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Firstly, I like to thank you for the post. After being subscribed for 9month via friend suggestion, I actually (and finally) got behind what someone wrote up. I'd like to mention that I mainly enjoyed the calm and collected demeanor, since I am very much like that naturally. Secondly, the part regarding her feeling "feminine" - I get your point and agree with the boundary part, but I don't understand is, how exactly you found out you made that impression on her?
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 04:07 PM
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It's not what you are, it's who you are that you should be more concerned about. Have you ever met somebody filled with sadness and were they personally attractive? Maybe a damsel in distress can be appealing, but it certainly doesn't feel like there will be much after that. If you are not confident with yourself, how can you attract someone who would want that in their other half? Being rich may help the provider side and bring people in your life that want that as well, but doesn't give you mu…
/r/seduction04/08/15 09:17 AM
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It's all about balance. Have discipline to stick with things to stay on schedule/routine with progression or anything (working out, work goals, etc), but also be able to 'let go' at times to enjoy life has to offer. I like the saying "How you do anything, is how you do everything." Like some others have said already, meditation is a big favorite of mine. There's so many different ways of doing it. Some have their own way/practice, for me it's breath-holding underwater. /r/Meditation can lead you…
/r/seduction21/12/14 09:29 PM
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What would you say if I am doing all these things? Of course I'm not perfect and have the small details to work on. I'm well rounded and find that I'm running out of things to focus on improving.
/r/seduction12/06/14 03:32 AM
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Let go and let flow
/r/seduction24/02/14 09:56 PM
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From what I have experienced, this is all true.
/r/seduction24/02/14 09:51 PM
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Granted I didn't get many answers, I did just ask a similar question this past week. Some did help. Good luck, looks like we are on the same boat
/r/seduction24/02/14 04:36 AM
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Thanks for responding btw. Much appreciated
/r/seduction21/02/14 03:52 AM
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It may seem pretty dense to respond with "I'm aware of this" in regards to neediness. Truth is, I've stop being that way awhile back, I understand the magnitude of being that way. I constantly strive for the mindset of baiting and not giving her all of my full attention or desire until that shit is in the bag.
/r/seduction21/02/14 03:51 AM
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Thank you for the responses first of all. I understand everything you've said. Believe me, I have high confidence, I know I'm quite valuable, I dress well and have absolutely no self - esteem issues. This stems from not just knowing but also practicing to be ego - less. I meet plenty of women, and have the capability to get many I want. I am just having difficulty snatching the really good ones. They're like fucking unicorns. Maybe my aspect or my knowledge that there isn't very many I come acro…
/r/seduction10/12/13 07:03 AM
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I didn't, it was a natural attraction and I never put them on a pedestal, I was gaming throughout
/r/seduction10/12/13 06:31 AM
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I should edit based on this response, to clear things up. I'm not putting her on a pedestal, I honestly feel we are both attracted to each other so I am just trying to figure out what's in the way. Maybe I'm being dense but I often can observe and determine IOI's and they were blatant. 1st one I did too much, 2nd I did too little and 3rd I was just being myself and natural... I just was so internally captivated I wasn't thinking of unique ways to intrigue like I normally do. My saying "No" part …
/r/seduction10/12/13 06:30 AM
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I first found seddit when I moved to Hawaii two years ago. Although I look like I'm from stateside, I was raised from another Island. Hawaii is cultured and is built around respect, so everything initial conversation IMO should show you're not a dickhead. some of the guys here have already said, make friends, be friendly - it's critical because like most islands many know many people and would hear or find out your history faster than other places. For me, I can pass as a local or a foreigner, s…
/r/seduction29/10/13 05:22 PM
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Wrong. Although there are many who are religious
/r/seduction29/10/13 03:44 PM
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I've been subscribed for about 2years now, and many ups and downs with all sorts of women. The 1st year was definitely the learning stages... I read up on many different ideas of early, mid, and late game. My friend who thinks he has the art completely down (but doesnt) always harped on that I was reading too much. - but if I didnt read that much I wouldn't mentally be prepared especially with knowing different options in the play book. My opening game was casual, friendly and good... I could do…
/r/seduction24/09/13 03:55 AM
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Great fuckin post. I've been in 2 years as well, and could relate to every piece. This guy speaks the advanced part of the Game, which pretty much translates to how to stay progressive in your own style of Game.
