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Any group that makes light of sexual abuse, is not the one you should be in. Join a support group that includes victims of all genders. Yes, I call people who went through it, victims, because that is what such individuals are. I don't know where you live, but try to find it online. If you are LGBT, try and find a center (hope you're not in a country where it's illegal or has societal stigma).
/r/ExRedPill06/06/25 09:35 PM
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None of those were bad or derogatory in anyway. If a girl did this for a guy, she wouldn't be told to "chill". I thought you made some sexist remarks. Well, whatever. Good that you moved on. You seem to be young, so I'll just tell you this, from now on, avoid hanging out with those people. Find new friends who give you better advice than "chill" and support you as friends.
/r/ExRedPill19/05/25 12:50 PM
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Like what?
/r/ExRedPill19/05/25 04:13 AM
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I don't know what comments you made to make everyone uncomfortable, but I see one positive thing in your post and it is that you took rejection well. That is how you should take it and move on. Very healthy.
/r/ExRedPill18/05/25 10:49 PM
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Tate is not going to be anything in the UK except an inmate.
/r/ExRedPill26/04/25 10:51 AM
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Which claim?
/r/ExRedPill26/04/25 10:11 AM
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Yes, all women. It's not an exaggeration. It actually is. Yes, women actually have been. Anything not seen as "masculine", is rejected and mocked by women. If they do accept it, it's often in a very condescending way.
/r/ExRedPill22/04/25 07:29 PM
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Oh you mean like how all women blame men for theirs? And you're wrong. It was never that bad. Women were shaming men not just for not having wives, but also the ones they thought were not joining wars. They used to shame men who were on shore leave. And yeah, women did used to shame men even before the great wars. Thanks for enforcing my point.
/r/ExRedPill22/04/25 10:41 AM
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Actually, the act of shaming men for not having a wife was started by women. Then other men joined in. It was during WW1 and WW2 where women and children were left alone and if a man didn't "take responsibility" he was a coward.
/r/ExRedPill22/04/25 08:28 AM
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I've never seen a guy praised for being promiscuous, except like in movies. Guys don't go around high-fiving each other after sex.
/r/ExRedPill22/04/25 08:26 AM
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Because that's what young boys have been conditioned to believe. They have been conditioned to believe that if you don't have a gf, you are less of a man. Men get insulted or mocked for being a virgin, women get praised. I know this thread loves dumping on men, but that is the reality.
/r/ExRedPill21/04/25 06:58 AM
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I already gave you your answer above. Either accept that you can't change the past, but you can change your future or keep spiraling down. We always have a choice. Oh and quit comparing yourself to the people around you.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/24 06:50 PM
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What are your regrets? That you couldn't have sex when you were young? Or that you couldn't have sex with young women? Or just couldn't have sex? Or you couldn't experience the feeling of sex in your youth? Two of them, you can change (as long as it's not "young young", this depends on your age too, because if you are in your 30's, it's definitely possible to be with someone who is in their 20's). The others are out of your control. Acceptance is the first step to recovery.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/24 06:12 PM
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Simple. I don't care what other people have done in their lives. I just care about what I have done and do I have any regrets? So far, no. So far, I just don't have my life revolve around other people's pasts or present.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/24 05:31 PM
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These two are not inherently bad. Depending on the context. But the way those grifters are promoting it, is brain-dead. If you are exceptionally rich and you made that money on your own, man or woman, and the one that you're with, isn't on your financial level, then yes, a reasonable prenup is in order. Same goes for DNA test. If you sense something is wrong or if the timeline doesn't make sense or if the child actually comes out looking like something it shouldn't, yes, DNA test can be in order…
/r/ExRedPill13/10/24 12:34 PM
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Don't read them...
/r/ExRedPill27/08/24 12:49 PM
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It's a violation of privacy. On both "sides".
/r/ExRedPill15/06/24 09:51 AM
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Stop calling men "ugly".
/r/ExRedPill04/05/24 08:23 PM
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Do you think equity is good?
/r/ExRedPill04/05/24 09:00 AM
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Firstly, get new "friends". Second, don't call guys "ugly". 3rd, why only two extremes? Do you live in a place where only super hot and super "ugly" guys exist? What even is this post?
/r/ExRedPill28/04/24 02:44 PM
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You are wrong on both counts because your source is an instagram post and reddits subs.
/r/ExRedPill09/03/24 12:08 PM
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Imagine a life so good that the only worry you have in it, is "I wanna have sex". I envy you.
/r/ExRedPill25/02/24 01:49 PM
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I'll just leave these here. https://bmcpsychiatry.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/s12888-017-1398-8 https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/35598742/ https://thehill.com/policy/healthcare/4009420-more-women-attempt-suicide-more-men-die-by-suicide/ https://www.bbc.com/future/article/20190313-why-more-men-kill-themselves-than-women
/r/ExRedPill18/12/23 08:44 PM
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Same reason that a-holes calling women 'whores' get millions of likes. Idiots can be of both genders. Very basic answer, but sometimes, 'basic' does a good job of explaining the fucked up stuff. Also, it's tik tok lol What do you expect? MENSA? XD
/r/ExRedPill09/12/23 01:22 PM
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Maybe or maybe she was just socially inept. She grew up in a rich family, most likely detached from life while looking for a bf/husband. That does affect social development. But let's not diagnose anyone.
/r/ExRedPill03/12/23 01:08 PM
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It got hijacked by cons. It used to be about understanding how the society, a.k.a. 'the system' imprisons us with lies and laws made up to benefit those who control it. But, it turned into, "all women are whores and don't deserve to vote, so just get rich, use women like whores so you can call them that later and move on to the next and if a woman says no to you, she's just a whore who only goes for the good-looking rich guy". Mind you, looking for a good-looking financially well off partner is …
/r/ExRedPill03/12/23 12:41 PM
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Turn their logic against them I suppose. It won't work though, because when you're too deep into something, people don't change their minds. Look at politics, religion, gender, etc. etc.
/r/ExRedPill29/11/23 01:54 PM
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Pear and F&F have no "good ideas" at all. It's mostly just regurgitation without knowledge of the subject and re-packaged in a very sick, twisted minded thought process for the mentally disturbed. In fact, most cons are like that.
/r/ExRedPill28/11/23 02:41 PM
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Okay.
/r/ExRedPill27/11/23 08:44 PM
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Wow. Okay.
/r/ExRedPill27/11/23 02:08 PM
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Ha! Oh yeah I heard about them. The radioactive worms. They put RP on the mainstream map/radar, but in all the wrong ways. I still think they're some sort of agents sent in to destroy the RP philosophy from within, but I guess that'd sound too "tinfoily". That Pearl is the worst hypocrite of them all. A&P covered her and F&F. TBYS covered them too. The way they talk about women and talk to women disturbed me to no limit.
/r/ExRedPill27/11/23 01:35 PM
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This is an interesting point. I'm interested in this too. I don't keep up with RP now, but whoever got canceled, I'm sure it was for good. RP, was actually around since the Matrix times. That was the analogy. But it hasn't been that for over a decade, almost two decades now.
/r/ExRedPill27/11/23 01:27 PM
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I'm sorry, I don't know who JBP is, I don't follow any modern RP stuff. It's too tainted for me now. But I'm glad you have this mindset. And yes, we can choose what we let in. However, we do need to have a balanced rational mindset so that we can make the correct choice of what we're letting in. Pity that most don't have that sense and become toxic as a result. But that, I think is a flaw in their upbringing. Just my two.
/r/ExRedPill27/11/23 01:13 PM
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Why are you steering the conversation to white supremacy? What's my original point?
/r/ExRedPill27/11/23 12:26 PM
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Don't people usually say the same about religion too? "I only choose the good stuff". The current RP is not as it used to be though. It was supposed to point out the realities of society as a whole, for men and women. Modern RP is far from it. So that's something that I wouldn't touch, but the point is simple. Instead of trying to see things from a perspective other than one's own, people will be so quick to shun anyone who does. This is why I don't think social media is a good place for any ser…
/r/ExRedPill27/11/23 12:21 PM
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It's so strange that someone with an unpopular opinion immediately gets down-voted instead of hearing out their perspective. Living in a bubble is not healthy. It creates a sick, intolerant society. It applies to everyone.
/r/ExRedPill27/11/23 08:58 AM
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When I was RP, I never had any political affiliation. To this day, I don't. In fact, I think politics just divides people so they can be ruled easily and fools choose sides instead of basic humanity. I am not anti-abortion, because that is a subjective matter and people have a right to choose. But it is complex if it's couples we're talking about. I do think pay gap is a myth in modern day, however, it did exist once upon a time till about the 90's and the matter of pay gap is more complex than …
/r/ExRedPill09/05/23 02:52 PM
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Not really ridiculous, but I've heard some make like $40 barely off of it so...Yeah. Plus there's always the fact that now you're on the internet, with everything showing. Not the best thing to have over you. If you think that about good-looking women being able to make more money with relative ease, then it'd be kinda true, but it's true for good-looking guys too. Of course, being skilled in a very much wanted and niche area of expertise will make you way more than any of the above. So...yeah. …
/r/ExRedPill19/11/22 10:03 PM
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Why does your life revolve around women? Get a goal in life, friend, alright? At your age, you should be driven towards your own life. Also, it's "loser", not 'looser'. The latter is 'loose', as in, not tight.
/r/ExRedPill15/11/22 09:32 PM
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The individual who came up with the terminology for scientific purposes once said he regrets doing that and even retracted the terms, but unfortunately, it was too late.
/r/ExRedPill15/11/22 09:14 PM
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Many young men do unfortunately, yes. We've all been there. I think the comment that perfectly sums up everything on this topic is this one; https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/yrubb7/comment/ivvrptt/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3
/r/ExRedPill11/11/22 08:04 PM
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This is an unbelievably amazing and well written comment. I swear I'm not exaggerating when I say that this is the most rational and well phrased statement about the state of things today.
/r/ExRedPill11/11/22 08:02 PM
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Firstly, society is dismissive of men's needs in general. No need to deny that just to push a narrative. Secondly, no one indeed owes anyone anything in general. Thirdly, women in many countries are also ignored and overtly oppressed and harmed, to this day. In first world, it is less so. Fourthly, I've noticed that there are some men haters here and they most likely came from FDS, only they claim that men have distasteful attitude. I've come across other members here, who are genuinely trying t…
/r/ExRedPill06/11/22 10:40 PM
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Red Pill started out as an idea where you start asking questions and find the answers to why the things are the way they are and who made them this way. You start seeing the dents and flaws in the system and why they exist. It was an idea of awakening within an individual from a slumber of conditioning that we all go through during our childhood and that is stuck in us well into our adulthood. Red Pill, was supposed to bring us out of that conditioning and open our minds to true free thinking wh…
/r/ExRedPill06/11/22 10:35 PM
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The reason is what matters. The reason why you do that. There are many MGTOW who do not promote promiscuity for both men and women and say that it's better to be with as less partners as possible and settle with one good trustworthy individual. But RP cons usually PUA's always promote the one-sided hypocrisy. And no, not everyone can or will find someone to be with. That is just the reality of it. So, in that case, just find something that will make you happy on your own.
/r/ExRedPill04/11/22 01:03 PM
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That's not sexism dude. That's maybe anxiety due to some reason. Please learn the meaning of the term first. Remember, if you don't identify the problem correctly, you will not be able to form the right solution to it.
/r/ExRedPill03/11/22 12:40 PM
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There are no absolute rights and wrongs. It would be a simpler world if there were though.
/r/ExRedPill02/11/22 09:34 PM
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Don't give up, just move on from nothing to something that does give you meaning. Do you have everything you want in life? Everything? Then why are you bothered anyway? If not, then get to work on getting that (aside from a gf).
/r/ExRedPill02/11/22 09:23 PM
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Nothing. You do nothing. Simple fact is the harder you try to get something, the farther away it gets. Relax, enjoy your life. You said you're 24, it's fine. Even at 34, it's fine. Just focus on other things that make you happy in life.
/r/ExRedPill02/11/22 09:13 PM
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That's not sexism. We reserve the right to choose who to speak to. However, why don't you speak to women?
/r/ExRedPill02/11/22 09:08 PM
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Why do you think you're sexist? Have you ever discriminated against women or men? Do you think women should be treated less than men or vice versa? Do you think either is superior to the other? If not, then you're not sexist.
