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PREVIOUS OYS: Fitness: Lacking due to gyms being closed, but doing what I can while balancing my businesses, bullshit, scared wife, two boys, and everything else. BUT I can do better.....no excuses anymore. Pulling my head out of my ass, going to control what I can, and what I can't.....fuck it! Relationship: I fucked up. I got into my wife's frame. My business is losing in the 7 figures. I held strong till yesterday and lost my frame at home yesterday. I quickly caught myself. Hugged both my so…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/20 11:49 AM
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Thanks....
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/20 02:08 PM
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Previous OYS Fitness: Taking it easier as I developed tendonitis on the left arm. I cannot believe how fucked up my head is. I catch myself thinking I am less of a person for not being able to lift heavy due to this injury.....I am in everyone's head except mine. Work: Good strides here. Anxiety is less but the problems are still there. Learning to lead with guidance instead of fear. I am realizing how naive I am, was. I cam and will be a better leader than I was. Personal mental health: Thinkin…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/20 01:26 PM
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PREVIOUS OYS Fitness/Health: Pulled for 405 again, but it was an ego lift. My body ached for a week. I need to build a stronger foundation before I try that again. Weakness is late night snacks. I am 4 days in quitting chewing tobacco. If I fail, my fault. I MUST not. In the past, I would blame this failure on my SO. It is all me.....my fault. Work: I was to distracted by pleasing and by worrying if I offend. I am the fucking boss. I can deliver the message/instructions with respect....but canno…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/20 12:27 PM
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PREVIOUS OYS Fitness: BF increased to 10.2%, I slacked and realize I tend to when I make great gains. I have been dropping the ball when I see progress in many aspects of my life. This is a common theme also in my marriage. TRP is the truth when it says this is work that we must ALWAYS keep up. Positive, I just pulled a 405 deadlift with ease last week. I cannot get comfortable, and push harder. Anger: I am catching myself making decisions to get back at my wife for all my years of allowing myse…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/20 12:31 PM
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Previous: https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/ev2trz/own_your_shit_weekly_january_28_2020/fg6cjq8?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share OYS #4 OI is a struggle and is harder for me to grasp than I thought. I am catching myself making better decisions with boundaries.....but still, internally, wasting thoughts on what my spouse is feeling in response. Realizing I am not consistent. When I show more RP behavior, when I do so well, spouse responds well...then I quickly lower my guard…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/20 02:56 PM
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OYS #1 OYS #2 The OYS thread has been good for me so far. Forcing me to face myself as well as receiving great feedback and links to some damn good perspectives. This last week I have focused on realizing the amount of resentment, anger, false EGO, and lack of leadership I am and have been displaying. I am starting to say NO more when I feel it is warranted. But often my over inflated ego puts me into a crosswind of pussy hurt. I MUST get a control of that. Even though I am slowly improving my b…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/20 01:28 PM
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Just finished it. Realizing how often I DEER subconsciously. I am seeing the point where I MUST not care if she and others get my point or not. As long as I know I am making the right decisions, I do not need to have others validate my thoughts and actions. Time to start implementing.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/20 01:09 PM
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This was a good read. It was helpful as it had examples of all of the variations of shit tests. Also an ah ha moment. The article explained the many ways you get tested.....not only from women. Reminds me this is not about my wife. It is about me and how I interact with EVERYONE. Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/20 01:27 AM
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Thank you for the vote of confidence. I have read many of the beginner books, but I did not really dive deep. As of now, I started to listen to the pod casts from the Red Pill Professor, reading posts on the aide bar, going back to comments to my previous posts, and so on. Once I get a stronger grasp, I will go back to the books I sped through.....and take my time. Will definately read the link you sent this week.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/20 12:53 PM
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Shit....you are right...
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/20 09:06 PM
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OYS #2 2-27-20 Previous: OYS #1 Stats are in the link above. Right now: Long week facing lots of truths. My first OYS actually being put into words is making it more real. I always knew, but never owned it. That is different now and feeling more fucking confused than ever. Last week: Much better at STFU. For now, I address shit tests with STFU. Saying NO more now. Trying to differentiate requests between her being a lazy woman vs. something she definately needs my assistance with. Small thing bu…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/20 02:41 PM
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I got a lot from your previous comments, sincerely did.....it pissed me off, but I needed it....so I am obliged to you. As for this whole matter of my lifting stats and bf....believe it or not.....makes no difference to me.....I know.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/20 01:21 AM
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I have posted in the OYS thread.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/20 10:33 PM
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Done. Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/20 04:05 AM
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OYS #1 Stats: 5"10, 200 lbs, 42 yo, two sons; 6 and 8, married 10 years, bench max 315, squat max 365 high bar, dead max 365, bf 8.9; this is correct TRP History: Dabbled for a couple years, read NMMNG, Rational Male (all three), Book of Pook, MAP, MMSLP, and lied to myself and you on sidebar, truth is I have read a lot of the sidebar but without real intent. Posted a few times in MRP. Recently got banned, and I think I am realizing why. Had my ass handed to me by all of you today...fucking than…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/20 04:03 AM
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Stats are accurate. Rebuilding squat from low bar to high bar. Just started deads after long break due to back issues. I understand your skepticism, but these are accurate.
/r/askMRP20/01/20 04:02 PM
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Yes, that is EXACTLY why I am pissed. And feel stuck
/r/askMRP14/11/19 12:01 PM
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This has merit. I AGREE. All of this is on me. Need to put my ego aside and will work on Kino.
/r/askMRP14/11/19 11:59 AM
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This will get better over time, but stay consistent. Also, good stretching pre and post leg workouts are key.