/r/seduction10/06/13 10:25 PM
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Man, you can't be too forward because she'll shoot you down because of the student teacher relationship. I'd advise asking about what suggestions she might have (maybe something regarding french culture &activities), and maybe even implying you'd be interested in doing these things since your semester is over.
/r/seduction26/03/13 07:46 AM
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what kind of friend? acquaintance? or like accompany him to the movies or hang out periodically? - Don't ask him out, just mention you're going to do some kind of activity, and suggest he should come along if he wants since you're both single.
/r/seduction27/01/13 04:50 AM
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THIS is a great way to DHV. When you do approach, approach from the front. Also, strong eye contact as you approach shows you're not afraid and you're confident.
/r/seduction27/01/13 04:47 AM
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You did. One upvote per account.
/r/seduction27/01/13 04:28 AM
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It says, available for chrome.
/r/seduction27/01/13 04:23 AM
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Bro, just don't be attached to their opinion of that about you. You might be putting too much value on that being a necessity. Otherwise, keep building that confidence.
/r/seduction21/12/12 07:37 AM
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Slow Clap Well fuckin played...
/r/seduction12/12/12 11:14 PM
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You're fortunate to have such a guide. This does simplify many other posts I've seen. Sometimes it can have to much info, and you'd have to sort out what's applicable to you. - get out there and get completely comfortable with yourself!
/r/seduction08/12/12 12:56 AM
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Also, don't get friend-zoned while doing this. Go out and have a good time escalating
/r/seduction21/11/12 07:33 AM
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How about you say something about what she did that night to portray a certain look? Women know if the look good or not, but if you say something about what she did, she'll accept the compliment so much more. Shoes or fashion is one. hair is another. Accessories/nails are finishing touches to a look. Say something about them - but nothing boring. THEN TEASE HER about it. (maybe give her a hard time about who's she trying to impress - haha!)
/r/seduction21/11/12 07:26 AM
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WILL DO tomorrow night.
/r/seduction21/11/12 07:19 AM
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'itsmevichet' had the best answer I thought, but to add to his comment - I have a similar situation with high standards, not liking casual sex and actually enjoy the less-frequent passionate sex. My answer? keep looking. I'm constantly trying to get to know girls in a deeper sense, all while trying to escalate. At first, it probably sounds slutty, but with amount of women who meet your standards PLUS how fickle women are, I doubt you'll have more than one for a time being. It's kinda like this, …
/r/seduction21/11/12 07:17 AM
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This is why I love GOOD, friendly bartenders. Shit, I usually end up giving them my wallet.
/r/seduction15/10/12 06:31 AM
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You've hit on so many good points that has made me who I am today, which I try to share how important meditation is and to "Just Be." I wish I could give you more, more than just upvotes, because this just made my day. Thank you.
/r/seduction28/09/12 04:58 AM
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This is good stuff.
/r/seduction17/08/12 02:18 AM
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Once you love yourself and have your shit in order, many things will just fall into place (in every fucking aspect.) No need to rate yourself, but more so, know yourself. You're right, it is baby steps, and what you're doing sounds like you're on the right track. Be confident of who you are and what you stand for/like/ enjoy. I did this questionnaire about myself and it brought much clarity of who I wanted to be. When you look back you'll realize "I do not change, I become more of who I really a…
/r/seduction05/08/12 05:23 AM
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Thanks, I think the tricky part is not to come off cocky, but instead have them earn your charm. It's fortunate because I'm very happy with my life, living situation, and don't want it to change without living it up first. I only can foresee this relationship to evolve into something more.
/r/seduction30/07/12 11:13 PM
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can anyone relate or share other DHV experiences?
/r/seduction30/07/12 05:17 AM
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Yep, last night, nailed it. Thanks again bro. Time to write a FR
/r/seduction29/07/12 07:32 PM
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True that cuz.
