Partner market and competition

2022-08-23T19:24:48+00:00

Go to the places where there might be women you're looking for. Like I'm a pretty nerdy gamer, so I look for people around the hobbies (gaming, Star Wars, etc.). If something forms, then great, if not, you're at least around people of which you have similar interests. I used to be in business and was attracting business people, but it's just not a world I want to be in often, so I try to avoid that. Keep doing that until you find something and then go kindly mack on her. :)

xenon128lol · 2022-08-23T19:56:30+00:00

Think about it like this:

In TRP ideology, only high status men with lots of money get women. But take a look at the world: The majority of men is not rich, yet they still find a partner. It's not very logical to assume that a man has to have lots of money in order to find a partner. Yes, there are materliastic women who want a rich man so he can provide the lifestyle they desire, but that's 1) not the 'normal' woman 2) not real love 3) not a partner you would enjoy spending time with

Ok_Mathematician7235 · 2022-08-23T19:49:17+00:00

Why are you not looking to be rich? Not judging at all just asking since this is a viewpoint that has never really been explained to me

SweelFor- · 2022-08-23T19:03:32+00:00

You can do that the same way that 99.99% of humans who have ever lived have

Academic_Type624 · 2022-08-24T06:39:04+00:00

Think absolutely what's on your list in a partner, e.g. kind, good career, takes care of herself, enjoys outdoor activities etc and then think what would be on her list in a partner. So in the above example are you working on yourself, would you be a partner to the woman on your list?

As an example I had a conversation on a dating site with a guy who was waiting for a woman to come into his life and then all these magical things would happen and he'd do so much, but current worked and gamex and had no social life. But I was already out trying new things and living my life rather than waiting for someone, so he had nothing to offer me as i value exploring new places. I could see once the novelty of having a girlfriend wore off I'd be the one planning everything and I don't want that.

2020mademejoinreddit · 2022-08-24T12:27:03+00:00

Attractive people almost always will end up with another attractive individual (it also depends on your "standard" of attractiveness), although there might be some special exceptions, however, in my life I haven't seen many. Same way, high prestige (social status) people will most often end up with the same level of people (exceptions are rare and not a commonality). That is an indisputable fact and best not to take it out of context.

So, the simple answer is don't have unrealistic standards that make you basically ignore any good person out there that may not meet your "standards".

Now am I saying don't have any standards? Nope. I'm saying if you're not willing to or are unable to get to that level, then don't expect to get the privileges of that level.

Instead, look for something that suits you and your life. And before you say it, NO, it's not "settling". That's different.

Question isn't "how can I get a partner that I want?", question is "what kind of partner do you want?".

xvszero · 2022-08-24T13:22:26+00:00

with "best" i refer to the ones with more attractive qualities like sex appeal, or prestige

Pretige is silly to care about in a partner and sex appeal is a variable trait where most people actually find a somewhat wide range of people attractive. Not entirely sure what the issue is.

Rook_Cross · 2022-08-30T21:20:09+00:00

So you want someone who is rich and attractive to accept you, despite you yourself not being rich and attractive? You're worthy of love as you are but they are not? You need to change your values and not be a hypocrite. Whenever I see men talking about getting the partner "they want", they mean the way hotter girl, who's personality they know nothing about, nor care about, while they of course are average looking. it's like asking how to make a lot of money fast with no effort. You value the wrong things and are going to almost certainly end up being disappointed.

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Title	Partner market and competition
Author	sharedordaz
Upvotes	8
Comments	31
Date	August 23, 2022 6:34 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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