful. I just said men seem to think women have a glorious time online dating and that isn't true
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:43 AM
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Yeah. But the volume gets saddening. Then sometimes they try to find you, so you can't move on THAT amazingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:42 AM
1

Why are you still going? Seek help lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:41 AM
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Nasty messages meaning, "I want to tie you up and put you in the trunk of my car." "Haha it's a joke why didn't you laugh lol"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:40 AM
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Insulting the sex lives of strangers you don't know is just kind of cringe, unfortunate behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:39 AM
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Sure, but for women the "cat pee" could be dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:39 AM
1

Reporting
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:37 AM
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When I was single, I didn't hate myself, so I tried not to subject myself to dating or sex with people who I thought were ugly. Therefore, the people I matched with were attractive, in my opinion! Hope that helps
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:30 AM
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Why are you so quick to discredit women's experiences lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:29 AM
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Yeah, I think you missed the point a lot lol. The main reason some feminists are weary of it is for the general safety of sex workers. Hiring women to go on dates with you and have sex with you, while "illegal" is incredibly easy. I'm convinced a lot of celibate men just want to complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:06 AM
2

You think that sounds really fun and good, but that's incredibly logistically stressful.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:05 AM
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Yeah, but that's the point. A lot of them don't meet the bare minimum
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:02 PM
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Ok lol. Ugly men still regularly get married. Looks almost never prevent people from dating if they really want to, unless they're literally deformed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 08:00 PM
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I mean. Hating them is a pretty significant issue. If you think women are so stupid and useless you're free to date men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:57 PM
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Average men regularly date and marry lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:55 PM
1

Autistic men can pull if they're NICE. But no, being autistic, and cruel is a poor combination. And many men are like that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 07:54 PM
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#3 is most common, which ties into emotional maturity <3
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:39 PM
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I'm not saying it never happens, but the reverse is more common in movies and culture
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 06:37 PM
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If you're in a relationship you are not in the dating market
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 12:17 AM
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yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 12:05 AM
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I'd prefer randoms in that case
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 12:01 AM
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no
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 12:00 AM
0