/r/seduction29/07/12 03:48 AM
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Bro, used this yesterday, and now she's coming over tonight to do just that. thanks. this shit works.
/r/seduction28/07/12 11:45 PM
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r/frisson!
/r/seduction25/07/12 05:25 AM
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THIS is definitely what self-awareness IS. - I live for this, and this is such a great reminder. thank you!
/r/seduction25/07/12 02:36 AM
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shivers called "frisson." It's like a feeling of awareness of great emotion.
/r/seduction25/07/12 02:30 AM
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Honestly, this should be a common practice for men. Men too often try to skip past the build up for arousal. though, I do know women who like to get straight to business, but that is cause the arousal has been prevalent and accumulating throughout the setting. Great post!
/r/seduction14/07/12 04:38 AM
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Also, it'll be nice to get some feedback!
/r/seduction12/07/12 01:29 AM
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Apologize in advance, for formatting, but real validation comes from within. You must have the confidence to know who you are and what you stand for... That's when you don't give a Fuck. Here they call it inner game/mentality, I can it self-awareness. Honestly, the biggest impact for confidence and self-awareness for me was a book called "See You at the Top" by Zig Zigler. I know, weird name. - read it, I think you see who you really are!
/r/seduction07/07/12 09:27 AM
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Praise be to pua. seriously, THANK YOU.
/r/seduction04/07/12 04:49 AM
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AA? Having courage is doing the things you are afraid of doing. IMO, the best way to have someone to meet up with in different cities is to make friends EVERYWHERE, even males. I suggest talking to everyone, not only do you practice on keeping someone involved in conversation and opening them up, but you never know where you just might meet a quality individual. I can't format being on a mobile, but if you can talk to a random you can talk to a hottie. Just remember, they are a person too who pr…
/r/seduction03/07/12 10:03 PM
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I go through a very similar thought process. Genuinely doing that one thing different, stands out and shows a lot more than words can, in persuading the qualities you possess.
/r/seduction02/06/12 06:38 AM
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I too am all about self-improvement. Many complement the positive mentality and the inspiration I bring to my surroundings. - you're pretty awesome in my book bro.
/r/seduction02/06/12 05:20 AM
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^ This. I too used to be a Nice guy, but also moved on to this type "game"/lifestyle naturally. Being outgoing and friendly, shows you're comfortable, confident and DHV. This style is me, and works great for me, though, I have something to add: Bartenders are probably the best (if not first) people you should get to know at any establishment, especially if they're cute :P Every time I'm at an establishment, and not only want to make an impression but to get GREAT service, on my first drink I tip…
/r/seduction02/06/12 03:47 AM
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dude, THIS. My friend broke his arm a couple months ago and instead was shy, dont be. I instantly chatted up girls when he was around with some wild story to keep them guessing. I told him to use it as a conversation tool, cause if confidently act like it isn't there, that's boss. and if they ask you about it, BOOM - conversation to get things rolling.
/r/seduction25/05/12 03:24 AM
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yeah I see where you are heading with your answer, it definitely put be back on track. Thanks I appreciate it, and this place to seek answers. Similar to the front page post, Seddit really is the big brother i never had.
/r/seduction02/05/12 06:47 AM
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If others are "rolling" then it will be dramatically easier... yet, it's a different game but with less obstacles. MDMA causes people to experience complete happiness. Neurologically, it causes your brain just heavily release your "happy" hormone. SO anything experienced (emotionally) will have a strong memory post-roll. I say this head for the emotional/feeling activities or conversation. Since everyone is on a Kind and Loving state, usually they dont mind sharing water or drinks to rid the cot…
/r/seduction14/04/12 04:14 AM
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please fill me in on "haaaaave you me Ted" thing
/r/seduction09/04/12 06:28 AM
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(on front page of seddit) here number 6 is something to read. try reading up and applying kino and escalation. That shit is key.
/r/seduction02/04/12 07:06 AM
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Thanks, this made sense. I'm normally like that, but when this girl entered the room I seemed to have forgot everything I've learning here.
