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| 4 | Gym,Looksmax,nofap and the manosphereI think Gym, Looksmaxxing, and NoFap aren't inherently bad - it's all about your reasons for choosing to do those things. I engaged with the gym and prioritised looksmaxxing for building a nicer physique to feel good about myself, by proxy, attract a partner. I engaged with Nofap to test my willpower and achieve a high level of self-control most people do not have (something which in my opinion is very worthwhile trying). Ultimately, it's just the fake confidence and the thoughts dehumanising ot… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/03/23 04:10 PM |
| 1 | I love the YouTuber Roma army! That’s another channel I recommend for young men and women.She's a grifter... | /r/ExRedPill | 21/03/23 09:13 AM |
| 17 | I 20F in college with a 14M brother who watches tiktoks on masculinity regularly with spartans, knights, warriors and etc saying to be strong and be stoic. Is this bad I want him to embrace feminism and hoping he doesn't hate women?Ultimately, it's better to let your brother do his own thing and not try to control his perspective, as trying to force an ideology will most likely have the opposite effect and he could grow to resent you. All you can do is be a positive female role model for him, ask him how he's getting on at school now and again, ask what he's reading, let him feel like he can be an open book with you explaining his viewpoints - take ideology and politics out of the equation and keep it on an individual basi… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/03/23 02:03 PM |
| 18 | The Revival off the Noble GentlemanWell, more often than not, I find that redpillers (or people that end up in this paradigm of thinking) are experiencing some form of mental illness. Generally, it's best to reach a person on an individual basis, as there isn't a 'one size fits all' solution to changing someone's perspective. More often than not, these men want to feel heard and understood, but the mainstream basically just does a shit job at acknowledging the new age issues and complications men face. While there is blatant sexi… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/23 11:53 AM |
| 3 | How can you be attractive to women, but not from a redpiller/pickup artist's perspective?Oh he's describing redpillers? Goddammit lol I misinterpreted the shit outta this | /r/ExRedPill | 07/03/23 11:16 PM |
| 5 | How can you be attractive to women, but not from a redpiller/pickup artist's perspective?They have a very shallow worldview. They think men must be all money and muscles to attract a woman. But they're totally hollow inside, if you don't count all their jealousies, insecurities and idiotic assumptions. This could apply to young, toxic, or ignorant women that don't know what they want - this is way too broad a stroke to describe most women though. I honestly think money and muscles are more of a male projection of what's important for attraction - it can definitely play a part, but i… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/03/23 09:45 PM |
| 15 | Andrew Tates struggling in prison conditions others deal with fine again.He gave his account to Trey Parker and Matt Stone | /r/ExRedPill | 01/03/23 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Is it understandable to dislike RP, PUA, Manosphere, but also dislike FDS?It's definitely more moderated these days, but that's because most of the comments would be on the videos they pin | /r/ExRedPill | 25/02/23 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Is it understandable to dislike RP, PUA, Manosphere, but also dislike FDS?I think some of it can be using a man for his resources type of thing - basically reinforcing sexist troupes purely for any sort of advantage | /r/ExRedPill | 25/02/23 08:28 PM |
| 2 | Andrew tate got owned by Greta thumberg of all peopleYou have a long way to go when it comes to discussing these kinds of topics. You might have good intentions, but you clearly don't understand male specific mental health issues society creates that redpill capitalises on. The fact you'd rope me in with someone like Tate demonstrates how ideologically possessed you are. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/02/23 03:16 PM |
| 1 | There's a lot of redpillers lurking in this subIt just seems fairly obvious to me and I have explained in previous messages on things, but it's not getting through. All you've done is accuse me of the things you're ironically doing yourself. You literally just called me allsorts feeling you had a grasp of my entire person, so what's the point? (Which in its self is an e.g of a logical fallacy) I mean the stuff you were saying wasn't making any sense and I don't think it takes a psychologist to see you were offended and being reactionary to c… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/23 10:26 AM |
| 1 | There's a lot of redpillers lurking in this subyour entire perception of this post is misogynistic. But how? Until you learn how to have a grounded conversation vs trying to battle. While it's true I started this thread as combative, it served as an engine to bring awareness to why some men become redpilled in the first place. stuff you're saying is just bizzare and completely lacking in any self awareness or accurate perception Again, how? I'm just trying to understand, I'm not trying to 'win'. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/23 10:18 AM |
| 1 | There's a lot of redpillers lurking in this subPoint them out then? By all means, I'm always open to learning :) Edit: Again though, even saying you think something is the case, you still should elaborate as otherwise you're merely just implying it is just a fact, whereas, you're not actually explaining why it's the case. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/23 08:18 AM |
| 1 | There's a lot of redpillers lurking in this subDude I've made no conclusions about you. That is a blatant lie. You called me a sexist based on nothing but you personally getting offended. For someone in your job you're not separating responses to what you say from personal attacks on you. If you work in my role you'll realise how complex mental health actually is and the subtle things can really make a big difference for people. Your approach is antagonising and unhelpful - you might feel like you're morally a good person, but how we approac… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/23 08:11 AM |
| 1 | There's a lot of redpillers lurking in this subI do think it would be worth you re-reading aswell, you were jumping to conclusions and quick to label things. Nothing about my approach was misogynist in nature - you engage in a horrendous amount of logical fallacies. In my opinion, your responses were a knee-jerk reaction and baseless conjecture to deflect criticism. Example: Ultimately I think your action on your perception of things is harmful. You state this like it's a fact and don't elaborate upon it. I think you do this to deflect, as y… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/23 07:53 AM |
| 1 | There's a lot of redpillers lurking in this subI'm not keeping track of scores? That was someone else that mentioned your downvotes (I couldn't give a fuck about them, personally). Look, ultimately, I just thought your approach was harmful, that's all - from my perspective it's really just the last thing this sub needs, if you wanna shit on redpillers just go somewhere else, we want redpillers to detox and leave the cult, not another place to circle jerk about them. Other than that, if you cannot take criticism I really would suggest not put… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/23 06:24 AM |
| 1 | There's a lot of redpillers lurking in this subSorry, are you actually dumb? Like, do you just class anyone that disagrees with you, or questions your opinions as 'weird'? You said i'm a sexist and all these other things - on top of that when you have no counter arguments you just resort to telling me I need to get a life etc. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/23 06:23 AM |
| 1 | There's a lot of redpillers lurking in this subYou can't really pull the "get a life" card if you're also engaging with us lol | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/23 06:13 AM |
| 1 | There's a lot of redpillers lurking in this subHe even apologised on one comment for all his odd fantasys about me That apology was before your other responses (you can also check it again, I edited it eariler today after the fact). I almost just can't believe this is real - you're like the perfect textbook example of 'first take the log out of your own eye'. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/23 11:56 PM |
| 3 | Andrew tate got owned by Greta thumberg of all peopleYeah but you're just a typical troll that adds nothing of substance to the conversation, I have every right to criticise something that's fundamentally flawed. The fact you're trying to give the whole "ahaha you're just mad, whatever" thing just shows how short-sighted you are to complex issues like redpill and truama. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/23 01:01 PM |
| 3 | Andrew tate got owned by Greta thumberg of all peopleI mean I can't say I'm mad per say, but I just thought what you posted was dumb and self-indulgent - I have every right to criticise it as you have every right to make a public post? | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/23 12:58 PM |
| 5 | There's a lot of redpillers lurking in this subIronically... It's a lot more common that you think | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/23 11:06 AM |
| 2 | Andrew tate got owned by Greta thumberg of all peopleI mean, I don't like Tate either, but from what I can see you're similarly Histrionic with the way you're trying to make a spectacle of yourself. I don't like redpill or types like tate the same way I don't like bullies and cowards who use wokeness as a way to bully others and avoid criticism. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/23 11:02 AM |
| 5 | There's a lot of redpillers lurking in this subWould be nice to have help from men shutting down redpillers Shaming/shutting someone down for their beliefs or opinions is not how you help change anyone or anything for the greater good... My actions here are very measured. Think about the actual effect of them No, your actions are immature and insecure by nature. If you really think you make the world a better place by shaming people and telling them they are just wrong and offer no sound alternative (much less empathise with their postion) t… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/23 10:22 AM |
| 3 | There's a lot of redpillers lurking in this subWell I typically look at the root cause of the issue. Everyone is certainly different, but I really find it cringe how you're not a feminist and you're making such a big deal about the fact you're a girl, why can't you just see yourself as another person? The reality of the situation is you're doing this all for attention and anyone that calls you out for your own behaviour you make it out that they are a misogynist and hate all women, when really they are just calling you out singularly. Antago… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/23 10:03 AM |
| 2 | There's a lot of redpillers lurking in this subThere's a lot of conjecture, but you actually haven't explained 'how' I am something. Maybe think a bit harder. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/23 10:00 AM |
| 3 | There's a lot of redpillers lurking in this subHahaha I've not bullied or trolled you. You deserve it though from how youve acted towards me You just told on yourself. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/23 08:54 AM |
| 6 | There's a lot of redpillers lurking in this subFacts. You're the single person on this post to have problem. Alright, first of all, just because one person doesn't agree with the group, it doesn't automatically mean they are wrong - that's a logical fallacy. I was only pointing out a behaviour I saw which I thought was shitty You have no empathy for a woman being harrased by redpillers trying to scam or w/e her. I believe prevention is better than cure. If you know full well they are scammers, you can easily block them. I have empathy for pe… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/23 08:44 AM |
| 2 | There's a lot of redpillers lurking in this subThis is just a poor attempt at trolling now, come on. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/23 08:30 AM |
| 5 | There's a lot of redpillers lurking in this subThat's fine, but I have no issue with women at all. You're just saying that I hate women because you want to make it about that rather than face your own actions. It's fine, you don't need to reply. I hope one day you develop self-awareness and become a better person. All the best. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/23 08:28 AM |
| 2 | There's a lot of redpillers lurking in this subYou're not being kind whatsoever. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/23 08:26 AM |
| 4 | There's a lot of redpillers lurking in this subWhatever you say I guess. I see straight through you, especially more so with this condescending crap. You're not a psychologist, honey. You're just a classic bully and a coward that hides behind things and twists things to avoid criticism - you do you queen, but gaslighting doesn't work on me. You're trying to rope my "venting" in as an attack on all women, but it's just pointing out your own toxic behaviours as an individual. Seems you can't take criticism very well, but I know why. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/23 08:22 AM |
| 6 | There's a lot of redpillers lurking in this subI literally have said redpill is irrational and illogical, by proxy I do not support it. Oh my god, you're not special just because you're a woman, get over yourself honey. You have such a fragile ego. I'm not being negative to women as a whole, I'm just calling you out for your own shitty character flaws, that's all. It seems you can dish it out, but can't take it. Classic bully and a coward... | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/23 08:15 AM |
