I faked it over the phone lol bc i had no self respect and when he got himself off, we were done and he was no longer in the mood to help me finish. Every damn time. i wish i wouldn’t have done that, he doesn’t deserve to think that he could make me come lol
Yeah, he was/is cheating love. He’s acting insanely inappropriate with other women, and most of all, he’s disrespecting you and not cherishing you or your feelings. Dump him.
Yes!!!! omg we have such similar dreams 😂 Just a nice little cottage with a garden by the sea, making good money for me and my dog to live a peaceful life sounds awesome to me. I never wanna marry a man and have kids, it just sounds straight up awful lmao. being tied down to a male and having his kids sounds so depressing, and it makes me super sad to even think ab having that kind of life. even with a HVM. i guess i just don’t prefer men in general lol
I didn’t watch him specifically, but i know how it feels to find out one of your favorite youtubers are depraved/ misogynistic :( it’s kinda crushing lol. Like you can never look at them the same
Omg. If an obese woman was mad at a man for not wanting to be with her, everyone would take the man’s side. However if you don’t wanna get with an overweight little penis guy you are the worst woman to walk the planet AND you’re the reason he’s fat and sad. The hypocrisy, i can’t.
You’re making me feel like shit. I said i was sorry, why can’t you just be happy with that? You ALWAYS make me feel like a bad person when in reality, you’re just too sensitive and selfish. I don’t deserve this treatment. You need to do better.
Wtf????? Like actually...wtf. The audacity to not only make such an inappropriate statement, but then to go on and dictate how and when it would happen as if you agreed to it, is beyond me. So glad you already blocked him. What the hell is wrong with men these days...
Omg the audacity to mansplain dealing with trauma to you. You didn’t even ask...literally you just made a light hearted joke and he took it as an opportunity to act like he’s deeper + smarter than you. I canttt these scrotes get worse n worse everyday
i always found it weird how women are “supposed” to be hairless, when we naturally grow hair. Like it’s there for a reason...protection. Yet we’re not allowed to have it, otherwise it’s “gross” and we’re “unkempt” and not ladylike. Like bro the only humans that don’t have pubic/body hair are children...why are women supposed to look like children? I just wish i could be natural and not be shunned for it. Lol.
Woah woah woah, hold the phone girl. You are not defined by a small group of men’s opinions of you, hell, ANY man’s opinion of you. It has no correlation to how smart, funny, and pretty you are. If they don’t see it, so what? Guess who DOES see it? YOU! and guess who’s the only person that is gonna stick with you and have your back till the day you leave this planet? YOU! Sure, it’s nice to have people compliment you/ show interest, but it’s NOT the end of the world if they don’t. Life is a lot …
OMG the “girls aren’t funny” or the rape “”””jokes””””” under every vid/pic with a girl in it made me delete instagram for real. I couldn’t take it. It was too much for my psyche lol. I still won’t download it again.
Took the words right out of my mouth. it’s so infuriating to see all these poor women caring about literal trash and getting harmed terribly in the process
Break up with him. He’s not making you a priority, he’s making HER a priority. Is that the kind of treatment you want? See how he tries to make you feel bad and defends her instead of being like “Ok babe, i love you and if this makes you uncomfortable i won’t speak to her anymore” there is no reason for him to be talking to her, it’s not his job to be her “father figure” (wtf?) he’s showing extreme LV behavior, and trust me it won’t get better.