/r/seduction22/03/12 06:00 PM
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No I'm not, the dorky guy that didn't talk to her at all was the one she later contacted via internet. I opened, and got acquainted until her older sister started to run the conversation because of language barrier and translation
/r/seduction22/03/12 08:52 AM
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No, No new ones. I've been preoccupied moving into a new house.
/r/seduction22/03/12 08:49 AM
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Yeah a kayak and swim adventure with mutual friends.
/r/seduction22/03/12 08:47 AM
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Test is right. It's about mindset. It kinda goes with the saying that only way someone can affect/hurt you is only when you let them. This also implies the more you value their opinion, the more they can affect you, and someone random shouldn't really determine how you feel about yourself. A book I'd suggest that has nothing to do with game and everything to do with self value is "See You at the Top." Forever changed my perspective on how much I'm really worth.
/r/seduction15/03/12 04:23 AM
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Yes, do text to set up a call or meet up. Though you don't really know her, don't take it serious, make it casual and be casual as if this is something you do often. Anyways, you're just meeting somebody new, you don't have to make it a big deal. After that, I say use good alpha interaction and make a lasting impression.
/r/seduction14/03/12 10:51 PM
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Start by greeting people frequently . That's it. When you're ready, move on to strike conversation. It could be, something they're wearing, a situation, or just a general question about anything, such as best route for traffic, stores to find something, whatever. Get to doing this frequently and comfortably. After that, it's just about asking questions to get to know someone. One of the main things is when you feel it's awkward, you make it awkward, so stay out of your head and control the convo…
/r/seduction14/03/12 08:04 PM
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I really fucking needed this today.
/r/seduction11/03/12 07:03 AM
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Yeah she's 19, though I thought she was 25. so clubbing will be kind of tough but I'm working on rapport building and going to help her make some new friends... In exchange for Portuguese lessons.
/r/seduction05/03/12 10:53 PM
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Shit, I'm on the same boat. A buddy of mine married a brazilian, and his wife brought her younger sister who's also a HB9. Complete language barrier, and the older sister kind of runs the translation whenever possible. I would really appreciate any tips on different things/activities that could open her up more, besides body language.
/r/seduction05/03/12 08:12 AM
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I like where this is going, I believe I ask the 1st date questions too early trying to know her and talk. For me questions flow normally, but if you asked these questions to the first girl then talk to her friends with similar questions, seem repetitive. Any tips? -I'd just be entertaining, playful, SHOTS, kinokinokino
/r/seduction03/03/12 07:06 PM
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Experience is important, I too am working on it. With first experiences, it is WAY different than you think... sometimes easier, sometimes harder. When you've already been in that situation before, then it'll probably play out how you foresee it - go figure. This is what being "in-state" is, seeing it happen before your eyes.
/r/seduction01/02/12 12:38 AM
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I asked the same question a couple months back, I found it prohibits eye contact and people sometimes aren't as comfortable looking at you. With them on, they glance and look away, without them they are more open to a greeting or a smiling jester. Now I lift my shades when making personal interaction.
/r/seduction01/02/12 12:24 AM
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Read up on the study of the Limbal Ring of the eyes, once read, can never be unseen. http://www.epjournal.net/wp-content/uploads/EP09137146.pdf look at pics
/r/seduction28/01/12 06:03 AM
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Although I enjoyed and foresee this to be very probable, it seems to end without spouse?
/r/seduction02/01/12 03:17 PM
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The benefits can be long-term, although you now know what it takes and also know what it feels like to be in state. ShowcasePUA has a point, when people are rolling they are soooo much more open to people, emotions and attraction. Good job, learn and apply (situational).
/r/seduction02/01/12 02:23 PM
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This happiness will likely stay with you forever. I too have taken it a few times before (of course safely&correctly spacing out the rolls) and I always think/feel this immense sensation before going out... Keeps me in state, and keeps me happy regardless of situation :)
/r/seduction02/01/12 02:13 PM
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Hey thanks! Means a lot coming from you
/r/seduction25/12/11 12:48 PM
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Now I'm warmed up, now to move on to some big game
/r/seduction24/12/11 11:24 AM
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I second heckz. DUDE seriously, i lived up high-school freedom cause time WILL FLY and you will have to become an Adult. Go out, learn shit, you're allowed to get by with ignorance as a minor, you'll just look stupid as an adult. just dont get arrested or die.