| 1 | There's a lot of redpillers lurking in this subCan you here yourself? Why would I block, i find it good research material + they'll think it's some conspiracy or a weak woman thing to do. It's helpful to them to make fun of them in my opinion. And as if you're annoyed of me making light of being harrased? Seriously think about your standards here. What gets me about this is the fact you'll simultaneously infantilise yourself and make it clear 'I'm a girl!' - use that as a defense to deflect criticism, but see no issue with making fun of thes… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/23 08:12 AM |
| 9 | There's a lot of redpillers lurking in this subOh ok that makes sense that you're not a feminist, that's much more relieving to know. I mean tbh I don't give a shit if you're a woman or a man, I think shitty people come in all shapes and sizes irregardless of their gender or sex. You clearly get off on what you do, just do it in a safe and consensual way please, we don't need anymore redpillers thanks. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/23 08:05 AM |
| 3 | There's a lot of redpillers lurking in this subI mean, I'm not the one making posts for attention laughing about how I'm messing with people? Protect your ego and hide behind the mask of feminism all you want. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/23 08:00 AM |
| 3 | There's a lot of redpillers lurking in this subWell when you work in the mental health industry like I do and discover what really causes the mental health problems these men face you wouldn't find it funny in the slightest. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/23 07:57 AM |
| 10 | There's a lot of redpillers lurking in this subNot really sure how this makes me a sexist, but ok? I'm just pointing out flaws in your own character - you can't use feminism as an excuse to be shitty to men, much like redpillers can't use redpill as an excuse to be shitty to women. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/23 07:55 AM |
| 5 | There's a lot of redpillers lurking in this subI don't think it's helpful to make fun of them, I think most men that end up in red pill have been traumatised by something. When you really break it down the redpill logic is irrational and dehumanising (it just screams of how a narcissistic person would view the world). I think some of them don't actually believe it, but think they need to because they've been hurt by toxic women in the past and feel shame and embarrassment of the emotional truama - by sticking to redpill, they hold onto anger… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/23 07:42 AM |
| 3 | There's a lot of redpillers lurking in this subYeah I am an exredpiller. I'm obv talking about the ones who arn't lurking here for good reasons. Yeah that's fair enough, I just think it might be a good idea to always approach the topic (especially on Internet forums) as unbiased - I think it can trigger redpiller's truama if they see a girl talking about enjoying laughing at them and getting support for doing it. Obviously redpill rhetoric is nasty and hateful, but they are a reactionary sort, I think wording what we say is important because… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/23 07:37 AM |
| -2 | There's a lot of redpillers lurking in this subI mean any scammer or redpiller it's better to just block them or ignore them rather than play mind games for your own satisfaction | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/23 07:30 AM |
| -5 | There's a lot of redpillers lurking in this subEven though you're calling them pathetic, doing this makes you as much of a loser as they are tbh How tf do people simultaneously think they are on the 'right' side, when they are tormenting and messing with the other side? It doesn't help anyone beside maybe bolstering your own ego temporarily... | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/23 07:14 AM |
| 7 | There's a lot of redpillers lurking in this subIt makes sense that redpillers would lurk here? It is a sub that's related to it after all. I think the main thing we can hope is these types eventually break down the cognitive dissonance and deal with their truama. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/23 07:09 AM |
| 2 | Andrew tate got owned by Greta thumberg of all peopleI mean, I don't think most people on this sub support or like Tate, but damn dude, he is rent free in your head. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/23 07:05 AM |
| 2 | Is narcissism becoming normalised in the mainstream?That's it, my incentive is to ensure i'm covered and safe - doing a good thing can blow up in your face sometimes, when that happens it really sucks and can put you off people for a long time. I try to prioritise my finances and comforts which ensure I have stability (and safety buffers for the future). Relationships these days can feel like a gamble - people, feelings, and priorities change all the time. Marriage and having children is a huge responsibility to bare now. Unless you're willing to… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/02/23 05:25 PM |
| 2 | Is narcissism becoming normalised in the mainstream?I'm not. I am a traveler of both time and space who sits with elders of a gentle race. 😅 Jk sorry. Umm.. Ok? Lol I think it's natural that no person can be altruistic all the time, I think it's a key thing to acknowledge when you may judge another person. We're all different shades and have our own difficulties in life. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/02/23 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Is narcissism becoming normalised in the mainstream?Wow. I can't say you're wrong, honestly. Edit: But what do you define as valid education? | /r/ExRedPill | 04/02/23 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Is narcissism becoming normalised in the mainstream?I can believe they've always existed, but it's now definitely amplified more than ever, since these types can easily influence way more people with such an easy process. In your experience what happens to these types when they get older? | /r/ExRedPill | 04/02/23 08:35 AM |
| 11 | My husband is ready to divorce me over TRP beliefsRespect for how you offered a practical solution, while everyone else is stating the obvious. Sleep is a very important factor. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/01/23 10:12 PM |
| 1 | What's the best way to get dating/people advice for neurodivergent people?So I wouldn't have an issue dating an ASD person, I just find it hard to come across people like me. I'd say I struggle with reading what someone is thinking. I guess it's a case of distinguishing if someone is being disrespectful or it's unintentional. I've had situations where I can't tell if someone is playing mind games, flaking, not interested, or that I'm overthinking it. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/01/23 05:21 PM |
| 1 | What's the best way to get dating/people advice for neurodivergent people?I just overthink everything and can't tell what someone's intentions are | /r/ExRedPill | 14/01/23 04:18 PM |
| 1 | What's the best way to get dating/people advice for neurodivergent people?OCD and autism in my case | /r/ExRedPill | 14/01/23 03:50 PM |
| 4 | i need help and adviceIs this an ARG? My answer is 'touch grass'. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/01/23 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Are narcissistic and/or richer people living better lives?Thank you! | /r/ExRedPill | 11/01/23 08:20 AM |
| 1 | Let's talk about RedpillMen need to do better to compete. Competition is a good thing and a fundamental part of why this country is so successful. This is a good thing for men in the long run. What is your definition of 'better'? | /r/ExRedPill | 29/12/22 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Let's talk about RedpillThink about school shooters, incels, and people alike, typically they are disproportionately neurodivergent, disproportionately depressed, disproportionately socially isolated, but the narrative is always toxic masculinity being the issue - while that is a part of it, it's being addressed in such a way that doesn't dig into the motivations of these individuals and what leads up to it, rather they just become another freak show case for the MSM. Obviously atrocities cause by these people are not … | /r/ExRedPill | 29/12/22 03:17 PM |
| 2 | How does exredpill feel about women who purposely date men with low self esteem/good-but-naive men?They are toxic people. They unfortunately don't get called out enough for their shitty behaviour as they should, then again, emotional abuse isn't something to easily measure or detect, it's typcially spotted after the abuser has already gotten what they want. While this point I'm about to make is ancedotal - i'm sure it isn't far from the average experience. I have had a scenario similar to this my friend told me about. Her friends basically spent half of the time encouraging her actions becaus… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/12/22 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Let's talk about RedpillIn gender terms, I just feel like a disposal tool - yet another cog in the machine. I don't feel as though I'm taken seriously as a person unless I provide something and most of my perspective and mental health issues are downplayed by society disproportionately compared to women. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/12/22 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Let's talk about RedpillI guess I'm just open to my viewpoint being critiqued really. I want to know if my pessimism is well founded, or there is something vital I'm missing for the lived experience of a guy in a capitalist society? | /r/ExRedPill | 29/12/22 12:48 PM |
| 5 | The perfect person for you will LOVE YOU despite what red pill says!!!I also agree that character should supersede everything else, but the bitter reality is most people aren't like this. It's most certainly a dying breed of person these days. Red pill effectively presents a very cynical undertone to this reality, but it really isn't far from the truth. The real debate is how much is biologically innate behaviour and what is socially programmed. We live in an age of an ever growing, overly competitive, and parasitic form of capitalism. Some people really lose thei… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/12/22 08:53 AM |
| 3 | The perfect person for you will LOVE YOU despite what red pill says!!!It's well established in studies that women are attracted to social status. I'd say it's difficult to not adopt superficiality on some level within a capitalist society. Those sorts of features are generally what makes someone's 'social status' differ within that system. Not that I agree with that of course, but most of the time people in general are going to judge you by your socio-econmic standing, occupation, connections, and appearance etc (consciously or subconsciously). This idea that 'the… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/12/22 08:14 AM |
| 3 | Women of this sub, what advice can you give me to move on in a healthy way?Good point actually. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/11/22 08:21 PM |
| 2 | Women of this sub, what advice can you give me to move on in a healthy way?I wish I could lift weights and exercise, but I have a disability that prevents that 😬 Thank you for your reply anyway though | /r/ExRedPill | 02/11/22 07:12 PM |
| 9 | Women of this sub, what advice can you give me to move on in a healthy way?Wow, this is really good insight. Thank you | /r/ExRedPill | 02/11/22 07:11 PM |
| 5 | Women of this sub, what advice can you give me to move on in a healthy way?Is it ok if I dm you the details? | /r/ExRedPill | 02/11/22 03:23 PM |
| 4 | Aba and Preach made a good video about male loneliness, thoughts?I completely agree with you here! | /r/ExRedPill | 30/09/22 12:43 PM |
| 2 | Aba and Preach made a good video about male loneliness, thoughts?Well said actually | /r/ExRedPill | 30/09/22 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Aba and Preach made a good video about male loneliness, thoughts?It's not just Peterson. In general, men are ridiculed when they let their emotions show. That problem needs to be handled. Those who made fun of him, the comments were brutal. It's never okay to laugh at someone who is showing their vulnerability. I don't care what your bias is, this rule applies in general. Yes! Thank you. Unless we're talking about like a mass murderer crying after killing people. In those circumstances it definitely does not apply, but prevention of these outcomes should be d… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/09/22 11:08 AM |
| 2 | Aba and Preach made a good video about male loneliness, thoughts?Sidenote: While people don't agree with JP's politics (which is completely fine by the way), what the fuck is with this sadism towards him being emotional? Don't we want men to show emotion? We all need to vent sometimes to be heard and understood - it can be such a big part of becoming a better person, growing, and building self-awareness. I still think my last posts stand in that people want to ignore the issue, pretend it's not even a problem at all, and hope it goes away rather than acknowle… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/09/22 04:07 AM |
| 2 | If I'm to be frank, I think a certain selection of people here do not host an environment that's helpful for Red Pillers to detox.Thank you for making this post, I appreciate it. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/09/22 12:58 PM |
| 1 | If I'm to be frank, I think a certain selection of people here do not host an environment that's helpful for Red Pillers to detox.Closed off to 'help offered'? Bro, you literally drew biased conclusions about me... How can you expect someone to be open to you in response when you gaslight (likely inadvertently) them about who they are, their intentions, their life experience, and cherry-pick what they say because you have a characterture idea in your head - the reality is you know nothing about me and you were projecting your own cognitive bias. Besides, you weren't expecting a response anyways. You completely invalidated … | /r/ExRedPill | 29/09/22 11:16 AM |