/r/askMRP12/10/19 01:07 PM
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I couldn't finish the article as the guy is/was me and it made me want to puke. Be a fucking man that makes your wife want to be with over Instagram. Now on to doing that myself......
/r/askMRP27/09/19 09:13 PM
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Thank you for this post. I finally see it, for myself. For the longest time, years, I felt like I was missing a vital aspect of RP. I now see I was not missing it, I am allowing my ego to be mistaken for "right intentions". You have been doing all you have been doing to feed your ego and to keep your thumb on your girl. She allowed it because it suited her while she was in school. Now she doesn't need it and wants a real man that will "earn" and "deserve" her submission. And till now, I have bee…
/r/askMRP24/09/19 06:19 PM
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Brilliant.....thank you for sharing...
/r/askMRP22/09/19 02:37 PM
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Thanks brother. For me, I keep second guessing myself. I know what I want, and I know the direction I must lead us in....but the hamster keeps turning that damn wheel. Frame is key with OI. Let's keep in touch and keep each other on our toes. Cheers!
/r/askMRP21/09/19 10:20 PM
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Thank you. I needed to be reminded that all of this is for me....
/r/askMRP21/09/19 12:33 PM
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Read NMMNG
/r/askMRP14/09/19 11:57 AM
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It is interesting, the timing of your comment. Last few weeks I have noticed more smiles from women. I even started to smile back and also carry a few conversations. For the first time, no guilt and gives me a huge bolt to my self esteem. I have not taken the previous posters advice. Fucked my wife well last night....slowly taking steps from Sex God Method. Had her repeating, "I am your pussy....you own my pussy....". All baby steps, and I am keeping myself aware not to lose focus as history has…
/r/askMRP13/09/19 10:31 AM
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Thanks for that insight. Truly.
/r/askMRP11/09/19 09:07 PM
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Wise words......and agree.....feminism went way too far and will be down fall of men, women, and the family unit. I am staying the course. Wife is still following my lead better than she has in the past. Update: She breaks her silence yesterday evening when I come home from work with a smile and a hug as if NOTHING happened. I STFU, and give her a hug back as if all is cool. She has casual conversations with me the whole evening and supported directions I gave the boys last night. She puts the b…
/r/askMRP10/09/19 10:55 PM
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I know. Basic things are huge stepping stones for me right now. And all because of my own doing. I gave her the fucking keys to my life. You know.....I may actually take your advice....soon....but for now....I am getting the boys on track, I want to maintain it as a new normal, let my balls drop....and then......
/r/askMRP09/09/19 07:25 PM
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I was the guy that was indirectly and directly presenting my direction for the family as options. I know exactly what you mean here. It has been around a month where I have stopped, and reminding myself to STFU. I keep having these impulses to, but all of the comments have been critical and extremely helpful and I have caught myself. For now, picturing a relationship where I am in charge and guiding the family without ego and OI is foreign.....but nothing else has worked in 10 years.....so here …
/r/askMRP09/09/19 11:48 AM
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Lifting, reading, maintaining and improving the current course, and will keep STFU! I appreciate your points and they help seeing things more clearly.
/r/askMRP08/09/19 03:44 PM
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Sweet! I will check ebay today. Much appreciated...
/r/askMRP08/09/19 03:41 PM
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I visit the sidebar daily and not rushing....finally stopped skimming and slowed way down. This led me to re read NMMNG. It is amazing how it reads differently the second time around. I am searching for a copy of the Sex God Method and have not been successful. As for lifting, going strong....it is a habit I do not compromise on.
/r/askMRP08/09/19 02:51 PM
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UPDATE.... I have been consistent with the boys in the following: Not eating in the room. No electronics during dinner amd I actually sit with them and we have conversations. Helping my older son with homework. Limiting time on the Nintendo Switch. Throwing trash. Emptying laundry. Etc. Then a few days ago I was helping my older son with spelling words. Wife, as usual, butts in and says my random way of bringing up words for him to spell is all wrong and does so in her usual demeaning tone in fr…
/r/askMRP05/09/19 10:35 AM
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Don't fall for it......just keep practicing your frame with her and perfect it for when you land a much better woman....or a few..
/r/askMRP04/09/19 06:32 PM
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Leave....no kids, no baggage, just leave.....
/r/askMRP03/09/19 09:24 AM
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When getting back to the gym, do not strive for max lifts. Spend a week or two with moderate weight and push for 12 to 15 reps. This will allow for good blood flow, and will get your muscles back to being used to lifting. Don't focus on how much weight for the first couple weeks. Just focus on lifting to exhaustion. Your body will tell you when you are ready to go big and heavy.
/r/askMRP02/09/19 02:36 PM
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All, I want to thank all of you men for your candid comments. They helped reinforced what I MUST do and was too much of a pussy to. Focus on me. Detach expectations. Take control. Lead the family. Outcome independence is the toughest part though..... Cheers....
/r/askMRP29/08/19 11:52 AM
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I appreciate all the insights, hard truths, and just plain old reality checks. One step at a time, but taking first step to lead the boys. Set round rules for them for playing video games. Put away their things, eat dinner, finish homework first. Break rules once, lose privileges for one day. Break rules twice, lose for two days. Third time a week. Wife is challenging the rules and only wants to deduct time rather than the entire day. I explained that it will not teach them appreciation and good…
/r/askMRP27/08/19 10:31 PM
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You hot something here.....I feel I like, love the idea of who I want my wife to be.....a supportive, sexual, wife.....shit....
/r/askMRP27/08/19 10:24 AM
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