/r/ExRedPill29/10/22 08:34 PM
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I'm mixed. I never had any problems. Plus it depends on where you are. In fact, in some places, you'd have an advantage, especially if you're doing well and taking care of yourself. You want to Red Pill yourself? Well, red pill yourself in a way that makes you see the actual truth about yourself. Red Pill doesn't mean go out and hate women. That's what the grifters want you to think. Red Pill is knowing the truth for what it is. See within yourself. And see how you can improve your life first. T…
/r/ExRedPill25/10/22 07:21 PM
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Amazing comment. Just perfect.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/22 07:20 PM
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Sorry you can't digest facts or need proof of any claims. It's not a strong suit of many nowadays. It's okay, I understand.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/22 02:03 PM
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Hanlon's Razor. Are you implying that the OP is stupid? Wow. Okay. Why would you want to discuss the old RP? The new one is causing the problem. You are claiming to be the "OG Red piller" whatever that means, since RP is only one, the new one is just some insecure jerks hurting both men and women. But since you're claiming to be "OG" you should know the difference between the new and old. Yes, even back then there were whole seminars run and those PUA guys were never censored at all. Try holding…
/r/ExRedPill25/10/22 01:26 PM
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That's not an ad hominem. You don't seem to be familiar what RP used to be. And are not familiar with what it has become, how it has degenerated now. I did not insult you, I stated my observation. Don't nitpick and twist my words. What you described is being used by PUA's. Yes, it does happen. But the OP was trying to form a connection between RP, which is a lose toxic ideology on the internet which vulnerable or bitter young men are conned into believing, with a serious matter of sex cults. The…
/r/ExRedPill25/10/22 12:41 PM
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I'm saying RP is not involved with sex cults. Unless you have strong evidence of this you should stop spreading disinformation. OLD RP to begin with was never an organization or anything. It was an ideology of waking up to the reality of things. Something which you don't seem to be familiar with. RP TODAY, which you see, is just a bunch of grifters teaching young men to be hateful. HOWEVER, if you provide the PROOF, EVIDENCE, for such a major accusation, then feel free to inform people of it and…
/r/ExRedPill25/10/22 11:18 AM
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This is absolutely false, unless you have proof. Don't unnecessarily try to create disinformation. RP is not associated with a sex cult or any such thing. Not all predators who coerce or blackmail or manipulate are RP. Most of them are just predators and psychopaths. This is a messed up post. Because you conflating the issues of sexual assault with the issue of RP.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/22 11:12 AM
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Ask reddit would be more appropriate for this question. Besides, this depends on individuals. Very generalized question.
/r/ExRedPill22/10/22 10:49 AM
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Tik tok is the worst place for reference on ANYTHING. In fact, most social media is. Including reddit. Believe it or not, if people acted in real life like they do on reddit, they'd get their asses kicked or killed. Also, your idea of RP was very corrupted. Maybe you should've done your research and you'd have known that the original RP never ever said women were hoes or disloyal or any such thing and in fact it pointed out that we're all in it together and we should work together against our tr…
/r/ExRedPill20/10/22 10:48 AM
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It is very recent. Especially after grifters like FF and others showed up. RP was about becoming aware of the realities of our society and it showed who was actually harming us. Hint - It's not women or other races and religions, it's the ones who make all the decisions in our society and it goes in way deep. But cons detracted from that.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/22 02:20 PM
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They don't dunk on RP, they dunk on the grifters that use the RP name to corrupt young men. Aba and Preach are what RP was originally when it was adapted in the 90's. Good and helpful.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/22 12:28 PM
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/r/ExRedPill16/10/22 11:31 AM
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FDS infiltrator spotted. This isn't the right place for you, man-hater. I don't associate with men-haters. FDS outright tells women to manipulate and even hurt men. They're bitter and exploitative. It's not about "withholding sex". Don't lie. Everyone knows FDS is filled with psychopaths who despise men for just being men. Don't try to turn it around and make psychopaths into "good guys".
/r/ExRedPill15/10/22 02:35 PM
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Not sure about that, I haven't been diagnosed, but I do have dyslexia haha if that's something that counts.
/r/ExRedPill15/10/22 12:11 PM
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Well, I agree on that. So, pretty much, yes, that's it. I think I misinterpreted your initial comment. I'm glad at least someone remembers where RP comes from.
/r/ExRedPill15/10/22 11:59 AM
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Please stop trying to "teach" me stuff. I know what PUA is. I also know that it's an off shoot of RP. RP is not an ideologue. Red Pill has its roots in becoming aware of the reality around us. Which was then hijacked by the cons and grifters, who became the PUA's. This has existed for over two decades. Saying that it's an ideologue, destroys what it was supposed to be and blurs what is has become. Even black pill comes from RP. These are RP, who chose to go to a darker side of complete hatred an…
/r/ExRedPill15/10/22 09:02 AM
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Many PUA guys are RP. RP is divided into two or more off-shoots.
/r/ExRedPill15/10/22 06:42 AM
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FDS literally say the same things to young women about men, including how to manipulate guys, as many PUA RP guys say to the young men.
/r/ExRedPill15/10/22 06:42 AM
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Yeah, the same solution I'd have for a guy. Stop going to that place and work on building your self-esteem. Stop getting in relationships until you build yourself to be a better person.
/r/ExRedPill14/10/22 01:01 PM
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I know what it is. RPW just seems like a synonym for FDS.
/r/ExRedPill14/10/22 12:59 PM
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Are you sure you fell into RP? Or was it FDS? Those two are similar and can be easily confused. FDS is RP for women. It leads many women to that dark path. I don't know your background, but what led you to be insecure to begin with? That might've had something to do with you falling into this, rather than RP, if at all.
/r/ExRedPill14/10/22 12:01 PM
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Can we please stop using the word "incel"? Please? It's not helping anyone. The rest, well, in a way it's not inaccurate, but it can be debated.
/r/ExRedPill14/10/22 11:59 AM
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Find places where there are more single people. What places do you go to? Any examples? Because if you go to places where couples go to have fun and do activities, you're gonna be out of luck.
/r/ExRedPill13/10/22 11:11 AM
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And I, with you. Good day. Edit: Wow. Blocked for stating facts that you don't disagree with. Despite being so polite. Nice.
/r/ExRedPill12/10/22 01:07 PM
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Indeed. A young man does need a good role model. A father who's not a good role model teaching his son about life, about becoming a responsible man, is as good as nothing. It's a pity that men who are willing to take on the role of a role model are less. IIRC once there was a woman who claimed child support from a guy who was being a role model to her son. Of course, the court denied it, but someone who's unstable might do this. However, I don't think that reason should be a valid one, because i…
/r/ExRedPill12/10/22 12:15 PM
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Interesting anecdote for sure.
/r/ExRedPill12/10/22 12:08 PM
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Please don't. Don't use strawman arguments. Don't call me "red pill" to discredit me. Don't do that. Be civil. Don't fall into gaslighting tactics, I honestly thought you were better than using these cheap tactics and mind games when you don't agree with someone. And yes, I am definitely right. There is objective beauty. Period. You're denying facts because you don't wanna sound superficial. I haven't contradicted anything. And my "wall of text" was explaining to you the difference between objec…
/r/ExRedPill12/10/22 11:46 AM
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Can you give us another example of when you've been treated less than your mom? Or other women. This example doesn't count, because in a hotel, usually they don't let you just take towels, especially without any reason.
/r/ExRedPill12/10/22 10:53 AM
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You are confusing personal preference for objective good-looks. The ones who upvoted you and downvoted me also seem to be doing the same and are reacting emotionally to a logical discussion. Your whole premise is based on "universal" good looks. I never denied that there aren't universal good looks. I've been saying that there is indeed such a thing as objective beauty. Denying it is pointless. As for me using extreme examples, well, yes, definitely, because that states the point that I'm making…
/r/ExRedPill11/10/22 05:30 AM
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Again, attractive and good-looking are two different things. Tell me, which one do you find objectively attractive and good-looking both. This or This. This or This. That's both genders with equal search parameters. That's it.
/r/ExRedPill10/10/22 12:22 PM
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No pal, I'm sorry, but there is clearly a global good-looking standard. I guess, this is the one thing I just don't agree with. And it's fine though. One doesn't have to be good-looking to be attractive. Attractiveness is different from looks. Attraction is more than just looks. Take a male model, and take Bill Burr. Male model will be better looking, but I can guarantee most will still be attracted to Bill Burr because of the way he is. Not just women. There are plenty of examples like that, bu…
/r/ExRedPill10/10/22 12:07 PM
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It's not. It was a woman friend of mine who unknowingly pulled me out of the toxic side of RP. She's married, with a child, I've met her husband countless times. I've been to her house and we've sat and talked for hours, we've cooked meals together. Everything was platonic and still is. She's basically like my older sister. In the beginning before I knew her, I did feel some attraction, but when I saw she was married with a child, I brushed it off and didn't bother, because I'm not stupid. After…
/r/ExRedPill10/10/22 11:21 AM
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Very well said. I would kind of disagree with one thing though, only partially, which is that good-looking is subjective. Actually, there is such a thing as objective beauty or objective good looks in general. So while, the preferences might be different, good looks, will be good looks. It's just a technicality, and I think you meant it in the 'preference' way, which I do agree. But just thought I'd point that out.
/r/ExRedPill10/10/22 11:18 AM
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Yes, it's a valid concern. You should be appreciated for who you are and not what you bring. That, at best is just a bonus that shouldn't matter. It sucks to read the you were in an abusive relationship. I know how that feels. Glad to read you're on your way to do good things for yourself. That being said, don't apply that abusive woman's attributes to others. Also, don't apply the "safe" thing to other women either. Generalizations are dangerous and often misleading. Here's a little tip, never …
/r/ExRedPill09/10/22 11:23 AM
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Your points are sound, but that doesn't answer his question. His concerns are valid. As long as he doesn't go into the toxic mindset.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/22 11:20 AM
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Aww That's a shame. You could edit the words in description, if you want. Or just add a note to it. Anyway, I just want to make sure a good point stays a good point. Words matter after all. Everything else is sound logic though.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/22 04:15 AM
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I fully agree on this. I have nothing to add. Can I just ask that you change "good guys" to "nice guys" instead? For better context and understanding. It's the "nice guys" who often say that, good guys are just good men, good people, their actions speak louder than words.
/r/ExRedPill08/10/22 10:44 AM
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You're fine. The problem is her, based on your other comments down there. Move on. Get with someone who doesn't call you "cold" for just being sincere. You're not insecure either, you're confident in who you are. Continue on. Also, this question seems like it belongs on Ask Reddit. Anyway...
/r/ExRedPill07/10/22 11:38 AM
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This 100%
/r/ExRedPill07/10/22 11:36 AM
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I'm not someone who thinks high body count is a good thing. However I do think we don't have a right to judge anyone based on that. Why did I write that before answering your question? To let you know that despite this not being something that I'm okay with, I do not think that what the GRIFTERS say is correct. Aside from the fact that the only thing even remotely close to pair bonding study I came across on this is this, which is not really close to even being that, the other reasons many grift…
/r/ExRedPill06/10/22 12:52 PM
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The answer to your first question, yes. And they're all self-made women. Like I said, you're assuming things about a stranger. Did you read the full article and the links that it links to? Apart from the sexual assault, of which women are higher in victims (abnormally high I'd say, which is a huge mess and a REAL PROBLEM btw), physical assault statistics are quite close. So you do acknowledge that wage gap isn't as simple a topic and that there are more women who are earning more than men, albei…
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 01:46 PM
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Exercise? lol It's not even a warm-up. Just see where the money leads to. Where the influence and power leads to. You'll see who it benefits, the how is obvious. How to cut them out? That's on people. But, let's face it, the conditioning is too strong and it's never gonna happen. On an individual scale, maybe just force yourself to see things from a perspective other than yours and try to understand it and consciously remove any bias or strong emotions by learning to regulate them better.
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 12:12 PM
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Saying that you think women in my life are feminists without knowing anything about them and their ideas on the matter, is an assumption that you're making. That's what I pointed out. That's all. Here are some statistics on gendered violence, it's clear there's not much difference. https://ncadv.org/STATISTICS As for pay gaps, https://time.com/3222543/wage-pay-gap-myth-feminism/ https://www.forbes.com/sites/karinagness/2016/04/12/dont-buy-into-the-gender-pay-gap-myth/?sh=5c52a93e2596 https://www…
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 12:08 PM
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Sure man, whatever you say. Thanks for the links. I'll surely look them up. Thanks for being civil in this comment at least. However, I'd appreciate that you didn't assume things about women in my life, since I know them better than you and they've openly told me what they think about feminism. I'm glad to hear that you dislike FDS though. That's at least good to hear. I do think patriarchy exists, but not so much here than other countries. I also think that it's not as simple as many make it ou…
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 10:58 AM
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Whatever you say, man...Maybe talk about other stuff with people around you besides feminism in your life, or you'll be the boring guy who talks about only that. I'm not sure what you're doing here on a sub called "ex-redpill" if you've never been red pilled, seems weird. But you know what? I'm out. You are free to think whatever you want. You haven't given any proof of what feminists here are doing about Iran situation, and all your claims are just wild and baseless. You just keep portraying wo…
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 09:59 AM
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Look just don't resort to ad hominem insults, don't devolve the conversation, just end it instead. It's fine if you don't have a rebuttal because you just aren't informed enough. No need to be a sore loser. Just bow out in a classy way, be a rational individual. I have spoken to "actual" women (as opposed to what? "Unactual" ones?) who aren't nameless, faceless social media bots (literal ones and figurative ones), maybe you should try it after getting off of reddit. FYI, this isn't about "actual…
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 09:32 AM
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Because that would destroy the narrative of the grifters who want to divide people and politicians who want to rule.