| 2 | Re-phrasing my last postIf men want an issue to get addressed, like most groups in history they will have to work together to create resources and change. Most men are not used to having to organize and create community aid. Focusing your energy from getting women to understand , to creating resources for men is probably a more useful way to spend your time and energy. We need men's support groups, male teachers, male mentors, legal resources, men's shelters, addiction resources, raising money to aid with introducing l… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/09/22 07:32 AM |
| 0 | Re-phrasing my last postboth based on your initial post, and the fact that you think you need to drop out of one if your life isn't perfect. Well given the fact my career involves me travelling a lot and my annual leave is predetermined, it really isn't easy to maintain the sort of deep intimate relationship I would like for the moment. You clearly don't know what dating is like for the younger generation then I guess. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/09/22 06:08 AM |
| -4 | Re-phrasing my last postNope that's just your own bias conclusion, again... I do not expect women to give up their autonomy, that is ridiculous. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/09/22 05:46 AM |
| 0 | Re-phrasing my last postI've had success, it just hasn't been the case for my friend, but hey, since you like drawing a conclusion on your own bias assumptions I guess explaining this to you again is pointless. I know what a healthy relationship looks like, it's just because of my circumstances with my career and general health I can't maintain it to the best of my ability right now - I don't use women, I'm very clear with my intentions when I date and never play bullshit games. Again, perhaps it's how I've worded this… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/09/22 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Re-phrasing my last postNo, I just said sex and intimacy CAN BE a way to build confidence and can play a big part in self-discovery. I'm not saying I or my friend are entitled to sex. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/22 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Re-phrasing my last postMen would be less lonely if they pursued a relationship more than just sex. That is literally what my friend is doing? The ONLY way out of the catch-22 you put yourselves into, is to either level up your own attractiveness (in looks and character), or lower your own standards. What if you have a disability that impairs most of your movement and pretty much prevents you being able to lift weights and workout? This isn't even a "war of the sexes", it's just a self-destruction of healthy men, fuele… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/22 09:42 PM |
| 0 | Re-phrasing my last postI get plenty of sex though? Plus, this specific reply has literally nothing to do with sex? | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/22 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Re-phrasing my last postIn my case I do fine with the apps, but because of my job I'm busy a lot and don't have time for a proper relationship, but i'm always clear with my intentions. My friend however is a different story. See what you want to see I guess. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/22 09:33 PM |
| 2 | Does society (and most women) not understand, or even really care about male loneliness?Seems like it | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/22 08:26 PM |
| -1 | Re-phrasing my last postYou're making all these assumptions about me being this narcissistic asshole obsessed with sex, that's bullshit I'm afraid mate. Maybe it's something to do with how I worded it, but sure, I enjoy sex, but I don't think I'm entitled to it, nor any woman's autonomy. I said sex and intimacy CAN BE a way to build self-confidence and a part of self-discovery, i'm not implying it's the ONLY WAY. This is exactly the kind of shit I mean, this preachy horseshit that completely ignores and invalidates wha… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/22 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Re-phrasing my last postBesides, didn't you say in the other thread that you basically don't care about anyone? You have to get the plank out of your own eye first, so to speak. What did I say that implied that? Because that's not the case at all. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/22 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Re-phrasing my last postI guess society when I really break it down. I have been educating myself on race, trans, and women's issues for the past year or so - making an active effort to understand. As it goes, I have the lived experience of an autistic person with a physical disability (slipped disc in my spine), so I do have personal knowledge of other groups aside from gender. I have made a conscious effort to be open and understanding of the people around me. I just want to know if people actually give a shit about … | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/22 06:08 PM |
| 0 | Re-phrasing my last postOh ok, that makes sense. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/22 06:02 PM |
| -8 | Re-phrasing my last postNot necessarily, I'd say society and the mainstream talk about women's issues far more than men's (if they even talk about men's issues at all!). Hell, most women I've spoken to don't even know about the disproportionate rates of suicide in men compared to women. It's not just about the attention aspect, rather, men's issues aren't ever even acknowledged by society at all, and the mainstream expectation is for people to care about women's issues, but hardly ever concider what men go through? | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/22 04:27 PM |
| -2 | Re-phrasing my last postThe question then is - what's in it for you? Why you think that this is important for you? How this "caring" would affect you, if that would be the case? Well I guess the idea of both genders looking out for and understanding eachover sounds like a neat idea, but I suppose that's not an easy outcome (or truly possible?) Perhaps I care too much about my friend and his experience, but I guess your suggestion is basically don't worry about it? Edit: Your other points have merit though. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/22 04:23 PM |
| -7 | Re-phrasing my last postYour issue is simple, you view the world as men vs women. The group of 4 billion men vs the group of 4 billion women. Why do you decide to divide the world in this way? Okay, you're making a loaded assumption about me here. I do not simply believe it is purely Men v Women in this world. I clarified that my post is talking specifically about a 'gendered issue' - this doesn't mean I as an individual completely ignore and disregard other variables outside of this post, such as disabilities, age, im… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/22 04:06 PM |
| 2 | Does society (and most women) not understand, or even really care about male loneliness?I completely agree that both genders need to be heard, but I have to admit that these comments reek of 'Yeah but women have this issue too, or x group have this aswell etc.' It's like they assume my postion is men have it worse overall which I don't - I agree with you in the sense we experience these things in different colours, but given my experience with loneliness growing up it's pretty goddamn gaslighting and invalidating for people to just gloss over these experiences that MOST men go thro… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/22 09:48 AM |
| 1 | Does society (and most women) not understand, or even really care about male loneliness?This is true, and most women won't acknowledge this because they don't want to be seen as shallow. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/22 09:34 AM |
| 2 | Does society (and most women) not understand, or even really care about male loneliness?Which charities are these and what country? | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/22 09:32 AM |
| 0 | Does society (and most women) not understand, or even really care about male loneliness?Well, my male friend is average i'd say in terms of looks, but I have to agree with your point | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/22 04:28 AM |
| -2 | Does society (and most women) not understand, or even really care about male loneliness?You're right that I did suffer from it for a long time, but I wouldn't say I'm specifically trying to imply women are the problem singularly, but people in general. My loneliness came from the fact I spent years being socially ill-equip because of autism and having an unfortunate hand in caregivers growing up. Not true, I wouldn't say emotions are primarily self-inflicted. Women in this society can pretty much get away with insulting or degrading men for things they can't control and rarely face… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/22 04:10 PM |
| -2 | Does society (and most women) not understand, or even really care about male loneliness?Why would you assume I don't care about the emotional state of others? I care about my friend's issue because he's a genuine person and just wants intimacy, but he gets judged for his height and looks quite often. But sure, since I made this post about sexual experience, I'll admit I'm looking for a long-term partner, but because of how dating is, it's mainly just flings. Although, I do my make intentions clear so there are no mind games or hurt feelings. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/22 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Does society (and most women) not understand, or even really care about male loneliness?Well, I'd say the patriarchy and sexist heteronormative rhetoric that has been pushed for years, but through time I've realised people all have similar implicit biases in how they view and act towards men and women. The real challenge is disnquishing how much of it is biologically innate, and how much of it is expectations that were socially programmed into us. Edit: There is definitely elements of social programming, but also innate biological reactions that influence our behaviours towards men… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/22 10:54 AM |
| 1 | Does society (and most women) not understand, or even really care about male loneliness?I would say it's isolation from feeling misunderstood, and that it isn't often I find profound emotional connections with most people. Sex itself can really have profound effects on mental wellbeing in both men and women, but of course you can have fulfilling emotional connections without sex being a necessity. Fact is though, most men aren't taken seriously for their mental health, and most men have a hard time building these sorts of connections because of the way society works. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/22 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Does society simply just not care about male loneliness?I am fortunate to ha e close friendships with men and women, but I have noticed that most women literally just don't think male loneliness is even a thing or that it even matters. I spoke to one of friends about dating apps yesterday and she even admitted that she gets an ego boost from the sheer amount of likes sent her way. It does very much seem that women can easily get way more sexual experience whereas most guys don't really stand a chance to have that and grow from it. I've had success wi… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/09/22 09:52 AM |
| 1 | How do you get over the anger from being less than 6 ft? As in, how did you get around the incel-like rhetoric around women and height?Source? | /r/ExRedPill | 19/09/22 08:56 PM |
| -1 | Question for the women and girls of r/exredpill. Do you call out your lady friends who are misandrist? Do you hold misandric women accountable?How is this bait? This seems like a reasonable question ask...? | /r/ExRedPill | 12/09/22 03:27 PM |
| 1 | How did you cure or treat your attachment style?So IFS and EDMR perhaps? | /r/ExRedPill | 03/09/22 08:07 PM |
| 1 | How did you cure or treat your attachment style?This is actually really solid advice dude! Thank you | /r/ExRedPill | 03/09/22 08:07 PM |
| 1 | How did you cure or treat your attachment style?Is this through private healthcare, or a referral? That definitely does sound like a good therapeutic approach, is it group CBT? | /r/ExRedPill | 01/09/22 02:46 PM |
| 3 | You will never be a high value man.What makes a high value human in your opinion though? I feel like people will always have their own interpretation, but hopefully the interpretations would typically hold a lot of simarities across the board. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/08/22 08:04 AM |
| 1 | A response to a video on hypergamy by a manosphere guy.As in, Alexander Grace deleted it? Wow. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/08/22 02:03 PM |
| 0 | Best place to be is exredpill, cmvRedpill (in my opinion) is unfortunately the only mainstream safespace for men to discuss male specific issues... I think it's inevitable for men (most men atleast) to fall down this rabbit hole, but hopefully after enough time reason their way out of it. Some, after deprogramming from redpill thinking, may perhaps attain a broader concept of gender and its difference in comparison to sex, others however may still adhere and believe the labels of male and female serve a useful social utility/cat… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/08/22 01:51 PM |
| 1 | How to master empathySo uh... Did you kill Paul Allen? | /r/ExRedPill | 25/08/22 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Partner market and competitionWell, I believe the natural human condition is to be slightly dissatisfied - even when we get what we want, eventually we will get complacent. I personally think fighting complacency can be an uphill battle against our own nature. Weath in my case is for security, improving my opportunities, and for perhaps enjoying some luxuries now and again. What about you? | /r/ExRedPill | 24/08/22 08:08 AM |
| 4 | Partner market and competitionOf course not, but I suppose it depends on why someone wants to be rich and how exactly they aim to achieve it. Irregardless of our circumstances socially or economically, I believe it is natural for human beings to become complacent. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/08/22 08:34 PM |