Level of "difficulty" -> likelihood of higher #s
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:59 PM
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Because you're saying things I never said. I never said they don't want to commit. If you're a high sex drive woman in a relationship, you are not a dating option for single men, which is why you don't really count in terms of what I'm talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:58 PM
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If you are only having sex in the confines of a relationship, you are not in the dating market <3
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:56 PM
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No one is a toy lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:56 PM
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Yeah. But it's much easier to have "self control" in relation to casual sex if you're asexual than if you're hypersexual and bipolar.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:54 PM
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People with high sex drives typically get annoyed by prolonged celibacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:53 PM
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Yeah it does. Just because a woman is a 5, settles with a 5, but has had sex with a 9, doesn't mean she doesn't get horny for 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:52 PM
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Having an FWB is emotionally taxing, and unbeneficial, so a lot of people do not want to do it and would rather have casual sex instead. I am one of those people, and a lot of people feel this way. If you are in a relationship you are not in the dating market, because you are in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:51 PM
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I do not think there is that big of a difference in terms of people who are in the dating market, as in not in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:46 PM
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I'm not advocating one or the other. Well, actually, kind of, but that's not hte point. The point is that a lot of high sex drive people do not resort to FWBs for the reasons I described
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:42 PM
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Healthy does not mean "high."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:39 PM
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There's a difference between wanting to have casual sex and resorting to it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:39 PM
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ur right. He is a super friend. I understand what you're saying, but having a fwb is usually emotionally taxing on at least one party
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:38 PM
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Right. You are also friends with a boyfriend. A boyfriend is a friend that you have sex with, with real commitment. An FWB is a friend you have sex with, with no real commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:31 PM
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A FWB relationship involves being a girlfriend without any of the concrete perks that come with being a girlfriend. But all of the negatives that come with having to be a girlfriend, like emotional labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:29 PM
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3-5x a week is high for a long-term relationship. I'd say once a week is average.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:28 PM
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Unfortunately I don't really care about what Jordan Peterson or what other random hosts say :/ lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:27 PM
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I'd much rather prefer an array of partners than be a fake girlfriend to someone lol, but dif strokes for dif folks
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:26 PM
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No. I just know having a high sex drive can drive you to do strange things, and people that don't understand it whatsoever probably don't have the drives that they think they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:25 PM
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If I'm 23 and am working in Denmark for 8 months, I probably won't want a serious relationship, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:24 PM
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Depends on where they are in their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:22 PM
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i don't necessarily agree
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:21 PM
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But you've spent most of your time not in the dating pool lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:19 PM
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High: Getting angry/irritable if you go a day or more without having sex Low: Being content with once a month or less These are examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:17 PM
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If you're always in a relationship you are not in the dating pool
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:16 PM
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I'm not going to ask a lot of intrusive questions, but your sex drive is tied to how long you are willing to be abstinent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:16 PM
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Yeah. This post is mainly referring to people that are in the dating pool. If you have a high sex drive and are in a long term relationship you are not in the dating pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:13 PM
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sexual attraction isn't only physically related on looks either, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:13 PM
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Idk what theory you're operating under, but my long-term partner is infinitely more attractive than anyone I have ever had a casual thing with. If anything, people are pickier about their long-term partners
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:09 PM
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That's half of the range he specified
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 10:01 PM
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K https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/a-profile-of-single-americans/#:\~:text=The%20youngest%20and%20oldest%20Americans,of%20those%2050%20to%2064.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 08:09 PM
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I really don't think only attractive men get married, buddy. Look around.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 08:06 PM
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I have the standards of a middle school teacher. Send me sources you can use in a middle school paper and not receive an F.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 08:03 PM
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no lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 07:40 PM
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cringe take
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 07:40 PM
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They usually operate in different circles, but also usually marry within their socioeconomic class <3
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 02:18 AM
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There's exceptions to everything. What I said is the rule, the vast majority of the time. Realistically, uneducated and dumb is not ending up with Mr. Harvard. Uneducated but pretty smart may.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:35 AM
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Uneducated girls can say whatever stupid shit they want. For the most part, educated/wealthy men are not marrying them, and people marry within their economic class. Mr. Harvard isn't marrying a hairstylist. There's a redpill fantasy that this is happening, but it really is not happening. But yeah. Educated/wealthy women obviously want someone of the same socioeconomic status. If you grow up going to vacations in southern France, you're probably not going to be happy with someone who is unemploy…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:24 AM
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If a jaw-dropping hottie wants you you're probably pretty nice looking. Measure my your ceiling, not your floor.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:14 AM
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You can set your own standards. But if no one wants to date you from that pool, that means people are not picking up what you're putting down.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 12:24 AM
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That's probably not why
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 12:23 AM
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compatibility lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 12:22 AM
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Yeah. Harvey Weinstein's wife married him for his beauty.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 12:22 AM
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Ok? Just because you want something doesn't mean you'll get it. Again.. the market sorts itself out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 12:21 AM
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Jokes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 08:18 PM
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This isn't from a self-esteem perspective, this is from who is dating you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 08:05 PM
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Interesting that killing a bug is an "act of violence" but you're unwilling to stop a woman from getting sexually assaulted. I'm glad bugs mean more to you than women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 08:04 PM
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So? Lol. Women like someone that kills bugs for them. Do with that information what you'd like
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 07:32 PM
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They said attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 07:28 PM
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Reddit is not a source
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 07:27 PM
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They are flawed. But they aren't THAT flawed. They aren't so flawed that an amazing catch will never find someone good
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 07:24 PM
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That's not true lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 07:23 PM
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I don't mean YOU I meant like. Theoretically. Sorry lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 03:22 PM
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Tell yourself whatever you want. If you're trying ruthlessly to date and it's not sticking, you're punching too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 03:18 PM
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It's not purely based on looks. There are other qualities that make someone more or less desirable
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 03:13 PM
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If you weigh 900 pounds, live in a box, and hiss at sunlight, but only date supermodels, that is an example of a person having standards that are too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 03:09 PM