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 07:04 AM
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RP doesn't hate men. The grifters who claim to be RP, the PUA, etc. they hate men. Just because it's your experience, doesn't mean it's not generally true. I want feminists to not join in FDS. Go look look at that sub and see how many feminists are in there. There is no "war on women's reproduction rights" at least not in the first world countries. Any law even remotely insinuating that has been repealed. Please do your research. Also, women definitely have bodily autonomy, more than ever. Pleas…
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 07:02 AM
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The best way to rebut me is to find something that aggressively bans FDS and extremist toxic feminist ideas just like we have so many aggressive bans and throttles on RP based things (which I'm not against. I can't believe I have to specify that just in case someone doesn't understand, that I'm only looking for equal treatment for toxic ideas). As for the FDS sub, just use the search bar above.
/r/ExRedPill03/10/22 09:59 PM
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Again, you're not grasping what I said. Firstly, FDS is far from RP. It's straight up man hating and they openly claim to be feminists. Maybe someone should stop them from calling themselves that. But no one is. Secondly, like I said, RP is being policed, hard. Even youtube throttles their videos. I don't see FDS feminist channels being throttled. This is where you're just not able to or not wanting to see the difference. The downvote proves that it may be a willing choice on your part or on who…
/r/ExRedPill03/10/22 08:31 PM
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I personally don't think feminism is about equality. I think it's about women's rights. Period. It started when women wanted the right to vote and wanted the financial independence. The history is out there for anyone wanting to confirm that. If it was about equality among all and equal opportunity, it'd be called Egalitarianism. What most of them are aiming for is "equity". Which is absolutely toxic. You don't get a free ride just because you're born a certain way. That's not equal opportunity.…
/r/ExRedPill03/10/22 12:52 PM
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Actually we do have things that do their best to stop RP. This sub is proof of that. TRP being banned is also proof of that, also mainstream constantly calling out RP, etc. is also proof of that. I haven't seen anything even remotely similar happen to FDS or just any other extremist feminists at all. Your logic here is flawed. We indeed should regulate both extremist perspectives to not let them sway those who are unsure in their direction.
/r/ExRedPill03/10/22 12:50 PM
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Well said.
/r/ExRedPill03/10/22 12:48 PM
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Some do. Also, most of the time, after certain age and life experience, you know who's lying and who isn't.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/22 03:04 PM
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I read everything. It sucks what you and your husband went through. IMO, religion does just as bad as it does good, maybe more in some cases. Pity. The concept of religion is good. Anyway, I agree with your point here about knowing someone's story. Honestly, that'll tell you everything you need to know about them. Very true. P.S. Are you sure you wanna write down all that on a public forum? That kind of stuff can be exploited online. Just a caution.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/22 03:02 PM
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Dude, just back up what you say with studies that you claim exist or at least acting like they exist. If they do, from a valid source, then go ahead. Then someone else can post a counter-study and people can derive their own conclusions. Just post a link. Or else, it's nothing more than your personal opinion.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/22 02:57 PM
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Trifecta. But it seems someone didn't like you stating balanced facts.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/22 02:51 PM
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Fully agree 100%. Man! Another absolutely perfect comment.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/22 02:50 PM
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My god! This comment is so rational. I honestly have not seen these points articulated so well without any bias. I just needed to say that.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/22 02:49 PM
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Thank you for sharing. I wouldn't assume anything about you, but if I had to just say one thing, I'd say, try and focus on yourself for a while. When I say focus on yourself, I mean your happiness. What makes you happy? Besides women and dating. Try and distract yourself. The more you focus on something that isn't in your control, the less attention you pay to things that are. That is all.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/22 02:57 PM
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How to tell? Just ask him. Most won't hesitate to tell you. To "write you off"? Tell him you are a 3rd wave feminist and that you love FDS and have been getting advice about relationship from them and are thinking of following it all. Also, that you want an open relationship with other men. Or you can grow up and just break-up with him like an adult and move on and tell him to move on, I.E. if he's not a threat or abusive. You didn't mention that part. Up to you. Because if he's not abusive, you…
/r/ExRedPill01/10/22 11:07 AM
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I knew I was talking to a misandrist. You are the problem that plagues our society. You men haters are no different than the women hating moronic guys. You both are of the same ilk. A plague on our society that only looks to divide men and women because you're bitter and unlovable. Yeah, "original", just like your clown emoji, you man-hater. Sane women don't talk like you do and sane women don't hate men like you clearly do. Stop pretending to be otherwise. I have no qualms about blocking misand…
/r/ExRedPill01/10/22 02:54 AM
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I have been saying the same thing. Men don't. It's a term that has been forced upon men and some (toxic) men took it and made it their own. Once again, you're calling me an incel here. See? This is why I was calling you out. Wow. Way to twist my words to fit your narrative. You really are something. I'm defending it now? Really? After all that. You're gonna say that. You're no defender of men. You're a hater of men. A misandrist. The real mask of yours has come off here and you deflected to hide…
/r/ExRedPill01/10/22 02:51 AM
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I accused you of othering because of the way you phrased your sentences. The way you wrote your statement and assuming things, you could've fooled me into thinking that you were speaking on behalf of men. What an ironic thing to say I have a persecution complex. Projection is your strong suit. Incel mindset is not common. That's where you're going wrong. All society does is condemn it, that's not rectifying it at all. In fact, it has gotten worse and spread further because of those supposed "eff…
/r/ExRedPill01/10/22 02:42 AM
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And now you're moving to gaslighting "I said no such thing, you're the one thinking about it wrongly". Ugh...Good lord. And you're an expert on men's intentions, right? A clairvoyant mind-reader. Right. Now you're accusing me of doing the same thing JP is doing. Are you serious? When did I ever say that it's inevitable? I'm saying the opposite, that men don't want to go down that road. LEARN TO READ without confirmation bias. No one is treating anyone like a child, except you. Arrogantly speakin…
/r/ExRedPill01/10/22 02:13 AM
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Nothing. Call "them" nothing. 'They' are just people. Human Beings. Misunderstood, lonely and often misguided. And if you meant 'they' in a way like both men and women, since both are like that, not just men, then it's fine, but you seemed to be using 'they' in an 'othering' way. Whenever a guy says something, he's immediately told, "why so sensitive"? This is what I mean by men being shamed. Imagine if this was said to a woman, wouldn't that be sexist? Well, I say you're a sexist for saying tha…
/r/ExRedPill01/10/22 01:48 AM
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You just seem to wanna believe what you want to believe. I'm not here to change your mind. Vocal minority doesn't mean "a lot". There are those who don't call themselves that. You seem to be "othering" a lot. Using "they", "them", like 'they' are a different species. Maybe stop doing that to people. And I already said to stop using that word. You're going around in circles again. And what is up with "you"? Are you now calling me an incel? Really? When did that start?
/r/ExRedPill01/10/22 01:22 AM
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They aren't calling themselves that. Good lord! I already told you, it's the vocal minority who are and the mainstream news and people who hate them do. Even after agreeing with you, why are you still repeating the same thing over and over again? Are you stuck in a loop? People will only gravitate towards those who don't treat them like like shit. It doesn't fully depend on them. But on people in general. All of us. As a society. You ostracize them and they'll gravitate towards more extremist th…
/r/ExRedPill01/10/22 12:17 AM
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Go read what I wrote. You seem to be letting your bias affect your reading and comprehension ability. Never did I blame the ones affected by the toxic ones. You're lumping all into one category. I honestly don't wanna say anything more to you. Don't call people "hoes". This seems more like a YOU problem where YOU are projecting something that may have happened to you or something you may have watched on the news or some other mainstream media pushing a narrative and you're putting it on somethin…
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 11:39 PM
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What we should all be focusing on is how many white men aren’t starting a family anymore. He views whiteness and maleness as the foundational crux of western society. Make no mistake about it, He’s not the only problem, but he also has no problem perpetuating the real ones so long as he can pander to his audience. No one is treating sexless men as subhumans. But men like Peterson keep them believing that it’s the most important thing in the world, so they feel worse. ​ If you want to get to the …
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 11:35 PM
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Look pal, I already wrote what the problem is. And I already mentioned it's more than just not having a girlfriend. It's not my fault you can't see past your bias and hate. You only see the surface, and assume too much. You don't understand the root of the problem. And I even wrote it above, but you ignore it. People nowadays will call anyone who doesn't agree with them on something an "incel". There is no "ideology", there's only morons who don't know what they're talking about. That word itsel…
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 11:09 PM
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Please do more research on the subject. Stop giving me legal definitions. Social shaming and ostracization IS victimization, not to mention, it often leads to physical bullying and even assault. That's what affects the mental health and drives people to end themselves or in extreme cases, others. It's not just about sex and relationship or rejection. Like I said, if you care, do more research, if you don't, it's better if you stayed silent and not be a part of the problem, since you're clearly n…
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 10:53 PM
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Dude, I would definitely vote for you if you ran for president. Honestly. Not even joking. This is exactly what we need. Especially those last two things. And the tax bracket is a joke. When we ban those bribes, let's face it, that's what they are, not "donations", bribes, and when they're stopped, that's when we stop seeing policies that work against the people. Also, I think we should ban these billionaires and corporations from funding news media and entertainment companies. That's how they p…
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 10:49 PM
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I don't think the lack of action on wealth disparity is Peterson's fault. Please, let's not project blame where it doesn't belong. You act like if Peterson didn't exist, that everyone would be well-off financially, which is absolutely not true. Maybe without bill gates, we'd be better off, since the guy is literally robbing the farmers of their land here and outside US, especially in countries like india. Besides, you seem to have a very skewed perspective and heavy bias against "incels", a term…
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 10:42 PM
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I already addressed this above. I don't think I need to reiterate any further.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 02:48 PM
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You are free to have your opinions. Once again, loneliness/depression and being an incel are two different things. Those two things can be symptoms of an incel, but doesn't make someone who has those an incel. Do you even know where to start with wealth disparity? Do you have a way to get to the billionaires who funnel all the wealth to themselves and funnel it back to the people they stole it from? Don't get me started on that subject. This problem however, is manageable. No one is asking to se…
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 02:46 PM
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I'm in agreement with it. I myself would prefer it not used. I think I even wrote it above, to avoid using it because it stigmatizes young men. I do believe we should stop using it. Well, I can't argue with you there, it often does look like that. I dunno man, maybe someone smarter than I can coin a new term that doesn't immediately get hijacked like this one did. You know, when I actually read about the history of 'incel' community, I actually teared up. These people, were both men and women an…
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 01:26 PM
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Oh, sorry, I'm not that good with acronyms. I think a licensed therapist and psychologist don't really have an equivalent. It's a specialized field. I think there is an app that puts you in contact with licensed psychologists and therapists, which makes them more accessible. 'Better Help' is I think what it's called. But other than that, I'm not sure.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 01:13 PM
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It is THE most useful definition. How you define people is how you see them. If you define them incorrectly, you will view them incorrectly and all of your "solutions" will be ineffective. It's like misdiagnosing a disease and giving the wrong treatment for it and then wondering why it's not going away. The other word, is also applicable here. I know this will sound arrogant and my god I hate that I have to say this, but the average majority here are WRONG, along with the mainstream news (which …
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 01:09 PM
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GP?
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 12:56 PM
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I have the correct original definition, the literal abbreviation, that is NOT corrupted by the mainstream news to further their narrative, is what you mean.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 12:55 PM
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Just because there are some lost causes doesn't mean you let everyone drown. You extend a hand regardless and whoever takes it, takes it, whoever doesn't or whoever tries to drag you down, gets left below. No, incels don't call themselves that, unless it's one of those lost causes who are proud of it. Incel means involuntary celibate. They don't want to be it, they're forced to, because of countless reasons. The point is to delve into those reasons without blaming them, especially for problems t…
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 12:38 PM
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Yes, it is indeed a good video. I don't agree with many things JP says, in fact, initially I even thought this guy put on a show to emotionally manipulate. However, regardless of whether this is the case or not, men should not be made fun of of crying. This is a problem in our society. It's not just Peterson. In general, men are ridiculed when they let their emotions show. That problem needs to be handled. Those who made fun of him, the comments were brutal. It's never okay to laugh at someone w…
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 11:04 AM
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Maybe stop calling them incels to start. Then they can listen to you without being stigmatized. You made such good points. But it will all be undone, if you continue doing that. And saying "they don't respond well". Well, what do you expect? This is decades of damage done to young men across generations. Do you expect it all to go away in one comment or reddit thread? No, this is an uphill battle. It'll take years before a difference is made and the longer we let it rot, the worse it'll get, lik…
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 10:55 AM
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Yes, they do. No, not all of them are like that. Ex-red pill doesn't say they don't exist, only liars will or FDS will. How do you avoid them? Talk to them, ask them questions to have them reveal the information. If anything, their attitude will tell you and then you do a magical thing called a "180". I.E. You turn around and walk away, no matter how hot she is. Or let her do the same after hearing what you make lol That's it. Problem solved. Dude, it's not rocket science and it's no secret eith…
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 09:52 AM
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That last question is something everyone should ask. That empathy is what we need. That's when the hatred will reduce, even if it doesn't die out.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 09:40 AM
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I think sharing is fine, dumping isn't. For BOTH. Men and women. 'Emotional tampon' is basically used when someone just goes to the individual to whine about something, then disappears for months, until they need to dump their negativity onto them. Both men and women do this. That isn't healthy for either. Sharing is different and I think should only be done if you're into the relationship that is based on strong trust and reliability (not co-dependency) on each other. Anything less, and you're …
/r/ExRedPill30/09/22 09:32 AM
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https://www.researchgate.net/publication/360355638_Social_Media_Influence_on_the_Indulgement_in_Promiscuity_among_Students_of_Select_Tertiary_Institution_in_Benin_City_Nigeria ​ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5457530/ ​ https://stars.library.ucf.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1137&context=honorstheses ​ https://journals.library.ualberta.ca/cjfy/index.php/cjfy/article/view/29408/21402
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 02:55 PM
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The first thing I would like to clear up is that this thinking is basically from the RP PUA community. The "Pick-Up-Artist" community. The RP only believe the first half of this and that it's okay if a guy cheats. Now, to the point, I think that's the point isn't it? That's the cognitive dissonance in them. They basically are telling a young guy to do stuff they wouldn't and telling young women to do stuff that would benefit only PUA scum like them. That process ruins both young men and women. A…
/r/ExRedPill26/09/22 11:26 AM
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I was trying to be civil and end this amicably and even admitted that there might be something to this. But you just couldn't leave this be, could you? You wanna know why I think hypergamy is bullshit? Just like your character! My idiot sister, left a good-looking, financially stable man, while she was married with two kids for a fat, dumb, lazy, jobless indian guy. Because she wanted to destroy her marriage because she felt "bored", she was just a housewife who was well-taken care of by a good …
/r/ExRedPill23/09/22 01:50 PM
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I never claimed my sentence as a scientific fact, unlike you who claimed your statement was. Mine was an opinion, I thought that was clear. Opinion based on my personal observations. That is all. In fact, if you read my original comment, you can see that I do acknowledge it happens, but I add that it doesn't happen in a vacuum. You need to develop better reading skills. I do thank you for providing the source article though. I read through it. It does provide good sources. I think you should may…
/r/ExRedPill23/09/22 11:14 AM
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It's not the same thing. You can believe whatever you want. You can put up the LEGIT links down below if you wanna prove me wrong.