| 6 | Partner market and competitionOnly very few of the overall population can be rich | /r/ExRedPill | 23/08/22 08:23 PM |
| 2 | What standards or preferences do former redpill men and woman have here?Jealousy is natural, although I think it's something we shouldn't normalise as a 'quirky' personality trait lol That dynamic can be draining for both people unless there is healthy communication. I always see jealous girlfriend memes and it makes me feel weird I think that behaviour is only normalised by immature people and it really shouldn't be promoted I agree lol | /r/ExRedPill | 21/08/22 08:46 AM |
| 5 | Does adopting a redpill world view make people less empathetic to people whove been manipulated or abused?Maybe that's not it for everyone, but it's my experience I'd say this is a relatable scenario for me at least. I found it to be a very challenging state of cognitive dissonance looking back in hindsight. The importance of healthy boundaries became ever more essential after that. Emotional manipulators can be awful people. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/08/22 12:32 PM |
| 3 | Redpill and ex-redpill both need to lose their relationship with the just world fallacy.Well said! | /r/ExRedPill | 11/08/22 08:01 PM |
| 1 | The Internet Is Confused About Narcissismhttps://www.reddit.com/r/psychology/comments/thgdvp/the_internet_is_confused_about_narcissism/i17zzhr?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3 | /r/ExRedPill | 10/08/22 10:45 PM |
| 2 | Some helpCan you link the thing you read about sexual dysfunction? If it was a study I'd imagine there are more variables at play for sexual dysfunction. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/08/22 07:22 AM |
| 1 | Positive reinforcement, or too close to redpill logic?Lol | /r/ExRedPill | 13/07/22 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Any People on the Autism spectrum here?Interesting. I scored 26 | /r/ExRedPill | 06/07/22 08:48 PM |
| 1 | I always wondered this about redpillers...Welp. I guess the incel crisis will get worse? :/ Maybe by that point in time they'll have sex robots or something lmao. Do you think 1 rich guy with multiple wives is going to be the norm in the early future? | /r/ExRedPill | 05/07/22 10:34 PM |
| 6 | I always wondered this about redpillers...People that compare their current SO to their exs are toxic. The context for that only seems to be shaming the person into feeling inadequate, so I don't think that's an unreasonable thing to want to avoid. Do you think polygamy can be economically sustainable? | /r/ExRedPill | 03/07/22 02:13 PM |
| 2 | What are some hard truths you have accepted about life?I like this. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/07/22 12:53 PM |
| 4 | Honest answer, did any of the RP dating coaches you use to watch get you laid?Lol "References!" "I'm going to need a citation" | /r/ExRedPill | 28/06/22 11:54 AM |
| 4 | What are some hard truths you have accepted about life?Do you think spirituality and/or religion is all just delusions people tell themselves to cope? How did you keep going despite life having no inherent meaning? | /r/ExRedPill | 28/06/22 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Are most people scared to be genuine?But honestly I'm not totally sure how this connects to being "genuine"? Do you mean that you're afraid to show what you think most people would perceive to be a weakness of yours? Most people don't understand (or have experienced) the condition. I want to be athletic and active like I used to be, but I can't, I'm stuck like this. I guess I just don't want to be genuine about how much it bothers me and has ruined my life, who the hell is going to want to stick around that? Nobody. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/06/22 08:43 PM |
| 2 | Are most people scared to be genuine?Facts. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/06/22 02:57 PM |
| 4 | Are most people scared to be genuine?There was no golden age of virtue before social media. There were abysmal and shitty people back then too. You're not wrong, shitty people aren't anything new and no such golden age existed, however, I think these days judgements of others are far worse - social media has cranked up the achieving social status dial to a ridiculous level. Most people my age that use social media a lot just come across as unashamed sociopaths, but yet they try to always come across as humble. It literally feels as… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/06/22 11:44 AM |
| 1 | Thought experiment: Technology will make looks irrelevant in datingOur transformation to machine from human grows ever further... | /r/ExRedPill | 02/06/22 05:09 AM |
| 4 | Thought experiment: Technology will make looks irrelevant in datingJesus christ. That's even worse then - what a nightmare. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/06/22 11:34 PM |
| 2 | Thought experiment: Technology will make looks irrelevant in datingJust a weird thought I had. It could also create an even bigger inflation of beauty standards? I mean, if everyone can be 'attractive' and effectively programme any look they want, I wonder what new standards evolve - given that it would be digital, I reckon all kinds of freaky shit will become the next innovation. To truly say something is 'attractive' we need a concept of what is 'unattractive'. Then again, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, I'm sure creativity will go nuts with the 3D mode… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/06/22 11:29 PM |
| 2 | What made you stop watching the Fresh and Fit show? What was your breaking point?They are a pair of clowns mate. The vibe honestly feels like two dorks from high school who got rejected and bullied a lot are now trying to act like the hotshot 'cool kids'. They've both proven themselves to be massive hypocrites, cowards, sexists, and frankly the complete opposite of what they portray themselves as (watch that aussie podcast where that dude straight up roasts Myron, and pay close attention to his face, 'alpha male' for sure lol) They pick on young women because they are an eas… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/05/22 12:58 AM |
| 1 | I'm finding it difficult to argue against the points made in this video...I don't fully stand by his ideas. I blame society, not women for how people are influenced and oppressed. Those who are stuck in that logic are definitely traumatised men, they need to be de-radicalised. Not replying anymore btw, believe whatever you want - can't be bothered with your bs anymore. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/22 10:51 PM |
| 2 | I'd rather be content in my delusions than depressed in realityWhat. The. Fuck. You clearly do not understand my views whatsoever. I'm reporting you for trolling because you are literally just twisting my words to provoke a reaction from me, and it's the same shit you do to everyone on this sub. Just calling something misogynist and metaphorically 'deleting' what they say from the ethos isn't productive, we actively need to be specific in anchoring what is gender esstientalism and what is outright misogyny, there is a profundity to the line between the two.… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/22 10:41 PM |
| 1 | I'm finding it difficult to argue against the points made in this video...It's useful tool to bring someone out of these ideas, if you can break their logic apart from the inside you'll have a better chance of reaching them. The same goes for truama victims, once you understand their logic, you can pathologically break the cycle and ground them. I see this as an opportunity to see how people on this sub approach it. RedpillDetox did a good job. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/22 10:32 PM |
| 2 | I'd rather be content in my delusions than depressed in realityI believe men are victims of the concept of patriarchy just as women are, however, there are disproportionate levels of oppression women face in a lot of respects compared to men, both socially and economically. I have thought about it, but again, it's complex. I'm not interested in debating the semantics of whether legislation being pushed falls more under equality or equity because you're so hostile for no reason whatsoever. I just want you to stop claiming I'm a misogynist and a redpiller whe… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/22 10:29 PM |
| 1 | I'm finding it difficult to argue against the points made in this video...Again, this post is intended to hear arguments people would make towards this video. I already hold my views of the video. Never once do I claim I agree with it, rather I aim to reinforce my anti-redpill/blackpill view, and see these arguments under someone else's microscope. Your crictism is redundant because you're making bold assumptions that aren't true about me. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/22 10:21 PM |
| 2 | I'd rather be content in my delusions than depressed in realityThere isn't always a clear method to label the playing field though. That is a multifaceted issue and often a very situational one depending on the context. I've never said women aren't subject to inequality - you are such a bad faith actor. Ideally I would like to break social bigotry by any means necessary, but that doesn't involve shaming someone for what their natural gender expression is. In some cases yes, it would involve legislative solutions which can improve purchasing power, social, a… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/22 10:18 PM |
| 1 | I'm finding it difficult to argue against the points made in this video...This is older content of his. Since he's been in debates and a few podcasts, quite a lot of his views have changed. I found this content a perfect piece of gender esstientalism to try dismantle, and frankly the sub did an amazing job of it. Are you a gender esstientalist? | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/22 10:10 PM |
| 1 | I'd rather be content in my delusions than depressed in realityNo dipshit, I don't think women having less power is something biologically innate of them. What I'm advocating for is breaking down stereotypes and opening up equality of opportunity for everyone. The systemic biases surrounding the concept of patriarchy are the fabrics which held men and women in certain 'roles' and prejudices were formed. I'm an advocate for leveling the playing field and seeing how the outcome plays out. You are only seeing what you want to see, you are genuinely a joke. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/22 10:05 PM |
| 1 | I'm finding it difficult to argue against the points made in this video...Oh my fucking god. Hamza is gender esstientalist with his views, but he isn't a misogynist like redpiller youtubers. I already answered your question in another comment. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/22 10:01 PM |
| 2 | I'd rather be content in my delusions than depressed in realityHistorical reasons, namely the elusive concept of patriarchy. The real puzzle is distinguishing that which is socially programmed and that which is biologically innate, however, I think in order to achieve a clear and coherent answer to this phenomenon, we must become gender neutral with our expections of others. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/22 10:00 PM |
| 1 | I'm finding it difficult to argue against the points made in this video...Are you stupid? I used this video as a raw example of a mainstream perceived idea of masculinity, my goal is to break it down. The video poster isn't inherently toxic, rather just within a spectrum of gender esstientalism which I'm not too fond of. I'm very much aware of toxic masculinity you utter fool. Read the text of my post. I literally say I'm not gender esstientalist aswell LOL. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/22 09:56 PM |
| 2 | I'd rather be content in my delusions than depressed in realityWell, my brother for a start and some of my old school friends. It really only works on people that have a desire for self-improvement in the first place. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/22 09:54 PM |
| 1 | I'm finding it difficult to argue against the points made in this video...I was looking for advice of how to break down the video posters logic. As his views are gender esstientalist, I need to take extra steps in how to break down the arguments. This video served as a perfect example of a very clear cut idea of "manhood" - I wanted to see how this community faired in dismantling it. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/22 09:52 PM |
| 2 | I'd rather be content in my delusions than depressed in realityHow exactly am I defending redpill? I fundamentally disagree with it, but I understand how to de-radicalise people from it. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/22 09:43 PM |
| 2 | I'd rather be content in my delusions than depressed in realityI'm not promoting redpill though, you are actually the most moronic excuse of person I've ever seen. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/22 09:15 PM |
| 2 | I'd rather be content in my delusions than depressed in realityYes, sorry there isn’t a “mainstream” place to discuss misogyny. Ultimately I’d like to see all redpill content banned and make you all go to Tor to discuss how horrible feminism is and how bad women are I'm not a redpiller, and I don't hate feminism. Why is that so hard for you to accept about the men in this sub, what service do you really think you're doing to anyone besides fueling your own ego by sticking with your confirmation bias. You really don't see any depth to human beings, do you - … | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/22 08:05 PM |
| 2 | I'd rather be content in my delusions than depressed in realityWell, there are these redpill stereotypes that do exist, however, they can be applied to people in general not just women. These things are typically behaviours narcissistic and/or abusive people would engage in. Obviously you don't need redpill to identify abusers, but there isn't a mainstream safespace for men to dicuss these sorts of things besides redpill or therapy sessions. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/22 07:54 PM |