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It's stereotypical that the man pays for it, because it's usually due to condom malfunctioning, which he is responsible for trying to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 02:19 PM
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i was joking. Women don't like unmasculine men that also don't like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:40 PM
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You sound lovely
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:39 PM
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That's incredibly juvenile
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:38 PM
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I've been in a healthy relationship for 5 years :)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:37 PM
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I didn't say they didn't have fathers, I said they should call talk to any decent man in their life before picking a weird bald man that traffics teenagers in Eastern European nations as their role model.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:36 AM
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Good point, you did a lot! And they say chivalry is dead
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:35 AM
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"Hi Bob, the girl you are carrying upstairs is passed out. Don't take her upstairs, because she is unconscious." I dont think it's that hard
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:20 AM
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Because women don't make up weird lies for the sole purpose of having sex with men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 03:38 AM
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Why do you have to immediately internalize anything? Why can't you simply recognize creepy behavior on other men, and step in? No one cares about how bad you feel for us. If you see creepy behavior, stop it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 02:02 AM
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Why can't men have normal role models? Go call your father lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 02:00 AM
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Really? You are in "love" then you have sex, and immediately change your mind? Sure. That sounds real.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:42 AM
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How.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:42 AM
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Ew
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 01:41 AM
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There's a dif between seeing multiple people and cheating, fyi lol. Women do that too. "MaKe hiM inVest aT leAst soMe tiMe." Dude lol. Every guy on this site has different opinions on how quickly women should pit out and... i don't care about any of them. I'm going to do exactly what I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 09:40 PM
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Yes. Men will say "I want you to be my girlfriend" with literally no intention of doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 09:35 PM
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Lol.. huh? Men regularly tell women they love them to get sex, that they're not in relationships with other people when they are, that they want a relationship, etc, to get sex. The amount of men who would tell me weird shit like this, when I made NO INDICATION THAT I WANTED THEM TO TELL ME THINGS LIKE THIS... is truly disturbing. So. Yeah. If you lie to someone to get sex, then leave, that's kind of a shitty thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 09:28 PM
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Don't have the grooming skills of a toddler when you go on a first date, and show up to a first date reasonably on time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 08:44 PM
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Random reddit links aren't sources, but whatever. It doesn't really matter what a loser on the internet says. If young men want to strap chastity belts to themselves and spray on women repellent, they're free to do that. Yes, obviously rape culture is real, but helping every loserish man isn't my problem, or frankly, anyone's problem. If you're a man that watches shows like that... you're not being "influenced" negatively, you're already a f-up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 08:42 PM
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"And why only 8 out of 1000 men get married." What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 11:03 PM
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Right... but he would "Dominate" the market. They aren't waiting eagerly around for a Western Schlump to take them out on a date lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 10:01 PM
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Western men think this, for some reason. I don't know why. My grandmother punished people in her village and sent them to the gulag, and westerners think Eastern European women are pushovers when the women here are more cutthroat with more emotional intelligence than most could ever dream of
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:53 PM
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On my dad's side, they had a really dysfunctional, poor marriage. They were pressured into getting married at 17 because my grandmother got pregnant. On my mom's side, my grandfather was an abusive alcoholic and my grandma was an immigrant in a country where she barely spoke English. Does "love" really matter under these circumstances?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:47 PM
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Women are more straight-forward. Men just blatantly lie
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:28 PM
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No. They're really cringe things to say out loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:19 AM
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weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 04:19 AM
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Toss up
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:07 AM
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I find being with women significantly easier and less complicated, to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 12:52 AM
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So, you'd have sex with a high schooler?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 02:14 AM
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To what, Eugene?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 02:10 AM
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Sorry idk why I thought you said 50s. Above 30, and dating/having sex with someone that cannot legally drink, is gross <3
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 02:04 AM
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It's shitty advice because the men who will penalize you for it are low quality, typically.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:48 AM
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I don't think most 50 year old men are going to be able to keep up with a 20 year old on a hiking trial, but that was an A for effort <3
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:46 AM
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You still speak and interact with the people you have sex with. People aren't holes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:45 AM
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I think being a "cougar" is also weird. It's not that hard to date someone that can enter a bar when you're a middle aged PERSON
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 01:44 AM
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Hopefully not stick it in 18 year olds when they need Viagra?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 05:30 AM
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You can get court orders to enforce a paternity test. You can get a 23 and me test and do it yourself if you would like. Most women wouldn't engage in "fraud" they would just not know who the actual father was, which is also unfortunate, but not malicious, and difficult to prosecute.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 05:29 AM
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Sure. It's legal. I'm still allowed to find a middle-aged man pursuing a relationship with a girl that can't legally go to a bar, gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 05:22 AM
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No, as a guy in your 40s, you really shouldn't be banging "hot college babes." I don't see what you could possibly have in common with each other when she can still literally get grounded/scolded by her parents. What are you going to talk about? Her SORORITY, and that she was sad she was dropped by Theta :( I'm a 25 year old female, and dating or having sex with a man in college sounds repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 05:12 AM
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Sometimes being bald is better than having a stupid haircut
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:36 AM
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If Taylor Swift got a mullet she wouldn't look great, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 04:35 AM
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I didn't say that doing what I asked is going to make you hot, there are just ways to make yourself not ugly. Like showering. Getting a decent haircut. Wearing normal looking clothes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:28 AM
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So? We have guns now. Bombs. Poison. Something you can remember!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 12:56 AM
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I don't oppose paper abortion for men. You just seem to think that men always say what they mean. Men regularly beg women to have children with them, then disappear. Go take a paternity test? I don't care lol. I don't get this. Outside of criminal court, there is civil court, which judges things on a preponderance of evidence. Criminal court is the only place where "beyond reasonable doubt" applies. Unfortunately, that doesn't apply to day-to-day life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 12:51 AM
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It's stupid and incorrect. Men don't seem to think that anger is an emotion. Unfortunately, it is, and almost everyone in jail for a violent crime is a man lol. Being logical, and NOT emotional, is also not necessarily a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 12:47 AM
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what lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 12:46 AM
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1) I don't know. It's hard to assess because men deny that they do this, but this is what happened to every single mother in my family. 2) I don't mean breaking up due to differences, I mean people trying to get out of child support/abandoning their kid. "Immediately after" means a year after to me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 03:06 AM
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People are probably slightly more charismatic and honest than they would be otherwise, but no, I don't think people are trying that hard to be deceitful
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 11:44 PM
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