/r/ExRedPill23/09/22 10:52 AM
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I never said it's not real. I said, it's not applicable to modern humans because many are consciously breaking out of it. Everyone sane is aware it's real, but that's why they're going out of their way to fight that instinct. Unfortunately, not everyone is that mentally strong, so it's easier to give into primal instincts and those who do, well, you're using them as an example to showcase your point. Also, read my whole comment, never did I once deny it's real, I did say however, that there's a …
/r/ExRedPill23/09/22 06:32 AM
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I agree. But here's the thing, that bubble is actually created by social media sites. ON PURPOSE. It's how their algorithms work. You watch something and if that something is related to another topic, even if it is on the fringes of it, you'll be recommended more on that subject. Since it'll be related to that topic, people might get curious, especially when they're constantly recommended it, unless you click on the 'hamburger' and select, "do not recommend this" option, and now, that curiosity …
/r/ExRedPill22/09/22 11:07 AM
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Here are a few questions that went through my mind while reading all this. -Why even bring up these topics in your relationship if you're tired of it? -Do you two not have anything else to talk about that you have similar interest in? -If you don't like his beliefs and know for sure he's not gonna change them, why stay and make yourself and possibly him suffer? -Why did you start dating him in the first place? -What did you like about him? -Does he still have those qualities? -Are those enough f…
/r/ExRedPill21/09/22 03:02 PM
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Your OP doesn't make it look like that. But like I said, I'm not a professional, so maybe that's the best place to go and talk about this.
/r/ExRedPill20/09/22 03:52 PM
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No. Not me. You just might be normally gay, maybe not even Bi. Or neither, but just confused. I'm not a professional on this, so I will refrain from saying anything further on that. I think this might be a separate thing and you should look into it separately (perhaps via good quality professional help on this subject). It also depends on your dating history and how you felt while dating. Or whether you ever did date, etc. etc. So yeah. Pro help is important.
/r/ExRedPill20/09/22 01:12 PM
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Good luck with maintaining it. Keep your guard up to not let that ever come back and make sure treasure and cherish the guy that has helped you do this.
/r/ExRedPill19/09/22 05:58 PM
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Very true. I do think that these subconscious behaviors are conditioned via the environment that we're in. Almost always, our environment determines our conditioning. Changes in environment can lead to changes in behaviors as well. I'm curious though, how did they measure that it's exactly 95% subconscious?
/r/ExRedPill18/09/22 05:02 AM
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Ignorant more so than dumb I'd say. Most people just don't know or care about that stuff. Most just think that things are out of their hands, because that's what they've been conditioned to think, in order to make them more compliant and docile. Many of these problems we see, and not just relationship-based, but just in general, social problems, stem from ignorance wilful or otherwise. Just ask any average person on the street about any of the "heavy" topics that are posted on social media. Most…
/r/ExRedPill18/09/22 04:58 AM
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Don't know about the other guy, but Joker used to be MGTOW, you know, just good old guys channel. However, I think he saw that he was only attracting RP guys to his content, and he kinda changed his tune very subtly and became basically an RP channel now. He seldom talks about the stuff he used to, but now he just focuses on the worst of the worst women in the world and uses them as examples for women, mostly those FDS women. He does give lip service that "not all women are like that", but when …
/r/ExRedPill18/09/22 04:37 AM
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Oh damn! Really? I visited it and it just looked like a reddit wanna be. If this is the case, it shouldn't be posted here.
/r/ExRedPill17/09/22 02:23 PM
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At first glance, it looks like discount reddit. How is this related to RP or ex-rp?
/r/ExRedPill17/09/22 02:22 PM
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You've perfectly summed up why RP is so messed up. 100% agreed. RP was supposed to be something else entirely, it was just supposed to be a metaphor, used in the movie Matrix, to snap people out of the illusions that have been built around us by those who rule and own us. But somehow it turned into a woman hating thing. Due to the cons capitalizing on vulnerable young men. I personally came across RP at 21, after a very bad and vicious breakup. It swallowed me whole, until one day I snapped out …
/r/ExRedPill17/09/22 05:27 AM
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Thanks for being rational. I agree. Joker is relatively better. Aba and Preach are also good, they point out both sides. Critical Drinker is good too, pointing out this kind of stuff in movies. It's a pity many lump these guys in with the toxic ones.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/22 02:37 PM
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BB used to be MGTOW, but recently, he has been doing a lot of Black Pill stuff. He's not PUA or RP though. It's very difficult to tell the difference between these for many people because they often lump them all into one category and say "they're all the same". This is why there's so much confusion on who's a con and who's not. If you care, which I think you might not, here's the difference between all of them. https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/x9azfd/comment/inq17fk/?context=3
/r/ExRedPill16/09/22 02:27 PM
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I think you're opening up a very dangerous door here. You may not like many of the comments made and things might most certainly take a turn in a very political direction as they do with this subject. I'll ask you a question instead. Have you ever heard a RP or PUA talk about LGBTQ? If not, you have your answer. If you have, then share it here or just use it for your reference and you'll know. P.S. - "The wall" is basically another way of saying you're not fuckable anymore looks-wise. But if you…
/r/ExRedPill16/09/22 02:20 PM
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"Don't be bi" lol That's probably the 'advice' they give lmao XD Tell me I'm wrong!
/r/ExRedPill16/09/22 02:12 PM
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I don't think what you discovered was MGTOW, if it was toxic. More like Black Pill or PUA.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/22 02:09 PM
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Above all, environment is the biggest factor in aging I'd say. Right next to genetics.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/22 02:08 PM
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I don't know who that is and looked his videos up. He seems like a relatively saner version of PUA. But he's a "self-help guru" and that's just...Yeah, not for me. That is all I'll say.
/r/ExRedPill15/09/22 12:13 PM
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I think your first statement sums it up perfectly. The reason RP and PUA has gotten popular is because men are often ignored, their troubles brushed off and at best given lip service only. This has left men with nowhere legitimate to turn to for advice. Most men are growing up without strong male role models, let's face it, the old family dynamic is dying. Most people don't like it when we say this, but it's true, a child needs both parents. It didn't used to be the case, young men did have fath…
/r/ExRedPill13/09/22 03:54 PM
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All I have to say is "Nice guys" aren't so nice. And "Nice girls" are often even worse, because I've seen those "Nice girls" go after other women viciously spreading rumors and psychological warfare on women who dated the guy they liked. There is a HUGE difference between "Nice" and 'Good'. Just like there's a HUGE difference between a "Great" person and a "Good" person. As for being rejected part, yes, women do get rejected, however, not as much as men do, and that is a fact. Doesn't change the…
/r/ExRedPill13/09/22 03:18 PM
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Usually I'm not big on self-promotion videos, but man, this video is sure a BIG exception to that and well-deserving of promotion. Fully agreed. Well articulated. Keep it up. I hope you grow. Keep staying on this path. By saying that men are just fine the way we are, you are helping men be more secure, and for me, that's the best a man can do for other men.
/r/ExRedPill12/09/22 11:32 AM
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The more you victimize yourself, the more of a victim you will become. You don't think dating is fair? Well, evolution isn't fair. Let me ask you, who forced you be a "therapist" for that girl? Did she? Nope. You chose it, didn't you? So please take responsibility for your choices. But as long as you have a victim mindset of "the society is unfair towards me, because I'm a man", you will never take your own accountability of what you're doing to escape that 'unfairness'. Tell me, why did you get…
/r/ExRedPill12/09/22 09:51 AM
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Let me just start by saying, these are the side-effects of being locked in our homes for a whole year that no one wants to talk about. During your formative years nonetheless. Now, to move on to you as an individual, it seems that you were having problems even before this, so maybe in general, now I'm not making any assumptions here, but you may still need to work on developing basic social skills. Being straightforward is not a bad thing, as long as it's not something like "I wanna have sex wit…
/r/ExRedPill12/09/22 05:45 AM
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I think firstly, you should throw away the mindset you have about guys not having "pure" intentions and "just wanting to fuck". Most guys are just looking for someone they can be with and trust, regardless of what you may have heard from wherever. Secondly, remove the same thought about yourself. If you genuinely want a connection, your intentions are as "pure" as anyone else's. With that current mindset, you sound like the toxic PUA that always say, "All women are cheaters and will cheat" and "…
/r/ExRedPill11/09/22 03:34 PM
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I agree. And 25 seems very young anyway. People in 30's can be attractive as well. I wrote "can be" because not everyone is attractive looks wise, and yes, there is an objective scale for physical attractiveness for both men and women. However, I do wanna point out, that dating and marriage are two different things.
/r/ExRedPill11/09/22 03:17 PM
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Not good. Just like no one should be peer pressured into getting into a relationship, no one should be kept from having one either. Something like this only exacerbates the problems of young men, including the one you mentioned, loneliness. If someone genuinely wants to wait because they want to get their life in order first, financially, health wise, etc. Or wants to avoid it for some reason, then fine, but not due to this reason, it doesn't make sense. It doesn't make sense on a primitive leve…
/r/ExRedPill10/09/22 12:14 PM
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Good to hear that you did get help. I think you misinterpreted my comment, I wasn't implying anything negative. Nothing wrong with sharing in a healthy way. Good luck.
/r/ExRedPill09/09/22 10:16 PM
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I'd suggest you do get professional help. Because these things don't just disappear. From what you've written above, you have a lot to deal with, which cannot be dealt with on an online forum. What I wrote wasn't supposed to be therapy. It was information to clear up some things so you can see things clearly and take necessary steps for your recovery. Real therapy starts now (if you choose) with a professional outside of online forums. Wish you the best.
/r/ExRedPill09/09/22 03:40 PM
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Let me clear something up first. They are not teaching men to push away love. And nothing they do is on accident either. This will be long. Maybe some might not like the following or even read it or accept it, but I'm writing this for the OP mainly to put it in detail about why this happens and where it stems from. It's an essay, so there might be mistakes and when I review it again, I'll edit any mistakes. So to begin. Firstly, the things you mention are done by PUA's, which is an offshoot of R…
/r/ExRedPill09/09/22 01:14 PM
1

I think first maybe you should stop watching those guys you mentioned. Next, it's best to talk to a professional, i.e. if you can afford therapy. If not, try renting books (or just downloading them for free), on philosophy, sciences and psychology to understand what's happening to you. Make notes on the things you're going through, then look these things up by yourself. And see how they can be dealt with. In this day and age of information, you can find it all on the internet instead of going to…
/r/ExRedPill08/09/22 12:17 PM
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This is perfectly put.