| 2 | I'd rather be content in my delusions than depressed in realityBut OP isn't anything like hard-core redpillers though. Why shame him? | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/22 07:50 PM |
| 2 | I'd rather be content in my delusions than depressed in realityYou edited the comment. After I responded. ? What actually happens is men come here looking to validate their redpill beliefs, which I’ve seen you personally do for them on many occasions. Give me some examples please. “Go to therapy” is something generic that is said sometimes, that’s it. It's better than shaming someone though? Another woman on this same post literally recommended resources to mindfulness, I'd say that's a better solution than just putting someone in a category and vehemently … | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/22 06:51 PM |
| 2 | I'd rather be content in my delusions than depressed in realityCall him a vanilla gorilla? Did you only focus on this part? | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/22 06:45 PM |
| 2 | I'd rather be content in my delusions than depressed in realityCall him a vanilla gorilla? Or maybe Have a medium to debate, and show them a solid argument, or maybe they have truama and need a certain type of therapy to deprogram their cognitive bias, then the racism leaves by default? | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/22 06:39 PM |
| 3 | I'd rather be content in my delusions than depressed in realityThis is exactly why you won't change radical minds. Pointing out and issue and saying BAD isn't going to break their cognitive dissonance. A flawed approach to actually getting people in your ring. What's even worse is that OP clearly isn't misogynistic and you put him in the same box as the hard-core redpillers. Seriously dude, do you just enjoy shaming people and trying to feel right all the time or something? | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/22 06:32 PM |
| 2 | I'd rather be content in my delusions than depressed in realityIf someone said to you "I'm a misogynist", how would you respond? | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/22 06:24 PM |
| 5 | I'd rather be content in my delusions than depressed in realityLife is hard man, understanding human beings in all their complexity is a difficult task. Exredpill can be a good medium to deprogram from all the terminally online bullshit spewed about men and women - some just need that extra push. I just think zoomies have a hard time with modern dating and even forming friendships these days, but I think if you really want someone to change - positive reinforcement is the only viable way, shaming doesn't work. Hopefully with enough time, therapy and maybe a… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/22 05:24 PM |
| 3 | I'd rather be content in my delusions than depressed in realityJesus christ. You're a real hero, you sure showed those redpillers - keep dehumanising him and put him in the box! | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/22 05:17 PM |
| 1 | A podcast for exredpillI'd definitely be open to try it! | /r/ExRedPill | 29/05/22 02:02 PM |
| 2 | A podcast for exredpillThat might be cool | /r/ExRedPill | 29/05/22 05:57 AM |
| 5 | The more I lurk on female subseddits, the more I lose empathy towards women and believe in the Red PillKeep in mind this is stuff that people post on reddit. Some of them may be socially isolated and have unrealistic views of the world. I definitely believe that women have it way easier at dating and friendships. Straight men on the other hand don't seem to form friendships with men the same way women form friendships with other women. There's without a doubt a loneliness epidemic men are facing, but the solution to this issue is so complex that I can't really suggest a fix. So I can understand w… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/05/22 06:33 PM |
| 2 | [Follow up post] Should I obstain from masturbation, and store my sexual energy as fuel to self-improve?Yes, I had an ex get into this stuff and it was absurd. One day got mad when I swallowed because I was "stealing his life force" and tempting him. This can't be real. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/05/22 09:46 AM |
| 1 | I'm finding it difficult to argue against the points made in this video...If you really want to understand what is going on you want to be reading academic writings or watching lectures on youtube, and not focusing on the online babblings of psychologically damaged people, because that way leads to madness. You make a very good point. Can you recommend some channels or maybe some good news/newsletter outlets for contemporary studies? | /r/ExRedPill | 14/05/22 09:06 AM |
| 1 | I'm finding it difficult to argue against the points made in this video...Please could you summarise how the government is supposedly 'replacing' the role of fathers and what is meant when you say men are being gaslit about behaviours? Well, I don't necessarily agree with the points made in the video. I'm just finding it hard to argue against. Like I've said, I'm an advocate for dismantling gender norms, but I'm concerned that people subconsciously treat men and women differently - I'm stuck wondering how much of that biologically ingrained and how much of it is socia… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/05/22 08:23 PM |
| 3 | I'm finding it difficult to argue against the points made in this video...I agree with your points. Although, I'm just a bit stuck on what is biologically innate behaviours from men and women, and what is purely socially programmed? I think this is where I get stuck because I think almost everyone subconsciously treats men and women differently - would you say that's a biologically innate response or social programming? | /r/ExRedPill | 13/05/22 08:20 PM |
| 1 | I'm finding it difficult to argue against the points made in this video...Fair enough. I guess the reason I'm mainly stuck is deciphering how much of human behaviour between sexes is inherently biological and how much is socially programmed between men and women. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/05/22 08:17 PM |
| 1 | I'm finding it difficult to argue against the points made in this video...What do you think raising kids is about? If you think its all about you and what you can get out of it directly (status in society, power over others) stay well clear. Raising kids is about caring for another life that you chose to create, and getting pleasure from seeing anotjer human being flourish. Its inherently an unselfish process. Its not a "game" that you can win or loose. It another human life, to be valued and loved, no matter what else happens in your life. Ok. Maybe 'game' wasn't the… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/05/22 08:14 PM |
| 3 | Will Kevin Samuel's death help some followers leave red pill?Probably not now that the outrage culture is being monetised... https://youtu.be/fGhP5xR1sTs | /r/ExRedPill | 11/05/22 02:22 PM |
| -8 | I hate being a manPeople are downvoting this, but I don't think this is inherently false. There is likely more nuance to it though. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/05/22 04:38 PM |
| 1 | ExRedPill's Purpose - Bashing incels or rehabilitation?Therapy isn't accessible to everyone - especially the poor - which may explain why those spaces are full of low incomes and introverts. Other men have other places to turn, but these men are crying out for community support. A very important thing for people to concider mate. People can be utterly screwed over by their socio-economic background. It's why I think subs like this should be used to fill the gap for people which can't afford the healthcare. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/05/22 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Open Thread: What would you change about this Sub to make it betterSounds based. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/05/22 06:10 AM |
| 2 | ExRedPill's Purpose - Bashing incels or rehabilitation?Men and women are more similar than people realize. They can overlap in a lot of traits, and when you really think about it, there isn't really a lot of things men and women can practice socially that make them an inherently different species from eachover. Men and Women can both engage in masculinity and feminity. The huge difference (in my opinion) is how society socialises men and women for social utility - creating norms to serve a purpose. In my opinion, this system of social dynamics creat… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/05/22 10:24 AM |
| 2 | Open Thread: What would you change about this Sub to make it betterHow about some new flairs? (Feel free to add more in replies if anyone sees this and has other suggestions). •Constructive feedback only •Redpill relapse (help) •Ask men (maybe?) •Ask women (maybe?) •Redpill guru exposed! Just to name a few so far I have in mind. Will reply on this thread with more if I think of any. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/05/22 11:24 PM |
| 5 | ExRedPill's Purpose - Bashing incels or rehabilitation?Maybe it would make sense to request a rule or something to support interacting with people in more constructive ways. That would certainly be a start. We would certainly need to brainstorm how this could be executed efficiently. "Perhaps one did not want to be loved so much as to be understood." - George Orwell | /r/ExRedPill | 03/05/22 11:12 PM |
| 2 | ExRedPill's Purpose - Bashing incels or rehabilitation?Agreed, although, constructive non-judgemental support groups can help encourage others to step out of their comfort zone. In general, therapy is the best solution - issue is that some redpillers/blackpillers lack the socio-economic purchasing power to participate in therapy, so support group is the only pragmatic solution. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/05/22 11:08 PM |
| 5 | ExRedPill's Purpose - Bashing incels or rehabilitation?Well, I don't think that is a fair interpretation of what I'm saying - you've appeared to have skipped me mentioning blurring the line gender esstientalism creates. For arguments sake, let's say that was the only take I made in my comment. In that case, I would refer to my original post: It is not possible for one ideology to have all the answers To put it bluntly - women here should stop being so eager to pull out the misogynist card and shame men because something they said disagrees with thei… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/05/22 10:53 PM |
| 3 | ExRedPill's Purpose - Bashing incels or rehabilitation?But then where do they go? There is no male safespace. We either blur the line gender essentialism creates, or instead - women should stop telling men how to be men, alongside men stop telling women how to be women. People seem to prefer pointing out an issue and not provide a pragmatic solution to it. Lonely disenfranchised people will always go back to something (in this case, men with redpill) if they have no sense of community. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/05/22 08:20 PM |
| 3 | ExRedPill's Purpose - Bashing incels or rehabilitation?You have outlined this very well, and I absolutely agree with the myths you have listed! | /r/ExRedPill | 03/05/22 03:04 PM |
| 17 | ExRedPill's Purpose - Bashing incels or rehabilitation?Agreed. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/05/22 01:37 PM |
| 3 | ExRedPill's Purpose - Bashing incels or rehabilitation?I absolutely agree. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/05/22 01:19 PM |
| 4 | Thoughts on Nofap?In my opinion. I think masterbation is fine as long as it doesn't require you to watch porn to actually fully function during. I think PIED is a real thing. Generally, I'd say avoid porn entirely, unless maybe watching it with a partner for a laugh or maybe to try something new in the bedroom. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/05/22 06:09 AM |
| 1 | If I was handsome or cute, wouldn't my life experiences be different?Honestly my dude, I think it's just your personality and world-view that's holding you back. Think about dating a woman version of yourself (like exact copy of all your traits), if you see any problem there, think about what it is that you don't like and change it in yourself. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/22 04:03 PM |
| 10 | That didn't go well for Frest & Fit...He got absolutely slapped. Kek. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/04/22 11:29 PM |
| 2 | If I was handsome or cute, wouldn't my life experiences be different?Honestly dude all these comments you make on sub confuse the shit out of me. You look good. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/04/22 09:18 PM |
| 8 | Does the red pill advice really work? Does the relationship with the couple improve with the red pill?It only works on toxic and/or insecure people. Unless that's what the person wants to attract, I would advise avoiding red pill. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/04/22 10:17 AM |
| 1 | Trying to understand what is so appealing about RP to men and if some men are more susceptible to itWell put! | /r/ExRedPill | 27/04/22 01:48 PM |
| 1 | We learn how to behave based on reactions. What happens when you don't receive reaction?What kind of logic is this - how does that mean I hate women? Lol. I don't hate women, I just don't like people like you. Why should I praise someone for their birth sex alone - what utility does that serve? I judge based on character not because of their genitals. Again, what about trans people? | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/22 02:27 PM |
| 1 | We learn how to behave based on reactions. What happens when you don't receive reaction?I'd rather judge people for the quality of their character, not just their sex you neanderthal. What about trans people? They are valid too you know. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/22 02:23 PM |