Bro i feel u so hard whenever i think about having to see my ex at school my whole chest tightens and my anxiety fills up to the brim. i hope u get out of ur situation fast without any more lasting effects from him :(
oh and don’t even get me started on the whole kicking her mother out of her OWN BED so they could sleep on it on a trip SHE DIDNT EVEN WANT HIM TO GO ON LMFAOOOOO what a disease
WTF?!?!!!?? i would literally fuckin yell at him and tell him to GTFO of my life and never talk to me again. how goddamn sick and twisted, he’s such a pile of shit. There is NOTHING wrong with being close to your mother, and ABSOLUTELY nothing sexual about it!! wtf im mad asl lmao. God i hope she dumped his ass off at the fuckin dump
well i used to with all of my previous boyfriends but after reading the comments here i’m kinda rethinking it. sure it’s nice to know they’re thinking of you, but those kinds of texts usually lead to insanely boring/dry convos because there’s not really a lot to discuss lol. i feel like with my next bf id accept them but it’s a sure fire way to make things boring lol
Yikesssssss. girl you have fun with all them lvm okay? you define your power when he cheats on you and continually disrespects you in every aspect of your relationship 💋💋💋♥️💕✨💞💞
the exact vibes i get too!! and you’re so right, idk why women act like they can have sex as freely and safely as men can do. we have way more serious risks n this whole “sex is empowering!1!1” shit goin on is so dangerous for girls to take in :(
yesterday i took myself shopping, on a walk, n to the beach to swim n read a book 🥺 it was so refreshing to be on my own tbh. no one to look after, no one i had to talk to, just me myself n i. i’m glad that y’all have been dating yourselves too!!! it’s awesome for gaining confidence + independence
LMAO i feel that. my ex told me he was “giving me everything” even though i drove us everywhere and he didn’t pay for shit & didn’t have a job or car🤡🤡🤡🤡
i would prolly divorce him bro. idk if there’s a way to get over that, or if there is, would it even be worth your time? your energy? he sounds like a real prick
There’s a certain genre of men who are cops and imo they do a good job as a police but are terrible at being lovers. I would advise not going out with one
I agree with you. Applebees in expensive af first of all lol and it’s not classy (imo) to boast about yourself like that especially for no reason when she could’ve just politely declined
thank you, i might use those sometime! i hear people use female in that way legit all the time. How do you feel about this sub being called female dating strategy?
Bruh i hate relationship advice so much. 90% of the comments are “tAlk tO hiM!1! uSe yOur wOrDs1!1!1” like Gee, thanks brandon! i was talking to him in numbers! It’s so condescending & patronizing lmao. Ugh
notice how his main issues were regarding himself, how HE was so depressed and how was HE supposed to move on from his own self inflicted problem. Not how he was so sorry that his sister would always have that memory (even if he says she doesn’t, ill bet she does remember it) how it was going to be awful for her and warp how she views family and men in her life, and how she was ever gonna not blame herself when her OWN PARENTS aren’t even defending her. nope it’s all about him and his rAgiNg hOr…
Aw it’s alright, i overthink that stuff too. But you know what they say, it’s better to think a tiger is there when it’s not than to not see it when it IS there. so it’s good that you’re skeptical, but i would give him more time to see if there’s some actual red flags.
Yes, i know how you feel. my ex used to down play every opinion i said by talking over me, man-splaining simple things to me, acting like his opinions were facts, etc. i used to back down to him too, like i thought he was so smart and i was so dumb. Bruh that makes me cringe so hard just typing that out cuz YUCCKK lmao. but yeah it does really suck, the audacity some of these scrotes have is fucking wack isn’t it? atleast we realize it now though!
Oh my god...i’m literally about to cry for these girls.. that guy is fucking awful wtf. i agree it’s bad but jesus, this is NOT the way to solve it!! i hope he gets in legal trouble
i just read the rest of the post & some replies from the OP, it sounds like she doesn’t even wanna leave him lowkey lol. it kinda sounds fake tho...like pooping in the shower? who tf would ever..?!
don’t even defend yourself against that lowlife. he’s really got nothing better to do than lurk on a women’s subreddit and harass them lol he ain’t worth the time
Omg i couldn’t watch it all either. ah yes, lets make excuses for men so they don’t have to t a k e o u t t h e t r a s h... the bar is so, so low, and pickmieshas continue to lower it lol
i think one thing you could do is find different things (like art, cooking, online shopping, music, gardening, etc) to do in the time that you would normally check on his social media. something that helps me rationalize my thoughts when i wanna think/ check up on a lvm/nvm is that when i’m old and i’m reflecting back on my life, i don’t wanna have a lot of memories of wasting my precious time on earth looking at a douchebag who doesn’t matter to me at all lol
yes definitely don’t reply, and don’t give him much conversation when y’all go back to work. hopefully once he realizes you’re not giving in, he’ll fuck off lol. but im sorry u had to go through that, i went through something similar and it sucks so much. there’s so much pent up anger when you realize how badly people took advantage of you.
“it will not be easy” ok so u admit it’s possible tho, but then conclude that just because it would be not easy that it is out of the realm of possibilities? ur a real piece of work aren’t you