/r/ExRedPill08/09/22 12:01 PM
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I read the whole thing. So, may I suggest one thing? This whole incident can be more useful if there were some bullet points that showcase the behavioral patterns in how a vulnerable individual is exploited by a sociopath, psychopath or a red pilled individual. Based on this story. Along with the whole written story above of course, to give context. That would make it helpful to those reading. Because I think not everyone will read the whole thing, meaning the useful information might not get tr…
/r/ExRedPill08/09/22 11:56 AM
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Good lord man...I'm not getting into this with you. You've got issues. I'm not defending fuel cars here at all. I never did. All I said is that both of them are basically the same when you compare overall emissions. HOWEVER, That wasn't even my original comment. Please go back and read what I wrote. It wasn't my main point. My main point was just pointing out how marketing lies to the people. I just gave Tesla as an example. AN EXAMPLE. Nothing more. I used Tesla, not to target it, but because i…
/r/ExRedPill07/09/22 03:46 PM
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"Several"? Nope. One? Nope. I brought in musk because I mentioned Tesla, who aggressively promotes electric cars, unlike other brands who don't go about it as aggressively. Why can't you understand that the mining of the metals required to build these cars generate immense emissions and they exploit slave labor in countries they get these metals from. By eroding the natural ecosystem. Then you add to the fact that the machines that actually mine these metals also generate emissions. Plus, the tr…
/r/ExRedPill07/09/22 03:35 AM
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What? lol You asked What does Musk have to do with anything? He owns Tesla. Do one thing, refer to the whole comment chain above. You seem lost, dude. Refer to my initial comment. It was about how businesses lie and I gave Tesla as an example, which you tried to defend for some reason.
/r/ExRedPill06/09/22 11:15 PM
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Indeed. Especially social skills. I prefer staying home, but when I get out I often feel like I lose some social skills when I do get out after a few days or so. (due to the WFH thing).
/r/ExRedPill06/09/22 04:43 PM
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One major thing caught my eye in this. You mentioned one of them did something to a child? Did you report them?
/r/ExRedPill06/09/22 04:40 PM
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Who owns Tesla?
/r/ExRedPill06/09/22 12:42 PM
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Sshhh...Hush now. That wasn't my point, k? I know you like Musk, but hush.
/r/ExRedPill06/09/22 11:45 AM
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I think dating apps are just a business, so they will manipulate their algorithm to generate revenue by throttling their service to get people to pay more. In this case "service" being matches. Better to get a more social hobby, cultivate social skills and form genuine relationships that can lead somewhere. After all, people did date before apps.
/r/ExRedPill06/09/22 11:41 AM
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This is quite interesting. I visited his website. Some interesting articles indeed.
/r/ExRedPill06/09/22 11:08 AM
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True. Especially what you wrote about businesses. But on a grander scale. Corporations lie all the time too. In order to look better and get higher ESG rating. Via sponsoring programs, news, etc. For example, companies like Tesla never tell you where they get the metals needed to build the so-called "environmentally or people friendly" cars, which aren't environmentally or people friendly at all.
/r/ExRedPill06/09/22 10:53 AM
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This will be applicable in?
/r/ExRedPill05/09/22 12:53 PM
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You said you watched Aba and Preach, so you should know. You said you watch his videos, so you should know. If you don't. I'm not engaging further. You're a troll. I'm done.
/r/ExRedPill05/09/22 11:50 AM
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What? Are you new to the internet too? Serious? Is this a joke sub? If I see a toxic name, I sound the alarm. That's all. My head rent is too expensive for a cheap racist mofo like him to afford.
/r/ExRedPill05/09/22 11:48 AM
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I just hope that 'progress', doesn't lead to something else entirely. His views are toxic in a very visceral way.
/r/ExRedPill05/09/22 11:46 AM
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WTF is wrong with you? Why get so triggered? You offended that someone called him out?
/r/ExRedPill05/09/22 11:45 AM
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How? And then what? Did he personally save you? Is he your only source? This is the internet, you know? How old are you even? Because no functional grown up would even listen to that guy.
/r/ExRedPill05/09/22 11:44 AM
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Then how TF did he "save" you? What's with the dramatic title? Like he saved you from a burning building or something. What was your post even about? Just putting his name out there with no context?
/r/ExRedPill05/09/22 11:39 AM
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You are one of his followers, which you openly admitted and created a nonsensical post with nothing to contribute, except make hasan the commie, famous. Of course you'd hate Aba and Preach and spread lies about them. You don't count.
/r/ExRedPill05/09/22 11:33 AM
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Hasan is a subtly subversive racist, homophobe who has made anti-trans comments a lot, while preaching to his choir. He thinks he knows better than the minorities he is "defending". Not to mention he has also made some sexist remarks. He doesn't practice what he preaches. He is no better than the rp douches. With his teen following (if an adult follows him, they're not a very stable or mature individual). And if anyone says anything against him anywhere, his fans come after you. Believe it. If e…
/r/ExRedPill05/09/22 11:25 AM
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Oh found a sane person.
/r/ExRedPill05/09/22 11:19 AM
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Everything opposite of FDS. In fact, often not even opposite. Everything perpendicular of FDS.
/r/ExRedPill05/09/22 02:27 AM
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Yeah...I don't know the guy but he just seems like a run of the mill emotionally abusive individual. I think when people associate RP with abuse directly, it kinda stigmatizes them, so instead of trying to help those who have been led astray from their sanity in their most vulnerable time, we ostracize them further. I think maybe you should change your title. Because he doesn't seem like RP, he just seems like an emotionally abusive individual from whatever info you've given us. And from whateve…
/r/ExRedPill04/09/22 04:43 PM
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I'm sorry you had to go through this. Just curious though, did he ever openly say he was RP? If so, that would be a huge red flag, which now you understand, so this can be a learning experience, especially since you escaped. However, if he didn't ever openly say he was RP or had any strong opinions on the matter, then I'd say this was just a 'run of the mill' abusive psychopath that you crossed paths with. If it's the second, then I can relate, since I've had experiences with such partners and I…
/r/ExRedPill04/09/22 01:21 PM
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This is quite an interesting observation indeed. Thanks for sharing. Your list and especially the statement about being able to achieve the same benefits without this RP blackhole mindset is 100% accurate. Those things aren't inherently bad. Just the way most of those people go about it, is harmful to them and others around them though.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/22 07:54 PM
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FDS is your "source"? LMAO XD They're the "female cons version" of those "male" cons!! Men haters. Just like modern RP guys are women haters. They prey on vulnerable women, just as RP guys prey on young men. They're the 'female RP'. Why would you listen to them? They're literally the same as RP guys! Not a good source, pal. Those are not functional women. They're the "females" that RP guys usually talk about lol Please go out and actually see what functional women are like. You'd be surprised. G…
/r/ExRedPill02/09/22 12:12 PM
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Short answer? No. Hypergamy has been twisted so that the modern cons can exploit it for their own gains. This is an outdated and not so applicable concept in modern humans. This was only applicable (and I use that loosely) on early humans when other factors didn't exist and only the the factor of who had the highest resource and safety would be mating. This does not apply to modern humans because the environment has been completely changed. No, women don't leave guys randomly for some other guy.…
/r/ExRedPill02/09/22 11:21 AM
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Putting words in my mouth. Making false accusations. Still continuing this. You're hung up on this for some reason. You're so absolutely triggered by a simple question of mine, that you've been hung up on this for about a day and a half now. "Abuse of power" What power do I have over you? How is asking details about your post "abuse?" Since that's how it all started. How did I "demean" you? Just by asking about the details of your claims? Of course you "showed it to your friends". More like enab…
/r/ExRedPill01/09/22 11:54 AM
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It is indeed a cult. And a very dangerous one because the "figureheads" of this cult exploit the vulnerable individuals and can and do make their followers do dangerous things. Dangerous to themselves and others. Honestly, at this point, I actually physically react in disgust at them. I have very low tolerance for even a very small amount of BS in anything at this point in my life, so seeing those cultists just makes me recoil.
/r/ExRedPill01/09/22 10:43 AM
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I'm curious, why were you worried? He was correct.
/r/ExRedPill01/09/22 10:40 AM
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Well said.
/r/ExRedPill01/09/22 10:40 AM
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That statement I made came way later on. Before that I never said anything like that. You kept pushing. Even in this statement, you're not stable just meant you're emotionally unstable, not mentally. Because that's what you've been doing. However, now I do take back what I said. Now, I do think you're mentally unstable as well. You are absolutely freaking me out. Let me repeat it. I DIDN'T before, but I NOW think you're absolutely 100% mentally unstable. Because no mentally stable individual wri…
/r/ExRedPill01/09/22 04:04 AM
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Go refer to the essays I was forced to write to address your comments and you'll find me repetitively stating my perspective. Don't pretend like you want to "understand" my perspective. Like I said. Stop backtracking. Stop gas lighting. Posting something like this makes your ethics questionable. Backtracking and gas lighting once more. I didn't "profile" you, i only stated what anyone can see clearly, especially when you started throwing weird accusations at me of being your stalker and bringing…
/r/ExRedPill31/08/22 06:02 PM
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Please stop. Please don't dig yourself any deeper. And please, for god's sake, stop trying to gas light me and yourself. Stop backtracking. Stop trying to team up with others, stop being so hyper and unnecessarily adding stuff to a simple question that I asked. Just move on, if you can't admit what you did was reckless, even if it was well-intentioned (which I never questioned), it was reckless nonetheless and that's what I pointed out. At least have the dignity and decency to just leave it alon…
/r/ExRedPill31/08/22 05:36 PM
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I never questioned your mental health. I questioned the content of your post. You seemed to have brought that in by yourself. You're trying too hard to deny it though, so I'm not gonna touch that, as I never did in the first place. I'm not a therapist. Criminal Psych is a different line altogether. I wasn't hostile. I simply inquired and you got heated. I'm not "hyper-focused" on you. I didn't look you up and personally message you. I simply responded to a post that seemed reckless. Questioning …
/r/ExRedPill31/08/22 05:13 PM
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I see. I have a degree in Criminal Psychology, we were taught to spot specific behaviors, wordings and patterns. The OP was worded very strangely, that's why I saw it and called them out on it. I really do hope that individuals like yourself are heard more. As for the OP, talking to them so far has given me some perspective on them as well. The thing is, this post could've been genuinely helpful if they had just said something along the lines of "I'm creating this post so Professionals in this s…
/r/ExRedPill31/08/22 04:48 PM
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You're going around in circles and tripping on yourself and switching your stories and phrasing and weirdly editing your OP. I think you're a very confused individual. I'm done.
/r/ExRedPill31/08/22 04:39 PM
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Getting help regarding your stalker on here that you mentioned. That's what i meant. Good lord..Do you perceive everything negatively? First you perceive me asking about your so-called "pro-program" as "interrogation." Then this. If you weren't giving shady answers, I wouldn't think that. In fact, I'd praise someone who does genuinely. legitimately try to help. Your vague answers are not helping your case at all. So you "reached out" and then did what? Made a random post? That's what I was askin…
/r/ExRedPill31/08/22 04:36 PM
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I see. Thanks for the clarification. I distinctly remember that the lady who called the other post out was a Therapist. So maybe it was someone else. But I'm glad that we have individuals such as yourself and that lady on here. It helps keeps things rational and in-line with the topic at hand.
/r/ExRedPill31/08/22 04:26 PM
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I see. Thanks. BTW, are you the therapist lady who called out another one of this type of post? I can't remember her name, but I remember what she wrote was so in-depth, very similar to what you wrote above. She was so pissed off at that post and it was amazing to see someone truly trying to help people.
/r/ExRedPill31/08/22 04:13 PM
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What? What is this "teaming up" thing you started now? I never said you were a "mastermind". All I asked was for the details of what you were doing. Resorting to ad hominems shows how unprofessional you really are.
/r/ExRedPill31/08/22 04:08 PM
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You have no proof of backing those claims. I am chill. You're getting triggered and deflecting. I haven't "received" anything. Don't want to, except the evidence backing your claims. You're not forcing them, but someone who is vulnerable is more likely to share a very personal and triggering past to a stranger who is unqualified. This can be used against them, since this is public forum and info online is always at risk of being abused. I'm not "gatekeeping". I'm simply asking you to provide me …
/r/ExRedPill31/08/22 04:04 PM
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Was this directed at me? Kind of harsh at the end if it was. Because I do agree with your comment and that was my whole point. The OP doesn't seem to be doing any of what you wrote, except a random post.
/r/ExRedPill31/08/22 03:53 PM
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I'm asking you, because you said you are facilitating "pros". That's your source? "Reddit pros"? There is a huge contradiction. If you can't see that, you're not qualified to ask people of their traumas. If you're one, then why diss MGTOW? It's the men's version of it. Double standards are a huge toxic trait of those RP losers and a dead giveaway. No, that's not what you're doing. Because you're not a pro. Asking someone to vaguely share their traumas is not how you go about this. Sharing someth…
/r/ExRedPill31/08/22 03:34 PM
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YOU SAID TO "ASK THEM WHAT THEY'LL DO WITH THE INFO MYSELF"! How in the hell am I supposed to ask them if I don't know who they are? Are you serious? No, someone like that should not be asking people for their deepest traumas. You're not "facilitating" anything by doing that. Pros don't hide themselves at all. Their information is out for anyone to check to increase credibility. This is also strange, you say that Red Pill women are "realistic" and at the same time say that red pill is toxic. Tha…
/r/ExRedPill31/08/22 03:16 PM
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I will. Give me their names and information. Grilling about what? You brought in FDS, one of the most toxic subs, the women's version of red pill here. I was curious as to why you would do such a thing?