| 0 | We learn how to behave based on reactions. What happens when you don't receive reaction?All I’ve seen on this sub is incels looking for ways to justify their beliefs. You only see what you want to see. It's why you cherry pick comments and posts. You aren't here to offer healthy and thoughtful solutions. You just want to state the obvious and tear others down to feel better about yourself. If you don’t hate women yourself, I dare you to list three things you love about women. You will not be able to do it. As long as they aren't arrogant like you, I love em. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/22 02:12 PM |
| 1 | We learn how to behave based on reactions. What happens when you don't receive reaction?My solution would always be the same. Go to therapy, or join mental health support groups if it is not economically feisable for the individual to do so. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/22 01:58 PM |
| 1 | We learn how to behave based on reactions. What happens when you don't receive reaction?Strawman. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/22 01:56 PM |
| 1 | We learn how to behave based on reactions. What happens when you don't receive reaction?Strawman. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/22 01:55 PM |
| 2 | We learn how to behave based on reactions. What happens when you don't receive reaction?It should go without saying that the toxicity of blackpill beliefs - accompanied by mental illness result in these mass murders happening. That's pretty fucking obvious. The thing is, unlike you, I don't want to outright dehumanise a whole demographic of people and shit on them because a small portion of an ideology/group they associate with did irredeemablely evil things. The ideology (blackpill to be specific, since you just keep face-valuing and cherry picking every damn thing said) is WRONG,… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/22 01:32 PM |
| 0 | We learn how to behave based on reactions. What happens when you don't receive reaction?Based. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/22 01:09 PM |
| 1 | We learn how to behave based on reactions. What happens when you don't receive reaction?The murderers (a minority of the movement) however are a clear symptom of narcissisism and/or psychopathy - especially such mutants as Elliot Rodger. Those types of incels are irredeemable people. This was in my original post. Again, I share the same sentiment. Murder is bad, obviously. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/22 12:53 PM |
| 2 | We learn how to behave based on reactions. What happens when you don't receive reaction?Blackpill promotes no sort of growth, just a circle jerk of being miserable and a victim. This is in my original comment. I fundamentally disagree with the blackpill, I would instead advise therapy. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/22 12:47 PM |
| 1 | We learn how to behave based on reactions. What happens when you don't receive reaction?Why do you only cherry pick what people say? | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/22 12:44 PM |
| 6 | We learn how to behave based on reactions. What happens when you don't receive reaction?You're right in pointing out this apex fallacy. It's unfortunate, and I believe most incels are merely misunderstood individuals (I also find that most tend to be on the autism spectrum). People can really get stuck in a rut because of bad luck with their caregivers and peers. The murderers (a minority of the movement) however are a clear symptom of narcissisism and/or psychopathy - especially such mutants as Elliot Rodger. Those types of incels are irredeemable people. The best advice you can r… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/22 12:05 PM |
| 14 | Sometimes the best one can do is to abstain from any interaction with females for a whileDude, you need to try out therapy. This shit is another level of inceldom - this way of thinking is harmful to not only others, but yourself. How old are you? | /r/ExRedPill | 25/04/22 02:19 PM |
| 11 | Unpopular opinion(?It's also definitely worth going to therapy. People can gain enlightenment about caregivers and maybe how that influences behaviour (attachment styles) and truama. Narcissistic parents can fuck you up, but once you learn how to stand up to them and be aware of their tactics, it's almost wild how much weight is lifted from your psyche. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/04/22 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Do we really hold the keys to our own prison cell?I think it's worth trying out therapy and maybe taking SSRIs or perhaps anti-anxiety medication. Everyone on some level has mental health issues bro, some cases are just more extreme than others. From this thread and other posts and comments on your account, it is very evident that you want to be heard and understood by people. You are burdening yourself with a lot of pain and I think it's clear therapy is the solution for your inner conflict. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/22 04:49 PM |
| 3 | Why there is no lot exfeminsts as there is exredpillWell said! | /r/ExRedPill | 18/04/22 10:50 AM |
| 1 | How can men recover from domestic violence, and how can I recover from a narcissistic partner?But that's not the argument I'm trying to make in the first place? Whatever man, replying to you is just a headache. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/04/22 02:08 PM |
| 1 | How can men recover from domestic violence, and how can I recover from a narcissistic partner?"I'm 45 years old and I have 3 degrees" cites an outdated article Kek. You clearly aren't a very busy woman as you make yourself out to be if you reply to shit on reddit so quickly. I'd make a whole tirade about your clear lack of education with your source material, but it's obvious you're full of shit. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/04/22 05:45 AM |
| 0 | How can men recover from domestic violence, and how can I recover from a narcissistic partner?Yeah, you're clearly just trolling at this point. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/04/22 05:42 AM |
| 1 | How can men recover from domestic violence, and how can I recover from a narcissistic partner?Any person can use any ideology to their advantage if they are good manipulators. You're really looking at this from such a narrow framework. Since you haven't experienced domestic abuse from women as a man, you clearly don't understand. There are even different types of feminists that exist to concider (white liberal feminism, intersectional feminism, SERFS and TERFS etc.) It isn't just clear cut how every person that self-identifies as 'feminist' will perceive the world and what their motivati… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/04/22 05:23 AM |
| 1 | How can men recover from domestic violence, and how can I recover from a narcissistic partner?You don’t seem to understand that there are economic benefits to increasing women’s meaningful participation in the workforce that benefit everyone. Please explain how I think this. You've made so many claims about 'how I think about things' and it's really starting to get annoying, you jump to so many weird conclusions. Stop projecting your bullshit onto me, thanks. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/22 08:05 PM |
| 1 | How can men recover from domestic violence, and how can I recover from a narcissistic partner?No, I really didn't. I'm claiming the mainstream discourse of feminism is flawed at holding female abusers accountable, not that the movement itself is "LITERALLY" justifying abuse. The idea isn't the issue, people are. For a 45 year old woman, you are really immature as hell lol. This is literal child strawman logic. The fact you isolate everything else I've said and hyperfocus on this arguement point - making it out as though that's my only statement on the topic. This just shows me how much o… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/22 07:59 PM |
| 1 | How can men recover from domestic violence, and how can I recover from a narcissistic partner?I'm all for economic equality as long as it is realistically sustainabile. If the policy is future proof or works as a net positive (generating more efficency and covering the cost) then that is great, and if what you say is true regarding tax, then fair enough. My main concern is the social dynamics between men and women, that is an inequality I think is very concerning. At no point did I ever say feminism itself is inherently the issue, but rather the people. Abusers come in all shapes and siz… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/22 02:16 PM |
| 1 | How can men recover from domestic violence, and how can I recover from a narcissistic partner?If taxes aren't raised that is good, but does that necessarily mean that they won't increase in future in order to sustain that social policy due to unforseen circumstances? | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/22 02:10 PM |
| 1 | How can men recover from domestic violence, and how can I recover from a narcissistic partner?This is like saying to people who have diabetes or heart disease who want universal health care “you should have thought about how much insulin is before you ate that candy”. Please. First of all, bad analogy. By the age a woman can decide to have children there is likely way more things in life that they are aware of (namely social and economic risks) and hold more agency. Comparing it to the same experience of a person with diabetes or heart disease is an absurd strawman. Some are born with th… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/22 02:06 PM |
| 1 | How can men recover from domestic violence, and how can I recover from a narcissistic partner?Shouldn't women (namely couples) take these economic factors into consideration before deciding to have children in the first place? Balancing a career, alongside raising children is a demanding task, and understandably so it would require daycare. It also wouldn't just be women's taxes raised, but men's aswell. It is also important to concider if that care system is actually good for the child's mental health. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/22 01:47 PM |
| 1 | How can men recover from domestic violence, and how can I recover from a narcissistic partner?I can understand it from the perspective of your own economic self-interests that feminism is good, however, where exactly is this money coming from to provide this social policy? Do you have certainty it is a sustainable government grant to continue indefinitely? The original post is about a social issue that occurs as a result of the movement (particularly in the mainstream) inadvertently empowering abusers. It appears that you are only concerned with the economic empowerment women could attai… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/22 01:35 PM |
| 1 | How can men recover from domestic violence, and how can I recover from a narcissistic partner?This is just fact Kek. So what is your solution to this exactly? Concider age demographics, physical/mental health conditions, convenience to the business employing them, work ethic, academic merit, socio-economic background, industry experience, ethnicity, cultural background, connections, external interests etc (just to name a few variables). If you are going to give me some surface level bollocks that women should get these roles just because they are women. You're literally part of the very … | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/22 12:42 PM |
| 1 | How can men recover from domestic violence, and how can I recover from a narcissistic partner?"Women have outnumbered men on college campuses since 1988. They have earned at least one-third of law degrees since 1980 and accounted for one-third of medical school students by 1990. Yet, they have not moved up to positions of prominence and power in America at anywhere near the rate that should have followed." Your initial argument was that men inherently hold positions of power across all industries, however, this article covers the lines of work which require college education. This limits… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/22 05:49 AM |
| 1 | How can men recover from domestic violence, and how can I recover from a narcissistic partner?Well, no. If you're going to make a claim based on stats, you have to back it up for me to engage in it. If you're assuming I'm going to say "women choose to have a small fraction of wealth, power, and they are weaker", that says more about where you are at logically and mentally than it does about me. This is a classic case of bias and projection - you're trying to put me in a box by cherry picking things I've said instead of acknowledging the full contents of my post and comments made. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/22 05:32 AM |
| 1 | How can men recover from domestic violence, and how can I recover from a narcissistic partner?Source? | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/22 05:21 AM |
| 1 | How can men recover from domestic violence, and how can I recover from a narcissistic partner?One example is the apex fallacy. "The assumption that because very few members of a group are powerful, therefore the rest of them must necessarily share that power too." As there are a small percentage of men which can commit atrocities and find means to escape accountability with wealth, connections, and various others resources at their disposal. This is part of what forumulates the concept of 'male privillage'. Mainstream feminism (or pop-feminism as I would coin it) would have you believe a… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/22 05:13 AM |
| 2 | How can men recover from domestic violence, and how can I recover from a narcissistic partner?I am not saying feminism itself is the issue. That needs to be made clear. I even said in my post that I support intersectional feminism. I'm talking about the mainstream populace that engage in logical fallacies and unfortunately (and often inadvertently) empower abusers (just like my ex abuser who claimed to be a 'feminist'). That's the flawed, toxic, and dogmatic aspect of feminism I dislike as it fails to uphold the egalitarian premise that it claims to promote. It ultimately hurts the movem… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/22 07:50 PM |