/r/seduction21/12/11 03:17 AM
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DONE
/r/seduction21/12/11 03:15 AM
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I see what you're saying, build yourself towards making it natural. I'm working on that... but asking this was get some tips; ergo, "go with guidelines and principles" as you put it.
/r/seduction21/12/11 03:00 AM
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23y/o here, and I've only slept with 2 girls same age or younger than me. I think first, you have to rule out that age doesnt exist in every older girl conversation, in which anyone can be mature/immature at any age. That helps huge... everything is really interest after that. Anything in particular?
/r/seduction20/12/11 03:59 PM
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I'll check that. If you have some, that'll be great.
/r/seduction20/12/11 03:52 PM
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No, i can socialize the SHIT out of my social circle, that does NOT mean i can seduce a certain woman exquisitely off PUA techniques.
/r/seduction20/12/11 03:52 PM
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yep, she did.
/r/seduction19/12/11 03:23 PM
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(assuming female because it wasn't disclosed) Recently a more aggressive female approached me. I found it refreshing I didn't have to chase, but i think she came off too strong. although it hasn't happened to me, why not a few assured eye-fucks and then a signal to come talk to you... If you're just looking to dance, i guess you did well then. good luck next time, try exploring more of the scene, find your bar/club, then you'll start getting in rhythm.
/r/seduction19/12/11 05:44 AM
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ay bra, want to start a hawaii lair? im in 808 too
/r/seduction16/12/11 07:16 AM
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Well played, and yet so true.
/r/seduction15/12/11 03:15 AM
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23 y/o here. I have got with three women 5 or more years older than me, (28,29,37) and they all had the same resolve. They wanted a lover/ a fuck. Now, I'm not saying this is universal, it's what I found in common but in a complex way. (greatest common denominator) Those ages might not be exactly the ages you're aiming at, though I know that has been the trend from my experiences and others. I had all these women before any knowledge of seduction. I was younger and I didn't purposely plan any ty…
/r/seduction07/12/11 06:19 AM
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Q2 answer - genius. idk why I never thought of it. Thanks!
/r/seduction04/12/11 11:09 PM
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I saw on another post, if she ever asks for a drink, to wager who's buying who with thumbwar. I thought that was clever, but regardless she has to be the fun/playful type, so ask some questions before you jump into a touchy game.
/r/seduction02/12/11 08:58 PM
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Point taken.
/r/seduction30/11/11 08:47 PM
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LoL
/r/seduction28/11/11 06:40 AM
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I agree with this, and I too believe it's a spiritual feeling... you feel enlightened. There's not a better feeling then doing something to benefit someone with no expectations of a reward of any sort.
/r/seduction22/11/11 03:10 AM
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You must not have got the point. - You don't need to get value from other people if you are comfortable and happy with yourself. How can you encourage someone being interested in you, when you feel like you need to attain justification or value of the quality in yourself? Maybe you didn't mean it that way, but that's what it sounded like.
/r/seduction22/11/11 03:06 AM
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To add on to JRutterbush's comment, if you feel horny (sometimes too horny) I say, get it out of your system. In regards to your so called "fail" with that one chick, it's probably cause you're used to the stimulation of yourself and not of another women; this also reinforces TheDukeDevilin's statement. So, if masturbating, get to know your stimulation in the mean time.
/r/seduction16/11/11 07:44 AM
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Great FR, my week's inspiration to see what HB I can land.
/r/seduction13/11/11 08:12 PM
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So after reading this, I do this quite often, just the "we" part. Is there a possibility to do say this too much, as in, looking to available? I think my biggest obstacle is figuring out how to escalate.
/r/seduction09/11/11 04:18 PM
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would "Wii" work?
/r/seduction09/11/11 04:11 PM
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Fabulously executed. My thoughts exactly. From time to time I lose that FEEL for the future. It's another way of wording the definition of "Harmony"
/r/seduction25/10/11 11:58 PM
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