/r/ExRedPill31/08/22 02:51 PM
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There has been a separate sub now to address the victims who don't wantto go the FDS route, but according to the side bar, others are welcometo speak here too. Can you explain this statement please? Especially what FDS has to do with this? Is this sub becoming FDS? Is that what you mean? I honestly didn't get what you were saying with that, due to your phrasing. ​ Also, can you link me to the 'pros' you've been mentioning? I'd like to check out the program and the details of the 'pros'. Especial…
/r/ExRedPill31/08/22 02:44 PM
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Isn't this a more complex subject though? Correlation/Causation is also a factor. The two being different. Plus a more important question is what do you intend to do with this data? If someone shares their vulnerability on a public platform like this, they should at least have the right to know what that data will be used for. Is this a study? Are you qualified to even conduct such a 'survey'? And isn't this thread about informing men about the dangers of listening to those cons? The men themsel…
/r/ExRedPill31/08/22 11:48 AM
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What is this for? May I ask?
/r/ExRedPill30/08/22 03:10 PM
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This is going nowhere. This isn't a conversation because of the sheer assumptions and ad hominems you throw at me. You seemed to have completely missed (perhaps willingly omitting it to fit your ad hominem of calling me "vapid") the part where I wrote, what I do and intend to do and how I do it and what I mean by "taking it back". But hey, the reason you're here (according to you), reflects that as well. In the end, you're entitled to your opinions. I, my own. Saying "you can change your life if…
/r/ExRedPill30/08/22 09:11 AM
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Logic is a rare breed nowadays, so I can understand your concern. I'm sorry that we can't agree on this one thing. However, we don't have to. Different people. Different lives. Different experiences. Different thoughts and opinions. That is all. I do think he should be banned, along with other major criminals who rot our society. Because if you extend the freedom to him, aren't you, by default extending the same freedom to the real tyrants out there? The ones whose names we do not speak. I canno…
/r/ExRedPill30/08/22 07:20 AM
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Believe me, when I say this, that most of what you wrote, I fully agree with. Especially about certain individuals mentioned that would get both of us banned a few months ago. I do wish that those individuals would've been banned as well. Maybe our world wouldn't be in such chaos now. Many are still unwilling to even acknowledge that those things and lock downs were harmful and they will throw a tantrum if you mention it. Don't even get me started on the V-word. Despite me having taken it, I sti…
/r/ExRedPill30/08/22 01:04 AM
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Genetics are often influenced by environment as well, my friend. It is scientifically proven as well. That's what evolution is. Your environment literally determines what and who you are on a greater scale than many imagine.
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 11:39 PM
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I will not judge you. People make mistakes, often times foolish ones. But I tend not to be harsh on those who have remorse for their actions and mistakes. I'm not sure what led you to those con "men". Especially since you said you were happy. But I will say this. Make amends. However you can. Believe it or not, her trust, is shaken in you, most likely not broken because she hasn't left. Earn back the integrity that you lost with her. Don't ever go towards another woman, unless it's platonic and …
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 11:33 PM
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Your freedom ends where mine begins. If your "free speech" and "freedom" is invading my safety or the safety of others, then you don't have your freedom anymore and you're a criminal to be imprisoned. This guy and ones like him are harming young men more than "helping" them and that makes them someone who invades someone else's freedom of thought. That's where their freedom of speech ends.
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 11:09 PM
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Yes, again, in your limited experience. Besides, it's a general belief in many that having kids, family etc. will definitely make them happy. I do know many who think like that. But let's talk about the ones you know. They go to their job because if they don't they'll lose their job. Isn't that considered even more 'plugged in' than the above mentioned mindset then? They're literally forced to do something or they'd end up homeless. They get into a relationship and form a bond AFTER. But what ma…
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 10:44 PM
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"Outside" is what I described already, at least for me, outside is the confines of social norms. Simply put. What social norms? Well, let's take this itself for example, many think that getting into a relationship, having kids, getting a high paying job, etc. etc. is somehow going to magically make them happy. But anyone with life experience knows, it's not completely true. So then why do they believe it? Well, that's because it was told to them by society as a collective. Just doing what makes …
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 03:22 PM
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I respect your opinion. Sure. I will withhold my opinions on whether the mainstream media is lying to us and whether big tech is trying to control us or not. But to call it 'tin foil hat' is excessive, especially since there is proof available now. You yourself have admitted in your comment that there has been influence and propaganda, so is it really all 'tin foil hat' as you claim? You call them instances, because you might have been exposed to those things in a limited way and may not have du…
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 01:37 PM
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Hell yes there are. And I'm proudly one of them haha
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 01:08 PM
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Agreed. Yeah, Moon's videos initially were difficult to follow because he spoke too fast, but now he is really improved. I've been watching since the beginning. Indeed it is a great storytelling technique. It has worked for a very long time. Pity, it's not as used today though. Agreed with the rest as well. I really hope that one day we can go back to this meaning of the term and not the one that cons are using today.
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 12:50 PM
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Yes. I really hope we can go back to this.
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 12:47 PM
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This is well articulated. Fully agree. I will add one thing here, for a better life, our environments matter the most, over luck or over effort, the environment we're in determines so much, yet it's almost never paid attention to, despite it shaping our whole mindset and most of our life. The better your environment is, the better your life will be. Most often you fall into these depths because your environmental factor wasn't good and you can "relate" to these things. Well, it's not relating, b…
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 12:36 PM
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Alexander is a PUA. He used to do objective interviews early on, I remember him. He used to speak to women to get women's perspective on things, it seems he's gone off of that now? I think your comment was quite true. I especially liked this part; "If men feel like failures or defective because they cannot find the relationships they seek then that is an issue with where they find their self worth, its co-dependent and unhealthy to place your primary source of self worth and personal value in wh…
/r/ExRedPill29/08/22 10:35 AM
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I'm not.
/r/ExRedPill27/08/22 11:41 AM
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You shouldn't have mentioned those names, dude. It's very evident you watch them. This sub was supposed to be here to help men stay away from toxicity, not subtly push them back in or push them into other toxic side of this clown show, where men hating happens. I'm seeing these two types of posts are lot more increasingly nowadays. The phrasing is clever, but doublespeak is very evident. Anyone with basic understanding of the subject can spot it. It seems the sub is not being moderated correctly…
/r/ExRedPill25/08/22 12:11 PM
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Yeah Manipulation is no.1 MO. Could've been worse, you could've gotten trapped in a marriage with innocent kids involved. Thankfully, you didn't.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/22 11:21 AM
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It didn't even take me that many signs to see the type of individual that guy must've been. Now, I don't know the guy apart from what you've written, so I will hold off on any personal judgements, however, someone who says "Female" is the biggest red flag. You know why they say that right? It's a subtle dehumanization of someone. I have seen it done by both genders BTW. Calling someone "female" or "male" is a clear sign they see you less than them.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/22 11:10 AM
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Attractive people almost always will end up with another attractive individual (it also depends on your "standard" of attractiveness), although there might be some special exceptions, however, in my life I haven't seen many. Same way, high prestige (social status) people will most often end up with the same level of people (exceptions are rare and not a commonality). That is an indisputable fact and best not to take it out of context. So, the simple answer is don't have unrealistic standards tha…
/r/ExRedPill24/08/22 12:27 PM
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Rich and well-to-do are two different things. Being rich is not possible for everyone. Because if everyone was rich, no one would be. Being well-to-do is different. It just means having enough money that you don't have to worry about paying your bills next month or thinking about how (not 'what') you'll eat tomorrow. Majority of the world is barely well-to-do, let alone rich. The "trying" part can only happen if you already have some level of financial stability. Most people who don't have enoug…
/r/ExRedPill24/08/22 12:19 PM
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If you know, then you're purposely doing what I've said you're doing. Using this sub to self-promote and get that guy's name out. Ad hominem insult is not a very good way to prove you're correct about anything.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 05:37 PM
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I'm sorry, but I refuse to participate further, because it seems you're unwilling to look at clear evidence of how you're basically contributing to keeping him relevant. And by doing so, you're making sure he doesn't go away. Just because he was deplatformed, doesn't mean his content is. As long as people talk about his content, he will be pushed up in algorithms. You don't seem to grasp that simple concept. That's how SEO works, but you're not accepting that either. You continuing to mention hi…
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 04:56 PM
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Firstly, I will say that I am against cancel culture and censorship. HOWEVER! That only applies to the TRUTH. I dislike it when people are censored when they talk about the corrupt governments, greedy billionaires with investments in those governments and critical sectors of our society and the heartless profit hungry corporations that only care about their numbers going up. It becomes a completely different thing however, when it comes to predators like these who get censored. These PREDATORS p…
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 02:49 PM
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I don't know what happened to you, so I won't make assumptions about you, however, please don't think ill of all men. Men are not your enemy, only the psychos are. I hope you are able to get through whatever you're dealing with right now in a healthy way. Good luck.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 02:43 PM
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I'm against censorship OF TRUTH, not con "men". This was justified.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 02:42 PM
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Now, all we have to do is collectively stop talking about him and others like him and ignore them. Stop giving them fame. On which they capitalize. Since that's how they get so famous. Manipulating SEO results. He technically didn't have his own youtube channels BTW, he was having others post his videos. What we need is have those channels that even mention his name, either be given a strike or demonetized or outright video deleted. That's how you wipe him out. Once again, for reference, this is…
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 02:31 PM
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He doesn't need a youtube channel. Go watch this. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6LwdbVHBTFc That's not me BTW. I don't self-promote. He has a huge following because of how he manipulates SEO. You are either very young or very ignorant of how con "men" like him operate. What we do as individuals, COLLECTIVELY, does affect things and people. You are very mistaken. Go watch the above video and educate yourself on how people like you are contributing to his fame and fortune. How while you think yo…
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 02:51 AM
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Never take hyperbole at face value. If you really wanna make videos showcasing how it's egregiously bad, then make videos on the general topic itself, not one guy who's trending. Again, you're not "shedding light" on RP, you're shedding light on him, since that's your focus in the video. The purpose of the sub is not self-promotion, I thought that was obvious. Yes, I would, depending on what kind of video you made. Videos are made on trending topics, why are you denying that simple fact? I didn'…
/r/ExRedPill23/08/22 02:46 AM
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Self-promotion might be fine if it actually helps men, which this sub is supposed to do. This doesn't help men. This helps that guy get his name out there even more than it is. Because that's how SEO works. Let's face it, you chose to make this video to follow a trend. Your logic is beyond flawed. The reason he is famous is because people like you made him famous by putting his name out there. No one is talking about me, and I'm not famous. You see how that works? The less you talk about somethi…
/r/ExRedPill22/08/22 05:11 PM
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Yes indeed.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/22 05:08 PM
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Is self-promotion allowed here? Also, all you're doing by making videos on that guy is making him more famous. Contributing to his "stardom". As far as he's concerned, no attention is negative attention. I have already posted about this countless times about how he does this. Which is why I will not click on a video that makes that cultist con man rich and famous.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/22 10:40 AM
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Planning dates can be done by both, often is. It's not something only a guy decides. Not in my experience at least. As for being a "rock", well, do you mean being there for your partner when they're in trouble or difficulty? Taking care of things that need taken care of around the house, etc. type rock? In that case, like I said above, these things are also divided often among the two people. Especially if they're living together. Think less "rock" and more two "pillars" that hold the roof of th…
/r/ExRedPill22/08/22 05:36 AM
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Lead in which aspect of the relationship? It's a broad spectrum.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/22 01:17 AM
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Please stop...Please. Just stop driving young men to hatred and ignorance. What are you trying to accomplish? This is not how you "educate" young men. Is there no rationality left anymore? You've posted this on at least 3 different subs...Please stop.
/r/ExRedPill21/08/22 02:34 PM
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No. And no to vice versa either. Men and Women are fine just as they are. Different people will be different. The guys I hang out with don't always talk about that stuff. In fact, women and their body parts basically never come up, we have many interesting things to talk about. I think sharing feelings should only be done with someone you trust and are close to. Because these things can be used against you if there's ever a fallout. It has happened to me. If you want people who care, it takes a …
/r/ExRedPill21/08/22 01:44 PM
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I think I've already mentioned that most women don't care about "roles". So I don't know about that question today. However, before women became more independent with money, femininity was the typical stuff you hear. And yeah, most women had to become dependent, like a child which led to many problems for many women. No need to "worry" about anything. It's just my opinion based on my experiences. Dependent in terms of money most of the times, in terms of safety and security of relationship and d…
/r/ExRedPill21/08/22 01:34 PM
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No, it's not dissing women. Often times, when guys opt for "feminine roles" (and note I put that in quotes because nowadays "roles" are not so clear cut), he becomes overly dependent on the woman for everything and eventually takes her for granted, basically becoming like a child. That was my statement. Because I've seen it happen. Most women I've known prefer a partner, not a grown child that becomes a burden. I don't know how you got what you got from my comment, as that is not what I had said…
/r/ExRedPill21/08/22 01:19 PM
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They are. Because they're regurgitating something they heard without any knowledge or understanding of any of it. They're ignorant hypocrites. Most of them don't even know the true meaning of RP. When it started, it wasn't supposed to be this. It was supposed to wake up people to the reality of EVERYTHING wrong in our society, so we could rise up united against it. The term and metaphor came from the movie Matrix. But these toxic idiots capitalized on it instead. It was never an "ideology", it w…
/r/ExRedPill21/08/22 12:32 PM
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The most I'm disgusted about is the hypocrisy. I despise hypocrites and liars. They claim double standards, then apply them. They claim women shouldn't do something that they themselves do. They claim men should do something that they themselves don't. They prey on genuinely vulnerable young men who are victims of bad situations and bad women and instead of helping them heal and point them in the right direction to good women, they get them angry and turn them into women haters. I know what it's…
/r/ExRedPill21/08/22 12:20 PM
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As long as he does. I'm satisfied. He has exploited young guys long enough. While we're at it there's another con men I want to be banned. This guy has been on their podcast. Their names start with F and F. I will avoid saying their names too, for the same reason.