| 12 | The 33 secrets?Just watched a bit of his content. Yeah typical redpill grifter shtick from what I can see. He's selling a coaching course, claims feminism is the reason women are so entitled today, makes the 'women hit the wall at 30' argument a lot- blah blah blah etc. Ask your partner about redpill, he might understand the nuances of it, rather than purely believing this guy's dogmatic stance on women. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/04/22 03:50 PM |
| 2 | If I was handsome or cute, wouldn't my life experiences be different?The only thing I'd say is try out styling your hair more, maybe even cut it short - skin fades are always a nice start considering your beard. Honestly, I bet you could rock a low burst fade for the sides, like this: https://www.reddit.com/r/Barber/comments/idfapc/low_burst_fade_with_textured_crop_for_this_legend/ I'd say experiment with the style on top and see what works best and blends well! 👍 | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/22 10:18 PM |
| 10 | If I was handsome or cute, wouldn't my life experiences be different?You're esstientally your own worst enemy - the inner critic is the harshest of all the critics. The last thing somebody needs is a victim complex - making excuse after excuse as to why they will never be happy and/or blame their misfortunes on external things. Looks really aren't everything and as much as people will say "just be confident bro", there is a layer of truth to this. Most people in general are attracted to confident people, however, to be truly confident relies on your own self-imag… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/22 01:14 AM |
| 3 | If I was handsome or cute, wouldn't my life experiences be different?Fucking based. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/22 12:59 AM |
| 0 | Coach Red Pill (Gonzalo Lira) is still spreading disgusting pro-Russia propaganda from within Ukraine bypassing bans on Russian media channels. Contact Youtube and lets get him banned from the platform.At this point you're just trying to bait me into insulting you so you can report me for it. It's fine, I'm done wasting my time anyway. People like you will always ignore anything that conflicts with your narrative. If you think deplatforming is an overall net positive for society, that's on you, but don't be surprised when your views are eventually next for the chop. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/03/22 08:36 PM |
| 0 | Coach Red Pill (Gonzalo Lira) is still spreading disgusting pro-Russia propaganda from within Ukraine bypassing bans on Russian media channels. Contact Youtube and lets get him banned from the platform.Clearly you're the expert :/ | /r/ExRedPill | 25/03/22 12:50 AM |
| 0 | Coach Red Pill (Gonzalo Lira) is still spreading disgusting pro-Russia propaganda from within Ukraine bypassing bans on Russian media channels. Contact Youtube and lets get him banned from the platform.None of you have engaged in any kind of critical analysis. You're just spouting utter bullshit, nothing CRP said was propaganda. If you're going to make a claim about something (much less justify deplatforming someone...) you've got to back it up rather than just providing ad hominem. There is nothing objectively 'better' about what you're doing here. You're neglecting my original points and have proved absolutely nothing on your side of the argument. You are objectively being reductionist here.… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/22 12:35 AM |
| 0 | Coach Red Pill (Gonzalo Lira) is still spreading disgusting pro-Russia propaganda from within Ukraine bypassing bans on Russian media channels. Contact Youtube and lets get him banned from the platform.You know, if you actually read anything I've said on this post, you'd quickly learn I'm anti-redpill. I love how you clearly believe that anyone that ever used 4chan must be pro redpill, it really just proves my point. Nice bubble bro. I highly doubt you know any soldiers, but hey, it was already obvious you and your cronies are disingenuous hacks. Wait, I'm here to start shit? Aren't you the platoon of coomers trying to deplatform CRP for something he hasn't done which you adamantly claim is tr… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/03/22 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Coach Red Pill (Gonzalo Lira) is still spreading disgusting pro-Russia propaganda from within Ukraine bypassing bans on Russian media channels. Contact Youtube and lets get him banned from the platform.There's no point asking them, I already did several times. They are only here for the 'updooots!' and to virtue signal, an actual discussion ain't on the cards. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/03/22 08:15 AM |
| 0 | Coach Red Pill (Gonzalo Lira) is still spreading disgusting pro-Russia propaganda from within Ukraine bypassing bans on Russian media channels. Contact Youtube and lets get him banned from the platform.Kek, all of you people are so pozzed. Mainstream media in the west is financially incentivised by outrage culture, via television, social media, and articles (which generate them decent revenue). Some of the stories have truth to them, but it ultimately goes through the meat grinder of sensationalism as soon as the information touches human hands. It doesn't really matter about the source bro, everyone is bias, you can consume the content, but you have to make your own mind up. By the way, if yo… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/03/22 08:10 AM |
| 3 | I feel crippled by being a single maleKek. Nice projection. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/03/22 11:01 AM |
| 0 | Coach Red Pill (Gonzalo Lira) is still spreading disgusting pro-Russia propaganda from within Ukraine bypassing bans on Russian media channels. Contact Youtube and lets get him banned from the platform.Absolutely, everything has consequences. Except in this scenario it isn't YouTube itself trying to remove CRP, it's the OP. I personally believe there is a utility in seeing both sides of the extreme on an individual level. After all, everyone is bias, might as well build a multifaceted/hollistic viewpoint than cave to an echo chamber of cognitive bias. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/03/22 06:27 PM |
| 0 | Coach Red Pill (Gonzalo Lira) is still spreading disgusting pro-Russia propaganda from within Ukraine bypassing bans on Russian media channels. Contact Youtube and lets get him banned from the platform.Is there any way I can access the full study? I'm no longer a student and sci-hub isn't working with it :/ I'd be interested to see what this study's definition of 'toxicity' is. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/03/22 06:10 PM |
| 0 | Coach Red Pill (Gonzalo Lira) is still spreading disgusting pro-Russia propaganda from within Ukraine bypassing bans on Russian media channels. Contact Youtube and lets get him banned from the platform.Sure, let's just normalise cancel culture. I bet the same form of censorship won't ever impact the "correct" opinions, yeah? I'm sure the narrative can never be swung like a pendulum, and those with ill intent would never weaponize this precedent being set to their advantage. I'm still not sure how you can even equate his flawed take on how sanctions will play out regarding the US and Russia (namely how it will impact both currencies) to political propaganda, in turn, causing physical harm. You … | /r/ExRedPill | 18/03/22 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Realistic Red Flags?Kek. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/03/22 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Realistic Red Flags?Great way of thinking about it! | /r/ExRedPill | 18/03/22 03:25 PM |
| 1 | CBS News New Secret Service report details growing incel terrorismBased take my friend. And yet, after countless times a event like this happens, what solutions are put forward? Mainstream opinion: Men Bad Starting to think the ruse theory was right all along. Its all just been one big divide and conquer. A society causing Men pain, and said society gaslighting them into believing they are inherently the problem, so they either do horrible things to help prove the point of 'Men bad' or they just kill themselves. These bastards have done terrible things, but is… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/03/22 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Women settle for psychopaths, they never seek themLet the former out to play. As for the latter, acknowledge it exists and do everything to make it better. Well, I can't convince the mainstream, they are much too wrapped up in their sheets of narcissistic bullshit to reason with, or even take seriously at this point. Realistically, I think I can only be good to those around me - I'll never have a big impact, but that's fine. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/03/22 12:00 AM |
| 6 | Women settle for psychopaths, they never seek themI assume the shadow self is primarily the 'toxic side' to anyone. It can be tamed, but it must first be acknowledged. You can do the wrong things for the right reasons. You can break the law to feed a starving or medically suffering loved one. You can intimidate, assault, and blackmail a rapist/abuser to leave a friend of yours alone. You can beat someone at their own gaslighting and mind games to feel more in control and build the self-respect and courage to walk away from them. Objective moral… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/03/22 08:59 PM |
| 7 | Women settle for psychopaths, they never seek themThat's an interesting way of putting it. I've always believed you are more whole when you embrace your shadow self and let it be part of your life. It is better than denying it exists, one way or another, it comes out. Best to have balance. Problem is, society doesn't really help people embrace this nuance, especially in men's case. A lot of these traits get shunned and labelled inherently evil based upon the actions of the top 20% of men who have committed atrocities. I feel like the majority o… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/03/22 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Coach Red Pill (Gonzalo Lira) is still spreading disgusting pro-Russia propaganda from within Ukraine bypassing bans on Russian media channels. Contact Youtube and lets get him banned from the platform.That's the key though, bucko. In the contemporary world, the west is a Liberal (albeit systemically flawed) society. It's not really about people necessarily seeing eye-to-eye, but rather, it's about being a free individual that can hold and put forward their opinion if they so please. I think that even despite the fact there are horrible people I disagree with, it's actually beneficial for me to build upon a dialogue/universal language of perspectives to see the root causes of bias and discrimi… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/03/22 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Coach Red Pill (Gonzalo Lira) is still spreading disgusting pro-Russia propaganda from within Ukraine bypassing bans on Russian media channels. Contact Youtube and lets get him banned from the platform.Yeah I think I understand where you're coming from. It's usually the case because a bunch of neurotic saddos online rally together and try and get these views deplatformed. Rather than let debate occur and let others engage with extreme opinions, they instead just try to silence and ostracise them from everyone else. It's sad. I tend to find these types project a lot and have very limited real life experience. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/03/22 10:47 PM |
| 0 | Coach Red Pill (Gonzalo Lira) is still spreading disgusting pro-Russia propaganda from within Ukraine bypassing bans on Russian media channels. Contact Youtube and lets get him banned from the platform.The amount of braincells you just made me lose right now with these mental gymnastics should be concidered a war crime. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/03/22 10:25 PM |
| -1 | Coach Red Pill (Gonzalo Lira) is still spreading disgusting pro-Russia propaganda from within Ukraine bypassing bans on Russian media channels. Contact Youtube and lets get him banned from the platform.How does the current situation with Ukraine relate to gender issues? | /r/ExRedPill | 09/03/22 09:24 PM |
| -1 | Coach Red Pill (Gonzalo Lira) is still spreading disgusting pro-Russia propaganda from within Ukraine bypassing bans on Russian media channels. Contact Youtube and lets get him banned from the platform.Is there anything specific that he said which I missed, or are you just going to bark bullshit? I haven't seen one thing in that video which falls under the category of 'propaganda'. He's literally just talking about sanctions and fuel resources (with albeit, flawed theories regarding the future of USD and ruble). You could definitely make an argument that he's spreading misinformation, but that's about it. Can you political weirdos shitpost somewhere else, please? Thanks. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/03/22 09:11 PM |
| 0 | Coach Red Pill (Gonzalo Lira) is still spreading disgusting pro-Russia propaganda from within Ukraine bypassing bans on Russian media channels. Contact Youtube and lets get him banned from the platform.Well actually, yes it is about free speech. You may think what he says is fucked up, you may even think he's a horrible person and you know what? You're probably right. Sure, I think he's a prick, but I'm not stooping to a level of authoritarianism that compels me to censor someone just because I disagree with them. That makes me no better than the Russian government at that point. Enjoy your slacktivism I guess, but I'm pro free speech. Normalising deplatforming is a slippery slope and doesn't … | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/22 07:58 PM |
| 0 | Coach Red Pill (Gonzalo Lira) is still spreading disgusting pro-Russia propaganda from within Ukraine bypassing bans on Russian media channels. Contact Youtube and lets get him banned from the platform.No. Though I strongly disagree with a lot of views this sewer creature spews - mass reporting and deplatforming someone just because you disagree with them is unhelpful and quite frankly, sad. I think abusing a system to silence someone you disagree with is to attack free speech itself. No good can come of this. It might even reinforce his already radicalised audience into thinking "the establishment is censoring the truth dood!". Not based. Cringe. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/03/22 05:44 PM |