/r/ExRedPill21/08/22 12:04 PM
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Those are his channels indirectly. Earlier I posted a video on this sub of how he does this. He pays them to circulate these videos. https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/wro7lu/id\_like\_to\_share\_this/
/r/ExRedPill21/08/22 11:51 AM
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I want him gone off Youtube. FB is old people anyway. Insta is basically inconsequential. He needs to get off YT, because that's where he makes a lot of money, and I think he's on tik tok too. That too. I will be satisfied if that happens and all of his videos get accounts banned too. Also, I really think we shouldn't mention his name. I've written about this before. The more we mention his name directly, the more SEO works in his favor and his name comes up more frequently. He will NOT go away …
/r/ExRedPill21/08/22 11:20 AM
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"Dominant" as in how? Like what those con men promote? Or do you mean more assertive and not boring, not challenging anything she says, just goes along like a dog. Here's the thing, sane women want a partner, not an obedient dog, if they wanted an obedient dog, they'd have gotten one. Why am I using such "harsh" language? Well, it's not harsh. These are the extremes that most people on both "sides" use. The reality is, SANE women, want a partner who respects their opinions, but has opinions, tho…
/r/ExRedPill21/08/22 11:01 AM
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I don't think you understand what Blue Pill is. Women are similar, but not same. Instead of seeing women as "similar" or "different" just accept that women are humans, people and just like any human, any person, there will be different types. Not all relationships can be equal either. That is not how relationships work. That is not how human brain works. There are gender preferences. The key is to look beyond those superficial preferences.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 01:02 PM
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I think you have the meaning of "black pill" very wrong. Black pill are straight up women haters. Literally. They are someone who will go out of their way to harm an innocent woman in their vicinity in some way or the other. Many have stalked women just to scare them and feel the "rush" as they put it. What you wrote is "PUA" mindset. Not black pill.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 12:54 PM
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I'm not sure what point you're making. I was already agreeing with you. Not to mention the downvote. Which is also strange.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 12:39 PM
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May I ask, what made you stay? For that long nonetheless.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 04:48 AM
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Fully agree. I'll say this though, even familial love is often not unconditional. I'll also add that now, the statistics have been changing in who cheats more. Women are basically equal in terms of cheating as men. I fully agree with the rest however.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 04:43 AM
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Can you link those subs, please?
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 04:41 AM
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No love is "unconditional". Call me a "cynic" but you know I'm right. Just because something is "depressing" doesn't mean you ignore the truth and make up a lie. Not even familial love is unconditional. There are always conditions. There's always a catch. If someone argues, "But what about the ones who are abused and still choose to stay together?" Have to asked why they're still there? Or do you just assume it's unconditional love? Often it's because either they're scared of the individual or t…
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 04:39 AM
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Heh! "X" and "Y". Heh heh. That's funny~!
/r/ExRedPill20/08/22 04:32 AM
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No no. I don't think this is a good idea. Something seems off. This doesn't seem like a helping channel, it seems like a support group, for yourself. Besides, since I am a skeptic, how can anyone be sure that after your experience, you're not out in rage? I don't think this is a stable thing to do. Your BF doesn't sound RP. He was black pilled. Wrong sub I'd say. Also, just randomly doing phone calls is a huge violation of privacy. Do you have a counseling license? A degree?
/r/ExRedPill19/08/22 10:48 AM
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I'm glad you shared this.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/22 10:32 AM
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Those "random videos" link to the "expert" opinions you so desperately want to read. There is excessive admiration for a particular person by a group of people who are unquestionably committed to the leader with a charismatic personality. His psychopathy aids in him becoming an effective cult leader. Any questioning or dissent of the leader is punished and eradicated in a cult (which I already mentioned above). I have a degree in criminal psychology. I've dealt with cases of cults. All of the tr…
/r/ExRedPill19/08/22 09:40 AM
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Point me to the "experts". I posted the links that articulate things much better. But you DO NOT want to watch or read any of it. All of which I stated are sings of him being a psychopath. His fans are his cult. He is your leader. You are one of them. It is clear. No need to gaslight.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/22 09:21 AM
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He talks big. Doesn't deliver. He makes huge claims, but falls short. He writes what people want to hear and then he weaponizes it by riling the weak-minded up into defending him. He manipulates political trends to sway things like business deals in his favor (like he did with twitter). He manipulates social media using his fans to drive stock prices up. His fans are extremely devoted to him. To the point of thinking him as liken to a god. His fans will get aggressive and throw all sorts of insu…
/r/ExRedPill19/08/22 09:16 AM
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https://www.economist.com/business/2021/02/10/the-cult-of-an-elon-musk-or-a-jack-ma-has-its-perks-but-also-perils https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z0PHv3E8jpY https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=THgqwLhdOak https://www.business-standard.com/article/international/the-cult-of-elon-musk-the-demi-god-protected-by-an-army-of-trolls-118053000127_1.html https://medium.datadriveninvestor.com/elon-musks-cult-of-personality-obscures-some-harsh-truths-95fb58b394de BTW, the fact that you're so insistent on defen…
/r/ExRedPill19/08/22 09:04 AM
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Someone literally posted a link.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/22 08:58 AM
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Are you kidding? He has one of the biggest cults on and out of social media. In fact he has two different cults. One is his own personal cult and one is tesla cult.
/r/ExRedPill19/08/22 02:34 AM
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It's very subtle. If you're not aware of its application, it's impossible to recognize and it's highly likely people will fall for it. Elon Musk does the same. Hence his cult.
/r/ExRedPill18/08/22 05:45 PM
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My ex made me black pilled. No joke. It took a lot of work to get the hate and rage out. But when I finally did, there was one clear thing that I used and still do, to distinguish a predator from a functional human. Use that differentiation. Predator vs Functional human. Worst part is that my ex didn't have an disorder. At least I think she didn't. Sometimes, we just don't recognize the predator until it's too late. Anyway, just live your life for yourself. Be happy. Or at least try to. You didn…
/r/ExRedPill18/08/22 02:09 PM
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Yep. But remember, getting a hobby for the sake of getting dates, will backfire horrendously. Hobby is something you like to do and WANT to do to unwind.
/r/ExRedPill18/08/22 01:28 PM
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Sure. Agreed. However, most guys do have a boring life, because many are just worker drones with 9-5 jobs and no life outside, because there's no time or energy for it. However, that being said, it's like you said, there's more to it. So maybe picking up a weekend hobby can be useful for someone who wants to go out and date (I.E. if you do have weekends off, if you don't, maybe consider changing jobs, if you can't because you need to support your family of younger siblings or parents, then that'…
/r/ExRedPill18/08/22 01:08 PM
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This article assumes that everyone is "forced" to be alone. Instead of admitting that there are those who choose to be by themselves. Being on your own doesn't mean you're lonely. Alone is not the same as lonely. Not to mention the erroneous, outdated and absolutely disproven claim that single men and women are sadder. Flawed article cannot be used for any reference. This seems more like a personal opinion.
/r/ExRedPill18/08/22 11:06 AM
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There is no "bar". Firstly, it mostly just depends on what kind of individual you are to begin with. Meaning, what you look like, how you conduct yourself, your communication skills, your behavior, mannerisms, etc. It's inaccurate to say the "bar" is "low" or "high". Because different people will experience different levels of difficulties in getting dates, especially depending on their location. Not to mention culture, in addition to the above mentioned. Ask yourself, why are women not interest…
/r/ExRedPill17/08/22 12:57 PM
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I my experience, women don't want a guy with high body count, but most women do want a guy that is wanted by many women. Especially if the guy doesn't give most of them the time of day, but dedicates almost everything to one special woman only. Huge difference.
/r/ExRedPill17/08/22 12:51 PM
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No. Not dating advice. And contrary to some comments, not relationship advice either. Same goes for men. Simple reason for that is the difference in different people and their lives. It depends on who you ask. The best way to determine on who to ask is to see how similar they are to you in their dating/relationship life. Only when someone goes through the same things as you and come out of them successfully or with least damage, can they give you effective advice. Remember, anyone can and they d…
/r/ExRedPill15/08/22 11:10 AM
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Your question has a subjective answer. Firstly, I'd ask, in which culture? In many cultures outside, it is not a myth. It's just the way it is. And often times, the woman will even "save herself" just so she can increase her "value" for that guy. Although, less so nowadays on the "saving herself". And the guys accept it, because that's what their cultural mindset is. In our culture, not necessarily a myth, but definitely a slowly dying tradition as more and more women are financially independent…
/r/ExRedPill12/08/22 01:36 PM
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Well said. It's the double standards and hypocrisy that is very questionable. Irony is that they basically are what they claim to hate. Psychologically speaking, it's the internal hatred for themselves that they project on to good women and generalize them. There is another loser with that mindset, I will not write his name because I don't want him to become famous and SEO using my comment to promote his name. He's basically stuck at the mental age of 13 and should not be giving anyone any advic…
/r/ExRedPill11/08/22 11:38 AM
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We must indeed unite. Not everyone necessarily needs god, although, it's fine if they choose it. If someone has lost touch with themselves, they might need a spiritual guidance.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/22 08:00 PM
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Everything on point. Just one thing. Have you ever tried to look-up the term "incel" and its history? Do you know what it means? I think it's because those "incels" get such aggressive responses, instead of empathetic ears, that they gravitate towards psychopaths and con "men" like this guy and more. Just a thought. Maybe, the real enemy is not who we think.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/22 07:55 PM
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Let me ask you something. Do you know how SEO works? Simply put, the more you mention something, the more traction it gets. The simple reason he's popular is because we talk about the guy. He shows up more insearch results, on google, youtube, reddit, etc. The more popularity he gains. The parodies you mention that are being made are also contributing to that. They're making him popular. Because that's how youtube and many other algorithms work. The websites want to keep the visitors on the site…
/r/ExRedPill10/08/22 07:53 PM
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This reminds me of the time when Lois called Peter a child and he retorted with, "You know what that makes you, Lois? A 'p-file'. LMAO XD These guys always lusting after those "tall children" like desperate oafs. Then complain when they're shot down like a plane in WW2 because of this kind of attitude.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/22 10:42 AM
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Everyone should take care of their bodies regardless of gender. Our bodies are our primary home, many even consider it a temple. People call you all sorts of names, especially when you speak out on issues like self-grooming or obesity, etc. But it's a problem nonetheless. Don't take care of your body and your body won't take care of you.
/r/ExRedPill09/08/22 03:53 PM
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Drink more water. Avoid too much direct exposure to the sun. Workout and eat right. Eat collagen (apparently many Japanese women do it and look at their skin). Don't wipe off sweat in general, instead gently dab it away. See how much difference that makes for your skin. Yes, I'm a guy, yes, I take care of my skin (minus collagen part), yes, I'm straight. You wouldn't laugh if you saw how awesome and tempting my skin is...Or so I've been told. Oh and also, don't listen to PUA and the so-called "r…
/r/ExRedPill09/08/22 01:21 PM
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Problem isn't that you have flaws, problem is that you care about what other people will think of them and that scares you. It seems that's why you're ashamed. Go to a professional, ask them to help you get rid of that fear first. The shame will go away with it. Don't "accept" your flaws. Don't change them or remove them. Just acknowledge and understand them first, their roots. Not just by saying it, but by taking steps to manage them. You may even find that some of those so-called flaws weren't…
/r/ExRedPill06/08/22 12:52 PM
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Believe it or not, most don't have an agenda. Some do, but many don't. Some of us, men, and yes, women, do want to help men. The first step to helping men is to educate young men on the realities of things. Whether it's on how the society actually works or how relationships work. This includes the gender-roles and equality and egalitarianism. There are many double standards, yes, however, if a young man has a good role model, he'll be taught to navigate those in a smart way. The problem with man…
/r/ExRedPill06/08/22 10:38 AM
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Nothing. I prefer moving on to better things in life that make me happy. But different people think differently.
/r/ExRedPill04/08/22 12:11 PM
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Have you spoken to him about it? Have you tried to tell him that he's a con man? How did that conversation go? Any red flags? Any communication when you first found out?
/r/ExRedPill03/08/22 11:03 AM
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I'm mixed, and yes, I can say that sometimes, with some women, it does play a part. But to paint a broad brush is not accurate. The thing is, it's a small part, negligible. Anyway, your main question is how to detach, right? Just don't make your life about women. It's a habit that you have to form. Habits form with consistency. Live that. Easier said than done, so it's gonna take all your might, depending on how spiraled down you are right now.
/r/ExRedPill03/08/22 12:29 AM
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To not do something, you simply have to not do it. In body and in mind. The best way to do this is to focus on yourself. YOUR happiness. What makes you happy? What makes you truly immerse yourself in something? Do that. Your brain will forget everything else and voila! There's no magic pill or trick. Just simple psychology.
/r/ExRedPill03/08/22 12:24 AM
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Depends on different people. However, sometimes there is some "clever banter", as they say, but if you try hard, you come off as a try hard. Simply put, just do whatever you do. Write whatever comes to you and your mind naturally, but still keep a filter to not overdo it. Some mystery is always good and that's not RP nonsense, it's a fact. It keeps the fun alive. If you are ghosted, so be it. Your world isn't ending. The world isn't ending either (unfortunately, but that's another thing). Don't …
/r/ExRedPill02/08/22 12:55 PM
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The most common option is not included. Single mother/father. Not to mention the environment type. Abusive, struggling, functioning, etc.
/r/ExRedPill31/07/22 11:28 AM
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Hope you're not too harsh on him while leaving, wouldn't want the hatred to be fueled. Evidently, the poor guy has been steered wrong, because he most likely didn't have a good role model to look up to, and has been exposed to trash instead. Hopefully, time will teach him. Stay strong.
/r/ExRedPill31/07/22 09:37 AM
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Can I just say one thing? I did read your whole thing, but honestly, the first sentence itself was enough for me to think, "She should leave him". I'm an unashamedly old-fashioned guy in many ways. For me, someone who even implies that it's okay to cheat, is scum and not even human, yes, I know that sentence might be taken harshly, but, what can I say? It's my life experience that has developed this mindset for me. This applies to everyone, regardless of gender. One of the main reasons I absolut…
/r/ExRedPill31/07/22 06:03 AM
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While I don't agree with that moron, insurance companies go case by case and statistics are based on number of men vs women drivers, which are unreliable considering how many drivers are on road. Those statistics are not trustworthy. There was an unbiased study done, which showed both are basically the same level of bad and good drivers. If I find the link, I'll edit this comment, but RN I'm too tired to search for it. I hope someone looks it up though.
/r/ExRedPill30/07/22 01:10 PM
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Who? Is he just another scammer "guru" brainwashing young men into thinking "You'll be masculine if you buy my stuff and make me rich"? As soon as I heard F&F, I started seeing red flags. If he is a PUA, he's a scammer. They create this "alpha male" persona, that most guys who follow someone like him, want to embody. They are being sold on a fantasy. I can guarantee that he's one of those people who was a bully or would be a bully now, and his target market would be the very people he sells his …
/r/ExRedPill29/07/22 11:17 AM
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I'm not sure if anyone else will agree but try to make your life not about women. Just do things that make you happy, things that get you healthy and mentally stable. Often times, the "side-effect" of doing that is coming across healthy minded, sane, women, who genuinely open your eyes to the fact that women are humans and just like humans, there'll be bad ones and good ones. Your life choices and your mindset will determine who you come across more. That's my experience.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/22 12:26 PM
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Is it okay if I don't write about my experience but still vote? I just prefer not to mention it on open public forums, as the information can be used by malicious operators online.
/r/ExRedPill28/07/22 11:32 AM
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Dude there's a reason this is called "ex-red pill", most of us I'm sure used to listen to this guy. Until we saw how full of it he is. Also, do you not know that he charges thousands for the so-called seminars he holds or his events? Yeah, I do. I know. Don't try to get one past me. I don't like scammers.
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 02:08 PM
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No, because his statements are baseless claims. In order to disprove something there needs to be a substantial data to begin with. This guy is a PUA, he also paints broad strokes. He puts out rage bait videos like this one and then says, if you want to f, then buy my course and attend my seminar and you'll become "alpha". Even the guy who created these terms regrets it BTW. He is putting blame on porn? Seriously? What about couples who watch porn together? Is the guy being emasculated in that? W…
/r/ExRedPill26/07/22 11:33 AM
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In my experience, despite having bad experiences in dating, most of the women I dated asked me out, not the other way around. It was simply because I would just talk to women as people, just openly, never bothered to play games or lie or do anything special. I would not come on to women either, because I genuinely liked talking to women, sane ones. When I talk to men it's different than when I talk to women, these are things I just don't talk about with my best friend. He'd have just laughed if …
/r/ExRedPill25/07/22 10:40 AM
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Stopped me from becoming a woman hater and going down a dark path after being cheated on and left in a most brutal way. She's like an older sister to me. We met through work, but we became good friends, she's one of the best people I know. Almost 8 years now. She helped me see that there's good in this world and generalizations are often not the way to good social skills.
/r/ExRedPill23/07/22 11:53 AM
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PUA and RP are jokes. The "masculine frame" they talk about is far from masculine. They're more feminine than femininity itself, they're something different than that, they're just toxic. I personally don't think masculinity is toxic, however, there are toxic individuals who claim that their toxic behavior is "masculine", which is far from the truth. The ones you mentioned, are one of those con "men". All they do is drain impressionable young men out of their money and push them into depression …
/r/ExRedPill23/07/22 11:02 AM
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Both are losers lol Cringey AF. Even among that 'community', that's the hilarious part.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 01:02 PM
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If you're talking about 'Fresh and Fit', then they're the biggest con men, liars out there lol The guy, Myron pays for sex, and still gets rejected XD The other one is literally "dating" (paying) a sugar baby (i.e. a hooker). If you're talking about someone else, then they're most likely the same way. Usually, they're just bragging about it online to desperate young boys or sad desperate older men who don't know any better, in order to get money out of them. Most normal men, don't have that high…
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 10:46 AM
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I'm sorry you had to go through all that. I'm sorry about the illness as well. However, that's not what a 'bad boy' is. These are serious issues that extend way beyond that. I hope you got and are still getting help for all of it though. Maybe a mental health sub would be a better way to pour it out? Is there one? I'm not aware. Maybe someone knows of it.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/22 01:11 PM
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Don't think in terms of "chad" or "stacy". Those terms create an image that there's a perfect model of how a guy or girl is and that they're the "elites", while the "rest of us" are left out. This is why those terms are toxic. To put it simply, just be a good person, focus on yourself. If you're exercising, do it to better your health, not to become some fictional toxic idea. As for the height. Why worry about something that you can't control? It will detract your attention from things that you …
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 01:31 PM
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I'll just say this, there may be women out there that may do this stuff, but women are humans and just like humans, there are different women with different thought processes out there. Meaning, not every woman thinks this way. Mostly toxic ones do, just like toxic men who think that way. In fact, I've heard quite a lot of women say they DON'T prefer big and "average" is just fine. Especially if the guy isn't selfish and they actually feel more intimate with such a guy than someone who just gets…
/r/ExRedPill30/05/22 03:20 AM
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This is an amazing analysis.
/r/ExRedPill10/05/22 08:46 AM
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Because accepting responsibility often comes with accepting being flawed or accepting a mistake. This in turn, leads them, in their mind, to see themselves as something less. ​ If someone with an already low self-esteem or if someone who has this image of themselves as being the righteous one or as someone who doesn't make mistakes, is forced to accept that, then the cognitive dissonance kicks in. ​ When it kicks in, the mind will go into defensive mode, deflecting everything to someone or somet…
/r/askTRP18/06/21 02:54 PM
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That's not for us to decide. He asked the question, he will get an answer based on that question. He should definitely not cheat. We don't do scummy things like that. If he wants to fuck other women, then break up with her first.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 04:50 AM
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Since it's mostly psychological, you need to remove the triggers for your impulses, whatever trigger causes you to get the desire for other women, needs to be taken out of your life and mind. Also, thinking about the consequences of you cheating on her. If you care about her, you can imagine the look on her face and the hurt in her mind your actions would cause, you don't want that, your brain won't cheat. Whatever happens, don't tell her about these desires, I mean you can, but she might/will c…
/r/askTRP11/05/21 03:38 PM
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Oh no my dude. This is done and over with. If your gut tells you something, if you see suspicious behavior, you're done. Or more like she's done with you.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 03:23 PM
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Don't be in a relationship that you don't think you'll be loyal in. Don't hurt her. Leave instead. Or control yourself like a maniac. Be careful.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 03:03 PM
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She's not going to show any special treatment for a FWB. Quit acting like a simp. She says no, you move on. She comes back, you move on. Don't waste time on anyone who doesn't spend time with you. ​ If you two were in a serious relationship, and it was mutual and she did put in her part of the work, then you should do your part and go to her house and be there for her when she's feeling down. Even if it is a simpy thing to do. ​ But you're FWB. No emotional attachment. Stop overthinking.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 12:38 PM
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Don't reply. She's was done with you the moment she didn't reply. The only reason you got that reply is because 1- she was/is either testing you or 2 - you're her back up. If you're not her priority, she doesn't see you as important enough to be in her life. Good thing is, neither do you, so move on. ​ Don't be an a-hole either, just say something short like, "Okay" and then move on. If she asks you out, leave her on read/seen or just don't open it at all.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 12:32 PM
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Don't do anything. Are there no better options available to you? Is being single not an option for you? She's testing you, dude. To see if you're still the simp you were before.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 12:28 PM
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Keep to myself. Live a peaceful existence with no drama and no toxicity. Then when my time comes, have no regret about any decision that I made in my life, even if it didn't workout due to external factors, at least I did my part and tried, genuinely tried and put everything I had into it, that's it.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 12:03 PM
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Congratulations on your freedom. I was RP'd before I joined this sub due to my so-called "the one", but yeah, it felt good when I got cured from oneitis.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 10:09 AM
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IMO there's more to life than just a chemical reaction that is the curse of our evolution. There's so much more a guy can do once he stops focusing on trivial matters such as this. Of course, it's not easy at first. Nothing is easy when you do it at first, but eventually, you learn to like the new perspective and the new life it offers you. The only thing is, whether you choose to accept it in a positive light or not.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 10:55 AM
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What does she think about this? Is she affected? She should maybe distance herself from them. They are just her co-workers. It's up to her to not listen to some strangers. She may need a distraction from those toxic co-workers. Once a doubt is planted in someone's mind, they base everything bad on that one thing. It's honestly up to the individual to resist it. If she has friends outside her work who aren't like this, then this may be easier to do.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 10:34 AM
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Sounds very toxic. People grow apart and their behaviors change. You need to ask yourself if this friendship is a friendship anymore and is it worth all the negativity it's creating in your life. For me, my mental, emotional and physical health comes first and anyone who threatens either of those, is not someone that I'd want to keep in my personal or professional life. I have removed such individuals when such a thing happened and I removed myself from the situation/place when I couldn't remove…
/r/askTRP25/10/20 10:24 AM
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Walk away. Don't give a reaction. She'll either stop gaslighting or she'll get pissed off and leave. Either way, you won't be dragged into that vortex. You never win. You only walk away.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 10:14 AM
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Is there any way you could temporarily distance yourself from socializing without ruining your future prospects in career? That can help you a little bit until you achieve your goals. It did help me, I was always reserved and became more selective with who I kept around me.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 10:04 AM
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You working on yourself and getting a good job is an "auto-flex". No need to waste your energy showing off to her. You're above that, beyond that now. Leave her behind, like a mildly bad dream. Tinder is no place for someone like you. This thing will blow over hopefully eventually and then you can go out and meet a high quality woman. Till then, it'd be best to just continue on the path you carved for yourself. Congratulations!
/r/askTRP25/10/20 09:54 AM
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She saw you with other girls? Yeah, no, this is a trick. Leave it as it is. Such a strange message in the first place. Very weird. Women can really be very creepy sometimes.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 09:44 AM
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I thought this at first. However, I realized that I'm still the same as I was before. The only difference is that now I just saw the world for what it is and not the fantasy I was brought up to believe in. Life is mundane, but it's also fascinating. I don't think you've lost your emotions, I don't think most people do. What does happen is we're now more reserved about who we show those emotions to and the fact that you've learned to better manage them. If we were empathetic before, we still are,…
/r/askTRP25/10/20 09:24 AM
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Just be cautious. That virgin thing can be used as a trump card in the court. So far, you've not given her a reason to accuse you, but if you do have sex and if something goes wrong and she gets pissed off, the consequences could be rough. I don't know what kind of person she is and it seems like neither do you, we never do, until they reveal it with their actions and it's often too late by then. So if this gets too much to handle, move on to someone who's not so dangerous. Which is virtually im…
/r/askTRP25/10/20 09:13 AM
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Sorry to hear all of that, but know that none of it was ever in your control. Accepting that will lift a burden off your subconscious. Just my experience, but it's better to just focus on improving our own life. No one has a perfect life, unless you were born with a silver spoon, so, it's just more fulfilling to improve one thing at a time in our own life than focusing on women. Our time is valuable and is better spent on ourselves than someone who isn't worth it.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 09:03 AM
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Women these days are conditioned to be this way. Add to the fact that they now also have financial independence, there's nothing stopping many women from acting this way. There are still 'sane' women out there and the sad thing is that those women are ridiculed and straight up hated by the dysfunctional ones. Just what I've noticed.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 08:53 AM
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From what I've noticed, many of them aren't very social and some are afraid to even approach real women for various reasons. These guys are in desperate need for a fantasy that they may never get, and porn seems too impersonal I guess, so they get that illusion of "just for me" by paying for this stuff. It's very strange, but looking at the patterns of such guys, I came to the conclusion is that they want a fantasy that will never become a reality.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 08:42 AM
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