| 7 | Nazis were either grifters or nerds that were also bastardsAnon, I... Top notch enthusiasm, and a really interesting way of viewing Hitler and his underlinks! But I think you took a wrong turn, /pol is that way 👉 Safe travels, and make them seethe my based schizo-posting fren :-) | /r/ExRedPill | 07/03/22 12:04 AM |
| 10 | What if I don’t want a “traditional woman”?Lol. Based. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/03/22 08:01 PM |
| 3 | For those who got caught up in the Red Piller's non-consentual harem or love cult. The coaches can trick vulnerable and lonely men all they want with repackaged tricks, but a lot of people know what it really is. Trauma bonds aren't real love.I've realised through time this is exactly the dynamic between my mother and father. He's completely brainwashed her, and she's terrified of standing up for herself. He isn't a grandiose narc, but a covert one. I've challenged him many times on criticism he's made on my behaviours (esstientally things that don't give him what he wants from me), but he always tries to spin it as "you're being unreasonable". Eventually, he just concedes when he's backed into a corner so he doesn't have to take any… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/03/22 11:28 AM |
| 1 | Exredpills , what are you now ?Well, I guess I spend more and more time off of the internet as a whole really. I do watch the occasional YouTube video, or maybe see what's on this sub from time to time. Overall though, I guess I'm still looking for answers. There are aspects of redpill that I've found helpful, and it had certainly given me some things to think about. I used to be vocal of the politics regarding gender differences and adversities, but it completely burned out for me - it's just a fucking mess honestly. I've re… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/03/22 11:34 PM |
| 2 | Mark Manson's View on porn - thoughts?I figured there might be some Nofappers here cause I know some redpillers mention it | /r/ExRedPill | 04/03/22 11:19 PM |
| 3 | Why?It depends on what you define as 'bad urges'. If you're talking about the content dating coaches spew, some of it is incredibly toxic, but some of it does hold up - 'shit testing', for example. The reasons and nuances for why women shit test are dependent on the person. Redpill does encourage men to 'shit test' too and/or be aware of it, but there are some cases these games of 4d chess can turn into narcissistic abuse from both parties. I try to be as honest as I can with my intentions towards p… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/03/22 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Not a popular postBased analysis | /r/ExRedPill | 26/02/22 05:41 PM |
| 1 | “Betatization” of a husband by his wifeNot necessarily, some marriages can work well with a traditionalist dynamic. Depends on the people I guess | /r/ExRedPill | 21/02/22 12:56 AM |
| 2 | Volcel and Incel arguing with each other. Ibz(volcel), who is a youtuber with 150k subscribers thinks that porn turns men into incels. What are your thoughts on pornography? I don’t know why Volcels and Incels hate each other. You can find both of them on communities like MGTOW.In my own experience of NoFap, it really isn't all placebo. The superpowers are certainly exaggerated, but not entirely false - I think it depends on the person's mental health prior, and if/how much porn and masterbation was used as a coping mechanism to avoid negative emotions. Very subjective though and ancedotal from my end - while I was practicing NoFap, I was reading and watching a lot of things related to psychology alongside attending therapy which I think gave me closure along the way. … | /r/ExRedPill | 20/02/22 09:30 AM |
| 12 | Save yourself from the fear tactics used in marketing.Goddamn you. I read that whole thing in Mr. Mackey's voice. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/01/22 09:51 PM |
| 2 | This r/funny post feels so red pill.It's just comedy, no need to deep it I'd say. Besides, What if she said: "no more pussy" instead? | /r/ExRedPill | 27/01/22 01:05 AM |
| 5 | I Challenge Red Piller's on Twitter to Box. Why Are They All Spineless Bitch Ass Punks?Based and cringepilled r/iamverybadass | /r/ExRedPill | 12/01/22 08:43 PM |
| 2 | I Challenge Red Piller's on Twitter to Box. Why Are They All Spineless Bitch Ass Punks?LOL | /r/ExRedPill | 12/01/22 08:41 PM |
| 5 | The easy no bs guide to vetting partners.I'd say those things aren't exclusively male and female traits, there is without a doubt overlap. The insecurity part makes sense in terms of what is more common in men and women (to an extent), however, this methodology is too binary. Reality really isn't this simple for human behaviour. Like for example: A woman can be manipulative, but only a man can be abusive? Behaviours like controlling, insecure, co-dependent, aggressive, too competitive etc. Men and Women can absolutely be both of those … | /r/ExRedPill | 06/01/22 09:37 PM |
| 1 | For those of you looking for some help with OCD and Anixety, namely ways of re-programming yourself to improve your lifeYou're welcome :) | /r/ExRedPill | 04/01/22 02:50 AM |
| 3 | For those of you looking for some help with OCD and Anixety, namely ways of re-programming yourself to improve your lifeJust for the record. I was previously one of John Glanvill's patients when he still did 1 on 1 therapy. I know this may come across as some kind of plug, but I promise it isn't lol. His methods have actually really helped me in the past, and I do wish I still lived near him to attend them. Please let me know what you guys think, and I do hope it helps you guys like it did me. I'm not currently on his patreon, but I'm considering it. While he may not know much about redpill (or at least I think h… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/01/22 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Why do people praise players?Yeah I get you honestly, it is ultimately better with someone you truly share a bond with anyway. I'd say it might be a neccessity for someone if it really bothers them, but it sounds like you have a healthy self-esteem so I reckon you're grand mate. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/12/21 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Why do people praise players?Fair enough my friend, each to their own. I do believe a long-term fulfilling relationship is ultimately the best, but I do understand with some men the insecurity of lacking sexual experience. I do think in some cases it might be necessary to try it out just to desensitise you to the experience, it obviously won't be as good as a person you genuinely love, but at least you have experienced sex and have an idea, so when the day comes there is less anxiety. I didn't realise these communities are … | /r/ExRedPill | 08/12/21 10:52 AM |
| 1 | Why do people praise players?Well, honestly. If people have concerns about sexual experience (namely men), I'd say there's nothing wrong with paying a sex worker? As long as you're playing it safe and consensual. Other than that, if money is a concern, there are kink communities and a variety of other sex communities that exist in cities, some might be free, some might have monthly membership, but hell, you might find it a fun thing to do on the weekend after a week of work. The freedom to explore some things you never thou… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/12/21 07:34 AM |
| 3 | To create healthy and good alternative spaces to the red pill, one thing we should learn to do is to not invalidate men's experiences. Instead, engage in the toxic conclusions they can draw from it.You've been making a lot of strawman arguments my friend. Are these opinions based on your own experiences? How many women have you dated? | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/21 12:03 AM |
| 2 | Has anyone here seen Roma Army before?Agreed, but this one video was an exception regarding Roma's character. There's still some scummy tactics in there though, he's not off the hook figuratively speaking. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/11/21 02:44 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone here seen Roma Army before?These two videos will explain enough about her character. TBYS's video: https://youtu.be/b1gK0Yrp9aI (Some of his content, opinions, and his own attempts at audience manipulation are scummy, but his content does have merit in a few cases though, just when he doesn't rope all women into the same boat as the unhinged outliers he criticises). Roma Army's response: https://youtu.be/1sxIGtjuE68 I don't necessarily disagree with what she says regarding male issues and toxic feminity (she's clearly an … | /r/ExRedPill | 27/11/21 01:45 PM |
| 4 | Thoughts on this video?(OP) It's true that there are no mainstream safespaces for men - particularly one's which can teach them how to deal with their emotions, live happier lives, be better people for themselves and others. Is it true that men face a disproportionate level of loneliness compared to women? Do most women (or people in general) simply not care about this issue men (people) face? As someone that grew up in a toxic family environment, I understand how it feels to be alone - you almost seek the family conn… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/11/21 08:45 AM |
| 2 | DONT GIVE THEM VALIDATIONThis has to be a joke, right? | /r/ExRedPill | 03/11/21 11:07 PM |
| 2 | What do you think of these comments? (and yes, I know Quora sucks)What are your opinions on high body count? (Applied to both men and women) How can you deal with the insecurity of feeling less experienced than those with higher body counts? Do you tend to avoid these people in the dating world? (Is it really a red flag for the long-term?) | /r/ExRedPill | 02/11/21 01:30 AM |
| 3 | Is the psychological component of the red pill correct?"Masculinity is not inherently toxic" I agree with this statement. I think there are apsects of masculinity that are great, and can be performed by both sexes. Would you agree this phrase implies masculinity is a utility, as such, those which express and engage in these behaviours (predominantly men) are by extension a utility? - it's a class issue men face. Ultimately, I find the most friendly, easy-going, fulfilled, and stable people in life tend to feel comfortable enagaging in masculinity an… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/10/21 10:07 PM |
| 2 | Views on Wheat Waffles? (blackpill youtube channel)Well, at this stage i'm honestly blackpilled. My only issue is how can you realistically avoid the nihilism and what optimism is there that isn't naive to follow in this world? | /r/ExRedPill | 15/08/21 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Jordan Peterson stans on my campus... (advice post)Fair enough. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/07/21 08:58 AM |
| 4 | Jordan Peterson stans on my campus... (advice post)What do you think of the statement: "we are all non-binary, but are violently forced into roles that subjugate our expression of person through the construct of gender"? | /r/ExRedPill | 21/07/21 08:49 AM |
| 1 | Who are some good YouTube creators to watch in order to detox from Red Pill?These channels aren't purely focused on Redpill, but here's some of their videos that are relevant to it. LonerBox: https://youtu.be/i4Nnzs3Qlc0 Salari: https://youtu.be/8Oj8zeiwSuk | /r/ExRedPill | 07/07/21 11:33 PM |
| 0 | Does the red pill have good points? I think this video covers the issues with modern men quite well.Again, i'm not a fan of JP... I just happen to agree with him on certain issues... Also, you really shouldn't limit yourself to debate just because you disagree with a certain figure, otherwise you'll just end up in a echo-chamber of the same ideas until those views become extreme. You don't like Jordan Peterson for his misogyny, you feel he's 'labelling' women from the things he says and drawing unfair conclusions about them. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/09/20 10:21 AM |
| 1 | Does the red pill have good points? I think this video covers the issues with modern men quite well.I mean, I wouldn't really say i'm a devout fan of JP lol. There are some things he's said that I agree with, but not all in absolute. I do appreciate his objective stances on certain topics i.e. Gender politics, Equality of Outcome, relationships etc. No idea why you're jumping to these extreme conclusions tbh, i'm only on this subreddit to ask some questions and maybe have a rational debate about something even if both parties disagree. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/09/20 10:10 AM |
| 0 | Does the red pill have good points? I think this video covers the issues with modern men quite well.From the debates and interviews he's done I think he articulates himself pretty well, I wouldn't really constitute that to him being narcissistic. Ultimately, he's confident in what he says because he's been doing clinical psychology for years. What things do you think are misogynistic that he's said? | /r/ExRedPill | 04/09/20 08:01 AM |
| 0 | Does the red pill have good points? I think this video covers the issues with modern men quite well.I mean, just because he used the mothers and sons as an example, it doesn't mean he disregards the same possibility happening to daughters... | /r/ExRedPill | 04/09/20 07:55 AM |
| 2 | Does the red pill have good points? I think this video covers the issues with modern men quite well.It makes sense in this scenario given the behaviours of the mother, but of course when you reach adulthood, it's your responsibility to manage yourself and your actions, I always wondered what would be an effective way for these young men to understand and promote agency within themselves because there are parents that do this emotional conditioning to their children which they internalise, not really giving them good practical skills for the real world, it's pretty sickening how selfish this be… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/09/20 05:30 PM |
| 22 | I dodged a bullet today Boys.I'm sorry but wtf? | /r/MGTOW | 09/12/19 02:28 AM |
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